Podcasts about self criticism

In this powerful episode of Compared to Who?, Heather Creekmore takes a deep dive into one of the most important (and personal) topics discussed in our community—negative self-talk. Are you your own harshest critic? Do you find it easy to be kind to others but unbearable when it comes to your own reflection? This episode is for you! Heather openly explores the critical inner dialogue that many of us experience, especially on our journeys toward body image freedom. She addresses where negative self-talk comes from, why it's so hard to stop, and shares practical steps to start recognizing, writing down, and confronting those mean inner phrases that hold us back. What You'll Learn: How negative self-talk becomes a habit The spiritual and emotional roots of self-criticism Why simply "thinking positive" isn't enough Practical tips for noticing, documenting, and challenging negative thoughts How to find community and encouragement on the road to body kindness How our deep-seated beliefs shape the way we treat ourselves Key Takeaways: You can't stop negative self-talk until you notice it—awareness is the first step. Much of our negative inner dialogue stems from lies we’ve adopted as truth, often rooted in our childhood or from past hurtful comments. Community and vulnerability are vital; you’re not alone, and healing often grows in connection with others. Action Steps: Start tuning into your self-talk. Notice and write down the harsh words you’re telling yourself. Reflect: What’s stuck with you—and who put it there? Visit the Compared to Who? community at www.waitingforweightloss.com to share your story and receive support from others on the same journey. Challenge those hurtful statements with what God says about you. Links & Resources: Join the community: waitingforweightloss.com Learn more about the 40-Day Body Image Workbook and interactive journey Stay tuned for Heather Creekmore’s new book, coming in 2027! Rate & Review:If this episode resonated with you, please rate and review this podcast and share it with a friend who needs encouragement! Ready to ditch the inner critic and start your journey to body image freedom? Tune in now! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Okay, y'all. Buckle up for a full-body reminder: there is nothing wrong with you. In this episode, I'm throwing down the truth about judgment (yours and everyone else's), ego meltdowns, pink hair stereotypes, and what happens when you finally shut up long enough to hear what's going on in your own head. We get real about red pepper anxiety, the silent retreat that changed me, and the quote that's been living rent-free in my brain: “No one will ever love you the way you want to be loved… because that's your job.” Spoiler: there's also a blue breath meditation to clear out your throat chakra so you can speak your truth without all the noise. It's part pep talk, part truth bomb, and all heart. Let's go.

For speakers, self-awareness is essential—but too often, noticing what you're doing (or not doing) turns into harsh self-criticism. In this episode, we explore how to cultivate mindful self-awareness that informs growth without eroding confidence. You'll learn practical strategies to observe your speaking patterns, stay grounded, and use feedback—internal and external—as a tool for improvement rather than a source of shame.   Key Takeaways: Spot the line between awareness and self-criticism: Learn how to notice your speaking habits without beating yourself up. Use your body and nervous system as allies: Simple techniques to stay grounded and reduce the anxiety that fuels self-judgment. Turn reflection into growth, not guilt: Harness mindful self-awareness to strengthen presence, clarity, and confidence in every speaking moment.   For more inspiration—and to watch my free training, The Calm and Confident Communicator—head over to www.speaktoinspire.com. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe so you never miss an upcoming tip to elevate your speaking skills. And I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a rating and review—it really helps more people find the show! Thanks for listening!

Be Kinder to Yourself (Why Self-Criticism Isn't Helping You Win)This week, Michelle takes a break from guest interviews to speak directly to something that stopped her in her tracks.After sending out a listener survey, one result hit hard:80% of women said they struggle to be kind to themselves.Including Michelle.In this solo episode, Michelle unpacks how self-criticism sneaks in, why it feels productive (but isn't), and how being relentlessly hard on yourself can quietly hold you back — even when you're achieving on paper.This isn't about fluffy self-care or letting yourself off the hook.It's about awareness, honesty, and learning how to move forward without constantly tearing yourself down.Key Talking Points & Timestamps00:00 – Why this needed to be saidMichelle explains why she felt compelled to pause guest episodes and talk openly about kindness — and what triggered this realisation.01:08 – The survey result that changed everything80% of women said they struggle to be kind to themselves — and why that statistic is both comforting and alarming.02:41 – Catching the inner voice first thing in the morningHow negative self-talk was showing up before Michelle had even opened her eyes — and why that matters.03:25 – The ‘holy socks' analogyWhy we treat other people with more respect than we treat ourselves — and what that says about self-worth.04:42 – When being “hard on yourself” backfiresMichelle reflects on imposter syndrome in construction and how self-criticism limited her confidence and progression.06:22 – Building the podcast without trusting herselfGrowing a podcast from scratch, hitting big milestones — and still being unable to acknowledge progress.07:41 – When your worth gets tied to achievementWhy high-achieving women never feel like they've “arrived” — and the cost of chasing constant validation.09:00 – Starting from ‘I am enough' (without losing your drive)Insights inspired by Joe Hudson on separating self-worth from outcomes.09:35 – Fear, paralysis, and second-guessingHow being unkind to yourself fuels procrastination and decision fatigue.10:45 – The 9-day awareness exerciseA simple but powerful way to notice, track, and challenge self-critical thoughts.11:58 – Three ways to reframe unkind thoughts• Acknowledge without agreeing• Laugh at the ridiculous ones• Reframe with evidence and context13:43 – The real cost of self-criticismWhy it doesn't make you better — just more disconnected, anxious, and distrustful of yourself.14:58 – Chasing relief instead of alignmentWhy achievement doesn't bring peace if you're running from fear instead of moving with intention.16:18 – “My story isn't good enough”Why even the most impressive women downplay their journeys — and how common this mindset really is.17:54 – Living in fight-or-flight without realising itHow self-kindness helped Michelle regulate her nervous system and feel more grounded week to week.18:43 – A quiet invitation, not a challengeMichelle encourages listeners to start with one thing: not being unkind to themselves.19:22 – What's next with Dare ClubHow this work around kindness, alignment, and self-trust is shaping the future of Dare Club.Key TakeawaysBeing hard on yourself isn't discipline — it's often fear in disguiseSelf-criticism doesn't fuel progress; it creates paralysisHigh achievement without self-kindness leads to disconnectionYou can accept emotions without agreeing with themAwareness is the first step — not perfectionStarting from “I am enough” doesn't kill ambition, it steadies itSign up to Dare club Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's never just about the weight loss.  Total self-care is about self-respect, confidence, and finally choosing yourself.  When those shift... everything changes.  

When self-criticism ramps up during eating disorder recovery, it can feel confusing or discouraging, especially when behaviors are beginning to change. This episode explores why that intensification is often part of the healing process rather than a sign that recovery is going wrong. In this solo episode, Dr. Marianne Miller explains why the inner critical voice often gets louder as eating disorder behaviors decrease and familiar control systems loosen. Instead of framing self-criticism as simply negative self-talk, this episode examines it as a regulatory strategy shaped by nervous system threat, social pressure, and internalized ableism. Internalized Ableism in Eating Disorder Recovery Recovery often collides with a world that expects bodies and minds to function efficiently, consistently, and quietly. In this section, Dr. Marianne names how those expectations become internalized as harsh self-judgment, especially for neurodivergent people, people with chronic illness, and those navigating long-term eating disorders. You'll hear how internalized ableism fuels self-criticism when recovery requires pacing, support, repetition, or accommodation, and why needing these supports does not mean recovery is failing. The Inner Critic and Nervous System Threat Many people try to argue with or silence self-critical thoughts in recovery. This episode explains why that approach often backfires and intensifies the inner voice instead. Dr. Marianne explores how the inner critic functions as a response to perceived threat and why understanding its role is more effective than trying to eliminate it. Responding to Self-Criticism Without Shame This episode offers compassionate, neurodivergent-affirming ways to respond to self-criticism without turning recovery into another performance. The focus is on reducing threat, supporting regulation, and loosening the critic's authority rather than suppressing it. A brief clinical vignette illustrates how self-criticism rooted in internalized ableism can show up even when healing is actively underway. Nonlinear Eating Disorder Recovery For people with long-term or chronic eating disorders, progress often looks different than expected. This section reframes recovery as a process that prioritizes safety, accommodation, and sustainability over efficiency or perfection. Loud self-criticism does not mean failure. It often signals that a system is reorganizing in response to change. A Gentle Reminder Recovery is not about proving you can function the way the world demands. It is about building a life that supports your nervous system, your needs, and your humanity. Related Episodes This Is Body Grief: How Ableism, Intersectionality, & Eating Disorders Shape Our Body Experiences With Jayne Mattingly on Apple & Spotify. Size Inclusivity & Ableism: Why Body Acceptance is More Than Just "Loving Your Curves" on Apple & Spotify. Ableism and Common Myths About Diabetes with Kim Rose, RD @the.bloodsurgar.nutritionist on Apple & Spotify. Work With Me and Learn More If this episode resonated and you want structured, neurodivergent-affirming support, you can learn more about my self-paced ARFID course. The course is designed for teens and adults navigating avoidant and restrictive eating patterns and focuses on sensory needs, nervous system safety, and realistic, sustainable change without shame or pressure.

Send us a textOne month into the year, many of us feel behind, overwhelmed, or quietly disappointed—especially when life doesn't look the way we imagined on January 1st.In this episode, we talk about how to take inventory without self-criticism. Not a resolution reset. Not a productivity audit. Just an honest, compassionate check-in with yourself.We explore how to notice your energy, emotions, relationships, and pace without spiraling into shame or pressure to “fix” everything. This conversation is for anyone who feels like motivation has worn off, self-judgment is creeping in, or the year already feels heavier than expected.Awareness is not failure. Sometimes, it's the beginning of gentler change.Support the showDisclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy or professional mental health care.Want more? Subscribe now and take a seat In Session! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1679131/supportFollow us on Instagram: @insessionthepodcast Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/insessionthepodcast/

What if the key to making new healthy habits stick wasn't discipline or self-control... but compassion?This episode wraps up our 4-part behavior change series with the neuroscience of self-compassion and a proven 3-step process to help you transform habits from the inside out.What to Listen For:[03:00] The 3 things your brain actually needs to create lasting change[04:30] Why fighting your thoughts triggers your stress response[06:00] What part of your brain the “elephant” lives in—and why logic won't work there[07:30] Why tiny habits feel safer to your brain (and work better)[10:00] The surprising way self-criticism mimics physical danger[11:00] How self-compassion activates your “rest and digest” system[12:00] Amy's 3-step process to redirect “elephant” thoughts (instead of arguing with them)[15:00] The identity-based shift that changes everything[20:00] Questions to ask yourself that keep you aligned with your future self[22:00] Common hidden identities that sabotage progress—like “I'm an emotional eater” or “I'm not athletic”[24:00] The invisible influence of self-labels on habit formation and behavior[25:30] How to gently reframe your identity[00:27:00] How repetition and identity come together to make habits automatic (without pressure or shame)Change doesn't happen through pressure—but it can happen under the right conditions. This episode offers a practical, neuroscience-backed way to shift your habits by honoring your needs and rewiring your brain one kind thought at a time.Ready to become the woman you want to be? Tune in, subscribe to the podcast, and don't forget to check out the earlier episodes in this series for a full foundation.RESOURCES: Book a FREE Discovery Call with Amy Lang Order Amy's book Thoughts Are Habits Too: Master Your Triggers, Free Yourself From Diet Culture, and Rediscover Joyful Eating. Follow Amy on Instagram @habitwhisperer Follow Amy on Facebook @amylangcoaching

Get access to The Backroom (95+ exclusive episodes of 1Dime Radio) on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OneDimeIn this episode, friend of the show, Philosopher Dave McKerracher of Theory Underground, and I dig into the idea of “radical responsibility,” basically the notion that if you're trying to change the world, you've got more responsibility on your shoulders, not less. We talk about how bad messaging, cringe behavior, and ideological shortcuts can tank movements, including a wild DSA mishap. Pulling from Max Weber, history, and everyday politics, we argue that real progress comes down to considering real consequences and what a majority of people can actually get behind. In the Backroom, Dave and I continue our spicy conversation on “Progress and Reaction,” taking a deeper look at how parts of the left end up functioning as “shocktroops for capital.”Timestamps: 0:00 Trump's ICE Raids (Preview)3:43  The Importance of Radical Responsibility 30:45 The Responsibility of the Radical Right53:04 DSA Disaster 1:09:14 Nick Fuentes' Rise 1:25:49 Ends, means, & Intentions: The Ethics of Conviction vs ResponsibilityGUEST:David McKerracher (Theory Underground)• Theory Underground (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/@theory_underground• McKerracher of TU (X): https://x.com/theoryundrgrnd• Theory Underground (Substack): https://theoryunderground.substack.com/• Underground Theory Volume 2 on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FZBNYSF9FOLLOW 1Dime:• Substack (Articles and Essays): https://1dimereview.substack.com• X/Twitter: https://x.com/1DimeOfficial• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyof1dime/• Check out my main channel videos: https://www.youtube.com/@1DimeeLeave a like, drop a comment, and give the show a 5-star rating on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to this.

Many people believe they need more willpower to stay consistent with fasting or eating habits.

In this engaging conversation, Lori Woodley-Langendorff discusses her book 'SEL Muscle Mastery' and the importance of practical skills in education. The dialogue explores the journey of writing and publishing a book, the significance of social-emotional learning (SEL), and the application of practical skills in everyday life. Lori emphasizes the need for curiosity, effective communication, and self-reflection in educational settings, while also highlighting the importance of empathy and compassion. The conversation concludes with reflections on personal growth, recognition in the counseling field, and the joy of pursuing one's passions. https://www.allittakes.org/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to SEL Muscle Mastery 02:54 The Journey of Writing and Publishing a Book 06:07 Understanding SEL Muscles and Their Importance 09:07 Practical Skills for Everyday Life 11:52 The Q-Tip Principle: Quit Taking It Personally 15:06 Curiosity and Its Role in Education 17:48 Creating a Supportive Learning Environment 20:47 Understanding Different Communication Styles 27:48 The Cycle of Self-Criticism 29:58 Empathy and Compassion in Education 32:56 Finding Joy Amidst Challenges 36:04 Authenticity and Self-Reflection 40:57 Celebrating Achievements and Milestones 46:10 Pursuing Passion and Overcoming Doubts Start your free Solution-Focused  3-day training here: https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/leadwithhopechallenge  TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN Instagram: Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset Podcast https://www.instagram.com/cherkretz_thefocusedmindset/ TikTok: @Cher Kretz The Focused Mindset https://www.tiktok.com/@cherkretz?lang=en      

If you've ever said “I deserve a treat” or “I'll start on Monday,” this episode is for you.In Part 3 of this series on why you keep getting stuck, master health coach Amy Lang reveals the hidden triggers most habit frameworks miss that lead to self-sabotage.

As we closed the previous year reflection is everywhere, but for many of us it quickly turns into self judgment. If you've been replaying what you didn't do, wondering why you're not further along, or feeling like you somehow fell short last year then this episode is for you.   In this conversation we explore a new way to look back, one that doesn't involve beating yourself up or rewriting your worth based on outcomes. This isn't about fixing yourself. It's about understanding yourself.   This episode is for you if you're feeling behind, stuck, or disappointed with how the year unfolded. If you tend to be your own harshest critic during reflection. If you want to grow, but not at the cost of your mental or emotional health and if you're craving a softer, more honest way to close this chapter.   Let's reflect on the year with honesty and kindness.   xoxo,    Jeannet    Work with Jeannet:   Apply for one on one private coaching: https://forms.gle/bwoTL8HCUDPmM1LY8 Get my FREE workbook to help you identify the skills you can monetize with an online business: https://www.jeannetsacks.com/monetizeskills Coaching Business Workshop: This Workshop is designed to take you from newbie to launching your own Online Coaching Business or restructure your current Coaching Program so it starts making you money. You will develop your Coaching Program and create streams of income from the comfort of your home, while having an impact on others. https://www.jeannetsacks.com/coachingbusiness Subscribe to my newsletter for awesome tips to live your best life:  https://www.jeannetsacks.com/newsletter Instagram: @JeannetSacks   Website: https://www.JeannetSacks.com  

Do you offer milk as a beverage to guests? Is milk just for kids? An Ozzy Osbourne biopic is in the works. We make a list of the biopics we're surprised they haven't made yet. Pepper has some questions about scammers. We have some concerns about phone number harvesting. We chat about the movie theater that decided to restart a movie for some late customers. Some other movie theater horror stories.

It's a couple of weeks into the new year, which means many of us are probably starting to feel just the faintest resurgence of those old struggles and habits we had confidently declared that we would conquer this time. At first, we're filled with enthusiasm and hope and determination, but old habits die hard and the internal mechanisms which drive those habits are even harder to force into submission. So, what if we didn't? What if, instead of leaning into brute force, we leaned into understanding? What if we made friends with our shadows and demons so we could learn to work with them instead of fighting against them? If you find yourself on the struggle bus right now, we hope you'll join us for a discussion about personal growth through integration rather than through eradication.If you're enjoying the podcast we'd love it if you could help us spread the word by telling your friends, subscribing to the podcast, and leaving a rating or review. If you'd like to support us on Patreon we are at www.patreon.com/differentfunctional Thanks so much for listening and remember, different does not mean defective.

Here are some spiritual and practical tips on how to stop self-criticism. These are excerpts from my audiobook on "How to Stop Self-Criticism."✅ Important Links:

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Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday. In this episode of Raising Confident Girls, Melissa Jones offers a grounding reminder for parents who worry they're not doing enough—especially when their daughters are struggling quietly. She explores how showing up with calm, steady presence can be more powerful than fixing, advising, or saying the “perfect” thing.Melissa speaks directly to the inner critic so many girls carry and reassures parents that this voice isn't a reflection of failure. Instead, it's an opportunity—one where patience, understanding, and simply being there can shape how a daughter learns to speak to herself.Tune in to discover:Why your daughter's inner critic doesn't mean you're falling shortHow your presence—more than your words—helps her feel safe and supportedThe role your calm plays in helping her regulate big emotionsWhy you don't need to be perfect to make a lasting, meaningful impactThis episode is a gentle exhale for parents who feel unseen in the day-to-day work of raising girls. Even on the quiet, invisible days, you are shaping her inner voice in ways that truly matter.If this message feels like something a parent in your life needs to hear, share this episode with them. Sometimes the most powerful support is simply reminding someone: you're already doing enough.Melissa's Links:• Website • Instagram • Facebook• TikTok• LinkedIn

Welcome to Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones dives into a challenge many girls face—but don't always talk about out loud: self-criticism. She explores how negative self-talk can quietly shape a girl's confidence and emotional world, and why it so often comes from pressure rather than truth.Melissa offers 5 practical, compassionate phrases parents can use to help their daughters soften their inner critic and build resilience through kinder self-talk. She reminds parents that perfection isn't the goal—connection is. By recognizing pressure, naming the inner critic, and meeting girls where they are emotionally, parents can support their daughters in developing a healthier, more supportive relationship with themselves.In this episode, we discuss:How self-criticism shows up quietly in girls' everyday livesWhy pressure—not truth—often fuels negative self-talkThe power of naming the inner critic to reduce its holdSimple, supportive phrases parents can use in hard momentsHow embracing imperfection builds emotional resilienceWhy meeting your daughter where she is matters more than fixing feelingsJoin Melissa for this thoughtful and reassuring conversation that will help you support your daughter's confidence from the inside out—by fostering kind self-talk, emotional awareness, and a deeper sense of self-acceptance.Download the Quick Tips PDF of today's episode for future reference.If you know a parent who could benefit from this conversation, share this episode with them! Let's work together to raise the next generation of confident girls.Melissa's Links:• Website • Instagram • Facebook• TikTok• LinkedIn

in this recording i hit on 2 more topics from the booklet “KEEP CALM and TRUST GOD” by Keith and Jake Provance. 2 things that are very real and prevalent in our society, in our lives, STRESS and SELF CRITICISM. The Key is not allow those things to linger, or dictate our thoughts/feelings. it's Important to HIT the RESET button frequently to get back to a place of peace. be blessed by this tangent ✝️

In this episode of Mental Training Lab, I sit down with psychiatrist, meditation teacher, and author of The Mindful Twenty-Something,  Dr. Holly Rogers. We're breaking down how mindfulness and meditation can transform our relationship to the present moment, performance, and our lives as a whole. Holly has spent decades working with college students, emerging adults, and high performers, helping them use Vipassana (mindfulness) meditation not as a relaxation tool, but as a mental training and nervous system regulation practice. We dig into what mindfulness actually is (and isn't), why it's not about “clearing your mind” and more about expanding your stretch zone so you don't tip into overwhelm when it matters most.We also get personal. I share how these practices have helped me transform my relationship with self-criticism, including a moment where I found myself unexpectedly in tears on the cushion, able to meet a younger version of me, and his “wrestler mindset” with compassion instead of judgment. Holly brings in 30 years of clinical experience to bust the myth that being kinder to yourself will make you soft or lazy and explains why she's never once seen that happen.If you're an athlete, coach, or high performer who's curious about mindfulness, meditation, self-compassion, performance, and resilience, this conversation offers practical tools, science-backed insight, and very human stories to help you start (or restart) your own practice in a doable, sustainable way.- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Learn more about The Mental Training LabConnect with Pete on Instagram | LinkedIn | WebsiteSubscribe to the podcast on Apple | Spotify This show is produced and edited by the team at Palm Tree Pod Co.

How do you actually cope with all the pressure and stress that comes with the festive season?In this episode of the Hello Therapy podcast, I'm joined by Health Psychologist, Jo Rodriguez. We talk about the real, often hidden challenges that people face around Christmas. Together, we explore everything from fatigue, family dynamics, loneliness, and the overwhelming “perfect Christmas” pressure, to practical strategies for checking in with yourself and regulating stress. Whether you love or struggle with the holidays, you'll find compassionate, relatable tips to make the festive period a little more manageable.Highlights include:3:18 Hidden Stresses Of The Festive Season7:01 Loneliness, Exhaustion And Family Pressure12:26 Spotting Fatigue And Early Warning Signs19:01 Practical Basics To Reduce Overwhelm24:11 Inner Critic, Perfectionism And Expectations30:21 Flexibility And Rethinking Traditions36:06 Body Regulation Over Head-Only StrategiesThis week's guest:Jo Rodriguez is a UK-based Health Psychologist with over 20 years' experience helping people who feel anxious, overwhelmed, and stuck in their own heads. She works with the mind and the body. CBT, EMDR, EFT, and nervous system tools.Jo is known for her straight-talking, compassionate style and her ability to explain why you feel the way you do, without making you feel broken or blamed. Her work focuses on helping people calm their bodies, untangle overthinking, and feel more like themselves again.WebsiteTell us what you thought of this episode!***Check out Dr Liz White's YouTube channel for help with anxiety and OCD***If overthinking and worry is draining you, start with my 30-minute mini course How to Stop Spiralling. It gives you the exact tools I teach clients to interrupt thought loops in real time. If you want something for the moments you're already anxious or overwhelmed, the Spiral Rescue Kit has guided audios and a printable SOS plan you can use anywhere. → Get both HERE (get £5 off when you buy both or gift it to a friend!) -> SOCIALS DISCLAIMER

Your self-criticism isn't helping youIt's like trying to run a race with a broken legBook a free consult call here: https://poojavcoaching.com/contact———What my clients have to say…“I have a healthier internal monologue. I still have an internal monologue, but it's a positive one.And there are moments where I slip back into some of the negative thought cycles I used to be in, and it's almost like I can hear—‘Pooja would tell me to stop assuming that everyone thinks I'm annoying.And Pooja would tell me to advocate for myself, because what's the worst that could happen?And Pooja would tell me to take a break and acknowledge that thought, but not get sucked into it and move on with my day.'There's a second layer now of my internal monologue that is the healthy helper, which I developed from coaching, that just stops me from ever regressing too far into those negative thoughts.”—Client | Head of Business Development at MedTech CompanyRead more client testimonials here: https://poojavcoaching.com/testimonials-page———I help high achievers get clear on what's next and make that next step happen…Whether that's leveling up where they are, or making their next career move.Did you know I have 400+ articles covering every possible angle of this topic? Check them out at my Table of Contents, where all my work is organized by theme so you can easily find what you need today: https://poojav.substack.com/p/welcome-to-your-brains-bffAnd if you want to make sure you never miss a post, subscribe to my email newsletter: https://poojav.substack.com/

This week on "The Liberating Effect!" , Rabbi Mendy Greenberg, MY House CEO Michelle Overstreet and Isaac Smoldon continue their conversation about "Letters for Life - Guidance for Emotional Wellness from the Lubavitcher Rebbe" compiled by Levi Y. Shmotkin. On today's episode we discuss chapter nine "Overcoming Darkness - Self Criticism."

What story do you tell yourself when things don’t go as planned? Self-compassion for women over 50 isn’t about lowering your standards. It’s about releasing the grip of perfectionism that keeps you stuck. In this episode, I share the mortifying moment I almost ghosted three women who registered for my workshop… all because I made the fatal mistake my mother warned me about: assuming no one was… Source

You might be ending the year thinking “this did not go how I hoped.” In this solo episode, I talk about the pressure that comes with the holiday countdown, the noise of everyone's highlight reels, and the moment you realize your goals didn't quite match the reality you lived.We break down why not hitting your goals doesn't mean you failed. More often, it points to the season you were in, what you had the capacity for, and whether the structure around you actually supported the things you were trying to do.I walk you through ten shifts that help you look at your year with more honesty and less self-criticism. We talk about what truly happened this season, how to make your goals fit your actual life, and how to recognize progress that doesn't show up in photos or personal records.You'll also hear why perfection can't be the expectation, why you're not starting over, and what it looks like to train like the version of yourself you're becoming instead of waiting for the perfect stretch of time to feel motivated.Are you feeling behind or discouraged as the year wraps up? This episode is a real conversation to help you step into next season with more steadiness, compassion, and self-trust. Tune in.What's Discussed:(00:55) Why end-of-year pressure and goal season hit so hard(01:25) When your goals don't match your reality and what that actually says about you(02:58) The 10 shifts that help you make progress and move forward(11:11) How support, structure, and honest guidance stop the endless “start over” cycle(12:09) The perspective you might need right nowThank You to Our Sponsors:Timeline: Get you free 3-day trial of Mitopure gummies. Head over to timeline.com/taragummies to claim yours.Go to humebody.com and use the code TARA at checkout for up to 50% off.Check out more from Broads: Website: www.broads.appInstagram: @broads.podcast @broads.app

In this episode, we discuss how affirmations can interrupt harsh inner dialogue. We explore statements that promote forgiveness and acceptance.https://selfpause.com/app/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Garza sits down in-person with Ced Davis & Drew Arnold. Guitar players from Columbus, OH death metal band SANGUISUGABOGG. New album “HIDEOUS AFTERMATH” out now! https://instagram.com/sanguisugaboggbandEnter to win a Quad Cortex at our new PATREON: https://patreon.com/garzapodcast00:00 - Riff: Metallica - Fuel02:28 - Drew's Pedalboard & Tone03:54 - RAT Pedal & Bass Distortion08:28 - Dunable Guitars12:06 - String Gauges & Baritones16:50 - Nu Metal17:17 - Hideous Aftermath24:06 - Repulsive Demise30:21 - Studio Amps & Gear32:32 - Overdrive Pedal Settings33:49 - Unique Bass Tone Setup42:37 - Emperor Guitar & Bass Cabinets46:15 - Playing Guitar in Low Tunings48:50 - Influences & Bonding53:03 - Riff: Rotted Entanglement54:44 - Riff: Abhorrent Contraception59:06 - Writing Face Ripped Off1:03:56 - Riff: Rotted Entanglement 21:04:55 - Riff: Ritual of Autophagia1:05:33 - Ominous Melodies & Sounds1:07:32 - Self-Criticism1:09:32 - Riff: Dead as Sh*t1:15:12 - Riff: Abhorrent Contraception 21:17:02 - Garza Jams Face Ripped Off1:22:41 - Groove

Sayaka Matsui is General Counsel and Representative Executive Officer at Unilever Japan. Sayaka shares how she unlearned something that she thought was helping her to do better. When she did that amazing things happened and she reached new career heights as well as achieving personal goals too. If you are wondering if your career path is “on track” or you are struggling with self criticism, this episode is for you!If you enjoyed this episode and it inspired you in some way, we'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Head over to Apple Podcasts to leave a review and we'd love it if you would leave us a message here!In this episode you'll hear:How reading a children's story-book version of Merchant of Venice at age 10 sparked Sayaka's interest in lawSayaka's transition from private practice to corporate planning and eventually to General CounselThe transformative impact of spending two years in the United States How Sayaka unlearned her habit of nightly self-criticism and embraced vulnerability About SayakaSayaka Matsui is the Representative Executive Officer and General Counsel of Unilever Japan Holdings G.K., where she leads legal, compliance, and risk management for one of the world's most recognised global brands.Before joining Unilever in 2019, she held legal roles at Credit Saison, Waseda Legal Commons Law Office, Daizawa Law Office, and Nagashima Ohno & Tsunematsu. Sayaka also spent a year as a Visiting Scholar at the University of California, Berkeley, broadening her global perspective on law and social impact.She is deeply committed to the next generation of legal talent, providing programs to law schools and judicial apprentices to promote understanding of in-house legal work, and in 2025, she was appointed as a member of MEXT's advisory committee on law schools.Sayaka holds a J.D. (Professional) and LL.B. from Waseda University.In her spare time, she loves watching international TV dramas and learning foreign languages.Connect with SayakaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sayaka-matsui-881a61188/ Connect with Catherine LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/oconnellcatherine/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lawyeronair

Why are we so much harsher on ourselves than we are on others? In this episode of Super Brain, I explore the neuroscience of self-compassion — what it is, what it isn't, and why it's the antidote to self-criticism.Drawing on the work of Dr Kristin Neff and Buddhist philosophy, we'll look at self-compassion as a three-part skill: self-kindness, mindfulness, and social connection. I'll share research showing how self-compassion reduces stress, quiets the amygdala, and activates brain regions linked to empathy and emotional regulation.I'll also explain why self-criticism is a form of self-harm, and why self-compassion is a foundation for flourishing and manifesting happiness, resilience, and contentment.As always, I'll wrap up with my Tools in Three — simple ways you can start turning up your brain's kindness switch today.Each episode explores what's really going on inside your brain when you do the things you do — from the everyday to the extraordinary — and gives you three tools for your Super Brain kit. Sabina's books The Neuroscience of Manifesting Still Me 100 Days to a Younger Brain Beating Brain Fog Brain Gym in a BoxSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/superbrain. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You might be familiar with self-criticism that says, "Do better. Try harder. Stop making mistakes!" Listening to critical self-talk for too long can tempt us to react under pressure or retreat in shame. Thankfully God's voice of love sings a different song over us — the Lord desires to protect us from ruthless self-criticism.Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share how you can replace self-criticism with self-empathy. You'll learn how to watch and pray with Jesus as you trust him to protect you from lies and judgment in areas of woundedness and weakness.Resources for this Episode:Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God's Great Empathy for YouAttend a Soul Shepherding RetreatDonate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks*Please note: You'll receive the BOGO discount on Deeply Loved by adding two copies to your cart in our shop. This sale runs from November 12, 2025 to November 27, 2025. Click the link above to get this special deal.

Loving yourself isn't a feeling. It's a skill. In this episode, Perry shares the 3 powerful skills every ambitious woman needs to stop self-criticism, regulate her emotions, and finally feel confident in who she is.You'll learn how to:Manage your mind so negative thoughts don't control youMaster your emotions and stay calm under pressureBuild self-trust by showing up for yourself dailyThese are the exact skills Perry teaches inside her coaching program Becoming Her, designed to help you become confident, grounded, and unstoppable in every area of your life.If you're ready to stop doubting yourself and start loving yourself, this episode will show you how to build that confidence from the inside out.CONNECT WITH ME: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠22 Journal Prompts ( Free Guide)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram (the.mindsetbabe)⁠Keywords: self-love, confidence, mindset coach, emotional regulation, personal development, confidence for women, self-worth mindset babe, becoming her, motivation for women

In a culture obsessed with filters, fitness hacks, and endless self-critique, this episode invites you into something far deeper: radical acceptance. What if your body isn't a problem to fix but a place where God delights to dwell? Join John Ortberg as he unpacks a spiritual (and countercultural) approach to loving the body you have, not in spite of it, but because it's a gift from God. Learn how to live at peace with your physical self, embrace your body with gentleness, and see it through the eyes of grace.Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time.TEXT US at 855-888-0444EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.comGET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribeGET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text BECOME to 855-888-0444SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team

The words you say to yourself matter and they can affect your sense of identity. Why is self-criticism and harsh self-talk so damaging?How do I know if I'm being self-critical?What CBT tools can help me adjust my thoughts about myself?Join me, Dr Julie Osborn, as we discuss harsh self-talk and how to replace it with balanced self-talk using cognitive-behavioral therapy tools. Click to listen now! Visit us on Instagram at MyCBTPodcast Or on Facebook at Dr Julie Osborn Subscribe to the podcast at Apple Podcasts Email us at mycbtpodcast@gmail.com Find some fun CBT tools at https://www.mycbt.store/ Thanks for listening to My CBT Podcast!

We're digging into the Dr. Gabor Maté's third level of compassion in this episode: The compassion of recognition. This level emphasizes realizing the shared nature of pain and loss, reminding us that we are not alone. We'll highlight the 'illusion of separation' and how breaking through it can deepen our connections and ease our struggles. We'll also share the 'Judge, Mirror, Bridge' exercise to help us practice compassion by identifying judgments, finding similarities within ourselves, and bridging connections with others.  About: The Joy Lab Podcast blends science and soul to help you cope better with stress, ease anxiety, and uplift mood. Join Dr. Henry Emmons and Dr. Aimee Prasek for practical, mindfulness-based tools and positive psychology strategies to build resilience and create lasting joy. If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review us wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts!  Like and follow Joy Lab on Socials:  Instagram TikTok Linkedin YouTube Sources and Notes: Joy Lab Program: Take the next leap in your wellbeing journey with step-by-step practices to help you build and maintain the elements of joy in your life. Previous episodes for this series: Part 1: Ordinary Human Compassion & Self-Compassion to Improve Mental Health Part 2: Understanding Ourselves & Others Gabor Mate's website. How can I love myself more... and love others more too? [ep. 174] Full transcript here Please remember that this content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice and is not a replacement for advice and treatment from a medical professional. Please consult your doctor or other qualified health professional before beginning any diet change, supplement, or lifestyle program. Please see our terms for more information. If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call the NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-950-6264 available Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. – 10 p.m., ET. OR text "HelpLine" to 62640 or email NAMI at helpline@nami.org. Visit NAMI for more. You can also call or text SAMHSA at 988 or chat 988lifeline.org.

Think fitness has to be all-or-nothing? That the only way to see results is to grind harder, sweat more, and push through pain?  If you've ever felt stuck in the shame cycle of workouts that feel like punishment, this episode is going to flip the script.In this episode, I'm joined by Sadie Lincoln, co-founder and CEO of Barre3, to talk about why the fitness industry has sold women on shame and “no pain, no gain,” and how to replace it with a smarter, more sustainable model.We dive into Sadie's comfort → brave → fight framework, the truth about modifications as performance tools, and why short movement snacks throughout the day often beat one big sweat session. Sadie also shares how to tune into your body's sensations to quiet the inner critic, plus her honest take on wearables, recovery, and motivation that actually lasts.If you're ready to shift from grinding harder to working smarter, this episode will show you how to find strength, confidence, and longevity, in and out of the gym.Sadie Lincoln is the co-founder of Barre3, a global fitness company with over 200 studios and a thriving online platform. With more than 17 years of teaching experience, she's redefining what results look like for women by combining strength, cardio, and mindfulness into every class.We Also Discuss:(00:46) Why shame sells in fitness, yet never sticks(11:05) The mindset shift that makes workouts feel empowering, not punishing(20:46) How growth really happens, and why community matters more than willpower(25:33) The industry myth women should finally start questioning(38:22) One simple movement practice that can change your entire day(42:20) Why modifications aren't “less than”, they're the smarter way to train(46:31) Progression vs. perfection: redefining what success actually looks likeThank You to Our Sponsors:Timeline: 20% off of Mitopure Gummies. Just go to timeline.com/TARA, and see what it feels like when your recovery and strength finally click. Check out more from Broads:Website: https://www.broads.app/Instagram: @broads.podcast @broads.appFind more from Sadie Lincoln:Website: https://barre3.comInstagram: @barre3Instagram: @sadielincoln  

This one gets personal. I share my story, growing up praised for performance, losing my athletic identity, spiraling into restriction, bingeing, and running myself into the ground. A coach tells me to lose weight, shame follows, and I chase “smaller” at all costs. The shift starts with one yes: a park workout. From there, I rebuilt myself. HIIT opens the door to movement; strength training changes everything. Lifting teaches me to take up space, eat for fuel, and measure progress by power, not a scale. I define what “enough” means on my terms.In this episode of Broads, I break down how mindset questions create momentum, why one decision beats perfection, and what real progress looks like, and spoiler: It's not what you've been told. If you feel stuck, this episode is your sign. Freedom is possible. Start with one yes, and watch every other part of your life follow!What's Discussed:(00:04) The moment I finally share my real story: the messy truth behind the highlight reel(14:32) The breaking point: when discipline was really just fear in disguise(20:51) The yes that changed everything (and why it wasn't about the workout)(28:10) How lifting 250 pounds rewired my brain about worth and confidence(43:56) The one decision that flips everything, from chasing smaller to claiming freedomThank You to Our Sponsors:Broads: Ready to ditch the BS and start feeling strong in your body? Work 1:1 with a Broads Coach to get custom programming + nutritional guidance to finally reach your goals. Learn more at https://www.broads.app/joinLearn more from BroadsWebsite: https://www.broads.app/Instagram: @broads.podcast @broads.app

Have you ever felt ashamed of a habit you couldn't control?   In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Kristina Orlova speaks with Aneela Idnani, co-founder of HabitAware and mental health advocate. Aneela opens up about living with trichotillomania (hair pulling disorder), how shame kept her silent for decades, and how awareness and acceptance transformed her recovery journey.   Aneela shares: • Her early experiences with hair pulling and intrusive thoughts • The hidden shame and secrecy that fueled her struggle for 20+ years • How pregnancy and stress intensified her compulsions • The turning point—finally opening up to her husband and seeking help • How HabitAware's Keen Smart Bracelet helps build awareness and break the cycle   This conversation also dives into: • Why awareness is the first step to any lasting change • The role of self-care, mindfulness, and acceptance in recovery • How shifting perspective can turn struggle into strength • The importance of removing shame and embracing your full self   Whether you're navigating OCD, BFRBs (Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors), or supporting someone who is, this episode offers hope, tools, and strategies for healing.  

Do you ever catch yourself saying things in your head that you would never say to a friend? Things like, “Why can't you just get it together?” or “You should be over this by now.” For a long time, I thought that kind of self-talk was motivating me to grow, but really, it just kept me stuck in shame. In this episode, we'll talk about the difference between self-criticism and self-compassion in Christ, why the critic in your head is not the same as God's voice, and how to begin shifting into a kinder, more Christ-centered way of speaking to yourself. Rooting for you, Jessica It's my birthday month! Yay! I'll be 38. Therefore, this month I am offering 38% off my self-paced course, Untangle Your Thoughts. Click here to get 38% off now! Or book your free 20-minute consultation here! Questions? Email me at >> jessica@jessicahottle.com The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or clinical advice. While we discuss mental health topics, this is not a substitute for professional care. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider for advice specific to your situation.

Show LinksSelf-Paced Resources:Subscribe To The Daily Podcast: https://yourlevelfitness.com/podcastNew To The YLF Philosophy? Start Here: ylf30.comDaily Accountability And Structure For Your Self-Paced Inside/Out Process: https://yourlevelfitness.com/daily-emailQ&A Response YouTube Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjSupgaY5KA66MD2IdmCwFhLFbDe-pk1lIndividualized Guidance From DarylJoin The YLF Experience: https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/5t93iox9udm3Compare All Service Levels: https://yourlevelfitness.com/coachingGet Your Merch, Mugs & Wall QuotesShop The Current Collections: https://yourlevelfitness.shop/collectionsIn this episode of The Daryl Perry Podcast, I dive into the real fuel behind ambition. Too many of us try to push forward by criticizing ourselves, thinking that tearing ourselves down will spark change. It might work for a short time, but in the long run it creates an endless mental tug of war where nothing feels like enough.Instead, I share why approaching ambition with appreciation and compassion is a far more sustainable and fulfilling path. When you take time to value where you've been, where you are, and where you're going, every accomplishment carries deeper meaning. You can start showing up for yourself the way you needed at different stages of life and shift into a mindset where progress is grounded in love, not loathing.We also talk about patience with yourself while developing this mindset, because old thought patterns will always try to pull you back. But the more you practice self-compassion, the easier it becomes to navigate setbacks and get back on track without judgment.This episode is a reminder that you can achieve more, feel fulfilled, and inspire others when your ambition is fueled by kindness toward yourself.Please share this episode with anyone you think would be interested in listening to it.Visit darylperrypodcast.com for links to the show page on each of the major podcast directories. From there, you can subscribe and share this pod.For comments, questions, topic ideas, possible collaborations please email daryl@yourlevelfitness.com

FREE Master Class: 5 costly mistakes that are keeping your farm broke Sign Up HERE You're growing incredible products and working harder than anyone you know, but if you're like most farmers, you haven't paid yourself a dime for your hard work all year. Here's what most farmers don't realize: marketing isn't magic. It's a skill. And there's a proven three-phase system that transforms struggling farmers into sold-out success stories. Key discoveries you'll learn: The #1 mistake on diversified farms that keeps farmers broke (and how to fix it) How to build a marketing calendar that works with your farm's natural rhythms instead of against them The three marketing assets you already have but aren't using effectively Why listening is the most important marketing skill—plus 6 specific ways to do it right This isn't theory. One client went from six months of begging people to buy her Thanksgiving turkeys to selling out in 24 hours flat using this exact approach. Look, you didn't start farming to become a marketing expert. But here's the hard truth: if you can't sell what you grow, you won't survive. The farmers who thrive aren't necessarily the best—they're the ones who learned how to connect their products to their customers' real problems. "Marketing isn't magic. It's a skill. And if your emails aren't making sales at a profitable price, it's not because the platform doesn't work—it's because you haven't learned the skill yet." Click HERE and Let's Meet! Chat with us to see if Farm Marketing Mastery can break you out of marketing misery.

Send us a textSummaryIn this conversation, Matilda Medium discusses the challenges of public judgment, the importance of authenticity in creativity, and the detrimental effects of perfectionism on personal growth. She emphasizes the need for kindness in social media interactions and encourages listeners to embrace imperfection as a part of their creative journey. The discussion also touches on the significance of setting boundaries and deadlines to overcome perfectionism and foster progress.Chapters00:00Exploring Spirit and Self00:01Journeying into Mysteries of Life00:26The Impact of Perfectionism on Progress03:21Navigating Social Media Challenges04:46Predictions and Insights on Current Events05:13Understanding Perfectionism05:47The Impact of Perfectionism on Daily Life06:13Understanding Perfectionism09:09The Impact of Perfectionism on Creativity12:22Overcoming Perfectionism: Strategies for Progress17:20Embracing Progress Over Perfection18:35The Power of Presence and Courage18:57Introduction and Community Updates19:27Special Offers and Upcoming Events19:56Evidential Mediumship Event Details20:23Predictions on Trump's Health and Presidency21:52Global Financial Shifts and Political Turmoil23:03Tragedy in Australia and Political Missteps24:24Conclusion and Future InsightsMatilda's LinksMatilda's WebsitePatreonCharts and Channelling Event with Laurie Rivers 2026 Deep DiveYouTube Music Code XZX4AASK0AQ9Z70P

In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the pervasive issue of perfectionism and its profound impact on mental and physical health. With her signature blend of humor and honesty, Brianne explores the pressures that drive individuals to seek perfection, revealing how these high expectations can lead to anxiety, depression, and burnout.Throughout the episode, Brianne outlines the five distinct types of perfectionism: classic, procrastinator, messy, intense, and Parisian. She shares personal anecdotes and observations, including her experiences with her own child, to illustrate how perfectionism can manifest in everyday life. Listeners will learn to identify the signs of perfectionism and how it can trap them in a cycle of self-criticism and dissatisfaction.Brianne offers practical strategies for breaking free from the constraints of perfectionism, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion, setting realistic goals, and celebrating progress over perfection. She encourages listeners to embrace their flaws and recognize that perfection is an unattainable ideal. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that the journey toward self-acceptance is far more rewarding than the pursuit of perfection.

You know that sinking feeling of disappointment or even disgust you get when you're looking at yourself in the mirror and wishing you were thinner? That feeling is actually wrecking your metabolism.  My guest today is Sarah Haas, host of the Boss Body podcast. She's here to share her story of how, after years of being thin and fit and looking like she had it all together, she found herself as a single mother dealing not only with her young son's type 1 diabetes, but also breast cancer–which included radiation, chemo and a double mastectomy. She had to learn that loving your body is not about working harder to look better. It's about releasing the emotional heaviness that is figuratively and literally weighing you down. In this deeply personal and powerful conversation, Sarah Haas, host of the Boss Body podcast, shares how the stress of being a single mom and battling breast cancer–including radiation, chemo and a double mastectomy, taught her that loving your body is not loving how you look, it's releasing the emotional heaviness that is figuratively and literally weighing you down. Highlights: Why body love often feels impossible when you've let yourself go—and where to start instead The toxic role of the inner critic (and how to change the voice in your head) How midlife can become a catalyst for deeper self-worth and vibrant health Practical steps to boost metabolism in perimenopause and beyond   Whether you're trying to lose weight or simply ready to feel more comfortable in your own skin—this conversation will give you the mindset shifts you need to begin.   If you are ready to get support from a community of women who are co-creating this change with intention and clarity— Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL.    Click here to get Sarah's Rev Up Your Metabolism Guide. Find her on social media: @sarahhaaswellness   Do you want help from Colleen with a situation you're struggling with? Click here to submit your question for Colleen's NEW Q& A episodes. Your name will not be mentioned on air!    Find me on: YouTube: @HangoverWhisperer TikTok: @hangoverwhisperer Instagram: @thehangoverwhisperer  X (Twitter) : @NotAboutTheAlc   Transcript  

Today we're going to chat about the vibrational impact of self-criticism and how self-approval can shift your energy. I'll share how shifting from criticism to approval can raise your vibration, attract better outcomes, and change how you feel about yourself. Tune in for practical tips on how to practice self-approval and invite more alignment into your life. For all things Law of Attraction, visit Jennifer365.com.   Need more LoA goodness? Get my Vibe Notes for high-vibe tips between episodes.   I offer schedule-as-you-want coaching. Coaching with me is a great way to raise your vibration. If you're craving more clarity on manifesting, I've created a YouTube channel just for that. Want to support the podcast?  Buy me a coffee.  ☕️ Looking for a Love Your Life episode about a particular topic?  Check out the LYL Index.    

Psychiatrist, author, and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) expert Dr. Blaise Aguirre joins me to talk about how we can help kids—especially emotionally sensitive ones—understand, process, and reframe internalized messages of self-criticism and even self-hatred.   Together we explore:   Why even well-loved and supported kids can develop a sense of being “unlovable” How emotional sensitivity can make children more vulnerable to misattunement, comparisons, and internalized shame The difference between skills-based therapy (like DBT) and addressing the deeper emotional roots of suicidality and self-loathing What parents can do in the “before, during, and after” of tough parenting moments to promote co-regulation and connection Why simply telling a child they are wonderful may backfire—and what to say instead How to recognize if your child is living in a distorted self-narrative, and how to gently interrupt that cycle Practical strategies for helping kids build emotional awareness, distress tolerance, and a more compassionate self-concept Why your own nervous system regulation is essential—and how DBT teaches us to regulate before we reflect   Whether your child is currently struggling with self-esteem or you just want to shore them up now to minimize this risk in the future, this episode will leave you with powerful insights and tangible tools for helping them feel seen, supported, and deeply understood.     LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST:  

Twitter/X Space 19 July 2025In this episode, I explore the essence of philosophy and its relevance today, reflecting on my 45-year journey. We discuss the importance of humility in philosophical discourse, inspired by Socrates' acknowledgment of ignorance, and critique the rush to judgment among "midwits." I examine moral grounding for atheists and the nature of ethics without divine justification, while engaging with diverse perspectives on morality. As we address the impact of 21st-century technology on human intimacy, I emphasize the need for self-criticism and rational discourse to deepen our understanding of morality.FOLLOW ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxGET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3662: Erica Layne shares six heartfelt reasons why embracing self-love can profoundly transform your life. From quieting self-criticism to deepening connections with others, her insights remind us that the path to growth, peace, and authentic relationships begins within. Discover how self-compassion not only lifts the weight of outside expectations but also models empowerment for those we care about most. Quotes to ponder: “Shame, the belief that you're unworthy of love and belonging, does not support long-term, transformational change.” “Self-love helps us see our own potential, allows us to forgive ourselves when we take a step backward, and eliminates the shame spiral that so often lands us right back where we started.” “For every part of myself that I've decided to accept over the years, I've felt the pressure of other people's opinions fall away.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Vic is reflecting on turning 28 and the mindset shifts helping her feel more aligned, grounded, and true to herself. From exiting her hustle era and protecting her energy, to pulling back on people-pleasing and rewriting her self-talk, this solo episode is an unfiltered check-in on what's changed, and what's finally clicking. Vic shares why she skipped a big birthday celebration, how she's building deeper self-trust, and the small but powerful ways she's being kinder to herself this year. Tune in for honest reflections on getting older, slowing down, and giving yourself permission to be imperfect.Related episodes:This Will Change Your Life — A Powerful Lesson On Joy From Cancer Fighter Jeffrey SaadHow To Overcome Perfectionism & Self-Criticism w/ Expert Dr. Ellen Hendriksen// SPONSORS // Quince: Go to quince.com/realpod for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Storyworth: Right now save $10 during Storyworth's Father's Day sale when you go to storyworth.com/realpod. Just Thrive: Visit justhrive.com and use code REALPOD for 20% off your first 90-day bottle. That's like getting a month free! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.