Podcast appearances and mentions of Ed Welch

Most of us would like to learn how to have better conversations with those around us, but we don't know how to improve in these skills. Listen as Ed Welch considers 10 simple ways to improve our conversation skills in an effort to grow in our care for others. You can read his blog here. CCEF (the Christian Counseling & Educational Foundation) exists to restore Christ to counseling and counseling to the church. To learn more about biblical counseling and to find more resources that mine the treasures of Scripture for the troubles of life, visit ccef.org. Music: "Created by Design" by Cody Martin.

In this episode, CCEF faculty explore the challenges and expectations that come with church relationships. They discuss the importance of clear communication, understanding different personalities, and the role of vulnerability in fostering meaningful connections. They emphasize how our future hope and the steadfast friendship of Jesus are a source of comfort and strength in navigating these relationships. Related resources: - Caring for One Another: 8 Ways to Cultivate Meaningful Relationships | Book by Ed Welch - Community: A Struggle to Fit | Blog post by Darby Strickland - Expecting Less from Church | Blog post by Ed Welch

In his blog, Ed Welch considers one well-known story in Scripture, drawing out a lesser known act of God's great mercy in the story. You can read the blog here. CCEF (the Christian Counseling & Educational Foundation) exists to restore Christ to counseling and counseling to the church. To learn more about biblical counseling and to find more resources that mine the treasures of Scripture for the troubles of life, visit ccef.org. Music: "Created by Design" by Cody Martin.

Pastor Anthony King sits down with Dr. Ed Welch to talk about the healing touch of Jesus and how it speaks to our deepest shame. Together, they explore how Christ meets us in our unworthiness—not with rejection, but with compassion and cleansing. If you've ever felt too broken to be loved, this conversation will remind you that Jesus touches what others avoid.

This week, Dr. Ed Welch unpacks how the Gospel speaks directly to our shame, both the kind we carry from our own sin and the kind placed on us by others. Through Zechariah chapter 3, he reminds us that Jesus not only forgives but clothes us in His righteousness. If you've ever felt unworthy or dirty, this message will point you to the healing and hope found in Christ alone.

NOTE: This episode is a re-release of a conversation that was previously recorded in November of 2023.  As a perennially relevant topic at Regents, we are releasing it again for those of you who may have missed it the first time around. Dr. Ed Welch, faculty member at the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation (CCEF), talks with Dr. Dan Peterson and Dr. Ryan Lister about a biblical approach to dealing with anxiety.

Pastor Garrison GreeneTEXT: Genesis 33:1-20BIG IDEA: Our transforming relationship with the Lord transforms the way we relate to others.OUTLINE: Knowing God….1. Helps Us With Our Fear Of Others2. Moves Us Pursue Peace With Others3. Causes Us To Be Distinct From OthersRESOURCES: ESV Study Bible; Genesis Commentary by John Calvin; Reformed Expository Commentary: Genesis by Richard Phillips; Living in the Grip of Relentless Grace: The Gospel in the Life of Jacob by Iain Duguid; When People Are Big and God Is Small: Overcoming Peer Pressure, Codependency, and the Fear of Man by Ed Welch; The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict by Ken Sande

On this episode of This vs. That, we explore the fascinating tension between fear of man and fear of God with special guest Ed Welch and guest co-host Jonathan Holmes, Executive Director of Fieldstone Counseling. We trace Ed's journey of writing his influential book "When People Are Big and God Is Small," which began as a response to the codependency movement of the 1980s. Through our conversation, we discover how Ed's perspective shifted from a sharp critique of cultural trends to a more pastoral approach as he began seeing these themes everywhere in Scripture. We discuss the evolution from codependency to today's independent mindset, and explore how the fear of God isn't about being afraid, but rather about awe and reverence that draws us closer to Him. Through personal stories and biblical wisdom, we unpack what it means to love Jesus more than we love the approval of others. ---  Anchored Virtual provides practical help to those hurting, by anchoring their hope in Jesus, and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained, and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit anchoredvirtual.com and schedule an appointment today. --- We're really excited to tell you about Anchored Virtual's new podcast, Consult the Counselor. There are very few spaces that are designed for long form conversations on difficult counseling topics. On Consult a Counselor, that's what we want to provide. In each episode, we invite two of our counselors at Anchored Virtual into a deep dive conversation on a counseling topic. Once a month, we'll release episodes on issues such as addictions, trauma, church hurt, infertility, forgiveness, abuse, and more. You'll get to hear expert counselors discuss the nuances and challenges of these issues and ultimately apply the hope of the gospel in practical and meaningful ways. The first episode drops February 1st. I hope you'll join us. ----  Have you ever experienced the pain of church hurt? Whether it's disappointment caused by leaders, hurtful actions from fellow members, or wounds from the larger church community, these experiences can leave us wondering why we should stay. Join us for Finding Purpose and the Pain of Church Hurt, an auxiliary event at the Gospel Coalition Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana. This special session will take place on Wednesday, April 23rd from 4:45 to 6 p. m. hosted by Anchored Virtual. Join Rebekah Hannah, Dr. Michael Keller, and Dr. Michael Kruger, as they explore how God can transform even the deepest wounds into growth, resilience, and renewed faith. Whether you're in the pew or the pulpit, this session will speak to anyone navigating the hard realities of church hurt. Join us online or in person. You can register now at anchoredvirtual.com/tgc

Would you consider donating to CCEF to help us continue to provide the church with resources that mine the treasures of Scripture for the troubles of life? You can give at ccef.org/donate. Today's episode is a session from our national conference a few years ago on anxiety. This session is by Ed Welch and is titled “Daily Bread: Today's Strength for Anxious People.” Ed talks about God's invitation in anxiety to come to him and find strength for today.

Listen as Ed Welch reads his blog titled “Enduring in the Midst of Depression.” Ed reflects on the results of a survey on depression, highlighting the testimony of many saints who've clung to Jesus. Listen for some practical encouragement in the struggle of depression. You can read his blog here. CCEF (the Christian Counseling & Educational Foundation) exists to restore Christ to counseling and counseling to the church. To learn more about biblical counseling and to find more resources that mine the treasures of Scripture for the troubles of life, visit ccef.org. Music: "Created by Design" by Cody Martin.

In Numbers 13, we find God's chosen people in Paran, standing on the verge of the Promised Land of Canaan. And we might imagine standing in anticipation, waiting, looking off in the distance, for the site of twelve men. For 39 days they've been awaiting these 12 men. Now it is day 40, and the twelve men begin to appear on the horizon. From the way it looks, these twelve men are not empty-handed. Far from it, in fact. Some of them are hauling sacks of pomegranates. Others are carrying baskets of figs. At least two of them are shouldering a pole from which hangs a cluster of grapes larger than anything they've ever seen before. The 12 men reach the outer camp, move in toward the center where they find Moses and Aaron, and then, begin to share the news of all they've seen throughout their 40-day exploration in the Promised Land. Numbers 13:27, ”And they told him [Moses], “We came to the land to which you sent us. It flows with milk and honey, and this is its fruit…” But before smiles can appear among the people, and relief and rejoicing can erupt within the camp, down like a hammer falls the killer of all good news…the word however. “We came to the land to which you sent us. It flows with milk and honey, and this is its fruit. However…” However what?Verse 28,“However, the people who dwell in the land are strong, and the cities are fortified and very large. And besides, we saw the descendants of Anak there. The Amalekites dwell in the land of the Negeb. The Hittites, the Jebusites, and the Amorites dwell in the hill country. And the Canaanites dwell by the sea, and along the Jordan...”The land is good, say the twelve…however…In this morning's sermon, we're going to witness one of the greatest tragedies ever told. A tragedy not brought on by famine, disease, or sword. But by a far graver foe. One that had been lurking within each one of those Israelites waiting in the wilderness that day, and, in varying degrees, lurks in each and every one of us here this morning.And that is unbelief. Unbelief. And for those who are helped by outlines, this story is going to teach us four things about unbelief: (1) What unbelief cuts out, (2) adds in, (3) and leads to, and (4) how we should respond to unbelief. What unbelief cuts out, adds in, and leads to, and how we should respond to it.So, the report given by the spies is that the land is good, however… And with that one word “however,” at least 10 of those 12 total spies betray their forgone conclusion that what lies before them in Canaan is not a land of promise, but a land of sure and certain death. Well, upon reception of such a foreboding report, you could imagine the people begin to pick up on the doubts of those ten men. They begin to exchange glances with one another. Whispers are heard. A general sense of gloom begins to spread amongst the camp. Caleb, one of the other spies, stands up and tries to quiet the growing sense of despair, but his voice is quickly drowned out by the other ten who counter, Numbers 13:31, “We are not able to go up against the people, for…” and now just pause. What's going on here? Why has the mood so suddenly changed? Unbelief has descended upon the camp. And what does it cause the people to do? We said this story is going to teach us four things about unbelief. Here's the first…1. What Unbelief Cuts OutSee, because here's the thing, this peoples' unbelief in this moment — “We are not able to go up against the people” — is not taking place within a historical vacuum. Like, they weren't all just suddenly dropped into Paran without a backstory. They've not just been heading out to the Promised Land on a whim. But what unbelief has done, in a matter of seconds, it seems, is cut out from these peoples' minds the memory of all the Lord their God has told them regarding this land — namely, the fact that for over the last 800 years, God has been assuring them, “I am going to give this land to you.” Stretching all the way back to the day God first spoke to their father Abraham, Genesis 12:7, “To your offspring I will give this land.” And spoke again to him in Genesis 13:15, 17: “For all the land that you see I will give to you and to your offspring forever…Arise, walk through the length and the breadth of the land, for I will give it to you.” And again, to him, in Genesis 17:8:“I will give to you and to your offspring after you the land of your sojournings, all the land of Canaan, for an everlasting possession, and I will be their God.” And when Abraham was no more, God kept the promise going with Jacob, saying to him, Genesis 28:10-13:“I am the Lord, the God of Abraham your father and the God of Isaac. The land on which you lie I will give to you and to your offspring.”And as Jacob's people, the Israelites, traveled down in Egypt…and found themselves overpowered and enslaved there…even as all hope of their ever returning to the land seemed totally lost…even there God spoke to Moses from a burning bush, Exodus 3:17:“I promise that I will bring you up out of the affliction of Egypt to the land of the Canaanites, the Hittites, the Amorites, the Perizzites, the Hivites, and the Jebusites, a land flowing with milk and honey.”He even promised to Moses, Exodus 23:20-24:Behold, I send an angel before you to guard you on the way and to bring you to the place that I have prepared…“When my angel goes before you and brings you to the Amorites and the Hittites and the Perizzites and the Canaanites, the Hivites and the Jebusites, and I blot them out, you shall not bow down to their gods nor serve them, nor do as they do, but you shall utterly overthrow them and break their pillars in pieces.” Why just a few chapters back we heard Moses say to his father in law, Numbers 10:29, “We are setting out for the place of which the Lord said, ‘I will give it to you.' Come with us, and we will do good to you, for the Lord has promised good to Israel.” And if that weren't enough, just forty days earlier, just as these twelve were setting out, God spoke to Moses, “Send men to spy out the land of Canaan, which I am giving to the people of Israel.” I mean, how many times is God going to say it? “I'm going to give it to you — you just have to trust me!”But when push comes to shove, they won't. They won't. Instead, in an act of high-handed, widespread, shocking unbelief, the people pull an Adam and Eve — we trust our understanding concerning this thing, not yours. Unbelief, my brothers and sisters, is an old, old story. What does unbelief do? First, unbelief cuts out all recollection of God's promises to us, wipes them from our memory, causes spiritual amnesia to the point where we say, “We are not able to go up against the people…In fact, we're not sure why we ever thought we could.” What does unbelief do? First, unbelief cuts out all recollection of God's promises to us. And, unbelief cuts out all recollection of God's presence with us.God HimselfLook with me again at Numbers 13:31,“We are not able to go up against the people, for they are stronger than we are.” Notice, they are stronger than we. “But where is God?” He's entirely absent from view. All the people instead is us and them and no other. Which is amazing considering that this whole scene is unfolding before Moses and Aaron who, as we're told earlier in Numbers, camp just outside The Tent of Meeting. So somewhere in the background of this whole thing are the Levites, the priests, the Tent of Meeting itself, and the cloud of God's glory emanating out from it. But none of that makes any difference in this moment. For this people, it is as if they've suddenly awoken from a heavy sleep and concluded God's presence among them had only been a dream.And in such a godless frame of mind, all this people can arrive upon is a conclusion drawn by simple math, “We are not able to go up against the people, for they are stronger than we are.” You ever do that kind of math? You ever forget to consider God and his power and promise over your life?What does unbelief do? Unbelief cuts out all recollection of God's promises to us, and God's presence among us. That's what unbelief cuts out. What does unbelief add in to fill the void?2. What Unbelief Adds InSee if you can tell for yourself. Go with me to verse 32. Numbers 13:32-33,“The land, through which we have gone to spy it out, is a land that devours its inhabitants, and all the people that we saw in it are of great height. And there we saw the Nephilim (the sons of Anak, who come from the Nephilim), and we seemed to ourselves like grasshoppers, and so we seemed to them.”God, we might say, has a stabilizing effect when it comes to our understanding of the world. When he is in our worldview, and in its center, the peoples, places, and things all round him remain in proper size, scale, and proportion. But, when God is cut out, everything destabilizes — causing the peoples, places, and things around us to begin to balloon far out of proportion. To play off Ed Welch's phrase, “when God becomes small, people become big.” That's exactly what's going on here. With God cut out from view, the Israelites look upon the people in the land and think, “They look big. They look scary.” As we read in verse 33, “We seemed [when we looked upon them] to ourselves like grasshoppers, and so we seemed to them.” We seemed to ourselves like easy-to-squash bugs, and they thought the same. What does unbelief add in? Unbelief adds in a picture of man the size of God himself. See, because here's the thing: God has designed you and I to have God in our worldview. Should we choose to take him out, the position of deity does not vanish. It simply gets replaced by another. And right now, those peoples in Canaan have become that replacement. They're larger than life in our minds. Before them, we're tiny grasshoppers. So, unbelief adds in a picture of man the size of God himself. It also adds in a distorted view of what life was like prior to God.Distorted View of Life before GodTurn with me to Numbers 14:2,“And all the people of Israel grumbled against Moses and Aaron. The whole congregation said to them, “Would that we had died in the land of Egypt! Or would that we had died in this wilderness!”Don't miss this. They're basically saying, “Our life in Egypt as slaves was better than life right now with God. And our life would've been better had God never intervened. And if God would've just minded his own business and left us alone, oh how much simpler and easier things could have been for us. But it's only been since God's taken over that all these problems have come in.”This is a distorted view of what life was like prior to God. A view that labels God, rather than our sin, as the problem. Unbelief peppers us with this distortion of memory, in order to add in its final, most vile ingredient of all — the view of God as our enemy. God as enemyNumbers 14:3,“Why is the Lord bringing us into this land, to fall by the sword? Our wives and our little ones will become a prey.”Who is God in this picture? A God who tells his people of a good land, only to bring them into a land that, verse 32, “devours inhabitants.” A God who lifts his peoples' hopes up high, only to send them crashing down. A God not of bless you and keep you, lift up his countenance and give you peace, but curse you and disappoint you, lift up his anger and pour out his wrath to you.See, with God's good promises and good presence cut out. Unbelief pulls a slight of hand — adding in man as God, the view of life without God as the good life, and a skewed picture of a god whose only enjoyment is to bring us pain. Have you ever found yourself picturing God this way? That's what unbelief cuts out and adds in. Now, third, what unbelief ultimately leads to.3. What Unbelief Leads ToFor this I'll have us go to verse 21. Numbers 14:21, where God says, “But truly, as I live, and as all the earth shall be filled with the glory of the Lord...” — And you'll want to note the irony there because there's more of that coming — God says that all the earth, which includes Canaan, will be filled with his glory. The Israelites are making the claim that Canaan will continue to be filled with the glory of these enemy nations. God says, “No it won't! My glory will go forth into it, and, from there, into all the world.” “Truly, as I live, and as all the earth shall be filled with the glory of the Lord…[but]…” Verse 22,“None of the men who have seen my glory and my signs that I did in Egypt and in the wilderness, and yet have put me to the test these ten times and have not obeyed my voice, shall see the land that I swore to give to their fathers. And none of those who despised me shall see it.”But rather, verse 29: “Your dead bodies shall fall in this wilderness, and of all your number, listed in the census from twenty years old and upward, who have grumbled against me not one shall come into the land where I swore that I would make you dwell,”There were six hundred thousand men numbered in that census back in Numbers 1. Six hundred thousand men who were to follow the Lord wherever he called them. Six hundred thousand men who were to trust in the Lord no matter what enemy or danger laid before them. Six hundred thousand men who were so close to finally experiencing the joy of seeing God's promise to them fulfilled. Six hundred thousand men who'll become six hundred thousand desert graves in as little as 40 years. Where does unbelief lead to? Death apart from God. To the people who had said, Numbers 14:2, “Would that we had died in this wilderness!” God says, “okay, you will.” To the people who had said, “Our little ones will become a prey [if they follow God].” God says, no, they won't, but, as verse 24 tells us, all of Caleb's descendants will possess the land, and as the book of Joshua shows us, so will all of this generation's descendants as well. But as for them, they will die in the desert. So will all who ultimately fail to trust God. This is unbelief's end — death apart from God.So, we've seen what unbelief cuts out, adds in, and leads to. Fourth and finally, how should we respond to unbelief?4. How to Respond to UnbeliefAnd it's simply this: when unbelief threatens to cut out God's promises and add in a false view of God, belief counters by taking hold of God's promises and reasserting God's true revelation of himself. And that is exactly what Caleb and Moses do in this story. Taking hold of God's promises and reasserting God's true revelation of himself.CalebWe see the taking hold of God's promises with Caleb. And, you know, this is of special significance to me because I named my son after this man. (Which, in a way, is a feat, because as a former fifth grade teacher, you tend to have a lot of boys names already scratched from the list by the time it comes to naming your own child. Can't name him that. Can't name him that. Certainly can't name him that.)But when my wife and I went to name our son, we named him Caleb because, as his parents, we want him, and indeed all our children, to grow up and respond to unbelief like Caleb of Numbers 14 did. As one of your pastors, I too want all of us to grow more and more to respond to unbelief like Caleb of Numbers 14 did. See, because when Caleb is outnumbered 10 to 1, and the ten are making that claim that, “The land is good, however…” Caleb does not buckle under the pressure. He doesn't simply go along with the crowd. He stands up and says, Numbers 13:30,“Let us go up at once and occupy it for we are well able to overcome it.”And when he hears, Numbers 13:32, “this is a land that devours its inhabitants.” He responds, Numbers 14:7,“The land, which we passed through to spy it out, is an exceedingly good land. If the Lord delights in us, he will bring us into this land and give it to us, a land that flows with milk and honey.”Caleb knows that this is precisely what God has already promised to do for them. And when cowardice begins to claim, Numbers 13:33, “We were like grasshoppers compared to them.” Then with courage, he proclaims, Numbers 14:9, “Do not fear the people of the land, for they are bread for us...”And when his fellow companions say, Numbers 14:3, “The Lord is bringing us [in] to fall by the sword,” he remembers the covenant, the tent of meeting, the cloud of glory and says, Numbers 14:9, “…Their protection is removed from them, and the Lord is with us.”Caleb shows us how to respond to unbelief by taking hold of God's promises — “he's going to bring us into the land just as he said he would.”MOSESMoses shows us how to respond to unbelief by reasserting God's true revelation of himself. See, after the Israelites fail to trust God, God could've totally destroyed them right then and there. One reason he doesn't is because Moses intercedes before God and pleads on their behalf. In so doing, he calls upon God's passion for his glory among the peoples', Numbers 14:15, “Now if you kill this people as one man, then the nations who have heard your fame will say, ‘It is because the Lord was not able to bring this people into the land that he swore to give to them that he has killed them in the wilderness.'”Moses reasserts what he knows to be true about God — his desire to be glorified among the peoples', and the fact that he's hitched his glory to this particular people, Israel. He continues, verse 17: “And now, please let the power of the Lord be great as you have promised, saying, [so he's reasserting what God has already revealed to him concerning himself, namely that he is, verse 18, the Lord who is] ‘…slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love, forgiving iniquity and transgression, but he will by no means clear the guilty, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, to the third and the fourth generation.'”Moses reasserts, God is not our enemy seeking to disappoint us and bring us pain. He is our God who is slow to anger, abounding in steadfast love, and who pardons even this fallen, faithless, wayward people. ApplicationHow do you respond to unbelief? You respond by taking hold of God's promises, as Caleb did, and reasserting God's true revelation of himself, as Moses did.With that, I want to close with two brief notes of application — one for the Christians in this room, one for those here who've yet to trust Christ. For Christians, ask yourself: where do you see unbelief in your life right now? You've trusted Jesus, he's got a hold of you, and yet for all of us this morning there are yet areas of our life, areas of our heart, where unbelief still reigns. Where is it in you?In your continuing to pursue pleasure in certain sins? Perhaps not believing if you were to fully and finally turn your back on that sin that God would be enough for you? If that is you, might God be calling you today to trust him to be enough to once-and-for-all put that sin away. To say, “God, I know that I will not lack so long as I'm with you.”Is unbelief in your life in terms of a job you want, a spouse you want, a family you want? You've been trusting in God for some time now but recently you've felt the pull to stop trusting God and begin putting things into your own hands instead. Begin making little exceptions, little allowances, slight loosening of your morals, boundaries, and non-negotiables. If that is you, might God be calling you today to recommit your trust in him. To say, “God, I'll continue to follow you whether you change my circumstances or not.”Is unbelief in your life causing you to play it safe? To avoid risk? With regard to making disciples, with regard to living on mission, with regard to giving toward ministry to the unreached, or going yourself to do ministry to the unreached? If that is you, might God be calling you today to pray, seek counsel, and risk if God continues to say “go.” Say to God, “God, if you call me to go, I'll go.”Last word, for non-Christians. Might God be calling you to make today the day you first put your trust in him? I urge you, do not go another day in the wilderness of unbelief. Do not take another step toward death apart from God. Turn from self, turn to God, receive his invitation into the true promised land — heaven with God forever. Now, in just a moment, we're going to be joined up here by a few individuals who have, indeed, turned from self, turned to God, and received his invitation into the true promised land. And they're wanting to be baptized as an outward demonstration of that inward reality. And as we witness these friends going down into the water and coming up again, let us remember, we who trust in God do not die in the wilderness apart from God. But rise to heaven to be with God forever. Let's pray.

Donate today in support of this podcast! Help IBCD hit its year-end fundraising goal of $30,000 by sending a financial gift of any amount by 12/31/2024. Give at https://ibcd.org/donate - THANK YOU! In this episode of the Hope + Help Podcast, host Christine Chappell interviews Ed Welch about his book, Depression: Finding Christ in the Darkness. Some of the questions addressed in this interview are: • In what way does Jesus welcome those who are experiencing depression? • Why is it true that "faith can feel good, and faith can feel horrible," and how might this comfort a despondent heart? • How does the gospel offer hope to those who fear that healing and change will never come? • How might hopelessness "be anxiety that is exhausted"? • How can we broach the topic of confession in such a way that is productive for the sufferer? • How might sufferers take aim at hopelessness by taking part in God's "family business"? • Why is it true that "God must fight [the sufferer's] battle" and what makes this a reality they can rest in? View the full show notes & links for this episode: https://ibcd.org/depression-ed-welch The Hope + Help Podcast offers biblical conversations about life's challenging problems. The podcast accomplishes this by offering a mix of interviews with seasoned biblical counseling professionals and ministry leaders on a variety of topics. Hosted by Christine Chappell. To learn more about the show and to access helpful resources, visit https://ibcd.org/hopeandhelp. Connect with host Christine Chappell at https://christinemchappell.com. IBCD's Hope + Help Podcast is available on most podcast streaming platforms, so please don't keep the show a secret! If you know someone walking through a challenging season of life, please share the Hope + Help Podcast with them.

Do you crave people's love and approval? Do you dread their rejection or mistreatment? Although we don't always realize it, many of our lives—and identities—are dangerously contorted around such longings and fears. Today we are going to find healthy, biblical ways to overcome these fears. Here are some questions we will tackle in this episode: Why is the fear of man such an easy trap to fall into and why can it wreak so much havoc in our lives? How can we tell the difference between being considerate and thoughtful versus living from a place where we fear man?  What are some of the warnings in scripture about fearing man and why do you think it's so important to heed them? How do we know when we are living in the fear of man? Can you define co-dependency and why can it be so tempting? How can we tell if we are co-dependent? What biblical remedy do we have as believers that can help us live in freedom from fear of man? The previous podcast with Ed Welch mentioned: What Does the Bible Have to Say About Psychiatric Disorders? Scriptures shared: Prov. 29:25, Psalm 118:8, Isaiah 51:7, Jer. 17:5-8 (2 ways to live), Resources mentioned in this episode: When People Are Big and God Is Small Link to podcast episode search bar Raising Boys to Men Book Raising Boys to Men Audiobook The Unhurried Homeschooler The Unhurried Homeschooler Audiobook Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart The Four-Hour School Day CTC Math Voetberg Music Academy (Use discount code WILSON20for 20%) Children's Chewable Probiotic (Use DURENDA10 at checkout for 10% off your first order) Subscribe to my monthly email and receive access to Unhurried Grace for a Mom's Heart: 31 Days in God's Word

Listen as Ed Welch reads his blog titled “God Comes Close,” in which he reflects on God's presence as the greatest reassurance to anxious people. You can read his blog here. CCEF (the Christian Counseling & Educational Foundation) exists to restore Christ to counseling and counseling to the church. To learn more about biblical counseling and to find more resources that mine the treasures of Scripture for the troubles of life, visit ccef.org. Music: "Created by Design" by Cody Martin.

Today's episode is an audio lecture from one of our online courses, Helping Relationships, which is taught by Ed Welch. This lecture is titled “Pursue & Know People” and it covers one of the foundational ideas to this course and to all of biblical counseling: that we aim to know people well and pursue them like Jesus. Registration for this course is open through December 3. Register at ccef.org/school. The CCEF School of Biblical Counseling offers 6 courses that make up 2 certificates designed to equip you for biblical counseling. Our students include pastors, elders, ministry leaders, counselors, and any Christian wanting to grow in wise soul care. You can learn more at ccef.org/school.

The last time we did a roundup of our unpopular opinion polls, it was November of 2021! That's too long ago, so today we fix that bug. Join Go Time producer, Jerod Santo, as he ranks & reviews the most (un)popular opinions of 2022.

The last time we did a roundup of our unpopular opinion polls, it was November of 2021! That's too long ago, so today we fix that bug. Join Go Time producer, Jerod Santo, as he ranks & reviews the most (un)popular opinions of 2022.

7:15: Telegram, Praying Mantises, Lady Bug insect kits.11:20: Molly eats caterpillars for dinner, Molly gets a tension headache.15:48: Being shocked by someone's sin and Stephen Lawson20:25: Idols of the Heart and flattening out the spectrum of sin22:27: Ed Welch and leftover halloween candy26:00: The language of “watch yourself lest you too fall into sin.”27:44: But the sin is actually egregious and Julie Roys took it up.32:34: Severity of sin and an interesting paradox in Scripture36:07: A take on RFK and Olivia Nuzzi via House Inhabit.SUBSTACK44:56: 3 Sermons on the theme of idols: Stacy Gaylord (ME? A Slave?) Jeff Hamling (Sound of Silence), Bryan Clark (The Fall of the Great Prostitute).54:26: A spelling test of the old testament and the root of the word “Proverb.” Too Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

To kick off season two of Grafana's Big Tent podcast, our host Mat Ryer is back and he's bringing along some heavy hitters! Get ready for a deep dive into the world of caching with Memcached maintainer Alan Kasindorf (aka dormando), along with caching aficionados Danny Kopping and Ed Welch. They'll discuss CPU-level to application-level caching and share strategies that supercharge performance, especially in high-traffic, distributed systems like Grafana Loki. 

Listen as Ed Welch reads his blog titled “When Your Mind Gets Stuck,” in which he considers one strategy for dealing with unwanted, persistent thoughts. You can read his blog here. CCEF (the Christian Counseling & Educational Foundation) exists to restore Christ to counseling and counseling to the church. To learn more about biblical counseling and to find more resources that mine the treasures of Scripture for the troubles of life, visit ccef.org. Music: "Created by Design" by Cody Martin.

It's 50 years since Spike Milligan recorded an LP version of his children's story Badjelly the Witch, with music by Ed Welch. The story is simple and hilarious. Two children, Tim & Rose, go in search of their lost cow Lucy and along the way have adventures with characters such as Binklebonk the tree goblin and his grasshopper Silly Sausage, Mudwiggle the worm and Dinglemouse, a former banana. Peril is just around the corner however, as they are captured by the terrifying witch Badjelly who wants to eat them up for breakfast! The record was a huge hit with kids in New Zealand, thanks to radio broadcasts in the seventies and eighties, and even today the mere mention of the name 'Badjelly' will elicit broad grins of recognition across generations, yet oddly it barely registers with people in Britain. Hoping to put this right is cartoonist and writer Roger Langridge (who also designed this week's delightful artwork) who chats to Tyler about the history of Badjelly and shares favourite moments. There's also a lovely return visit from Jane Milligan who talks warmly about the baddest witch in all the world and hints at what the future holds.

Enjoy a bonus episode while we're on break over the summer! This episode is a recording of Ed Welch's plenary session from the 2023 National Conference: Trauma. This year's national conference will explore the topic of rest: a foundational way of living out the Christian life that can only be learned from Christ and put into practice amid the challenges of daily life. Learn more and register at ccef.org/2024. To receive a $25 discount on your in-person registration, use the code “podcast” at checkout. This discount is valid through the end of August 2024. Find all the sessions from our 2023 National Conference: Trauma here.

We want the applause of people, and we fear their rejection. In both cases, other people have become big in our eyes while God has become small. How can we flip that around?

How big is God? It’s more than just a Sunday School question for kids; grown-ups need to answer it as well. How big is God in your life?

Listen as Ed Welch reads his blog titled “Good Cop, Bad Cop in the Home.” Ed discusses what it looks like to be united as husband and wife in parenting, for the glory of God and the good of each other and our children. You can read the blog here. Music: "Created by Design" by Cody Martin

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Jeff Dalrymple, the executive director of ECAP and Chairman of the Board at Anchored Hope, as our guest host. We spend time discussing the mission and vision of Anchored Hope, a biblically grounded, clinically informed virtual counseling center. We share the story of our journey, how we began, and how we've grown, highlighting our dedication to making counseling accessible worldwide. We also talk about the personal lives and stories of the team members, giving listeners a glimpse of the people behind the mission. This episode provides a deeper understanding of who we are and what we do at Anchored Hope. ----- We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Rebecca McLaughlin and Ed Welch. Rebecca and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing. For more information or to register, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we discuss the upcoming auxiliary event at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference. This special event is held in partnership with Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling, two organizations that share a common goal of providing quality, gospel-centered counseling. In this episode we'll look at the origins of this collaboration, the benefits of joint efforts, and our shared passion for helping people. We firmly believe that these organizations' combined strengths can lead to a significant impact on the local church and the wider community. 00:00 Introduction to the Special Edition and Event Collaboration 01:44 The Genesis of the Collaboration 03:09 The Importance of Collaboration and Community 04:37 Unpacking 'Wise Words for Challenging Times' 06:03 The Power and Impact of Wise Words 09:37 Panelist Insights: Applying Wisdom in Today's World 13:57 The Challenges of Cultivating a Life of Wisdom 18:07 The Vision and Hope for the Event 23:01 The Role of Community and Friendship in Wisdom 26:47 Event Registration Details and Encouragement ----- We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Rebecca McLaughlin and Ed Welch. Rebecca and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing. For more information or to register, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Ed Welch is has a doctorate in psychology and is a Biblical/Christian counselor. He is a contributor to the 'Life Counsel Bible' also available on Kindle. Download, 'Steps to Your Freedom from Demons'Get Jared's new book, 'The Baptism with the Holy Spirit' as paperback or ebook available on Amazon or Barnes and Noble.Schedule your Spirit Empowered Healing Prayer. Or email info@firebornministries.comSubscribe to our teaching and equipping podcast, 'Spirit Empowered Living with Jared and Rochelle Laskey.' Subscribe on Apple, Spotify, Libsyn, Google, or on your favorite podcast app.Go to Covenant Eyes and check out their resources, purchase their software and download their app at Covenant Eyes. Get 30-Days Free with promo code FIREBORN (web-based purchase only). Purchase using our promo code using your desktop or laptop and then download the app on your phone/Ipad/tablets.

Today we're excited to share with you a recent project we've been working on. We started a new podcast called the CCEF Blogcast, where CCEF faculty read their own blogs. We hope you enjoy this special episode as Ed Welch reads his blog, “Become a Psalmist.” For more content like this, check out the CCEF Blogcast wherever you listen to podcasts. Music: "Created by Design" by Cody Martin

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Dr. Russell Moore, the editor in chief of Christianity Today and author of the book Losing Our Religion: an Altercall for Evangelical America. We discuss a variety of topics, from the current state of politics and its impact on the church, to the personal struggles individuals face within this politically charged environment. We also explore the concept of political engagement versus political idolatry, delving into the nuances of each and their implications for our spiritual lives. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation. ----- We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Rebecca McLaughlin and Ed Welch. Rebecca and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing. For more information or to register, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Dani Treweek. Joining us from Sydney, Australia, Dani is a renowned Christian theological researcher, author, speaker, and the founding director of Single Minded Ministry. We discuss her work, which focuses on exploring God's purposes for singleness and equipping Christians. Throughout our discussion, we touch on the intricacies of singleness within the church and the societal pressures that surround it. We also address the gendered experiences of singleness and the challenges that come with it. Finally, Dani provides insightful perspectives on celibacy and sexual stewardship within the Christian faith. This episode offers much-needed conversation for both single and married listeners. Resources Mentioned: Single Minded Ministry - A parachurch ministry focused on exploring God's purposes for singleness and equipping Christians. It features a resource library with extensive materials on singleness and related topics, available at www.singleminded.community. The Meaning of Singleness: Retrieving an Eschatological Vision for the Contemporary Church - A book by Dani Treweek that provides a dense, robust exploration of the theological and eschatological significance of singleness. Seven Myths About Singleness - A book by Sam Allberry that challenges common misconceptions about singleness, offering a biblical perspective that affirms the value and importance of singleness in the Christian life. ----- We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch. Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing. For more information or to register, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠ ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome Tim Challies. Our conversation centers around the challenging and deeply personal topic of grieving with hope versus grieving without hope. We explore how Tim's faith shaped his response to loss, the role of lament in the grieving process, and how to navigate the difficult balance between accepting God's decree and dealing with personal sorrow. This episode is an insightful journey into the spiritual and emotional aspects of grieving, providing listeners with a thoughtful perspective on a universally human experience. Resources Mentioned "Seasons of Sorrow" by Tim Challies "Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy: Discovering the Grace of Lament" by Mark Vroegop "When God Weeps" by Joni Eareckson Tada ----- We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch. Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing. For more information or to register, visit: ⁠⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠ ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with with Mark Vroegop about the concepts of frustration and anger. We explore how these emotions are often intertwined, and how they can be both righteous and unrighteous. Mark shares his experiences at College Park Church in Indianapolis and also provides a glimpse into his personal life. We examine the complexities of these emotions in the context of our faith and our responses to a world marked by sin and brokenness. We also discuss the balance of asking questions from a place of suffering versus a place of demand. Finally, we contemplate how dealing with these emotions requires strong theological foundations and faith. Resources Mentioned "Good and Angry" by David Powlison "Respectable Sins" by Jerry Bridges "Future Grace" by John Piper "Waiting on God" by Andrew Murray "The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment" by Jeremiah Burroughs "How Does Sanctification Work?" by David Powlison ----- We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch. Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing. For more information or to register, visit: ⁠⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠⁠ ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Listen as Ed Welch reads his blog titled “They Call It Narcissism.” He highlights some of the hardships of being in relationship with someone with narcissism, and some of the strategies we can take to challenge and love them well. You can read this blog here. Music: "Created by Design" by Cody Martin

On this episode of This vs. That, we have an enriching conversation with John Starke about the importance of balancing talking and listening in prayer. John shares valuable insights from his book, The Possibility of Prayer, and highlights the transformative power of stillness. As we explore the challenges many Christians face with prayer, John explains the significance of allowing our anxieties and guilt to rise to the surface and how these 'intolerable things' can be healed through prayer. We also discuss how interpreting and applying scripture can guide us in our communication with God. Join us as we navigate these essential aspects of the Christian life. ----- We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch. Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing. For more information or to register, visit: ⁠events.anchoredhope.co⁠ ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we welcome back Jonathan Holmes, executive director at Fieldstone Counseling. Together, we explore the complex topic of humility versus self-loathing. We examine how these two concepts can often be confused and how this issue frequently arises in counseling. Jonathan offers insightful responses to challenging questions about self-esteem, self-care, and humility, allowing us to comprehend the nuanced differences between self-loathing and true humility. We also discuss the influence of self-perception on our experiences and the importance of focusing on God's voice in our lives. ----- We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch. Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing. For more information or to register, visit: events.anchoredhope.co ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

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Listen as Ed Welch reads his blog titled “Become a Psalmist,” in which he invites us to speak honest words to the Lord, who is honored to hear what is on our hearts. You can read this blog here. CCEF (the Christian Counseling & Educational Foundation) exists to restore Christ to counseling and counseling to the church. To learn more about biblical counseling and to find more resources that mine the treasures of Scripture for the troubles of life, visit ccef.org. Music: "Created by Design" by Cody Martin  

Counseling & the Church - Listen to the latest episode of the Disciple Hinson Podcast (DHP) as Dan and Michael talk about what counseling ought to look like in the context of the church as done by pastors and church members. Some helpful books on this topic are "Side by Side" by Ed Welch and "The Pastor and Counseling" by Deepak Reju and Jeremy Pierre.

Counseling & the Church - Listen to the latest episode of the Disciple Hinson Podcast (DHP) as Dan and Michael talk about what counseling ought to look like in the context of the church as done by pastors and church members. Some helpful books on this topic are "Side by Side" by Ed Welch and "The Pastor and Counseling" by Deepak Reju and Jeremy Pierre.

QUOTES FOR REFLECTION“One of the challenges that we have collectively as a society is that in this country, we do victory great, we do success great, we do power great. We do not do shame very well; we do not do guilt very well. We don't own up to our mistakes. And the absence of shame is what makes us vulnerable to discrimination and bigotry and abuse of power…If you see two people who've loved each other for fifty years, if you ask them what the secret is; they've learned how to say I'm sorry to one another…”~Bryan Stevenson (1959-present), lawyer, activist, and author of Just Mercy “Be killing sin or it will be killing you.”~John Owen (1616-1683), British theologian and church leader “There is a mean streak to authentic self-control. Underneath what seems to be the placid demeanor of those who are not ruled by their desires is the heart of a warrior… Self-control is not for the timid. When we want to grow in it, not only do we nurture an exuberance for Jesus Christ, we also demand of ourselves a hatred for sin…The only possible attitude toward out-of-control desire is a declaration of all-out war.”~Ed Welch (1953-present), Counselor and Author in Addictions: A Banquet in the Grave “See dawg I live by the Spirit so I don't gratifyAll them old sinful desires that never satisfy… [Sin]: Man you know you miss them old days…Yeah you right possiblyBut after that I sober up and think of Jesus holding upHis skin up on the cross for all them drunken nights I'm throwing upEvery thought of blowin' up is captured in his flowing bloodI start thinking Philippians 4:8 when you showing up. [Sin]: You know I ain't gone quit right?Yeah I know but I'm dead to youAnd one day I'll be present with Jesus who died and bled from youColossians 1:15 that's the God that I trust inThe Father crushed HimIn doing so he has crushed sin.”~Lecrae Moore (1979-present), Grammy-winning hip-hop artist in song Indwelling SinSERMON PASSAGEGalatians 5:13-26 (ESV)

    Today host Heather Creekmore is joined by author Ed Welch for a thought-provoking conversation about biblical counseling, body image issues, and the challenges of Christian teachings in the face of human emotions. The discussion touches on the impact of Welch's book "When People Are Big and God Is Small" on Creekmore's own work in biblical counseling, the importance of finding words to express struggles in biblical counseling and the tension between seeking God's comfort in anxiety and the reality of human emotions. They explore the significance of supportive friendships, prayer, and seeking help from trusted individuals amidst personal struggles. Welch also introduces a new counseling Bible and discusses the diverse applications of scripture in addressing modern struggles.  Here are some key quote takeaways from today's show: "Sometimes we don't speak about the difficult things we experience because we don't think we should have those. Christian the Christian emotional life should be just a little bit better than the majority of people because we have Jesus, So we should be a little bit happier than everybody else, and that'd be anything less than that is to somehow dishonor god and say he's less Powerful." - Ed Welch  How the Psalms can teach us about our emotions: Ed says they teach us to ask, "What is important on your soul right now? How you feel is the same thing. What is especially important to you right now? What are your joys? What are your delights? What are your hopes? What are your ambitions? What are your fears?" Learn more about Ed Welch and the Biblical Counseling Bible here: https://www.ccef.org/people/ed-welch Check out the CSB Life Counsel Bible: https://amzn.to/3SIEi56 (Amazon affiliate link)  

“The heart poured out to the Lord is actually a form of trust.”   Sometimes we find ourselves unable to control our emotions. Often this produces guilt, and we wonder, “What does that say about my faith?” How do we navigate such an experience? Listen as Alasdair Groves discusses this experience and what faithful living looks like in this first episode of a miniseries on emotions.   Related resources: Untangling Emotions | Book by Alasdair Groves & Winston Smith https://www.ccef.org/book/untangling-emotions Emotions Are a Language | Blog post by Ed Welch https://www.ccef.org/emotions-are-a-language Strong Emotions, Extreme Confidence | Blog post by Ed Welch https://www.ccef.org/strong-emotions-extreme-confidence Negative Emotions (Part 1) | Podcast episode by Alasdair Groves

Ed Welch (MDiv and PhD) is a licensed psychologist and faculty member at the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation. Ed has been counseling for over forty years and has written numerous books on the topics of depression, fear and addictions. Most recently, he was a major contributor to the new Life Counsel Bible from Holman Bibles and New Growth Press. To learn more about Ed, see ccef.org  For the Life Counsel Bible, see here: https://lifecounselbible.com/  Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Sometimes Scripture feels dry, distant, or impersonal. How do we apply Scripture in these times? How do we take hold of a cup of cold water when we are most thirsty? Listen as Alasdair Groves discusses what it looks like to bring Scripture to bear on our sufferings and struggles, using several examples from his own life. Related resources: Shaking Off Some Lifelessness with the Psalms | Blog post by Ed Welch https://www.ccef.org/shaking-off-some-lifelessness-with-the-psalms How Do You Personally Engage with Scripture? | Podcast episode by Alasdair Groves & Mike Emlet https://www.ccef.org/podcast/how-do-you-personally-engage-with-scripture Take Heart: Daily Devotions to Deepen Your Faith | Book by David Powlison https://www.ccef.org/book/take-heart-daily-devotions-to-deepen-your-faith

Do you panic a little when you recognize yourself or your children in descriptions like “OCD,” “bipolar disorder,” or “ADHD”? Have you or your child been diagnosed with a psychiatric disorder and you'd like to understand if or how it correlates with a spiritual problem? Join Ginger Hubbard and Katy Morgan, along with special guest Ed Welch, as they discuss how we can turn to Scripture for guidance on how to navigate and understand the spiritual implications of a psychiatric diagnosis. *** For show notes and episode downloads, go to GingerHubbard.com/Podcast *** Support this podcast:   https://www.gingerhubbard.com/support *** Sponsor for this episode:   The World and Everything in It | wng.org/podcasts/the-world-and-everything-in-it CTC Math | ctcmath.com Concurrently | wng.org/podcasts/concurrently ***

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Anxiety can feel crippling and heavy with shame. Psychologist and author Dr. Ed Welch fumbled with his own anxiety, and eventually, it led him into life-altering encounters with God—who, it turned out, had beautiful things to say. Show Notes and Resources Hear Ed Welch on Right Now Media and listen to other episodes he's been on and connect with his Christian couseling ministry. Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about anxiety in our blog post, Anxiety: What You Need to Know. Grab 25% off all FamilyLife's small-group studies atshop.familylife.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

What's it look like to help an anxious spouse? Psychologist Dr. Ed Welch offers real wisdom—and real hope—for the dark waters of fear. Find practical insights for navigating tough areas together with a bedrock trust in God's love. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Ed Welch and catch more of his thoughts at the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation (CCEF.org), TheGospelCoalition.org, and DesiringGod.org. And grab Ed's book, I Have a Psychiatric Diagnosis: What Does the Bible Say? in our shop. Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about Christianity and psychology with Ed's many FamilyLife Today episodes. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Skyrocketing numbers of anxiety, depression, and self-harm can be downright intimidating to parents of teens. Psychologist Dr. Ed Welch offers you-can-do-this guidance to shape a home environment that welcomes, supports, heals—and helps kids navigate their way to hope. Show Notes and Resources Connect with Ed Welch and catch more of his thoughts at the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation (CCEF.org), TheGospelCoalition.org, and DesiringGod.org. And grab Ed's book, I Have a Psychiatric Diagnosis: What Does the Bible Say? in our shop. Intrigued by today's episode? Think deeper about Christianity and psychology with Ed's many FamilyLife Today episodes. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network