Podcasts about true intimacy

There are moments in life that break us and moments that remake us. Mo Isom Aiken's story is one of both. From an Elite Division 1, All-American athlete to a woman haunted by trauma, addiction, and suicidal despair, Mo's life took a dramatic turn when a near-fatal car crash became the very altar where heaven met earth. What followed was a supernatural encounter with the Holy Spirit that not only saved her life, but ignited a transformation so complete it would ripple through her marriage, her motherhood, and her mission around the world. This isn't just a story of redemption. It's a call to awaken to the invisible spiritual warfare waging over every soul—and to the freedom that comes with surrendering everything.In this episode of the Revelations Podcast, host Reagan Kramer sits down with Mo Isom Aiken for an unfiltered, deeply moving conversation that spans trauma, healing, and the raw power of a life fully yielded to Jesus. Mo opens up about growing up in the Bible Belt, navigating father wounds and performance-based identity, and the spiritual warfare that nearly claimed her life. Together, they explore Mo's radical encounter with God in the wreckage of her Jeep, the prophetic call that led her family from a fifth-wheel RV across 48 states to the mission fields of Nigeria, and the power of intercession that reshaped her view of prayer entirely.This episode is for the believer who feels stuck in cycles of shame or silence, the seeker longing to hear God's voice again, or the weary warrior who needs to remember what it means to defect from the kingdom of darkness and live fully alive in Christ.Here are three reasons why you should listen to this episode:Gain deeper understanding of how a supernatural encounter with God can occur amidst unimaginable personal tragedy.Learn how radical obedience—like selling everything and living in an RV—can unlock divine provision and spiritual growth.Reflect on the importance of prayer, spiritual warfare, and intimacy with the Holy Spirit in a chaotic world.Become Part of Our Mission! Support The Revelations Podcast:Your support fuels our mission to share transformative messages of hope and faith. Click here to learn how you can contribute and be part of this growing community!ResourcesMore from the Revelations Podcast hosted by Reagan Kramer: Website | Instagram | Apple Podcast | YoutubeConnect with Mo Isom Aiken: Website | Instagram | Facebook | XCheck out the online course “Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot” by Mo Isom Aiken Read “Wreck My Life: Journeying from Broken to Bold” by Mo Isom Aiken “Fully Known: An Invitation to True Intimacy with God” by Mo Isom Aiken | Buy Here Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA): WebsiteBible VersesJohn 10:10John 14:6Ephesians 6:12Mark 12:30 Luke 10:27John 5:6–92 Corinthians 12:91 Thessalonians 5This Episode is brought to you by Advanced Medicine AlternativesGet back to the active life you love through natural & regenerative musculoskeletal healing: https://www.georgekramermd.com/Episode Highlights[00:31] The Battle Between KingdomsThere's a real war for our souls, one that doesn't start with politics or behavior but with allegiance to light or darkness.Just as no man can serve two masters, we cannot live in both worlds. That lie keeps us stuck, powerless, and numb to God's call.Cultural Christianity is an illusion; we should consider what full surrender actually looks like.Mo Isom Aiken, a former All-American athlete turned revivalist and prophetic voice shares her story of defection from darkness—and the fire of obedience that followed.[02:56] Mo Isom Aiken: Childhood and Early LifeMo discovered her identity through competitive sports.Despite being raised in a Christian household, her faith was cultural and lacked deep personal roots.She describes the impact of early exposure to pornography and the pressure of performance-based love from her father.Her struggle with an eating disorder and need for control remained hidden behind a mask of success.[12:22] Transition to College and Personal StrugglesAt LSU, Mo excels as an All-American goalkeeper but continues battling inward brokenness.[13:02] Mo: “How much of my true self and my true life can people handle? Because they have this picture of me, and yet I am destroyed inside.”Her father committed suicide, devastating Mo both emotionally and spiritually.She turns to sexual sin, secrecy, and self-harm, wrestling with suicidal thoughts and tormenting spiritual voices.Though publicly praised, she describes living with private torment and deep spiritual oppression.[20:54] Spiritual Awakening and HealingMo survives a violent car crash and has a supernatural encounter with the Holy Spirit while trapped in the wreckage.She describes the weight and wonder of God's presence as overwhelming yet freeing.[22:58] Mo: “The kingdom of darkness was literally mad because things had been set up in my life that my gifts, my talents, my destiny, my anointing, my very God, given fingerprint of God, purpose was going to be leveraged for evil was going to advance the kingdom of darkness, if not for the mercy of Jesus”In that moment, she chooses full surrender to Jesus and receives a baptism of fire.Her salvation marks a clear defection from darkness into God's Kingdom—spiritually, emotionally, and physically.[28:20] Recognizing God in the Midst of DarknessMo reflects on how God pursued her even during seasons of rebellion and bondage.She shares a deliverance session where a spirit confessed she had “defected” from its kingdom.The conversation highlights how spiritual warfare is strategic and real—but God's grace is more powerful.Mo encourages listeners to stop excusing bondage and fully embrace the invitation to be made whole.[33:22] Impact of Faith on Personal RelationshipsReturning to campus, Mo feels conviction and begins separating from old friends and sinful patterns.She committed herself to purity and obedience, even when it meant facing rejection and isolation.[39:07] Mo: “But if you won't separate yourselves from the ones who are holding you back from your destiny — then you've tightly gripped something God's asking you to open your hands about right? When you open your hands, when you let go of things, He will then, in time, refill what is His good portion.”Through FCA, she found a godly community, received a baptism at LSU, and experienced revival.A two-year intimacy fast sets the stage for meeting her husband, Jeremiah, and building a Christ-centered family.[46:45] Fifth Wheel Missions and Family LifeMo recalls receiving a prophetic word in college about living in a fifth-wheel RV and going on mission.A decade later, she and Jeremiah sell everything and travel the U.S. with their four kids, sharing the gospel.She shares how moments of humor and hardship—like a sewage overflow—shaped their faith and resilience.The RV season prepared them for deeper obedience and future international missions.[56:44] Mission to Nigeria and Angelic VisitMo recounts a dream where an angel tells her she'll go to Nigeria to forge a deeper connection to the divine.Initially resistant due to fear for her children, she surrenders and receives confirmation from her mentors.The family spent eight months in Lagos serving under Nigerian spiritual leaders.Their time becomes a season of discipleship, humility, and spiritual equipping for future ministry.[1:14:19] The Power of Prayer: Greatest Takeaway from NigeriaMo describes prayer as the single greatest lesson from their mission season.In Nigeria, daily prayer was non-negotiable—fostering spiritual strength, wisdom, and breakthrough.She challenges Western believers to move prayer from a fallback to a foundation.Prayer, she emphasizes, is the gateway to discernment, power, and intimacy with God.[1:21:24] Teaching the Next Generation to Prioritize PrayerMo and Reagan discuss the difficulty of maintaining a prayerful life amid Western busyness and distractions.Mo explains how she and Jeremiah are raising their children to see prayer as essential, not optional.They commit to resisting hustle culture and modeling devotion in everyday life.Mo calls for prayer warriors to arise—those who walk in reverence, not performance. [1:32:39] Spiritual Warfare and the Call to Live Fully SurrenderedMo prays a powerful blessing over listeners for renewal, healing, and sanctification.Revival begins in surrendered hearts, not just pulpits; it is in living God's Word to be kind and loving to all those around you.It is our time to live fully awake, defecting from darkness and advancing God's Kingdom with boldness. About Mo Isom AikenMo Isom Aiken is a prophetic voice, revivalist, and bestselling author whose life and ministry are marked by radical obedience, spiritual boldness, and supernatural transformation. A former all-American goalkeeper at LSU, Mo encountered the living God in a near-fatal car accident that became a divine turning point. From the ashes of trauma, addiction, and loss—including her father's suicide—Mo rose into deep intimacy with Jesus and a calling to call others out of darkness and into the light. With more than 14 years of experience speaking, teaching, and discipling, Mo now carries a powerful anointing for deliverance, prayer, and spiritual awakening.Alongside her husband Jeremiah and their four children, Mo lives as part of a family on mission—mobilizing across America in a fifth-wheel RV before being prophetically sent to Nigeria through an angelic encounter. Their journey is a living testimony of surrendered faith, courageous intercession, and generational restoration. Whether preaching in churches, serving the overlooked, or training others in spiritual warfare, Mo is driven by one purpose: to see Jesus made known, captives set free, and the Kingdom of God established on earth as it is in heaven.Connect with Mo on her website or socials: Instagram, Facebook, or X.Enjoyed this Episode?If you did, subscribe and share it with your friends!Post a review and share it! If you enjoyed tuning in about generational curses and how to break them, leave us a review. You can also share this with your friends and family. Revival starts in the heart willing to defect from darkness and say yes to God. It rarely feels convenient, but in surrender, healing flows to your life and everyone around you.Have any questions? You can connect with me on Instagram.Thank you for tuning in! For more updates, tune in on Apple Podcasts.    

In this episode, we sit down with Troy, a relationship and life coach, to explore the depths of human connection, intimacy, and the essential journey of self-awareness. Together, we uncover the hidden barriers that keep us from experiencing deep, authentic intimacy and the profound fulfilment that a relationship can bring.We explore the different levels of intimacy and why self-discovery, self-awareness, sensitivity, and embodiment are the keys to meaningful connection. Troy shares powerful insights into one of the biggest fears men face — the fear of meeting and feeling their emotions — and how avoiding this vulnerability is the greatest obstacle to deep intimacy.This episode is a must-listen if you've ever felt disconnected or struggled to open your heart fully. Tune in to discover how embracing your emotions can unlock a richer, more intimate life experience.To connect with Troy DaRonco:https://www.troydaronco.com/https://groupsformen.com/

April 2, 2025

What are the building blocks of a healthy relationship? In this episode, Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith reveal the "Intimacy Pyramid" of what is required for trust and intimacy—especially for couples healing from sexual betrayal. Get wisdom from two people who rebuilt their marriage after porn almost destroyed it.Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith are clinicians, speakers, and authors of the book Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time (paid link). They have over 20 years of combined experience in counseling, coaching, and guiding couples toward healing and transformation. Their mission is to help couples navigate the complexities of relational challenges, particularly in the aftermath of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, fostering deep restoration and growth.Matthew is a Professional Certified Coach (ICF) with a background in pastoral leadership, while Joanna is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, EMDR practitioner, and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist through APSATS. Both hold Master of Divinity degrees and have served together on multiple church leadership teams. Currently, they co-lead their private practice, The Raabsmith Team, where they specialize in helping couples rebuild connection, trust, and intimacy.Download the Raabsmiths' free check-in: The Honest Connection.Get a copy of Building True Intimacy to dive into the Intimacy Pyramid.Learn more and connect with Matthew and Joanna at raabsmithteam.com.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Send me a text!Copyright © 2024 by Valencia BakerAll rights reserved.No portion of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical-including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system —without written permission from the publisher or author, except as permitted by U.S. copyright law. Please direct your inquiries to tamar@tamarstestimony.com.Please enjoy this FREE Audio version of “Refurbished” Chapter 2: True IntimacyIf interested, purchase the book on www.tamarstestimony.com.(Check out “Refurbished” page on the site too!)ALL glory, honor, and power belongs to Jesus Christ—The I AM THAT I AM, not Tamar!Any questions, comments, or concerns? Email me at tamar@tamarstestimony.comRefurbishedChapter 1 Know The WordChapter 2 True IntimacyChapter 3 The Fundamentals of SinChapter 4 What Does Sin Do?Chapter 5 The Heart of ManChapter 6 The Exigency of PurivcationChapter 7 The Salvation of The MindChapter 8 The Importance of RepentanceChapter 9 My Devled HeartChapter 10 “Why A Would Loving God—?!”Chapter 11 HealingChapter 12 False Healing Meets False RealityChapter 13 The Choice Is YoursChapter 14 Sin Is The Gateway for Evil SpiritsChapter 15 The Whole Armor of GodChapter 16 Understanding Your EnemiesChapter 17  Prayer: Connect with HimChapter 18 The Fear of The I AMChapter 19 How to Truly Receive His ForgivenessChapter 20 Salvation PrayerChapter 21 “What's Next ?!”Chapter 22 True WorshipChapter 23 You Had to Go Through ItChapter 24 Partake In My SufferingsChapter 25 Perseverance Chapter 26 The Necessity of ChristApple, Spotify, & BuzzSprout Podcast @TamarTalks Socials Ministry www.tamarstestimony.com Instagram @tamarstestimony TikTok @tamarstestimony_YouTube @tamarstestimony

Today I am talking to the fabulous Heidi Trudinger about midlife relationships. Our bodies go through huge changes at midlife and women in particular feel the change more acutely due to the hormonal dropoff of perimenopause. Men go through their own hormonal change with Andropause however the hormonal shifts are small each year and the decline is steadier.All of this impacts how we feel about our bodies and our imprint on ageing that we learned through both our family system and culturally, has a huge impact on our ability to embrace our changing bodies at midlife. Most of the fear that we experience around ageing is not about getting old it is actually about dying and Heidi and talked quite a bit about this.How do we sustain sexual intimacy at midlife with all these changes? Well it is not too hard but for most of us it is about learning about what sex actually is; something few of us learned when we were younger. It is about learning what true intimacy is and how to hold space for that with each other.We also discussed:- Self love as an antidote to ageing and how to find that,- Embracing the Maga (archetype) at midlife really understanding what our individual expression of that that is and how it is different to the Crone,- How we can reconnect with the playful parts of ourselves, parts we have often buried deep in our unconscious, to reinvigorate our relationship,- How our body brings up old trauma for resolution at this transition and what a gift that can be,- How deep rest is incredibly sustaining for our bodies and is part of our erotic practice,- How our midlife transition is a portal for us to claim our authentic sexual selves and how we might start the path to explore this aspect of our selves.You can find Heidi at heiditrue.com.au. She is also on instagram @true.intimacy and Facebook

Genesis 2:21-25 teaches us that we were made to have intimacy with God and each other through transparency.

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Are you constantly leading in your relationship, planning everything, and feeling like your partner isn't stepping up? Do you struggle to soften, receive, and truly feel desired? In this episode, I sit down with Nicola Navon, a specialist in relationships, to discuss the art of feminine leadership, intimacy, and power dynamics in love and business.If you're craving deeper connection and want to feel more in your feminine, this episode is for you.We cover: Why many high-achieving women struggle to receive in relationships How to shift from hyper-independence to inviting masculine leadership The key to setting boundaries and communicating desires effectively How to stop mothering your partner and create true polarity Simple shifts in tone, body language, and words that transform attractionConnect with Nicola:IG @nicolanavonhttps://www.nicolanavon.com/https://www.instagram.com/nicolanavon/

How to have intimacy through passion.Song Of Solomon 6

Service to the Lord brings us closer to Jesus.Ephesians 5:25-28

Reconnect with God with an intimacy through longing for Him and His presence. As the deer pants for the water. Psalm 42

True Intimacy and False Intimacy

Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith talk about their journey as a couple with sex addiction and betrayal trauma in recovery. Together with Dan Drake they have written the Building True Intimacy workbook which gives couples a clear path towards healing.

Are you craving true intimacy? do you have difficulties expressing your needs for intimacy, connection, touch and sex? Then tune into this episode of the love and compassion podcast with Gissele. Today, we talk to Luyba Venable who is a sex coach focusing on the needs of men and women for greater connection, unity, communication, and love.

Are you craving true intimacy? do you have difficulties expressing your needs for intimacy, connection, touch and sex? Then tune into this episode of the love and compassion podcast with Gissele. Today, we talk to Luyba Venable who is a sex coach focusing on the needs of men and women for greater connection, unity, communication, and love.

Welcome to Betrayal Recovery Radio. I'm Dr. Jake Porter, and today, I'm thrilled to be joined by the authors of Building True Intimacy, a powerful book that lays out a roadmap for restoring relationships after betrayal. In this episode, we dive into the journey of moving from devastation to a thriving partnership, and how to develop the "Intimacy Pyramid" as a practical tool for healing. We'll explore the essential role of honesty, vulnerability, and intentional connection in rebuilding trust and creating emotional safety. Whether you're navigating betrayal yourself or simply looking for tools to deepen intimacy in your relationship, this conversation is full of hope, encouragement, and actionable insights you won't want to miss. Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith are clinicians, speakers, and authors of the book Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time. They have over 20 years of combined experience in counseling, coaching, and guiding couples toward healing and transformation. Their mission is to help couples navigate the complexities of relational challenges, particularly in the aftermath of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, fostering deep restoration and growth. Matthew is a Professional Certified Coach (ICF) with a background in pastoral leadership, while Joanna is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, EMDR practitioner, and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist through APSATS. Both hold Master of Divinity degrees and have served together on multiple church leadership teams. Currently, they co-lead their private practice, The Raabsmith Team, where they specialize in helping couples rebuild connection, trust, and intimacy. Dan Drake is a licensed clinician, and he is the Founder and Clinical Director of Banyan Therapy Group in Los Angeles, California. He is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor, a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Supervisor, and a Certified Clinical Disclosure Guide Mentor. He is co-author of several books, including 5 books in the Full Disclosure Series, Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time, Letters from a Sex Addict: My Life Exposed, Surviving the Holidays, Healthy Boundaries, and Rebuilding Your Foundation. Dan is a husband and a father to two amazing kids and two fur babies. In his passion to help sex addicts, their partners, and families restore relational, mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual wholeness to their lives, Dan strives to provide a safe environment where his clients can grow and heal. Links for Dan, Matthew and Joanna: www.banyantherapy.com www.raabsmithteam.com/free Get their book! Other Links: http://apsats.org http://apsats.org/podcast https://drjakeporter.com http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers Before you watch this episode, make sure to watch part 1 if you haven't already! This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

Welcome to Betrayal Recovery Radio. I'm Dr. Jake Porter, and today, I'm thrilled to be joined by the authors of Building True Intimacy, a powerful book that lays out a roadmap for restoring relationships after betrayal. In this episode, we dive into the journey of moving from devastation to a thriving partnership, and how to develop the "Intimacy Pyramid" as a practical tool for healing. We'll explore the essential role of honesty, vulnerability, and intentional connection in rebuilding trust and creating emotional safety. Whether you're navigating betrayal yourself or simply looking for tools to deepen intimacy in your relationship, this conversation is full of hope, encouragement, and actionable insights you won't want to miss. Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith are clinicians, speakers, and authors of the book Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time. They have over 20 years of combined experience in counseling, coaching, and guiding couples toward healing and transformation. Their mission is to help couples navigate the complexities of relational challenges, particularly in the aftermath of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, fostering deep restoration and growth. Matthew is a Professional Certified Coach (ICF) with a background in pastoral leadership, while Joanna is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, EMDR practitioner, and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist through APSATS. Both hold Master of Divinity degrees and have served together on multiple church leadership teams. Currently, they co-lead their private practice, The Raabsmith Team, where they specialize in helping couples rebuild connection, trust, and intimacy. Dan Drake is a licensed clinician, and he is the Founder and Clinical Director of Banyan Therapy Group in Los Angeles, California. He is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor, a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Supervisor, and a Certified Clinical Disclosure Guide Mentor. He is co-author of several books, including 5 books in the Full Disclosure Series, Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time, Letters from a Sex Addict: My Life Exposed, Surviving the Holidays, Healthy Boundaries, and Rebuilding Your Foundation. Dan is a husband and a father to two amazing kids and two fur babies. In his passion to help sex addicts, their partners, and families restore relational, mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual wholeness to their lives, Dan strives to provide a safe environment where his clients can grow and heal. Links for Dan, Matthew and Joanna: www.banyantherapy.com www.raabsmithteam.com/free Get their book! Other Links: http://apsats.org http://apsats.org/podcast https://drjakeporter.com http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers Before you watch this episode, make sure to watch part 1 if you haven't already! This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

Welcome to Betrayal Recovery Radio. I'm Dr. Jake Porter, and today, I'm thrilled to be joined by the authors of Building True Intimacy, a powerful book that lays out a roadmap for restoring relationships after betrayal. In this episode, we dive into the journey of moving from devastation to a thriving partnership, and how to develop the "Intimacy Pyramid" as a practical tool for healing. We'll explore the essential role of honesty, vulnerability, and intentional connection in rebuilding trust and creating emotional safety. Whether you're navigating betrayal yourself or simply looking for tools to deepen intimacy in your relationship, this conversation is full of hope, encouragement, and actionable insights you won't want to miss. Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith are clinicians, speakers, and authors of the book Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time. They have over 20 years of combined experience in counseling, coaching, and guiding couples toward healing and transformation. Their mission is to help couples navigate the complexities of relational challenges, particularly in the aftermath of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, fostering deep restoration and growth. Matthew is a Professional Certified Coach (ICF) with a background in pastoral leadership, while Joanna is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, EMDR practitioner, and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist through APSATS. Both hold Master of Divinity degrees and have served together on multiple church leadership teams. Currently, they co-lead their private practice, The Raabsmith Team, where they specialize in helping couples rebuild connection, trust, and intimacy. Dan Drake is a licensed clinician, and he is the Founder and Clinical Director of Banyan Therapy Group in Los Angeles, California. He is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor, a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Supervisor, and a Certified Clinical Disclosure Guide Mentor. He is co-author of several books, including 5 books in the Full Disclosure Series, Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time, Letters from a Sex Addict: My Life Exposed, Surviving the Holidays, Healthy Boundaries, and Rebuilding Your Foundation.  Dan is a husband and a father to two amazing kids and two fur babies. In his passion to help sex addicts, their partners, and families restore relational, mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual wholeness to their lives, Dan strives to provide a safe environment where his clients can grow and heal.   Links for Dan, Matthew and Joanna: www.banyantherapy.com www.raabsmithteam.com/free Get their book! Other Links: http://apsats.org http://apsats.org/podcast https://drjakeporter.com http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

Welcome to Betrayal Recovery Radio. I'm Dr. Jake Porter, and today, I'm thrilled to be joined by the authors of Building True Intimacy, a powerful book that lays out a roadmap for restoring relationships after betrayal. In this episode, we dive into the journey of moving from devastation to a thriving partnership, and how to develop the "Intimacy Pyramid" as a practical tool for healing. We'll explore the essential role of honesty, vulnerability, and intentional connection in rebuilding trust and creating emotional safety. Whether you're navigating betrayal yourself or simply looking for tools to deepen intimacy in your relationship, this conversation is full of hope, encouragement, and actionable insights you won't want to miss. Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith are clinicians, speakers, and authors of the book Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time. They have over 20 years of combined experience in counseling, coaching, and guiding couples toward healing and transformation. Their mission is to help couples navigate the complexities of relational challenges, particularly in the aftermath of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, fostering deep restoration and growth. Matthew is a Professional Certified Coach (ICF) with a background in pastoral leadership, while Joanna is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, EMDR practitioner, and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist through APSATS. Both hold Master of Divinity degrees and have served together on multiple church leadership teams. Currently, they co-lead their private practice, The Raabsmith Team, where they specialize in helping couples rebuild connection, trust, and intimacy. Dan Drake is a licensed clinician, and he is the Founder and Clinical Director of Banyan Therapy Group in Los Angeles, California. He is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor, a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Supervisor, and a Certified Clinical Disclosure Guide Mentor. He is co-author of several books, including 5 books in the Full Disclosure Series, Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time, Letters from a Sex Addict: My Life Exposed, Surviving the Holidays, Healthy Boundaries, and Rebuilding Your Foundation.  Dan is a husband and a father to two amazing kids and two fur babies. In his passion to help sex addicts, their partners, and families restore relational, mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual wholeness to their lives, Dan strives to provide a safe environment where his clients can grow and heal.   Links for Dan, Matthew and Joanna: www.banyantherapy.com www.raabsmithteam.com/free Get their book! Other Links: http://apsats.org http://apsats.org/podcast https://drjakeporter.com http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

Episode #928 Have you ever wondered why the spark in your marriage seems to fade over time? It's not just about physical intimacy. For most women, intimacy begins with trust and emotional safety. Without it, she won't feel fully connected—and that lack of connection shows up in the bedroom. In this revisit, we dive into the core issue that many men overlook. Emotional safety isn't about physical protection; it's about showing up consistently as a grounded, stable presence. It's about your wife knowing she can trust you—not just with her physical safety but with her emotions and her heart. We'll talk about how erratic behavior, even unintentionally, can erode trust and push her away. I'll break down how to avoid falling into reactive patterns and what it means to shift from DEER Mode (defend, excuse, explain, react) to WOLF Mode (wise, open, loving, fierce). This episode also covers three steps you can take right now to rebuild trust and emotional safety in your marriage. And yes, these steps can lead to deeper connection—and the passionate intimacy you've been craving. This conversation is just as important today as it was when we first aired it. If your marriage feels stuck, this episode is your chance to make real change. And remember: In the moment of insight, take massive action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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In today's episode of Roadmap to Secure Love, we dive deep into the power and challenges of vulnerability in relationships. For many, opening up emotionally can feel risky, especially with cultural messages suggesting that vulnerability, particularly for men, may weaken respect and attraction. But what if the opposite is true? Kim and Kyle explore how vulnerability fosters emotional safety, builds trust, and enhances intimacy in committed partnerships.Through an attachment lens, we discuss:The role of emotional safety in deepening connectionHow vulnerability strengthens respect and trustBalancing emotional support to avoid the parent-child dynamicWhy avoiding emotions can create distance in relationshipsHow open communication builds security and true intimacyWhether you're working to deepen your current relationship or seeking insight into healthier connections, this episode provides actionable guidance to navigate the often complex terrain of vulnerability in relationships.Follow The Roadmap to Secure Love on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube.Sign up for The Secure Attachment Path course to learn practical tools for building secure connections. (Link in the show notes).Until next time, stay connected and keep listening with love.Take the free Attachment Style Quiz to discover your attachment style today!Enroll in the Secure Attachment Path to foster deep, secure connections within your relationships. Website Resources: Relationship Therapy Sex Therapy Relationship Articles Secure Sex Articles

In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, I chat with the incredibly insightful Erica Wright, a codependency counselor who spends an hour with me breaking down complex relationship dynamics and sharing wisdom on healing and self-love.  Erica delves into her journey, discussing the roots of codependency within societal frameworks and the transformative role of spirituality and sobriety. From understanding the true meaning of intimacy and interdependency in relationships to practical exercises for grounding yourself, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways.  Ready to reclaim your energy, set boundaries, and foster unconditional love in your relationships? Tune in as we decode codependency and discover the path to genuine connection and self-empowerment. 00:00 Introduction to Today's Guest: Erica Wright 02:07 Defining Codependency 03:53 Historical Context and Personal Journey 13:00 The Practice of Interdependency 17:58 The Radical Act of Self-Love 21:59 Sober Reflections and Reality Checks 26:20 The Power of Friendships 27:59 First Partnership Experience 28:43 Non-Codependency Moments 29:53 Healing Through Intimacy 30:29 Unspoken Understanding 31:31 The Power of Presence 34:26 True Intimacy and Vulnerability 35:52 Sex and Somatic Healing 39:49 Spiritual Practice and Healing 46:29 Grounding and Centering Practice 50:47 Offerings and Final Thoughts  

Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org   Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

In this lighthearted workshop, Gary and Barb Rosberg explain how couples can enjoy more sexual intimacy by tuning in to each other's needs, like affirmation for women and responsiveness for men. In the second half of the message, the Rosbergs discuss the importance of spiritual intimacy for couples, and demonstrate ‘conversational prayer' on stage.   Receive the book The 5 Sex Needs of Men and Women for a pledge or donation of any amount plus a free audio download of “Experiencing True Intimacy with Your Spouse I-II.” Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.    Get More Episode Resources    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. 

In this lighthearted workshop, Gary and Barb Rosberg explain how couples can enjoy more sexual intimacy by tuning in to each other's needs, like affirmation for women and responsiveness for men. In the second half of the message, the Rosbergs discuss the importance of spiritual intimacy for couples, and demonstrate ‘conversational prayer' on stage.   Receive the book The 5 Sex Needs of Men and Women for a pledge or donation of any amount plus a free audio download of “Experiencing True Intimacy with Your Spouse I-II.” Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.    Get More Episode Resources    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. 

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This week, we welcome back Dr. Carol Tanksley, author of "Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships." Dr. Tanksley brings a unique perspective shaped by her extensive background as a former OBGYN and reproductive endocrinologist, offering a compassionate exploration of human sexuality, intimacy and relationships. Dr. Tanksley sheds light on several misconceptions surrounding sex, aiming to challenge and reshape our perspectives. Drawing from her clinical experience, she provides valuable insights on how we all can begin to heal from societal and personal misconceptions about sexuality. Moreover, we delve into the profound significance of true intimacy in fostering strong and healthy relationships. Dr. Tanksley emphasizes the importance of understanding and nurturing intimacy beyond mere physicality, advocating for a deeper emotional and spiritual connection between partners. This episode of promises valuable reflections and practical advice from Dr. Carol Tanksley. Join us as we explore the complexities of human sexuality with empathy and wisdom.  

In this episode, Dot and Cara explore Hebrews 12:1-2, discussing how the Enemy aims to distract us from keeping our eyes on Jesus. They share how even good things can be distractions and how the pursuit of knowledge can hinder our ability to rest in the Lord. They also address the difficulty of saying ‘no' and how every ‘yes' means a ‘no' to something else. Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us as we pursue intimacy with God in today's discussion! Got a question about today's episode or something else you'd like to hear us talk about on the show? Let us know! Episode recap:Start by writing down Hebrews 12:1-2 (0:15)The enemy wants to keep our eyes focused on anything other than Jesus and His will for my life (3:33)Satan even tempts us with good things (5:04)The pursuit of knowledge is a distraction to resting in the Lord (9:20)We don't always need to know ‘why,' instead, we can ask God, ‘what now?' (11:34)Not being able to say ‘no' to things is another common distraction (13:02)God has called each of us for a purpose  (15:33)Every time you say ‘yes,' you are also saying ‘no' to something else (17:31)Satan desires to keep up from having intimacy with God  (25:54)Are you interested in having Dot come and speak to your community? Email us at hello@dotbowen.com.Find Dot Bowen on Instagram and Facebook Scripture Verse: Hebrews 12:1-2 (NASB)“Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, ]fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Episode #838 Are you a married businessman feeling like your marriage is on the rocks? Do you feel disconnected from your wife and kids, burdened by stress, and wondering if you can ever rekindle the passion that once existed? You're not alone. In this episode of "Unlocking True Intimacy," we dive deep into the heart of what it means to connect with your partner on a profound level. This conversation explores the barriers that often stand in the way of true intimacy and how to overcome them. Learn how to break free from the cycle of arguments, restore respect and admiration from your partner, and create a more intimate and fulfilling marriage. Whether you're struggling with a lack of passion, dealing with the aftermath of infidelity, or simply want to strengthen your connection with your spouse, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in and discover how you can take the lead in your marriage, transform your relationship, and unlock the true intimacy you've been longing for. Don't miss out on this eye-opening discussion that could change the course of your marriage and your life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Welcome back to the Salty Pastor Podcast, where we delve deep to help your faith flourish. Growth in faith brings clarity to life and dissolves many of life's problems—but it's not a passive journey. Here, we equip you with the tools to think critically and cultivate your spiritual garden.Today, Dr. Doug continues our enlightening series "Exposed: The Illusion of Intimacy," exploring the profound connections between our sexuality and spirituality. This week, we tackle the misinterpretations and modern-day misunderstandings surrounding biblical teachings on human sexuality. How do societal shifts influence our views on what's morally acceptable? And what does the Bible really say about our deepest desires?Dr. Doug explains why understanding our God-given nature is crucial in navigating these turbulent discussions. From the distortion of desires to the pursuit of purity, learn how to align your spiritual compass in a world that often leads us astray.Join us as we dissect the truths and myths of intimacy, identity, and everything in between. Don't forget to visit our new website, like, subscribe, and consider supporting our mission to bring clarity and truth to more listeners like you. Let's dive in!

Join us as we dive deep into the true essence of intimacy, exploring beyond physical connections to uncover the authentic bonds that define genuine relationships.In this episode, we delve into the nuances of maintaining vibrancy and trust in romantic relationships, highlighting the delicate balance necessary to sustain them.We'll share insights on building a supportive 'tribe,' mastering conflict resolution, and emphasizing the crucial role of self-awareness in fostering deep, meaningful connections.===> Join the weekly newsletter and get your free copy of 5 Steps to Becoming a High Value Man

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Nate Larkin was a good intentioned pastor and husband. But his secret sexual addiction was destroying him and his marriage.At first, it was just pornography and masturbation, and Nate tried to justify its innocence, but he realized that just primed him for deeper darker acts of sexual sin.Nate's wife finally caught him and was about to end the marriage. That crisis that exposed Nate was the best thing to happen to him. Nate finally found out where and how to find help in his sexual addiction recovery. Nate learned what true intimacy was and how to live a healthy life.Listen as Nate shares with Brett about his sexually broken journey that led him to a much fuller life of richness and intimacy.I AM SECOND NATE LARKIN▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬IRON DEEP RETREATS 2024SOULMATEMEN'S AWAKENING▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬NEW IRON DEEP BOOK This is a must-read for every highly successful entrepreneur.▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬Subscribe to Our Channel ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬VISIT OUR WEBSITE: https://www.irondeep.com/

In today's episode of Divine Union, Nicola shares her perspective on what true intimacy really means. She speaks to common misconceptions and provides detailed examples of what it looks like to share authentically and vulnerably with another. To allow yourself to truly be seen by another. She shares her best-kept secret of what is required to actually create deep intimacy in relationship, a key ingredient that cannot be overlooked if true intimacy is desired.A heartfelt and inspiring episode, one you won't want to miss. 2:22 What Is Deep Intimacy?5:57 Loving A False Version of You8:56 Fear of Loss Perpetuating Surface Relating 13:52 A Radical Act of Self Love16:05 The Deepest Intimacy You Will Ever Know My Website: nicolanavon.comSubscribe to my NewsletterInstagram: @nicolanavonTo receive a free gift, email a screenshot of your review of Divine Union to info@nicolanavon.com. To submit a question for the podcast, email info@nicolanavon.com and put "Divine Union Question" in the subject line. By accessing this Podcast, I acknowledge that the entire contents are the property of Nicole Navon, or used by Nicole Navon with permission, and are protected under U.S. and international copyright and trademark laws. Except as otherwise provided herein, users of this Podcast may save and use the Podcast only for personal or other non-commercial, educational purposes. No other use of this Podcast may be made, including, without limitation, reproduction, retransmission, or editing.This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

Sadly, many marriages today have at least one spouse who's struggling with pornography. Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn about the great damage porn can do to a marriage. Then, John and Greg discuss some practical steps a person can take towards wholeness if he or she is struggling with pornography.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book the Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime   Responding to Your Husband's Secret: Porn   No Porn Marriage Podcast   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU     For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org     Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune 

In today's episode, "Healing Generational Patterns of Intimacy and Sexual Trauma Holistically," we dive deep into something that often gets tucked under the rug in our lineages.In this episode, we dive deep into the shadows of our lineage to bring light to the often-neglected topic of of intimacy and sexual health challenges rooted in generational trauma. With a blend of spiritual insights and scientific methodologies, join us on the life changing journey towards disrupting the pattern, true intimacy, healing, and empowerment.What You'll Learn:-The Essence of True Intimacy vs. Sexual Health: Understand the difference between sex and intimacy, and how they manifest in our relationships.-Root Causes of Intimacy Struggles: We explore the deep-seated reasons behind the common challenges in relationships, highlighting the significant impact of childhood sexual abuse pattern-Generational Sexual Abuse Patterns-Why sexual abuse patterns are actually one of the most common pattern that is not addressed in our lineages and how they impact our ability to be in intimate with other and our sexual health-The Brain and Sexual trauma- we look at what happens to the brain when someone experiences sexual abuse and how it impacts our intimacy and sexual health in relationships -Healing Pathways: We take a holistic approach to healing and look at the spiritual teachings from "A Course in Miracles" alongside the healing power of Kundalini Yoga meditation, offering a holistic approach to healing our intimacy issues and sexual energy due to sexual abuse.-Transformative Healing: We learn how addressing our nervous system and brain from patterns of trauma can lead to feeling safe in our bodies and fostering deeper connections with ourselves, others, and the divine.-Empowerment Through Healing: Understand why healing our sexual nature is crucial for disrupting patterns of sexual abuse and intimacy challenges, leading to a reconnection with our divine essence.This episode is more than a conversation; it's an invitation to break free from the cycles of trauma that have repeated through our lineages. It's about reclaiming our power, intimacy, and ensuring future generations won't have to endure the same patterns. Join us on this path to holistic healing and reclaiming our sovereignty seven generations before and after. Sat Nam Private Complimentary Facebook Group Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sovereignwomen Follow me on Instagram/TikTok: @veronicabarraganiam Follow Me on YouTube: @veronicabarragan --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sovereignwoman/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sovereignwoman/support

This is a lesson on what True Intimacy is. I've made slides, so you can see what I'm saying. You may view the slides on the ministry's site, click “Tamar's Topics”!Apple, Spotify, & BuzzSprout Podcast @TamarTalks Socials Ministry www.tamarstestimony.com Instagram @tamarstestimony TikTok @tamarstestimonyYouTube @tamarstestimony

Couples Counselor Brian Cass joins us to discuss the intricacies of true intimacy. We explore traditional notions, emphasizing that intimacy is not a one-size-fits-all concept but rather a deeply personal and evolving experience unique to each couple. Brian and Nicholette explore the misconceptions perpetuated by media and societal expectations, shedding light on the importance of transparent communication and self-intimacy.

Navigating authentic intimate relationships can have us twisting ourselves into emotional states that would make the Kama Sutra blush. Yet doing the work of self-reflection while being open to change can create profound connections, both with ourselves and others. By embracing our vulnerability and maintaining open communication, we can enrich our erotic lives and overall well-being. But where to start? Somatic Sex Educator Kiana Reeves offers a deep exploration into how intimacy, embodiment, and emotional well-being are interwoven, our personal responsibility in healing and the importance of cultivating meaningful relationships.    Learn more about Kiana Reeves here: https://www.kianareeves.com/  Learn more about the importance of connection here: https://mudwtr.com/blogs/trends-with-benefits/why-gathering-with-friends-is-good-for-your-health

This week in the Lounge I invited Manuele Paradiso onto the couch with me to chat about his area of expertise - men's intimacy. We discuss the barriers and blockages to conscious intimacy, the difference between true intimacy and segz, how these can overlap and how they often don't, how to bring more intimacy into your life and relationships, and ways to encourage and create deeper intimacy from your partner, especially if he's a man. In this conversation we redefine intimacy and delve into some interesting stuff around the myths about men and intimacy. We shed light on the societal conditioning, beliefs, and cultural influences that often hinder individuals from experiencing authentic intimacy, communication, and conscious connection.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafJoin The Labia Lounge FB group to get the 25% discount on Manu's upcoming re-launch of his online course for men "The Attractive Hero".And check out his work here: manueleparadiso.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When we embark on our healing journey (which is a journey of a lifetime!), it is so important to acknowledge the truths that we are not only healing from our own personal experiences but we are also healing from intergenerational trauma and from collective wounds. Our special guest Vanessa Bennett - LMFT, Author, Facilitator, Podcaster of the Cheaper Than Therapy Podcast, and Mama - offers us professional insights and perspectives that inform us of what it takes to really heal. As we expand on the healing journey, we explore the significance of healing in relationships and allowing ourselves to be seen in our messiness, our imperfection, our not having it all together  - emphasizing that vulnerability is required to experience true intimacy.Other topics that we discuss in this conversation include (but are not limited to): depth psychology, the collective unconscious, collective healing, mind body spirit interconnectedness, radical responsibility, mirroring relationships, healing in a healthy way, and codependency. Explore Vanessa's WorkFollow Vanessa on InstagramJoin the Cheaper Than Therapy Community*This episode was recorded prior to what is currently happening in the Middle-East, hence why this topic is not discussed.Support the showThank you for bringing this podcast into your present moment and thank you for consciously listening! Your presence is sincerely valued and appreciated. If you you enjoy this podcast, please share a rating and a review! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Request an "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough session with Heather https://heathershannon.co/video-page/. You'll get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life and learn if her Intimacy Infusion program could help you feel closer and more connected.-Ever wondered how setting up boundaries can enrich your relationships and add an extra layer of trust?

In this episode, join host Mike as he engages in a riveting conversation with the insightful reiki master and intimacy coach, Shelby Avann.Be prepared to gain insights into the intersects of spirituality, healing, and intimacy from our guest, Shelby, as she shares her evolution from Reiki Master to applying a newfound understanding of Integrated Attachment Theory (IAT) to her coaching practice. Shelby realized that IAT was the missing puzzle piece, not only in her work with clients but also in her spiritual journey. Learn how integrating IAT within her professional practice enabled Shelby to uplift her clients to new heights of fulfillment and healing.Shelby passionately discusses the complexities of intimacy, sex, and sexuality, revealing how the art of navigating uncomfortable conversations about these personal topics with partners deepened her relationships. Through this exclusive interview, discover how these open dialogues, skillfully approached, can unravel hidden layers of connection and lead to an unparalleled depth of intimacy.Shelby Avann's Website: https://www.shelbyavann.ca/ Shelby Avann's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimacymistress/ Heal Your Attachment Style & Dramatically Improve Your Relationships: Unlock Your FREE All-Access Pass to PDS Courses Today!https://bit.ly/7-days-free-podcastDiscover What Your Attachment Style is and How It Could Be Holding Your Relationships Back … Take Quiz Here

We all want connection, but sometimes our defense mechanisms—or “parts”—get in the way. Some of the most common culprits are the People Pleaser Part and the Obligated Part. We may think there's no other way than to do things we don't actually want to do and to put others' needs first at our own expense, but there absolutely is. In fact, tamping down our authentic self guarantees we won't experience true intimacy in our relationships. After all, how can you feel fully known or understood if you're not really showing up? So, while our “parts” have the best intentions, they're unfortunately misguided. This is where Internal Family Systems and Self Energy comes in! Self Energy is our higher consciousness and already feels connected to everyone and everything. From that place we can heal the People Pleaser and Obligated parts and experience real closeness with others.In This Episode, You'll Learn:- How defense mechanisms or “parts” may show up in your relationships- How people pleasing can sneak up on you even if you're an assertive person who isn't afraid to speak up- How accessing Self Energy can easily help you heal parts that aren't serving you and bring you closer to the people who are ready to love you for exactly who you areWORK WITH HEATHER:Apply for a free no-pressure discovery call to learn about Heather's 3-month “Intimacy Infusion” coaching program - https://calendly.com/hshann1/discovery-call-1-clone?back=1&month=2023-07 LET'S CONNECT! FIND HEATHER HERE ⤵️:Heather's Website - https://HeatherShannon.co Heather's Instagram - https://instagram.com/AskASexTherapist Heather's YouTube - Check out the video version of this podcast & more! - https://www.youtube.com/@AskASexCoach SIMILARLY AWESOME EPISODES:Liked the episode? Here's a few more episodes of Ask A Sex Therapist that you'll enjoy:Episode 23 - Heather coaches, a Vanessa, and you get to listen to their session! - https://pod.fo/e/178cc5Episode 03 - The Emotions Of Sex - https://pod.fo/e/15c61aRATE & REVIEW US!Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here. https://podfollow.com/AskASexTherapist All Apple written reviews are eligible to win a 3-book bundle of books (or audiobooks) from Heather's Amazon Storefront (https://www.amazon.com/shop/heathershannonlcpc). Listen to the podcast to win and if you hear your review read, email us at AskASexTherapistPodcast@gmail.com to claim your prize!This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacyPodtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp

In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, hosts Jay Hicks and Gary DeFranco engage in a powerful conversation with JK Emezi, the founder of the Porn Reboot addiction program. Join them as they collectively explore the journey of overcoming pornography addiction, reclaiming intimacy, and embracing a life of freedom and purpose.

What does strength look like to you? Does it look like white knuckling it, holding your breath? Or does it look like putting your oxygen mask on first, and then attending to the needs of others?  We all want to, need to be strong for those around us. But my guest this week reminds us there is a cost to being certain kinds of strong. Aundi Kolber is an author and therapist and her new book, Strong Like Water, helps unpack what true strength looks like and feels like and how to get there. In our conversation she encourages us in the practices of self-compassion and grounding and helps us see how white knuckling it is actually detrimental to our relationships and if we will pay attention to ourselves we can show up better for the people we hold dear.  Connect with Aundi Kolber:  Website:  https://aundikolber.com/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aundikolberwrites  Instagram:  @aundikolber  Twitter: @aundikolber    Links Mentioned:   Strong Like Water: Finding the Freedom, Safety, and Compassion to Move Through Hard Things – And Experience True Flourishing by Aundi Kolber  Try Softer: A Fresh Approach to Move Us Out of Anxiety, Stress, and Survival Mode –and into a Life of Connection and Joy by Aundi Kolber    Exclusive Pre-Order:  Pre-Order Right Where You Belong: How to Identify and Fully Occupy Your God-Given Space and receive a FREE audiobook copy, narrated by Heather MacFadyen Related Episodes: The Window of Tolerance :: Charissa Fry [Ep 260] True Intimacy with God :: Mo Isom Aiken [Ep 318] Quiet Your Inner Critic and Practice Self-Compassion :: Kim Frederickson [Ep 188] Walking Through Seasons of Unbelonging :: Shauna Niequist [Ep 362] Featured Sponsors:  Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.