Podcast appearances and mentions of Byron Katie

(Part 2 of 2) In this episode, we dive deep into self-inquiry as I explore workplace frustration with my guest, Anna, a gymnastics coach. Anna cares deeply about her students and wants to create the best environment for their growth and development. But she's feeling overwhelmed by the management issues at her gym, which affect her ability to lead. Join us as we use The Work of Byron Katie to examine these frustrations and discover how to end suffering in our professional lives. This conversation is not just about gymnastics, but about personal growth and the importance of an open mind in overcoming challenges.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

In this episode, we sit down with Susan V, Eva's dear friend and facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie, to discuss how to stay connected to yourself — in conflict, in love, and when you're single.They unpack how shame turns into perfectionism, how to take responsibility without collapsing into guilt, and making peace with being single. Susan shares how she released the idea that love would “save” her, and how that shift made space for her to stay connected to herself when she found herself in a loving relationship.  This episode is for anyone who's ever over-apologized, abandoned themselves for love, or struggled to stay true to themselves when things get messy.We discuss:  Being whole in relationship — How to be yourself while staying connected to others.Accountability vs. shame — Taking responsibility for your impact without turning it into self-blame.Perfectionism trap — How trying to “get it right” keeps you from experiencing fulfillment and safetySinglehood & self-worth — Letting go of the idea that being single means you're unlovable  Real love — Why healthy relationships come from wholeness, not from finally being “healed enough.”About Susan:Susan Vielguth is a Facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie, whose work is rooted in the liberation that comes from questioning our painful beliefs. You can learn more about Susan at theworkwithsusan.com.Susanwww.theworkwithsusan.comwww.instagram.com/reclaimyourlight/EvaSign up for Awakening for FREEhttps://dogged-trailblazer-8821.kit.com/756fe8553dEva's instagram: @iamevaliaoBook a discovery call with EvaKyleyKyley's Instagram: @kyleycaldwellKyley's free mini-course

This week's inquiry begins with a look at a simple thought: “I need money.” Seems pretty straightforward. Pretty accurate. (Unless you're a Buddhist monk.) But slowly this inquiry becomes a deep dive into the entire concept of need. “I need something that's not here right now.” Tom takes it to the past, too, by inviting participants to look at a memory where we believe we needed something that wasn't there. Whether that something was better care, shelter, food, water, painkillers, relief, kindness, or another of the abundant examples that come up in this group meditation, the questions are the same; Can you absolutely know it's true? Follow along to find out for yourself.

When we have physical pain, it's difficult not to get frightened of doctors, or resentful of life itself or the body.  When we're not acknowledged, or we believe someone's blaming us for our behavior, we suffer.  Who are we without our stories, and also not falling into passivity or despair? Join a live self-inquiry session inspired by The Work of Byron Katie. We explore how uninvestigated “stories” create suffering—especially around doctors and bad news, physical pain & migraines, being judged or rejected, and needing others to be happy. Through the 4 Questions (“Is it true?” etc.) and gentle turnarounds, participants notice how fear-thoughts like “I don't want this,” “Something's wrong,” “They're rejecting me,” and “I need my partner to be happy” amplify stress—and how clarity returns when we question them. What you'll see: Fear of doctors and “they might find something wrong” “I don't want this pain” (migraines, resistance, fight mode) Courtroom moment: “We didn't cause this” and the sting of not being acknowledged People-pleasing, being “the good one,” and the fear of being seen as “bad” Turnarounds that soften shame, panic, and urgency—and restore compassion If you're curious about self-inquiry, anxiety relief, or how to meet pain and judgment without collapse, this session offers practical, real-world examples. 00:00 – Welcome & setup: noticing a stressful “story” 04:30 – Fear of doctors: “They may find something wrong” 12:40 – “I don't want this” (physical pain & migraine resistance) 22:10 – Courtroom story: “Acknowledge we didn't cause this” 33:20 – Rejection fear: “They don't accept me when I'm emotional” 43:05 – How we react when we believe it (fight, hide, obsess) 54:00 – Who would I be without the thought? 1:03:00 – Turnarounds: to self, other, and opposites 1:14:30 – Pain as messenger; being your own compassionate caregiver 1:22:00 – Closing reflections & next steps Grace Bell, facilitator of The Work, assists people to identify and question their stressful ways of looking at life.  She offers Year of Inquiry, a vibrant membership community of inquirers Sept-June each year. Learn more about Year of Inquiry at https://workwithgrace.com/year-of-inquiry Grace also has a special love for those suffering from eating issues including disordered eating (disordered thinking) of all kinds--having suffered from this behavior and thought/feeling process herself and finding an unshakable peace within around eating, food, health and behaviors with eating.  Grace works with all kinds of compulsions, habits and addictions as they are all the same thing: a pull to some behavior, substance or activity in order to help us with our stressful feelings and thoughts. As Byron Katie offers us (founder of The Work); when we believe what we think, it creates unnecessary suffering. When we question what we think, we feel lighter and less serious about what is. We even begin to laugh. We notice who we really are is peaceful already, a human being living life as best we can--learning, growing, loving.  In the public sessions on this youtube channel, we have all-group inquiry sessions called First Friday Inquiry, we have interviews with practitioners of The Work, we have Eating Peace videos (on the eating peace playlist) and we have individual sessions in The Work by courageous people willing to be recorded for Peace Talk podcast and this channel. Thanks to everyone involved in what is shared here on this channel, as it is great service to others in the world who find their way here and who are curious about life without "believing" thought all the time.   In all-group sessions and solo sessions, we begin with a judgment...and move into the four questions and turnarounds. Willingness to be real and honest with your thinking is the first powerful step in The Work.  No one ever has to share when attending Friday Inquiry, and thank you when you do.   For the Work With Grace programs and more information, and to get on the Grace Notes mailing list for updates and sharing of all kinds around The Work, please visit www.workwithgrace.com To receive notice of Eating Peace programs, videos and vlog posts, visit www.workwithgrace.com/eating-peace and join the mailing list. To join the Grace Notes family of readers right now, Grace's popular blog on using The Work of Byron Katie to grow a peaceful life, get the thorough START HERE guide to letting The Work, work right here: https://workwithgrace.leadpages.co/start-here-guidebook/ Where to find me: workwithgrace.com grace notes from the past at workingwithgrace.com https://www.facebook.com/WorkWithGrace/ https://twitter.com/ByronKatieCoach https://www.linkedin.com/in/workwithgrace/ https://www.instagram.com/byronkatiecoach/

Do you ever feel guilty for needing time alone—even when your body is clearly asking for it? As a highly sensitive person, your internal "processor" is working overtime. Without enough space to recharge, it's easy to hit the wall of overwhelm. But carving out personal space doesn't have to mean conflict, guilt, or isolation. In this episode, you'll learn: Why personal space isn't a luxury for HSPs—it's a necessity for emotional balance. Five practical, low-stress ways to reclaim your space without alienating others. How to navigate guilt and internal resistance when stepping back to care for yourself. Press play now to discover how to take care of you—without apology.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

In this episode, we dive deep into self-inquiry as I explore workplace frustration with my guest, Anna, a gymnastics coach. Anna cares deeply about her students and wants to create the best environment for their growth and development. But she's feeling overwhelmed by the management issues at her gym, which affect her ability to lead. Join us as we use The Work of Byron Katie to examine these frustrations and discover how to end suffering in our professional lives. This conversation is not just about gymnastics, but about personal growth and the importance of an open mind in overcoming challenges. (Part 1 of 2)   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Hey fireflies ✨—Come breathe with me inside this conversation with John Woldenberg, where we talk about Burning Man, radical self-reliance, presence, and the quiet power of being exactly who you are.This isn't advice—it's an invitation to remember yourself.What we discussed:0:00 – Welcome & why radical self-reliance matters4:14 – Breaking free from the “machine” of outside opinions10:28 – Trusting your own inner compass17:49 – Burning Man as a micro-universe of individuality24:32 – Learning to receive help without giving away your power33:23 – The dance between solitude and connection41:09 – Consciousness flow: memories, presence & the decision matrix51:43 – Loving what is (Byron Katie wisdom + ancient echoes)52:56 – The Bike Saga Begins: chain trouble & playa perseverance1:00:02 – The Cup Incident: boundaries & Burning Man etiquette1:06:00 – Why can't we be generous, have art, service in the default world?1:08:49 – Burning Man punk rock

Are you absorbing other people's stress and losing your balance in the process? If you're a highly sensitive person (HSP), being around others who are anxious, overwhelmed, or emotionally reactive can feel like walking through a storm with no shelter. This episode will help you understand why that happens—and what you can do to stay grounded and compassionate without getting swept away. In this episode, you'll learn: Why HSPs are more vulnerable to emotional overwhelm around stressed people—and why that also makes them uniquely equipped to help. How to create healthy emotional boundaries without disconnecting from others. The one question that can instantly shift your stress response and restore your inner calm. Listen now to discover how to support others without sacrificing your own peace.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Two weeks ago an episode of Love Is The Power was released where Tom led a group inquiry on the thought, “I need to hold onto the wrongs done to me and the wrongs I've done.” In this part II episode, we're exploring some different concepts, emotions, and conditions we notice the tendency to hold onto. Can you relate to holding onto being different/special/unique/separate? Or is a death grip on the sense of safety (yours or that of a friend/child/parent/partner) familiar? If your answer is yes, we invite you to follow along with the inquiries in this episode. If it's a ‘no' then feel free to notice where, within you, you experience a ‘holding on' of some kind -- and then question it.

In this episode, Leslie welcomes back Brian Recker to discuss his new book, "Hell Bent: How the Fear of Hell Holds Christians Back from a Spirituality of Love." Together, they dive into Brian's journey from a strict evangelical upbringing to a more open, love-focused faith, exploring how fear-based teachings—especially the concept of hell—shape personal beliefs, relationships, and community dynamics. The conversation is honest, empathetic, and often humorous, offering practical tools for deconstructing harmful beliefs and encouraging listeners to embrace a spirituality rooted in love rather than fear. Whether you're questioning your faith or just curious about new perspectives, this episode provides both thought-provoking insights and a sense of hope.Bullet Points of Interest:Brian's background: Raised evangelical, former pastor, and now an author challenging traditional views on hell.The main theme of the book: How fear of hell distorts Christian spirituality and relationships.The paradigm shift: Moving from a punishment-based faith to one centered on love and acceptance.Personal stories: Both Brian and the host share their experiences of deconstructing faith and the emotional toll it takes.The impact of fear: How fear of hell shapes parenting, self-worth, and community dynamics.Practical tools: Brian introduces reflective questions (inspired by Byron Katie) to help listeners interrogate their beliefs.The metaphor of hell: Exploring hell as a spiritual and psychological experience, not just an afterlife destination.The importance of community: Encouragement to process these questions with others, and info about a free study guide for group discussion.Humor and empathy: Lighthearted moments about rapture predictions and the shared experience of spiritual anxiety.A message of hope: It's possible to move beyond fear and find a more loving, authentic faith.Find Brians book on Amazon or Audible, available 9/30/25 Honoring the Journey is hosted, produced and edited by Leslie Nease and the artwork for the show is also created by Leslie Nease.Want to get updates/announcements and a FREE Deconstruction Journaling Prompt PDF? Sign up for Leslie's Monthly Newsletter! You can do that HERE.Pick up Leslie's new book, Honoring the Journey: The Deconstruction of Sister Christian here.Interested in working with Leslie as your Life/Faith Transitions Coach? Check out her website and learn more about what she offers! https://www.leslieneasecoaching.comIf you'd like to be a part of the Honoring the Journey Team on Substack, click here! You can find her work and also support her financially if you desire.Would you like to leave a voicemail for Leslie? Click here!If you are looking for community as you deconstruct or just a place to go and enjoy the company of people who are seekers, learners and who are looking to connect with the Divine without religious baggage, please join the Private Facebook Community! Leslie is very passionate about connection and community, so if that sounds like you, please come join us! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Are you chasing perfection… or simply doing your best? If you're a highly sensitive person, the pressure to get everything “just right” can feel overwhelming — but what if your perfectionism isn't a flaw, but a message? Perfectionism can feel like part of your personality — but it may be the root of your burnout. This episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People dives deep into how perfectionism sneaks in under the radar for HSPs, how to recognize when it's hijacking your peace, and the simple but powerful mindset shift that can restore calm and clarity. In this episode, you'll learn: How to recognize the quiet signs that perfectionism is running your life. The key difference between healthy high standards and perfectionism — and why it matters. A practical mindset shift that helps you reclaim energy, focus, and peace as an HSP. Press play now to learn how to embrace your strengths without being driven by fear.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

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Are you giving so much to your partner that you're losing yourself—or have you gone too far the other way? Many Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) struggle to find the sweet spot between honoring their own needs and showing up fully in their relationships. If you're feeling emotionally stretched, disconnected, or unsure where to draw the line, this episode offers a perspective shift you need right now. In this heartfelt Strategy Friday episode, you'll discover: Why it's so easy for HSPs to swing from self-neglect to overindulgent self-care in relationships How to recognize the signs that you're out of balance—and what your emotions are trying to tell you What true compromise looks and feels like when both partners' needs are valued and met Press play to learn how to care for yourself and your relationship without burning out or disappearing.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

In this episode, we explore self-inquiry through the lens of a personal situation where Shana feels judged by her wife for forgetting to turn off the lights. This experience highlights the challenges many of us face in relationships, questioning feelings of judgment, control, and self-worth. By utilizing The Work of Byron Katie, Shana delves into self-inquiry to help her notice her thoughts, reduce her suffering, and foster healthier connections. Join Shana and me on this journey of personal growth as she learns to approach her relationship with an open mind. Together, let's do The Work and begin to end our suffering.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Cousineau explores how perfectionism leads to burnout, stress, and anxiety. She introduces the concept of "inner algorithms" as coping patterns formed in stressful situations. She advocates for a mind-body approach to overcoming perfectionism, highlighting the importance of self-compassion and the EVOLVE method. Tara Cousineau, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist at Harvard University's Counseling and Mental Health Services. She's professionally trained in mind-body medicine, energy psychology, mindfulness, self-compassion, and other psychological methods. She is the author of The Kindness Cure: How The Science Of Compassion Can Heal Your Heart And Your World (New Harbinger Publications 2018) and The Perfectionist's Dilemma: Learn the Art of Self Compassion and Become a Happy Achiever (Alcove Press 2025)Interview Date: 7/18/2025 Tags: Tara Cousineau, Kindfulness, kindsight, joy, social media, procrastination, mindfulness, inner algorithms, Byron Katie, talk therapy, body therapy, IFS, Internal Family Systems, Richard C Schwartz, procrastination, Scarlett O'Hara, Tara Brach, mantras, Rick Hanson, Donna Eden, EFT. Emotional Freedom Technique, “Tapping,” Personal Transformation, Psychology

If you're a highly sensitive person (HSP), you may have internalized the belief that your sensitivity is a flaw — especially in a world that praises toughness, speed, and emotional detachment. This episode dives deep into how those beliefs are formed, how they silently drive your stress and self-doubt, and most importantly, how to break free from them. Discover how to: Reframe your sensitivity from a perceived weakness into a legitimate strength Identify the damaging comparisons that erode your self-worth — and replace them with fairer, more empowering perspectives Understand the real-life strengths HSPs bring to relationships, work, and emotional resilience Press play to reclaim your confidence and discover a more balanced way to see your sensitivity — one that affirms your worth and power.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

This week's episode begins with a chance to look at one of those moments where we believe, “I shouldn't have done that.” You know the one. It lies dormant and then pops into your mind as you're trying to fall asleep and causes The Cringe. It shows up at the most inopportune times, saying, “Remember when you said/did that thing to that person all those years ago? Yeah, you shouldn't have done that.” And in the questioning of that thought, what arises is a deeper belief in needing to earn love. Is it possible that when we cringe at our past selves (who were doing the best they could with what they had) it's because we believe that those past actions disqualify us for an experience of love now? And is it really true that we need to earn love at all? Or are we using that story of being undeserving to stay justified in keeping a strong sense of identification and separation?

Highly sensitive people crave meaningful, soul-nourishing relationships—but what happens when that connection starts costing your peace? In this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, Todd Smith explores the powerful draw HSPs have toward deep, emotional relationships and the hidden toll that can come with them. If you've ever felt overwhelmed or even lost yourself while bonding deeply with someone, this conversation will help you reconnect with what matters most—yourself. Here's what you'll gain from tuning in: Discover why HSPs are naturally built for emotional depth and authentic relationships. Understand the warning signs of going too far and losing balance in the name of connection. Learn practical strategies to create soulful connections without sacrificing your inner stability. Listen now to reclaim your peace while keeping your heart open. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Ever felt like a small critique cuts deep—and you just can't shake it? You're not alone, especially if you're a highly sensitive person (HSP). Criticism can feel overwhelming for HSPs—not because we're weak, but because we process emotions deeply and care about doing things well. This episode reveals why criticism stings so much and how to shift your relationship with it, so it no longer hijacks your peace of mind. Learn why criticism feels more painful for highly sensitive people and how to reframe that understanding with compassion. Discover a powerful step-by-step process, based on The Work of Byron Katie, to handle criticism without getting triggered. Hear real-life strategies and mindset shifts that help turn judgment into valuable insight—and reclaim your emotional resilience.   Listen now to discover how to turn criticism from a source of pain into a path to greater confidence, clarity, and calm.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

(Part 2 of 2) Alyssa wants to be pregnant right now. She believes that she should be pregnant by now, planning her baby shower, making a birthing plan, and that everyone is having a baby except her. She treats her husband like a “sperm bank.” Join us as Alyssa gets some clarity about her situation. Let's do The Work!   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Are you secretly judging yourself for needing alone time? Discover why your need for solitude as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) isn't a flaw—but your greatest asset. In a world that glorifies constant hustle and social engagement, HSPs often feel out of step for needing downtime. This episode reframes alone time not as a weakness, but as a powerful tool to reclaim your energy, focus, and emotional balance. Here's what you'll walk away with: • A compassionate shift in how you view your need for alone time • The hidden costs of ignoring your downtime needs—and how they lead to burnout • A practical guide for integrating solitude with meaningful engagement without guilt Press play now to learn how alone time can become the foundation for your clarity, creativity, and calm.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

This week's meditation begins with noticing the tendency to hold on. It sharpens to a more specific inquiry: “I need to hold onto the wrongs done to me and the wrongs I've done to others.” Is that true? The group digs deeper beneath that enticing story that can just seem so factual, like common sense. “Of course I need to hold on! Otherwise how will I make amends? Or get the apologies I deserve?” But what is life like when we hold on to the wrongs we've done and had done to us? And even more fascinating – what would our experience be like if we didn't believe we needed to? There's a powerful shift that takes place with the questioning of these stories in this group. Feel free to join in on your own!

Are Your Stress Management Routines Helping—or Holding You Back? Feeling boxed in by your own self-care habits? Discover how even well-meaning stress management rules can become sources of stress for highly sensitive people—and what to do when that happens. For many highly sensitive people (HSPs), routines provide a sense of safety and balance—but what happens when those helpful rules become too rigid? In this episode, Todd Smith explores the surprising signs that your stress management guidelines may be outdated, and how listening to your body and emotions can lead to deeper freedom and more effective self-care. Here's what you'll gain from tuning in: A simple way to tell when a “healthy habit” is actually stressing you out How to experiment with your routines without losing structure Why true freedom comes from blending boundaries with flexibility Tap play to learn how to reshape your stress management rules for more ease, balance, and inner freedom.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

What if burnout isn't caused by overwork—but by something much deeper within? As a highly sensitive person (HSP), you may have tried resting, unplugging, even meditating—yet the exhaustion lingers. This episode dives beneath the surface to explore the hidden cause of burnout that no amount of vacation or exercise can touch, and why conventional fixes often fail HSPs. You'll discover: The surprising truth about what actually drains your energy as a highly sensitive person How misalignment between your values and daily actions silently fuels burnout A powerful, restorative approach to inner work that reconnects you to your natural energy and peace Listen now to learn how to realign with your true self and finally recover from burnout at its source.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Alyssa wants to be pregnant right now. She believes that she should be pregnant by now, planning her baby shower, making a birthing plan, and that everyone is having a baby except her. She treats her husband like a “sperm bank.” Join us as Alyssa gets some clarity about her situation. Let's do The Work! (Part 1 of 2)   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Why Are Highly Sensitive People Actually More Resilient Than Others? Have you ever felt like your sensitivity was a weakness—especially when it comes to stress? What if it's actually your greatest asset? In this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, Todd Smith reframes what it means to be resilient as a highly sensitive person (HSP). If you've ever struggled with feeling overwhelmed by stress or wished you had a thicker skin, this episode offers a liberating perspective: your sensitivity might be the very thing that makes lasting resilience possible. You'll gain insight into: Why having less of a “buffer” as an HSP leads to deeper self-awareness and earlier stress detection How sensitivity can actually prevent long-term emotional buildup and burnout What it means to turn emotional sensitivity into a pathway toward true inner freedom and resilience Tap play now to learn why your sensitivity might just be your secret superpower in managing stress.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

This week's deep inquiry begins with a simple invitation: to notice what arises within you when you allow yourself to consciously experience being open to any and all possibilities in life. In this group meditation, what comes up in response to Tom's prompt is fear. It feels terrifying to open to all possibilities when those possibilities include things we think we very much would not like to experience; things we think we wouldn't be able to handle. Going back to last week's episode theme, we are convinced that something truly terrible can happen. This episode expands on that conversation with the idea that we could do something unforgivable. Something beyond forgiveness. We could go somewhere that love cannot reach us.But is that true? If it's a friendly Universe, how could something we call ‘unforgivable' be a good and beautiful thing? If you're up for it, there's a profound inquiry available this week – one that points to a profound experience of life waiting on the other side of unforgivable.

Do you find yourself constantly saying “yes” to others—only to feel emotionally drained and overwhelmed afterward? As a highly sensitive person, your deep empathy can become a double-edged sword—especially when it keeps you from saying "no" and prioritizing your own well-being. This episode dives into the hidden emotional cost of people-pleasing and the approval trap, showing you how this silent habit fuels inner turmoil and burnout. Learn why your inability to say no is directly linked to emotional overwhelm and burnout. Discover the two hidden beliefs that keep you trapped in approval-seeking behavior. Explore a grounded process for doing the inner work that frees you to speak up and honor your needs without guilt.   Press play now to unlock the clarity and confidence you need to say no without fear—and finally start living from your truth.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

In this First Friday Work of Byron Katie session, Grace Bell guides participants through the powerful process of questioning their stressful thoughts. Together, they explore how shifting perspective can dissolve suffering and open the way to clarity and peace. Listeners will hear real-life examples of thoughts under inquiry—ranging from comparing ourselves to others, to managing inner criticism, to wishing others would behave differently. This episode is an invitation to discover that freedom is available in any situation, once our unquestioned stories are brought into the light. Episode Highlights [00:00] Introduction — Grace welcomes participants and introduces The Work of Byron Katie. [04:15] Thought #1: “They are more secure than me.” — Exploring comparison and insecurity. [14:20] Thought #2: “I want the mean voice in my head to stop.” — Meeting the inner critic with compassion. [27:05] Thought #3: “He should explain himself.” — Letting go of demands and finding personal peace. [41:10] Thought #4: “They should reciprocate.” — Questioning fairness and expectations in relationships. [55:00] Closing reflections and group takeaways.

Are You “Too Sensitive”—Or Just Misunderstood? What if the emotional overwhelm and self-criticism you experience aren't signs of weakness—but powerful signals from a part of you that's been misunderstood? If you're a highly sensitive person (HSP), this episode will feel like home. You'll discover how to stop seeing your sensitivity as a flaw and begin understanding it as the foundation for deep emotional intelligence, intuition, and healing. Todd Smith, a facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie and an HSP himself, gently unpacks how societal standards, internalized beliefs, and emotional wounds can keep you stuck in a cycle of self-doubt—even when you “know better.” In this episode, you'll learn: Why self-criticism often comes from internalized perspectives that aren't even your own How to spot and stop the hidden habit of judging yourself through other people's eyes A process to emotionally shift the part of you that still believes you're not enough—so it stops draining your energy Press play to begin experiencing the deep self-acceptance you've been longing for.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

(Part 2 of 2) Elizabeth, my guest today, is angry with her dad for cutting her off and saying she was wrong. He should apologize, she thinks, and admit that he is wrong. Join me as Elizabeth finds her way through this mind-maze. Let's do The Work.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Today we continue our look back at some of the most popular episodes of Co-Parenting with Confidence. In this encore episode, I share one of my favorite truths: your feelings don't come from your ex, your circumstances, or the outside world—they come from your thoughts. When I discovered this, it completely shifted how I showed up as a mom and co-parent. Understanding that I'm not at the mercy of anyone else has been both liberating and empowering, and I want the same freedom for you. I'll walk you through how our thoughts create our feelings, how those feelings drive our actions, and how awareness is the key to taking back control. You'll also learn a simple but powerful tool—four questions from Byron Katie—that can help you reframe the painful thoughts that keep you stuck. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, frustrated, or hopeless in your co-parenting journey, this episode will give you the mindset shifts you need to reclaim your peace and confidence. Takeaways: Your feelings come from your thoughts, not external circumstances. You always have the power to choose how you think and feel. Awareness creates freedom and choice. A simple 4-question tool can help shift painful thought patterns. If you're ready to stop feeling powerless and start showing up with confidence, reach out—I'd love to support you. https://calendly.com/coachwithmikki/co-parent-breakthrough-call Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who might need a fresh perspective on co-parenting! For more information go to my website here: https://mikkigardner.com/podcast/ © 2021 - 2025 Mikki Gardner Coaching

Are you trying to "fix" your stress—only to end up feeling worse? Many Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) struggle with the pressure to treat emotional pain like a mechanical problem: find it, fix it, and move on. But what if that very mindset is blocking your healing? In this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, Todd Smith reveals why traditional, fix-it approaches often fall flat when it comes to stress and trauma—and how adopting a more respectful, HSP-informed perspective can open the door to true inner healing. Here's what you'll take away: Why stress and trauma don't respond well to the "disease/cure" model and what to do instead. How to approach emotional pain with the same empathy and gentleness you naturally offer others. Practical tools like journaling, mindful questioning, and choosing the right kind of support to create lasting emotional shifts. Press play now to learn how to stop fighting your emotions—and start listening to them in a way that actually heals.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

The mind wonders if there's even any point in questioning a thought like, “Something terrible can happen.” It seems so obviously true. “Of course something terrible can happen! I could lose my job, my partner/child/parent/friend could die, I could get sick … and that's not even counting all the terrible things already happening like wars and starvation.” Yes. That is true. All of those things could happen and are happening. But in this powerful inquiry on some sensitive subjects, Tom asks question two of The Work: “Can you absolutely know it's true?” Can you absolutely, positively-for-sure know it's true that something terrible can happen? Or could it be possible that the words of mystic St. Catherine of Siena are applicable to this story, that the absolute innocence of all within creation takes awhile to understand. Either way, we have the freedom to check in for ourselves and question painful stories. We have the freedom to notice whether believing this thought helps us show up in the world as truly helpful, happy beings – or not.

Are You Chasing Balance or Just Burning Out Trying? If you're a highly sensitive person constantly striving for the perfect work-life balance, you might be chasing a mirage—and adding to your stress without realizing it. This episode unpacks why the traditional idea of balance doesn't work for HSPs and what to do instead. Discover the real reason balance feels so elusive and how redefining it on your own terms can change everything. You'll explore practical ways to align your schedule with your sensitive nature, uncover the hidden trap of idealized routines, and learn how questioning your thoughts can unlock true inner freedom. Understand your unique balance threshold as an HSP and why mainstream advice misses the mark. Learn how over-optimizing for balance can backfire—and what to do about it. Explore a flexible mindset that makes space for growth, spontaneity, and real peace. Tune in now to find the missing piece of your work-life balance and feel more at ease in your own rhythm.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3722: Kerri Richardson reveals how fear of judgment often stems from our own self-perceptions rather than others' opinions. By recognizing projection as a mirror of our inner critic, we can shift from self-sabotage to self-belief, allowing courage, compassion, and clarity to guide us toward bolder action. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://kerririchardson.com/powerofprojection/ Quotes to ponder: "Whatever you feel others might think is likely what you already think of yourself." "What we're worried others are thinking about us is usually what we're already thinking about ourselves." Episode references: Daring Greatly by Brené Brown: https://brenebrown.com/book/daring-greatly The Work by Byron Katie: https://thework.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3722: Kerri Richardson reveals how fear of judgment often stems from our own self-perceptions rather than others' opinions. By recognizing projection as a mirror of our inner critic, we can shift from self-sabotage to self-belief, allowing courage, compassion, and clarity to guide us toward bolder action. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://kerririchardson.com/powerofprojection/ Quotes to ponder: "Whatever you feel others might think is likely what you already think of yourself." "What we're worried others are thinking about us is usually what we're already thinking about ourselves." Episode references: Daring Greatly by Brené Brown: https://brenebrown.com/book/daring-greatly The Work by Byron Katie: https://thework.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3722: Kerri Richardson reveals how fear of judgment often stems from our own self-perceptions rather than others' opinions. By recognizing projection as a mirror of our inner critic, we can shift from self-sabotage to self-belief, allowing courage, compassion, and clarity to guide us toward bolder action. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://kerririchardson.com/powerofprojection/ Quotes to ponder: "Whatever you feel others might think is likely what you already think of yourself." "What we're worried others are thinking about us is usually what we're already thinking about ourselves." Episode references: Daring Greatly by Brené Brown: https://brenebrown.com/book/daring-greatly The Work by Byron Katie: https://thework.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever find yourself stuck in the painful limbo of not knowing whether to stay in a tough situation or finally walk away? For highly sensitive people, this decision is especially overwhelming—your empathy, conscientiousness, and fear of conflict often cloud what your heart truly wants. If you're caught in this internal tug-of-war, this episode offers a grounded way forward that honors both your nervous system and your emotional truth. Discover the exact questions to ask yourself to gain clarity and reduce decision-making stress. Understand why HSPs are more prone to self-sacrificing patterns—and how to break free from them. Learn how to access the stillness within, so you can make choices that are aligned with your deepest inner knowing. Listen now to uncover the practical tools and insights you need to finally make a decision that feels right for you.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Elizabeth, my guest today, is angry with her dad for cutting her off and saying she was wrong. He should apologize, she thinks, and admit that he is wrong. Join me as Elizabeth finds her way through this mind-maze. Let's do The Work. (Part 1 of 2)   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Today we welcome Sara Abernethy, a performer-turned-hospitalitarian who's navigating the challenges of burnout, motherhood, and partnership struggles.This conversation isn't just about business; it's about what happens behind the scenes. Sara gets candid about the identity shifts of being in the wrong role, the toll it takes when business and marriage collide, and the resilience it requires to step back, reimagine, and pursue joy again.If you've ever questioned whether the version of success you built is actually what you want, this episode gives you both the permission and the perspective to redefine it.In this episode, you'll learn about:Sara's journey from opera singer to restaurant owner and what it taught her about roles and identity.The painful reality of outgrowing a version of success you once chased.Why chasing "hard" as an entrepreneur can mask the ahas you need to hear.The surprising role that motherhood played in her "midlife awakening."Sara's rock-bottom moment and the powerful practice of asking, "What are we tolerating?"A step-by-step guide to "The Work" by Byron Katie, and how it helped Sara process resentment and find clarity in her relationship.How to pursue joy and delight in "tiny morsels" of your everyday life.The simple daily mantra that can help you find a sense of peace and pride in yourself.Episode Timestamps:00:00:00 – Acknowledging that the life you built might not be what you want.00:02:00 – Sara's journey: from performer to hospitalitarian and entrepreneurship.00:05:00 – The identity shift from restaurant operator to CEO and the challenges it created.00:09:00 – Hitting a breaking point and feeling like a "huge failure."00:10:00 – How motherhood provided a necessary pause and led to an important realization.00:15:00 – The struggle of constant ideas and discerning between joy and survival.00:18:00 – A rock-bottom moment with her husband and facing the potential "fork in the road."00:22:00 – Processing resentment and using "The Work" to find a path forward.00:25:00 – Ascending to "founder land" and embracing the pursuit of joy.00:27:00 – The power of "her seat at the table" and the vulnerability of shared stories.00:36:00 – A final message: Why not everything you do has to be productive.00:38:00 – What Sara is most proud of in this season of her life.About Sara Abernethy:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sara.abernethy/ Podcast: Her Seat at the Table (https://open.spotify.com/show/5rgHmPRjR3Nu8a4NcBdRR1) Holiday Caroling Group, Sleigh Bells: https://www.instagram.com/sleighbellesnc/?hl=enLocal to North Carolina? Visit Sara's Restaurants: Wye Hill Kitchen and Brewing & Glasshouse KitchenFor Real on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forrealwithmegan/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ForRealPodcastHosted by Megan Gillikin, For Real is presented by The Planner's Vault, and is produced by Walk West.

This week's episode explores the thought, “I need to be valued.” This thought can become so insidious with its underlying beliefs – for example, believing our support, our existence depends on being liked by others. There can be a laundry list of things we think we need to be valued for: our time, our presence, our various roles, and most often just … ourselves. But what happens when we believe this? What becomes of our sense of freedom? As Tom often puts it, does it give us a big, fat ‘Yes!' to life? Or does this thought become a prison shackle that we try to accommodate by contorting ourselves in order to be valued by others, and resenting them when they don't come through with that validation? If you're somewhere on your own freedom journey, we invite you to join this conversation and facilitation guided by Tom.

(Part 2 of 2) When Josh, my guest today, was sixteen years old, his father kicked him out of the house. As we sit together twenty years later, Josh comes to terms with cause and effect. Close your eyes, get still, and join Josh and me. Let's do The Work.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

In this encore of episode #2, Mikki explores the emotional challenges faced by co-parents and emphasizes the importance of understanding the origins of our feelings. She discusses how our thoughts shape our emotions and actions, empowering listeners to take control of their emotional responses. Mikki introduces tools such as Byron Katie's four questions to help individuals reframe their thoughts and create positive change in their co-parenting relationships. What You'll Learn: Understanding that feelings stem from our thoughts, not external circumstances. We have the power to change our thoughts and, consequently, our feelings. Being aware of our thought patterns is crucial for emotional well-being. We cannot change others, but we can change our reactions to them. The importance of questioning our thoughts to gain clarity and control. Byron Katie's four questions can help reframe painful thoughts. Living on autopilot leads to feeling like a victim of circumstances. Choosing intentional thoughts can lead to positive actions and outcomes. Self-awareness is the first step towards empowerment in co-parenting. Old thinking patterns will not yield new results; change is necessary for growth. If this resonates ... you're not alone. And you don't have to figure it out on your own. If you're ready to build a foundation that can't be shaken — reach out. Let's talk. https://calendly.com/coachwithmikki/co-parent-breakthrough-call Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who might need a fresh perspective on co-parenting! For more information go to my website here: https://mikkigardner.com/podcast/ © 2021 - 2025 Mikki Gardner Coaching

✨ Join this live inquiry session inspired by The Work of Byron Katie as participants bring their most stressful thoughts to the table — from anger and fear of loss, to shame around food, to the belief that loved ones must always be happy. Together, we explore: How uninvestigated “stories” create suffering The thought “Something horrible will happen” and how it fuels anxiety Fear of a partner's illness and constant vigilance Shame about eating and hiding the truth The pressure of needing a partner to be happy The sting of not being heard or acknowledged in conversation Facing death, loss, and the unknown with inquiry Through guided questions, participants discover relief, humor, and compassion — and experience the freedom that comes from questioning stressful thinking.

What if 4 simple questions could set you free from stress and anxiety? In this raw, deeply emotional conversation, internationally acclaimed teacher and author Byron Katie sits down with Sage Robbins during Tony & Sage Robbins' 2024 Platinum Partners Happiness Event to explore the power of The Work, her simple yet life-changing process of self-inquiry. Filmed live in front of an intimate audience, this exchange is filled with profound insights, heartfelt moments, and practical wisdom to help you find freedom from stress, anxiety, and limiting beliefs. Whether you're new to The Work or a longtime student, you'll leave with tools to transform the way you see yourself and the world. Please enjoy!  Join Sage Robbins for the She's Unstoppable Summit — a FREE 3-day Virtual Event! August 20–22, 2025 | 2–4pm ET daily  Save your seat free: https://tonyr.co/4kNd748 Three days with Sage Robbins to pause, breathe, and finally hear the part of you that's been whispering for more. This summit is for the woman who's ready to stop striving… and start living from the inside out.  Rediscover who you are beneath all the roles. Move through transitions with peace, not pressure.  Reclaim your voice, clarity, and inner knowing. Be supported by a global sisterhood Because you are the fire. This is just your moment to rise. Join us for 3 powerful days of insight, connection, and transformation.  Register now (it's free!): https://tonyr.co/4kNd748

One of the main aspects of The Work is identifying a thought to question. Part of identifying it can be allowing ourselves to really feel it. So in preparation for this week's episode, we invite you to look at the people surrounding you in life and really, deeply, as-best-you-can, feel the thought “I'm responsible for their happiness.” What does it feel like in the body? Is there someone in particular who especially triggers this belief most of us pick up so young? If you notice the thought feels constrictive and limiting and stressful, but also somehow like the “right” thing, well…you're not alone. Follow along with your own inquiry into this thought, and notice what your experience might be like without it.

When Josh, my guest today, was sixteen years old, his father kicked him out of the house. As we sit together twenty years later, Josh comes to terms with cause and effect. Close your eyes, get still, and join Josh and me. Let's do The Work. (Part 1 of 2)   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Moshi, my guest on this episode, is angry with her mother for being rude to G, her caretaker. She wants her to be respectful to G, to stop calling her stupid, and to appreciate her for the beautiful care she is getting. Let's do The Work!   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com