Podcast appearances and mentions of Byron Katie

My guest in this episode, Pedro, feels that he was attacked by his mother during a phone call. When was the last time *you* felt attacked? Join Pedro and me as she does some serious Mother-Work. (Part 1 of 2)   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Why do highly sensitive people seem to get overwhelmed so easily—yet also heal faster than most? If you're someone who feels deeply, thinks profoundly, and often finds yourself stressed by things others shrug off, you're not broken—you're wired differently. This episode uncovers the hidden strengths of being a highly sensitive person (HSP), and how your unique nervous system isn't just a challenge—it's a powerful asset when understood and embraced. Learn the science behind why HSPs experience stress more intensely, and why it's not a personal flaw. Discover the concept of “differential susceptibility” and how your sensitivity makes you more responsive to healing, therapy, and supportive environments. Hear real-life examples showing how HSPs thrive in the right conditions—and how your deep sensitivity can fuel personal growth, connection, and leadership. Press play now to transform the way you see your sensitivity—and unlock the resilience and growth potential already within you. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

This week's inquiry begins by noticing all the movements of life. Relationships, jobs, houses, cars, kids, wellbeing … everyday stuff. Do you experience any resistance just hearing that list? If you do, we invite you to follow along with an inquiry on the likely cause of that stress: believing the thought, “I have to keep it all going.” Is it true? Can you absolutely know that it's true? Does this thought bring peace or stress into your life? If it's stressful, it might be worth a second look.

What if you could heal a painful family relationship—without anyone else changing but you? For highly sensitive people, navigating family dynamics can be emotionally exhausting—especially when you feel responsible for keeping the peace. This episode shares the powerful story of a woman who broke free from years of resentment and disconnection with her sister, all by doing one thing: focusing on herself. If you've ever felt stuck in a difficult relationship, this story might hold the key to your own breakthrough. Learn why trying to "keep the peace" can actually create more conflict—and what to do instead. Discover how letting go of the need for others to change can open the door to deep inner freedom. Hear how a mindset shift turned a dreaded family reunion into the most peaceful one in decades. Tune in now to discover how one woman found lasting peace in her most challenging relationship—without needing anyone else to change. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Is hidden trauma quietly draining your energy as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)? Many HSPs carry emotional weight from the past—often without realizing it. Whether it's the loud pain of Big T trauma or the subtle, daily erosion of Little T trauma, these experiences shape how you react, relate, and show up in the world. This episode is your gentle yet eye-opening invitation to explore where healing truly begins. Why This Episode Matters to You: If you're a highly sensitive person feeling chronically overwhelmed, emotionally reactive, or physically drained, unprocessed trauma may be playing a bigger role than you think. This episode unpacks how trauma uniquely impacts HSPs—and reveals compassionate ways to start healing without retraumatizing yourself. It's not about fixing what's broken—it's about finding freedom through understanding. What You'll Walk Away With: A clear understanding of the difference between Big T and Little T trauma—and why both deeply affect HSPs. The overlooked signs of unprocessed trauma that could be showing up in your body, emotions, and relationships. Gentle, empowering healing practices—from therapy to somatic work to Byron Katie's The Work—that honor your sensitivity and help build resilience. Tune in now to start transforming hidden stress into inner freedom—one gentle step at a time. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

My guests on today's episode are Ankita, who is feeling stressed out by her boss's demands, and Carla, who has recently lost her job. Ankita has experienced trauma, anxiety, and panic attacks. While talking to her boss, she feels the anxiety taking over and attributes it to him. Carla has always been the steady breadwinner in her family. Recently, after losing her job, Carla asked her husband to cover for her financially and he said he couldn't. Now she is feeling depressed and abandoned. Join us as we do The Work and get to the root of their problems.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Grace Bell, facilitator of The Work, assists people to identify and question their stressful ways of looking at life.  She offers Year of Inquiry, a vibrant membership community of inquirers Sept-June each year. Learn more about Year of Inquiry at https://workwithgrace.com/year-of-inquiry Grace also has a special love for those suffering from eating issues including disordered eating (disordered thinking) of all kinds--having suffered from this behavior and thought/feeling process herself and finding an unshakable peace within around eating, food, health and behaviors with eating.  Grace works with all kinds of compulsions, habits and addictions as they are all the same thing: a pull to some behavior, substance or activity in order to help us with our stressful feelings and thoughts. As Byron Katie offers us (founder of The Work); when we believe what we think, it creates unnecessary suffering. When we question what we think, we feel lighter and less serious about what is. We even begin to laugh. We notice who we really are is peaceful already, a human being living life as best we can--learning, growing, loving.  In the public sessions on this youtube channel, we have all-group inquiry sessions called First Friday Inquiry, we have interviews with practitioners of The Work, we have Eating Peace videos (on the eating peace playlist) and we have individual sessions in The Work by courageous people willing to be recorded for Peace Talk podcast and this channel. Thanks to everyone involved in what is shared here on this channel, as it is great service to others in the world who find their way here and who are curious about life without "believing" thought all the time.   In all-group sessions and solo sessions, we begin with a judgment...and move into the four questions and turnarounds. Willingness to be real and honest with your thinking is the first powerful step in The Work.  No one ever has to share when attending Friday Inquiry, and thank you when you do.   For the Work With Grace programs and more information, and to get on the Grace Notes mailing list for updates and sharing of all kinds around The Work, please visit www.workwithgrace.com To receive notice of Eating Peace programs, videos and vlog posts, visit www.workwithgrace.com/eating-peace and join the mailing list. To join the Grace Notes family of readers right now, Grace's popular blog on using The Work of Byron Katie to grow a peaceful life, get the thorough START HERE guide to letting The Work, work right here: https://workwithgrace.leadpages.co/start-here-guidebook/ Where to find me: workwithgrace.com grace notes from the past at workingwithgrace.com https://www.facebook.com/WorkWithGrace/ https://twitter.com/ByronKatieCoach https://www.linkedin.com/in/workwithgrace/ https://www.instagram.com/byronkatiecoach/

Have you ever felt paralyzed by fear, only to later realize it was all in your mind? As a Highly Sensitive Person, navigating everyday stress can feel overwhelming—especially when you're stepping into something important, like a big presentation or sharing something close to your heart. In this episode, we unpack a simple but profound analogy that sheds light on what really creates stress—and how to dismantle it. Discover the ancient story that instantly clarifies how “The Work” of Byron Katie can transform anxiety. Listen in as a client unpacks her fear of not explaining well—and finds peace through inquiry. Explore how past experiences and self-judgment fuel present stress—and how recognizing this can lead to deep inner freedom. Press play now to uncover how one shift in perception can dissolve your stress and reconnect you with clarity, calm, and confidence. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

This week's episode holds space for one of the main fears that can come up when we're experimenting with inquiry and getting free: the fear of being insensitive. As Tom points out, deep down nobody wants to be insensitive to the suffering that goes on in this world. And when we reach states of openness and freedom ourselves, sometimes the fear that shows up is hurting other people by not joining them in their misery. Through a vulnerable health-related share and an exploration into the possibility that everything – everything – works out in the best way possible, that sparks the conversation about how sensitivity fits into the equation of personal liberation, we invite you to join in on The Work.

Are you a highly sensitive person who freezes up during conflict, wishing you could just disappear? You're not alone—and you're not broken. In this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, Todd Smith dives deep into the hidden patterns that make conflict so overwhelming for HSPs and reveals the inner work that transformed his dread into clarity and calm. Here's what you'll walk away with: A powerful understanding of why conflict hits so hard for highly sensitive people—and that you're not weak for feeling that way. A peek inside Todd's personal transformation through inner work, showing how resilience is built, not born. Tools and mindset shifts that can help you stay grounded, speak up, and even find a strange kind of safety in conflict. Discover how inner work can help you face conflict with confidence and finally feel at home in your own responses—press play now. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

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Are You Stuck in Decision Paralysis as a Highly Sensitive Person? Why does making even the smallest decision sometimes feel like a life-altering choice for HSPs? If you're tired of overthinking every outcome and still feeling stuck, this episode is the clarity you've been looking for. As a highly sensitive person, decision-making can be more than stressful—it can feel overwhelming, even paralyzing. In this episode, Todd Smith uncovers why traditional decision strategies don't always work for HSPs and what you can do instead. Discover tools and mindset shifts designed to help you make clear, pressure-free decisions that feel aligned, not forced. Here's what you'll walk away with: The three hidden reasons highly sensitive people experience decision paralysis and how to recognize them in real-time. A gentle, step-by-step approach to move forward using tools like the Three Column Clarifier and calm-state decision-making. Five simple strategies to prevent future overwhelm and bring peace back into your choices—starting today. Press play now to finally move through indecision with clarity, confidence, and calm. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

(Part 2 of 2) When twelve-year-old Gauthier was making a lot of noise in the back seat of the car, his father slammed on the brakes, pulled Gauthier out, and began to drive away without him. Years later, he still sees his father as insane, dangerous, and brutal. Open your mind, get still, and join Gauthier and me in this fascinating example of self-inquiry.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 1688: Stephen Warley invites readers to explore how reducing judgment, of both ourselves and others, can lead to greater emotional freedom, deeper self-awareness, and more authentic connections. He outlines practical mindset shifts and daily practices to break the habit of judgment and live with more compassion and intention. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lifeskillsthatmatter.com/judge-yourself-and-others-less/ Quotes to ponder: "Judging is an emotional habit that often prevents us from being honest with ourselves." "The more you learn to accept yourself, the more you learn to accept others." "Instead of judging yourself for judging, just notice it." Episode references: The Work of Byron Katie: https://thework.com/ Insight Timer Meditation App: https://insighttimer.com/ Loving What Is by Byron Katie: https://www.amazon.com/Loving-What-Four-Questions-That/dp/1400045371 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 1688: Stephen Warley invites readers to explore how reducing judgment, of both ourselves and others, can lead to greater emotional freedom, deeper self-awareness, and more authentic connections. He outlines practical mindset shifts and daily practices to break the habit of judgment and live with more compassion and intention. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lifeskillsthatmatter.com/judge-yourself-and-others-less/ Quotes to ponder: "Judging is an emotional habit that often prevents us from being honest with ourselves." "The more you learn to accept yourself, the more you learn to accept others." "Instead of judging yourself for judging, just notice it." Episode references: The Work of Byron Katie: https://thework.com/ Insight Timer Meditation App: https://insighttimer.com/ Loving What Is by Byron Katie: https://www.amazon.com/Loving-What-Four-Questions-That/dp/1400045371 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a highly sensitive person who crumbles under pressure when others are watching? If performance anxiety grips you the moment you're in the spotlight, this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People offers a powerful shift. Discover how a single thought—“I don't want to miss the heart of it”—can fuel tension, fear, and self-doubt, and how questioning that belief can lead to surprising calm and clarity. In this open session, you'll gain: A revealing look at the hidden fear behind perfectionism and the need for approval. A step-by-step demonstration of how one anxious thought can be unraveled using the Work of Byron Katie. A liberating perspective on what really creates value in your performance—hint: it's not perfection. Tune in now to experience how one thought can be the difference between panic and peace. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Do you notice within yourself a tendency to approach life from a place of resistance? Resistance to what you don't want to experience, resistance to what appears to oppose you, or resistance in its other form: effort. Often we hold tightly to resistance as if it's the only thing between us and utter disaster. Or just living an experience we don't like. But could it be that our resistance is the only thing between us and relaxation? And that the only thing effort truly brings into our lives is stress? As Katie says, don't believe it. Find out for yourself. Follow along in this week's episode exploring our habit of resistance.

Arguing with reality in business is a huge waste of time. If you've got clients who are in that head space where they're sort of scared, they're not quite sure what to do next. If you call them and you're in that same head space, then you're not helpful to them. But if you call them with some thoughts or ideas on how you can help them to accomplish the things they want to accomplish, now you have value, and they're going to be happy to talk to you. They're going to want to talk to you because they understand that you may have the solution to some of the problems they're facing. David: Hi, and welcome back. In today's episode, co-host Kevin Rosenquist, and I ask the question, are you stuck arguing with reality? Welcome back, Kevin. Kevin: Good to see you, David. Normally, I feel like I'm stuck arguing with virtual reality these days. With Chat GPT or the like. What are we talking about when you say "argue with reality?" David: We touched on this in a previous podcast, and it's a quote that I heard from Byron Katie. She wrote a book called Loving What Is, and she had this quote in there where she said, "Whenever I argue with reality, I lose, but only 100% of the time." And I loved that quote because it just seemed so completely true. Anytime we argue with whatever is actually happening, whatever's going on in the world, whenever we argue with that reality, we lose. And if you go to social media, any social media platform, you will find millions of people, every day, arguing with reality. They'll be talking about things they have no control over, that they wish weren't the case. And you can waste so much life doing this, that I thought it would be good for us to have a conversation about it. Kevin: Well, we talked a little bit about controlling what you can control and accepting what you can't control, so it kind of fits into the same category. And it feels like we tend to resist what's happening, instead of adapting to it. Is that fair to say? David: Yeah. I think a lot of people do that, and not that we're even doing it intentionally. A lot of times we don't even consider this idea of what is reality versus what am I looking at on a day-to-day basis? We tend to go into experiences, whether it's conversations with people, whether it's posting something on social media or replying to someone on social media, doing any of these things, and we just feel like we're having a conversation and we don't necessarily take into consideration what are the things that are just real and true, that I might be arguing against, right? Kevin: Mm-hmm. David: So when people go online, particularly now, and they're on there and they're talking about tariffs and all the terrible things that are going to be happening to their business, I look at that and I'm like, okay, well, the tariffs, that's true. The uncertainty in the market, that's true. Everyone is dealing with that. But if I talk about that without looking for solutions, without looking for the ways to get around those problems, then why am I even doing it? Isn't that not just wasting time, but wasting our lives and other people's lives? Kevin: Mm-hmm. What other ways, you know, we mentioned tariffs, there's plenty of big stuff out there that's happening that affects the business world. But as far as, you know, just getting into the sales process, the business process, what other ways do you find that people argue with reality? David: Ghosting. Sales in general? Cold calling. I mean, every aspect of sales requires us to deal with different aspects of reality every single time. Right? "These people won't call me back." Okay. That may be a reality with those people. Another part of reality though, is that there are people who will call you back. There are prospects who are responsive. There are people who need to buy your products and services right now. All of those things are also true.

Are you stuck in a cycle of being “nice” that secretly drains your energy as a Highly Sensitive Person? If you're constantly overwhelmed from trying to please others while suppressing your true needs, you're not alone. Many HSPs struggle with setting boundaries without feeling like they're being unkind. But what if your people-pleasing isn't actually kindness—and what if real compassion starts with inner clarity? In this episode, you'll discover: Why the thought “I need to be nice” may be fueling your stress and holding you back from true connection. How to gently work with the stuck part of you that fears saying no or taking up space—without shaming it. A guided inner work practice using the Work of Byron Katie to transform emotional patterns from within. Listen now to reconnect with your authentic kindness—and set boundaries without losing your compassionate heart. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

▶️ Connect with Richard on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/richardatherton-firsthuman/   Our guest this week is renowned author and speaker Byron Katie. Her work, referred to as 'The Work', is a simple yet profound method of self-inquiry aimed at identifying and questioning negative thoughts that cause suffering. At its core are four questions: Is it true? Can you absolutely know it's true? How do you react when you believe that thought? Who would you be without it?  By moving these thoughts from the mind to paper and reflecting deeply, individuals can access greater clarity, love, and wisdom - and freedom from ego.  Katie emphasizes integrity and fearlessness in this process, offering her tools freely to empower individuals to transform depression, fear, and limiting beliefs into peace.   We talk: A night on the floor that changed Katie's life The fallacy of a positive mindset Attending to the projector not the projected Seeing all as beauty Knowing that pain is an illusion Links: Katie's Website Subscribe for more transformative conversations! 

This conversation isn't about interest rates, the property cycle, or strategy. It's about the emotional friction that keeps smart investors from moving forward — even when the plan is clear. "I just need to save a bit more first""I'll wait until the market settles""I'm not quite ready yet" These aren't just personal thoughts — they're a pattern. One we've seen hundreds of times. And it's not a strategy problem. It's not about the data, the plan, or the timing. It's the inner game. In this episode, we dive into why so many smart, capable people stay stuck on the edge of investing — and what actually moves the needle. We unpack the psychology of waiting, the emotional loops that masquerade as logic, and how to break free from a mindset that keeps you on pause. We pull apart: The real reasons smart people stall, even when the strategy is sound The mindset patterns we've seen keep people stuck in planning purgatory How to tell when your 'caution' is actually avoidance A better question than "Should I invest now?" How to start moving — even if you're not 100% sure See you on the inside, WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/live/cHKxGK5O3W4?si=iZZwg7AcDpXlLV57 IMPORTANT: The Investor Lab is for educational purposes only and does not constitute financial advice. Always do your own research and seek independent professional advice before making any investment or financial decisions. -- RESOURCES: Research on The Inner Game: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1yNZWerzhUzNMemAYG_NjMw2lbxpiPyYyEspqRLCFWtU/edit?usp=sharing Loss Aversion: https://thedecisionlab.com/biases/loss-aversion Read: A Practical Guide To Finding Happiness and Living A Deliberate Life - https://blog.goosemcgrath.com/p/practical-guide-finding-happiness-living-deliberate-life Read: Self Actualisation Is The Only Worthy Goal - https://blog.goosemcgrath.com/p/self-actualisation-is-the-only-worthy-goal-d5e2 Byron Katie's "Loving What Is" - https://www.amazon.com.au/Loving-What-Four-Questions-Change/dp/1400045371 Bill Perkins' "Die With Zero" - https://www.amazon.com.au/Die-Zero-Getting-Your-Money/dp/0358099765 Further Reading: Loss Aversion Explained: https://www.behavioraleconomics.com/resources/mini-encyclopedia-of-be/loss-aversion/ Harvard Business Review on Loss Aversion: https://hbr.org/2018/05/why-people-keep-spending-too-much-on-house-renovations -- Build a roadmap to achieve your goals for FREE on Property Pathfinder: propertypathfinder.io Want help to invest in 2025?Book in a quick chat here and we'll point you in the right direction:bit.ly/3E0wKGa Got a question or some feedback? We're all ears!bit.ly/tilqs Need finance guidance?Chat with the team: dashdotfinance.com.au/discoverycall – Catch Up On Recent Episodes: Trusts & SMSFs: How Advanced Investors Are Rethinking Their Structures in 2025Portfolio Acceleration Masterclass: How To Use Strategic Selling As A Booster How to Create A Property Portfolio Growth Plan The Smartest Plan B for Business Owners? Sean's $464k StoryFinancial Jiu-Jitsu: How to Break Through Your Portfolio's Cashflow ConstraintsWinning the Investment Game: How to Set & Beat Your Hurdle RateFake Gold? Markets Down? Liquidity Up? – What’s REALLY Going On? The RBA Just Changed the Game — Here’s What It Means for YouHold vs Sell: How to Know When to Take ProfitsBitcoin: Why Every Property Investor Needs to Consider Owning ItEverything You Need To Know About Property Investing FinanceProperty Investing In Australia In 2025: What You Need To Know Investment Strategies for 2025 Follow the Money: How Liquidity Drives Asset Prices (and How You Can Benefit) What You Don’t Know About Money Could Cost You Everything – Connect:https://www.dashdot.com.au https://youtube.com/@theinvestorlab https://instagram.com/dashdotproperty https://instagram.com/goosemcgrath https://instagram.com/gabi.billing See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why Alone Time Isn't Optional for HSPs—It's Essential Ever feel like you're constantly overwhelmed, even when nothing dramatic is happening? What if the missing piece isn't doing more—but stepping away? If you're a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), you might feel guilty for needing extra space. But here's the truth: alone time isn't selfish—it's survival. This episode dives deep into why solitude isn't a luxury for HSPs, but a powerful tool for staying grounded, calm, and connected to your true self. Discover why even 15 minutes of quiet can prevent emotional overload. Learn how solitude helps you untangle your emotions from everyone else's energy—without guilt. Uncover the connection between silence and powerful inner insight that recharges your mind and spirit. Tune in now to reclaim your calm and learn how alone time can become your most powerful form of self-care as an HSP. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

When twelve-year-old Gauthier was making a lot of noise in the back seat of the car, his father slammed on the brakes, pulled Gauthier out, and began to drive away without him. Years later, he still sees his father as insane, dangerous, and brutal. Open your mind, get still, and join Gauthier and me in this fascinating example of self-inquiry. (Part 1 of 2)   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Are your everyday frustrations quietly revealing the deeper truths you've been avoiding? We've all had that moment—waiting endlessly in line, overwhelmed, angry, and ready to explode. But what if that experience isn't just annoying? What if it's the key to uncovering buried stress and unresolved stories that are quietly running your life? In this raw and revealing episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, you'll discover: How frustration and impatience are powerful signals pointing you to your next breakthrough. A surprising way to shift your perspective by questioning what you believe about others—especially when you're convinced they're wrong. Why your current emotional reaction might be rooted in a past experience you didn't even realize was still affecting you. Press play now to turn a stressful moment into a portal for deep clarity, compassion, and unexpected inner freedom. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

RSVP for free to "Become Your Own Yoga Teacher" at https://www.quietmind.yoga/workshopThink back to March of this year. What changed for you? What started unraveling or accelerating? March was the biggest month of 2025 so far—but now May is here, and it's the second biggest month of the year. It's not just about the moment. This month sets the stage for the next 18 months of your life and prepares the soil for the September eclipse season, the October stabilizing shifts, and the long game of 2026.In this episode of the Quietmind Astrology Podcast, I walk you through every major transit of May 2025—with a focus on how to actually work with the energy, not just know about it.

“If I receive, I owe something in return.” This thought is drilled into us from the very beginning with the teaching of “pleases” and “thank yous,” but is it true? It can be so easy to slip into the current of belief in this thought, because that's the way the world seems to work. But might it work differently if we didn't believe that receiving and owing go hand-in-hand? And more importantly, what is it like on a personal level believing that it's true that we can't receive without owing something in return? Could it be that nature doesn't live by rules of owing and earning? Have any of us ever actually earned the incredible abundance of the sun? Or the devotion of the chair that holds us up? Maybe those are clues to the nature of life, and therefore the nature of us.

Episode Notes In this episode of Workplace Hugs, Shannon and Rami dive into Byron Katie's transformative book "Loving What Is" and explore how examining our stressful thoughts can lead to greater peace and freedom. Through personal examples and candid discussion, they demonstrate how Katie's four-question method can help shift perspective from resistance to acceptance without resignation.

Ever felt completely overwhelmed by something seemingly small—like a game of pickleball? If you're a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), even a casual social situation can spiral into emotional overload. In this episode, Todd Smith shares a powerful story of losing control on the pickleball court—and unpacks the surprising lessons hidden in that meltdown. You'll see how stress, emotion, and ego interact in real time—and how awareness can transform chaos into clarity. Here's what you'll take away from this episode: A personal, raw example of how overwhelm shows up for HSPs—and why it's not a failure, but a signal. A deep dive into the three foundational pillars of stress management tailored specifically for HSPs. Practical ways to regain balance, release ego, and even grow closer to others through emotional authenticity. Discover how even your most irrational moments can lead to peace, self-compassion, and deeper connection—hit play and join the journey. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Grace Bell, facilitator of The Work, assists people to identify and question their stressful ways of looking at life.  She offers Year of Inquiry, a vibrant membership community of inquirers Sept-June each year. Learn more about Year of Inquiry at https://workwithgrace.com/year-of-inquiry Grace also has a special love for those suffering from eating issues including disordered eating (disordered thinking) of all kinds--having suffered from this behavior and thought/feeling process herself and finding an unshakable peace within around eating, food, health and behaviors with eating.  Grace works with all kinds of compulsions, habits and addictions as they are all the same thing: a pull to some behavior, substance or activity in order to help us with our stressful feelings and thoughts. As Byron Katie offers us (founder of The Work); when we believe what we think, it creates unnecessary suffering. When we question what we think, we feel lighter and less serious about what is. We even begin to laugh. We notice who we really are is peaceful already, a human being living life as best we can--learning, growing, loving.  In the public sessions on this youtube channel, we have all-group inquiry sessions called First Friday Inquiry, we have interviews with practitioners of The Work, we have Eating Peace videos (on the eating peace playlist) and we have individual sessions in The Work by courageous people willing to be recorded for Peace Talk podcast and this channel. Thanks to everyone involved in what is shared here on this channel, as it is great service to others in the world who find their way here and who are curious about life without "believing" thought all the time.   In all-group sessions and solo sessions, we begin with a judgment...and move into the four questions and turnarounds. Willingness to be real and honest with your thinking is the first powerful step in The Work.  No one ever has to share when attending Friday Inquiry, and thank you when you do.   For the Work With Grace programs and more information, and to get on the Grace Notes mailing list for updates and sharing of all kinds around The Work, please visit www.workwithgrace.com To receive notice of Eating Peace programs, videos and vlog posts, visit www.workwithgrace.com/eating-peace and join the mailing list. To join the Grace Notes family of readers right now, Grace's popular blog on using The Work of Byron Katie to grow a peaceful life, get the thorough START HERE guide to letting The Work, work right here: https://workwithgrace.leadpages.co/start-here-guidebook/ Where to find me: workwithgrace.com grace notes from the past at workingwithgrace.com https://www.facebook.com/WorkWithGrace/ https://twitter.com/ByronKatieCoach https://www.linkedin.com/in/workwithgrace/ https://www.instagram.com/byronkatiecoach/

Are You Secretly Judging Yourself Without Even Knowing It? If you're a highly sensitive person, you may be internalizing judgment in subtle, painful ways—often without realizing it. This episode offers a compassionate deep-dive into the quiet self-criticism that keeps HSPs stuck in stress, and shows you how to shift toward calm and clarity. What You'll Gain by Listening: Learn why a pause, sigh, or silence can feel like rejection—and how to stop taking it personally. Discover how to spot the sneaky ways you turn feedback into self-blame. Gain one powerful mindset shift that helps you stop chasing unspoken approval and start grounding yourself from within. Press play to start letting go of the stress that comes from self-judgment—and find more peace in your everyday interactions. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

My guest is Smadar, whose 13-year-old daughter has chosen to live with Smadar's ex-husband instead of with her. Smadar thinks that her daughter is distant, unavailable, and doesn't really love her. Join Smadar and me as we do this mother-daughter Work.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

¿Y si cada relación que has tenido ha sido un espejo diseñado para despertar tu consciencia?En este episodio de Siento Desilusionarte, converso con Durga Stef sobre cómo las relaciones pueden ser un vehículo sagrado para la evolución interior.Hablamos de la repetición de patrones, de cómo usamos a los demás para proyectar nuestras heridas, y de lo que realmente significa amar incondicionalmente. También exploramos las 4 preguntas de Byron Katie, el poder del efecto Pigmalión, y la trampa de buscar fuera el amor que solo se encuentra dentro.Una conversación para quienes están listos para dejar de culpar al otro y empezar a ver la relación como una oportunidad de transformación.Timestamps destacados:00:00 Intro01:35 Las relaciones como vehículo para evolucionar06:25 Las 4 preguntas de Byron Katie25:25 La mente al servicio de mi trabajo personal28:21 ¿Por qué se repiten las lecciones en cada relación?31:07 El efecto Pigmalión: el impacto de las proyecciones34:39 Tu situación como herramienta evolutiva48:33 Aceptar vs resistir para generar cambio56:22 Amor incondicional vs roles01:02:17 La ilusión de encontrar el amor fuera de nosotrosEscúchalo en todas las plataformas de audio y en YouTube.#sientodesilusionarte #durgastef #relacionesconscientes #byronkatie #autoindagación #amorpropio #proyecciones #parejas #despertar #espiritualidadcotidiana #efectopigmalion #amorconsciente #conscienciaemocional #relaciones #espiritualidad #terapiapsicologica #podcast #mente

Are You Stuck Waiting for Someone Else to Fix Things? Have you ever found yourself frustrated, thinking "Somebody has to do something!"—only to feel more paralyzed by the situation? In this episode, we explore how this common thought can actually increase stress, block effective action, and leave you feeling powerless. What You'll Discover in This Episode: Why the belief that someone needs to act can actually keep you stuck How questioning this thought reduces pressure and creates inner freedom The surprising way a calmer mind leads to clearer, more effective choices Listen now and learn how to shift from stress to empowerment in any situation! Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Brought to you by Paranormal Underground Radio Episode Date: 4.30.2025 Hosts: Karen Frazier, Chuckie G, and Cheryl Knight-Wilson Guest: Jason Masuoka Show Summary: In this episode of “Mindful Mystics,” we talk with tarot reader and teacher Jason Masuoka to explore how shadow work can uncover hidden beliefs, transform triggers, and support personal growth. Jason, Karen, Cheryl, and Chuck share real-life examples and practical tools — including tarot spreads, journaling, and Byron Katie's “The Work” — for recognizing and integrating the parts of ourselves we often hide. A candid, insightful conversation on reclaiming your authenticity and stepping into wholeness. Check out Jason Masuoka online at: https://www.tarotbyjason.com/ https://www.facebook.com/IntuitiveTarotByJason/ https://www.instagram.com/TarotByJason/ Resource: Byron Katie's “The Work”: thework.com Also check out: Paranormal Underground magazine: https://paranormalunderground.net/ Author and psychic medium Karen Frazier: https://www.authorkarenfrazier.com/#/ Paranormal Investigator and psychic medium Chuckie G: https://chuckieg.net/ Show Highlights: [01:14] Introducing Jason Masuoka Karen welcomes her longtime friend Jason Masuoka to the show, highlighting his background as a professional tarot reader and shadow work instructor. [04:22] What Is Shadow Work, Really? Jason breaks down the origins of shadow work through the lens of Carl Jung. He explains how unacknowledged aspects of the self can limit personal growth — and why integrating those parts leads to greater authenticity. [07:30] Why Can't I Just Hide My Shadows? Cheryl challenges the idea of needing to confront painful parts of the self. Jason explains that buried traits can lead to emotional triggers, repeating patterns, and self-sabotage — even if you're not consciously aware of them. [11:46] When Shadows Avalanche Cheryl describes how her shadow sometimes feels overwhelming, like an avalanche. Jason likens it to a mental script on loop and stresses the importance of regular “maintenance” to keep the shadow from taking over. [16:41] How to Spot a Shadow in Action The team discusses projections, transferences, and triggers as telltale signs of the shadow at work. Jason shares personal stories, including his childhood memory linked to the smell of chlorine, to illustrate how emotional reactions are often rooted in early experiences. [25:49] Cheryl's Struggle With Control Cheryl shares a vulnerable example about her shadow around control. Jason and Karen help her explore the gap between acknowledging a shadow and doing the actual work to shift it. Meditation and journaling emerge as powerful tools. [29:19] The Psychology of Motivation Karen introduces a formula for motivation: value × expectancy – cost. She and Jason explain how this applies to shadow work — if you don't believe you can change or see the value in it, you likely won't act. [43:19] Chuckie G's Story of Inherited Shame Chuck opens up about being called a failure by his father for years and how that shaped his self-perception. The group discusses how deeply held shadow beliefs can form through repeated messaging and remain even when logically untrue. [45:45] Tarot as a Tool for Shadow Integration Jason shares three custom tarot spreads designed to uncover shadow aspects, including “The Shadow Aspect Spread,” “The Mask and Hidden Truth Spread,” and a mirror-themed layout. He explains how tarot imagery speaks directly to the subconscious. [55:09] Questioning the Story: Byron Katie's “The Work” Karen walks Chuck and Cheryl through Byron Katie's four-question method. They each identify a limiting belief and experience emotional insight as they move through the turnarounds, illustrating how reframing stories can uncover hidden shadow material. [01:08:27] Where to Find Jason Jason shares how listeners can book readings or follow his weekly card pulls on Instagram and Facebook. He also teases upcoming classes and collaborations with Karen.

Byron Katie does not want people's approval. She has no interest in manipulating people out of the way they see her. She wants them to think the way they think. According to Katie, that's love. In this episode, Tom guides a meditation around noticing wanting approval. Noticing what it's like living in the world of holding tightly to that desire, and noticing what it's like being free of it. Could it be that it doesn't matter what anyone is thinking about me? We invite you to follow along in this inquiry with situations in your own life where you notice attachment to being approved of.

Are you tired of feeling crushed by even the slightest criticism? If you're a highly sensitive person, disapproval can feel like a punch to the gut—unfair, overwhelming, and hard to shake. In this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, you'll discover why criticism hits so hard and how to shift your inner response in a way that fosters clarity and calm instead of self-doubt and shame. Here's what you'll walk away with: A deep understanding of why the thought “They make me feel wrong” causes so much emotional turmoil. A powerful, step-by-step guided meditation to unravel this belief using the Work of Byron Katie. A grounded sense of self-trust that doesn't depend on anyone else's approval—even when disapproval is loud and pointed. Ready to feel more confident and at peace in the face of criticism? Press play now and experience the inner shift for yourself. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

What do we do when we feel frozen in the face of manufactured crisis and overwhelm? I sit down with wise and wonderful Sharazad Jamal to talk about finding your way back to your inner truth, using creativity, intuition, and ancient wisdom tools to navigate fear and chaos.In this deeply resonant conversation, artist and soul-guide Sharazad Jamal joins me to explore how we navigate ongoing chaos, collective trauma, and personal overwhelm. We dive into tools and practices that help move through fear, reconnect to intuition, and activate creativity during crisis. With wisdom rooted in somatic therapy, spiritual insight, and creative resilience, this episode is a balm for anyone feeling frozen, scattered, or exhausted. Sharazad shares frameworks for understanding our different bodies (mental, physical, emotional, and soul) and how to support each when fear takes over. If you've been struggling to stay grounded in the noise, this episode is a must-listen.Topics We CoverWhy artists are uniquely prepared for uncertainty and changeIrene Lyon's somatic trauma work and the freeze responseUnderstanding the four "bodies": mental, physical, emotional, soulHow to get unstuck when you feel frozen or overwhelmedThe power of imagination and emotion in shaping our futureWhy beauty and creativity are revolutionary, not indulgentUsing Byron Katie's "The Work" to unhook from unhelpful beliefsBuilding journaling and creative rituals as grounding practicesTrusting intuition even when it feels disorientingDiscerning your feelings from the collective or others' energyResources & MentionsIrene Lyon (Somatic Therapist, Vancouver)Byron Katie's "The Work"Morning Moon Jewelry (lovemorningmoon.com)

Are everyday moments secretly draining your energy as a Highly Sensitive Person? If you've ever felt overwhelmed without knowing exactly why, this episode uncovers the subtle stressors hiding in plain sight—and how they're quietly overloading your nervous system. You'll gain practical tools for recognizing and reducing stress from sources most people overlook. This episode is a must-listen if you're seeking more calm, clarity, and control in your daily life as an HSP. Learn why too many browser tabs or vague instructions can trigger emotional overload Discover 7 overlooked everyday situations that can throw off your nervous system Get practical, grounding strategies to stay focused and centered, no matter how chaotic life gets  Press play now to uncover the sneaky stressors derailing your peace—and start taking back your calm today. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

(Part 2 of 2) Addie, my guest today, is upset because the man she's dating has taken a trip to Japan without her, and she fears that he doesn't want to be with her, even though he's been calling her daily. Join me and Addie as she discovers that the cause of her suffering isn't what she thinks it is. Welcome to self-inquiry, The Work of Byron Katie.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

On today's episode I chat with Susan Stiffelman, a licensed marriage and family therapist, author, parenting coach, and host of the Parenting Without Power Struggles podcast. We talk about parts, of course. Parenting parts. Spiritual seeker parts. Inner children who hide behind locked doors. And how she gently helps people return to center. Susan shares stories from her work and from her own life, including how she stayed connected to herself (and her child) during a divorce, and why she believes parenting is one of life's most profound trailheads. Key takeaways from this episode: What happens when we parent from our “hijacked” parts The power of staying tethered to ourselves, even when our kids are dysregulated How to move out of the “fixer” role and into the calm anchor our kids need What's underneath those big reactions? Why she says: “We are a society of disembodied people” What parts of you get activated when your child is dysregulated or distressed? Can you be curious about the fear underneath your frustration? What would it mean to “sit in the fire” without jumping in to fix it?   Susan welcomed me on her podcast recently to talk all things parenting + IFS, which I hope you'll check out as well.  Register for our live Self-Led Parenting Masterclass  happening May 1, 2025 (replay available)   Favorite quote: “This isn't about parenting, it's about the journey of coming home to our true nature.” -- Susan Stiffelman   About Susan Stiffelman Susan Stiffelman is a licensed Marriage, Family, and Child Therapist and the author of Parenting Without Power Strugglesand Parenting With Presence (an Eckhart Tolle Edition). She helps parents become the calm, confident “Captain of the ship”. Susan hosts a popular podcast with over 1.5 million downloads and offers online classes and memberships with guest experts like Dan Siegel, Byron Katie, and Gabor Maté.   Episode Sponsor: Life Architect ✨ Get access to 3 IFS webinars organized by Life Architect (featuring Einat Bronstein, Kay Gardner & Robert Falconer, and Ann Sinko) and receive a 30% discount on selected IFS workshops: https://lifearchitect.com/tammy/ ✨   About The One Inside: Check out The One Inside Substack community to access all episodes, exclusive extended interviews, meditations and exercises, and more.  Find The One Inside Self-Led merch at The One Inside store Watch video clips from select episodes on  The One Inside on YouTube Follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger. Jeff Schrum co-produces The One Inside. He's a writer and IFS Level 2 practitioner who specializes in helping therapists create with clarity and confidence. Are you new to IFS or want a simple way to get to know yourself? Tammy's book, "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" is a PERFECT place to start.  Sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created music for the podcast.  To learn more about sponsorship opportunties on The One Inside Podcast, email Tammy  

Are You Spiritually Bypassing or Finding True Freedom? Ever feel like questioning your thoughts means you'll stop taking action? Many highly sensitive people (HSPs) worry that if they let go of stressful thoughts, they'll become passive or tolerate things they shouldn't. But what if questioning your thoughts actually makes you more effective? In this episode, we tackle: Why it's hard to do inner work when a situation really feels wrong How questioning thoughts can make your actions stronger, not weaker The key to balancing inner peace with outer action Listen now and discover how to free yourself from stress—without ignoring what truly matters. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Often we can experience the fear that if we follow our heart's desire, we will end up hurting people we love, or causing disasters, or being reckless, or any number of miserable outcomes. This week's brave share is an inquiry into that fear. What if the people in your life already see you as reckless and irresponsible? What if you think you might be showing up that way too? In the world of obligation, permission and justification, it becomes impossible to see with clarity. If you've been there (or are there now) we invite you to follow along and undo some of that confusion, and come into an experience of total freedom.

What if your “no” could feel like a gift—to both you and the people you love? Saying no often triggers guilt, fear, or discomfort—especially for Highly Sensitive People (HSPs). But what if the resistance to saying no isn't about the situation itself, but a hidden belief shaping your response? In this episode, we explore a powerful shift that helps you find freedom, peace, and authenticity in your “no,” guided by a live meditation using The Work of Byron Katie. In this episode, you'll discover: – The hidden thought that makes it feel so hard to say no (and how to unravel it) – How honoring your truth can deepen connection, not damage it – Why “no” might just be a profound act of love Experience a shift from tension to truth—tune in now and learn how to say no with peace, clarity, and connection. Todd Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

SYNOPSIS:This is a recording of one of our free, live Eventbrite sessions, where Ali Mezey was joined by Jane Peterson, PhD - and you, our audience - for a live, honest, body-centered conversation about the real work of being in relationship.(Yes, this episode includes live audience questions!)Together, we explore how our bodies carry old relational patterns - what Jane calls the "social soma" - and how these hidden imprints can shape the way we love, fight, and stay (or don't stay) connected.We talk about why love alone isn't always enough to align two people's lives, and why asking deeper, more honest questions early on matters so much.Jane shares practical ways to stay close even when life pulls you in different directions: evolving agreements, repairing after hurt, setting shared goals, and building intimacy that grows with you.We touch on marriage, infidelity, and non-traditional relationships with honesty and warmth, offering grounded advice for navigating real-world love.Whether you're partnered, single, or somewhere in between, this conversation will leave you with new ways to understand yourself, your relationships, and the deep intelligence of your body in all of it.To be an angel to the podcast, click hereTo read more about the podcast, click hereMORE ALI MEZEY:Website:  www.alimezey.comPersonal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundationsTransgenerational Healing Films: www.constellationarts.comMORE JANE PETERSON:Website: www.human-systems-institute.comContact: humansystemsinstitute@gmail.comBIO:Jane Peterson, PhD, is the co-founder and executive director of the Human Systems Institute, Inc. She is the originator of Somatic Imaging and the somatic-resonance approach to constellation work. Her work is internationally respected for being tailored to meet the high learning demands of adult professionals. She was a faculty member at the International Intensive Workshop on Systemic Resolutions in Bernreid, Germany for 9 years. Jane is an INFOSYON certified Master Trainer and has served as an advisor and author for the Knowing Field journal. She has taught systemic constellation work in Asia, South America, South Africa, Mexico, Canada, Europe, and the U.S.In 2005, she organized the first U.S. Conference in constellation work. Her Institute offers trainings in Somatic Imaging and systemic constellation work, including training in organizational constellations. The institute is currently offering it's seventeenth year of training programs.Jane started her professional career as an engineer and manager in a high tech firm (the first woman engineer hired into her department) and knows first-hand the demands placed on leaders in the corporate environment. In the course of becoming a constellation facilitator, she has also been a professional ceramic sculptor and ran her own fine arts studio, Laughing Bones, Inc.Jane is a master practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming, a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, a Certified Professional Behavioral Coach and a member of the American Counseling Association, VOIS, OHA, and ODN. She has studied Process Oriented Psychology with Arny Mindell and Max Schupbach, Group Dynamics with Michael Grinder, Peruvian energy healing with Don Amèrico Yàbar, Attachment and Trauma work with Dan Siegel and Diane Poole Heller, a Psycho-biological Approach to Couples Therapy with Stan Tatkin (Level 2), Coordinated Management of Meaning with Barnett Pearce, and continues to learn with other research-driven leaders in the fields of personal and social evolution. She holds a doctorate in Human and Organizational Systems from Fielding Graduate University, and has been a post-doctoral fellow of the Institute for Social Innovation.OTHER RESOURCES, LINKS AND INSPIRATIONS:Essential Skills for CouplesAdapting Systemic Constellations to OrganizationsHuman-Systems-InstituteBurt Hellinger: “caring for desire”Elaine Debutant: compatibility is actually an achievement of love, not a precondition.”SOCIAL SOMA - our body is shaped by our social relationshipsLALAGE SNOW:  We Are the Not Dead - photographerStan Tatkin - safety in relationship = taking care of each other. The Social BiomeTerry Real - The Social EcosystemEsther Perel: Mating in CaptivityArny Mindell, Sitting in the Fire: Large Group Transformation Using Conflict  and DiversityScience of TouchingEllyn Bader, the Initiator/Inquirer processStan Tatkin, In Each Other's Care: A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through ThemTerry Real,

Addie, my guest today, is upset because the man she's dating has taken a trip to Japan without her, and she fears that he doesn't want to be with her, even though he's been calling her daily. Join me and Addie as she discovers that the cause of her suffering isn't what she thinks it is. Welcome to self-inquiry, The Work of Byron Katie. (Part 1 of 2)   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Grace Bell, facilitator of The Work, assists people to identify and question their stressful ways of looking at life.  She offers Year of Inquiry, a vibrant membership community of inquirers Sept-June each year. Learn more about Year of Inquiry at https://workwithgrace.com/year-of-inquiry Grace also has a special love for those suffering from eating issues including disordered eating (disordered thinking) of all kinds--having suffered from this behavior and thought/feeling process herself and finding an unshakable peace within around eating, food, health and behaviors with eating.  Grace works with all kinds of compulsions, habits and addictions as they are all the same thing: a pull to some behavior, substance or activity in order to help us with our stressful feelings and thoughts. As Byron Katie offers us (founder of The Work); when we believe what we think, it creates unnecessary suffering. When we question what we think, we feel lighter and less serious about what is. We even begin to laugh. We notice who we really are is peaceful already, a human being living life as best we can--learning, growing, loving.  In the public sessions on this youtube channel, we have all-group inquiry sessions called First Friday Inquiry, we have interviews with practitioners of The Work, we have Eating Peace videos (on the eating peace playlist) and we have individual sessions in The Work by courageous people willing to be recorded for Peace Talk podcast and this channel. Thanks to everyone involved in what is shared here on this channel, as it is great service to others in the world who find their way here and who are curious about life without "believing" thought all the time.   In all-group sessions and solo sessions, we begin with a judgment...and move into the four questions and turnarounds. Willingness to be real and honest with your thinking is the first powerful step in The Work.  No one ever has to share when attending Friday Inquiry, and thank you when you do.   For the Work With Grace programs and more information, and to get on the Grace Notes mailing list for updates and sharing of all kinds around The Work, please visit www.workwithgrace.com To receive notice of Eating Peace programs, videos and vlog posts, visit www.workwithgrace.com/eating-peace and join the mailing list. To join the Grace Notes family of readers right now, Grace's popular blog on using The Work of Byron Katie to grow a peaceful life, get the thorough START HERE guide to letting The Work, work right here: https://workwithgrace.leadpages.co/start-here-guidebook/ Where to find me: workwithgrace.com grace notes from the past at workingwithgrace.com https://www.facebook.com/WorkWithGrace/ https://twitter.com/ByronKatieCoach https://www.linkedin.com/in/workwithgrace/ https://www.instagram.com/byronkatiecoach/

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2555: Stella Grizont explores how frustration with others often mirrors something deeper within ourselves, offering a powerful mindset shift to foster empathy and emotional clarity. By reframing your triggers as insights, you can transform irritation into self-awareness and strengthen your relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.woopaah.com/blog/2018/3/6/how-to-stop-feeling-frustrated-with-someone Quotes to ponder: "Frustration is often a mirror, not a window." "Every time we get upset with someone, it's an opportunity to learn something about ourselves." "The behavior that frustrates you most in someone else is likely something you reject in yourself." Episode references: The Language of Emotions by Karla McLaren: https://www.amazon.com/Language-Emotions-What-Feelings-Trying/dp/1591797691 Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg: https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships/dp/189200528X The Work by Byron Katie: https://thework.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Alaine, my guest today, is angry with her boss for cancelling a business credit card without telling her. She really wants him to “butt out” and let her do her job. But is her boss's action really the cause of her anger? Hmmm. Please join me and Alaine as together we get to the bottom of this issue. Get still, take a deep breath, and let's do The Work.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com

Send us a textIn this episode, I'm diving into one of the most powerful mindset tools I've ever learned—a thought shift. This simple but life-changing concept has completely transformed how I handle tough moments, my inner critic, and even my health journey.We'll explore:What a thought shift is and why it mattersWhy your thoughts shape your emotions, actions, and resultsHow to start noticing your most frequent (and unhelpful) thoughtsA real-life example from my own weight loss journeyWhy this isn't about toxic positivity or pretending to be happyHow using thought shifts can reduce emotional suffering and build self-trustLearning from one of my favorite teachers: Byron Katie and The WorkPlus, I'll share how to start practicing this today—even if you've never done mindset work before. Hint: journaling and quiet time are your new besties.Mentioned in the Episode:Byron Katie's The Work – thework.comFree Self-Care Menu Guide-Click hereI'd love to hear from you—have you ever noticed your thoughts and tried to shift them? What came up for you? DM me or leave a review to share your story!Find Jess below!Website: Simply Jess Skincare SIMPLY JESS SKINCARE:Each and every product is naturally derived, highly concentrated and most importantly, super performing! Every product was born out of a need to have a truly pure product that met my high standards for efficacy. You can take 20% off Your Order of our all natural skincare line with code: PODCAST Shop Now! Download Your FREE Self-Care Menu: Click HERE Favorite Supplements for Health and Fat loss: Click HERE My favorites are the Power Greens, Digestive Enzymes and Brain Power Mushroom Coffee-15% off with Code: SIMPLYJESSSKINCARE15 Click HereEmail Us! jess@learningtoglow.comFollow us! Instagram Tik Tok

(Part 2 of 2) My guest in this episode is Jude, whose 95-year-old mother keeps wanting to include her in her mental torment scripts. As Jude and I delve into the depths of her mother's torment, listen in to what she discovers and to what has really been causing her own torment with her mother. Together let's witness and experience what freedom from suffering actually looks like. Relax, get still, settle in, and let's do some self-inquiry.   To catch Byron Katie live every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom, register here: athomewithbyronkatie.com