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Many men carry inherited messages about masculinity and sexuality that quietly undermine their peace with themselves—and interfere with their ability to show up with strength and clarity in their marriages. In this powerful conversation with Rhonda Farr, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife challenges those inherited ideas and reframes strength—not as certainty or control—but as the courage to look honestly at yourself. The courage to tolerate feedback, consider your impact, and use discomfort as a catalyst for growth.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we revisit an archive show with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. We dive into the topic of obligation sex. Is it a part of every marriage? Is it harmful to one, or both spouses? To learn more from Jennifer and find her Room For Two Podcast – check out her site https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Best of SMR: Obligation Sex | Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #731 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Greg and Amy Langford of the Undressing Intimacy podcast to talk about the painful reality of being at an important crossroads in your relationship.

Sexuality between men and women can get complicated because we experience it so differently. And until we can begin to understand and accept those differences, and then learn to work with them rather than fighting against them, we will struggle to find the connection and intimacy that a great sexual relationship has to offer us. In this podcast I am speaking with Dan Purcell, a life coach and Christian couples sex expert about what women may not know about men's sexuality. You can find more of Dan on his popular podcast Get Your Marriage On. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #281 Mid-Life Sexuality with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #337 Sense of Self and Our Sexuality #345 Men's Sexuality and Intimacy with Sione Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

Have you ever felt like your personal growth is at odds with your role within your relationship? In today's episode, I'm joined by Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to explore this challenging dynamic. We delve into the intricacies of how traditional roles and covert expectations can hinder personal development, especially for women. Dr. Finlayson-Fife shares valuable insights on how to become a change maker in your relationship, emphasizing the importance of honest communication and mutual growth. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone striving for a more balanced and fulfilling partnership. Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Leave a rating and review Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Book Launch Committee Free DSL Training Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by goPure Beauty, get 25% off @goPure with code PROGRESS at https://www.goPurebeauty.com/PROGRESS #goPurepod; and by AirDoctor, use code MONICA at http://airdoctorpro.com/ for up to $300 off air purifiers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Besides all of the life changes that occur in middle-age such as children leaving home, readjusting our marriage relationships, figuring out our next life steps, aging parents, etc., how about we add on a heaping serving of menopause where our hormones change and adjust and it affects us not only physically, but also mentally and emotionally as well. So much in such a small time space! On this podcast I'm speaking with Dr. Taylor Hahn, a menopause specialist, who answers many of your questions about what is going on and how can we manage our menopause in helpful and healthy ways. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #89 Mid-Life Teenage Angst #281 Mid-Life Sexuality with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #315 Mid-Life Crisis? Yes, Please! Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

In this powerful Q&A discussion, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife explores the complexities of "duty sex" including what drives it and the detrimental impact it has on relationships. She discusses the powerful meanings we attach to sex, and how these meanings can either undermine desire by creating a sense of obligation or foster connection through choice and mutual desire. She offers insight into how both higher and lower-desire partners can step away from patterns of pressure and compliance and cultivate a more fulfilling sexual relationship built on mutual desire, authentic connection, and a sense of being truly chosen.

Send us a textAnother experience of meditation from Thomas McConkie's podcast One Heart One Mind. "Episode 2: The Prayer of Quiet"Father Thomas Keating said in his book Open Mind Open Heart, “My conviction is that if people are never exposed to some kind of non-conceptual prayer, it may never develop at all because of the overly intellectual bias of western culture and the anti-contemplative trend of Christian teaching in recent centuries.”What happens if you take your foot off the gas?What would it look like for you to introduce more quiet into your relationship with your child?Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife's Strengthening Your Relationship courseYou found me! If what you heard on the No Empty Chairs podcast gives you hope for more help, please schedule a free Conversation with Candice. You can also visit candiceclarkcoaching.com for more information about how coaching tools can help you keep your relationship with your children and your faith. While you're there, be sure to pull up a chair and sign up with your email to be the first to know about news and events for moms whose kids don't come to church. It's going to be okay, and even better!

In this conversation from the Archives, we revisit an episode with Dr Jennifer Finylason-Fife. TWe dive into the complexities of desire dynamics within marriage, particularly focusing on the roles of higher and lower desire spouses. The discussion highlights the impact of predictability on desire, the importance of self-discovery, and the need for authenticity in relationships. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fyfe shares insights on how societal and cultural expectations shape women's experiences of desire and intimacy, emphasizing the significance of personal growth and self-awareness in fostering healthy relationships. Learn more here https://finlayson-fife.com/ Takeaways Desire dynamics in marriage often shift from high to low over time. Predictability in marriage can stifle desire and intimacy. Women often feel societal pressure to accommodate their partner's desires. Self-discovery is crucial for understanding personal desires. Authenticity in relationships fosters deeper connections. Resentments can indicate unfulfilled desires that need addressing. Propping up a partner's ego can harm both individuals in a relationship. Intimate marriages require both partners to show up honestly. Cultural narratives can shape our understanding of desire and intimacy. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … Dr Jennifer and I discuss her research with LDS Women and sexuality and desire, as well as my research on the same topic with a conservative Christian population. Sponsors … Factor: Eat smart with Factor. Get started at https://factormeals.com/factorpodcast to get 50% off your first box! Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Revisiting the Lower Desire Wife | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #721 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Tanya Hale of the Intentional Living Podcast to challenge deeply ingrained beliefs about women's sexuality. They discuss the ways these messages undermine women's sense of self and self-respect and explore how integrating sexuality and spirituality allows women to reclaim desire, develop deeper self-trust, and cultivate more equal, fulfilling relationships.

In this conversation, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Mallorie Cracroft of the Uplift for Her podcast to discuss the unique challenges and opportunities that women face during midlife. They dive into the physical, emotional, and relational shifts that happen as we age and how these changes can impact our sense of who we are. They also explore how women can live with more authenticity and self-acceptance, and how doing so paves the way for richer experiences, even (especially!) in later years.

In this episode, I sit down with renowned LDS sex therapist Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to explore the complex topic of sexual shame. Together, we discuss its origins, how it impacts relationships—especially in a mixed faith context—and practical ways to foster healing, understanding, and deeper connection. Whether you're navigating personal struggles or seeking to strengthen your partnership, this conversation is filled with compassionate insights and actionable tools to help you move forward. Find more information at her website: www.finlayson-fife.com Could you do me a favor?  Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform. It helps more people find the podcast.   I would also love to hear any insights or questions you have. You can also find me at:  ⁠www.chrisrichcoaching.com⁠ chrisrichcoaching@gmail.com ⁠@chrisrichcoaching⁠ Instagram ⁠Subscribe to my Mixed Faith Friday Emails⁠

Just as women were raised with societal ideas and expectations around their sexuality, so were men. And so many of these ideas are actually harmful, and even destructive, to the emotional intimacy we desire in our relationships. In this podcast my husband, Sione, shares the concepts and ideas around sexuality that he learned growing up and how he learned to address them to create the emotional connection we now share.   Download Transcript Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: 281 Mid-Life Sexuality with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife 337 Sense of Self and Sexuality Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

Emily Carolynn Baker rejoins us on the podcast to share about an upcoming social media "flash mob" and exciting Divine Feminine Summit! To participate in the social media sharing, called a "thunderclap", post a photo of your hand with the words "Divine Feminine Matters" written on it at 11:11 MST on your social media platform of choice. Caption the post, "The Divine Feminine Matters because ______" and fill in the blank! So many have been on a journey seeking Heavenly Mother/the Feminine Divine for months or years, and this is an opportunity to share why that matters to you. We matter, She matters, and it's time to be brave and share why! Emily also announces a Divine Feminine Summit happening Jan 31 and Feb 1, 2025 with presenters such as Dr. Julie Hanks and Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. You won't want to miss it! We hope you enjoy this episode and watching the flood of social media posts on Friday. You are not alone! Links: THUNDERCLAP INFORMATION: https://www.instagram.com/p/DEyucGwOrZ7/?igsh=Zm9pMndsaW9nMzBh Anonymous post form submission: https://forms.gle/KSNqywAV168hTCeh7 Thunder clap reminders via text and email: https://calendly.com/thespiritualcollab/divine-feminine-thunderclap-reminders Tickets for online summit: https://divinefeminine.live/ Instagram account: @thespiritualcollab Co-Organizers of Event: @that.lds.energy.gal @latterdayawakening and @enochsears Send requests to collaborate to thespiritualcollab@gmail.com or hello@divinefeminine.live

Send us a textMy word for 2025 is “enough.” Here are some things that help me remember that I'm enough, and so are my kids. There is enough time, enough room, enough love for whatever comes my way. Doctrine and Covenants 104:17, “there is enough and to spare”Doctrine and Covenants 104:15, “it is my purpose to provide for my saints.”Good Inside: Becoming the Parent You Want to Be by Dr. Becky Kennedy“Am I Enough” Love Like You by Emma Nissen “When Paths Diverge - Parenting Through Faith Shifts” Coach Tina Gosney and Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on Conversations with Dr. Jennifer podcast feed from January 1, 2025 Tina's podcast Coaching Your Family RelationshipsRemember, you are enough and you always have been.Remember, there are no empty chairs.You found me! If what you heard on the No Empty Chairs podcast gives you hope for more help, please schedule a free Conversation with Candice. You can also visit candiceclarkcoaching.com for more information about how coaching tools can help you keep your relationship with your children and your faith. While you're there, be sure to pull up a chair and sign up with your email to be the first to know about news and events for moms whose kids don't come to church. It's going to be okay, and even better!

 I studied martial arts for 13 years when I was younger and I became proficient in three different styles of Karate and Kenpo. As you progress towards being a black belt, the fundamentals don't change, but your ability to be more precise and skilled in using those fundamentals improves dramatically.  Like in my martial arts training to being a better lover, the fundamentals such as communication, touch and being present with arousal, and so on don't change. But your ability to use those fundamentals to be better at sex hat's deeply connecting as well as giving and receiving pleasure to strengthen your marriage. All those improve. As you become more quote unquote black belt at at sex.  I occasionally ask my podcast guests for their black belt sex tips. And it's been over a year since I've done a Roundup of the best black belt sex tips offered by my guests on this podcast. So today, I've compiled the best into this episode.  If you like what you've heard from these guests and want to go back for more, here are the links to the full episodes: Sofia Ashley - #212: Create A Party Your Libido Wants To Come To) Catherine Roebuck - #214: When Wives Have The Higher Sexual Desire Josie McEwen - #167: Successful Vacation Sex & Romantic Getaways, According to a Romance Consultant Jessa Zimmerman - #217: Eroticism: What Does Your Sexuality Want?  Adam and Karissa King - #219: How Playing With Your 5 Senses Opens the Door to More Erotic Connection Dan Purcell & Rhonda Farr - #209: Stop Trying to Change Your Marriage. Let Your Marriage Change You Instead. Ally Bullock - #203: Why Honesty, Risk, and some Fair Play Lead To Great Connection with Alyson Bullock Tammy Camp - #151: How a “Good Girl” and Her Husband Bravely Chose a Better Sex Life: A Sextimony Francie Winslow - #178: Why Christians Should Be Having the Best Sex Tilly Storm - #210: The G-Spot Guide: How to Stimulate, Explore, and Enjoy Together! Heather Flake - #158: The #1 Limiting Factor in Your Sex Life, According to a Marriage Expert Tammy Hill - #179: Having An Orgasm vs Living Orgasmically: What's the difference? Dr. Julie Slattery - #181: 4 Pillars to Take Intimacy From Sub-optimal to First-Rate, Both In and Out of the Bedroom Glenn & Phyllis Hill - #183: The Anatomy of Emotional Intimacy & Connection Codes and #184: Anatomy of a Sex Date Laurie Watson - #149: Afraid Your Husband Will Reject or Ignore You AGAIN tonight? Alex & Kadi Dutton - #130: Lingerie? YES PLEASE! with Alex and Kadi of EveryLove Intimates Mark Goldberg - #193: The Fast and Furious: Over-Coming Premature Ejaculation Sierra Beltran - #170: Behold Your Beautiful Body Through the Lens of Boudoir Photography! Ariel Finlinson - #164: Creating Space for Moms (and Dads) to Feel Like They Are in Control Again Tammy Hill - #201: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 2 Danielle Savory - #201: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 2 Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife - #200: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 1 Katheleen Smith - #195: Are You a “Sexual Over-functioner?” Bonnie Young - #168: How Your Marital Power Dynamics Are Affecting Your Sexual Relationship   Resources If you're in an otherwise happy marriage, but struggle to see eye to eye when it comes to sexual intimacy, I highly recommend you check out our upcoming couples retreat for next March (hurry--prices go up in the new year!). Check out our Get Your Marriage On Program. These programs are effective at helping you and your spouse communicate better about these things in a relationship and really move the needle in the positive direction.   Disclaimer: The opinions and values expressed by guests on the Get Your Marriage On! podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions and values of the host. Appearance on the podcast does not imply an endorsement of the guest or their products by Get Your Marriage On or its host. While we work hard to bring you quality and valuable content, listeners are encouraged to use their own best judgment in applying the information or products discussed on this podcast.

God created us to be sexual beings. Through a lot of social conditioning in the 70s and 80s (and probably before, but I wasn't there), we got a lot of mixed messages about our sexuality as women, and one of them was not that as women we were created to be sexual and find a lot of pleasure and enjoyment there. From this conditioning, many of us struggle to be at peace with our sexuality and to engage in healthy and happy sexuality. When we have a strong sense of self, we are more fully capable of addressing these challenging conditioned thoughts and moving into a more whole version of ourselves that includes healthy sexuality.   Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: 29 Validation 34 Self-Compassion 46 Choosing to Love Yourself 78 Playing Small 104 Cultivating Self-Love 105 Self-Love In Our Past, Present, and Future 106 Fierce Self-Love 113 Self-Acceptance 114 Confidence 137 Not Enough? Not True 215 Being Seen and Being Heard 247 The Value in Knowing Our Value 260 Your Lovability and Your Love Ability 281 Mid-Life Sexuality with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife 293 Dating in Mid-life 304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives 327 Learning to Love Your Human Self 331 Sense of Self 332 Sense of Self - It's All In Your Head 333 Sense of Self and Dating 334 Sense of Self and Marriage 335 Sense of Self and Parenting 336 Sense of Self and Spirituality Interesting in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

In today's episode, we're diving into the second part of our series on “Losing Strategies” in relationships. We explore how certain behaviors undermine connection, create emotional distance, and hinder growth, drawing insights from renowned therapists Terry Real and Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. We begin with a quick recap of the first episode and then introduce five additional “losing strategies” that can be detrimental to relationships: 1. Playing the Victim – Recognizing the disempowerment in victimhood and how it can impact both personal and relational growth.2. Defensiveness – How defending ourselves undermines trust and prevents honest communication.3. Blaming – Shifting responsibility onto others as a way of avoiding self-reflection, creating a hostile environment.4. Scorekeeping – Keeping track of every wrong and using it as ammunition during conflicts, which prevents forgiveness and encourages resentment.5. Emotional Blackmail and Stonewalling – Emotional manipulation and shutting down emotionally to avoid discomfort, which erodes safety, trust, and connection. We also offer practical strategies to counter these behaviors, such as practicing gratitude, setting personal boundaries, and recognizing self-authorship. We remind listeners that these strategies are meant for self-reflection, not to be used as a tool for changing others. Finally, we discuss the importance of winning strategies that foster intimacy and growth, including empathy, active listening, and healthy conflict resolution. We'll explore these more in an upcoming episode. Resources Mentioned:- *I Don't Want to Talk About It* by Terry Real- *Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship* by Terry Real- Insight into “self-authorship” from Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife If you found value in today's episode, please consider leaving a five-star review. This helps other doctors find our podcast and extends our reach. Also, don't miss our free video, *How to Crush Physician Burnout for Good Without Cutting Back Hours, Quitting Medicine, or Sucking It Up in Silence.* You can find the link in the show notes. Thank you for tuning in! Remember, you are whole, you are a gift to medicine, and the work you do truly matters. www.thewholephysician.com

Losing Strategies in Relationships In this episode, Amanda, Laura, and Kendra dive into the first of two episodes on losing strategies in relationships, focusing on behaviors that harm intimacy and connection. Drawing from the work of renowned therapist Terry Real and psychologist Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife, the hosts break down five common maladaptive strategies that people often use, thinking they will give them more power in relationships. However, these strategies ultimately damage trust and closeness. Laura introduces the topic, sharing insights from her relationship coaching certification with Terry Real. She explains how these losing strategies—many of which are ingrained in us from childhood—can become habits that undermine relationships, particularly in the high-stress environment of medicine. The five losing strategies discussed in this episode are: 1. Being Right: Focusing on winning an argument at the expense of the other person's feelings or perspective. The hosts share the idea that "do you want to be right, or do you want to stay married?" and stress the importance of empathy and understanding over proving a point. 2. Controlling: Covert control can manifest through withholding information or micromanaging, often under the guise of "keeping the peace." The hosts explore how this undermines mutual respect and fuels resentment. 3. Unbridled Self-Expression: Venting every emotion without considering the other person's needs or the timing of the conversation. This often leads to emotional overwhelm and distancing. 4. Retaliation: Reacting to hurt by trying to hurt the other person in return. This tit-for-tat behavior creates a toxic cycle of resentment and emotional distance. 5. Withdrawal: Shutting down emotionally or physically to avoid conflict or vulnerability. The hosts explore how this leads to unresolved issues and emotional disconnection. The episode ends with a reminder to reflect on these strategies in ourselves rather than using them to criticize our partners. The hosts emphasize the importance of self-awareness, empathy, and active listening as foundational steps toward improving relationships. Additional Resources Check out the free video "How to Crush Physician Burnout for Good" in the show notes. Learn evidence-based strategies to overcome burnout without cutting back hours, quitting medicine, or "sucking it up" in silence. Tune in next time for part two, where the hosts will continue this important conversation with more losing strategies and introduce some winning ones! How to Crush Physician Burnout (for Good)-free video https://terryreal.com/ US book (must read) https://www.finlayson-fife.com

If you're a high-achieving man or if you love a high-achieving man, this episode will help you understand yourself and your relationship on a deeper level. In this episode, JFF and I discuss masculinity in relationships and the masculine energy we all embody. Here is the link to the JFF retreat Art of Loving. Use promo code LOVING https://www.tickettailor.com/events/jenniferfinlaysonfifephd/1261638 Here is the link to get on my list for more information on the upcoming Rhonda Farr Coaching Men and Women Group Coaching beta programs. I need to know there is enough interest to run these groups. Looking forward to it! https://rhonda-farr.aweb.page/p/fe42dd59-99c4-44ba-a3a2-e6b38d85cddf

In 2017, a Utah family began discussing some of the challenging questions facing The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. From those modest beginnings, a multidimensional platform emerged called Faith Matters, which defines itself as a “space in which an expansive, radiant approach to the restored gospel can be considered.” The effort now includes a popular podcast, book publishing, online courses, and, coming next week, its third in-person “Restore” conference. The giant gathering at the Mountain West Expo Center in Sandy has attracted more than 3,000 paid registrants and will feature speakers, poets, musicians and artists — including Astrid Tuminez, Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, Jennifer Walker Thomas, Terryl and Fiona Givens, Mauli Bonner, Neylan McBaine, Allison Dayton and Eboo Patel. It is, organizers say, meant to “inspire, enlighten and nourish faith.” On this week's show, Zachary Davis, executive director of Faith Matters, editor of its Wayfare magazine and co-director of the conference, discusses this organization, the upcoming conference and how they appeal to, help and inspire a range of Latter-day Saints.

This is part two of the podcast we released last Friday (#200). And if you haven't listened to that one, I highly recommend you pause this episode and go back and listen to #200 first. These two episodes are continuation of a project that I started a few months ago to better understand what it means for me to cherish my spouse. I shared a tragic story about my wife's cousin and how that really propelled us to understand what it means to cherish others better. In the process, I've sought out mentors to help me understand this concept better. And you get to hear snippets of the conversations I've had with them - you get to be a fly on the wall and learn with me and what it really means to cherish your spouse. And to love them really, really well. Of all the things I talk about on the podcast -- sex, orgasms, initiating, foreplay -- I think learning how to cherish your spouse whole heartedly takes the cake! This is the most important. This is the sum of everything that I wish you would get from my podcast. I hope these two episodes become the most downloaded episodes of the entire podcast. And this is what I want to be known for. I want you to know that to really love and cherish your spouse is at the heart of everything we do, even your sexual interactions (which we talk a lot about on this podcast, right?). It's about how you cherish your spouse through the language of your sexuality and sharing that with your spouse exclusively. So today you get a year from three more mentors that I look up to a lot: Tammy Hill, Danielle Savory, and Alex & Kadi Dutton (from EveryLove Intimates). So you get three different perspectives here on the same kind of thing, different stages of life, different worldviews. And in case you missed it, I talked to Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, Alana Martens, (from Kingdom Sexuality), and Tony DiLorenzo (from One Extraordinary Marriage) in part 1. I hope this is the inspiration you need to make the most of your marriage relationship--make the changes, get the help, and do what you need to do-- to find that deep and abiding love, the cherishing that brings the deepest meaning and satisfaction to our lives.   Resources: Get Your Marriage On Program Intimately Us App FREE TRAINING: How to Become One: Overcoming obstacles to intimacy and significantly improving sex and connection in your marriage, in 90 days or less Couples Retreat in St. George, UT, October 10-13 Retreat testimonial videos You can find links to all these and more at our website: getyourmarriageon.com    Disclaimer: The opinions and values expressed by guests on the Get Your Marriage On! podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions and values of the host. Appearance on the podcast does not imply an endorsement of the guest or their products by Get Your Marriage On or its host. While we work hard to bring you quality and valuable content, listeners are encouraged to use their own best judgment in applying the information or products discussed on this podcast.

We recently experienced the loss of a family member very suddenly, a young mom with three children, and it has made me want to love and appreciate and cherish my wife more. And so this set me out on a personal project to understand the concept of cherishing a little better. This project has really changed me. It has changed me in my intimate interactions with my wife and with my children and with others. I've learned how to be a lot more present with them, less anxious. And the way I make love to my wife has brought a different tone to our marriage. It's more connecting, it's more real, it's more eyes open. There's a more genuine desire to be close to each other in our love making also. To help me in my quest to better understand cherishing and what it means for me in my life and in my marriage, I've sought out a few mentors to help me and I've recorded our conversations. I've asked them just a simple question: "What does it mean to cherish your spouse?" And I just sat back and listened as these great teachers shared so many nuggets from their life experiences. Because this topic has had such a big impact on me, and I didn't want you to miss any of it, I've decided to split this into two podcasts episodes. In this episode, you'll get to hear from Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, Alana Martens (from Kingdom Sexuality), and Tony DiLorenzo (from One Extraordinary Marriage). And in a special bonus episode on Monday, August 19, you'll get to hear part 2 from Tammy Hill, Danielle Savory, and Alex & Kadi Dutton (from EveryLove Intimates). Takeaways As you listen to what these wise people say . . . ♥️ I hope you'll listen with an open heart. ♥️ I hope it changes you as much as it changed me. ♥️ I hope this episode will inspire you to treat your spouse with a lot more appreciation and a lot more dignity. ♥️ I hope you'll find greater strength to look past the trivial barriers that get in the way of true connection. ♥️ I hope it motivates you to put down the phone more often and to actually gaze into your spouse's eyes. ♥️ I hope it motivates you to put your arm around him or her and hold them close, because you never know, today might be the last day you'll be together for a long time.   Resources: Get Your Marriage On Program Intimately Us App FREE TRAINING: How to Become One: Overcoming obstacles to intimacy and significantly improving sex and connection in your marriage, in 90 days or less Couples Retreat in St. George, UT, October 10-13 Retreat testimonial videos You can find links to all these and more at our website: getyourmarriageon.com    Disclaimer: The opinions and values expressed by guests on the Get Your Marriage On! podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions and values of the host. Appearance on the podcast does not imply an endorsement of the guest or their products by Get Your Marriage On or its host. While we work hard to bring you quality and valuable content, listeners are encouraged to use their own best judgment in applying the information or products discussed on this podcast.

This week, we're thrilled to welcome back Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, a renowned therapist specializing in relationship and sexuality counseling within the Latter-day Saint community. We're super excited that Jennifer has a new book coming out this year that Faith Matters is publishing, and she'll also be joining us in person soon for Restore.In our conversation, we explore some of the early themes from Jennifer's book, including the shift many couples experience from passion to duty in marriage. Jennifer shares some powerful stories and experiences based on what she's seen in her work with couples, including how common cultural narratives among religious people can diminish what Jennifer calls the "magnetic energy of Eros" in relationships.We dive into the concept of Eros as a divine longing for deeper connection, not just sexual, but spiritual and personal. This Eros energy, for Jennifer is the the energy of adventure, attraction, agency, and feeling fully alive. To rekindle that Eros energy in lives and relationships, Jennifer emphasizes the importance of honest communication, vulnerability, and personal integrity. She offers profound insights on how to face our fears and embrace the uncertainties of life and love.This conversation is packed with practical advice and fresh perspectives that can help anyone deepen their relationships and personal growth. We're incredibly grateful for Jennifer's wisdom and are really looking forward to her book's release. Now, let's jump into our conversation with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife.

Today we're diving into the oh-so-important topic of sexuality. We'll help you sort out your own ideas, understand sexual integrity, and tackle those tricky conversations with your kids.We'll also explore the delicate dance of modesty, finding the sweet spot between repression and healthy sexual decision-making. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife shares amazing insights on creating an environment where your kids feel safe, respected, and comfortable talking about their sexuality, desires, and boundaries.Tune in for a fun and enlightening discussion that will help you foster open, honest conversations with your kids about sexuality. Trust us, you won't want to miss it!Check out her course: How To Talk To Your Kids About SexNext Steps:--> Sign Up For my FREE Parenting Course: https://cmp.works/fpc--> Watch the STOP Yelling Workshop: https://cmp.works/stop-yelling-workshop

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a Latter-day Saint relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples create greater connection and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships. In addition to her private practice, Dr. Finlayson-Fife has created five empowering and highly-reviewed online courses. Each course was designed to give LDS individuals and couples the tools requisite to creating healthier lives and stronger intimate relationships. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also offers many workshops and retreats where she teaches these life-changing principles in person. Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, mental health, and faith. She is also the creator and host of Room for Two, a popular sex and intimacy coaching podcast. Links Finlayson-Fife.com Conversations with Dr. Jennifer Room for Two Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Online Courses Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Workshops and Retreats There is already a discussion started about this podcast. Share your thoughts. Transcript coming soon Get 14-day access to the Core Leader Library Highlights In this podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife emphasizes the importance of normalizing sexual feelings and desires, especially among youth, and highlights the need for individuals to take ownership of their sexuality in a healthy and self-authoring manner. The conversation also addresses the complexities of sexual dynamics within marriages, shedding light on the impact of societal messages and gender roles on sexual relationships. The episode explores the concept of betrayal trauma and the nuances of sexual desire and fulfillment within relationships, offering insights into navigating differences and fostering a mutually satisfying connection. Additionally, the discussion touches on the role of Church leaders in addressing sexuality and promoting a more open and understanding approach to sexual intimacy within the Latter-day Saint community. 00:05:30 - Importance of Normalizing Sexual Feelings 00:15:37 - The Role of the Church in Healthy Sexual Development 00:25:43 - Addressing Sexuality in Adulthood 00:35:49 - Betrayal Trauma and Gender Dynamics in Relationships 00:44:18 - Gender Dynamics and Expectations in Leadership The Leading Saints Podcast is one of the top independent Latter-day Saints podcasts as part of nonprofit Leading Saints' mission to help Latter-day Saints be better prepared to lead. Learn more and listen to any of the past episodes for free at LeadingSaints.org. Past guests include Emily Belle Freeman, David Butler, Hank Smith, John Bytheway, Reyna and Elena Aburto, Liz Wiseman, Stephen M. R. Covey, Julie Beck, Brad Wilcox, Jody Moore, Tony Overbay, John H. Groberg, Elaine Dalton, Tad R. Callister, Lynn G. Robbins, J. Devn Cornish, Bonnie Oscarson, Dennis B. Neuenschwander, Anthony Sweat, John Hilton III, Barbara Morgan Gardner, Blair Hodges, Whitney Johnson, Ryan Gottfredson, Greg McKeown, Ganel-Lyn Condie, Michael Goodman, Wendy Ulrich, Richard Ostler, Kirby Heyborne, and many more in over 700 episodes. Discover podcasts, articles, virtual conferences, and live events related to callings such as the bishopric, Relief Society, elders quorum, Primary, youth leadership, stake leadership, ward mission, ward council, young adults, ministering, and teaching.

Join us on this week's episode with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife in discussing the topic of "Sexuality and Self: Creating Strength in Ourselves and Our Intimate Relationships". We sit down to talk about this subject as it pertains to the upcoming Safely Gathered Women's Retreat 2024. We talk about why women lack a sense of self and how we can develop in our own sexual wants and desires. We also touch on what Dr. Finlayson-Fife wants everyone to know about their sexuality and self. To sign up for our Safely Gathered Women's Retreat you can go here. To get $10 off use the code JFF10. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples create greater connection and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships. In addition to her private practice, Dr. Finlayson-Fife has created five empowering and highly-reviewed online courses. Each course was designed to give LDS individuals and couples the tools requisite to creating healthier lives and stronger intimate relationships. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also offers many workshops and retreats where she teaches these life-changing principles in person. Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, mental health, and faith. She is also the creator and host of Room for Two, a popular sex and intimacy coaching podcast.

We are so excited to have Life Coach Alyssa McBride on the show today! In this episode we talk about navigating your personal identity in a Mixed Faith Marriage. We also touch on building self confidence, setting boundaries, and how to manage stress and anxiety. We finish the episode with a discussion about embracing change. If you would like more information about Alyssa and you can contact her, you can do so here: website: https://www.thriveandshinecoaching.net/ Retreat waitlist: https://forms.gle/w8hp43vs7jgd3on38 instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveandshine_coaching/ email: alyssamcbride@thriveandshinecoaching.net Our announcements this week: 1) We start our Workshop on a Tightrope in ONE week, Sunday August 4th. Do you need communication tools? Do you want quality content by a professional who has designed a course for your Mixed Faith Marriage? Do you want to connect with other couples facing similar difficulties? @everyone If you find that your current marriage circumstances are difficult to navigate then we want to see you in our workshop. Here are some quick facts about us. *Natasha Helfer is our professional therapist with decades of work and experience in this area. She has come up with the material as well as at home exercises. Natasha will be there for every class to answer questions and provide clinical help *YES you CAN use your HSA to pay for the workshop *YES we do each meeting LIVE via Zoom on Sunday nights from 7-9 pm MST *Yes we structure our weeks so each week builds to the next in order to have the difficult conversations surrounding children, church leaders, "tenders" (anything that could be difficult to talk about). In addition you learn tools to communicate effectively *Yes you learn from other couples *Yes hundreds of couples have done this course and report at the least it's helped with their communication and at most saved their marriage For additional questions please message us. If you are in need of financial help for the course, please message us. We are excited for the couples who have already signed up and are excited to move their marriage forward. You can go here to sign up: https://kattie-mount.mykajabi.com/offers/N8SjnFMX/checkout 2) Safely Gathered Women's Retreat 2024 tickets are on sale now! The retreat will be held Thursday Sept 5th from 830 am to 9 pm at the Hale Center Theater in Sandy, Utah. We are honored and excited to have the amazing Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to join us and talk about "Sexuality and Self; Creating Strength in Ourselves and Our Intimate Relationships." We have a fantastic day planned just for our audience. This is sure to sell out and we would love to see you there. Go to this link to register: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/938009320127?aff=oddtdtcreator Please let us know if you have any questions. We would love to answer them for you. 3) Finally we will have a table again at the Faith Matters Restore Conference. If you have any questions what that is you can go here to get tickets and learn more about it: https://faithmatters.org/restore-2024/ You can get a 20% discount on your tickets by using the code: TIGHTROPE.

Welcome to this week's episode of Marriage on a Tightrope. We know you will enjoy this episode with Jennie and Travis Stevens. They tell their mixed faith story and share great wisdom on how they have made their mixed faith marriage work. Trigger warning: The topic of family sexual abuse and a brief mention of suicide is discussed in this episode We have so many exciting ways you can connect with us over the next few months. Our Workshop on a Tightrope starts August 4th! This is the 11th session to date and the only workshop we will be doing this year. We partner with Natasha Helfer to bring you a 7 week course specifically to help your mixed faith marriage. We've had hundreds of couples go through the program and we've received incredible support from them. We meet every Sunday evening via zoom (7pm MST), and we spend two hours together going over material with our therapist Natasha Helfer. It is life changing for marriages who are in their mixed faith era. You can join us and sign up here. If you have any questions you can email us @marriageonatightrope@gmail.com We have opened the Safely Gathered Retreat 2024 Registration for all of our Marriage on a Tightrope members. We want you to have first spots available before we open it to Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife audience. We are honored and excited to have the amazing Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to join us and talk about "Sexuality and Self; Creating Strength in Ourselves and Our Intimate Relationships." Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife does an excellent job in including those who are married, divorced, single, widowed, or anywhere else you may fall. This is all about your own sexual desires. She also knows that our audience is a diverse one with those who have never been Mormon, those in the LDS church, those who have left, those in a mixed faith marriage, and anyone in between. This is sure to sell out and we would love to see you there. Go to this Eventbrite link to register: Lastly we will have a table again at the Faith Matters Restore conference that will be held Friday and Saturday Sept. 6 & 7th at the Mountain America Expo Center in Sandy. You can save 20% on your ticket if you use the code TIGHTROPE. For more information you can go here: faithmatters.org/restore We also wanted to plug the great things that are happening at Sunstone! Sunstone is a nonprofit dedicated to hosting open forums of Mormon thought, art, and experience. We're one of the only places where fundamentalist Mormons, active Latter-day Saints, and ex-Mormons sit side-by-side in the earnest desire to learn and grow. They're annual conference is coming up August 1-3. Please reach out if you have any questions, thoughts, concerns, or you just want connection. You can as always join our Marriage on a Tightrope facebook and instagram groups for updated information.

Welcome to this week's episode of Marriage on a Tightrope. We have an important and heartfelt episode lined up for you today. Our main focus is on church camps and how to approach discussing them with your children. Alongside this discussion, we'll also be opening up about some personal news: recently, we received the difficult news that my father has little time left to live. We'll share how this news has impacted our family and how we're navigating this challenging time together. Join us as we explore both the practical aspects of church camps and the emotional journey of dealing with family health issues. It's a raw and honest conversation you won't want to miss. We have so many exciting ways you can connect with us over the next few months. Our Workshop on a Tightrope starts August 4th! This is the 11th session to date and the only workshop we will be doing this year. We partner with Natasha Helfer to bring you a 7 week course specifically to help your mixed faith marriage. We've had hundreds of couples go through the program and we've received incredible support from them. We meet every Sunday evening via zoom (7pm MST), and we spend two hours together going over material with our therapist Natasha Helfer. It is life changing for marriages who are in their mixed faith era. You can join us and sign up here. If you have any questions you can email us @marriageonatightrope@gmail.com We have opened the Safely Gathered Retreat 2024 Registration for all of our Marriage on a Tightrope members. We want you to have first spots available before we open it to Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife audience. We are honored and excited to have the amazing Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to join us and talk about "Sexuality and Self; Creating Strength in Ourselves and Our Intimate Relationships." Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife does an excellent job in including those who are married, divorced, single, widowed, or anywhere else you may fall. This is all about your own sexual desires. She also knows that our audience is a diverse one with those who have never been Mormon, those in the LDS church, those who have left, those in a mixed faith marriage, and anyone in between. This is sure to sell out and we would love to see you there. Go to this Eventbrite link to register: Lastly we will have a table again at the Faith Matters Restore conference that will be held Friday and Saturday Sept. 6 & 7th at the Mountain America Expo Center in Sandy. You can save 20% on your ticket if you use the code TIGHTROPE. For more information you can go here: faithmatters.org/restore We also wanted to plug the great things that are happening at Sunstone! Sunstone is a nonprofit dedicated to hosting open forums of Mormon thought, art, and experience. We're one of the only places where fundamentalist Mormons, active Latter-day Saints, and ex-Mormons sit side-by-side in the earnest desire to learn and grow. They're annual conference is coming up August 1-3. Please reach out if you have any questions, thoughts, concerns, or you just want connection. You can as always join our Marriage on a Tightrope facebook and instagram groups for updated information.

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples create greater connection and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships.In addition to her private practice, Dr. Finlayson-Fife has created five empowering and highly-reviewed online courses. Each course was designed to give LDS individuals and couples the tools requisite to creating healthier lives and stronger intimate relationships. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also offers many workshops and retreats where she teaches these life-changing principles in person.Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, mental health, and faith. She is also the creator and host of Room for Two, a popular sex and intimacy coaching podcast. Ashlynn Allen boldly confronts taboo topics to remind us how not alone we are in life. Experiencing the many layers of grief navigating losing loved ones, losing religion, divorce, coparenting, adult dating, owning a small business and betrayal, she demonstrates that it is possible to embrace a life of compassion, and forgiveness while setting healthy boundaries and breaking free from the past. As a champion for women seeking adventure and freedom in the face of life's trials. Ashlynn invites you to join her in conversations with beautiful individuals who share their transformative #bethebuffalo moments. Through these discussions, she offers insights that may inspire you to navigate your own path into the life you deserve. Follow her on social media at ⁠HERE⁠ Retreats with her at ⁠HERE⁠ Mentor with her at ⁠HERE⁠ Move "Beyond Betrayal" with her at ⁠HERE⁠ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ashlynn-allen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ashlynn-allen/support

Intimacy is a lot more than just sex. It is the ability to know and be known by another person...our person. On today's episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife shares: What true intimacy is. How we can create bridges even when we have very different views. Some of the things that stifle intimacy in our marriages. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a licensed therapist who specializes in working with LDS couples on sexuality and relationship issues. Check out her website here.

Is your marriage ready for more? More intimacy, connection, and collaboration? Then, it's time for some changes. It's time to move towards more partnership. This is where both spouses have their needs and desires be equally heard. This is where BOTH spouses' contributions can be better valued and supported.  Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and Dr. Julie Hanks (two of our top-favorite guests!) are joining forces to share what a partnership model looks like, why it's essential to having deeply successful marriages and families, and HOW couples can move past the obstacles getting in the way of being equally valued.   This won't be a light-hearted episode for you to listen to. But it will be a life-changing one. It's time for MORE in your marriage! If you're ready for that, listen in to learn how. For new weekly episodes during the summer months, sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! Access exclusive supporter benefits Free DSL Training Waitlist for the next Sticky Habit Intensive Full Show Notes This episode is brought to you by Fearless Finance, get $50 off your first planning meeting when you use the code PROGRESS AirDoctor, use code MONICA for up to $300 off air purifiers Lolavie, Get 15% off LolaVie with the codePROGRESS at https://www.lolavie.com/PROGRESS #lolaviepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Julie Hanks to discuss her dissertation research, the ways that church culture has shaped women's sexuality, and how women can create a healthier relationship with desire, embodiment, and sexuality.

Today we are joined by Jennifer Finalyson-Fife, one of our favorite teachers! Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a relationship & sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. She teaches online personal and sexual development courses. Today Jennifer answers our questions about modesty! FOLLOW JENNIFER! Website: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/finlaysonfife/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/finlaysonfife/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5hJNC99haGPQYEIAEgeHBQ

Today I have Jennifer on to talk about all things consent, self- abandonment, teaching healthy sexuality, and advocacy. I get that talking about such topics can feel awkward, intimidating, and confusing as to how to go about it. Stress no more! One of my favorite things Jennifer said was, "if you want someone's approval it puts you at a disadvantage." She was referencing the story of my first kiss, which I tell in my book, How I Fixed My Teen, and how I really wanted him to like me and how I let things go too far in an effort to win his approval... and also because I totally froze. We talk about that as well. You don't want to miss listening in as we spill all the tea in the best of ways. To order the book that we reference, and learn more about parenting your teen, visit me at heatherfrazier.com About Jennifer: I am a relationship and sexuality educator and coach, as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois with a Ph.D in Counseling Psychology from Boston College. I wrote my dissertation on LDS women and sexuality, and have taught college-level courses on human sexuality. I currently teach online courses and live workshops to individuals and couples seeking to develop their capacity for deeper emotional and sexual intimacy. Additionally, I offer limited private and group coaching services to individuals and couples who have benefitted from my podcasts and courses and are looking for more direct input on improving their lives and relationships. I am a frequent contributor on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, and spirituality to LDS-themed blogs, magazines, and podcasts, including the “Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist” podcast series. My husband and I are the parents of three children and are active members of the LDS church. You can find Jennifer at: finlayson-fife.com

Honing In On Intimacy w/ Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife In this episode, Jen engages in a compelling dialogue with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, an LDS sex therapist, to delve into topics of sexuality, intimacy, and identity. Dr. Finlayson-Fife shares insights into her unique approach to enhancing intimacy in relationships, the impact of personal identity on sexual dynamics within marriage, and the challenges couples face in fostering a deeply connected sexual relationship. Key discussions include the significance of confronting personal and relationship adversities, understanding the role of honesty and integrity in intimate connections, and strategies for overcoming obstacles to sexual intimacy. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also touches upon her personal journey, including confronting the challenges of parenting a child on the autism spectrum and how such experiences shape personal growth and values. Additionally, she highlights available resources, including her online courses, podcast 'Room for Two,' and her participation in broader discussions on authentic leadership and overcoming societal 'shoulds.' 00:00 Welcome and Introduction to Today's Special Guest 01:13 A Unique Conversation with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife 04:41 Exploring Identity, Sexuality, and Intimacy with Dr. Finlayson-Fife 10:58 The Role of Identity in Sexual Activity and Intimacy 13:56 Overcoming Obstacles in Sexual Relationships 19:46 The Power of Adversity and Growth in Relationships 24:53 Final Thoughts and Where to Find Dr. Finlayson-Fife ----more---- Navigating Adversity and Finding Intimacy: A Deep Dive with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife In a world where challenges can refine our character and relationships, the journey to understanding intimacy and overcoming adversity is a pivotal one. In a recent podcast episode, I had the enlightening opportunity to sit down with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife, an LDS sex therapist known for her insightful perspectives on sexuality, intimacy, and relationships. Our conversation delved into the depths of identity, core values, and the transformative power of facing adversity head-on. ### Unveiling Intimacy Through Identity Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife highlighted the intrinsic connection between identity and intimacy. She emphasized how our sense of self and willingness to be vulnerable play a crucial role in fostering deep connections with our partners. The ability to be truly knowable and to know our partners, even in moments of discomfort, is key to developing authentic intimacy. ### Confronting Adversity: A Path to Growth One of the most impactful aspects of our conversation was Dr. Finlayson Fife's reflection on personal adversity and its role in shaping her journey. She shared a poignant story of her experience with her child being diagnosed with autism, which brought forth deep-seated insecurities and fears related to success and validation. Through this adversity, she confronted her own need for validation through her children and faced the choice to embrace acceptance and love over shame and fear. ### The Complexity of Overcoming Sexual Challenges As a sex therapist, Dr. Finlayson Fife shed light on the obstacles that can inhibit sexual relationships and functioning in marriages. She addressed the role of sexual shame, the importance of self-revelation in intimacy, and the courage required to navigate challenges together as a couple. Her insights highlighted the need for honesty, humility, and a willingness to confront discomfort in order to foster healthy sexual relationships. ### Strengthening Relationships Through Adversity While adversity can present significant challenges, Dr. Finlayson Fife emphasized that it can also pave the way for greater strength and resilience in relationships. By facing adversity head-on, couples have the opportunity to rebuild and grow together, creating a more intimate and vibrant partnership. She stressed the importance of handling adversity with grace, honesty, and a willingness to learn and evolve. ### Embracing Growth and Authenticity In closing, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife shared a powerful mantra that encapsulates the essence of her work and philosophy: "What you most need is hiding in places you least want to look." This profound statement serves as a reminder of the transformative power of facing adversity, embracing vulnerability, and seeking growth even in the most challenging circumstances. In conclusion, my conversation with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife was a profound exploration of the intersections between identity, intimacy, and adversity. Her insights and reflections offer valuable lessons on navigating challenges, fostering deep connections, and embracing growth in relationships. To learn more about Dr. Fife's work and courses, visit her website at finlaysonfife.com and explore the transformative power of intimacy and self-discovery.

In this brief bonus episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife answers a listener question: What should I do if I need to take an SSRI for my anxiety, but it is dramatically decreasing my libido? Listen in for Dr. Jennifer's answer! Announcement: To hear Dr. Jennifer's first episode on 3 in 30, sign up for our relationships playlist! It's an archive of every relationships-focused episode we've ever had on 3 in 30, delivered to you via an easy private podcast feed. Go to 3and30podcasts.com/playlist to sign up.  Get in touch with our Guest!  Instagram: @finlaysonfife Website: www.finlayson-fife.com  Courses: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/courses *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wished for some concrete things you could do to improve your marriage? I know I have. Well, in today's episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife gives us three actionable things that we can do to become better partners and improve our marriages. I know you'll love this amazing episode.  For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/343-become-a-better-partner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're sharing with you an episode from a brand new podcast that Faith Matters is co-sponsoring in collaboration with Mormon Women for Ethical Government, called Proclaim Peace. This podcast is hosted by Jennifer Thomas, Co-Executive Director of MWEG, and Patrick Mason, Leonard Arrington Chair of Mormon History and Culture at Utah State University, and longtime friend and advisor of Faith Matters. In this first season, these two will be exploring with guests a “peaceful reading of the Book of Mormon.” In the episode we're sharing, they have a fascinating conversation with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on some of the tension-filled early chapters of The Book of Mormon. They dive deep on the conflicts that Lehi's family couldn't seem to escape—what was done well and what might have been different—and how the unhealed rifts in this family eventually had existential societal consequences. We're proud to be a part of this effort that we see as a hopeful and faith-filled response to President Nelson's prophetic call to “follow the Prince of Peace, [and]... become His peacemakers.”You can subscribe now by searching “Proclaim Peace” on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or anywhere else you listen to podcasts.

In this episode, Jen and Patrick are joined by Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. They share their experiences reading the Book of Mormon and how they approach it with a new lens of being peacemakers. They highlight the conflicts portrayed in the book and the different relationships that are affected, such as spouses, parents and children, and siblings. The hosts also explore the consequences of family conflict and its relevance in today's world. Tune in to gain a fresh perspective on the Book of Mormon and its teachings on peace.[00:02:14] Family conflict in the Book of Mormon.[00:04:19] Conflict resolution in relationships.[00:08:19] Visionaries and relationship dynamics.[00:12:41] Working through conflicts in life.[00:17:24] The importance of delivery.[00:20:20] Questions asked in First Nephi.[00:27:15] Family dynamics in therapy.[00:29:37] Marriage dynamics and gender roles.[00:33:05-00:33:15] Peacemaking and understanding others.[00:37:05] Understanding and loving others.[00:41:39] Parenting and love's limits.[00:45:57] Retaining relationships with children.[00:50:02] Tribalism and Division.[00:53:29] Beauty and doing good.For transcripts and more show notes, visit https://mormonwomenforethicalgovernment.org

Love isn't just a sporadic burst of emotions; it's an art, a skill demanding dedication and finesse. In the heartwarming embrace of February, we explore the multiple layers that make up the true essence of love, particularly within the sanctity of marriage and family. I share tales close to my heart, revealing moments where respect, kindness, and honor outshone the fleeting nature of passion, gracefully guiding us toward a deeper understanding of affection. Relationship expert Jennifer Finlayson-Fife lends her profound insights, highlighting the transformative power of honesty and the courage it takes to look inward, rather than casting blame. Embrace the journey of enhancing your relationships by nurturing love as a potent skill that can be thoughtfully developed over time.Gratitude overflows as I reach out to you, my cherished listeners, who have walked with me through the intricate dance of life post-adversity. Your unwavering support has been the bedrock of our growing community, one that thrives on the shared pursuit of joy and personal growth. As we meander through the myriad experiences of living fully, your engagement breathes life into our collective narrative. I extend a heartfelt invitation for you to join the conversation, whether through social media, by subscribing to our email list, or by sharing your reflections in reviews and ratings. Together, let's celebrate the uncharted day ahead, filled with promise and the warm glow of connection.Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 30 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: hello@lifecoachjen.com for any comments or questions. Thanks for listening, please like and review as well as share with your family and friends. My website is www.lifecoachjen.com

Get ready for an exciting episode as we welcome the amazing Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to the podcast! She's not just a Ph.D. in counseling psychology; she's a relationship and sexuality coach, too. We're going deep into the realms of self-acceptance, self-love, and self-respect—beyond the surface stuff. Dr. Jennifer drops gems on self-honesty, tackling tough questions, and owning your choices. The endgame? Achieving that sweet spot of self-authorship, where you call the shots, make choices, and own your presence in the world. This episode is a goldmine for personal growth and maturation. Buckle up for some serious takeaways! Let's dive in!Find show notes at bicepsafterbabies.com/305Follow me on Instagram and Tiktok!Links:Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Instagrambicepsafterbabies.com/insiderDr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples achieve greater satisfaction and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships.In addition to her private practice, Dr. Finlayson-Fife has created five empowering and highly-reviewed online courses. Each course was designed to give LDS individuals and couples the tools requisite to creating healthier lives and stronger intimate relationships. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also offers many workshops and retreats where she teaches these life-changing principles in person.Dr. Finlayson-Fife is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, mental health, and faith. She is also the creator and host of Room for Two, a popular sex and intimacy coaching podcast.Learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife and her work by clicking HERE.

Learning to step into our God-given sexuality is a necessary step to coming into a sense of self.  And having a strong sense of self is vital in being able to create the life we are capable of and develop the equal marriage relationships we desire.  In this episode, Jennifer Finlayson-Fife discusses how sexuality often manifests itself in middle-age and how we can learn to create a healthier sexual relationship in our relationship.

Our favorite sex therapist is back and this time we are challenging the assumption that sexual desire dies with long term relationships. Felica interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife and they dive into the challenges we face to "keep the fire alive".Esther Perel said " Eroticism is the antithesis to everything a healthy family life needs, ritual, routine and knowing. Safety and security. Eroticism is adventure" , in this episode we tease out the nuance in this and discover what eroticism TRULY means. Hint ** it isn't all about sex/ desire.We also touch on the fact that families are more child centered than ever with higher expectations for couples. All responsibility often falls on parents, not community, institutions or society. We set up play dates and take pictures of and talk about and invest in our kids yet our personal and couple relationships are left to shrivel up. How can we do better?We tackle all this and more! Don't miss this chance to bring more erotic energy into your life.  Links We Mentioned  https://www.goodinside.com/podcast/4759/sex-after-kids-tell-me-more-esther-perel/ Related Episodes How to Own Your Own Desires with Dr.Finlayson Fife  Discovering Self within Our Sexuality & Overcoming Betrayal  Thank you for the kind reviews! We appreciate them so much! Each week we choose a winner to receive a FREE JOURNAL for leaving a review! Here is how to leave a review for us on iTunes: Open Find the Magic in the podcast app   Scroll to the bottom of the page Click on write a review Tap the stars to rate us and then write us some feedback:) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/findthemagic/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/findthemagic/support

Everyone gets both versions again ... Today we revisit a conversation from the archives. I'm joined by colleague Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and we talk about the marriages where everything seems to be great – except in one area. What's happening here? Plus, how do you address resentment in marriage and life? Learn more about Dr Jennifer here – https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... HoneyLove: Get 20% OFF @honeylove + Free Shipping at https://honeylove.com/passion #honeylovepod Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with the conversation and content. https://smr.fm/academy The post Resentment Revisited #646 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Everyone gets both versions again ... Today we revisit a conversation from the archives. I'm joined by colleague Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and we talk about the marriages where everything seems to be great – except in one area. What's happening here? Plus, how do you address resentment in marriage and life? Learn more about Dr Jennifer here – https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... HoneyLove: Get 20% OFF @honeylove + Free Shipping at https://honeylove.com/passion #honeylovepod Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with the conversation and content. https://passionatelymarried.net/academy The post Resentment Revisited #646 first appeared on Passionately Married.

Before we get started, we just wanted to give you a quick note that this episode does contain frank discussion about sexuality, so you can determine if it's appropriate for anyone listening in.For this conversation, we were really happy to bring on our good friend and one of our favorite people, Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, and we know many of you are fans of her of her work, too.For a long time, we've wanted to have a discussion with Jennifer about the concept of modesty—something that anyone who's grown up in our tradition is intimately familiar with, and which has certainly driven lots of opinions over many years. And we were really glad to be able to talk through several aspects of this topic with her, including the different experiences for men and women, how our cultural definition for modesty can often be too small, and the principles behind the practices.But once the conversation got going, as it always does with Jennifer, it led back to something bigger — about how all of this, including our sexuality, points toward the ability to have deeper embodied joy, and how there is a real wholeness waiting behind a developmental process that each of us need to go through, including with our own sexuality.Jennifer is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor with a Ph.D in Counseling Psychology from Boston College, where she wrote her dissertation on LDS women and sexuality. She leads both in-person and online courses, workshops, and retreats helping people increase their capacity for deeper emotional and sexual intimacy. You can find her podcast “Conversations with Dr. Jennifer,” on major podcast platforms, and find out more about her work at finlayson-fife.com.We should also mention that Jennifer will be presenting at this year's Restore gathering in October.We're super grateful to Jennifer for coming on, and really think you're going to enjoy this episode. 

A regular guest joins me again today, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, and we dive into the relational dynamic of attraction and desire. They happen to us, and we choose them. They naturally ebb and flow. And how do we get them back if they are lost? Learn more about Jennifer here - https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Academy: Join the Academy on any monthly level and get your first month free! Use the code summer23 at https://smr.fm/academy The post Attraction and Desire | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #632 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A regular guest joins me again today, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, and we dive into the relational dynamic of attraction and desire. They happen to us, and we choose them. They naturally ebb and flow. And how do we get them back if they are lost? Learn more about Jennifer here - https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Academy: Join the Academy on any monthly level and get your first month free! Use the code summer23 at https://passionatelymarried.net/academy