Podcast appearances and mentions of tom stranger

Slavná psychoterapeutka Nora Vlášková je už pravidelným hostem na Hausbotu a mimo jiné jsem s ní natočil velký seminář o vztazích a lidské duši pro platformu socrato.cz (jen pro zajímavost: na tento kurz je právě teď na mém Herohero účtu pro odběratele do konce března vypsaná 50% sleva.). https://herohero.co/petrhorkyPři natáčení dnešního rozhovoru mne zajímala hned tři témata, jedno aktuálnější než druhé…a myslím, že ne vždy si s nimi dokážeme poradit. Tím pádem se i těším na vaše reakce, názory a zkušenosti! Kdo byste chtěli ještě půlhodinové pokračování, a k tomu navíc 50% slevový kód na celý velký webinář Nory Vláškové o vztazích a lidské duši, pojďte na můj kanál na adrese herohero.co/petrhorky. Najdete tu můj kompletní archiv a k tomu všechna videa jsou bez reklam. Mějte se krásně, ahoj! Váš Petr HorkyOdkazy:Kniha Chci se ti podívat do očí (Thordis Elva a Tom Stranger) - https://www.databazeknih.cz/knihy/chci-se-ti-podivat-do-oci-548688TedEx Talk Thordis Elva a Tom Stranger - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gyPoqFcvt9wSeriál Gilmorova děvčata - https://www.csfd.cz/film/70105-gilmorova-devcata/prehled/Seriál Přátelé - https://www.csfd.cz/film/68928-pratele/prehled/Seriál Sex ve městě - https://www.csfd.cz/film/69730-sex-ve-meste/prehled/00:00 Potřeba ženy prostě vyvstane, nejde potlačit.11:58 Proč ženy hejtí ženy?20:50 Jak se dostat ze sebeobviňování?Zbytek rozhovoru obsahuje následující kapitoly:28:21 Mladí si dovolují mluvit o emocích.39:45 Jak být dobrý boomer.45:39 Co se děje v člověku, když lže.52:26 Žít otevřeně a autenticky je nejvýhodnější.Support the show

What do you do when aliens, or demons, or manatees from an alternate dimension show up on your planet and start destroying everything? Call you insurance agent of course. Hopefully you have a good one like Tom Stranger. This month we read a collection of stories about the man who does everything in his power to ensure his clients have the best customer service experience possible. #1 in Customer Service: The Complete Adventures of Tom Stranger by Larry CorreiaNext books will be:September: How to do Nothing by Jenny OdellHost: Eugene StephensGuest: Ray Andrew, Shaun MclarenLike the show? Do us a favor and rate / review the show on iTunes, Stitcher or wherever you get your podcasts from.You can always reach us at EpicallyGeeky.comYou can also find us on FaceBook, Twitter and Instagram.You can find us on iTunes here: http://apple.co/2fiw4eHYou can find us on Stitcher here: http://bit.ly/2f1IuYPYou can find us on Google Podcast: http://bit.ly/3mJGuWZYou can find us on Spotify here: https://spoti.fi/2PIJwM7You can find us on Amazon Podcast here: https://amzn.to/35Nop5lYou can find us on YouTube here: http://bit.ly/2fffyO0Music by: Peter Emerson Jazz

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Welcome to the "Spark The Conversation" Podcast where we get to know individuals around Pulte Financial Services, what makes them unique and the collection of experiences they bring to our organization.  This month we're talking with Rachel Weatherly.  You may know Rachel as a Tax Research Specialist, but did you know this about Rachel?   Rachel has an identical twin sister and comes from a long line of Colorado natives She saw her first Star Wars movie at the age of 7 with her sister and dad and is fan to this day There were 18 students in her graduating high school class Rachel majored in Communication with minors in History and Political Science at the University of Northern Colorado Just took a trip to Florida in May with her 11 year old son named Alexander Rachel has a lot of hobbies and keeps bees and chickens She belongs to a medieval recreation society called the Society of Creative Anachronism where she's learning to blow glass and archery In addition to blowing glass and archery, Rachel creates tumblers, does wood working, photography, crochets and enjoys reading She is currently reading Memoir of a Holocaust survivor and The Adventures of Tom Stranger

In this week's episode, Scott talks through his love of the 2018 Ready Player One, his recent discovery The Adventures of Tom Stranger, and the 2020 game Will of the Wisps, lambasting poor voice actors as he goes. Meanwhile, Rob explains why DC's Kingdom Come is essential reading, why In Flames' 2019 "I, The Mask" isn't all essential listening, and reminds us of the semi-forgotten gem that is Alan Davies' As Yet Untitled - all this whilst Scott tries to distract him with pond creatures...

At the beginning of the year, I set a goal for the books I wanted to read. I stuck to my list as best I could, however, like the outlines for my own books, the path was not followed. I hope everyone met much of their goals in 2020 despite the zombie apocalypse and I hope we all find greener pastures in 2021. Onwards! Books I finished in 2020: · Starsight by Brandon Sanderson · Fall of Hades by Richard Paul Evans · Paloma by Kristine Kathryn Rusch. · Diving into the Wreck by Kristine Kathryn Rusch. · Death Without Company by Craig Johnson · #1 in Customer Service The Complete Adventures of Tom Stranger by Larry Correia · Peter Pan by J.M. Barrie. · The Hobbit, or There and Back Again by J.R.R. Tolkien Books I finished that were not on my list: · Nameless Series by Dean Koontz 1-6) · The Queen’s Gambit by Walter Tevis · Anne of Green Gables by Lucy Maud Montgomery (1-6) · Zen in the Art of Writing by Ray Bradbury · The Science of Sci-Fi by Erin MacDonald · Power Moves by Adam Grant · Save the Cat by Blake Snyder · Save the Cat Writes a Novel by Jessica Brody · The Sandman audio drama by Neil Gaiman Books NOT finished in 2020: · Treasure Island by Robert Louis Stevenson. · Monster Hunter International by Larry Correia · The Forbidden Door by Dean Koontz. · The Night Window by Dean Koontz. Books not on my list that I did not finish: · The Daughter of Sherlock Holmes by Leonard Goldberg · 1Q84 by Haruki Murakami · The Grand Biocentric Design by Peter Ganim --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/alex-g-zarate/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/alex-g-zarate/support

I am pleased to bring you the thinking of today's guest, Thordis Elva. Thordis is an Icelandic author, speaker, playwright, and activist for gender equality. Thordis collaborated on this book with her perpetrator, Tom Stranger, making her the first rape survivor in the world to publicly do this. We will be discussing a range of topics, such as the meaning of forgiveness and atonement, the importance of anger and vengeance as steppingstones toward forgiveness, and the need to change misconceptions and myths about sexual abuse.

I am pleased to bring you the thinking of today's guest, Thordis Elva. Thordis is an Icelandic author, speaker, playwright, and activist for gender equality. Thordis collaborated on this book with her perpetrator, Tom Stranger, making her the first rape survivor in the world to publicly do this. We will be discussing a range of topics, such as the meaning of forgiveness and atonement, the importance of anger and vengeance as steppingstones toward forgiveness, and the need to change misconceptions and myths about sexual abuse.

Warning:  NSFW! Our heroes continue to get really upset about The Adventures of Tom Stranger, Interdimensional Insurance Agent, and it's "sequel."  The brothers get really confused about how Adam Baldwin chooses to say both "ambiance," and "poor people." Rance still wants to challenge our author to a fight, and Bob is looking for a light in the dark, but just gets fed up with the world.  Both hosts throw all caution to the wind and say the F word a LOT. We discover that our cool cool cool author believes people who have occupied a street are sissy, liberal, crybabies, that pooping in a bucket is the type of skill that won't get you anywhere in life, and gender studies degrees are just a big joke.  Like, SNL level satire joke. We finish the episode off with a really disturbing game, in which Rance shows off just how unstable these guys really sound.  Thank goodness the guys gave up their man buns, or Larry may have labeled them as hipster cucks. Please consider rating and reviewing, as well as recommending to your friends, and sharing on social media.  The more following we get, the better content we can provide! *************************************** This week’s “book”: The Adventures of Tom Stranger, Interdimensional Insurance Agent, and A Murder of Manatees by Larry Correia Get them here at your own risk: https://www.audible.com/series/The-Adventures-of-Tom-Stranger-Interdimensional-Insurance-Agent-Audiobooks/B0793R8X2P RANCE’S FEATURED BOOK: Beneath the Rising by Premee Mohamed Get it here: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Beneath-The-Rising/Premee-Mohamed/Beneath-the-Rising/9781781087862 THIS EPISODE’S MUISC: Our theme music is: “First Strike” Music by: Jacob Lizotte. You can listen to it on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0XOYj6lqNw or purchase it on his website here: https://www.darkcabin-studios.com/ “Chopstick Slapstick’’ Music by Jay Man | OurMusicBox Website: www.our-music-box.com (http://www.our-music-box.com/) YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3akYklE6r7o All music used in this episode is covered under Creative Commons License with permission from the creators. *************************************** If you would like to get in contact with us, check out our website: https://thequarantinebookclub.com/ You can also find us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/thequarantinebookclub/ And on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequarantinebookclubpodcast/ If you'd like to see the live recorded version of this podcast, we're on YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9mVp-J4EZz9ozRLeyc7KjA

Today Veronika has a special treat in which she will share with us some findings of Sexual Violence awareness campaigns she's learned. As well we talk about the Male Happiness Scale and what really makes men happy (Hint: It's Jobs). Research on Sexual Violence Amy R. Baugher and Julie A. Gazmararian: Masculine gender role stress and violence: A literature review and future directions Carline, A., Gunby, C., & Taylor, S. (2018). Too drunk to consent? Exploring the contestations and disruptions in male-focused sexual violence prevention interventions. Social & Legal Studies, 27(3), 299-322. https://www.doi.org/10.1177/0964663917713346   Silver, N., & Hovick, S. (2018). A schema of denial: The influence of rape myth acceptance on beliefs, attitudes, and processing of affirmative consent campaign messages. Journal of Health Communication, 23(6), 505-513. https://doi.org/10.1080/10810730.2018.1473532    Resources on Sexual Violence SACE I am with you  Jeffrey Epstien documentary Catch and Kill Athlete A   Restorative Justice & Sexual Violence Traditional justice system responses don’t work for us (and we know it)https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/85-002-x/2017001/article/54870-eng.htm Restorative Justice Difficult, but really wild TED Talk - Our story of rape and reconciliation | Thordis Elva and Tom Stranger.. Tom raped Thordis when they were teenagers….their ted talk together.  https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/jr/2019rsd-rr2019/p31.html https://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/i-do-forgive-him-as-a-human-rape-victim-confronts-her-attacker-in-restorative-justice-process-1.4665519 Harry’s Study on Men’s Happiness https://getpocket.com/explore/item/the-strongest-predictor-of-men-s-well-being-isn-t-family-or-health?utm_source=pocket-newtab

Warning:  NSFW! Our heroes finally dive into a series-long joke full throttle. The Adventures of Tom Stranger, Interdimensional Insurance Agent is a book written by a Libertarian, narrated by a Libertarian, for Libertarians.  Or babies.  Idiot babies.  Idiot Libertarian babies.  If you like to hear people get pissed about bad writing and paper-thin “jokes,” then this is the podcast for you!  Listen along as the guys fall into an episode long bout of confusion, anger, and sadness.  We have before us a study in contrasts.  Bob tries to give up the podcast after realizing that it will only ever bring him pain and sadness, and Rance hits a series high, repeatedly challenging the book’s author to a fight. At some point they kind of talk about the book, but in the end spend so much time crying, complaining, and trying to set up MMA fights, that they decide they need a second episode just to get all out all of their disgust. But, hey, they always pride themselves on superior customer service. Please consider rating and reviewing, as well as recommending to your friends, and sharing on social media.  The more following we get, the better content we can provide! *************************************** This week’s “book”: The Adventures of Tom Stranger, Interdimensional Insurance Agent by Larry Correia Get it here at your own risk: https://www.audible.com/series/The-Adventures-of-Tom-Stranger-Interdimensional-Insurance-Agent-Audiobooks/B0793R8X2P RANCE’S FEATURED BOOK: Children of Blood and Bone by Tomi Adeyemi Get it here: https://www.tomiadeyemi.com/books The book for the Anti-Racism Book Club July: White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo Get it here:https://robindiangelo.com/publications/ THIS EPISODE’S MUISC: Our theme music is: “First Strike” Music by: Jacob Lizotte. You can listen to it on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0XOYj6lqNw or purchase it on his website here: https://www.darkcabin-studios.com/ Letters (Sad Piano) music: “Dissociation” Music by Naoya Sakamata | NAOYA.S www.youtube.com/c/NaoyaSakamataPIANOmusicChannel (https://gate.sc/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fc%2FNaoyaSakamataPIANOmusicChannel&token=342b44-1-1593545995599) ◇Twitter：Naoya Sakamata  twitter.com/lazy0004?s=06 (https://gate.sc/?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2Flazy0004%3Fs%3D06&token=a455f7-1-1593545995599) “Chopstick Slapstick’’ Music by Jay Man | OurMusicBox Website: www.our-music-box.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3akYklE6r7o All music used in this episode is covered under Creative Commons License with permission from the creators. *************************************** If you would like to get in contact with us, check out our website: https://thequarantinebookclub.com/ You can also find us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/thequarantinebookclub/ And on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequarantinebookclubpodcast/ If you'd like to see the live recorded version of this podcast, we're on YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9mVp-J4EZz9ozRLeyc7KjA

Istan is a Canadian Ukrainian. Народжений в Вінніпезі, he lives in Kyiv for last 13 years. * Is Ukraine a land of opportunity for a Canadian? * Фільм "Мої Думки Тихі". Чому досі не можна подивитися в Канаді? * What we all could do to promote the opportunities? "Diaspora should get up on the feet and make some moves". Ukraine got to have the judicial system that works. В програмі використана музика Сергія Фоменка (Tom Stranger)

Today we take a look at A Murder Of Manatees By larry Correia, The Further Adventures of Tom Stranger, Interdimensional Insurance Agent. Will Tom stranger become your new favorite insurance Agent? Or does Jake from State Farm still hold the crown? Find out the Knight's thoughts in this episode of kotpl. If you have anything you want to say to us here at The pageless Library please feel free get hold of us. EMAIL: KOTPL.POD@GMAIL.COM TWITTER: @PAGELESSLIBRARY YOUTUBE: KNIGHTS OF THE PAGELESS LIBRARY FACEBOOK: KNIGHTS OF THE PAGELESS LIBRARY SPOTIFY: KnightsOfThePagelessLibrary Reddit: r/KOTPL Discord: https://discord.gg/3cQMmNd (Email for library card!)

Ідея сьогодні була така: пройтися по відео/аудіо новинах з 3-х країн: України, Канади і США. Якщо #новина українською ми коментуємо її англійською, якщо англійською - коментуємо #українською. В програмі використана музика Сергія Фоменка (Tom Stranger) і Олега Шинкаренка. Новини телеканалів: - 5й телеканал, Україна - Facebook page of Alberta Premier Jason Kenney, Canada - Fox News. USA --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Виявилося, у Сергія Фоменка (aka Фома) є англомовний проект - Tom Stranger. Сторінка Мандри в Фейсбук Tom Stranger - My Friend (video)

***The following episode deals with issues of sexual violence.*** Over twenty years ago, Thordis Elva of Iceland shared a teenage romance with Tom Stranger, an exchange student visiting from Australia. After a school dance in 1996, when she was 16 and he was 18, he raped her. After parting ways and independently examining their own feelings and responses to the traumatic event, Thordis got in touch with Tom. The two would go on to correspond for years and later meet in South Africa to navigate the pain surrounding Tom’s actions together. In October 2016, they recorded a controversial joint TED Talk exploring this journey. This week, we’re joined by Nari Malkhasyan to discuss the talk and its implications regarding shame, trauma and humanity. As we felt the original talk pursued, we hope we also touch on the uncomfortable nuance and difficult questions in our conversation. Lastly, like any episode, this conversation is about reflection and inquiry, not conclusion and declaration. What we discuss may clash with your perspectives and similarly, what Thordis and Tom explored (and acknowledged) is not a prescription for all survivors and perpetrators.

No matter what form it takes, abuse leaves us indelibly altered, often consumed by an emotional confusion that feels impossible to untangle. In this episode, we hear from three people with firsthand experience of abuse, each speaking from a profoundly different perspective. Rachel Jeffs recounts escaping the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints after years of suffering sexual abuse by her cult leader and father Warren Jeffs, while documentarian Attiya Khan recollects the domestic abuse she endured as a teenager—and the experience of confronting her abuser two decades after breaking free. And in a particularly fraught account, Tom Stranger narrates the night in high school when he raped his then-girlfriend, who later tracked him down as part of her recovery. In sharing their stories with candid detail, these guests ultimately instill us with a more nuanced understanding of abuse, its impact, and the immense possibility for healing. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Toady in this turbo episode we take a look at the amazon original The Adventures of Tom Stranger, Interdimensional Insurance Agent, by Larry Correia.

Original broadcast date: May 12, 2017. When loss, violence, or betrayal test our willingness to forgive — how do we do it anyway? This hour, TED speakers explore the challenges and benefits of forgiving others — and ourselves. Guests include mental health advocate Sue Klebold, co-authors Thordis Elva and Tom Stranger, and writer Elizabeth Lesser.

In this short version of the show, Tom and Mike discuss a fateful night many years ago, that changed the lives of two young people for good - 18-year-old Tom and his then-girlfriend Thordis. We discuss facing up to the mistakes you've made and owning your shit, no matter how bad it is and how immensely hard it is, as Tom shares. We hear Tom talk about how that incident shaped his life and profession, lighting an urge to educate and support young men in understanding sexual assault, consent and how we interact with women. This is just a taste of the depth of this conversation. Be sure to check out the full episode

In 1996, Thordis Elva shared a teenage romance with Tom Stranger, an exchange student from Australia. After a school dance, Tom raped Thordis, after which they parted ways for many years. In this extraordinary talk, Elva and Stranger move through a years-long chronology of shame and silence, and invite us to discuss the omnipresent global issue of sexual violence in a new, honest way. For a Q&A with the speakers, visit go.ted.com/thordisandtom. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

https://bryanaiello.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/ds-45.mp3 Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for updates on my other show Mirage: Speculating on Speculative Fiction.   Subscribe on itunes: Subscribe on stitcher Daniel Swenson lives with his wife and children in Utah nestled between the foothills of the mountains and the shore of Utah Lake. He and his family enjoy hiking, riding bikes, playing outdoors and game nights where they play different board and card games. Daniel has been a fan of science fiction and fantasy since he first sat down and watched Star Wars, Voltron, Masters of the Universe and the Transformers. Since witnessing the spectacle of Star Wars Daniel has been an avid movie goer and found his love of reading at a young age when he journeyed in the lands of Krynn and Toril alongside the creations of R.A. Salvatore, Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman. He is the creator and host of the Hugo-nominated podcast Dungeon Crawlers Radio. A successful podcast that covers all things geek including interviews with upcoming and best selling authors. Because of the show Daniel has been able to build relationships among the writing and publishing community that has helped to cultivate his talents. For the past twenty years he has been refining his craft of story telling by creating profound and unique adventures for various gaming groups. Now he spreads his love of gaming with his kids and their friends. His debut novel, The Shadow Above The Flames, is available now through Immortal Works. He also has a short story, "The Tremors Within The Storm," that will be included in Jason King's Valcoria Awakenings The Shadow Above The Flames: https://www.amazon.com/Shadow-Above-Flames-Daniel-Swenson-ebook/dp/B071D34422 anthology later in 2017. Author contact links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorDanielSwenson/ twitter: @DanielSwenson77 Instagram: @DanielSwenson77 http://www.dungeoncrawlersradio.com/daniel.html *** additional notes: Read: John Brown Larry Correia Currently reading: The Adventures of Tom Stranger, Interdimensional Insurance Agent creationmatrix *** Music--- Dragon land http://soundtrackuniverse.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3JKse97l8wg&list=PLw2bZ5M2jzoeaM_4zx0xWEgx8dBnkIEcf&index=14   *** Subscribe to my YouTube Channel for updates on my other show Mirage: Speculating on Speculative Fiction. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbSnMk6QPiULXmKDYmwCmIg Subscribe on itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/origin-stories-on-creativity/id1247194933?mt=2 Subscribe on stitcher https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/bryan-aiello/origins-stories-on-creativity?refid=stpr Follow me on twitter @bryaiello for updates on this channel and my podcast and my writing projects. My website is: http://www.bryanaiello.com Email me with question and comments at: me@byranaiello.com Support the show on my poorly managed patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/BryanAiello

Award-winning writer, journalist and public speaker, Thordis Elva was voted Woman of the Year in her native Iceland for her tireless campaigning for gender equality. She believes in ending the silence that still shrouds sexual violence, of which she is a survivor, and sees dialogue as a means of healing. She has long researched the effect of forgiveness in human relationships, an interest which took her across the globe and into the depths of her own heart, resulting in the book South of Forgiveness which she wrote with Tom Stranger.

Thordis Elva is disrupting patriarchy. In her forthcoming book, South of Forgiveness, she and her coauthor are challenging the world to rethink our approaches and assumptions on how we address sexual violence and gender stereotypes. I first learnt about her work when I saw her give a TEDTalk at TEDWomen 2015. In the talk, she, the survivor of rape, gave a talk with the perpetrator of rape, Tom Stranger. They stood side-by-side and delivered one of the most thought-provoking talks of the day. The conversations in halls after their talk were diverse. Questions like did Tom need to be punished for his violent act? Had already been punished? Should we address rape through punitive approaches? In this Disruptive Conversation, she argues that violent acts, like rape, are not committed by monsters but by people. In this complex conversation, we explore a number of topics related to sexual violence and gender equality. Thordis is trying to disrupt the way we think about problems in society. In this talk, we go behind her recent TEDTalk and learn a little about what she was hoping to accomplish with her forthcoming book,In this Disruptive Conversation, Thordis argues that violent acts, like rape, are not committed by monsters but by people. In our complex conversation, we explore a number of topics related to sexual violence and gender equality. Thordis is trying to disrupt the way we think about problems in society. In this talk, we go behind her recent TEDTalk and learn a little about what she was hoping to accomplish with her forthcoming book,It is a disruptive notion for her to suggest that we have empathy with people who have done terrible things. In this Disruptive Conversation, we go behind her recent TEDTalk and learn a little about what she was hoping to accomplish with her forthcoming book, South of Forgiveness and much more.LINKS IN THE PODCAST:To watch the TEDTalk visit this link: https://www.ted.com/talks/thordis_elva_tom_stranger_our_story_of_rape_and_reconciliationIn the podcast, I reference Brian Stevenson's TEDtalk: https://www.ted.com/talks/bryan_stevenson_we_need_to_talk_about_an_injusticeThis podcast was recorded via Skype both speakers were in different locations. Music provided by Clint Harewood you contact him on these websites: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Tamo.T or LinkedIn: https://www.facebook.com/Tamo.T

Thordis Elva is disrupting patriarchy. In her forthcoming book, South of Forgiveness, she and her coauthor are challenging the world to rethink our approaches and assumptions on how we address sexual violence and gender stereotypes. I first learnt about her work when I saw her give a TEDTalk at TEDWomen 2015. In the talk, she, the survivor of rape, gave a talk with the perpetrator of rape, Tom Stranger. They stood side-by-side and delivered one of the most thought-provoking talks of the day. The conversations in halls after their talk were diverse. Questions like did Tom need to be punished for his violent act? Had already been punished? Should we address rape through punitive approaches? In this Disruptive Conversation, she argues that violent acts, like rape, are not committed by monsters but by people. In this complex conversation, we explore a number of topics related to sexual violence and gender equality. Thordis is trying to disrupt the way we think about problems in society. In this talk, we go behind her recent TEDTalk and learn a little about what she was hoping to accomplish with her forthcoming book,In this Disruptive Conversation, Thordis argues that violent acts, like rape, are not committed by monsters but by people. In our complex conversation, we explore a number of topics related to sexual violence and gender equality. Thordis is trying to disrupt the way we think about problems in society. In this talk, we go behind her recent TEDTalk and learn a little about what she was hoping to accomplish with her forthcoming book,It is a disruptive notion for her to suggest that we have empathy with people who have done terrible things. In this Disruptive Conversation, we go behind her recent TEDTalk and learn a little about what she was hoping to accomplish with her forthcoming book, South of Forgiveness and much more.LINKS IN THE PODCAST:To watch the TEDTalk visit this link: https://www.ted.com/talks/thordis_elva_tom_stranger_our_story_of_rape_and_reconciliationIn the podcast, I reference Brian Stevenson's TEDtalk: https://www.ted.com/talks/bryan_stevenson_we_need_to_talk_about_an_injusticeThis podcast was recorded via Skype both speakers were in different locations. Music provided by Clint Harewood you contact him on these websites: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Tamo.T or LinkedIn: https://www.facebook.com/Tamo.T

En 1996, Thordis Elva tuvo un romance adolescente con Tom Stranger, un estudiante de intercambio originario de Australia. Después de un baile escolar, Tom violó a Thordis, para después estar separados por muchos años. En esta charla extraordinaria, Elva y Stranger hablan sobre los años de vergüenza y silencio, y nos invitan a discutir el omnipresente problema global de la violencia sexual de una forma nueva y honesta. Para preguntas y respuestas con Thordis y Tom, visite go.ted.com/thordisandtom .

1996 verliebten sich die Teenager Thordis Elva und der australische Austauschschüler Tom Stranger. Nach einem Schulball wurde Thordis von Tom vergewaltigt. Daraufhin gingen sie viele Jahre lang getrennte Wege. In diesem einzigartigen Vortrag werden wir von Elva und Stranger durch Jahre der Scham und des Schweigens geführt und eingeladen, das allgegenwärtige, globale Thema von sexueller Gewalt in einer neuen und ehrlichen Weise zu besprechen. Um zum F&A-Blog zu gelangen, besuchen Sie go.ted.com/thordisandtom.

En 1996, Thordis Elva a partagé un amour de jeunesse avec Tom Stranger, un étudiant australien en échange linguistique. A la suite d'une fête à l'école, Tom a violé Thordis et leurs chemins se sont ensuite séparés pendant plusieurs années. Durant cette discussion extraordinaire, Thordis et Tom racontent plusieurs années de honte et de silence et nous invitent à discuter du problème global et omniprésent de la violence sexuelle d'une manière nouvelle et honnête.

Em 1996, Thordis Elva dividiu um romance adolescente com Tom Stranger, um estudante de intercâmbio da Austrália. Após um baile na escola, Tom estuprou Thordis, e depois disso seus caminhos se distanciaram por muitos anos. Nesta palestra extraordinária, Elva e Stranger discorrem sobre uma cronologia de diversos anos de vergonha e silêncio, e nos convidam a discutir o assunto globalmente onipresente da violência sexual de uma maneira nova e honesta.

1996년에 소르디스 엘바는 호주에서 온 교환학생이었던 톰 스트레인져와 10대 로맨스를 즐겼습니다. 학교에서의 댄스 파티 후, 톰은 소르디스를 강간했고 수년동안 그들은 만나지 않았습니다. 이 특별한 강연에서 엘바와 스트레인져는 수년에 걸친 부끄러움과 침묵의 시간들을 지나 전세계적인 성폭력의 문제를 새롭고 솔직한 방법으로 논의합니다. 강연자들과의 Q&A는 go.ted.com/thordisandtom에 마련되어 있습니다.

In 1996, Thordis Elva shared a teenage romance with Tom Stranger, an exchange student from Australia. After a school dance, Tom raped Thordis, after which they parted ways for many years. In this extraordinary talk, Elva and Stranger move through a years-long chronology of shame and silence, and invite us to discuss the omnipresent global issue of sexual violence in a new, honest way. For a Q&A with the speakers, visit go.ted.com/thordisandtom.