Podcast appearances and mentions of misty lynch

Send us a textOn this episode of The Get Ready Money Podcast, I spoke with Misty Lynch, CEO of Sound View Advisors, podcast and reality tv show host about changing the way we think about our relationship with money,In this episode we discussed:Be accepting of the way things are. Don't let labels hold you back, it's important to not think of things as good or bad. Question your beliefs. Couples should be open minded about what's important to each other.How to overcome fear with our money. Ask yourself what's the worst case scenario? It's oftentimes not that bad. Misty Lynch, CFP® is the CEO of Sound View Financial Advisors. Misty helps busy business owners and executives handle finances (and life) with confidence using financial planning, investment management, and money mindset coaching strategies. Misty hosts the reality TV series Heartbroke and the weekly podcast Demystifying Money. She is a personal finance expert and a resource for media outlets including The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, CNBC, CNN, Investopedia, Real Simple, Student Loan Hero and many others. Investopedia named her one of the Top 100 Financial Advisors in 2021 and US News and World Report named her one of the 9 Women in Finance to Follow "because sometimes you need life advice, not just financial advice".Connect with Misty Lynch:Website:https://mistylynch.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mistylynch/Sound View Advisors Website: https://www.soundviewadvisors.comBooks:Demystifying Money: Permanently Reprogram Your Money Mindset to Achieve the Wealth and Success You Deserve (Amazon) https://amzn.to/497aQwuPodcast:Demystifying Money Podcast: https://mistylynch.com/podcast/TV Series:Heartbroke: https://mistylynch.com/heartbroke/Resources mentioned:Monarch Money (money management app): https://www.monarchmoney.comBrightfin (budgeting/spending app): https://brightfin.ioSupport the showThe Get Ready Money Podcast and its guests do not provide investment advice. All content is for educational purposes. Guest opinions do not necessarily reflect the opinions of The Get Ready Money Podcast and Tony Steuer.

Misty Lynch is the Owner and CEO of Sound View Financial Advisors, LLC,a fee-only fiduciary and independent financial advisor who's making waves in personal finance through her reality show, podcast, and book.Misty's journey from corporate dropout to successful entrepreneur and media personality offers valuable insights on career transitions and business growth. Her recent experience of hiring her first employee highlights the challenges and excitement of scaling a business.Here's where to find more:Misty Lynch Website - https://www.mistylynch.comFree Money Class - https://mailchi.mp/mistylynch/free-money-classFree Demystifying Money® Journal - https://mailchi.mp/mistylynch/workbookDemystifying Money® Book on Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/Demystifying-Money-Permanently-Reprogra…Demystifying Money® Podcast - https://mistylynch.com/podcastFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/mistylynchcfpLinkedin - https://linkedin.com/in/mistylynchInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mistylynchcfpTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@demystifyingmoney___________________________________________________________Welcome to The Unforget Yourself Show where we use the power of woo and the proof of science to help you identify your blind spots, and get over your own bullshit so that you can do the fucking thing you ACTUALLY want to do!We're Mark and Katie, the founders of Unforget Yourself and the creators of the Unforget Yourself System and on this podcast, we're here to share REAL conversations about what goes on inside the heart and minds of those brave and crazy enough to start their own business. From the accidental entrepreneur to the laser-focused CEO, we find out how they got to where they are today, not by hearing the go-to story of their success, but talking about how we all have our own BS to deal with and it's through facing ourselves that we find a way to do the fucking thing.Along the way, we hope to show you that YOU are the most important asset in your business (and your life - duh!). Being a business owner is tough! With vulnerability and humor, we get to the real story behind their success and show you that you're not alone._____________________Find all our links to all the things like the socials, how to work with us and how to apply to be on the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/unforgetyourself

Achieving financial freedom and meeting long term savings goals like retirement can seem beyond reach. This is often because the concepts of personal finance and investing can seem mystifying, or that myths out there have you thinking that these goals are beyond reach. Misty Lynch, a Certified Financial Planner, has been helping people demystify the process and bust the myths that may be holding them back. Once I heard about her, I knew I had to have her on the show. Here is our discussion. In this episode you will learn: - Why having debt may be a good thing - Why it doesn't take money to make money - Why renting is sometimes better than owning - Why estate plans are for everyone

Being a small business owner may seem glamorous from the outside but, in reality, it's a lot more financially stressful than most people think. Owner of Sound View Financial Advisors, Misty Lynch, joins the show today to share wisdom and insight from her experience helping many small business owners to build up their finances and support system so they don't always HAVE to work. You can access the full show notes and more by visiting: https://www.forgewealth.com/

Welcome back to the NOB$ Wealth Podcast Minority CFP Series, where we delve into the journeys of minority Certified Financial Planners and their unique contributions to the financial industry. In this episode, we have the pleasure of welcoming Misty Lynch, CFP®, back to the show. Misty, a standout guest from our 12 Days of Giving series, shares her personal journey, the evolution of her business Soundview Financial Advisors, and her approach to financial planning that transcends traditional boundaries.Misty talks about her experience taking over Soundview Financial Advisors, a fee-only firm based in Walpole, Massachusetts, and how she's tailored it to serve a diverse clientele, including mid-career individuals with mixed income streams. She delves into the intricacies of acquiring a firm, the importance of maintaining a seamless client experience during transitions, and her philosophy on building a business rooted in community and connection.We also explore how Misty integrates life coaching techniques into her financial planning practice to address the underlying emotional and behavioral aspects of money management. By prioritizing genuine client relationships over asset accumulation, Misty is redefining what it means to be a financial advisor in today's ever-changing landscape.For more insights into Misty's innovative approach and how she's making waves as a minority CFP, tune in to this episode of the NOB$ Wealth Podcast Minority CFP Series. Discover how embracing change, fostering connections, and focusing on client well-being can lead to a thriving financial advisory practice.

Have you ever wondered if the hosts of financial advisor podcasts actually get new clients from it?  Is all the effort worth it?  And, by the way, do many of your prospects and clients seem to have limiting beliefs and mistaken assumptions about money? In this episode, Referral Coach Bill Cates and his guest Misty … Continue reading Episode #53 Using Financial Advisor Podcasts to Acquire Ideal Clients with Misty Lynch, CFP® →

Misty is a certified financial planner and certified life coach. Misty is an author, podcast and TV host who is on a mission to get relatable and useful financial information into the hands of more people (with less shame and industry jargon). She offers financial planning, investment management, and coaching services for women. Today - she is here to tell us what financial issues to address before and after divorce. AND I am your host, Marissa and I'm a happy go lucky ray of freaking sunshine. I'm also known on TikTok for being married and divorced twice before the age of 30. You know what they say… Sh*t happens. This season we will be talking about all things divorce. The good, the bad, and the ugly… bc divorce happens.  Be sure to follow the host Marissa on Instagram/TikTok @TheMarissaBaker and @SunHappensOfficial Lastly, make sure you never miss what happening by subscribing to Sun Happens Email list at www.sunhappens.net. & Remember, Sun Happens. When you can't find it, create it. 

Why do some people feel shame about money? Do you feel fear is blocking money and success from flowing to you? In today's interview, I'm joined by Misty Lynch, Owner, and CEO of Sound View Financial Advisors. We discuss what people get wrong about money and why you might be limiting yourself from living your dream life because of your money beliefs. Misty is passionate about her commitment to helping her clients handle their finances and lives with confidence. Today, she shares about the energetics of money, why your thoughts about money can keep you from feeling happy or successful, and how the "never enough" mindset can cause burnout and stress.  Connect with Misty over on:Free Chapter of Misty's book at https://soundviewfinancialadvisors.com/Book she is reading: The Paris Apartment by Lucy Foley_____________________________________________________________________For more of The Scenic Route, head to scenicroutepodcast.com for more free resources to help you build the life you want, regardless of what life throws at you. JOIN THE CONVERSATIONConnect with me over on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jenniferwalter_ch/ or TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@itsjenniferwalter Don't forget to sign up and receive your free Intuitive Branding Invitation email course, where you learn how to unlock the secrets to a captivating brand that is just so you and builds the foundation of your successful and sustainable business. SHOW SOME LOVEIf you found value in today's episode, I would appreciate it if you could leave a rating and review and help me share the message with more business owners who are ready to discover the scenic route!

My guest for this episode is Misty Lynch, US based owner and CEO of Sound View Financial Advisors, LLC. She is passionate in her commitment to help her clients handle their finances and lives with confidence. Misty hosts the unscripted reality show HEARTBROKE and the Demystifying Money podcast. She is also the author of DEMYSTIFYING MONEY and a personal finance expert and resource for media outlets including The New York Times, Cosmopolitan and CNN. She was also one of the Top 100 Financial Advisors in the US in 2021 and US News and World Report called her one of the 9 Women in Finance to follow' because sometimes you need life advice, not just financial advice'.Key TakeawaysHaving gone through her money experience growing up, Misty realised that money doesn't cause all of the problems or solve all the problems in the world. But it solves a lot of them.Learning how to manage money, learning how to use it, not be afraid of it nor ignore it can be incredibly powerful.Reevaluating and learning how to adapt your business is vital. In order to stay in business, continuous learning and evolving is key. Keep things simple when it comes to money and kids. Do not underestimate the influence you have right now to impact the lives of your children. Just a few small lessons can make a huge difference, but the habits they form will be key for really empowering their financial future.Seek the art of possible. Seek the evidence of others who have done it, and know that it is out there for you, If you choose it. If the evidence is there don't dismiss it, go and be curious.Always be mindful of your own mindset around money, your own mindset around growth, and development, and what you truly believe. When you do that, you have the greatest opportunity for success.Figure out how to measure your own success, don't measure it up against someone else's. It has to correspond with your way. Because if it doesn't meet what you want, and correspond with your way, then it's going to be out of alignment, you're not going to have that real, emotional connection to your goal.Connect with Misty LynchWebsite mistylynch.comLinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/mistylynchFacebook www.facebook.com/mistylynchcfp/Twitter www.twitter.com/mistylynchcfp/Instagram www.instagram.com/mistylynchcfp/Connect with MeFREE Resources www.themoneyconfidenceacademy.com/resources/My website www.themoneyconfidenceacademy.com/Join my Facebook Group www.facebook.com/groups/moneyconfidencecommunityFollow me on Instagram www.instagram.com/lesleythomascoaching/Connect with me on LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/lesley-thomas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

My guest for this episode is Misty Lynch, US based owner and CEO of Sound View Financial Advisors, LLC. She is passionate in her commitment to help her clients handle their finances and lives with confidence. Misty hosts the unscripted reality show HEARTBROKE and the Demystifying Money podcast. She is also the author of DEMYSTIFYING MONEY and a personal finance expert and resource for media outlets including The New York Times, Cosmopolitan and CNN. She was also one of the Top 100 Financial Advisors in the US in 2021 and US News and World Report called her one of the 9 Women in Finance to follow' because sometimes you need life advice, not just financial advice'.Key TakeawaysHaving gone through her money experience growing up, Misty realised that money doesn't cause all of the problems or solve all the problems in the world. But I still believe it solves a lot of them.Learning how to manage money, learning how to use it, not be afraid of it nor ignore it can be incredibly powerful.Reevaluating and learning how to adapt your business is vital. In order to stay in business, continuous learning and evolving is key. Keep things simple when it comes to money and kids. Do not underestimate the influence you have right now to impact the lives of your children. Just a few small lessons can make a huge difference, but the habits they form will be key for really empowering their financial future.Seek the art of possible. Seek the evidence of others who have done it, and know that it is out there for you, If you choose it. If the evidence is there don't dismiss it, go and be curious.Always be mindful of your own mindset around money, your own mindset around growth, and development, and what you truly believe. When you do that, you have the greatest opportunity for success.Figure out how to measure your own success, don't measure it up against someone else's. It has to correspond with your way. Because if it doesn't meet what you want, and correspond with your way, then it's going to be out of alignment, you're not going to have that real, emotional connection to your goal.Connect with Misty LynchWebsite mistylynch.comLinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/mistylynchFacebook www.facebook.com/mistylynchcfp/Twitter www.twitter.com/mistylynchcfp/Instagram www.instagram.com/mistylynchcfp/Connect with MeFREE Resources www.themoneyconfidenceacademy.com/resources/My website www.themoneyconfidenceacademy.com/Join my Facebook Group www.facebook.com/groups/moneyconfidencecommunityFollow me on Instagram www.instagram.com/lesleythomascoaching/Connect with me on LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/lesley-thomas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Misty Lynch, CFP® helps busy business owners and their families handle finances with confidence using investment management, financial planning and coaching strategies.    Misty hosts the realty TV series Heartbroke and the weekly podcast Demystifying Money. She is a personal finance expert and a resource for media outlets including The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, CNBC, CNN, Investopedia, Real Simple, Student Loan Hero and many others.   Investopedia named her one of the Top 100 Financial Advisors in 2021 and US News and World Report named her one of the 9 Women in Finance to Follow "because sometimes you need life advice, not just financial advice". 

In today's episode of Money Talkies we're speaking once again to Misty Lynch. Misty Lynch is a fee-only Certified Financial Planner and Certified Life Coach offering financial planning, investment management, and coaching services. She was named one of the Top 100 Financial Advisors in the US by Investopedia in 2020.  Misty is passionate in her commitment to help her clients handle their finances and lives with confidence. A fee-only fiduciary and independent financial advisor, Misty does not receive commission and is legally required by her certifications to provide unbiased and reputable financial advice. And today we're talking to Misty about how to evaluate investments. Let's find out! Connect with Misty here: Website: https://mistylynch.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mistylynch/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mistylynchcfp/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mistylynchcfp/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mistylynchcfp Demystifying Money Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/demystifying-money/id1527109827 Ready to rewrite your money story? Register to my Five Day Millionaire Mindset Makeover Workshop here: https://www.abundancemindsetmakeover.com/ Visit our website for more information: http://gullkhan.com/

Today we're on another episode of our Friday Feature where we talk with astounding entrepreneurs and their success stories. In today's episode we're speaking with Misty Lynch. Misty Lynch is a fee-only Certified Financial Planner and Certified Life Coach offering financial planning, investment management, and coaching services. She was named one of the Top 100 Financial Advisors in the US by Investopedia in 2020.  Misty is passionate in her commitment to help her clients handle their finances and lives with confidence. A fee-only fiduciary and independent financial advisor, Misty does not receive commission and is legally required by her certifications to provide unbiased and reputable financial advice. Let's speak to Misty and find out how she changed her life by changing her mindset. Let's find out! Connect with Misty here: Website: https://mistylynch.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mistylynch/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mistylynchcfp/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mistylynchcfp/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mistylynchcfp Demystifying Money Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/demystifying-money/id1527109827 Ready to rewrite your money story? Register to my Five Day Millionaire Mindset Makeover Workshop here: https://www.abundancemindsetmakeover.com/ Visit our website for more information: http://gullkhan.com/

Misty Lynch, CFP® helps high achieving women and families handle their finances with confidence using investment management, financial planning and coaching strategies. Misty hosts the weekly podcast Demystifying Money. She is a personal finance expert and a resource for media outlets including The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, CNBC, CNN, Investopedia, Real Simple, Student Loan Hero and many others. Investopedia named her one of the Top 100 Financial Advisors in 2021 and US News and World Report named her one of the 9 Women in Finance to Follow "because sometimes you need life advice, not just financial advice". https://mistylynch.com/ In this episode, we cover: -Where to start when you're trying to decide if you're going to leave your full-time job and go all in on your business -When & what to consider investing outside of your business -How to decide on the right type of investments for yourself and your family -How to train your brain to catch up with your goals Looking for a soul-led approach to planning out your Q1 of 2022?? Snag the FREE Quarterly Review & Planning Process here! Editor: Irene Gadingan Music: Happy Excited Intro 04 by TaigaSoundProd Link: https://filmmusic.io/song/6802-happy-excited-intro-04 License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/alignedandwealthy/message

Today I am sharing with you an interview that I did with a fellow podcaster Misty Lynch, from the “Demystifying Money” podcast. Misty, like me, is also a Certified Financial Planner. Join us as we combine the exciting, messy world of parenthood and finances into one awesome conversation. IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVER:Intro (00:00)First Child (3:56)Paid Family Plan (7:43)Tied Into Emotions (15:30)Spending & Trends (19:32)Health Insurance Plan (25:57)Personal Financial Goals (30:57)Where To Find Anna (32:49) MEET MISTY:Misty Lynch is a fee-only Certified Financial Planner™ and Certified Life Coach offering financial planning, investment management, and coaching services. She was named one of the top 100 Financial Advisors in the US by Investopedia in 2020.  Misty is passionate in her commitment to help her clients handle their finances and lives with confidence. A fee-only fiduciary and independent financial advisor, Misty does not receive commission and is legally required by her certifications to provide unbiased and reputable financial advice.When she isn't writing and educating about finances or helping you become your best self, she enjoys reading, learning and taking courses, making food her kids won't eat, petting all the dogs, 90's music, and one day, aspires to be on a game show. Misty lives with her husband and children in Walpole, MA. WHERE TO CONNECT WITH MISTY:FacebookWebsiteInstagramTwitterLinkedIn EPISODE SPONSORS:Money Flow System - Download Free Money Flow Playbook and start automating your finances. SUBSCRIBE & SHARE:Want to be the first to know when new episodes are released? Click here to follow me on Apple Podcasts! IT'S FREE! LET'S GET SOCIAL:Anna  on FacebookAnna on Instagram

Today on the podcast meet the fabulous Certified Financial Advisor, Misty Lynch! "I stopped trying to do things the way most 55+/Male Financial Advisors do and started being myself and helping the high-vibe clients I was drawn to."   Meet an amazing woman making waves in a very male dominated industry!  

Named as one of the top 100 Financial Advisors in the US by Investopedia in 2020, Misty Lynch is a Certified Financial Planner™ and Certified Life Coach. Misty is passionate in her commitment to helping her clients handle their finances and lives with confidence. Misty hosts the weekly podcast Demystifying Money. She is also a resource for various media outlets including The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, CNBC, CNN, Investopedia, Real Simple, and Student Loan Hero. In this episode, she shared how her 6th-grade competition introduced her to the stock market through becoming a Certified Financial Coach. Misty put emphasis on the value of investing not only in the stock market but on to one's self.Connect with Misty:Website:https://beckbode.com/Website: https://mistylynch.com/Twitter: https://twitter.com/mistylynchcfp/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mistylynch/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mistylynchcfp/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mistylynchcfp/

Common Money Mistakes Parents Make Common Money Mistakes Parents Make.  Misty Lynch, a financial advisor, gives tips for money management, preparing for the future, and teaching your kids a good money mindset.   Common Money Mistakes Parents Make Links in Episode

Points Discussed:What are the most important things women business owners need to implement:Financial side Separating personal and business financesKeeping a good accounting structureLegal side  Estate planningBusiness continuationLife insuranceABOUT OUR GUEST:Misty Lynch, CFP® helps high-achieving women and families handle their busy lives and finances with confidence for the betterment of their future.  Misty hosts the weekly podcast Demystifying Money. She is a personal finance expert and a resource for media outlets including The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, CNBC, CNN, Investopedia, Real Simple, Student Loan Hero and many others. Investopedia named her one of the Top 100 Financial Advisors in 2021 and US News and World Report named her one of the 9 Women in Finance to Follow "because sometimes you need life advice, not just financial advice".CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:Social Media:Facebook / Instagram /Twitter @mistylynchcfpLinkedinFREE GIFT FROM MISTY:5 Steps to Simplify Your Money EPISODE SPONSORS:Money Flow System - Download Free Money Flow Playbook and start automating your finances.  SUBSCRIBE & SHARE:Want to be the first to know when new episodes are released? Click here to subscribe in iTunes!  IT'S FREE! LET'S GET SOCIAL:Anna  on FacebookAnna on Instagram

Misty Lynch is a fee-only Certified Financial Planner™ and Certified Life Coach offering financial planning, investment management, and coaching services. Misty is passionate in her commitment to helping her clients handle their finances and lives with confidence. A fee-only fiduciary and independent financial advisor, Misty does not receive commission and is legally required by her certifications to provide unbiased and reputable financial advice.When she isn't writing and educating about finances or helping you become your best self, she enjoys reading, learning and taking courses, watch baking championship shows, making food her kids won't eat, petting all the dogs, 90's music, and one day, she wants to be on a game show. Misty lives with her husband and children in Walpole, MA.Connect with Misty here: https://mistylynch.com/

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We all know that money plays a major role in our lives, and yet so many us, especially women, don't have a good relationship with it. In a society that often discourages financial discussions, many of us struggle with our own money and don't know how to make the best financial choices. And that doesn't just impact us as individuals; it can also affect our relationships with others. How can women get a stronger handle on their money? We spoke with financial planner Misty Lynch to find out.Misty is a Certified Financial Planner who is passionate in her commitment to help her clients handle their finances with confidence. As she describes in our interview, she first became interested in finances when she was young. Seeing her own family's financial situation change impacted her, making her want to understand it better so as to maintain stability in her adulthood. But not all women have such a close relationship with money, and in fact, historically, most don't. As far back as we can look, men have tended to be the breadwinners and controlled virtually all financial decisions in a family. Beyond day-to-day budgeting, women have generally been excluded from all of that. And let's not forget, women couldn't even get credit cards without their husband's approval until the 1970s! That only the most recent generations of women have had the opportunity to control their finances has had significant impacts on women's relationship with money. Even today, many woman don't have the confidences or resources to manage their money well. Many of our attitudes comes from what we saw in our formative years, and they carry over into our adult lives. So how can women improve their perspectives and relationships with money? Misty explains that she's a big advocate for women learning more about money. Take classes, read about it, and work to become financially literate, and you will reap the benefits. Get Comfortable with Your MoneyEven with basic monetary knowledge, emotions can and do play into our financial choices. Misty discusses why that is in our interview. From FOMO and wanting to keep up with the Joneses to impulse buying when you're feeling low, it's imperative that you look at why you're making certain purchases or financial decisions. Another important fact to remember is that your finances don't exist in a vacuum. What is the best way to talk about money with your partner, friends, or family? Misty offers her advice here. One tip: get past the idea that talking about money is rude, because it's not! Indeed, having open and honest discussions are key to harmony, financial and otherwise. To end our podcast, Misty shares the the one thing she wants every woman to know about money and finances. But you'll have to watch or listen to find out what that is! To learn more about Misty Lynch and the financial advice she offers, be sure to visit her official website here.Support the show (https://p2q.link/donate)

This week on The 4Ms (# 017), I teamed up with Misty Lynch who is a certified financial planner, investment advisor, and certified life coach at Beck Bode, wife, and mom of two.In this episode (# 017 ), we talk about:- Misty's one year spending freeze where she had a one-click shopping habit that increased when she was up all night with her infant, busy with her job, and her 2 yr old.  She saw an article about a no spend month someone did and knew she could do it for a year. She decided she had enough and decided to try it, and wrote a blog about it.- Why it is so easy to spend money on some things and not on other things! Misty shares her thought on how we all have things we think are worth it, and things we think are ridiculous. We are quick to judge other people.  Think about what you love to spend money on and make room for that in your budget.- People  splurge, and call it self-care. But, it's not self care if it sabotages your budget. Self care does not have to be expensive.  Women tend to need to justify everything they do because we aren't usually comfortable with money or spending it on ourselves.  When I want a $15 glass of wine I buy it and don't feel the need to call it “self care." Women are allowed to want things.  Men do not do this.  Self care is managing your time, your money and your mind so you can handle life better.  - How to be more mindful with spending? Slow down, and make it a tiny bit harder - it has never been easier to spend money.  Look at what you are spending on, and think about what you want to focus on and spend accordingly.  People change and you may spend a lot on things you don't care about - that can be better used elsewhere.- Thoughts on prenuptial agreement for second marriage? Marriage is beautiful and romantic but it is also a business partnership. If you have assets that are yours and you want to protect them - in a first or second marriage you need to have this conversation.  Taxes, health insurance, retirement accounts, student loan payments etc. all become impacted when you change your marital status - if you can treat each other well before marriage with this stuff it will help the “partnership”.  Third parties can help if it is too awkward.To listen, head to my bio for the link, or search “The 4Ms with Molly” wherever you listen to podcasts.Sign up for Molly's weekly newsletter here!Schedule a free 30 minute nutrition consult with Molly here!Follow Molly on  Instagram here!Find Molly' website here!You can find our guest, Misty Lynch (she/her):https://www.facebook.com/mistylynchcfphttps://www.linkedin.com/in/mistylynch/https://www.instagram.com/mistylynchcfphttps://www.twitter.com/mistylynchcfphttps://mistylynch.com/Budget Checklist: https://mailchi.mp/b634e8c7e08f/mistybudgetchecklist

Madison & Misty dive deep on the real fears women have around investing and managing their money and how to get over those. Misty gives actionable tips to stop letting fear stop you from investing and how to get started. || About the Guest Expert ||Misty Lynch is a Certified Financial Planner™, Certified Life Coach and Financial Advisor at Beck Bode, LLC. She is also the host of the radio show and podcast Modern Money with Misty Lynch on Boston's WRKO AM680.  She helps people handle their money with confidence for the betterment of their life, family and business. Misty is also a personal finance expert and a resource for media outlets. She has been featured in The New York Times, CNBC, CNN, Investopedia, Business Insider, Real Simple, Student Loan Hero and many others. US News and World Report named her one of the 9 Women in Finance to Follow "because sometimes you need life advice, not just financial advice".|| Connect with Misty ||LinkedIn: @mistylynchFacebook: @mistylynchcfpInstagram: @mistylynchcfpTwitter: @mistylynchcfp|| Connect with Madison ||Instagram: @moneywithmadisonTwitter: @moneywmadisonBlog: moneywithmadison.comInvesting involves risk and possible loss of money. Do your own due diligence before investing. This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and should not take the place of professional tax, legal, or financial advice.

#MistyLynch is a Certified Financial Planner who provides financial planning and investment management services for women looking to elevate their wealth and create a stable future for themselves and their families. In Part 3 of the #MillionaireMindset series, Misty shares her tips on acquiring and keeping wealth.

In this episode Misty Lynch will be discussing what everyone should know about estate planning with Michelle Reed and Kendra O'Toole, the partners and co-founders of Legacy Legal Planning, LLC. They discuss some of the basic documents and situations they help clients with at different stages of their lives. Also discussed are common misconceptions about estate planning and how to approach difficult conversations in order to better protect and care for your loved ones.

In this episode host Misty Lynch discusses the current real estate market with guest Danielle O'Brien. As the owner of Parkway Real Estate in West Roxbury she has tips for anyone looking to buy or sell in a fast-paced market. People are spending a lot of time in their homes and this episode goes in depth about some of the features that can make your next home perfect for your unique situation.

Did you know the majority of women would rather talk about their own death than money? Misty Lynch , the money expert busts money myths in this episode. She talks about the relationship you should have with money, breaks down all the money terms such as stock, bond and investment, and shares how you can get more more easily and also what you should be doing as a single woman to prepare financially for marriage or what your relationship with money should look like as a married woman. Misty is a rockstar in this field and helps tons of very normal people make millions every year so we dive into that and the rituals the super wealthy have to keep up with their finances. Misty also answers my burning questions such as saving for a pension and how to work out how much of your income should be disposable but also navigating the current economic crisis and how to ease the blow. This is a golden episode and one that will actually give you the tools to help your wallet and money mindset. 

On today's episode of The F Word, Sheryl Hickerson is speaking with financial advisor and Director of Financial Planning, Misty Lynch, CFP®, of Beck Bode, LLC Misty Lynch is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™, Behavioral Financial Advisor, Certified Life/Business Coach and Financial Advisor at Beck Bode, LLC. She helps people handle their money with confidence for the betterment of their life, family and business. Misty is also a personal finance expert and a resource for media outlets. She has been featured in The New York Times, CNBC, CNN, Investopedia, Real Simple, Student Loan Hero and many others. US News and World Report named her one of the 9 Women in Finance to Follow "because sometimes you need life advice, not just financial advice". In today's chat we will discuss: - Financial Planning: Why Misty thinks mindset is the key to financial planning today and after COVID-19 - Financial Literacy: What is missing today when it comes to talking about money - Behavioral Finance: Be prepared for money and mindset chats after the quarantine Be sure to connect with Misty Lynch: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mistylynch/ Website: https://mistylynch.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mistylynchcfp Email: Misty.lynch@beckbode.com

Misty went on a year long spending freeze and how it changed her mindset around spending. Misty Lynch is a Certified Financial Planner™ and the founder of Relatable Wealth where she helps families and business owners manage their money better. The mission of Relatable Wealth is to share resources to help you handle your money with confidence both for the betterment of your family and your business. Misty lives with her husband and children in Walpole, MA. When she isn't writing and educating about finances, she enjoys reading, learning and taking courses, watch baking championship shows, making food her toddlers won't eat, petting all the dogs, 90's music, and one day, she wants to be on Jeopardy. Website: www.relatablewealth.com Email: Misty@relatablewealth.com Social Handles: @relatablewealth (Facebook & Twitter) @mistylynchcfp (IG) Resources mentioned in this episode: No Spend Challenge Printable (https://www.budgetsmadeeasy.com/no-spend-challenge/) Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl (https://amzn.to/2sQHwu9)(aff link) Full Transcript: Thanks Misty so much for being here. I am so excited to talk with you today. Great. Thank you for having me. So before we jump in, now I do want to talk about, we're going to talk about your year long shopping hiatus, but before we do that, cause I really excited to hear how in the world you did that for a whole year. Uh, but can you just kind of quickly tell us about yourself and what you do? Uh, sure. Um, so my name is Misty Lynch. I'm a certified financial planner and a behavioral financial advisor. Um, and I, I'm a blogger@relatablewealth.com and I created this blog really when I started to, um, decided I wanted to try to do a year long shopping ban and not buy any clothes, shoes or bags for the entire year. And I thought writing about it and telling everybody that I could about it, um, would help keep me accountable and it, and it definitely did. So that's, um, so that's just a little bit about me. I'm also, um, I have, you know, a five year old and a seven year old and, uh, live out in Massachusetts with my husband. Awesome. So this, so you decided not to buy any clothes, handbags, shoes, like was that primarily it and were, were there like other things in there? So for me, I, um, you know, I [inaudible] kind of notice that, you know, when I started to, you know, make more money and, you know, I, I, I always was just, I was just in a habit of buying things that, um, I didn't really even need or sometimes I would have clothes in my closet with tags on them. And it just started to, I wondered when I, you know, started developing these habits and it really, um, I think I came across an article about somebody who like, had stopped shopping for like two weeks. And in my head I was just like, I bet I have enough stuff here that I could do this for an entire year and be completely fine. And I really just wanted to see, you know, what was motivating me to, you know, spend on things that, you know, when I could be using my money [inaudible] for things that I cared about more or maybe [inaudible] um, starting a business or doing something different. So it really was more just like an experiment, I guess you could say. Um, to see if I could start to, you know, be more mindful about some of the, some of the things that I was, that I was doing just filling up my cart on Amazon and clicking and not even knowing what was coming in the mail. So I think I've talked to a lot of people that kind of, you know, are in similar habits. You know, two small kids. I was, you know, up at night nursing in the middle of the night and I would be shopping because my phone was right there. So it's something that's become really easy for people to do, but it could get a little bit out of control. And, and you know, when you wanted to, you know, when you want to stay out of debt and you want to do, um, you know, accomplish more with your money, um, sometimes there's some really tempting things out there that can, uh, can just keep you from achieving those goals. So it was really just an experiment to kind of see what triggered me to, you know, act a way and how I could, how I could go about changing it. So did you set out to do it for a whole year or was that just kind of like you just kept going? Nope, it was, it was, the goal was a new year's resolution really. I started on, on January 1st and, um, and then, you know, kind of in my first blog post that I posted that that first week of January was that this was my resolution for the year. And, um, and, but you know, that I would track my progress quarterly and then in the middle of, you know, um, as I was going throughout the year, I would kind of write things about, about money mindset, about, you know, about shopping, about Mmm. You know, business and family and other, other financial goals just to kind of, I didn't think anybody wanted to follow every week of yeah. I wanted to buy and didn't. Um, but yeah, it really was kind of the intention it was in the, to see if it could go an entire year and how, how it would change me afterwards. So what did you, so one, did you make it the whole year? I did. The only time that I got anything new was like on mother's day. But it was, it's interesting because when you just have like an instant gratification kind of world where you see something you like on someone else and you can just buy it, it really was different when it got to be like mother's day or my birthday. Like I had a list of things that I really wanted and I don't remember having anything like that since I was a kid. You know, like the things that you couldn't just go get. Um, and that, you know, like I really wanted a pair of slippers that I'd worn out completely. And I, and I waited til mother's day and when I got them I was so happy, like different, different kinds of happy than when you can just put them in your cart and get them tomorrow. Um, so it was interesting. So yeah, I did get a few new things, but those were really, um, those were like on my, on my birthday or mother's day. Um, and you know, occasionally if I got a gift card for, um, like a, a birthday present that I would be able to use that. But it was weird. I almost felt strange using it. Like it had to be so important that it couldn't just, I couldn't just ruin it on the first thing I saw. So those ended up sticking around in my wallet much longer than they usually do. Yeah. So how, how do you think that it kinda changed your mindset to do it for this long? Well, I think, you know, I had a job for a while where I was traveling and so I would be by myself in different cities and a lot of times I think like I would just go, I would just go shopping, um, to pass time. Um, but really what I was probably feeling was like lonely or bored, you know? And so, um, I, I kind of realized that it wasn't exactly a good pastime. You know, spending money is something you should do, um, with your front brain, you should do, you know, with some planning and some, you know, thinking ahead about it. And so, yeah, I really just, you know, started to, you know, if I felt like, you know, I always had a lot of books around, you know, so instead of feeling like, Oh, I have a couple hours to myself, I should go shopping, I would say I would kind of swap it with a different habit that I felt accomplished, a goal that I wanted to do, which was read more. And so it was just kind of noticing those moments where you felt like just kind of like compulsively like, Oh, I'm just going to go do this because I have time, or I'm by myself, or, um, you know, I'm on the West coast and my family's asleep. Who should I talk to? You can kind of, um, I could kind of notice more when I wanted to spend money or if I like didn't have a great day. Um, I would, you know, sometimes instead of, you know, you know, everybody has some, you know, usually we try to, to feel better. And so with, you know, having everything at our fingertips now you can go eat, you could go drink, you could go shop, you can do all of these things. And sometimes doing them just puts you back in that cycle of feeling worse afterwards, which leads to more of that same behavior. So it really was kind of setting up these roadblocks to say like, okay, this isn't something I do now. What will I, you know, what can I do if I don't have a great day at work? Okay. I can, you know, take the dog for a walk or I can, you know, I kind of had these back of things that were just easy go to [inaudible], um, ways to kind of snap out of whatever, you know, mindset or bad mood or anything that I was in to kind of just reset and get back to normal instead of doing something that I wanted to, you know, to stop doing. I also started to sell some of my things that I had, like the bags and the clothes that I'd acquired and held onto for 10 years that I had no interest in anymore. Um, [inaudible] got a lot at, got rid of a lot of suits that could go to women who were looking for jobs or maybe wanted, you know, needed to get something either secondhand or donated to, you know, go get their first interview when they were just hanging in my closet and the addicts. So I kind of felt good giving things away more. It almost felt as good as getting things, um, possibly better. Um, and so that was kind of an interesting thing to say. Like, I don't even need more stuff. Could also get rid of stuff at the same time. [inaudible] so what are some things that you did to kind of make it easier for you so you weren't so tempted, you know, like emails and just, you know, all advertisements and things like that, especially for a whole year. I'm sure as you built the habit and stuff it got easier and easier, um, for at certain times anyway. But I'm sure you still had your weak moments. Yeah, no, I'm, one of the first things I did was I unsubscribed to probably over a hundred different emails that were coming to me from retailers. And, um, sometimes you'd have to unsubscribe several times in places because really when you're looking at, you know, like I, um, you know, when I was up late with my, with my babies when they were, when they were really small, I mean, there would just be so many things. Every time you scroll through a newsfeed, there's advertisements and things that are basically just tailored to you, what you're looking for. So I spent a lot less time, um, following different stores are things that I liked. I unsubscribed to all the emails and then eventually my feet stopped showing those things. I did start seeing more of people like that I found inspiring. Like some, you know, I, I just kind of changed everything I was looking at. And eventually your, you know, everything that's tracking your, every move online starts picking up the things that you like. I really just tried to yeah. Know, limit how much I was seeing because yeah, it's tough when you see like, you know, Oh, this the sales going on or you have, um, [inaudible] you know, there's, all these new things are coming out for the season. And my husband actually did most of the, he likes, he likes to shop and he's good at it. So he, um, he did a lot of the shopping for the kids. Mmm. You know, because they obviously needed new things throughout the year because they were growing. And, um, I just, you know, if I went into the store to get stuff, I would just go straight to the kids section and find what I needed and walk out without even trying to, to look around to see if there was anything nice. Sometimes I would see some, like, um, you know, if, if we went into a store and there was like the mannequins or anything, I would start thinking, what do I have that's like that? Could I make that outfit based on stuff that I have in my closet? Um, because, you know, I still had things to do and wanted to look nice and I, um, that kind of wasn't interesting way to rethink, I need that, I want to buy that right now. It was, okay, do I have anything close to that? Or like, could I put an outfit together like that? And, um, I'm not necessarily good at putting outfits together. And so maybe I would see stuff like that and be like, you know what, I think I could do that. Or, um, let me go back and look at what I have because we tend to just pile up stuff and if it's in a basket under your bed or up in the attic, you're not going to remember it. You're really just going to see the stuff that's right there. So almost, you know, getting rid of some of the stuff that you really don't want anymore and then trying to be a little more creative with what you had. I mean, it kind of made things a little bit more interesting. And I did, I did try to wear different outfits, probably more so than normal where I just had my GoTo things or would buy something new every time I had plans. Wow. Excuse me. Um, so how much money do you think that you've saved that year? So I was looking back at my, um, I do track all of my, um, my spending, um, with the planning software that I use. Um, the clients and I, it looked like I had spent about, I think it was, I'd have to look, but it was probably like $5,000 that I had normally spent. Just on random shopping for myself throughout the year, which is, you know, it ends up being quite a bit, you know, if you're spending like, you know, a couple hundred dollars a month or you know, maybe one month you have more. Um, and that to me was just, um, you know, it was, it was too much based on what I actually needed. So I would say that I probably saved that much, you know, just thinking back about it. Um, because I really wasn't paying attention. Um, and so it might not seem it, you know, when you make your budget, and I know you help people with budgeting too, it's really easy to remember like the mortgage and the groceries, but people forget all those little things that they pick up, you know, when they spend $50 at target, um, on a Saturday, that might not be added into their line items when they have that budget in their head. But those, those dollars definitely add up and are, are worth tracking. So, um, it is really important to be kind of mindful about all of that spending. And then, you know, if you do say like, okay, I'm going to spend $200 and I'm going to get a pair of, you know, a new jacket because I need one, or, um, I need a pair of shoes. You know, it's very different when you plan ahead and go into a store to find exactly what you need instead of just waiting for, you know, for like target to tell you what you need. That leads to a lot of, a lot of impulse buying and spending where you're like, why did I even do that? But then you usually move on. But now whenever you were finished with this, cause you did this last year, right? In 2018. Yeah. Um, so how did, how has your shopping changed since, I mean you're technically not doing this challenge, you know, once you were done and you could spend, how did you handle that? Yeah, so I think there was definitely some things that needed to be replaced. I think my, my workout clothes were probably the most, they were in the worst shape. Um, and I think there was a pair of sweat pants and my husband was like out. And I think I had a, like a Yukon sweatshirt that I still, I still hold onto even though it is falling apart. Um, but yeah, so there was some things that I said like, okay, I'm going to, you know, I'm going to try to find, you know, a few more pairs of workout pants, but I would do it very mindfully. So like if I wanted to go to a store like old Navy, I would no what I wanted. I would look on my phone for coupons or deals before I went. So I would do all of these things that make you think so when you plan ahead, it's very, it's, it's easier than getting, you know, sucked away and doing something, you know, that you never intended to do. So I would almost have like lists of that I wanted, I would know which coupon code or whatever I wanted to use. Um, sometimes I would buy it online if that just kept it easier. Um, but a lot of times I would still go to a store cause that's another hurdle to actually have to get up, get dressed, go where you need to go look at it and decide that that's something you want. Um, and I would kind of stick to it. Um, I don't, um, I still see some things that I, you know, that I like on other people, you know, but I have to, I've started to be better at realizing like sometimes it's just okay to see somebody look really nice and tell them that I love those boots or I love your dress and move on because that's what I had done the whole last year. It didn't mean I have to have that or me at five foot two would look anything like the person that I might've seen wearing a pair of skinny jeans with a perfectly, they're like look completely different on me. So I kind of, you know, spent a little bit more like less time feeling like that envious or that kind of, you know, Oh I have to go do that thing or look that way. And kind of tried to figure out what looks best on me and, and stop buying things that maybe I just liked on other people. Yeah. So that I would wear it more or that I would actually use it. So yeah. So I kind of just have very, like when I, when I do shop, it's usually I still like, you know, if I have a gift card that that's kind of fun to spend it, but I'm just a little bit more, you know, Mmm. Clear on what I actually really need and what I, I know what I have now, which is much better to actually know what, what your little inventory is. And I do, um, I do like consignment. Um, I do give, you know, sell a lot of clothes at a consignment store that opened recently. And I do, um, I kind of have read a little bit about like fast fashion and like its impact on the planet, um, and all of the clothes that are really meant to be worn for one season and just end up in landfills. And, and I really kind of started thinking about that too, cause that that helped me, you know, reading things of course that kind of support some of your, your goals and opinions. And that made me think about how much we're actually buying and consuming that right. Maybe we could get secondhand or we could, um, give away some of our stuff when we need to and give it to other people. So that kind of helped me think about like, okay, do I really need to buy one more thing or am I good? Like do I have enough shoes or could I, could I wear something different? Um, and that, that kind of, um, with some of those, those triggers and thinking about what else I could do instead. So if somebody listening is wanting to do a no spin challenge, you know, cause I really advocate for that for just, you know, resetting your shopping habits and just trying to rein in your budget and things like that. Maybe not necessarily for a whole year, which is no, not a bad idea at all. If you really want to make some good progress. But let's say a long time. So even if they're wanting to just do two weeks or a month or something like that, what kind of tips would you give them to kind of help make it easier for them? Yeah, so I think, you know, and I, not everybody's a writer, but you don't, you don't have to be. But I do think if you, if you write down what your goals are, um, I think that that could be helpful. Um, you know, I told plenty of people what I was doing. Nobody necessarily wanted to join me, blame them, but I told them, you know, what I was doing and why. And sometimes even just saying things like that, um, will make, like, even if you say, I'm going to go to the gym in the morning and you told one more person who's planning to see you there, you're more likely to go. Um, you know, so I think that that was something I did. Um, and I, I told people what I was doing, I did use journaling and stuff as a, you know, I, I did start writing down certain things, you know, that if you're trying to give up something, you know, start your morning writing down some things that you have already in that you're grateful for it, it'll kind of make you feel a little bit less, um, just a little bit better. You know, I think it's just a good way to kind of start your day with like a good mindset, especially if you're trying to give something up or say you're going on a diet or doing a cleanse or trying to stop drinking for a month, you know, anything like that. If you, if you start by thinking about like all of the things you want to accomplish during the day and some of the great things that you've already got going on, um, it just makes it easier because you're already in a good space. And then I think like tracking the budgeting was, was good. I, um, I saw, you know, my savings increased. I was able to, you know, to, to see a positive, you know, throughout the year, you know, positive growth. So even if you just wanted to stop spending, um, you know, maybe you feel like you're, you're spending too much or you want to spend less on takeout and you more at restaurant starts put that money that you would normally have used and either put it in a savings account or even if it's just for a week or a month, you could put it like in a jar in your house, you know, and that, that helps to kind of show progress. And then it's like, okay, well if I was normally spending, you know, $5 a day on, you know, on lunch and I stopped doing that, you know, by the end of the month you might be like, okay, I can actually, like I could start an investment account with this, with this money, I could do a lot of different things. And so I think that that's kind of Mmm important. And if you know what you're like, one of the things that I do sometimes with, with clients that are kind of like feeling like they're not acquiring any, any wealth or they feel like they make good money and they don't know where it goes, it's really good to kind of narrow down what yeah, real values are. So I was spending all this money on shopping, but that's not one of my top five values in my life. That's not my family. That's not education, that's not independence or you know, entrepreneurs. It's none of those things. And so when I stopped spending money in different areas that if I couldn't ask myself like, does this support, you know, the things that I care about, um, and if the answer was no, then it was easy to change my mind. Where, you know, if buying a course online was helping me do better in my business or with my writing, that was very easy for me to say. Like, yes, I can. This makes me feel good. I do, I won't regret this purchase. Even if you know, you know, just adding to like some education or I learned something. And so kind of like knowing what you really, really want to do and care about and then making sure that your money supports that most of the time can make it a lot easier to kind of accomplish those bigger goals. And, and even if you just said, okay, if you set a goal to, you know, stop spending for a month after that month, it might be a lot easier to be like, okay, wow, I don't miss it or look what I accomplished and I could kind of keep going. Like definitely like unsubscribing to some of those emails can definitely, it's really like, it's really overwhelming. We see so many ads every day, um, that it's, it's almost like getting to be too noisy. Where I like every other thing is a sponsored ad or a post and it's like, Oh, this is really just a sales tool. It's not necessarily like, you know, connecting me or seeing pictures of families and friends. It's usually some sort of sales. So just to be kind of mindful of that and aware of it instead of feeling like, wow, how did they know that I needed this? Yeah, exactly. I only thought that, how do they know? How are they here? Like are they in my, in my head, in my computer and um, yeah, just trying to, if you can, you know, block out some of that noise and focus on more of the things that really light you up. Yeah. That's great. So what do you think was the biggest thing that you've learned from this experience? Um, I think biggest thing that I learned was like actually spending some time on my, you know, my [inaudible] looking at like what my thoughts and feelings were. Because a lot of times I would go straight from something happening to reacting. Like I had a bad day or I'm lonely in this town and I, you know, I don't travel home until, you know, two days from now, instead of thinking, okay, how does that make me feel? Is this the right role for me? What should I do? You know, I would just go shop. So instead of going straight from this circumstance, which is real, like I'm in a different city or I had a difficult, or I'm tired and thinking about, you know, doing something to correct it, I would jump straight to, all right, I'm going to do something that'll make me feel better right away. And I think that's how any habit, any, any behavior happens is just repeating it several times and then eventually you don't even notice you're doing it. So I do spend a lot more time writing down, you know, things that I'm, I'm thinking and feeling and then like how could I think about this or feel about this a different way. And like I know you talk to people who are in a lot of debt and I talked to people too that say I have $100,000 worth of debt. I feel so terrible. I, I hate my thought. You know, I'm feel so guilty. But it's like, it's just a fact that you owe, this is not in money. Like you can change your thoughts, you can change your feelings and have a different action, a different, a different response to the situation and then the results changed. So, you know, I think that that's kind of something that this whole process has helped me with to kind of think about things well in a lot more depth and then respond in a way that's helpful to me or to my family instead of just feeling a certain way about money because money's difficult and it's not something we're all trained to, to do well with or to understand. And so I think we see it as a very emotional thing when it's really just dollars and you can have a plan to do different things with your money, whether it's get out of debt or save money to start a business or to send someone to school or retire. It's really just, we put the emotion behind it. So that's something that we can kind of control. That's, that's very true. That's a really good point. Um, so just to kind of wrap up here, I do love to ask people what their favorite nonfiction book is. You know, just self-improvement and working on yourself, just like you did with, uh, you know, not shopping as much or not shopping for a whole year and you know, the things that you learned along the way. So, um, what is one of your favorite novels? Fiction books? You know, I picked up a book this summer and, um, and I was in Cape Cod visiting my mother-in-law and, um, it's called man's search for meaning by Viktor Frankl. [inaudible]. It's an interesting nonfiction, very short read, but he survived concentration camp and he was, um, he was a psychiatrist when he went in and just reading about the way that he used his brains who help him survive, like the worst situation possible and the way he helped other people survive. And what happened when he saw people who gave up or who, you know, who were just dealing with things in a different way. So, um, it's something that I think anybody could read and, um, you know, it's, it's been around for, for a long time, but that's probably one of those books that like when you feel a little bit out of control or maybe a little bit lost, like it's, it's super fascinating and like very inspiring to just see how, you know, you know, decades later in different situations that whatever's going on in the world, like we all have this very powerful tool right inside our own heads that, um, maybe we could all use a little bit differently. Um, and just to, to get through, you know, difficult times. Yeah. I'll have to add that to the list. I've got a whole list growing now since [inaudible]. I mean, it's, it's, it's a quick read. It's less than a hundred. It's less than 200 pages. Oh, okay. A tiny book that you could sit in your, in your purse. Um, it just, you know, it's just fascinating. I like hearing stories about people, you know, and they're, and what motivates them and inspires them. And this was, this was one that I think probably is inspired a lot of, a lot of writers, a lot of the, you know, the, um, Adam grants and assignments and acts like the people, the big thinkers that we see now, like have, you know, kind of cited. This book is one that kind of changed their whole opinion on everything. Wow. And it's nice that it's a quick read. Yeah, no, I know. Those are great too, especially if you like to go back and reread things or you just like to have them, you know, a little coffee stash away somewhere, but quick one, but it's good. Good. Um, and where can people find you? Sure. Okay. So, um, my website is relatable, wealth.com and you can also find me on [inaudible] Twitter at relatable well and Facebook at relatable wealth and on Instagram at Misty Lynch CFP. Awesome. Thank you so much for joining me today and I look forward to talking to you soon. Great. Thank you so much for having me. Thanks. Special Guest: Misty Lynch.