Podcasts about domestic adoption

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Join us to discuss how adoption looks and feels from all sides of the adoption triad. Our guests will be the authors Sara Easterly, Kelsey Vander Vliet Ranyard, and Lori Holden of their book, Adoption Unfiltered.In this episode, we discuss:Adoptee Perspective:23 adoptees contributed to this section of the book. What are some of the issues adoptees may face?Compliance and people-pleasingFantasy AttachmentsShameInterracial AdopteesThe Danger in the Rescue NarrativeRole of religionin adoption for adoptees, birth mothers/expectant mothers, and adoptive parentsBirth Mother:Before birth mothers get the chance to ask for help, they ask for mercy.Advertisements and search algorithms when searching for adoption informationLack of neutral supportLack of post-placement support—lingering trauma and grief—It's a different type of grief and trauma.Adoptive Parent:Insecurity—who's the real parentAdoption Unfiltered OnlineSupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Many prospective adoptive families feel anxious about the home study. Our guest, Sheila Kowit, is an adoption social worker with Adoptions From the Heart. She prepares home studies for both domestic infant and international adoptions. She explains what the process is like, what you can expect, and what you will learn in the home study process.In this episode, we discuss:What is an adoption home study?Is it possible to get one home study that can be used with all types of adoptions: domestic infant, foster care, and international adoption?What is the purpose of the adoption home study?At what point in the adoption process is the home study usually done in domestic infant adoption?In international adoption?How long does it take to complete an adoption home study in domestic infant adoption?In international adoptionHow much does an adoption home study cost for domestic infant adoption?For international adoptionWhat information can the prospective adoptive parents expect to compile for a domestic infant adoption home study? How does this differ for international adoption?Medical historyStatements of income and assetsAutobiographical statementsReferencesWhat, if any, are the physical health concerns:For international adoption, consult our Adoption Comparison Charts Do you have to have a current physical?What to do about getting a medical physical if you don't have a regular primary doctor. Can you go to Urgent Care clinics or Minute Clinics for an adoption physical?Can you do domestic infant adoption if you or your partner/spouse has a mental health diagnosis? What about international adoption?For international adoption, consult our Adoption Comparison Charts Criminal background concerns for domestic infant adoption? For international adoption?DUIs, misdemeanors, expunged records?It is important to be honest and share it all with your social worker.What gets included in the financial portion of the home study for domestic infant adoption? For international adoption?Income, liabilities, and assets assessmentDocumentation necessaryCheck country listings at our Adoption Comparison Charts or USCIS Intercountry Adoption Information Writing your personal history for a domestic infant? And for international?Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Question: My husband and I had a swift match and placement in December. When we were presented with the case, all that was reported for drug use was smoking 12 cigarettes a day. After about a month of trying to get medical records from the hospital for my pediatrician, I discovered my baby's meconium tested positive for meth. This lab test resulted on Monday, and we were released from the hospital the Friday before, so no one told us about this result. The agency got me the medical records and didn't mention them when sending them to me. I was also told the birth mom had prenatal care when the medical records say spotty prenatal care.     I was shocked when I came across the lab results. We met both of my son's birth parents a couple of times while in the hospital and had good visits. My husband is usually very good at identifying people on drugs, but he didn't suspect anything was amiss. We met our son's siblings, and they all seemed well cared for. My son also did not appear to go through withdrawals. He was never in the NICU and was released from the hospital 2 days after birth. He was of a healthy weight and had excellent Apgar scores. I know I would have passed on this case if I knew meth was involved and so in a way this is a blessing because I love my son and am so glad we were selected to parent him, but I feel some trust has broken between us and his birth parents. I text them weekly with photos and small updates, but I can't help but feel a little resentful (to both the birth parents and the agency). How do you suggest I deal with this situation? Resources:Raising a Child with Prenatal Substance Exposure (Resource page)Evaluating Risk Factors in Adoption (Resource page)Creating a Family Online Support GroupSupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Question: On the 2025 Adoption Tax Credit Episode, it was mentioned that they thought this would possibly be the year it becomes refundable. Does that only apply to finalizations in 2025, or will it make previous adoptions (if within the 5-year tax credit range) refundable too? For example, an adoption finalized in 2023 but we haven't used all of the tax credit available. Does the remaining amount become refundable, too? ~Oklahoma City, OKResources:Understanding the Adoption Tax CreditAdoptionTaxCredit.orgJosh Kroll, Families Rising (joshk@wearefamiliesrising.org)Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Question: Is it important to keep a young child or baby's birth-given name? How often, if ever, do expectant mothers let adopting parents name the baby in private adoptions? Resources:Understanding the Birth Parent's ExperienceOpen AdoptionCreating a Family Online Facebook Support GroupSupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Question: Hello, I am a single parent by choice and a hopeful adoptive parent. I've been working with an agency and waiting to be matched for a domestic infant adoption since this summer, and I haven't had much luck. I'm starting to wonder if expectant parents think single parents are not a good choice for their baby. In my profile book, I emphasize my financial stability and support of a network of family and friends, but is that enough? In your experience, do single parents have a harder time being matched? What are the things I should consider as a single parent when trying to match with an expectant parent?Resources:Adopting as a Single ParentUnderstanding the Birth Parent's ExperienceSelf-Care for Parents & CaregiversSupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Are you really struggling with your adoption and feeling you've made a huge mistake? Listen to this interview with Lindsay Lanham, MSW. She works at Holt International and is the author of the online article “Predictors of Adoption Disruption and Dissolution: A Literature Review.”In this episode, we cover:Difference between an adoption disruption and adoption dissolution. What causes an adoption to fail? What causes parents to say: “Help, I don't think I can continue this adoption?”Child-related factors:Child's ageChild's behavior Aggression or children who sexually act outAre sibling placements more stable?Adoptive parent-related factors:Demographic characteristics? (age, marital status, parenting experience, income, race)Parental expectationsParenting styleRelationship prior to the adoptive placementCharacteristics of parents in successful adoptionsAdoption professional-related factors:Identify problems quickly and provide supportHow to address children who have experienced sexual abuse. “It is recommended that social workers universally prepare families for behaviors associated with sexual abuse trauma and the possible impact of sexual abuse. Adoptive families should have the language necessary to speak about child sexual abuse and know how to access supportive resources in their community, such as child advocacy centers, prior to placement.”What should parents do when they realize that the adoption isn't going as they had hoped/planned?Identify the problem quickly and get support.Reset expectationsSelf-careGet helpWhat should parents do if they are reaching the point where they want to dissolve an adoption?Resource: Predictors of Adoption Disruption and Dissolution: A Literature Review Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Are you thinking about adopting a baby? Are you worried about what risk factors exist that you should know about? Join us to talk about these issues with Dr. Lindsay Terrell, a pediatrician at Duke University Medical Center and an Assistant Professor in their Department of Pediatrics. And James Fletcher Thompson, a South Carolina attorney with extensive experience in adoption. In this episode, we discuss:Lack of prenatal care.What is covered in prenatal care and how might a lack of prenatal care impact a baby?PrematurityWhat causes a premature birth?Prenatal exposureAlcoholWhat are some red flags that a mom might have abused alcohol during her pregnancy?Does the degree of impact differ depending on when in the pregnancy alcohol was consumed?What are the long- and short-term impacts of alcohol consumption on a child exposed prenatally?Creating a Family's Prenatal Substance Exposure Workshop for ParentsOpioids List of opioid drugs in increasing degree of strengthCodeine.Hydrocodone (Vicodin, Hycodan)Morphine (MS Contin, Kadian)Oxycodone (Oxycontin, Percoset)Hydromorphone (Dilaudid)HeroinFentanyl (Duragesic)Methadone, SuboxoneDoes the degree of impact differ depending on when in the pregnancy the opioid was used?Does the degree of long-term impact differ depending on whether the baby was born dependent or with a diagnosis of Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome (NAS) or Neonatal Opioid Withdrawal Syndrome (NOWS)?What are the long- and short-term impacts of opioid exposure on a child exposed prenatally?CocaineMarijuanaMethamphetamine Polysubstance abuse Creating a Family has extensive resources to help parent a child exposed to opioids prenatally. Sexually Transmitted InfectionsWhat are the common STIs? What are the risks of each of them to the unborn child or newly born child?Mental Health IssuesWhat is the genetic connection for the following mental health disorders? How heritable are these mental illnesses?Anxiety disorders, including panic disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and phobias. Mood disorders: Depression, bipolar disorder Personality disorders (antisocial, borderline, narcissistic)Psychotic disorders, including schizophreniaADHDLegal Risk FactorsWhat are the most common legal risk factors when adopting an infant through private adoption?Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Question: This was a question from someone in South Dakota. She says, "I haven't listened to all your back episodes, but can you address ICWA, the Indian Child Welfare Act, as it pertains to adoption? I live in a state where the majority of children in foster care are Native Americans, and ICWA, the Indian Child Welfare Act, is confusing and divisive. At the end of the day, I just want the children I care for to be safe. I understand the reason for the law, but I hate when the comments on an ICWA story about adoption accuse foster care providers of kidnapping.Resources:Indian Child Welfare Law Center - ICWLC.orgChild Welfare Information Gateway - Info on ICWASupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Are you considering adopting a baby? To understand what is involved legally, listen to this podcast with James Fletcher Thompson, a South Carolina attorney with extensive experience in adoption. In this episode, we discuss:What are some of the differences in domestic infant adoption? Agency and independent (direct placement) adoptions.Relative adoptions. (grandparents, aunt/uncles, step-parent).Infants or young children adopted from foster care.In-state and interstate adoptions.Adoptions governed by the federal Indian Child Welfare Act.Adoption is governed by state lawDo the adoptive parents have to comply with the laws of the state where the expectant parent resides, where the baby is born, or where they reside?How do federal laws affect adoption?How does the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children affect adoption?What are some of the reasons parents make an adoption plan for their child?Some of the legal issues in adoption from the birth parents' perspective.Voluntary vs involuntary relinquishment or termination of parental rightsWhen can an expectant mother voluntarily relinquish her parental rights?When can an expectant father voluntarily relinquish his parental rights?Do the expectant parents have to have their own legal representations?What if the expectant parent is a minor?How long after they sign the papers do the birth parents have to change their mind?Do they have to have a reason to change their mind?What happens if the expectant mom cannot or will not identify the baby's father?Is counseling important?Some of the legal issues in adoption from the adoptive parents' perspective.The home study/background check requirement.Can work with an adoption agency or an adoption attorney.What is the process if the agency/attorney finds the expectant parent who is considering placing her baby for adoption?What is the process if the prospective adoptive parent finds the expectant parent?Can adoptive parents “advertise” to find expectant mothers who are considering placing their baby for adoption?What is a legal risk adoption?What rights do the adoptive parents have before the expectant parents relinquish their rights?What are some factors that affect the cost of adoption?In-state vs. interstateExpectant mother supportExpectant father identification and cooperation.Indian Child Welfare ActBiological father in active military servicePre-Birth/Pre-Placement ProcessMay be able to meet in person to get to know one another.How much information is exchanged about both the expectant parents and adoptive parents? Medical history, finances, etc.How can adoptive parents know if they are being given all the informatioSupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Are you considering adopting or fostering a child with Down Syndrome? Join our conversation with Dr. Sara Williams, a developmental-behavioral pediatrician at Cincinnati Children's Hospital Medical Center. She provides developmental evaluations and follow-up care for children with a variety of neurodevelopmental disabilities, including in the Thomas Center for Down Syndrome.In this episode, we discuss:What is Down syndrome?How common is it?What are the different types of Down syndrome? Is genetic testing routinely done when Down syndrome is suspected?What are some of the common physical traits of a person with Down syndrome? What are the common developmental disabilities caused by this disorder?What are the common intellectual disabilities caused by this disorder?Is there a way to know in advance how intellectually impacted a child may be? Do the symptoms differ depending on the type of Down syndrome the child has? What are the common mental health issues that people with this disorder may exhibit?What are some ways to determine the degree of impact if you adopt a child past infancy? Interventions that can help.How do these kids fit within the school system? What is the school system required to do?What are the common medical conditions that may accompany trisomy 21?What is the life expectancy of a person with Down syndrome?Is there a medical specialty that those considering adopting or fostering a child with Down syndrome should seek out?What are some common mental health issues and behavioral issues that may be more common in people with Down syndrome?How to find mental health and behavioral treatment for children and adults with Down syndrome?How does trauma interact with Down syndrome?Is attachment difficult for kids with Down syndrome who have experienced trauma?Are people with Down syndrome able to live independently in adulthood?What makes a difference in the prognosis for children with Down syndrome? Why should people consider adopting or fostering a child with Down syndrome?Resources:National Down Syndrome Society (list of specialized centers)Global Down Syndrome Reece's Rainbow National Down Syndrome Adoption Network Project Search Understanding Down Syndrome American Academy of Pediatrics Clinical Report: Health Supervision for Children With Down SyndromeSupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.If you are adopting or have adopted within the last several years you should join our conversation today about claiming the Adoption Tax Credit for 2024. Our guests will be Becky Wilmoth, an Enrolled Agent and Adoption Tax Credit Specialist with Bill's Tax Service; and Josh Kroll, the Adoption Subsidy Resource Center coordinator at Families Rising.In this episode, we cover:What is the Adoption Tax Credit for adoption being claimed on 2024 federal taxes? What is a “credit,” and how does it differ from a deduction or tax savings?How would you use the Adoption Tax Credit if you get a tax refund every year?Should you still apply the credit to your federal income taxes if you don't have any federal tax liability?What types of adoptions are included or excluded? Are kinship adoptions covered? Are kinship guardianship arrangements covered? What if the child never was involved with the foster care system?Can you get credit for each adoption you complete even if completed in the same year? What about adopting siblings at the same time?What is a Qualified Adoption Expense for purposes of the Adoption Tax Credit 2024?When can you claim the Adoption Tax Credit?Special Needs Adoption: How does the Adoption Tax Credit differ for adoptions from foster care? What does the IRS accept as proof of “special needs”?What is a $0 subsidy agreement?Special needs child for international adoptionCan you reclaim your expenses for an attempted adoption that did not result in a placement (failed adoption)? How?What income level (Modified Adjusted Gross Income) is excluded?How long can the credit be carried over?What if you didn't claim the Adoption Tax Credit when eligible? Is the Adoption Tax Credit something you can amend your tax return for, and if so, how do you amend it, and how many years back?Will the Adoption Tax Credit offset self-employment tax?How does the Secure Act impact claiming the Adoption Tax Credit for 2024 taxes? What should you do if the child's Social Security Number is unavailable when you file? Should you use an Adoption Taxpayer Identification Number (ATIN #) if you don't have the child's social security number?How does the Adoption Tax Credit work in conjunction with employee adoption benefits? For special needs adoption?If you adopt, can you still get the Child Tax Credit?What do you need to get the Child Tax Credit for your adopted child?Do you need to send any documentation to the IRS when you file your taxes? What type of documentation should you keep in your records?How do you find a tax specialist knowledgeable about Adoption Tax Credit? The Adoption Tax Credit used to be a refundable credit. Do you think the new administration will impact the refundability legislation? Advocate for refundability Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Are you considering adopting a child this year? We've got answers to all (or most) of your questions. Join our discussion with Teresa Bernu, the Executive Director at Adoption Center of Illinois. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and has worked extensively in the areas of domestic infant adoption, foster care, and guardianship. We will also talk with Steve Valdez, the Chief Operating Officer at Hand in Hand International Adoptions.  He holds a Master of Divinity and an M.A. in Psychology. He's an adopted dad of 5 kids through foster care adoption.In this episode, we discuss:Domestic infant private adoption in the USWhat is the process?What are the reasons that pregnant moms are placing their children for adoption?Matching-Expectant parent choiceThe Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children (ICPC)Open adoptionSpecial needs of children availableHow long does it take? What factors influence this time?How much does it cost? What factors influence this cost?How do failed matches when an expectant mom decides to parent rather than go through with an adoption plan impact the cost of domestic adoption?Adoption agency and adoption attorneyWhat is the first step prospective adoptive parents should take if they are interested in adopting a baby?Adoptions from foster care in the USWhat is the process?Adopting your foster childAdopting a waiting childWhat are the reasons that children come into foster care in the US?What age and race of child is available for adoption from foster care?Special needs? Trauma, prenatal substance exposureHow long does it take?How much does it cost?What is the first step prospective adoptive parents should take if they are interested in adopting from foster care?International adoptions to the USWhat is the process?What types of special needs do children available for adoption from abroad have?How long does it take? What factors influence this time?How much does it cost? What factors influence this cost?What is the first step prospective adoptive parents should take if they are interested in adopting internationally?Additional resources:Adoptions in the US: How Many? How Much? How Long?Choosing an Adoption Agency or AttorneySupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Question: How do you speak to family members about open adoption? My entire family supports my intention to adopt as a single parent and has been very excited and generous as I have been working towards becoming a parent. My siblings were both adopted and there is a history of adoption in my family, mostly closed adoptions like my brother and sister. I would say my parents were ahead of their time in how they spoke openly about adoption and really worked hard to make us all feel loved and special. They shared with my siblings as much information about their birth parents as they had and supported my sister even to seek out a connection with her birth mother. However, despite all of this my parents seem to question open adoption. Do you have any tips for educating parents and family members about open adoption? Resources:Adoptee Voices (Resource page)Interview with Pioneer Researchers in Open Adoption (Podcast)Open Adoption (Resource page)Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Question: My husband Sean and I are here in Canada and early in the adoption process. We are looking at private infant adoption through an adoption agency.  My question is around getting ready. When we successfully match it is almost a certainty it will be with a newborn and there's a 30% chance it's a no-notice match and we have days rather than months to get ready. How would you recommend preparing? Do you think getting a crib, clothes, etc. is overkill? I'm a planner, so I love to be prepared!  Thanks!Resources:Suggested Books for AdoptionCreating a Family Online Support GroupTransitioning a Child to Your HomeSupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.If you are considering domestic infant adoption, you need to listen to this show to better understand the possibility that the expectant mom may change her mind. Our guest is adoption attorney, Lila Bradley, who has practiced law relating to adoption and child welfare law for the past 20 years.In this episode, we discuss:Distinction between failed match and adoption dissolution or sometimes known as disruption.What is the “typical” process for domestic infant adoption whether the adoptive parents are using an adoption agency or an adoption attorney?When do the adoptive parents legally become the baby's parents?When can a mom change her mind and decide to parent the baby?Keep in mind that what prospective adoptive parents see as a “failure” very well may be seen as a “success” by the biological parents.Creating a Family resource: Failed Adoption Matches: How Common? How Costly? How to SurviveWhat are some signs that an adoption match may fail and the mom will decide to parent?When is the most common time for a mom to change her mind and decide to parent?Does it matter what stage of pregnancy the match was made?How often do biological moms change their mind about placing their baby for adoption?Do adoptive parents lose money if the adoption match fails?Suggestions on how adoptive parents can cope when an adoption match falls apart?Do adoption matches with foster children disrupt? Do adoption matches in international adoption disrupt?Do adoptions disrupt after finalization?Resources: Failed Adoption Matches: How Common? How Costly? How to Survive State laws on when expectant parents can change their mind about relinquishing their child for adoption. Children's BureauSupport the Show.Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Question: Hello! I've been listening to the podcast for a little while now as I consider my desire to adopt. I've had many models around me who adopted their children, and although the process is difficult, I have a desire to provide a home to children in need. It seems like now adoptions are declining for various reasons, and I'm trying to consider my motivations and whether it is right for me and my husband. One of our considerations is that my husband has a physical disability, and I wonder if there is anyone or data about how likely/quickly it's possible for someone with a significant physical disability to adopt (domestic infant or international). My husband is very physically independent and is the breadwinner in our family. We have not started seriously contacting agencies as we hope to wait a few years before considering starting our family.Resources:Types of Adoption (Domestic, International, Foster Care)Choosing an Adoption AgencyAffording AdoptionSupport the Show.Please leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

Question: My husband and I have been matched with a mom expecting twins any day now. One topic that was a particular stress point for us that we found difficult finding resources on was the logistics of flying/traveling with a true newborn, let alone two, and handling the waiting period for ICPC (Interstate Compact for the Placement of Children). We're working with a national agency and in our particular case, we live in Texas and our twins are being born in New York. We have a lot of questions.Is it better to fly or drive?Weighing the risk of communicable disease in an airport vs the risk of driving cross-country while sleep deprivedWhat the options if flying - carseat, plane bassinet, or carrying the infant?How to travel and feed the infant - powdered or pre-mixed formula?What is needed for the stay away from home while waiting for ICPC?Resources:Adopting a Child from Another State (CreatingaFamilyEd.org Online Course)Basic Baby Care (CreatingaFamilyEd.org Online Course)Adoption Resource GuideThis podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family buildingPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamilySupport the Show.Please leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

Question: We've been waiting for 15 months for an expectant mom to choose us to adopt her baby. We finally got chosen, but I'm filled with fear. Are we the right family for this baby? Are we up to parenting her? Will we be ruining our lives and maybe hers? Resources:Evaluating Risk Factors in Adoption (Resource page)Raising a Child with Prenatal Substance Exposure (Resource page)Explaining Prenatal Substance Exposure, ADHD, and Autism (Suggested books)This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family buildingPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamilySupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

There is one thing that you can do to hurt your chances of being able to adopt a baby in Oregon, and that is exactly what Oregon Adoption Attorney Tabitha Koh is going to share with us in this episode.  She goes over the steps to adopt a baby in Oregon, how to avoid some critical mistakes, and ultimately gives you the roadmap to bring home your baby through private adoption. Listen to this episode next, The adoption profile you need:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/1693618/14417229Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Adoption Agency: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining 

Working with a nonprofit adoption agency can provide cost savings to people hoping to adopt a baby in the United States, but sometimes that can result in your adoption process taking longer because a big factor in the overall speed of the adoption process is how many potential birth families your adoption profile can be shown to in a specific period of time.  Working with a multi-state adoption agency which is also a nonprofit organization is a different story because they could potentially share your adoption profile with a larger group of people.  In this episode, we are talking with a nonprofit adoption agency that also serves multiple states so you can get a better understanding of how they help people bring home their babies. Learn From Me:Join The Free Training: www.myadoptioncoach.com/training Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz 

Are you thinking about domestic infant adoption? This is an interview you must listen to! We talk with adoption medicine pediatrician, Dr. Todd Ochs, about common risk factors you should know about before adopting an infant.In this episode, we cover:Common Risk Factors in Domestic Infant AdoptionLack of prenatal care.Why do expectant moms who are considering making an adoption plan often have limited prenatal care?What is covered in prenatal care and how might a lack of prenatal care impact a baby?PrematurityWhat causes a premature birth?Poor prenatal care?Are expectant moms who are considering making an adoption plan more likely to have a premature birth?What are the risks with a premature birth based on the degree of prematurity?Prenatal exposureAlcoholWhat are some red flags that a mom might have abused alcohol during her pregnancy?Does the degree of impact differ depending on when alcohol was consumed in the pregnancy?What are the long- and short-term impacts of alcohol consumption on a child exposed prenatally?Very often, you will not have a diagnosis of FASD and won't be detected in the hospital post-natally.Resources to help parents of a child exposed to alcohol. Creating a Family has a facilitated interactive training for foster, adoptive, and kinship parents to help recognize kids who may have been prenatally exposed to alcohol or drugs, and best practices for helping this child thrive, on-demand courses, and additional resources on the long- and short-term impacts of prenatal substance exposure – visit the Raising a Child with Prenatal Exposure for find more information. Opioids List of opioid drugs in increasing degree of strengthCodeine.Hydrocodone (Vicodin, Hycodan)Morphine (MS Contin, Kadian)Oxycodone (Oxycontin, Percoset)Hydromorphone (Dilaudid)HeroinMethadone, SuboxoneFentanyl (Duragesic)Does the degree of impact differ depending on when in the pregnancy the opioid was used?Does the degree of long-term impact differ depending on whether the baby was born dependent or with a diagnosis of Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome?What are the long- and short-term impacts of opioid exposure on a child exposed prenatally?Does the impact differ depending on what drug was involved or whether it was a legal or illegal drug?Methamphetamine CocaineMarijuanaHallucinogens, including EcstasyMental Health IssuesWhat is the genetic connection for the following mental health disorders? How heritable are these mental illnesses?Anxiety disorders, including panic disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and phobias.Depression, bipolar disorder, and other mood disorders.Personality disorders (antisocial, borderline, narcissistic, obsessive-compulsive)Psychotic disorders, including schizophreniaADHDAutistic Spectrum DisordersLegal Risk FactorsMost often in domestic infant adoption, the primary legal risk factor is an unknown or unidentified birth fatherControlled by state lawWork with your agency or attorney to understand the risk and what must be done to reduce your risk.Please review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamilySupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

Finding the right adoption partner when you are starting your adoption journey is critical to your ability to adopt a baby in the United States.  Your adoption partner might be your home study provider, your adoption agency, adoption attorney, or adoption profile expert. It is important that you find someone who you can trust and ask questions about the adoption process so that you are making informed decisions. Today we are having a conversation with a social worker who would provide home study approval to those hoping to adopt.  She is sharing adoption stories from the state of Connecticut with us so that you can learn more about adopting a baby.Learn From Me:Join The Free Training: www.myadoptioncoach.com/training Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz 

If you want to adopt a baby in Indiana, you need to check out this conversation with Vicky from a non-profit adoption agency in Indiana.  They have a budget-friendly sliding scale approach to adoption, which can help you save tremendous money on your adoption while supporting your birth families within the boundaries of the law in Indiana.  Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Adoption Agency: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining 

Get ready to learn valuable tips and tricks that will streamline the process, making it easier than ever to create an adoption profile that stands out from the crowd. With our proven strategies, you'll be able to present your unique qualities, experiences, and aspirations in a compelling way that resonates with potential birth parents.Join us as we break down the essential elements of an effective adoption profile. From crafting a captivating introduction to showcasing your genuine personality, we will guide you through each step, ensuring that your profile highlights the best version of you.Discover how to organize your information, choose the most impactful photos, and write engaging narratives that showcase your love, commitment, and readiness to embrace parenthood. We will also share expert advice on what to include and what to avoid, helping you create an honest, heartfelt, and credible adoption profile that captures your attention.By the end of this video, you'll have a clear understanding of the simplified steps to create an adoption profile efficiently. Our goal is to equip you with the tools and knowledge needed to navigate this crucial part of the adoption journey with confidence and success.Check this episode next: 7 adoption Profile Types: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1693618/14361022Learn From Me:Join The Free Training: www.myadoptioncoach.com/training Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Join us at our next free training. Here is the link where you can grab your spot: http://www.myadoptioncoach.com/training

Question:  Is it possible to adopt a child from another state, provided that all parental rights were terminated on both mother and father's sides?  What extra complications or legalities do families adopting out of state face?Resources:Adopting a Child Out of State (Parent Training Education Course)Foster Care AdoptionDomestic Infant AdoptionWorking with an Adoption AttorneyThis podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family buildingPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamilySupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

Adoption law in North Carolina is best left to a trusted adoption attorney.  They will walk you through the ins and outs of bringing home your baby through private adoption.  Check out my conversation with Kelley Dempsey, and adoption attorney in North Carolina.  She walks us through the adoption process and gives us an overview of the adoption law in her state.Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Adoption Agency: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Adoption attorneys play a vital role in the adoption process, but that doesn't mean they are perfect.  This week, Tim, an adoption attorney in Colorado, gives us some important lessons to watch out for in the adoption process and tips to save money when choosing your adoption agency.  He also gives us an overview of the adoption law in Colorado. Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Adoption Agency: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Are you considering adopting this year? Don't miss this podcast on how to adopt in 2024. Our guests are Teresa Bernu, the Associate Director at the Adoption Center of Illinois, and Steve Valdez, the Chief Operating Officer at Hand in Hand International Adoptions. Teresa Bernu has over 13 years of experience in the child welfare field, dealing with a wide range of cases, including domestic infant adoption, foster care, and guardianship. Steve Valdez holds a B.A. in Public Relations, a Master of Divinity, and an M.A. in Psychology. He's an adopted dad of 5 kids through foster care adoption.In this episode, we cover:Domestic infant private adoption in the USWhat is the process?What are the reasons that pregnant moms are placing their child?Open adoptionExpectant parent choiceSpecial needs of children availableHow long does it take? What factors influence this time?How much does it cost? What factors influence this cost?Adoption agency and adoption attorneyWhat is the first step prospective adoptive parents should take if they are interested in adopting a baby?Adoptions from foster care in the USWhat is the process?Adopting your foster childAdopting a waiting childWhat are the reasons that children come into foster care in the US?What age and race of child is available for adoption from foster care?Special needs?How long does it take?How much does it cost?What is the first step prospective adoptive parents should take if they are interested in adopting from foster care?International adoptions to the US What is the process?What types of special needs do children available for adoption from abroad have?How long does it take? What factors influence this time?How much does it cost? What factors influence this cost?What is the first step prospective adoptive parents should take if they are interested in adopting internationally?Additional resources:Adoptions in the US: How Many? How Much? How Long?Choosing an Adoption Agency or Attorney This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family buildingPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamilySupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

Adoption:Cost of Adoption: How Much? How Long?Adoption Comparison ChartsWe surveyed our Facebook community, and we discuss how our members paid for their adoptions.How to Save for Adoption the Dave Ramsey WayThis podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family buildingPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamilySupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

In this episode we chat about adoption, because motherhood also comes through adoption. We get informed and raise awareness on the topic.We go through our personal perspective on potentially becoming adoptive moms and if we feel called to adopt, as well as chat with Amber Mamian who is a mom of six and has adopted twice, to find out more information about adoption through her experience.We talk about international vs domestic, open vs closed, agency vs attorney, adopting a newborn vs toddler, fears and struggles that come with,  the waiting game of adoption, and we even talk about pregnancy after adoption, pregnancy after miscarriage and pregnancy/parenting in your 40s vs 20s!You can find Amber on Instagram, Facebook, and her blog, where you can read all details about her adoption experiences.Follow us on Instagram for more updates, bts and ask us episode questions @momfriendspodYou can also follow us on our personal accounts @rrayyme & @laura.gimbertAnd remember to subscribe so you don't miss any of our episodes, out every Tuesday!This podcast does not provide any medical advice. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or treatment and before undertaking a new health care regimen.

There is a pattern to follow in your adoption profile that will help you match your adoption more quickly.  And it doesn't matter if you use an adoption profile book, profile website, or profile video you need to follow this pattern in each one.  My clients match in less than one year following this particular formula, even if they are working with an adoption agency, adoption consultant, or self-matching their adoption!Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Adoption Agency: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletrainingListen to Sarah and Mark's story: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1693618/13352268 Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Are you considering adopting a baby and want to learn more about the process in Iowa?  It doesn't matter if you live in Iowa and are considering adopting a baby or if you live in another state and wondering if Iowa is adoption-friendly. This conversation with adoption lawyer Shayla McCormally will be really helpful!  The process of adopting a baby in Iowa may seem confusing, but it doesn't have to be that way!  Free Training/Work With Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/pathwayLearn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/programCreate/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Adoption can be confusing and difficult if you have never adopted a baby.  Having someone teach you how to adopt, answer all your questions, and help you create an emotional connection with expectant parents will not only make your adoption journey faster but also less difficult because you will have a trusted partner to help guide you through the adoption process.   That is the role of an adoption coach.  They don't match you or provide legal advice. Instead, they help you understand the journey ahead. Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Partner: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Adopting a baby can be very difficult and expensive, with the cost ranging from $5,000 - $70,000. In comparison, adopting an embryo can cost about $15,000 plus your pregnancy expenses.  If you can be the gestational carrier for your baby, you could save yourself tens of thousands of dollars in the adoption process. Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Partner: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

An adoption consultant teaches families how to adopt, helps them create their adoption profile, and helps them match faster by sharing their profiles with multiple adoption agencies at one time. Working with an adoption consultant can help you adopt faster if you pick the right partner and have an adoption profile that creates an emotional connection with an expectant family. Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Partner: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Deciding to adopt a baby with an adoption agency isn't a guarantee of successful adoption.  Picking the wrong adoption agency could result in you wasting tens of thousands of dollars and waiting for years to bring home your baby.  There are three key things you need to do to be successful in trying to adopt a baby through an adoption agency.  Ensure they have the right ratio of opportunities to hopeful adoptive parents; your communication styles need to align, and make an emotional connection with expectant parents through your adoption profile.Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Partner: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Self-matching adoption is becoming an increasingly popular choice for adopting a baby in the United States.  Self-matching means that hopeful adoptive families match with an expectant family on their own.  This can save you tens of thousands of dollars but can be challenging.  To be successful in self-matching your adoption, you need to focus on three things.  Get your home study approved, create and share an adoption profile that makes an emotional connection with expectant families, and work with an attorney to make sure you follow the adoption laws in your state. Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Partner: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Passing your home study can be one of the most difficult steps in the adoption process.  You can only move forward with adopting a baby if you pass your home study, so it is important to get it right! In this video, we will discuss what a home study is and provide a process to follow to help make your adoption home study easier! Learn From Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/quiz Pick The Right Partner: www.myadoptioncoach.com/interviewguide Pass Your Home Study: www.myadoptioncoach.com/homestudy Learn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/formula Create/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

When you are just starting the adoption process it can feel overwhelming and very confusing.  There are so many different types of private adoption that it can be hard to decide which type of adoption is right for you when you are trying to adopt a baby.  I have broken down key information to help you decide what type of adoption is right for you which is the first step in the adoption process. Free Training/Work With Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/pathwayLearn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/programCreate/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

These common adoption agency mistakes are easy to avoid, yet I see hopeful adoptive families making them daily.  Things as simple as having an adoption profile that makes an emotional connection, ensuring that you are a good partner to your adoption agency, and not sharing your adoption profile yourself can really put your adoption at risk without even realizing it!  Check out this episode to learn more mistakes you can avoid when working with an adoption agency.Free Training/Work With Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/pathwayLearn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/programCreate/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Starting an adoption journey can be daunting, but it can also be incredibly rewarding.

Embarking on the adoption journey?

Today on the podcast, Claire Davis and Jennifer Travis join the podcast to talk about supporting children as they journey through various milestones of adoption. GUESTClaire Davis, Program Director of Domestic Adoption, leads domestic adoption teams at Lifeline. Jennifer Travis, Director of Domestic Training, has helped lead our foster care teams and now leads out domestic training at Lifeline. HOSTHerbie Newell is the President & Executive Director of Lifeline Children's Services and its ministry arms.CO-HOSTRick Morton is the Vice President of Engagement at Lifeline Children's Services.RESOURCES We are excited to announce that we are officially rolling out a new international adoption program in the Philippines!   The Philippines have been participating in inter-country adoption for over 50 years and bring to the table a very streamlined process.   We will be advocating for children 6 years old and up, sibling groups, and children with moderate medical needs.   Lifeline will also be offering a $1000 Hope Adoption Fund scholarship for families applying to the program during the month of September.   Connect with us at https://lifelinechild.org/international-adoption/ for more information or to pre-apply.  LIFELINE CHILDREN'S SERVICES The mission of Lifeline Children's Services is to equip the Body of Christ to manifest the gospel to vulnerable children. Our vision is for vulnerable children and their communities to be transformed by the gospel and to make disciples.  Web: lifelinechild.org Email: info@lifelinechild.org Facebook, Instagram, Twitter: @lifelinechild The Defender Podcast: Subscribe on iTunes | Stitcher | Spotify The Defender Bible Study: Subscribe on iTunes | Stitcher | Spotify

Join us on an inspiring 30-day adoption match journey as we share the secrets to quickly finding your perfect match. Learn how to transform your adoption profile into a compelling story, engage with your audience, and create lasting emotional connections. Discover the steps that led to two successful matches in just 30 days and find out how to simplify communication in your adoption journey. Don't miss this episode if you're looking to accelerate your path to adoption success.Free Training/Work With Me:Join The Adoption Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  https://www.myadoptioncoach.com/pathwayLearn To Adopt: https://www.myadoptioncoach.com/programCreate/Share Your Adoption Profile: https://www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Matching your adoption in less than a month sounds too good to be true, and it very rarely happens.  However, when it does, we should learn from those that did it.  Matt and Kinsey had been waiting to adopt a baby with an adoption agency for three years and then decided to start self-matching their adoption, and once they started sharing their profile, they matched twice in less than a month!Free Training/Work With Me:Join The Adoption Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  https://www.myadoptioncoach.com/pathwayLearn To Adopt: https://www.myadoptioncoach.com/programCreate/Share Your Adoption Profile: https://www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Want the secret to adopting a baby in less than one year?  You must put yourself in the driver's seat of your adoption in two specific ways.  First, you need an adoption profile that creates an emotional connection with expectant parents.  Second, you need to share your adoption profile in all the ways that are legal in your state on a consistent basis.  Check out my conversation with Sarah and Mark to learn more about they matched their adoption in just five months after following this two 2 step process.LinksFree Training/Work With Me:Join The Adoption Community: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoachDetermine What Type Of Adoption Is Right For You:  www.myadoptioncoach.com/pathwayLearn To Adopt: www.myadoptioncoach.com/programCreate/Share Your Adoption Profile: www.myadoptioncoach.com/profiletraining  Join our Facebook Group here: www.facebook.com/groups/myadoptioncoach

Are you considering adopting a baby? Join us today to learn more. Our guests will be Karlee Wagner, a Program Supervisor for Infant Adoption and Birth Parent/Pregnancy Services at Children's Home and LSS in Minnesota (CH/LSS); Erin Quick, the Founder and CEO of PairTree - the organization dedicated to helping families navigate private adoption in the healthiest way possible and mom of two through adoption; and Courtney Lott, the owner and founder of Faithful Adoption Consultants, a consulting service that seeks to walk adoptive families through the adoption process from beginning to end. She is a mom to eight children: six through adoption and two biologically. In this episode, we cover:How many domestic private infant adoptions happen in the US each year? Average cost of adopting a baby in the US. Average length of time prospective parents wait for an adoption match. Creating a Family article: Adoption in the US: How Many? How Much? How Long?What is the domestic infant adoption process at your agency or organization?How does the process differ when using an adoption attorney rather than an adoption agency?How do domestic infant adoptions today differ from how many people think about adoptions?What type of expectant mom considers adoption for their child?How many adoptive parent profiles are usually shown to an expectant mom?What do you see that expectant moms or couples look for when choosing adoptive parents?Is it harder for single women to be selected by expectant moms or couples?Is it harder for same-sex couples or singles to be selected by expectant moms or couples?After an expectant mother or couple chooses an adoptive family, what is the next step?What type of counseling is available for expectant parents both before and after the adoption is finalized?What are the ways that different adoption agencies and attorneys handle birth parent expenses?How early in the pregnancy do adoption agencies and adoption attorneys match expectant moms with adoptive families?What does open adoption look like?What percentage of domestic infant adoptions in the US are open?What are some typical "special needs" that prospective adoptive parents may be faced with in matches? What situations are the hardest for adoptive parents to decide about?How much information will adoptive parents have in deciding whether they should accept a match?What factors influence the cost of adoption? What factors influence how long families wait for an adoption match?What's your best advice if someone has applied to adopt an infant and is not getting selected by an expectant mom?Failed Adoption Matches: How Common? How Costly? How to SurviveThis podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family buildingPlease leave us a rating or review Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

There are several ways to adopt a baby in the US.Adopt a newborn or young infant through private adoptions.Adopt a baby in the US through the foster care system.Additional resources on infant adoption:How to Adopt in 2023Adoption in the US: How Many? How Much? How Long?Cost of AdoptionDomestic AdoptionFoster Care AdoptionThis podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them. Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content:Weekly podcastsWeekly articles/blog postsResource pages on all aspects of family buildingPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamilySupport the showPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily

Are you considering adopting or fostering? Or taking in a relative's child? Do you suspect or know that the birth mom used drugs or alcohol during pregnancy? Join us today to learn how these substances might impact the child and how you parent. Our guest is Dr. Lisa Prock, a Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrician, Director of the Developmental Medicine Center at Children's Hospital, Boston, and Clinical Director of the Translational Neuroscience Center at Harvard Medical School and Children's Hospital Boston. She is an Assistant Professor of Pediatrics at Harvard Medical School.In this episode, we cover:Foster, adoptive, and kinship parents and caregivers often need to consider whether they are the right family to parent a child with prenatal alcohol and drug exposure.The US government estimates that about 10% of children born in the US have been prenatally exposed to alcohol, drugs, or both. How common is prenatal substance exposure for foster and adoptive children, as well as those kids living with grandparents and other relatives?Are there signs or symptoms with a child that may have been exposed to alcohol and drugs in utero, absent confirmation from the mother?What is known about the amount or timing of alcohol or drug use and the impact on the baby or child?Short-term and long-term impacts of the following substances:Alcohol-does it matter the type of alcohol?Methamphetamines  Adderall, Concerta, Ritalin or other ADHD medicationOpiates/opioids-prescriptionOpioids-illegalHeroinFentanylMethadone, Suboxone, Subutex, BuprenorphineMarijuanaEcstasy, inhalantsTobacco-smoking cigarettes or vapingHow common is dual exposure/polysubstance exposure—alcohol and drugs?Do children who have been prenatally exposed to alcohol or drugs have a greater risk of abusing drugs in adolescence or adulthood?How do you get a child diagnosed with prenatal substance exposure?What should parents consider when trying to decide if they are the right family for a child with prenatal exposure?Creating a Family's Prenatal Substance Exposure Trainings for Parents, Daycare/Preschool Teachers, and Afterschool Staff. Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review RateThisPodcast.com/creatingafamily