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Struggling to get on the same page with parenting in your blended family? You're not alone. In this powerful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale share practical, biblical advice for couples who feel divided when it comes to parenting and discipline. This episode will help you learn practical skills to protect your marriage, raise confident kids, and bring peace back into your home.Key points discussed: What to do when your parenting styles clashHow to build a unified plan with your spouseDiscipline strategies that actually workHow to avoid putting kids before your marriageWhen to get help and why it's worth itWe pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

What do you do when step-grandparents treat your kids like outsiders? On this week's episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale answer a raw and emotional listener question: "What to do when step grandparents do not include my kids as their grandchildren?"They unpack the hurt, offer biblical perspectives, and provide real strategies for setting boundaries, fostering healthy communication, and seeking lasting healing. Whether you're dealing with favoritism, awkward family dynamics, or outright rejection, this episode will guide you toward peace and protection for your kids.In this episode you will learn about: - Boundaries that protect- What inclusion should look like- Why empathy matters- When it's time for counseling- The role your spouse must playWe pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale welcome marriage coaches and high school sweethearts Chad and Megan Lacefield, hosts of the Built for Two podcast. With over 30 years of marriage experience, they open up about the reality of fighting for your marriage, not against it, and what it really takes to leave a godly legacy. From learning selflessness and setting “fight rules” to raising adult children and enjoying their role as grandparents, Chad and Megan share real stories, raw wisdom, and biblical truth. They discuss how humor, humility, confession, and grace have sustained them through decades of challenges and victories. Whether you're newly married, parenting in a blended family, or facing conflict in your relationship, this episode will give you practical tools, spiritual insight, and hope for the journey ahead. Topics Covered: - How to fight with your spouse, not against them - Building legacy through everyday choices - Healthy conflict resolution with “fight rules” - Why laughter and fun matter in marriage - Parenting your grandkids' parents - God's redemption in messy family storiesTo learn more about Chad and Megan please visit: https://builtfortwo.comWe pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Communication can make or break a marriage, especially in a blended family. In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the importance of effective communication in marriage. Learn how healthy conversations can prevent and resolve conflicts, strengthen trust, and create authentic, lasting bonds between spouses.  Join us as we share real-life strategies and faith based wisdom to help you and your spouse connect on a deeper level. Whether you're navigating coparenting challenges or simply want to build a stronger foundation, these practical communication tips will help your marriage thrive.  What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to communicate effectively in marriage The role of active listening in conflict resolution Faith based strategies for stronger communication Practical tips to strengthen your blended family marriage  Don't miss this transformative episode—tune in now and start building a marriage that thrives! We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Co-parenting in one home is challenging—but what happens when you're coordinating custody across three states? In this insightful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale sit down with BKF coaches and group leaders, Scott and Lindsay Schmitz, to share their personal journey of co-parenting across multiple states.  From long-distance custody exchanges and time-sharing struggles to practical tips for communication and keeping Christ at the center, this conversation is packed with real-life experiences and faith-based wisdom. Whether you're navigating co-parenting logistics, seeking encouragement, or looking for co-parenting tips that actually work, this episode will equip you with strategies to strengthen your blended family.  We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Have you ever thought about creating a family bucket list? While material goals can be fun, the most meaningful bucket list items focus on cherishing special moments, building lifelong memories, and celebrating blended family milestones together. In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Blended Family Bucket List: How to Create Meaningful Memories with Godly Vision, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore how to create and enjoy bucket list experiences that bring your blended family closer — while keeping God at the center.  In this episode you will learn about the importance of family vision and how it connects to your bucket list, why the pursuit of bucket list goals are often more rewarding than the goals themselves, practical steps to thrive in your blended family with intentional experiences and more! God has equipped you to flourish in marriage and blended family life when He is your foundation. Don't just dream — start living your family's God-given vision today! Tune in now and start creating a legacy of faith-filled memories!  We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Building a blended family comes with unique challenges—some we never saw coming! In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale get real about what they wish they had known before blending their family. From step parenting struggles to managing relationships and expectations, why grace and patience are key in blended families and handling unexpected emotions, this episode is full of practical, honest, and faith-based advice to help your blended family thrive. Join us for an insightful conversation filled with hope, wisdom, and encouragement for your blended family journey.  We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Are gender roles in marriage outdated—or do they hold the key to a thriving relationship? In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, God's Blueprint for Marriage: The Truth About Gender Roles in Marriage: The Truth About Gender Roles in Marriage: What the Bible Says, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore the biblical foundation of marriage, debunk misconceptions about submission, and reveal how embracing God's design can prevent conflict and divorce. Whether you are newly blended or have been married for years this episode is for you! We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Rekindling Intimacy: How to Improve Marriages in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the importance of intimacy in marriage—including emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy. They discuss how life's busyness, especially in blended families, can make it challenging to maintain closeness with your spouse. From the power of date nights to practical ways to strengthen connection, they share insights that will help couples navigate intimacy despite the important responsibilities and obligations blended families experience. If you're looking for ways to deepen your bond and keep the spark alive, this episode is for you!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the challenges of finding your identity and belonging in a blended family. Whether you're a stepchild, stepparent, or navigating family transitions, this conversation brings biblical wisdom, encouragement, and practical steps to help you embrace God's purpose for your life in a blended family. Join hosts Sidney, Jerzi, and special guest Vanessa Martindale as they share personal stories, scripture, and guidance on walking in freedom and leaving labels behind. WATCH UNTIL THE END for a powerful prayer over stepchildren, stepparents, and all blended families! Have a question or topic you want us to cover? Email it to info@blendedkingdomteens.comConnect with us:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@blendedkingdomteensIG: https://www.instagram.com/blendedkingdomteens/Merch: https://blendedkingdomteens.com/#merchWebsite: https://blendedkingdomteens.com/

As we close out 2024 and step into 2025, Scott and Vanessa Martindale reflect on the past year's lessons, challenges and how God remained a faithful anchor during challenging times. In this episode of the BKF podcast, they share about the power of seeking God for a “word for the year” through prayer and scripture, and how doing so can provide clarity and direction for your blended family.Tune in as they discuss the importance of setting meaningful goals, embracing the journey of life with its ups and downs, and finding hope in God's faithfulness. Whether you're celebrating a successful year or navigating tough seasons, this episode will inspire you to step into 2025 with renewed purpose, faith, and unity as a blended familyWe pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Merry Christmas! Join hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale for this special Christmas episode, Christmas Hope: God's Transformative Power for Blended Families, as we reflect on the hope we find in Jesus, celebrate the moments of growth and transformation from this past year, and look forward to the promises of God's continued work in blended families. Whether you're navigating challenges or celebrating victories, this conversation is filled with encouragement, faith, and practical wisdom.  We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this powerful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale sit down with Pastor Brandon and Susan Thomas, founders of Keystone Church and authors of A Legacy That Lasts. Together, they explore practical strategies for instilling Godly character in children, modeling resets, and embracing humility by owning mistakes.Discover how these Christ-centered principles can transform your blended family, strengthen relationships, and create a legacy of faith, love, and purpose that impacts future generations. Whether you're navigating blended family challenges or looking for ways to grow spiritually as a family, this conversation is packed with wisdom and actionable insights to inspire your journey. Don't miss this opportunity to learn how your family can make a lasting impact for Christ!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

The divorce rate for blended families is 70%. But there's another surprising statistic; well over 99% of couples who do this one specific activity stay together - blended or not. Dr. Carol talks with Scott and Vanessa Martindale of Blended Kingdom Families in this very encouraging episode. Scott shares the one activity that guarantees an over 99% success rate for you staying together! We talk about the unique challenges blended families face, but even more about the doable ways of building oneness even when your marriage is blended. Check out the organization Scott and Vanessa Martindale lead, Blended Kingdom Families, or also on Facebook, Instagram, or YouTube. Check out the Martindale's book Blended and Redeemed: The Go-To Field Guide for the Modern Stepfamily    Consider attending the Blended Family Conference coming October 5 - in person or virtually Explore the resources on Dr. Carol Ministries Relationships page Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message here. 

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Blended Family Podcast! On this episode, How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale dive deep into one of the biggest challenges in blended families: How to teach values to both biological and stepchildren. Are you struggling to integrate different backgrounds and traditions in your family? Don't worry! We've got you covered with practical tips and real-life examples to help you build a strong, faith-centered foundation for your family. Tune in as we uncover  how to incorporate biblical teachings into blended family life!Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment , Scott and Vanessa Martindale explain the vital role of discernment in co-parenting. Discover how the Holy Spirit guides us to make wise decisions, maintain healthy relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in blended families. Whether you're struggling with communication, dealing with manipulation, or seeking peace in your co-parenting journey, this episode offers practical advice and spiritual insights to help you navigate these challenges.We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this episode, Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective, Vanessa Martindale interviews Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) ambassador Sidney Chaplin. Enjoy this encouraging discussion about common toxic co-parenting behaviors and how to avoid them. Sidney shares her experiences and offers practical tips for maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship. From avoiding negative talk about the other parent to fostering open communication, this episode is packed with valuable advice for blended families.We pray this episode blesses you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

On this seasons final episode, we welcome Scott + Vanessa Martindale, Founders of Blended Kingdom Family to the podcast. The Martindales are published authors, host their own podcast, are a part of the XO Marriage Team, licensed counselors, + do family + marriage coaching. Take some time to hear from them as they share about rising above storms on this episode.Caroline is a wife, mom, author, speaker, life & ministry coach, but most of her life centers around the mission to be making waves for Christ. Follow Caroline at @mrscarolinetomlin on Instagram.Michael is a husband, dad, musician, worshiper, speaker & loves doing marketplace ministry in real estate. Follow Michael at @mrmichaeltomlin on Instagram.

In this podcast episode, BKT ambassadors Jerzi and Sidney sit down with  Vanessa Martindale to talk about their personal experiences and insights on navigating emotions in blended families. They discuss the challenges of processing complex feelings stemming from divorce, stepparents, and the dynamics of blended families. Through vulnerability and honesty, they offer practical tools for dealing with emotions in a healthy way, leaning on community, the value of counseling, and relying on God's wisdom in everything.Have a question or topic you want us to cover? Email it to info@blendedkingdomteens.comConnect with us:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@blendedkingdomteensIG: https://www.instagram.com/blendedkingdomteens/Merch: https://blendedkingdomteens.com/#merchWebsite: https://blendedkingdomteens.com/

How do you handle an ex-spouse who actively tries to undermine your new marriage? Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle this topic in this week's podcast. They provide proven strategies and tips for setting healthy boundaries, seeking professional counseling, fostering open communication with your spouse, and making your marriage a top priority.  In addition, Scott and Vanessa emphasize the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive, godly couples, establishing clear rules, and relying on prayer and spiritual discernment to protect your marriage from external threats. Whether you're newly married or have been married for years, this episode offers invaluable guidance on navigating the challenges posed by a hostile ex-spouse.We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Discover the power of resilience in this latest episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. Special guest Rebekah Lyons joins Scot and Vanessa Martindale to talk about her journey of faith and seeing God's hand in every season, especially the hardest ones. Our hosts and their guest share profound insights on dying to yourself to discover your true self in God, as well as the beauty in surrendering your dreams to embrace God's greater plan. The podcast also explores the concept of finding balance and purpose in tragedy, the role of blended families in God's kingdom, and how every difficult season is an opportunity to grow closer to God and help others. You can connect with Rebekah Lyons at"https://www.rebekahlyons.com/https://www.instagram.com/rebekahlyons/https://www.facebook.com/rebekahlyons#BlendedFamilies #blendedkingdomfamilies #rebekahlyons #Resilience #PurposeInPain #FindYourPurpose #OvercomingAdversity #GodsHandInEverythingWant to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

If you have ever felt alone and isolated or have struggled to find a supportive community while navigating blended family challenges then this episode is for you! Navigating life in a blended family can be a beautiful but complex journey. In this episode, I Feel Alone - Finding Community in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by special guests Tim and Sandie Noack, small group leaders with 20 years of experience! In this episode they dive into the life-changing value and importance of small groups specifically designed for couples in blended families. Join us as we explore how small group gatherings can provide encouragement, understanding, godly counsel, prayer, and growth for you, your partner and blended family. Why Small Groups?Small groups offer a unique setting where couples in blended families can share experiences, challenges, and successes. It's a space where vulnerability is welcomed and personal growth is nurtured. Discover how these groups can provide you with the tools and confidence to strengthen your marriage and blended family dynamics.From improved communication to deeper empathy, learn how sharing your journey with others can pave the way for a stronger, more unified blended family.We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Welcome to the latest episode of the Blended Family Podcast - Enmeshment with Ex-Spouses: Setting Boundaries in Blended Families. Join hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale as they discuss the intricate dynamics of blended families, focusing on the challenges and nuances of enmeshment between ex-spouses.In this episode - Enmeshment with Ex-Spouses: Blended Family Boundaries, we explore what enmeshment means in the context of ex-spouses, discuss several examples of enmeshment and solutions. Learn about these topics and more! - Signs of Unhealthy Enmeshment: Learn about the red flags such as inappropriate closeness, emotional manipulation, and feelings of obligation that might indicate unhealthy ties between ex-spouses.- Strategies for Setting Boundaries: Scott and Vanessa discuss practical ways to establish boundaries for the well-being new marriages and blended families.- Co-Parenting Communication: Tips on how to involve both spouses in co-parenting conversations to foster a respectful and healthy co-parenting relationship.Listen to gain insights and strategies to help navigate the complex relationship between ex-spouses and its impact on your blended family. Whether you are newly blended, starting to date again after divorce,  or just interested in remarriage dynamics, this episode offers valuable advice and real-life examples.Subscribe to our podcast so you so not miss out on future episodes about blended family life, co-parenting tips, advice on maintaining healthy relationships and more.Engage with Us - Leave us a podcast review and share your thoughts, feedback and topic suggestionsWe pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by guests Eric and Keisha Gomez to talk about the empty nest phase of marriage and family. Eric is the XO Marriage Chief Operating Officer (COO) and Keisha is a Marriage Mediator at XO Marriage. Together, they talk about preparing for the empty nest before the last child leaves, the importance of intentionality in growing your marriage in this phase, and some of the fun benefits of living in a house with no kids. We pray this episode blesses you! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this episode Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by guests Eric and Keisha Gomez. Eric is the XO Marriage Chief Operating Officer (COO) and Keisha is a Marriage Mediator at XO Marriage. Eric and Keisha share personal experiences and advice for sending kids to college as a blended family, including preparing children academically and spiritually, coping with letting go, dealing with identity attacks and much more!We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Have you ever felt like pieces of your past have disqualified you from a beautiful story in the present? Your family's story may look different than you expected. Perhaps it has been fragmented by the loss of a spouse or shattered by a painful divorce. But the truth is this: there is no story too far from redemption. God will weave beauty and restoration into your family's story if you allow Him.In this episode of At Home with the Beveres, Join Addison and Juli as they discuss the power of redemption in families with guests Scott and Vanessa Martindale. As a blended family, Scott and Vanessa open up about their personal story, offering fresh vision for how God moves us toward a new narrative of healing and wholeness.Today's conversation invites us to embrace and celebrate the many forms our families can take. How can we partner with the redemption God wants to write through our "yes"? How can we build unity and peace into our homes so that these can be spaces for families to thrive?You won't want to miss this one!P.S. Grab a copy of Scott & Vanessa's book, "Blended and Redeemed: The Go-To Field Guide for the Modern Stepfamily," here, or consider gifting it to a loved one: https://a.co/d/eiE6WTGFor more from Scott & Vanessa, check out their podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/blended-kingdom-families-podcast/id1493479595

On this week's podcast episode, hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by a special guest, Cheryl Shumake, a stepmom with a powerful ministry dedicated to supporting and inspiring stepmoms. Cheryl shares her insights on navigating the challenges of blended families and discusses her latest book, "Waiting to Be Wanted: A Stepmom's Guide to Loving Before Being Loved."The conversation delves into the importance of empathy, the 100% chance of success in blended families when done God's way, and the role of faith in the journey of step-parenting. Cheryl encourages listeners to shift their focus from the pain of waiting to how God wants them to show up in their roles.Join the BKF podcast community as Cheryl, Vanessa, and Scott share stories, wisdom, and practical advice to help you thrive in your blended family journey. Don't miss out on the full video format available on the Blended Kingdom Families YouTube channel. Like, share, comment, and leave your reviews to let us know your thoughts.Our guest, Cheryl Shoemake, is the founder of Stepmom Sanity and author of four books, including "Waiting to Be Wanted." Explore more about Cheryl and her ministry at StepmomSanity.com and follow her on social media @stepmomsanity.Thank you for tuning in to the BKF podcast. Remember, your blended family journey is part of God's larger story, and as you wait, trust that God is working in your life. Stay connected, stay encouraged, and keep seeking God's guidance in your blended kingdom family.Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

Are you having a hard time keeping your marriage strong with your blended family? Scott and Vanessa Martindale join Greg and Erin to discuss how a union with God at the center is essential to a strong remarriage. Plus, counselor Glenn Lutjens joins to share some tips for marriage after kids!   Click here to get the book Blended and Redeemed for a gift of any amount!    Are you having trouble in your blended family? Check out this video series!   Counseling - Want a free consultation from one of our counselors? Click here for more information.   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

Blended family life can be a challenge, but what is it like to be a step-grandparent? What are some best practices for being a great step-grandparent? In this episode, our hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk with a step-grandparent, Mike Hill. Mike is the Marriage Pastor at Beltway Park Church in Abilene, Texas. Together they talk about the experience of being a step-grandparent, what it means to foster healthy relationships with grandchildren and step-grandchildren, and how to support their adult children who are in a blended family.We pray this podcast blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

THIS MONTH'S PRAYER GUIDE: Praying God's Word for Your Blended Family. Are you a blended family concerned about helping your "his, mine, and ours" truly feel like family? I'm nothing if not a child of the 90s, so when I think about THE blended family, I think about the Brady Bunch. I know reality is probably very far from that picture, so Vanessa Martindale, of Blended Kingdom Families, is here today to help us understand some of the most common challenges blended families face as they turn strangers into siblings. In today's episode, we're talking about: the emotions our children feel as they are forced to enter into a new family and gain new siblings how parents can be proactive in helping the children of a new marriage feel like family, and... how to turn strangers into siblings. Don't miss this episode. Even if you aren't a blended family, you know one. Take the time to understand them better when you tune in now! ********** Today's show is brought to you by our newest Prayer Guide, Praying God's Word for Your Blended Family, by Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young. Pray for God to work in your children's hearts to: Trust in the Lord to provide for all their needs. Wait on the Lord to give them His best. Develop strong and lasting relationships Overcome pain and brokenness from their losses. Walk into their future confidently trusting in God's plan. With heartfelt teaching from a blended family and scripture-inspired prayers this digital prayer guide is perfect for the busy mom who needs God to move in the hearts of her family. LINKS: Prayer Guide for This Season Today's Show Notes Discover more Christian podcasts at LifeAudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at LifeAudio.com/contact-us.       Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Discover the keys to nurturing a resilient stepparent-stepchild bond in the second episode of our series on "How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections, Part 2." In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss crucial action steps for fostering trust and connection. Learn how both biological parents and stepparents can create a safe and comfortable environment, encouraging the stepchild to embrace and flourish within the blended family dynamic. Listen in to ensure your stepparent-stepchild relationship thrives!We pray this podcast blessed you today!Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

1300 new stepfamilies are forming every day. Over 50% of US families are remarried. The average marriage in America lasts only seven years. One out of two marriages ends in divorce. 75% remarry. Can there be any doubt that ministry to blended families is desperately needed. I don't think so, and that's why I've chosen to devote this entire season to supporting the blended family. We have some amazing stories and wisdom to share. On 10/3/23, Ron Deal, of Smart Stepfamilies is joining us to give an overview of what the blended family is, and name some of the challenges they face. On 10/10/23, Rachel G. Scott will lead us in a conversation about growing in your co-parenting. Vanessa Martindale will join us on 10/17/23 to talk about the strain on our children as they blend together with new sisters and brothers. How to turn strangers into siblings is going to be so practical and helpful for blended families. Remarriage doesn't always come after a divorce, so Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young will join us on 10/24/23 to talk about trusting God with your family after the loss of a spouse. And finally, Connie Albers will help us wrap up the month by talking about understanding the unique challenges children face when their parents remarry. Mark your calendars now for this important season! *********** Today's show is brought to you by our newest Prayer Guide, Praying God's Word for Your Blended Family, by Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young. Pray for God to work in your children's hearts to: Trust in the Lord to provide for all their needs. Wait on the Lord to give them His best. Develop strong and lasting relationships Overcome pain and brokenness from their losses. Walk into their future confidently trusting in God's plan. With heartfelt teaching from a blended family and scripture-inspired prayers this digital prayer guide is perfect for the busy mom who needs God to move in the hearts of her family.   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

What's it like blending families with teenagers? Creating a blended families with teenagers, or kids of any age, is not for the faint of heart. And yet, many parents are blending families with teens, co-parents, step-parents, and all kids of siblings. In Support Groups, we often see teens who have been through divorces and remarriages and have siblings from multiple marriages. Blended families have rapidly moved from being a marginalized family type to being the typical one. We can only assume that the current trend is higher, but, in 2015, 40% of American families were blended. According to Forbes, the current divorce rate in the United States hovers just below 50%, but only for first marriages. For second marriages, that number increases to 67% and nearly 3 out of 4 third marriages fail. Of those new marriages, 40% included people who are remarrying. Scott and Vanessa Martindale know first-hand how long the road can seem when navigating blending a family with a teen. And how lonely it can be. Vanessa not only grew up in a blended family, but when her eldest son was twelve, she married Scott and they formed one of their own. In their journey, they found that resources were scarce and they wished for a more robust support system to help them thrive, especially within their church. So, they went on to create Blended Kingdom Families, a podcast and curriculum that they use to help churches around the world minister to blended families of every kind. [Read more here.] Blended Kingdom Families Website Blended Kingdom Families Podcast Blended Kingdom Teens Podcast YourTeenMag.com: 7 Guidelines for Building a Successful Blended Family Podcast music by Luke Cabrera & Tobin Hodges --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/teenlifepodcast/support

In this special episode, BKF founders Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk about the unique situations blended families face as school ramps up for another year. They discuss how parents and co-parents can prepare for school and how to help their children and stepchildren thrive in an educational setting. They also offer practical suggestions for using back-to-school activities as an opportunity to build bridges with co-parents.We pray this podcast blessed you today! ResourcesFree download for 7 Prayers for the New School Year: http://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/7-Prayers-for-the-New-School-Year.pdfBlended Family Conference - in person or watch onlinehttps://blendedkingdomfamiliesministries.brushfire.com/blendedcouplesconference/540816Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamiliesFollow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Families Website

Blended Kingdom Families' Scott and Vanessa Martindale are on this week's episode, and we are so thrilled to have their sweet hearts sharing about their new book and their ministry. Topics this episode covers… Blended Families, God's WayEncouragement for step parentsLessons learned being a blended family … And so much more! Shop our website: https://glamourfarms.com   Connect with The Podcast on IG: http://instagram.com/glamourfarms.thepodcast/   Connect with Glamour Farms on IG: http://instagram.com/glamourfarmsboutique/   Connect with Haley on IG: http://instagram.com/haleyklockenga/   Connect with Blended Kingdom Families on IG: https://www.instagram.com/blendedkingdomfamilies/

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk about expectations, how comparison affects identity, and the unique but different roles of parents and stepparents in blended families. They also offer suggestions for overcoming comparison and competition.Follow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Families Website

Litigation creates stress and anxiety for stepfamilies, but there are ways to experience peace and bring kindness to others in the midst of it. Listen to Ron Deal with Scott & Vanessa Martindale on how to resist negative emotions and find resolution in custody cases that best meets the needs of your child. Show Notes and Resources Find more FamilyLife Blended resources. Get your copy of Scott and Vanessa's book, Blended & Redeemed Learn more about Scott and Vanessa Join the Virtual Summit on Stepfamily ministry this year! Thank you for supporting FamilyLife Blended. We would love to hear from you. Email blendedquestions@familylife.com | Call 407-826-2606

What are the unique needs of blended families? How can blended families protect their marriage and family against the past and the schemes of the enemy? We're diving into all things blended families with Scott and Vanessa Martindale of Blended Kingdom Families to talk about their new book, Blended and Redeemed! Grab Blended and Redeemed, here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/blended-and-redeemed/Find Blended Kingdom Families, here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/Grab our FREE marriage resources, here: https://awifelikeme.com/subscribe-to-a-wife-like-meGrab our book, Dear Wife, here: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Wife-Invitations-Practice-Connection/dp/0578470594Listen to the A Wife Like Me Podcast, here: https://awifelikeme.com/podcast/Find out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7

This week Scott & Vanessa Martindale join Stewart and Kevin in the studio for a great episode about marriage and families.  Scott & Vanessa are the co-founders of Blended Kingdom Families, which serves blended families by providing biblical guidance and practical resources to help break the generational cycle of divorce while building unity and peace that create thriving and healthy homes.This week's episode is an hour-filled course of tips and advice for marriages, blended-or-not, ranging from the "why" behind priortizing your spouse to tips for improving your marriage.  If you are in a marriage, want to be in a marriage, or seriously dating to become married, there are a ton of wisdom nuggets for you, ranging from simple blocking and tackling concepts all the way to high level ideas to take your relationship to the next level. #blendedfamilies #therapy #marriagecounseling #breakthrough #podcast #17Twenty #family #relationships #communication #selfcare #mentalhealth// Connect with Us // Check out all our episodes on all major streaming platforms, and further engagement with the 17Twenty crew on social media at:https://17twenty.buzzsprout.com/https://www.linkedin.com/company/17twentyhttps://www.instagram.com/17twentypodcast

This episode features Alex and Marshall Dilworth, a blended couple learning how to do life together. They talk with our host Vanessa Martindale about the different dynamics involved in both the co-parenting relationship and the relationship with the children. They offer suggestions on how spouses can support each other as they engage with co-parents and as they parent.We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovementWant to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamiliesFollow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Families Website

This episode features Scott and Vanessa Martindale as they talk about how projection takes place in blended families. They define and offer examples of projection, and they share tips on how you can respond when someone tries to project their emotions onto you.Follow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Families Website

Pastor Charla Janecka M.A., LPC-A, joins Vanessa Martindale as they discuss trauma and triggers in remarriage and blended families. They discuss the physiological elements of trauma and triggers and how to identify triggers. They highlight resources for individuals, and highlight the importance of working through your past trauma so that it doesn't sabotage your current marriage and blended family. Free Resources from Pastor Charla Janecka can be found on her website https://originaldesignconsulting.com/Follow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Families Website

TAKEAWAYSMake sure you are prioritizing your marriage properly in the context of a blended familyMany churches need resources for couples who are seeking help in bringing their blended families closer togetherThe Martindales have over 200 podcast episodes available on their website covering topics that relate to the dynamics of blended familiesBuild family traditions and give kids a chance to unite and share their opinions and voice their thoughts in this new family environment

Dr. Cassie Reid joins Scott and Vanessa Martindale in the studio again to talk about a common issue co-parents face: lack of communication. They talk about what motivates a co-parent to keep their ex-spouse out of the loop in making decisions about their children. They also talk about repercussions of not communicating– the children bear the consequences. We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovementWant to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamiliesDr. Cassie Reid is the Director of Marriage and Family Therapy at The King's University in the Dallas/Fort Worth metroplex. To find out more about Dr. Reid, go to any of these links: https://www.tku.edu/faculty/dr-cassie-reid/https://cassiereid.com/https://www.instagram.com/drcassiereid/https://diaryofatherapist.podbean.com/Follow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Families Website

Dr. Cassie Reid is back in the studio! In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk with Dr. Reid about what to do when your co-parent holds different faith beliefs than you do. They discuss the importance of respect, laying a solid foundation in your home, and living out your faith for your children. They also talk about the danger of using faith as a tool for child manipulation and parent alienation.   We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovementWant to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamiliesDr. Cassie Reid is the Director of Marriage and Family Therapy at The King's University in the Dallas/Fort Worth metroplex. To find out more about Dr. Reid, go to any of these links: https://www.tku.edu/faculty/dr-cassie-reid/https://cassiereid.com/https://www.instagram.com/drcassiereid/Follow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Families Website

Anger is the topic of discussion for this edition of Let's Therapy. In it, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk about anger, especially as it relates to your marriage and blended family. They offer signs that point to out-of-control anger, and they offer suggestions for working through anger so that it doesn't cause problems in your relationships.Follow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Family Website

In this episode, counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle the issue of teen suicide. They discuss the warning signs that might point to suicidal ideation and the difference between suicide and self-harm (like cutting). They also offer help to parents whose child or teen might be struggling with their mental health. Follow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Family Website

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa sit down with our podcast producer, Dyanna Groves, to answer questions brought to us by our Blended & Redeemed Launch Team. We discuss a variety of topics, from working with your spouse and using the Blended & Redeemed Study Guide to parenting teens in blended families and praying for your ex-spouse. If you have questions that aren't answered in this episode, please comment below. We love hearing from our community members, and we hope to be able to do more Q&A sessions soon. We pray this podcast blesses you today!Follow us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTubeBlended Kingdom Family Website

Are you part of a blended family? Having a blended family brings unique challenges and that's why we're so thankful for our friends Scott and Vanessa Martindale sharing their wisdom on the topic today! Scott and Vanessa founded Blended Kingdom Families, where they offer practical strategies and Biblical encouragement for blended families. Don't miss this helpful episode!    Episode highlights include:  Dealing with high-conflict ex-spouse relationships    Some practical tools for clear communication  Plus, the one big thing you don't want to do, but can make a huge difference!    We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our “5 Days 5 Ways” Love Languages resource for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Resources:  Check out Scott and Vanessa's book, Blended Kingdom Families. It's out now, and it is SO good!  Find more from Blended Kingdom Families, including all of their resources at BlendedKingdomFamilies.com Fixing our mind on what is good, right and true is good for us and great for our marriage! Our 19 Prayers and Affirmations for Your Marriage  resource will help you do just that!  Our Family Prayer Challenge is designed to help you practically build a family culture around Christ, in the midst of your everyday life!  With the Marriage Changers Membership, you get instant access to every months' new resource – and so much more! Learn more here.  Follow Awesome Marriage on Instagram, Facebook and find Dr. Kim on TikTok! Get bite-sized daily doses of marriage wisdom delivered straight to your inbox with Dr. Kim's Daily One Thing email. As a subscriber, you'll also be eligible for some awesome freebies!   Dr. Kim's free weekly Marriage Multiplier email brings you 4 pieces of practical marriage wisdom in one quick, easy-to-read free weekly email. 

We will be back with more of your questions next week but wanted to share a special interview with our great friends Scott & Vanessa Martindale. The Martindale's just released their amazing book "Blended & Redeemed" this week and we want you to go grab a copy! Scott & Vanessa run the non-profit Blended Kingdom Families where they are bringing hope to blended families. Even if you aren't a blended family, you probably know someone that is and this resource would be a great gift to help them in their step-parenting. -- Buy the book here: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/new-release-preorders/products/blended-redeemed -- For all other links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices