The Durenda Wilson Podcast

We all have areas of our lives with more questions than answers. How do we find true biblical courage while living in the unknown? Today, I'm sharing with you some biblical practices that I've found helpful while living in the unknown. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Courage by Joe Rigney: How the Gospel Creates Christian Fortitude Quotes and scriptures mentioned in this episode: Thomas Merton: “The world of men has forgotten the joys of silence, the peace of solitude which is necessary, to some extent, for the fullness of human living. When that inner voice is not heard…life is always miserable and exhausting…If man is constantly exiled from his own home, locked out of his own spiritual solitude, he ceases to be a true person.”    From an article on How Silence Helps Us connect With God: Without silence, we struggle to know ourselves and who God created us to be. When our minds are constantly filled with outside stimuli, it becomes impossible to make space for the lessons that silence can teach us about God, about ourselves, and about his work in the world each day.   Psalm 46:10 Exodus 14:14 Isaiah 40:31 2 Chron. 20:17 Psalm 37:7 Isaiah 30:15 Psalm 31:24 Psalm 112:7,8   Wes's sermon on silence, solitude, and stillness: Growth and Opposition   THE AGE-LONG MINUTE by Amy Carmichael Thou art the Lord who slept upon the pillow, Thou art the Lord who soothed the furious sea, What matter beating wind and tossing billow If only we are in the boat with Thee? Hold us in quiet through the age-long minute While Thou art silent, and the wind is shrill: Can the boat sink while Thou, dear Lord, art in it? Can the heart faint that waiteth on Thy will?   St. Francis de Sales  1567-1622 Be at peace. Do not look forward in fear to the changes of life; rather look to them with full hope as they arise. God, whose very own you are, will deliver you from out of them. He has kept you hitherto, and He will lead you safely through all things; and when you cannot stand it, God will bury you in his arms. Do not fear what may happen tomorrow; the same everlasting Father who cares for you today will take care of you then and every day. He will either shield you from suffering, or give you unfailing strength to bear it. Be at peace, and put aside all anxious thoughts and imagination.

Unrealistic and unmet expectations can take a real toll on the state of our souls and our relationships, including our relationship with God. Today, I've invited Wes to share some thoughts on having a biblical perspective when it comes to expectations of ourselves, others, and God. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar (enter keyword, and all episodes on that topic will come up)   Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day   Other episodes with Wes: Applying Romans 13 to the Here and Now The Importance of a Biblical Education The Biblical Importance of Family Recognizing False Teachers The Dangers of a Self-Help Culture How to Find a Biblical Church Let's Talk About Biblical Discipline Biblical Submission: The Hot Potato Are We Living in the Last Days? Living With Hope When the Church Says Things Are Only Going to Get Worse Jesus' Return: Revelation, the Mark of the Beast and the Anti-Christ Why We Can't Understand Beauty Without Morality How Should Believers Handle Suffering Tips for Working Through Conflict With Other Believers How to Heal From Church Hurt Keeping a Biblical Worldview in the Midst of a Constant Negative News Cycle Learning to Be Human in a Digital World Ways to Encourage a Healthy Family Culture in Your Home Listen to Wes' sermons here Series on Ecclesiastes (first episode here)

In a world increasingly dependent upon screens and technology, it's as crucial as it is countercultural to help kids capture the natural joys and treasures each day holds. As we do this, we as adults are also reminded of what a great God we serve and the hope we have in Him! This podcast is full of encouragement and ideas as we discuss the importance of encouraging wonder and curiosity in our kids and how to do that in simple and practical ways that don't require a lot of preparation!  Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar   Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Ways to connect with Amanda:   www.WonderwoodAdventures.com www.AmandaDykes.com Instagram: @amanda_spins_stories and @apocketfulofwonder  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/authoramandadykes

In a world that prizes hustle and constant productivity, breaking the habit of hurry can seem far-fetched. Yet we still try to achieve it with life hacks to get more sleep and increase energy. However, self-help strategies are not the solution to our exhaustion problem.  Today, Eryn Lynum joins me to talk about what it looks like to move away from the hurry and toward the rest that God has for us.  This episode will be balm for your soul!   Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Nature of Rest: What the Bible and Creation Teach Us About Sabbath Living Host of the podcast for kids: Nat Theo: Nature Lessons Rooted in the Bible Illustrated Children's Chapter Book Coming in the fall of 2026 (New Growth Press) Author of "Rooted in Wonder: Nurturing Your Family's Faith Through God's Creation" (Kregel, 2023) Author of "936 Pennies: Discovering the Joy of Intentional Parenting" (Bethany House, 2018) ErynLynum.com Instagram.com/erynlynumauthor Facebook.com/authorerynlynum Linkedin

Most of us have at least some fear of death. Our culture is obsessed with it but without a remedy. However, it's a completely different story for Believers! Pastor Wes reminded me recently that Jesus has authority over sin and death and death is our servant because we belong to Jesus. One of my listeners heard me talk about this and asked if I would have Wes on the podcast to dive deeper into this topic. I'm delighted that he agreed to do that and he's here today to help us reframe our experiences according to God's word and align our thinking about death with what Christ has transformed it into.  Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Give Send Go (link to my fundraiser)  Venmo-@Durenda-Wilson Scriptures mentioned: 1 Corinthians 3:21-23 Romans 8:38-39 Quote read in this episode: “ I think I find most help in trying to look on all the interruptions and hindrances to work that one has planned out for oneself as discipline, trials sent by God to help one against getting selfish over one's work. Then one can feel that perhaps one's true work—one's work for God—consists in doing some trifling haphazard thing that has been thrown into one's day. It is not a waste of time, as one is tempted to think, it is the most important part of the work of the day—the part one can best offer to God. After such a hindrance, do not rush after the planned work; trust that the time to finish it will be given sometime, and keep a quiet heart about it.” (Annie Keary, 1825-1879)  

Many of us are in the midst of trials and afflictions and with that comes 2 common struggles: Not feeling loved by God and Losing Our Sense of Purpose.  In today's episode, I share some things the Lord has encouraged me with in the midst of my own trials.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Give Send Go (link to my fundraiser) Ecclesiastes Series: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2lpOv8MddcJqkrXz11L8i2?si=4xx0ZkDMS660haf-b9n3Ng   Venmo-@Durenda-Wilson Great is Thy Faithfulness Great is thy faithfulness, O God, my Father; There is no shadow of turning with thee. Thou changest not, thy compassions, they fail not; As thou hast been, thou forever wilt be. Great is thy faithfulness, Great is thy faithfulness, Morning by morning new mercies I see. All I have needed thy hand hast provided; Great is thy faithfulness, Lord unto me. Summer and winter and springtime and harvest, Sun, moon, and stars in their courses above Join with all nature in manifold witness To thy great faithfulness, mercy, and love.  Pardon for sin and a peace that endureth, Thine own dear presence to cheer and to guide; Strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow, Blessings all mine and ten thousand beside.  Ecc. 9:7 Romans 8:35,37-39 He Giveth More Grace Listen Here 1. He giveth more grace as our burdens grow greater, He sendeth more strength as our labors increase; To added afflictions He addeth His mercy, To multiplied trials He multiplies peace. 2. When we have exhausted our store of endurance, When our strength has failed ere the day is half done, When we reach the end of our hoarded resources Our Father's full giving is only begun. 3. Fear not that thy need shall exceed His provision, Our God ever yearns His resources to share; Lean hard on the arm everlasting, availing; The Father both thee and thy load will upbear. 4. His love has no limits, His grace has no measure, His power no boundary known unto men; For out of His infinite riches in Jesus He giveth, and giveth, and giveth again.

​When stressed, fearful, or anxious, we can feel claustrophobic, like we are in a small, constricted space. God tells us in His Word that HE moves us to a large, spacious place where we can breathe and stand firm against the enemy.  Today I'm sharing more of my journey and the ways that God has met me in the unknown. Letting Go of the Counterfeit-Story of the Pearl Necklace Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day  

Living in the midst of the unknown is where I am personally right now. Today I'm sharing from that place in hopes that you will find encouragement in your own places of the unknown.  Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Psalms for lamenting:    -Ps 13   -Ps 25:1-2, 16-21   -Ps 31:1-5   -Ps 86:1-4   https://www.givesendgo.com/durenda-wilson Venmo-@Durenda-Wilson

What does it look like to engage with the cultural? Today Wes joins us again to help us understand how to engage with the culture God has placed us in in a biblical manner.    Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

What does it look like to shepherd our kids' emotions?  Today Wes joins us again to share his heart and truths from God's word about guiding our children's emotions.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

The holidays leave lasting memories, and we hope that as parents, we are creating great memories for our kids to look back on for the rest of their lives. So what will our kids actually remember?   Today my daughter-in-law, Julia, will be talking to my second child, Jenna, about what Christmas memories and traditions have stayed with her into adulthood.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Many of you may have noticed that my kids have recently taken over the podcast. So I wanted to update you on a huge recent life change for our whole family. Thank you for being here.    Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to Fundraiser Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word    

Today, Jenna and Johanna (our 2nd, and 7th born children) come on the podcast to talk about the best advice they've gotten from their mom!    Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

The holidays leave lasting memories, and we hope that as parents, we are creating great memories for our kids to look back on for the rest of their lives. So what will our kids actually remember?   Today my daughter-in-law, Julia, will be talking to my firstborn child, Brittney, about what Christmas memories and traditions have stayed with her into adulthood.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

The holidays leave lasting memories, and we hope that as parents, we are creating great memories for our kids to look back on for the rest of their lives. So what will our kids actually remember?   Today my daughter-in-law, Julia, will be talking to my 5th child (and her husband), Luke, about what Christmas memories and traditions have stayed with him into adulthood.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

The holidays leave lasting memories, and we hope that as parents, we are creating great memories for our kids to look back on for the rest of their lives. So what will our kids actually remember? Today I'm talking to our youngest daughter about what Christmas memories and traditions have stayed with her into adulthood.   Resources mentioned in this episode: 2 other episodes I did with Johanna: Simply Modest: A Podcast For Moms and Daughters Encouraging Contentment in Our Unmarried Daughters     Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mag Focus (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Every dad wants to be the best dad he can be, but what does that look like?  Today Wes joins us again to share his heart and truths from God's word on how imitating the Fatherhood of God is the best way to be the dad your kids need. Resources mentioned in this episode:   Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Christmas isn't that far away and what could be better than reading great books to our kids that reveal God's faithfulness in sending Jesus? This isn't another Advent book (although we love those), it's one that can be read in 2 weeks(allows for a more flexible reading schedule in the midst of a busy season) and showcases the promises that God fulfilled in Jesus. What a great way to keep Jesus as the focal point of the season! Resources mentioned in this episode: Promises Made Promises Kept by Marty Machowski Redemption Tales Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Multi Plus Multivitamin for Women (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Dealing with picky eaters can chip away at our relationship with our kids and the joy in our homes. There are many reasons a child may seem picky and today we are going to help break some of this down so you can be more well-equipped to help your child grow up to have a healthy relationship with food! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School DayCTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Magnesium Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Ways to connect with Katie: Kitchen Stewardship Website Kids Cook Real Food E-Course Host of The Healthy Parenting Handbook Podcast / YouTube clips TEDxBismarck: What if Kids Never Learn Critical Thinking Skills? TEDxHartford: Picky Eating Isn't About the Food  

Has preparing wholesome meals been a struggle for you? Do you feel overwhelmed by the amount of conflicting information about what is healthy eating and what is not?  Today we are going to talk about a simple, unhurried approach to creating budget-friendly meals you can feel confident about! Resources mentioned in this episode: Close to Nature Health Website (find free resources here) You can use the coupon code “unhurried” for 20% off the “Eating Close to Nature” series.  Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Mom Sanity Fuel Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

I have had so many thoughts since election day, and I wanted to share them with you, not just to tell you what I think but to hopefully help you process the magnitude of what's happened over the last four years so we can all be encouraged and wiser moving forward. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order)   Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word King of the World Proverbs 31:25,26

For the first time ever, my mom is joining me to share some of her life story and encourage you as wives, moms, and homemakers! You are going to love her! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Magnesium Products (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

What can we learn from the art of hospitality to help us lead our families better? Wes gives a short, powerful message that will help us as parents have a healthier family culture by engaging our spouses and children in meaningful ways!  Resources mentioned in this episode: Unreasonable  Hospitality by Will Guidara Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Supplements (Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Scripture Mentioned in This Episode: Romans 12:10, Phil. 2:3 

Clothing is not neutral, but how do we avoid becoming prideful modesty police on the one hand, and victims of the fashion industry on the other—and humbly dress in a way that honors Christ?  I hope you'll join me for this conversation with Scott Brown! Other podcast episode mentioned: Why We Can't Understand Beauty Without Morality Resources mentioned in this episode: Modesty: More Than a Change of Clothes by Martha Peace Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Supplements (Use WILSON10 to get 10% off your first order!) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

There is a lot of discussion right now surrounding vaccines and their safety and effectiveness. My husband and I questioned and did our research over 30 years ago. Today I'm going to tell my story, and it's one I've never told before. Our daughter, Jenna, is also joining us and telling her story as well. Other podcast episodes mentioned in this episode: Yes, I Had 8 C-Sections! When CPS Comes to Your Door (Our CPS Story) Finding a Pediatrician Who Will Respect Your Rights as a Parent Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Mag-Focus Vitamins for focus and attention(Use WILSON10 for 10% off your first order!) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Vaxxed (Volume , volume 2) A Shot in the Dark   The Vaccine Conversation Podcast Books Mentioned in This Episode: Dissolving Illusions Polio: An American Story The Moth in the Iron Lung Vaccine Epidemic High Wire: Del Bigtree To Follow on Instagram: IG: Just the inserts IG: roseuncharted

Have you ever wondered if you are creating a healthy family culture in your home? Today are trying something a little bit new. I've invited Wes Johnson who has recorded many episodes with me,  to record 2 episodes per month that invite husbands to listen in with their wives. He will be covering relevant, relatable content that will give you the tools you need as a couple in family life, marriage, etc.  Some episodes will be more directed toward the men.  I hope you'll encourage your husbands and even your sons to listen in and grow as men of God and leaders or future leaders of their homes. Please let us know what you think about the episodes with Wes! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Toxic Free Supplements and Personal Care Items(Use DURENDA10 at checkout for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Other episodes with Wes: Applying Romans 13 to the Here and Now The Importance of a Biblical Education The Biblical Importance of Family Recognizing False Teachers The Dangers of a Self-Help Culture How to Find a Biblical Church Let's Talk About Biblical Discipline Biblical Submission: The Hot Potato Are We Living in the Last Days? Living With Hope When the Church Says Things Are Only Going to Get Worse Jesus' Return: Revelation, the Mark of the Beast and the Anti-Christ Why We Can't Understand Beauty Without Morality How Should Believers Handle Suffering Learning to Be Human in a Digital World (A Theology of Technology) Listen to Wes' sermons here    

Do you crave people's love and approval? Do you dread their rejection or mistreatment? Although we don't always realize it, many of our lives—and identities—are dangerously contorted around such longings and fears. Today we are going to find healthy, biblical ways to overcome these fears. Here are some questions we will tackle in this episode: Why is the fear of man such an easy trap to fall into and why can it wreak so much havoc in our lives? How can we tell the difference between being considerate and thoughtful versus living from a place where we fear man?  What are some of the warnings in scripture about fearing man and why do you think it's so important to heed them? How do we know when we are living in the fear of man? Can you define co-dependency and why can it be so tempting? How can we tell if we are co-dependent? What biblical remedy do we have as believers that can help us live in freedom from fear of man? The previous podcast with Ed Welch mentioned: What Does the Bible Have to Say About Psychiatric Disorders? Scriptures shared: Prov. 29:25, Psalm 118:8, Isaiah 51:7, Jer. 17:5-8 (2 ways to live), Resources mentioned in this episode: When People Are Big and God Is Small Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Children's Chewable Probiotic (Use DURENDA10 at checkout for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Do you question whether or not you are doing too many activities? Maybe you question if you are doing enough. Today we are going to talk about being fruitful versus busy! Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Devotions and Motherhood Homeschooling: There is Freedom in Simplicity Work Ethic: What It Is and Why It Is Important Work Ethic: How to Instill It Are We Foolish Homeschoolers? Why Waiting On God is Never a Waste of Time Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Back to School Bundle (Use DURENDA10 at checkout for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Today I want to address the issue of busyness. I think among homeschool moms, it's especially prevalent because we want to make sure that we aren't failing our kids, so we often turn to activities to hopefully “fill in the gaps”.  As a culture we idolize busyness. It can make us feel important, like we have something valuable to offer. Everyone wants and needs to feel like they matter, like they have something to bring to the table. But is this a wise way to find that? There is nothing wrong with having a full life, but it's good to check in and make sure that we are keeping a healthy perspective. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Mom Multi Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Ditching the Comparison Trap for Good Proverbs 29:25 Psalm 56:11 1 John 4:18 Proverbs 3:5-8 1 Corinthians 1:26-31

We always want to see our kids reach an appropriately healthy amount of independence as they move into adulthood, but for those of us with special needs kids, this process can be more challenging and time-consuming than we may have anticipated. In the last episode, Peggy Ployhar joined me to discuss ways to engage our autistic kids in learning. Today she will share what she believes is important in helping our autistic young adults move toward more independence.    Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Back to School Bundle Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word   Related episodes: Respect, Responsibility, and Our Special Needs Kids   Masculinity and Our Special Needs Boys   What I Have Learned So Far About Autism So Far   Encouragement For Parents of Kids With Disabilities    Ways to connect with Peggy: Empowering Homeschool Conversations (Podcast) SPED Homeschool Website SPED Homeschool Community   

As our country wrestles with darkness, fear, and division, is it possible that the overwhelming sense of hopelessness many of us feel is misplaced? Could it be that the belief that America's cultural and spiritual decline is inevitable is a misplaced fear? Resources mentioned in this episode: Kirk Cameron Website Born to Be Brave Book Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Raise Them Well Multi-Vitamin for moms

We are called to be the salt of the earth. The primary value of salt is not as a flavoring but as a preservative. As Jesus' disciples, we are to hinder the world's corruption. Today Heidi St. John joins me for a conversation about the future of our nation and how we can be salt and light right here and right now. Here are some questions we discuss:   What are the top challenges we face as believers in our culture today? How do you think we got to this place? What do you think scares Christians about politics and becoming overly involved? As homeschooling moms, how can we change the trajectory of our country? How do we talk to our kids about politics without scaring them or making them (or us) anxious? What words of encouragement would you leave with the moms listening today regarding the elections and the future? Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Heidi St. John Website Off the Bench Podcast with Heidi St. John Heidi St. John Shop including Books firmlyplantedfamily.org 

Are you struggling with ways to help your autistic child engage in learning? Today Peggy Ployhar joins me with a practical and encouraging message for those trying to teach kids on the spectrum!   Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Mag Focus Vitamins for focus and attention Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Ways to connect with Peggy: Empowering Homeschool Conversations (Podcast) SPED Homeschool Website SPED Homeschool Community    Related episodes: Respect, Responsibility, and Our Special Needs Kids Masculinity and Our Special Needs Boys What I Have Learned So Far About Autism So Far Encouragement For Parents of Kids With Disabilities 

Do you feel like you've forgotten what it's like to be human in a world that seems to be full of digital everything? I've invited Wes back on the podcast to help us nail down a clearer theology of technology by answering these questions:   How should Christians think about, relate to, and use technology? What is technology? What's the relationship between technology and theology? At what point is technology a threat to our humanity? Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Back to School Bundle Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word   Books mentioned:  God, Technology, and the Christian Life by Tony Reinke   The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt  Other episodes with Wes: Applying Romans 13 to the Here and Now The Importance of a Biblical Education The Biblical Importance of Family Recognizing False Teachers The Dangers of a Self-Help Culture How to Find a Biblical Church Let's Talk About Biblical Discipline Biblical Submission: The Hot Potato Are We Living in the Last Days? Living With Hope When the Church Says Things Are Only Going to Get Worse Jesus' Return: Revelation, the Mark of the Beast and the Anti-Christ Why We Can't Understand Beauty Without Morality How Should Believers Handle Suffering Listen to Wes' sermons here  

Homeschooling can feel very lonely at times and even though we get to decide what our daily rhythms look like, I don't know that we always prioritize friendships for ourselves as homeschooling moms. Today Christy Faith and I will address the unique friendship challenges that come with being homeschooling moms and talk about ways we can make sure that we are making the healthy connections that we need. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Supplement Company  Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word   Ways to connect with Christy: Christy's Book Homeschool Rising Christy-Faith's Website All About Thrive Homeschool Community   Related Podcast Episodes: A Biblical Perspective on Gentle Parenting When Our Kids Interrupt

How does our faith affect our homeschooling? How should it affect our homeschooling? I'm excited to dive into this topic with our guest, Christy Faith, as we discuss how connecting our faith and homeschooling transforms us and makes our homeschool journey so much better! You won't want to miss this conversation! It's a great blend of depth and humor! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Raise Them Well Supplement Company  Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Ways to connect with Christy: Christy's Book Homeschool Rising Christy-Faith's Website All About Thrive Homeschool Community

With the effects of a sinful culture bearing down, conversations we could put off before now need to happen at earlier ages. The question is how do we combat the culture's lies without taking away the innocence of our children? Today Elizabeth Urbanowicz from Foundation Worldview is here to give us some ideas of what that might look like to teach our little ones about God's good design for them! We will cover questions like: Most Christian resources about gender and sexuality focus on teens. However, you recommend parents start talking about these issues with children as young as the age of four. Can you explain why you recommend starting at such a young age and how you would advise parents to approach such conversations? Many parents will try to shelter their kids from these issues. Is that the best approach? Why or why not? How does your curriculum help parents and caregivers tackle this topic with their children? Walk us through a lesson. What is the format? And how will children be learning? Resources mentioned in this episode: Foundation Worldview (Use Durenda10 for $10 off) Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Raise Them Well Raise Them Well Multi-Vitamin for Moms CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Today I'm having a lovely conversation with Sally Clarkson! If you don't know Sally, she is a faithful, older woman of God who has encouraged countless wives and moms including my daughter and myself.  She has a thriving online, social media ministry, and podcast and has authored over 30 books! I hope you'll grab a cup of coffee or tea and join us!   Ways to connect with Sally: Sally's Website At Home With Sally Podcast Sally's Books Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Raise Them Well Raise Them Well Multi-Vitamin for Moms CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Raise Them Well Back to School Bundle

Many of you have questions about whether or not dating or courtship is a better option for our sons and daughters. Whether you have teens or younger kids and are thinking ahead, you may be wondering how to best guide your sons and daughters through a relationship in a God-honoring way so I'm excited that we get to talk about this today! Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Raise Them Well Raise Them Well Multi-Vitamin for Moms CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Homeschooling parents face challenges that are unique to the homeschooling journey.  One of those challenges is not letting homeschooling and the kids become more important than nurturing our marriages. My husband and I just celebrated our 35th wedding anniversary. We have also homeschooled all of our kids from kindergarten to graduation and I can say our marriage is stronger because of it. Today I want to share some helpful tips that could help your marriage thrive through the seasons of homeschooling. Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook The Four-Hour School Day Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20 for 20% off) Related and mentioned podcast episodes and article: Unhurried Grace: Marriage Roles Living Our Our Calling as Wives Simple Ways to Sweeten Your Marriage Biblical Submission: The Hot Potato Ways to Move Toward a More Christ-Centered Marriage Working From Home While Homeschooling: Is It Possible? Organizational Help for Moms Article on transactional vs covenantal communication  

Are you tired of feeling tired and burnt out? Are you feeling the stress coming from multiple directions? You are not alone! Today Debra Fileta, a professional counselor and homeschooling mom who loves Jesus, is here to give us some wise counsel to help care for our souls and move us toward more soul rest. You are going to love this episode! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Raise Them Well CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Website: www.DebraFileta.com If you need personal counseling support, please use this link for more information You can also use Wilson20 to get $20 off your first 3 sessions.   Facebook: True Love Dates // https://www.facebook.com/TrueLoveDates/ Instagram: @debrafileta // https://www.instagram.com/DebraFileta/ Threads: @debrafileta // https://www.threads.net/@debrafileta TikTok: @debrafileta // https://www.tiktok.com/@debrafileta

Parenting is the most important endeavor of our lives. And there's no shortage of advice on how to raise kids. But how do we sort the folly from the wisdom? Today Jill Garner cuts through modern parenting myths and trends to deliver the bold truth about what it will take to raise the next generation. Jill provides evidence-based solutions for parents seeking to raise children of character who can overcome—rather than succumb to—a culture full of turmoil. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word   Ways to connect with Jill: mannersoftheheart.org   jillgarnercontent.org   StrongHearts: Cultivating Humility, Respect, and Resiliency in Your Child can be found on Jill's website or any place where books are sold!

I forgot to include the mentoring course link in the last email This is the 3D section on the topic of dealing with resistance to schoolwork in our kids!   Today we are going to move from: D-uking it out with your child to---- effectively D-iagnosing the issues  that cause the reluctance to D-oing something D-ifferent! Renee from Homeschool How To's is back to give us more easy to implement solutions to our resistant learners! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Young and Brave Homeschool Conference Galax VA September 14 Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook The Four-Hour School Day Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20 for 20% off) Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course

Are you wondering if you are crazy? Do you feel as if you are sometimes shadowboxing with your child when you mention homeschooling, or even look like you are taking out a textbook or book?  No! You are NOT crazy, you are encountering academic resistance. It is a real thing.  Every homeschooling family deals with it. It is a universal struggle. I'm excited to have Renee Ellison from Homeschool How-to's with super practical tips you can implement immediately to help overcome academic resistance in your child! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Young and Brave Homeschool Conference Galax VA September 14 Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook The Four-Hour School Day Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20 for 20% off) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Ways to connect with Renee: HomeschoolHowTos.com

Many of us might believe that it's impossible to raise our kids without screens, but today we are going to talk to Evan Hempen (20 years old) who has an insightful perspective that I thought was important for us to hear. Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook The Four-Hour School Day Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20 for 20% off) The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word    Order the Kid's Brains and Screens curriculum here; it is the perfect way to teach your kids about screen addiction and healthy use. Learn more about the Kids's Brains and Screens curriculum Listen to other teens answering questions about growing up without video games and smartphones by joining the free Connect Group and clicking on videos. Want to see the full library?  Join Connect Plus  ScreenStrong Kids's Brains and Screens curriculum Become a Connect Member  Join Connect Plus

We all know that parental rights are being infringed upon more and more, but what can we do about it? This is the topic of today's episode! My guest today is Michael Ramey from the Parental Rights Foundation. Our conversation covers: The line between parental rights and the political issues that parents should be involved in. Important parental rights regarding our children's medical records.  The biggest threats to parental rights at the moment. Which parental rights homeschooling parents should be aware of and how to protect themselves and their families. And more! Resources mentioned in this episode: Parentalrights.org How to Find Local Homeschool Support Find your state homeschool organization   The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20 for 20% off ) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Today I'm talking with Jep and Jessica Robertson from the well-known and respected Duck Dynasty family! We are chatting about their new show and how God worked in their hearts a desire to adopt and why! You won't want to miss this! Resources mentioned in this episode: The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20 for 20% off ) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word   The Robertson's new show: Duck Family Treasury Dear Valor (children's book on adoption) by Jep and Jessica Robertson All God's Children International  

There are times when we get burnt out on homeschooling.  Today Ashley Wiggers (Homeschooling Today) and I chat about some reasons we might be feeling this and ways to deal with them.   The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Homeschooling Today Magazine Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20 for 20% off ) Our CPS Story The Excel Camp  College Alternative: Excel College Podcast Episode Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

In a culture fraught with fear about safety and security, where do we stand as wise women of God?  Is it wrong to love safety and security?  Why can it often feel elusive?  What does God have to say about safety and security?  Resources mentioned in this episode: The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20 for 20% off ) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Do you find yourself wanting to hide under a rock until the elections are over? You are not alone! Today I hope to bring some clarity and wisdom to help us posture ourselves as wise women of God during this election cycle.   The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20 for 20% off ) Our CPS Story The Excel Camp  College Alternative: Excel College Podcast Episode Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word   VOTER GUIDE You can find the Public Square app in your app store (a way to spend your dollars with companies that hold conservative values)

Being a mom is more than a full-time job; it can be easy to let our health fall toward the bottom of our list of priorities for many reasons.  Before we begin another homeschooling year, I thought it would be really wise to take this time to encourage you to take care of yourselves as wives, moms, and homeschooling moms, and provide you with some tips and practices that will help you do that! Resources mentioned in this episode: Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON50 for 50% off during July!) Our CPS Story The Excel Camp  College Alternative: Excel College Podcast Episode The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word Ways to connect with Emily:  Momsanity is a community of moms striving to achieve balance through physical, emotional, and spiritual wellness Raise Them Well creates trustworthy vitamins, supplements, and toxic-free products for the whole family.