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Send us a textMeet Damien Dieke, founder of the School of Attraction and Dangerous Men Retreats. After experiencing his own painful breakup and journey through the pickup artist world, Damien discovered a more authentic path to masculine development. Today, he guides men worldwide in integrating their full spectrum of masculine energy - from sensitivity to healthy aggression.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTSWhy "nice guy" behavior actually masks manipulation and resentmentHow to stay connected to your desires while reading others' energyThe importance of accessing and integrating healthy aggressionUnderstanding the impact of childhood wounds on adult relationshipsEPISODE LINKS *some links below may also be affiliate linksDamien's Website Damien's Podcast | School of Attraction Leah's Interview on Damien's podcast Damien's Book | Sincere SeductionDavid Deida | WebsiteTHE VAGINAL ORGASM MASTERCLASS. Discover how to activate the female Gspot, clitoris, & cervical orgasms. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST 20 LAST 10x LONGER. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, you are not alone, master 5 techniques to cure this stressful & embarrassing issue once and for all. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST20. THE MALE GSPOT & PROSTATE MASTERCLASS. This is for you if… You've heard of epic anal orgasms, & you wonder if it's possible for you too. Buy Now. Save 20% Coupon PODCAST20. Support the showSxR Hotline | SxR Website | YouTube | TikTok | Pinterest | Instagram | Dr. Willow's Website | Leah's Website
Founder of The School of Attraction and The Dangerous Man, Damien Diecke is on this week to talk about why the hottest woman in the room isn't always the one you want to talk to and how in turn, that could make you more intriguing to her, even though that's not the goal. That would just be an added benefit.. We also talk about having confidence WITH integrity and what to do when you've been working on yourself and you're just not seeing the results you're looking for. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/AskWomen/support
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MY DAD JOINS AS CO-HOST TODAY... And Linda isn't happy about it! Because today we're getting a male dating coach's perspective on dating, so naturally I wanted my dad's thoughts on my own romantic prospects. Damien Diecke is the founder of School of Attraction, one of Australia's largest dating coaching companies, featuring in GQ and other major publications. Damien created a strategy to date women that was based on strategies he used to overcome his Severe Generalised Anxiety Disorder, with sincerity at the centre of what he teaches. School of Attraction was founded on the idea that attracting a partner should be about self-confidence, not lying, pretending, or manipulating.The questions we cover in this episode:What strategies did you use in your dating life to help you overcome your severe generalised anxiety disorder?You specialise in helping men date; what are some of the key themes you see with your clients? What are some of their biggest struggles? Are all our struggles with dating the same? Do we need a little more empathy for each other? What is sincere seduction? What's your top dating tip?Damien's website: https://www.schoolofattraction.com.au/And if you'd like to added to my close friends on Instagram to follow my Bachelorette updates, send me a DM here: https://www.instagram.com/hannahfurst/
A listener wrote in with a fantastic question about open relationships:"I'd like to hear about long term relationships that also have open sexual relationships with others. My long term partner and I have been flirting with this idea but there are so many people who say it's a bad idea and a sign the relationship is ending..."Who better to help answer this question than Damien Diecke, head coach at School of Attraction. Damien is a life, business, and dating coach. He's been a guest speaker at live events in 18 different countries and is endlessly fascinated by human behavior. In addition to helping clients navigate open relationships, Damien is also in an open relationship.Together, we explore:Different types of open relationshipsWhat you need to consider before opening an existing relationshipThe highs and lows of open relatingThe importance of self-care and communication skills in open relationshipsTechniques to use to discover if open relationships are for youOn today's episode, we speak a little about transactional analysis. You can get a general overview on Wikipedia here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transactional_analysisYou can catch the replay of The Secrets of Quiet Seduction masterclass, which took place on November 17th, here: https://sexualcraftsmanship.com/dignified-hedonist/If you enjoyed getting to know Damien, be sure to check out his work at School of Attraction. Today, November 5th, you can catch a special episode featuring me on the School of Attraction podcast all about Dark Sexuality!Here's where you can hear more from School of Attraction:Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/288898YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaZJ1Cw-GTdVQs6UUBER-eAWebsite: https://schoolofattraction.com/If you want to get involved with the Sexual Craftsmanship community and have input into upcoming episodes, head over to the Sexual Craftsmanship subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SexualCraftsmanship/Curious what it’s like to learn with me? Check out my FREE course on How to Avoid the Friendzone for Good. Go to: avoidthefriendzone.comConnect with Sexual Craftsmanship online! Website: https://sexualcraftsmanship.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0o8MkhxcIwoSyTeM3AQ7lgSupport the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SarahMartin
I'll share my biggest rejections I've ever had from women in my life - some of them are tragic and some of them are tragically funny. I think it's really important for men to realise that no matter how hard you work on your dating skills, you're always going to face rejection - so today I want to share my funny dating rejection stories so you can laugh with or at me and my experiences. It's important for men wanting to learn to be more successful with women to see that all men have to be okay with getting rejected by their crush, even if it hurts at the time it gives us an opportunity to grow.
How we deal with Rejection and Failure is one of the biggest determining factors in whether we are going to go and accomplish all the things we dream about in life. But the truth is that most of us give up after a couple of failures or brutal rejections, and some of us are so frightened of the pain that we never even try in the first place. But there is a deceptively simple strategy to breaking through and dealing with rejection in a way that prevents it from having a lasting effect on your emotional well being. This strategy will also massively boost your self-esteem and confidence levels. Watch this video to find out what that is.
4 Online dating tips to help guys get casual sex relationships with women from their dating apps. When looking for dating advice for men - it's often focussed on how to get dates, rather than how to create a casual hookup - which is exactly what so many guys are really after. As a dating coach of over 11 years, I'll show you 4 important things you need to do with your online dating profiles to consistently find new friends with benefits.
Why are men feeling increasingly frustrated with dating? Could it be because both men and women have too many choices? What does the choice paradox outlined by Barry Schwartz have to do with dating and relationships? As it turns out, it could tell us quite a lot about why finding women to date can be so frustrating in this day and age.
Do you find yourself fixating on being able to attract those women who seem to be the hottest in any room? The ones who work for hours to look as good as they do? The ones who work hard to ensure they have every man's eyes on them? Getting fixated on these women is actually a dangerous trap that many men fall into - and they get fixated on the wrong women for the wrong reasons, and often this can lead to a huge amount of dating and relationship pain.Learn how to avoid falling into this dating trap by watching this video.
Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out andThe truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. I'm going to tell you my own story of how I suddenly improved my success with women by focusing on having fun rather than on trying to pick up women.
How can a man become more empowered? Many people confuse having power with being an empowered human being, and yet the two often don't occur at the same time. Women are turned on by empowered men, it's one of the top 5 traits women want to find in a man, but so often we walk around feeling dis-empowered because we focus so strongly on the things we don't have any control over.
ith so many supposed studies out there about the science of attraction, many of which contradict each other, how do we find out which scientific dating research we can trust, and which we should ignore? Human sexuality is incredibly complex and diverse, and as it turns out humans are very prone to misinterpreting all kinds of data, but most significantly we misinterpret statistical data. Unfortunately, we are prone to a host of psychological biases which color how we view the dating world. In today's podacst I'm going to discuss some of those biases and the important questions we need to ask ourselves when we're presented with new information that may or may not be reliable.
Are you getting frustrated with going on dates with women and they never seem to want to catch up a second time, and you're going crazy trying to work out why? Well thanks to some fantastic research from the only Psychologist to win a Nobel Prize - Daniel Kahneman, I'm going to show you a simple trick you need to be using to dramatically change how she feels about you after a first date.When you apply the Peak End rule to your date, you'll end up with far more second dates because women will have a much fonder memory of you and be much more eager to go for a second date.
What's the secret to getting a perfect girlfriend?Are you struggling to find girls that you think are worth dating? Does it seem like the world is full of bad eggs? Have your past relationships taught you that women aren't all that they seem when the relationship starts? Perhaps you are just on the hunt for a great partner and came across this video. Today I want to talk to you about why most men have the completely wrong approach to finding an amazing partner, and this approach usually leads to a HUGE amount of heartache, and sometimes huge financial loss too.
How can you STOP being a nice guy? Have you ever got the impression that women walk all over you because you're too nice? Do you constantly get thrown into the friend zone? Do you feel like even your mates are taking advantage of you? Does your long term partner lose sexual interest in you really quickly? Odds are, you could be suffering from nice guy syndrome, and Today I'm going to show give you a deep look into what lies at the core of your condition, and most importantly how to stop doing this WITHOUT swinging in the complete opposite direction and become an a-hole.
In this video, I'm going to share with you 7 dating psychology books that weren't written by pick up artists that every man needs to read if he wants to become more successful with women. This list of books will help you develop a keen understanding of human psychology which you can learn to apply to attract more attractive women - The best part is that these books are written by real experts and not just guys who think they have the social skills required to get women.
Which is better? Tinder and all it's online dating cousins? Or putting in the time to learn to cold approach women? Well as it turns out, learning to cold approach women during the day or night is about so much more than just having a life full of beautiful women. It's about embarking on a journey of self-improvement. So much of what you discover when you're learning to cold approach women in bars/clubs and on the street, are skills that you'll use in almost all aspects of your life, not just when talking to girls.
Did you know that woman have a completely different way of rating a guy's attractiveness to the way men rate women? This difference is cause for a lot of confusion for guys wanting to learn how to attract women, and make a really good first impression.Once you understand how women go about assessing a man's attractiveness, then you can learn to make changes to the way women first perceive you and suddenly start being a whole lot more attractive to women.
Trying to go out regularly picking up women in bars and clubs can be mentally draining - While you try to learn all these social skills, you are constantly facing a barrage of rejection, and you can quickly find yourself worn out andThe truth is that what many men forget while trying to learn to attract women, the most important thing they should be doing is having fun. If you're not having fun with women, then they're not going to want to go on a date with you. I'm going to tell you my own story of how I suddenly improved my success with women by focusing on having fun rather than on trying to pick up women.
Did you know that more than having money, and more than being attractive, there's one trait that you absolutely MUST have to attract women? Did you know that even if you're a good looking guy with a decent job, that without this trait then women aren't going to want to date you? What is this trait? And how does it help men attract women? The trait is empowerment, and after giving dating advice to men for over a decade, it's one of the single sexiest qualities a man can have. The moment a man becomes empowered, women start organically gravitating toward him.
What do women want? What kind of men do women date? What kind of men do women sleep with? Are women supposed to be monogamous? Are women genetically meant to seek out men for safety? Many questions like this about female sexual selection are based on stories that we hear growing up, and then stories we hear online and from our friends. Very often, these stories are completely wrong - and lead us to try approaching women in ways that hurt our chances of success rather than help. Finding a woman to date is far more complex that the stories we hear suggest - women have a highly flexible range of sexual behaviors that depend on a huge range of societal influences.
When Tinder launched in 2012, it was super-easy to get matches and dates. You simply got a small batch of decent photos, threw them into your Tinder profile, and started matching with women in your area. But in 2019, that has all changed - The sheer volume of Tinder users has created an arms-race of competition among men who have to find better and better profile shots for their online dating profiles in order to get women to pay them any attention.
Today I'm going to share with you 10 scientifically proven ways to get a girl to like you using the power of human psychology. Be careful with this advice because they are subconsciously and subliminally powerful and need to be used responsibly. 1. Smell amazing2. Use Smiling As A Reward3. Tell Her A Secret About Yourself4. Make Strong Eye Contact5. Make Your Shoulder : Waist Ratio As Dramatic As Possible6. Lower Your Voice7. Pitch Your Questions Downwards8. Tease Her Plenty9. Use Your Friend For Social Proof10. Learn To Dance Salsa
Have you ever had a woman do something that just leaves you exasperated thinking Why the heck to women do this??Whether it's pretending to have a boyfriend rather than saying they aren't interested, taking forever to reply to text messages, cancelling dates at the last minute, Stealing your food instead of ordering their own, or pulling away from sex at the last minute. In this video I'm going to look at why these behaviors are so common, and most importantly what you can learn and what you can do to stop it happening again in the future.
Damien Diecke is the founder of School Of Attraction - the largest dating company in Australia helping over one million men get dates.
Today I'm going to share with you some of the biggest mistakes guys regularly make on Tinder. Because trying to get matches, and text women, and get them out on dates can be difficult or downright impossible if you're doing these few things wrongly. In this podcast I'm going to look at the 3 topmost frustrating reasons guys don't get results on tinder. 1) Women don't respond to your first message2) Women respond but the conversation always fizzles out and you can't get them out on a date. 3) You just can't get any matches at all on Tinder. I'm going to look through some tricks to overcome these obstacles and start turning these matches into dates.
Women feel sexually attracted to men who behave in very specific ways. When you're learning to pick up women because you want to get laid or because you're looking for a relationship, you're going to discover very quickly that if you have the wrong approach and the wrong dating mindset that women will easily friend-zone you. So today I'm going to discuss 5 strategies to make women want you sexually.
When I was in my early 20s and late teens, I suffered with debilitating anxiety and was trapped in my parents house for months. Today I want share with you the strategies I used to overcome my anxiety. What worked? What didn't?I'm going to share my 3 top strategies for dealing with anxiety once and for all, whether it's social anxiety, or health anxiety, or any other kind you can imagine.
Are you getting increasingly frustrated with learning pickup?Are you starting to feel your self-esteem going downward rather than upwards because you're feeling like nothing you can do can get you any success with women? Are you feeling like maybe every dating coach and pick up artist out there is just feeding you lies? Perhaps right now is the wrong time to be thinking about girls completely - Perhaps most dating coaches don't realise that without a base level of social skills - trying to learn to attract women is just going to end in pain and suffering. Is this you? Keep listening to find out
I first got involved in the Pick Up Artist community 15 years ago just after I read the book 'the game'. After a lot of initial excitement and some initial success, I realized that while I was talking ]to women, and I was getting some dates, and I was getting laid, I still wasn't feeling completely confident or happy. In this Podcast, I'm going to talk you through my pua journey and give you the dating advice for how to meet girls that I wish someone wouldn't have given me when I was on this journey.
10 years ago, I was the most successful guy I knew when it came to attracting women - What did that journey look like? How has my life changed over the last 10 years as a result? I'm going to share with you some of the insights I gained about my life as a man, about attraction, about what I think many men are doing wrong on this journey. I'm also going to share some of the surprising benefits of embarking on a journey like this, that many men don't even realise lie waiting for them on this path.
In this interview with Steve Mayeda, we're cover a ton of bases. Feminism, Male Empowerment and Liberation. The Myth of Male Power, and let me tell you, if you want a Men's Movement ... here it is!
Stop approaching women out of your league and first start focussing on your social intelligence. So many guys who are just starting to learn to attract women get focussed on approaching women who are too far up the social hierarchy and wonder why they're failing so frequently.Social Intelligence is a trait that any guy can learn which will help him attract the hot girls he always wanted. But unfortunately learning this skill set takes time. Damien Diecke will show you exactly how you can increase your social IQ and start attracting the women you want.
What do women want? What do women want in a man? What is a masculine man? What is a feminine woman? What is Masculine Sensitivity? These are questions which get asked a lot, and in this day and age, it can be a very tricky question for some to answer. In this Podcast, Damien Diecke and Diviya Nand discuss some of the powerful aspects to being the kind of man that women sit up and take notice of. Sexual polarity is getting forgotten in the modern world. Getting to the core of masculinity is what is discussed in this video
Ever wondered how to tell if she's approachable? I'm going to share the red and greed flags so you know exactly what to look out for, especially when working out which girls to avoid.Knowing if a girl is available, and knowing how to tell if she wants to talk to you is a very important skill to learn. Most men have no idea and as a result, they have to face a lot more rejection and awkward silences than they would like. Once you know which girls are going to be friendly to you, then it's much easier to get success in a bar and get numbers from cute girls.
There's a lot of negativity being shifted towards men in society right now but who's to blame? In this interview with Fascinating opinion-youtuber - Yogioabs, we're going to delve into the world of MGTOW, Feminism, Red-Pill, and Men's Rights. This is one of those times when I get to interview a man who I respect, but don't agree with all the time - It's a way to explore both sides of a very important debate that's happening right now.
Over the last 2 weeks, I've read through the entire Rational Male book by Rollo Tomassi, to better understand the philosophy behind the red pill movement. It turns out there's plenty that I agree with, but there's also a lot that turns out to be teaching very unhealthy mindsets. Do I think men should be turning to the red pill philosophy to improve their lives? For many it would drastically improve their dating lives and their relationships - But I still think it's a flawed option. I'm going to take some time today to explain why.
In this talk, you’ll learn what it takes to be happy. Damien Diecke shows that “getting stuff” is the long and unstable way to happiness, and shares the direct, efficient and effective way to you achieving sustainable happiness that lasts.In this podcast, you’ll learn:- How pursuit, not pleasure is the key to your happiness.- What you can learn from the happiest people ever recorded.- The practical steps to happiness you can start to use today.
Casual sex doesn't have to be sleazy or selfish, learn how to establish and maintain quality casual sex relationships with this interview with School of Attraction head coach Damien Diecke. Having a casual sex relationship with a girl can be easy and with these steps, you can ensure that nobody gets hurt.
Few things can be more soul-destroying than going through an emotionally abusive relationship, and yet almost all men go through this at one point or another in their lives. But what's really important is how you learn to process the abuse you received during your relationship, and what kind of accountability you take for the role you played.
Have you ever been caught in a neediness spiral? Where you can see yourself getting more and more needy with a girl, and she's getting more and more turned off by you, but the more turned off she is, the needier you become? We've all had it happen to us at least once - And most guides that teach us how to be less needy focus on controlling our behaviours in the moment. But in today's podcast, I want to show you how to become less clingy and needy around women by focusing instead on the root causes of these behaviours, because once you do that, then you'll stop needing validation from women forever. More than that, when you work on these root causes, you'll find your self-confidence will sky-rocket as well!
I hear a lot of debate about whether online dating or cold approaching is a better way to meet women. Often times guys sit in one camp and hurl abuse at the other. But in truth, when it comes to meeting girls, both can be great strategies but they do have their own pros and cons. Sure you could invest time in both, but the truth is that you'll eventually need to invest your time in just one way of meeting women.
I want to explore my personal evolving views of what is going on in the aftermath of the #METOO movement, especially the notion of affirmative consent which has a lot of men left scratching their heads. I've spent a lot of time talking to women trying to understand their take on the events and the general psychological environment of the movement and why it exploded so quickly and what it's fighting for. I've learned some pretty incredible facts about women's' experiences around men especially when it comes to sex that I didn't know before and it has certainly given me more compassion than I had before, even though I think a lot of the execution leaves a lot to be desired.
Let's first explore why women test men when they first meet them, to understand why women want to put us on the spot and make us feel uncomfortable. Then let's look at some of the most frequently asked 'shit tests' that men frequently receive, and how to bust through them in a way that leaves women liking us even more. Shit tests are a golden opportunity to demonstrate to a woman that we are the man they're looking for.
2 Dating professionals discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly in their experiences with open relationships with their long term partners. Are open relationships the natural path for humans? Or is monogamy still the way to go?How do you bring up conversations about open relationships with your partner? How should you react if she brings up the idea of an open relationship with you?
In this in-course training sound byte, Damien is going to show you step-by-step how to make the perfect approach when you see a woman you really want to talk do but have no idea what to do or say.
Pick Up Artists have been around for a long time, trying to become more confident and successful with women. But there are many beliefs and mindsets that PUA's have that destroy their chances of getting true success. Become successful with women isn't just about lying and cheating and playing games with the minds of pretty women. Attracting girls shouldn't be about convincing to date you, it should be about becoming the kind of man she really wants to date. I'm going to share with you everything that I think is wrong with the world of pick up artists today.
What really constitutes good sex? Tantra Instructor and sex therapist Jacqueline Hellyer, shares some incredible insights on the world of sex and eroticism. So many men and women dream of being good in bed.. But what do women really want in bed? What do men want in bed? Is the path to making her orgasm simply following a set of steps? Or is it like an artwork, where every body is a different style of art to be understood and appreciated?This is one of the most interesting interviews that I've ever done, so forget the sex positions and sex techniques for a moment, and discover the wisdom that Jacqueline has to offer.
In this episode of Make Society Great Again I interview Damien Diecke of the School of Attraction to discuss the harms of PUA and the role of dating coaches in today's dating economy. Damien's views are a bit different from mine, and I was skeptical to have him on the show because I'm against casual sex for the most part, but the discussion he brings on his channel is groundbreaking and much needed today, and I'm excited to talk to him in front of you and find some middle ground. His channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaZJ1Cw-GTdVQs6UUBER-eA Subscribe to the MSGA podcast. Anchor: https://anchor.fm/msga iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/make-society-great-again/id1446976604?mt=2 MSGA Group (Uncensored Facebook Alternative): https://www.minds.com/groups/profile/942572528687333376/feed Blog: https://yogioabs.com Coaching: https://www.subscribestar.com/yogioabs Social Media: https://www.twitter.com/yogioabs https://www.instagram.com/yogioabs --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/msga/support
Discover the 4 emotional needs women need to have met in order to want to have casual sex, one night stands, or simply to have more sex with their boyfriend. Women don't want casual sex relationships for the same reason that men do, and very often women avoid having sex with guys not because they aren't interested in him, but because he isn't meeting her emotional needs. So if you're wondering how to start a casual sex relationship, or how to drastically improve your chances of finding a one night stand, then this is a video you need to watch.