Podcasts about difficult relationships

Send JKO a Text MessageThis International Women's Day special examines how some women manage to rise in spite of difficult and even abusive relationships. JKO highlights the importance of women's support systems, the courage it takes to leave harmful environments, and the quiet strategy some women use to build a path to safety and stability. The episode is both a reflection and an encouragement to women in hard places.Nuggets of wisdom in this episodeThe role of community in helping women survive hard conditions.A grounded explanation of “ajo” and women's informal support systems.The importance of planning for women who cannot move right away.An example of a Canadian woman who used long-term planning to secure a safer future for herself and her children. Safety Note: Please use these ideas in a way that feels right and safe for your situation. For personal support, reach out to someone you trust or a local service in your area. Picture on cover developed in Canva.Support the show If Messy Can't Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey. If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know. Thank you so much for listening. Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

Some relationships build your faith. Others slowly erode it. In this deeply practical and scripturally rich message, Pastor Ken Senchal unpacks Jesus' powerful teaching in Matthew 7:6 — "Do not throw your pearls to pigs." What does that really mean? And how do we apply it without becoming cold or judgmental? You'll discover: • What biblical discernment truly is • How to recognize spiritually unhealthy dynamics • Why you are responsible to people — not for them • How to set boundaries without losing love • How to remain in Christ while navigating relational tension If you've ever felt guilty for walking away… If you've struggled with spiritually mismatched relationships… If you've tried to carry burdens God never assigned you… This message will bring clarity, freedom, and peace. You don't have to fix everyone. You just have to follow Jesus faithfully. If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs wisdom in their relationships. To learn more about OneChurch, visit www.youronechurch.com.

This one is deeply pastoral and incredibly needed. We don't talk enough about the relationships that drain us. The ones we pray about. Cry over. Lose sleep over. Some relationships build us. Others test everything in us. In this episode, Pastor Ken Senchal addresses one of the most practical spiritual challenges we face: How do you love difficult people without losing your peace, your character, or your spiritual growth?    What if the fruit of the Spirit was never meant to disappear in toxic environments — but to protect you in them? You'll hear powerful insight on: • Why guarding your heart is not the same as becoming hard-hearted • The connection between remaining in Christ and emotional stability • How love sets boundaries • Why peace sometimes walks away • How self-control protects your character "Sometimes the issue isn't how to exit the relationship — it's how to endure it without losing your soul."  And here's the hope: When you can't easily change the relationship… The Holy Spirit changes how you stand within it. If this episode encourages you:

Conversations from the heart and soul of Humanity Church with Nathan Neighbour. For more information, visit www.humanitychurch.com LINKS: CONNECT CARD: https://humanitychurch.com/card JOIN A GROUP: https://humanitychurch.churchcenter.com/groups/humanity-groups GIVE: https://humanitychurch.churchcenter.com/giving   Christian discipleship, spiritual growth, freedom from addiction, body and spirit connection, overcoming temptation, Christian living, spiritual transformation, breaking bad habits, temple of the Holy Spirit, Christian discipline, agency, integrity, mindfulness, spiritual freedom, body stewardship, Christian self-control.

Conversations from the heart and soul of Humanity Church with Nathan Neighbour. For more information, visit www.humanitychurch.com LINKS: CONNECT CARD: https://humanitychurch.com/card JOIN A GROUP: https://humanitychurch.churchcenter.com/groups/humanity-groups GIVE: https://humanitychurch.churchcenter.com/giving   Christian discipleship, spiritual growth, freedom from addiction, body and spirit connection, overcoming temptation, Christian living, spiritual transformation, breaking bad habits, temple of the Holy Spirit, Christian discipline, agency, integrity, mindfulness, spiritual freedom, body stewardship, Christian self-control.

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Conversations from the heart and soul of Humanity Church with Marla Neighbour. For more information, visit www.humanitychurch.com LINKS: CONNECT CARD: https://humanitychurch.com/card JOIN A GROUP: https://humanitychurch.churchcenter.com/groups/humanity-groups GIVE: https://humanitychurch.churchcenter.com/giving   Christian discipleship, spiritual growth, freedom from addiction, body and spirit connection, overcoming temptation, Christian living, spiritual transformation, breaking bad habits, temple of the Holy Spirit, Christian discipline, agency, integrity, mindfulness, spiritual freedom, body stewardship, Christian self-control.

"Choosing courage over comfort is not always easy, but it's always worth it. Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind." —Brené BrownSHOW NOTESEPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Identify the "Poop": Recognize where boundaries are being crossed in your most intimate relationships. Stand Your Sacred Ground: Learn to stay rooted in your identity without shrinking or becoming aggressive. Separate Person from Pattern: Use 2 Corinthians 5:16 to see people according to their Spirit-given DNA, not their fleshly mistakes. Embrace the "Orange Fence": Realize that clear boundaries are the highest form of kindness and protection for a covenant. Protect the Private Vision: Trust the vision Jesus gave you, even if no one else supports it yet. You're tired of "cleaning up the mess": If you feel like you are constantly managing the emotional fallout of others' behaviors, this "Peahen Parable" will give you the practical tools to stop the cycle.

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Today, you are getting research-backed strategies for handling difficult people. If you're done being dismissed, talked over, or made to feel small, this episode will help you show up with power - and walk away with peace.Whether it's family, coworkers, friends, or anyone who knows how to trigger you, today you're getting tools for dealing with difficult people.In this solo episode, Mel dives deep into how to respond to disrespect, deal with emotionally immature behavior without losing yourself, and finally stop overreacting and  overexplaining around people who are never going to change.Mel also discusses The Let Them Theory, the powerful relationship tool that's changed millions of lives, and shows you how to:-Stand up for yourself without sounding aggressive -Handle gaslighting, guilt-tripping, and “just joking” comments -Set boundaries without explaining or over-apologizing -Respond to fake apologies and toxic behavior with clarity -Stay calm and confident, even when someone's pushing your buttons -Recognize emotional immaturity and stop taking it personally -Let go of control and stop trying to fix people who don't want to change  After this episode, you'll know how to stay grounded and feel more connected to the people you love - without getting pulled into their drama.For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. If you liked the episode, check out this one next: If You're Feeling Overwhelmed, You Need to Hear ThisConnect with Mel:  Get Mel's newsletter, packed with tools, coaching, and inspiration.Get Mel's #1 bestselling book, The Let Them TheoryWatch the episodes on YouTubeFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTok Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-freeDisclaimer Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Amer shares that he found peace in remembering that the core purpose of a business is to serve the customer. John agrees that the customer should be the top priority, but disagrees that everything else is "noise" - he believes there is value in other aspects of running a business beyond just customer service.The group discusses the importance of maintaining a customer-centric mindset while also allowing for personal and professional growth. They acknowledge the need to continuously improve, but caution against the view that anything not directly serving the customer is irrelevant.The conversation shifts to the challenges of maintaining relationships, especially with family members, when there are differences in personal development or perspectives. The group explores the tension between extending grace and holding people accountable, and the difficulty of determining when to disengage from unproductive dynamics.The group delves into the complexities of assessing someone's true intentions, distinguishing between self-deception and intentional deception. They discuss the importance of verifying claims and not accepting statements at face value, especially when the implications are significant.Amer suggests that sometimes the healthiest approach is to maintain neutrality and create distance from difficult relationships, rather than trying to change the other person or engage in a battle of wills. The group agrees that this can be a valid and powerful choice, especially when the effort required to improve the relationship outweighs the potential benefits.The group reflects on the key insights from the conversation, including the importance of acknowledging the difficulty of certain relationships, the value of silence and "I don't know" responses, and the need to be mindful of the labels and identities we adopt and how they shape our behavior. They conclude by emphasizing the distinction between difficulties caused by external factors versus those stemming from malintent, and the importance of maintaining perspective and grace in the face of challenging interpersonal dynamics.

In this our next listener's questions episode, High Conflict Institute co-founders Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy address three complex scenarios involving challenging relationship dynamics, boundary setting, and family conflicts.Mike seeks advice about an ex-girlfriend who refuses to leave his home despite receiving money to do so, using suicide threats as leverage. The hosts discuss implementing their new SLIC method (Setting Limits, Imposing Consequences) and the importance of following through with consequences while having appropriate support systems in place. They emphasize that enabling behavior rarely leads to positive change.Leonard from Sweden asks about common response patterns when high-conflict people face criticism. Bill explains typical reactions including denial, blame-shifting, playing victim, and counter-accusations. The hosts emphasize avoiding criticism in favor of future-focused communication and setting clear boundaries with consequences.A couple dealing with high-conflict aging parents seeks strategies for managing necessary family relationships. The hosts discuss balancing caregiving responsibilities with boundary setting, offering practical approaches for limiting problematic behaviors while maintaining connections. They emphasize matter-of-fact communication and consistent enforcement of stated consequences.Throughout these scenarios, common themes emerge: the importance of preparing for predictable reactions, maintaining firm but respectful boundaries, and avoiding the trap of criticism. The episode demonstrates how similar principles can help navigate different types of high-conflict situations, whether with ex-partners, aging parents, or other family members who exhibit challenging behaviors.Additional ResourcesPersonal GrowthNew Ways for Families ® Online ClassConflict Influencer® Class (6 weeks on Zoom)BooksSLIC Solutions for Conflict (pre-order)It's All Your FaultOur New World of Adult BulliesConsultationsBook us for a consultation about your high-conflict situation or legal caseTrainingInquire about having us train your organizationConnect With UsVisit High Conflict Institute: highconflictinstitute.comSubmit questions for Bill and MeganBrowse our complete collection of books and resources in our online store—available in print and e-book formatsFind these show notes and all past episode notes on our websiteWatch this episode on YouTube!Important NoticeOur discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:46) - Listener Question #1 (12:49) - Listener Question #2 (24:12) - Listener Question #3 (33:48) - Wrap Up

Check out this week's message from Pastor Scotty Gibbons as he shares a message on how to handle difficult relationships. #newlifechurch #pslam #helpingpeopleknowjesusbetter #2025sermon #sermon #onlinechurch #churchonlineSubscribe to receive our latest messages: https://bit.ly/3jqEZ1gTo support this ministry and help us continue to help people know Jesus better click here: https://www.nlspringfield.com/give/ Helping People Know Jesus Better - This is the vision of New Life Church, led by Pastor Ryan Goeden and based in Springfield, MOSupport the show

I am giving you five biblical principles, which can help you when you're dealing with difficult people, particularly on your job. Today, our fifth and final principle is: The “Speak Kind Words” Principle Here are two verses from Proverbs that tell us how important it is to guard our words carefully and speak words of kindness. Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up (Proverbs 12:25). Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a ruling rightly given (Proverbs 25:11). Rightly given words are those which are strategically selected and gently delivered. They fit the situation perfectly. With these words, you can change an ugly environment or situation into something beautiful—like apples of gold in settings of silver. For example, suppose you had to confront a person on your job who is repeatedly late to work. Which of these two approaches would be rightly given words? “I want to point out something that is bothering me. You've been late to work a lot, and it just drives me crazy. I want every person here on time every day. You're paid to be here on time, so I'll be expecting you to be on time every day from now on. I hope that is clear.” “I've noticed you have some difficulty getting to work on time. Perhaps there is some good reason for that; if so, you need to tell me so we can work it out by cutting your lunch time or having you work later each day. Is there some reason that makes it difficult for you to be here on time each day?” The first example would cause a defensive, angry reaction and may or may not solve the problem, while the second approach shows some concern for the individual while at the same time making it clear tardiness cannot be tolerated. Those are rightly given words. Often our choice of words makes all the difference in how responsive the other person will be.

Have you ever worked with someone who was arrogant? A person who tried to tell you what to do and had delusions of grandeur? I'm examining some of the difficult relationships you may encounter on your job. As I've noted, one of the many purposes of difficult relationships is to teach us needed and important lessons. And humility is certainly an important lesson we can learn through an arrogant coworker. The “Humble Yourself” Principle Jesus says: For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted (Luke 14:11). Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time (1 Peter 5:6). Have you learned to look for opportunities to humble yourself? Now, I'm not talking about false humility, such as running yourself down, refusing to accept a compliment, or walking around with your head hung low. Most every day we will find opportunities to humble ourselves. For example, if you work with a bossy coworker, it is humbling to keep your mouth shut and not say something back to him or her. It is humbling to take his or her suggestion. I began asking God to show me when and how to humble myself. It's a good prayer and I recommend it to you. I found that not insisting on my rights was a key way to humble myself; not talking about myself or my accomplishments was another. Not needing to have the last word is another good way to humble yourself. But don't lose sight of the promises given to us when we truly are willing to humble ourselves. We will be exalted. Notice Peter said we will be lifted up in due time. That's probably not as soon as you would like it to be, but it will be in the right time after you have learned the valuable lesson of humbling yourself. If you have a difficult person to deal with today, one who is arrogant or treats you in a condescending way, ask God to show you when you should humble yourself with this person. You'll be amazed at the blessing it will bring to you when you practice this principle. And humbling yourself is much easier than having to be humbled!

Do you have any enemies? Enemies are people who make your life uncomfortable, difficult. They may cause unnecessary hurt or discord, and they are generally at odds with you in many ways, intentional or unintentional. The "Love Your Enemy" Principle Here is a principle from Matthew 5 that gives us direct guidance on dealing with a relationship “enemy.” You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous (Matthew 5:43-45). What a revolutionary teaching this was. Never before had anyone taught such convoluted doctrine. It goes against all our instincts to love our enemies. It demands an attitude foreign to our nature. It requires self-denial, which seems imminently unfair and all but impossible. That's the way it often is with biblical principles. They go against our grain, but if you have some relationship “enemies,” God will empower you to love them if you are willing. Remember, loving doesn't necessarily mean liking. This kind of love is an action, a set of our will, a decision to act in loving ways, even though our feelings may not be warm and fuzzy. If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty give him water to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you (Proverbs 25:21-22). In these two passages from Matthew and Proverbs we learn three things about how we are to treat our enemies: We are to love our enemies. We are to pray for our enemies. We are to give our enemies what they need. We aren't promised our enemies will change or appreciate our loving attitude. But when we respond in loving ways toward people who make our lives difficult, we keep ourselves from sinning and we demonstrate the love of Jesus in very real ways.

I am looking at some biblical principles which give us guidance when we have to deal with a difficult relationship—like a coworker who is lazy, uncooperative, negative, to name a few. The "Speak-the-Truth-in-Love" Principle Ephesians 4:14-15 gives us a very important principle: Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ (Ephesians 4:14-15). According to the Apostle Paul, speaking the truth to people is sometimes a way we can help them grow. Of course, the operative word here is “love.” Have you ever spoken the truth in haste or anger, hatred or vindictiveness, or with malice or in defensiveness? The truth can often be very painful. When we speak it in anything but love, we can open a door that never should be opened and cause a rift in a relationship that may never be healed. Which would describe you best? Would you say you have difficulty speaking the truth in love even when you know you should? If so, is that because you hate confrontations or fear rejection or repercussions? Or perhaps you feel guilty since you know you're not perfect either. Or would you say you speak the truth too freely and often without compassion or forethought? In practicing this biblical principle of speaking the truth in love, you need to exercise extreme caution. Words are very powerful and need to bathed in prayer. Your motivation must be carefully scrutinized to make certain you are speaking the truth in love for the right reason at the right time. However, remember speaking the truth in love is a biblical principle, and when God puts you in a position to speak that, failing to do so is to rob the person of an opportunity to become more mature.

Relationships are the sandpaper of life. Isn't it often true the relationship struggles of your life are used by God to refine and teach and help you grow to maturity? I want to examine five biblical principles we need to know when we are experiencing relationship difficulties on our jobs. The Extra-Mile Principle We are called to have an extra-mile attitude in our relationships with others. Matthew 5:38-41 is pretty clear about this. You have heard that it was said, 'Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.' But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles (Matthew 5:38 – 41). What does it mean to have an extra-mile attitude, to turn the other cheek, to give your cloak as well as your shirt? Jesus was trying to teach us: to endure unfair treatment at times, without griping or complaining. to refrain from saying some of the things we would like to say to that difficult coworker. to do some work we don't have to or want to do. to put in extra time and effort to help a difficult person. Surely that is all a part of this extra mile principle. And it would lead you to endure at times and to do more than perhaps even your employer would require or expect of you. But there is also a balance we must find. I believe Jesus gave us boundaries with this extra mile principle, and he is not teaching us to endure any unacceptable behavior or habits forever and never say anything negative to anyone. Do you go the extra mile with difficult relationships? When we are willing to, it can often open a door for a miracle.

How To Handle Difficult Relationships Romans 12:9-10 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10 Love each other with genuine affection, [e]  and take delight in honoring each other. (NLT) Romans 12:14-16 - Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. 15 Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. 16 Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all! (NLT) Romans 12:18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (NIV) 1. Own what you can own Romans 12:18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (NIV) A. I can own my attitude Proverbs 21:2 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the LORD weighs the heart. (ESV) B. I can own my own health C. I can own my response Proverbs 29:22 An angry person stirs up conflict, and a hot-tempered person commits many sins (NIV) Proverbs 15:18 A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel (NIV) Proverbs 14:29 Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly (NIV) Proverbs 29:11 Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end (NIV) 2. Trust God to help the other person A. Always be quick to forgive them. Ephesians 4:32 – Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you. (MSG) B. Always pray for God to help them. Romans 12:14 - 14  Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. (NLT) C. Never try to play the role of the Holy Spirit. What about in marriage? A. God does not like divorce B. God’s Word makes provision for divorce when it’s needed C. God can do miracles Matthew 19:3-9 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” 4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female, 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” 7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?” 8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” (NIV) 1 Corinthians 7:10-16 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. 12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.  14  For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. 16 How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife? (NIV)

In this episode of the Addict to Athlete podcast, Coach Blu Robinson engages in a deep conversation with Darryl Stickel, an expert in building trust and connection. They explore the journey of trust, its definition, and the dynamics involved in fostering deeper relationships. Darryl shares his personal experiences that shaped his understanding of trust, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and self-trust. The discussion also covers practical strategies for building trust in various relationships, including parenting and professional settings, and highlights the significance of communication and awareness in nurturing trust. 00:00Introduction to Trust and Connection 03:07The Journey to Building Trust 06:06Understanding Trust: Definition and Dynamics 08:48The Role of Vulnerability in Trust 11:54Levers of Trust: Benevolence, Integrity, and Ability 14:43Self-Trust and Its Importance 17:36Parenting and Trust Dynamics 20:29Learning from Mistakes and Building Resilience 24:23Navigating Trust and Love in Difficult Relationships 27:02Learning Through Mistakes: The Role of Experience 29:14The Balance of Control and Independence in Parenting 31:10Vulnerability and Trust: Overcoming Past Hurts 35:06The Power of Benevolence in Building Trust 39:46Creating Connections: The Importance of Asking for Help   To Learn More: www.trustunlimited.com Please join Addict to Athlete's Patreon support page and help us turn the mess of addiction into the message of sobriety! https://www.patreon.com/addicttoathlete Please visit our website for more information on Team Addict to Athlete and Addiction Recovery Podcasts. https://www.AddictToAthlete.org Join the Team! Circle, our new social support event, along with the team and athlete communication platform, is designed to help us break free from doom scrolling and shadow banning and foster stronger connections among us. Follow the link, download the app, and start this new chapter of Team AIIA! Join Circle https://a2a.circle.so/join?invitation_token=16daaa0d9ecd7421d384dd05a461464ce149cc9e-63d4aa30-1a67-4120-ae12-124791dfb519

Speaker: Pastor Jose Smith Date: 5.18.25

Let's face it - we all have that ONE person in our lives that is difficult to interact with - and sometimes, for others, that person is US! In this final installment of the series, Pastor Michael walks us through passages in Ephesians that give us insight on how - and why - we can interact with difficult people in loving and Christ-like ways.

Conflict is inevitable — but division doesn't have to be.In this timely and practical message from the Friend-ology series, Pastor Mark Reynolds explores how we can face disagreements with courage, grace, and Christlike love. Whether the conflict is political, personal, or just plain awkward, this sermon will help you discover how to stay connected even when you don't see eye to eye.Rooted in Colossians 3, this message offers biblical wisdom, honest reflection, and practical tools for navigating relationships with compassion, humility, patience, and forgiveness. You'll learn:Why avoiding conflict actually weakens your relationshipsHow curiosity and caution help us love betterWhen to seek reconciliation — and when to create healthy boundariesWhy unity is essential to our Christian witness in a divided worldIf you've ever struggled with difficult people, broken friendships, or painful divisions — this message is for you. Discover a gospel-centered way to engage in conflict that heals instead of harms.Watch now and take the next step toward healthier, deeper, more Christlike relationships.

Life of David Pt. 23 How To Manage Difficult Relationships 2 Samuel 18:1-33

Why is it so easy to stand up for others but so hard to advocate for ourselves? If you've ever felt stuck between not wanting to seem "too much" and not knowing how to use your voice effectively, this episode is for you. I'm joined by Heather Hansen—former trial lawyer turned advocate coach—who shares powerful insights on breaking free from “good girl syndrome,” building the skills to confidently speak up, and learning how to own your voice without fear or guilt. If advocating for yourself feels uncomfortable, overwhelming, or just plain impossible, this conversation will empower you to step into your confidence and ask for what you truly deserve. Don't miss this one! About Heather: Heather Hansen empowers leaders to build belief in their ideas, leadership, and potential. Drawing on her experience as a trial attorney, psychology degree and dispute resolution training, time as a media personality, and hypnosis training, she helps leaders use stories, evidence, and their bodies' energy to influence their teams, clients, and results. Heather has appeared on The Today Show, Dr. Oz, CNN, Fox News, and CBS and has worked with top organizations, including Harvard Business School, Google, LVMH, and the American Medical Association. She's the bestselling author of The Elegant Warrior: How to Win Life's Trials Without Losing Yourself and Advocate to Win: 10 Tools to Ask for What You Want and Get It. She lives in New York City with her dog, Wolf. Visit her website:  www.beliefbuilders.com Visit her Youtube: here Get her book:  here Connect with me: Dr. Zoe Shaw on Instagram Dr. Zoe Shaw on Facebook Dr. Zoe Shaw Website     Connect with me: Dr. Zoe Shaw on Instagram Dr. Zoe Shaw on Facebook Dr. Zoe Shaw Website   Connect with Heather: Website: https://www.beliefbuilders.com/ Instagram @anelegantwarrior Books: https://www.beliefbuilders.com/books-by-heather-hansen    

I sit down with Christina Keyes, a remarkable woman who transformed her life from a career-driven professional to a dedicated caregiver of her mother in 2013, after her mother nearly died of a stroke, only six months after the death of her father. Around this same time frame, Christina was also grieving the loss of a dear cousin who was responsible for Christina getting sober. However, the grief doesn't stop there. Christina was also grieving the end of a 17-year relationship as she knew it when her partner suffered a life-altering stroke, which resulted in him having to go into an adult care facility. Christina's story is about resilience, compassion, and turning personal grief into a powerful message of hope and advocacy. She shares the emotional rollercoaster of caregiving, from the sleepless nights filled with worry to the profound moments of connection with her mother. She opens up about the challenges of balancing her own needs with those of her loved ones and the unexpected blessings that emerged along the way. Her candid reflections offer invaluable insights into caregiving, grief, and personal growth. Now a national speaker and the founder of Keys for Caregiving, Christina aims to transform the caregiving space by connecting businesses and family caregivers to foster a supportive community. Her advocacy work amplifies the voices of caregivers, championing for change and understanding in a field often overlooked.Christina's story is an inspiring journey of love, loss, and the power of turning a mess into a message and a test into a testimony, as Christina says. Whether you're a caregiver, experiencing grief, or seeking inspiration, this episode is filled with warmth, wisdom, and the reminder that we can grow through what we go through.Tune in to discover how Christina's story can inspire your own path of healing and empowerment. You also do not want to miss the incredible and beautiful Christmas miracle Christina experienced! RESOURCES:WebsiteCaregiver Text Line: 1+ (360) 230-7736Self-Care at Sea Cruise: Oct. 2025Send Victoria a text message! Support the show_______NEED HELP? National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 Crisis Text Line provides free, 24/7 support via text message. Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a trained Crisis Counselor If you are struggling with grief due to any of the 40+ losses, free resources are available HERE.CONNECT WITH VICTORIA: Instagram Website LinkedIn Facebook This episode is sponsored by Do Grief Differently™️, my twelve-week, one-on-one, in-person/online program for grievers who have suffered any type of loss to feel better. Click here to learn new tools, grief education, and the only evidence-based method for moving beyond the pain of grief. Would you like to join the mission of Grieving Voices in normalizing grief and supporting hurting hearts everywhere? Become a sup...

In this week's episode, we're talking about how to help our kids navigate difficult relationships. Whether it's dealing with friends, siblings, or even adults, kids, just like us, can face challenging relationships throughout their lives. As parents, it's essential to equip our children with the tools and confidence to handle these situations. While it can be tough, navigating these relationships teaches valuable life skills such as empathy, conflict resolution, and emotional regulation. Today, I dive into three key aspects to help your child manage difficult relationships, build stronger connections, and develop emotional resilience. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to get the free resource guide accompanying this episode! It's filled with helpful strategies to support your child as they navigate challenging relationships and build resilience. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

How do we genuinely handle the difficult people in our lives? Tahverlee brings us the most potent rituals and mindset shifts needed to address challenges with others. Dive deep into understanding our core wounds and how they influence our interactions and realize that true change begins with recognizing our own energy and the role we play in each relationship.Tahverlee guides us on how to blend rituals with self-discovery to maintain a high vibrational alignment. Packed with practical steps, this conversation is a beacon for those ready to transform their experiences with difficult people through heightened self-awareness and magic.Tahverlee is a Social Impact Entrepreneur, High Priestess, Ritualist, and Initiate of the Sacred Way. Visit Moon Temple Mystery School for ancient teachings for our modern world, spiritual coaching, and everything you need to know as you walk your awakening path.

Terry joins Niki to discuss difficult relationships, when to set boundaries, and when to walk away. Scripture readings:  Proverbs 4:23, Ephesians 4:26, Proverbs 25:28, Mathew 5:2-12 Worship Song:  https://youtu.be/-sx8wTnnfSc?si=bkzvMREfVTYXgazC

In this episode, I'm joined by James "Fish" Gill, a heart courage and transformational facilitator who has spent his life helping people navigate deep conflicts and ruptures in relationships. If you've ever struggled with repairing relationships after hurt or conflict, this conversation is for you. So often, when a rupture occurs, we either sweep it under the rug, shut the other person out, or react in ways that only deepen the wound. But what if there was a better way? What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why repairing relationships is a skill most of us were never taught The step-by-step process to heal ruptures and rebuild trust How to move past resentment and into deeper connection Why ignoring or avoiding conflict never leads to the outcome we truly desire James also shares insights from his beautiful new book, How to Fall in Love with Humanity - a heartfelt and transformative read that will inspire you to see yourself and others with more compassion. This episode is full of practical insights and thoughtful guidance to help you build stronger, healthier relationships - whether in romance, family, or friendships. Tune in now and let's dive in! Connect with James "Fish" Gill Instagram: @james_fish_gill Website: leadbyheart.com   Need more anxiety support?

Send JKO a Text MessageHow are you feeling about Valentine's Day? Excited? Apprehensive? Whether you're being showered with love or navigating a difficult relationship, this episode of Messy Can't Stop Her is for YOU. Nuggets of wisdom in this episode1.    Self-love is a Biblical principle. 2.    Celebrate yourself, no matter your relationship status. 3.    Treating yourself special sets the standard for how others treat you 4.    Valentine's Day is an opportunity for you to set the standard for how you want to be loved this year. 5.    Practical ways to celebrate yourself this Valentine's DayKey Scriptures: John 3:16, Mark 12:31 References in this episodeBuchi Emecheta's Second-Class Citizen Join the Messy Can't Stop Her Sisterhood at https://www.facebook.com/groups/3204395256540448/If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know. Thank you so much for listening. Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

Hi, Do you have a question for us? Ask away!Episode Overview:In this deeply personal and insightful episode, Dr. Justine Corry shares her experience of family estrangement, reflecting on her relationship with a narcissistic mother and the impact on her life. Dr. Gemma Gladstone joins the conversation as they both discuss the psychological toll of estrangement and how schema therapy can help individuals heal and move forward.Key Topics Covered:What drives estrangement and why it's never an easy decision.The role of schemas in shaping family dynamics and coping mechanisms.Personal reflections on living without a parent and how to navigate the associated grief and loss.Understanding the motivations and limitations of difficult family members, including narcissistic parents.How self-preservation and boundaries can lead to healing and healthier relationships.If you've ever struggled with a difficult family relationship, faced the possibility of estrangement, or want to better understand the psychology behind toxic family dynamics, this episode provides both professional guidance and heartfelt relatability.Estrangement is never easy, but understanding the dynamics at play can help bring clarity and healing. With the right tools and support, it's possible to move forward and build a life that aligns with your well-being.Support the showCan you help support our continued production. If you're a regular listener who loves our show, consider supporting us with a contribution each month. We are a home-grown podcast made with love, without help from a fancy production company or sponsors. Become a supporter of the show and help us keep going!SPECIAL OFFER ON GEMMA'S WEBINAR FOR THERAPISTS - FAST30FEB - GET LINK, ENDS FEB 28TH (Therapeutic Strategies for Assisting Clients with Narcissistic Parents). CONNECT WITH USGood Mood Hubgoodmood.com.auInstagramFacebookemail: justineandgemma@goodmood.com.auContact us for information about private coaching with Gemma or Justine. The Red Flag Projecttheredflagproject.comInstagramFacebookemail: hello@theredflagproject.comhttps://linktr.ee/theredflagprojectFor women seeking to heal their s...

Do you feel stuck in a difficult relationship, replaying arguments and feeling powerless? In this episode, we dive into the story of Sarah, a coaching client who changed her life by learning how to manage her emotions, set boundaries, and reclaim her power.Discover practical tools and actionable tips to navigate tough relationships, protect your peace, and show up as your best self — no matter what.If you've ever struggled with feeling misunderstood or drained by someone close to you, this episode is packed with insights to help you move forward with confidence and clarity.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why challenging relationships feel so overwhelming — and what you can do about it.The key mindset shift that helped Sarah stop taking things personally.Practical tools like the “Neutral Observer” technique and boundary-setting to protect your emotional energy.How to reframe your thoughts and focus on what you can control.What life looks like after reclaiming your power — and the cost of staying stuck.Key Takeaways:Pause Before Reacting: Give yourself a moment to breathe and choose a response instead of reacting impulsively.Define Your Boundaries: Learn how to set and communicate boundaries that protect your emotional energy.Reframe the Narrative: Shift from “Why are they doing this to me?” to “How can I respond in a way that reflects my values?”Share This Episode:If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need it. Don't forget to tag me on social media @YourHandle when you do!Feeling stuck in a challenging relationship? You're not alone, and you don't have to navigate it by yourself. Let's create the change you've been waiting for.Book Your Free Coaching Session!

Send us a textIn this episode of Is It Me or Is It Them?, therapist & coach April Boyd explores the tension and frustration that arise in relationships when someone doesn't get you- and doesn't seem to want to.  Whether you're navigating challenging dynamics with family, in-laws, or friends, this conversation sheds light on how to stop chasing external validation and reclaim your sense of peace and agency.What You'll Learn:How to recognize when you're stuck in a pattern of frustration and approval-seeking.Why relationships can feel harder as you grow and start noticing dynamics that once seemed “normal.”The common trap of thinking your only options are “submit” or “burn it down.”The importance of stepping into "Option C"—taking care of yourself while letting others be who they are.How to shift away from giving others power over your emotional well-being.Key Takeaways:Many people feel torn between maintaining harmony by suppressing their needs or risking conflict to stand up for themselves.Self-validation begins with accepting that others may not respond the way you hope—and that's okay.It's empowering to let go of trying to force change in others and focus on what you can control in the relationship.Questions to Reflect On:Are you placing your emotional safety in the hands of someone who can't meet your needs?What would it look like to stop chasing validation from others and give it to yourself instead?How can you honour your boundaries while maintaining relationships in a way that feels healthier for you?Listen Now:Tune in for thoughtful insights and practical tips on creating healthier dynamics without losing yourself in the process..Have a topic or question you'd love to hear about?Message me and let me know.email april@lovelossproject.comInstagram @with.love.aprilhttps://www.instagram.com/with.love.april/Sign up to get tips & tools sent to your inbox.https://aprilboyd.ca/ Please note: This show is not a replacement for therapy, assessment, treatment or diagnosis. This show is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. See your physician, counsellor or local crisis support centre if neededAll identifying details about the people and the stories shared here are removed to protect confidentiality.

Relationships are messy. People do “peoplish” things. Rather than giving up when they mess up, here is what you can do to fight for the people that matter most in life.

Curious about what coaching looks like?  This is a real coaching session to help you see what you can expect.  In this episode, I share a live coaching session with a courageous friend from my community. This session provides insight into what coaching can look like and how transformative it can be. You'll hear moments of teaching, interruption to shift thought patterns, and examples of how coaching differs from traditional talk therapy. **[00:00] Intro:**- I explain the episode's premise and my approach to coaching.- Emphasis on the blend of teaching and open-ended questions.- Acknowledgment of gratitude for my guest's vulnerability. **[02:35] Starting the Coaching Session:**- My guest and I exchange warm greetings.- She shares feelings of being overstimulated after Christmas shopping.- I set the tone for the session: exploring challenges and finding new perspectives. **[06:10] Life Satisfaction Scale:**- My guest rates her current life as a 7 out of 10.- We discuss the reasons: good coping skills but struggles with overwhelm, reactivity, and balance. **[09:45] Identifying Reactivity:**- She shares that reactivity often stems from feeling overwhelmed.- I delve deeper, asking why she dislikes reacting.- She identifies the struggle of not listening fully and reacting prematurely. **[15:00] Addressing Childhood Triggers:**- My guest discusses a specific instance with her mother, a recovering addict.- Scenario: Reactivity triggered by suspicion about her mother's actions (leaving her car at the mall).- She reflects on emotions like fear, disappointment, and feeling let down. **[22:15] Exploring Disappointment and Boundaries:**- I encourage separating adult and child relationships with parents.- She shares childhood experiences of caretaking responsibilities and how these influence current dynamics.- We discuss unhealed parts of ourselves and managing expectations. **[30:00] Tools for Managing Reactivity:**- I share strategies for responding less reactively: - Recognizing emotional waves and allowing them to pass. - Having compassion for oneself when triggered. - Separating personal safety and well-being from the other person's actions. **[36:45] Shifting Perspectives:**- I introduce the concept of “responsibility hoarding” and the false sense of control it creates.- She reflects on how these tendencies show up in her relationship and parenting dynamics. **[44:00] Building Emotional Capacity:**- I explain grief and trauma as constants, using the “black dot” metaphor.- Emphasis on growing emotional capacity to manage complex relationships.- She considers replacing fear-driven actions with love-driven boundaries. **[52:30] Practical Tools for Boundaries:**- I advise slowing down decisions and creating mental space before responding to urgent requests.- She reflects on recent boundary-setting successes and areas for improvement. **[59:00] Clean Pain vs. Dirty Pain:**- I differentiate between grieving past realities (“clean pain”) and unnecessary suffering caused by worrying about uncontrollable future outcomes (“dirty pain”).- She acknowledges her tendency to spiral into “dirty pain” and commits to practicing self-awareness. **[01:06:15] Final Reflections:**- I highlight the importance of self-compassion and allowing emotional growth.- She expresses gratitude for the tools and perspectives shared.- I remind listeners that relationships, especially complex ones, are ongoing work but can improve with intentionality and love. **[01:10:00] Closing:**- I thank listeners for tuning in.- Call-to-action: Leave a review and book a free consultation to tackle stress and anxiety for good.---**Links and Resources:**- Want to try your own session?  Book a free call: amandahess.ca- Follow me on Instagram and share your thoughts about the episode! https://www.instagram.com/theamandahess/  

The holidays can bring unique challenges when it comes to relationships with in-laws. In this episode, therapists, April Bordeau and Teresa Haskins, discuss into how to navigate these sometimes difficult dynamics with faith, grace, and understanding. We provide practical advice and spiritual insights to help you maintain peace and foster positive interactions during what is often viewed as a festive season.In This Episode, We Discuss:Understanding the Dynamics of In-Law Relationships:Common sources of tension and misunderstandings with in-laws during the holidays.How family traditions and expectations can contribute to conflict.Faith-Based Strategies for Managing In-Law Tensions:Biblical principles for fostering love, respect, and forgiveness.The importance of patience and humility in navigating challenging relationships.Practical Tips for a Harmonious Holiday Experience:Setting healthy boundaries and managing expectations with in-laws.Effective communication strategies to address and resolve conflicts.Self-Care and Emotional Resilience:Maintaining your own mental and emotional well-being amid family stress.The role of self-care and seeking support as needed.Creating a Positive and Peaceful Holiday Atmosphere:Finding common ground and building connections with your in-laws.Focusing on shared values and celebrating the season's true meaning.Scriptures for reflection:Colossians 3:13 - "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."Romans 12:18 - "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone."Referenced Book: The Intentional Family - by William Doherty- Thank you for tuning in! We hope this episode equips you with the tools and inspiration needed to navigate in-law relationships with grace and understanding, making your holiday season a time of peace and joy.Follow Care to Change on Facebook  https://www.facebook.com/CaretoChange.org/Follow Care to Change on Instagram @care_to_changeSee our YouTube channel hereIf you would like someone to come speak to your group about anxiety, depression or mental health, contact us for more details.If you are struggling and ready to take a step toward freedom, schedule an appt today.

Each and every day we may encounter difficult people. We may want to avoid these types of people but is that the right response? Today we discuss how to react and even love all the challenging  people in our lives. From Tiny Tidbit: Lisa's Prayer Journalhttps://store.notconsumed.com/collections/prayer-tools/products/not-consumed-prayer-journal?variant=39353649496160Reach out at:unshakenpsalm622@gmail.comChrist the Word Sermonshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/christ-the-word-church-sermons/id1515599033Christ the Word Truth and Lifehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/christ-the-word-church-sunday-classes/id1699277705Fellow Heirs Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fellow-heirs/id171490

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In this episode of Ankur Warikoo discusses the complex nature of difficult relationships. He shares insights from a conversation with a friend experiencing challenges with their partner, highlighting three potential reactions to such situations. Warikoo emphasizes that whether to stay in or leave a relationship is a rational choice dependent on individual understanding and acceptance, while attempting to change someone is typically unsuccessful. He encourages listeners to accept partners as they are or make rational decisions about their willingness to continue the relationship. Tune in every Thursday for new episodes on your favorite podcast platform. 00:00 Introduction to Woice With Warikoo 00:32 A Friend's Troubled Relationship 01:05 Three Reactions to Relationship Issues 02:21 Rational and Irrational Choices 03:25 Final Thoughts on Relationships 03:42 Closing Remarks and Subscription Reminder

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with the inspiring Adrianna Onubogu, a life and love coach who specializes in helping women find love after divorce. This episode marks the first part of a two-part series, and I couldn't be more excited to share our candid and heartfelt conversation.As we wrapped up the first part of our discussion, I was left feeling inspired by Adriana's resilience and commitment to helping other women embrace their wholeness and pursue meaningful relationships. I can't wait for you to hear the second half of our conversation next week, where we will dive even deeper into her journey and the strategies she offers for finding love after divorce.IN THIS EPISODE:- (5:51) Overcoming Challenges as a Young Mother- (12:06) The Impact of a Single-Parent Household- (22:54) The Struggles of Dating After Divorce- (30:15) Understanding the Importance of Self-Discovery- (36:28) Advice for Women in Difficult Relationships- (45:37) Embracing Single Motherhood AgainRESOURCESCheck out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE My FREE eBook The Magnetic WomanApp rec: BumbleCONNECT WITH CHARLENE On Instagram @mscharlenebyars On YouTube @chosentrainingWork with me HERECONNECT WITH ADRIANNAOn Instagram HEREAdrianna's Links HERE

We all have those certain relationships that create more tension and anxiety than joy. Sometimes, this occurs with individuals we can't avoid; other times we're prayerfully trying to figure out how to heal relational tension and experience deeper and more fulfilling connections with those who mean a great deal to us but with whom, for various reasons, we experience ongoing conflict. In this episode, host Jennifer Slattery and guest and Bible teacher Carol McLeod discuss truths recorded in Colossians that, when applied, can help us experience more peace, and less conflict and anxiety, in our most difficult or confusing relationships. (Scroll down for discussion/reflective questions.)  Resource referenced: Overflowing: Living Abundantly in a Broken Culture Find Carol McLeod: On her website On Facbook On Instagram YouTube Follow Her On Amazon Find Jennifer Slattery: On her website Instagram Facebook Amazon Subscribe to her free newsletter Join the private Faith Over Fear Facebook Group  Discussion/Reflective Questions: What resonated with you most in this episode? In what relationships do you most need Christ's perfect wisdom? What are some ways you can grow in Christ-led wisdom? What are some promises recorded in Scripture that can increase your hope in regard to your most challenging relationships? How might it be helpful to prayerfully consider the full extent of our emotions when others hurt us as part of our forgiveness process? What is one action step God might be asking you to take having listened to this episode?     Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

This episode is brought to you by the following:  Green Chef: Go to https://www.greenchef.com/valeriaclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass!  In this episode, Valeria chats down with Dené Logan to explore the intricate dynamics of relationships, the concepts of feminine and masculine energies, and the societal shifts surrounding these themes. Dené explains the historical suppression of the feminine and the modern journey towards reclaiming it. The discussion covers the impact of these energies on personal growth, relationships, and societal structures, offering listeners profound insights into achieving a balanced and fulfilling life. Dené Logan is a Marriage and Family Therapist with an orientation in Depth Psychology (often referred to as ‘The Psychology of the Soul'), Group Facilitator, and co-host of the podcast Cheaper Than Therapy.  She has a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology and is notably the mentee of acclaimed psychotherapist Esther Perel. Dené is passionate about sharing tools and strategies to cultivate spiritual awareness, understanding the current shifts taking place within our societal structures, and empowering others in understanding how they can live the most fulfilling lives possible.  Mentioned:  Sovereign Love by Dené Logan:  Mankind Project: https://mankindproject.org/  Sacred Sons: https://www.sacredsons.com/  Jane Fonda in Five Acts: https://www.hbo.com/movies/jane-fonda-in-five-acts  Pema Chödrön: https://www.instagram.com/anipemachodron/   Dené is on: https://www.instagram.com/dene.logan/  https://www.tiktok.com/@denelogan  https://www.flowhousetherapy.com/  Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4OMP3  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 04:34 What is the feminine energy? 06:08 Wounded masculine paradigm 05:38 Women are raised feminists 11:29 Healthy masculinity 15:27 Sacred connection in relationships 20:32 What defines a successful relationship? 24:34 Conversations are crucial 32:52 Is there a limit to what you can talk about with your partner? 35:54 Be your true self all the time  40:04 Moving out of codependent paradigms 45:19 Ownership mindset in relationships 48:33 Midlife awakening 48:33 Men also need emotional support 51:41 Men are struggling in secret 55:57 Men need more model leaders 59:52 Post-patriarchal society 01:02:18 The next stage of feminism 01:05:05 How to reclaim your feminine self 01:05:58 Surround yourself with authentic people Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do we navigate difficult relationships with our parents as christians? In today's episode we'll talk about healing, setting healthy boundaries & praying for our parents. Our God is able to heal and restore what's been broken!! 

Subscriber-only episodeIn this follow up episode Valerie and guest Steve Young delve into more specific examples related to the power of moving away from seeing the world through the lens of transaction and towards embodying more purely the teachings of Jesus Christ defined by unconditional love.   With personal examples from his own journey, Steve and Val hone in on four concepts that have shaped Steve's own spiritual life and personal work:  gentle persuasion, meekness, long suffering and love unfeigned.  This discussion exemplifies how one can commit to personal discipleship and practice these principles in their own realms--whether it be in personal relationships, professionally, or in formal spiritual settings.  Val and Steve's hope in this series is to ignite further interest in first seeing more clearly where transaction exists, articulating how this way of relating is spiritually damning, and inviting each of us and our religious system into a higher, holier way of discipleship.  MORE LATTER DAY STRUGGLES RESOURCES:SUBSCRIBE TO FRIDAYS HERE! DON'T MISS A SINGLE WORD! : https://www.buzzsprout.com/2363568/subscribe3-step (2 minute) process:1: Click link and set up your account2: Select your preferred podcast app where you listen3. Click Follow to link the podcast to your listening appCONSULTING: Interested in doing individual or couples work with Valerie or a member of her trained team? Time-limited packages with Valerie and extended work with her team of coaches and therapists are available ⁠⁠here!⁠ SUPPORT GROUPS: Next support group starts Wednesday evenings this September. ONLY 5 SEATS LEFT. To pre-register click on this link⁠.⁠CLASSES: Discover ways, learn new concepts, and build skills that will help you grow and strengthen your relationships. Visit the class library.SUPPORT: Like what you're hearing at Latter Day Struggles Podcast? Make a one-time donation to ⁠her business Venmo account⁠ or become a recurring donor ...

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Wellness + Wisdom Episode 637 Wellness + Wisdom Podcast Host and Wellness Force Media CEO, Josh Trent, shares what it takes to learn how to love yourself and your partner unconditionally as one of you decided to change and evolve. Send Josh your AMA Question HERE! Today's Question Dana: You can love someone, but do you love them unconditionally when they want to change after 10, 15 years of marriage because they want something different now because they want a career? 25% Off Seed Daily Synbiotic Use the code "25JOSHTRENT" for 25% off SEED'S DS-01® DAILY SYNBIOTIC FOR 18+ AGE GROUP For Gastrointestinal + Whole-body Health 2-in-1 capsule-in-capsule probiotic and prebiotic. Formulated for adults ages 18+ with 24 clinically and scientifically studied probiotic strains and a polyphenol-based prebiotic to support systemic health. BENEFITS BEYOND YOUR GUT HEALTH: Digestive Health Gut Barrier Integrity Gut Immune Function Cardiovascular Health Dermatological Health Micronutrient Synthesis SEED'S PDS-08™ PEDIATRIC DAILY SYNBIOTIC FOR CHILDREN + ADOLESCENTS Clinically studied 2-in-1 powdered synbiotic, formulated for children and adolescents ages 3-17 with 9 probiotic strains and a fiber-based prebiotic. Designed with how-do-I-get-my-kid-to-take-this-daily in mind. 25% off first month of supply with "25JOSHTRENT"    Listen To Episode 637 As Josh Trent Answers Your Questions [00:00] Intro Hey, what is up? This is Josh Trent. This is Wellness + Wisdom, the podcast where we gather, apply, and most importantly, y'all, embody these 5 sides that we get to nourish ourselves in. The physical, the mental, the emotional, the spiritual, and also the financial. We signed up to master every single part of 1 of these 5 sides. Today is AMA number 637. We're talking about relationships. And this is a really, really timeless and timely episode. [05:05] How To Love Yourself + Your Partner All right, let's get into this question with Dana. We're just going to do this 1 question today for the AMA because it deserves a lot of depth and full transparency here. Dana has written in a few times, she's recorded a few messages. Thank you, Dana, for being such a great part of this audience. Let's listen to the question from Dana. The storybook we start out with before walking down the aisle evolves and changes. After about 15 years of marriage, maybe even 10 years of marriage. The spouse says, I don't like who you're being over time, one of them evolved. The storybook started as, you know, I want my wife to stay home so she can raise our children. And one  day she wakes up and says, I need more. Not that I need you to give it to me, but I need to do something. And then comes a whole bunch of other stories, guilt. This isn't what I wanted, whatever. And I've seen this over the years, working in people's homes and really paying attention to just the littlest how not hearing somebody not speaking up, it changes it. And it changes love, I believe, you know, you can love someone, but do you love them unconditionally? Because they want to change because they want something different now because they want a career. It's just an idea. It was cool it was more of like a statement rather than a but it's really really fun to expand upon because there is a quote and I don't know who it was from, but it goes something like this. When it comes to love and relationships, specifically intimate relationships, 1 must be willing to die a thousand deaths to be able to love the person that is a rebirth each time. And that is actually what I think Dana, you're touching upon. And for all of us that have been in 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, even decades-long relationships, you know that I'm speaking the truth. When you look at relationships through a lens of true unconditional love, and this is something where we'll link in the show notes the episode that I did with Margo my lady, my mother, my children, my life partner, my everything, Carrie Michelle. One thing that came up during that podcast that was birthed through me was the death of the old way that I saw love. I did not have the faculty, the emotional or mental faculty to actually love Carrie Michelle for who she was, because there was this element that really I was in fear of losing her. I was in fear of losing her. I was in micro ways and some macro ways controlling the relationship. And it wasn't until I got very clear through the guidance of Margo running, through our support with the plant allies, through ceremony, through breath work, through presence, through doing the real work, which by the way is really hard, lots of tears, but lots of death, lots of death of the old version of myself. And what I learned from this was, if I can unconditionally choose to unconditionally love her, starting with unconditionally loving myself, that is the ticket to freedom. That is the ticket to liberation had to come to terms with, and it really was connected to my own death. And I don't know if y'all can relate to this. If you have a fear of dying, then that is your path to do work on because fear of dying really is just connected to sadness. It's just connected to sadness that you won't be able to make love with your partner again. You won't be able to hold your children again. You won't be able to eat an orange naked on the top of a hillside when coming up. There are so many things that we won't get to do anymore. And so instead of having anger or sadness or grief around the idea of death, understand that our fear of death Is connected to fear of loss in a relationship. As we talked about with my mentor and with my friend Mark Tollefson, that we'll also link here in the show notes, it's not that we fear death, it's that we fear being in union with the not having the answer of what mystery wants when we're gone. When we leave human form, there's an uncertainty. There's a not knowingness about where we go and what that is. And I think that's the way that the creator designed it, by the way. So the connection between fearing our own death and accepting the death of each stage of a relationship, remember, we have to be willing to die a thousand deaths and fall in love with our man or woman over and over and over and over again because that is what love wants. True unconditional love does not mean I will love you if. True unconditional love does not mean I will only give you my love if. True unconditional love just wants to express itself. That's really what unconditional love is. Now, many of us, and Mar, I'm sure you can relate to this. We grew up in situations with our parents, God bless them. We love them because they were doing the best they could with the level of consciousness they had at that and still are. We were taught at a very young age that we bring into intimate relationships, Dana, by the way, we were taught at a very young age that we only get love if we do A, B, or C. We only get love if we operate in the way that our parents wanted us to operate in. And what happens is we create a filter, an unconscious filter that we bring into our adult life. And we unknowingly, unknowingly, unconsciously project that filter onto our partner. Have you ever dealt with this personally, Mar? Something that you learned from your mom or your dad or, you know, your caregivers that you can look back with on yourself and say, hmm, I definitely projected that onto my previous partner. I was definitely projecting a lot of things from my family. And actually, my last relationship revealed a lot of that to me, so thanks to that relationship being so dysfunctional and so complicated, I was able to finally realize how many things I was projecting. And definitely one of them was abandonment. It was a big one. So it's like everything I was doing was out of fear of losing that person. So it wasn't even love, I was motivated by something rather negative than something positive to be in that relationship because once I was able to get out of it and like look at it from a more neutral perspective without any feelings attached. I didn't actually love the person. I just loved being in a relationship or being wanted and feeling like, okay, somebody chose me and that's what I was fighting for, not for the person. Yeah, well, so I think we all can relate to this. I'm 44 years old and Dana, I don't know your age, but I don't, this applies to everyone, whether it's like, when do people start dating? I can't even imagine my daughter dating. I'm like, no, you're not dating until you're 25. But it's probably, I would say 16, 17, 18, where people start to, or at least they think they fall in love. And then all the way up until your 90s, right? You can still get married and fall in love in your 90s or even 100 years old. And I think what this points to is the awareness of self. You know, we talk about the physical, the mental, the emotional, the spiritual, and the financial in our Liberated Life Tribe. And I really feel like to have true liberation, we get to do the work to unconditionally love us first, first and foremost. In Greek mythology and the temple at the Apollo, there is a phrase written in Greek and it says, know thy self. And I think that's the ultimate wisdom that we can learn from our ancient masters is like they had it wired, they had it figured out on lockdown a long time ago. They knew that unless you did not know yourself, then you would never be able to know thy lover or know thy life partner. 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