Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack

How to Re-Attract a Rejecting Spouse: Marriage Saving StrategiesWhen your spouse no longer finds you attractive, it's easy to feel helpless. But waiting, pleading, or trying harder to please won't reignite attraction. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll learn how to re-spark desire by shifting out of the "caretaker" role and becoming someone your spouse is naturally drawn to again.What You'll LearnWhy emotional connection lowers the bar for physical attractionHow being "nice" can make things worse if you're no longer desirableWhat kinds of changes reawaken desire without seeming manipulativeA real-life example of how one client won back his rejecting spouseWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you want help becoming more attractive to your spouse without chasing, pleading, or waiting around, the Re-Connections Coaching Package gives you clear, actionable steps. You don't need your spouse to agree to coaching for your relationship to improve. https://coachjackito.com/relationship-coaching-services/reconnections-coaching-packageKey TakeawaysAttraction fades when you stop being the version of yourself your spouse fell in love withEmotional connection is essential—but not enough by itselfBecoming more interesting, independent, and enjoyable is more effective than chasing or pleasingSmall, consistent changes outperform dramatic gesturesDesperation repels; secure and attractive is the winning combinationAdditional ResourcesWhy Your Spouse Wanting a Divorce Doesn't Mean It's OverFree Relationship QuizzesConnecting Through “Yes!” (Book)Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

How to Have More Empathy for Your SpouseEmpathy is the backbone of emotional connection in marriage, yet most couples never learn the difference between being “nice,” listening, and truly empathizing. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll get a practical guide to building real connection through validation—not just understanding or fixing. If you want to break the cycle of conflict and start making your spouse feel valued and understood, this is where to start.What You'll Learn:Why empathy—not just listening or being nice—creates real emotional connectionHow to validate your spouse so they feel normal and rightThe difference between agreeing with ideas and empathizing with emotionsPractical examples of validation that you can use in your own marriageWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you're ready to build a closer marriage using proven, step-by-step relationship skills, learn more about my Re-Connections Coaching Package. Coaching is practical, private, and focused on helping you create the marriage you want.Key Takeaways:Listening is not enough—validation and empathy are required for connectionAgreement is for ideas; empathy is for emotionsFocusing on how your spouse receives your words changes the relationship dynamicValidation can defuse conflict and build long-term intimacyThese skills can be learned and improved by anyoneAdditional Resources:Connecting Through "Yes!" – Book on the skill of agreement in relationships and marriageFree Download - Help your spouse to enjoy talking with you again with these free lessons.Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Spouse Wants a Divorce? How to Save Your Marriage and ReconnectWhen your spouse says they want a divorce, it's easy to panic or argue. But if you want to save your marriage, the way you respond in that moment matters more than you think. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll learn how to stop pushing your spouse further away—and start laying the groundwork for reconnection.What You'll LearnWhy your spouse's feelings and intentions today aren't set in stoneThe key mindset shift that prevents conflict and builds emotional valueHow to use empathy, not arguments, to re-open the door to your relationshipThe critical first steps to rebuild connection—without pushing or pleadingWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you're unsure how to respond to your spouse or what step to take next, the Re-Connections Coaching Package can help. You'll get expert, step-by-step support to guide you from rejection to reconnection—without wasting time or making things worse.Key TakeawaysWords reflect current feelings, not final decisionsInfluence comes from emotional connection, not logic or pressureDon't rush—rebuilding is slower than starting freshEmpathy and boundaries are your first tools, not persuasionStart from where your marriage is now—not where you wish it wasAdditional ResourcesConnecting Through “Yes!” – Coach Jack's Book on Ending Conflict and Building Connection.Re-Connections Coaching Package - Learn how to put an end to arguing in your marriage so you can enjoy each other again.Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

How To Respond When Your Husband Cheats But You Still Love HimWhen your husband cheats but you still love him, it can feel like you're stuck between heartbreak and hope. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll hear Wendy's story—a woman caught in that very dilemma—and how she found clarity, strength, and a path forward through reconciliation coaching.What You'll LearnWhy love alone isn't enough to end an affair or fix a broken marriageHow to stop reacting and start using strategy to regain your powerThe three areas you must improve to become your husband's best optionWhat makes reconciliation more effective than confrontation or counselingWant to Work With Coach Jack? If your spouse is involved in an affair and you're not ready to give up on your marriage, I can help you develop a plan that restores your self-respect and gives your spouse a reason to change. Learn more about the End Your Spouse's Affair Coaching Package here:https://coachjackito.com/relationship-coaching-services/marriage-coaching-spouse-affair/Key TakeawaysYou must become both more respected and more desiredBoundaries only work when combined with positive connectionCounseling often delays real change if your spouse isn't motivatedDon't wait for your spouse to lead; change starts with youForgiveness is necessary, but it comes after strength, not beforeAdditional ResourcesA Christian Guide to Preventing and Ending Men's Affairs – This book helped Wendy find a new path and may help you tooTherapy Beyond All Expectations – Understand how to find a good therapist and how to get more out of therapy. End Your Spouse's Affair coaching package - All the steps you need from deciding on your options to rebuilding after the affair is over.Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Feel Unappreciated in Your Marriage? Here's How to Fix It Do you feel like your efforts go unnoticed or unreciprocated in your marriage? In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll learn how to break free from the resentment that can build when you feel used or emotionally neglected. What You'll Learn:Why over-giving leads to resentment—and how to fix it without harming your connectionHow to communicate your needs clearly without sounding critical or demandingWhat to do if your love languages don't match—and how to get more of what you wantHow to make small changes that spark big improvements, even without your spouse's cooperationWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you're feeling unseen, used, or disconnected—and you're ready to feel loved again—check out the Re-Connections Coaching Package. It's designed to help you rebuild attraction, trust, and appreciation even when your spouse isn't working on the relationship.Key Takeaways:Feelings like resentment and burnout are early warning signs—not signals to give upDoing more doesn't help if you're doing the wrong things for your spouseMotivation works better than confrontation when love languages don't alignCommunication must be kind, specific, and direct to be effectiveYou can take steps today that improve connection without waiting on your spouseAdditional Resources:Book: The Five Love Languages, by Gary Chapman. Recommended reading.Re-Connections Coaching Package--for help with ending the resentment cycle and restoring a relationship with a spouse who will not work with you.Would you like matching YouTube description elements (timestamps, thumbnail prompt, tags) prepared as well?Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

How to Save Your Marriage When Your Spouse Won't Try Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack – Podcast EpisodeOn this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito shares how you can rebuild and save your marriage—even if your spouse refuses to work on it. If you're tired of waiting for cooperation that never comes, this episode will show you how real change is still possible, starting with you.What You'll Learn:Why your spouse's resistance doesn't mean your marriage is hopelessThe three options you have when your spouse won't helpWhy trying to convince your spouse usually makes things worseHow to create powerful change through matching words and actionsWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you're ready to stop feeling powerless and start rebuilding your marriage today, my Difficult Partner Coaching Package will show you how to turn things around with confidence and love. Learn more at: https://coachjackito.com/relationship-coaching-services/win-win-coaching-restoring-love-with-difficult-partners/Key Takeaways:Waiting often causes more damage than progress.Convincing your spouse usually increases emotional distance.Positive change often brings short-term resistance.Loving strength—not conflict—is the key to reconnecting.Real progress comes from consistent actions, not words alone.Additional Resources: More relationship help for you:Coaching Package: Restore a Loving Relationship with a Difficult SpouseBook: Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You WantDr. Dobson's Book title: Love Must Be ToughArticle: How to Improve Your Skills with Marriage BoundariesWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Should You Keep Trying If Everyone Says Your Marriage Is Over? Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack – Podcast Episode On this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito helps you make sense of conflicting advice and emotional overwhelm. If you're questioning your path, this episode will help you evaluate whether giving up or pressing forward is the most loving—and effective—choice.What You'll Learn:Why most advice you hear (even from counselors) isn't helpfulHow to handle pressure from family or friends who want you to divorceHow to avoid the two biggest regrets people have when deciding whether to keep tryingWhy changing your approach matters more than holding onto hopeWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you're struggling to know whether to keep trying or walk away—and want a practical plan for rebuilding connection—my Re-Connections Coaching Package will give you the clarity and strategy you need. Learn more at: https://coachjackito.com/relationship-coaching-services/reconnections/Key Takeaways:Advice from others reflects their mindset, not your situation.Feelings of hopelessness are common—but not reliable guides.The words you use when seeking advice shape the advice you receive.Your decision should be based on love, not fear or frustration.Trying again only works when you try differently.Additional Resources:Free Downloads for Improving Communication with Your Spouse Relationship Coaching PackagesConsult with Coach JackContact Coach JackWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

 Why Trying to Fix Your Marriage Might Be Making Things WorseWelcome to Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, the podcast where Christian psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito shares powerful, skill-based strategies to rebuild connection and emotional closeness in your marriage. In this episode, Coach Jack reveals why trying to fix your marriage often leads to more emotional distance—and what to do instead if you want your spouse to enjoy being with you again.What You'll LearnWhy fixing emotional problems with practical solutions pushes your spouse awayThe difference between understanding and validation—and why it mattersFive specific validation behaviors that rebuild emotional connectionWhat not to say when your spouse wants space, distance, or separationA real-life client example of transformation through non-fixing behaviorsWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you're tired of being pushed away despite your efforts to repair your relationship, it's time for a better strategy. My Re-Connections Coaching Package is designed to help you reconnect with your spouse through validation, empathy, and skillful communication—even if your spouse is distancing or asking for separation.Key TakeawaysFixing emotional distance with practical solutions creates more disconnectionValidation requires agreement, empathy, compliments, appreciation, or admirationAvoid apologies, explanations, or promises when trying to rebuild closenessEmotional connection grows through similarity—not fixing, reasoning, or negotiatingSmall steps done consistently have more power than big emotional appealsAdditional ResourcesDoes Giving Space or Going No-Contact Help to Reconcile?Is There Hope for Your Marriage? Yes, Here's Why.Q&A About How to Reconcile after a Marital Separation.Now through Easter Monday receive 10% a coaching package or consultation with code EASTER10Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Why Your Spouse Wanting a Divorce Doesn't Mean It's Over On this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito talks about one of the most painful moments in any relationship—when a spouse wants a divorce. Many people panic and assume that it's the end, but in this episode, you'll learn why that fear is often misplaced. Coach Jack shares how reconnecting and rebuilding a relationship is still possible, even when your spouse says they're done.What You'll Learn:Why a spouse asking for divorce doesn't necessarily mean reconciliation is impossibleHow to avoid common mistakes that derail reconnection effortsWhat it really takes to restore love, commitment, and value in your relationshipHow to use process goals to build attraction and security, step by stepWant to Work With Coach Jack? If your spouse wants a divorce and you're not ready to give up, the Re-Connections Coaching Package can help you rebuild your relationship from the ground up—without pressure or pursuit. Coach Jack will guide you through a proven process of retraction, reconnection, and security so your spouse starts to value and desire being with you again.Key Takeaways:Trying to convince your spouse not to divorce won't rebuild loveReconciling follows the same path as dating—build value firstSecure people commit to those they fear losing, not to those always availableProcess goals like showing love and being enjoyable are key to restoring connectionDivorce may happen, but it doesn't have to stop the reconciliation processAdditional Resources:What to Do When Your Wife Want to Divorce and Be FriendsYour Spouse's Real Reasons for Wanting a DivorceHow to Prevent Divorce and Reconcile while SeparatedWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Feel Ignored by Your Spouse? Use These 10 Listening SkillsIn this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito breaks down 10 powerful listening skills that can help you reconnect with a distant spouse. If you're tired of feeling ignored, dismissed, or disconnected, these step-by-step strategies will help you become the kind of partner your spouse enjoys talking with again.What You'll Learn:How to develop a mindset that draws your spouse closer, not pushes them away10 actionable listening techniques that rebuild emotional connectionWhat behaviors are turning your spouse off (and how to replace them)How clients like John turned around a cold marriage—without needing their spouse's cooperationWant to Work With Coach Jack? If your spouse avoids you or conversations often end in frustration, you don't need to keep guessing what to do next. My Re-Connections Coaching Package will give you a customized step-by-step plan to help your spouse enjoy talking and being with you again—without needing them to work on the relationship. Learn more at: coachjackito.comKey Takeaways:A positive mindset is essential before any interactionValidation creates connection; invalidation destroys itListening is more than hearing—it's how you respond and rememberGood listening habits create attraction and reduce avoidanceCoaching works by creating small wins that build confidence and changeAdditional Resources:Article: 12 Ways to Revive Your Love for Your Spouse - There are things that you can do to rejuvenate your love for your spouseBook: Connecting Through "Yes!" – Learn how to agree and empathize, even when your spouse is negativeBook: Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You Want - End the behaviors that cause conflict and emotional distance in your marriage.Free Download: 5 Communication Lessons – Get immediate tools to help your spouse enjoy talking with youWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Frustrated That Listening Isn't Bringing You Closer? How to Build a Deeper ConnectionAre you tired of listening to your spouse but not feeling any closer? In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito shares why simply understanding your spouse isn't enough to build an emotional connection. Discover how to break out of the friend zone and create real intimacy with just a few practical changes.What You'll Learn:Why understanding alone doesn't build connection and how it can even push your spouse away.How to make your spouse feel emotionally connected rather than just heard.Practical examples of effective and ineffective responses that either build connection or create distance.How to transform reassurance and helping into genuine connection that strengthens your relationship.Want to Work With Coach Jack?If you're frustrated that your spouse still feels distant despite your best efforts, it might be time to take a different approach. My Re-Connections Coaching Package will help you learn practical strategies to reignite your relationship and move from feeling stuck to feeling close again. Visit CoachJackIto.com to get started.Key Takeaways:Simply reflecting your spouse's feelings doesn't build connection—it can create more distance.Empathy and agreement should be balanced with positive, connecting responses.Reassurance and problem-solving don't build emotional connection—focus on emotional resonance instead.Changing how you respond can dramatically improve how your spouse feels about you.Additional Resources:Listening Better: A No Conflict Way to Start Rebuilding Your Marriage - One of the first steps to rebuilding a relationship.Free downloads to help you improve communication between you and your husband or wife.How to Get Your Husband or Wife to Listen to You (article/podcast).  – Because sometime you need to be the one to talk. Why It's Important to Show Regular Appreciation to Your Spouse - Just as with agreement and empathy, expressing appreciation is another way to validate.Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Listening Better: A No-Conflict Way to Start Rebuilding Your MarriageOn Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, shares practical strategies to restore and strengthen marriages. In this episode, you'll learn why listening better is one of the simplest and most effective ways to improve your relationship—without conflict.What You'll Learn:Why traditional active listening doesn't create emotional connection—and what doesHow to use validation to make your spouse enjoy talking with you moreThe link between being a good listener and being a more valuable partnerPractical ways to match your spouse's emotions and build deeper connectionStart building a stronger connection today.If you want your spouse to enjoy talking with you more and feel more connected, improving how you listen is a great place to start. For personalized guidance in rebuilding emotional connection, explore Coach Jack's Re-Connections Coaching Package.Key Takeaways:Validation, not just understanding, is what makes people enjoy talking with you.Being a good listener increases your value in your spouse's eyes.Emotional connection is more important than practical help for long-term relationship success.Having a positive mindset about your spouse makes listening easier and more effective.Good listening leads to better boundaries, less resistance, and a stronger marriage.Additional Resources:Connecting through "Yes!" (book) – Learn how to agree with your spouse in difficult situations while maintaining your own values.Free Downloads – Get tools to make your spouse enjoy talking with you more. Scroll to the bottom of CoachJackIto.com and click "Downloads."How to Get Your Husband or Wife to Listen to You (article/podcast).  – Because sometime you need to be the one to talk.Understanding Gender Differences in Communication for Better Connection (article/podcast). – Learn to communicate better with the other sex.

Midlife Crisis: How to Reconnect With Your SpouseFacing your spouse's midlife crisis in your marriage can feel overwhelming and isolating. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Coach Jack uses his professional experience and real-life examples to guide you in effectively responding to your spouse's midlife crisis and reconnecting on a deeper level.What You'll Learn:How to effectively communicate when your spouse is emotionally distant.Common mistakes that push your spouse further away.Using empathy as a powerful tool for reconnection.Establishing healthy boundaries during turbulent times.If you're struggling with your spouse's midlife crisis and want practical strategies to reconnect, listen now and take the first step toward healing your relationship.Start building a stronger connection today.If you're ready to respond effectively to your spouse's midlife crisis and rebuild emotional connection, tune in now. For personalized guidance, explore Coach Jack's Re-Connections Coaching Package or End Your Spouse's Affair Coaching Package.Key Takeaways:Responding effectively to your spouse's words can save your relationship.Empathy, not sympathy, creates genuine emotional connection.Connecting through shared desires for change can reignite attraction.Clear boundaries prevent further relationship damage.Professional coaching can help resolve deep conflicts.Additional Resources:Giving Space and Reconciling: How Much is Too Much? – Helps navigate the balance between giving your spouse space and maintaining connection.How to Reconcile After a Long Separation and Get Re-Commitment – Useful for those dealing with emotional or physical distance.How to Rebuild Your Marriage While You Are Separated – Guides those facing uncertainty in their relationship.7 Steps to Restore Your Marriage and Feel Like a Couple Again – Actionable steps for strengthening the relationship.How to Use Boundaries for More Respect and a Better Marriage – Supports healthy boundary-setting during a midlife crisis.

How to Get Your Husband or Wife to Listen to YouFeeling unheard or ignored in your marriage? It's frustrating when your spouse seems disengaged, but real communication is possible. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, relationship coach and Christian psychologist Dr. Jack Ito shares proven strategies to encourage meaningful conversations and make your spouse actually want to listen to you.What you'll learn:Why your spouse may not be listening—and what to do about itThe top ten strategies for getting your spouse to engage in conversationsHow validation, boundaries, and realistic expectations can transform communicationThe role of attractiveness and positivity in rekindling connectionStart building a stronger connection today.If you're ready to improve communication and bring warmth back into your marriage, tune in now. For personalized guidance, explore Coach Jack's Restoring a Loving Relationship with a Difficult Spouse coaching package.Key takeaways:Express love and concern before seeking clarificationImprove your own listening and communication habits firstCreate a positive, engaging atmosphere for conversationsSet clear boundaries for disrespectful behaviorGradually implement changes to reduce resistanceMore relationship help for you:Get Coach Jack's book: Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You WantGet a Free Download for helping your spouse to enjoy talking with you.Better understand gender differences for better communication in your marriage.Work with Coach Jack to improve your marriage to a difficult spouse.For more relationship-building insights, visit coachjackito.com.

 The 3 relationship scripts that make affairs likely—and how to shift themMost people don't get married expecting to have an affair. And yet, affairs happen all the time, even in marriages that seem stable. The truth is, most people who cheat aren't looking for a new relationship—they're searching for something they've lost in their marriage.In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, we explore how subconscious relationship scripts shape a marriage—and how three specific scripts make affairs more likely. If you've ever felt like your marriage has lost its spark, understanding these patterns can help you take back control and rebuild a deeper connection.What You'll Learn:The wife-as-caretaker script – Why treating your husband like a dependent, rather than a partner, weakens attraction.The wife-as-roommate script – How extreme independence leads to emotional disconnection and infidelity.The wife-as-business-partner script – Why running a household like a company often drains romance from the marriage.How to shift to the boyfriend-girlfriend script – The key to keeping passion, connection, and commitment alive long-term.Ready to reshape your marriage dynamics and restore attraction? Tune in, subscribe, and check the show notes for extra resources to help you make these changes step by step.Some key takeaways from today's podcast:Your husband's perception of you is shaped by how you behave with him.Attraction fades when a marriage becomes too practical—romance requires intentional effort.Small, gradual changes can shift your role in his life and reignite his interest in you.The boyfriend-girlfriend dynamic keeps passion alive in long-term relationships.More relationship help for you:Get Coach Jack's book: A Christian Guide to Preventing and Ending Men's AffairsQuestions and answers about sexual and emotional affairsIs your neediness driving your husband to an affair?Work with Coach Jack to end your husband's affair.

Break through resistance and rebuild your connectionIn this must-listen episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito delivers straightforward, no-nonsense strategies for overcoming resistance and rebuilding a genuine connection with your spouse. If you're ready to break through the barriers that keep your marriage stuck, you're in the right place.What You'll Learn:Overcoming resistance: Discover practical techniques for handling your wife's reluctance to reconcile without creating more conflict.Building a positive connection: Learn how to create a relaxed atmosphere and align your agendas so your wife feels safe and open to reconnecting.Ready to transform your relationship with practical, real-world steps? Tune in, subscribe, and dive into the show notes for extra resources that will accelerate your journey to a more loving, connected marriage.Some key takeaways from today's podcast:Address resistance by avoiding overwhelming gestures.Focus on creating a relaxed, positive environment for your wife.Take small, manageable steps to gradually rebuild your connection.Learn strategies that work in the real world—no sugar-coating, just results.More relationship help for you:How to make your wife sexually attracted to you again.How to get your wife to love you again.How to figure out if your wife really isn't in love with you anymore.How to respond when your wife says she just wants to be friends.Work with Coach Jack to rebuild your relationship when you have a rejecting spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches men how to avoid resistance and rejection from their wives when trying to reconcile.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to make your wife sexually attracted to you again.How to get your wife to love you again.How to figure out if your wife really isn't in love with you anymore.How to respond when your wife says she just wants to be friends.Work with Coach Jack to rebuild your relationship when you have a rejecting spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches women how to go from hating their husbands to having a good marriage again.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to choose between marriage counseling and marriage coaching.How to convince your husband to go to marriage counselingHow to deal with deal breaker differences in your marriage.How to end a pattern of angry conflict in your marriage.Work with Coach Jack to restore a loving relationship with a difficult partner.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches men how to choose between marriage counseling and marriage coaching.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to improve your marriage, even if your spouse won't go to marriage counseling.How to end your spouse's affair without marriage counseling.How to use boundaries for more respect and a better marriage.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack on skills that can save your marriage.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches men how to get their wives to sexually desire them again.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to fix a sexless marriage.How to talk about sex for a more satisfying marriageHow to help her enjoy your dates more.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to become the kind of man she can't wait to be with.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches why men's behavior can become mean and how to get your husband to be nice once again.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to get your spouse to love and desire you more.How to get more love and respect from your spouse.Twelve ways to revive your love for your spouse.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to get help dealing with your difficult spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches how to restart your feelings of love for your spouse and hot to revive your spouse's loving feelings at the same time.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to get your spouse to love and desire you more.How to stop get more love and respect from your spouse.Twelve ways to revive your love for your spouse.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to learn how to restart your marriage in the right direction.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches how you can give your relationship a boost by talking in a way that helps your spouse to enjoy your conversation.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:What you need to know about talking about marriage problems.Learn 6 reasons why your husband won't talk to you.How to talk about relationship problems in a way that your spouse will like.Free download to help you to help your spouse to enjoy talking with you.Work with Coach Jack to learn the skills to improve your marriage.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches why appreciating our spouse is necessary even for people who don't desire a lot of appreciation themselves.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to stop behavior that may make you less valuable to your spouse.Learn how to make positive requests.How to stop get more love and respect from your spouse.Twelve ways to revive your love for your spouse.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to learn how to restart your marriage in the right direction.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches how to use boundaries for ending deal breaker differences in marriage.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to stop behavior that may make you less valuable to your spouse.Learn how to make positive requests.How to stop being blamed for everything by your spouse.How to stop conflict about less important differences.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to learn how to improve your relationship with you difficult spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches how to keep the inevitable relationship differences from becoming inevitable relationship damage.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to improve your marriage even if your spouse won't go to marriage counseling.Stopping the high conflict, low connection slide.How to stop being blamed for everything by your spouse.How to stop a spouse's overspending without conflict.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to learn how to reconnect with a rejecting spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack gives a seven step approach that stops conflict in it's tracks, while promoting better communication.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to improve your marriage even if your spouse won't go to marriage counseling.How to improve your skills with marriage boundaries.How to stop being blamed for everything by your spouse.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to learn how to deal with your difficult spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack gives five reasons why spouses get angry and how you can reduce or stop their anger.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to improve your marriage even if your spouse won't go to marriage counseling.How to improve your skills with marriage boundaries.How to stop being blamed for everything by your spouse.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to learn how to deal with your difficult spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches what to do when your spouse is behaving suspiciously.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to improve your marriage even if your spouse won't go to marriage counseling.How to decide if it is too late to save your marriage.Considerations for reconciling when your spouse is having an affair.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to end your spouse's affair and reconcile.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches when to use marriage counseling, marriage coaching, and retreats, if you want to end your spouse's affair.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to improve your marriage even if your spouse won't go to marriage counseling.How to decide between marriage coaching and marriage counseling.Considerations for reconciling when your spouse is having an affair.Take a quiz to find out what coaching best fits your situation.Work with Coach Jack to end your spouse's affair and reconcile.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches you how to figure out if you should continue to wear your wedding ring and gives advice on starting the reconciling process.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to rebuild your marriage in seven steps.Limerence: when your spouse is attracted to someone else and what to do about it.Get Coach Jack's book, Connecting through Yes!.Work with Coach Jack to re-attract and re-connect with a rejecting spouse.

On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches how to ask for and get what you want without damaging your relationship with your spouse.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:12 ways to revive your love for your spouse.Using boundaries rather than negativity to create positive change.How to get your spouse to love and desire you more.Take a quiz to find out how coaching could benefit your relationship.Work with Coach Jack to get more of what you really want, even with a selfish spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches how to make your boundaries more effective.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to use good boundaries in marriage.The seven steps to rebuilding your marriageDiscover separation boundaries which help to promote reconciling.Take a quiz to find out what coaching would be best for you.Work with Coach Jack to stop your spouse's bad behavior and rebuild your marriage.

On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches you how to figure out if you should continue to wear your wedding ring and gives advice on starting the reconciling process.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to rebuild your marriage in seven steps.When to work as a couple and when not to.Get Coach Jack's book, Connecting through Yes!.Work with Coach Jack to reconcile with a rejecting spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches how to feel more love for your spouse. After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to get out of a dating rut.How to get your wife to love you again.How to get your husband to love you again.How to get over a past love so you can love your spouse more.Work with Coach Jack to restore your spouse's love for you.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches how to reconcile and rebuild a relationship while separated..After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Examine the merits of physical separations vs. in-home separations.Discover separation boundaries which help to promote reconciling.Learn whether a trial separation or an unstructured separation is better for your situation.Work with Coach Jack to re-attract and re-connect with your spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches clients to be more secure in their interactions, leading them to much better relationships.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Get Coach Jack's book on overcoming neediness to start doing the ground work for ending your spouse's limerence.Questions and answers about sexual and emotional affairs.Get a free download to help you help your spouse to enjoy talking with you again.Work with Coach Jack to help your spouse fall in love with you again.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches clients to be more secure in their interactions, leading them to much better relationships.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to both be patient and use boundaries.When to work as a couple and when not to.Get Coach Jack's book, What to Do When He Won't Change.Work with Coach Jack to effectively stop your spouse's damaging behavior.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches clients to be more secure in their interactions, leading them to much better relationships.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Get Coach Jack's book on overcoming neediness and getting love.How to identify a needy, dependent, codependent, or secure spouseDiscover 12 ways neediness may be damaging your relationship.Work with Coach Jack to change your needy behaviors into secure ones.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack tells men how he helps his male client to reconcile with a wife who is rejecting, no longer in love, and wants to end the marriage.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Get Coach Jack's book on learning how to agree and end conflict.Discover separation boundaries which help to promote reconciling.Learn how to respond when your wife says she just wants to be friends.Work with Coach Jack to re-attract and re-connect with your wife.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack helps women to choose the right approach for getting their husband to give up the other woman.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Get Coach Jack's book on preventing and ending men's affairs.Discover separation boundaries which help to promote reconciling.Learn how to confront your husband about his affair.Work with Coach Jack to stop your husband's affair.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches two methods for ending blame permanently while improving your relationship.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Get a book on using agreement to securely respond to your spouse while building connection.Learn how to argue less and connect more with your spouse.Identify behaviors you always thought were good, but keep you from having good relationships.Work with Coach Jack to stop your spouse's damaging behaviors.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack will help you to understand the impact of space in gaining and losing your spouse's desire for you.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to rebuild your marriage while you are separated.Learn more about trial separations and unstructured separations.Stop your needy behaviors so that your spouse won't need as much space from you.Work with Coach Jack to maximize your skills for relationship success.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack will help you to understand why your husband has low empathy for you and disrespects you.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:How to get your spouse's respect and keep it.Get a book to help you with a difficult husband.Decide between marriage counseling and marriage coaching.Work with Coach Jack to improve your marriage to a difficult spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack helps teaches people with a low need for emotional connection how to reconcile with a spouse who wants separation due to lack of emotional connection.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Determine which of the four marriage styles you have.Get a book to figure out where you may be damaging emotional connection.Learn how to prevent divorce and reconnect while separated.Work with Coach Jack to re-attract and re-connect with your spouse.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack helps teaches how we can earn our spouse's respect.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to decide between coaching and counseling for improving your marriage.Get a book to help you end the needy behaviors which make you lose respect.Discover the keys to using effective boundaries in marriage.Need help with a difficult spouse? Get one on one help from Coach Jack.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack helps to know all the steps you need to do to rebuild your marriage, whether you get professional help or not.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Learn how to agree with your spouse better with Connecting through Yes! book.Get a free download to learn how to help your spouse to enjoy talking with you.Learn why some husbands are mean and disrespectful.Need help with relationship building? Get Re-Connections Coaching with Coach Jack.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack helps you to understand the reasons behind your husband's lack of communication with you.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Get a book to stop needy behaviors that may make your husband not want to talk to you.Get 5 free communication lessons from Coach Jack.Learn why some husbands are mean and disrespectful.Need help with a difficult spouse? Get Difficult Partner Relationship Coaching with Coach Jack.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack shares how intimacy is lost in marriage and the right steps to take to restore it.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Get a book to stop those behaviors you have that get in the way of intimacy.Learn more about the four marriage styles and how to change yours.Learn how to fix a sexless marriage.Need help with restoring intimacy? Get Re-connections Relationship Coaching with Coach

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches you why all work and no play will make your spouse go away (and give you some ideas to make your marriage more fun).After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Try no-compromise dating for a more fun marriage.How to motivate your spouse to date you more.How to make your spouse feel like a priority.Re-connections Relationship Coaching package with Coach Jack.

On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.On today's episode, Coach Jack teaches you which method of separation is more likely to result in reconciling for your situation.After listening to today's episode, you may want to:Seven boundaries that promote reconciling after separating.How to rebuild your relationship while separated.Physical separation vs. in home separation: which is better for reconciling?Re-connections relationship coaching package with Coach Jack.