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    What We're Really Looking For on the Dance Floor

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 30:24


    What makes a dancer stand out at the milonga? It's not just the moves. It's not just the music. It's something deeper.In this episode, I unpack the quiet, often unspoken reasons why dancers choose certain partners over others—from posture and floorcraft to musicality, energy, and presence.If you've ever wondered, “What are they seeing that I'm not?” or “What are people looking for when they watch me dance?”—this episode is for you.Whether you're newer to tango or have been dancing for years, this conversation will help you reframe how you see the dance floor… and how you show up on it.→ Chicago event info click here: https://imsotango.com/events Want to feel more confident, expressive, and musical in your own dancing?That's exactly what I help dancers do inside IMSO Tango School Online.

    The Tango High: What Real Connection Feels Like—and Why We Chase It

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 26:54


    This episode originally aired in October 2024, but I'm bringing it back because it sparked some of the most heartfelt messages I've ever received.In this episode, I unpack the elusive, euphoric experience dancers often call the tango high. From nervous system chemistry to spiritual flow states, I reflect on what happens inside us when the dance clicks—and why we sometimes wait for it instead of learning how to bring it.Whether you've felt that magic or are still chasing it, this conversation will help you reframe what connection truly is—and what it means to offer it, not just receive it.Want to feel more confident, expressive, and musical in your own dancing?That's exactly what I help dancers do inside IMSO Tango School Online.

    Replay: Tango Music Essentials – A Shortcut to Better Dances

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 36:49


    This episode originally aired as Season 2 #17, and it's one I still get messages about. So today, we're bringing it back.If you've ever been told to “just feel the music,” but no one explained how—this one's for you. I break down the essential building blocks of tango music and how they translate into better dances, deeper connection, and more musical movement.Whether you're a leader or follower, musicality is the difference between just getting through the song… and actually dancing it.Join my upcoming LIVE in my FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld

    When Politics Enters the Milonga

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 23:53


    Politics and tango might seem like separate worlds—but are they really?In this final episode of the season, I'm diving into the messy, often uncomfortable reality of how political views—whether personal, community-based, or global—can shape who we dance with, who we avoid, and how we feel at the milonga. From awkward cabeceos to full-on community rifts, politics shows up in tango whether we like it or not.This is one of the spiciest episodes I've recorded yet, and I hope it sparks reflection—whether you agree, disagree, or find yourself somewhere in the middle.Tango music can feel overwhelming, but it doesn't have to. IMSO Tango School Online helps you break down the music, understand phrasing, and make clear, musical choices in your dance—without overthinking.

    The Hidden Cost of Hosting a Milonga

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 41:37


    Why do so many tango events fizzle out—even when they seem to be thriving?In this episode, I pull back the curtain on what it really takes to be a tango organizer. From the hidden financial stress to the emotional toll of community dynamics, I explore the real reasons so many events—and organizers—burn out.If you've ever wondered why your favorite milonga vanished, or considered organizing one yourself, this one's for you.Musicality isn't just about stepping on the beat—it's about knowing how to listen and respond. IMSO Tango School Online gives you a clear, structured way to learn phrasing, rhythm, and movement, so you don't have to guess.

    What It Really Means to Be a Professional Dancer

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 31:16


    A lot of people think being a professional tango dancer means getting paid to do what you love. And in some ways, it is.But in this episode, I talk about the side most people don't see—the pressure to always be “on,” the burnout, the financial stress, and the constant effort it takes to keep going. I also share why I was hesitant to go down this path, how I ended up here anyway, and what I've learned along the way.If you've ever wondered what it's really like to make tango your career—or what it costs to keep the passion alive—this one's for you.It's hard to be objective about your own dancing. That's where I come in. Send me your dance videos through IMSO Tango School Online, and I'll point out what's working (and what's not) with clear, constructive feedback.

    Beyond the Trophy: What Tango Competitions Are Really About

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 35:29


    Can competition and tango coexist? In this episode, I explore a question that makes many dancers uncomfortable: is there a place for competition in tango - or does it betray the spirit of the dance?Reflecting on my recent experience at the Southern California Tango Championship, I unpack what competition reveals (and conceals), why I used to resist it, and how it might actually serve tango's evolution.Best of Caló Spotify Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/09lFDSD2Vz63jTdfxkBGtE?si=67be9174ffe345dfMusicality isn't just about stepping on the beat—it's about knowing how to listen and respond. IMSO Tango School Online gives you a clear, structured way to learn phrasing, rhythm, and movement, so you don't have to guess.

    How sensual is too sensual in tango?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 41:52


    There's a fine line between connection and confusion on the tango floor. This week, we're diving into the unspoken sensuality of tango—how it shows up, what it triggers, and where each of us draws the line.What's considered “too much” might just depend on your mood, your phase of life, or the vibe of the tanda. And like everything in tango, it's complicated.And let me know. in the comments: what's your list of red flags on the dance floor?Check out Tarraxo: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DHruDO-o4u7/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Musicality isn't just about stepping on the beat—it's about knowing how to listen and respond. IMSO Tango School Online gives you a clear, structured way to learn phrasing, rhythm, and movement, so you don't have to guess.

    We Dance, But Are We Friends?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 32:26


    Tango is full of paradoxes. We get physically close, yet remain emotionally guarded. We crave connection, but many of us are introverts with social anxiety. So what kind of connections do we actually form through tango?In this episode of The Tango Banter, I'm diving into the weird and wonderful world of tango relationships—the ones that don't exist in any other part of life.This isn't about judging them—it's about recognizing how much we learn about ourselves through the connections we form (and don't form).Musicality isn't just about stepping on the beat—it's about knowing how to listen and respond. IMSO Tango School Online gives you a clear, structured way to learn phrasing, rhythm, and movement, so you don't have to guess.

    Is Body Image Holding You Back at the Milonga?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 30:37


    What if the way you see yourself is shaping the way you dance—and the way others experience you at the milonga?Tango isn't just about steps; it's about presence. And yet, so many dancers hesitate, shrink, or second-guess themselves because they don't feel they “look” the part. But does appearance really determine connection, or is something deeper at play?In this episode, I dive into the unspoken anxieties of body image in tango—how age, size, and self-perception shape our experience on the dance floor. I explore the invisible factors that make a dancer magnetic, the surprising ways confidence is built (or broken), and why the most unforgettable tandas have nothing to do with how you look in the mirror.If you've ever wondered whether you belong in tango the way you are, this one's for you.It's hard to be objective about your own dancing.That's where I come in. Send me your dance videos through IMSO Tango School Online, and I'll point out what's working (and what's not) with clear, constructive feedback.

    From Tango to Rock and Back: A Conversation with Oliver Kolker

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 40:41


    What if the real story of tango isn't just in the milonga, but in the battle between generations, between rock and roll and bandoneóns, between what we inherit and what we create?In this episode, I sit down with filmmaker Oliver Kolker to talk about his latest film, Tuve el Corazón, a story where tango and rock collide in 1970s Buenos Aires. We dive into why tango almost disappeared during that time, how music carries the weight of history, and why every great film about tango is really a film about life itself.Musicality isn't just about stepping on the beat—it's about knowing how to listen and respond. IMSO Tango School Online gives you a clear, structured way to learn phrasing, rhythm, and movement, so you don't have to guess.

    Social Status in Tango: getting the dances you want

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 28:35


    You walk into the milonga, scan the room, and instantly sense it—the unspoken social order. There's the group of dancers who seem to know everyone, who never sit out a tanda. And then there's you, trying to figure out how to get into the mix.Tango isn't just about dancing; it's about navigating a social world with its own hidden rules. In this episode, I break down the realities of tango's social hierarchy—why it exists, how it shapes your experience, and what you can actually do to build your status in a way that feels natural (without resorting to social climbing).If you've ever felt like an outsider at a milonga, wondered why certain dancers get all the cabeceos, or struggled to find your place in the scene, this one's for you.

    When Tango Becomes Your Home: conversation with Scott Boddye

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 50:02


    In this episode, I chat with Scott Boddye, a tango dancer who traded stability for the open road and never looked back. What started as a temporary escape after COVID turned into a full-time nomadic life, with tango as both his anchor and his passport.We talk about the highs and lows of being a tango traveler, the transformation that comes with leaving everything behind, and the unexpected ways tango shapes identity. Scott also shares the vision behind Mundo Tango, the new platform he's building to help dancers connect across the world.Would you ever consider a nomadic tango life? Or do you prefer having a home base? Let's banter about it—drop a comment below!Learn about and support Scott's project:- Website: https://www.mundotango.life- Support the project: https://www.gofundme.com/sign-in?redirect=%2Fmanage%2Fmundo-tango- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mundotangolife1Chapters00:00 The Journey Begins: Embracing Change00:26 Nomadic Roots: A Life of Movement02:55 Tango as a Catalyst for Connection05:52 Transformation Through Travel: A New Identity08:45 Finding Home in the Milonga11:38 Navigating the Tango Community13:24 The Challenges of Being a Nomad14:21 The Universal Tango Experience16:29 The Future of Tango Travel28:08 Building a Community Platform for Tango Enthusiasts30:36 Exploring the Features of Mundo Tango33:41 Connecting Dancers and Resources37:23 Enhancing User Experience and Safety41:09 Digital Declutter and Community Engagement46:33 Supporting the Development of Mundo Tango

    Overcoming the Inner Critic: How to Enjoy Tango Without the Pressure

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 36:51


    You're dancing, lost in the music… except you're not. Instead, your mind is running a full critique: "That step was off. My embrace is weird. Do they even like dancing with me?" Sound familiar?Self-criticism is something every dancer faces, but how much of it is actually useful—and how much is just getting in your way? In this episode, I unpack why we're so hard on ourselves in tango, how perfectionism can become a trap, and what actually works when dealing with that inner critic.Have you ever watched a video of yourself and cringed? Or had a tanda where all you could focus on was what wasn't working? Let's talk about it—drop your thoughts in the comments.Southern California Tango Championship: https://socaltangochampionship.com/Watch Fred Astair: https://youtu.be/8n7R61gtSZw?si=SXrxNKzggeBT4S8T

    Tango Meets Forró: A Dance Conversation with Rafael Piccolotto de Lima

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2025 49:32


    Imagine if tango and salsa had a secret love affair… and their child grew up in Brazil. That's forró. A dance that blends the intimacy of tango with the playful turns of salsa—plus a little Brazilian warmth and spontaneity.This week, I sit down with Rafael Piccolotto to explore how Forró evolved, how it compares to tango, and why dance cultures develop such specific rules (like cabeceo vs. straight-up asking someone to dance). Spoiler: forró dancers might find tango etiquette terrifying.

    How to Offend a Tango Dancer Without Even Trying

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 30:18


    Tango dancers can be a little…sensitive. Not because they're dramatic, but because the milonga has its own set of unspoken rules—and it's easy to break them without even realizing it. In this episode, I'm talking about the small things that can unintentionally offend people in tango, why these things matter more than you'd expect, and how understanding them can help you feel more at ease on the dance floor.

    Expectations vs. Reality: Dancing in Buenos Aires with Eve Katzen

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2025 54:25


    In this episode, I sit down with Eve Katzen to unpack the myths, realities, and surprises of traveling to Buenos Aires for tango. From the "forbidden" floral dresses to the chaos of late-night milongas, we dig into the unspoken rules, what's changed over the years, and what you really need to know before booking your ticket. We talk about safety, fashion, floorcraft (or lack of it), and the energy of dancing in the city that breathes tango. Plus, Eve shares her biggest lessons from the trip—including what she'll do differently next time. If you've been to Buenos Aires, what surprised you the most? If you haven't, what's the one thing you'd want to know before going? Let's banter—drop your thoughts below! LINKS: WhatsApp Tango Group: https://fli.so/TangoVidaWA Hoy milonga: https://www.hoy-milonga.com/buenos-aires/en Muy Lunes/Muy Martes Milonga: https://www.instagram.com/muylunestango_muymartestango/ Tango Vida Guide: https://tangovida.org/ Clothing store: https://onel-tango.com/ Cobbler: https://www.instagram.com/ortopediasanjose/

    Do You Need Talent to Succeed in Tango?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 34:11


    In this episode, I reflect on the idea of talent—what it really means, how it shapes our journey as dancers, and whether it's as important as we think. Inspired by a listener's message, I share my own struggles with feeling “untalented” in the arts and how that mindset carried over when I started tango. We explore the myths around talent, the role of hard work, and why some people seem to progress effortlessly while others feel like they're always grinding. Let's banter about it! What's your take on talent vs. hard work in tango? Drop a comment and share your thoughts. Viva Mexico Tango Festival: https://vivamexicotangofestival.com/ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    From Ballroom to Argentine Tango: conversation with Rita Berenshteyn

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 32:06


    In this episode, I chat with Rita Berenshteyn about her journey from ballroom to tango and what it was like navigating the transition. We dive into the quirks of ballroom culture, the challenges of adapting to tango's rules and techniques, and the moments that made her fall in love with the dance. Along the way, we explore what makes tango so addictive and why it's unlike any other dance. Whether you're curious about ballroom or reflecting on your own tango beginnings, this conversation has a little something for everyone. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Why Advanced Dancers Say No to Beginners—and What to Do About It

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 35:03


    This episode dives into a tricky but common topic in the tango world: why advanced dancers often say no to beginners. We explore the underlying dynamics of these decisions, unpacking everything from technique and etiquette to floor craft and musicality. Along the way, we reflect on the challenges beginners face, the unspoken "rules" advanced dancers consider, and what both sides can do to bridge the gap. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Tango Trends We're Leaving Behind in 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2025 42:13


    What would you change about tango in the New Year? 2024 brought some curious trends to the social tango scene, and in this episode, we dive into the ones we'd gladly cancel. From musical experiments to questionable etiquette at the milonga, we reflect on the quirks of tango that sparked our biggest debates this year. What's on your cancel list for 2025? Let us know in the comments! 00:00 Tango Trends of 2024: A Year in Review 2:20 4 Vals Tandas 13:14 Gangster Cabeceo: The Shift in Tango Etiquette 20:24 The Seat Dilemma: Navigating Milonga Seating Etiquette 24:48 Long Announcements: A Growing Concern in Tango Events 28:11 Square Layouts: The Dance Floor Dilemma 32:34 Performance Length: Finding the Right Balance Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Arthouse Meets Tango: a look at "The Tango Lesson"

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 55:42


    Today Alex and I dive deep into The Tango Lesson (1997), Sally Potter's polarizing exploration of tango and artistic expression. From dissecting its surreal, dreamlike sequences to debating its portrayal of gender dynamics and power struggles, we leave no stone unturned. Is it a masterpiece of arthouse cinema or a frustrating watch with outdated aesthetics? We break down the film's symbolism, performances, and impact on the tango community—past and present. If you've seen The Tango Lesson or are curious about its legacy, this episode is for you! Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    How Tango Styles Shape the Way We Dance: Milonguero, Salon, Nuevo

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 44:25


    Have you ever been caught in the whirlwind of conflicting advice from tango teachers, each one claiming to hold the ultimate truth? In this reflective episode, we explore how the diverse styles of tango—Milonguero, Salon, and Nuevo—shape not only our movement but also the way we think about learning and growing as dancers. Through personal stories and insights, this episode dives into the beauty, complexity, and evolving nature of tango's stylistic paradoxes. Interview with Chicho Frumboli and Fabian Salas: https://youtu.be/VOar8W0e1jQ Milonguero: https://youtu.be/c2-Ze5R03G8 Salon: https://youtu.be/C5gijWfvH0M Nuevo: https://youtu.be/y14qkYaG1CY Viva Mexico Tango Festival: https://vivamexicotangofestival.com/ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    How competing changed my tango forever

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2024 29:34


    What happens when a social dancer steps into the world of competitive tango? In this episode, I reflect on my decision to compete again and how it's shaped my perspective on tango—both socially and creatively. Inspired by a podcast conversation with Carlitos Espinosa, I dive into the contradictions of competitive and social tango, the challenges that push us to grow, and why embracing discomfort can be a surprising gift. 030tango Episode with Carlitos Espinoza and Agustina Piaggio: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3OyXbKrnH26dHebuyu0dMQ?si=_-neuuYSRzC6SG41zxcSSQ&t=1369 Southern California Tango Championship: https://socaltangochampionship.com/ SoCal YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@southerncaliforniatangocha2802 Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Tango Crushes: the mystery behind the magic (Part I)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2024 32:12


    This episode is about something that's both exciting and complicated—tango crushes. If you've ever felt an instant connection with someone during a tanda or found yourself thinking about a dance partner long after the music stops, you're not alone. Crushes in tango are surprisingly common and can teach us a lot about ourselves—what we long for, how we connect with others, and even how we handle vulnerability. It's a conversation about how these feelings show up in the tango world and what we do with them. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Grateful I Didn't Quit Tango: lessons that changed everything

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2024 53:09


    After almost giving up on tango, I found myself drawn back to the dance—but not in the way I expected. In this episode, I reflect on the lessons I've learned about the unique challenges of tango, what keeps dancers coming back despite frustrations, and how personal growth often happens in surprising ways on and off the dance floor. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Building You Tango Musicality: tools, techniques, and mindset shifts

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 44:55


    Musicality is the heart of social tango, shaping every step and connection on the dance floor. In this episode, I explore why musicality is essential for every dancer, regardless of background, and how you can develop it—even if you feel you lack natural musical ability. I share practical strategies for strengthening your relationship to tango music as a dancer which will improve your musicality on the dance floor. Tango Playlist Library: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/70580 El Recodo: https://www.el-recodo.com/?lang=en Online Musicality Program: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Choosing a Dance Partner: the secret traits dancers look for

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 50:46


    Today I dig into the subtle factors that can set you apart as a tango dancer and make your presence memorable on the dance floor. I talk about what experienced dancers pay attention to when choosing partners and how to refine your dance in ways that attract the dancers you want to connect with. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    From Drama to Connection: tango on social media

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 38:48


    Today I dive into social media's influence on tango culture—and the highs and lows it brings to our everyday lives as dancers. Drawing from my personal journey and experiences in the tango community, I share tips to navigate social media in a healthier, more enjoyable way. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by online drama or find yourself curious about using social media platforms differently, this discussion will give you tools to connect more meaningfully without the burnout Instagram post of my favorite accounts: https://www.instagram.com/p/DCARgJAzVi_/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    DJing Tango: what you need to know to get started

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 50:16


    Today I share my recent experience on a DJ panel and offer insights for those curious about becoming tango DJs. I break down the basics of getting started, even if you're a complete beginner, and discuss how to curate your first playlist without needing expensive software or a mentor. Whether you're interested in DJing or simply want to deepen your understanding of musicality for your dance, this episode has valuable tips for everyone. Stay tuned until the end for a special offer! Register to access my Spotify playlist here: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/70580 El Recodo: https://www.el-recodo.com/tanda?lang=en 1 FREE month of my online musicality program: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Use discount code: fresedo ‌ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Attending Your First Tango Festival Alone: tips for success

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 31:30


    Today we dive into the anxiety and excitement that comes with attending your first tango festival, especially when traveling solo. Drawing from personal experiences, I discuss the nervousness of stepping into unfamiliar territory and how to navigate the insecurities that arise. From the importance of showing up early to finding the right seat and attending mixers, I share practical tips that can make your festival experience more enjoyable and rewarding. Tune in for advice on how to connect with others, make lasting tango memories, and feel more confident on the dance floor. Diving from a 10 meter tower: https://youtu.be/5QMlIjSnt_E Montana Tango Festival: https://www.montanatango.com/ Albuquerque Tango Festival: http://albuquerquetangofestival.com Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    The Dance We Don't Talk About: power dynamics in tango

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 38:09


    Today I dive into a difficult but important conversation about power dynamics and respect in the tango world. Prompted by a recent public incident during a performance, I explore how moments like this expose deeper issues within professional and social tango relationships. I share my personal reactions, insights from the community, and reflections on how we, as dancers, can navigate these situations. Tune in to hear what this means for tango moving forward and why it's a wake-up call for all of us. Watch the performance I was talking about here: https://fb.watch/vbFgnOduq5/ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Tango Performances: essential or overrated?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 49:31


    In this episode, I explore the role of performances in tango, especially from the perspective of social dancers. While many tango enthusiasts find performances irrelevant or even off-putting, there's a deeper conversation about how performances and social dancing intersect. I dive into the challenges of stage fright, what makes a performance engaging or cringe-worthy, and why some dancers avoid them altogether. If you've ever been curious about performing or simply want to understand what makes a good tango performance, this episode breaks it all down from both the audience's and the dancer's viewpoint. My performance from 2019: https://youtu.be/t6Z4o4F2cS0?si=M43DQDjSZKhlkBZR Ariadna Naveira and Fernando Sanchez (example of “effortless” choreography): https://youtu.be/42hvUNVrwh8?si=LUjAJVyan-KETydr Chino Perico (master of improvisation and minimalism): https://youtu.be/u80wfkhscII?si=mE8r3hRfi5G3ILsz Southern California Tango Championship: https://socaltangochampionship.com/ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Beyond the Steps: the intimacy of tango connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 39:20


    In this episode, I dive into one of tango's most elusive yet essential elements: connection. Inspired by a recent poll in my private Facebook group, where "connection with your partner" emerged as the top reason people love tango, I explore what this term really means. I discuss the physical, emotional, and even mystical aspects of connection in tango, how it affects our bodies, and why it's such a profound experience for dancers. I also reflect on my own journey, the highs and lows of maintaining connection, and how it can change over time. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    "Assassination Tango" and the Evolution of Tango's Future

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 42:04


    In this episode, we dive into Robert Duvall's Assassination Tango, a film that blends the worlds of hitmen and tango dancers. We explore how tango is portrayed through Duvall's eyes as both a dancer and a filmmaker, and discuss how the movie captures key elements of tango culture, from masculinity to the tension between tradition and modernity. Tune in as we reflect on the film's unique take on tango and the lasting impact it has on the dance's future. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    3 mindset shifts every tango follower needs

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 40:16


    Do you feel that tango challenges your confidence and sense of self-worth? In this episode, I share three powerful mindset shifts that helped me overcome self-doubt as a tango follower. Upcoming musicality webinar: Beyond Rhythm- how to dance tango to the melody: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/how-to-dance-to-melody Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Tango Injuries: how to keep your body healthy on the dance floor

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 41:26


    If you've been dancing tango for a while, you probably know it's not always easy on the body. In this episode, we share our own experiences with pain and injuries—especially in the upper back and feet—and how tango's asymmetry can lead to muscle imbalances. We also share our own personal approaches to body care and maintenance. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera: “Un Día Nos Veremos” https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Buenos Aires Tango Guide: Tips for Your First Trip

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 41:45


    "You've decided to go to Buenos Aires—now what?" In this episode I break down everything you need to know to get the most out of your tango trip to Buenos Aires. I'll cover the best times to visit, tips for finding the right milongas, and advice on where to stay based on your needs. Whether you're a first-timer or a regular visitor, these tips will help you make the most of your time in the tango capital. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld - La Maleva Hotel: https://lamaleva.com/ - Casa del Sol: https://casa-del-sol-tango-house-holiday-home.buenosaireshotelsargentina.com/en/ - Hoy Milonga Club: https://www.hoy-milonga.com/HMC.pdf - Roxana Vincelli Tango Clothes: https://www.roxanavincelli.com/?lang=en - Onel Tango Clothes: https://onel-tango.com/ - Cecilie & Cerkan Tango Shoes: https://www.instagram.com/cecilia_serkan/ Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango *Music courtesy of La Santa Calavera, "Un Día Nos Veremos": https://open.spotify.com/artist/4Ekzhqyp6d4CpdNqp6Wh3W

    Tango Followers: how to dance more musically

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2024 38:20


    How can you express the music as a tango follower when dancing at the milonga? How much of your musicality comes from the leader and when can you put in those embellishments you learned in class? In this episode, you'll learn what it means to be an expressive tango follower and discover practical tips to develop your musicality. Tango Simplified Learning Series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0iNCGBu99jcAh980gEY-P7Pdk3j3vHuY IMSO Tango Online School of Musicality: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Episode 42: What Every Dancer Should Know About Tango Music at the Milonga

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 39:49


    Ready to transform your milonga experience? In this episode, I delve into the crucial role of tango music in your journey as a dancer. We explore why recognizing orchestras and understanding their distinct styles is essential for truly succeeding at the milonga. I share my personal journey of learning to identify these musical nuances and offer a simple, effective process for you to follow. By mastering the art of tango music, you'll not only enhance your dance but also unlock a deeper, more creative connection with your partner. Takeaways: - Tango music is the heart of the dance, shaping its character and style. - Recognizing orchestras can elevate your dance, allowing for richer expression. - Developing this skill takes practice, but it's achievable with active listening. - A deep understanding of tango music fosters stronger connections and more fulfilling dance experiences. IMSO Tango Online School of Musicality: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/online-school-of-musicality Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Horacio Godoy on Tango's Deep Roots and Modern Evolution

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 41:49


    In this special episode recorded in 2021, I sit down with Horacio Godoy, one of the most influential and renowned figures in social tango today. Horacio has excelled in every tango role imaginable: performing in multiple tango companies, becoming an internationally sought-after DJ and tango music expert, and serving as a guest maestro, judge, and consultant at festivals and mundials in over 40 countries. Celebrating 31 years since he began DJing tango, Horacio shares with us how he started, what he loves most about tango, and his many artistic projects that illuminate the musical history of this dance. Horacio Godoy Workshops in LA: https://yuli-b.com/horacio-godoy-maricel-giacomini/?fbclid=IwY2xjawEozWhleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHRRxU04GMdSnWI477ySwLghLW4gqc03b7T3FQ62_EB6CUNl1PyYWWPIGJQ_aem_rXyKxSM8AFy7dLDZbk1r1A Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Tango on the Silver Screen: “Scent of a Woman”

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 30:50


    Today we dive into the world of tango as depicted in the classic film "Scent of a Woman." We explore the iconic tango scene and discuss its impact on both the tango community and popular culture. We share our insights on how the film portrays tango, and why it captivated so many viewers, inspiring many to take up the dance. We also delve into the broader themes of the movie, such as masculinity, femininity, and the complex characters portrayed by Al Pacino and Chris O'Donnell. Join us as we kick off this new series of movie reviews with a tango twist, and don't forget to share your thoughts and suggestions for future episodes! Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Strategies for dancing with tango beginners

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2024 31:45


    Dancing with beginners can be challenging, but there are strategies to make it a more enjoyable experience. Pacing yourself and saying no when needed is important for your own well-being. Choosing the right music can also make a difference in the dance. Focusing on your own physical comfort and letting go of perfectionism can help you navigate the dance with beginners. Letting mistakes happen without judgment and reframing them as happy accidents can create a more relaxed atmosphere. Overall, it's about creating a positive experience for both you and the beginner dancer. Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Tango as therapy for life's changes: conversation with Caroline Tell Falk

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2024 49:29


    In this episode, Caroline shares her journey into Argentine tango and how it helped her cope with the social isolation and emotional challenges of the COVID-19 pandemic. She also talks about her challenges dealing with menopause and kids growing up and moving away. She describes how tango provided a sense of connection, co-regulation, and healing through touch and music. We also discuss the different faces of tango, the importance of finding joy and mental stimulation in the dance, and the transformative power of tango in daily life. July 26 Musicality Webinar info: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/how-to-dance-to-marcato-in-2-and-4 Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Making the most of tango festival workshops

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2024 43:55


    In this episode, we dive into our recent experience at Tangamente Immersion Weekend and share some tips on making the most of tango festival workshops. We talk about the challenges of choosing the right classes, dealing with different teaching styles, and the importance of role switching. We also reflect on how to retain new techniques and incorporate them into your dance. July 26 Musicality Webinar info: https://my.marvelouspages.com/imsotango/how-to-dance-to-marcato-in-2-and-4 Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    July 9 | Music tips that made tango easier for me

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 45:49


    This week Alex and I dive into the key music tips that made tango easier for us. Whether you're a leader or a follower, understanding certain music fundamentals helps you to get to that fun part of tango quicker. This is because no matter how much/little vocabulary you might know, it's about how you make it work with the music that makes the difference. What musicality concept made tango easier for you when you were learning? July 26 Musicality Webinar info: https://imsotango.namastream.com/product/75056 Example of being “another instrument”: https://youtu.be/a9Gp4MFv8f4?si=Mq1cOggpyXpOvIyk Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    4 steps to build your dance floor confidence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 39:50


    In this episode, we dive into building confidence as a tango dancer. I share my personal journey of overcoming body image issues and embracing my true self on the dance floor. I cover practical steps for boosting confidence, like finding inspiration in other dancers and evaluating your own movement. I also stress the importance of self-expression and creativity in becoming a confident dancer. Montana Tango Festival: https://www.montanatango.com/ Receive 10% off with discount code: yelizconnect Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Double Tango: Inside Caltech and LA Tango Marathons

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2024 48:50


    In this episode, we dive into our experiences at the Caltech Tango Festival and the LA Tango Marathon. We talk about the different vibes, dancer levels, and social dynamics at each event. We also touch on our personal anxieties and the unique challenges of dancing with advanced partners. Plus, we explore how tango can be a haven for the socially awkward, providing a controlled space for connection. Finally, we discuss the competition between events and how music and DJing set the tone. Montana Tango Festiva: https://www.montanatango.com/ Get 10% off with discount code: yelizconnect Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Dancing Past Gender Bias: conversation with Freseda Mae

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 38:54


    Many female tango dancers have faced gender bias and discrimination in the tango communities over the past few years. In this episode, Freseda Mae and I discuss how instances of unsolicited feedback and uncomfortable dance experiences led Mae to decide to start leading. But once she did start leading she faces other challenges of being a dual role dancer. We also talk about the impact of gender bias on women in tango, the power dynamics in the community, and the importance of supporting and empowering female leaders. Freseda Mae's Blog: https://fresedatango.com/ Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Reframe and Redefine: tango insights with Maziar Amirani

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 39:44


    Maziar is BACK for another interview, bantering about lessons learned along the way as he continues to live the tango nomad lifestyle. Having known him for many years, I have always wondered how he manages to enjoy himself so much on the dance floor, no matter who he dances with. In this episode, he reveals SOME of his secrets. Check out our first interview here: https://youtu.be/20nfqhSsrMA Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

    Essential Tips for Women Leading in Tango

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024 35:18


    Female leaders are on the rise in tango and in this episode I share my perspective on what the next phase of growth looks like for women leading. I also address the criticism that female leaders may not have the same skill set as male leaders. DonAgucho on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@donagucho?si=aV3gXh3XF5ReUKnj Join my private FaceBook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sotangoworld Questions/comments? Reach out to me⁣⁣⁣⁣ Web: imsotango.com⁣ Email: connect@imsotango.com⁣⁣⁣⁣ Facebook⁣ @‌IMSO Tango⁣⁣⁣ Instagram @‌imso_tango

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