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Latest podcast episodes about be broken ministries

Pure Sex Radio
Best Practices for a Successful Therapeutic Separation

Pure Sex Radio

Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 39:18


PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, we have back on the program our friend and colleague Andrew Arthur, a mediator specializing in faith-based mediation, to talk about the delicate topic of separation in relationships and how to navigate them with hope. We delve specifically into therapeutic separation, which is a process aimed at healing and potentially reuniting couples facing serious challenges like infidelity and sexual brokenness. Andrew highlights the importance of having a support team, including counselors, mediators, and spiritual advisors, to collectively guide this tough journey for couples. We also discuss the emotional and operational aspects of separation, the need for individual care, and the crucial role of safety and trust in working towards reconciliation. It's a hopeful and insightful conversation for anyone facing relational struggles.For more information about Andrew and his resources, visit GenesisChristianMediation.com.Topics Covered in the Episode:Definition and understanding of therapeutic separation in relationships.The role and importance of a support team during separation.Common reasons for couples to consider separation, including infidelity and communication breakdown.Establishing ground rules and expectations during the separation process.Overcoming obstacles to reunification, such as differing parenting styles and conflict patterns.The significance of safety and trust in relationships during separation.Steps toward reunification and the importance of joint work and assessments.The value of commitment to the therapeutic process and early intervention.The concept of forgiveness as a personal journey in healing.Resources and support available for couples navigating separation and reconciliation.More Resources:Restoration Therapy* by Dr. Terry HargraveDisclosureHope.comFind a CounselorRelated Podcasts:Conflict Management for Marriages Healing from BetrayalThe Role of Boundaries in Marriage RestorationHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

Pure Sex Radio
What is Oneness and Why Does it Matter in Your Life?

Pure Sex Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 32:12


PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Stephen and I explore the profound concept of "oneness," touching on its dimensions of belonging, connection, unity, and intimacy. We discuss how oneness is essential in relationships with family, spouses, and God, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and mutual understanding. We highlight the very real challenges and rewards of pursuing true oneness; it isn't like flipping a switch and you will automatically achieve oneness. Oneness is a journey of growth and self-discovery. We invite you to reflect on your own relationships and seek deeper connections in your life. It's a mission worth the journey.To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of the concept of "oneness" and its complexities.Discussion of belonging, connection, unity, and intimacy.The significance of personal experiences in understanding oneness.The role of vulnerability and mutual understanding in fostering deeper connections.The relationship between oneness and one's connection with family, spouses, and God.The importance of open communication and trust in relationships.The idea of oneness as a love story and a journey of self-awareness.The theological perspective on oneness, particularly in relation to marriage and divine connection.Reflection on the ongoing journey of growth and understanding in relationships.Encouragement for listeners to seek deeper connections and explore barriers to oneness.More Resources:Free Men's Integrity WebinarFree Wives Betrayal Trauma Healing WebinarSacred Marriage* by Gary ThomasRelated Podcasts:Are You a Loner or Connector in Relationships?Unlocking Greatness: Why Emotional Connections Matter More than SuccessLiving More than a Love Story*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol
Keys to Lasting Transformation: Why Striving Fails and Grace Prevails

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 53:56


You've probably realized by now that trying harder doesn't work very long or very well. That may be especially true for those experiencing sexual brokenness. Today's episode is excerpted from a session at the Change(d) Conference 2024 where Dr. Carol was joined by Jonathan Daugherty, founder and president of Be Broken Ministries. He shares his own story, and then a powerful picture of why grace is the only foundation that works, and nine specific aspects of that grace-based transformation journey. Connect with Jonathan Daugherty and Be Broken Ministries at their website, his Pure Sex Radio podcast, Facebook, or Instagram. Get Jonathan's book Grace-Based Transformation Get access to the full Change(d) Conference 2024, including the Q&A with Jonathan Daugherty, and all the other sessions. Check out our Sexpectations online course. Discover your pathway to sexual wholeness as you explore your sexual story. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message here.

The Greta Eskridge Podcast
Honest Talk with John Fort

The Greta Eskridge Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 47:13


This episode is a really special one. I am delighted to introduce you to today's guest, John Fort. John is the director of Be Broken Ministries, which exists to help individuals and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ.  John is also the author of several books, including Honest Talk—a New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex, which we talk about today. John vulnerably and courageously shares his story of sexual and pornography addiction and how God has redeemed his story to give him a purpose driven by hope and healing.  I loved talking with John!  He is full of wisdom, reassurance and, there's that word again, hope. He encourages parents to be honest with their kids about their own sexual past and then shows us how to do it. I read his book cover to cover in a few days and I can't encourage you enough to get your own copy. But start by listening to this episode and getting to know John better. You'll be so glad you did!  Find John here: Be Broken Ministries Find John's books here: Honest Talk—a new perspective on talking to your kids about sex Father-Son Accountability : Integrity Through Relationship  Some favorite quotes from today's episode: *”I was a little afraid to get into this work but God kept shutting all the other doors. It was like He said, “I didn't bring you out of this for nothing.” John Fort *”There is so much freedom in honesty.” Greta Eskridge  *”Look at what God did! He did it for me and He can do it for you.” Greta Eskridge *”If parents would be brave enough to tell their own story then their kids would be able to say, ‘oh you do understand!' and then they could talk.” John Fort *”He realized at that moment that he was not too broken to be loved by his parents or by God. For the first time he felt a surge of hope that he had someone to talk to about sex and maybe his father could help him. That event , just hearing his father's sexual story became the turning point for this young man to actively engage in his own journey to sexual wholeness.” John Fort *”My problem had nothing to do with sex. I was using pornography and other sexual things to deal with emotions I didn't know what to do with.” John Fort *”The days I looked at pornography as a teenager were the days something bad happened and I didn't know what to do with that.” John Fort *”If in our house we never talk about body parts, we never talk about anything, that gives the silent message that it's not OK to talk about these things.” John Fort *”We surveyed a bunch of teenagers and asked why don't you talk to your parents about sex. They had two answers: ‘I'm afraid my parents won't understand my past' or ‘I'll get in trouble for what I say or even what I ask.'” John Fort *”Your story is simply a way to show them it is OK to talk about these things.” John Fort *”We can pretend its not happening or we can just talk about it.” Greta Eskridge  *”You don't even know what your kids are dealing with until you ask. And the older they get the more often we have to ask them what they're seeing and what they're hearing.” John Fort *”People are looking for help for their addictions and hope for their broken hearts. They want living water. If we run away or become judgmental or uncomfortable any time we see sexual pain, we will miss the greatest opportunities to enter the pain of their sexual brokenness and share the love of Jesus Christ.” Julie Slattery *”Emotional resilience is connected to sexual wholeness.” Greta Eskridge  *“We think that telling our story is going to make our kids not respect us, but the opposite is true if we do it well.” John Fort  Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my show! I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a rating and review of the podcast if you haven't already. I appreciate each one of you. Keep chasing joy! Greta The Greta Eskridge Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org 

The Covenant Eyes Podcast
Grace-Based Recovery: Jonathan Daugherty of Be Broken Ministries

The Covenant Eyes Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 21:09


Join us in this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast as we delve deep into the power of grace and recovery with Jonathan Daugherty, founder and president of Be Broken Ministries. Discover how grace plays a pivotal role in recovery from sexual addiction and how it can lead to genuine transformation. Jonathan explains grace-based recovery and how it works with sex addiction issues.Jonathan shares his journey from battling a 13-year addiction to founding Be Broken Ministries and his three-day intensive workshop for men, Gateway to Freedom. He reveals the essence of a grace-based approach to recovery and how it contrasts with performance-based recovery, offering hope and inspiration to those struggling with sexual integrity issues.Jonathan discusses the importance of grace in our relationship with God and the profound impact it has on forgiving ourselves and others. This episode provides valuable insights for anyone seeking healing, whether from personal addiction, betrayal trauma, or other struggles.Episode Highlights:00:00 - Introduction to the episode and guest, Jonathan Daugherty, founder of Be Broken Ministries.01:52 - Jonathan's journey into recovery and how he founded Be Broken Ministries.02:42 - The foundation of grace in Jonathan's ministry and why it's crucial for transformational change.04:26 - Jonathan's new book, Grace-Based Transformation: The Three-Stage Journey to Wholeness in Christ, and the three-stage journey of heal, grow, share.06:44 - Jonathan's contribution to the Victory app and the importance of grace-based recovery.07:35 - The difference between a performance-based approach and a grace-based approach to recovery.09:33 - Understanding grace and forgiveness, and why it's crucial in recovery.12:10 - The significance of forgiving others and ourselves, and the grace that enables us to do so.14:43 - Jonathan's various ministries and resources available through Be Broken Ministries.18:50 - Closing thoughts and key takeaways on God's grace and love for us.If you're struggling with sexual addiction, betrayal trauma, or seeking support in recovery, this episode will provide you with valuable insights and practical steps towards healing.Links Mentioned in the Episode:Be Broken Ministries Website: https://www.bebroken.org/Jonathan's New Book: Grace-Based Transformation on AmazonGateway to Freedom: https://www.bebroken.org/gateway-to-freedom.htmlCovenant Eyes Victory App: https://www.covenanteyes.com/victory-app/Connect with Us:Subscribe to the Covenant Eyes Podcast for more inspiring stories and helpful insights on sexual integrity.Follow us on social media for updates and additional resources.#bebrokenministries #covenanteyes #covenanteyespodcast #journeytowholeness #victoryTry Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast

Change My Relationship
8 Practical Steps of Forgiveness

Change My Relationship

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 49:08


Forgiveness is a topic that gets brought up over and over again in the space of healing from betrayal. Jonathan Daugherty of Be Broken Ministries interviews Karla Downing on Pure Sex Radio to discuss the 8 Steps of Forgiveness. In the episode, Karla gives a robust definition of forgiveness and then walks us through eight practical steps that are essential to the process of forgiveness.   More Resources: The 8-Step Forgiveness Process (PDF) 30 Days of Blessing (PDF) Healing the Wounds of Your Past Related Podcasts: Betrayal Healing Phases The 7 Steps of Forgiveness The Journey of Healing from Betrayal Trauma

Pure Victory Podcast
204. Grace-based Approaches To Beating Porn with Jonathan Daugherty

Pure Victory Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 36:28


Welcome to episode #204! This week, Matt and Braden talk with John Daugherty from Be Broken Ministries about grace based models for recovery. Grace is not opposed to effort. Our effort doesn't earn anything from God. But we need to put in effort for recovery. There is nothing that we can do that will make God love us more or less. We need to understand that our identity, our value and worth cannot fluctuate. We can then use that worth as a starting point to work on our recovery. Instead of feeling like we need to prove ourselves and base our worth on our performance, we can rely on the truth that our worth comes from God and we don't need to earn it.  We have to shift the ultimate focus in grace-based recovery. We come in with a performance based bias, with the goal being a behavioural outcome. Whatever the addictive compulsion is, our assumed goal is to not have those behaviours. We try to replace it with a better, more positive behaviour. Grace-based models shift the focus from a behaviour-first outcome to understanding a relational outcome and understanding what it means to be made in God's image and to love Him and others. We want to be in a safe enough space to be able to share the fullness of our stories and build those authentic relationships with others and God. Parents have a great responsibility to set the tone of conversations in the home. It can be intimidating to talk about your story to your families. It is good to divulge our stories and talk about what we learned from it and how we are continuing to grow and manage our sexuality. Stories are our connectors of our transformations over our lifetime. The family unit is God's primary unit that transformation is to happen between generations. By starting those conversations in the home and creating that environment it can build honesty, vulnerability, openness, and the ability to share feelings and ask questions.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to braden@familylifecanada.com or matt@restoredministries.ca.Share this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! Watch the podcast on YouTube here.ResourcesBe Broken MinistriesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a FREE call (men)Course for marriagesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He has been married for 14 years to his wife Kristen, and they live in Edmonton, Alberta. He is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.comMATT CLINEMatt and his wife Louise raise their little guys, David and Oliver, in Edmonton, Alberta. He is honoured to do what he can to tackle the epidemic of pornography and sexual perversion in every way possible. Seeing lives and marriages get free and experience the love of God in profound ways is what drives him every day. He leads Restored Ministries, is a certified speaker and coach for the John Maxwell Team, and formerly played hockey in the WHL and for Hockey Canada. You can visit www.restoredministries.ca.

Pirate Monk Podcast
396 | Jonathan Daugherty | Invitation to the Recovery Lifestyle

Pirate Monk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 61:09


On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss the ups and downs of the holidays and encourage us to lean into community during these seasons. Our Guest: Jonathan Daugherty, founder and president of Be Broken Ministries, podcaster, and recovering addict. Be Broken Ministries includes help for men, women, and families. Jonathan shares his journey and need to start the ministry. The Story of how his wife left him and their marriage was able to be reconciled. Recovery is a process and journey, not a check box or destination. Encouragement that our stories are not to be solved, but to be shared. The challenge of mistaking abstinence for freedom. Reminders that this addiction and recovery is part of our entire life. Links:   Pure Life Academy Be Broken Ministries Sponsor: Life Works Counseling   If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.   The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society and www.fiftysounds.com. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.  Support for the women who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com. The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To help support the vision, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol
It's Not a Zap: Understanding the Process of Spiritual Formation

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2023 39:29


Don't you often wish God would "zap" you from here to there? If you need to change and you ask Him to change you, don't you wish it would happen quickly? But all longterm followers of Jesus discover that spiritual transformation is a process - and one where we learn to cooperate with God. Jonathan Daugherty has experienced that transformation, and now as founder and president of Be Broken Ministries he helps many others experience that as well. In this episode he talks with Dr. Carol about the 3-stage process to become spiritually mature and whole, and what you can do along the way. Connect with Jonathan Daugherty on the Be Broken website, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or YouTube. Find Jonathan's latest book Grace-Based Transformation: The 3-Stage Journey to Wholeness in Christ    Check out Dr. Carol's article Ways of Being With Jesus that Bring Transformation Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave her a confidential message here. 

Java with Juli
#490 How Do You Go From Being Stuck in Bondage to True Freedom?

Java with Juli

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2023 46:18


On the journey of healing and recovery, it can be easy to wonder if things will “always be this way”, or feel like the challenges “will never stop”. The reality is that it often takes more than we expect to go from death to life. While the Bible says that real and lasting transformation is available to us, it can be hard to understand what part we have to play and where God is doing the work. Jonathan Daugherty, founder of Be Broken Ministries, will tell you true transformation is grace-led. He joins Juli to discuss his new book where he explores and outlines how God uses our pain, restores our identity, and renews us along our healing journeys through the miraculous power of His grace.     Guest: Jonathan Daugherty   Be Broken Ministries on Instagram: @bebrokenministries Website: Be Broken Ministries   Book: Grace-Based Transformation by Jonathan Daugherty Blog: God's Healing Stinks Blog: Why Is Healing So Hard? Java with Juli: #438: How Your Story Becomes Sacred in the Hands of Jesus Interested in becoming a member? Join us for Open House Already a member? Register for Second Cup Sign up for Jonathan's Coaching Intensive

Pure Victory Podcast
178. How Do I Talk To My Kid About Porn? With John and Lucas Fort

Pure Victory Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2023 36:55


Would you join us in the mission of helping people break free from porn addiction, and walk in freedom? If so, please consider partnering with us with a monthly donation to support the cause and help us make more ads to get the word out! Thank you and God bless!! click on the link to donate!Welcome to episode #178! This week, Matt and Braden talk with John and Lucas Fort from Be Broken Ministries about talking to your kids about porn.Create an environment where there is safety and care for children to talkYou want to have a punish free zone so that there is a safety to open up. There is fear on both sides when opening up about feelings and making sure that the children won't feel like the parents are mad. There can still be barriers to help recovery, but to not have it as a punishment. Discipline doesn't mean punishment. A way to start off and help your kids to be open, is to be open yourself and show that level of vulnerability. Setting up Accountability or “Man Meetings” Figure out what works for you. Set a day/time, and something that will keep the situation comfortable. Does it ease the tension to be side by side and doing something? Or maybe you'd prefer to sit across from each other at a table over a coffee? Understand that when kids start looking at porn - its out of curiosity and/or it gives a buzz. It gets dangerous when it becomes the go-to way to deal with feelings, that's when it becomes a habit. Identify what emotions that you get that leads to it. Realize that at the beginning, you won't know the trigger feeling or core emotion feeling until there is a mess up.  It's important to be vulnerable with your childrenA way to start off and help your kids to be open, is to be open yourself and show that level of vulnerability. The parent might do most of the talking at the beginning until the child is ready to open up. Having the parent start it off and be consistent with meeting, opening up and sharing feelings then they can begin to encourage their kid if they have anything to share. It starts with feelings. You don't need to always talk about sex, just learn to discuss your feelings. There are different ways you can discuss triggers and feelings. You can be formal about writing out triggers and plans; you can write back and forth in a journal with minimal talking at first or maybe it never is a formal meeting but it's the parents responsibility to go do something together and initiate to talk about it. A big fear or worry of parents is wondering if their children will lose respect for them or find out about their past. The only time respect is lost, is when the parent isn't doing anything to get better. It often ends in more respect when they see how their parents have done something about their past and are getting better. Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to braden@familylifecanada.com or matt@restoredministries.ca.Share this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! Watch the podcast on YouTube here.ResourcesPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a Cleansing HourBook a call with one of Restored Ministries' trained coachesHelp for wivesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freeBe Broken Ministries Father-Son Accountability: Integrity Through RelationshipFather-Son ConnectPodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He has been married for 14 years to his wife Kristen, and they live in Edmonton, Alberta. He is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.comMATT CLINEMatt and his wife Louise raise their little guys, David and Oliver, in Edmonton, Alberta. He is honoured to do what he can to tackle the epidemic of pornography and sexual perversion in every way possible. Seeing lives and marriages get free and experience the love of God in profound ways is what drives him every day. He leads Restored Ministries, is a certified speaker and coach for the John Maxwell Team, and formerly played hockey in the WHL and for Hockey Canada. You can visit www.restoredministries.ca.

Java with Juli
#211 (Bonus) Understanding Pornography Addiction

Java with Juli

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2023 31:35


Have you ever given thought to what drives people towards pornography? While for many the initial introduction to porn is due to curiosity, it might surprise you to know that there are many different emotional and cognitive reasons people continue to turn to porn and struggle to break the addiction. In this special edition bonus episode, revisit Juli and Jonathan Daughtery of Be Broken Ministries as Jonathan shares some of his story, and what he believes to be some of the many reasons people keep returning to “lustland.”     Guest: Jonathan Daugherty   Be Broken Ministries on Instagram: @bebrokenministries Be Broken Ministries Sign up for Jonathan Daugherty's Online Coaching Intensive! Blog: Porn Affects You, Even If You Don't Look At It

Ruth Institute Podcast
Making Sense of the Sexual Revolution

Ruth Institute Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2023 33:32


Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse Joins Jonathan Daughetry to discuss the Sexual Revolution and Be Broken Ministries.

Strategic Families
48 - Beyond ”The Talk” – Six Critical Conversations with Your Kids, Part 2 of 2 (with John Fort)

Strategic Families

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2023 34:16


**Part 2 of 2 with John Fort** Join us in this two-part interview to learn from John Fort, Director of Training for Be Broken Ministries. John is the author of Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About , which discusses 6 critical conversations we need to have with our kids. John helps us see that we can't just think of "The Talk" -- this is a conversation that starts with emotions and feelings and goes on for years. Through these two episodes, you will be much better equipped to discuss this sensitive but incredibly important topic with your children. Let us not shy away but dive in -- for the sake of our children's purity and wholeness! Scripture referenced: 1 Timothy 1:15-16, ESV: Here is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance: Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners—of whom I am the worst. But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his immense patience as an example for those who would believe in him and receive eternal life. Resources: Be Broken Ministries Critical Conversations FREE Webinar - good starting point for any parent Honest Talk, by John Fort – a book or parents who want all the basic information on addressing these issues with their kids The Need for Freedom – a course for parents of teens who have had no conversations yet Recommended Song: LIFT MY HANDS, by Forrest Frank Music: Intro: Life of a Traveler, by Black Rhomb (License #3565685) Outtro: Avocado Street, by Wes Hutchinson (Courtesy of YouTube Music) If this podcast been a blessing to you, please consider subscribing, leaving us a review and/or donating to our Patreon account. Thank you! Check us out on www.strategicfamilies.com.

Strategic Families
47 - Beyond "The Talk" -- Six Critical Conversations to Have with Your Kids, Part 1 of 2 (with John Fort)

Strategic Families

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2023 48:36


**Part 1 of 2 with John Fort** Join us in this episode to learn from John Fort, Director of Training for Be Broken Ministries. John is the author of Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex, which discusses 6 critical conversations we need to have with our kids. John helps us see that we can't just think of "The Talk" -- this is a conversation that starts with emotions and feelings and goes on for years. Through these two episodes, you will be much better equipped to discuss this sensitive but incredibly important topic with your children. Let us not shy away but dive in -- for the sake of our children's purity and wholeness!

Change My Relationship
My Wife's Detaching in Love Led to My Sexual Addiction Recovery

Change My Relationship

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2023 43:57


Matthew Riley, Development Director of Be Broken Ministries, offers a personal and engaging account of his recovery from sexual addiction as a result of his wife's detaching in love, as well as setting boundaries. Matthew is a former pastor and international worker. He has been married for 18 years to his wife Katherine and has four children ages 10 - 15 years old.  Be Broken helps individuals and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Through workshops, small groups, online courses, and partner resources, they help men overcome pornography addiction and stop other unwanted sexual behaviors. They also help wives recover from betrayal trauma, as well as families walk in God's design for sexuality. #sexual addiction recovery #boundaries in marriage #help for wives of sex addicts #Christian marriage help #detaching in love    

Change My Relationship
The Why and How of Boundaries in Marriages Recovering from Sexual Betrayal

Change My Relationship

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2023 38:01


Why are boundaries necessary for marriage restoration after sexual betrayal? And how does a couple navigate establishing and enforcing such boundaries in a redemptive way? Jonathan Daugherty of Be Broken Ministries interviews Karla Downing on Pure Sex Radio to answer these important questions. In this conversation, Karla defines what boundaries are, why they are necessary to rebuild a broken marriage, how they are enforced, various pitfalls to boundary-setting and boundary-keeping, and why the real “goal” is restoration. 

Change My Relationship
Helping Wives Detach with Love in a Difficult Marriage

Change My Relationship

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2023 41:18


This podcast is an interview by Jonathan Daugherty of Karla Downing on the important topic of how wives can detach with love in marriages to sex addicts or any other problem. Detachment sets wives free by helping them to focus on their own feelings, needs, thoughts, opinions, and perceptions while allowing their husbands to focus on theirs. This principle of detaching in love is absolutely necessary to overcome codependent enmeshment. Click for more information on Pure Sex Radio podcast and Be Broken Ministries  for help for both men with sexual addictions and their wives. 

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol
How to Experience God's Transforming Power in Your Story

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2023 50:59


The key to your freedom is sharing the things you'd prefer to hide, even the dark and ugly things of your sexual story. John Fort, Director of Training for Be Broken Ministries dicusses his sexual story which includes some very dark things that he experienced and also things he did to others. But more importantly, his story is a demonstration of how God has miraculously transformed his story into goodness for others.  In this don't-miss episode you'll hear about the power of sharing your story, finding redemption and why it matters. Connect with Be Broken Ministries, and especially their Family Care Ministry. Find them on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or Youtube. Some of John Fort's books: Honest Talk: A new perspective on talking to your kids about sex, Father-Son Accountability: Integrity Through Relationships, and The Forbidden Scrolls: The Shadow of Black Rock       Get our free 30-day email devotional series Toward Sexual Wholeness Check out our online course Sexpectations    Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message here. 

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery
GRACE BASED RECOVERY GROUPS AND LEADERSHIP TRAINING WITH CAROL THE COACH

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2022 44:00


Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Maurice Crane who is forming a new outreach for men who are struggling with sexual integrity. Grace Based Recovery is the foundation of Be Broken Ministries in San Antonio Texas. Be Broken Ministries is a ministry to men, wives, families with an emphasis on recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors, otherwise known as sex addiction.  Be Broken's flagship outreach is the Gateway to Freedom Weekend Workshops held in San Antonio, TX, Orlando FL and Mt. Bethel PA.  A new outreach is forming to help churches and faith based community leaders come together to continue to address the issue of epidemic sexual addiction:  Grace Based Recovery Groups.  In a Grace Based Recovery group you create an environment of safety for men to gather to share their deepest of sexual struggles as well as their marital/family issues and find the reception warm and inviting to help men, over time, open up to a place of vulnerability. It is an accountability group with an emphasis on growing together through an 8 week training taken from the book Grace Based Recovery by Jonathan Daugherty, founder of Be Broken. Every quarter you start fresh with an 8 week training for new people, but then also hold accountability groups weekly as the group grows.  This is in addition to other groups out there, just a different angle. There is also an emphasis on doing things together as a chance to serve your local community together instead of always living in the framework of me-centric, sex-centric addiction.

Husband Material
How Can Fathers And Sons Outgrow Porn Together? (with John Fort and Lucas Fort)

Husband Material

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2022 48:14


"Your failure in sexuality is what qualifies you to talk to your son about sex in the first place." In this fascinating episode, a father and son tell their story of learning to talk about emotions and sex together. John and Lucas Fort explain what does(n't) work, what's (not) appropriate, and why imperfection is necessary for connection.Buy John and Lucas's book (this is a paid link):Father-Son Accountability: Integrity Through RelationshipJohn Fort serves as Director of Training for Be Broken Ministries, where he helps men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. John is a co-founder of the Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit. John has authored or co-authored ten books, including Father-Son Accountability: Integrity Through Relationship.Lucas Fort grew up talking to his parents (especially his father) about personal topics like feelings and sexuality. He uses what he's learned to help parents and their children better understand each other while navigating the topics of sex and pornography.John and Lucas live close to Portland, Oregon.

GotQuestions.org Podcast
Why is pornography so dangerous? What are the keys to victory over pornography? - Podcast Episode 113

GotQuestions.org Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2022 32:10


What does the Bible say about pornography? Why is pornography so addictive? How can an addiction to pornography be overcome? A conversation with Jonathan Daugherty of Be Broken Ministries. Be Broken Ministries Jonathan Daugherty Pure Sex Radio Podcast This episode on YouTube Transcript

Restored 2 More
Why Parents Don't Talk to Their Kids About Sex with John Fort

Restored 2 More

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 38:57


Why do parents avoid talking to their kids about sex? John Fort says it comes down to four primary reasons:It will strain my relationship with my kid.I might ruin my child's innocence.My kid will find out about my past.It will be too much work.John shares resources and insights to help us navigate these fears and use our mistakes and sexual brokenness to build a bridge with our children. What we can view as a barrier is actually the glue that creates safety and connection while talking with our kids about sex. John repeatedly refers to a quote he often uses while teaching seminars and writing books, “Your failures are what qualify you to talk to your kids about sex.”In the past two decades, parents have spent four times more time with their kids, setting the stage for these conversations. We, as parents, can need a little bit of guidance and handholding on how to start these conversations. Today John shares resources and practical tools to help us talk to kids who range in their ages from toddlers to adult children.  Join us for a powerful message and teaching on how we as parents can talk about sex with our children. John Fort/Be Broken Ministries Resources:https://2.bebroken.com/store/c2/bookshttps://2.bebroken.com/index.htmlhttps://2.bebroken.com/parent-consult.htmlOur Resources:https://www.instagram.com/restored2more/https://restored2more.com/https://restored2more.com/courses/

More to the Story with Andy Miller III
Talking to Your Kids about Sex with John Fort

More to the Story with Andy Miller III

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2022 55:59


John Fort is with Be Broken Ministries, a group that helps individuals and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. As a parent, I need more tools to help my kids think about sex, and this conversation with John was incredibly helpful to me. You can find a link here: YouTube - https://youtu.be/rb_z9EDyfTAAudio - https://andymilleriii.com/media/podcastApple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/more-to-the-story-with-dr-andy-miller/id1569988895?uo=4Here's a great blog post John wrote called - A Family Digital Safety Plan https://2.bebroken.com/be-broken-blog/a-family-digital-safety-planYou can find out more about John here: bebroken.com purelifeacademy.org johnwfort.comTo see our list got to this link. A FREE RESOURCE FOR MINISTRY – By signing up for my email list, you can get a four-page PDF document - A Guide for Exegetical Preparation for Preaching and Teaching. Sign up here. Today's episode is brought to you by two sponsors: Bill Roberts is a financial advisor, who has been serving the retirement planning and investment needs of individuals, families, non-profits, and churches for 25 years. He is a Certified Financial Planner and accredited investment fiduciary. Bill specializes in working with Salvation Army employees and officers by helping them realize their financial goals. You can find out more about Bill's business at www.WilliamHRoberts.comANDWesley Biblical Seminary - Interested in getting going deeper in your faith, check out our certificate programs, B.A., M.A.s, M.Div., and D.Min degrees. You will study with world-class faculty and the most racially diverse student body in the country. www.wbs.edu 

Pure Passion
Jonathan Daugherty - Grace-Based Recovery

Pure Passion

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 41:34


For over a century, the counseling world has been divided into secular and Christian approaches for the healing and transformation of broken people that are often at odds. Today's guest - the founder and director of Be Broken Ministries - will help us with the newest solution to that divide. It's called "Grace-Based Recovery" and it brings us back to therapy that is Christocentric and extremely effective.

Pure Passion
Jonathan Daugherty - Story of a Sex Addict

Pure Passion

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2022 30:57


Today's guest is the founder and director of Be Broken Ministries in San Antonio, TX. Jonathan relates his life as a boy/teen sex addict, how his bondage developed, the damaged it caused, what God did to set him free, and what God has been doing through him in outreach to sexually broken people ever since.

The Covenant Eyes Podcast
How to Prevent (and Respond to) Moral Failure in Church Leaders, Special Guest Jonathan Daugherty, Be Broken Ministries

The Covenant Eyes Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2022 44:37


Episode SummaryToday's guest on the Covenant Eyes Podcast is Jonathan Daugherty, founder and president of Be Broken Ministries and founder of the Gateway to Freedom workshop for men. After living a divided life of sexual sin for many years, God called Jonathan into ministry, using his brokenness as a path to help men and women find freedom in their brokenness and discover the power and grace of God in their lives.Show notes:Most churches don't have an invitational spirit when it comes to opening up about pornography and brokenness, which leaves many Christians at a loss with how to get the help they need. In today's episode, host Sam Black, Director of Recovery Programs at Covenant Eyes, and Jonathan Daugherty of Be Broken Ministries talk about how, despite there being no formula or magic pill for instant deliverance from sexual sin, there is help available to begin the journey to healing.Key topics covered in this episode:Online courses and a powerful workshop for finding true freedomHow wounds of the past contribute to our struggle with brokennessWhat churches can do to create safe spaces for those struggling with sexual sinLinks Blog: The Christian Response to Moral Failure in Church LeadersBook: Grace-Based RecoverySILS: SexualIntegrityLeaders.comSocial MediaFacebook.com/bebrokenministriesTwitter.com/bebroken

Unleash The Man Within
190 - Jonathan Daugherty on Helping Leaders Heal, A Holiness Revival In The Church, and How To Experience God‘s Love Amidst Failure

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2022 51:18


Jonathan Daugherty is the founder and president of Be Broken Ministries and host of the weekly podcast, Pure Sex Radio. He has appeared on Oprah, ABC's Nightline, and has authored several books addressing the subject of sexual integrity. In today's episode, he discusses with Sathiya what it was like starting a podcast about healthy sex in 2005, the key to inciting heart transformation in someone looking to get free of unwanted sexual behavior, and where he sees the future of the recovery industry in the next 20 years. Follow BeBroken on Instagram Sign up for 40 Day Purity Program Listen to Pure Sex Radio Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Unleash The Man Within
190 - Jonathan Daugherty on Helping Leaders Heal, A Holiness Revival In The Church, and How To Experience God‘s Love Amidst Failure

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2022 51:18


Jonathan Daugherty is the founder and president of Be Broken Ministries and host of the weekly podcast, Pure Sex Radio. He has appeared on Oprah, ABC's Nightline, and has authored several books addressing the subject of sexual integrity.  In today's episode, he discusses with Sathiya what it was like starting a podcast about healthy sex in 2005, the key to inciting heart transformation in someone looking to get free of unwanted sexual behavior, and where he sees the future of the recovery industry in the next 20 years. Follow BeBroken on Instagram Sign up for 40 Day Purity Program Listen to Pure Sex Radio Get your free copy of The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Drive Time
Episode 51 Dan Wobschall on Are You Struggling?

Drive Time

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 27:18


In this episode of Drivetime, Dave speaks with Dan Wobschall who is the Director of Men's Ministry for Be Broken Ministries. Dan gives insight into his past struggles with an addiction to pornography and gives steps to help you understand if you're struggling or if your coping mechanisms have gone beyond a level of struggle that you can handle on your own. Covenant Eyes is a program that can help you if you are addicted to porn, if you're not sure take this self-assessment: https://www.covenanteyes.com/2017/02/07/am-i-a-sex-addict/ Need more information or help? Dan can be reached at Be Broken Ministries via email dan@bebroken.com or via phone at 210-822-8201 Ext. 106. CapeMEN Social Links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/capeMEN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/capechristianmen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13qwYMCzlkP3QxGtkaVQ1g/featured We are the Men's ministry of Cape Christian Fellowship located in Cape Coral, FL. Website: https://capechristian.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/capechristian/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/capechristian/ Outro music by www.bensound.com (https://www.bensound.com/royalty-free-music/track/summer-chill-relaxed-tropical)

Drive Time
Episode 47 Dan Wobschall on Role vs Purpose

Drive Time

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 16:46


In this episode of Drivetime, Dave speaks with Dan Wobschall about purpose, identity, and how we use our different roles to accomplish that purpose. Dan is the Director of Men's Ministry and the Director of Gateway to Freedom for Be Broken Ministries. You can learn more about Be Broken Ministries by visiting their website https://2.bebroken.com/ CapeMEN Social Links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/capeMEN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/capechristianmen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13qwYMCzlkP3QxGtkaVQ1g/featured We are the Men's ministry of Cape Christian Fellowship located in Cape Coral, FL. Website: https://capechristian.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/capechristian/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/capechristian/ Outro music by www.bensound.com (https://www.bensound.com/royalty-free-music/track/summer-chill-relaxed-tropical)

Men in the Arena Podcast
Getting Help When Your Life Is Out Of Control EP 439

Men in the Arena Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2021 49:03


Dan has been in sexual addiction ministry since 2012 and joined the team at Be Broken Ministries in 2015 where he currently serves as Director Gateway to Freedom. Dan is the currently Executive Director for BoldPath Life Strategies. He is a sexual addiction recovery coach for men, has been a contributor to the Covenant Eyes blogging team, and worked with them at a few Covenant Eyes events. This article from Covenant Eyes includes a self-assessment.  Self-Assessment - "Am I a Sex Addict?"   Private Sex Addiction Self-Assessment    www.bebroken.com Dan@Bebroken.com Gateway to Freedom workshop   Boots on the Ground: Take the assessment above. How do you score?     www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast  

Take These Ashes
Episode 27- Breaking free from the lies of betrayal (Debra Wallace)

Take These Ashes

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2021 35:39


What happened to you does not tell you who you are. About this week's guest, Debra Wallace: As a woman who discovered her husband’s same-sex betrayal, Debra Wallace validates and comes alongside women who’ve experienced betrayals of their own. As a coach and battle buddy, she facilitates wives care groups with a trauma informed approach as someone who has been in a betrayed woman’s shoes and “gets her.” Debra works at Be Broken Ministries as a Wives Care Assistant and is pursuing certification as an ADOH peer facilitator with a trauma informed approach. ________ This episode is brought to you by RE-ROOTED: A 6-week growth journey for women (offered by Heather Lobe Johnson, Spring 2021). Sign up here for more info:  heatherlobe.com/course  ________ *Listener note: This episode is part of our 6-week BREAKING FREE series where we’ll be talking all about healing from sexual brokenness. While we’re mindful in these episodes to not discuss the graphic nature of these topics, they’re still mature conversations. Please be mindful of sensitive listeners nearby and your own needs as you enter into these discussions with us. Ultimately we want what’s best for your healing, and we hope these episodes will be a part of that path for you.

Pure Desire Ministries
Episode 188 - Same-Sex Attraction w/ John Fort

Pure Desire Ministries

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2021 53:11


What does recovery look like if we are attracted to the same sex? Is it something we can heal from? Does it ever go away? What if our spouse is attracted to the same sex? We discuss these questions with John Fort, Director of Training for Be Broken Ministries, as he shares his story of same-sex attraction and addiction.

Restored 2 More
My Wife's Response to Infidelity Changed Everything with Jonathan Daugherty

Restored 2 More

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2020 44:48


A heart-wrenching story filled with tears, laughter, and hope. Jonathan shares with us his story of infidelity and how his wife embodied Jesus through her forgiveness. Learn about Be Broken Ministries and how they come alongside individuals and couples to find healing and freedom.More Resources:https://bebroken.com/https://www.puresexradio.com/https://www.instagram.com/bebrokenministries/Our Resources:https://restored2more.com/https://www.instagram.com/restored2more/https://www.facebook.com/Restored-2-More-108863067511392/?modal=admin_todo_tour

Pure Passion
Jonathan Daugherty Pt 1: Journal of a Sex Addict

Pure Passion

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2020 27:19


In this episode, sex addiction specialist Jonathan Daugherty of Be Broken Ministries talks about the childhood influences that helped mold him into a major sex addict.

Java with Juli
#328: Answers to Your Questions about Pornography

Java with Juli

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2020 38:16


"Will I cause a set-back in my husband’s recovery if I say no to sex?"     "My daughter talks to me about her porn addiction, but she’s mortified at the thought of telling her dad, is that okay?"   "My husband confessed to looking at women on Instagram. It wasn’t exactly a porn relapse—so why am I so angry about it?"   This week, our guest is Jonathan Daugherty, author of Grace Based Recovery and founder of Be Broken Ministries. He sits down with Juli to offer hope, encouragement, and answers to oft-asked questions we get from listeners about pornography. Whether you’re an addict, a spouse, or a friend walking this journey with a loved one, you’ll want to tune in to this Java with Juli. Guest: Jonathan Daugherty Notes: Reclaim 2.0 Grace Based Recovery* Join a Grace Based Recovery online book study! Covenant Eyes Screen Accountability* *This is an affiliate link. AI may earn referral fees from qualifying purchases.

God, Sex & You! with Dustin Daniels
The Biggest Sex Scandal of Your Life

God, Sex & You! with Dustin Daniels

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2020 25:21


What exactly does a life of sexual purity look like to you? Would it surprise you that your purity really has very little to do with you? Or that your acting out behavior is one of the last things your Father is concerned about? What do you think prevents you from engaging in God's Word or Godly men for help? Are you afraid to tell others the scandal of your life? Guest: Jonathan Daugherty with Be Broken Ministries and Pure Sex Radio. Book: 4 Pillars of Purity - Foundations for Building a Life of Integrity & Purpose.

God, Sex & You! with Dustin Daniels
The Power in Confessing Sexual Sin

God, Sex & You! with Dustin Daniels

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2020 25:26


Confessing sin is one of the least exciting things in our lives to actually do. It's very important and Biblical, but does it really change anything? And what happens if I don't confess my sins to a trusted person? Guest: Jonathan Daugherty with Be Broken Ministries and Pure Sex Radio. Book: 4 Pillars of Purity - Foundations for Building a Life of Integrity & Purpose.

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery
Women Need Help with Their Addictions Too with Carol the Coach

Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2020 60:00


Men are not the only ones who struggle with addiction and other sexually destructive behaviors. Women struggle, too. And in recent years a growing number of women are struggling with online and sex addiction. Often it is harder for women who want help with these struggles to find it. Most resources seem to be geared towards men, so even seeking help adds a distinct type of “shame” for women who want help. Tonight, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Jonathan Daughtery of Be Broken Ministries who, along with Kimberly Johnson have developed an online course for women who struggle with online addiction. He wants to offer several insights to women in the audience who are struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors. He wants to offer hope that your story matters and we are all more alike in our brokenness than different. He wants to offer truth that you are “fearfully and wonderfully made” and eternally loved by your Creator. And he wants to talk about the concept of surrendering to your higher power or God to provide you a way out.  

Fight For Love
Unmissable Ministries #3 Be Broken Ministries

Fight For Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2020 34:38


Listen in to Gigi Hopkins, Wives Care Coordinator at Be Broken Ministries, describe her gentle introductory 6 week course for wives of porn addicts. If you have fears and apprehensions about taking the next step into recovery, this may be just what you are looking for.

Uncommon People Podcast
UPP 014 | Tell Your Story w/ Jonathan Daugherty

Uncommon People Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2020 60:26


If God told you to tell your story, how would you respond? With fear? Anxiety? Hesitation? For me (Aaron,) the severity of the story would dictate my response. For Jonathan Daugherty, his response was, "yes." Of course, it may have taken some convincing, but ultimately he set out across the world to tell his story of sexual addiction, lies, betrayal, redemption, restoration, and salvation. If that seems like a massive pendulum swing, just wait until you hear the full story. Jonathan is the founder of Be Broken Ministries, author of several books (which you can purchase at the link below,) and a nationally recognized speaker and teacher. Please listen and share this conversation with any and everyone you can. Thanks for listening! Connect With Jonathan Jonathan's Twitter Jonathan's Instagram Be Broken Twitter Be Broken Instagram BeBroken.com Jonathan's Books Connect With Us Website Instagram Facebook

Mercy Hill Church
Authentic Intimacy / Be Broken Q&A

Mercy Hill Church

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2020


Erik Miller's Q&A with Dr. Juli Slattery of Authentic Intimacy and Jonathan Daughtery of Be Broken Ministries.

Community Church of Portage Lakes
Brokenness and the Transforming Grace of God (1st Thessalonians 4:7)

Community Church of Portage Lakes

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2019 35:18


www.CCPL.life  //  Jonathan Daugherty is the founder and president of Be Broken Ministries and founder of the Gateway to Freedom 3-day workshop for men. He also hosts the weekly radio program Pure Sex Radio and is in demand nationally as a speaker on sexual integrity and men’s issues. He has appeared on multiple radio and television media, such as ABC's Nightline, Oprah, 700 Club, Focus on the Family, and Family Life Today. He has authored Grace-Based Recovery, The 4 Pillars of Purity, Secrets, and other works.   Jonathan lives with his wife and three children in San Antonio, Texas.  //  The notes for this message are available here:  http://bible.com/events/703005  //  Connect with us:  www.Facebook.com/ccofpl  www.Instagram.com/ccofpl  www.CCPL.life  info@ccpl.life  //  Speaker:  Jonathan Daugherty Date:  10-6-2019

Leading Saints Podcast
Stimulating a Healthy Dialogue About Pornography in Elders Quorum | Clip from Liberating Saints Virtual Summit

Leading Saints Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2019 14:30


Register for the Liberating Saints Virtual Summit Here This is a clip from the upcoming Liberating Saints Virtual Summit which begins on September 10, 2019. In this clip, you will hear Jonathan Daugherty who runs an organization called Be Broken Ministries. He is going to talk about how to stimulate healthy discussion about struggles with pornography in a church setting in order to stimulate healthy culture. To hear the full interview register for the Liberating Saints Virtual Summit

Media Savvy Moms
My Child Saw Porn, Now What? A Faith-based Perspective

Media Savvy Moms

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2019 30:28


One of our recurring topics on the podcast is 'my child has seen pornography’ or ‘my child is looking at pornography—what do I do now?’ Today—per the request of one of our listeners—we're tackling this topic from a faith-based perspective.   In the past we have recommended some great resources, like the S.M.A.R.T. Guide for Parents (from Protect Young Minds) to help us know what to do when our kids have seen porn. However, we recently received a request from a mom who also wanted to add some faith-based resources to her toolbox. We recognize how important it is for families to incorporate all their values into this conversation, and invite all our listeners to give us a heads up, like this mother did, so that we can tackle parenting and pornography from whatever perspective YOU need!    In this episode we’re chatting with John Fort, who is a father, a specialist in addiction recovery, and also a man of faith.   John Fort, MST, is the Director of Training for Be Broken Ministries where he equips community leaders to assist families moving from sexual brokenness to wholeness. He oversees online training for Be Broken on Pure Life Academy and live training at the Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit, where he is a Co-Founder and Executive Team Member. John is a regular blogger on CovenantEyes.com and ProtectYoungMinds.org and is the author of the books; Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex, Father-Son Accountability: Integrity Through Relationship, and the Forbidden Scrolls fictional trilogy. John and his wife, Anna, live in Oregon and have two adult children.   Be Broken Ministries is a national non-profit ministry that serves anyone affected by sexual brokenness. The mission of Be Broken is to Encourage, Equip, and Expand the Christian Sexual Integrity Leadership Community. Be Broken serves people affected by pornography, or any other unwanted sexual struggle or stronghold.   Highlights from this episode: -Build accountability with your children.  -Relationships come first--before anything else. Love first.  -We need to set consequences and boundaries that focus less on punishing and more on protecting our children. -It’s important to recognize patterns of addiction in our children, as opposed to just accidental exposure or a bad habit. -As we build strong relationships with our kids, we can help to meet their emotional needs, which goes a long way in the fight against pornography.   -Kids are naturally curious about sex. Don’t be alarmed. Make a goal to talk about sex in a healthy way. Be your kids’ first, best source of information. (Want some tips? Check out the 30 Days of Sex Talks books from Educate and Empower Kids!) -If your child is struggling with pornography, talk about their feelings first. Then get around to the actions and describing what actually happened. Remember … relationships come first.   Challenge: Download a feelings chart (easy to find online--just search for “feelings chart”) and talk about your emotions at the dinner table with your family.   Additional links/resources: Restoring Hearts Counseling Capstone Treatment Center

Northeast Bible
Broken Wholeness Conversations: Broken Desires

Northeast Bible

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2019 33:01


In 'Broken Wholeness Conversations' we dive deeper into the topics from each week. We discuss the topic with guests who have first-hand experience and share a bit of their stories to help others gain further understanding. This episode focuses on the topic of our broken desires, where we will hear from Jonathan Daugherty (Founder of Be Broken Ministries).

Teens, Tech & God
What should be the church’s role in sexual discipleship?

Teens, Tech & God

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2019 26:50


EPISODE 3  In this episode, Dr. John discusses more critical insights from the book “Rethinking Sexuality: God’s Design and Why It Matters,” by Dr. Juli Slattery of Authentic Intimacy, particularly in the area of sexual discipleship and the role the church should play in shaping sexual values. Dr. Slattery’s book can be found here: https://www.amazon.com/Rethinking-Sexuality-Gods-Design-Matters/dp/0735291470/ Dr. Slattery’s ministry, Authentic Intimacy, can be found here: https://www.authenticintimacy.com/ --- DID YOU KNOW Recent findings from The Porn Phenomenon… https://www.barna.com/the-porn-phenomenon  70% of Christian youth pastors have had at least one teen ask them for help with dealing with porn in the past 12 months. Most often the teens were: High school boys 92%; middle school boys 57%; high school girls 23%; and middle school girls 10%. 21% of youth pastors and 14% of pastors admit they currently struggle with using porn. 12% of youth pastors and 5% of pastors say they are addicted to porn. 87% of pastors who say they use porn say they feel a great sense of shame about it. --- WHAT WE TALKED ABOUT 2:58: What is the definition of sexual discipleship?   “I think part of our dilemma is that we don’t have a sense of our sexuality being a part of our discipleship and followership with the Lord Jesus Christ.” 5:14: How has postmodernism grown so powerful in determining the sexual values of the culture? 6:27: In your view, why has the church failed to speak to these issues when the culture has been more compelling and effective in getting its message out? 8:08: Is sexuality a territory to be reclaimed by the church rather than a problem to be solved? 10:12: Juli Slattery wrote, “We have a mission.  It’s not to convince people that sex outside of marriage is sinful…He told us to go and make disciples. Our mission is to exalt Jesus as Lord, Creator, and Savior of every aspect of our lives, including sexuality.” How do you respond to her comment? “Jesus went out of his way to encounter people whose lives were broken.” 11:50: Do you think the church has been judgmental toward the issue of sexual sin and brokenness? “You know what makes the church unique? We take the wounded and we shoot them.” “Our priority is expressing the kindness and the mercy of our God toward people who have lives that are broken.” 15:00: How do you see the Bible addressing the issue of sexuality? Do you see anything especially noteworthy in the life of Jesus? 18:52: Are you suggesting that we in the church engage in sex education? 21:12: Let’s stop treating sexuality as a taboo subject in the church. 22:56: A closer look at a quote from Russell Moore’s book Onward: Engaging the Culture Without Losing the Gospel: “The sexual revolution, if we’re right about the universe, cannot keep its promises. Unhinged sexual utopianism can only go so far before it leaves the ground around it burned over, like every other utopianism. We need to be ready, after all that, to point toward older paths, toward water that can satisfy.” --- ACTION ITEM How can parents help their teens to better understand the idea of sexual discipleship? --- RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE The Porn Phenomenon, https://www.barna.com/the-porn-phenomenon/  (Not mentioned, but worth exploring from PJ Media: https://pjmedia.com/faith/2017/01/28/barna-study-shocking-number-of-pastors-struggle-with-porn/ ) Celebrate Recovery, https://www.celebraterecovery.com/  Pure Desire, https://puredesire.org/ Pure Desire Conqueror Series, https://puredesire.org/collections/conquer-series  Russell Moore, https://www.russellmoore.com/ and also https://www.onward-book.com/  Be Broken Ministries, https://2.bebroken.com/  --- Teens, Tech & God is a podcast resource brought to you by Dr. John Thorington, director of Restoring Hearts Counseling in Colorado Springs, Colorado, and author of the book "Pure Teens." The podcast is dedicated to equipping parents with the tools and knowledge to raise kids committed to God's purpose for sexuality, the family, and the honorable use of all technology.

Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions
The Power of Purpose in Sex Addiction Recovery (Interview with Be Broken's John Fort)

Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2019 52:20


Be Broken's John Fort joins me in the powerful podcast where we discuss one of the most important and most overlooked aspects of recovery from sex addiction and pornography addiction. John tells us why knowing and living your life's purpose is a critical part of not only recovery, but of creating a great life. Sex addiction and porn addiction is NOT about not doing something so join Coach Craig and John and learn exactly what you need to do to create healthy sexuality and a great life. Without purpose, your efforts are doomed. You can learn more about John here http://www.johnwfort.com/ and at Be Broken Ministries here https://2.bebroken.com/

Big Impact Radio
Big Impact Ep. 81 - Secrets and Second Chances

Big Impact Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2018 30:41


Download Episode! BIG IMPACT Podcast Episode 81 features a conversation with radio host, speaker, and author Jonathon Daugherty from Be Broken Ministries. Jonathon's new book - Secrets: A True Story of Addiction, Infidelity, and Second Chances - is making a powerful impact on families across the nation, dealing with the important topic of sexual addiction. This inspirational conversation reminds us all that there is hope for healing when we rid ourselves of secrets. Will you help keep the Big Impact going strong by joining our family of supporters? You can make a 1-time gift via GoFundMe or become a monthly supporter via PATREON and contribute anything from $5 on up each month! PLEASE SUPPORT THE BIG IMPACT PODCAST!

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol
To Anyone Who Feels Like They'll Never Experience Change: How to Walk Out God's Grace

Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. Carol

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2018 34:30


Have you ever asked God to take a desire away from you? Learn why God doesn't always take away the "want". Whether it's sexual feelings or any behavior outside of God's design, join Dr. Carol and Jonathan Daughtery, founder of Be Broken Ministries to learn the keys to experiencing God's grace and true freedom. Connect with Jonathan Daugherty and his ministry at BeBroken.com or on social media  Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter.  To order Jonathan's books on Amazon click here: Secrets, and Grace Based Recovery For husband: Gateway Men For wives: WivesCare

Bible News Radio
Guest: Jonathan Daughtery - SECRETS: A True Story of Sexual Addiction & More

Bible News Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2017 60:00


Jonathan Daugherty is the founder and director of Be Broken Ministries, and founder of Gateway to Freedom workshop for men. Jonathan also hosts the weekly radio broadcast, Pure Sex Radio, and is in demand nationally as a speaker on sexual purity and men’s issues. He has appeared on The Oprah Show, twice on ABC's Nightline, as well as other radio and television media, both local and national. He has authored Grace-Based Recovery, The 4 Pillars of Purity, Secrets, Untangled and other works. Jonathan lives with his wife and three children in San Antonio, Texas. More at JonathanDaugherty.com.

Power of Purity | Helping Men to Honor God with their Sexual Gift

Jonathan Daugherty is the founder and director of Be Broken Ministries... Pure Sex Radio... and Gateway To Freedom... which is a three day workshop for men who are seeking to overcome pornography or any other sexual struggle or stronghold.  In addition, Jonathan is in demand nationally as a speaker on sexual purity and men's issues.  He has appeared on The Oprah Show, twice on ABC's Nightline, as well as other radio and television media, both local and national.  He has authored numerous books including... Grace-Based Recovery... The 4 Pillars of Purity... Secrets... and Untangled...among other works. When Jonathan was exposed to pornography as a young boy... it began a compulsion that would eventually lead into a full blown sexual addiction that would last for 13 years... and literally almost destroy his life. In 1999 Jonathan had been married for 4 years when his wife learned the truth of his sexual addiction... including the use of pornography... strip clubs... and prostitutes... among many other inappropriate behaviors that had become part of his daily life.  It was only after his wife left him that Jonathan finally admitted to himself the true extent of his problem... and turned to God in utter desperation.  He knew that if God didn't help him and change him... that he could never change himself. On that important day... instead of finding an angry and resentful God... Jonathan discovered a God of love... mercy... and forgiveness.  That began the redemptive and healing journey that led to the restoration of his marriage... and a ministry to help others who are struggling with sexual brokenness.  Jonathan learned that God can heal ANYONE and takes delight in doing that which seems impossible! Listen to this remarkable story of God's ability to heal a man who struggled with deep sexual brokenness for many years... and be AMAZED! Jonathan lives with his wife and three children in San Antonia, Texas. 2.bebroken.com gatewaymen.com puresexradio.com pure community.org  

God's Men of Influence PODCAST
#104 Fear, Pornography and Isolation: Be Broken and Find God - Jonathan Daugherty

God's Men of Influence PODCAST

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2016 38:19


Finishing well is better than starting fast.  That’s the mantra Jonathan Daugherty from Be Broken Ministries gave us on today’s show.  Jonathan’s biggest struggle in life has been with fear.  Fear had pulled him to secrecy and isolation after his exposure to pornography and sexual deviance led him toward darkness.  God’s strength has helped Jonathan to speak about his fear and help others with his story.  This is Jonathan’s testimony.“The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride.” - Ecclesiastes 7:8 Recommended Books: Bondage Breaker by Neil Anderson Victory Over the Darkness by Neil Anderson For past shows and to learn more about the God's Men of Influence community, check us out at www.godsmenofinfluence.org Join us on Facebook for our daily devotionals and updates and please like our page www.facebook.com/GodsMenOfInfluence   Help us spread the Word and please rate our show on itunes and leave comments for us. Tell us what insights you took from this episode.  

Pirate Monk Podcast
Episode 95 • Pillars of Purity

Pirate Monk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2013 61:15


A conversation with Jonathan Daugherty of Be Broken Ministries.

God, Sex & You! with Dustin Daniels
Show 24: The scandal of your life

God, Sex & You! with Dustin Daniels

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2013 24:53


What exactly does a life of sexual purity look like to you?  Would it surprise you that your purity really has very little to do with you?  Or that your acting out behavior is one of the last things your Father is concerned about? What do you think prevents you from engaging in God's Word or Godly men for help?  Are you afraid to tell others the scandal of your life? Guest:  Jonathan Daugherty with Be Broken Ministries and Pure Sex Radio.  Book:  4 Pillars of Purity - Foundations for Building a Life of Integrity & Purpose.  Lust problem?  Get help right now and join our free online community here. Like what you hear?  Support the ministry through prayer and becoming a financial Purity Partner. Click Here! 

God, Sex & You! with Dustin Daniels
Show 23: Is confession a one time deal?

God, Sex & You! with Dustin Daniels

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2013 24:58


Confessing sin is one of the least exciting things in our lives to actually do.  It's very important and Biblical, but does it really change anything?  And what happens if I don't confess my sins to a trusted person? Guest:  Jonathan Daugherty with Be Broken Ministries and Pure Sex Radio.  Book:  4 Pillars of Purity - Foundations for Building a Life of Integrity & Purpose. Lust problem?  Get help right now and join our free online community here. Like what you hear?  Support the ministry through prayer and becoming a financial Purity Partner. Click Here!