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Send us Fan MailJoined by our host, Jared Bulman, Grant & Laurel talk trusting God through difficult relationships, life transitions, loneliness & much more. If you'd like to listen to this conversation, check out the audio version at podcast.ctk.church or wherever you listen to podcasts.We'd love to hear from you! If you'd like to send any encouragement, questions, or feedback about this episode to Grant & Laurel, please email us at live@jesus.netSpecial Thanks to:Audio Production:Jared BulmanTheme Song:Stephen Folden – stephenfoldenmusic@gmail.comPodcast Graphic:Dejah KutrovskiWe'd love to hear from you! If you'd like to send any encouragement, questions, or feedback about this episode to Grant & Laurel, please e-mail us at podcast@ctk.church.Special Thanks to:Audio Production: Gabe ChartierJared BulmanTheme Song: Stephen Folden – stephenfoldenmusic@gmail.comPodcast Graphic:Dejah Kutrovski
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Continuing our summer sermon series titled 'Summer Playlist', Pastor Myron shares from Psalm 54, a sermon titled 'With Friends Like These'. If you need support or encouragement, or would like to learn more about how to begin a relationship with Jesus, please reach out to the church or email help@hhachurch.com.
Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1481DM Dr. Caroline Leaf speaks on healing broken relationships and creating harmony. Dr. Leaf suggests starting with calming neurophysiology through practices like meditation, breathing exercises, or creating physical space. She emphasizes the importance of focusing on positive aspects to build mental health and activate resilience. Dr. Leaf encourages giving oneself permission to be messy while managing the chaos through self-analysis and identifying emotions. Additionally, she explores the challenge of feeling undeserving of love, often stemming from childhood or adolescent experiences. Dr. Leaf advocates for a structured approach to overcome these feelings, involving identifying roots, divorcing behaviors from the person, and creating a mind management space in the home for open communication and support. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Difficult relationships are complicated because the dynamics are confusing and frustrating. While there are various causes of the dysfunction, there are common things that you should do and not do. Watch this video on the dos and don'ts for people in difficult relationships so you won't make your life even harder. Karla Downing's passion is to see individuals, marriages, and families set free from dysfunction, scriptural misunderstanding, and emotional pain personally and relationally. Her Christian relationship advice includes messages, books, and classes that provide practical solutions grounded in biblical truths, bringing balance and clarity to life and relationship issues. She also desires to equip ministry leaders and counselors to reach out more effectively to those struggling with difficult relationships, including abuse. Website: https://www.changemyrelationship.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChangeMyRelationship YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@changemyrelationship Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ivCM9jcjPeo
Why do difficult relationships trigger so much fear, frustration and anxiety? In this episode of Faith Over Fear, Carol McCracken sits down with Bible teacher and author Kathy Howard to discuss how walking with the Holy Spirit transforms the way we handle conflict, misunderstandings and relational tension. Together, they explore why our instinct is often self-protection, how to trust God when conflict remains unresolved and what it looks like to pursue biblical peace without avoiding hard conversations. If you've ever wished you could take back words spoken in frustration or find greater calm in difficult relationships, this episode offers practical encouragement and biblical wisdom. In This Episode, you'll hear: Why fear and self-protection often drive our reactions How spiritual preparation changes the way we handle conflict Practical ways to slow down during difficult conversations The difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking and more ... Scripture discussed or referenced: Galatians 5:22–23, James 1:19–20, Ephesians 5:21, 1 Corinthians 8:13, Romans 12:16–19, Philippians 4:2, Philemon, Galatians 2:11–15 Find Kathy Howard: On her website On Facebook On Instagram On Amazon Find Carol McCracken: On her website On Facebook On Instagram Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Are you ready to get past the hurts of things like CPTSD, Trauma, and Difficult Relationships but find yourself stuck? Is it a struggle to make progress because you can't seem to get over the mental and emotional blocks inside you? If so, today's episode can explain why you may be falling under something called "learned helplessness." Listen in to understand why you feel that way and how the door to freedom really is open to you for healing. READY for REAL HEALING? Have you been looking for a Trauma-Informed Therapist who is also a Christian? Do you want to honor your faith even in your therapy? Would you love to incorporate deep healing in a way that aligns with God's Word and the evidence-based treatments for trauma healing? I can help you with all of that. If you would like to work with me, you can schedule a free 15 minute consultation call with me so that we can get to know each other and see if we are a good match for your therapy needs. Go to www.calendly.com/michellecroyle to connect with me. FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: Join our free Facebook Community For Encouragement and Support: CLICK HERE FREE RESOURCE: If this episode resonated, you might be interested in my free resource. I created a free, faith-honoring guide that gently explains how healing happens in the body and why you're not failing. Free Trauma Healing Resource Guide *All content is for informational and educational purposes only and is not to be considered professional counseling. If you need professional therapy, please seek it out, and if you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services near you.
Personality disorders represent a complex and often misunderstood realm of mental health. Characterized by repeating patterns of behavior, cognition, and inner experience, these disorders can significantly influence how an individual perceives themselves and interacts with others. Understanding these disorders is critical, especially when navigating difficult relationships with those affected. This interview aims to shed light on personality disorders, offering insights that can improve understanding and communication.
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In this episode, Robin and Nina explore one of the most common — and costly — habits in human relationships: making someone else wrong. They discuss: — How labels like "narcissist" and "psychopath" become shortcuts that shut down empathy — The psychological payoffs of demonizing someone you love — Nina's story of staying curious and connected with a politically passionate family member — Robin's personal experience of being demonized — and what it feels like to have the door shut on you — Self-regulation and why it's the foundation of every good conversation — Questions to ask yourself when you notice the pattern What conversation is worth your courage? — People Skillz: pplskillz.com — Free Open Loops Tool: closetheloopsnow.com/tool — — Book: Stop Stealing From Yourself — coming summer 2026 Join our 5 Day Detox Your To-Do List Challenge coming soon! More details to follow! If this episode resonated with you, you might enjoy our free People Skillz community — a structured space to practice steadier, more intentional communication. We also created a short Communication Patterns Quiz to help you identify how you respond under pressure. You'll find both here.
Why do some people still get to you… even after you've done the work? It's not just about “triggers.” And it's not just about setting boundaries either. Sometimes it's: – being around someone you don't trust – navigating tension with someone you love – watching a relationship change in ways you didn't expect – or trying to stay grounded when your past and present are both getting activated This episode is about something deeper than coping: How we build the capacity to stay connected to ourselves in relationships that feel complicated, unresolved, or emotionally charged. Because real healing isn't: avoiding people or just getting through interactions It's learning how to: – regulate instead of endure – stay grounded without shutting down – protect yourself without abandoning yourself If relationships have ever made you question yourself, second-guess your reactions, or feel like you lose access to who you are, this one will land. Link in bio Have a question or something you'd like me to talk about in a future episode? You can call the show and leave a voicemail or send me an email — I love hearing from you, and your feedback helps shape these conversations. https://thanksforsharingpodcast.my.canva.site/thanks-for-sharing-links
Boundaries, Overfunctioning, and Finding Your Voice in Difficult Relationships Have you ever tried to set a boundary… only to feel shut down, ignored, or even guilted into backing down? In this honest and practical episode, Leslie is joined by trusted coach Diana Bala to walk through real-life questions women face every day—how to hold boundaries when someone is angry, how to navigate emotionally draining family dynamics, and how to stop overfunctioning in relationships. Together, they offer compassionate wisdom, biblical truth, and actionable steps to help you move from confusion and exhaustion to clarity and courage. Key Takeaways 1. Boundaries Are About Your Actions—Not Controlling Theirs One of the biggest misunderstandings about boundaries is thinking they're about stopping someone else's behavior. They're not. Boundaries are about what you will do when someone behaves in a way that feels unsafe or unhealthy. Instead of saying, “You can't yell at me,” a healthier boundary is: “I'm not willing to stay in this conversation when you're yelling.” This shift empowers you to take responsibility for your own well-being. 2. Staying Grounded When Emotions Escalate When someone raises their voice or pressures you, your body naturally reacts. You may feel anxious, frozen, or overwhelmed—and that's normal. Learning to regulate yourself in those moments—through grounding, breathing, and staying focused on your boundary—helps you avoid getting pulled into circular arguments. You don't have to respond to every accusation; you can calmly repeat your boundary and disengage. 3. Small Boundaries Still Count (And Build Courage) If strong, direct boundaries feel unsafe or overwhelming, start small. Even saying, “I can't talk right now,” or taking a break can be a powerful first step. These small shifts begin to change the dynamic. They also give you valuable information about how safe the relationship truly is—and whether additional support or a safety plan may be needed. 4. You Are Not Responsible for Other People's Reactions This is one of the hardest truths to accept: people may feel disappointed, angry, or upset when you set a boundary—and that doesn't mean you've done something wrong. Just as Jesus didn't say “yes” to everyone, you are allowed to honor your limits. You can be kind and empathetic toward someone's feelings without taking responsibility for managing them. 5. Overfunctioning Keeps Others From Growing Overfunctioning often comes from a good heart—but it can lead to exhaustion, resentment, and imbalance. It may even prevent others from stepping into their own responsibilities. Ask yourself: What am I getting out of this? and Is this actually helping—or enabling? Letting go of overfunctioning means setting internal boundaries first—deciding what you will and won't carry—and then consistently following through, even when it feels uncomfortable. If you're in a relationship that feels confusing, draining, or even destructive, you don't have to figure this out alone. The CONQUER Membership is a safe, faith-based space designed specifically for Christian women who want clarity, healing, and practical support. Inside, you'll find biblical teaching, live coaching, and a community of women walking a similar path.
Send JKO a Text MessageThis International Women's Day special examines how some women manage to rise in spite of difficult and even abusive relationships. JKO highlights the importance of women's support systems, the courage it takes to leave harmful environments, and the quiet strategy some women use to build a path to safety and stability. The episode is both a reflection and an encouragement to women in hard places.Nuggets of wisdom in this episodeThe role of community in helping women survive hard conditions.A grounded explanation of “ajo” and women's informal support systems.The importance of planning for women who cannot move right away.An example of a Canadian woman who used long-term planning to secure a safer future for herself and her children. Safety Note: Please use these ideas in a way that feels right and safe for your situation. For personal support, reach out to someone you trust or a local service in your area. Picture on cover developed in Canva.Support the show If Messy Can't Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey. If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know. Thank you so much for listening. Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter
Some relationships build your faith. Others slowly erode it. In this deeply practical and scripturally rich message, Pastor Ken Senchal unpacks Jesus' powerful teaching in Matthew 7:6 — "Do not throw your pearls to pigs." What does that really mean? And how do we apply it without becoming cold or judgmental? You'll discover: • What biblical discernment truly is • How to recognize spiritually unhealthy dynamics • Why you are responsible to people — not for them • How to set boundaries without losing love • How to remain in Christ while navigating relational tension If you've ever felt guilty for walking away… If you've struggled with spiritually mismatched relationships… If you've tried to carry burdens God never assigned you… This message will bring clarity, freedom, and peace. You don't have to fix everyone. You just have to follow Jesus faithfully. If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs wisdom in their relationships. To learn more about OneChurch, visit www.youronechurch.com.
This one is deeply pastoral and incredibly needed. We don't talk enough about the relationships that drain us. The ones we pray about. Cry over. Lose sleep over. Some relationships build us. Others test everything in us. In this episode, Pastor Ken Senchal addresses one of the most practical spiritual challenges we face: How do you love difficult people without losing your peace, your character, or your spiritual growth? What if the fruit of the Spirit was never meant to disappear in toxic environments — but to protect you in them? You'll hear powerful insight on: • Why guarding your heart is not the same as becoming hard-hearted • The connection between remaining in Christ and emotional stability • How love sets boundaries • Why peace sometimes walks away • How self-control protects your character "Sometimes the issue isn't how to exit the relationship — it's how to endure it without losing your soul." And here's the hope: When you can't easily change the relationship… The Holy Spirit changes how you stand within it. If this episode encourages you:
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"Choosing courage over comfort is not always easy, but it's always worth it. Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind." —Brené BrownSHOW NOTESEPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Identify the "Poop": Recognize where boundaries are being crossed in your most intimate relationships. Stand Your Sacred Ground: Learn to stay rooted in your identity without shrinking or becoming aggressive. Separate Person from Pattern: Use 2 Corinthians 5:16 to see people according to their Spirit-given DNA, not their fleshly mistakes. Embrace the "Orange Fence": Realize that clear boundaries are the highest form of kindness and protection for a covenant. Protect the Private Vision: Trust the vision Jesus gave you, even if no one else supports it yet. You're tired of "cleaning up the mess": If you feel like you are constantly managing the emotional fallout of others' behaviors, this "Peahen Parable" will give you the practical tools to stop the cycle.
Today, you are getting research-backed strategies for handling difficult people. If you're done being dismissed, talked over, or made to feel small, this episode will help you show up with power - and walk away with peace.Whether it's family, coworkers, friends, or anyone who knows how to trigger you, today you're getting tools for dealing with difficult people.In this solo episode, Mel dives deep into how to respond to disrespect, deal with emotionally immature behavior without losing yourself, and finally stop overreacting and overexplaining around people who are never going to change.Mel also discusses The Let Them Theory, the powerful relationship tool that's changed millions of lives, and shows you how to:-Stand up for yourself without sounding aggressive -Handle gaslighting, guilt-tripping, and “just joking” comments -Set boundaries without explaining or over-apologizing -Respond to fake apologies and toxic behavior with clarity -Stay calm and confident, even when someone's pushing your buttons -Recognize emotional immaturity and stop taking it personally -Let go of control and stop trying to fix people who don't want to change After this episode, you'll know how to stay grounded and feel more connected to the people you love - without getting pulled into their drama.For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. If you liked the episode, check out this one next: If You're Feeling Overwhelmed, You Need to Hear ThisConnect with Mel: Get Mel's newsletter, packed with tools, coaching, and inspiration.Get Mel's #1 bestselling book, The Let Them TheoryWatch the episodes on YouTubeFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTok Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-freeDisclaimer Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
In this our next listener's questions episode, High Conflict Institute co-founders Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy address three complex scenarios involving challenging relationship dynamics, boundary setting, and family conflicts.Mike seeks advice about an ex-girlfriend who refuses to leave his home despite receiving money to do so, using suicide threats as leverage. The hosts discuss implementing their new SLIC method (Setting Limits, Imposing Consequences) and the importance of following through with consequences while having appropriate support systems in place. They emphasize that enabling behavior rarely leads to positive change.Leonard from Sweden asks about common response patterns when high-conflict people face criticism. Bill explains typical reactions including denial, blame-shifting, playing victim, and counter-accusations. The hosts emphasize avoiding criticism in favor of future-focused communication and setting clear boundaries with consequences.A couple dealing with high-conflict aging parents seeks strategies for managing necessary family relationships. The hosts discuss balancing caregiving responsibilities with boundary setting, offering practical approaches for limiting problematic behaviors while maintaining connections. They emphasize matter-of-fact communication and consistent enforcement of stated consequences.Throughout these scenarios, common themes emerge: the importance of preparing for predictable reactions, maintaining firm but respectful boundaries, and avoiding the trap of criticism. The episode demonstrates how similar principles can help navigate different types of high-conflict situations, whether with ex-partners, aging parents, or other family members who exhibit challenging behaviors.Additional ResourcesPersonal GrowthNew Ways for Families ® Online ClassConflict Influencer® Class (6 weeks on Zoom)BooksSLIC Solutions for Conflict (pre-order)It's All Your FaultOur New World of Adult BulliesConsultationsBook us for a consultation about your high-conflict situation or legal caseTrainingInquire about having us train your organizationConnect With UsVisit High Conflict Institute: highconflictinstitute.comSubmit questions for Bill and MeganBrowse our complete collection of books and resources in our online store—available in print and e-book formatsFind these show notes and all past episode notes on our websiteWatch this episode on YouTube!Important NoticeOur discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:46) - Listener Question #1 (12:49) - Listener Question #2 (24:12) - Listener Question #3 (33:48) - Wrap Up
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I am giving you five biblical principles, which can help you when you're dealing with difficult people, particularly on your job. Today, our fifth and final principle is: The “Speak Kind Words” Principle Here are two verses from Proverbs that tell us how important it is to guard our words carefully and speak words of kindness. Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up (Proverbs 12:25). Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a ruling rightly given (Proverbs 25:11). Rightly given words are those which are strategically selected and gently delivered. They fit the situation perfectly. With these words, you can change an ugly environment or situation into something beautiful—like apples of gold in settings of silver. For example, suppose you had to confront a person on your job who is repeatedly late to work. Which of these two approaches would be rightly given words? “I want to point out something that is bothering me. You've been late to work a lot, and it just drives me crazy. I want every person here on time every day. You're paid to be here on time, so I'll be expecting you to be on time every day from now on. I hope that is clear.” “I've noticed you have some difficulty getting to work on time. Perhaps there is some good reason for that; if so, you need to tell me so we can work it out by cutting your lunch time or having you work later each day. Is there some reason that makes it difficult for you to be here on time each day?” The first example would cause a defensive, angry reaction and may or may not solve the problem, while the second approach shows some concern for the individual while at the same time making it clear tardiness cannot be tolerated. Those are rightly given words. Often our choice of words makes all the difference in how responsive the other person will be.
Have you ever worked with someone who was arrogant? A person who tried to tell you what to do and had delusions of grandeur? I'm examining some of the difficult relationships you may encounter on your job. As I've noted, one of the many purposes of difficult relationships is to teach us needed and important lessons. And humility is certainly an important lesson we can learn through an arrogant coworker. The “Humble Yourself” Principle Jesus says: For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted (Luke 14:11). Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time (1 Peter 5:6). Have you learned to look for opportunities to humble yourself? Now, I'm not talking about false humility, such as running yourself down, refusing to accept a compliment, or walking around with your head hung low. Most every day we will find opportunities to humble ourselves. For example, if you work with a bossy coworker, it is humbling to keep your mouth shut and not say something back to him or her. It is humbling to take his or her suggestion. I began asking God to show me when and how to humble myself. It's a good prayer and I recommend it to you. I found that not insisting on my rights was a key way to humble myself; not talking about myself or my accomplishments was another. Not needing to have the last word is another good way to humble yourself. But don't lose sight of the promises given to us when we truly are willing to humble ourselves. We will be exalted. Notice Peter said we will be lifted up in due time. That's probably not as soon as you would like it to be, but it will be in the right time after you have learned the valuable lesson of humbling yourself. If you have a difficult person to deal with today, one who is arrogant or treats you in a condescending way, ask God to show you when you should humble yourself with this person. You'll be amazed at the blessing it will bring to you when you practice this principle. And humbling yourself is much easier than having to be humbled!
Do you have any enemies? Enemies are people who make your life uncomfortable, difficult. They may cause unnecessary hurt or discord, and they are generally at odds with you in many ways, intentional or unintentional. The "Love Your Enemy" Principle Here is a principle from Matthew 5 that gives us direct guidance on dealing with a relationship “enemy.” You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous (Matthew 5:43-45). What a revolutionary teaching this was. Never before had anyone taught such convoluted doctrine. It goes against all our instincts to love our enemies. It demands an attitude foreign to our nature. It requires self-denial, which seems imminently unfair and all but impossible. That's the way it often is with biblical principles. They go against our grain, but if you have some relationship “enemies,” God will empower you to love them if you are willing. Remember, loving doesn't necessarily mean liking. This kind of love is an action, a set of our will, a decision to act in loving ways, even though our feelings may not be warm and fuzzy. If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty give him water to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you (Proverbs 25:21-22). In these two passages from Matthew and Proverbs we learn three things about how we are to treat our enemies: We are to love our enemies. We are to pray for our enemies. We are to give our enemies what they need. We aren't promised our enemies will change or appreciate our loving attitude. But when we respond in loving ways toward people who make our lives difficult, we keep ourselves from sinning and we demonstrate the love of Jesus in very real ways.
I am looking at some biblical principles which give us guidance when we have to deal with a difficult relationship—like a coworker who is lazy, uncooperative, negative, to name a few. The "Speak-the-Truth-in-Love" Principle Ephesians 4:14-15 gives us a very important principle: Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ (Ephesians 4:14-15). According to the Apostle Paul, speaking the truth to people is sometimes a way we can help them grow. Of course, the operative word here is “love.” Have you ever spoken the truth in haste or anger, hatred or vindictiveness, or with malice or in defensiveness? The truth can often be very painful. When we speak it in anything but love, we can open a door that never should be opened and cause a rift in a relationship that may never be healed. Which would describe you best? Would you say you have difficulty speaking the truth in love even when you know you should? If so, is that because you hate confrontations or fear rejection or repercussions? Or perhaps you feel guilty since you know you're not perfect either. Or would you say you speak the truth too freely and often without compassion or forethought? In practicing this biblical principle of speaking the truth in love, you need to exercise extreme caution. Words are very powerful and need to bathed in prayer. Your motivation must be carefully scrutinized to make certain you are speaking the truth in love for the right reason at the right time. However, remember speaking the truth in love is a biblical principle, and when God puts you in a position to speak that, failing to do so is to rob the person of an opportunity to become more mature.
Relationships are the sandpaper of life. Isn't it often true the relationship struggles of your life are used by God to refine and teach and help you grow to maturity? I want to examine five biblical principles we need to know when we are experiencing relationship difficulties on our jobs. The Extra-Mile Principle We are called to have an extra-mile attitude in our relationships with others. Matthew 5:38-41 is pretty clear about this. You have heard that it was said, 'Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.' But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles (Matthew 5:38 – 41). What does it mean to have an extra-mile attitude, to turn the other cheek, to give your cloak as well as your shirt? Jesus was trying to teach us: to endure unfair treatment at times, without griping or complaining. to refrain from saying some of the things we would like to say to that difficult coworker. to do some work we don't have to or want to do. to put in extra time and effort to help a difficult person. Surely that is all a part of this extra mile principle. And it would lead you to endure at times and to do more than perhaps even your employer would require or expect of you. But there is also a balance we must find. I believe Jesus gave us boundaries with this extra mile principle, and he is not teaching us to endure any unacceptable behavior or habits forever and never say anything negative to anyone. Do you go the extra mile with difficult relationships? When we are willing to, it can often open a door for a miracle.
How To Handle Difficult Relationships Romans 12:9-10 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10 Love each other with genuine affection, [e] and take delight in honoring each other. (NLT) Romans 12:14-16 - Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. 15 Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. 16 Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all! (NLT) Romans 12:18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (NIV) 1. Own what you can own Romans 12:18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (NIV) A. I can own my attitude Proverbs 21:2 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the LORD weighs the heart. (ESV) B. I can own my own health C. I can own my response Proverbs 29:22 An angry person stirs up conflict, and a hot-tempered person commits many sins (NIV) Proverbs 15:18 A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel (NIV) Proverbs 14:29 Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly (NIV) Proverbs 29:11 Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end (NIV) 2. Trust God to help the other person A. Always be quick to forgive them. Ephesians 4:32 – Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you. (MSG) B. Always pray for God to help them. Romans 12:14 - 14 Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. (NLT) C. Never try to play the role of the Holy Spirit. What about in marriage? A. God does not like divorce B. God’s Word makes provision for divorce when it’s needed C. God can do miracles Matthew 19:3-9 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” 4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female, 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” 7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?” 8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” (NIV) 1 Corinthians 7:10-16 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. 12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. 16 How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife? (NIV)
How To Handle Difficult Relationships Romans 12:9-10 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10 Love each other with genuine affection, [e] and take delight in honoring each other. (NLT) Romans 12:14-16 - Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. 15 Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. 16 Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all! (NLT) Romans 12:18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (NIV) 1. Own what you can own Romans 12:18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (NIV) A. I can own my attitude Proverbs 21:2 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the LORD weighs the heart. (ESV) B. I can own my own health C. I can own my response Proverbs 29:22 An angry person stirs up conflict, and a hot-tempered person commits many sins (NIV) Proverbs 15:18 A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel (NIV) Proverbs 14:29 Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly (NIV) Proverbs 29:11 Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end (NIV) 2. Trust God to help the other person A. Always be quick to forgive them. Ephesians 4:32 – Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you. (MSG) B. Always pray for God to help them. Romans 12:14 - 14 Bless those who persecute you. Don’t curse them; pray that God will bless them. (NLT) C. Never try to play the role of the Holy Spirit. What about in marriage? A. God does not like divorce B. God’s Word makes provision for divorce when it’s needed C. God can do miracles Matthew 19:3-9 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” 4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female, 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” 7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?” 8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” (NIV) 1 Corinthians 7:10-16 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. 12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. 16 How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife? (NIV)
In this episode of the Addict to Athlete podcast, Coach Blu Robinson engages in a deep conversation with Darryl Stickel, an expert in building trust and connection. They explore the journey of trust, its definition, and the dynamics involved in fostering deeper relationships. Darryl shares his personal experiences that shaped his understanding of trust, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and self-trust. The discussion also covers practical strategies for building trust in various relationships, including parenting and professional settings, and highlights the significance of communication and awareness in nurturing trust. 00:00Introduction to Trust and Connection 03:07The Journey to Building Trust 06:06Understanding Trust: Definition and Dynamics 08:48The Role of Vulnerability in Trust 11:54Levers of Trust: Benevolence, Integrity, and Ability 14:43Self-Trust and Its Importance 17:36Parenting and Trust Dynamics 20:29Learning from Mistakes and Building Resilience 24:23Navigating Trust and Love in Difficult Relationships 27:02Learning Through Mistakes: The Role of Experience 29:14The Balance of Control and Independence in Parenting 31:10Vulnerability and Trust: Overcoming Past Hurts 35:06The Power of Benevolence in Building Trust 39:46Creating Connections: The Importance of Asking for Help To Learn More: www.trustunlimited.com Please join Addict to Athlete's Patreon support page and help us turn the mess of addiction into the message of sobriety! https://www.patreon.com/addicttoathlete Please visit our website for more information on Team Addict to Athlete and Addiction Recovery Podcasts. https://www.AddictToAthlete.org Join the Team! Circle, our new social support event, along with the team and athlete communication platform, is designed to help us break free from doom scrolling and shadow banning and foster stronger connections among us. Follow the link, download the app, and start this new chapter of Team AIIA! Join Circle https://a2a.circle.so/join?invitation_token=16daaa0d9ecd7421d384dd05a461464ce149cc9e-63d4aa30-1a67-4120-ae12-124791dfb519
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Let's face it - we all have that ONE person in our lives that is difficult to interact with - and sometimes, for others, that person is US! In this final installment of the series, Pastor Michael walks us through passages in Ephesians that give us insight on how - and why - we can interact with difficult people in loving and Christ-like ways.
Conflict is inevitable — but division doesn't have to be.In this timely and practical message from the Friend-ology series, Pastor Mark Reynolds explores how we can face disagreements with courage, grace, and Christlike love. Whether the conflict is political, personal, or just plain awkward, this sermon will help you discover how to stay connected even when you don't see eye to eye.Rooted in Colossians 3, this message offers biblical wisdom, honest reflection, and practical tools for navigating relationships with compassion, humility, patience, and forgiveness. You'll learn:Why avoiding conflict actually weakens your relationshipsHow curiosity and caution help us love betterWhen to seek reconciliation — and when to create healthy boundariesWhy unity is essential to our Christian witness in a divided worldIf you've ever struggled with difficult people, broken friendships, or painful divisions — this message is for you. Discover a gospel-centered way to engage in conflict that heals instead of harms.Watch now and take the next step toward healthier, deeper, more Christlike relationships.
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Why is it so easy to stand up for others but so hard to advocate for ourselves? If you've ever felt stuck between not wanting to seem "too much" and not knowing how to use your voice effectively, this episode is for you. I'm joined by Heather Hansen—former trial lawyer turned advocate coach—who shares powerful insights on breaking free from “good girl syndrome,” building the skills to confidently speak up, and learning how to own your voice without fear or guilt. If advocating for yourself feels uncomfortable, overwhelming, or just plain impossible, this conversation will empower you to step into your confidence and ask for what you truly deserve. Don't miss this one! About Heather: Heather Hansen empowers leaders to build belief in their ideas, leadership, and potential. Drawing on her experience as a trial attorney, psychology degree and dispute resolution training, time as a media personality, and hypnosis training, she helps leaders use stories, evidence, and their bodies' energy to influence their teams, clients, and results. Heather has appeared on The Today Show, Dr. Oz, CNN, Fox News, and CBS and has worked with top organizations, including Harvard Business School, Google, LVMH, and the American Medical Association. She's the bestselling author of The Elegant Warrior: How to Win Life's Trials Without Losing Yourself and Advocate to Win: 10 Tools to Ask for What You Want and Get It. She lives in New York City with her dog, Wolf. Visit her website: www.beliefbuilders.com Visit her Youtube: here Get her book: here Connect with me: Dr. Zoe Shaw on Instagram Dr. Zoe Shaw on Facebook Dr. Zoe Shaw Website Connect with me: Dr. Zoe Shaw on Instagram Dr. Zoe Shaw on Facebook Dr. Zoe Shaw Website Connect with Heather: Website: https://www.beliefbuilders.com/ Instagram @anelegantwarrior Books: https://www.beliefbuilders.com/books-by-heather-hansen
I sit down with Christina Keyes, a remarkable woman who transformed her life from a career-driven professional to a dedicated caregiver of her mother in 2013, after her mother nearly died of a stroke, only six months after the death of her father. Around this same time frame, Christina was also grieving the loss of a dear cousin who was responsible for Christina getting sober. However, the grief doesn't stop there. Christina was also grieving the end of a 17-year relationship as she knew it when her partner suffered a life-altering stroke, which resulted in him having to go into an adult care facility. Christina's story is about resilience, compassion, and turning personal grief into a powerful message of hope and advocacy. She shares the emotional rollercoaster of caregiving, from the sleepless nights filled with worry to the profound moments of connection with her mother. She opens up about the challenges of balancing her own needs with those of her loved ones and the unexpected blessings that emerged along the way. Her candid reflections offer invaluable insights into caregiving, grief, and personal growth. Now a national speaker and the founder of Keys for Caregiving, Christina aims to transform the caregiving space by connecting businesses and family caregivers to foster a supportive community. Her advocacy work amplifies the voices of caregivers, championing for change and understanding in a field often overlooked.Christina's story is an inspiring journey of love, loss, and the power of turning a mess into a message and a test into a testimony, as Christina says. Whether you're a caregiver, experiencing grief, or seeking inspiration, this episode is filled with warmth, wisdom, and the reminder that we can grow through what we go through.Tune in to discover how Christina's story can inspire your own path of healing and empowerment. You also do not want to miss the incredible and beautiful Christmas miracle Christina experienced! RESOURCES:WebsiteCaregiver Text Line: 1+ (360) 230-7736Self-Care at Sea Cruise: Oct. 2025Send Victoria a text message! Support the show_______NEED HELP? National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 Crisis Text Line provides free, 24/7 support via text message. Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a trained Crisis Counselor If you are struggling with grief due to any of the 40+ losses, free resources are available HERE.CONNECT WITH VICTORIA: Instagram Website LinkedIn Facebook This episode is sponsored by Do Grief Differently™️, my twelve-week, one-on-one, in-person/online program for grievers who have suffered any type of loss to feel better. Click here to learn new tools, grief education, and the only evidence-based method for moving beyond the pain of grief. Would you like to join the mission of Grieving Voices in normalizing grief and supporting hurting hearts everywhere? Become a sup...
In this week's episode, we're talking about how to help our kids navigate difficult relationships. Whether it's dealing with friends, siblings, or even adults, kids, just like us, can face challenging relationships throughout their lives. As parents, it's essential to equip our children with the tools and confidence to handle these situations. While it can be tough, navigating these relationships teaches valuable life skills such as empathy, conflict resolution, and emotional regulation. Today, I dive into three key aspects to help your child manage difficult relationships, build stronger connections, and develop emotional resilience. Links mentioned in the episode: Click HERE to get the free resource guide accompanying this episode! It's filled with helpful strategies to support your child as they navigate challenging relationships and build resilience. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program. Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE. Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum. Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.
How do we genuinely handle the difficult people in our lives? Tahverlee brings us the most potent rituals and mindset shifts needed to address challenges with others. Dive deep into understanding our core wounds and how they influence our interactions and realize that true change begins with recognizing our own energy and the role we play in each relationship.Tahverlee guides us on how to blend rituals with self-discovery to maintain a high vibrational alignment. Packed with practical steps, this conversation is a beacon for those ready to transform their experiences with difficult people through heightened self-awareness and magic.Tahverlee is a Social Impact Entrepreneur, High Priestess, Ritualist, and Initiate of the Sacred Way. Visit Moon Temple Mystery School for ancient teachings for our modern world, spiritual coaching, and everything you need to know as you walk your awakening path.
Terry joins Niki to discuss difficult relationships, when to set boundaries, and when to walk away. Scripture readings: Proverbs 4:23, Ephesians 4:26, Proverbs 25:28, Mathew 5:2-12 Worship Song: https://youtu.be/-sx8wTnnfSc?si=bkzvMREfVTYXgazC
In this episode, I'm joined by James "Fish" Gill, a heart courage and transformational facilitator who has spent his life helping people navigate deep conflicts and ruptures in relationships. If you've ever struggled with repairing relationships after hurt or conflict, this conversation is for you. So often, when a rupture occurs, we either sweep it under the rug, shut the other person out, or react in ways that only deepen the wound. But what if there was a better way? What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why repairing relationships is a skill most of us were never taught The step-by-step process to heal ruptures and rebuild trust How to move past resentment and into deeper connection Why ignoring or avoiding conflict never leads to the outcome we truly desire James also shares insights from his beautiful new book, How to Fall in Love with Humanity - a heartfelt and transformative read that will inspire you to see yourself and others with more compassion. This episode is full of practical insights and thoughtful guidance to help you build stronger, healthier relationships - whether in romance, family, or friendships. Tune in now and let's dive in! Connect with James "Fish" Gill Instagram: @james_fish_gill Website: leadbyheart.com Need more anxiety support?
Send JKO a Text MessageHow are you feeling about Valentine's Day? Excited? Apprehensive? Whether you're being showered with love or navigating a difficult relationship, this episode of Messy Can't Stop Her is for YOU. Nuggets of wisdom in this episode1. Self-love is a Biblical principle. 2. Celebrate yourself, no matter your relationship status. 3. Treating yourself special sets the standard for how others treat you 4. Valentine's Day is an opportunity for you to set the standard for how you want to be loved this year. 5. Practical ways to celebrate yourself this Valentine's DayKey Scriptures: John 3:16, Mark 12:31 References in this episodeBuchi Emecheta's Second-Class Citizen Join the Messy Can't Stop Her Sisterhood at https://www.facebook.com/groups/3204395256540448/If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know. Thank you so much for listening. Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter
Relationships are messy. People do “peoplish” things. Rather than giving up when they mess up, here is what you can do to fight for the people that matter most in life.
Subscriber-only episodeIn this follow up episode Valerie and guest Steve Young delve into more specific examples related to the power of moving away from seeing the world through the lens of transaction and towards embodying more purely the teachings of Jesus Christ defined by unconditional love. With personal examples from his own journey, Steve and Val hone in on four concepts that have shaped Steve's own spiritual life and personal work: gentle persuasion, meekness, long suffering and love unfeigned. This discussion exemplifies how one can commit to personal discipleship and practice these principles in their own realms--whether it be in personal relationships, professionally, or in formal spiritual settings. Val and Steve's hope in this series is to ignite further interest in first seeing more clearly where transaction exists, articulating how this way of relating is spiritually damning, and inviting each of us and our religious system into a higher, holier way of discipleship. MORE LATTER DAY STRUGGLES RESOURCES:SUBSCRIBE TO FRIDAYS HERE! DON'T MISS A SINGLE WORD! : https://www.buzzsprout.com/2363568/subscribe3-step (2 minute) process:1: Click link and set up your account2: Select your preferred podcast app where you listen3. Click Follow to link the podcast to your listening appCONSULTING: Interested in doing individual or couples work with Valerie or a member of her trained team? Time-limited packages with Valerie and extended work with her team of coaches and therapists are available here! SUPPORT GROUPS: Next support group starts Wednesday evenings this September. ONLY 5 SEATS LEFT. To pre-register click on this link.CLASSES: Discover ways, learn new concepts, and build skills that will help you grow and strengthen your relationships. Visit the class library.SUPPORT: Like what you're hearing at Latter Day Struggles Podcast? Make a one-time donation to her business Venmo account or become a recurring donor ...
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