The LovHER Show

Are you one of the many women that cannot make it past the first date? Wonder why he's ghosting? In today's episode The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore take the opposite approach and share what NOT to do. Based on the popular movie, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, they share some of the top ways to turn a guy off, and fast. Tune in to the discussion and see if there are things you're doing now to turn him off or maybe you can tell a friend before it's too late. We're all a work in progress! Here's to LOVE!   Music by: Sharla K.

Did you know that failure is an art?  It's a journey where things don't go according to the original plan but you still weave your way into something beautiful with all the knowledge and experience you've learned along the way.  So often when we fail, we get discouraged and just stop dead in our tracks with feelings of defeat instead of moving on to finish the goal.  But in today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, encourage you to fail forward and arrive stronger and wiser than ever.   Tune in to hear them share stories of times they failed (some of which are now hilarious) and even gotten discouraged but why they keep moving and so can you.  Whether your past failures are in your love life, career track,  business attempts or anything else, embrace the journey and learn the art of failing forward. Here's to LOVE! Music by:  Sharla K.

So the summer has gone and with many climates cooling down substantially, it's now time to buckle down and get back into the swing of the normal routine.  Let's not forget the holiday season approaching where many are focused more on family, friends, and togetherness. As people are settling in we approach what's called "Cuffing season" and it's described as the period between autumn and winter months where singles want to be "tied down" or "cuffed" by a serious relationship. As certified coaches and professional matchmakers, our business definitely sees a drastic increase in inquiries and clients from September through April.  So we can say with certainty that Cuffing season is most definitely real. So if you're single, what are you doing from now until the rest of the year to get your "cuff" on and nestle with a new Boo this season?  Tune in as Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore tackle this topic and share some tips to implement into your routine during this time of year to get you out there and off the market. Here's to LOVE!   Music by: Sharla K. 

Hey LovHERS!! Yes, finally Season 2 is here! We've missed you! Let's catch up. Hear what we've been up to for the last several months and what to expect in season 2! Grab a beverage and tune in!   The Matchmaking DUO Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore

In today's episode we discuss the now viral Twitter post from Comedienne, Actress, and all around Sis in our head, Leslie Jones where she mentions that she's at the gym working out but wonders if it's all for nothing because no one will notice.  She talks about her fear of dying alone.  Many would look at her life and think she has everything but as Life/Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers often supporting those who seemingly have it all, we know all too well that without love, there's often a huge void longing to be filled.  What are some of the ways we support our clients and friends who feel the same way?  Tune in to hear our thoughts in hopes that it will encourage you or someone you know. Here's to LOVE! -Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, The Matchmaking DUO!   Music by: Sharla K.

In today's episode, we are thrilled to have guest LovHER Cameka Smith, Owner and Founder of the nationally acclaimed BOSS Network.  Who better to discuss the age old question of how can we find balance between being a Boss and having a fulfilling personal life than someone who is a Boss and surrounded by Boss women every single day?  As women we often feel as though we have to sacrifice success in one area for the rewards in another and even feel guilty if one part of our lives is performing better than the other.  Is it even possible to have both and if so, what are some of the ways to get there?  Join us as we delve into this topic in hopes that you would walk away with something to add to your arsenal as we all pursue bliss in both our careers and personal lives. Here's to BLISS! -Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, The Matchmaking DUO!   Music by:  Sharla K.

We often hear the words, "New Year, New You!" and at the turn of the year, we take a moment to think about what we accomplished and what we want to do differently.  As Life Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, our focus is usually geared toward setting goals for our client's personal lives.  Work and Career is relatively good, even if it's not exactly where you want to be, it's good.  So what are your goals this year for your personal life and how can you reach them?  Tune in as we discuss some of our own goals and share some of the tools we arm our clients with to find their way to a rewarding well-balanced life. Join our discussion and see what you can do to enhance your goal setting for the new year!  We're rooting for you. P.S. Join our new Facebook Community, Hey LovHERS!, to continue to conversation.  https://www.facebook.com/groups/132472490884188/ Here's to LOVE!! -Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, The Matchmaking DUO!     Music by: Sharla K.  

As Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, we've been fortunate enough for the last 3 1/2 years to write for Essence.com and one person we've always admired as part of the Essence family is the incomparable Mikki Taylor.  She's fierce, she's fabulous, and always shows up with her infectious smile and humble spirit.  Not to mention, as former Beauty Editor she boasts her classic style with just enough edge to make you turn your head.  We invited Mikki to join us today to share some inspiration and tips around how to discover your inner and outer beauty since both are critical to showing up as your best self, getting noticed, and sustaining a long-term meaningful relationship.  Let's face it if you're single, your outward appearance and confidence appears first and then your conversation (your smile, your warm demeanor, your inner most qualities) will determine whether someone wants to know you better.  The importance of inward beauty cannot be dismissed.  You won't want to miss this conversation.  Mikki schools us all with her wisdom today and will leave you wanting more. Here's to LOVE!  -Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, The Matchmaking DUO!     Music by: Sharla K.

So you're single and the holidays are coming? No reason to sulk. Here are 10 ways to help you not only get through but the enjoy the fun along the way!   @thematchmakingduo    

Melissa J. Nixon is am Auther, Executive Leadership Coach, and Trainer! She is passionate about helping women experience joy because she desperately fought for it in her own life.  She always seemed to be on an emotional roller coaster after suffering from traumatic loss, continuously battling her weight, and feeling disconnected from her purpose. After being tired of what seemed like a never-ending cycle, lots of prayer, and truly discovering how to walk by faith, she transformed her life.  Melissa talks about the principles and steps she took with everyone she meets.  She became vigilant about creating the change she needed. Now, living her purpose and delighted with life…she shows women how to do and become the same. Join us as we share what we do every December with all of you and invite you to join us as we refuel, recharge and get ready for the new year!   The Matchmaking DUO

“You must create memories in order to be remembered.” When we coach our clients we quote this hundreds of times. Making memories strengthens the bonds between you and those you love.  You should blend old and new traditions to create your own holiday love legacy. Need some inspiration? These nine ideas will get you started.

Dorinda Walker is an Inspirational Warrior, Survivor and Multicultural Marketer, who holds the title of Vice President within Prudential Financial, Inc. Rising above her childhood difficulties, Dorinda Walker has based her career on expanding new business opportunities and financial education among diverse markets. She focuses her efforts on important areas such as targeted marketing, strategic planning, sponsorship event planning, program management and community engagement.   What is most compelling about her corporate position is the path she took to arrive there. This includes being born to heroin-addicted parents, surviving physical abuse, attempting suicide, dropping out of high school and living a dangerous street life as a teenager. Walker channelled her ‘street smarts' to rise up the corporate ladder and tell her story to thousands of people every year. Walker's mission is to inspire individuals who are thrown into dysfunctional circumstances, to face the voices of doubt and fear and still press forward. Her goal is to help them not only survive, but to overcome by achieving success and fulfilling their life's purpose.   In her first book “Protected By Purpose” Walker dives into her life story and provides the success secrets that allowed her to transition from a path to prison to becoming one of the fastest rising brands in corporate America. She tackles issues that affect many individuals today. Being born into a dysfunctional family, battling addiction and its consequences on the family, mental illness, domestic violence, and overcoming low self-esteem.  Walker gives affirmations and shares the lessons she learned to help others overcome similar issues.  She gives readers a deep understanding on how through it all, you can turn these tragedies into triumphs with love, faith, and forgiveness—this book will inspire readers to know that they can empower themselves to not only survive, but go on to achieve success beyond their wildest dreams with distinct purpose.   Walker has received several distinguished honors and awards for her community and corporate service. Most recently recognized by The Network Journal as one of the 2017 Top 25 Influential Black Women in Business, and by Forbes as one of the Top Black Leaders and Speakers in the country. Walker is a graduate of the Woman's Unlimited TEAM Program, a nationally acclaimed management and leadership development program for high-potential women.  

Have you noticed that the longer you live and experience life and the more you expand your horizons in your career, worldview, and just striving to reach your goals relationships with friends start to shift?  What are some things to look out for to determine who should stay and who should be removed from your life?  Or do you just let everyone stay close just because they've been there from Day 1 and have earned their spot on the front row of your life?  Certified Life and Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore "The Matchmaking DUO!" bring awareness to this topic in this episode with some things to think about to help you decide.  Who stays and who should go?  Tune in to find out... Here's to LOVE!!   Music by:  Sharla K.

Guess what?  Everyone enters this world as a single human being  not in a relationship, not married, or attached.  But somewhere along the way, there becomes a perception on both sides that it's uncomfortable in certain social settings for single and marred people to dwell together.  As Life and Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore set the record straight by stating what so many people on both sides have shared with them, and some things to think about to make these gatherings more comfortable.  Whether it's the good old end of the year holiday parties, that wedding where you're automatically put at the dreaded "singles table" in the back corner with no option for a +1, a cookout hosted by family or a friend who is now married, or that evening work function or bonus trip you won where everyone gets to meet all the spouses or significant others. Is there a need for singles to be apprehensive about showing up solo for fear of being left in the corner with the wives giving the side eye as if they're the plague or automatically thinking they must want their man?  Or is it all in the mind?  Married couples when is the last time you made an extra effort to initiate conversation with a single person in the room to say hello and see what you might have in common? Ultimately, everyone can arrive at these functions and have a good time if their mindset is where it needs to be and each person makes an extra effort to show love and include everyone regardless of their marital status. Tune in to hear The Matchmaking DUO's thoughts on the matter.  What do you think? Here's to LOVE!!     Music by Sharla K.

In today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore discuss how being transparent and authentic is important in all forms of relationships.  But how does one go about it without sharing too much or too little?  How do you transition from being the leader and the "go-to" person to sharing more personal details about yourself, your situation, and even what you might need?  Yes it will take a little getting used to.  But on the other side awaits deeper emotional connections and a community of people who can be there for you and show up knowing what you need and how you need it.  Exhale, we hear your sigh of relief!  Tune in for an honest discussion around the topic and tips to help you move forward. Here's to LOVE!!   Music by:  Sharla K.

In today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore talk about the importance of being flexible.  As Certified Life/Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, they noticed over time how the most successful people in love and life have many things in common; one of which is the ability to have an open mind, embrace new opportunities, and be open to seeing things differently with a belief that there are many points of view.  Being rigid often stifles growth and even in relationships can appear as if the person doesn't care, isn't interested in hearing another's viewpoint, or even unwilling to consider others wants and needs because when compared to "the routine" that works and is in place, everything else is a non-factor.  Are there areas in your life that can be more fluid?  The answer should always be YES!  It doesn't mean that you don't have requirements but often the solution to many challenges in life are to look at it in unconventional ways.  Being flexible makes the journey much more interesting and fun!  Wouldn't you agree?  Here's to LOVE!   Music by:  Sharla K.

In today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO (Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore) explores the psyche of a Black man when it comes to relationships with topics like culture, environment, life's pressures, and family.  Guest speaker, psychologist, and friend, Dr. George James helps decipher many of the top questions raised from female clients who yearn to know things like why is it sometimes difficult for men to commit or how can we best support Black men in relationships, especially with specific challenges that hit them often. How can we create a safe space for better communication and based on his research and being a Black man, what do Black men dream of when it comes to the perfect mate?  Join us for this lively and insightful conversation as we grow and learn more about each other!  Here's to LOVE! 

Have you seen the new blockbuster movie ,"Girls Trip" yet?  Our hosts, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore did and boy was it hilarious.  There were so many themes that triggered thoughts of what is important in life; from the importance of great friends, having intentional fun, and the list goes on and on.  Tune in as Kelli and Tana switch gears from business partners to girlfriends as they recall their movie experience and how we can all use some of the lessons learned to live our best life.  Here's to LOVE!

Hey LovHERS!  Whether you're married, dating, or single you should always be armed with a little variety in the types of dates you go on or can suggest.  Dinner and a movie is fine but after a while, what else is there?  In today's episode, Certified Life and Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, affectionately known as The Matchmaking DUO, share some amazing date ideas that will help create memories all while having fun and won't break the bank.  And guess what?  Many of these suggestions you can enjoy solo if you haven't met "the one" yet because it adds depth to the conversation and your answer to the age old question, "So tell me about yourself" which is sure to come on the first or second date.  Break up the monotony, enjoy some new experiences, and have much more to bring to the table no matter what stage of a relationship you're in.  Have fun and Here's to LOVE!     Music by: Sharla K.

As Certified Life/Relationship Coaches and owners of one of the most sought after Matchmaking agencies in the country, we are surrounded by single women and men who are looking for love.  One of the biggest complaints we hear these days from women is that many men they meet feel they don't have to invest as much time or effort anymore in the dating process and some men are wanting more in exchange for less early on in a relationship.  Has this happened to you or someone you know?  Well in today's episode we are calling out some of the most common scenarios we see in the dating world and giving our Matchmaker approved tips on how to handle them.  No more letting him "skate" around you.  Instead, starting today, listen in to learn practical tips on how to make dating first a requirement to get to know each other on a deeper level and ultimately move the relationship to commitment.  Yes it can be done.  Here's to LOVE!!     Music by:  Sharla K.

Hey LovHERS!  We were so thrilled to join Essence.com's YesGirl! podcast last week as guests of the show.  The topic was, "Why would you choose a matchmaker?"  It was so much fun chatting it up with the hosts because we all realized that often people will think they understand what matchmaking is but because it's not commonplace, there are probably so many versions dancing around in their minds about what it really is.  Make sure you tune in to YesGirl! at essence.com/podcasts to hear our answers to their questions and listen in here today as we dispel many of the myths you might hear floating around so you can be more informed about what we do and how it all works. Here's to LOVE!     Music by: Sharla K.    

Does it seem like figuring out what a man is thinking in a relationship is super complicated and hard to decipher?  Why is that?  In today's episode The Matchmaking DUO, Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, uncovers what they've learned on the subject over the years which is that men are really not that difficult to understand at all.  They are often direct communicators but we as women sometimes find the need to hear what they say and take it one step further i.e. "Hmmm, but what is he REALLY trying to say?"  What would happen if we take their words at face value?  Tune in as we discuss the most common responses men offer in various situations and what they mean to you.  Add this to your communication toolbox and check them off your list.  Here's to LOVE!     Music by:  Sharla K.

In today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore discuss some practical tips to maximize your season of singleness.  If you're actively doing things or putting yourself in position to be found, your single season is just that," a season" and it's only a matter of time before you meet someone interesting who you want to pursue a relationship with.  But in the meantime, there are so many things you can do now that you're not attached that you can explore and enjoy on your own without your new mate's approval and the flexibility you have now is something you may not have so freely available when you get married.  Yes you'll be with the love of your life but remember, now there will be 2 schedules, 2 opinions, a shared direction for the relationship and family, financial and professional goals that need to be prioritized, etc.  So tune in as Kelli and Tana offer suggestions of how to maximize your time in this single season so you can enjoy it to the fullest while you can! Here's to LOVE!     Music by:  Sharla K.

In today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore have invited special guest, Dr. Terri Orbuch (PhD), The Love Doctor, in to discuss 4 cues to distinguish between lust and love and she also talks about the science of happy relationships.  Dr. Terri is an author, speaker, therapist, and has published over 1000 articles as well as being featured on numerous media platforms including The Wall Street Journal, NY Times, USA Today, Cosmopolitan, The Today Show, CNN, and the list goes on and on.  One of the most interesting parts of Dr. Terri's work is the fact that she has followed over 700 couples for over 30 years and through this research she has been able to track trends of success and failure.  This data can be useful to all of us as we seek to either find a new relationship or make the one we're in, great.  So tune in as we use science and research to help us not reinvent the wheel.  Are you in?  I know we are.  Here's to LOVE!   Music by: Sharla K.  

As Certified Life/Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, every client we serve is required to begin their journey with some form of personal coaching and one of the biggest hurdles we often have to work on is overcoming fear. Whether it's the fear of believing it's possible to find "the one", the fear of launching into a new approach to dating, the fear of "if" they can finally get this relationship thing right, or even the fear of starting over yet again.  In today's episode, join us as we tackle the larger subject of fear in life itself and how it can often carry over into other areas of our lives.  Think of all that you've overcome overall and let us help you transfer that resolve into your love life!  You can do it!  We're always rooting for you!  Here's to LOVE!! Kelli and Tana, "The Matchmaking DUO!"     Music by: Sharla K.

In today's episode The Matchmaking DUO, Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, talks in depth about one of their most popular blogs published on Essence.com.  "In this blog we wanted to share some myths and some facts about single Black women and a few of the challenges we hear from them when dating."  Tune in as they enter the Love Lane and see if any of these resonate with you or someone you know along with a few inside tips to overcome some of the obstacles...Matchmaker approved! Also, don't forget to register for their brand new LovHER Tour which starts June 17th in 4 cities if you're ready to jumpstart or re-ignite your love life for Summer! Info is found on all social media @thematchmakingduo. Here's to LOVE!   Music by: Sharla K.

In today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore discuss in detail one of the recurring themes they see with clients who are successfully matched...optimism. Optimism is defined as "hopefulness and confidence about the future or the successful outcome of something." Why is it that some people find love faster than others, even if they're dedicating to looking on their own?  Of course being optimistic isn't the only factor, but it plays a huge part in having self confidence, being joyful with others, and ultimately The Law of Attraction sets in. Even in marriage we would dare to say your level of optimism can fuel you through tough times and those rough patches that are sure to come.  Knowing this is just a bump in the road as opposed to "well this is the end" can be the difference you need to make it through.  Whether you're feeling fully optimistic today or need some help to get there, tune in to hear more about the topic and be inspired to be optimistic each and every day!  Here's to LOVE!   Music by: Sharla K.

In today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore chat it up with the beautiful, intelligent, and single National TV and Radio personality, Jacque Reid!  "We are so honored to have Jacque as a guest on our show and it will be fun to switch hats since we have been her guest several times on the Tom Joyner radio show.  The pressure is on now as the interviewer now becomes the interviewee!"  Tune in as we talk about everything from the tenacity Jacque had as a budding journalist, to her big jump to BET news, and now all of the exciting things on the horizon along with her passion for encouraging singles to live their best life! So much so that she started a website www.singleandlivingfab.com! What better guest to talk about this topic than someone who is already living it?   Join us as Jacque shares with us the inside scoop on how to be single, successful, and living a fabulous life!  Here's to LOVE!!   Music by: Sharla K.

Whether you're single, married, male, female, young or "seasoned", guess what?  We're all sexual beings.  Yes we said the word, SEX!  As Certified Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore often hear lots of questions in the privacy of their office around challenges clients have experienced with sexless marriages, celibacy, menopause, erectile dysfunction, wanting to spice up their marriage, and the list goes on and on.  Why is the topic of sex so taboo anyway?  Tune in to Episode 13 as they ask their guest of the hour, Dr. Tamara Griffin, Certified Clinical Sexologist, Sex Therapist, Author, and Speaker many of the most frequently asked questions that come to them.  Grab a cup of something warm and let's go in!  Here's to LOVE!     Music by:  Sharla K.

Today on Episode 12, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore tackle the Life Lane.  As we all move closer to rounding out the first half of the year, there may be many New Years Resolutions and goals set months ago that have officially fallen by the wayside by now and you're breathing a sigh of anxiety or feelings of failure.  But guess what?  There's hope and with each new day brings a fresh opportunity to get back on track.  Maybe you want a career change; maybe you said you would write a book; maybe you wanted to lose weight or live a healthier lifestyle; or just maybe you said this is the year you'll do some things differently to find or keep the love of your life.  As Certified Life and Relationship Coaches, Kelli and Tana work with clients every day to take their initial goal and help move it forward to fruition.  Tune in to hear some tips to get you back on track to make your goals and dreams a reality!  We're rooting for you!   Music by Sharla K    

As Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, we meet countless women and some men too, who are facing the dilemma of their education and careers taking off but their personal life has left them lonely and unfulfilled.   But guess what we've discovered?  It's OK and there's still HOPE!  Starting today, use these matchmaker approved tips to shift your priorities from your career to finding a loving, committed relationship.  And guess what?  Kelli and Tana, "The Matchmaking DUO", will share a very special offer for their LovHER Show audience only, to help their women of power be just as successful at finding love as they are in the boardroom, the operating room, or whatever area of business they command.  Let's go LovHERS!  Here's to LOVE!

Has it been a while since you've been in a serious, exclusive relationship?  As Relationship Coaches and Certified Matchmakers, many of our clients have taken the fast track in achieving their educational goals and even their careers and then realized either they never met someone special along the way or now that they're settled professionally, it's time.  But then after you've found someone who piques your interest and gives you those butterflies we're often asked, "How do I know when it's time to move this relationship forward?"  Join us today as we share our insight on a few things to look for to help you know it's time to forsake all others and give this one a real chance.  After all, it's love you want right?  We're always rooting for you!  Here's to LOVE! -Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, The Matchmaking DUO!   Music by: Sharla K.  

In today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO tackles one of the most frequently asked questions that comes to them as Life and Relationship Coaches, "How can I ever survive after my divorce?"  Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore say although it can be a very painful process at times, you can not only survive you can get to the place where you thrive and emerge as an even better version of YOU!  Join them as they take you through their own journeys after divorce along with some nuggets they've collected along the way from clients and friends who have gone through it and WON.  The goal is to realize it's a process and once you go through it, not around it, you will be victorious and a better mate the next time around.  Here's to LOVE!     Music by: Sharla K.

Do you often find yourself stuck in relationships, life, or business and wonder "what on earth could help me over the hump?  What's holding me back from being fulfilled and going for the things I know I can have?"  As Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers there are many clients who come to us at a crossroads, looking for direction and relief from habits and patterns that are just not working and quite frankly they don't know how to overcome them.  So we thought for today's episode, why not invite our good friend, Jack A. Daniels, The King of Breakthroughs, Psychotherapist, Host of the TV show BlackLove, and International speaker and coach to share some tips with us on how to move forward.  Don't let fear, past mistakes, negative people or self-doubt hold you back any longer.  Today we're facing it head on and starting the journey to success!   Music by:  Sharla K.

Today's episode focuses on the art of having a happy marriage.  Whether you're newly married, single and hoping to be married one day, or years into a good marriage but always open to making it better, Senior Relationships and Lifestyle Editor of Essence.com and Founder of ManWifeandDog.com, Charli Penn, joins us to give her top tips for a happy marriage.  None of us really know what to expect the moment we say, "I do"and how much work and compromise it takes when you integrate two lives together.  Each journey is different.  But the great news is, marriage can be wonderful and with these tips and tools, you will be well on your way to add spice, fun, and longevity to your marriage. We're so thrilled that Charli has joined us. Tune in for girl talk, laughter, and insider tips from one of the top relationship editors in the country and our happily married diva girlfriend! 

In today's episode, we're tackling the BLISS lane.  Have you ever considered the importance of being happy?  Where does your life rank today on the happiness meter? As life happens, we are hit with failed relationships, dysfunctional families, changes in careers and jobs, stressed finances, and the list goes on and on.  But as Life and Relationship Coaches, we have discovered in our own journeys how absolutely key it is to find and seek happiness no matter where life takes you.  What's holding you back from having the happiness you deserve?  A person?  Lack of purpose?  Health challenges?  Loneliness? Hurt feelings?  Let's delve into this together and find your happy place together!!   Music by Sharla K.    

As Life/Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, our company has become one of the most sought after matchmaking agencies in the U.S.  So how can we help our clients find love without tackling the biggest elephant in the room in the relationship space? Online dating!. Some clients want very personalized and premium matchmaking (which is our speciality) and some want assistance with the plethora of dating sites not knowing which way to turn or why many friends have met the love of their life online and you haven't!  What's missing?  So we thought we would share with you a few of the top mistakes people make with online dating to empower you to go back at it again and give it a whirl.  We know many of these sites are paid and you want to make the best use of your investment, right?  Listen to our matchmaker-approved tips to consider so you can go from losing to winning online!   We're rooting for you!   Music by Sharla K. 

So often when we're guest speakers at women's empowerment conferences, we are asked to speak about overcoming obstacles.  In our personal trials of life, we've had our fair share of hiccups, curve balls, and uphill battles.  But we're still here and thankfully stronger and wiser than ever for it.  Today, you see us all put together, running a successful company, and appearing on major television and radio platforms.  But tune in to hear just a few of the major challenges we've had to endure to arrive where we are and now we can share our personal journeys to encourage all of you.  Just remember, if we can rise above it all so can you!    Music by Sharla K.