Podcast appearances and mentions of carl whitaker

In January 2014 a brutal murder occurred to the north of Adelaide. Attending police were confronted with the body of an asylum seeker laying in the yard of his suburban home. The offender, a neighbour who was also an asylum seeker known to the victim, initially denied knowledge of the crime and attempted to implicate an innocent witness. Retired South Australia Police Senior Sergeant Carl Whitaker talks to podcast host Jason Byrnes about the challenging investigation with a focus on how it was managed. Aspects covered include the use of interpreters, how the police interacted with other state and federal organisations, and what happened when investigating police took on the responsibility for repatriating the victim's body to Sri Lanka.Carl Whitaker's article about the case, titled ‘Hot Weather, Hot Liquor, Hot Temper,' is in the March 2025 edition of the APJ, which can be read at www.apjl.com.au. Host: Jason Byrnes APMGuest: Carl Whitaker

In this Topical Tuesday episode, I spoke with Carl Whitaker who is the Chief Economist at Real Page. At RealPage, Carl is an industry thought leader in the multifamily industry and specializes in creating industry presentations, market and submarket trend reports and crafting ways in which data can be more easily consumed and leveraged by clients. Be sure to tune in if you're interested in learning about: The evolving role of concessions in multifamily housing, including trends in lease-up properties and rent adjustments. Insights into how supply and demand dynamics impact rent growth and occupancy. Economic outlook for renters and how consumer sentiment influences demand. Key updates on capital markets, transaction activity, and opportunities in multifamily investing. To your success, Tyler Lyons Resources mentioned in the episode: Carl Whitaker LinkedIn Interested in learning how to take your capital raising game to the next level? Meet us at Capital Raiser's Edge. Learn more here: https://raisingcapital.com/cre

José Gameiro nasceu em Lisboa, em 1949. Licenciou-se em Medicina pela Faculdade de Medicina de Lisboa, com especialidade em psiquiatria, e doutorou-se em Psicologia e Saúde Mental na Universidade do Porto. É membro fundador da Sociedade Portuguesa de Terapia Familiar. Assina, no Expresso, a crónica «Diário de um psiquiatra», onde fala sobretudo de relações e terapia de casais. É autor de vários livros sobre estes temas, o último dos quais, publicado este ano, provocadoramente chamado «Manual de Infidelidade». Foi uma grande conversa. O convidado é conversador espirituoso (como vão ver) e é talvez a pessoa em Portugal com mais experiência a lidar com casais: desde os problemas mais comuns ao que distingue os casais que funcionam bem.  (Episódio apenas audio.) -> Apoie este podcast e faça parte da comunidade de mecenas do 45 Graus em: 45grauspodcast.com -> Workshops de Pensamento Crítico. _______________ Índice: (0:00) Introdução (3:57) O que ser terapeuta conjugal ensina sobre as relações. | O maior desafio no casal é lidar com as diferenças (18:18) O dinheiro e a carreira (28:24) Como funciona, na prática, a terapia de casal? Carl Whitaker. Cultura EUA vs Portugal (39:57) O terapeuta, com a experiência, constroi uma intuição sobre os casais? (44:30) Diferenças no casal e papeis de género. | Casais do mesmo sexo. | Estudo de Masters and Johnson (52:21) Infidelidade: padrões e diversidade (1:08:31) Os casais não devem dizer e discutir tudo? | A “verdadaça” (1:16:26) Lições para a vida conjugal de uma vida de terapeuta de casais (1:21:46) O mais importante numa relação é sentir-se compreendido | E o mais devastador é a crítica sistemática (1:26:32) O modelo de guarda partilhada de casais separados continua a discriminar os homens? (1:31:53) “Somos sobretudo amigos” ______________ Esta conversa foi editada por: Hugo Oliveira  

Carl Whitaker, Director of Research and Analysis with RealPage, joins Michael Bull, CCIM to discuss the multifamily commercial real estate market. Discussions include occupancy, performance and rent growth, and apartment markets that are defying expectations.  Brought to you by: ShareFile - Secure, digital solutions to simplify workflows and improve collaboration. https://ShareFile.com Bull Realty - Customized Asset & Occupancy Solutions: https://www.bullrealty.com/ Commercial Agent Success Strategies - The ultimate commercial broker training resource: https://www.commercialagentsuccess.com/ Watch the video versions of our show on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/c/Commercialrealestateshow Follow us at: @BullRealty https://twitter.com/bullrealty @CRE_show https://twitter.com/CRE_show

In this episode we are joined by EFTA President, Umberta Telfener, as she shares with us her legacy and connection to the development of the systemic field. She talks about her relationships with some of the pioneers in Systemic Family Therapy across the globe. We hear her passionate views on combining systemic interventions and psychotherapy as we explore the integral relationship between them. Umberta also discusses first and second order change, systemic complexity, collusion and utilising systemic thinking to create meaningful interventions for people. Bio:Umberta Telfener, health & clinical psychologist, teacher of the Milan systemic family therapy school (Boscolo & Cecchin), actual President of EFTA, former adjunct Professor at the post graduate School of Health Psychology of the University of Roma La Sapienza, she supervises Institutions and Community work and is in private practice since 1980.She is one of the senior systemic professionals and thinkers in Italy.  In the mid '70 she met all the pioneers and since then she teaches systemic thinking in different settings. She had among her direct teachers Heinz von Foerster, Lynn Hoffman, Salvator Minuchin, Jay Haley, Carl Whitaker, Carlos Slusky, Bralio Montalvo, Harry Aponte, Luigi Boscolo e Gianfranco Cecchin.She teaches at the Health Psychology Post Graduate training of the University of Roma La Sapienza, both Epistemology and systemic thinking and Systemic practice and interventions. She works as a supervisor in different settings both public and private and has written many books and articles in the Italian language with the most well known publishing companies, among which Ammalarsi di Psicoterapia 1995 (Getting sick from psychotherapy), Sistemica un dizionario sulla complessità 2003 (Systemics, a dictionary on complexity, with the direct supervision of Heinz von Foerster, Bollati Boringhieri). She has published with Bollati Boringhieri La psicoterapia come pratica riflessiva (Psychotherapy as a reflexive practice) and with Cortina editore Learning Context, Practices to enter in new settings. She has been past president of the Italian Society for Systemic Therapy and Research (SIRTS) and has been an extern examiner at the Kensington Consultation Centre of London.

Join Michael Bull and expert guest Carl Whitaker, Director of Research and Analysis at RealPage, as they unpack the trends and factors influencing multifamily performance, including demand strength, supply challenges, and rent growth variations across different markets. They also discuss the impact of office-to-residential conversions, the changing face of renting, and what lies ahead for multifamily investors.  Lument - Lending is more than a loan: https://www.lument.com/ Bull Realty - Customized Asset & Occupancy Solutions: https://www.bullrealty.com/ Commercial Agent Success Strategies - The ultimate commercial broker training resource: https://www.commercialagentsuccess.com/ Watch the video versions of our show on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/c/Commercialrealestateshow Follow us at: @BullRealty https://twitter.com/bullrealty @CRE_show https://twitter.com/CRE_show    

Join host Michael Bull and guest Carl Whitaker, Director of Research and Analysis at RealPage, as they delve into the world of student housing. Discussions include the state of occupancy rates and rent growth, what's happening with new supply, and which campuses are attracting investors.  Lument - Lending is more than a loan: https://www.lument.com/ Bull Realty - Customized Asset & Occupancy Solutions: https://www.bullrealty.com/ Commercial Agent Success Strategies - The ultimate commercial broker training resource: https://www.commercialagentsuccess.com/ Watch the video versions of our show on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/c/Commercialrealestateshow Follow us at: @BullRealty https://twitter.com/bullrealty @CRE_show https://twitter.com/CRE_show  

Join RealPage®’s Carl Whitaker as he sits down with Michael Bull, CEO of Bull Realty, to talk about regional opportunities and investment trends he’s anticipating in 2024, keys to surviving and thriving through unavoidable market swings and what he’s learned over the years as the host of the nation’s leading podcast on commercial real estate. Find out more about Michael Bull and Bull Realty at:https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelbull/https://bullrealty.com/

In a return appearance on the Gray Report, RealPage Director of Research & Analysis Carl Whitaker discusses economic trends, construction issues, rent growth developments, and the data that can give multifamily investors a clear view of the market in 2024. For the latest multifamily news from across the internet, visit the Gray Report website: ⁠https://www.grayreport.com/⁠ Sign up for our free multifamily newsletter here: ⁠https://www.graycapitalllc.com/newsletter⁠ Learn more about Gray Capital's latest multifamily investment offering for accredited investors: https://www.graycapitalllc.com/new-offering/ DISCLAIMERS: This video does not constitute professional financial advice and is for educational/entertainment purposes only. This video is not an offer to invest. Any offering would be made through a private placement memorandum and would be limited to accredited investors.

Carl Whitaker, Director of Research & Analysis, Market Analytics with RealPage, joins broker Michael Bull, CCIM to discuss the multifamily market, including transaction volume, rent growth, occupancy, and investment. Lument - Lending is more than a loan: https://www.lument.com/ Bull Realty - Customized Asset & Occupancy Solutions: https://www.bullrealty.com/ Commercial Agent Success Strategies - The ultimate commercial broker training resource: https://www.commercialagentsuccess.com/ Watch the video versions of our show on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/c/Commercialrealestateshow Follow us at: @BullRealty https://twitter.com/bullrealty @CRE_show https://twitter.com/CRE_show

In this podcast, Carl Whitaker and Erin Roberts discuss the pros and cons of granular market data, current trends and their long-term effects, how supply chain issues may continue to slow new construction completion, the importance of benchmarking and how being a college radio DJ can be the perfect training ground for a life in research and insights.

Join RealPage® market and economic experts Jay Parsons, Andrew Bowen and Carl Whitaker as they discuss, in detail, findings from the RealPage 2023 National Renter Study completed by The Center for Generational Kinetics. Get a clear line of sight into what today’s renters want and need — and why innovation matters now more than ever. Get your free copy of the RealPage 2023 National Renter Study here. Webcast Link: https://www.realpage.com/webcasts/2023-national-renter-study/ Study link: https://www.realpage.com/webcasts/2023-national-renter-study/

Carl Whitaker talks with Waterton’s Lee Everett — one of America's more experienced real estate research veterans — and gleans valuable insights into the current multifamily market and the broader macro real estate environment. It’s a great snapshot of the multifamily market courtesy of Waterton's extensive 20-market nationwide footprint. Learn more about Waterton at https://waterton.com/

Carl Whitaker with RealPage joins broker Michael Bull, CCIM, to discuss rent growth, occupancy expectations, new supply, and when multifamily performance may change again.  C5+CCIM Global Summit - 3 Days of Commercial Real Estate Networking, Learning, & Investing in Atlanta, Georgia, September 28-30th! Brought to you by: Lument: Lending is more than a loan: https://www.lument.com/ Bull Realty - Customized Asset & Occupancy Solutions: https://www.bullrealty.com/ Commercial Agent Success Strategies - The ultimate commercial broker training resource: https://www.commercialagentsuccess.com/ Watch the video versions of our show on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/c/Commercialrealestateshow Follow us at: @BullRealty https://twitter.com/bullrealty @CRE_show https://twitter.com/CRE_show

HFO Director of Client Services Aaron Kirk Douglas welcomes Carl Whitaker, director of research and analysis at RealPage, Inc., to discuss the market Washington state multifamily market. Aaron and Carl delve into the impact of tech sector employment and AI hires on Seattle's rental market, the strong performance of suburban submarkets, increasing occupancy--despite slowed rent growth-- and the strength of the Spokane market.

HFO Director of Client Services Aaron Kirk Douglas welcomes Carl Whitaker, director of research and analysis at RealPage, Inc., to discuss the market Washington state multifamily market. Aaron and Carl delve into the impact of tech sector employment and AI hires on Seattle's rental market, the strong performance of suburban submarkets, increasing occupancy--despite slowed rent growth-- and the strength of the Spokane market.

In the latest HFO-TV episode, Aaron Kirk Douglas interviews market analyst Carl Whitaker from RealPage Inc. Whitaker shares insights into Portland's real estate market, noting a less pronounced seasonal rent swing and lower retention rates than other West Coast cities. Looking forward to 2023 and 2024, he predicts a slowing rent growth and potential challenges in the tech-driven economy, particularly in chip manufacturing. The episode also touches on the performance of smaller markets, such as Salem, Eugene, and Corvallis, highlighting their steady growth influenced by state-funded schools.

In this Topical Tuesday's episode, I spoke with Carl Whitaker who is a repeat guest on the show and is the Director of Research and Analysis at Real Page. If you like this episode, make sure that you check out episode 516 as well, where Carl and I had an excellent discussion about the impact of rising rents on multifamily affordability. Be sure to tune in if you're interested in learning about: What the overall performance of the multifamily industry looks like right now and how 2023 might compare to 2022 How much multifamily development is happening right now and how it stacks up compared to historical norms Whether Class B properties are truly "insulated" from Class A from a market rent standpoint, and which markets have the smallest/widest spreads How loss to lease has changed over the last year and what that means for investors To your success, Tyler Lyons Resources mentioned in the episode: 1. Carl Whitaker LinkedIn Webcast Analytics Interested in investing in ATMs? Check out our webinar.   Please note that investing in private placement securities entails a high degree of risk, including illiquidity of the investment and loss of principal. Please refer to the subscription agreement for a discussion of risk factors. Tired of scrambling for capital?  Check out our new FREE webinar -  How to Ensure You Never Scramble for Capital Again (The 3 Capital-Raising Secrets). Click Here to register.   CFC Podcast Facebook Group

Host Michael Bull welcomes Carl Whitaker, Director of Research and Analysis with RealPage, to discuss the evolving landscape of student housing. They delve into the performance of student housing properties, rent increases, factors influencing student enrollment, and the emergence of new supply in certain markets. Discover the current state of the student housing sector, the impact of changing economies, and potential opportunities for investors and operators in this dynamic market. Brought to you by: Bull Realty - Customized Asset & Occupancy Solutions: https://www.bullrealty.com/ Commercial Agent Success Strategies - The ultimate commercial broker training resource: https://www.commercialagentsuccess.com/ Watch the video versions of our show on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/c/Commercialrealestateshow Follow us at: @BullRealty https://twitter.com/bullrealty @CRE_show https://twitter.com/CRE_show

Carl Whitaker with RealPage joins Michael Bull to share market performance, strategies, and forecasts for U.S. apartments and multifamily properties. Discussions include rent and occupancy updates, new supply levels vs corresponding demand, and opportunities in 2023.  Brought to you by: Bull Realty - Customized Asset & Occupancy Solutions: https://www.bullrealty.com/ Commercial Agent Success Strategies - The ultimate commercial broker training resource: https://www.commercialagentsuccess.com/ Watch the video versions of our show on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@Commercialrealestateshow Follow us at: @BullRealty https://twitter.com/bullrealty @CRE_show https://twitter.com/CRE_show  

Director of Research & Analysis, Carl Whitaker, joins Gray Capital President and CEO Spencer Gray to discuss major trends, markets, and metrics to follow in 2023. Sources discussed in this episode: RealPage: "Three Types of Apartment Markets That Could Outperform in 2023" - https://www.realpage.com/analytics/three-types-of-markets-that-could-outperform-in-2023/ RealPage: "Three Types of Markets That Could Struggle in 2023" - https://www.realpage.com/analytics/three-types-of-markets-that-could-struggle-in-2023/ For the latest multifamily news from across the internet, visit the Gray Report website: https://www.grayreport.com/ Sign up for our free multifamily newsletter here: https://www.graycapitalllc.com/newsletter/ DISCLAIMERS: This podcast does not constitute professional financial advice and is for educational/entertainment purposes only. This video is not an offer to invest.

Carl Whitaker, Director of Research and Analysis for RealPage Analytics offers an update for the Pacific Northwest multifamily market, and Blake Hering of Gantry, Inc. provides a lending market update.  

Carl Whitaker with RealPage joins show host Michael Bull to share recent performance variances and projections for performance and cap rates moving forward.

In this Topical Tuesday's episode, I spoke with Carl Whitaker who is the Director of Research and Analysis at Real Page, where he blends passion and teaching, to foster a practical, applied understanding of apartment data and analysis Be sure to tune in if you're interested in learning about: Whether the recent run up in rents for market rate multifamily has created affordability issues, and how the current data compares to recent history Reasons for the massive boom in demand that market rate multifamily has seen in the past 2 years How much rent to income ratios varied across the nation and which markets are currently the most affordable, and most expensive for renters What markets have great fundamentals that multifamily investors should be paying attention to Resources mentioned in the podcast: 1. Carl Whitaker LinkedIn Email Interested in investing in ATMs? Check out our webinar.   Please note that investing in private placement securities entails a high degree of risk, including illiquidity of the investment and loss of principal. Please refer to the subscription agreement for a discussion of risk factors. Tired of scrambling for capital?  Check out our new FREE webinar -  How to Ensure You Never Scramble for Capital Again (The 3 Capital-Raising Secrets). Click Here to register.   CFC Podcast Facebook Group

Multifamily has been on a roll, but will rising interest rates and other economic shifts bring headwinds? Carl Whitaker with RealPage joins Michael to discuss performance, current valuations, and future opportunities for the multifamily market. 

Carl Whitaker with RealPage joins Michael to discuss the student housing market, including post-COVID performance recovery and a forecast. Brought to you by: Bull Realty -  https://www.bullrealty.com/ Commercial Agent Success Strategies - https://www.commercialagentsuccess.com/ Buxton - https://www.buxtonco.com/ Barnes Creative Studios - https://www.barnescreativestudios.com/

Want a free CRE loan quote? https://quote.peakfinancing.com/quote-request Carl Whitaker is a Market Analyst for RealPage, Inc., where he blends in his passions for geography and teaching to foster a practical, applied understanding of apartment data and analysis. He specializes in creating in-depth reports and presentations to allow for easier consumption and application of data and analysis. Prior to joining RealPage, Carl was a Market Analyst for Axiometrics and an analyst for Catalyst Commercial, a Dallas-based economic development solutions firm. In this Peak Market Watch episode, Carl Whitaker, the Director of Research & Analysis, RealPage - Nationwide market intelligence for multifamily owners and investors, joins Peak Market Watch host and CEO of Peak Financing, Anton Mattli, and Disrupt Equity Principal and co-host, Ben Suttles, as he shares an incredible multifamily market analysis on where we are at today and what the projections are for the rest of 2022 and beyond. Here are a few highlights on what he will cover in this episode of Peak Market Watch: Nationally, multifamily unit absorption in 2021 was 60% greater than the previous annual peak dating back to the 1990s! COVID-19 certainly caused the pent-up demand in 2021. Trade-outs: New leases in January 2022 were up 18% from expiring lease & renewals were up 10-11%! Record rent growth was a combination of a catch-up from no to little increases in 2020, jump in demand, as well as inflationary pressures Rent growth is expected to continue in 2022 but not at 2021 levels Multifamily permitting did not reach pre-Great Recession levels until 2014 Affordability A Class properties: Rent to income ratio is typically in the upper teens % Affordability B Class properties: Rent to income ratio is typically in the lower 20s % Affordability C Class properties: Rent to income ratio is still just at around 27-28% In summary, at a broad level, affordability is still not a significant issue at investment grade/professionally managed properties despite significant rent increases Delinquencies: Even during the depths of the 2020 downturn, collections were down by just 3% compared to pre-pandemic levels whereas Class C assets showed more challenges, particularly in markets that implemented renter protections. No expectation of an eviction "tsunami" Expense pressure has been very strong, particularly due to increases in payroll, insurance premiums, and property taxes Tight and innovative asset and property management will be crucial to keep expenses at bay - technology solutions are key to cut costs without cutting service quality Loss-to-lease: Still a good amount of runway to increase rents, particularly in certain sunbelt markets with record low vacancies such as Florida Sunbelt markets: There is an increased interest to rent in urban areas but that does not come at the expense of suburban markets - the demand is still so strong that both suburbs and urban centers in the sunbelt markets are benefitting for such demand Large Markets you should be watching: Raleigh Durham, NC - Mid-size market: Cape Coral, FL - Small market: Ashville, NC Connect with Anton Mattli CEO of PEAK Financing anton@peakfinancing.com https://peakfinancing.com/ Connect with Ben Suttles Principal, Disrupt Equity ben@disruptequity.com https://www.disruptequity.com/ Connect with Carl Whitaker Director of Research & Analysis, RealPage carl.whitaker@realpage.com http://www.realpage.com/

Carl Whitaker, Bradford Keeney, Gianfranco Cecchin, Virginia Satir, Fritz Pearls sono alcuni fra i diversi terapeuti che hanno saputo usare l'improvvisazione e l'impertinenza nella loro arte. L'impertinenza amorevole e scevra dal giudizio presuntuoso è un modo di relazionarsi onestamente di cui si sente sempre più il bisogno https://youtu.be/SH0NdMnroS8 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ennio-martignago/message

Carl Whitaker with Real Page joins show host Michael Bull to discuss the current state and future of the multifamily sector.

On today's episode, I will be concluding my discussion on Symbolic-Experiential Therapy.  This theory is actually a-theoretical and is focused on creating new in-session experiences that are often symbolic.  I will conclude this theory of therapy by discussing what Carl Whitaker saw as a "healthy" family and the ended in a brief description of Emotionally Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems.  Intro/Outro music & Transition Sounds, ambient-atmospheric-4947, found at https://cdn.pixabay.com/download/audio/2021/06/07/audio_cdfb955189.mp3?filename=ambient-atmospheric-4947.mp3National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673Crisis Text Line - Text “MN” to 741741Call 911 for emergencyThis and other content produced by James Rains is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this podcast creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please seek help from your therapist or seek help from one in your area if you are experiencing any mental health concerns.  Nothing should be construed to be specific advice.  It is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

On today's episode, I will be continuing my discussion on Symbolic-Experiential Therapy.  This theory is actually a-theoretical and is focused on creating new in-session experiences that are often symbolic.  On this week's episode, I will continue describing Carl Whitaker and Virginia Satir focusing on Carl Whitaker's battles for initiative and for structure as well as Virginia Satir's communication styles. Intro/Outro music & Transition Sounds, ambient-atmospheric-4947, found at https://cdn.pixabay.com/download/audio/2021/06/07/audio_cdfb955189.mp3?filename=ambient-atmospheric-4947.mp3National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673Crisis Text Line - Text “MN” to 741741Call 911 for emergencyThis and other content produced by James Rains is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this podcast creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please seek help from your therapist or seek help from one in your area if you are experiencing any mental health concerns.  Nothing should be construed to be specific advice.  It is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

Constance Ahrons was a ground-breaking systemic therapist who challenged negative stereotypes about divorce and was an early advocate for collaborative divorce. She was the author of The Good Divorce and participated in groundbreaking longitudinal research on the effects of divorce on children. In this episode she discusses her early career and influences including working with Carl Whitaker, her pioneering research on predicting adjustment of children of divorce by quality of the co-parenting relationship, and her work with binuclear families. Finally, she describes the kinship system of working with divorced co-parents and the unique classification system she uses to describe them.

Will the increased demand in Zoom towns continue? Will the 2021 sales volume surge from the 1031 exchange scare and capital gains increase dissipate next year? How have eviction moratoriums impacted the market? What are cap rate trends and performance trends today and moving forward? Which markets are hot or not? All this more on this episode featuring Carl Whitaker with Real Page.   

" Shame occurs when you haven't been able to get away with the 'who' you want people to think you are. “ Carl Whitaker Underneath all shame are lies that destroy. To heal from toxic shame false beliefs, we have to call out and expose the lie underneath with the truth. If there is a shame lie that you keep believing, expose it to the light in a journal. One way to do this is to write out the shame lie on one column and in a second column next to it, write the truth from your own experience and or faith tradition. Then practice believing and reinforcing the truth. Practice makes progress. There is a temptation to wear a mask and to pretend to be someone we are not. We all have insecurities, but we can't allow those insecurities to make us wear a mask and be unauthentic. It is so tempting, but it never works. We are totally unique and imperfectly perfect just the way we are. We can admire certain attributes or qualities of others and even emulate them but we cannot succeed as a cookie cutter version of someone else. Our society often tries to lump us into a particular stereotype or group. Resist being put in a box or being narrowed down to a particular stereotype. Take off the mask and practice being your unique self. It is a path toward freedom and progressive healing. People pleasing is a trap and it is a form of control. If there is a tendency to want to control or people please, there is fear underneath. An acronym for fear is false evidence appearing real. The false evidence and or the lie of being unauthentic doesn't ultimately work. The people we are trying to please will either end up letting us down or take advantage of us. By taking off the mask, and assertively being your authentic self, you respect yourself and others. Dear God, help me let go of any shame lie that seeks to reduce me to wearing a mask and pretending to be someone I am not. Instead, help me to embrace my authentic unique self and my individuality today. #td #meditation #contemplation #silence #stillness #bestill #relax #calm #joy #god #prayer #mindfulness #catholic #christian #spiritual #spirituality #love #unconditional #goodness #kindness #gentle #honesty #present #presentmolment #be #open #openminded #caring #sharing #union #communion #transformation #quote #podcast #highlight #summary #depth #courage #fear #faith #bottom #star #bitcoin #crypto #business #enterprise #mindset #positive #motivation #richardrohr #ghandi #martinlutherking #mlk #BLM #peace #innerchild #lovingparent #ACA #CODA #alanon #12steps #twelvesteps #AA #addiction #sobriety #recovery #fredrogers #mrrogers #neighbor #community #music #life #lessons #wisdom #thomaskeating #thomasmerton #jesus #mary #divinity #higherpower #hope #money #power #universe #communication #song #heart #healing #deliverance #anxiety #relief #stress #relaxation #peace #audultchild #codependent

Description: In this week's episode, Anthony and Marshall discuss the quote: "Shame occurs when you haven't been able to get away with the 'who' you want people to think you are." by Carl Whitaker. They debate whether the gap between who we are and who we want to be is self-deception or the consequence of circumstance and discuss the factors involved in men's differing responses to experiences of shame by answering the question: Why do some men grow from encounters with shame while others wither from them?

Description: In this week's episode, Anthony and Marshall discuss the quote: "Shame occurs when you haven't been able to get away with the 'who' you want people to think you are." by Carl Whitaker. They debate whether the gap between who we are and who we want to be is self-deception or the consequence of circumstance and discuss the factors involved in men's differing responses to experiences of shame by answering the question: Why do some men grow from encounters with shame while others wither from them?

Current vs Future. Urban vs suburban. Economic vs actual. Smaller vs larger. Carl Whitaker with Real Page shares the latest performance trends and forecast. Then, Laurie Lyons shares operation strategies for owners and managers. For our video content, visit https://commercialrealestateshow.com/ or our YouTube channel Brought to you by: Bull Realty -  https://www.bullrealty.com/ Commercial Agent Success Strategies - https://www.commercialagentsuccess.com/ CoreGreen Technologies - https://core.green/

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Carl Whitaker is Market Analytics Manager for RealPage, Inc., where he blends in his passions for geography and teaching to foster a practical, applied understanding of apartment data and analysis. He specializes in creating in-depth reports and presentations to allow for easier consumption and application of data and analysis. Prior to joining RealPage, Carl was a Market Analyst for Axiometrics and an analyst for Catalyst Commercial, a Dallas-based economic development solutions firm.Carl received a bachelor's degree in secondary education and a master's degree in applied geography from the University of North Texas.