Podcasts about single black women

This episode comes to you live from Las Vegas! It is the Keller Williams Family Reunion 2024 and we've gathered as a panel with friend of the podcast, Bo Menkiti, to discuss the wealth building continuum. And we aren't just talking about the wealth building continuum in general, we're talking about it from our perspective as black entrepreneurs looking to close the wealth gap for our families and communities.We don't just talk about the pillars of building wealth, we tell our personal stories with each one. We give you a front-row seat to how we worked to create value with our time and talent, and then invested and multiplied that value. We're honest about our ups and downs in building teams and learning leadership skills. We talk about how we've each found our own unique ways to protect and grow our money, based on our own unique goals and lives.Building wealth can seem impossible, but we share everything we've learned to help you get there. After all, it's going to take all of us to close the wealth gap for black and marginalized communities.Resources:Learn more at The Color of MoneyEpisode 30: Reducing Debt and BudgetingEpisode 24: Millionaire Real Estate Agent with Jason AbramsEpisode 22: Growing Multi-Generational Wealth with George FraserEpisode 17: Single Black Women with Oglah GatamahEpisode 8: My First Year As a Real Estate Agent with Montaz McCrayBecome a real estate agent HERESponsor Info:This broadcast of The Color of Money Podcast is brought to you by RIS Media Premier. RISMedia Premier offers exclusive information and insights necessary to achieve unparalleled success in real estate. All Keller Williams listeners receive $100 off their annual membership when they go to rismedia.com/premier and use coupon code RISFR24.Connect with Our HostsEmerick Peace:Instagram: @theemerickpeaceFacebook: facebook.com/emerickpeaceDaniel Dixon:Instagram: @dixonsolditFacebook: facebook.com/realdanieldixonLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dixonsolditYouTube: @dixongroupcompaniesJulia Lashay:Instagram: @iamjulialashayFacebook: facebook.com/growwithjuliaLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/julialashay/YouTube: @JuliaLashayBo MenkitiInstagram: @themenkitigroupFacebook: facebook.com/obiora.menkitiLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/bomenkiti/Produced by NOVA MediaThis podcast is for general informational purposes only. The guest's views, thoughts, and opinions represent those of the guest and not KWRI and its affiliates and should not be construed as financial, economic, legal, tax, or other advice. This podcast is 857provided without any warranty, or guarantee of its accuracy, completeness, timeliness, or results from using the information.

Today, we're confronting a critical issue head-on: Black wealth, specifically focusing on single Black women. We'll be diving into startling statistics that reveal a profound wealth gap. For instance, while single white women aged 36 to 49 have a median wealth of $42,600, single Black women's median wealth is shockingly low – as little as $5. This disparity is not just a number; it's a reality affecting countless lives.Joining us is Oglah Gatamah, an inspiring leader, philanthropist, and the operating principal owner of Keller Williams Legacy Realty in Orlando, Florida. With over two decades of experience spanning across continents, Oglah is not just a successful businesswoman; she's also a single black homeowner and mother of four. Her unique perspective and experience make her the perfect guest to discuss the solutions and strategies for empowering single black women in their financial journey.Wealth is vital, not just as assets minus debts, but as a crucial factor in managing financial emergencies, passing down wealth, and building more wealth through avenues like home ownership and entrepreneurship. However, wealth isn't equally accessible, and for Black women, this gap is starkly evident.Highlighting solutions is key, and this episode focuses on two: homeownership and supporting Black women-owned businesses. These solutions come directly from Black women and aim to provide practical pathways to narrowing the wealth gap.Resources:Learn more at The Color of MoneyFollow Oglah on FacebookConnect with Oglah on LinkedInOglah's Hope Foundation on FacebookYou Can't Improve Black Women's Economic Well-Being without Addressing Both Wealth and Income GapsBecome a real estate agent HEREConnect with Our HostsEmerick Peace:Instagram: @theemerickpeaceFacebook: facebook.com/emerickpeaceDaniel Dixon:Instagram: @dixonsolditFacebook: facebook.com/realdanieldixonLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dixonsolditYouTube: @dixongroupcompaniesJulia Lashay:Instagram: @iamjulialashayFacebook: facebook.com/growwithjuliaLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/julialashay/YouTube: @JuliaLashayProduced by NOVA MediaThis podcast is for general informational purposes only. The guest's views, thoughts, and opinions represent those of the guest and not KWRI and its affiliates and should not be construed as financial, economic, legal, tax, or other advice. This podcast is provided without any warranty, or guarantee of its accuracy, completeness, timeliness, or results from using the information.

Sadly, many Black women are suffering and even losing their lives by looking for love, often in all the wrong places. This episode shares lessons for facing the truth and being happy regardless of one's marital status. #relationshipadvice #relationshipadvice101 #relationships --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cherie-hardy/message

Sadly, many Black women are suffering and even losing their lives by looking for love, often in all the wrong places. This episode shares lessons for facing the truth and being happy regardless of one's marital status. #relationshipadvice #relationshipadvice101 #relationships --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cherie-hardy/message

Elephant in the room podcast hosted by DJ Ceesix and Dizzle the Comedian. These two are the complete opposite (Chalk and Cheese, lol), they get together weekly to discuss everything and nothing. Both Ceesix and Dizzle are of Jamaican heritage and in their 40s, and often reminisce on the old skool. WARNING!!! These two are facety and out of order, so this podcast can be raw, it could be offensive to some but one thing for sure; its always GOOD VIBES and oh yeah it's funny too. Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive additional episodes and content posted weekly.

Is is possible to have peace about being single? Listen and learn about how to stop your obsession with marriage. It is only when you can fully accept the status that God has given you in the present that you are capable of being a prospective wife in the future. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/cherie-hardy/message

Is is possible to have peace about being single? Listen and learn about how to stop your obsession with marriage. It is only when you can fully accept the status that God has given you in the present that you are capable of being a prospective wife in the future. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cherie-hardy/message

Cigar of the night: Macanudo M Bourbon Whiskey of the night: Flatlander Aleppo Is marriage & relationships the enemy of greatness? Single Black Women purchasing homes at higher rates than Black Men.

This week the hosts of the Truth's Table take over the Dope Black Women platform!This book chapter was written by Ms. Ekemini Uwan and she breaks down the chapter and why its necessary on this episode. So pull up a chair and have a seat at the table, built by Black women and for Black women!Instagram: @truthstableIf you have an idea for a Dope Black Women podcast episode, if there's a guest you would love to hear on our platform, or would like to take over the podcast, contact Info@DopeBlackWomen.org Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

At the core of the "Fearless" movement is the battle against the matriarchal culture in the black community. Nowhere is that battle more prevalent than in the seemingly adversarial relationship between single black women and black men. In a special edition of "Tennessee Harmony," Jason welcomes Shemeka Michelle, Delano Squires, Dave Shannon, and Pastor Anthony Walker to address the questions: Is there a cultural war between the sexes? What is at stake? Plus, Bryson Gray joins Jason to discuss his hit “Let's Go Brandon” and blazing a path as a Christian conservative rapper in 2022.   We want to hear from the Fearless Army!! Join the conversation in the show chat, leave a comment or email Jason at FearlessBlazeShow@gmail.com   ​​Today's Sponsor: Get a huge OctoberFeast with over four pounds of meat for FREE! Two pounds of wagyu ground beef and two and a half pounds of their better than organic chicken for FREE with any purchase of one of their bundle boxes. Go to https://GoodRanchers.com/FEARLESS to claim your special Octoberfeast offer today. Get 10% off Blaze swag by using code Fearless10 at https://shop.blazemedia.com/fearless Make yourself an official member of the “Fearless Army!”   Support Conservative Voices! Subscribe to BlazeTV at https://get.blazetv.com/FEARLESS and get $10 off your yearly subscription. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is a takeover from the Truth's Table Podcast - the book chapter was written by Ms. Ekemini Uwan and she breaks down the chapter and why its necessary on this episode. "There is a textured knowing in this book, spiritual enlightenment made brighter by the authors' own personal breakthroughs. The way they describe the fabric of our collective trauma makes me trust their solutions." Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why would someone put paintings worth millions of dollars in a dumpster? Why would a person sell a valuable bowl for a few bucks when it's really worth a few million? This happens when people don't know how valuable something is. The same is true when men don't understand that good women are priceless treasures, gifts from God. If a man isn't connected to the Almighty, he will treat women like trash and never contemplate his loss. Learn the truth about why so many Black women are single. Beautiful, kind, intelligent, generous, kind and loving women get lied to, cheated on, abused, left, and even killed. The truth is that when a man doesn't see a woman as God does, he will not be appreciate her and show respect, love, honor... to her. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/cherie-hardy/message

Why would someone put paintings worth millions of dollars in a dumpster? Why would a person sell a valuable bowl for a few bucks when it's really worth a few million? This happens when people don't know how valuable something is. The same is true when men don't understand that good women are priceless treasures, gifts from God. If a man isn't connected to the Almighty, he will treat women like trash and never contemplate his loss. Learn the truth about why so many Black women are single. Beautiful, kind, intelligent, generous, kind and loving women get lied to, cheated on, abused, left, and even killed. The truth is that when a man doesn't see a woman as God does, he will not be appreciate her and show respect, love, honor... to her. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/cherie-hardy/message

Leslie and Donna are getting a little sick and tired of the social media posts that come for Black Women over 50 who are single....for whatever reason!!! It needs to stop and some of these men's collective slips are showing! We have had enough and we speak on it this week!

I finally got to catch up with my good sis, Brittany! We chat about all things dating in Atlanta, what shows have us entertained, trusting your intuition, and not settling as black women personally or professionally. She is an intuitive black hottie, fellow podcaster (Girl, Listen), and co-creator of Black Girl Intuition, a healing space + community supportive of Black women’s self-discovery through spirituality. You can learn more about Black Girl Intuition and Girl, Listen Podcast on Instagram and Twitter at @BlackGirlIntuition and @GirlListen.Podcast respectively.Since Y’all Don’t Read is on Instagram at @sinceyalldontreadpodcastCatch up on Mia Shantel’s blog at miashantel.comEditing Credit: David Whitty-EnglandMusic Credit: UrbanGodzilla

  It’s not them...It’s YOU! Why Black Men Don't Commit… Part I (Part II next Week on the Return of Barbershop Talk) LIVE taping of "The Dedan Tolbert Show" The Original Urban Podcast Available on: I Tunes I Heart Radio Celebrating Over 1 Million Downloads! www.dedantolbertshow.com  

We need to celebrate Black women, single or not.For a shorter, more concise version of this episode, check out the article here: https://sorellamag.org/why-we-need-to-celebrate-single-black-women/.Don't forget to rate/review this show on Apple Podcasts and share it with your friends and family.Are you a Gen Z or millennial Black woman? Check out Sorella Magazine, an online publication for Black women, at https://www.sorellamag.org/. Join our community on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sorellamagazine and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sorellamagazine/, Twitter https://twitter.com/sorellamag.Support the show (http://paypal.me/SorellaMagazine)

Nicki and Kiara are back to continue the discussion of why plenty of Black women are single featuring Nicki and Kiara

We discuss with our guests about why plenty of Black women are single featuring Nicki and Kiara

A Single Black Women explains the frustrations of having no worthy Black Men To Court. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/foundationkings/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/foundationkings/support

Join us this week on All talk the podcast as me an passport cutty explore interracial relationships and the rising percentage of single black women. To catch the full episode and the tea that Cutty spilled!!!

  Have you ever had questions about why you can’t find/keep a man? If so, today I’ll be discussing “The REAL Reasons You’re SINGLE & How to Find LOVE”! LIVE RECORDING of “The Dedan Tolbert Show… The Original Urban Podcast”…CoronaVirus Lockdown Edition www.DedanTolbertShow.com $TRCWorldwide

Find out Robyn Sterns thoughts on when she find it to be a safe time to drop that deuce in a mans apartment for the first time. Also, Join us as we delve into the topic of single black women and our opinions on some of the difficulties they endure while searching for a significant other.

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In this episode, I’m chatting it up with Dr. Aesha Adams Roberts. She dishes on How Single, Black Women Entrepreneurs Can Delete Their Dating Apps - For Good Dr. Aesha is one of top dating & relationship experts for successful women, and she has masterfully coached celebrities, professional athletes and powerhouse professionals to delete their dating apps because they’ve met the man of their dreams (faster than they thought possible). She is the creator of the Be Found Dating Methodology which empowers women with tools to navigate the modern world of online dating, swiping, texting and ghosting so that they can create healthy, sustainable relationships.  Dr. Aesha has been featured on Lifetime TV, OWN’s Black Love Docuseries Live Summit, Aspire TV, The Chicago Tribune, Madame Noire, The Game Show Network, MELD, The Great Love Debate, and BlackAndMarriedWithKids.com for her unique strategies and systems that equip women of power to create the relationship they desire.  In this episode, you'll hear Dr. Aesha & I talk about: Dr. Aesha’s journey into relationship coaching, why she shifted from being a college professor to helping women experience the love they craved.How she deals with the backlash (because when I say she gives it to you STRAIGHT and drops GEMS? that’s no exaggeration)Why working with her is different and perhaps more effective than just venting to your girlfriends about your love life. How a harmful legacy of beliefs often prevents a lot of women from experiencing the kind of love they really want.Why the faith-based singles should reconsider broadcasting their decision to be celibate.How the dating and relationship advice from some of your favorite preachers makes her job harder.Why it’s so important that she gives her clients the permission to say they more of the BIG O in their lives (yep, we’re talkin’ ORGASMS).How her clients get such great results (I’m talkin’ about proposals and weddings, HUNTY!) ...and so. much. more. So grab your good girlfriend and tune in. If you enjoyed this episode and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your business takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me (@theCourtneyBowden)! To learn more about Dr. Aesha, visit her website + apply for a complementary call: www.deleteyourdatingapps.com. Now, if episode spoke to your SOUUULLLL and you want to hear more conversations and content like this, I encourage you to go ahead and subscribe and leave a review in iTunes. And, if you have questions, I’m here to help! Email any questions you have to thinklikeathoughtleader@gmail.com and I may even use your question for a future podcast episode. Thanks for listening! Did you enjoy this show? Learn how you can help keep us unbought, unbossed, and unapologetic, here. Did you enjoy this show? Learn how you can help keep us unbought, unbossed, and unapologetic, here.

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It's that time again, Episode 31!! Properly titled "Less Sex After Marriage" but there was plenty to talk about. Topics: -Rest in peace and paying respect to John "Pops" Witherspoon -Halloween and Bad Parenting: Small boy dresses as a princess to school. is that okay? he is only 3-4. -Reports show, the happiest group of people are "Single Black Women" -When is a man ready for marriage? -DOES SEX REALLY SLOW DOWN AFTER MARRIAGE? Visit our websites: www.chickenandwhiskeypodcast.com www.cawpcares.com Follow us on Instagram: @ChickenAndWhiskeyPodcast @CawpCares

Catch an all new episode of Brunching with Edigga & Leise at 11am 11/1/2019. Find out why Kirk Franklin is no longer supporting the DOVE awards, Why Black single Women are the happiest, could you stay after your spouse cheated and had an outside baby and more. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/brunchingpod/message

Motherhood. It is something that most women want to experience at some point in their life.  The older we get, the more that desire deepens. Unfortunately for most women, the prospect of finding a decent man to procreate with is very slim. Dating in 2019 is a national crisis, leaving many smart, educated women of color wondering if they will enjoy the journey of motherhood. This week, I have the pleasure of speaking with Nefertiti Austin, author of the recently published book "Motherhood So White: A Memoir of Race, Gender and Parenting in America." In this book, Nefertiti examines adoption and child-rearing as a single black woman confronting gender and racial bias. I know that in this stage of the game, many of you are considering motherhood but are feeling discouraged because you are single and believe that you cannot possibly do it on your own. This episode is for you! Tune in to hear how Nefertiti embarked on her journey to motherhood as a working, educated, single, black, women, with perfectly good eggs.  Links to book: Motherhood So White. Available on Amazon Social Media: @iamnefertitiaustin @freedas_world *FREEd'as World podcast is available on Apple, SoundCloud, Spotify and everywhere you enjoy your podcast! *Don't forget to rate subscribe and review and sign up for our mailing list on www.freedasworld.com  

A very candid discussion on the state of black women in today's dating climate. Are black women still desirable to black men? Is all hope lost? Or have the black woman's loyalty and devotion to the black man holding her back? Special guest John Palmore will help weigh in on this issue and share his personal experiences with our audience. Tune In on the first of many discussions to be had on this matter! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/diva-speaks/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/diva-speaks/support

It has been a minute! Please don't judge this episode lol it has been a minute since I've recorded, the way I pronounced "break" throughout the show is annoying but hey it is what it is. This show I'm diving into insecurities and their negative impacts, being forced into to life changes and how to cope, taking a necessary break from something or someone in life. Grow Moment - Not taking things personal Glow Moment - Recognizing how far you've come in life Spiritual Space - Not seeking revenge when you feel you've been wronged You can support this podcast by purchasing one or both of my books! Or just leave a review! https://books.apple.com/us/book/delusions-of-love/id1182250017 https://books.apple.com/us/book/denial-delusions/id1422895193

In this episode, Christina and Ekemini are joined by LaTasha Morrison, President and Founder of Be The Bridge and Lisa V. Fields President and Founder of The Jude 3 Project to discuss their experiences as single black women. You do not want to miss this important episode. Pull up a chair and bring your homegirls to the table as Ekemini, Lisa, and Tasha open up about this part of their lives. Follow LaTasha Morrison: Twitter: @LatashaMorrison, @beabridgebuilder Instagram: @LatashaMorrison Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BetheBridge/ Website: www.beabridgebuilder.com Follow Lisa V. Fields: Twitter: @LisaVFields, @jude3project Instagram: @lisavfields, @jude3project Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jude3project/ Website: www.jude3project.com Articles mentioned on this episode: 1.5 Million Missing Black Men by Justin Wolfers, David Leonhardt, and Kevin Quealy https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2015/04/20/upshot/missing-black-men.html Singleness: My Only Companion written by Ekemini Uwan https://www.christianitytoday.com/women/2017/january/singleness-my-only-companion.html Hosts: Michelle Higgins (twitter.com/AfroRising) Christina Edmondson (twitter.com/DrCEdmondson) Ekemini Uwan (twitter.com/sista_theology) Producer: Joshua Heath (twitter.com/J_DotMusic4) Executive Producer: Beau York (twitter.com/TheRealBeauYork) Special Thanks To: The Witness: A Black Christian Collective - www.TheWitnessBCC.com (twitter.com/TheWitnessBCC) Podastery - www.podastery.com (twitter.com/Podastery)

  Last week, many of you tuned into Part I of my season premier special discussing HBO’s popular drama, INSECURE. Today at 12:00pm EST, is Part II, where I’ll be discussing the entire second season including: Molly sleeping with a married man, Lawrence’s threesome with the freaky white chicks, Issa becoming more of a hoe, my predictions for Season 3 and MANY other topics… Listen LIVE by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com. “REAL Radio that Matters” #RRTM

  Not since Being Mary Jane has there been a more accurate portrayal of the REAL reasons why so many successful black women struggle with finding love. “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE TODAY at12:00pm EST with Part I of my two part, 4 hour, Fall Season Premier Special discussing HBO’s popular drama, “Insecure” and how characters like Issa, Molly & Lawrence accurately depict the ups and downs of dating/relationships in 2017. To hear what promises to be one of my realest, most informative and provocative shows ever, call 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... “REAL Radio that Matters” #RRTM #10years (all shows are archived and available for free download)

In today's episode The Matchmaking DUO, Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, talks in depth about one of their most popular blogs published on Essence.com.  "In this blog we wanted to share some myths and some facts about single Black women and a few of the challenges we hear from them when dating."  Tune in as they enter the Love Lane and see if any of these resonate with you or someone you know along with a few inside tips to overcome some of the obstacles...Matchmaker approved! Also, don't forget to register for their brand new LovHER Tour which starts June 17th in 4 cities if you're ready to jumpstart or re-ignite your love life for Summer! Info is found on all social media @thematchmakingduo. Here's to LOVE!   Music by: Sharla K.

In this exciting 25 video series, veteran advice columnist and dating expert Deborrah Cooper (Ms HeartBeat) breaks down dozens of manipulative social policies and mind games used by black males to get emotional and mental control of black women and girls.Taking single female listeners by the hand, Deborrah leads them through the minefield of the sinister, manipulative, and controlling behaviors of men. From flat out lying to using prisoner of war type mind control techniques, any single woman who is not aware of the games being played to attack her self-esteem, self worth and mental state with the goal of getting the upper hand will be a sitting duck.These guys are NOT PLAYING WITH YOU. As you go out into the world you must know how to protect yourself from those who seek to harm you and develop the skills to easily differentiate the controlling knuckleheads from the truly decent men.This index will be updated as more videos are added. The goal is to complete the Manipulatively Things series with 25 hard hitting and extremely informative videos which break down the games single men play with women.Full index to videos by title: http://wp.me/p4bZNe-CCGo directly to my page on YouTubehttp://www.youtube.com/debsterismSend me an email with topic suggestions for future video shows to survivingdating@gmail.com

In this exciting 25 video series, veteran advice columnist and dating expert Deborrah Cooper (Ms HeartBeat) breaks down dozens of manipulative social policies and mind games used by black males to get emotional and mental control of black women and girls.Taking single female listeners by the hand, Deborrah leads them through the minefield of the sinister, manipulative, and controlling behaviors of men. From flat out lying to using prisoner of war type mind control techniques, any single woman who is not aware of the games being played to attack her self-esteem, self worth and mental state with the goal of getting the upper hand will be a sitting duck.These guys are NOT PLAYING WITH YOU. As you go out into the world you must know how to protect yourself from those who seek to harm you and develop the skills to easily differentiate the controlling knuckleheads from the truly decent men.This index will be updated as more videos are added. The goal is to complete the Manipulatively Things series with 25 hard hitting and extremely informative videos which break down the games single men play with women.Full index to videos by title: http://wp.me/p4bZNe-CCGo directly to my page on YouTubehttp://www.youtube.com/debsterismSend me an email with topic suggestions for future video shows to survivingdating@gmail.com

  At 21, it feels like you have the rest of your life to find love, get married and have children… But at 31…or 41, that’s often not the case and a fear of being alone forever beings to kick in. “Ask Dedan Lunch Hour” on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE TODAY at 12:00pm EST where I’ll be discussing “Why Am I STILL Single???” To hear many of the emotional, spiritual and often sexual causes for not being able to find love, call 646 200 0366 or listen LIVE online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... “REAL Radio that Matters” ?#‎RRTM? *All shows are archived on I Tunes*

Throughout the black community one will find "the good black woman" who feels the need to give her all and be an all-around giver and supporter of the black men she dates or wants to date. She believes that by proving herself to be "a good black woman" she will get treated better, not cheated on during the dating phase, loved unconditionally, wifed up, and adored forever by these men.You'll find them by the hundreds on internet forums and social media sites, responding with pride to memes created opportunistic manipulative guys that attempt to brainwash women into serving and doing for them. She is the type that will comment that she "would spoil my king" and "prove I'm wife material" and "give him sex to keep him at home" and things of that nature.  By the time she wakes up from that delusional stupidity and reflects on how many times she's been sidelined for women who are lower in stature and accomplishment with a much poorer attitude, she's likely to be in her 40s angrily wondering why she is without the family and husband she craved when she "did everything right." "These men don't want a GOOD BLACK WOMAN" they exclaim in dismay. Well, duh. I'll tell you the reasons you need to stop being black men's Mammy and Mule or striving to be perceived as "a good black woman" on Monday, July 18, 2016 startiing at 6:30 pm PST/9:30 pm EST. 

Throughout the black community one will find "the good black woman" who feels the need to give her all and be an all-around giver and supporter of the black men she dates or wants to date. She believes that by proving herself to be "a good black woman" she will get treated better, not cheated on during the dating phase, loved unconditionally, wifed up, and adored forever by these men.You'll find them by the hundreds on internet forums and social media sites, responding with pride to memes created opportunistic manipulative guys that attempt to brainwash women into serving and doing for them. She is the type that will comment that she "would spoil my king" and "prove I'm wife material" and "give him sex to keep him at home" and things of that nature.  By the time she wakes up from that delusional stupidity and reflects on how many times she's been sidelined for women who are lower in stature and accomplishment with a much poorer attitude, she's likely to be in her 40s angrily wondering why she is without the family and husband she craved when she "did everything right." "These men don't want a GOOD BLACK WOMAN" they exclaim in dismay. Well, duh. I'll tell you the reasons you need to stop being black men's Mammy and Mule or striving to be perceived as "a good black woman" on Monday, July 18, 2016 startiing at 6:30 pm PST/9:30 pm EST. 

Imperfect Gentlemen Show - Beef with Tehran, Sensitivity, Drake, Single Black Women, Cleveland & The Warriors, Steph Curry With Special Guest: Teddra @shesteddra

Imperfect Gentlemen Show - Beef with Tehran, Sensitivity, Drake, Single Black Women, Cleveland & The Warriors, Steph Curry With Special Guest: Teddra @shesteddra

Throughout our lives, women are directed and instructed on how they "need" to be, dress, talk, walk and look to "keep a man" with the hope of keeping him around satisfied and happy enough to propose marriage. Girls learn how to dress sexy (but not too much), raise a famiily, keep a home, prepare tasty meals - all with the goal of securing a husband to take care of.But when do black men get socialized to take care of women and prove themselves to be husband-worthy? What demands do black women make, what things are black boys and young men taught they need to do and be in order to attract a quality wife? Why are demands placed on women to trot out their "wife" skills on demand, but black men don't even want to pay for a dinner date?The double standard is obvious, and we're going to discuss the finer nuances of it...something I think most women have never even considered. Join me at 7:00 pm PST for a short but powerful discussion here on BlogTalkRadio Network at www.blogtalkradio.com/askheartbeat.

Throughout our lives, women are directed and instructed on how they "need" to be, dress, talk, walk and look to "keep a man" with the hope of keeping him around satisfied and happy enough to propose marriage. Girls learn how to dress sexy (but not too much), raise a famiily, keep a home, prepare tasty meals - all with the goal of securing a husband to take care of.But when do black men get socialized to take care of women and prove themselves to be husband-worthy? What demands do black women make, what things are black boys and young men taught they need to do and be in order to attract a quality wife? Why are demands placed on women to trot out their "wife" skills on demand, but black men don't even want to pay for a dinner date?The double standard is obvious, and we're going to discuss the finer nuances of it...something I think most women have never even considered. Join me at 7:00 pm PST for a short but powerful discussion here on BlogTalkRadio Network at www.blogtalkradio.com/askheartbeat.

  In the history of television, there's never been a more accurate representation of why so many professional, successful Africa American women remain single and have trouble finding love than the popular television series “Being Mary Jane”. If you missed our all time classic two night, 6 hour special where we discussed the many examples of Emotional Unavailability seen all throughout season 1, tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT and TOMORROW at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Also, look out for our upcoming two night, 6 hour special on Being Mary Jane Season 2 and 3. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... “REAL Radio that Matters for over 10 Years”

  Did you miss our all-time classic two night, 6 hour special on “How Being Mary Jane Equals Emotional Unavailability”, where we answered every possible dating and relationship question imaginable, while breaking down Season I and explained exactly why so many successful and highly educated single black women have trouble finding love? If so, tune into Part II tonight at 9:00pm EST. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com..."REAL Radio that Matters for over 10 Years".

  Over the last several years, ABC's hit drama "Scandal" has become one of the most popular shows in the black community. This is largely due to the popularity of Kerry Washington's character, Olivia Pope, who plays the mistress of a rich and powerful white man. If you missed our classic special discussing the show and the REAL reasons for the show's popularity amongst successful African American women, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" tonight at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com..."REAL Radio that Matters for Over 10 Years" #RRTM

  Gucci, Louis, Prada everything….Hair and nails done every week…Luxury vehicle, exotic vacations several times a year etc….These are all great examples of the types of women that men looking for wives stay FAR away from. Tune into “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a rebroadcast of our special on “The Definition of a High Maintenance Woman”, where we discussed exactly what type of women the best men seek and the type of women who would be our worst nightmare. Listen to “The Dedan Tolbert Show” 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or listen online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com. “Real Radio that Matters for over 10 Years”.

  Did you miss our all-time classic two night, 6 hour special on “How Being Mary Jane Equals Emotional Unavailability”, where we answered every possible dating and relationship question imaginable, while breaking down Season I and explained exactly why so many successful and highly educated single black women have trouble finding love? If so, tune into Part II tonight at 9:00pm EST. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com..."REAL Radio that Matters for over 10 Years".

  In today's society, when discussing the challenges surrounding black women achieving love, we often hear about the lack of educated, professional black men, the high number of homosexual black men and the large amount of black men incarcerated in this country…However, we rarely hear about the promiscuity, tattoos/piercings,  emotional baggage, and overall lack of respectability that plays a huge role in many black women not being taken seriously by quality men seeking a wife. Please join me on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we discuss “Why are so Many ‘Strong' Black Women Single?” Feel free to call in with comments to 646 200 0366 or listen LIVE online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... “REAL Radio that Matters for over 10 Years” #RRTM

  While preparing for the premier of Season 2, being watched by millions every week and having terms like “empowering”, “uplifting” and “encouraging” describe it… “Being Mary Jane” on the surface, may seem like nothing more than an entertaining television drama, but in reality, it's much more and in all actuality, 100% epitomizes why thousands of single, professional, successful women seeking love fall into the 42% of not being married category. Please join me on a special LIVE edition of “Keeping it Real Fridays” on “The Dedan Tolbert Show” TONIGHT at 9pm EST, where we'll discuss how sleeping with a married man, masturbation, a lack of faith in God, low self-esteem, friends with benefits, holding onto past hurt, pain & resentment from past relationships and MANY other forms of Emotional Unavailability keep ‘Mary Jane' and the vast majority of single black women without love. To hear the solution to the never ending search for true happiness, call 646 200 0366 or listen LIVE online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com. “REAL Radio that Matters”.

Unfortunately, because they've achieved a masters degree, a doctorate, live in a nice house and have a few dollars saved up...many black single women have developed a sense of entitlement about what they feel they deserve out of a relationship. Tune into a LIVE edition of "Ask Dedan Advice Mondays" on "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST, as we discuss "Olivia Popes" recent, ridiculous quote (thats caught on like widlfire)..."EARN ME!". Call in with comments to 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com

Unfortunately, popular media outlets like Essence magazine, among others, do a great job of convincing black women that "not putting all your eggs in one basket" and dating multiple men at the same time will increase their chances of finding Mr Right. What they don't realize is, that behavior is exactly what keeps many black women single . Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we discuss "The Consequences of Dating Multiple Men". Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com

In over 5 years and 1000 shows, my 3 hour special on the hit ABC drama, Scandal, was by far the best and most informative EVER. If you missed our discussion on "Why So Many Single Black Women Love Olivia Pope", tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbert.com

Just about every single black woman I've ever come in contact with loves the new ABC drama, Scandal, starring Kerry Washington, who plays a successful, yet extremely Emotionally Unavailable lawyer. Tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST as we take an in depth look at "Olivia Pope" and discuss how she epitomizes why so many successful black women have trouble finding love. Listen LIVE by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbert.com

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Justin Norwood is the author of the article, "Single Black Women in the Church: The Issue Of Submission" at http://keepingthevision.blogspot.com/2011/09/single-women-in-church-issue-of.html During our conversation, Justin shares with us what single Black women are telling him about marriage and some of the frustration that they have experienced with Black men, what Black are saying to him about marriage, the issue of submission in a marriage, dating from of Christian perspective and words of wisdom for young Black singles that attend church. You can listen to our previous interview with Justin at http://bit.ly/kuh9VG You can touch base with Justin via: http://keepingthevision.blogspot.com/ (Blog) @MrNorwood1 (Twitter) justin.r.norwood@gmail.com (Email)

HIV is the #1 Killer of Black women between the ages of 18-45. The main reason for this is because these women are having casual sex with men in friends with benefits situations who are having SEX with multiple other women. Tonight on "The Dedan Tolbert Show", we'll discuss this epidemic as we're joined by special guest Dr. Akili Debrady, who'll give us some mind blowing statistics that ALL black women need to hear. Listen to "The Dedan Tolbert Show" 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online at DedanTolbert.com

Were you a fan of the TV show, “Girlfriends”??? Well, “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE tonight at 9pm EST to discuss the personality traits of each character and how they explain exactly why so many SUCCESSFUL black women are single and having trouble being found by Elite men. You've never heard us keep it real like we will tonight. Listen live by calling 646-200-0366 or logging onto DedanTolbert.com

I HAD ANOTHER SHOW TOPIC LINED UP FOR TODAY UNTIL SOMEONE DIRECTED ME TO THIS ARTICLE AND I IMMEDIATELY CHANGED IT TOPIC BECAUSE IT WAS SUCH AN INTERESTING QUESTION. SO BEFORE YOU CALL OR LISTEN TO THE SHOW PLEASE READ THIS ARTICLE: http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/08/10/black.church.women.single/index.html NOW ON TO THE SHOW AND THE QUESTION IS SIMPLE, DO YOU THINK THAT THE MORALISTIC STANCE THAT BLACK CHURCHES HAVE ON DATING AND MARRIAGE IS KEEPING MORE BLACK WOMEN SINGLE? THE ARTICLE HAS SOME RIVETING DATA, LIKE 42% OF BLACK WOMEN ARE SINGLE TODAY. IT ALSO STATES THAT BLACK MEN ARE LESS LIKELY TO ATTEND CHURCH TODAY. SO IF YOU ARE A CHURCH ATTENDING WOMAN AND BELIEVE THAT YOU MUST BE "EQUALLY YOKED" THEN YOU HAVE GREATLY SLIMMED DOWN YOUR DATING POOL. IT ALSO SAYS WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR THE MEN IN THE CHURCH, WHEN THEY DON'T HANG OUT THERE. IS THIS A QUESTION OF LOWERING YOUR MORALS TO MEET A MATE? IT ALSO TALKS OF HOW WOMEN LOOK UP TO THEIR PREACHERS AND HOLD THEIR MEN TO A STANDARD THAT MUST MATCH UP TO THEM, AT THEIR OWN PERIL! SUCH A GREAT ARTICLE, PLEASE READ IT FIRST AND THEN CALL IN TONIGHT AND WE CAN GO AT IT, BECAUSE I'M SURE THIS IS GOING TO BE CONTROVERSIAL! I HAVE SO MANY SINGLE FEMALE FRIENDS ON FB THAT WANT A GOOD CHURCH GOING MAN, BUT DOES THAT MAKE HIM A GOOD MAN? ARE THE ONES THAT DON'T ATTEND CHURCH REGULARLY AUTOMATICALLY CUT OUT TO YOU? PLEASE CALL IN TONIGHT WITH YOUR THOUGHTS BECAUSE I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT THIS TOPIC HITS HOME WITH MOST OF YOU FEMALES! FELLAS YOU TOO! THESE ARE OUR WOMEN AND IT'S WHATS ON THEIR MIND! LETS FIND A COMMON GROUND AND RETAKE OUR PLACE BY THE SIDE OF OUR SISTAS!

If you missed part I of my special on why so many black women are single, tune into tonight's show and then check out part II and III.

Why are black Women having such a hard time finding a man? This question has been debated from Russian TV to America's Nightline Program. Why are the Sista's single? Is this media driven Hype or are more Black Women looking at the possiblity of being alone ? Join the Carlotta Chatwood show and our panel of guests for this very controversial subject about Black Women and their search for a mate. Is it Media Hype or are we looking at a real problem in the black community. We will also discuss our news for the week and Celebrity Buzz. Every Saturday on the Carlotta Chatwood Show @11:00am-1:00pm CST. This is a open mic talk so please feel free to chime in by calling the talk line @ 718-766-4236 or join us in the chat room for more talk during show.

Join Us as we get Close-Up with Aerial Ellis of Urbane Imagery PR. Aerial M. Ellis has been named one of Nashville's Top 30 Under by The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation (CFF). Nashville’s Top 30 Under 30 is an event that recognizes the city’s young professionals and philanthropists by honoring men and women across the Mid-State who exemplify leadership qualities, are active in volunteer roles, and have excelled in the Nashville business community. Plus In Talk of the Town: Why Do Strong Women Like To Be Dominated? Masturbation In A Relationship Is Healthy, Normal and Study: Single Women of Color Age 36-49 Have Median Wealth of Just $5 All Today 2pm est. log or call to listen LIVE http://www.mostegall.com or 347-826-7120

The TB&D Enterprises Radio Network presents: "The Dedan Tolbert show", hosted by award winning author and advice columnist, Dedan Tolbert. "The Dedan Tolbert Show" airs weeknights at 9:00pm EST. In addition to giving expert dating and relationship advice, he's covered socially relevant issues like domestic violence, mental illness, HIV, abortion, as well as interviewed some of your favorite celebrity guests. Feel free to log into the chatroom and call in live with questions and comment

"The Dedan Tolbert show" has moved TO 5 NIGHTS A WEEK (Monday-Friday)!!! "The Dedan Tolbert Show" airs nationwide Monday-Friday at 9:00pm EST and is hosted by award-winning author and advice columnist , Dedan Tolbert. In addition to giving expert advice on dating and relationships, he also will be interviewing the hottest celebrity guests. Call in live with questions and comments to 646-200-0366.

"The Dedan Tolbert show" has moved TO 5 NIGHTS A WEEK (Monday-Friday)!!! "The Dedan Tolbert Show" airs nationwide Monday-Friday at 9:00pm EST and is hosted by award-winning author and advice columnist , Dedan Tolbert. In addition to giving expert advice on dating and relationships, he also will be interviewing the hottest celebrity guests. Call in live with questions and comments to 646-200-0366.