Relationships Rock

Is divorce a Jewish concept? When should it be considered? What are some of the causes of divorce in the Jewish community? And more! So many gems and rocks in this episode! Whether married, divorced, or dating, a lot of insights into relationships and communication. Batsheva Ganz is a licensed psychotherapist, certified divorce specialist and certified mediator. She co-founded the podcast, the Jewish Divorce Project, which explored the relevant issues that Jewish divorced individuals encounter and experience. Additionally, Batsheva has co-created Divorce First Responder Training, which provides specialized training in divorce support to clergy and community leaders.  Batsheva has a private practice in Boca Raton, FL and offers counseling and workshops for individuals, couples and families.Contact info:info@shevaganz.comwww.shevaganz.com

Raquel Betesh and Miriam Zeitlin discuss Break Ups!From the importance of understanding one's own attachment style and processing style in dealing with breakups, to emphasizing the need to acknowledge one's feelings and not rush into new relationships. They also highlighted the importance of self-reflection, honesty, and open communication in relationships, and the need to recognize one's worth and not seek validation from others. The conversation concluded with the importance of learning from past relationships, forgiving oneself and others, and trusting in Hashem. Miriam Zeitlin is a certified dating/relationship coach, kallah teacher, and shadchan. She has been involved in shidduchim for many years and has a deep understanding of the shidduch dating world. Miriam grew up in Brooklyn and attended school in Chicago, so she understands and connects well with people from all  backgrounds.You can contact Miriam: +1 (718) 909-6256

Recording of Zoom Live where I answered all your questions!! Thank you to Shidduch Roundtable (SRT), always lovely to collaborate! Shidduch Roundtable (SRT) is a status like no other. Everything related to Shidduchim (discussions, questions, opinions and more!) Support for Jewish Singles, Parents, & Shadchanim. Dating•Lives•Polls•Stories•Q&A•Tehillim. Join WhatsApp Status, & More! https://wa.me/message/CPUFMMMOREDWP1

Join us for a fun and enlightening conversation on how do you know someone is THE ONE? Shana Maikhor Edelstein can be reached for coaching at: 954-254-0288

We are back!! Raquel Betesh and Hanna Kahana explore the common fears and insecurities in the dating process, the importance of embracing authenticity and the idea of surrendering to G-d's plan and having faith that everything is happening as it should even if it doesn't align with one's own timeline or expectations. Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and the first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting daters to the finish line. Don't just look for the one, learn how to become the one in the process. You can reach her at hannakahanacoach@gmail.com . You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching

Join us in this fun and enlightening conversations with singles who have been dating for 10+ years. They share their insights and experiences. There are gems and rocks for everyone in this episode, in whatever stage in your journey you are in! Thank you to Eli, Tiki, Yisroel Meir, Rachel, and Anonymous 2.0! Wishing everyone much hatzlacha and a shana tova umetukah!

Welcome back!! Apologies for my hoarse voice. Dating can be a complex and often overwhelming experience. With so many factors to consider, it's no wonder that one of the most frequently asked questions is: "When am I justified in saying no?" In our latest podcast episode, we tackled this very topic with the insightful Hannah Kahana. Together, we explored the emotional and intellectual aspects of dating, providing you with the tools you need to make informed decisions. Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and the first year of marriage. She is determined to simplify the dating process and help individuals date from a place of clarity and confidence. She is also focused on helping couples solidify their foundation within that essential first year of marriage. She believes that if you have the proper tools, you can build anything. Reach out to schedule a free consultation at 845-729-2175 or via email at Hannakahanacoach@gmail.com You can also find her on Instagram as Hanna Kahana Coaching . Keywords: Dating Advice, Saying No, Relationship Boundaries, First Date Decisions, Dating Burnout, Compromise In Relationships, Emotional Decisions, Intellectual Dating Process, Dating Clarity, Fear Of Commitment, Overcoming Dating Anxiety, Judging Too Quickly, Dating Red Flags, Relationship Compatibility, Dating Expectations, Self-Awareness In Dating, Overcoming Rejection, Dating Coaches, Building Patience In Relationships, Understanding Relationship Dynamics

We are joined once again by Dr. Binyamin Tepfer, where we discuss Masculinity, Gender Roles, and so much more! Dr. Tepfer PhD is the founding director of Arbor Intensives, an intensive outpatient program (IOP) located in Brooklyn NY. The center specializes in providing cutting-edge integrative treatment for trauma, behavioral health, and emotional wellness. He also maintains a private practice in Cedarhurst, NY, Brooklyn, NY, and Lakewood NJ.  Contact: Office number: +1 718 701 0181 ⁠Info@tepferandassociates.com

Such an inspiring episode with social media entrepreneur and influencer Eli Weber. Meet Eli Weber, a multifaceted entrepreneur and digital innovator. As the founder of a thriving social media management company, Eli has helped numerous brands shine online. He's also the host of the popular podcast Podsitivity, where he shares insights and interviews industry thought leaders in business and mental health. As an influencer and vlogger, Eli inspires thousands with his lifestyle and business content. With his unique blend of creativity, strategy, and passion, Eli Weber is a true trailblazer in the digital landscape. Follow Eli here: https://linktr.ee/theweber​ --- OKclarity.com is the exclusive online mental health & wellness directory for the global Jewish community. Find your ideal therapist, psychiatrist, coach, or nutritionist. If you are a wellness professional - join OKclarity, so that others can find you! My personal OKclarity website:https://okclarity.com/directory/raquel-betesh/Find an OKclarity verified professional: https://okclarity.comBecome an OKclarity verified professional:https://okclarity.com/professional-membership/Join OKclarity on WhatsApp status or groups: https://wa.me/message/VII7OSG6HQRGB1

Accept your journey. Elevate your Faith. Change your reality. --- Check out my Intimacy Workshop: "Tapping Into Your Feminine Energy" for married women on July 7th @ 2pm EST https://forms.gle/piSoDeKscFhkXYnFA --- OKclarity.com is the exclusive online mental health & wellness directory for the global Jewish community. Find your ideal therapist, psychiatrist, coach, or nutritionist. If you are a wellness professional - join OKclarity, so that others can find you!  My personal OKclarity website:⁠https://okclarity.com/directory/raquel-betesh/⁠ Find an OKclarity verified professional: ⁠https://okclarity.com⁠Become an OKclarity verified professional:⁠https://okclarity.com/

Listener Discretion Advised: We will be discussing the topic of SSA (Same Sex Attraction) & Homosexuality. We are joined by Yitzi Horowitz. Yitzi Horowitz, LCSW maintains a private psychotherapy practice in Long Island, NY where he works with individual adults and couples who struggle with a variety of life, mental health and relational issues including sexuality, religious trauma, and spirituality. Yitzi also offers consultation and supervisory sessions for mental health professionals, life coaches, clergy and religious counselors. He also lectures regularly on topics related to mental health, spirituality, and Judaism. He likes people. To schedule an appointment or to book a speaking arrangement please call Yitzi at (347) 809-0991. He may also be reached by emailing Yitzihorowitz@gmail.com.  --- OKclarity.com is the exclusive online mental health & wellness directory for the global Jewish community. Find your ideal therapist, psychiatrist, coach, or nutritionist. If you are a wellness professional - join OKclarity, so that others can find you!  My personal OKclarity website:https://okclarity.com/directory/raquel-betesh/ Find an OKclarity verified professional: https://okclarity.comBecome an OKclarity verified professional:https://okclarity.com/professional-membership/Join OKclarity on WhatsApp status or groups: https://wa.me/message/VII7OSG6HQRGB1

We are joined by Fay Brezel, where we discuss a very popular and important question: how do you know you are ready to start dating while healing? Fay Brezel, LMHC is an entrepreneur and founder of OKclarity.com, the online mental health and wellness directory platform for the global Jewish community. Connect with Fay: Instagram: @faybrezel Fays Favorite Five Newsletter: https://fay-brezel.ck.page/d6fac13f3e OKclarity: https://okclarity.com/directory/fay-brezel/ Connect with OKCLARITY.COM: Find an amazing mental health and wellness professional on OKclarity: https://okclarity.com/ Become a Verified Professional on OKclarity: https://okclarity.com/professional-membership/ Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/okclarity/ Follow the WhatsApp Status: https://wa.me/message/VII7OSG6HQRGB1 Get the Dose of Clarity Newsletter: https://okclarity.activehosted.com/f/1 If you need a pic

We are joined by Rabbi Dr. Yossi Ives, where we discuss breaking off an engagement. Doctor Yossi Ives is an expert in dating. He is a qualified life coach and author of two books on coaching psychology, including Relationship Coaching. He has worked with over a hundred singles, helping them towards marriage. He runs a humanitarian organization and is the Rav of a community in Pomona. It was an honor to have him on the podcast! You can reach him at: www.datewell.org

In this episode, we will discuss anxiety, what it is, the medication that is often prescribed, and how to better have a discussion surrounding anxiety when it comes up in relationships. This episode is not instead of medical advice, but rather for educational purposes. If you feel you have anxiety, I highly recommend speaking to a professional. You can always reach out to Raquel on whatsapp/phone: +15614000679.

We are joined by Dating Coach Hanna Kahana where we discuss the concept of a "nice guy", being attracted to the "bad boy persona", and settling for "Mr. Good Enough." Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and the first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting daters to the finish line. Don't just look for the one, learn how to become the one in the process. You can reach her at ⁠HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com⁠. You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching

Jackie Glasser joins Raquel Betesh to discuss fear of commitment in relationships, its impact on men and women, and the challenges of dating with this fear. They emphasize the importance of recognizing and addressing this fear and subconscious issues in dating and relationships in order to build healthy and fulfilling relationships. They also discuss the role of self-acceptance and letting go of the need to control or manipulate situations, and instead, trusting in Hashem's plan for spiritual growth. Jackie Glasser: For 15  years I was stuck. I did the dating hamster wheel over and over again.  I was burned out, dejected and felt completely hopeless. Until I decided enough was enough. At that point I had 20 years of experience from psychology, leadership development, Jewish spirituality, meditation, hypnosis, somatic psychotherapy and bodywork. I decided to channel all my knowledge and expertise into helping myself date, tap into my subconscious beliefs, accept with curiosity and break through.  And it made all the difference!. Today I am happily married thank God and learned so much along the way about how our internal world literally influences our external world. We are co- creators with God and when we own that, it is transformative. I have designed a specific process to facilitate and teach you how to get out of your own way and be a bigger vessel to receive your husband.  These focus around the top five things women need to date and marry easily including but not limited to  How to  1.⁠ ⁠Gain clarity  2.⁠ ⁠Feel your worth  3.⁠ ⁠Trust yourself with one of the biggest decisions of your life   4.  Date authentically without fear and truly be open to meeting your husband As a former Today Show psychologist in Australia, Director of Leadership Development for a global non profit Olami which is in 320 locations I have spent decades teaching and creating programs. My goal is to bring tangible results that not only serve you in the present, but also give you the tools to gain self-mastery with a higher EQ (emotional intelligence) and SQ (spiritual intelligence) that will help you in all areas of your life in the future.  I believe, that no one should remain stuck and alone and that you can have the life you deeply desire. It would be an honor to help you get there. *Jackie lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two daughters. Find out more here: https://program.jackieglaser.com/jag-coaching Follow Jackie on Instagram: @jackieglaserofficial For those that don't have instagram can join Jackie's whats app group HERE: https://chat.whatsapp.com/Klg45H7I6PZJltlbbA18a7

We are joined by six voices from the Shidduch RoundTable where we discussed all things shidduchim! Can you make a decision in the first five minutes of a date? Should girls send shidduch pictures? Gender roles in shidduchim? Should you marry someone who says they will change? And so much more! Thank you again, Rafael, Yekusiel, Ben, Etty, Raquel, and Adina for coming on!! Looking forward to our next conversation!

This is the recording of a live episode (with an audience!). We were joined by Miriam Zeitlin where we discussed the question, "Should Shomer Negiah Be Hard?" We then answered your questions on all things shomer! Miriam Zeitlin is a certified dating/relationship coach, kallah teacher, and shadchan. Having been through the shidduch and dating scene with her boys, Miriam saw a huge need for dating coaches who understand the frum shidduch system. Miriam grew up in Brooklyn and attended school in Chicago, so she understands and connects well with people from all  backgrounds. You can contact Miriam: +1 (718) 909-6256 I love hearing your feedback, you can contact Raquel: +1-561-400-0679.

LISTENER DISCRETION ADVISED. This was a highly requested topic! A re-visit of Episode 17 from a male perspective. This episode will be discussing pornography addiction, how it impacts the brain, how it impacts intimacy, some tips for getting help, and answering some of the questions that were submitted by our audience. Dr. Tepfer PhD is the founding director of Arbor Intensives, an intensive outpatient program (IOP) located in Brooklyn NY. The center specializes in providing cutting-edge integrative treatment for trauma, behavioral health, and emotional wellness. He also maintains a private practice in Cedarhurst, NY, Brooklyn, NY, and Lakewood NJ.  Contact: Office number: +1 718 701 0181 Info@tepferandassociates.com --- You can add Raquel on Whatsapp to see her status and to be kept up to date with other live zooms and collaborations: +1 561 400 0679.

In this episode we discuss the idea of a "Shidduch Crisis". Does it exist? What can we do to make this journey better? And some insights and gems along the way. You can reach Raquel on Whatsapp/Phone at: +1-561-400-0679.

As singles become older (specially women) they get more concerned with their fertility (and also feel judged by it, where age becomes a reason to say "no"). In this episode we are joined by Dr. Sahar Wertheimer, where we discussed fertility myths, how age impacts it, and explaining the whole process of freezing your eggs. Sahar Wertheimer MD, earned her medical degree from Albert Einstein College of Medicine. She completed her residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology and Women's Health at Montefiore Medical Center and her fellowship in Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility at Cedars Sinai. She is now practicing at HRC fertility in Los Angeles. She is passionate about educating women on women's health and empowering them to be better self advocates. You can follow her on IG @saharwertheimermd To book appointments: 866-472-4483 MariaR@havingbabies.com 

We are joined by Miriam Zeitlin where we discuss the first year of marriage. What are some challenges? What are some rocks of advice? And at the end we take of the questions that you submitted! Miriam Zeitlin is a certified dating/relationship coach, kallah teacher, and shadchan. Having been through the shidduch and dating scene with her boys, Miriam saw a huge need for dating coaches who understand the frum shidduch system. Miriam grew up in Brooklyn and attended school in Chicago, so she understands and connects well with people from all  backgrounds. You can contact Miriam: +1 (718) 909-6256

We have all felt stuck at some moment in our lives. Whether in childhood, in dating, in our marriage, at work, or somewhere in between. In this episode, we will discuss that natural human emotion of feeling stuck and go through some tips on how to get unstuck.

This was such a fun episode, reminiscing on the magical quotes and themes of Harry Potter. If you are a Harry Potter fan, you will enjoy remembering the magic. And even if you are not, you will gain from the meaningful quotes and their applications to relationships. Gems and rocks for everyone!

You may not be able to diagnose a Narcissist after this episode, but you will be able to recognize unhealthy personality traits that you may want to stay away from!

Are schools preparing students for shidduchim, marriage, and life? Is it the role of educators? How can schools better prepare their students? We answer these questions and more in today's episode! We are joined by two special guests, Rabbi Moshe Schochet and Mrs. Michal Schocet, the Head of School and the Principal, of Hadar High School for Girls in Boca Raton, FL. With over 20 years of experience in the world of education, they share with us their insights, experiences, and suggestions. The Schochets can be reached at: ⁠⁠rms@hadarhs.org⁠⁠ and ⁠mms@hadarhs.org.

We are joined by Dating Coach Hanna Kahana where we discuss Hashkafah: What is it? When does it make a different? And so much more!! Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and the first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting daters to the finish line. Don't just look for the one, learn how to become the one in the process. You can reach her at HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com. You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching

We are joined by my cousin Shana, where we discuss weight in dating, body image and #lovingyourself!

Welcome back to Relationships Rock! Season 2 is finally upon us! Today we will be discussing forgiving others and ourselves. Sometimes in order to open up a new door, we need to fully close the one behind us.

We are joined for our season finale by Lisa Elefant. Lisa is one of the founders and now full time director of AAS. ADOPTASHADCHAN is a network of over 300 shadchanim across the world who are on the forefront of making shidduchim as less stressful as possible. You can reach AAS at 718-957-2270 and check out their website: www.adoptashadchan.com! This episode is dedicated in honor of Lisa's son, Chaim Elefant z"l. See you in Season 2!

A fun and light-hearted conversation analyzing a Disney classic, "The Little Mermaid". ------ You can always contact me for one-on-one sessions! Till soon! https://calendly.com/raquelbetesh -------

We are joined by Shadchanim and Dating Coaches Danielle Aronovitz and Riselle Naimark where we discuss the biggest frustration in shidduchim: "What I Want Does Not Want Me". Danielle is a shadchan and dating coach for many years for all types of people (as well as a Speech Pathologist!). She can be reached via Whatsapp at: 5163161902. Risselle Naimark is a Professional Freelance Makeup Artist and Skincare Consultant , who has been in the beauty industry for over 30 yrs.  She is a Shadchan and Dating Coach as well. ------

In this episode we are joined by Rivky, where we discuss navigating shidduchim while coming from a divorced home. We discuss the challenges, the questions to ask, and many other insights. Whether you come from a married home, a divorced home, are a single or a parent, there are a lot of rocks in this episode about having the awareness of the type of home you grew up and the type of home you want to build. ____________________________

We are joined by Miriam Zeitlin where we discuss expectations for the first few dates, dropping the shadchan, and getting engaged! Miriam Zeitlin is a certified dating/relationship coach and shadchan. Having been through the shidduch and dating scene with her boys, Miriam saw a huge need for dating coaches who understand the frum shidduch system. Miriam grew up in Brooklyn and attended school in Chicago, so she understands and connects well with people from all  backgrounds. You can contact Miriam: +1 (718) 909-6256 --------

We are joined by my friend Yocheved where we discuss shifting your mindset, having Emuna, and how to find strength and positivity during dating! Thank you Yocheved for coming on!!

In this episode we are joined by my cousin Shana where we discuss the importance of discussing finances during dating!

We are joined by Rebbetzin Yocheved Goldberg, the Rebbetzin of the Boca Raton Synagogue in South Florida. We discussed the role community leaders, community members, and singles can do to help singles feel connected and included in Jewish Communities. Rebbetzin Goldberg is also a shachan and kallah teacher. She can be reached at: Goldbergmom@gmail.com. -----

We are excited to have Dr. Yossi Ives back on the podcast, this time talking about the very important topic of Shomer Negiah. Doctor Yossi Ives is an expert in dating. He is a qualified life coach and author of two books on coaching psychology, including Relationship Coaching. He has worked with over a hundred singles, helping them towards marriage. He runs a humanitarian organization and is the Rav of a community in Pomona. It was an honor to have him on the podcast! You can reach him at: www.datewell.org  ---------------

We are joined today by the amazing dating coach Hanna Kahana where we discussed all about attraction: What is attraction? What does it feel like? How is it different than infatuation? Can it grow? How much attraction do you need to get engaged? And more! Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting young adults with any questions or concerns they may have as they navigate the dating world. You can reach her at: HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com. You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching ----------------------------------------------------------

Family is family and yet....there are always triggers, specially during the holidays! Today we are discussing how to make your family time as pleasant as possible, have the right perspective, and at the same time, make time within the social setting to recharge. Chag Sameach!

Ten things your kallah teacher wants you to know, with a bonus #11 at the end. Whether single, engaged, or married, here are some important tips to keep in mind!

We are joined today by Eliyahu and Yosef, who share their thoughts and experience on dating a second time around. -How can you find out what really happened? -What are red and green flags when dating divorcees? -Is someone less ready to commit because they went through a divorce? And many more questions!! Whether you are dating the second time around or even the first, there are a lot of gems to gain from this episode!

In this episode we discuss getting clarity and closure after a break up and moving on!  Dealing with the pain of letting someone go, gaining clarity on why it didn't work, getting closure that this person was not for you, allowing you to fully closer that door, and knowing when to revisit an idea. This is part of the journey, and thought painful, can have a very significant impact!

This is the episode that started all the episodes, the conversation that I would have so many times that I decided to start this podcast! How can you use your feminine energy in dating and beyond? Tune it!

Back by popular demand, the guys are back in the zoom studio answering your questions! Thank you Noach, Yoni and Joshua for coming on and sharing your answers with us!

This week we are joined by my cousin, Shana, who joined us in the second episode! We discussed some of the awkward scenarios that you sent in a few weeks ago: -Not liking your engagement bracelet -Guy turns on non-Jewish music in the car. -Job offer when you just started dating someone. -Listening to your gut! And more!

This week we have the girls in the studio, thank you Shira and Sara for joining us! We are answering questions from the guys and giving the female perspective on kosher flirting and shidduch dating. 

In this episode we are joined by Joshua, Eliyahu, and Noach who were gracious to share with us their insights and also answer your questions!

Listener discretion advised.  DISCLAIMER: This episode is about Porn ADDICTION. There is a distinction between an addiction and something you do sporadically (that while not encouraged), you can stop and do not need professional help for. At no point am I vilifying guys and girls who struggle with being single and not having an outlet. I am not an alarmist nor do I believe that anyone who has watched Porn will automatically struggle with intimacy and marriage. There is a lot more to say on this topic and I am happy to have started the conversation on a topic that is very taboo. Life is not black and white and neither is any conversation! Perhaps we will re-visit this on a future episode. The nature of this topic is very sensitive and private and it is because of that I wanted to put this important information on here. Our guest speaker is Naomi Lewis Afriat, LCSW, a Licensed Social Worker who has spent 15 years working with teens, young adults, couples and families. Naomi relocated to Los Angeles in 2020 after living in New York for 15 years. Before leaving New York, Naomi worked with teens, parents, and families in overcoming challenges. She also ran a crisis hotline for parents and provided support in clinical settings. Naomi obtained her Masters in Social Work from Touro College in 2009. She also has a certificate in Crisis Counseling, is trained in EMDR and is a CSAT (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist). In her role as a CSAT,  Naomi is passionate about supporting addicts, their spouses and their families struggling with sex addiction, intimacy disorders and related issues. The majority of her work in this area is focused on supporting Betrayed Partners of addicts, and helping couples reconnect after betrayal. Naomi is married and enjoys cooking and pursuing her artistic interests in her free time. She is licensed, and practices in CA, NJ, NY, FL, VA & NV. For more information about Naomi and the work she does, please visit www.intomeyousee.org. She can also be reached via email at NaomiLewisLSCW@gmail.com. 

This episode is dedicated to parents of children in shidduchim. Let's bridge that gap between your child and yourself, and use this challenging time period to bring you even closer! 

We are joined by Rabbi Doctor Yossi Ives where we discuss "Why Do Singles Get Stuck in Dating?" Rabbi Doctor Yossi Ives is an expert in dating. He is a qualified life coach and author of two books on coaching psychology, including Relationship Coaching. He has worked with over a hundred singles, helping them towards marriage. He runs a humanitarian organization and is the Rav of a community in Pomona. It was an honor to have him on the podcast! You can reach him at: www.datewell.org