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Ik zat in mijn stoel tijdens een Coaching Intensive in Wenen, en intens was het. Ria, een van de geweldige coaches, zei plots heel cru: "Weet je eigenlijk wel dat je gaat sterven? SNAP je dit echt? Ik denk van niet!" Hier zat iets in voor mij, in [...] The post #41 – Stop met leven alsof je nooit gaat sterven: een krachtige wake up call om voluit te leven appeared first on BEmindfool.
In this episode of "A Safe Place to Land," Olivia dives into the topic of taking on other people's feelings and emotions. She explores why we tend to do this and offers valuable insights on how to identify what's ours and what's not. Join Olivia as she provides practical tips and techniques for maintaining healthy relationships and finding inner clarity. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the emotions of others, this episode is a must! Please subscribe and pass it along if it's helpful
On the journey of healing and recovery, it can be easy to wonder if things will “always be this way”, or feel like the challenges “will never stop”. The reality is that it often takes more than we expect to go from death to life. While the Bible says that real and lasting transformation is available to us, it can be hard to understand what part we have to play and where God is doing the work. Jonathan Daugherty, founder of Be Broken Ministries, will tell you true transformation is grace-led. He joins Juli to discuss his new book where he explores and outlines how God uses our pain, restores our identity, and renews us along our healing journeys through the miraculous power of His grace. Guest: Jonathan Daugherty Be Broken Ministries on Instagram: @bebrokenministries Website: Be Broken Ministries Book: Grace-Based Transformation by Jonathan Daugherty Blog: God's Healing Stinks Blog: Why Is Healing So Hard? Java with Juli: #438: How Your Story Becomes Sacred in the Hands of Jesus Interested in becoming a member? Join us for Open House Already a member? Register for Second Cup Sign up for Jonathan's Coaching Intensive
Hey Friends, In this episode, we sit down with Christina Carlson, a Self Relationship Coach, Speaker, Facilitator, and the Host of the podcast "Bitches, Witches, and Queers." Christina shares her remarkable journey from a strict religious upbringing to finding her true self and purpose. Christina begins by delving into the intricacies of her early life, growing up in a household deeply devoted to religion. Raised to give her life to the church, she reflects on her earliest memories of feeling afraid and her limited exposure to external TV and media. As she started awakening to different forms of spirituality, she shares the pivotal moments that led her to question the path she was on. Today, Christina's life looks radically different since she cut ties with her religious past, but she shares what she still holds onto from that time and community. She offers invaluable advice for those struggling with their own faith-based identity and talks about what drew her to coaching. As we wrap up the episode, Christina reveals one thing that brings her immense joy in her life now. Listen in as we talk about: What's important to understand and know about Christina How she was raised and how religion played into her upbringing Being raised to give you life to the church Her earliest memories of feeling afraid Having very little exposure to external TV and media Starting to awaken Being exposed to different types of spirituality Healing from an emotionally abusive relationship How her siblings dealt with their religion Behind her fear of her parents finding out she was considering other paths The trauma bond of how they were raised The rocky relationship between her and her parents now Did she feel it was cult-ish before getting out of it? What her life looks like now since cutting those ties What she still holds onto from that time and that community Her advice for those struggling with their own faith-based identity What drew her to coaching One thing she's doing to bring her joy Episode Sponsors Arbonne Greens Gut Glow Bundle. Use promo code ARBONNE10 at checkout to get 10% off. (https://www.arbonne.com/ca/en/shop-all/nutrition/green-gut-glow-convenience-pack/p/1055%20CA) Or start a subscription and save with 20% off every order and free shipping! (https://www.arbonne.com/ca/en/arb/JessicaStephensToronto/cart?shareId=8835579432487) Do you love the show? Support us on Patreon so we can keep growing! https://www.patreon.com/IJustBlankNowWhat I'd love to connect with you: Come follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess.loves.life/ Signup for my newsletter at: https://jessicastephens.ca/ Or read more about all the things I love on my Blog: https://jessicastephens.ca/blogs/jess-loves-life Connect with Christina: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/careercoachingwithchristina TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christinaclifecoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinacarlsonlifecoaching/ https://www.christinamcarlson.com/ Take her quiz: What ex-religious pipeline are you on? https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/62cb270bc1f8bb001856616f Join her 3 month 1:1 Coaching Intensive called You Matter
Learning what feels good in the bedroom is an endeavor that starts on your honeymoon and never ends. In this episode, we'll help you take the guess work out of your sex life and learn how to tell (or show) your spouse what feels good in the bedroom. Guest: Dr. Corey Allan Show notes: Apply to join the Coaching Intensive for Wives Struggling with Sexual Pain The "Passionately Married Podcast" with Dr. Corey and Pam Allan Java #407 Masturbation: The No.1 Question You're Asking Us (exclusive content) Masturbation: Is It Wrong? (en Espanol) (Juli's blog) What's OK in the Bedroom? (Juli's blog) Your Sexual Differences Can Make You Better Lovers (Juli's blog) Five Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm, and Intimacy (Juli's blog) The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex by Cliff & Joyce Penner* *Affiliate link. AI may earn fees.
Listen in on this juicy conversation as G interviews Sex and Relationship Therapist and star of the hit TV show, Married at First Sight, Dr. Viviana Coles, and they unpack the moves and mindsets critical to a healthy, sexy and intimate monogamous partnership. In this episode, they dive into: Why it's worth giving your monogamy a fighting chance and the mainstream messaging that makes it hard for you to do this How modern mommy culture has glorified parenting over partnership Why you need to complete yourself How to navigate the common relationship dynamic, “You're a bad dad and you're a bad wife” What to do instead of venting to your girlfriends about your partner And so much more! Purchase Dr. Viviana's book, The 4 Intimacy Styles and check out how you can work with her at doctorviviana.com. If you love Gervase's vibe, and want to learn the available ways to work with her, the first step is to book a Coaching Intensive here. Connect with Gervase on Instagram Connect with Dr. Viviana on Instagram
In this installment of Evolution Revisited, I'm reflecting back on Episode 026 and sharing some of my big takeaways from my conversation with Nathaniel Brown.I also have some insight on Nathaniel's $1,000 Coaching Intensive, which Nathaniel is offering to everyone in EoB Society for FREE! All you need to do is find him on Instagram at @therealnathanielbrown and send him a DM that says Coach Me!And finally, I have a sneak preview of Episode 028 of Evolution of Brand featuring Samantha Lee Wright, the Founder of Pineapple Podcasting Academy.10 Tips For Becoming a Valuable, Fully Optimized Podcast Guest: Click here to learn more and get your free copyMUSIC CREDIT: "Victory" courtesy of purple-planet.com
In this installment of Evolution Revisited, I'm reflecting back on Episode 026 and sharing some of my big takeaways from my conversation with Nathaniel Brown. I also have some insight on Nathaniel's $1,000 Coaching Intensive, which Nathaniel is offering to everyone in EoB Society for FREE! All you need to do is find him on Instagram at @therealnathanielbrown and send him a DM that says Coach Me! And finally, I have a sneak preview of Episode 028 of Evolution of Brand featuring Samantha Lee Wright, the Founder of Pineapple Podcasting Academy. 10 Tips For Becoming a Valuable, Fully Optimized Podcast Guest: Click here to learn more and get your free copy MUSIC CREDIT: "Victory" courtesy of purple-planet.com
Coaching experience incoming! On this episode of The Champagne Society podcast, Gervase sits down with her long-time friend and client Vivian, one of the modern women who attended the free coaching session during Meeting Your Mother-Edge. G and Vivian get into the nitty gritty of how we can fall into the trap of victimhood and using our kids as an excuse to not care for ourselves. They also dive into why we sometimes feel triggered by others and how to step out of suffering-martyr energy into that boss a** B life. Gervase Kolmos is an Intuitive Mindset Coach and Hypnotherapist and the host of The Champagne Society podcast. If you are ready to work with G and live in alignment with your unique energy, keep reading for a peek at how G can help you start your journey! The foundational framework for all of G's coaching programs works with reprogramming beliefs at the subconscious level, mastering your mindset, tapping into your intuition and harnessing your energy type with Human Design. Did this episode leave you feeling like you're ready to embrace the support you need to step into the fullest version of yourself? G has one spot open in her 1:1 Coaching Intensive, and we think we heard it call your name! This coaching intensive is a 90 minute deep dive via Zoom, guaranteed to leave you feeling lighter, clearer, more at peace, and on your way to living your truest Boss A$$ B life. If this sounds like divine intervention, claim it here! For more information on how to work with Gervase, visit her website: www.gervasekolmos.com Follow The Champagne Society on Instagram Follow Gervase on Instagram
On this solo episode of The Champagne Society podcast, G gets super transparent about her lifelong journey with depression. She shares the three steps she implemented to shift into unconditional self-acceptance of her mental health, and the daily choices and habits that make it all possible. She explains the role her mindset plays in allowing her to feel empowered while embracing and choosing herself day after day. Grab a journal, pop in some headphones, and bring an open mind and heart to this conversation about a truly important thing. *If you experience depression, anxiety, or other mental health conditions, always start by seeing a licensed mental health professional. Gervase Kolmos is an Intuitive Mindset Coach and Hypnotherapist and the host of The Champagne Society podcast. If you are ready to work with G and live in alignment with your unique energy, keep reading for a peek at programs open now to help you start your journey! The foundational framework for all of G's coaching programs works with reprogramming beliefs at the subconscious level, mastering your mindset, tapping into your intuition and harnessing your energy type with Human Design. Whew! That was a real, raw, true human experience episode! Did it leave you feeling like you need support to embrace the fullest version of yourself? G has one spot open in her 1:1 Coaching Intensive, and we think we heard it call your name! This coaching intensive is a 90 minute deep dive via Zoom, guaranteed to leave you feeling lighter, clearer, more at peace, and on your way to living your truest Boss A$$ B life. If this sounds like divine intervention, claim it here! For more information on how to work with Gervase, visit her website: www.gervasekolmos.com Follow The Champagne Society on Instagram Follow Gervase on Instagram
I sat down with Ava, on a sunny late afternoon in San Diego and a crisp morning in Australia to open up this conversation that organically took twists and turns! She is a beautiful soul and carries much wisdom, you can check her out on IG @avajohannaIn the meantime, as we get this Podcast out to more humans, take a screen shot and tag me on IG @iam.shannonrose to WIN INSTANTLY a 60min Coaching Intensive valued at $297usd! Thank you for your support, see you next week on Conversations of The Living Free.
Do you hesitate to share your thoughts at work? Here's the thing: No one has a bigger stake in any given meeting than YOU do. No one has paid for VIP seats, and no one's opinion matters more than yours! So, what can you do to practice speaking up until it feels natural? On this episode of Career Confessions, I explore how to make your voice heard at work, explaining why it's a disservice to your team when you DON'T share your perspective. I discuss how to handle it when someone speaks over you in a meeting, challenging you to be selfish and let yourself go first every once in a while. Listen in to understand why you don't need an invitation to speak your mind and learn how to ask your boss for opportunities to step up and lead! Key Takeaways My practice of doing a quarterly audit to reflect, adjust and celebrate Why I'm not a fan of the term imposter syndrome Why no one has a bigger stake in a given meeting than YOU How it's a disservice to your team when you don't share your thoughts and opinions How to handle it when someone speaks over you Why it's okay to be selfish and allow yourself to go first every once in a while Why you don't need an invitation to share your perspective and how speaking your mind demonstrates that you're a self-starter How making your voice heard becomes more natural with practice How to ask your boss for opportunities to step up and lead What to do if you need time to think through what you want to say Connect with Andrea Andrea Martin Consulting Andrea on Instagram Andrea on YouTube Andrea on LinkedIn Resources Access the Corner Office Accelerator Course [Promo Code PODCAST] Join the Success Blueprint Vault Mastermind Schedule a 1:1 Coaching Intensive
Coach Vann shares how his 21-Day Mind Over Money Coaching Intensive can help listeners overcome financial overwhelm. This money coaching intensive isn't for everyone however it helps people who are living paycheck to paycheck and don't have full control of their financial resources.The Mind Over Money Coaching Intensive helps people become financially free. It’s not about dollars and cents. It's about the respect you have for the hard-earned money you work for and your ability to get it to work for you and for you to become a good steward in the process. A good Mind Over Money Champion gets results—and that starts by empowering everyone in your household to have money talks, set monthly goals, and follow through with discipline. This virtual money coaching intensive helps you unlearn old and broken methods of managing money and help you identify ways you can adjust your money mindset to start getting the results. you know you deserve for today and in the future.Class detailsWhat: Mind Over Money Coaching IntensiveHow: Your investment consists of three (1) hour sessions that take place over the course of 21 days, hot-seat coaching will be conducted, daily check-ins, bonus (e-book), a peer accountability group, and a 1:1 strategy session for All-In members.Price: $497.00 (All-In) or $447 (Observer)When: March 2 - March 16, 2021Who this is for: Men and women that truly want financial freedom, small business owners, organizations, families, and retirees who want to become wealth builders.Guarantee: A money-back guarantee is provided only after the first one-hour session, this will allow: registrants an opportunity to decide whether they want to go further into the coaching intensive which lasts three weeks.All-In ParticipantYou want the full enchilada. This intensive coaching system gives you the direct feedback, training, bonus coaching sessions, and accountability you need to make the most progress.Only 5 All-in spots availableTraining sessionsDaily check-insFacebook GroupHot seat coaching option1:1 bonus coaching session$497Here is the link to enroll - https://bit.ly/2ZFcF0wHost - Paul Lawrence VannEmail - info@paulvannspeaks.comOffice: (800) 341-6719
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This episode is something I’m really excited to share with you. It’s an excerpt from a one-off event I ran two years ago, called “The 1:1 Coaching Intensive Unpacked”. Here’s the backstory: As you may be aware, one of the way I love to work with my clients is by doing a 3-day, 1:1 coaching intensive. I find that the intensive format means you can achieve in a few days what would previously have taken a whole year to accomplish, so it’s a really powerful format. So in my book RESULTS, one of the chapters included a story about the time one of my apprentices, the coach Ankush Jain, sat in and observed while I did a 3-day 1:1 Intensive with a client, so he could have an experience of what it’s like to do an intensive. When that book came out, I had lots of people come to me and ask if they could sit in on an intensive. I understand - it’s hard to do something you don’t have a reference experience for, and most coaches and therapists have never experienced an intensive. But it just wasn’t practical for me to have groups of students sitting in on my intensives. So I managed to come up with something even better: I created a special event, where I conducted a 3-day, High-Value 1:1 Coaching Intensive, with a real, live, paying client, and we filmed the whole thing. Not only that: The whole time I was doing the intensive, there was a video feed to another room where a live audience of coaches, therapists, trainers and business people were watching and listening to the entire intensive. Before and after each intensive session, I came into the room with them to unpack everything that was going on. And we got all that on film too! So in this podcast episode, you’re going to hear the opening session that I did with that group of coaches, therapists and other professionals. You’re going to hear me ‘laying the ground’ and setting the foundations for the whole experience, including some of the most important distinctions you need to pay attention to when you’re doing an intensive. By the way, if you want to see and hear all the intensive and group sessions, head over to www.ClarityAcademy.co/intensive where you’ll find all the details about the 1:1 Coaching Intensive unpacked. You see, It can be incredibly difficult to do something new when you don't have a reference experience for it… That's why I created this programme: To give you your own personal reference experience so you have the confidence AND the competence to structure, deliver and enroll clients on High-Value 1:1 Coaching Intensives. We’re launching the programme this week, so you can save £300 when you register before midnight on Friday, 25th October, and there’s a special bonus package when you sign up now, so head over to www.ClarityAcademy.co/intensive if you want to get your own personal reference experience, and develop the confidence AND the competence to structure, deliver and enroll clients on High-Value 1:1 Coaching Intensives.
In this episode, we are joined by the incredible Louie Giglio, founder of SixSteps Records, Passion Conference, and Passion City Church. Louie shares the inspiring story behind starting Passion and leading the reawakening for college students around the world. Louie also shares the heart behind his new book Not Forsaken and how the fatherless generation can find the acceptance and blessing they've been missing. He speaks openly about stepping out in faith, risking it all, and the power of perseverance. In this episode we discuss: 1. How one of the hardest seasons of his life brought about Passion 2. Why the Chick-fil-a logo brought him to tears at a speaking event 3. Why he wrote his latest book for the "fatherless generation" Favorite quotes: 1. God is not just a bigger version of our earthly father, He's the perfect version of our earthly father. 2. Nothing in life is easy that's worth it. 3. When we come to see ourselves as loved sons and loved daughters of a perfect father living in that blessing it truly frees us to grow up and become everything God is dreaming that we can be. 4. This is a radical time for God to step and begin to rewrite the story of our identities and by that bring us to life to fully live in the potential that God has for our lives. In this episode I answer these questions: 1. I have a busy life, I want to make room for self-development. How should I get started? (42:01) 2. Do I have to get baptized to be saved? (46:45) 3. What is the best way to connect with people I can learn from so I can pick their brain? (48:53) Links to great things we discussed: 1. Louie Giglio 2. Not Forsaken 3. London Philharmonic Orchestra 4. Free Solo 5. The Boy Crisis 6. Olive Oil 7. Clinique High Impact Mascara 8. Coaching Intensive 9. Blissdom Conference 10. Fab Fit Fun use code ALLI for $10 off Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! xo, Alli www.alliworthington.com/podcast/louiegiglio
Are formless principles too 'woo-woo' for a corporate lawyer? In this episode of the get clarity podcast, we’re going to be answering this question about subtractive psychology: are formless principles too 'woo-woo' for a corporate lawyer? Here’s the back story. You may recall that I conducted a 3-day Clarity 1:1 Coaching Intensive with a corporate lawyer named Andy, in front of a live audience of coaches, therapists and trainers. A year later, I did a live follow-up interview with Andy in front of an audience, to find out how the experience changed his world and give people the chance to ask us BOTH questions. There were some real surprises – for instance someone asked Andy whether he would have been prepared to pay full price for the intensive, knowing what he knows now (Andy paid £4,000 instead of the usual fee of £30,000, in return for letting an audience watch and listen as he went through the entire experience). As you can imagine, I was waiting with baited breath to hear his answer in front of an audience of over 100 people! I’ve decided to share the whole interview with you, because it’s so aligned with the purpose my team and I are working to. As you may know, we believe the most valuable things a person can discover are how their mind works, and who they really are. Well, this interview demonstrates why they're so valuable– the immeasurable, practical, real-world benefits of learning just these two things, specifically. And when I say learning, I mean realising them insightfully – not just as concepts, beliefs or ideas, but as bedrock facts that make a go-forward difference in your life. These two facts (how your mind works and who you really are) are what Andy realised insightfully during his intensive, and what you’re going to hear is the difference those two discoveries have made in his work, and in his life as a whole. In the interview he reports on the changes in: - His sense of trust in himself and his decision-making - His levels of relaxation - His productivity - His parenting and family life - Starting his own coaching practice - His deep-down knowing about whether he can handle anything that comes his way, including a company shakeup following the intensive, that took the team of nine senior executives down to just two people (one of which was Andy) Here are some of the questions Andy gave answers to: - How did how you operate in the world before VS after the intensive? What changed for you? - How did things change around your career transition and your ability to take action and be productive? - Knowing what you know now, would you have been prepared to pay the full price (£30,000) for your intensive? - What was the biggest new belief that you gained about yourself in the intensive that you felt was most transformative? (Andy’s answer to this was particularly interesting, because of the ‘subtractive’ nature of this work) - How did you go about building your coaching practice alongside your corporate lawyer role? - What impact has the intensive have had on your relationships - for instance work colleagues, family etc? - What do you think the difference would have been if you'd had regular coaching in hourly sessions rather than an intensive? I was also asked some technical questions (E.g. do you ever do Intensives remotely? The answer is “yes”), as well as what I’d learned personally from the intensive, so it was great to share my insights from the session. If you'd like to contact Andy to find out more about his coaching services, you can reach him on andyjsmith101 at gmail dot com or at his "Business Success Made Simple" Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/130424981156517/
Are formless principles too 'woo-woo' for a corporate lawyer? In this episode of the get clarity podcast, we’re going to be answering this question about subtractive psychology: are formless principles too 'woo-woo' for a corporate lawyer? Here’s the back story. You may recall that I conducted a 3-day Clarity 1:1 Coaching Intensive with a corporate lawyer named Andy, in front of a live audience of coaches, therapists and trainers. A year later, I did a live follow-up interview with Andy in front of an audience, to find out how the experience changed his world and give people the chance to ask us BOTH questions. There were some real surprises – for instance someone asked Andy whether he would have been prepared to pay full price for the intensive, knowing what he knows now (Andy paid £4,000 instead of the usual fee of £30,000, in return for letting an audience watch and listen as he went through the entire experience). As you can imagine, I was waiting with baited breath to hear his answer in front of an audience of over 100 people! I’ve decided to share the whole interview with you, because it’s so aligned with the purpose my team and I are working to. As you may know, we believe the most valuable things a person can discover are how their mind works, and who they really are. Well, this interview demonstrates why they're so valuable– the immeasurable, practical, real-world benefits of learning just these two things, specifically. And when I say learning, I mean realising them insightfully – not just as concepts, beliefs or ideas, but as bedrock facts that make a go-forward difference in your life. These two facts (how your mind works and who you really are) are what Andy realised insightfully during his intensive, and what you’re going to hear is the difference those two discoveries have made in his work, and in his life as a whole. In the interview he reports on the changes in: - His sense of trust in himself and his decision-making - His levels of relaxation - His productivity - His parenting and family life - Starting his own coaching practice - His deep-down knowing about whether he can handle anything that comes his way, including a company shakeup following the intensive, that took the team of nine senior executives down to just two people (one of which was Andy) Here are some of the questions Andy gave answers to: - How did how you operate in the world before VS after the intensive? What changed for you? - How did things change around your career transition and your ability to take action and be productive? - Knowing what you know now, would you have been prepared to pay the full price (£30,000) for your intensive? - What was the biggest new belief that you gained about yourself in the intensive that you felt was most transformative? (Andy’s answer to this was particularly interesting, because of the ‘subtractive’ nature of this work) - How did you go about building your coaching practice alongside your corporate lawyer role? - What impact has the intensive have had on your relationships - for instance work colleagues, family etc? - What do you think the difference would have been if you'd had regular coaching in hourly sessions rather than an intensive? I was also asked some technical questions (E.g. do you ever do Intensives remotely? The answer is “yes”), as well as what I’d learned personally from the intensive, so it was great to share my insights from the session. If you'd like to contact Andy to find out more about his coaching services, you can reach him on andyjsmith101 at gmail dot com or at his "Business Success Made Simple" Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/130424981156517/
I hope the season brings some delight, joy, peace—and some quiet! In this podcast, I share a few stories of my own this holiday season—mom stories, and getting back to intentional living. Taking the time to really enjoy the wonderful things of life and embracing the beautiful space in between the running-around errands that happen not only now during the holidays, but all year round! I highlight some of the benefits of intentional living, and how to stop and enjoy some of the wonderful simple things we all want.I also introduce my first 10-week Coaching Intensive for Intentional Change. To find out more, you can check out lovehowsheleads.com/coachingintensives.I share about launching email coaching plans at a special introductory rate (because I want to help as many women as possible in a flexible, customized way). Go here for that: lovehowsheleads.com/email-coaching-plansBe sure to receive the encouragement and support you need for 2019! I am also launching an old-fashioned mail called 2019 letters to encourage you all year long. lovehowsheleads.com/2019letters.
What is your conversation lens? How do you even see what's happening in a conversation at work or at home? How do you know it's going well or awry? How do you get conversations "back on track"? And how do you see and *shape* how *you* show up in them? How do you know what you bring into the room, good and not so good? Conversations impact the outcomes we get: Conversations propel people and organizations forward, or they get stuck: The groundhog day conversation! Marsha Acker, the CEO of TeamCatapult, sat down with me to talk about her unique view on these things and much more, along with her passion for ending stuck conversations in organizations. Marsha has over 22 years of experience designing and facilitating organizational change initiatives and TeamCatapult has been helping develop leaders and transform organizations since 2005. Meeting someone with a *totally* different "heritage" who has come to some very similar conclusions about the nature of conversation design is truly delightful! What I loved about chatting with Marsha is connecting around a sound that's deepening in me: That facilitation is about being conscious of what conversational tools you pick up: Knowing where and when you're stuck and picking up the right tool for the moment, instead of the habitual one. The Structural Dynamics concept of a conversational operating system is deeply resonant with the three creative energies of Open, Explore and Close that I sing about non-stop and it was amazing to get her take on the Four Conversational Actions, which give a better shape to idea of "threading" in a conversation than any model I've encountered yet. It's really profound to see how each time someone speaks they are shaping the course of the conversation, helping it to slow down or speed up. I geeked out pretty hard with her...nevertheless I think you'll find a lot of amazing tools to bring into your own work! I'll link to some of her upcoming workshops in the show notes: Her company offers a host of amazing experiences, from a 2-day Advanced Facilitation workshop to a 5-day Agile Facilitation and Coaching Intensive with several dates coming up in May and June. Do check out the show notes, where I'll break down some of Marsha's points on Structural Dynamics and share lots of other links. You'll also learn about: The Facilitator's Stance: Finding another place to lead from. The "front" of the room is familiar to most, but facilitation can increase your "range" of leadership capacity. Developing a shared "pool of meaning" to help people get to the same "place" together Setting agreements with your group: Asking people to say what needs to be said *in the room* so it can be processed and worked with. Marsha's Three key takeaways to transform conversations at work: Start with the Tusks: Find the conversation that matters - the critical or most stuck conversation. Start where it's hot. Go to the elephant in the room! Look at how *you* show up...how you are is how you'll facilitate. Bring Your Authentic Voice: Find your natural stance and work from there, instead of trying to imitate someone else's. Structural Dynamics in a Nutshell Action: A move (sets direction) A follow (continues) An Oppose (offers correction) A Bystand (morally neutral comment) The Language or communication domain is where we're speaking from or our goals in talking Power: Using language in order to get something done. Meaning: Asking for evidence and action that can support their desired outcome. Affect: This is about using emotive language to affect feeling and to develop connection and intimacy with others. The Operating System: Open Random Closed Advanced Facilitation: Self-Mastery and Reading Group Dynamics is June 27-28, 2018 in Washington, DChttps://teamcatapult.com/workshops/advanced-facilitation/. Sarah Hill and I will be co-leading this workshop. You will learn about your own model for communication and how to shift the nature of the discourse in conversations and how to work more deeply with group dynamics to become a more confident and effective facilitator. Reading the Room by David Kantor. This books tells the story of a coach working with an executive team and how they learned to see and shift the structure of their conversations https://www.amazon.com/Reading-Room-Dynamics-Coaches-Leaders/dp/0470903430 Where did you learn to behave like that? by Sarah Hill. https://www.amazon.com/Where-Learn-Behave-Like-That-ebook/dp/B076NTJXY5/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1524220764&sr=1-1&keywords=where+did+you+learn+to+behave+like+that In the fourth level of structural dynamics is the important role that childhood stories play in how we behave in the room today. Sarah tells many stories, including her own, of how she worked to become aware of the story and change the narrative. Diagnosing and Changing Stuck Patterns in Teams https://teamcatapult.com/2016/08/ What to do when change requires a new operating system. https://teamcatapult.com/what-to-do-when-change-requires-a-new-operating-system/ Big Apple Scrum Day, New York May 11, I'm giving a talk on Diagnosing and Changing Stuck Patterns in Teams. This is a brief introduction to the model of Structural Dynamics https://www.bigapplescrumday.org/speakers Marsha's Full Bio and Additional Links Marsha Acker is a leadership and team coach whose passion and expertise is helping leaders and teams identify and break through stuck patterns that get in their way of high performance. Marsha is the CEO of TeamCatapult, a leadership development and organizational change firm, founded in 2005. She has over 22 years of experience designing and facilitating organizational change initiatives. She has served for six years as the track chair for defining the ICAgile Coaching and Enterprise Coaching learning objectives and is currently a member of the ICAgile Agile Coaching Expert Certification panel. Marsha is a Certified Professional Facilitator (CPF), Certified Professional Co-Active Coach (CPCC), Professional Certified Coach (PCC – ICF), Certified Interventionist in Structural Dynamics and Changing Behavior in High Stakes (Kantor Institute and Dialogix), Organizational and Relationship Systems Coach (Center for Right Relationship), Certified Change Management Professional (CMP), and an ICAgile Certified Expert Agile Coaching. Website: www.teamcatapult.com Twitter: @marshaacker and @teamcatapult2 Facebook: @teamcatapult2
Danielle finally lands her first threesome with the Spiritual community's fave couple, #TheWatsons. Josh and Ashley Watson are licensed psychotherapists turned love and relationship coaches who not only manifested each other but who are passionate about empowering others to release their fears and blocks so that they too can manifest their soulmate and dream relationship. Show Highlights: How not to go crazy when dating someone new The 'Alignment Refinement' technique for manifesting How to stay grounded and true to yourself in a relationship Learn how to move on from a break-up with grace How to trust that love is actually possible and not just a fairytale! Plus, find out the juicy never before heard details of how Ashley and Josh's relationship started out! Offering: Soulmate Intensive Session - 4 hours of support in your journey of finding 'The One'. You'll uncover your family & dating history and get ultra clear on what you desire in the relationship of your dreams. You'll learn the 5 step process to help you get from where you are to where you want to be. Details: bit.ly/SoulmateIntensive www.ashleyewatson.com www.joshuawatsonlmft.com Instagram: @ashley.e.watson @joshuawatson1 @daniellemercurio #gypsyafterhours Looking for acceleration in your business? Danielle currently has 2 spots open for her Coaching Intensive, email danielle@daniellemercurio.com to apply.
Overwhelm isn’t created by what you think it is. It’s not because of having too much on your plate. It’s not because you have a burgeoning to-do list that keeps growing. And it’s not because you’re trying to balance kids, family, laundry, writing, clients and more. These are all the manifestations of overwhelm — but not the root cause. And as long as you focus on the to-do list or the laundry pile, you’re going to stay stuck in the overwhelm indefinitely. The root cause is that you’re not choosey* enough. Listen in to today's episode to learn more. Recommended Resources: Make it Happen – 90-day Coaching Intensive running April, May & June 2017 Leadership Letters CEO Fast Track Guide Essentialism by Greg McKeown 3 Ways to Turn Down the Tension I give you permission Healthy Boundaries for Kind People Original 2014 blog post: Be Choosey. Really damn choosey. Work with Me! Beginning in April, I’m opening spots in my 90-day Make it Happen coaching intensive. This is the perfect fit for you if you’d like to stop the spray-and-pray approach to your business activities, and get really focused on making significant progress on a few key projects or business activities. I’ll be there with you every week keeping you on track, helping you make smart, quick decisions and ensuring you actually get to the other side of the work that will drive your business forward. I will help you be really damn choosey so you can get the work done. If you’d like to learn more about this program, I invite you to check out stephaniepollock.com/make-it-happen or visit today’s show notes at stephaniepollock.com/bpp038. We can also jump on the phone to ensure it’s the right fit for you. This program starts the beginning of April to ensure we’re wrapped up before summer — so if this feels like a yes for you, I invite you to reach out soon.