Resilient Souls

Ashley Mielke is a psychologist, grief coach, and woman of deep faith. But long before any of that, she was a young girl navigating the quiet ache of having a father who was facing his own struggles—and learning to stay strong in ways no child should have to.In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Ashley shares her personal story of growing up with a parent who struggled with addiction, the complex emotions that came with that, and the eventual loss of her dad to suicide. It's a raw, tender, and deeply relatable account of the kind of grief that often starts early in life—before we even realise we're grieving.This episode is for anyone who's ever tried to stay strong for others, wondered why certain wounds never quite heal, or carried silent sadness into adulthood.In this episode, you'll discover:How grief can begin long before a death or major lossWhy perfectionism and people-pleasing often mask deeper painThe impact of growing up with a parent working through their own deep emotional needsWhy we sometimes need to ‘unbecome' in order to properly begin the healing journey How her father's death changed everything—and awakened a callingThe role of faith in finding comfort, calling, and peaceRelevant Links from the Episode:Ashley Mielke is a Registered Psychologist, grief coach, and founder of Ashley Mielke Coaching. She uses her lived experience and professional training to support others through deep personal loss and emotional healing.Follow Ashley on Instagram: @ashleymielkecoachingWebsites:AshleyMielkeCoaching.com (website coming soon!)HealMyHeart.caGrief Recovery MethodExplore More from Resilient Souls:Resilient Souls WebsiteResilient Souls Podcast or search ‘Resilient Souls' wherever you get your podcastsResilient Souls Blog on SubstackStewart's Book Follow Resilient Souls on:Facebook InstagramLinkedInGet Involved or Reach Out:Join the CommunityBook Stewart to SpeakSupport the WorkContact UsNeed Help? In Australia. Overseas

Bec Riley always dreamed of becoming a mum. But when infertility shattered those dreams, she and her husband began a long and lonely IVF journey filled with heartbreak, disappointment, and unexpected complications. In this honest and deeply personal conversation, Bec reflects on the emotional and physical toll of IVF, the loneliness that often comes with it, and how her faith evolved along the way.Eventually, a path she hadn't planned—adoption and later embryo adoption—brought deep joy and began a healing journey in her life. This is a story of raw emotion, spiritual depth, and hard-won hope for anyone facing detours, delays, or heartbreak in their own story.In this episode, you'll discover:Why infertility is often an invisible and misunderstood grief.How Bec stayed anchored in her faith even when God didn't answer her prayers as expected.What it looked like to stop hoping ‘in the thing' and start hoping ‘in God'.The beauty and complexity of both inter-country adoption and embryo adoption.Why being present and silent might be the best support you can give someone walking this road.How to find light and take the next step when life feels too heavy.Bec's gentle encouragement for those feeling like there's no way forward.Relevant Links from the Episode:Follow Bec on Instagram: @becjrileyLearn more about her church: @rivieracc_Bec's recommended reading:The Common Thread by Catherine SylvesterPraying Through Infertility by Sheridan VoyseyHe Remembers the Barren by Katie SchuermannLinks to:The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Links to Resilient Souls Socials:⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠)Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign upto keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠)Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠)Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Sam Hearn returns to share how the pain and trauma of his early life became the foundation for a life of empathy, purpose, and service.Picking up where we left off in Part 1, Sam reflects on key turning points—his decision to choose healing over bitterness, the slow and redemptive restoration of his relationship with his father, and how his lived experience now fuels his work supporting others through trauma and disconnection.Whether you're a parent, teacher, youth leader, or someone who simply wants to be present for others, Sam's story will leave you encouraged, grounded, and ready to make a difference.In this episode, you'll discover:How Sam's relationship with his father was restored after years of painWhat helped him choose healing instead of bitternessThe power of safe, consistent adults in a young person's worldWhat trauma-informed care looks like in everyday relationshipsHow small acts of noticing and encouragement can change a child's pathWhy resilience grows best in community—not in isolationHow to support others without needing to 'fix' them... and much more!Links to:The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials:⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠)Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠ Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠)Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠)Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this powerful first part of a two-part conversation, Stewart sits down with Sam Hearn—a community leader and pastor whose deep compassion for others is rooted in his own lived experience. In Part 1, Sam shares openly about his upbringing, including poverty, generational trauma, family violence, and mental health struggles. Despite these hardships, Sam's story is filled with moments of beauty, hope, and a growing awareness of God's presence, even in the mess.This episode explores the formative impact of trauma in childhood, how faith can evolve through pain, and what it looks like to begin a journey of healing. In Part 2 (coming next ), Sam will share how his story shaped his passion for helping others and how he now walks alongside people facing similar pain.In this episode, you'll discover:How childhood poverty and family dysfunction shaped Sam's early lifeThe lasting impact of generational trauma and mental health strugglesHow a child's view of faith is shaped by their home environment The tension of experiencing both love and fear in a family settingWhy moments of beauty and connection can anchor hopeHow Sam began to make sense of his story and begin the healing journey…and much moreLinks to:The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Links to Resilient Souls Socials:⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠)Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠)Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠)Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this powerful follow-up to our conversation with their mother, Belinda Peters, Stewart sits down with Matt, Josh, and Ben Peters—three brothers who grew up as their father battled early onset dementia, leaving their mother to take on far more responsibility as a parent, carer, and wife than she had ever expected. After hearing Belinda's story of faith and strength as a parent, this episode offers a moving and deeply insightful perspective from the children navigating that same storm.Matt, Josh, and Ben open up about the impact of their father's illness on their upbringing, the quiet strength they witnessed in their mother, how their faith helped them find resilience amidst the pain, and what it was like to lose a parent at such a young age. They reflect on the role of their church community, the importance of showing up for others, and why it's possible to emerge from hardship with both hope and purpose.Their story highlights the power of vulnerability, the value of ongoing support, and the strength that comes from holding onto faith and hope through life's hardest moments.In this episode, you'll discover:What it's like to grow up with a parent facing a deteriorating illness and ultimately death.How a parent's faith and intentionality can provide stability and hope.The importance of showing up for others—even when you don't know what to say.Why having a strong community around you matters for young people.How each brother found purpose in helping others through their own experiences.Practical insights for parents and youth leaders supporting young people through trauma.…and much moreLinks to:The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠Links to Resilient Souls Socials:Facebook⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠)Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠)Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠)Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠Helpsection⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this heartfelt episode, Belinda Peters shares her deeply personal journey of navigating her husband's early onset dementia diagnosis while raising their three young sons. As she faced uncertainty, loss, and overwhelming responsibility, Belinda leaned on faith, community, and practical wisdom to sustain herself and her family.She opens up about the challenges of parenting through grief, the importance of clear communication with her support network, and how small moments of joy helped her find resilience in the storm. Her story is a testament to the power of perseverance, trust, and choosing to embrace life even in the hardest seasons.Whether you're walking through grief, supporting a loved one, or seeking wisdom on parenting through life's toughest seasons, this episode offers hope, practical insights, and encouragement for the journey.In this episode, you'll discover: The emotional and practical realities of parenting while navigating grief How Belinda found strength in faith and community during seasons of loss The role of faith in building resilience through uncertainty The power of small momentsof joy in the midst of hardship Why guiding those around you on how to help can make all the difference The importance of listening to children and respecting their unique grief journey.... and much more!Links to:The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials:Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠)Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠)Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠)Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this insightful episode, Stewart sits down with Natasha Rae, a psychologist with her own lived experience of trauma. Natasha opens up about growing up in a dysfunctional family and the profound impact it had on her mental health. She discusses the importance of having a strong support system and finding meaning and purpose in life, even in the face of adversity.Natasha introduces the concept of positive psychology and explains the PERMA model, which focuses on cultivating positive emotions, engagement, relationships, meaning, and accomplishments. She emphasizes that despite experiencing trauma, it's possible not only to survive but to thrive and live a fulfilling life.The conversation also delves into the concept of ‘mattering' Natasha explains this as the glue that connects us to others. She explores how feeling like we matter to someone, and helping others feel the same, fosters a sense of belonging and connection. She sheds light on the societal issue of the lack of significant adults in children's lives, which can lead to feelings of insignificance.Whether you're on your own healing journey or seeking to support others, this episode offers wisdom on building resilience, embracing growth, and finding meaningful relationships that contribute to healing.In this episode, you'll discover:The significance of having asupport system and finding meaning in life after trauma.Insights intopositive psychology and thePERMA model: positive emotions, engagement, relationships, meaning, and accomplishments.How trauma is a deeply personal experience and there'sno one-size-fits-all approach to working through it.The power of ‘mattering' in building connection and belonging.Why thelack of significant adults in children's lives is a societal issue and how it impacts development.Howcommunity andmeaningful relationships contribute to resilience and growth.… and much moreLinks from the Episode:Information about Positive Psychology and the P.E.R.M.A. model - linkLinks to:The Resilient Souls⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠Get hold of Stewart's⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠The Resilient Souls⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials:Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠SubstackBook Stewart to speak (Click⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠)Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠)Contact Us: (Click⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠)Links to getting help (locally and overseas):⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this heartfelt and deeply personal episode, Doug Miller shares his journey as a husband, father, and caregiver in the wake of his wife, Barb's, life-changing accident in Malawi. With raw honesty, Doug recounts the fear and uncertainty of the day everything changed and reflects on his role in supporting his wife and children through the aftermath. Doug opens up about the challenges of balancing his own emotions while being a steady presence for his family. He shares how his faith, prayer, and the support of his community sustained him during this incredibly difficult season. His story offers profound insights into the power of trust, surrender, and resilience in the face of life's hardest moments. Whether you're a caregiver, a spouse, or someone seeking hope and strength in challenging times, Doug's reflections provide wisdom, encouragement, and practical guidance. In this episode, you'll discover: How Doug navigated the fear and uncertainty of his wife's accident. The role of faith and prayer in building resilience through trials. Practical ways to support children emotionally during family crises. How faith and theology shaped Doug's perspective and response to suffering. The significance of building habits of surrender before life's trials. How community support can provide strength and connection during difficult times. Lessons on finding hope and purpose amidst life's unexpected turns. …and much more Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠  Links to Resilient Souls Socials: Facebook⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠ Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this inspiring episode, Barb Miller, a retired missionary, shares her extraordinary story of resilience and faith after a devastating accident in Malawi. During a bike ride with her daughter, Barb fell from a bridge into a ravine, resulting in paralysis from the chest down. Despite this life-changing event, Barb and her family chose to stay in Malawi, embracing their new reality with faith, creativity, and determination. Barb reflects on the emotional and spiritual challenges she faced, the strength she found in her faith, and the unwavering support of her family and community. Her story is a testament to the power of resilience, surrender, and trust in God amidst life's most difficult moments. Whether you're navigating your own challenges or seeking ways to support others, Barb's story offers hope, wisdom, and practical encouragement. In this episode, you'll discover: How Barb navigated the physical and emotional impact of her injury. Practical ways to adapt and rebuild life after unexpected adversity. The power of community support in overcoming challenges. How surrendering struggles to God can bring peace and resilience. The power of embracing life's challenges as opportunities for growth. The importance of developing habits of reliance on God before trials arise. …and much more Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials: Facebook⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠ Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this episode, Ken Roberts shares his journey through personal trauma and loss, revealing how he has experienced a transformation of his pain into a calling to help others without minimising what he and his family went through. Drawing from his extensive experience as a leader, author, and coach, Ken emphasizes the power of embracing your story as a tool for personal growth and healing. Stewart and Ken's conversation explores the vital role organizations like Nothing Is Wasted and Resilient Souls play in equipping people with resources to encourage, support, and practically guide them through trauma—or to better support others as they navigate their pain. Ken also challenges churches to become 'safe and skilled' communities of support, offering insights into how awareness, intentionality, and partnerships can make a profound difference for those in pain. In this episode you will discover: The importance of embracing your story as a step toward personal growth and healing. Why churches and communities need to become 'safe and skilled' environments to effectively support people through loss and trauma. How engaging with resources like those from Nothing Is Wasted can provide practical strategies—such as courses, coaching, and community groups—to guide individuals through challenging times. The potential for churches to serve as transformative spaces for healing when they are intentional and well-equipped. How you can deepen your faith, intimacy, and maturity with Jesus, even in the midst of pain. The incredible ways God can redeem your story and use your pain for a greater purpose. The value of partnerships and collaborations in offering meaningful resources and support to those navigating loss. … and more! Links from the Episode: For more information or resources go to Ken's website For information on Nothing is Wasted visit their website Links related to Resilient Souls and Stewart: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials: ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) SIGN UP to the Resilient Souls Community (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this deeply personal and insightful episode, Stewart continues his previous conversation with his daughter, Ashley Biddick, a psychologist navigating her own firsthand experience of trauma and grief. Ashley reflects on the ongoing journey through immense loss following the death of her husband, Jake. Drawing from her personal experience and professional insights, Ashley delves into the physical, emotional, social, and spiritual challenges that grief can bring. She shares, with raw honesty, the pain of rebuilding a life she never expected and the steps she's taking to find glimmers of hope along the way. Whether you're navigating your own journey through grief or seeking to support a loved one, Ashley's story offers an authentic picture of resilience in the storm. She highlights the difficulty of finding meaningful support and the beauty of discovering light in the darkness. In this episode, you'll discover: How grief and trauma can manifest physically in the body The overwhelming emotions that come with rebuilding life after loss The impact of loss on identity and well-being and the challenges of redefining ‘home' The power of connections—both old and new—in the healing process. That there will be ‘glimmers' of hope—small moments of joy and peace amidst pain. …and much more Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials: ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠ Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this powerful episode, Jon Owen, a compassionate leader dedicated to building community with those in vulnerable situations, shares from his experience and the insights and wisdom he has gained from years of serving others. Jon opens up about his own journey and offers practical guidance for anyone going through tough times or supporting others facing adversity. Through his work with the Wayside Chapel community, Jon has learned invaluable lessons about the importance of not defining people by their struggles, the transformative power of presence, and the role of empathy in supporting people in difficult times. Together, Stewart and Jon discuss how to face struggles with courage, seek God in the midst of pain, and hold onto hope even in life's darkest moments. In this episode, you'll discover: Practical ways to offer genuine support to others without minimizing their pain. How embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper, more meaningful connections. Insights on building resilience and sustaining hope in challenging times. The importance of being fully present with others in their struggles. How faith and community can be anchors in times of despair. Simple actions you can take to create a compassionate, inclusive environment. Why defining people by their strengths—not their struggles—can be transformative. ... and much more. Links from the Episode ⁠Wayside Chapel ⁠ ⁠UNOH⁠ Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠) Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠ Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠) Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website.

In this conversation, Stewart interviews Shirli Congoo about death, grief, and a cultural context of her experiences in her community. Shirli shares her personal experiences of losing loved ones, including four brothers and a nephew, and how these losses have impacted her at various ages and stages in her life. She discusses the cultural obligations and responsibilities that come with death in First nations communities, including supporting the grieving family and doing very practical things to share the load. Shirli also talks about the importance of the kinship system and the ongoing support provided by the community. She emphasises the joy and fulfilment that comes from helping others and the role of faith in her journey. In this conversation, Shirli shares her experiences as an Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Christian and how she navigates the intersection of her culture and faith. Shirli also discusses the challenges of grief and the need to include and support young children and teenagers in the grieving process. She highlights the significance of creating ceremonies and involving kids in the healing journey. Shirli's story and her wisdom offers valuable insights into supporting others through difficult times. In this episode, you will discover: That death and grief are sadly all too common experiences in First Nations communities, and there are complex historical issues that contribute to the prevalence of these traumas. How cultural obligations and responsibilities play a significant role in supporting the grieving family and community members. The kinship system is an important aspect of First Nations communities and provides clarity of roles, support and care during times of loss and grief. Supporting others and contributing to the community can bring a sense of joy and fulfilment. Faith can provide strength and an anchor during difficult times. Creating ceremonies and involving kids in the healing journey can be transformative. Setting healthy boundaries is important for self-care and maintaining emotional well-being. ... and much more. Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠) Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠ Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠) Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website NB For special contacts here in Australia related to suicide and First Nations support services    ⁠Lifeline⁠ - call 13 11 14 Mental Health Triage Service - call 13 14 65 ⁠Beyond Blue⁠ ⁠Suicide Call Back Service⁠ - call 1300 659 467 ⁠13YARN⁠ - Aboriginal and Torres Strait Support line

Jay Hewitt, a pastor, speaker, author, and Ironman competitor, shares his remarkable journey of resilience and faith after being diagnosed with terminal brain cancer. Rather than succumbing to despair, Jay set himself a seemingly impossible goal—to complete an Ironman triathlon while undergoing cancer treatment. He dedicated this feat to his young daughter, hoping to show her that if he could face tough challenges, she could too. Jay chose to compete in an Ironman as a personal testament to a lesson the Lord had taught him: that true strength is found in weakness. Through his story, Jay reflects on the power of vulnerability, gratitude, and the strength found in community support. He also challenges the common belief that "everything happens for a reason," instead focusing on how God works good in all circumstances. Jay's story encourages listeners to face adversity head-on and reminds us that, even in suffering, we can live a life that truly matters. By embracing vulnerability with God and others, Jay demonstrates how hope can carry us through life's greatest challenges. In this episode, you will discover: How admitting our weakness can open the door to God's strength. The significance of gratitude in finding joy, even in the face of suffering. Why being vulnerable with God and others is crucial for emotional healing and peace. How seeking support from your community can provide strength during difficult times. Jay's insights on resilience and how faith can sustain us, even in the midst of a terminal illness. The power of holding onto hope and what it means for navigating adversity. Why living a life that matters and positively impacting others is a meaningful goal. … and much more. Links related to Jay Jay's book: I Am Weak I Am Strong Film: Dear Hero Website: jayhewitt.org YouTube: Youtube.com/JayHewitt Instagram: @jayhewitt   Links related to Resilient Souls and Stewart: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials: ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) SIGN UP to the Resilient Souls Community (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

Summary:Tim and Nikki Farren share their story of loss, love, and building a new family unit after heartbreak. Tim's first wife, Claire, fell seriously ill just as they were about to get married, and after the birth of their two young boys, Sam and Joe, she tragically passed away. Left to care for the children while balancing work and his own grief, Tim relied on the support of his community to create stability and help nurture his sons through their journey of loss.About a year later, holding on to Claire's encouragement to remarry, Tim met Nikki, who had a unique sense that she was going to meet and marry a widower. Nikki embraced this new chapter, forming a deep bond with Sam and Joe, becoming a loving mother, and honouring Claire's memory while helping to build a new family unit. Together, Tim and Nikki faced the emotional complexities of starting this new chapter, balancing grief, and finding hope.In this heartfelt conversation, they offer valuable insights for anyone navigating grief, trauma, and the challenges of parenting in complex family dynamics. Tim and Nikki emphasise the importance of open communication, the role of faith in healing, and how love and patience can guide children through loss. Note:Hearing Tim and Nikki's reflections on their family's journey was deeply moving. Their story beautifully complements Sam and Joe's perspective from the previous episode (link), offering a full-circle view of how love, community, and faith helped shape their family after tragedy. This conversation serves as a powerful reminder of resilience and the healing that comes from shared grief. I encourage you to listen to Sam and Joe's episode first for a deeper understanding of their family's experience.  In this episode, you will discover: How Tim navigated being a caregiver and father to his two young boys while walking through his own experiences of loneliness and grief. The challenges and rewards of creating a new family unit after great loss. Practical tips for parents navigating grief and working in new family dynamics. The role of communication and validation in helping children through difficult transitions. Insights into how faith and community support can aid in the healing process. How creating new family routines and traditions can foster connection and stability. ... and much more. Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials: ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠here Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠) Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website  

Sam and Joe Farren grew up in the UK with a father who was trying to balance caring for their mother (who had a chronic and very serious illness), working in London, and raising two young boys. After their mother passed when Sam was six and Joe was three, their father did his best to provide love, fun, and stability, supported by a “village” of friends and babysitters. A year later, the family moved to Australia when their father remarried. As adults, Sam developed a strong sense of protection for others, often neglecting his own emotional needs, while Joe struggled with feelings of guilt and the challenge of processing his emotions. Both reflect on how their childhood shaped their faith and emotional well-being growing up. In this episode, they offer practical advice for parents from a child's perspective and discuss the value of counselling, a supportive community, and faith in navigating grief and trauma. Note: Hearing Sam and Joe's perspective was incredibly insightful, especially as we continue to explore the impact of grief and loss on children, which has been the focus of Season 2. This conversation led me to reach out to their father and the woman who became part of their family, to hear what they observed in Sam and Joe's journey through grief, and how they supported them during those challenging times. Stay in touch to find out when this episode gets posted. In this episode, you will discover: The impact of grief, loss, and trauma on children and how it shapes emotional well-being into adulthood. The importance of having a supportive community to provide care and stability during tough times. That even limited memories of traumatic events can profoundly affect emotional development. How processing emotions through counselling or therapy can aid healing and growth. The role of faith and spirituality in finding meaning and resilience during challenging circumstances. How creating joyful memories and offering love and patience can help children navigate grief. … and much more Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠⁠book⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠ Links to Resilient Souls Socials: ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) SIGN UP to the Resilient Souls Community (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠) Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this episode, Stewart speaks with Christi Brown, who shares the heart-wrenching story of losing her youngest child in a drowning accident. They discuss the importance of openly expressing pain and loss, the ongoing nature of grief, and the reality that grief is often "the love that has no place to land." Christi opens up about the initial emotions she faced, the vital support from her community, and how she continues to navigate this journey with her family. She also explains how she honours Judah's memory and helps others through the Judah Brown Project. Christi emphasises that while she is still navigating her grief, she has found purpose in helping others. She offers practical suggestions for supporting those experiencing loss and reflects on her own journey of faith, wrestling with anger and deep questions after her son's death. Finally, she highlights the need for water safety education and legislation to prevent drownings, particularly among young children. Don't miss this incredibly powerful and moving story. In this episode, you will discover: How sharing our pain and grief can encourage others to share their own experiences. That grief is a complex, ongoing process. The crucial role of support from friends, family, and community in navigating grief. The importance of respecting and supporting individual grieving processes. How honouring the memory of a loved one and creating traditions can provide comfort and healing. Practical gestures and presence can make a difference for those grieving, even if friends and acquaintances aren't sure what to do. The importance of stepping in to offer help, even if it's not perfect, as people in pain may not know what they need. Grief is a lifelong journey, with the second year after a loss often being particularly challenging. The need to be sensitive to children's experiences and emotions during times of grief and loss. The importance of water safety education and legislation in preventing drownings, especially among young children. ...and more! Links to guest: Judah Brown Project Judah Brown Project Bereavement Resources Judah Brown Project Facebook page Support Groups in the US: Compassionate Friends Support Group for Kids in Houston, TX USA: Bo's Place Links to: The Resilient Souls WEBSITE (Click ⁠here⁠) How to get hold of Stewart's BOOK (Click ⁠here⁠) Other Resilient Souls PODCAST episodes (Click ⁠here⁠)     The Resilient Souls BLOG (Click ⁠here⁠) Links to Resilient Souls Socials: ⁠Facebook⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠here⁠) SIGN UP to the Resilient Souls Community (Click ⁠here⁠) Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠here⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠here⁠) Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠here⁠ Contact Us: Click ⁠here⁠ Links to getting help (locally and overseas): ⁠Help section⁠ on the Resilient Souls website

In this episode, Stewart speaks with Daniel Pampuch (CEO of Christians Schools Australia) about how communities can effectively support families during times of tragedy and trauma. Drawing from his extensive experience in schools and school associations, Daniel emphasises the importance of practical help, clear communication, and specific training for those in support roles. They explore how a well thought out, community-focused approach can make a significant difference, especially when guided by the family's wishes and needs. While Daniel's insights stem from a school context, the principles shared are valuable for anyone involved in community support. This conversation offers essential guidance for those wanting to be intentional and caring in their response to trauma, ensuring that families receive the understanding and help they truly need. In this episode, you will discover: The impact trauma has on the wider community and the important role that community can play in offering thoughtful and careful support to those affected. How practical help like picking up kids or providing meals, can significantly support families during tough times. The vital role of clear and sensitive communication in providing clarity, setting boundaries, and creating calm during traumatic events. That knowing and understanding the wishes of the family is crucial during times of crisis and trauma, and how thoughtfulness is key to avoiding mistakes, even with well intentioned efforts. The importance of being prepared for traumatic events, including developing policies around trauma, practicing procedures, providing training, and designating roles to respond effectively to crises. How being community-minded and intentional in offering ongoing support strengthens families and individuals facing the long-term impacts of trauma. That building relationships and being part of a community are essential for well-being and provide a strong support network during difficult times. .....and more! Links to Daniel: Christian Schools Association Australia website Daniel's LinkedIn profile Links to: The Resilient Souls WEBSITE (Click ⁠here⁠) How to get hold of Stewart's BOOK (Click ⁠here⁠) Other Resilient Souls PODCAST episodes (Click ⁠here⁠)     The Resilient Souls BLOG (Click ⁠here⁠) Links to Socials: ⁠Facebook⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠ Book Stewart to speak (Click ⁠here⁠)  SIGN UP to the Resilient Souls Community (Click ⁠here⁠) Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click ⁠here⁠) Contact Us: (Click ⁠here⁠)

In this continuation of Rick Bundschuh's story, Stewart and Rick discuss his move to Hawaii with his two young boys and his continued work with youth. Rick shares the loneliness he faced and the process of rebuilding his life after such profound personal upheaval. He offers insights into the practical acts of kindness that made a significant difference during his toughest times and reflects on the enduring question of why Christians are not immune to pain and suffering. Rick talks about his remarriage and his current life, emphasizing the importance of owning one's mistakes and trusting in God's faithfulness regardless of the outcome. His story is an incredible example of resilience, faith, and the power of community support in overcoming life's challenges. In this episode, you will discover: That loneliness can be very difficult but there are ways to avoid making bad decisions because of it. That Christians are not exempt from pain and suffering The importance of maintaining faith even during challenging times and how it can provide strength and guidance. How practical support and acts of kindness from others can significantly impact someone's journey through tough times. That the journey of resilience involves both emotional and spiritual challenges, and hearing Rick's personal story provides valuable insights. Rick's perspective on grace and forgiveness, even in the face of loneliness and hurt. The importance of perseverance and resilience in navigating life's storms and the power of God's love in overcoming adversity. … and more! Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠⁠Book⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠⁠ Support the Podcast ⁠⁠⁠Donate⁠⁠⁠ Book ⁠⁠⁠Stewart to speak⁠⁠⁠ Links to socials: ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠ Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ Reach out to Contact Us: Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠

In this episode, Stewart speaks with Rick Bundschuh, who shares his early journey as a surfer, youth leader, husband, and father during the Jesus Movement days in California. He recounts the pivotal moment when his wife announced she was leaving him and their two young children to pursue a different lifestyle. This shocking revelation led to a challenging period of legal battles over custody, balancing the demands of work, and meeting the needs of his two young boys. Rick describes the heart-wrenching experience of hope rising when his wife declared she was wrong and wanted to reconcile, only to leave them again days later. As he fought for his family in the courts, he faced another challenge when his wife decided to give up her fight for custody of their boys in a confusing turn of events. Through these trials, Rick's faith and resilience shine through, offering listeners valuable lessons in grace and perseverance. In this episode you will discover: About Rick's involvement in youth ministry and his dedication to his growing family. Insights into the early Jesus Movement days and the challenges of balancing ministry with family life. The profound impact of infidelity on a young family. The complexities and emotional toll of custody battles. The significance of maintaining faith and resilience during life's most challenging times. The importance of forgiveness and grace, even when faced with deep personal pain. … and more! Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠website⁠⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠⁠book⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠Blog⁠⁠ Support the podcast: ⁠⁠Donate⁠⁠ Book ⁠⁠Stewart to speak⁠⁠ Links to socials: ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠ Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ Contact Us: Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠  

BE AWARE: This episode discusses the topic of suicide, which may be particularly difficult for some listeners. Summary: In this conversation, Stewart speaks with Megan Lehmann about her experience of losing her husband to suicide. They discuss the challenges of facing life's storms and the importance of learning from other people's journeys. Megan shares the moment she received the devastating phone call and the impact this news had on her hopes and dreams. She speaks about how she managed her own pain and the emotions that came with it, as well as balancing the needs of her three children and navigating significant changes in her role within the family. Stewart and Megan explore the stigma surrounding suicide and the necessity of more open conversations about mental health. Megan also discusses the loneliness she felt as well as the support she received from friends and family. She shares her ongoing experience of grief, the challenges people face in knowing what to say and do, and the importance of talking about the person who has passed away. They discuss the need for practical resources and support, particularly around key dates in the first year of loss, and emphasise the importance of reaching out for help and finding hope amidst difficult times.   In this episode you will discover: 1.    That facing life's storms is challenging, but learning from the experiences of others can provide valuable insights for navigating our own difficulties. 2.    The stigma surrounding suicide and mental health that can make it difficult for people to talk about their experiences and seek support. Open and honest conversations are crucial. 3.    That grief is a complex and ongoing process that can be triggered unexpectedly. Having a supportive community is essential for navigating through it. 4.    How the provision of practical support, such as meals or help with daily tasks, can make a significant difference for someone going through a difficult time. 5.    That talking about the person who has passed away, sharing stories of them and using their name is important for healing and keeping their memory alive. 6.    Finding hope and gratitude in the midst of difficult times can aid in the healing process. … and more!   Links to getting help: In Australia Lifeline – click here or call 13 11 14 Mental Health Triage Service - 13 14 65 Beyond Blue – click here Suicide Call Back Service – click here or call 1300 659 467 For overseas links Help section on the Resilient Souls website here Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠website⁠ Get hold of Stewart's ⁠book⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠Podcast⁠ The Resilient Souls ⁠Blog⁠ Support the podcast: ⁠Donate⁠ Book ⁠Stewart to speak⁠ Links to socials: ⁠Facebook⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠ Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠here⁠ Contact Us: Click ⁠here⁠  

In this episode, Stewart Bogle reflects on the conversations he's had throughout the first season of the podcast, identifying common issues that have emerged. One topic that's deeply touched him is the ripple effect of loss and grief, particularly its impact on children. Stewart shares his personal journey with his children, offering glimpses into their experiences as he battled with his own emotions. He recounts the difficult conversations he had with his children following his wife's death and how he sometimes failed to notice their struggles because they seemed to be coping well on the surface. Stewart emphasises the importance of being open and honest with children about traumatic experiences. He highlights the need to help children process and address their own emotions including feelings of confusion, fear, and hurt. He encourages parents to be aware that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to supporting children through their grief. Different personalities, ages, and temperaments require different responses and approaches. Looking ahead to the new season, Stewart shares his hope that we can learn from the collective wisdom of both parents and experts. This has inspired him to work on developing and curating resources to help parents have difficult conversations with their children. In this episode you will discover: Loss and grief impact children in unique ways. It is crucial to acknowledge and address their experiences, even while dealing with your own emotions. Being open and honest with children about traumatic experiences can help them process their emotions and find hope. However, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to supporting them. Children may have different perspectives and reactions to loss. It is essential to listen and support them individually, considering their personality, age, maturity, temperament, and more. Support and resources are crucial for parents navigating difficult conversations with their children about loss, grief, and other big issues that many families face. This will be an area of focus for Resilient Souls in the days ahead. The upcoming season will explore collective wisdom from both parents and experts to develop resources that help parents have these difficult conversations with their children. … and more! Links to: The Resilient Souls website Get hold of Stewart's book The Resilient Souls Podcast The Resilient Souls Blog Support the podcast: Donate Book Stewart to speak Links to socials: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Links to getting help: At the Resilient Souls website here Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed here Contact Us: Click here

BE AWARE: This episode discusses themes of loss, grief, and death, which may be sensitive topics for some listeners. Summary: In this moving episode, Stewart interviews his daughter, Ashley, about the deep grief she has experienced in the last 12 months. Ashley shares her journey of supporting her partner through his early diagnosis of cancer, their engagement, an elopement due to COVID and the devastating news that the cancer had spread. She discusses the challenges of planning a wedding while facing uncertainty and the pain of losing her husband just three months after their public wedding. Ashley opens up about her struggles with faith, questions of God, and finding strength to keep going. She emphasizes the importance of showing up and sitting with someone in their pain, rather than trying to fix it. In this conversation, Ashley and Stewart discuss the challenges of reconciling pain and suffering with the belief in an all-powerful and loving God. They emphasize the importance of living in the tension of not having all the answers and accepting that some questions may never be fully answered. Ashley also highlights the importance of deciding who God is before the storm hits and inviting Him into the pain, the confusion and the struggle. The conversation explores the ongoing journey of wrestling with God and navigating grief, while also offering hope and encouragement to others facing similar struggles. In this episode you will discover: 1.    Grief is a complex journey marked by ebbs and flows, with ongoing healing being a process rather than a destination. 2.    Trusting God in times of pain and suffering doesn't guarantee immediate relief but allows for His comforting presence and the hope of a greater purpose. 3.    Being present and listening without offering platitudes is crucial when supporting someone in pain. Genuine care and empathy are responses that really matters. 4.    Trusting God means acknowledging His presence in the pain and accepting that His plans may differ from our desires yet choosing to turn to Him for comfort and guidance. 5.    Seeking comfort in God, even in the middle of hardship, can bring a level of peace and hope. 6.    Embracing unanswered questions and living in the tension of pain and hope is an expression of faith and trust in an often hard to understand God. …and more!   Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠website⁠⁠ Get hold of ⁠⁠⁠Stewart's Book⁠⁠⁠ Other ⁠⁠⁠Resilient Souls podcasts⁠⁠⁠ The ⁠⁠⁠Resilient Souls Blog⁠⁠⁠   Book ⁠⁠⁠Stewart to speak⁠⁠⁠ Support the podcast and the work of Resilient Souls: ⁠⁠⁠Donate⁠⁠⁠ Links to socials: ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠   Links to getting help: ⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ Contact Us: Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠

Summary: In this conversation, Sono, a First Nations leader in Australia (Butchulla and Garrawa), shares with us the work she is doing with Strong Women Talking to address violence against First Nations women and children. Sono's own experiences with domestic violence personally and in her community have driven her to help break the cycle and support others. Sono shares how her faith has provided hope and strength throughout her journey. In this conversation, Sono shares her personal journey of finding hope in Jesus and the misconceptions she had about the Christian faith and the reality of life not instantly improving after accepting Jesus. Sono also delves into the impact of trauma on individuals and communities, highlighting the importance of understanding and addressing trauma. She emphasises the power of hope and the role it played in her life and the lives of her ancestors. Sono encourages listeners to hold on to hope and trust in God, even in the midst of difficult circumstances. She also emphasizes the importance of community and having support in navigating life's challenges. In this episode you will discover: Violence against First Nations women and children is a significant issue in Australia, and organizations like Strong Women Talking are working to address it. Understanding the historical and ongoing impacts of colonisation is crucial in addressing the drivers of violence in First Nations communities. Finding hope in Jesus can provide strength and resilience in the face of challenges. Misconceptions about the Christian faith can lead to unrealistic expectations and disappointment. Understanding trauma and its impact is crucial for healing and growth. Hope is a powerful force that can sustain individuals and communities in the midst of adversity. Community support is vital for personal growth and overcoming challenges. … and more!   If you need help: 13YARN (13 92 76) (Click ⁠here⁠) 1800RESPECT (Click ⁠here⁠) White Ribbon (Click ⁠here⁠) Help suggestions on the Resilient Souls website (Click ⁠here⁠) Links from the Episode: Strong Women Talking organisation link Info on Stolen Generations link Info on Stolen Wages link Info on White Australia Policy link   Links to: The Resilient Souls WEBSITE (Click here) How to get hold of Stewart's BOOK (Click here) Other Resilient Souls PODCAST episodes (Click here)     The Resilient Souls BLOG (Click here)   Links to Socials: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn   Book Stewart to speak (Click here)   SIGN UP to the Resilient Souls Community (Click here) Support the work of Resilient Souls: (Click here) Contact Us: (Click here)  

Summary: In this episode, we hear Graham Humphris share his journey as an experienced pastor and respected Christian leader, through two major challenges that deeply tested his resilience and faith. First, he recounts a life-threatening brain haemorrhage, and later, a professional crisis that shook his reputation and emotional well-being. While very different, both were serious tests that caused him to reflect deeply on faith and life. Graham shares openly and honestly about the fears associated with a life-threatening health issue and thoughts of leaving his wife and young family behind. He emphasizes the importance of community support, developing spiritual practices long before adversity strikes and the invaluable support of faithful friends through very tough times. The conversation shifts to a later painful experience during his leadership of a Christian organization. Though the accusations against him were proved baseless, they still deeply wounded him and threatened to undermine his lifelong commitment to integrity and service. Through months of turmoil and uncertainty, Graham remained steadfast in his trust in God. His story is an example of unwavering faith in God through life's storms, even though he experienced tears, fears, and confusion. Graham's resilience underscores the truth that trusting in God can be a like an anchor or a guiding light through the darkest of times. In this episode you will discover: 1.    The power of faith and resilience when navigating life's challenging moments. 2.    The value of building strong community support networks and regular habits before adversity strikes. 3.    The importance of maintaining trust in God in adversity. 4.    Supportive friends and a caring local community can provide great comfort and strength in times of crisis. 5.    Practical suggestions for navigating challenges with integrity, perseverance, and courage …and more! Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠⁠website⁠⁠ Get hold of ⁠⁠⁠Stewart's Book⁠⁠⁠ Other ⁠⁠⁠Resilient Souls podcasts⁠⁠⁠ The ⁠⁠⁠Resilient Souls Blog⁠⁠⁠   Book ⁠⁠⁠Stewart to speak⁠⁠⁠ Support the podcast and the work of Resilient Souls: ⁠⁠⁠Donate⁠⁠⁠ Links to socials: ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠   Links to getting help: ⁠⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ Contact Us: Click ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠

Summary: In this compelling episode, Amy openly shares her story of resilience in the face of devastating loss as a child. Having lost both parents at a tender age, Amy bravely navigates life's storms with a steadfast trust in God's love and care. She underscores the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive individuals and finding comfort in God's presence. Amy's narrative serves as a powerful example of resilience and the transformative power of faith during life's darkest moments. Throughout the conversation, Amy delves into her growing perspective on God, from a childlike faith to a more mature understanding as a young adult. She emphasises the significance of Scripture, engaging in community, and grappling with the complexities of suffering. Despite her trials, Amy remains steadfast in her belief in God's goodness, trusting that all things will be made well one day. Encouraging others to embrace vulnerability in their relationship with God and to seek professional support when necessary, Amy finds joy in her journey of faith and the unwavering support of her community. She also advocates for open conversations about loss and pain, particularly with children, and the creation of safe spaces to address doubts and struggles. In summary, Amy's journey embodies the enduring power of faith, resilience, and community in navigating life's toughest challenges, serving as a source of hope and inspiration for us all. In this episode you will discover: 1.     Grief and loss can be especially challenging for young people, but having a safe space to process emotions and a supportive community can make a significant difference. 2.     Childlike faith and belief in God's love and presence can offer profound comfort and resilience during times of adversity. 3.     Resilience can be found in difficult times, and hope can be a source of encouragement for others. 4.    Growing in understanding through Bible reading and community engagement is vital in not turning away from God. 5.     Embracing the truth that suffering is a consequence of sin while maintaining faith in God's goodness. 6.     Encouraging raw honesty with God and advocating for professional support when needed. 7.     Discovering profound joy in a relationship with the Lord and appreciating the support of a nurturing community. .... and more! Links to: The Resilient Souls ⁠website⁠ Get hold of ⁠⁠Stewart's Book⁠⁠ Other ⁠⁠Resilient Souls podcasts⁠⁠ The ⁠⁠Resilient Souls Blog⁠⁠   Book ⁠⁠Stewart to speak⁠⁠ Support the podcast and the work of Resilient Souls: ⁠⁠Donate⁠⁠ Links to socials: ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠   Links to getting help: ⁠⁠Help section⁠⁠ on the Resilient Souls website Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ Contact Us: Click ⁠⁠here⁠⁠

BE AWARE: This episode discusses the topic of suicide, which may be particularly difficult for some listeners. Summary: Host Stewart Bogle talks with Adrian Blenkinsop about "Finding Strength: Navigating Faith Through Family Tragedy". Adrian shares his deeply painful story of his daughter's illness and passing, and how it challenged his faith. He discusses the initial shock of the diagnosis, his struggle to reconcile his beliefs with the suffering his family endured, and the transformation of his understanding of God. Adrian emphasises the importance of lament and living in the tension of unanswered prayers. He also highlights the support he received from his community and the need for ongoing support for those experiencing trauma. Despite the pain, Adrian finds hope in the belief that he will be reunited with his daughter one day. In this episode you will discover: That lament is a powerful and necessary practice in times of grief and suffering. It allows for honest expression of pain and questions to God. Support from a community is crucial during times of trauma, but it is important to recognise that the needs of individuals may change over time. Living in the tension of unanswered prayers and unresolved questions is a part of faith. It is okay to wrestle with doubts and anger towards God. Courage is not the absence of fear, but the determination to keep going despite fear. It is okay to feel weak and vulnerable while still holding onto faith. God's presence can be found in the love and support of the people around us. They can be a reflection of God's care and comfort in times of pain. Links to: The Resilient Souls website Get hold of ⁠Stewart's Book⁠ Other ⁠Resilient Souls podcasts⁠ The ⁠Resilient Souls Blog⁠ Book Stewart to speak Support the podcast and the work of Resilient Souls: Donate Links to socials: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn   Links to getting help: Help section on the Resilient Souls website Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed here Contact Us: Click here

Summary: In this first episode of the Resilient Souls podcast, Stewart Bogle introduces his own story as a starting point for him hosting conversations with others about pain and suffering and wrestling with God. This is an open and honest summary of a much deeper story that he shares in his book, Learning to Dance in the Darkness. In this episode he explains why he has chosen to share some very personal and intensely private parts of his life in a memoir and how this led to him developing this podcast as part of a new online community called Resilient Souls. He believes this idea of storytelling and open, honest sharing even about the hard questions we have about life and faith and God is what's needed to help people face their own storms. They need to know they are not alone, that there is hope even in the darkest times and its ok and natural to have difficult feelings and deep questions about why God is allowing difficult times in our lives. Stewart knows that his story, his experiences and his wrestle with God is just his perspective and this is what he shares in this first episode. By interviewing others in the days ahead he hopes to broaden the conversation and bring other perspectives on what people have gone through and how they have built resilient souls. In this episode you will learn about: Stewart's journey through adversity, highlighting his wrestle with God while maintaining unwavering faith and reliance. That despite enduring relentless storms, Stewart's honesty and vulnerability encourages others to keep turning to God, finding resilience and hope in the face of uncertainty. The purpose behind his book, Learning to Dance in the Darkness, which is about providing comfort and guidance to those navigating their own storms. How the prayer of Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane became a source of comfort and hope during his darkest moments, offering another perspective to the prayer of faith. The motivation behind the Resilient Souls podcast and the broader online community, offering a platform beyond personal narratives for fostering connections and support. The importance of authenticity in building connections and offering support to others facing similar struggles, fostering a sense of solidarity and understanding. .... and more! Links to: The Resilient Souls website Get hold of ⁠Stewart's Book⁠ Other ⁠Resilient Souls podcasts⁠ The ⁠Resilient Souls Blog⁠   Book ⁠Stewart to speak⁠ Support the podcast and the work of Resilient Souls: ⁠Donate⁠ Links to socials: ⁠Facebook⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠   Links to getting help: ⁠Help section⁠ on the Resilient Souls website Stay connected with the Resilient Souls Community: Sign up to keep informed ⁠here⁠ Contact Us: Click ⁠here⁠