Podcast appearances and mentions of Byron Katie

Ready for deeper support? Work with me 1:1 https://trueinnerfreedom.com/working-together/  Have you ever set a boundary, felt completely clear about it, and then watched yourself back away from it anyway? If you're a highly sensitive person, boundary struggles can be incredibly frustrating because the problem often isn't knowing what to do—it's being unable to follow through when fear, guilt, self-doubt, or the desire for harmony take over. Understanding why this happens can be the difference between staying stuck in people-pleasing and finally feeling free to honor your own needs. By listening to this episode, you'll discover: Why learning about boundaries often isn't enough to help you consistently hold them The hidden fears and beliefs that pull highly sensitive people back into accommodation and people-pleasing How boundaries become easier when you address the emotional patterns underneath them instead of relying on willpower Listen now to uncover the real reason boundaries feel so difficult—and learn how to create lasting change without forcing yourself to be someone you're not.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.  

Find out your unique sensitivity profile and your current stress levels. Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/  Are you feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or emotionally reactive—even when you're trying to slow down and take care of yourself? As a highly sensitive person, modern life constantly bombards your nervous system with stimulation, pressure, and emotional input. The problem is that many of the things we turn to for relief—scrolling, entertainment, staying busy, even certain foods—can actually add more activation instead of helping us recover. Over time, this hidden accumulation of stress can leave you feeling chronically overwhelmed without understanding why. Understand why highly sensitive people accumulate emotional and nervous system "heat" more easily than others. Discover how modern life quietly pulls you away from true restoration and keeps your system stuck in activation. Learn simple, practical ways to cool, nourish, and rebalance your nervous system so you can feel calmer, steadier, and more like yourself again.   Listen now to discover how small, nourishing shifts can help your sensitive nervous system recover from overload and return to a state of calm, balance, and resilience.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

What do you most fear? In this episode, we share our fears, and we ask, "Is It True?" Then we turn it around and live with the turnarounds.  Get still, take a breath, open your mind, and let's do The Work! Don't miss Byron Katie LIVE every M-T-W, 9-10 am Pacific Time. Register: athomewithbk.com

Care deeply without losing your center. Grab the "Whose Business?" Reflection Cards: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/whos-business-cards/ Have you ever felt someone else's stress so deeply that you lost touch with your own emotional state? As a highly sensitive person, your nervous system is naturally wired to pick up subtle emotional shifts in others. While this gift allows for deep empathy and connection, it can also leave you feeling responsible for other people's emotions, exhausted after interactions, and disconnected from your own sense of calm. In this episode, you'll discover: Why highly sensitive people absorb stress from others so quickly and automatically How empathy quietly turns into emotional entanglement and drains your energy A practical way to stay compassionate, present, and supportive without carrying someone else's emotional burden Listen now to learn how to remain grounded in yourself while caring deeply for others, so you can protect your peace without losing your empathy.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

When you've been brought up in a culture of right versus wrong polarity, how do you navigate your way out of that maze as it's falling apart all around you? Gazit Chaya is here to share wisdom gained from leaving fundamentally evangelical Christianity, and building a life truly worth living that honors their core values. Join us to find out more! Gazit Chaya has survived several traumatic brain injuries and decades of anxiety, neurodivergence and depressing thoughts of self harm. Gazit has experienced the challenges of divorce, lived with postpartum depression, gotten through a stay in a psych hospital and survived a suicide attempt. For over 15 years, Gazit Chaya was a speech language pathologist in public schools trained specifically to work with children with autism. Gazit is also a mental health Coach, a YouTuber, a Public Speaker, and an Educator, teaching workshops about trauma recovery and nervous system regulation. They are the founder of The Luria Center, a resource for personal development as well as the Author of Holy Shit. Gazit Chaya helps clients by using a combination of the following protocols; Certified Somatic Parts Work, Safe and Sound Protocol, Values Based Integration Process, The work of Byron Katie, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and Internal Family Systems. Watch or listen to the show to learn how you can build a life truly worth living. You’re Invited! GAZIT CHAYA BIO Gazit Chaya Nkosi (they/m) is guided by the Rumi line, “Out beyond right doing and wrongdoing there is a field—I'll meet you there.” Their first 35 years were spent trying to be good while navigating chronic anxiety, suicidality, sensory sensitivity, and social communication mismatches. Postpartum depression brought them to a rock bottom that became a portal to a place where “good” was no longer the goal. 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This week's episode explores subconscious beliefs and how to empty the reservoir of the unconscious mind. Using self inquiry, we're continuing last week's exploration of the mind's tendency to divide things under the labels of ‘me' and ‘not me.' How do we live when our life experience is ruled by those concepts? What if what we've been believing ourselves to be is nothing but a fictitious character? And who might we be if we opened our minds enough to experience ourselves without these stories? Could it be that who we are is much broader, much more expensive, than we've allowed ourselves to imagine?

Find out your unique sensitivity profile and your current stress levels. Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/ Are you secretly exhausting yourself by trying to stay emotionally balanced, productive, and "on" all the time? Many highly sensitive people judge themselves whenever their energy, emotions, or motivation fluctuate. In a world that rewards constant productivity and consistency, it's easy to believe that natural ups and downs mean something is wrong. But what if your nervous system isn't failing—what if it's simply following the rhythm it was designed for? Understand why highly sensitive people often struggle with the pressure to remain emotionally and mentally even at all times. Discover how deep processing naturally creates cycles of engagement, recovery, solitude, and integration. Learn how honoring your natural rhythm can reduce self-judgment, prevent burnout, and help you build a more sustainable life. Listen now to discover how embracing your natural rhythm can help you stop fighting yourself and experience greater freedom, energy, and inner peace.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Ready for deeper support? Work with me 1:1 https://trueinnerfreedom.com/working-together/ Have you ever replayed a conflict for hours—or even days—while everyone else seemed to move on? For many highly sensitive people, conflict doesn't end when the conversation ends. A simple disagreement, critical comment, or change in someone's tone can trigger guilt, self-doubt, and endless mental replaying. If you've ever felt responsible for fixing emotional tension or wondered whether you've done something wrong simply because someone is upset, this episode will help you understand why. Discover why highly sensitive people often carry guilt and self-doubt long after a conflict is over. Learn how your nervous system can interpret emotional tension as rejection, danger, or personal failure. Understand the mindset shift that helps you stop blaming yourself and build greater self-trust during difficult interactions.   Listen now to uncover the hidden pattern behind conflict sensitivity and learn how to stay grounded in yourself—even when emotional tension is present.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

My guest this week, Aysa, has diabetes and is frustrated with her blood sugar level because it won't stay stable.  Her glucose monitor feels like a constant reminder of her failures to manage her health.  As we sit in this powerful health-related Work, what health issues do you deal with? Take a deep breath, open your mind, open your heart, and together let's do The Work! (Part 2 of 2) Don't miss Byron Katie LIVE every M-T-W, 9-10 am Pacific Time. Register: athomewithbk.com        

Perception has a habit of masquerading as truth, particularly in the workplace where people make sense of us through remarkably little evidence. We introverts often leave gaps that others are only too happy to fill with their own assumptions, and that can quietly shape our reputation long before we enter the room. In this episode, I explore where perception becomes useful data rather than a personal attack, how Byron Katie's liberating questions can stop us disappearing down defensive rabbit holes, and why managing our impact is not about performance but about quiet leadership. Perhaps the real work is not convincing everyone who we are. Perhaps it is becoming clearer about what is genuinely our business.   Key points

Find out your unique sensitivity profile and your current stress levels. Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/  What if your biggest emotions aren't a weakness—but one of your greatest strengths as a highly sensitive person? Many highly sensitive people spend years believing they're "too emotional" because they feel criticism, conflict, beauty, connection, and overwhelm more deeply than others. This episode reveals why those intense emotional experiences are completely natural and how misunderstanding them can create unnecessary self-judgment and suffering. Understand why highly sensitive people naturally experience emotions more intensely and why that isn't something to fix. Learn how self-criticism and cultural conditioning can turn normal sensitivity into emotional suffering. Discover how your strongest emotions can serve as valuable signals that reveal stress, unmet needs, boundary issues, and areas of misalignment in your life.   Listen now to learn how to stop fighting your emotions and start using them as powerful guidance for greater self-awareness, clarity, and emotional well-being.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

This week's episode is the 300th episode of Love Is The Power! So we thought we'd tackle a big question: What is real? At Tom's invitation, we are looking at our own direct experience in this moment to see if we can actually find a border between ourselves and anything – or anyone – else. The tendency to refer to things outside the body as “Not me” is a long, long habit of humanity. But what if it's true that separation is just a belief? What if it's not a fact of life? And what amazing avenues of existing might we discover beyond this illusory thought?

Many of us are in the habit of resisting things we can't change, and it creates a lot of unhappiness and havoc in our lives. Byron Katie wrote a book entitled, 'Loving What is', and it presents the concept that when we stop resisting reality, we will find so much more peace in our lives. When we learn to focus on our response and choose to behave in ways that are in alignment with our values, we find much more satisfaction, contentment, happiness, and peace. Learning to love what is, rather than resisting and fighting against it, creates a solid space for growth. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #2 Control Issues on Apple on Spotify #19 Storytelling on Apple on Spotify #48 Love Is All You Need on Apple on Spotify #75 Emotional Adulthood on Apple on Spotify #91 Personal Responsibility on Apple on Spotify #92 Clean Love on Apple on Spotify #96 Understanding the Thought Model on Apple on Spotify #97 Why the Thought Model Matters on Apple on Spotify #118 100% Responsibility  on Apple  on Spotify #148 Grace & Grudges in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify #152 Victim or Hero? on Apple on Spotify #165 I Would Never Act That Way on Apple on Spotify #166 Imaginary Friends on Apple on Spotify #167 I Didn't Sign Up For This on Apple on Spotify #173 A Space For Grace on Apple on Spotify #204 Being a Peacemaker on Apple on Spotify #257 Other People's Agency on Apple on Spotify #268 Drama Response on Apple on Spotify #269 Fine - The 4-Letter F-Word on Apple on Spotify #298 Friendship in Marriage on Apple on Spotify #299 Love Is Not a Reward on Apple on Spotify #304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

Find out your unique sensitivity profile and your current stress levels. Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/  Have you been putting off self-care until life finally calms down—only to realize that moment never seems to arrive? As a highly sensitive person, it's natural to focus deeply on the people, problems, and responsibilities that need your attention. But during stressful seasons, many HSPs quietly stop taking care of themselves, convincing themselves they'll rest later. The challenge is that "later" often turns into weeks, months, or even years, leaving the nervous system depleted when it needs support the most. In this episode, you'll discover: Why highly sensitive people often abandon their own needs during the times they need self-care most. How all-or-nothing thinking around self-care quietly increases stress, overwhelm, and burnout. Why even tiny moments of recovery can have a powerful impact on your nervous system and emotional well-being.   Listen now to learn how small, practical moments of self-care can help you feel more grounded, resilient, and connected to yourself—even when life feels overwhelming.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

My guest this week, Aysa, has diabetes and is frustrated with her blood sugar level because it won't stay stable.  Her glucose monitor feels like a constant reminder of her failures to manage her health.  As we sit in this powerful health-related Work, what health issues do you deal with? Take a deep breath, open your mind, open your heart, and together let's do The Work! (Part 1 of 2) Don't miss Byron Katie LIVE every M-T-W, 9-10 am Pacific Time. Register: athomewithbk.com        

"Most of the suffering in your life doesn't come from what happened. It comes from the story you've been telling yourself about it." What if the pain you've been carrying for years isn't being created by your circumstances, but by the thoughts you've never stopped believing? In this eye-opening episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson sits down with world-renowned teacher Byron Katie to explore a simple yet revolutionary idea: suffering begins when we argue with reality. Drawing from decades of helping people transform their lives through self-inquiry, Byron reveals how unquestioned beliefs shape our relationships, fuel resentment, keep us stuck in the past, and prevent us from experiencing the peace that is already available to us. Through her powerful process known as The Work, she demonstrates how a single question can begin to unravel years of emotional pain and open the door to greater freedom, clarity, and self-awareness. This conversation isn't about changing your life. It's about questioning the thoughts that prevent you from fully living it. If you've ever felt trapped by recurring patterns, emotional suffering, or a story you can't seem to let go of, this episode may help you discover that freedom is closer than you think. Timestamps (00:01:29) – The cause of suffering and how to end it (00:10:15) – Byron Katie's four-question process for freedom (00:12:15) – Childhood beliefs and the stories we inherit (00:19:49) – The powerful "turnaround" that changes everything (00:27:30) – Why Byron calls the world a gift (00:29:58) – Who were you before your first memory? (00:40:11) – Fear, ego, and the nature of suffering (00:42:05) – Responsibility, freedom, and caring without obligation (00:47:48) – Why no two people live in the same world (00:49:48) – The practice that transformed millions of lives Some Questions I Ask How much of your suffering is being created by a story you've never questioned? What if the person you blame for your pain is not the source of it? Are you living in reality or in a version of reality created by your mind? What belief are you holding onto that is costing you your peace? Who would you be if you stopped arguing with what is? Could the freedom you've been searching for begin with a single question? In This Episode, You'll Learn Why one unquestioned thought can create years of unnecessary suffering. The powerful question Byron Katie uses to dissolve fear, resentment, and emotional pain. How to stop believing every thought your mind tells you and reclaim your peace. Why arguing with reality keeps you trapped, stressed, and disconnected from life. The hidden stories shaping your relationships, identity, and sense of freedom. How a simple shift in perspective can change your entire experience of life. Get in Touch: Byron Katie https://thework.com Create a life that is a masterpiece. Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Website: www.kuteblackson.com

Ready for deeper support? Work with me 1:1 https://trueinnerfreedom.com/working-together/  Are you truly healing from narcissistic relationships… or is your entire inner world still emotionally organized around the narcissist? Many highly sensitive people feel enormous relief when they finally understand narcissistic behavior because it explains years of confusion, self-doubt, and emotional pain. But over time, constantly focusing on the narcissist can quietly keep your nervous system trapped in blame, emotional reactivity, and external dependence instead of real inner freedom. Understand why learning about narcissism initially feels so validating for highly sensitive people Discover how blame — even when directed outward — can still keep you emotionally stuck Learn how deeper healing begins when you reconnect with your own nervous system, self-trust, and emotional grounding Listen now to discover how to stop emotionally revolving around difficult people and start building a more grounded, compassionate relationship with yourself.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

This week Tom invites participants to share some of their favourite stories to tell that make them miserable. One share uncovers the thought “I could lose something” which becomes a group popcorn-style inquiry. If you know what it's like to live from the fear of losing something, or out of fear in general, this contemplation is for you. How do you react when you believe you could lose something vital (like your job, house, partner, child, parent, health)? Does the thought bring peace or stress into your life? Who might you be without it?

What happens when you search for purpose, only to discover the answers were inside you all along? Nathalie Cordell, coach and newly published author, shares her journey from corporate burnout to awakening her feminine wisdom and power. From struggling with imposter syndrome and spirituality to writing her transformative book and finding connection through vulnerability, Nathalie's story is one of service, self-discovery and healing. Exploring myths we live by, mental liberation and living authentically, Nathalie peels back the layers to reveal her midlife awakening. KEY TAKEAWAY "Your purpose, my purpose is very individual. As unique as your thumbprint, and if I could sum it up in a nutshell, it's just being more you, whatever that is."   BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS* Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert – https://amzn.eu/d/084TqBcu Loving What Is by Byron Katie – https://amzn.eu/d/005H16PL  Man's Search for Meaning  by Viktor E. Frankl –https://amzn.eu/d/0cfhr5OI  Awakening the Sleeping Queen: How to Reclaim Your Feminine Wisdom and Power by Nathalie Cordell - https://amzn.eu/d/01pd1Es3    ABOUT THE GUEST – NATHALIE CORDELL Nathalie Cordell is an accredited psycho-spiritual coach and writer of Soul Seeds on Substack, a space for women navigating the messy middle of life. After 20 years climbing the corporate ladder in pharma, she got tired of climbing and decided to see if she could fly instead. She retrained as a coach, earning an MA in Psychosynthesis Leadership Coaching. Now she helps women discover who they really are and reclaim their authentic power. Passionate about exploring life's mysteries and the depths of the human soul, her new book Awakening the Sleeping Queen guides women on the journey home to themselves.   CONNECT WITH NATHALIE CORDELL https://www.cordellcoaching.com https://nathaliecordell.substack.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/nathalie-cordell/ https://www.instagram.com/nathalie_cordell_coaching/ https://troubador.co.uk/bookshop/self-help/awakening-the-sleeping-queen   ABOUT THE HOST - AMY ROWLINSON Amy is a purpose and fulfilment coach, author, podcast strategist and mastermind host who empowers purpose-driven leaders to boost productivity, engagement and meaning in life and work. Through transformational conversations, Amy helps individuals overcome overwhelm and live with clarity, building living legacies along the way.   WORK WITH AMY If you're interested in how purpose can help you and/or your business, please book a free 30 min call via https://calendly.com/amyrowlinson/call    KEEP IN TOUCH WITH AMY Sign up for the weekly Friday Focus - https://www.amyrowlinson.com/subscribe-to-weekly-newsletter    CONNECT WITH AMY https://linktr.ee/AmyRowlinson    BUY AMY'S BOOK (Shortlisted in the 2025 Business Book Awards) * Focus on Why by Amy Rowlinson with George F. Kerr – https://amzn.eu/d/6W02HWu    HOSTED BY AMY ROWLINSON   DISCLAIMER The views, thoughts and opinions expressed in this podcast belong solely to the host and guest speakers. Please conduct your own due diligence.  *As an Amazon Associate, Amy earns from qualifying purchases.

Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/  Do you feel guilty anytime someone around you feels disappointed, uncomfortable, or upset — even when you've done nothing wrong? For many highly sensitive people, guilt becomes a constant emotional background noise. You replay conversations, overanalyze reactions, try to prevent conflict before it happens, and quietly carry responsibility for emotions that were never yours to manage. In this episode, you'll discover why this pattern happens, how stress turns empathy into emotional over-responsibility, and why guilt is often not proof that you failed — but a signal that you've become too focused on managing everyone else's emotional experience. Understand why highly sensitive people so easily fall into guilt, people-pleasing, and emotional self-monitoring Learn the critical difference between empathy and emotional responsibility so you can stop carrying emotions that aren't yours Discover how to question the hidden beliefs that fuel guilt and finally experience more emotional freedom, honesty, and inner peace Listen now to finally understand why guilt feels so automatic as a highly sensitive person — and how to break free from the exhausting cycle of managing everyone else's emotions   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Feeling stuck trying to make the "right" decision? Grab The Decision Clarity Filter: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/decision-clarity-filter/ Are you exhausted from trying to make the "perfect" decision? What if the real problem isn't your sensitivity… but the pressure you're putting on yourself to eliminate uncertainty before moving forward? As a highly sensitive person, decision-making can feel emotionally overwhelming. You replay every possibility, imagine every outcome, and carry the weight of how your choices might affect everyone around you. But overthinking isn't always a sign that you're being wise — sometimes it's a nervous system stuck in fear, urgency, and emotional pressure. In this episode, we explore why HSPs struggle so deeply with decisions and how to reconnect with a calmer, more grounded sense of clarity. In this episode, you'll discover: Why highly sensitive people naturally take longer to make important decisions — and why that's not a flaw The hidden difference between thoughtful reflection and fear-based overthinking How to stop chasing certainty and start making decisions from a place of inner alignment and calm If decision-making has been draining your energy, clouding your clarity, or keeping you stuck in endless mental loops, this episode will help you quiet the noise and finally move forward with more trust in yourself.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

(Part 2 of 2) My guest today, S.E., recently lost his father due to medical error. S.E. blames the doctors for his father's death, and feels that he died too young. I invite you to open your mind and heart as S.E. begins to discover, through self-inquiry, that it's never too late to actually fulfill his father's wishes.  Don't miss Byron Katie LIVE every M-T-W, 9-10 am Pacific Time. Register: athomewithbk.com    

What if your "mood swings" were actually a cry for help from your digestive system? Kate Engler shares her story of overcoming a Bipolar 2 diagnosis, toxic relationships and debilitating gut issues.She dives deep into the gut-brain connection, explaining how eliminating inflammatory foods allowed her to finally regulate her emotions after a decade of numbing with medication. Kate's "80/20" approach to a balanced life offers a roadmap for your own healing journey.Episode Highlights and Time stamps01:59 After a tragic personal loss at age 20, Kate describes the onset of severe PTSD and depression and the beginning of her decade-long journey with psychiatric medication.04:34 Receiving a Bipolar 2 diagnosis and the initial "relief" of having an answer and the subsequent years of emotional numbing via mood stabilizers.08:29 Kate details the struggle with malabsorption, excruciating stomach spasms and joint inflammation that threatened her career11:32 Through a self-directed elimination diet, Kate discovered a direct link between food and mood. She explains how corn specifically triggered inflammatory "rage" and how identifying food sensitivities changed her mental clarity.15:12 A pivotal realization: "This all could be from my gut." Kate shares her experience of tapering off a decade of prescriptions to rediscover her natural ability to emotionally regulate.24:45 Why eating "perfectly" isn't enough if you are in a toxic environment. She introduces the role of Reiki and energy work in addressing the "emotional toxins" that physical medicine often misses.33:40 From The Presence Process to Byron Katie's "The Work," Kate lists the specific resources that helped her feel safe in her body again. She emphasizes the power of breathwork and questioning one's own thought processes.35:59 The episode concludes with a beautiful look at "somatic healing" for the whole family. Kate explains how she uses dance parties and music to move trauma out of the body and teach her children how to regulate their own nervous systems.Kate's Bio Kate is a certified Health Coach as well as a Reiki Master and Master Aesthetician with over 20 years' experience in the spa and wellness industry. She recognized from her own major struggles with digestive and mental health issues just how important gut health, nutrition, and stress-management are. She now empowers and guides people, especially women, in making healthy day-to-day choices in these areas leading to an overall healthier existence. Kate wrote the book, “Gut Feelings”, as well as created the 30-day online program, “The Healthier & Happier Gut Academy”, which shed light on the importance of gut health and its connection to mood issues, the brain and other bodily systems providing strategies to optimize all. She believes health isn't just some end goal but a lifestyle that will lead to a more fulfilling, happier life and is passionate about helping people attain their goals.Connect with Kate www.integratewithkate.nethttps://www.instagram.com/integrate.with.kate?igsh=dmdpZWM4am91a3Bihttps://www.facebook.com/KateDeCostaEngler/Who am I?Sarah Dawkins is a passionate Holistic Health and Healing Coach, international speaker and author of Heal Yourself. She's also a multi-award-winning entrepreneur and the award-winning host of the uplifting podcast Mind Body Medicine for Self Healers with Sarah Dawkins.With over 20 years' experience as a Registered Nurse, Sarah combines her deep understanding of conventional medicine with her own powerful self-healing journey to create a truly integrative approach. Having overcome multiple chronic health challenges herself, she now supports others in uncovering and addressing the root causes of their symptoms, helping them restore balance, reclaim their energy and create lasting, vibrant wellness.www.sarahdawkins.com

Find out your unique sensitivity profile and your current stress levels. Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/  Why do highly sensitive people feel exhausted even when life "looks fine" on the outside? What if the real issue isn't weakness… but misalignment? If you're a highly sensitive person, you've probably felt the quiet frustration of living a life that doesn't fully resonate with who you are. In this episode, we explore why meaning, depth, and inner coherence matter so deeply for HSPs — and how subtle misalignment in your work, relationships, or daily life can quietly drain your energy, motivation, and sense of self. Instead of forcing clarity or chasing a "perfect" purpose, you'll learn how alignment naturally deepens over time when you stop fighting your current reality and start listening more honestly to yourself. By listening to this episode, you'll discover: Why highly sensitive people are naturally wired to seek meaning, purpose, and depth in everything they do The hidden ways misalignment creates exhaustion, rumination, emotional flatness, and inner conflict How to move toward a more aligned, fulfilling life without perfectionism, pressure, or forcing immediate answers Press play to discover how deeper alignment can help you feel more grounded, energized, and authentically connected to the life you're building.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

In this week's episode of Love Is the Power, Tom invites participants to contemplate this question: Is it true that what you're living right now – whatever it is, exactly as it is – is not the best thing for you? Can you absolutely know that? This profound group inquiry delves deeply into the question, all the way to the worst imaginable realities one might live. One of these situations is one Tom lived through himself, and he elaborates on how it ended up being the best thing for him and his family to experience. Could it be that the things we're most afraid of are nothing but portals into an unconditionally loving existence?

Ready for deeper support as an HSP? Work with me 1:1 https://trueinnerfreedom.com/working-together/  Do you ever feel guilty for wanting quiet… even when you genuinely love the people around you? If you're a highly sensitive person, you may constantly feel torn between craving connection and needing space to recover. This episode reveals why your nervous system asks for quiet, why your mind turns that need into guilt, and how emotional responsibility can quietly drain your energy over time. Understand why your need for quiet is not selfish, cold, or a sign that something is wrong with you Discover the hidden pattern that keeps you prioritizing other people's emotions over your own nervous system Learn what starts to shift when you stop treating rest and space like a relational problem Listen now to finally understand the deeper reason you feel guilty needing space — and how to stay connected to others without abandoning yourself in the process.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

What if the biggest thing holding you back is a belief you've never questioned? In this special interview (part 2 of 3) with bestselling author Nir Eyal (Hooked, Indistractable, Beyond Belief), we move from understanding beliefs to learning how to change them.Many of us can recognize limiting beliefs:"I'm too old.""I'm not good at this.""I don't have time.""I'll never get better."But once you've identified a limiting belief, what do you do next?In this episode, Nir shares the most powerful mindset exercise I've ever learned—a simple but profound framework for questioning the stories that create suffering and keep us stuck.Using real-life examples, including a story about his own mother, Nir explains how to uncover hidden assumptions, challenge long-held beliefs, and replace them with beliefs that create more freedom, motivation, and possibility.

Find out your unique sensitivity profile and your current stress levels. Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/  Why do so many highly sensitive people keep falling back into the same stress patterns — even after doing all the "right" things to manage stress? If you're constantly overwhelmed, emotionally drained, overthinking, or feeling responsible for everyone around you, this episode will help you understand why stress relief often feels temporary. You'll discover that not all stress management works at the same level — and why deeper change requires more than just calming your nervous system. Understand the 5 deeper layers of stress management for highly sensitive people Learn why stress keeps returning even when you're actively trying to heal Discover how lifestyle changes, emotional healing, and inner freedom practices can create more lasting peace Listen now to discover which layer of stress management may finally help you break free from recurring overwhelm and create a calmer, more grounded life.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

My guest today, S.E., recently lost his father due to medical error. S.E. blames the doctors for his father's death, and feels that he died too young. I invite you to open your mind and heart as S.E. begins to discover, through self-inquiry, that it's never too late to actually fulfill his father's wishes. (Part 1 of 2) Don't miss Byron Katie LIVE every M-T-W, 9-10 am Pacific Time. Register: athomewithbk.com    

Let your healing feel nourishing again. Grab The Inner Work Reset Ritual: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/inner-work-reset/ Has your spiritual growth journey started feeling more like pressure than peace? For highly sensitive people, spiritual teachings that once felt inspiring can quietly turn into comparison, self-monitoring, and the exhausting feeling that you're never "healed enough." This episode explores why inner work can become discouraging — and how to reconnect with a more compassionate, grounded path that actually supports your nervous system instead of overwhelming it. Understand why spiritual comparison affects highly sensitive people so deeply Learn how healing can subtly become performative instead of authentic Discover a gentler, more honest way to approach spirituality and inner growth Listen now to release the pressure of performative healing and reconnect with a spiritual practice that feels supportive, human, and real.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Byron Katie says there's nothing so dark that we cannot put it on paper, question it, and set ourselves free. She also says that we live in a friendly Universe. Those two statements are really put to the test in this week's episode of Love Is The Power, where a participant brings up the trauma of getting news that two of her community members had been murdered. This is intense, heavy inner work to take on, which is why it's so beautiful to be able to share it together. We invite you to find that inner sense of devastation at the cruel ways humanity can treat each other, and follow along with this profound and brave inquiry.

Find out your unique sensitivity profile and your current stress levels. Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/  Are you constantly overwhelmed, mentally "on," and exhausted from trying to juggle too many things as a highly sensitive person? Many highly sensitive people are taught to push through overload, multitask endlessly, and stay productive at all costs — but that constant switching and pressure quietly drains the nervous system. In this episode, we explore why simplifying your schedule and creating stronger boundaries can completely change the way you experience work, stress, and life. Discover why doing too many different kinds of tasks creates hidden burnout for highly sensitive people Learn how "containment" and clear work boundaries can help your nervous system finally relax Hear the real-life changes that happened when simplifying work created more energy, hobbies, peace, and freedom Press play now to learn how simplifying your life and reducing mental overload can help you feel calmer, clearer, and more deeply connected to yourself again.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Are you exhausting yourself trying to feel okay all the time? If you're a highly sensitive person, emotional awareness can quietly turn into emotional management. Instead of simply experiencing your feelings, you may find yourself constantly monitoring, adjusting, and trying to maintain happiness — creating pressure that never fully lets you rest. Understand why trying to optimize happiness can actually increase emotional exhaustion Learn how self-awareness subtly becomes self-monitoring and inner pressure Discover a healthier way to relate to emotional ups and downs without constantly trying to fix yourself Press play now to discover how releasing the pressure to feel good can create more ease, freedom, and emotional peace in your daily life.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

My guest today, Eli, is probably the most vulnerable person I've ever worked with.  His wife left him after 12 years. They have three children, and she is now with a millionaire, while he has trouble paying his bills.  Where are his feelings of inadequacy coming from?  From his ex or from what he is thinking and believing about his ex? The Work with Eli is nothing short of extraordinary.  Get still, open your mind, and let's do The Work! Don't miss Byron Katie LIVE every M-T-W, 9-10 am Pacific Time. Register: athomewithbk.com  

What stressful thought have you been carrying around--about your child, your finances, your relationship--that you haven't yet examined? And what if joy isn't something to save up, but something to spend freely, right now?Part 2 picks up where the perfume story left off, going deeper into the practices that actually free you from the mental loops keeping you from the rich life you know is yours.---IN THIS EPISODE (PART 2)• Byron Katie's four questions — a live walk-through using a real stressful thought from Johanna's own life as a mama, so you can apply it to yours• The turnaround — how flipping the stressful thought reveals what's actually true and sets you free• Remove happiness gatekeeping — are you saving joy for a special occasion? Why this is quietly keeping the life you want at arm's length• Joy is not a limited resource — why "I'll feel excited once I have X" has it completely backwards• Dress as her and treat yourself as her now — the identity practice that costs nothing• Why information isn't what you're lacking — and what actually is---TIMESTAMPS00:00 — Byron Katie's four questions: is it true?03:30 — Walking through the four questions with a real example35:33 — The turnaround: finding the thought that liberates37:34 — Remove happiness gatekeeping — stop saving joy for someday41:58 — Joy is not a limited resource44:23 — You can feel grief and still be a whole, joyful woman46:19 — Dress as her and treat yourself as her now48:24 — Why information isn't the missing piece — and how Jo can help---RESOURCES MENTIONED:A free masterclass for women who long to reclaim beauty, imagination, feminine wholeness, and the deeper magic of being fully alive.⁠✨ The Embodied Epic Class (FREE)⁠❤️‍

It Has Been Decided: How Steffani LeFevour Rewrote Her Story and Manifested a Dream Book Deal Steffani LeFevour has built a life and a career around happiness, but she is the first to tell you she did not start there. She grew up without her father, an alcoholic who left the family, and she was only eleven when her eighteen-year-old sister died in a car accident. For years she assumed everyone carried that kind of weight, and for a long stretch she handled it the only way she had ever seen modelled: drinking, partying, and quietly sabotaging her own life. What makes her story land is her honesty about how slow the turn really was. There was no single lightning bolt. There was Oprah on the television every day, a Wayne Dyer book, and Marianne Williamson's A Return to Love, which introduced her to a word nobody had ever taught her: forgiveness. As a young woman she carried a rock from a wild party down to a river, poured all her fear and trauma into it, read a Maya Angelou poem, and threw it into the water. She is quick to puncture the fantasy that this fixed everything. It did not. She sabotaged her life for another decade, because the old path, as she puts it, is so worn and so comfortable that we keep returning to it. The shift came from a question she kept asking. The beliefs she had carried since childhood sounded like this: I'm broken, I'm unlovable, nothing good can happen for me. Then a door opened. What if all of it was happening for her? What if there were gifts in it, and she could consciously create from there? Human eyes versus soul eyes Steffani, now the founder of the Soul Happy Movement, teaches her clients to ask two questions of any situation: what do my human eyes see, and what does my soul see. Her human eyes might see a struggling child or a difficult marriage. Her soul sees something whole, chosen, and exactly where it is meant to be. She is careful, though, not to let this slide into spiritual bypassing. Radical acceptance has to sit alongside real boundaries, and she reframes boundaries beautifully. They are not about controlling someone else. They are about governing your own behaviour. The episode's most memorable test case is wonderfully ordinary. At her daughter's fifteenth birthday party, older boys turned up and threw eggs into the back garden. Steffani chose to love every second of it. Her line lands like a thesis for the whole conversation: it is not the world's job not to trigger her, it is her job not to be triggered. Nothing, she says, has meaning until we give it meaning. The practical architecture From there she lays out the tools. There is the STAR formula, where State, Thoughts and Actions create your Reality, with the crucial twist that most of us try to change our actions while ignoring the state we prime ourselves into each morning. There is her debt to Byron Katie's questioning of limiting beliefs, which she still practises thirty years in and describes as weeding the garden and watering the seeds of worthiness. And there is the achievement list she gives the teen athletes she coaches, a file of evidence to return to after a bad game. It all builds towards the story that gives the episode its emotional peak. After a decision statement in late 2025, an early call with Hay House, and an eight-week wait that ended in a no, Steffani felt relief rather than disappointment, trusting something more aligned was coming. She kept identifying as the author she wanted to be, declined contracts that felt close but not quite right, and through a chance lunch was reconnected to a new Hay House editor. By then her platform had exploded, and within a week the contract was hers. She calls it identity-first manifesting, framed around focusing on the end result, asking for guidance rather than the thing itself, taking inspired action, and being genuinely okay no matter what. She closes with three golden nuggets: you get to decide how your life will be and then make it that way; your state, thoughts and actions are one hundred per cent in your control; and we shape our stories, and our stories shape our lives. Watch the full conversation on YouTube. Find Out More About Steffani LeFevour Website: https://coachwithsteff.com Instagram: @coachwithsteff YouTube: @coachwithsteff

Find out your unique sensitivity profile and your current stress levels. Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/ Do you ever feel like you're carrying emotional weight that nobody else even seems to notice? As a highly sensitive person, you naturally pick up on unspoken tension, emotional shifts, and subtle signals others miss. But when no one else acknowledges what you're sensing, it's easy to wonder if you're "too sensitive" or if you should be doing something to fix it. This episode helps you understand why empathy can feel so overwhelming — and how to stop turning awareness into emotional responsibility. Discover why highly sensitive people often feel alone in what they notice Learn the hidden value your empathy brings to relationships, groups, and environments Understand the critical difference between awareness and responsibility so you can stop emotionally over-carrying Listen now to learn how to honor your empathy without absorbing emotional burdens that were never yours to carry.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

This week's episode begins with an invitation from Tom to pick something in your life you don't like, and to see if you can notice what story you're living by experiencing it. For example, if you're experiencing a difficult work situation or financial hardship or a frustrating relationship. The underlying story you're living might be “I'm a disappointment,” or “Nobody cares about me,” or something entirely different — but equally painful — that is expressing itself through the situations in your life. What if self-inquiry and self-liberation aren't serious? What if it could just be playful and light? What might you notice about the experiences in your life that are less than enjoyable? Join the meditation group to notice for yourself.

Without changing a single thing on the outside, you can start feeling richer on the inside. And that's exactly how the outside begins to shift.In Part 1, Johanna walks through her favourite practices for cultivating a rich inner life, closing with a real story that perfectly illustrates what it looks and feels like to visualize with open hands, and have life answer in the most delightful, unexpected way.---IN THIS EPISODE (PART 1)• Your focus as a million-dollar investment—how your recurring thoughts are compounding wealth or compounding lack• Morning devotion that opens you to receive—including the quote that stopped Johanna mid-chapter: "I feel like a bubble in a flute of champagne"• Intentional decluttering—how clearing one drawer at a time creates inner spaciousness and signals you're ready to receive more• Appreciation walks—training your brain to notice the abundance you've been walking past every day• Evidence diary—the 30-day practice that will make you cry tears of gratitude• Receiving others' abundance—why rejecting what someone else has quietly pushes away the very thing you want• Visualization from first person—accessing the feelings of your vision before it's here in the physical• The perfume story—what happened when Johanna sent out a gentle wish with no grip attached---TIMESTAMPS00:00 — You can feel rich right now, without changing anything outside02:25 — Your focus as a million-dollar investment06:31 — Morning devotion & the champagne bubble quote11:00 — Intentional decluttering: making space for the new identity13:26 — Appreciation walks: purposefully noticing what you overlook15:42 — Evidence diary: 30 days to tears of gratitude18:54 — Receiving others' abundance — you can't reject it in them and receive it yourself22:43 — Visualization: practicing the feelings from first person27:30 — The perfume story: what open-handed receiving looks like in real life---Part 2 is out now—don't miss the Byron Katie inquiry, the happiness gatekeeping episode, and the "dress as her now" practice.RESOURCES MENTIONED:A free masterclass for women who long to reclaim beauty, imagination, feminine wholeness, and the deeper magic of being fully alive.✨ The Embodied Epic Class (FREE)❤️‍

Get the Relationship Reset Guide: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/relationship-reset/ Are you unknowingly turning small misunderstandings into emotional battles by trying to fix your partner's reactions? For highly sensitive people, even tiny moments of tension can feel emotionally overwhelming. When someone sounds irritated or misunderstood, your nervous system may immediately push you to explain yourself, defend your intentions, or restore harmony. But instead of creating connection, this often pulls you deeper into conflict, emotional exhaustion, and self-doubt. In this episode, you'll discover: Why HSPs instinctively absorb other people's emotional reactions How the urge to explain and defend yourself escalates relationship tension A healthier way to stay grounded, peaceful, and connected without taking responsibility for someone else's emotions Listen now to learn how to stop absorbing emotional tension, stay centered during conflict, and experience more freedom and peace in your relationships.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

Find out your unique sensitivity profile and your current stress levels. Take the HSP Stress Test here: https://trueinnerfreedom.com/hsp-stress-test/  Why does asking for what you want feel so emotionally overwhelming as a highly sensitive person? If you constantly replay conversations in your head, worry about how your requests will affect others, or hesitate to speak up because you want everything to go "perfectly," this episode will help you understand why. As an HSP, your depth of processing makes you naturally aware of emotional implications — but when stress and fear get layered on top, it can turn thoughtful reflection into exhausting overthinking. In this episode, you'll learn: Why asking for what you want feels heavier and more emotionally loaded as an HSP The difference between healthy depth of processing and fear-based overthinking How to stop trying to control every outcome so you can communicate with more clarity and confidence Listen now to discover how to ask for what you want without getting trapped in stress, self-doubt, or endless overthinking.   Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ and take the HSP Stress Test. Gain clarity on your sensitivity and stress triggers, and book a free 30-minute introductory conversation to explore what's going on for you and see if working together 1:1 might be a fit. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.

My guest today, Joanna, had an agreement with a friend of hers that they would check in with each other, but he didn't call. She is disappointed and hurt that he wouldn't follow up. This leaves her feeling that he is lazy, selfish, and a coward.  As you sit in The Work with Joanna and me, together let's find out who is right and who is wrong. (Part 2 of 2) Don't miss Byron Katie LIVE every M-T-W, 9-10 am Pacific Time. Register: athomewithbk.com

Last week we looked at the belief in the seriousness of life, especially related to being a parent. Parenting is one of the big things that we can tend to use as proof of the serious nature of everything. But that inquiry revealed the truth of what the belief was creating in the parent's life: stress, both for herself and her kids. What about other situations, though, the mind wants to know. Surely some things really are serious? What about when a friend shares news of their cancer diagnosis with you? What if you receive a diagnosis of something yourself? We think we're protecting ourselves from everything we don't want to experience when we hold tightly to the story of seriousness, but it might be that what we're giving ourselves is an existence based purely on survival – not really living. If you're ready to question this story and live a life without fear, follow along in this group-inquiry episode that asks: Is life actually serious?

My guest today, Joanna, had an agreement with a friend of hers that they would check in with each other, but he didn't call. She is disappointed and hurt that he wouldn't follow up. This leaves her feeling that he is lazy, selfish, and a coward.  As you sit in The Work with Joanna and me, together let's find out who is right and who is wrong. (Part 1 of 2) Don't miss Byron Katie LIVE every M-T-W, 9-10 am Pacific Time. Register: athomewithbk.com

In this episode, we explore this question: Why do so many people stay stuck in relationships that are clearly hurting them? In this deeply honest and emotionally charged episode, we unpack one of the most painful dynamics in marriage: the exhausting cycle of trying to change a partner who has no intention of changing. Using the powerful story of “Annie,” we explore how addiction in marriage doesn't only show up through alcohol, gambling, or pornography—but also through the desperate hope that love, patience, reasoning, or sacrifice will eventually make someone become the partner we need them to be. This episode dives into the emotional toll of living in chronic disappointment, the hidden cost of abandoning yourself to keep a relationship intact, and the uncomfortable truth many people already know deep down: sometimes the suffering continues because we refuse to accept reality. We also discuss the concept of “relational addictions,” including the addiction to fixing, managing, rescuing, and emotionally controlling a spouse in order to preserve peace or avoid loss. Drawing from Byron Katie's framework of “My Business, Your Business, and God's Business,” this conversation offers listeners a transformative lens for understanding boundaries, emotional responsibility, self-abandonment, and personal power. If you've ever found yourself pleading with a partner to stop drinking, stop lying, stop watching porn, stop gambling, stop shutting down emotionally—or simply become the version of themselves you know they could be—this episode will hit hard. But more importantly, it may help you finally shift the focus away from controlling them and back toward reclaiming yourself. This episode is for anyone navigating marriage problems, emotional exhaustion, codependency, toxic relationship cycles, addiction recovery dynamics, or the painful realization that love alone cannot force transformation. Expect honest insights, hard truths, compassionate perspective, and practical reflection questions that challenge you to examine what you're tolerating, why you're tolerating it, and what it's costing you. Whether you're struggling in your marriage, questioning your relationship, or trying to understand why you keep holding on despite the pain, this conversation will help you get clearer on what's actually happening—and what healing might truly require. Key Takeaways Why trying to change your spouse often keeps you trapped in suffering The hidden “relational addictions” many people develop in unhealthy marriages Why high-achieving, driven people often stay stuck in toxic relationship dynamics How self-abandonment slowly becomes normalized in long-term relationships Why clarity is often more powerful than hope How to stop managing your partner's emotions and start reconnecting with yourself

(Part 2 of 2) My guest today, Roy, was fat as a child. As he came to terms with his alcoholism, he also found a diet that left him skinny. Then, in a meeting, an AA mentor skinny-shamed him. Join us as together Roy and I unpack his food and alcohol issues in this powerful Work on addiction.  Join Byron Katie live on Zoom every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom Register: athomewithbyronkatie.com  

Your thoughts aren't always telling you the truth, and Byron Katie shows you how to question them. In this deeply insightful episode, you'll discover a simple yet powerful framework to break free from mental patterns that cause stress and suffering. Learn how to find clarity, peace, and a new perspective on even your toughest challenges. This is mindset work that can change everything. If you prefer video or want closed captions, you can watch all our episodes on Youtube → http://www.youtube.com/marieforleo  COME SAY HI! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/marieforleo  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marieforleo  Facebook: http://www.Facebook.com/marieforleo  X: http://www.x.com/marieforleo  MORE RESOURCES FOR YOU:  Watch my Free Masterclass: 3 Sneaky Mistakes that Kill Productivity & Tank Profits → https://www.marieforleo.com/freeclass  How to Get Anything You Want (Free Audio Training) → https://www.marieforleo.com/how-to-get-anything-you-want  Build Your $250K Offer in Minutes Using my Proven Frameworks → https://checkout.marieforleo.com/build-your-250k-offer/  If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review!

My guest today, Roy, was fat as a child. As he came to terms with his alcoholism, he also found a diet that left him skinny. Then, in a meeting, an AA mentor skinny-shamed him. Join us as together Roy and I unpack his food and alcohol issues in this powerful Work on addiction. (Part 1 of 2) Join Byron Katie live on Zoom every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom Register: athomewithbyronkatie.com  

In honor of Mother's Day, we invite you into this deeply heartfelt conversation between Byron Katie and Sage Robbins — a moving exploration of motherhood, presence, healing, and the complicated, beautiful love shared between mothers and daughters. Introduced by Tony Robbins, this episode is more than a conversation — it is a living experience of "The Work," Byron Katie's transformative method of self-inquiry that has helped millions of people find freedom from anxiety, grief, fear, stress, and emotional suffering. After spending nearly, a decade trapped in severe depression and despair, Byron Katie experienced a life-changing awakening in 1986 that completely transformed the way she understood suffering. From that experience came "The Work," four simple yet profound questions designed to help people question the stressful thoughts that keep them stuck. In this deeply personal episode, Sage vulnerably shares how discovering Byron Katie's work transformed her own life during a painful season marked by repeated miscarriages, fertility struggles, grief, and being told she had less than a one-in-a-million chance of ever becoming a mother. But at the emotional center of this conversation is Sage's relationship with her mother, who is currently living with dementia. Rather than simply discussing "The Work," Byron gently guides Sage through a real-time inquiry surrounding an emotional experience with her mother — unpacking fear, sadness, guilt, projections, and the pain so many people experience while caring for aging parents or witnessing someone they love slowly change. What unfolds is raw, heartbreaking, beautiful, and ultimately freeing. As Byron guides Sage through the process, pain begins to give way to presence, clarity, grace, and even joy — revealing how much love and connection can be missed when we become trapped inside fearful thoughts. For anyone navigating caregiving, grief, aging parents, anxiety, loss, or the emotional complexity of family relationships, this conversation may feel deeply personal. And for anyone celebrating, missing, grieving, honoring, or reflecting on a mother this Mother's Day — this episode is a reminder to slow down, become present, and truly see the people we love. It is also a beautiful tribute to Byron Katie's extraordinary legacy and the decades-long friendship she has shared with Tony and Sage Robbins. To learn more about Byron Katie and experience "The Work" for yourself, visit: www.thework.com

My guest today, Elizabeth, is nearly divorced. Her soon-to-be ex is telling her kids that she isn't paying for things that she's supposed to pay for. Elizabeth thinks she needs her daughter to understand, but her daughter only wants to be cared for. Join Elizabeth and me as together we sit in this powerful inquiry into family. Join Byron Katie live on Zoom every Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, 9am/PT on Zoom Register: athomewithbyronkatie.com