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Visit thedigitalslicepodcast.com for complete show notes of every podcast episode. Brad Friedman and Scot McKay chat about the secret to how women think, how to attract the opposite sex, and how both these things relate to digital marketing. In the '80s and early '90s, Scot McKay worked with at-risk kids. From there, he built a wildly successful corporate career as a billion-dollar IT sales professional, meeting with C-level executives and winning top sales awards. But when a difficult divorce ransacked Scot's world, he hit rock bottom. He set out to understand women and find out what attracted them. His results were so powerful that his friends insisted that he reveal his secrets. In 2005, Scot founded X & Y Communications (http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com) and, as an early adopter of podcasting, began producing the popular Mountain Top Podcast in 2007. Today, Scot is one of the most recognized and effective dating coaches for both men and women on the global stage. Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, he has been invited to speak at high-profile conferences such as iDate and 140 Conference. Over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, Discovery Channel, Forbes, Lifetime, Men's Health and The Wall Street Journal.

Co-Host Elliott Katz (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/katz) My returning guest is the author of several books for both men and women on relationships, especially pertaining to long-term success. He's the right guy to help cover an important topic that has been on my radar screen for a long time now, which is being the patriarch of one's family. What does that even mean? And does it necessarily have to be tied to the negative Feminist stereotype of 'The Patriarchy'? Could it be that most red-blooded women really WANT you to be the leader of your family...even your extended family? We know men should provide and protect, but what is the caveat to that if you really want to be respected by your family? Why is it so many men can be leaders at work, but fail at being the leader at home? As it turns out, there are undeniable traits and characteristics of a true family patriarch. What are they? On the other hand, how do perfectly good, decent men take themselves out of the running for being the family patriarch, even if unwittingly? Finally--and importantly--why should a man even WANT or CARE to be the patriarch of his family...especially if he's still way too young to even think about it yet? What's in it for him? By the time this episode is finished, you'll stand up and cheer. You'll feel believed in, for once...and emerge with quite a bit of third-party validation that what we talk about here at X & Y Communications really, really works. Get in on the Masterclasses, the new program Un-Settled and talk to me for free for 25 minutes when you visit https://mountaintoppodcast.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

Co-Host Emily McKay (https://www.deservewhatyouwant.com) Who knows why this topic hadn't been covered yet around here? My edumckayted guess is it probably had something to do with repressed memories. Yes, Emily and I both are survivors of first marriages affected by profound illness. And yes...we both strongly agree you would be better off avoiding psychotic people in general, especially the sexy female ones. But when you get right down to it, that's only one kind of woman you should definitely run away from. So why is it, then, that too many of us as men end up with the wrong woman? Is it that we ignore red flags? Is it failure to even recognize red flags at all? Or does low self-esteem compel us to settle, which is at least better than being lonely? Is it about being 'clouded by beauty vision'? For sure, some people--men OR women--are manipulated or even threatened by black-hearted partners into sticking around. Or what if it's something else entirely? Well, here at X & Y Communications we believe in deserving what you want. That means rolling up the sleeves and doing what it takes to get the RIGHT woman into your life. Well, after this ironically funny and entertaining episode, we pledge you'll be much better equipped to pick up on warning signs, make better decisions and most of all...ultimately weed out crazy, selfish, mean, addicted, needy and/or fundamentally incompatible women. Visit the web site for free downloads, show notes and to talk to me FREE for 25 minutes: https://mountaintoppodcast.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

In this episode, we talked about:   Knowing that masculinity and femininity are universal languages, unpacking your masculinity, making femininity thrive, opening your mind to see what you can make for yourself, understanding your true nature, finding the correct men or women, being the greatest man you can be.   "The virtue of masculinity is to make decisions on behalf of those you love"   "The people who have political power are the ones in control of the world"   "The purpose of masculinity and femininity is to make babies"     About Scot: In 2005 Scot McKay founded X & Y Communications. Nowadays, as host of the popular Mountain Top Podcast, he is one of the most recognized and effective dating coaches for both men and women on the global stage. He is also a frequent contributor to talk radio shows nationwide. Scot travels the world with his wife and fellow dating coach Emily McKay, while worldschooling their two youngest kids and hitting the national BMX racing circuit together. Scot and Emily have been to over 100 countries, and run a travel blog called Wing-It Worldwide.   You can follow and support Scot at:  Web: https://www.scotmckay.net Podcast: The Mountain Top Podcast   Let's connect over on Instagram: @Johnny.Elsasser

In this episode, Scot McKay, Founder of X & Y Communications, talks about how to get out of your head in social situations.  Go to https://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ to find out more. For more instant access to future episodes, subscribe to the podcast for free from your mobile device, laptop, or desktop computer.

In this episode, Scot McKay, Founder of X & Y Communications, talks about how to get out of your head in social situations.  Go to https://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ to find out more. For more instant access to future episodes, subscribe to the podcast for free from your mobile device, laptop, or desktop computer.

With the milestone 200th episode, it's fun to consider how far we've come, yet how many of the core ideas we still talk about have evolved. Big thanks to Eben Pagan (aka David DeAngelo) and the team at Double Your Dating for making this classic recording of my 2007 Interviews With Dating Gurus available to you as a free download for the very first time. It's truly like a blast through everything foundational here at X & Y Communications, which is fitting since it's the interview that basically put us on the map. Back then, getting this gig was for a dating coach like appearing on The Tonight Show was for a stand-up comic. We talk about deserving what you want, why self-help tactics usually fail, how (and why) to date multiple women on the way to meeting 'the one', and how I decided to get married. You'll get the first mention of 'the big four' ever, discover what an 'I/J' is and why high-quality women avoid them, hear the case for why chivalry still matters, and get a load of the one simple (and now infamous) meeting with a woman that changed my life forever. Then we talk about the first date phrase women use that lets you know you just hit the jackpot, and secrets to dating success for men who are shorter than average. You'll get my thoughts on dating younger women, how to identify a quality woman without being influenced by what others think, and of course I wouldn't think of leaving you hanging with regard to either 'the nuclear weapon or attraction' or 'the most important 30 minutes in dating'. You're likely to get a kick out of how radically different the conversation is in this interview from the typical pick-up artist advice from that time period. It was somewhat revolutionary back then. There are lots of links in this episode, so it's best to head over to the show notes page and collect all the goodies. https://mountaintoppodcast.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

As we all know, 'be yourself' is the lamest, most generic advice ever. But have you ever stopped to think why we as men would ever stop representing our true selves to begin with? Well, the title of this episode is a strong hint as to why, and my co-host is the man to explain what's up with that. Indeed, Clovis Colley isn't only a certified hypnotherapist in-house here at X & Y Communications, he's been around the block a few times. So what are guilt and shame all about anyway? And what useful purpose do they serve, if any? How do people try to shame us, or even project their own shame onto us? How has the 'toxic masculinity' narrative increased shame, even if under the guise of hoping to reduce it? What does it mean to 'take ourselves too seriously', and how do we pile on the pressure, shame and guilt when we do so? How can you tell when someone is trying to shame you for their own pathetic reasons, read them like a cheap paperback and refuse to let them affect you? How does setting and maintaining boundaries combat against undue shame and guilt? Discover the disastrous but shockingly common way people try to avoid shame only to experience even more of it. Finally, and most importantly, what's the pathway out of feeling undue shame and guilt? You can get 25 minutes on the phone with me free, subscribe to daily advice on getting better with women, score free reports and much more at http://www.mountaintoppodcast.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

What do men really want? Are they only looking for physical attractiveness and sexual chemistry, or something more meaningful? On this week's show, Kim interviews dating and relationship coach Scot McKay, founder of X & Y Communications with his wife Emily. Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, Scot hosts the popular podcast Moutain Top and he has been invited to speak at high profile conferences and over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, Forbes, Lifetime, Men’s Health and The Wall Street Journal.    Although the title of this episode is focused on what men are looking for, this podcast is for BOTH genders.  This funny and energetic conversation starts with giving you some real insights into how to attract a real "quality man.”  Kim and Scot also riff back and forth on how men and women tend to misinterpret the intentions of the opposite sex. Plus, listen in for some useful tips about how to perfect your online dating profile. Scot shares some stories from when he was still dating to demonstrate some strategies around how men can take the lead on a date without the fear of their actions being misinterpreted as creepy or pushy. Especially in the era of #MeToo where both women and men are more aware than ever of how they come off to one another, this conversation will help you ease some tension for both genders!    If you want to learn how to look your best on your online dating profile sign up for Kim’s new 90-Minute Dating Profile Makeover here: https://bl394-500ee6.pages.infusionsoft.net/   Kim is also going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the next Flirt Academy Workshop in San Francisco July 25!  Get your tickets as there are a few slots left https://www.facebook.com/events/840244789682404/

Scot and Emily McKay are professional dating and relationship coaches, authors and podcast hosts. Together they founded X & Y Communications in San Antonio, TX, which focuses on equipping and empowering men and women who want to go from good to great in their relationships. They reach over 300,000 people all over the world through their newsletters, podcasts and social media. They are the authors of ten books between them, including four Amazon #1 bestsellers, and have been featured by over 400 media outlets worldwide. Both Scot and Emily are Traveler’s Century Club members, having explored well over 100 countries together, often with their four children. Their travel blog and podcast can be found at www.wingitworldwide.com.

Suzanna  Mathews, self-confessed “Love Junkie” and an expert in first impression management and gender communication, specializing in soulful-spiritual relationships talks today about inter-generational relationships, and especially about older women dating younger men. In this episode Suzanna - gives examples of older woman/younger man couples in pop culture or the celebrity world that might come to mind for people when they think of an age-gap relationship  The different ways that the generation gap "shows up" or causes potential concerns in the relationship How a  positive mindset and a realistic understanding of the the self,  the relationship dynamic, and the relationship goals are essential for managing and enjoying a relationship with a younger man.   Suzanna Mathews ABOUT SUZANNA   Suzanna Mathews Founder & President, Head Dating Coach & Matchmaker She is also a keynote speaker, wedding officiant, and image consultant. She recently authored a book entitled Revising Mrs. Robinson in which she explores personal and cultural responses to romantic relationships between older women and younger men. Suzanna believes that “love favors the brave” and is dedicated to helping people amplify their vibration in order to better attract, give, and receive love. She works one-on-one and in small group settings using a blend of marketing & branding strategies and tools for personal growth and self-improvement. Suzanna is a Senior Certified Coach for X&Y Communications and has been invited to speak at conferences across the globe. She’ has been featured on radio, TV, and podcasts and has contributed to digital and print articles for publications such as Eligible magazine, Elite Daily, Lady Lux, Mimi, msnbc.com, Splurge, WiseBread, and The Wichita Eagle. She’s been cited as an expert source in books such as Date-onomics by Jonathan Birger, a forthcoming book by Fran Greene, author of The Flirting Bible, and a forthcoming book by Anne Strauss entitled The Thrill is Gone. Additionally, Suzanna works as a communications coach, assisting executives and business leaders to prepare, polish, and perfect their public presentations and interpersonal communication skills. She’s a member of the National Association of Women Business Owners, the Women Speaker’s Association, and the Matchmaker’s Alliance.   CONTACT DETAILS / LINKS Website:  www.thedatemaven.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDateMaven Instagram:  thedatemaven    YouTube -http://www.youtube.com/TheDateMaven/videos Book link - Amazon If you have enjoyed this show then please leave a review.  How to leave an iTunes rating or review for a podcast from your iPhone or iPad Itunes link - http://apple.co/2xj5yud Launch Apple's Podcast app. Tap the Search tab. Enter the name of the podcast you want to rate or review. Tap the blue Search key at the bottom right. Tap the album art for the podcast. Tap the Reviews tab. Tap Write a Review at the bottom. ABOUT WENDY CAPEWELL Wendy is a Relationship Coach, Public Speaker and Author. She helps people  improve their confidence, and self- esteem and communication skills which in turn improves their personal and professional relationships.  Connect with Wendy Here...... Facebook - CLICK HERE Linked in - CLICK HERE Twitter Account - Twitter Account - CLICK HERE  Website – www.yourrelationshipspecialist.co.uk Book –‘From Surviving to Thriving in a Romantic Relationship’- Link to Amazon Email – wendy@yourrelationshipspecialist.co.uk Email me if you would like to receive my newsletter. which contains my latest news, articles and special offers.  

Co-Host Elliott Katz (http://www.mountaintoppodcast.com/katz) No kidding...my co-host Elliot Katz and I had to work pretty hard to come up with a topic for this show. That's because he and I think so much alike that probably his first half-dozen ideas were quite literally the very cornerstones of everything we've done here at X & Y Communications for a dozen years. But using the previous episode on happiness as a jumping-off point, we decided to talk about happy women...and more specifically, what it takes to MAKE them happy. After all, as the adage goes, 'if mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy'. Wait, is that even true? And how come men typically try to do everything they can to make their woman happy, yet she still isn't? What do you do when you do EVERYTHING for her, and she still wants MORE, MORE, MORE? Far too many men willingly emasculate themselves in a relationship, complain about it, and then are surprised when the woman respects them even less. We cover why women 'test' men, and how to make it a non-issue. Why being a 'people pleaser' is a lose/lose, and how to stop it. The excuses men readily give for not being the man women want. How our own culture of friendship with other men perpetuates the core problem of women not respecting us as men. We also reveal the secret to getting her to stop nagging, and how to buy yourself brand new golf clubs and have her love you for it. Talk to me directly for 25 minutes. It's free... http://www.mountaintoppodcast.com/coach === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

In this episode, Scot McKay, Founder of X & Y Communications, talks about how to get the relationship you want. Go to https://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ to find out more. For more instant access to future episodes, subscribe to the podcast for free from your mobile device, laptop, or desktop computer.

Welcome to the very first episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast. In this episode, I interview Scot McKay from X&Y Communications and the Mountain Top Podcast. We talk about a range of issues to keep your relationship and sex life red hot and satisfying. Show Highlights 3.45 Avoiding Netflix and chill 4.50 Why finding your best friend is more important than finding someone hot 6.35 The importance of communication 7.05 Why relationships aren't hard work if you're with the right person 10.45 The mistake people make when they try to spice things up 12.25 We talk about the value of arguing the right way 14.05 Why Scot and Emily give each other space to be angry and frustrated. 17.25 One of the most important things about sex. 19.15 why sex shouldn't be so serious 21.00 how men can bring more masculine energy and women can bring more feminine energy to their relationship 27.45 We talk about how people carry negative experiences from previous relationships into their current relationship and why it's dangerous 30.50 We talk about the major reasons why relationships fall apart 35.45 Scot's tips on how to improve your sex life. You can learn more about Scot at http://deservewhatyouwant.com and http://mountaintoppodcast.com

For this milestone episode of the big show, having the best co-host ever was a must, if not a moral imperative. The choice was obvious, given that he's my biggest influence and greatest role model. It's none other than my Dad, of course...Russ McKay. This is the first time in the eleven year history of X & Y Communications that I've done an audio with him, and to say it was well worth the wait is an understatement. As he describes what has made his relationship with my Mom so exemplary for over 55 years, he mixes in a golden take on love at first sight along with gems like 'you can't fake love' and 'love is the one touch with infinity that we can have as human beings'. Then you'll hear what it was like to be a rockstar in 1961 sub-Saharan Africa. After that, you'll get shocking revelations about working with supermodels in New York City. But what's truly going to fry your circuits is how a working-class Baltimore guy was able to make friends with billionaires, Hall of Fame athletes and even the Royal Family...all of whom loved him and welcomed him into their social circles. Out of breath yet? Stay tuned...because Dad also has the secret to being witty on the fly AND the voice of experience on how to be a real man. Transform into the best version of your authentic self, beginning with a free 25-minute discovery call with one of our professional but down-to-earth coaches. http://www.mountaintoppodcast.com/coaching === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

My co-host, James Knight is also one of our newest team members here at X & Y Communications, along with Rob Brinded. He's a world-class expert in human movement with over 17 years of experience helping La Liga players, tour golfers and other athletes achieve peak performance. But most importantly for you, he also knows untold keys to training your body to be more attractive to women...all without you having to learn, memorize, do or even say anything. Discover how our brains unconsciously trigger love and sexual desire based on primal, animal instincts. Find out what James calls 'the deep essence of attraction', and how to keep your head in the game...quite literally. You'll also hear why our 21st-century lifestyle is killing our inherent attractiveness at a baseline, physical level. And perhaps best of all, you'll be treated to a class A rant on how attraction is dirty trick from God. You'll quickly figure out why we're so thrilled to welcome both James and Rob to the team. They straight-up know secrets to attracting women that nobody else is talking about. Treat yourself to their brand new program The Walking Code here: http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/walk === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

This unique episode kicks off with an exciting announcement. We welcome a new expert to the X & Y Communications team. That's none other than Trace Loft of Massage Your Date fame. Now Trace isn't a smooth talking pickup artist, but since he loves spending time with sexy women he needed to develop a way to get more of them in his life. What he's discovered (and now teaches) gets right to the heart of what WORKS with women. Listen in as Trace talks about how to make a woman feel comfortable with you, how to initiate physical contact and even what to do if she has unusually large breasts. We'll also answer the age-old question made famous by Pulp Fiction: Is a foot massage, just a foot massage? Count on this episode to challenge your mindset and empower you with a new perspective that just might bring more naked women into your world...just like it did for Trace. Oh, and most incredible part is that they'll love every minute of it. Have you visited the brand new show notes page? It's all here at: http://www.thechickwhisperer.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

Sure, there are TONS of books out there on the Internet about how to get your ex back...but what if the relationship is officially DONE for? How do you bounce back FASTER and STRONGER rather than wallowing around in self-pity pining away for her. My co-host Daniel Dennick is the man behind Over Her Overnight and his mission is to help YOU leave your past behind instead of leaving your behind in the past. Wait until you hear some of his 'recovery hacks'...and better yet, wait until you hear the crazy stories BOTH of us have to tell on this subject. Believe me, just about every guys has been left a wreck after a rough breakup, ourselves included. Daniel and I also answer a voicemail from Marius in New Jersey, who has had one too many bad experiences with women and is thinking he flat-out isn't attracted to ANY of them any more. As a reminder, if you like what you hear please leave us a review. Definitely also subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at http://www.chickwhispering.com. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

Prior to his current high-profile run for a US Congress seat in California, Antonio Sabato, Jr. was a former Calvin Klein underwear model who's perhaps best known for his role on TV's General Hospital. He's been in countless movies and TV shows since, and along the way has been with women like Pamela Anderson, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Virginia Madsen and Madonna. Now he's giving out all of his advice about women on his blog. Believe me, I know what you're wondering...and yes, I asked him ALL of those questions and more. So what can this guy POSSIBLY have to say that relates to you and me? Well, suffice it to say you're about to find out as you listen to this truly unique episode...which could be the strangest and most surprising one ever. Just to make things even more interesting, Antonio and I answer a great voicemail from Jason in Oakland, California who wonders how often he should call or text a woman between the first and second dates. If you're not yet getting the X & Y Communications newsletter, what are you waiting for? Get the brand new program Behind Closed Doors here: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/bcd === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

Mark Manson is a former pickup artist, wildly popular blogger, world traveler and now the wildly-popular New York Times bestselling author of The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*uck. He checked in for this episode from Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam to share adventure stories with me about world travel and the women you're likely to meet along the way. What's it like to immerse oneself in both the best AND the worst that India can possibly throw at you? What's it REALLY like to be in a Muslim country? And most of all, what are the most surprising ways that travel changes you as a human being? Count on hearing some crazy stories about everything from chess to cricket, even as we debate the psychology behind the mystique surrounding foreign women. We also throw everything we've got at a seriously deep e-mail from another Mark in Twin Falls, Idaho. He asks the existential question that haunts millions of men all over the world: 'How on Earth can I pull an endless stream of hotties while still indulging my boundless passion for fantasy novels and role playing games?' You'll be absolutely shocked by our answer... If you haven't yet gotten in on the X & Y Communications newsletter, you really should. Log in at www.thechickwhisperer.com and score a free report on how to get first dates AND second dates every time. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

It was over a few beers in Las Vegas that my co-host Dean Cortez and I decided it was time to 'break the mold' and do a completely different episode of this show. Suffice it to say that's exactly what you're about to experience. Join Mr. M.A.C.K. Tactics himself and I for a totally off-the-wall and at times completely inappropriate rant on those crazy women you see on shows like Bridezillas and Real Housewives of NJ. While we're at it, we segue into a frank discussion of how likely it is you'll actually find the woman of your dreams in another country as opposed to her getting her green card and ruining you shortly thereafter. Dean currently lives in the Philippines, so you can bet he's got a take on that. Finally, we go back and forth in response to Nate in Sacramento's question about whether or not it's a good idea to date single moms. As a special free gift, you can download Dean's decidedly edgy but totally kickin' e-book called The S.W.A.T. guide just by visiting http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/mack. It's an instant download, y'all. Also be sure to get in on the free X & Y Communications newsletter at http://www.thechickwhisperer.com. There's a special report in it for you there, too. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

Fellow gearheads and connoisseurs of fine women rejoice... Joining me for this show is Matt Farah from TV's The Car Show on Speed Channel and head car nut over at thesmokingtire.com. We hit the ground running (or make that rolling) with a great voicemail question on which car to drive if you want to attract women, but you DON'T want to look like a pretentious prettyboy. Then we dive right into the subject du jour, talking back and forth about every single thing you can think of, as long as women and cars are involved. Which cars are 'girl cars' and should therefore be avoided? What should you do if you can't exactly afford a killer ride at the moment? And what if you're stuck with a station wagon or (God forbid) a mini-van? We cover all of that and more, including some surprising info on women and motorcycles and--best of all--how to make sure the DRIVER (that's you) is doing his part to generate massive attraction in women. If you haven't yet checked out the latest X & Y Communications program The Difference, be sure to do so. Guys all over the world are already seeing stunning results: http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

Man, have you ever really WANTED to strike up a conversation with particularly sexy woman...but just drew a TOTAL BLANK? Or worse, have you ever actually STARTED talking to her only to somehow WRECK your chances--without even knowing what you said or did that messed everything up? Well, it's time to put all of those bad memories behind you forever. Joining me as co-host for this illustrious episode is fellow podcaster and dating coach Jordan Harbinger from Pickup Podcast--and we've got solutions for you that will leave you speechless. (Well, actually they'll do the EXACT OPPOSITE of that, right?) While we're at it we answer a voice mail from Nate in California who's just coming off of a LTR and is wondering how to tell when it's the right time for him to jump back into meeting and dating new women. Have you heard about the latest X & Y Communications program called The Difference? In it I finally fork over all of my very best secrets on how to be better with women at every level. Now that I'm 'retired' from dating and seduction and living the dream with Emily, I have no reason to hold back. From now on every single advantage with women that I've ever made my own can be yours also. Grab a cold one and check it all out at http://www.thedifferenceinfo.com/subscribers === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

Based on the type of e-mails we get, I can tell you that most guys are straight-up making the process of approaching and meeting women WAY more complicated than it has to be. Most of us over-analyze even the idea of approaching a woman to a fault, and assuming we ever dig ourselves out from under that we then rely on a massive system of rules, sequences and 'if/then' strategies that end up just derailing us instead of helping us reach our goals. Well, here's the simple truth: Approaching and meeting women doesn't have to be NEARLY as complicated as you think. Brad and I show you the disarmingly simple reasons why--all the while discussing the finer points of why meeting women is like sales, among other things. Plus, we take a voice mail from Craig in Colorado on how to build a social circle from scratch and hit it with a big, heavy hammer. Be sure to get in on the X & Y Communications newsletter by visiting http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ and score your copy of my latest special report called, 'Get The First Date...And The Second Date'. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!

Approaching women is one thing, but actually creating real attraction is another. And let me tell you, if there was ever a subject that confounds even the best of us at times, that's it. So how do you make a woman interested in you as more than "just friends"? And furthermore, how in the world do you get the job done without leaning on canned techniques like a crutch? Well, get ready to put this problem to bed once and for all as The Social Man's Christian Hudson and I work the issue from every angle, giving you practical tips on how to flirt effectively with women and make sure they're into you. Also, we wrestle down a tough voicemail asking why we as guys tend to "freeze up" when we're in the presence of that one particular woman we want the most. Don't forget, there's a FREE e-book on how to meet women on Twitter.com waiting for you when you signup for the X &Y Communications newsletter. http://www.twiduction.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!