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Send us a textIn this episode I interview Marriage expert Larry Bilotta. We focus on all things, Midlife Crisis. For me personally, this was a very eye opening episode.https://larrybilotta.com/Support the showhttps://www.risingphoenixpodcast.com
— It is in marriage that you learn so much about yourself. That's because marriage shows you what is really within you. But it turns out that this is not easy to see at all. It is not simple and it's not obvious. Throughout 20 years of working with men and women, of all those Larry Bilotta have helped, their biggest struggle, their biggest heartache, their most pressing frustration has been their ability to control their negative emotions. Their failure to control negative emotions led to virtually every problem in their family. When Larry says every problem, he means EVERY problem. Their addictions, disloyalty, struggles with their kids, frustrations with each other, issues surrounding money, struggles with sex, complicated issues with in-laws - everything came down to ONE THING – negative emotions. Listen to this episode to learn how to regain control over negative thoughts. Valeria interviews Larry Bilotta — He is the author of “Softhearted Woman Hard World.” Larry Bilotta is a relationship and marriage expert, author, and speaker specializing in midlife crisis, and the creator of a series of successful programs designed to help bring couples back from the brink of divorce—and coming back stronger than before. Through his Environment Changer courses for men and women, Marriage 101, and others, Larry has helped tens of thousands of people save their sanity, marriages and regain control over their own lives and mindset. While Larry is not a therapist, he spent years studying psychology, spirituality, and the science of relationships, and explored countless methods, from traditional talk therapy to all manner of workshops—until he had a breakthrough that changed his life and transformed his marriage. Larry and his wife remained married for 40 years, until her passing in 2019. Through live workshops, talks, and online courses, Larry continues to teach his common sense, accessible, and proven approach to surviving midlife crisis, saving your relationship, and changing your life. To learn more about Larry Bilotta and his work, please visit: https://larrybilotta.com/ Here is a free guide from Larry to you: 7 Ways You're Pushing Your Spouse (Even Further) Away https://larrybilotta.com/7ways/
Join me on an inspiring interview with Larry Bilotta who shares his transformation success story, "From Pain to Purpose."Larry explores the mindful power of healing childhood trauma and its impact on relationships, communication, and self mastery.The conversation covers societal changes in marriage dynamics, the role of religious and value systems, team building and gives successful mindset coaching tips. Larry's insights, backed by years of research and interviews, offer valuable guidance on how to navigate adversity and build a healthy, fulfilling marriage.If you find value in our conversation, please like, share, and subscribe for more transformative content. Let's embark on this journey together! #LifeTransformation #FromPainToPurpose #Inspiration2024 #Motivation #PersonalGrowth #WalkInVictory #PodMatchTimeline00:00 Introduction to Walk In Victory Podcast00:36 Host NaRon Tillman Takes the Mic00:50 The Importance of Stewardship02:58 Introducing Larry and His Marriage Journey04:14 The Environment Changer Course05:07 Childhood's Impact on Marriage09:12 Commitment and Value Systems14:52 Religious Values and Marriage20:25 The Scale of Chaos to Purpose21:28 Subconscious Mind and Attraction25:38 The Role of Quantum Physics29:40 A Journey Through Marriage and Self-Love34:03 Passing Down Painful Messages35:50 Book Recommendations and Final ThoughtsWant to be a guest on Walk In victory? Send NaRon Tillman a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/walkinvictoryBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/walk-in-victory--4078479/support.
INpowered Mind-INpowered Health - the keys to heart aligned living, with host Jayne Marquis
In this transformative episode of Meltdown to Mastery, host Jayne Marquis sits down with relationship expert Larry Bilotta, a man who endured 27 years in a loveless marriage before discovering a breakthrough that not only saved his relationship but revolutionized his understanding of marriage and personal growth. Larry has since helped tens of thousands of people regain control over their lives and relationships, providing a powerful example of how one person can spark lasting change. During this insightful conversation, Larry dives deep into some of the most pressing challenges faced in relationships, especially when they reach their breaking points. Key topics explored include: The Chaos Kid Phenomenon – Larry explains the concept of the “Chaos Kid,” individuals who grow up in dysfunctional or chaotic environments and how these early life experiences can influence their adult relationships, often causing chaos and emotional turbulence in their marriages. Red Flags: Is Your Partner in a Midlife Crisis? – Learn to recognize the signs that your partner may be going through a midlife crisis, a common phase that can destabilize even the strongest relationships. Larry shares the subtle and not-so-subtle indicators to watch for, and how to approach your partner during this vulnerable time. "I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You" – When a partner says these heart-wrenching words, it can be devastating. Larry sheds light on what this really means, the emotions behind it, and how to navigate such a challenging revelation with grace and understanding. The Biggest Piece of Advice for Those Betrayed by a Partner – For anyone who has been betrayed, the pain and confusion can feel unbearable. Larry offers his single most important piece of advice for healing after betrayal, focusing on self-recovery and personal empowerment, rather than revenge or anger. When Your Partner Wants a Divorce: What to Do (and What to Avoid) – Larry provides invaluable guidance on how to respond when your partner announces they want a divorce. He shares the best approach to take, focusing on calm and deliberate action, as well as the mistakes to avoid, such as emotional outbursts or desperation, which can only drive a deeper wedge in the relationship. Whether you're struggling in your own relationship, dealing with a partner in crisis, or simply looking to deepen your understanding of how to heal and strengthen your marriage, this episode offers actionable wisdom and hope for lasting transformation. Tune in to this powerful episode of Meltdown to Mastery and take the first step toward turning breakdowns into breakthroughs. Meltdown to Mastery is a journey into discovering the parts of our subconscious mind. The place that holds our core beliefs, often learned from childhood, and can be responsible for reactions that lead to meltdowns, crises, or feelings of midlife crisis. They may also hold us back from true mastery where we effortlessly know how to manifest success, health, flow and abundance in our lives. Each episode holds key information to true life mastery. Mastery is a place where we learn Universal Law, mindfulness and listen to our own inner guidance, a place where health, and true manifestation flourish. This link goes to most places Meltdown to Mastery is published, if you would like to engage from another platform. https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jayne-marquis This podcast is for information purposes only and represents the views and opinions of the speakers. The information presented is not meant to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent disease. We recommend you seek the advice of a licensed healthcare practitioner before beginning any natural, complimentary, or conventional treatment. To find more with Larry Bilotta - https://larrybilotta.com https://youcansavethismarriage.com
Meet Larry Bilotta, who spent 27 years in a loveless marriage before discovering a breakthrough that transformed his life and relationship. His experience led him to develop powerful principles that, for over 20 years, have helped tens of thousands of people save their marriages, regain peace of mind, and take control of their lives. As living proof that one person can heal a marriage, Larry shared the steps he took to restore his own, showing that hope is never lost—no matter how hopeless the situation seems. Tune in now! Learn More Here: https://larrybilotta.com/7ways/ Want to be a guest on WITneSSes? Send Elisha Arowojobe a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/elishaarowojobe
In this heartening episode of the Living the Dream podcast with Curveball, we welcome Larry Bilotta, a marriage expert who transformed his own loveless marriage into a journey of self-discovery and healing. Larry shares his unique philosophy that it only takes one person to heal a marriage, and delves into his personal experiences, the 'Chaos Kid' phenomenon, and the concept of the 'Invisible Lifestyle'. Whether you're in a struggling marriage or simply interested in the dynamics of relationships, Larry's insights provide a beacon of hope and a roadmap for change. Tune in to learn how to navigate the stormy seas of marital discord and sail towards a harbor of love and understanding.
In this episode of KAJ Masterclass LIVE, join marriage expert Larry Bilotta as he delves into the transformative power of understanding your subconscious mind in relationships. Discover how childhood programming influences adult behavior and learn practical strategies to overcome subconscious barriers to a fulfilling relationship. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion that could change the way you view love and marriage!
Join us in an eye-opening discussion with Larry Bilotta, the man who cracked the code to healing a marriage single-handedly. Learn about his unique approach that saved his own marriage and how it can potentially save yours too. Dive deep into a conversation that challenges traditional beliefs and offers a new path to relationship transformation.
For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/larry-bilotta/. How can one person change a marriage? Our guest, Larry Bilotta, used his own experience of transforming a “marriage hell” into a thriving partnership to develop ideas to help people heal their relationships by healing themselves. Larry's website is https://larrybilotta.com. Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer's newsletter right from our homepage. Our sponsor is The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible by Laria Zylber. Find out more at https://lariazylber.com.
This week I'm joined by College Funding Specialist and financial expert Brad Baldridge. Brad has a wealth of experience helping families determine the best course of action in planning their finances for college. In this episode of Divorce & Other Things You Can Handle, we discuss what planning for college looks like financially, and how to navigate the process while being divorced.
Are you a midlife woman feeling the weight of societal milestones and the search for identity post-motherhood? How is your midlife turmoil affecting your marriage? Dive into this enlightening discussion with relationship and marriage guru Larry Bilotta as we unpack the intricacies of midlife crises and their impact on marriages. Key Takeaways: Midlife Crisis Phases: Understand the journey from happiness to the brink of divorce, and the subtle behaviors that signal each phase. Childhood Echoes: Delve deep into how subconscious messages from our youth impact our adult relationships and choices. Psychology of Healing: Embrace actionable steps like acceptance, gratitude, and forgiveness to heal and fortify relationships. We'll also explore: Honesty and vulnerability's pivotal role in strengthening marriages. The societal checklist that often leaves women feeling adrift, and how to find your unique path. Tips to empower your midlife transition, including the strategy of following one person or idea for success. Whether you're searching for understanding, looking to start a fresh chapter, or seeking ways to rejuvenate your relationships, this conversation promises insights that resonate, guide, and inspire. It's time to redefine, reevaluate, and revitalize. Connect with Larry: ❤️ https://surviveamidlifecrisis.com ❤️ @MrLarryBilotta/ ❤️ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHZP84S_A4mbvlkuREX8hnw
We are going to continue in our relationship series. Today, Larry Bilotta joins me. Larry has been helping people in their relationships and marriages for years and his heart for doing this was birthed from his own marriage. He talks about how the first 27 years of his marriage were awful and then in year 28 something changed. They have now been married for over 40 years. We talk about his marriage and what caused it to fall apart but then what helped it change. We talk about how the messages we hear in childhood shape how we experience relationships as adults. We talk about what those messages sound like, the solution to them and how to take ownership of them. Check out bonus content from David Thomas & Sissy Goff from Raising Boys & Girls along with deleted content from today's episode over on Patreon. Connect with Sarah: Website | Instagram
We all want to live better lives. In this special episode, host Keith McArthur brings back 8 of his favorite guests to ask them to share the most important life lesson they’ve ever learned. We’ll hear from Melissa Monte, Michael Levitt, Lara Casanova, Amy E. Smith, Jeff Grace, Karen Mangia, Preethaji and Larry Bilotta. Subscribe to My Instruction Manual on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify and anywhere else great podcast are found Visit MyInstructionManual.com for shownotes, more great content and to sign up the email newsletter Email: keith@myinstructionmanual.com Keith on Twitter: @KeithMcArthur Join our Facebook page and our Self-Help Book Club on Facebook Find us on Pinterest, Instagram and YouTube Purchase 18 Steps to Own Your Life HERE Purchase Winning Resolutions HERE Episode 86 Show Notes [00:00] Welcome and Intro [1:45] Karen Mangia Don't Postpone Joy Karen Mangia is author of Success With Less: Releasing Obligations and Discovering Joy. She calls herself a recovering overachiever. Karen first appeared in Episode 75: Achieve More by Doing Less. [4:10] Jeff Grace: Hard Work + Self-Delusion = Success Jeff is a Hollywood actor, director, and writer. He’s also the creator and host of the Self-Obsessed podcast. He first appeared in Episode 72: When Self Help Becomes a Cult. He interviewed me on Episode 85: New Year's Resolutions. [8:20] Melissa Monte: Love Yourself Right Melissa is host of the excellent Mind Love podcast. She also appeared in Episode 66: Escape Your Life's Prisions. [12:30] Amy E. Smith: Stand in Your Own Shoes Amy is a coach, writer, and speaker and she hosts the Joy Junkie podcast. Amy’s first appearance on the My Instruction Manual podcast came just a couple of months back in Episode 81: How To Stop Worrying What Other People Think. [14:50] Preethaji: Nurture Connections with Others Preetha Krishna — better known as Peethaji — is an Indian spiritual and philosophy teacher. She is co-author of The Four Sacred Secrets. She first appeared in Episode 77: Getting Out of Stress and Into a Beautiful State. [16:36] Michael Levitt: Take Care of Yourself First Michael is author of 369 Days: How to Survive a Year of Worst Case Scenarios and he hosts the Breakfast Leadership podcast. Michael first appeared in Episode 67: Becoming a Winner by Losing Everything. [17:54] Lara Casanova: Follow Your Heart's Footprints Lara is author of Grief, Grace and Gratitude. She first appeared in Episode 69: The Art of Grief. [21:10] Larry Bilotta: Until We're Truly Hurt, We're Not Ready to Learn Larry Bilotta is a relationship expert who first appeared on Episode 78: How To Save Your Marriage.
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
About Larry Bilotta: Married over 45 years in an age of divorce, Larry Bilotta is an authority on understanding people, marriage and relationships. Larry lived 27 years in a marriage made in Hell, but in the 28th year, fell in love…with his wife! As one of the few marriage experts who actually transformed his OWN marriage, today, Larry holds the key to bringing a marriage back from the brink of divorce - even AFTER the papers have been filed. (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories and examples.) In this episode, Larry Bilotta and Dr. Jessica Higgins discuss: The hidden danger of becoming your parents. The conflict couples experience with old programs and the stories we tell ourselves. The destructive nature of the ego, that little voice inside your head. The importance of learning from pain rather than running away from it. Four steps of working with “against energy.” The importance of becoming the “Leader of Minds.” "The sloppy start up period is not long if you are clear on your mission." — Larry Bilotta Mentioned: Twitter: @LarryBilotta Facebook: Larry Bilotta Website: YouCanSaveThisMarriage.com & ItOnlyTakesOneMan.com & ItOnlyTakesOneWoman.com YouTube: Larry Bilotta Chaos to Purpose Scale Marriage Tornado How to Experience More Love in your Relationship with Byron Katie Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins: Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Connected Couple Program or engaging in relationship coaching work with me.
Laurie is joined by Larry Bilotta. He was unhappily married for 27 years. and used to refer to his marriage as hell. Then he discovered some keys to help him shift, transform, and make his marriage a safe haven. Married over 40 years, today Larry teaches his discoveries to thousands of couples. Larry believes that […] The post The Hopeless Marriage appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.
Marriage expert Larry Bilotta shares his tips on how to save a troubled marriage. Plus host Keith McArthur shares news about his upcoming new podcast. Subscribe to My Instruction Manual on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify and anywhere else great podcast are found Visit MyInstructionManual.com for shownotes, more great content and to sign up the email newsletter Email: keith@myinstructionmanual.com Keith on Twitter: @KeithMcArthur Join our Facebook page and our Self-Help Book Club on Facebook Find us on Pinterest, Instagram and YouTube Purchase 18 Steps to Own Your Life HERE Purchase Winning Resolutions HERE Episode 78 Show Notes [00:00] Welcome and Intro Keith announces his upcoming podcast with the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation. The podcast series --- tentatively titled Unlocking Bryson's Brain -- is about Keith's son Bryson who has a rare genetic condition known as a GRIN Disorder. The podcast is scheduled to be released in March of 2020. Keith also speaks about the charitable foundation he started up with other GRIN families. You can donate or learn more at CureGRIN.com. [3:25] Featured interview with Larry Bilotta Larry Bilotta felt trapped in a loveless marriage. But he was able to turn the relationship around and now he teaches others how to do the same. In this conversation, Keith and Larry discuss: Why clashing values are the mechanics of why marriages fall apart Why you don't need to change your spouse to change your marriage Changing the "environment of your mind" The four "emotional countries" -- Fun, perfect, peace, control How to know if a marriage is worth saving [30:30] Larry's Instruction Manual 1. What are the habits you maintain every day to stay happy and healthy? Think it. Imagine it. Feel it. 2. What personal development book do you recommend? A Course in Miracles 3. Favorite personal mantra / inspirational quote There is Always a Way 4. What's your one guilty pleasure? Larry says those terms don't go well together because pleasure is productive and guilt is destructive. 5. When your time comes, how do you want to be remembered? As the guy who helped people get in touch with their minds.
If you’ve ever been married, you know it can be a challenge. From miscommunication to misunderstandings. From unfulfilled needs to disregarded opinions. It can be a jungle out there. Our guest this week, Larry Bilotta, is here to tell us why the problems exist and it isn’t what you may be thinking. Larry takes us all the way back into the past to enlighten us as to why the dynamics in marriage are playing out the way they do. I like how he put the root of the problems into three separate categories with two types of problems in each category.
As a child of divorce and then being divorced myself, Larry Bilotta was someone I was very interested in talking with and he was gracious enough to spend an hour with me in our interview. Larry is a marriage expert, coach and the founder of youcansavethismarriage.com and has an interesting story in that he spent 27 years in a terrible marriage, one that was on the brink of divorce, and chose to find a solution to their marital problems instead of hanging it up. He’s now been married for more than 40 years and helps men and women save their own marriages. I prepared for this interview like any other and had a number of topics I wanted to talk with him about, but it didn't quite work out that way. Instead, we ended up doing sort of a deep dive on my own life and how my turbulent childhood and parents divorcing ultimately led to my own struggling marriage and subsequent divorce. Larry said some things that hit me right between the eyes and I felt as though he knew exactly how my story was going to turn out before I even told him. When he started talking about how men often feel like the woman they married isn't the same person that she once was, it was like he was reading my mind. And when we spoke about how people with similar childhood struggles and trauma are attracted to each other and how we get our values from the first ten years of our lives, it just made so much sense. I was honestly blown away at how much all of what he was saying was accurate and had a few "a-ha" moments during our conversation. This conversation went much deeper and as a father and husband (or ex husband), is one you absolutely need to listen to.
The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
So many men are married and miserable. The worst part about this is we accept it. We think that's the way marriage is supposed to be. We can blame it on our spouse. We might say its because of our work, the kids, or the society we live in, but rarely do we look at ourselves. Whether your marriage is in a rut, a rough patch, or a full-blown crisis, today's episode will change everything you thought you knew about being married. Marriage Coach Larry Bilotta is our guest. He is going to shift your perspectives about the core problems between husbands and wives using the movie The Matrix as an analogy. You will be shown the hidden dynamics of relationships and how you alone can save your marriage by changing your programming. Will you take the blue pill or the red pill? For the show notes and links mentioned in this episode go to gooddadproject.com/175.
For this episode of Live On Purpose Radio, Dr. Paul is joined by Larry Bilotta. From his own experience in saving his 40-year marriage after 27 years of hell, Larry points out the principles that...
Married over 40 years in an age of divorce, Larry Bilotta is the leading authority on understanding people, marriage and relationships. Larry lived 27 years in a marriage made in Hell, but in the 28th year, fell in love…with his wife! Today, after transforming his own marriage, Larry holds the key to bringing a marriage back from the brink of divorce - even after the papers have been filed. Join us to learn the secrets to keeping the wrong people out of your life and how to keep your relationship alive.
Tonight Carol interviews Larry Bilotta who shares his own marriage troubles until he discovered some skills to turn his marriage around. Larry will be describing the natural co-dependency that may occur in your marriage and how to turn that arund. He will also describe how childhood wounds that you both may have suffered could feed into the healing that has to occur. This show is a must for any relationship that has suffered from addiction. If you want to build your forgiveness muscle and contribute towards strengthening your relationship, you will want to tune in for this show of hope, strength and recovery.
In this episode, Bill talks with Larry Bilotta about how the programming we undergo at a tender age runs riot when we get married. Larry talks about the traps we fall into and the way out. Married over 40 years, Larry Bilotta is an authority on understanding people, marriage and relationships. Larry lived 27 years in a marriage made in hell, but in the 28th year, fell in love … with his wife! After transforming his own miserable marriage, today Larry shares his insights for bringing a marriage back from the brink of divorce - even after the papers have been filed.
Back in the 90’s, Larry Bilotta was suffering MISERABLY in a loveless marriage. He needed a way to reduce the stress, anxiety and tension in his marriage. Not because he was devoted to his wife, but because he needed to maintain his own SANITY. Larry’s wife didn’t believe in divorce. Needless to say, Larry set out on a mission to find a REAL solution to their ongoing struggles. And after 27 years of misery – he finally found it. Today, Larry and his wife have been happily married over 40 years…and they’re closer than ever. Larry is one of the few marriage experts who actually transformed his OWN marriage and today, holds the key to bringing back a marriage from the brink of divorce – even AFTER the papers have been filed. At the core of Larry’s teachings is his “secret method” that allows individuals to transform themselves from the inside out, and positively influence their spouse as a result. By learning to eliminate their negative feelings in just 60 seconds, Larry has taught individual spouses how to completely change the environment of the marriage through his Environment Changer program for the past 15 years.Join hosts Rob Lohman of www.liftedfromtherut.com and Kristin Sunanta Walker for an engaging discussion with Larry!www.youcansavethismarriage.com
Have you been pondering how to fix your marriage? A number of couples are experiencing misery in their marriages and Larry Bilotta was one of them. He was unhappily married for 27 years but was able to figure out how to save it and totally transformed his relationship. In this interview, he talks about the reason why couples lose their intimacy in their marriages and how it affects them and their family. He emphasized that acceptance for every tiny little thing becomes the key to having the marriage that you want. This doesn’t only apply to marriage and relationships, but also to other aspects of our lives. If you are interested in knowing how to fix your marriage, keep reading!
This show, I am being interviewed and answering those painful questions without answers… “Why does he do that?” “Why did our relationship fall apart?” “Why doesn’t she love me anymore?”. The people interviewing me are married couple Al and Autumn Rae, founders of the nonprofit marriage building organization called MarriageTeam.org. This is my buffet of relationship answers to many … Read more about this episode...