Bold as Love with April Boyd

No one warns you about this part of love. One day you look across the table at the person you built a life with—and ask yourself: What if I made a huge mistake? You have spent years getting to know them better than they may even know themselves- and some of it's ugly. And you wonder: Is this still workable—or am I just fooling myself?In this episode of Is It Me or Is It Them?, we're talking about the part of long-term relationships that doesn't get enough acknowledgment: The moment when your partner's flaws aren't just annoying, they are damn right repulsive, infuriating—and they make you question everything.Here's what we explore:Why seeing the worst in your partner is sometimes inevitable—and what it meansThe difference between difficult and deal breakerHow your nervous system interprets relationship conflict as dangerThe internal process you need to go through before making major decisionsWhy even good people can still be wildly incompatible sometimesWhat to do when love starts to feel like work you don't want to doWhether you're in the middle of a long slow burnout or just hit a bump that's bigger than usual, this conversation is here to bring some clarity, calm, and honest reflection.Mentioned in this episode: → The Reset Your Relationship audio program – now self-paced and audio-only, for busy people doing hard relationship work. Check it out here.If this episode resonates, share it with someone else who's wondering what's “normal” in long-term love—and what isn't. And as always, thank you for being here.Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

What do you do when the problem isn't just your in-laws—but your partner's refusal to set limits with them?In today's episode of Is It Me or Is It Them? we're talking about one of the most painful and confusing dynamics that shows up in relationships: when your partner won't back you up, won't speak up, and won't protect the boundaries that matter to you.You're not imagining it. You're not being too sensitive. You're not crazy—you're just outnumbered.Here's what we'll explore:Why your partner might be avoiding hard conversations with their family (even when they agree with you privately)How your people-pleasing, approval-seeking tendencies might be keeping you stuckWhy waiting for your partner to “handle it” often backfiresWhat it looks like to stop outsourcing your self-respectThe mindset shift that changes everything: Above no one. Below no one.You'll also hear a real (anonymous) client story about what changed when she stopped trying to get her partner to fix it—and started showing up as her own steady, grounded, grown-ass self.This is not about going to war. This is about stepping out of the dance of dysfunction and giving yourself permission to speak truth, hold the line, and take up space—with clarity and dignity.If this episode resonates, I'd love if you shared it with someone who needs to hear it. And if you're ready to go deeper into the work of getting on the same page as your partner, check out the Reset & Reconnect program here.Thanks for listening. I'm so glad you're here.Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

In today's episode, we're pulling back the curtain on a cultural trend that might seem harmless, but actually functions as a form of social control: the "Karen" meme.While it may have started as a way to call out rude or entitled behaviour, it's morphed into something much darker—something that often punishes women for speaking up, setting boundaries, or simply taking up space. Especially as they age.Drawing on personal experience and research, April unpacks how the Karen label is weaponized to silence assertiveness in women, while men exhibiting the same behaviours are often rewarded or even celebrated.What We Explore in This Episode:

Send us a textWelcome back to Is It Me or Is It Them? After a short break, I'm so glad to be back with you—and today, we're diving into something that comes up all the time in relationships: the fear of speaking up.You might think the problem is that you don't know how to say it. But what if the real issue is that you don't think you're allowed to?In this episode, we'll explore:Why many people struggle to voice their needs, even when the words are right thereThe cultural and relational conditioning that makes speaking up feel unsafeHow guilt, shame, and people-pleasing silence us—and what that silence costsA mindset shift that can help you speak with more clarity, confidence, and careWhat to ask yourself when you're stuck between honesty and harmonyWhether you're dealing with in-laws, a disconnected partner, or a moment where your heart is screaming to say something but your mouth won't move—this conversation will help you start untangling the inner blocks to speaking your truth.Mentioned in this episode:My break from the podcast and why honouring your own season mattersThe importance of knowing your intentions before having a hard conversationWhat it looks like to be direct and kind (at the same time)If this episode resonates, I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a review or share it with a friend. And if you're navigating these kinds of stuck points in your own relationship, check out the Reset & Reconnect program here.Thanks for listening—I'll see you next time.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Welcome back to Is It Me or Is It Them? After a short break, I'm so glad to be back with you—and today, we're diving into something that comes up all the time in relationships: the fear of speaking up.You might think the problem is that you don't know how to say it. But what if the real issue is that you don't think you're allowed to?In this episode, we'll explore:Why many people struggle to voice their needs, even when the words are right thereThe cultural and relational conditioning that makes speaking up feel unsafeHow guilt, shame, and people-pleasing silence us—and what that silence costsA mindset shift that can help you speak with more clarity, confidence, and careWhat to ask yourself when you're stuck between honesty and harmonyWhether you're dealing with in-laws, a disconnected partner, or a moment where your heart is screaming to say something but your mouth won't move—this conversation will help you start untangling the inner blocks to speaking your truth.Mentioned in this episode:My break from the podcast and why honouring your own season mattersThe importance of knowing your intentions before having a hard conversationWhat it looks like to be direct and kind (at the same time)If this episode resonates, I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a review or share it with a friend. And if you're navigating these kinds of stuck points in your own relationship, check out the Reset & Reconnect program here.Thanks for listening—I'll see you next time.Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textToday we explore two reasons why  the heavy burden many women feel when juggling responsibilities in their personal and professional lives. The conversation dives into the cultural expectations that lead to overfunctioning, how these beliefs impact relationships and why over-working becomes a stress management tool you probably don't even notice you're using.• Discussing the overwhelming mental load women carry • Societal expectations and the "good wife" stereotype • The correlation between overfunctioning and self-worth • Unpacking overfunctioning as a coping strategy for stress • Challenging fears of being seen as demanding in relationships • Introducing the Reset and Reconnect Program to help shift dynamics Come check out Reset and Reconnect and see if this program feels right for you.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textToday we explore two reasons why  the heavy burden many women feel when juggling responsibilities in their personal and professional lives. The conversation dives into the cultural expectations that lead to overfunctioning, how these beliefs impact relationships and why over-working becomes a stress management tool you probably don't even notice you're using.• Discussing the overwhelming mental load women carry • Societal expectations and the "good wife" stereotype • The correlation between overfunctioning and self-worth • Unpacking overfunctioning as a coping strategy for stress • Challenging fears of being seen as demanding in relationships • Introducing the Reset and Reconnect Program to help shift dynamics Come check out Reset and Reconnect and see if this program feels right for you.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textThe episode dives deep into the often-overlooked dynamic where one partner assumes a parental role over the other. We explore the roots of this behavior, how it can backfire, and actionable ways to restore balance in relationships. • The pitfalls of becoming a caretaker rather than a partner • How societal expectations play into relationship dynamics • Strategies for breaking the cycle of over-functioning Check out the "Reset and Reconnect" program for couples ready to evolve their relationship dynamics! Get all the details here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textThe episode dives deep into the often-overlooked dynamic where one partner assumes a parental role over the other. We explore the roots of this behavior, how it can backfire, and actionable ways to restore balance in relationships. • The pitfalls of becoming a caretaker rather than a partner • How societal expectations play into relationship dynamics • Strategies for breaking the cycle of over-functioning Check out the "Reset and Reconnect" program for couples ready to evolve their relationship dynamics! Get all the details here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textWe all know that building healthy relationships requires open communication- but what when they don't want to hear what you have to say?  What about those times when it just seems to cause or fight- or worse- leaves you feeling dismissed and ignored?When it doesn't feel it's okay to say what you need to say, you can develop a habit of biting your tongue, stuffing down your needs, and just trying harder to be more tolerant, more understanding, more forgiving.But this doesn't get us what we want- and sometimes, like in my story that I'm sharing with you here- it's actually just makes things worse.So today we're diving deep into the self-sacrificing and peace-making tendencies that can create emotional distance and contribute to the erosion of a relationship over time.  Reset & Reconnect is open! This is a course for couples who want to create more balance, have more productive conversations and get back to things feeling fun and easy again.Get all the details here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textWe all know that building healthy relationships requires open communication- but what when they don't want to hear what you have to say?  What about those times when it just seems to cause or fight- or worse- leaves you feeling dismissed and ignored?When it doesn't feel it's okay to say what you need to say, you can develop a habit of biting your tongue, stuffing down your needs, and just trying harder to be more tolerant, more understanding, more forgiving.But this doesn't get us what we want- and sometimes, like in my story that I'm sharing with you here- it's actually just makes things worse.So today we're diving deep into the self-sacrificing and peace-making tendencies that can create emotional distance and contribute to the erosion of a relationship over time.  Reset & Reconnect is open! This is a course for couples who want to create more balance, have more productive conversations and get back to things feeling fun and easy again.Get all the details here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textAre you feeling the anxiety & stress that's all around us right now? Me too. That's why I decided to put some energy into the things I can control - and I'm inviting you to do the same by channelling your anxiety into your purpose. This conversation is a call to action for those with a yearning to share their ideas—whether it's writing a book, launching a business, or starting a nonprofit. Join me Saturday for a free workshop, Create & Contribute, where I'm going to share some of the questions I ask myself and processes I use when I am beginning a new project or putting my work out into the world.Sign up here.Right now the world needs more acts of care, service & contribution.  We need more do-gooders. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textAre you feeling the anxiety & stress that's all around us right now? Me too. That's why I decided to put some energy into the things I can control - and I'm inviting you to do the same by channelling your anxiety into your purpose. This conversation is a call to action for those with a yearning to share their ideas—whether it's writing a book, launching a business, or starting a nonprofit. Join me Saturday for a free workshop, Create & Contribute, where I'm going to share some of the questions I ask myself and processes I use when I am beginning a new project or putting my work out into the world.Sign up here.Right now the world needs more acts of care, service & contribution.  We need more do-gooders. Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textCan a simple act of validation shift our relationships, both personally and professionally? Join me, April Boyd, as I share insights from my facilitator training session on the "Is it Me or Is it Them" podcast. We'll explore why acknowledging emotions is a critical ingredient in creating genuine connections, helping others and avoiding conflict. Whether you're consoling a grieving friend, having a difference of opinion with a colleague, or talking to your partner, understanding the power of validation is key to ensuring everyone feels truly heard and understood. I delve into practical strategies to incorporate this essential tool into your everyday interactions, promising a new level of effective communication and deeper connection.But that's not all! I extend an invitation to a free workshop aimed at helping you get your gifts and ideas into the world.This Saturday at 11 am Eastern, we gather for our first session of the "do-gooders club," a place to share your ideas, get support and ask me any questions about how I've wrote my books, created the Love & Loss Project or grew my private practice. Whether you're dreaming of writing a book, starting a business, or simply spreading kindness when this world needs it most, this session offers encouragement, clarity, and community support. Your ideas hold immense power, and together, we can harness it to make a meaningful impact in the world. Join us to fuel your imagination and contribute to a kinder, gentler world.SIGN UP FOR THE WORKSHOP HERE:https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/b569939dk0Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textCan a simple act of validation shift our relationships, both personally and professionally? Join me, April Boyd, as I share insights from my facilitator training session on the "Is it Me or Is it Them" podcast. We'll explore why acknowledging emotions is a critical ingredient in creating genuine connections, helping others and avoiding conflict. Whether you're consoling a grieving friend, having a difference of opinion with a colleague, or talking to your partner, understanding the power of validation is key to ensuring everyone feels truly heard and understood. I delve into practical strategies to incorporate this essential tool into your everyday interactions, promising a new level of effective communication and deeper connection.But that's not all! I extend an invitation to a free workshop aimed at helping you get your gifts and ideas into the world.This Saturday at 11 am Eastern, we gather for our first session of the "do-gooders club," a place to share your ideas, get support and ask me any questions about how I've wrote my books, created the Love & Loss Project or grew my private practice. Whether you're dreaming of writing a book, starting a business, or simply spreading kindness when this world needs it most, this session offers encouragement, clarity, and community support. Your ideas hold immense power, and together, we can harness it to make a meaningful impact in the world. Join us to fuel your imagination and contribute to a kinder, gentler world.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textIs it just a rough patch or a sign of a deeper relationship issue? This is the question I should have been asking during my first marriage and today I'm finally going to share my story. Join me, April Boyd, as I unravel the complexities of relationship dynamics, unpacking the difference between temporary stressors and recurring patterns that may indicate something more serious. Through my personal experiences, I touch on the importance of recognizing when a pattern of feeling unseen and unheard becomes too persistent to ignore. This conversation invites you to reflect on your own relationships and consider whether your struggles are truly temporary or symptoms of a larger issue that needs your attention.As we explore this topic, I'm thrilled to introduce an upcoming program designed to transform relationships by going deeper into your own personal growth, and reconnecting with the stronger, happier version of you as you change the ways you and your partner communicate and connect.  Don't miss your chance to be part of this transformative journey; sign up for my email list to receive exclusive updates and invitations. Thank you for joining me on this path to living more authentic lives and nurturing the relationships that matter most!SIGN UP TO GET YOUR INVITATION TO RESET & RECONNECT HERE.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textIs it just a rough patch or a sign of a deeper relationship issue? This is the question I should have been asking during my first marriage and today I'm finally going to share my story. Join me, April Boyd, as I unravel the complexities of relationship dynamics, unpacking the difference between temporary stressors and recurring patterns that may indicate something more serious. Through my personal experiences, I touch on the importance of recognizing when a pattern of feeling unseen and unheard becomes too persistent to ignore. This conversation invites you to reflect on your own relationships and consider whether your struggles are truly temporary or symptoms of a larger issue that needs your attention.As we explore this topic, I'm thrilled to introduce an upcoming program designed to transform relationships by going deeper into your own personal growth, and reconnecting with the stronger, happier version of you as you change the ways you and your partner communicate and connect.  Don't miss your chance to be part of this transformative journey; sign up for my email list to receive exclusive updates and invitations. Thank you for joining me on this path to living more authentic lives and nurturing the relationships that matter most!SIGN UP TO GET YOUR INVITATION TO RESET & RECONNECT HERE.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textWhen things feel frightening and uncertain in the world around me, I try to go back to what I know for sure. One thing I know for sure is that we need more do-gooders in this world.  We need people who care about other people.We need people who are willing to give more than they take.We need people who want to use their gifts & energy to help others.  So if you have ever had the urge to create something, start a project, grow a business or offer something that benefits other people, I would love to support you in your work.Today's episode is a heartfelt invitation to join me for a free workshop, "Create & Contribute," happening on Saturday, February 22nd. This workshop is to offer support and guidance to anyone who wants to share their gifts and ideas in a way that helps others, maybe by starting a project, growing a business, or find meaningful ways to help others. Whether you're considering writing a book, starting a fundraising, opening an etsy shop, or even if you don't know yet what you want to offer, you just know you want to use your ideas, energy and resources to offer something good and loving to others, this workshop is your opportunity to get support, clarity and direction.Get all the details here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textWhen things feel frightening and uncertain in the world around me, I try to go back to what I know for sure. One thing I know for sure is that we need more do-gooders in this world.  We need people who care about other people.We need people who are willing to give more than they take.We need people who want to use their gifts & energy to help others.  So if you have ever had the urge to create something, start a project, grow a business or offer something that benefits other people, I would love to support you in your work.Today's episode is a heartfelt invitation to join me for a free workshop, "Create & Contribute," happening on Saturday, February 22nd. This workshop is to offer support and guidance to anyone who wants to share their gifts and ideas in a way that helps others, maybe by starting a project, growing a business, or find meaningful ways to help others. Whether you're considering writing a book, starting a fundraising, opening an etsy shop, or even if you don't know yet what you want to offer, you just know you want to use your ideas, energy and resources to offer something good and loving to others, this workshop is your opportunity to get support, clarity and direction.Get all the details here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textIs it needy to want to feel appreciated?  Or just a basic relationship need? in relationships?  The episode discusses over-giving tendencies, our need for affirmation, and helps you know when you need to speak up- or just validate yourself.  Whether you are dealing with a co-worker, client or spouse, this episode is going to help you know when you just need to be content and confident in what you have to offer- and when we need more reciprocity and balance.Here's what we're talking about:• Exploring the tension between self-validation and external appreciation• Recognizing when we may be over-giving in relationships• Understanding the importance of reciprocity and mutual recognition• Validating the desire for words of affirmation as a legitimate need• Communicating needs in relationships effectively• Summarizing key questions for self-reflection on giving and receiving• Introducing the upcoming Relationship Reset programRESET YOUR RELATIONSHIP STARTS SOON!here's the details: https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/klhjku65orHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textIs it needy to want to feel appreciated?  Or just a basic relationship need? in relationships?  The episode discusses over-giving tendencies, our need for affirmation, and helps you know when you need to speak up- or just validate yourself.  Whether you are dealing with a co-worker, client or spouse, this episode is going to help you know when you just need to be content and confident in what you have to offer- and when we need more reciprocity and balance.Here's what we're talking about:• Exploring the tension between self-validation and external appreciation• Recognizing when we may be over-giving in relationships• Understanding the importance of reciprocity and mutual recognition• Validating the desire for words of affirmation as a legitimate need• Communicating needs in relationships effectively• Summarizing key questions for self-reflection on giving and receiving• Introducing the upcoming Relationship Reset programRESET YOUR RELATIONSHIP STARTS SOON!here's the details: https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/klhjku65orHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textAre you in a relationship someone who doesn't seem to carry their weight? Ever found yourself wondering if the trade-offs in your relationship are worth it? Today we're unpacking some of the difficult decisions and dynamics of life with an under-functioning partner. Listen in to learn:how to tell the difference between your needs & wants.decision-making tips for knowing when to stay and gonew ways of finding a balance that works for your personal values and comfort levelsThis episode will help you to get more clarity about whether or not to stay with someone who doesn't seem to make any real effort to live up to their own potential. Together, we'll explore when it works to accept a partner's limitations - and how to avoid being exhausted by them- and when the balance may be too far off to fix.Throughout our discussion, you'll hear insights on crafting your own relationship rules, understanding that there's no one-size-fits-all blueprint for love. We'll talk about the necessity of recognizing your deal breakers and tapping into your own power within the dynamic.  If our conversation resonates, consider sharing this episode with others who might benefit from it, helping spread the message of better love in long term relationships.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textAre you in a relationship someone who doesn't seem to carry their weight? Ever found yourself wondering if the trade-offs in your relationship are worth it? Today we're unpacking some of the difficult decisions and dynamics of life with an under-functioning partner. Listen in to learn:how to tell the difference between your needs & wants.decision-making tips for knowing when to stay and gonew ways of finding a balance that works for your personal values and comfort levelsThis episode will help you to get more clarity about whether or not to stay with someone who doesn't seem to make any real effort to live up to their own potential. Together, we'll explore when it works to accept a partner's limitations - and how to avoid being exhausted by them- and when the balance may be too far off to fix.Throughout our discussion, you'll hear insights on crafting your own relationship rules, understanding that there's no one-size-fits-all blueprint for love. We'll talk about the necessity of recognizing your deal breakers and tapping into your own power within the dynamic.  If our conversation resonates, consider sharing this episode with others who might benefit from it, helping spread the message of better love in long term relationships.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textIn this episode of Is It Me or Is It Them?, therapist & coach April Boyd explores the tension and frustration that arise in relationships when someone doesn't get you- and doesn't seem to want to.  Whether you're navigating challenging dynamics with family, in-laws, or friends, this conversation sheds light on how to stop chasing external validation and reclaim your sense of peace and agency.What You'll Learn:How to recognize when you're stuck in a pattern of frustration and approval-seeking.Why relationships can feel harder as you grow and start noticing dynamics that once seemed “normal.”The common trap of thinking your only options are “submit” or “burn it down.”The importance of stepping into "Option C"—taking care of yourself while letting others be who they are.How to shift away from giving others power over your emotional well-being.Key Takeaways:Many people feel torn between maintaining harmony by suppressing their needs or risking conflict to stand up for themselves.Self-validation begins with accepting that others may not respond the way you hope—and that's okay.It's empowering to let go of trying to force change in others and focus on what you can control in the relationship.Questions to Reflect On:Are you placing your emotional safety in the hands of someone who can't meet your needs?What would it look like to stop chasing validation from others and give it to yourself instead?How can you honour your boundaries while maintaining relationships in a way that feels healthier for you?Listen Now:Tune in for thoughtful insights and practical tips on creating healthier dynamics without losing yourself in the process..Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textIn this episode of Is It Me or Is It Them?, therapist & coach April Boyd explores the tension and frustration that arise in relationships when someone doesn't get you- and doesn't seem to want to.  Whether you're navigating challenging dynamics with family, in-laws, or friends, this conversation sheds light on how to stop chasing external validation and reclaim your sense of peace and agency.What You'll Learn:How to recognize when you're stuck in a pattern of frustration and approval-seeking.Why relationships can feel harder as you grow and start noticing dynamics that once seemed “normal.”The common trap of thinking your only options are “submit” or “burn it down.”The importance of stepping into "Option C"—taking care of yourself while letting others be who they are.How to shift away from giving others power over your emotional well-being.Key Takeaways:Many people feel torn between maintaining harmony by suppressing their needs or risking conflict to stand up for themselves.Self-validation begins with accepting that others may not respond the way you hope—and that's okay.It's empowering to let go of trying to force change in others and focus on what you can control in the relationship.Questions to Reflect On:Are you placing your emotional safety in the hands of someone who can't meet your needs?What would it look like to stop chasing validation from others and give it to yourself instead?How can you honour your boundaries while maintaining relationships in a way that feels healthier for you?Listen Now:Tune in for thoughtful insights and practical tips on creating healthier dynamics without losing yourself in the process..Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textIf I had to pick the one question that has made the biggest difference in my life, my self-esteem and my social circle- this might be the one.  This episode invites you to reflect on your relationships, work and life with one really simple check in.Listen in to hear:•Why we stay stuck in unhealthy relationships & friendships• How accepting unacceptable behaviour can weigh us down • A personal story about confronting a toxic friendship• How to get more clear & honest about what is working- and what's notIf you only do one piece of self-reflection as you begin the new year, let this be it.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textIf I had to pick the one question that has made the biggest difference in my life, my self-esteem and my social circle- this might be the one.  This episode invites you to reflect on your relationships, work and life with one really simple check in.Listen in to hear:•Why we stay stuck in unhealthy relationships & friendships• How accepting unacceptable behaviour can weigh us down • A personal story about confronting a toxic friendship• How to get more clear & honest about what is working- and what's notIf you only do one piece of self-reflection as you begin the new year, let this be it.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textEver wonder why some individuals persistently disregard your boundaries, or don't seem to care if they are having a negative impact on you?Setting boundaries with difficult people can transform your relationships and preserve your emotional well-being and so today I'm sharing 5 important boundary reminders that are going to help you:** feel less guilty for setting limits or saying no ** get more control when dealing with emotionally immature people**understand where you might be giving away your power and sabotaging your own peace of mind**avoid the pitfalls that many of us fall into when we are dealing with someone who is causing us stress and upset.** understand why some people aren't interest in finding solutions or trying to understand you.** be able to better recognize when someone is trying to control you.Navigating difficult relationships doesn't have to be a personal battleground. Understand how to depersonalize interactions by recognizing that others' behavior often reflects their limitations rather than an attack on you. Explore the societal pressures that steer women towards politeness, even in discomfort, and the importance of standing firm when your boundaries are tested. Through personal anecdotes and insights, we shed light on recognizing the red flags you should be taking bigger note of, and the thinking traps that are making you small and vulnerable to difficult and selfish people. If you found this useful, please share it with someone who would benefit and help me reach 20 000 this month!Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textEver wonder why some individuals persistently disregard your boundaries, or don't seem to care if they are having a negative impact on you?Setting boundaries with difficult people can transform your relationships and preserve your emotional well-being and so today I'm sharing 5 important boundary reminders that are going to help you:** feel less guilty for setting limits or saying no ** get more control when dealing with emotionally immature people**understand where you might be giving away your power and sabotaging your own peace of mind**avoid the pitfalls that many of us fall into when we are dealing with someone who is causing us stress and upset.** understand why some people aren't interest in finding solutions or trying to understand you.** be able to better recognize when someone is trying to control you.Navigating difficult relationships doesn't have to be a personal battleground. Understand how to depersonalize interactions by recognizing that others' behavior often reflects their limitations rather than an attack on you. Explore the societal pressures that steer women towards politeness, even in discomfort, and the importance of standing firm when your boundaries are tested. Through personal anecdotes and insights, we shed light on recognizing the red flags you should be taking bigger note of, and the thinking traps that are making you small and vulnerable to difficult and selfish people. If you found this useful, please share it with someone who would benefit and help me reach 20 000 this month!Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textHave you been feeling unmotivated, a bit burnt out or low energy lately?  Have you been feeling like you just don't want to do anything?  Sick of working so hard?  You're not the only one. Join me, April Boyd, as I share personal reflections on our latest episode about embracing the season of rest. This episode is a heartfelt invitation to recognize that personal growth doesn't always demand grand gestures or constant momentum. Instead, let's give ourselves permission to tune into the our natural, necessary rhythms, honor our needs and allow ourselves to slow down.  It's the end of the year after all!  Of course we're tired.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textHave you been feeling unmotivated, a bit burnt out or low energy lately?  Have you been feeling like you just don't want to do anything?  Sick of working so hard?  You're not the only one. Join me, April Boyd, as I share personal reflections on our latest episode about embracing the season of rest. This episode is a heartfelt invitation to recognize that personal growth doesn't always demand grand gestures or constant momentum. Instead, let's give ourselves permission to tune into the our natural, necessary rhythms, honor our needs and allow ourselves to slow down.  It's the end of the year after all!  Of course we're tired.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textThere seems to be so much advice that tells us to "talk it out," but what we seem to overlook is that talking it out comes with very real risks.  There's a reason so many of us try so hard to avoid conflict and keep the peace- and it's not because of a lack of communication skills or self-confidence.  While communication is great and necessary for healthy relationships, not all the relationships in your life are healthy ones - and that's not always within your control.   Not everyone is willing or able to do repair and connection with you.  The truth is there are times when talking it out just doesn't work. Not all connections are meant to be mended, and setting realistic boundaries can be key.  This episode is packed with strategies to maintain your peace of mind and engage in more effective conversations, all while ensuring your response is one you won't regret, or that won't waste your precious energy.  Before you try to talk it out and seek repair with a difficult person, you need to ask yourself the questions I'm sharing with you here.  Lastly, I'll encourage you to reclaim your power through self-accountability, focusing on personal growth rather than trying to change the immovable. Tune in to gain insights that will empower you to handle life's relationship hurdles with confidence and clarity.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textThere seems to be so much advice that tells us to "talk it out," but what we seem to overlook is that talking it out comes with very real risks.  There's a reason so many of us try so hard to avoid conflict and keep the peace- and it's not because of a lack of communication skills or self-confidence.  While communication is great and necessary for healthy relationships, not all the relationships in your life are healthy ones - and that's not always within your control.   Not everyone is willing or able to do repair and connection with you.  The truth is there are times when talking it out just doesn't work. Not all connections are meant to be mended, and setting realistic boundaries can be key.  This episode is packed with strategies to maintain your peace of mind and engage in more effective conversations, all while ensuring your response is one you won't regret, or that won't waste your precious energy.  Before you try to talk it out and seek repair with a difficult person, you need to ask yourself the questions I'm sharing with you here.  Lastly, I'll encourage you to reclaim your power through self-accountability, focusing on personal growth rather than trying to change the immovable. Tune in to gain insights that will empower you to handle life's relationship hurdles with confidence and clarity.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textEver find yourself holding back with your friends?   Like maybe you shy away of sharing your accomplishments, or you downplay your gifts, hide your true ambitions, or basically just feel like you have to dial parts of yourself down when you're with them?Listen into the episode as I share how confidence and competition sometimes impact our connections with other women and why we all need a safe place where we can be ALL of ourselves- the sparkly, powerful good stuff AND the messy, questioning, imperfect part of us too.You'll also get to hear about my biggest takeaway from the in person Bold as Love Collective Retreat that I recently hosted and what it means to really hold space for, support and uplift other women.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textEver find yourself holding back with your friends?   Like maybe you shy away of sharing your accomplishments, or you downplay your gifts, hide your true ambitions, or basically just feel like you have to dial parts of yourself down when you're with them?Listen into the episode as I share how confidence and competition sometimes impact our connections with other women and why we all need a safe place where we can be ALL of ourselves- the sparkly, powerful good stuff AND the messy, questioning, imperfect part of us too.You'll also get to hear about my biggest takeaway from the in person Bold as Love Collective Retreat that I recently hosted and what it means to really hold space for, support and uplift other women.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textMiscarriage and infant loss are heart-wrenching subjects that are often met with silence in our society.  Listen in to this episode to hear:what NOT to saypractical ideas for support that are meaningful and usefulwhat it means to hold spacewhat kind of support people actually want to receive Join me, April Boyd, as we navigate the challenging terrain of grief and loss, not just as a therapist but as a mother who has walked this path herself.  You'll learn to avoid ineffective and unhelplful phrases, like "let me know what I can do" into acts of genuine support that truly matter to those grieving.  This episode stands as a guide for anyone struggling to find the right words or actions when a loved one is suffering the unimaginable pain of losing a child. With a focus on understanding the depth of this grief, I share insights and strategies to help you offer support that validates and comforts. Discover why mentioning the loss isn't just okay—it's essential, as it serves as a profound reminder that the person they lost is remembered and cherished. Through heartfelt conversations and practical advice, we aim to challenge cultural norms and empower you to be a steadfast presence for those navigating through their darkest days.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textMiscarriage and infant loss are heart-wrenching subjects that are often met with silence in our society.  Listen in to this episode to hear:what NOT to saypractical ideas for support that are meaningful and usefulwhat it means to hold spacewhat kind of support people actually want to receive Join me, April Boyd, as we navigate the challenging terrain of grief and loss, not just as a therapist but as a mother who has walked this path herself.  You'll learn to avoid ineffective and unhelplful phrases, like "let me know what I can do" into acts of genuine support that truly matter to those grieving.  This episode stands as a guide for anyone struggling to find the right words or actions when a loved one is suffering the unimaginable pain of losing a child. With a focus on understanding the depth of this grief, I share insights and strategies to help you offer support that validates and comforts. Discover why mentioning the loss isn't just okay—it's essential, as it serves as a profound reminder that the person they lost is remembered and cherished. Through heartfelt conversations and practical advice, we aim to challenge cultural norms and empower you to be a steadfast presence for those navigating through their darkest days.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textEver had that gut feeling that something just wasn't right, but you ignored it?  I recently ignored my intuition about someone, and doing so left me stranded at the side of the road- literally. In this episode of "Is it Me or Is it Them," I share some important reminders:vibes never liehow to listen to your instinctswhy you should never lower your standards for how you want to be treated- even over the little things. ANNOUNCEMENT:Our 6th round of the Bold as Love Collective is happening in January!  This is a group coaching experience for women who want to evolve, tidy up old patterns that no longer serve you, and connect with people who actually get you and support you.Join the waitlist below to be the first to receive all the glorious details and your exclusive invitation. https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ipaz0zbshiHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textEver had that gut feeling that something just wasn't right, but you ignored it?  I recently ignored my intuition about someone, and doing so left me stranded at the side of the road- literally. In this episode of "Is it Me or Is it Them," I share some important reminders:vibes never liehow to listen to your instinctswhy you should never lower your standards for how you want to be treated- even over the little things. ANNOUNCEMENT:Our 6th round of the Bold as Love Collective is happening in January!  This is a group coaching experience for women who want to evolve, tidy up old patterns that no longer serve you, and connect with people who actually get you and support you.Join the waitlist below to be the first to receive all the glorious details and your exclusive invitation. https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ipaz0zbshiHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textDoes it weigh on you when someone just doesn't like you?  Do you catch yourself questioning your worth and actions?  Or trying harder to be liked?Before you start chasing the approval of someone who you know doesn't like you and is not-so-secretly judging you, try asking yourself this one question instead.This is going to help you to break the cycle of people pleasing and approval chasing, get more confident, set better boundaries and get super clear on what you stand for.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textDoes it weigh on you when someone just doesn't like you?  Do you catch yourself questioning your worth and actions?  Or trying harder to be liked?Before you start chasing the approval of someone who you know doesn't like you and is not-so-secretly judging you, try asking yourself this one question instead.This is going to help you to break the cycle of people pleasing and approval chasing, get more confident, set better boundaries and get super clear on what you stand for.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textI turned 45 this year! Yay!   It was so interesting to notice how frequently people asked me how I felt about getting older, like they were half expecting this to be some kind of crisis or problem. So in today's episode I'm sharing some reflections on getting older and unpacking some truths and myths about aging.  Spoiler alert: the best is yet to come!But if you're feeling uncomfortable or afraid of getting older, you definitely need to listen in because I'm sharing one really important question you need to ask yourself.Listen in to hear about: getting free from our cultural obsession with youthwhy you couldn't pay me to go back to my younger selfthe one question you need to ask yourself if you feel afraid of agingHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textI turned 45 this year! Yay!   It was so interesting to notice how frequently people asked me how I felt about getting older, like they were half expecting this to be some kind of crisis or problem. So in today's episode I'm sharing some reflections on getting older and unpacking some truths and myths about aging.  Spoiler alert: the best is yet to come!But if you're feeling uncomfortable or afraid of getting older, you definitely need to listen in because I'm sharing one really important question you need to ask yourself.Listen in to hear about: getting free from our cultural obsession with youthwhy you couldn't pay me to go back to my younger selfthe one question you need to ask yourself if you feel afraid of agingHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textHow do you handle a friend or loved one who constantly unloads their problems on you, but never seems willing to make any changes?   Perhaps you've spent hours listening and trying to be supportive, while they reject every attempt you make to help them get unstuck and now you're starting to get frustrated and annoyed.If you have someone in your life who seems to be miserable, but responds with "yeah, but..." every time you give them advice or try to get them to see a different perspective, this episode is for you.Listen in to hear:why you're efforts to help may be back-firingthe assessment you need to make  before you keep tryingthe boundaries you need to set for yourself to protect your energy and timepractical advice for how to manage your reactions and interactions with those who love to ventHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a Text Message.How do you handle a friend or loved one who constantly unloads their problems on you, but never seems willing to make any changes?   Perhaps you've spent hours listening and trying to be supportive, while they reject every attempt you make to help them get unstuck and now you're starting to get frustrated and annoyed.If you have someone in your life who seems to be miserable, but responds with "yeah, but..." every time you give them advice or try to get them to see a different perspective, this episode is for you.Listen in to hear:why you're efforts to help may be back-firingthe assessment you need to make  before you keep tryingthe boundaries you need to set for yourself to protect your energy and timepractical advice for how to manage your reactions and interactions with those who love to ventHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Ever found yourself in a difficult situation with someone as you realize that you each had wildly different expectations of each other that just don't match up? Like...Finding out the hard way that not only are you not on the same page, but you're not even in the same book.Realizing that you assumed they saw things the same way you did, but it's become very clear that they don't.Discovering that you each had assumptions about how things would go, but you never actually talked it about directly or clearly, and now it's a hot mess.With 20 years of legal experience, helping people to avoid conflict and respond to conflict, Corrine Boudreau some fascinating thoughts on how to set boundaries, ask for what you need, and stand up for your self, in your business and your personal life.Listen in to hear about:* how to be really generous- and still take care of your own well being* strategies to help you set better boundaries- without feeling bad, mean or guilty* how unspoken assumptions are often the culprit behind a whole lot of conflict* how to set clear expectations that keep your relationships healthy and honest Corrine is a master of providing super generous business services without over-extending herself, and she has some incredible resources for Canadian business owners who work in the online space.  Listen in to gain insightful strategies on setting boundaries that allow for both generosity and self-preservation, helping you to have better conversations, better relationships and build a better business, without compromising your wellbeing or putting yourself at risk.Connect with Corrine Boudreaux here:https://www.legalmybiz.ca/pages/about-mehttps://www.instagram.com/legalguidecorinne/?hl=enHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textEver found yourself in a difficult situation with someone as you realize that you each had wildly different expectations of each other that just don't match up? Like...Finding out the hard way that not only are you not on the same page, but you're not even in the same book.Realizing that you assumed they saw things the same way you did, but it's become very clear that they don't.Discovering that you each had assumptions about how things would go, but you never actually talked it about directly or clearly, and now it's a hot mess.With 20 years of legal experience, helping people to avoid conflict and respond to conflict, Corrine Boudreau some fascinating thoughts on how to set boundaries, ask for what you need, and stand up for your self, in your business and your personal life.Listen in to hear about:* how to be really generous- and still take care of your own well being* strategies to help you set better boundaries- without feeling bad, mean or guilty* how unspoken assumptions are often the culprit behind a whole lot of conflict* how to set clear expectations that keep your relationships healthy and honest Corrine is a master of providing super generous business services without over-extending herself, and she has some incredible resources for Canadian business owners who work in the online space.  Listen in to gain insightful strategies on setting boundaries that allow for both generosity and self-preservation, helping you to have better conversations, better relationships and build a better business, without compromising your wellbeing or putting yourself at risk.Connect with Corrine Boudreaux here:https://www.legalmybiz.ca/pages/about-mehttps://www.instagram.com/legalguidecorinne/?hl=enHave a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textIn this episode, I share a piece of advice my sister gave me  about how to treat myself better, raise my standards and improve my quality of life one with one tiny upgrade.Have you ever considered how small upgrades in your daily environment can drastically boost your mood and momentum?  Today we're talking about how to make one tiny change that will reduce the frustration and increase the flow of your daily life. By replacing worn-out items, like that broken toaster or creaky cupboard door, you can significantly reduce daily frustrations and enhance your well-being.  Join me as we explore how these seemingly minor changes can create a ripple effect, improving not just your day-to-day life but also your mental clarity and productivity. I'll guide you through identifying one simple change you can make right now to reduce these micro frustrations and reclaim your mental bandwidth. Don't miss out on this discussion, and be sure to share this episode with a friend who could benefit from a little more ease and flow in their life.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

In this episode, I share a piece of advice my sister gave me  about how to treat myself better, raise my standards and improve my quality of life one with one tiny upgrade.Have you ever considered how small upgrades in your daily environment can drastically boost your mood and momentum?  Today we're talking about how to make one tiny change that will reduce the frustration and increase the flow of your daily life. By replacing worn-out items, like that broken toaster or creaky cupboard door, you can significantly reduce daily frustrations and enhance your well-being.  Join me as we explore how these seemingly minor changes can create a ripple effect, improving not just your day-to-day life but also your mental clarity and productivity. I'll guide you through identifying one simple change you can make right now to reduce these micro frustrations and reclaim your mental bandwidth. Don't miss out on this discussion, and be sure to share this episode with a friend who could benefit from a little more ease and flow in their life.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Send us a textWhat do you do when someone refuses to acknowledge their wrongdoing?Often times, we can find ourselves trying to explain and justify why you're hurt or how they've harmed you, hoping that if you can just get them to understand and acknowledge what they did to you, that you'll be able to move on.However, when someone refuses to see your point of view, and won't take responsibility for their actions, regardless of how much evidence, facts or information you give them, you need to stop and realize that you are in a futile game of tug of war.Trying to do repair and reconciliation with someone who is full of denial and defensiveness, can be incredibly frustrating, hurtful and exhausting.So in today's episode of Is it Me or is it Them?  I'm sharing five questions you need to ask yourself to get out of gridlock.  This episode is going to help you:* take back some power* protect your own wellbeing* stop wasting energy by trying to explain and justify yourself* start finding more clarity and peace in the midst of a really crappy situation.* find a faster route to peace.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://fun-cell-31288.myflodesk.com/ppxzb70s3e Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality. Want to get better at speaking up? Sign up for the free on-demand workshop that will help you be more confident in standing your ground when you're dealing with a boundary bulldozer. Sign up here.Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Please note:This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.