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In a culture obsessed with filters, fitness hacks, and endless self-critique, this episode invites you into something far deeper: radical acceptance. What if your body isn't a problem to fix but a place where God delights to dwell? Join John Ortberg as he unpacks a spiritual (and countercultural) approach to loving the body you have, not in spite of it, but because it's a gift from God. Learn how to live at peace with your physical self, embrace your body with gentleness, and see it through the eyes of grace.Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time.TEXT US at 855-888-0444EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.comGET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribeGET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text BECOME to 855-888-0444SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team
Do you ever get stuck in your thoughts? What do you usually overthink about? Today, Jay explores one of the most powerful, yet regularly overlooked, conversations we have every day: the one we have with ourselves. Too often, we become our own harshest critics, speaking to ourselves in ways we’d never speak to a friend. Jay reveals how self-criticism can disguise itself as control or accountability, when in truth, it’s a subtle form of self-sabotage that quietly erodes our confidence, creativity, and motivation. Jay reminds us that rest and reflection aren’t signs of weakness, they’re essential parts of real growth. He explains that progress is never a straight line, and that falling back, slowing down, or taking a break doesn’t mean you’ve failed, it simply means you’re human. His message is a gentle yet powerful invitation to stop tearing yourself down and start lifting yourself up, to trade shame for accountability, criticism for compassion, and restlessness for stillness. Through his words, Jay offers more than advice, he shares a roadmap for healing your relationship with yourself, embracing imperfection with grace, and finding peace in the quiet strength of self-acceptance. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Silence Your Inner Critic How to Talk to Yourself Like a Friend How to Rewire Your Brain for Positivity How to Rest Without Feeling Guilty How to Stop Letting Negativity Control You Healing begins the moment you choose kindness over criticism. Every mistake, setback, or pause is not the end of the journey, it’s part of becoming who you’re meant to be. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss: 01:02 Is Your inner Voice Blocking You? 02:16 #1: Self Criticism is Self Sabotage 06:32 #2: Negative Self Talk is Counterproductive 10:08 #3: Shaming Yourself Doesn't Build Accountability 13:28 #4: Your Brain is Wired to Focus on Mistakes 17:24 #5: Progress Isn't Linear 20:01 #6: Rest is Essential for Progress 22:35 #7: Self Kindness Builds ResilienceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The words you say to yourself matter and they can affect your sense of identity. Why is self-criticism and harsh self-talk so damaging?How do I know if I'm being self-critical?What CBT tools can help me adjust my thoughts about myself?Join me, Dr Julie Osborn, as we discuss harsh self-talk and how to replace it with balanced self-talk using cognitive-behavioral therapy tools. Click to listen now! Visit us on Instagram at MyCBTPodcast Or on Facebook at Dr Julie Osborn Subscribe to the podcast at Apple Podcasts Email us at mycbtpodcast@gmail.com Find some fun CBT tools at https://www.mycbt.store/ Thanks for listening to My CBT Podcast!
We're digging into the Dr. Gabor Maté's third level of compassion in this episode: The compassion of recognition. This level emphasizes realizing the shared nature of pain and loss, reminding us that we are not alone. We'll highlight the 'illusion of separation' and how breaking through it can deepen our connections and ease our struggles. We'll also share the 'Judge, Mirror, Bridge' exercise to help us practice compassion by identifying judgments, finding similarities within ourselves, and bridging connections with others. About: The Joy Lab Podcast blends science and soul to help you cope better with stress, ease anxiety, and uplift mood. Join Dr. Henry Emmons and Dr. Aimee Prasek for practical, mindfulness-based tools and positive psychology strategies to build resilience and create lasting joy. If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review us wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts! Like and follow Joy Lab on Socials: Instagram TikTok Linkedin YouTube Sources and Notes: Joy Lab Program: Take the next leap in your wellbeing journey with step-by-step practices to help you build and maintain the elements of joy in your life. Previous episodes for this series: Part 1: Ordinary Human Compassion & Self-Compassion to Improve Mental Health Part 2: Understanding Ourselves & Others Gabor Mate's website. How can I love myself more... and love others more too? [ep. 174] Full transcript here Please remember that this content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice and is not a replacement for advice and treatment from a medical professional. Please consult your doctor or other qualified health professional before beginning any diet change, supplement, or lifestyle program. Please see our terms for more information. If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call the NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-950-6264 available Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. – 10 p.m., ET. OR text "HelpLine" to 62640 or email NAMI at helpline@nami.org. Visit NAMI for more. You can also call or text SAMHSA at 988 or chat 988lifeline.org.
Think fitness has to be all-or-nothing? That the only way to see results is to grind harder, sweat more, and push through pain? If you've ever felt stuck in the shame cycle of workouts that feel like punishment, this episode is going to flip the script.In this episode, I'm joined by Sadie Lincoln, co-founder and CEO of Barre3, to talk about why the fitness industry has sold women on shame and “no pain, no gain,” and how to replace it with a smarter, more sustainable model.We dive into Sadie's comfort → brave → fight framework, the truth about modifications as performance tools, and why short movement snacks throughout the day often beat one big sweat session. Sadie also shares how to tune into your body's sensations to quiet the inner critic, plus her honest take on wearables, recovery, and motivation that actually lasts.If you're ready to shift from grinding harder to working smarter, this episode will show you how to find strength, confidence, and longevity, in and out of the gym.Sadie Lincoln is the co-founder of Barre3, a global fitness company with over 200 studios and a thriving online platform. With more than 17 years of teaching experience, she's redefining what results look like for women by combining strength, cardio, and mindfulness into every class.We Also Discuss:(00:46) Why shame sells in fitness, yet never sticks(11:05) The mindset shift that makes workouts feel empowering, not punishing(20:46) How growth really happens, and why community matters more than willpower(25:33) The industry myth women should finally start questioning(38:22) One simple movement practice that can change your entire day(42:20) Why modifications aren't “less than”, they're the smarter way to train(46:31) Progression vs. perfection: redefining what success actually looks likeThank You to Our Sponsors:Timeline: 20% off of Mitopure Gummies. Just go to timeline.com/TARA, and see what it feels like when your recovery and strength finally click. Check out more from Broads:Website: https://www.broads.app/Instagram: @broads.podcast @broads.appFind more from Sadie Lincoln:Website: https://barre3.comInstagram: @barre3Instagram: @sadielincoln
Neste episódio da série Os Medos que Vivem em Nós, exploramos o medo de não ser o suficiente — um medo que impacta profundamente a autoestima e a saúde emocional. Com exemplos reais, estudos psicológicos e arquétipos femininos, discutimos as origens desse medo e caminhos amorosos para cultivar o autoamor e a autoaceitação. Um convite para que você se reconheça, se acolha e se fortaleça em sua plenitude. Fontes utilizadasAmerican Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (5ª ed.).Neff, K. D. (2017). Self-Compassion and Anxiety. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.Bartholomew, K., & Horowitz, L. M. (1991). Attachment Styles Among Young Adults.American Psychological Association (2020). Self-Criticism and Depression.Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Mulheres que Correm com os Lobos
This one gets personal. I share my story, growing up praised for performance, losing my athletic identity, spiraling into restriction, bingeing, and running myself into the ground. A coach tells me to lose weight, shame follows, and I chase “smaller” at all costs. The shift starts with one yes: a park workout. From there, I rebuilt myself. HIIT opens the door to movement; strength training changes everything. Lifting teaches me to take up space, eat for fuel, and measure progress by power, not a scale. I define what “enough” means on my terms.In this episode of Broads, I break down how mindset questions create momentum, why one decision beats perfection, and what real progress looks like, and spoiler: It's not what you've been told. If you feel stuck, this episode is your sign. Freedom is possible. Start with one yes, and watch every other part of your life follow!What's Discussed:(00:04) The moment I finally share my real story: the messy truth behind the highlight reel(14:32) The breaking point: when discipline was really just fear in disguise(20:51) The yes that changed everything (and why it wasn't about the workout)(28:10) How lifting 250 pounds rewired my brain about worth and confidence(43:56) The one decision that flips everything, from chasing smaller to claiming freedomThank You to Our Sponsors:Broads: Ready to ditch the BS and start feeling strong in your body? Work 1:1 with a Broads Coach to get custom programming + nutritional guidance to finally reach your goals. Learn more at https://www.broads.app/joinLearn more from BroadsWebsite: https://www.broads.app/Instagram: @broads.podcast @broads.app
Have you ever felt ashamed of a habit you couldn't control? In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Aneela Idnani, co-founder of HabitAware and mental health advocate. Aneela opens up about living with trichotillomania (hair pulling disorder), how shame kept her silent for decades, and how awareness and acceptance transformed her recovery journey. Aneela shares: • Her early experiences with hair pulling and intrusive thoughts • The hidden shame and secrecy that fueled her struggle for 20+ years • How pregnancy and stress intensified her compulsions • The turning point—finally opening up to her husband and seeking help • How HabitAware's Keen Smart Bracelet helps build awareness and break the cycle This conversation also dives into: • Why awareness is the first step to any lasting change • The role of self-care, mindfulness, and acceptance in recovery • How shifting perspective can turn struggle into strength • The importance of removing shame and embracing your full self Whether you're navigating OCD, BFRBs (Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors), or supporting someone who is, this episode offers hope, tools, and strategies for healing.
Do you ever catch yourself saying things in your head that you would never say to a friend? Things like, “Why can't you just get it together?” or “You should be over this by now.” For a long time, I thought that kind of self-talk was motivating me to grow, but really, it just kept me stuck in shame. In this episode, we'll talk about the difference between self-criticism and self-compassion in Christ, why the critic in your head is not the same as God's voice, and how to begin shifting into a kinder, more Christ-centered way of speaking to yourself. Rooting for you, Jessica It's my birthday month! Yay! I'll be 38. Therefore, this month I am offering 38% off my self-paced course, Untangle Your Thoughts. Click here to get 38% off now! Or book your free 20-minute consultation here! Questions? Email me at >> jessica@jessicahottle.com The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or clinical advice. While we discuss mental health topics, this is not a substitute for professional care. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider for advice specific to your situation.
Show LinksSelf-Paced Resources:Subscribe To The Daily Podcast: https://yourlevelfitness.com/podcastNew To The YLF Philosophy? Start Here: ylf30.comDaily Accountability And Structure For Your Self-Paced Inside/Out Process: https://yourlevelfitness.com/daily-emailQ&A Response YouTube Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjSupgaY5KA66MD2IdmCwFhLFbDe-pk1lIndividualized Guidance From DarylJoin The YLF Experience: https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/5t93iox9udm3Compare All Service Levels: https://yourlevelfitness.com/coachingGet Your Merch, Mugs & Wall QuotesShop The Current Collections: https://yourlevelfitness.shop/collectionsIn this episode of The Daryl Perry Podcast, I dive into the real fuel behind ambition. Too many of us try to push forward by criticizing ourselves, thinking that tearing ourselves down will spark change. It might work for a short time, but in the long run it creates an endless mental tug of war where nothing feels like enough.Instead, I share why approaching ambition with appreciation and compassion is a far more sustainable and fulfilling path. When you take time to value where you've been, where you are, and where you're going, every accomplishment carries deeper meaning. You can start showing up for yourself the way you needed at different stages of life and shift into a mindset where progress is grounded in love, not loathing.We also talk about patience with yourself while developing this mindset, because old thought patterns will always try to pull you back. But the more you practice self-compassion, the easier it becomes to navigate setbacks and get back on track without judgment.This episode is a reminder that you can achieve more, feel fulfilled, and inspire others when your ambition is fueled by kindness toward yourself.Please share this episode with anyone you think would be interested in listening to it.Visit darylperrypodcast.com for links to the show page on each of the major podcast directories. From there, you can subscribe and share this pod.For comments, questions, topic ideas, possible collaborations please email daryl@yourlevelfitness.com
FREE Master Class: 5 costly mistakes that are keeping your farm broke Sign Up HERE You're growing incredible products and working harder than anyone you know, but if you're like most farmers, you haven't paid yourself a dime for your hard work all year. Here's what most farmers don't realize: marketing isn't magic. It's a skill. And there's a proven three-phase system that transforms struggling farmers into sold-out success stories. Key discoveries you'll learn: The #1 mistake on diversified farms that keeps farmers broke (and how to fix it) How to build a marketing calendar that works with your farm's natural rhythms instead of against them The three marketing assets you already have but aren't using effectively Why listening is the most important marketing skill—plus 6 specific ways to do it right This isn't theory. One client went from six months of begging people to buy her Thanksgiving turkeys to selling out in 24 hours flat using this exact approach. Look, you didn't start farming to become a marketing expert. But here's the hard truth: if you can't sell what you grow, you won't survive. The farmers who thrive aren't necessarily the best—they're the ones who learned how to connect their products to their customers' real problems. "Marketing isn't magic. It's a skill. And if your emails aren't making sales at a profitable price, it's not because the platform doesn't work—it's because you haven't learned the skill yet." Click HERE and Let's Meet! Chat with us to see if Farm Marketing Mastery can break you out of marketing misery.
In this episode, LoveLoudd checks in after a short break with life updates. During the icebreaker segment, LoveLoudd pulls affirmation cards and discusses how they relate to their life. In Suite 223, Monie steps to the mic with a throwback piece that still resonates today. The Hot Topic Segment opens a conversation about Self-Criticism and Self-Compassion. Is self-criticism really harmful? How do you silence the inner critic? What does it mean to be compassionate to oneself? Tune in for LoveLoudd's personal experiences with self-criticism and the tools they use to foster a positive mindset.
Send us a textSummaryIn this conversation, Matilda Medium discusses the challenges of public judgment, the importance of authenticity in creativity, and the detrimental effects of perfectionism on personal growth. She emphasizes the need for kindness in social media interactions and encourages listeners to embrace imperfection as a part of their creative journey. The discussion also touches on the significance of setting boundaries and deadlines to overcome perfectionism and foster progress.Chapters00:00Exploring Spirit and Self00:01Journeying into Mysteries of Life00:26The Impact of Perfectionism on Progress03:21Navigating Social Media Challenges04:46Predictions and Insights on Current Events05:13Understanding Perfectionism05:47The Impact of Perfectionism on Daily Life06:13Understanding Perfectionism09:09The Impact of Perfectionism on Creativity12:22Overcoming Perfectionism: Strategies for Progress17:20Embracing Progress Over Perfection18:35The Power of Presence and Courage18:57Introduction and Community Updates19:27Special Offers and Upcoming Events19:56Evidential Mediumship Event Details20:23Predictions on Trump's Health and Presidency21:52Global Financial Shifts and Political Turmoil23:03Tragedy in Australia and Political Missteps24:24Conclusion and Future InsightsMatilda's LinksMatilda's WebsitePatreonCharts and Channelling Event with Laurie Rivers 2026 Deep DiveYouTube Music Code XZX4AASK0AQ9Z70P
Ever felt weighed down by shame, self-criticism, or parenting guilt as a woman with ADHD? You're not alone. In this vulnerable episode, Michaela welcomes Kristin Carder, host of the hit podcast “I Have ADHD,” for a frank and compassionate conversation about the hidden struggles of ambitious, neurodivergent women. Together, they discuss how ADHD shows up as internal chaos, why criticism and rejection hurt so much, and what it takes to forgive yourself and repair with your kids. If you battle perfectionism, loud inner criticism, or regret how you've parented in the past, this episode offers comfort and practical support. Discover why compassion beats shame—and why it's never too late to start again. Highlights: Kristin's personal ADHD journey and how it shaped her podcast The reality of rejection sensitivity and harsh online feedback Why self-forgiveness is crucial for ADHDers and parents Simple strategies for softening your inner critic About Kristin: Kristin Carder is a certified ADHD coach and host of the “I Have ADHD Podcast.” Learn more: https://ihaveadhd.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ihaveadhdpodcast/ Find Michaela: Instagram: www.instagram.com/the_thomas_connection LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaela-thomas/ Interested in Michaela's Burn Bright group coaching for ADHD women? Doors are open for the Oct 2025 start: www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/burn-bright
In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the pervasive issue of perfectionism and its profound impact on mental and physical health. With her signature blend of humor and honesty, Brianne explores the pressures that drive individuals to seek perfection, revealing how these high expectations can lead to anxiety, depression, and burnout.Throughout the episode, Brianne outlines the five distinct types of perfectionism: classic, procrastinator, messy, intense, and Parisian. She shares personal anecdotes and observations, including her experiences with her own child, to illustrate how perfectionism can manifest in everyday life. Listeners will learn to identify the signs of perfectionism and how it can trap them in a cycle of self-criticism and dissatisfaction.Brianne offers practical strategies for breaking free from the constraints of perfectionism, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion, setting realistic goals, and celebrating progress over perfection. She encourages listeners to embrace their flaws and recognize that perfection is an unattainable ideal. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that the journey toward self-acceptance is far more rewarding than the pursuit of perfection.
You know that sinking feeling of disappointment or even disgust you get when you're looking at yourself in the mirror and wishing you were thinner? That feeling is actually wrecking your metabolism. My guest today is Sarah Haas, host of the Boss Body podcast. She's here to share her story of how, after years of being thin and fit and looking like she had it all together, she found herself as a single mother dealing not only with her young son's type 1 diabetes, but also breast cancer–which included radiation, chemo and a double mastectomy. She had to learn that loving your body is not about working harder to look better. It's about releasing the emotional heaviness that is figuratively and literally weighing you down. In this deeply personal and powerful conversation, Sarah Haas, host of the Boss Body podcast, shares how the stress of being a single mom and battling breast cancer–including radiation, chemo and a double mastectomy, taught her that loving your body is not loving how you look, it's releasing the emotional heaviness that is figuratively and literally weighing you down. Highlights: Why body love often feels impossible when you've let yourself go—and where to start instead The toxic role of the inner critic (and how to change the voice in your head) How midlife can become a catalyst for deeper self-worth and vibrant health Practical steps to boost metabolism in perimenopause and beyond Whether you're trying to lose weight or simply ready to feel more comfortable in your own skin—this conversation will give you the mindset shifts you need to begin. If you are ready to get support from a community of women who are co-creating this change with intention and clarity— Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL. Click here to get Sarah's Rev Up Your Metabolism Guide. Find her on social media: @sarahhaaswellness Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air! Find me on: YouTube: @HangoverWhisperer TikTok: @hangoverwhisperer Instagram: @thehangoverwhisperer X (Twitter) : @NotAboutTheAlc Transcript
Today we're going to chat about the vibrational impact of self-criticism and how self-approval can shift your energy. I'll share how shifting from criticism to approval can raise your vibration, attract better outcomes, and change how you feel about yourself. Tune in for practical tips on how to practice self-approval and invite more alignment into your life. For all things Law of Attraction, visit Jennifer365.com. Need more LoA goodness? Get my Vibe Notes for high-vibe tips between episodes. I offer schedule-as-you-want coaching. Coaching with me is a great way to raise your vibration. If you're craving more clarity on manifesting, I've created a YouTube channel just for that. Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee. ☕️ Looking for a Love Your Life episode about a particular topic? Check out the LYL Index.
What if confidence wasn't about pushing through fear but about clearing the way for your most natural, grounded, and powerful presence?If you struggle with nerves before speaking or wish you could feel more present and authentic in front of an audience, this episode of the Delight in the Limelight Podcast is for you!This time, I talk with Will Schneider—former actor, yoga teacher, and co-host of Men Talking Mindfulness—about how meditation, movement, and mindset can shape the way we show up.Listen in to learn:- What we can learn from acting and auditions and apply to speaking- How to get into the zone and stay there- How to break free from negative thought loops- Practical ways to stay grounded and focused- Tips for fostering vulnerability and forgivenessReady to transform your relationship with speaking? This conversation will help you step into the limelight with delight!Click here to check the full show notes.
Send us a textWe've all heard the adage, "patience is a virtue", but I think of patience as an integral aspect of resilience. In this episode, I share personal reflections on recent challenges involving summer illnesses, rescheduling, and navigating the transitions between Pitta and Vata seasons. Drawing parallels between my gardening experiences and broader life processes, I discuss the importance of patience and the pitfalls of hyper-criticism. I delve into how I manage to zoom out and see the bigger picture, recognizing my progress amidst self-criticism. I also explore the concept of patience through personal anecdotes, definitions, and Ayurvedic principles, offering practical advice on embodying patience. Cultivating patience can actually be a pathway to more peace and ease in your body and your life. In this episode:Garden Reflections and Self-CriticismZooming Out and Gaining PerspectiveExploring Patience and Its ImportancePractical Steps to Cultivate PatienceEmbodying PatienceResources:Episode on Pitta DoshaAyurvedic Dosha Quick Reference GuideMy resources:Weekend Nervous System Reset Deep Rest MeditationNourished For Resilience Workbook Book a free Exploratory CallFind me at www.nourishednervoussystem.comand @nourishednervoussytem on Instagram
Psychiatrist, author, and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) expert Dr. Blaise Aguirre joins me to talk about how we can help kids—especially emotionally sensitive ones—understand, process, and reframe internalized messages of self-criticism and even self-hatred. Together we explore: Why even well-loved and supported kids can develop a sense of being “unlovable” How emotional sensitivity can make children more vulnerable to misattunement, comparisons, and internalized shame The difference between skills-based therapy (like DBT) and addressing the deeper emotional roots of suicidality and self-loathing What parents can do in the “before, during, and after” of tough parenting moments to promote co-regulation and connection Why simply telling a child they are wonderful may backfire—and what to say instead How to recognize if your child is living in a distorted self-narrative, and how to gently interrupt that cycle Practical strategies for helping kids build emotional awareness, distress tolerance, and a more compassionate self-concept Why your own nervous system regulation is essential—and how DBT teaches us to regulate before we reflect Whether your child is currently struggling with self-esteem or you just want to shore them up now to minimize this risk in the future, this episode will leave you with powerful insights and tangible tools for helping them feel seen, supported, and deeply understood. LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST:
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Twitter/X Space 19 July 2025In this episode, I explore the essence of philosophy and its relevance today, reflecting on my 45-year journey. We discuss the importance of humility in philosophical discourse, inspired by Socrates' acknowledgment of ignorance, and critique the rush to judgment among "midwits." I examine moral grounding for atheists and the nature of ethics without divine justification, while engaging with diverse perspectives on morality. As we address the impact of 21st-century technology on human intimacy, I emphasize the need for self-criticism and rational discourse to deepen our understanding of morality.FOLLOW ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxGET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Criticism lands more heavily for introverts. In this episode, I unpack why we're so deeply affected by it. More importantly, how to spot the difference between feedback and unfiltered opinion, and how to stop swallowing other people's words whole. You will hear why the term constructive criticism is well past its sell-by date, and how to build your own protective criticism filter instead. As a bonus, there is a brilliant Resilience Ritual waiting for you (See resources section below) ** Key Points ** Dismantle outdated criticism culture Reclaim power from careless comments Sharpen your personal feedback filter #InternalisingCriticismSucks #Introverts #FlourishingIntroverts Resources Visit https://hub.flourishingintroverts.com/resourcesp for tools and resources mentioned during the podcast. Access the Resilience Ritual here https://hub.flourishingintroverts.com/resourcesp/#resilienceritual
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3662: Erica Layne shares six heartfelt reasons why embracing self-love can profoundly transform your life. From quieting self-criticism to deepening connections with others, her insights remind us that the path to growth, peace, and authentic relationships begins within. Discover how self-compassion not only lifts the weight of outside expectations but also models empowerment for those we care about most. Quotes to ponder: “Shame, the belief that you're unworthy of love and belonging, does not support long-term, transformational change.” “Self-love helps us see our own potential, allows us to forgive ourselves when we take a step backward, and eliminates the shame spiral that so often lands us right back where we started.” “For every part of myself that I've decided to accept over the years, I've felt the pressure of other people's opinions fall away.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3662: Erica Layne shares six heartfelt reasons why embracing self-love can profoundly transform your life. From quieting self-criticism to deepening connections with others, her insights remind us that the path to growth, peace, and authentic relationships begins within. Discover how self-compassion not only lifts the weight of outside expectations but also models empowerment for those we care about most. Quotes to ponder: “Shame, the belief that you're unworthy of love and belonging, does not support long-term, transformational change.” “Self-love helps us see our own potential, allows us to forgive ourselves when we take a step backward, and eliminates the shame spiral that so often lands us right back where we started.” “For every part of myself that I've decided to accept over the years, I've felt the pressure of other people's opinions fall away.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3662: Erica Layne shares six heartfelt reasons why embracing self-love can profoundly transform your life. From quieting self-criticism to deepening connections with others, her insights remind us that the path to growth, peace, and authentic relationships begins within. Discover how self-compassion not only lifts the weight of outside expectations but also models empowerment for those we care about most. Quotes to ponder: “Shame, the belief that you're unworthy of love and belonging, does not support long-term, transformational change.” “Self-love helps us see our own potential, allows us to forgive ourselves when we take a step backward, and eliminates the shame spiral that so often lands us right back where we started.” “For every part of myself that I've decided to accept over the years, I've felt the pressure of other people's opinions fall away.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SPONSORS: 1) Huel: Get Huel today with this exclusive offer for New Customers of 15% OFF with code JULIAN at https://huel.com/JULIAN (Minimum $75 purchase) PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/JulianDorey (***TIMESTAMPS in Description Below) ~ Hyun-seung Lee is a former DPRK businessman and chair of the Kim Il Sung Socialist Youth League branch in Dalian, China. A series of purges by Kim Jong Un forced him and his entire family to defect in late 2014, making their way first to South Korea then to the United States. Lee now works as a director for One Korea Network and a fellow of North Korean studies at the Global Peace Foundation, and he has interned with the Foundation for Defense of Democracies. HYUN-SEUNG'S LINKS:HYUN-SEUNG'S LINKS: YT: https://www.youtube.com/c/Pyonghattan FB: https://www.facebook.com/MrNorthKorea X: https://x.com/LeeHyunSeung85 IG: https://www.instagram.com/mr.northkorea/ WEBSITE: https://give.globalpeace.org/campaign/695826/donate FOLLOW JULIAN DOREY INSTAGRAM (Podcast): https://www.instagram.com/juliandoreypodcast/ INSTAGRAM (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/julianddorey/ X: https://twitter.com/julianddorey JULIAN YT CHANNELS - SUBSCRIBE to Julian Dorey Clips YT: https://www.youtube.com/@juliandoreyclips - SUBSCRIBE to Julian Dorey Daily YT: https://www.youtube.com/@JulianDoreyDaily - SUBSCRIBE to Best of JDP: https://www.youtube.com/@bestofJDP ****TIMESTAMPS**** 00:00 – Indoctrination, Anti-West, Kim Jong Un, Juche, Childhood Brainwashing 08:23 – No Ownership, Rare Foods, Japan Trade Ban, US Defectors, Forced Labor 20:53 – Community Control, Caste System, Military, Regime Worship, Family Life 30:51 – Bible Ban, Dual Lives, Political Identity, Child Labor, Moral Indoctrination 40:04 – Limited Electricity, Food Inequality, Family Reunion, Pyongyang Christianity 51:07 – Religion Ban, Poverty, Illegal Income, Bribery, Soviet Support, Exports 01:02:16 – Labor Exports, Spies, Hidden Dissent, Artist School 01:14:14 – Self-Criticism, No Privacy, Peer Surveillance 01:23:41 – MP3 Ban, Rural Punishment, American Music 01:34:31 – Rodman Visit, Record-Keeping, Cheap Sports, South Park 01:43:02 – Golf Ban, Border Traps, Prison Babies, Embassy Torture 01:55:29 – China Support, Internet Censorship, Event Control 02:05:32 – Coup Impossible, Outside Info, Subversion, Capitalism Exposure 02:15:12 – Anti-Capitalist TV, Kim Propaganda, Lies About Un 02:24:27 – Power Struggle, Economic Study, Human Rights Atrocities 02:37:20 – Starvation, Bugged Homes, U.S. Currency 02:45:45 – Songun, Military-First Policy 02:52:45 - Next phase of story CREDITS: - Host, Editor & Producer: Julian Dorey - COO, Producer & Editor: Alessi Allaman - https://www.youtube.com/@UCyLKzv5fKxGmVQg3cMJJzyQ - In-Studio Producer: Joey Deef - https://www.instagram.com/joeydeef/ Julian Dorey Podcast Episode 317 - Hyunseung Lee Music by Artlist.io Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today, I'm taking you along a trail ride, not just through the physical landscapes but through the terrain of our minds. It's about confronting and managing the self-criticism that often accompanies our high expectations, especially when we push towards big goals in high-performance settings.In this episode, I'll share how I transform self-criticism into a tool for growth and resilience. Whether you're riding a bike, running a trail, or pursuing any challenge, this meditation is designed to help you maintain focus and foster a positive mindset.Key Takeaways:- Understanding self-criticism- Cultivating acceptance- Strategies for boosting optimism- How to embrace mental flexibilityLINKS- Listen to another moving meditation- Learn about the science of meditation with Dave Vago- Feel skeptical about meditation? Check out this interview with Jeff Warren--------------The Grow the Good Podcast is produced by Palm Tree Pod Co.
Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.Have you ever found yourself avoiding that one nagging task on your to-do list, no matter how much it weighs on your mind? In this special, interactive episode of Make Time for Success, Dr. Christine Li takes you step-by-step through a powerful exercise to tackle the thing you keep putting off. You'll learn how to identify your resistance, boost your sense of personal power, and finally take action—all with grace and self-compassion. Get ready to laugh, gain new energy, and celebrate your progress as Dr. Li guides you out of avoidance and into accomplishment. Don't miss this transformative episode—your most dreaded task won't know what hit it!Timestamps:[00:01:42] – Dr. Li introduces the interactive format and invites listeners to engage with the exercise.[00:02:47] – Step 1: Identify the one big task you keep avoiding. She stresses the importance of saying it out loud or sharing it with someone.[00:03:38] – The power of verbalizing the task and how it helps release its negative energy.[00:05:03] – Making the process light and enjoyable, not painful. Encouragement to approach self-development with kindness.[00:06:22] – Step 2: Identify the resistance—what makes this task so difficult for you.[00:08:15] – Tips on observing your resistance without criticism, and taking note of your thoughts and feelings.[00:08:40] – Step 3: Elevate your power—reminding yourself you are more powerful than the task or your resistance.[00:11:40] – Recap—don't get distracted by your whole to-do list; focus on one thing at a time.[00:12:35] – Step 4: Take action—identify the next reasonable step and move forward with gratitude.[00:13:58] – Dr. Li encourages sharing progress and explains where to get a free resource on conquering avoidance.To get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/victoryTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Us!Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/lab Simply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP
Tara Garrison is a health and life coach. She is the founder of HIGHER, a Health & Life Coaching company dedicated to helping individuals optimise their well-being through training, nutrition, mindset, and biohacking. She has worked with celebrities, professional athletes, and top executives, guiding them toward peak health and performance. She is also the author of Short-Term Keto, the host of the Inside Out Health Podcast, the creator of Higher Retreats, and the producer of the Coach Tara App. Beyond her professional achievements, Tara is a mom of four, an avid weightlifter, a Boston Marathoner, and a passionate nature lover. She has a great social media presence on Instagram and TikTok at @coachtaragarrison, where she shares valuable health tips and insights into her daily life. Here are some of the things we talked about in today's show: · How you feel from the inside of your body is what matters. · Your body loves you and is doing everything to help you thrive. · Love is wanting what's best for your body. · Self-love should elicit supportive action. · Fat adaptation allows the body to use fat as fuel, while keto adaptation requires prolonged carb restriction to produce ketones. · Keto can significantly benefit those with metabolic dysfunction, such as obesity and high blood sugar. · Long-term keto may lead to issues like muscle loss, hormonal imbalances, and reduced gut health. · Carbohydrates can play a crucial role in a balanced diet and should not be completely eliminated. · Mental and emotional relationships with food can be affected by restrictive diets like keto. · Keto is a therapeutic tool but may not be suitable for everyone, especially those without metabolic issues. · The duration of a keto diet matters; short-term use can be beneficial, but long-term adherence may have drawbacks. · Keto can raise dopamine levels but may lower serotonin, affecting mood and mental health. · A balanced approach to nutrition, including fiber and carbohydrates, is essential for overall health. Today's podcast is sponsored by my Keane Edge Group Coaching Program: https://briankeanefitness.com/the-keane-edge-program (Website) www.taragarrison.com (Facebook) www.facebook.com/coachtaragarrison (Instagram) www.instagram.com/coachtaragarrison/ (Youtube) www.youtube.com/coachtaragarrison (Pinterest) www.pinterest.com/coachtaragarrison/ (Tiktok) www.tiktok.com/@coachtaragarrison
Jon Hershfield is a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in the treatment of OCD. In this episode, he joins Dr. Patrick McGrath to discuss his experiences as a clinician, his work as an author, and the importance of mindfulness in helping people manage their lives.If you're struggling with OCD, our NOCD therapists might be able to help. They are specially trained in ERP therapy — the most effective treatment against OCD. To learn about treatment options, book a free 15-minute call at https://learn.nocd.com/YTFollow us on social media:https://www.instagram.com/treatmyocd/https://twitter.com/treatmyocdhttps://www.tiktok.com/@treatmyocd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Vic is reflecting on turning 28 and the mindset shifts helping her feel more aligned, grounded, and true to herself. From exiting her hustle era and protecting her energy, to pulling back on people-pleasing and rewriting her self-talk, this solo episode is an unfiltered check-in on what's changed, and what's finally clicking. Vic shares why she skipped a big birthday celebration, how she's building deeper self-trust, and the small but powerful ways she's being kinder to herself this year. Tune in for honest reflections on getting older, slowing down, and giving yourself permission to be imperfect.Related episodes:This Will Change Your Life — A Powerful Lesson On Joy From Cancer Fighter Jeffrey SaadHow To Overcome Perfectionism & Self-Criticism w/ Expert Dr. Ellen Hendriksen// SPONSORS // Quince: Go to quince.com/realpod for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Storyworth: Right now save $10 during Storyworth's Father's Day sale when you go to storyworth.com/realpod. Just Thrive: Visit justhrive.com and use code REALPOD for 20% off your first 90-day bottle. That's like getting a month free! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
What would it feel like to be on your own side?As highly sensitive people, we often internalize harsh messages—learning to motivate ourselves through criticism rather than care. But true healing comes when we begin to soften that inner voice and replace judgment with compassion.In this guided practice episode, you'll be gently supported in shifting from self-criticism to self-kindness. Through grounding breath, visualization, and compassionate phrases, you'll begin cultivating the voice of your inner ally—the part of you that knows you are worthy, even when you struggle.Whether your inner critic is loud today or barely a whisper, this practice will help you reconnect with your own strength, gentleness, and self-trust.This is the final episode in our May series on self-compassion and inner healing—but this work doesn't end here.
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Do you speak to yourself the way you speak to a friend?In this episode, you'll be invited to gently explore the way you treat yourself—especially during moments of failure, doubt, or pressure. It's a powerful reminder that self-compassion is not weakness; it's wisdom in action.The conversation centers around the contrast between self-criticism and self-kindness, especially for teachers, facilitators, or anyone in a leadership role. You'll learn how the voice of the inner critic often disguises itself as motivation, but usually leads to burnout, disconnection, or shame. Instead, the episode highlights self-kindness as a skill—a grounded, conscious act that fuels resilience and real presence.From a yogic lens, this is the practice of Ahimsa (non-violence) and Svadhyaya (self-study). From a neuroscience view, it's about regulating your nervous system to create safety and clarity. And from a practical level, it's about building a relationship with yourself that is rooted in respect, care, and steady truth.This episode will leave you reflecting on how you lead, love, and live—from within.Episode Chapters:00:00:00 Introduction00:01:44 Self-Criticism vs Self-Kindness00:04:16 Ahimsa and the Inner Voice00:06:48 Inner Punishment vs Inner Presence00:08:58 Leadership Through Self-Compassion00:11:07 Svadhyaya and Regulating the Nervous System00:13:35 Presence Over Perfection00:16:07 Leading from Self-Kindness00:18:44 Breath and Mantra Practice00:21:04 Reflective Prompts and Closing-------—-------—-
If perfectionism is your favorite weakness, this one's for you. Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, clinical psychologist and author of How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists, joins Vic to unpack the roots of perfectionism, how it shows up in everyday life, and why so many of us feel like we have to earn our worth. They explore the difference between healthy ambition and toxic self-criticism, how to find that middle ground where you're still growing without burning out, and what it really means to practice self-compassion. Vic opens up about her own struggles with perfectionism—from how playing D1 volleyball enhanced her inner critic to why she regrets overplanning Max's 30th birthday—and shares the tools she's learning to prioritize presence over performance. Whether you overthink, overachieve, or feel like you're never quite doing enough, this conversation will help you let go of the pressure and embrace the messiness of being human.Website: ellenhendriksen.comInstagram: @ellen_hendriksenBook: How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists by Dr. Ellen Hendriksen// SPONSORS // Quince: Treat your closet to a little summer glow-up with Quince. Go to quince.com/realpod for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Paper Doll By Dylan Mulvaney: Buy your copy of Paper Doll here or wherever books are sold!Paired: Head to paired.com/realpod to get a 7-day free trail and 25% off if you sign up for a subscription. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
You ever sit there thinking, “I know what I need to do... so why the heck am I not doing it?”You know—drink the water, write the email, stop the self-sabotage, hug a puppy, hit the gym. It's not that you don't know… it's that you feel like a freakin' war is going on inside you.That exact inner conflict?It's what my guest Britt Frank helps people decode and conquer.Britt's a licensed neuropsychotherapist, trauma specialist, educator, and author of the must-read book Align Your Mind. She's been featured on The Doctors, NPR, Fast Company, and Psychology Today, and y'all—her brain is next level. But what I love most is how she breaks heavy stuff down in a super clear, practical, no-BS kinda way. In this convo on the Happy Hustle Podcast, we get into it. The truth about internal resistance. Why high performers crash hard when they try to rest. And how to stop fighting yourself so you can finally start flowing in alignment.Here's the thing: just because you're a high-level hustler doesn't mean your brain is on board with all the good stuff you're trying to do. Britt explains this through what she calls “parts work.” Basically, you've got different internal parts—some want to grow, others want to hide under the covers. One wants to crush your goals, one wants to eat chips and scroll for hours. The key? They're all trying to help in their own way. You just have to learn how to lead the team instead of being dragged around by the chaos.Britt hit me with this line and it stuck: “Alignment is about driving the team of emotions rather than being run over by them.” Boom.And get this—if you've ever felt guilt for trying to relax after grinding, this'll land. Imagine you're driving a stick shift. You can't go from 90 MPH in 5th gear straight to 20 MPH in 1st gear. You'll blow your engine. And that's what a lot of entrepreneurs are doing. We're go-go-go, building, scaling, moving at lightning speed. And then we try to switch into family mode or chill mode instantly. Britt's point? You have to downshift. You need intentional transitions to protect your nervous system. Stretch. Walk. Breathe. Shift gears slowly, not all at once.Another gold nugget: Britt talks about “micro yeses.” Sometimes we procrastinate because our goals are just too damn big. “Write a book.” “Launch a course.” “Lose 50 pounds.” Our brains go, “Nope. Too much.” But if you break it down to a single next step—open the doc, write one sentence, walk to the mailbox—you're telling your brain, “Hey, this is doable.” Small wins stack up. She also dropped this cool tool called non-dominant hand journaling. Yup—writing with your opposite hand. It feels weird, but it unlocks a different part of your brain that can surface things you didn't even know you were carrying. Perfect for when you feel stuck or unclear.If you've been battling yourself mentally, emotionally, spiritually… this episode is a reminder that you're not alone. You're not broken. Your brain's not working against you—it just needs a better team captain. That's you. You lead the parts, you align the team, and suddenly life feels a whole lot lighter.This episode's packed with practical strategies, mindset shifts, and real talk that can legit change the way you move through your day. Especially if you've been grinding non-stop and wondering why you still feel like something's missing.If you've ever procrastinated on a dream, felt guilty for resting, doubted your ability to keep going, or just wanted some tools to finally quiet the mental chaos and get aligned—this one's for you. It's the kind of convo that makes you think, feel, and take action—without the overwhelm.In this episode, we cover:The Concept of Alignment and Its ImportanceUnderstanding the Inner ConflictPractical Strategies for AlignmentThe Gear Shift Analogy for High PerformersMicro Yeses: Breaking Down GoalsCombating Inner Criticism and Self-DoubtUnderstanding Self-Criticism and DoubtThe Science of the Mind and Self-CompassionBreaking Autopilot: Non-Dominant JournalingEnergy Protection and Emotional ClarityShifting Focus: Choices Over WhyAligning Actions with ValuesWhat does happy Hustlin mean to you? Britt says Happy Hustlin means that my actions match my values and that they are aligned.Connect with Britthttps://www.instagram.com/brittfrankhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/brittfrankmsw/Find Britt on this website: brittfrank.com Connect with Cary!https://www.instagram.com/caryjack/https://www.facebook.com/SirCaryJackhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/cary-jack-kendzior/https://twitter.com/thehappyhustlehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFDNsD59tLxv2JfEuSsNMOQ/featuredGet a free copy of his new book, The Happy Hustle, 10 Alignments to Avoid Burnout & Achieve Blissful Balance https://www.thehappyhustle.com/bookSign up for The Journey: 10 Days To Become a Happy Hustler Online Course https://thehappyhustle.com/thejourney/Apply to the Montana Mastermind Epic Camping Adventure https://thehappyhustle.com/mastermind/“It's time to Happy Hustle, a blissfully balanced life you love, full of passion, purpose, and positive impact!”Episode Sponsors:If you're feeling stressed, not sleeping great, or your energy's been kinda meh lately—let me put you on to something that's been a total game-changer for me: Magnesium Breakthrough by BiOptimizers. This ain't your average magnesium—it's got all 7 essential forms that your body actually needs to chill out, sleep deeper, and feel more balanced. I take it every night and legit notice the difference the next day. No more waking up groggy or tossing and turning all nightIf you're ready to sleep like a baby, calm your nervous system, and optimize your recovery, go grab yours now at bioptimizers.com/happy and use code HAPPY10 for 10% OFF.99 Designs- Need a killer logo, stunning website, or next-level brand design?Stop DIY-ing and start delegating like a boss with 99designs by Vista! Neurable- If you're looking to level up your focus, productivity, and mental wellbeing all at once, do yourself a favor and check out Neurable. You get a special hookup—just use the code HAPPY at checkout and get $100 off.
Message From Susan Hey everyone, it's Susan, and you're about to hear one of my training tips and tidbits. These are quick, actionable strategies to help you and your dog in everyday life or for dog sport. Often our short videos with tips are created from your most popular segments of podcast episodes. So, let's dive in! Training Tips From Susan: How Recording Your Dog Training Sessions Can Help You Grow as a Trainer I'm sharing how recording your dog training sessions can help you grow as a trainer and fast-track your dog's progress. When you press “record,” you're not just capturing footage. You're capturing memories and the opportunity for you and your dog to grow together and shine. Watch the full video at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKvRI8XDSWU&t=258s
In this episode, I share with you how to end self criticism and finally silencing your inner bully! Go to https://www.erafael.com/ if you want my help, coaching or mentorship :) #SelfImprovement #PersonalDevelopment #Motivation #SelfHelpSubscribe to my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/rafaeleliassen/Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rafaeleliassen/
Welcome to another powerful episode of the Full Frontal Living Podcast with Lisa Carpenter! In episode 307, Lisa invites listeners to explore the depth of their inner world with the timeless fable of the two wolves, drawing on her own journey and her extensive coaching experience.Lisa shares both the classic and extended versions of the "Two Wolves" fable, unpacking how this story relates to our daily choices, emotions, and personal growth. Instead of seeing the “Dark Wolf” (our challenges, doubts, and tough emotions) as something to ignore, Lisa encourages us to acknowledge and understand both our dark and light sides. Ultimately, this episode is a powerful reminder that we all possess the incredible power to choose which parts of ourselves we nurture—but also how much richer life can be when we accept and learn from all of our internal experiences.Key Highlights:You Always Have a Choice: Lisa reminds us that the life we're living is the result of countless choices, both conscious and unconscious. Where we put our attention and energy—whether it's on positivity and growth or on negative thought loops—shapes our experience and outcomes.Beyond “Good” and “Bad” Sides: The extended version of the Two Wolves fable reveals that both our dark and light sides have gifts to offer. Instead of starving one side, we're invited to feed both, gaining courage, tenacity, compassion, and self-compassion in the process.Embracing All of Yourself: Lisa models how to integrate, value, and lovingly acknowledge every part of who we are—including the parts we often try to hide or suppress. This acceptance is where true peace, ease, and fulfillment are found.The Power to Change Your Story: Suffering and struggle may seem like our default settings, but by choosing to focus on what we want to create (rather than what we wish to avoid), we empower ourselves to change—and truly thrive.Real Transformation: Lisa's episode is not just theory; she shares personal examples and client experiences that show just how much is possible when we honor all of ourselves, create new habits, and choose courage over comfort.This episode is more than just a story; it's about the freedom that comes when you realize your power to choose and start integrating all parts of yourself. Lisa encourages you to reflect: How can you nurture both your dark and light wolves—and what could become possible if you do?Grab your earbuds, get cozy (or go out on a walk!), and let Lisa guide you to greater self-understanding and empowerment. Resources:To learn about Lisa's transformative "Reclamation" program, visit LisaCarpenter.ca/ReclamationLisa loves hearing feedback from her listeners! Share your thoughts, ah-ha moments, or questions.If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend, and don't forget to rate and review Full Frontal Living wherever you listen to podcasts!
Join host Rich Douglas as he welcomes Dr. Laura Gallaher to the Human Capital Lab podcast for an insightful discussion on self-acceptance, psychological safety, and effective organizational culture. Dr. Gallaher shares her journey from being an organizational psychologist at NASA working on culture change post-Columbia disaster to becoming a consultant. Learn how self-acceptance can improve self-awareness, help mitigate self-judgment, and drive high performance in organizations. Don't miss this episode for valuable insights on personal growth and leadership development.00:00 Introduction to the Human Capital Lab Podcast00:26 Meet Dr. Laura Gallaher: A Journey into Organizational Psychology02:19 NASA's Cultural Challenges and the Columbia Accident13:41 The Importance of Psychological Safety18:06 Self-Awareness and Self-Acceptance22:16 Personal Stories of Identity and Growth24:21 The Challenge of Accepting Feedback25:01 Self-Acceptance and Identity26:41 The Essence Exercise27:52 Fluidity in Identity28:24 Self-Acceptance Quiz28:57 Paradox Theory30:24 Impact of Self-Criticism on Leadership32:45 The Joey and Jamal Story34:32 Self-Acceptance in Organizations38:40 The Twilight Zone Analogy41:06 Final Thoughts and ResourcesConnect with the Guest, ;LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-gallaher-phd/Website: https://www.gallaheredge.com/Book: The Missing Links: Launching a High-Performing Company CultureConnect with Human Capital Lab; Host: Rich Douglas LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rich-douglas-92b71b52/ Human Captial Lab Links Website: https://humancapitallab.org/ Interested in Being a Guest? https://humancapitallab.org/podcast/
In this episode of Fitness & Sushi, we're uncovering the toxic mental patterns you didn't realize were symptoms of diet culture. If you've ever felt like your mindset is the problem—or worse, that you are the problem—this episode will show you the truth about why you feel stuck. In this episode – “Top 10 Signs You Have a Poor Relationship With Your Mind (a.k.a. The Diet Mindset)” – you'll learn…
Discover how self-criticism destroys your mental wellbeing and learn the scientifically-proven steps to emotional freedom with former GP turned compassion expert, Dr Nilesh Satguru. This transformative conversation reveals the shocking connection between sleep quality and relationship success, whilst providing practical techniques to break free from negative emotional patterns that sabotage your happiness. Dr. Nilesh Satguru is a self-mastery coach and compassion trainer who specializes in helping aspiring visionaries master their emotions with compassion. After 11 years as a doctor, Nilesh transitioned to self-development, where his work has rippled across five continents. His work has been experienced by 8-figure entrepreneurs, film producers, cult DJs, and award-winning nonprofit founders. His expertise has been featured by Entrepreneur, Soho House, and Mindvalley, and Business Insider. KEY TOPICS: ⭐ Emotional Mastery ⭐ Addiction to Negative Emotions ⭐ Spiritual Awakening ⭐ The Ego's Resistance to Change ⭐ Authenticity ⭐ Self-Esteem vs. Self-Compassion ⭐ Somatic Practices for Emotional Processing ⭐ Compassion and Transformation ⭐ Why There are no Right or Wrong Emotions ⭐ Conditional vs Unconditional love ⭐ Understanding the purpose of all emotions Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Breaking The Chains Of Avoidance Starts 22nd April: https://www.theauthenticman.net/breaking-the-chains-of-avoidance-programme-2025 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe Connect With Nilesh Satguru: Website: https://www.drsatguru.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsatguru/?hl=en
In this transformational healing session, Brandy Gillmore works with a live volunteer to break free from the painful cycle of self-criticism, overwhelm, and emotional trauma. This episode offers deep insight into how negative inner dialogue can block your healing, lower your self-confidence, and keep you stuck in emotional spirals. What you'll learn in this episode: How self-criticism impacts your mental, emotional, and physical health The hidden connection between guilt, trauma, and why it can feel so hard to change Powerful insights for rewiring your mind for healing How humor and lightness can actually support transformation A powerful insight to help you get out of overwhelm and emotional spirals Brandy also shares insights on spiritual connection, divine energy, and higher consciousness. Plus, she talks about her feature in Gaia's newest Divine Science series, which explores the science of spirituality and energy healing. Whether you're working on healing your body, releasing past trauma, or stepping into your power with more joy and ease—this episode is a must-listen. Additional links and resources: The NEW “Divine Science” Series on Gaia! Brandy's Interview on Gaia Finding the Gift in Healing ~ FREE 90-Minute "GIFT Mind-Body Healing™ Masterclass" Training: https://brandygillmore.com/healing The GIFT Method™ Online Video Series: Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. https://brandygillmore.com/gift-method-healing Website: https://brandygillmore.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/brandy.gillmore/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/brandygillmore/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BrandyGillmore TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5dEbqRYqY_0 Additional classes and services: GIFT Alternative Therapy and Mind-Reprogramming™: https://brandygillmore.com/alternative-therapy-mind-programming Gillmore Internal Freedom Techniques (GIFT)® : https://brandygillmore.com/gillmore-internal-freedom-technique/ VIP Monthly Coaching https://brandygillmore.com/vip-coaching/
Most people are focusing on how their bodies look, not how they feel—and it's holding them back.If you've ever declined an invitation because of how you felt about your body, avoided activities you love, or spent hours criticizing yourself in the mirror, this conversation is your wake-up call. In this episode, I sit down with Taryn Brumfitt, founder of the Body Image Movement and Australian of the Year 2023, to break down why embracing your body isn't just about feeling better—it's about living better.We're tackling the biggest misconceptions about body image—like why focusing on appearance keeps us stuck, why self-love isn't fluffy but foundational, and how body acceptance actually leads to healthier behaviors than body criticism. Plus, we're getting into practical strategies for handling body commentary from family members, maintaining progress when you have a "wobbly moment," and why taking up space as a woman is so revolutionary.Taryn Brumfitt is an Australian filmmaker, author, and speaker internationally renowned for her work in promoting body acceptance. She is the founder of the Body Image Movement, a global initiative dedicated to transforming the way people think and speak about their bodies, encouraging self-acceptance and self-love.In 2023, Taryn was named Australian of the Year for her significant efforts in changing societal perceptions of body image and fostering positivity around self-image.You can learn more about her mission at https://www.bodyimagemovement.com/embrace-you/We Also Discuss:(01:00) Body Image and Self-Acceptance (03:27) Embracing Body Image and Self-Love(13:31) Empowering Body Acceptance Conversations(17:17) Transforming Body Image Through Reframing(26:14) Setting Boundaries for Positive Body Image(35:20) Journeying Towards Body Acceptance Together(43:27) Empowering Women(57:05) Spreading Love and Taking ActionThank You to Our Sponsors: Broads: Broads gives you structured, progressive training and a powerhouse community to keep you strong, consistent, and unstoppable. Join today at broads.app and use code PODCAST for 20% off your first month! Find more from Tara: Website: https://www.taralaferrara.com/Instagram: @broads.podcast @taralaferrara @broads.appYoutube: Tara LaFerraraFind more from Taryn Brumfitt: Instagram: @bodyimagemovementFacebook: Taryn Brumfitt Official Fan Twitter “X”: @TarynBrumfittLinkedIn: Taryn Brumfitt
Sara Pascoe is a comedian, writer, and actor known for her sharp wit and deeply personal storytelling. With a career spanning stand-up, TV, and books, she's built a reputation for blending humor with honest reflections on life, relationships, and self-worth.In this episode, she opens up about her journey, from early struggles with self-doubt to finding confidence in both her career and personal life. Sara also talks about the importance of resilience in comedy, recalling the moments of failure that ultimately reinforced her love for performing.Throughout the conversation, she gets candid about her battle with negative self-talk and the role therapy played in changing her mindset. She also reveals her method for professional growth, keeping a diary of every gig to analyze what worked, what didn't, and how to keep evolving. This episode dives into the highs and lows of creative careers, the power of self-reflection, and the joy of embracing life's imperfections.
Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.In the latest episode of the Make Time for Success podcast, episode 221, Dr. Christine Li dives deep into the art of breaking free from procrastination with her curated 11-step guide to being simply productive. With over twenty-five years of expertise as a psychologist and procrastination coach, Dr. Li candidly shares strategies designed to help you move past self-doubt, fear, and overwhelm. Discover how to transform criticism and perfectionism into self-compassion and momentum, and learn to create success on demand. Whether it's building self-trust, working in alignment with your energy, or living clutter-free for better mental clarity, Dr. Li offers insights that promise to make productivity feel empowering instead of exhausting. Don't miss her valuable principles for living a truly productive and fulfilling life.Timestamps:04:25 "Simply Productive: Overcoming Procrastination"07:29 Focus on Goals, Not Distractions10:42 Nurture Your Energy for Growth15:46 "Wellness Fuels Peak Performance"19:39 Unlocking Human Potential22:18 Productivity Through Fun and CuriosityTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Us!Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/lab Simply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP
In this episode, Ellen Hendriksen discusses the hidden costs of perfectionism and why you never feel good enough. She shares the various ways perfectionism disguises itself as a positive trait—when in reality, it can lead to self-criticism, procrastination, and emotional exhaustion. Ellen also explains why perfectionism is less about being perfect and more about never feeling good enough, how self-acceptance is the antidote, and why procrastination is actually an emotional regulation problem (not a time management issue). Key Takeaways: (01:02) – Perfectionism isn’t about being perfect—it’s about never feeling good enough (03:26) – The two wolves of perfectionism: Conscientiousness vs. Self-Criticism (07:36) – Overevaluation: When self-worth gets tangled with performance (16:57) – Guided Drift: Mr. Rogers’ surprising philosophy on perfection and mistakes (26:51) – The power of self-compassion: You don’t need to be perfect to be worthy (39:40) – Emotional Perfectionism: The toxic belief that you “shouldn’t” feel a certain way (43:59) – Why procrastination is actually about emotion management—not time management (50:46) – How to release past mistakes and stop ruminating over failures For full show notes, click here! If you enjoyed this episode with Ellen Hendriksen, check out these other episodes: How to Overcome Perfectionism and Create Your Best Work with David Kadavy How to Manage Social Anxiety and The Inner Critic with Ellen Hendriksen Being a Procrastinator with Tim Pychyl Connect with the show: Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPod Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Follow us on Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Transforming 'Should' into 'Desire': A Journey to Self-Discovery The word "should" carries significant weight in our lives, often representing obligation and criticism. In this podcast episode, Tonya Leigh explores the profound impact that this single word can have on our mental and emotional well-being. When we use "should," it typically conveys a sense of duty or correctness, suggesting that there is a right way to do things. This inherent judgment can lead to feelings of shame and guilt, ultimately hindering our personal growth and fulfillment. She shares a relatable story about a listener named Jeanette, who eagerly anticipates Tonya's annual Live Like an Editor workshop as a tool for success. Tonya emphasizes the importance of breaking free from the cycle of "shoulds" that keep us playing small and reflects on her decision to take January for deep reflection before diving into the new year. Tune in to discover strategies for overcoming the pressure of expectations and embracing your true desires. Talking Points: 00:32 - Breaking Free from "Shoulds" 01:56 - Reflecting on the New Year 03:31 - The Concept of "Should Season" 05:09 - Definition of "Should" and Its Implications 08:00 - The Harm of "Should" in Personal Growth 10:24 - Internal "Shoulds" and Self-Criticism 13:31 - The Pressure of Societal Expectations 16:14 - The Paradox of Self-Acceptance 19:25 - The Body Test for True Desires 23:32 - Building a Life Based on True Desires 24:56 - Conclusion: Embracing True Desires Quotes: "It's when shame and guilt becomes your compass instead of desire being your guide." "To argue with reality is to argue with God and you only lose 100% of the time." "The curious paradox is when I accept myself as I am, then I can change." "It's only when I've gotten in touch with my true desires and made those the goals that I have had years where I felt excited, where I felt aligned, where I felt like I was moving towards my own North Star." "If you are building a life off of fear and shame shoulds, you are going to be building a prison for yourself." "Your desires are never wrong. They're simply showing you the way home to yourself." Useful Resources: Click HERE for Five Essential Quesions Click HERE for the FREE Shake-Up List Click HERE to join the Membership Click HERE for a FREE download Click HERE to sign up for our newsletter, The Edit Connect with Self-Image Coach Tonya Leigh: Click HERE to follow our Instagram Click HERE to visit our website Click HERE to visit our Facebook group Click HERE to follow our TikTok Click HERE to subscribe to our YouTube channel
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3424: Discover Rachel Shanken's transformative guide to breaking free from the cycle of self-criticism. Learn practical strategies to foster self-compassion, leverage the power of mindfulness, and reshape your mindset to lead a more joyful, fulfilling life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://mindbodywise.com/blog/break-cycle-self-criticism/ Quotes to ponder: "Your brain is malleable. It's important to remember that no matter what you're facing or where you are in your life, your brain has qualities of 'neuroplasticity' which means that, with effort, you can train and remold it." "By allowing this cycle to continue, with little consciousness and effort to change it, you keep yourself from living a full, fulfilling, joyful life." "With committed action, there's freedom from this painful cycle." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
