The Millennial Mission Podcast - Parenting, Personal Finance, and Purpose for the Christian Millennial Couple

Ever feel that tug-of-war between wanting to open your home and also just wanting a quiet, clean space? Us too.Summer has this way of stirring things up — kids are out of school, the backyard suddenly becomes the neighborhood hotspot, and somehow your house turns into the unofficial sleepover headquarters. So how do we prepare our homes and hearts for hospitality?In this episode, we're taking an honest look at the mess and the ministry of hospitality. We're sharing five simple things that have helped us over the years — things like keeping popsicles and extra toothbrushes on hand, teaching our kids to help make the home feel welcoming, and how setting boundaries actually makes our house more of a place kids want to be.But we're also talking about the why behind it all — because creating a safe, fun, loving space for kids to hang out? That's more than just being the ‘cool house'. That's kingdom work. And bonus: you know exactly who your kids are with and what they're doing when they're right under your roof.You don't need to have it all together to be the house where kids feel welcome. This episode is full of practical ideas and gentle encouragement to help you open your home with purpose and peace.Let's do this together — hit play and let's chat about what it really looks like to open your doors and your heart this summer.Episode Highlights: 5 Practical Ways to Prep Your House for Hosting KidsThink about your household goals.What example are you setting?Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

When is the last time you have invited someone into your home to sit down and dive into the parts of life that go deeper than everyday conversation?If this isn't something that you do, or have done recently, what's holding you back? Is it space? Is it clutter? Is it fear of what people might see when you let your walls down?For me, at one point or another it's been all of those things, and I know I'm not alone in that. That's why I'm so excited to share today's conversation with Victoria Duerstock.Victoria Duerstock is a creative, an author of multiple books, and has over 20 years of experience in interior design. Today we are talking about the richness that letting our walls down and literally opening up our doors has on our lives---despite what they look like, how big they are, how much laundry we have piled up, or how our kids behave.This conversation has come at such a perfect time because over the last year or so, Corey and I have chosen to finally get rooted in a town and intentionally dive deep into the relationships around us. We desired to find a community that we could do life with, and go beyond simple conversation and small talk. God has been so good in blessing us with that in His timing, and honestly none of these deep relationships would exist if our friends had not let their walls down, and invited us into their worlds and their homes.The richer our relationships get, the more I see this lacking in our generation as a whole and it's something I truly believe we desperately need. I can only say this because I went years believing that growing roots in a community and connecting deeper with other people outside of my immediate family had no value. How wrong I was!Victoria is so full of wisdom even in this short conversation. Not only does she share truths about the importance of getting past trying to “appear” a certain way, but she gives tactical tips on how to style our homes and make them more inviting.I hope you leave this conversation today feeling inspired to invite others into your world, and make your home a mission field.Episode Highlights: Victoria's journey to where she is now.The heart behind her new bookMaking your Home a Place of Mission with Victoria Duerstock.How to be more mission-minded when it comes to our homes.Things we can do to become more connected in this crazy world.Simple ways to re-decorate with what you already have!More on Guest:Victoria's WebsiteGet Guard Your Heart and Home HEREConnect with Victoria on InstagramLinks Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What if paying off debt didn't mean putting life on hold?This month we knocked out some debt, paid off a line of credit, and finally feel the snowball rolling. It's gonna take a few years—and that's okay. We're in it for the long haul without putting life on hold.Instead of extreme cuts that leave us burned out, we're learning to be intentional: letting the kids play sports (no $6 concession stand nachos for us), fixing up the backyard, and choosing joy where we can.Funny thing—getting serious about money has actually made our marriage stronger too. Turns out a little margin (and a hot cup of coffee) can change everything.You don't have to pick between financial freedom and a full life. You can have both. One small step at a time.Episode Highlights: Neighborhood mailbox drama.Finding margin.Morning coffee and words of affirmation.Debt update.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What if the hardest moments of motherhood weren't something to escape—but a holy invitation?In this episode, we sit down with Whitney Newby, the heart behind Brighter Day Press, who opens up about the messy, beautiful collision of motherhood and faith. A former nurse turned homeschooling mama of four, Whitney shares how an early, overwhelming moment with her newborn led her to a deep realization: her own love and strength would never be enough—but God's grace would be.With wisdom forged in the trenches, Whitney offers practical rhythms for weary mamas—like redefining interruptions as divine assignments and waking up just a little earlier to meet with the One who holds it all together. She challenges the idea that self-care means checking out, pointing instead to Jesus, who withdrew to pray so He could pour Himself out again.Whether you're juggling toddlers or teens, homeschool or public school, this conversation is a gentle nudge to lift your eyes, steady your heart, and find God right in the thick of it.Episode Highlights: Meet Whitney Newby.About Brighter Day Press.Whitney's homeschooling journey.A devotional for moms.Changing our perspective.Routines that work for the Newby's.Depending on Jesus in our ‘empty cup moments'.Find More on Guest:Visit Brighter Day Press WebsiteGet your copy of Whitney's book:  Lift Your EyesFollow Whitney on Instagram: @brighterdaypressLinks Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co Nourish Move LoveAtomic HabitsThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Remember when eye contact, please-and-thank-you, and real conversations were just... normal? These days, it feels like we're raising kids in a world that's slowly forgetting how to be human.We see it everywhere—from the cashier who barely looks up, to parents missing “watch me!” moments at the playground because they're glued to their phones. It's not just about manners—it's about teaching our kids how to truly connect.The good news? It doesn't take much to turn the tide. Let your kid order their own food. Chat with “safe strangers.” Put the phones down at dinner and just talk. These little things? They add up. And they make a big difference.If you're ready to raise kids who can look people in the eye and hold their own in a conversation, you're not alone. Let's build a generation that knows the power of putting the phone down and showing up—for real.Episode Highlights: Culture shifts in the world.Raising respectful kids.We should talk more.Look up!Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What if the struggle you're avoiding is the very thing meant to make you stronger?Across the pages of the Bible, scripture doesn't shy away from suffering. Instead, it calls us to embrace it, learn from it, and find joy in the middle of it. Because maybe pain isn't punishment—it's preparation.Jesus didn't promise a trouble-free life. He promised victory through the struggle. And when He said, “Take up your cross and follow me,” he wasn't inviting us to a life of ease. He was inviting us to a life of purpose.So, what if your current hardship isn't something to escape, but something to lean into? Something meant to build resilience, character, and faith?Let's talk about finding meaning in the mess and purpose in the pain.Episode Highlights: Biblical understanding of suffering.Sanctification through suffering.God doesn't call us to be comfortable.God designed us for community.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co Books of the Bible referenced: John, Romans, Hebrews, James, & 1 PeterThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What are you doing with your tax refund this year?In this episode, we're getting real about our financial journey—how small, consistent habits have helped us make meaningful progress in paying down debt. We kick things off with a fun game (yes, it involves singing—and no, we're not auditioning for American Idol). Expect a few missed notes and a lot of laughs along the way.We also talk about the curveball we got during tax season when our refund didn't come through as expected, reminding us that it's better to make financial plans without banking on unexpected bonuses.It's the small, everyday choices that are making a difference: cutting back on meals out, checking in on our budget regularly, and avoiding credit card temptations. These simple habits are helping us inch closer to our goal. If you're navigating debt or just want some practical tips on making better financial choices, this episode is for you. Sometimes it's not about big changes, but the tiny ones that add up over time.Episode Highlights: Let's play a new game.Sharing a debt update.Whatchu doin' with that tax return?Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Be honest… Do you pee in the shower? Or are you now questioning every shared shower you've ever stepped foot in? This time on Parents Google Everything, we dive into some highly scientific research (aka Google) to uncover the surprising truth about bathroom habits across generations.But that's just the beginning. We're also talking about the unexpected yet powerful Brandon Lake and Jelly Roll collab on Hard Fought Hallelujah—why it matters, how it's pushing Christians outside their comfort zones, and what it says about the church's need to love people better. Plus, we dig into why parenting today feels way harder than it did in the ‘90s (hint: inflation, constant digital noise, and group texts that never end).And if that's not enough, we're tackling some of the wildest cultural shifts happening right now, from AI dating to the heartbreaking homeless crisis in LA.It's a mix of humor, deep thoughts, and possibly too much information—just how we like it. Tune in!Episode Highlights: Reflecting on a tough week.Brandon Lake, Jelly Roll and pushing comfort zones.Why parenting today is harder than the '90s.Exploring AI dating and the LA homeless crisis.Shocking shower habit statistics.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co Why parenting in 2025 feels much harder than it did in the ‘90sDowntown L.A. slammed as ‘third world'Watch Hard Fought Hallelujah with Brandon Lake & Jelly RollWatch the Brandon Lake and Jelly Roll InterviewThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What would happen if we stopped seeing foster care as someone else's problem?Right now, there are nearly 400,000 children in the foster care system, and behind each number is a real child, a real family, a real story. In this episode, we're sharing a bit about our own journey into foster care—what led us to say “yes” when so many step back, and why the fight for families is more urgent than ever.We dig into the hard truths about why families are struggling, the ripple effects on communities, and what it really takes to step into the gap. But this isn't just about fostering—it's about how all of us can play a role in strengthening families, whether we open our homes or simply open our hearts.So, what's God calling you to do? Let's talk about it.Episode Highlights: Why we stepped into foster care.Answering the call.Addressing spiritual warfare.Sharing statistics.Where we place our hope.Fighting for family.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co Get involved at Hope Bridge.Listen Episode 160 & 161.This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How would you define your relationship with money in your marriage—a seamless partnership, a constant tug-of-war, or something you avoid talking about altogether?In this episode, we're getting real about marriage and money—because if there's one thing that can test a relationship, it's finances. We're pulling back the curtain on our own experiences, sharing the lessons we've learned (sometimes the hard way) about handling bank accounts, tackling debt, and navigating different spending styles without losing our minds.Talking about money in marriage doesn't have to feel like a high-stakes negotiation—we're here to prove it can be honest, productive, and even a little fun. From budgeting hacks that actually work to figuring out what's truly worth your time and money, we're diving into the practical and personal sides of financial teamwork.So, if you and your partner have ever argued over a Target run or debated the merits of separate versus joint accounts, this one's for you. Tune in, subscribe, and let us know—what's been your biggest money win (or disaster) in marriage?Episode Highlights: Debt update.Getting finances in order.Methods that have worked for us.Marriage talk.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow Bethany on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFollow Corey on Instagram @mrcoreyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Email Bethany at bethany@adkinsmedia.co This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you have a friend you can be completely real with, no masks, no pretending—just you?This episode is all about the power of deep, intentional relationships—whether in marriage, friendship, or community. We talk about what it means to truly show up for one another, the messy beauty of loving people well, and how Christ-centered connections can change everything. Inspired by Bonhoeffer's wisdom on agape love, we dig into why choosing love daily—especially when it's hard—is what builds the kind of community we all long for.So, if you're craving something deeper than surface-level interactions, this one's for you. Let's talk about real connection, real faith, and real love—the kind that shapes us in the best possible ways.Episode Highlights: Unplug and connect.The power of community.Embracing agape love.The benefits of friendship.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!5 Reasons Why Community is Important: Article by Village ChurchLife Together by Deitrich BonhoefferThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Anyone else wondering how we're already in February?Feels like we were just ringing in the new year, and now we're knee-deep in real life. This episode, we're hitting pause to reflect, laugh at the messiness, and talk about what's actually helping us grow right now.We're also sharing what's been shaping us lately—what we're learning, reading, and listening to, plus our monthly Bible verse. And since iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17), we're talking about the power of community and how the right people push us to grow.Life isn't just about getting things done, though. We're tackling the resistance that comes with stepping into something good—and how faith, perspective, and a solid support system help us push through. Come along with us for a mix of laughter, reflection, and a reminder that you're never in this alone.Episode Highlights: Let's catch up.What we're reading, learning, & our favorite songs.Our Bible Verse for the month.Iron sharpens iron.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Get your Bible verse printable here!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever thought about how the hardest moments in life can become the foundation for something beautiful?In this episode, we chat with Vivian Brinkman, the force behind The Bohemian Mama, a natural skincare brand with a heart for community and authenticity. Vivian shares how growing up in a traditional Greek immigrant family shaped her values, how she and her husband turned challenges into creativity, and how parenting—especially raising a son with learning differences—taught her resilience, faith, and the true meaning of patience.We'll uncover the beauty of finding purpose in the mess, navigating life's curveballs, and embracing healing in unexpected places. Plus, you'll hear how Vivian's mission goes beyond business, from wellness retreats to teaching kids the importance of conscious living. Be sure to follow Bethany and The Bohemian Mama on Instagram to stay in the loop for all the details on an upcoming giveaway—you won't want to miss it!Get ready for an inspiring conversation that will leave you encouraged, motivated, and ready to face your own challenges head-on.Episode Highlights: Meet Vivian.Vivian's call to entrepreneurship.The value in investing in your family.We're meant to be in community.Where do we even begin?Find More on Vivian & The Bohemian Mama:Visit Vivian's Website HereFollow The Bohemian Mama on InstagramLinks Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What do car payments, surprise home repairs, and clashing love languages have in common? They've all put our marriage to the test—and taught us some unforgettable lessons.In this episode, we're spilling the tea (and maybe a few tears) about the current state of our consumer debt. From auto loans that have stretched our budget to gut-punch experiences like unexpected mold remediation, we're diving into the realities of budgeting, debt, and finding financial harmony in marriage.We'll share what we've learned (shoutout to Dave Ramsey), why emergency funds are important, and how facing financial struggles together can actually bring you closer.And because money isn't the only thing that gets messy, we're also talking about love languages—what happens when your “acts of service” don't hit the same way for your spouse? We've been there.Oh, and stick around for next week's episode, where we'll chat with a local small business owner about balancing relationships and running a biz. Let's figure this out together, one step (and laugh) at a time.Episode Highlights: Get back on the bike.Let's talk about our consumer debt.How did we get here?How money impacts our marriages.Love Languages and Relationship Dynamics.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How do you discern the voice of God when life feels overwhelming?In today's episode, we're cutting through the noise to expose the lies of the enemy and uncover the truth about the spiritual battlefield we all face. From the very beginning—starting in the Garden of Eden—doubt and confusion have been tools of the enemy. But here's the good news: God's Word provides the clarity we need. We'll dive into Proverbs 3:5-6 to explore how trusting Him can guide us through life's toughest decisions and moments of uncertainty.We're unpacking the balance between faith and works and what it means to recognize and follow God's voice in a world full of distractions. With personal stories, a little humor, and practical wisdom, we'll dig into questions like: How do you know it's God speaking? How can you trust His plan when it feels unclear? Whether it's a relationship dilemma or a major career decision, this episode will encourage you to align your choices with biblical truth, find peace in the process, and stay strong in your faith when the enemy tries to shake it.This one's for anyone seeking clarity, confidence, and a deeper trust in God. Tune in—you don't want to miss it!Episode Highlights: We live in confusing times.Lies from the enemy.Discerning the voice of God.Battling doubt and confusion.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How can we turn the twists and turns of last year into opportunities for growth?As we step into 2025, we're taking a moment to reflect on the past year—the resolutions that got derailed, the unexpected messes, and the lessons learned.This year, we're focusing on what matters: setting boundaries, unplugging from distractions, and reconnecting with creativity and family. A holiday screen time detox reminded us of the power of being present, and our “State of the Union” talks inspired fresh ideas for personal growth and the podcast.Consistency is the goal for 2025—whether it's sticking to themes, growing spiritually, or navigating finances with purpose. Join us as we plan, pivot, and embrace whatever surprises the year has in store.Episode Highlights: Lessons from 2024Prioritizing family and screen-free timeMonthly themed podcast structureIntentional family bondingSpiritual growth with shared Bible versesFocus on consistency, not resolutionsHonest talks on financial healthBuilding community with transparency and humorLinks Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Get your Bible verse printable here!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Ever feel like you're just stuck in a funk?In this episode, we dive into finding peace in the middle of life's chaos. If you've ever felt lost or uncertain about your path, you're not alone. We chat about how doubt can sneak into our minds and how taking a step back to connect with God can help bring peace.With the holidays fast approaching, we know the stress is real, especially with tricky family dynamics. We talk about how leaning on God can help carry those heavy loads, especially for guys who tend to keep it all inside. Sometimes, it's in those quiet moments with God that we find the clarity and peace we need to face the chaos.It's easy to get caught up in the rush, but let's not forget the real reason we celebrate Christmas. So, take a step back, focus on what truly matters, and let His love be your peace this season. Merry Christmas, everyone. Love you all!Episode Highlights: Ever feel like you're lacking peace?Breaking the negativity loop.Fighting off distraction.God can turn anything for good.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Good News: Peace - Pastor Alex North Canton ChapelThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you have family meetings at your house?It might seem like a small thing, but these casual hangouts can actually be a game-changer when it comes to staying organized and keeping everyone connected. We chat about how weekly family meetings help us stay on top of schedules, responsibilities, and avoid those little misunderstandings that pop up.In this episode, we share how we keep things running smoothly at home, from organizing kids' stuff to setting up clear expectations and consequences. Plus, we dive into the real challenges of parenting in the digital age—especially when it comes to managing screen time and guiding our kids through the online world.Join us for some real talk, practical tips, and some good old-fashioned family wisdom to help bring more balance and connection into your home.Episode Highlights: Introducing Family Meetings.The flow of our family meetings.The importance of follow-through.Kids and devices.Bringing it all back to scripture.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Ever wondered what it truly means to be thankful without the pressure of perfection? With a healthy dose of humor and a pinch of nostalgia, we're hitting pause to reflect on what truly matters: family, home, and the incredible community that shapes our lives. Because sometimes, it's the little things—like snuggling up under twinkling lights by a cozy Christmas tree—that help us slow down and savor the season.We're also getting real about the pressures of social media's perfectly curated holiday moments. Spoiler alert: the magic isn't in the picture-perfect decor or traditions; it's in the laughter, the connection, and yes, even the chaos. We're here to embrace the imperfections and find joy in those unfiltered moments with the people we love most.Drawing inspiration from the story of Samuel and David, we'll talk about the beauty of being faithful in the small things and trusting in divine timing. It's all about slowing down, soaking in the season, and choosing presence over pressure. So grab a turkey leg, settle in, and let's share some Thanksgiving gratitude together.Episode Highlights: What we're thankful for.Thanksgiving Traditions.It's about heart posture.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever felt like you're doing lots of 'good things', but not doing any of them 'well'?Join us for a candid discussion on the challenge of balancing multiple roles and commitments, especially when trying to uphold Christian values as parents. We talk about being intentional with our time, questioning the motivations behind the endless activities we sign up for. Together, we explore strategies for slowing down, prioritizing meaningful family interactions, and breaking free from the frantic pace of life. With insights from our own journey, we hope to inspire you to embrace rest and cherish family time, promising a more balanced and fulfilling life. Let's keep fighting the good fight together and reclaim our balance!Episode Highlights: Is anyone else exhausted?Busyness vs. hurry.Stewarding what you've committed to.Finding time for rest.Coming back to the feet of Jesus.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever found yourself in a season that feels both exhausting and unexpectedly beautiful? In our heartfelt reflections on fostering, we explore the emotional journey of welcoming two sweet little ones into our family. We share the joys and challenges of fostering, emphasizing how community support and a shift in perspective through prayer and gratitude have enriched our lives. Fostering isn't easy. It comes with lots of unknowns and emotional wrestling. But we're also learning that the kind of peace that comes with saying “yes” is worth every second. We talk about challenges with mental health and why a shift in perspective can be such a powerful tool in helping us embrace each part of the journey. Thank you to everyone who's supported us along the way—whether you're a foster parent or just curious, your messages mean so much. Join us for a journey packed with humor, inspiration, and a reminder of the profound difference that love and gratitude can make in navigating life's changes.Episode Highlights: Overcoming caffeine addiction.Kid count update.Allowing God to shift your perspective.The power of discipline.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Is the growing polarization of today's political climate a reflection of a deeper spiritual struggle?In this episode, we dig into how faith and politics intersect, especially during election season. We share our journey of moving from loyalty to political parties toward a focus on biblical principles, urging listeners to keep Christ at the center. As Christians, we're called to engage thoughtfully in politics, ensuring no party or leader becomes an idol.We discuss the importance of voting in line with biblical values, recognizing that while no politician is perfect, some align more closely with teachings on issues like the sanctity of life. Inspired by Reagan's vision of America as a "shining city on a hill," we close with a call for unity and peace, reminding our listeners to trust in God's sovereign plan.We invite you to listen with an open mind as we dive into this important conversation. Join us as we journey through these complex times together, finding strength and renewed faith along the way!Episode Highlights: Today's political climate.We have a real enemy at play.Where our loyalty lies.Corruption in politics.Voting with Christian values.God is on the throne.United we stand, divided we fall.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever considered the impact that foster parents can make not only on the children in their care, but also in the bio parents?Through the raw and emotional recounting of her experiences, Jaliyah emphasizes the importance of empathy, understanding, and the human element often overlooked in these life-altering situations that lead to foster care. Together, we explore the intricate dynamics between CPS, foster parents, and biological parents, navigating the challenges foster parents face in preserving a child's identity while fostering mutual respect and trust with biological families.We also confront the stigmas surrounding addiction and motherhood, revealing how foster parents can be pivotal in the recovery and reunification process by cultivating healthy relationships and providing a stable, nurturing environment.Jaliyah shares about how devastating loss of her sister triggered a relapse, but her resilience and dedication to sobriety remained unwavering. This episode highlights the power of a strong support system and the transformative impact of compassion in helping families achieve lasting recovery and success.Episode Highlights: The day the kids were removed.Connections between foster parents and biological parents.The goal is reunification.Tragedy after recovery & the impact it has.Unity between foster parents & bio parents.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever wondered what our foster kiddo's bio mom's story might be?Jaliyah's journey is nothing short of inspiring. Raised in Cleveland, Ohio, she recounts her challenging childhood, marked by separation from her siblings and parents due to addiction and imprisonment. Her grandfather's unwavering support and teachings provided a beacon of strength amidst the turmoil, instilling values of hard work and resilience. Jaliyah's story offers a fresh perspective on the backgrounds of biological parents involved in foster care, breaking down stigmas and shedding light on the complexities of her upbringing.Jaliyah's strength and perseverance through unimaginable hardships are a testament to her faith and resilience. She details the profound impact of her mother's tragic death, the support she found in her college gospel choir, and the sheer determination it took to graduate and raise her children. Her narrative is a compelling reminder of the power of hope and the relentless pursuit of purpose despite life's setbacks.But Jaliyah's journey doesn't end in despair. It evolves into a powerful message of resilience and the importance of feeling loved and valued. Through her story, we are reminded that no matter how deep the suffering, there's always a chance for redemption and the courage to share one's story can inspire others to keep going.Episode Highlights: Meet Jaliyah.Jaliyah's childhood & her knight in shining armor.A journey of faith.The birth of her first child.Going to college as a young mother.Overcoming tragedy.Navigating new relationships after unhealthy past relationships.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Did you know that the goal of foster care is reunification?Join us as we share our deeply personal journey through the foster care system. We'll capture the pivotal moments of hope when the kids' mother entered rehab, sparking hope of reunification. We'll recount the unexpected bonds formed and many impactful moments in between.If you've ever wondered about the true impact of community involvement in foster care, our experiences will shed light on the pivotal role it plays. When our family grew from four members to eight nearly overnight, we set our minds to the fact that we were going to maintain our active involvement in the community. In this episode, we reflect on the support we received from friends, sports teams, and school communities, which proved crucial in creating a nurturing environment for the children. We also delve into the complexities we faced during this transition and emphasize the importance of expanding your support network to raise awareness and inspire others. Whether you're considering fostering or looking for ways to support those who do, this episode offers heartwarming stories and invaluable insights that you won't want to miss.Episode Highlights: A new chance of hope.Your obedience impacts others.Doing what's right despite what others might think.The support of community.A full-circle God moment.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Can you imagine leaving a child you've grown to love in an unfamiliar place, not knowing if you'll ever see them again?This episode takes you through the gut-wrenching experience we faced on July 28th, 2023. We also share how prayer became our lifeline during these heart-shattering moments and how community support played a crucial role. Listen as we recount welcoming a new placement, a four-year-old boy, and the profound sense of urgency within the foster care system.We open up about our own struggles and heartbreak, highlighting the feelings of helplessness and grief when children are abruptly taken away. The challenges we faced within the system, the emotional and physical toll it took on us, and the critical importance of self-care are laid bare in this chapter. Personal stories bring to life the rollercoaster of emotions—both the crushing lows and the triumphant highs—that come with fostering.We explore the emotional complexities of fostering. From supporting the biological mother to the unexpected call to take back her other child we had previously cared for, the twists and turns are both heartwarming and heartbreaking. We also delve into the mixed emotions of reconnecting with a child after separation, the role of faith, and the comforting power of music. Don't miss this part of our three-part series, where we'll unravel even more of this intricate journey.Episode Highlights: The long drive home.Things weren't going well.Prayer is the most powerful thing.The tides started to turn.Storming the gates of hell.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Listen to our Spotify Playlist!Listen to our Apple Music Playlist!Psalm 46 by Shane & ShaneThough You Slay Me by Shane & ShaneThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

This week on the podcast we are sharing about our foster care journey. So many of you have been deeply invested through prayer, lending a helping hand, and checking in. We know that so much of our story has been fragmented due to the rollercoaster of it all and also privacy.With that, we are finally ready to share a 3 episode series covering our podcast journey from the call to start all the way to where we are two years later.Thank you to those of you who have invested in us. We are so appreciative!Episode Highlights: The move back to Ohio.Praying for community & a home church.Following God's lead.Our introduction to Foster Care.Building a relationship with the bio family.The goal is reunification.Doing what's right despite what others think.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever felt God nudge you to do something challenging?We're back with another life update. From high stakes to minor conflicts, we dig deep into the real battles that test our resilience every day. Despite the chaos, we find strength in our unity and ability to laugh even sometimes when we probably shouldn't.As you may remember, we recently found mold in our home, leading to an exhaustive (and expensive!) remediation process. We open up about the significant toll it took but also celebrate the invaluable lessons learned—like the importance of accepting help and prioritizing health. Amidst the turmoil, our beach trip with friends offered a much-needed breath of fresh air. It was a reminder that experiences and the support of good friends are worth more than any financial worry.We dive into our foster care journey, sharing the emotional rollercoaster of accepting a newborn into our lives. Faith played a crucial role in reaffirming our commitment to fostering, and we reveal how our experiences have inspired others to pursue the same path. Wrapping up, we discuss our financial journey, highlighting the sacrifices and unexpected expenses along the way. We thank our listeners for their unwavering support and share our excitement for upcoming episodes, including an insightful interview with our friend Kristin Nave on studying the Bible. Buckle up, tune in, and enjoy the ride!Episode Highlights: We kind of like each other.Here's a little life update.Our mold remediation experience.Corey shaved his head.We said ‘yes' again.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you ever struggle to find time to read the Bible? Have you ever felt intimidated by it or like you don't know where to start?Join us for an enlightening conversation with Kristin Nave, a powerful voice on social media dedicated to studying God's Word. Kristin shares her journey from a childhood enriched by her mother's persistent teachings to a slightly distant relationship with Christianity in her early adulthood. A life-changing moment at a conference revealed to her that a Christian life is about experiencing an abundant life, sparking her profound and fulfilling relationship with God.This episode is packed with practical insights for busy parents to integrate scripture into their daily lives. From giving ourselves grace to accept that our time with God may look different across various seasons to creative ways of consuming scripture, we explore how to stay connected to God's Word even when life gets hectic.We discuss practical tips like using a study Bible, studying in a community, and taking the journey slowly. Plus, don't miss the exciting announcement about Kristin's upcoming "Love the Bible" podcast and the new, vibrant Bible journaling kit created in collaboration with Mr. Pen. Tune in for a fresh, engaging approach to deepening your relationship with God.Episode Highlights: Kristin's background of faith.Making time for God's Word.Understanding God's Word.Find More on Kristin:Follow Kristin on InstagramListen to Love the Bible Podcast launching in August 2024!Find Kristin's Bible Journaling Kits on AmazonLinks Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Are you willing to step into the unknown with God at the reigns? Meet Wendi Cross, our remarkable guest whose story of adopting her son from Ethiopia is a beacon of hope and resilience. Wendi sheds light on the trials and victories her family faced. Her powerful journey, detailed in her book "Not Forgotten," is a moving testament to the strength and determination required to finish strong as parents despite the odds.Have you ever felt a calling that others couldn't understand? Wendi shares about the profound importance of following God's will, even when it defies conventional wisdom. Drawing inspiration from biblical narratives like Noah's, we dive into the necessity of keeping certain divine callings private, sharing them only with those who will support and pray for you. Whether it's adoption, starting a new venture, or any faith-driven endeavor, our conversation underscores the value of wisdom, patience, and aligning your goals with biblical principles. Family dynamics can be complex, especially when spiritual warfare is involved. Wendi opens up about her experiences balancing her children's unique needs and the adjustments she made to create a harmonious home environment. Her story of redemption and healing, particularly with her son Neb, highlights the transformative impact of faith and prayer. Tune in for valuable insights and encouragement for parents navigating similar paths, and be inspired by Wendi's dedication to ministry and advocacy through collaborative efforts with her son.Episode Highlights: Intro to Wendi Cross.Wendi's adoption story.Keep your circle close.Following God's call on your life.Discerning the voice of God.God provides where He guides.Find More on Wendi Cross:Get your copy of Not Forgotten here!Learn more about xHope!Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you often wake up feeling exhausted, battling brain fog, or dealing with chronic sinus infections without knowing what's causing it? Join us in our enlightening discussion with Traci Zizza as we explore common culprits that could be silently wreaking havoc on your health. Traci unpacks the effects of these invisible threats, particularly focusing on how they can disrupt your sleep and overall energy. She offers practical tips on mitigating these impacts, such as spending more time outdoors, unplugging devices, and minimizing indoor exposure.Our conversation takes a deeply personal turn as we recount our struggle with mold in our own home, sharing the profound health challenges it brought into our lives. Learn about the often overlooked symptoms of mold exposure, like brain fog, chronic fatigue, and inflammation, and understand why even new homes aren't immune. Traci's guidance doesn't stop at identification; she provides insights into the importance of proper mold remediation and living with intention and gratitude. Ending on a heartfelt note, we reflect on our journey of overcoming health issues with Traci's unwavering support, inspiring you to pursue a healthier, more intentional life.Episode Highlights: What are the concerns with Wi-Fi and EMF exposure?Could the problem be mold?What are the next steps?Find More on Traci:Interested in Traci's Nourishment Program? Click Here!Follow Traci on InstagramParent Nourishment for Sports Tournaments FREE PDFTraci's Costco Favorites FREE PDFLinks Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Ever wonder why focusing on just one aspect of health doesn't seem to cut it? Traci Zizza sheds light on her seven essential health pillars—rest, nutrition, body connection, detoxing, stress management, movement, and life peace—and reveals how achieving balance across these areas is the key to overall well-being.Struggling to maintain a healthy diet amid the plethora of choices and information? Traci breaks down the importance of personalized nutrition plans that cater to individual preferences and lifestyles, whether you're following keto, paleo, or another diet. We also delve into the role of detoxification in boosting your overall health and provide a curated Costco shopping list filled with clean, healthy, prepared, and packaged foods. Learn how to navigate the complexities of nutrition and make informed decisions that benefit your well-being.From homemade household products to non-toxic personal care items, we explore easy, practical alternatives that enhance health without draining you. Traci also highlights the benefits of tailored exercise regimens, sharing personal stories of transitioning from intense workouts to more mindful activities like walking. Tune in to hear practical tips that empower you to make positive, cost-effective changes to your lifestyle.Episode Highlights: Traci's 7 Pillars.Body connection is the foundation.The importance of rest.Nutrition: finding what's best for you.All about detoxing.Stress management.Moving your body in a way that serves you.Striving for peace.Choosing a sustainable lifestyle.Find More on Traci:Interested in Traci's Nourishment Program? Click Here!Download Traci's Costco Favorites Here!Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What happens when our fast-paced, convenience-driven lifestyles begin to take a toll on our health? Join us for a compelling conversation with Traci Zizza, a functional and holistic nutrition practitioner who reveals the hidden battles we face every day. Traci shares her own journey to health, shedding light on the challenges posed by modern living, from exposure to toxins to the pressures of hectic schedules. Together, we uncover the misconceptions in the wellness space and emphasize the importance of finding real balance for our families and ourselves.Imagine a life where relentless stress and poor dietary choices no longer control your well-being. We explore the dangers of an over-scheduled life and how it impacts families, from gut issues to migraines and beyond. Traci and I discuss the critical need to slow down, prioritize stillness, and recognize the body's red flags before hitting a breaking point. We dive into the intricate relationship between health, lifestyle choices, and spirituality, offering practical ways to make intentional choices that can lead to healing and set positive examples for our children.In a world where technology and modern diets often disrupt family harmony, how can we reclaim our children's health and well-being? Traci and I tackle the impact of technology on child health and share personal anecdotes on creating healthier family routines. We dive into holistic nutrition for kids, emphasizing the importance of mindful nourishment and seasonal breaks. To wrap up, we discuss Traci's Nourishment Program, designed to help parents stay patient and healthy while managing busy schedules, complete with a practical guide for preparing nutritious food. Join us for invaluable insights and actionable advice to help your family thrive in today's chaotic world.Episode Highlights: Tracis's Story.Who Traci works with primarily.The root cause: an over-scheduled life.Don't wait until you have no other choice.Setting boundaries with technology.Being aware of the toxins around us.Our bodies know what to do.Family non-negotiables.Find More on Traci:Interested in Traci's Nourishment Program? Click Here!Get your FREE PDF Here!Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What if the true battles we face aren't the ones staring right at us but the invisible forces that shape our daily lives? Join us on a reflective journey as we explore how to make the most of summer. We'll share our excitement for the official start of the season and some of our plans for creating unforgettable experiences for our families. Through personal stories and societal observations, we'll emphasize the importance of mindfulness and intentionality in our daily lives.How often do we find ourselves physically there but mentally checked out, caught in the whirlwind of life's demands? We'll discuss the emotional weight of these missed moments, particularly in parenting, and offer practical strategies to lay down non-urgent to-do lists, prioritize rest, and embrace guilt-free enjoyment. By setting boundaries and resetting our priorities, we can achieve a healthier balance and be more mentally and emotionally available for our loved ones.To wrap things up, we have an exciting birthday giveaway announcement for August 15th. Tune in to learn how you can participate and win! Embrace this summer fully, and let's make it one to remember.Episode Highlights: Getting into a summer mindset.Bring emotionally and mentally present in the moment.Fostering accountability with your spouse.Taking your thoughts captive.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on YouTube!Download your FREE Summer PDF HERE!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Ever wondered how we've managed to keep the podcast fire burning for 200 episodes? Let's take you on a nostalgic journey from our humble beginnings as the Adkins Highlight Reel to becoming a steadfast voice in the podcasting realm. In this milestone episode, we reflect on our mission of bringing real-life stories that resonate deeply with our audience, celebrate with a special $200 giveaway, and share an intimate family update about juggling life with three kids once again.Mental toughness isn't just a buzzword; it's a lifeline in the chaos of family life. We unpack our experiences with the 75 Hard program, detailing its role in forging mental resilience through structured routines and accountability. We explore how personal development literature has profoundly shaped our path, underscoring the transformative power of intentional living and meaningful habits.Seasons change, and so do our strategies for self-care and personal growth. We recount our journey from the depths of stress and exhaustion to a renewed sense of energy and positive routines. We delve into living for God's purpose and the importance of spiritual growth over material possessions. Join us as we honor military sacrifices on Memorial Day and extend our heartfelt gratitude to all our listeners. Here's to reflecting, growing, and celebrating many more episodes together!Episode Highlights: It's our 200th episode!Life update.What we are reading.Habits and routines.Seasons come and go.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Find Brain Maker on Amazon HereFind Habits of the Household on Amazon HereFind Shoe Dog on Amazon HereThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Remember the raw, unfiltered conversations we used to have in the early days of our podcast?That's where Corey and I begin this heart-to-heart episode, reflecting on how our discussions have matured alongside our audience's growth. As we've welcomed more listeners into our fold, the balance between honesty and discretion has become a dance we constantly refine. We're peeling back the layers on the evolution of the podcast, sharing the delicate art of preserving candidness while respecting the privacy of those stories intertwined with our own.We then stroll down memory lane, examining how our personal dreams and goals have shifted. Drawing inspiration from Dean Graziosi's "Millionaire Success Habits", we dissect the evolution of ambition, questioning whether the change in our dreams is simply a facet of life's natural progression or a settling into complacency. Finally, we navigate the idea of societal norms and the quest for a life with intention. We're getting real about finding our 'why' and shedding light on our true motivations, encouraging our Christian listeners and all seekers of purpose to reassess life with a transformative lens. From personal revelations to biblical principles, we're sharing stories that underscore the serenity found in aligning with God's plan. It's an episode that promises to be an anchor amidst the swell, guiding you toward a life of authentic fulfillment.Episode Highlights: Taking time to reflect.Do you care what people think?What is your why?How do I know I'm going where God is leading me?We get one life to live.Thin threads.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever pulled off a prank that left everyone better off than before? Join us as we recount our weekend filled with 'kindness pranks', a unique way of spreading joy and laughter to our friends.  This episode is full of parenting, friendship, and a whole lot of love rolled into a series of heartwarming stories that affirm the beauty of giving back, even if it means the occasional tumble down a hill.Life can throw curveballs, especially when it involves opening your home and heart to foster children. We get real about the emotional roller coaster that comes with the territory, discussing the last-minute nature of placements and the delicate balance of knowing when to say yes and when to reluctantly decline. It's a raw look into the decision-making process, underscored by faith and the support of a partner who helps navigate the blurred lines between emotion and practicality. You'll hear how we, along with our listeners who may be considering foster care, grapple with these life-changing choices.Finally, we bare our souls about the internal struggle of finding peace amidst mental chaos. From the quiet refuge podcasts provide to the importance of counseling, we unveil strategies for managing the relentless noise in our minds. It's an episode not just about the laughter of our weekend adventures but also about the quieter moments that push us to seek balance between rest, productivity, and our spiritual walk. So, come take this journey with us—it's messy, beautiful, and absolutely worth every moment.Episode Highlights: Catch up with us.Kindness pranks with Corey & Beth.These are the golden years.Foster care update.Looking to God for clarity.Living out God's will in our lives.Resting and recalibrating.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Ever found yourself in an argument with your spouse over something trivial and wondered how it escalated so quickly? We, the Adkins, open up about those little marital tiffs that can teach us a lot about the bigger battles within ourselves. Our latest episode peels back the curtain on navigating disagreements with humor and grace, and we're letting you in on the secrets to turning conflicts into opportunities for growth. We also dive into the importance of communication and the art of the apology, sharing a personal story that proves even the most mundane days can lead to profound insights.In a world where smartphones often replace heart-to-hearts, we tackle the challenge of reclaiming family time to make a Kingdom impact. Transitioning from a bustling household of nine to just the five of us has taught us the power of intentional habits. We share valuable takeaways from resources like "Parenting Mentally Strong Kids" and "Habits of the Household," aiming to guide your family to more meaningful interactions in the digital era. Moreover, we reframe the way we view the Bible, discussing how it can serve as a roadmap for life's journey rather than a list of rules to follow. Join us as we explore creating a legacy of purposeful living and leading by example for our children.Episode Highlights: Bethany doesn't back down from a fight.Let's play a little game.Does anyone else just feel off?Staying afloat and shepherding the hearts of our kids.We're called to be different.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Get a copy of Habits of the Household HereThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever flown a kite?Let's take a moment to appreciate the simple joy of watching a kite dance in the sky. There's something magical about it, right? It's like a metaphor for life itself – a delicate balance between control and letting go.We'll share personal stories like our son's leap into independence, his challenges grasping the strings without guidance, and the triumph of his eventual success. It's a narrative that mirrors our own struggles as we explore the lessons hidden in the simple moments.We'll chat about everyday leadership and parenting, finding that sweet spot between holding on tight and letting our kids soar. And oh, let's not forget about that one time our kite decided to take off on its own adventure! Through that experience, we learned the power of acceptance and finding peace in things beyond our control.So, grab a cup of coffee and join us as we unravel these stories. Let's embark on this journey together, spreading the joy and wisdom one kite tale at a time.Episode Highlights: Be humble enough to learn from others.Sometimes you have to let go of (some) control.Making lemonade out of lemons.Getting back up and learning from your mistakes.Leading our kids by example.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How do you process your emotions?Amid the predictability of daily chores, we find a treasure trove of life lessons and laughter. We chat about transitioning back to a family of five, invoking both humor and heart in the routine of life. This episode is a reminder to cherish the moments with loved ones and a nod to the swift passage of time we all face.Striking a balance takes work, especially in the throes of family commitments and emotional well-being. We explore the idea of slowing down, saying no, and the diverse ways in which we all process emotions, sometimes quietly and other times with the help of counseling. The power of prayer & faith is woven throughout our discussions, lending solace and support when we need it most.  Tune in for a heartfelt message and the reassurance that it's alright to enter a slower season, carefully selecting what we take on next.Episode Highlights: Pushing through the difficult moments.Updates on our family.Being intentional with our family time.Saying ‘no' to major commitments for 3 months.Everyone processes things differently.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How has foster care affected our kids and our family as a whole?Join us as we sit down with our kids, Carter and Liberty, as they open up about the rollercoaster of emotions and the surprising ways in which fostering has reshaped our lives. This isn't just about the love we share; it's a raw and authentic look into the real-life effects of opening our hearts and our home to children in need.Our journey through fostering is one that interweaves laughter with tears, teaching us about strength, empathy, and the profound impact we can have on each other's lives. From the initial excitement of becoming a foster family to the difficult goodbyes and the lessons in between, we peel back the layers of our experience. Listen to personal stories that reveal the challenges and rewards from the varied perspectives within our own family, offering insights that may resonate with anyone considering this life-changing path.As we wrap up our candid conversation, we reflect on the growth and gratitude that fostering has instilled in all of us. It's about more than just our story—it's an invitation to recognize the transformative power of love and care in the foster care journey. We share experiences that have not only changed the trajectory of our lives but also the lives of the children we've been privileged to foster. This episode is an open book to our hearts and an exploration of the undeniable impact foster care has on individuals and communities alike.Episode Highlights: Meet our special guests!What our kids' first thoughts were about foster care.Is there a need for more foster families?What has it been like for our kids to share our home?Would our kids choose foster care if given the choice?The effects foster care has had on our family.What has been the hardest part?Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Episode 58. PARENTING: Our Family PledgeThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you spent quality time with your loved ones this week?This week, we're unraveling the importance of being intentional with our family time, especially during transitions and the regular evolution of our home dynamics. We explore the power of everyday moments, like dinner around the table and car rides without the radio, to foster deeper bonds and create a lasting sense of belonging.Through laughter and deep recollections, we discuss the strategies that help us turn the mundane into the memorable. And it's not just about us; we're also unpacking the broader implications of family connections for personal growth and societal well-being.Lastly, we're getting practical, sharing some of our favorite ways to engage with our kids—from chore involvement to candlelit dinners. We even throw in some recommendations for fun, easy games that can transform a simple night in with the family into something special. So join us, as we tackle parenting, the pursuit of meaningful relationships, and the small actions that can lead to big changes in our lives—and maybe yours too.Episode Highlights: Making the best of each situation.We have some reconnecting to do.Things we do to spend intentional time together.Creating a space for our children.We're raising the next generation.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Ever accidentally shatter a full glass bottle of kombucha in Marshall's? We have! In today's episode, we take you through life's everyday laughter and trials, swapping tales from bathroom disasters to the quirks of marriage. As we navigate the tender complexities of fostering, parenting, and the relentless passage of time, we invite you to join our conversation and embrace the journey of life with us. This is not just an update—it's a chapter of our lives, shared candidly with hopes to spark inspiration and sprinkle a bit of joy in your day.Delving into the bittersweet realm of fostering, we balance the laughs with deep reflections on the emotional rollercoaster of transitioning children back to their biological families. Savor the sweet tales of our kids' growth, the challenges of being intentional with our time, and the therapeutic steps we take toward healing.As we wrap up this heartfelt episode, gratitude takes the spotlight. We share about our community's overwhelming support, especially when nurturing goes even beyond our own family. Whether it's furnishing a home for a mother in need or fighting for the rights of kids in our care, we're reminded of the impact we can have together. So come along for the ride; it's more than just our story—it's a testament to the power of community, the resilience found in gratitude, and the joy discovered in the little things. Join us as we explore these chapters of life, seeking solace and joy in the shared human experience.Episode Highlights: Should Corey apologize for his comments in Parents Google Everything?Kombucha taste test.What are you eating under there?Life update.Has our foster care journey ended?God's call on your life is always worth it.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What are your thoughts on bell-bottoms and landline phones?Get ready to laugh and nod along as we unveil our "Parents Google Everything" segment, where we dive headfirst into the quirkiest corners of the internet. It's a weird world we live in.. with Gen Z dialing up on landlines and sporting mullets and people smuggling snakes across the border in their pants—yep, we're scratching our heads too. Join our light-hearted debate over the allure of 90s fashion's comeback and why nostalgia seems to have a grip on the new generation, all packed with anecdotes to keep you company whether you're tackling chores or braving the daily commute.From the lighter side of life to the pressing issues that spark national debates, we don't skirt around the big topics. We have a candid discussion on media bias, the hunt for unfiltered truths, and the critical role of upholding constitutional democracy. The focus shifts to the financial obstacles that constantly trip up millennials, comparing their economic struggles with those faced by older generations. We discuss everything from the oppressive weight of student loans to the real value of college degrees in today's job market. We wrap up the episode by sharing some recent embarrassing moments that remind us all to face life's curveballs with a hearty laugh. So plug in your earbuds, and let's get through this together—after all, life is too short not to share a giggle over our collective embarrassments.Episode Highlights: Parents google everything.Gen Z is bringing back the nostalgia.Smuggling Burmese pythons.Is Tucker Carlson a ‘useful idiot'?Why Millennials are poorer than their parents.Advice from Corey.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Gen Z Nostalgia ArticleSmuggling Snakes ArticleTucker Carlson ArticleMillennials ArticleThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What role do sports play in your family?In this episode, we lace up our cleats for an in-depth exploration of youth sports, family life, and living out Christian values in modern society. We're not just talking about juggling schedules; we're diving deep into how these elements weave together, shaping lives and strengthening families. From coaching as a mission to prioritizing faith in the whirlwind of athletic pursuits, we're tackling tough questions and sharing personal insights to support and inspire those navigating the same playing field. Everyone has their own view on the place sports should take in their lives. Some make it a high priority, while others find importance in other things. We invite you to take a listen while you're on your way to the field, doing dishes, or just getting things done around the house and take an in-depth look at the role youth sports play in your family.Episode Highlights: Our recent speaking engagement.Diving into a hot topic on sports.Year round sports & church.Coaching good attitudes & life skills.Putting faith into action.Sports are an outlet for kids.Evaluating what works for your family.Saying ‘no' to good to say ‘yes' to great.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How do you handle disagreements in your marriage?In this episode, we explore the intricate dynamics of managing disagreements within our marriage while maintaining a cohesive partnership. Anchored by prayer as our guiding principle, we examine our strategies and techniques to find common ground amidst differing viewpoints. By prioritizing open communication, empathy, and compromise, we illustrate how we strive to reach a balanced resolution that honors both individual perspectives and our shared commitment to unity.Get ready for a heart-to-heart on keeping faith at the forefront while embracing the digital age, and how aligning with biblical values can guide your family through the complexities of today's parenting landscape. We're peeling back the curtain on how we tackle those make-or-break family decisions. From setting boundaries on dating to managing screen time, we're sharing the strategies that keep us patient, prayerful, and united—even when we don't see eye to eye. With a little wisdom, a dash of biblical perspective, and the insights of trusted friends, we're taking you step by step through creating an environment that's not just about making the right choices, but also about growing in faith and love as a family. Join us for a deep dive into cultivating a household where healthy debate leads to even healthier relationships.Episode Highlights: Sharing about how we resolve conflicts in our marriage.How we handle decision-making in parenting.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Are you aware of the calling God has on your life?Our family's dance with the unpredictable rhythms of foster care has been nothing short of a transformative adventure. As we open the doors of our home and hearts, we've been graced with bonds that weave us into the fabric of our community like never before. In this episode, we take an honest look at how fostering has anchored us not only to each other but, more importantly, to our faith in God.From the quiet whispers of prayer before bedtime to the laughter that echoes through our home, fostering has filled our lives with compassion and strengthened our faith. We've watched our biological children rise to the occasion, building bunk beds and sharing spaces, embodying the very essence of love as Jesus taught us. It's a conversation about the raw and real impacts of opening your life to others and the surprising ways it can draw a family closer, deepening connections and compassion in ways you couldn't have fathomed.Join us as we recount heartwarming moments of spiritual growth—like the child in our care whose Christmas wish was a Bible and who has now given his heart to Jesus. It's a reflection on the call God has placed on our lives, one that we're eager to continue sharing through our YouTube channel and right here, in the stories we tell and the lives we touch. Come along, and be part of the story that's still being written in the lives of our family and the children we embrace in our home.Episode Highlights: Sharing a Life/Foster Care Update.How we began our Foster Care Journey.Questions to ask yourself when you're getting started.What is God calling you to do?Teaching our kids how to lean on the Lord.Loving like Jesus.Encouragement for anyone facing tough decisions.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsFind us on Youtube!Visit Hope Bridge's Website HereFollow Hope Bridge on InstagramFollow Foster Our Community on InstagramThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

As we shift into 2024, what is your focus?We hope you had a great holiday season and are settling nicely into the new year. This year, we're embracing the guiding theme of 'Nourish,' focusing on the wisdom of cultivating what's already in our care. We've all had moments of biting off more than we could chew, and in this episode, we recount those personal tales of ambition and the subsequent burnout that taught us the importance of balance. From our home to our health, we're talking about the power of appreciating and enhancing the commitments we've already made, fostering a more enriching life without falling prey to the constant chase for something new.We're so glad to be back and grateful you're here!Episode Highlights: The importance of being true to your values.The importance of being good stewards of what we have.A call for families to join us.Encouragement for being consistent.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsListen to Episode 160 HereListen to Episode 161 HereFind us on YoutubeThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you remember when you were a kid and Christmas felt all warm and cozy?Sometimes, as adults, we can get so wrapped up in the hustle & bustle that we forget to slow down and just be present. When you think back to your favorite Christmas memories growing up, are they of big extravagant gifts? Or are they memories of traditions enjoyed with family?We're peeling back the layers on our unique Christmas traditions, discussing ways to make the holidays memorable without the pressure of perfection, and sharing personal stories about our themed movie nights and Christmas Light Extravaganza. With us, it's not just about the lights and decorations, it's about slowing down and being present. But the holiday cheer doesn't stop there. We've got a Christmas giveaway in the works and a Christmas playlist that's sure to get you in the festive spirit. You can find our Christmas playlist and giveaway details below! So grab your hot cocoa, settle down by the fire, and let's navigate this journey together. We can't wait to celebrate the end of the year with you, share our holiday traditions, and look forward to the exciting changes coming to our podcast in the new year.Episode Highlights: Sharing a quick life update.Winning ‘one play at a time'.Why is everything that's good for you such a struggle?You get a fresh start every day.Let's finish the year off strong.We're doing a giveaway!Remember when Christmas felt warm & cozy?It was never meant to be a burden.Auditing your Christmas traditions.Fun & simple traditions we love.Slow down & be present.Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsJoin our FREE Patreon!Listen to our Apple Playlist here!Give to Hope BridgeFoster Our Community Giving OptionsFollow @shewhocreatesforhim on InstagramFind Emily's bracelets here @wordsthatshinebyemENTER OUR 2023 CHRISTMAS GIVEAWAY!:We are giving away a $400 Cash Prize to One Grand Prize Winner & 5 other winners will get their choice of a $20 Amazon OR Starbucks Gift Card!Here's how to Enter:Leave a comment review on Apple Podcasts.Comment ‘reviewed' on Bethany's Giveaway post on Instagram here - @bethanyadkinsBONUS ENTRIES: Every time you share one of our episodes on your stories & tag @bethanyadkins. Also, every time you tag a friend on the Giveaway post.*Winners will be announced on 12/24!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever witnessed a crime?As just a young teen, not only had Ronald Olivier witnessed crime, but he had been convicted of murder and sentenced to life in prison. He was a product of a broken home, a crack epidemic, and a society that had turned its back on him.  This harsh lifestyle ultimately resulted in Ronald killing another young man on Christmas day.  In the absence of a father figure, he found guidance in unlikely places, proving that a helping hand can come from the most unexpected corners.  From a haunted past to a transformative future, Ronald Olivier's story is one of remarkable redemption. He was serving a life sentence in Angola Prison, but he found his freedom in forgiveness and faith. Ronald narrates an emotional encounter with the mother of his victim, a moment that broke walls and built bridges. He stresses the importance of faith, urging listeners to remember God's endless grace. Get a glimpse of Ronald's inspiring journey in his new book, which is available on Amazon. Embrace the power of change, forgiveness, and second chances in this powerful episode.Episode Highlights: Introduction to Ronald.Where is Ronald today?Ronald's upbringing.His father, his hero.The crack epidemic.The day Ronald's life changed forever.Turning to Jesus.Sentenced to Louisiana State Penitentiary.The conviction of the Holy Spirit.Kids need a father figure.The people God placed in Ronald's life. Education and open doors.Mission work and pastoring a prison church.Breakthrough in the law.Speaking to the victim's mother.God's grace & goodness.Find More on Ronald:Follow Ronald on FacebookFind Ronald on Instagram @ronnieslim75Order 27 Summers Here!Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsJoin our FREE Patreon!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you have someone in your circle who inspires you by the way they live their life?When we think of heroes, we often picture individuals in capes saving the world, but my friend and inspiration, Lisa Robertson, is a hero in her own right. For nearly a decade, Lisa and her husband opened their hearts and their home to foster children, impacting countless lives in the process. Facing the difficult decision to close their home, Lisa shares her emotional journey, the difficult conversations, and her courageous step into a season of rest.As we navigate through this emotional rollercoaster, we uncover Lisa's continued impact on the foster care system through her work with Hope Bridge. This non-profit organization has given Lisa a platform to share transformative stories of hope, demonstrating that closing her home has not meant the end of her contribution. What's life like after leaving foster care? We explore this adjustment period, the mental and emotional toll it takes, and the importance of intentional presence.Lisa shares her adjustment process and how she was able to find value in her new season of life. So, join us for a conversation filled with raw emotion, deep insights, and a testament to the impact of faith. This episode isn't just a chat - it's an exploration of the human spirit, the struggles we face, and the hope that sees us through. Come, be inspired. You don't want to miss this!Episode Highlights: Lisa Robertson is back for another episode!Lisa shares a life update.There's value in every area of your calling.If I don't do this, who is going to?Learning how to rest in the midst of the chaos.About the mission of Hope Bridge.Hope Bridge is launching a podcast!How to be intentionally present.Find More on Lisa & Hope Bridge:Hope Bridge Podcast: RestoriedFind Lisa on Instagram Here!Trusting God with the Unknown with Lisa RobertsonRooted Pt. 1 with Lisa RobertsonRooted Pt. 2 with Lisa RobertsonThe Unexpected Road to Infertility and Foster Care with Lisa RobertsonHope Bridge WebsiteFind Hope Bridge on Instagram Here!Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:Jointheforce.usFollow us on Instagram @bethanyadkinsJoin our FREE Patreon!This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.