Podcasts about self criticism

Vic is reflecting on turning 28 and the mindset shifts helping her feel more aligned, grounded, and true to herself. From exiting her hustle era and protecting her energy, to pulling back on people-pleasing and rewriting her self-talk, this solo episode is an unfiltered check-in on what's changed, and what's finally clicking. Vic shares why she skipped a big birthday celebration, how she's building deeper self-trust, and the small but powerful ways she's being kinder to herself this year. Tune in for honest reflections on getting older, slowing down, and giving yourself permission to be imperfect.Related episodes:This Will Change Your Life — A Powerful Lesson On Joy From Cancer Fighter Jeffrey SaadHow To Overcome Perfectionism & Self-Criticism w/ Expert Dr. Ellen Hendriksen// SPONSORS // Quince: Go to quince.com/realpod for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Storyworth: Right now save $10 during Storyworth's Father's Day sale when you go to storyworth.com/realpod. Just Thrive: Visit justhrive.com and use code REALPOD for 20% off your first 90-day bottle. That's like getting a month free! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you speak to yourself the way you speak to a friend?In this episode, you'll be invited to gently explore the way you treat yourself—especially during moments of failure, doubt, or pressure. It's a powerful reminder that self-compassion is not weakness; it's wisdom in action.The conversation centers around the contrast between self-criticism and self-kindness, especially for teachers, facilitators, or anyone in a leadership role. You'll learn how the voice of the inner critic often disguises itself as motivation, but usually leads to burnout, disconnection, or shame. Instead, the episode highlights self-kindness as a skill—a grounded, conscious act that fuels resilience and real presence.From a yogic lens, this is the practice of Ahimsa (non-violence) and Svadhyaya (self-study). From a neuroscience view, it's about regulating your nervous system to create safety and clarity. And from a practical level, it's about building a relationship with yourself that is rooted in respect, care, and steady truth.This episode will leave you reflecting on how you lead, love, and live—from within.Episode Chapters:00:00:00 Introduction00:01:44 Self-Criticism vs Self-Kindness00:04:16 Ahimsa and the Inner Voice00:06:48 Inner Punishment vs Inner Presence00:08:58 Leadership Through Self-Compassion00:11:07 Svadhyaya and Regulating the Nervous System00:13:35 Presence Over Perfection00:16:07 Leading from Self-Kindness00:18:44 Breath and Mantra Practice00:21:04 Reflective Prompts and Closing-------—-------—-

If perfectionism is your favorite weakness, this one's for you. Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, clinical psychologist and author of How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists, joins Vic to unpack the roots of perfectionism, how it shows up in everyday life, and why so many of us feel like we have to earn our worth. They explore the difference between healthy ambition and toxic self-criticism, how to find that middle ground where you're still growing without burning out, and what it really means to practice self-compassion. Vic opens up about her own struggles with perfectionism—from how playing D1 volleyball enhanced her inner critic to why she regrets overplanning Max's 30th birthday—and shares the tools she's learning to prioritize presence over performance. Whether you overthink, overachieve, or feel like you're never quite doing enough, this conversation will help you let go of the pressure and embrace the messiness of being human.Website: ellenhendriksen.comInstagram: @ellen_hendriksenBook: How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists by Dr. Ellen Hendriksen// SPONSORS // Quince: Treat your closet to a little summer glow-up with Quince. Go to quince.com/realpod for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Paper Doll By Dylan Mulvaney: Buy your copy of Paper Doll here or wherever books are sold!Paired: Head to paired.com/realpod to get a 7-day free trail and 25% off if you sign up for a subscription. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You ever sit there thinking, “I know what I need to do... so why the heck am I not doing it?”You know—drink the water, write the email, stop the self-sabotage, hug a puppy, hit the gym. It's not that you don't know… it's that you feel like a freakin' war is going on inside you.That exact inner conflict?It's what my guest Britt Frank helps people decode and conquer.Britt's a licensed neuropsychotherapist, trauma specialist, educator, and author of the must-read book Align Your Mind. She's been featured on The Doctors, NPR, Fast Company, and Psychology Today, and y'all—her brain is next level. But what I love most is how she breaks heavy stuff down in a super clear, practical, no-BS kinda way. In this convo on the Happy Hustle Podcast, we get into it. The truth about internal resistance. Why high performers crash hard when they try to rest. And how to stop fighting yourself so you can finally start flowing in alignment.Here's the thing: just because you're a high-level hustler doesn't mean your brain is on board with all the good stuff you're trying to do. Britt explains this through what she calls “parts work.” Basically, you've got different internal parts—some want to grow, others want to hide under the covers. One wants to crush your goals, one wants to eat chips and scroll for hours. The key? They're all trying to help in their own way. You just have to learn how to lead the team instead of being dragged around by the chaos.Britt hit me with this line and it stuck: “Alignment is about driving the team of emotions rather than being run over by them.” Boom.And get this—if you've ever felt guilt for trying to relax after grinding, this'll land. Imagine you're driving a stick shift. You can't go from 90 MPH in 5th gear straight to 20 MPH in 1st gear. You'll blow your engine. And that's what a lot of entrepreneurs are doing. We're go-go-go, building, scaling, moving at lightning speed. And then we try to switch into family mode or chill mode instantly. Britt's point? You have to downshift. You need intentional transitions to protect your nervous system. Stretch. Walk. Breathe. Shift gears slowly, not all at once.Another gold nugget: Britt talks about “micro yeses.” Sometimes we procrastinate because our goals are just too damn big. “Write a book.” “Launch a course.” “Lose 50 pounds.” Our brains go, “Nope. Too much.” But if you break it down to a single next step—open the doc, write one sentence, walk to the mailbox—you're telling your brain, “Hey, this is doable.” Small wins stack up. She also dropped this cool tool called non-dominant hand journaling. Yup—writing with your opposite hand. It feels weird, but it unlocks a different part of your brain that can surface things you didn't even know you were carrying. Perfect for when you feel stuck or unclear.If you've been battling yourself mentally, emotionally, spiritually… this episode is a reminder that you're not alone. You're not broken. Your brain's not working against you—it just needs a better team captain. That's you. You lead the parts, you align the team, and suddenly life feels a whole lot lighter.This episode's packed with practical strategies, mindset shifts, and real talk that can legit change the way you move through your day. Especially if you've been grinding non-stop and wondering why you still feel like something's missing.If you've ever procrastinated on a dream, felt guilty for resting, doubted your ability to keep going, or just wanted some tools to finally quiet the mental chaos and get aligned—this one's for you. It's the kind of convo that makes you think, feel, and take action—without the overwhelm.In this episode, we cover:The Concept of Alignment and Its ImportanceUnderstanding the Inner ConflictPractical Strategies for AlignmentThe Gear Shift Analogy for High PerformersMicro Yeses: Breaking Down GoalsCombating Inner Criticism and Self-DoubtUnderstanding Self-Criticism and DoubtThe Science of the Mind and Self-CompassionBreaking Autopilot: Non-Dominant JournalingEnergy Protection and Emotional ClarityShifting Focus: Choices Over WhyAligning Actions with ValuesWhat does happy Hustlin mean to you? Britt says Happy Hustlin means that my actions match my values and that they are aligned.Connect with Britthttps://www.instagram.com/brittfrankhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/brittfrankmsw/Find Britt on this website: brittfrank.com Connect with Cary!https://www.instagram.com/caryjack/https://www.facebook.com/SirCaryJackhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/cary-jack-kendzior/https://twitter.com/thehappyhustlehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFDNsD59tLxv2JfEuSsNMOQ/featuredGet a free copy of his new book, The Happy Hustle, 10 Alignments to Avoid Burnout & Achieve Blissful Balance https://www.thehappyhustle.com/bookSign up for The Journey: 10 Days To Become a Happy Hustler Online Course https://thehappyhustle.com/thejourney/Apply to the Montana Mastermind Epic Camping Adventure https://thehappyhustle.com/mastermind/“It's time to Happy Hustle, a blissfully balanced life you love, full of passion, purpose, and positive impact!”Episode Sponsors:If you're feeling stressed, not sleeping great, or your energy's been kinda meh lately—let me put you on to something that's been a total game-changer for me: Magnesium Breakthrough by BiOptimizers. 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In this episode, I share with you how to end self criticism and finally silencing your inner bully! Go to https://www.erafael.com/ if you want my help, coaching or mentorship :) #SelfImprovement #PersonalDevelopment #Motivation #SelfHelpSubscribe to my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/rafaeleliassen/Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rafaeleliassen/

Do you ever feel like your body is a project to fix instead of a home to live in? If you struggle with body image, self-criticism, or constantly thinking about food and exercise, this episode is for you. We're unpacking the real reasons behind body obsession—like low self-worth, perfectionism, and societal pressure—and giving you practical tools to break free. Learn how to reconnect with your body, shift from self-judgment to self-compassion, and redefine health in a way that feels nourishing instead of punishing. Plus, we'll share mindset shifts, somatic exercises, and self-care rituals to help you feel safe, confident, and at home in your skin. Listen now to start embracing your body as it is today.

Welcome to another powerful episode of the Full Frontal Living Podcast with Lisa Carpenter! In episode 307, Lisa invites listeners to explore the depth of their inner world with the timeless fable of the two wolves, drawing on her own journey and her extensive coaching experience.Lisa shares both the classic and extended versions of the "Two Wolves" fable, unpacking how this story relates to our daily choices, emotions, and personal growth. Instead of seeing the “Dark Wolf” (our challenges, doubts, and tough emotions) as something to ignore, Lisa encourages us to acknowledge and understand both our dark and light sides. Ultimately, this episode is a powerful reminder that we all possess the incredible power to choose which parts of ourselves we nurture—but also how much richer life can be when we accept and learn from all of our internal experiences.Key Highlights:You Always Have a Choice: Lisa reminds us that the life we're living is the result of countless choices, both conscious and unconscious. Where we put our attention and energy—whether it's on positivity and growth or on negative thought loops—shapes our experience and outcomes.Beyond “Good” and “Bad” Sides: The extended version of the Two Wolves fable reveals that both our dark and light sides have gifts to offer. Instead of starving one side, we're invited to feed both, gaining courage, tenacity, compassion, and self-compassion in the process.Embracing All of Yourself: Lisa models how to integrate, value, and lovingly acknowledge every part of who we are—including the parts we often try to hide or suppress. This acceptance is where true peace, ease, and fulfillment are found.The Power to Change Your Story: Suffering and struggle may seem like our default settings, but by choosing to focus on what we want to create (rather than what we wish to avoid), we empower ourselves to change—and truly thrive.Real Transformation: Lisa's episode is not just theory; she shares personal examples and client experiences that show just how much is possible when we honor all of ourselves, create new habits, and choose courage over comfort.This episode is more than just a story; it's about the freedom that comes when you realize your power to choose and start integrating all parts of yourself. Lisa encourages you to reflect: How can you nurture both your dark and light wolves—and what could become possible if you do?Grab your earbuds, get cozy (or go out on a walk!), and let Lisa guide you to greater self-understanding and empowerment. Resources:To learn about Lisa's transformative "Reclamation" program, visit LisaCarpenter.ca/ReclamationLisa loves hearing feedback from her listeners! Share your thoughts, ah-ha moments, or questions.If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend, and don't forget to rate and review Full Frontal Living wherever you listen to podcasts!

Join host Rich Douglas as he welcomes Dr. Laura Gallaher to the Human Capital Lab podcast for an insightful discussion on self-acceptance, psychological safety, and effective organizational culture. Dr. Gallaher shares her journey from being an organizational psychologist at NASA working on culture change post-Columbia disaster to becoming a consultant. Learn how self-acceptance can improve self-awareness, help mitigate self-judgment, and drive high performance in organizations. Don't miss this episode for valuable insights on personal growth and leadership development.00:00 Introduction to the Human Capital Lab Podcast00:26 Meet Dr. Laura Gallaher: A Journey into Organizational Psychology02:19 NASA's Cultural Challenges and the Columbia Accident13:41 The Importance of Psychological Safety18:06 Self-Awareness and Self-Acceptance22:16 Personal Stories of Identity and Growth24:21 The Challenge of Accepting Feedback25:01 Self-Acceptance and Identity26:41 The Essence Exercise27:52 Fluidity in Identity28:24 Self-Acceptance Quiz28:57 Paradox Theory30:24 Impact of Self-Criticism on Leadership32:45 The Joey and Jamal Story34:32 Self-Acceptance in Organizations38:40 The Twilight Zone Analogy41:06 Final Thoughts and ResourcesConnect with the Guest, ;LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-gallaher-phd/Website: https://www.gallaheredge.com/Book: The Missing Links: Launching a High-Performing Company CultureConnect with Human Capital Lab; Host: Rich Douglas LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rich-douglas-92b71b52/ Human Captial Lab Links Website: https://humancapitallab.org/ Interested in Being a Guest? https://humancapitallab.org/podcast/

In this episode of Fitness & Sushi, we're uncovering the toxic mental patterns you didn't realize were symptoms of diet culture. If you've ever felt like your mindset is the problem—or worse, that you are the problem—this episode will show you the truth about why you feel stuck. In this episode – “Top 10 Signs You Have a Poor Relationship With Your Mind (a.k.a. The Diet Mindset)” – you'll learn…

Discover how self-criticism destroys your mental wellbeing and learn the scientifically-proven steps to emotional freedom with former GP turned compassion expert, Dr Nilesh Satguru. This transformative conversation reveals the shocking connection between sleep quality and relationship success, whilst providing practical techniques to break free from negative emotional patterns that sabotage your happiness. Dr. Nilesh Satguru is a self-mastery coach and compassion trainer who specializes in helping aspiring visionaries master their emotions with compassion. After 11 years as a doctor, Nilesh transitioned to self-development, where his work has rippled across five continents. His work has been experienced by 8-figure entrepreneurs, film producers, cult DJs, and award-winning nonprofit founders. His expertise has been featured by Entrepreneur, Soho House, and Mindvalley, and Business Insider. KEY TOPICS:   ⭐ Emotional Mastery  ⭐ Addiction to Negative Emotions ⭐ Spiritual Awakening ⭐ The Ego's Resistance to Change ⭐ Authenticity ⭐ Self-Esteem vs. Self-Compassion ⭐ Somatic Practices for Emotional Processing ⭐ Compassion and Transformation ⭐ Why There are no Right or Wrong Emotions ⭐ Conditional vs Unconditional love ⭐ Understanding the purpose of all emotions   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Breaking The Chains Of Avoidance Starts 22nd April: https://www.theauthenticman.net/breaking-the-chains-of-avoidance-programme-2025  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe      Connect With Nilesh Satguru:   Website: https://www.drsatguru.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsatguru/?hl=en  

IMPERFECTIONISM. In this episode of the Came to Believe Recovery Podcast, the hosts delve into the theme of imperfectionism, contrasting it with the often-harmful pursuit of perfectionism. They explore how societal expectations, and personal experiences shape our views on perfection, using characters from Winnie the Pooh to illustrate different aspects of imperfection. The conversation highlights the mental health implications of perfectionism, the importance of self-acceptance, and how these concepts relate to recovery and personal growth. Closing Song: I'm No Superman by Lazlo Bane. #higherpower #aa #na #alcoholicsanonymous #recovery #recovered #alcoholic #twelvesteps #wedorecover #narcoticsanonymous #addiction #bigbook 

Dr. Laura addresses perfectionism in this episode, looking into what perfectionism truly is and how it's detrimental to our well-being. The pursuit of perfection slows us down and interferes with us being our best, most innovative selves. Few situations call for absolute perfection, Dr. Laura notes, and she examines how the single-minded drive to be perfect blocks our creativity and leads to burnout. One method for combating perfectionism is the 80/20 rule, which Dr. Laura explains is learning to be satisfied with getting a project to 80%, which is very good, and not spending the extra 20% to fight for perfection. Dr. Laura's advice focuses on how to retrain ourselves from striving for perfection, how we can practice self-compassion, what practical steps we can take, and how to avoid letting perfectionism impact our relationships. She approaches the subject from a personal perspective, sharing her own journey through perfectionism and how she found success without being perfect.“I love this quote by Sheryl Sandberg in that done is better than perfect. And I agree, it's about execution. It's about getting things done and doing things well. But getting things done perfectly will lead you to not get things done, period.” Dr. LauraAbout Dr. Laura:Dr. Laura Hambley Lovett is a work and career psychologist and thought leader on the evolution of work. She has always been fascinated by how work intersects with life and loves to use her expertise to improve organizations and help people thrive. Her passion for taking creative ideas and launching them into successful business strategies led her to start three counselling psychology practices (Calgary Career Counselling, Canada Career Counselling, and Synthesis Psychology), as well as six different business brands offering organizational assessment and consulting services.Dr. Laura is honoured to have been selected as a Woman of Distinction in Canada in 2014 and received a Canadian Woman of Inspiration Award as a Global Influencer in 2018.Resources:Dr. Laura on LinkedInWhere Work Meets Life™ on YouTubeLearn more about Dr. Laura on her website: https://drlaura.liveFor more resources, look into Dr. Laura's organizations: Canada Career CounsellingSynthesis Psychology

Today marks the start of an 8-episode series where David Charlton is joined by a colleague.  Gerard Fitzgerald features in this episode, as well as the next 3 episodes.  They go on to discuss a case study of a young female footballer, 11 years old with a pseudonym name called Carly who is a sensitive soul who worries too much about other people (team-mates specifically in this case).  We go on to normalise emotional sensitivity in young athletes, highlighting that it can be a strength if managed properly.  We also talk about the challenges of emotional sensitivity where young athletes often face mental drain and self-doubt.  David and Gerard then go on to share some advice for parents and coaches to manage emotionally sensitive players who can focus too much on their team-mates. Key Learning Points: ·        Explore ways to normalize the emotional experiences of young athletes and help them manage the mental demands of the sport. ·        Develop strategies to shift the focus from negative self-criticism and comparison to a more positive, responsibility-based approach. ·        The conversation explores how a neutral third party can provide a fresh perspective and help both parents and children understand each other better. ·        Constant comparison to teammates can lead to self-doubt and criticism in young athletes and footballers. ·        The discussion concludes with a reminder that the win-at-all-costs attitude can sometimes drive young athletes away from sport emphasising the need for fun and enjoyment. Connect with David Charlton Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIN Podcast Episodes Related To The Youth Sport Experience Ep049: James Maurice – How Does Sport Psychology in Elite Football Academies Help  Ep082: David Charlton – Supporting Children in Sport with Positive Feedback Ep122: Prof Camilla Knight – Helping Your Children Get The Most From Their Sporting Experiences Ep131 David Charlton – How to Deal with Self-Criticism using Self Compassion – FINAL PART Ep141: David Charlton – How to Help a Child Who Wants to Quit Sport Other Valuable Resources To Help Children, Young Athletes, Parents and Youth Sport Coaches Youth Sports Psychology Library Soccer and Football Psychology Library Conversations With Kids Ideas Frequently Asked Questions - Sport Psychology for Children and Parents

In this transformational healing session, Brandy Gillmore works with a live volunteer to break free from the painful cycle of self-criticism, overwhelm, and emotional trauma. This episode offers deep insight into how negative inner dialogue can block your healing, lower your self-confidence, and keep you stuck in emotional spirals. What you'll learn in this episode: How self-criticism impacts your mental, emotional, and physical health The hidden connection between guilt, trauma, and why it can feel so hard to change Powerful insights for rewiring your mind for healing How humor and lightness can actually support transformation A powerful insight to help you get out of overwhelm and emotional spirals Brandy also shares insights on spiritual connection, divine energy, and higher consciousness. Plus, she talks about her feature in Gaia's newest Divine Science series, which explores the science of spirituality and energy healing. Whether you're working on healing your body, releasing past trauma, or stepping into your power with more joy and ease—this episode is a must-listen. Additional links and resources:  The NEW “Divine Science” Series on Gaia!  Brandy's Interview on Gaia Finding the Gift in Healing ~ FREE 90-Minute "GIFT Mind-Body Healing™ Masterclass" Training: https://brandygillmore.com/healing The GIFT Method™ Online Video Series: Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. https://brandygillmore.com/gift-method-healing Website: https://brandygillmore.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/brandy.gillmore/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/brandygillmore/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/BrandyGillmore TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5dEbqRYqY_0 Additional classes and services: GIFT Alternative Therapy and Mind-Reprogramming™: https://brandygillmore.com/alternative-therapy-mind-programming Gillmore Internal Freedom Techniques (GIFT)® :  https://brandygillmore.com/gillmore-internal-freedom-technique/ VIP Monthly Coaching https://brandygillmore.com/vip-coaching/

Do you constantly fix tiny mistakes no one else notices? Struggle to say no, even when something doesn't feel right? Perfectionism can feel like a high standard, but underneath, it often hides deep fears of rejection, failure, and not being enough.In this episode, we're uncovering the hidden link between perfectionism, self-criticism, and workaholism. We'll explore how childhood patterns shape our obsession with control, why helping others can sometimes be a way to avoid our own pain, and how codependency keeps us trapped in toxic cycles. Plus, I'll share a personal story about when I had to choose between keeping the peace and staying true to myself.If perfectionism is making life harder than it needs to be, this episode is for you.

Most people are focusing on how their bodies look, not how they feel—and it's holding them back.If you've ever declined an invitation because of how you felt about your body, avoided activities you love, or spent hours criticizing yourself in the mirror, this conversation is your wake-up call. In this episode, I sit down with Taryn Brumfitt, founder of the Body Image Movement and Australian of the Year 2023, to break down why embracing your body isn't just about feeling better—it's about living better.We're tackling the biggest misconceptions about body image—like why focusing on appearance keeps us stuck, why self-love isn't fluffy but foundational, and how body acceptance actually leads to healthier behaviors than body criticism. Plus, we're getting into practical strategies for handling body commentary from family members, maintaining progress when you have a "wobbly moment," and why taking up space as a woman is so revolutionary.Taryn Brumfitt is an Australian filmmaker, author, and speaker internationally renowned for her work in promoting body acceptance. She is the founder of the Body Image Movement, a global initiative dedicated to transforming the way people think and speak about their bodies, encouraging self-acceptance and self-love.In 2023, Taryn was named Australian of the Year for her significant efforts in changing societal perceptions of body image and fostering positivity around self-image.You can learn more about her mission at https://www.bodyimagemovement.com/embrace-you/We Also Discuss:(01:00) Body Image and Self-Acceptance  (03:27) Embracing Body Image and Self-Love(13:31) Empowering Body Acceptance Conversations(17:17) Transforming Body Image Through Reframing(26:14) Setting Boundaries for Positive Body Image(35:20) Journeying Towards Body Acceptance Together(43:27) Empowering Women(57:05) Spreading Love and Taking ActionThank You to Our Sponsors: Broads: Broads gives you structured, progressive training and a powerhouse community to keep you strong, consistent, and unstoppable. Join today at broads.app and use code PODCAST for 20% off your first month! Find more from Tara: Website: https://www.taralaferrara.com/Instagram: @broads.podcast @taralaferrara @broads.appYoutube: Tara LaFerraraFind more from Taryn Brumfitt: Instagram: @bodyimagemovement​Facebook: Taryn Brumfitt Official Fan Twitter “X”: @TarynBrumfitt​LinkedIn: Taryn Brumfitt

What if discipline wasn't about punishment, but about self-respect? In this episode of Life Talks with Lauren, we're rethinking the way we approach discipline—shifting from shame to self-love. Inspired by a quote from @bluewmist, I'm sharing how this mindset shift changed my life and how it can transform yours, too. In This Episode, We Cover: Why discipline rooted in shame leads to guilt, burnout, and inconsistency. How reframing your habits as acts of self-care can make them more sustainable. My personal experience with exercise—from using it as a punishment to embracing it as self-love. The emotional toll of a “no excuses” mindset and how to break free from it. Practical ways to shift your mindset and build habits that feel good and last. Reflection Questions for You: What's one area of your life where discipline feels like punishment rather than self-care? How do you typically talk to yourself when you don't follow through on a habit or goal? Can you reframe one of your “I have to” statements into an “I deserve to” statement? How would your daily habits change if you approached them from a place of love rather than obligation? What's one small act of self-discipline you can commit to this week that feels like self-respect rather than self-punishment? Let's Continue the Conversation: I'd love to hear your thoughts! Share your takeaways on Instagram and tag me @laurenmkepler. If this episode resonated with you, please leave a review and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Listen Now: https://open.spotify.com/show/62EFL7WqMBBy83zcRDNmyH?si=61e3b4cb30ec4883  

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 Do you ever wonder why self-doubt seems to hold you back, even when you're capable of so much more? This week I am joined by Natasha Scullane, a psychotherapist trained in CBT and EMDR. We delve into the complexities of self-doubt, particularly among women and explore the roots of self-doubt, its impact on personal and professional success, and the societal pressures that exacerbate these feelings. Natasha shares practical strategies for managing self-doubt, emphasising the importance of recognising personal values and taking actionable steps towards building confidence. The conversation also touches on the influence of social media and comparison, encouraging listeners to define their own success and prioritise self-care. Highlights include:08:26 Understanding Self-Doubt and Self-Criticism20:41 Breaking Free from Comparison26:43 Daily Practices to Build Self-TrustRead the blog of this episodeWatch an exclusive mini interview of this episode HEREThis week's guestNatasha Scullane is a psychotherapist trained in CBT and EMDR, with over 11 years of experience providing therapy and supervision in NHS Talking Therapies. In her private practice, she helps successful women who struggle with self-doubt, guiding them toward clarity and confidence. As a trauma-informed therapist, Natasha works with clients to resolve past experiences which may be manifesting in unexpected ways in the present. She also shares behind-the-scenes reflections on therapy and entrepreneurship in her Substack, Therapreneur Diaries.Follow NatashaWebsite: https://www.natashapsychotherapy.com (1:1 Online Therapy)@natashapsychotherapyFREE download: 6 Steps to Navigating Self-Doubt: A guide for Successful WomenBE PART OF OUR GROWING SUBSTACK COMMUNITY FOR FREE - Join now****************For private psychology services and therapy in person (London/Hertfordshire) or online, please visit Harley Clinical Psychology.*****************Subscribe to Dr Liz's YouTube channelFollow Harley Clinical on InstagramFollow Dr Liz White on TikTok*****************DISCLAIMER - The Hello Therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Liz White (DClinPsy, CPsychol, AFBPsS, CSci, HCPC reg.), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and does not constitute personalised advice. Please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional if you need support.

After a short break from creating and broadcasting episodes of the Demystifying Mental Toughness Podcast, in episode #275, David discusses a change in format to the podcast for the rest of 2025.  He also highlights the benefits of having a support system and the benefits of reading and acting on advice from The 12 Week Year, book written by Brian F Moran and Michael Lemmington.  Key Learning Points: ·         Taking a break can revive our motivation and creativity similar to the power of periodisation in sport or strength training. ·         The next episode will be published on Friday 04 April. ·         An 8-week series of episodes focusing on the youth sport experience will follow. ·         David's Irish based colleagues Gerard Fitzgerald and Colm O'Donoghue will provide support for David in these episodes sharing their perspective. ·         Challenges that youth athletes, sporting parents and youth coaches regularly come across will be a feature of our discussions. Connect with David Charlton Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIN Podcast Episodes Related To The Youth Sport Experience Ep049: James Maurice – How Does Sport Psychology in Elite Football Academies Help  Ep082: David Charlton – Supporting Children in Sport with Positive Feedback Ep122: Prof Camilla Knight – Helping Your Children Get The Most From Their Sporting Experiences Ep131 David Charlton – How to Deal with Self-Criticism using Self Compassion – FINAL PART Ep141: David Charlton – How to Help a Child Who Wants to Quit Sport Other Valuable Resources To Help Children, Young Athletes, Parents and Youth Sport Coaches Youth Sports Psychology Library Conversations With Kids Ideas Frequently Asked Questions - Sport Psychology for Children and Parents

Sara Pascoe is a comedian, writer, and actor known for her sharp wit and deeply personal storytelling. With a career spanning stand-up, TV, and books, she's built a reputation for blending humor with honest reflections on life, relationships, and self-worth.In this episode, she opens up about her journey, from early struggles with self-doubt to finding confidence in both her career and personal life. Sara also talks about the importance of resilience in comedy, recalling the moments of failure that ultimately reinforced her love for performing.Throughout the conversation, she gets candid about her battle with negative self-talk and the role therapy played in changing her mindset. She also reveals her method for professional growth, keeping a diary of every gig to analyze what worked, what didn't, and how to keep evolving. This episode dives into the highs and lows of creative careers, the power of self-reflection, and the joy of embracing life's imperfections.

In this episode of the Finding Arizona Podcast, we explore how Savannah Pagnozzi turned her passion for making people laugh into a thriving comedy career. From overcoming stage fright to producing sold-out shows and taking her act on the road, she shares the lessons learned and dreams realized along the way. Whether she's tightening up her act or finding her comedic voice, Savannah's story proves that persistence and passion can turn childhood aspirations into reality. The Key Moments in This Episode Are:00:03:29 - Discovering Comedy as a Dream00:07:12 - Early Stage Performance00:09:42 - Grinding and Networking00:12:26 - Pursuing Big Dreams in New York00:18:36 - Producing a Comedy Show in Austin00:22:17 - Self-Marketing and Improvement00:24:55 - Self-Criticism and Growth00:31:02 - Strategic Planning and Performing Venues00:40:05 - Personal Life and TouringThe Resources Mentioned in This Episode Are:Follow Savannah Pagnozzi on Instagram for updates on upcoming shows and events.YouTube: Finding Arizona PodcastFacebook: facebook.com/findingarizonapodcastWebsite: findingarizonapodcast.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/findingarizonapodcastTwitter: twitter.com/findingarizonaConnect with the Finding Arizona Podcast:Ready to start your own podcast? The Found-House powered by The Finding Arizona Podcast is your best find!SPONSORS:Earth Based Body: Get 20% off your first online purchase at ⁠earthbasedbody.com/discount/FINDINGARIZONA⁠.Oura Ring: Enjoy $40 off your purchase using our link: ⁠ouraring.com⁠.SeatGeek: Get a $20 discount on your tickets with code FINDINGARIZONA at ⁠seatgeek.com⁠.

Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.In the latest episode of the Make Time for Success podcast, episode 221, Dr. Christine Li dives deep into the art of breaking free from procrastination with her curated 11-step guide to being simply productive. With over twenty-five years of expertise as a psychologist and procrastination coach, Dr. Li candidly shares strategies designed to help you move past self-doubt, fear, and overwhelm. Discover how to transform criticism and perfectionism into self-compassion and momentum, and learn to create success on demand. Whether it's building self-trust, working in alignment with your energy, or living clutter-free for better mental clarity, Dr. Li offers insights that promise to make productivity feel empowering instead of exhausting. Don't miss her valuable principles for living a truly productive and fulfilling life.Timestamps:04:25 "Simply Productive: Overcoming Procrastination"07:29 Focus on Goals, Not Distractions10:42 Nurture Your Energy for Growth15:46 "Wellness Fuels Peak Performance"19:39 Unlocking Human Potential22:18 Productivity Through Fun and CuriosityTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Us!Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/lab                        Simply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP

Mark Fisher is a dear friend and one of the kindest humans anyone could have the great fortune of knowing. Mark joins me to discuss:-What is “unconditional positive regard” and how choosing this outlook reduces your stress and leaves you happier-How Mark sees life as a series of seasons you evolve through-A lot of positive, basic, actionable mindsets and tactics to set yourself up for success in your fitness journey.-Plus much more. Follow Mark on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/markfisherhumanbeing?igsh=MTBkd3JjdnU1bzVjcQ==00:47 Unconditional Positive Regard04:37 Mindset and Emotional Reactions09:27 Stress and Self-Care14:57 Health Optimization and Social Balance23:26 Shoutout to Joel Jamison's Morpheus23:35 The Impact of Stress and Sleep on Fitness23:59 Personal Experience with Gen Four Oura Ring25:09 Balancing Data and Intuition in Fitness26:33 The Importance of Unconditional Positive Regard30:38 Self-Criticism and Social Media33:08 Fundamental Attribution Error42:03 Entrepreneurship as Personal Development42:34 Upcoming Events and Final ThoughtsI've been putting a lot of time and effort into making these new episodes valuable for you. You can help me get these great guests and their knowledge in front of more people by:-Subscribing and checking out more episodes-Sharing on your social media (please tag me - I promise I'll respond)-Sharing with the friend you think of who needs this episodeFollow Andrew Coates:Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@andrewcoatesfitness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join My Email List:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.andrewcoatesfitness.com

Ever feel like your toughest critic is… you? You're not alone. In this episode, we dive into the exhausting cycle of self-criticism and how to break free from it. From shifting your inner dialogue to embracing self-compassion (without losing your edge!), we share real strategies to help you thrive in medicine without the constant self-blame.

This episode is an intuitive message of hope. If you've been in a challenging season of life and in need of a message of peace, compassion, and support, this one is very likely for you. Happy listening and sending love.

Hey there, in episode 193 - The Journey of a Client, I share the journey that many of my clients go through as they work with me. It's a process of becoming more aware, understanding the mechanics of our thoughts and feelings, and then navigating the back-and-forth of taking ownership versus blaming others. As we move through this journey, my clients often become self-critical before they learn to have compassion for themselves and the human experience. This is a crucial step, as it allows them to fully surrender and embrace the progression that is part of life. I explain that personal development is not a linear path, but more like climbing a mountain, where we revisit certain aspects of ourselves at each new bend. Ultimately, I hope this episode provides a helpful framework for anyone going through a period of growth and change, whether that's preparing for a mission, returning from one early, or just navigating the ups and downs of life. Remember, you're not alone in this journey, and I'm here to support you every step of the way. As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends.   Website | Instagram | Facebook   Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE   Free PDF Download:  Podcast Roadmap   Free PDF Download:  Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet   Free Training for Preparing Missionaries:  Change Your Mission with this One Tool   RM Transition Free Video Series:  3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home   Free Guide:  5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary   Schedule a Free Strategy Call:   Click Here  

In this episode of 100% Real with Ruby, I sit down with Gab Fundaro to dive deep into one of the most pervasive and misunderstood challenges women face today: body image and self-criticism. We uncover how our relationship with our appearance influences everything from confidence at work to our emotional well-being and even physical health. Together, we explore why external changes, like losing weight or changing your hairstyle, don't always lead to true happiness or improved self-worth. Instead, we focus on actionable strategies for breaking free from societal pressures, reprogramming internal narratives, and aligning with what truly matters. This episode isn't just about looking good; it's about living well and finding empowerment beyond the mirror. Tune in to hear the insights, struggles, and solutions that can help you rewrite your story and reclaim your confidence.Body image profoundly influences not only physical goals but also relationships, confidence, and emotional well-being.Self-criticism often leads to rigid rules that are difficult to maintain, exacerbating negative self-perception.Insight: Breaking the cycle starts with challenging negative self-talk and replacing it with constructive narratives. Recognizing this pattern can prevent self-sabotage.Changes in appearance, such as weight loss or new hairstyles, may bring temporary satisfaction but don't improve body image at a deeper level.Takeaway: Shifting focus from appearance to internal qualities fosters a healthier self-concept and enduring confidence.Attempting to control external appearance often stems from an inability to control life circumstances.Reflection: Building emotional resilience and focusing on values rather than control can create a sense of security and self-acceptance.Body judgments are learned behaviors, often rooted in cultural and societal expectations.Actionable Step: Identify and challenge these ingrained beliefs to reprogram your internal dialogue and foster self-acceptance.Confidence should stem from values and actions aligned with personal goals, not contingent on appearance.Encouragement: Define what confidence means to you and create actionable steps to achieve it in various life areas.Weight bias and societal norms create undue pressure to conform, reinforcing the idea that physical appearance equates to worth.Challenge: Reflect on the societal pressures you've internalized and actively reject unrealistic standards.Recognizing and sitting with difficult emotions without letting them dictate actions fosters psychological flexibility.Tip: Practice mindfulness and self-compassion to enhance emotional regulation.Misalignment between actions and values often results in dissatisfaction and reliance on external validation.Prompt: What small actions can you take today to align with your core values?Shifting to a neutral perspective helps counter toxic positivity and fosters sustainable growth.Exercise: Write down neutral thoughts about your body to practice reframing negative self-talk.Small, consistent actions build confidence and momentum for larger goals.Tip: Reflect on and celebrate one small win daily to reinforce positive behaviors.Unpacking the origins of self-judgment and societal expectations allows for intentional, lasting change.Thought: What beliefs about your body serve you, and which do not?Strength extends beyond physical fitness to include emotional and mental resilience.Suggestion: Identify areas where you feel strong outside of the gym and celebrate them.Establishing boundaries allows time for self-care and fosters healthier relationships.Action: Dedicate 10 minutes daily to a self-care activity and communicate this need to loved ones.

In this episode, Ellen Hendriksen discusses the hidden costs of perfectionism and why you never feel good enough. She shares the various ways perfectionism disguises itself as a positive trait—when in reality, it can lead to self-criticism, procrastination, and emotional exhaustion. Ellen also explains why perfectionism is less about being perfect and more about never feeling good enough, how self-acceptance is the antidote, and why procrastination is actually an emotional regulation problem (not a time management issue). Key Takeaways: (01:02) – Perfectionism isn’t about being perfect—it’s about never feeling good enough (03:26) – The two wolves of perfectionism: Conscientiousness vs. Self-Criticism (07:36) – Overevaluation: When self-worth gets tangled with performance (16:57) – Guided Drift: Mr. Rogers’ surprising philosophy on perfection and mistakes (26:51) – The power of self-compassion: You don’t need to be perfect to be worthy (39:40) – Emotional Perfectionism: The toxic belief that you “shouldn’t” feel a certain way (43:59) – Why procrastination is actually about emotion management—not time management (50:46) – How to release past mistakes and stop ruminating over failures For full show notes, click here! If you enjoyed this episode with Ellen Hendriksen, check out these other episodes: How to Overcome Perfectionism and Create Your Best Work with David Kadavy How to Manage Social Anxiety and The Inner Critic with Ellen Hendriksen Being a Procrastinator with Tim Pychyl Connect with the show: Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPod Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Follow us on Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Show Links:Almost Daily Email:https://yourlevelfitness.com/almost-daily-emailThe YLF Blog:https://yourlevelfitness.com/blogJoin The YLF Experience:https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/5t93iox9udm3YLF30:https://yourlevelfitness.com/ylf30In this episode ofThe Daryl Perry Podcast, we dive deep into body image, self-perception, and how we can shift our internal narratives. Every body is unique, and while we may share similarities, the small differences often become our biggest mental roadblocks. Whether you're in the fitness and weight loss space or just someone who has struggled with body insecurities, this episode is a reminder that how we see ourselves is a choice.Daryl shares a personal story about taking a photo that triggered old insecurities, but instead of spiraling into self-criticism, he applied the Inside/Out approach to reframe his perspective. He discusses how negative thoughts about our bodies can become habitual, but theycan be reprogrammed over time. Through positive self-statements and intentional self-appreciation, you can break the cycle of tearing yourself down and start to see your body for what it truly is—strong, resilient, and uniquely yours.Additionally, this episode highlights the importance of open conversations about body image, particularly for men, who often struggle with the same insecurities but hesitate to discuss them. Daryl reflects on his own journey, his evolving relationship with food, and the lessons learned from the pilot phase of the YLF Experience.If you've ever battled self-doubt when looking in the mirror, this episode will provide you with practical insights on how to shift your mindset, embrace your body, and continue working toward a healthier self-image.Tune in and take the next step in your Inside/Out journey.Visitdarylperrypodcast.com for links to the show page on each of the major podcast directories. From there, you can subscribe and share this pod.For comments, questions, topic ideas, or possible collaborations, please emaildaryl@yourlevelfitness.com.Please share this episode with anyone you think would be interested in listening to it.

Do you ever find yourself stuck replaying a situation where you felt judged or criticized—even when you know the thought isn't true? In this episode, we dive into how judgment impacts highly sensitive people and why simply knowing a thought isn't true isn't enough to stop its grip on your emotions. If you've ever felt triggered by criticism or trapped in self-doubt, this conversation will offer insights to break free from the cycle. Here's what you'll gain from tuning in: The hidden power of questioning stressful thoughts—even if they seem illogical. Why self-judgment amplifies the sting of outside criticism (and how to undo it). A simple perspective shift to release the emotional weight of feeling judged or compared. Ready to uncover the key to finding peace in the face of criticism? Hit play now and discover how to set your heart free through a fresh, balanced perspective! Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

50+ Ideas for when You've 15 Minutes or Less with Your Horse FREE HERE Have you been allowing your goal of 'doing things right' to suck the joy and fun out of horse riding for you? Maybe you've been wanting to get back into riding after a long break, but you stop yourself because things are not 100% perfect. There's a time and a place for perfection. Every single moment that you're interacting with your horse is NOT that time! Today, I want to encourage you to let go of perfection. Release the pressure you're putting on yourself and your horse for everything to be amazing. And just be present and enjoy the moment - warts and all!  Have you ever watched children playing and noticed how much pure fun they usually have? They are not worried about 'playing the correct way' or 'doing it the right way'. They are simply there, at the moment, enjoying it as it all unfolds before them. Here's how to begin approaching your riding and interactions with your horse the same way... Read the Full Article & Access All Links HERE https://stridesforsuccess.com/episode1353-enjoyment-vs-perfection-release-the-pressure   Online Training to Help Your Riding Daily Strides Premium – Audio Horse Riding Lessons for Riders Connection – Private Virtual Online Lessons for Equestrians Information on Virtual Horse Riding Lessons Pivo Motion Tracking Software (*affiliate link for 10% off your purchase)   Connect with Lorna online:- Connect in the Daily Strides Podcast Online Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/dailystridespodcast Connect in the Virtual Stable Lounge Private Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1499737810323191  

Join co-hosts Dr. Ewell Gordon and Chris Costa for an engaging discussion with Dr. Brent Hogarth, a clinical psychologist focusing on flow states in sports and business environments. In this episode, listeners will explore the impact of mindset on performance across various domains such as athletics, corporate settings, and personal growth. Key Topics Discussed: Dr. Brent's Journey: From a turbulent childhood to becoming an elite athlete. The transformative experience at a Buddhist monastery that introduced him to cognitive behavioral therapy principles. Academic pursuits leading to expertise in sports psychology and flow state research. Understanding Flow States: Definition of flow state as optimal consciousness where individuals perform their best. Exploring the "dark side" of flow when it leads to high-risk behavior or negative life impacts. Training the Mind for High Performance: Techniques for achieving mental clarity and focus through mindfulness practices. Importance of self-compassion over self-criticism for sustained motivation and resilience. Mindset Training at Scale: Work with large enterprises like Microsoft on implementing mindset training programs. Practical Insights: Developing trust in oneself by committing fully to goals despite challenges (e.g., ultramarathons). Morning routines that prime the mind for success include deep breathing exercises, gratitude reflection, setting intentions, etc. Addressing Athlete Challenges: Tailoring psychological strategies based on individual athlete needs—recognizing different definitions of success from personal bests to world records. Building strong therapeutic relationships is crucial; effective coaching depends heavily on these connections rather than just techniques alone. Listener Takeaways: Define what living a "good life" means personally before pursuing high-performance goals. Embrace kindness towards oneself as foundational for long-term achievement without burnout or dissatisfaction. This episode dives into how athletes can harness their inner potential while maintaining balance between ambition and well-being through strategic psychological approaches led by experts like Dr.Hogarth who advocate holistic development both inside & outside competitive arenas.

Send us a textHave an anxious attachment?If you're stuck in patterns of overthinking, self-doubt, and craving reassurance in love, relationships & dating... your inner critic might be running the show. That harsh voice keeping you small, making you question your worth, and pushing you into relationships where you give more than you get...it's exhausting and you've probably had enough!In this episode, Carly Ann is bringing you a favourite idea that helped her on her own journey to becoming secure. Hopefully this will also help you recognise how your inner critic is holding you back and, more importantly, how to take a simple step towards self-compassion and secure attachment. She'll walk you through the three stages of self-love so you can start to break free from toxic patterns and finally believe you are enough.If you're tired of being mean to yourself and ready to change the way you see yourself, this episode is for you. Tune in nowOther useful links: The Attachment Recovery Gym (Doors OPEN) Becoming Secure (Starting Feb 2025) FREE RESOURCES Follow Carly Ann on Instagram

Send me feedback via text!Tired of feeling like you're not enough because of your body? It's time for a change.In this episode, I chat with our very own body image coach Dani Durazo, a mental health counselor who helps people ditch their body hate and build a loving relationship with themselves. Dani works alongside me inside of our signature program, Nourished & Free®, and I can't wait for you to get to know her in this episode!We dive into the messy world of body image, exploring how societal pressures, diet culture, and that pesky inner critic can really impact our mental health.Dani shares her insights on the harmful effects of fatphobia, the importance of self-compassion, and why happiness isn't about the number on the scale.This episode is for anyone who's ever felt stuck in a cycle of body dissatisfaction. Tune in to explore a kinder, more compassionate path!TOPICS COVERED

Today we've got another necessary conversation for so many of us — we're talking with Dr. Ellen Hendriksen about her new book How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists, which came out January 7. It turns out, perhaps not surprisingly, that feeling a lack of enoughness is a widespread problem, and Ellen's book taught me so much about perfectionism — including that I apparently am one, even though I never would have thought that of myself. Perfectionism, as Ellen writes, can be used for good — it can help us have high standards, a strong work ethic, reliability, and a deep care of others — but it can also be used for ill, especially when it comes to our relationship with ourselves. Today on the show we explore the link between perfectionism and never feeling good enough; we talk about clinical perfectionism and where it stems from; how to stop putting our self-worth in the wrong places; seven shifts we can take to feel more enough; and so much more. Ellen has a Ph.D. from UCLA and completed her training at Harvard Medical School; she is a clinical psychologist at Boston University's Center for Anxiety and Related Disorders and, in addition to How to Be Enough, she also wrote How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety. You might have seen her work everywhere from The New York Times to The Washington Post, BBC News, New York Magazine, Harvard Business Review, Psychology Today, Scientific American, The Guardian, Goop, O: The Oprah Magazine, and more, and she's here to help us stop being so hard on ourselves already.  How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists by Dr. Ellen Hendriksen

Transforming 'Should' into 'Desire': A Journey to Self-Discovery The word "should" carries significant weight in our lives, often representing obligation and criticism. In this podcast episode, Tonya Leigh explores the profound impact that this single word can have on our mental and emotional well-being. When we use "should," it typically conveys a sense of duty or correctness, suggesting that there is a right way to do things. This inherent judgment can lead to feelings of shame and guilt, ultimately hindering our personal growth and fulfillment. She shares a relatable story about a listener named Jeanette, who eagerly anticipates Tonya's annual Live Like an Editor workshop as a tool for success. Tonya emphasizes the importance of breaking free from the cycle of "shoulds" that keep us playing small and reflects on her decision to take January for deep reflection before diving into the new year. Tune in to discover strategies for overcoming the pressure of expectations and embracing your true desires. Talking Points:  00:32 - Breaking Free from "Shoulds" 01:56 - Reflecting on the New Year 03:31 - The Concept of "Should Season" 05:09 - Definition of "Should" and Its Implications 08:00 - The Harm of "Should" in Personal Growth 10:24 - Internal "Shoulds" and Self-Criticism 13:31 - The Pressure of Societal Expectations 16:14 - The Paradox of Self-Acceptance 19:25 - The Body Test for True Desires 23:32 - Building a Life Based on True Desires 24:56 - Conclusion: Embracing True Desires Quotes: "It's when shame and guilt becomes your compass instead of desire being your guide." "To argue with reality is to argue with God and you only lose 100% of the time." "The curious paradox is when I accept myself as I am, then I can change." "It's only when I've gotten in touch with my true desires and made those the goals that I have had years where I felt excited, where I felt aligned, where I felt like I was moving towards my own North Star." "If you are building a life off of fear and shame shoulds, you are going to be building a prison for yourself." "Your desires are never wrong. They're simply showing you the way home to yourself." Useful  Resources: Click HERE for Five Essential Quesions Click HERE for the FREE Shake-Up List Click HERE to join the Membership  Click HERE for a FREE download  Click HERE to sign up for our newsletter, The Edit   Connect with Self-Image Coach Tonya Leigh: Click HERE to follow our Instagram Click HERE to visit our website Click HERE to visit our Facebook group Click HERE to follow our TikTok Click HERE to subscribe to our YouTube channel      

Episode first aired October 12, 2023 The Neuroscience of Self-Kindness: Unlocking Happiness in Midlife In this empowering episode of "Midlife Crisis to a Centered Life Thriving" with Dr. Natalie, our compassionate host delves deep into the neurobiological aspects of why it can be so hard to be kind to ourselves and what we need to start doing differently to change this. Dr. Natalie reveals that the challenge to being kind to ourselves comes from our own neurobiology, especially during those moments when we feel we're not measuring up. She uncovers the survival mode instincts that wire us to be self-critical and offers invaluable insights and practical tips on how to navigate and overcome this common struggle. Tune in as Dr. Natalie educates her listeners on the profound importance of self-kindness. Learn how cultivating self-compassion can be a catalyst for meaningful change in your life and lead you on the path to genuine happiness. And while it can feel effortful to change from being a Debbie downer with ourselves to being our biggest fans, Dr. Natalie is here to spur us on and show us that we have the resources inside us we need to accomplish this. Don't miss this episode, designed to help you unlock the key to a centered and thriving midlife. Make yourself a cup of coffee or tea and learn how a simple act of kindness like this can be the difference in unlocking joy in our lives. _________ How to JOIN US at ⁠LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠ CHECK OUT the LearnToLoveYourStory.com ONLINE COURSES available here - ⁠https://learntoloveyourstory.vipmembervault.com/products/⁠ ______________________________________________________________ Connect with us on all our Social Media Platforms: Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠ Linked In: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/learn_to_love_your_story_/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@LearnToLoveYourStory ⁠ Keywords: Neuroscience, Self-Kindness, Midlife, Happiness, Empowerment, Compassion, Survival Mode, Self-Criticism, Neurobiology, Insights, Practical Tips, Self-Compassion, Meaningful Change, Women's Wellbeing, Personal Growth, Happiness, Dr. Natalie, Midlife Crisis, Self-Improvement, Thriving, podcast for women, podcast for midlife DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with LearnToLoveYourStory.com and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources): National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ ⁠ CALL 988 Crisis Text Line: ⁠ https://www.crisistextline.org/ ⁠ Text HOME to 741741

Join my upcoming Positive Intelligence© Program: https://www.vickibaird.com/positive-intelligence-purchase-vicki-baird   This episode of Intuition: Your Success Compass is a special recording of an event where I guided participants through a powerful visualization exercise to connect with their ideal future selves—calm, self-assured, and joyful—one year from now. Whether you see or feel this future state, you'll gain wisdom and encouragement to align your present actions with your goals. During this session, we also explored the concept of internal saboteurs—those inner critics like avoidance or perfectionism—and how understanding their hidden gifts can help you break free from limiting patterns. I shared practical examples, including my own experiences, and offered mindfulness exercises to shift from self-criticism to self-command, unlocking intuition and psychic abilities. If you're ready to embrace small, consistent steps toward growth, clear mental clutter, and step into a more purposeful life, this recording is for you. Watch now and experience the transformative energy of this live event! ---

Send us a textIn this episode of Is It Me or Is It Them?, therapist & coach April Boyd explores the tension and frustration that arise in relationships when someone doesn't get you- and doesn't seem to want to.  Whether you're navigating challenging dynamics with family, in-laws, or friends, this conversation sheds light on how to stop chasing external validation and reclaim your sense of peace and agency.What You'll Learn:How to recognize when you're stuck in a pattern of frustration and approval-seeking.Why relationships can feel harder as you grow and start noticing dynamics that once seemed “normal.”The common trap of thinking your only options are “submit” or “burn it down.”The importance of stepping into "Option C"—taking care of yourself while letting others be who they are.How to shift away from giving others power over your emotional well-being.Key Takeaways:Many people feel torn between maintaining harmony by suppressing their needs or risking conflict to stand up for themselves.Self-validation begins with accepting that others may not respond the way you hope—and that's okay.It's empowering to let go of trying to force change in others and focus on what you can control in the relationship.Questions to Reflect On:Are you placing your emotional safety in the hands of someone who can't meet your needs?What would it look like to stop chasing validation from others and give it to yourself instead?How can you honour your boundaries while maintaining relationships in a way that feels healthier for you?Listen Now:Tune in for thoughtful insights and practical tips on creating healthier dynamics without losing yourself in the process..Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Think self-discipline is the key to success? Think again. Drawing from her own transformation, Hilary explains why self-discipline is the anti-hero of personal growth—restrictive, harsh, and downright unsustainable. Instead of relying on rigid rules and unrealistic expectations, Hillary introduces the concept of self-devotion—a compassionate, loving, and sustainable approach to achieving your goals. Think of self-devotion as the unwavering commitment you'd expect from a devoted partner but turned inward. When you show up for yourself out of love, not obligation, everything shifts. Whether you're looking to crush your resolutions, build a thriving business, or create a healthier lifestyle and body, Hillary's approach to self-devotion is the game-changer you've been waiting for.   Episode Highlights: Why self-discipline is more harmful than helpful. The life-changing shift from self-discipline to self-devotion. How self-devotion turns goals into meaningful, joyful experiences. Practical examples of embracing self-devotion in everyday life. Real talk on why loving yourself is the most effective strategy you'll ever use.   Episode Breakdown: [00:00] The Myth of Self-Discipline [01:40] The Downside of Self-Discipline [02:12] The Cycle of Self-Criticism [03:38] The High Cost of Self-Discipline [04:09] The Dysfunctional Relationship with Ourselves [05:03] The Most Important Relationship: With Yourself [05:44] The Shift from Self-Discipline to Self-Devotion [06:15]  What is Self-Devotion? [06:47] Applying Devotion to Yourself [07:39] Discipline vs. Devotion [08:54] The Logic of Self-Importance [09:25] The Ease of Following Through with Devotion [09:47] New Year, New Me: A Devoted Approach   Take Action!   Break up with self-discipline and step into the new year with a mindset that truly supports your growth and happiness. Love yourself enough to follow through—not because you have to, but because you want to.  

Join Paris as she reflects on this final day of 2024, sharing her journey of growth and challenges. Highlights include transitioning to a full-time speaking business, traveling to diverse locations, and deep work in therapy. Paris emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, overcoming personal fears, and the power of community support. Do the exercise Paris shares in the episode to reflect on your own year, focusing on three significant challenges and three areas of growth. Stay in touch with Paris via Substack here! Grab a copy of Paris's book here! 00:00 Reflecting on the Last Day of 2024 01:13 Therapy Insights and Boldly Owning My Power 02:28 Major Life Changes and Achievements 03:47 Self-Criticism and Personal Growth 04:53 Reflection Exercise: Challenges and Growth 06:30 Growth Through Full-Time Speaking and Travel 14:02 Deep Work in Therapy and Personal Challenges 15:09 Physical Health Struggles and Self-Compassion 22:22 Maintaining Stability and Religious Growth 24:42 Gratitude and Final Thoughts for 2024

In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of self-compassion and why true change stems from self-love rather than self-hatred. Drawing on Kristen Neff's three pillars of self-compassion—mindfulness, common humanity, and kindness—we explore how criticism impacts the brain, raising danger signals that dysregulate the nervous system and contribute to anxiety, depression, and chronic pain. Learn practical tools to calm your inner critic, rewire your brain, and embrace growth with grace and self-acceptance. Ali's Resources:  Consults with Ali  BIOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough 10% off using code ALIDAMRON10 www.alidamron.com/magnesium Master Your Perimenopause Course + Toolkit "Am I in Perimenopause?" Checklist.  What Hormone is Imbalanced? Quiz! Fullscript (Get 10% off all supplements) "How To Balance Your Hormones For Better Sleep, Mood, Periods and Energy" Free, On Demand Training Website  Ali's Instagram Ali's Facebook Group: Holistic Health with Ali Damron 

Sick to death of constantly criticizing yourself? Yeah!? Well, so are WE! All that self-criticism not only damages self-esteem but can also keep us stuck in a cycle where we're afraid to take risks or try new things. That harsh self-criticism actually hinders personal growth by creating a fear of failure and reinforcing a narrow view of who we are. So ditch that black & white thinking, accept that you're going to make mistakes and ask others to call you out when they hear you administering that epic verbal beat down, even when it's "just a joke". 

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3424: Discover Rachel Shanken's transformative guide to breaking free from the cycle of self-criticism. Learn practical strategies to foster self-compassion, leverage the power of mindfulness, and reshape your mindset to lead a more joyful, fulfilling life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://mindbodywise.com/blog/break-cycle-self-criticism/ Quotes to ponder: "Your brain is malleable. It's important to remember that no matter what you're facing or where you are in your life, your brain has qualities of 'neuroplasticity' which means that, with effort, you can train and remold it." "By allowing this cycle to continue, with little consciousness and effort to change it, you keep yourself from living a full, fulfilling, joyful life." "With committed action, there's freedom from this painful cycle." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

​Hellllo and welcome to another episode of These Little Moments Podcast. In this episode, I answer your questions asked on Instagram:How to overcome an all or nothing mindsetHow to stay calm with kids and have better sleepWhen should you workout? Morning or night?How to manage family stress over the holidays?How to stop "selling yourself short"?How to stay motivated with the "cold dark winter days"How to get back into the gym after a year hiatus?21 Day Fat Loss Challenge:https://coaching.bodybyryan.com/challenge-6096Podcast Links:Please leave a 5 star review wherever you listen to this podcast :)If you are interested in 1:1 online coaching, you can apply here: https://bodybyryan.com/coaching/Use my FREE Calorie Calculator: bodybyryan.com/calculatorFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bodybyryanfitness/Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ryankassim?lang=engBodyByYOU- Fat Loss Made Easy FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1701659280174513/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Ryan_KassimSubscribe to my YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/ryankassimlifeisgood20% off Legion Supplements - Use code: BodyByRyanhttps://legionathletics.rfrl.co/542mpDiscount off Just Meats Meal Prepping - Use Code: Bodybyryanhttps://get.aspr.app/SHHYE

Send us a textIn this week's empowering episode of the "Make Time for Success" podcast, host Dr. Christine Li delves into a common yet often misunderstood challenge: the difficulty of getting started. Drawing from her own recent experience with procrastination, Dr. Li provides a relatable and candid story about how a minor business task took an unnecessarily long two and a half weeks to tackle, despite ultimately requiring less than 10 minutes of her time. This real-life example sets the stage for a deeper exploration into why so many of us struggle with beginnings, and how we can shift our mindset to overcome these hurdles.Dr. Li uncovers the core reasons behind our hesitation to start—ranging from fear of failure to feelings of overwhelm and perfectionism. She offers actionable strategies and simple shifts that listeners can adopt to break through these barriers, including taking tiny actions, utilizing the "5-minute mode," and celebrating every small success. This episode is not just a discussion but a motivational guide designed to help listeners unlock their productivity potential and infuse their work with joy and a sense of accomplishment. Don't miss out on these insightful tips and exercises, available for download alongside the episode, to help you make consistent progress and achieve success.Timestamps:05:09 Fear of failure makes starting difficult.07:34 Overwhelmed signals aren't stop signs, just cues.11:54 Lack of direction often hinders starting tasks.14:29 Start with one tiny action to overcome procrastination.18:37 Aim for neutral thoughts to avoid negativity.20:43 Adopt positivity for success and joyful productivity.For the free worksheet that accompanies this episode on overcoming procrastination and knowing how to start, click this link: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/startFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library where she offers you 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate.CLICK HERE NOW TO CLAIM YOUR FREE RESOURCES: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, please register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Us!Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/labAdditional Resources (affiliate links below):Kajabi empowers you to create all kinds of content to showcase what you know best, including online courses, coaching programs, podcasts, memberships, and more. Click the link for your FREE 30-day trial to Kajabi: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/kajabi Free $20 Amazon Gift Card when you sign up for BuzzSprout to host, promote & track your o

Stefan Molyneux shares his views on politics, highlighting his disinterest due to perceived limitations on free will and speech. He discusses self-criticism, ideal standards, and free will, linking them to Christianity, liberalism, and atheism. Molyneux explains his Universal Preferable Behavior (UPB) framework, comparing it to the scientific method for assessing moral propositions. He envisions a society based on UPB principles emphasizing rationality, universality, and consistency in moral theories and voluntary interactions.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022