POPULARITY
What happens when a strategy coach combines AI and astrology to help clients build better systems? Amazing things. In this episode, I sit down with Robin Langford (also known as WickedVeracity) for a fascinating conversation that weaves through multiple disciplines and approaches to coaching. In this episode, Robin shares insights about her coaching approach, her experience in my Reimagine Mastermind, and how she's expanding her business with new offers including an AI membership. You'll hear about the intersection of astrology, AI, and coaching, and how Robin uses these tools to help clients discover their unique design and create systems that work for them rather than trying to fit into someone else's mold. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/238
I'm buzzing with excitement about major shifts coming to my business, podcast, and offerings. While I can't reveal all the details just yet, I want to bring you along for the journey as these transformations unfold. These upcoming changes are inspired by my Reimagine process – a framework I've developed and used with clients that's now guiding my own business evolution. Today, I'm sharing the three essential steps of the Reimagine framework that can transform not just your coaching business but any area of your life. Whether you're looking to revamp an existing offer, create something entirely new, or help your clients navigate change, these steps provide a clear path forward. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/237
I've been surprised by how many people have questioned my decision to offer quarterly one-on-one coaching spots through 2025, suggesting I might be "going backwards" in my business. This couldn't be further from the truth. In this episode, I share the strategic and personal reasons behind my decision to add customized one-on-one coaching back into my business model. Whether you're considering adding one-on-one coaching to supplement group programs, or you need to pivot temporarily for financial reasons, there's nothing about this that constitutes "going backwards. This episode is all about making responsive, strategic decisions that align with your values and business needs. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/236
Listen to this episode to learn about practical life hacks that have helped to improve the lives of thousands of men worldwide. Take a moment to listen as men's life coach Rolando shares from his years of experience working as a psychotherapist and motivational speaker, and author. Visit my website: www.xyspark.org Book a discovery call: https://calendly.com/xyshyman/discovery-call-with-coach-rolando Purchase my book: https://a.co/d/fc8XhvG
I'm pulling back the curtain on the thoughts that plague even experienced coaches like me. From wondering why I have to work so hard, to fantasizing about quitting my business and getting a “regular” job, I've been there. But here's the truth: These thoughts aren't signs of failure or incompetence- they're completely normal. Every coach and entrepreneur faces them at some point. By normalizing these thoughts, we can begin to strip away the shame and guilt that often hold us back. My hope is that by the end, you'll realize you're not alone- and that understanding these common struggles is the first step toward overcoming them and moving forward. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/235
Listen to this episode for practical lessons to help you create a winning mindset. When you listen to this, you are guaranteed to experience change when you implement the strategies from the episode. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org
Have you ever felt disconnected from your creative side? That spark of imagination and self-expression that once came so naturally might be buried under years of criticism, busy schedules, and societal expectations. In this episode, I'm joined by the delightful Amanda Gold, a life coach for heart-led creative weirdos, to explore reigniting our innate creativity. Tune in to hear some practical ways to weave creativity into your daily life, even if you only have five minutes to spare. From Amanda's ingenious "celebration drawer" filled with sensory treats to strategies for overcoming creative blocks, this conversation is your permission slip to play, create, and celebrate yourself without judgment. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/234
Are you holding yourself to an impossible standard as a coach? I've noticed a troubling pattern among coaches—this underlying belief that because they're coaches, they should somehow transcend the human experience. They think they should have all the answers, never struggle, and be immune to the very challenges they help clients navigate. In today's episode, I'm diving into why coaches often feel they should "know better" or "be better" than they currently are. I share specific examples of how this shows up in my coaching containers and explain why embracing your humanity actually makes you a more effective coach. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/233
Have you ever noticed how when you're trying to change something about yourself, you often swing from one extreme to the other before finding balance? This fascinating pattern is what I call "the pendulum effect" in coaching. Just like a physical pendulum that swings back and forth before settling in the middle, our behaviors and beliefs often follow this same trajectory when we're working on personal growth. The beauty of understanding this pendulum effect is that it helps normalize what can otherwise feel like an uncomfortable or even alarming process. Today, I'm sharing how to recognize this pattern in yourself and your clients, why it happens naturally, and how you can intentionally use this concept to create powerful transformations. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/232
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I can't believe I'm back here again" or "I should be further along by now"? This belief that we're somehow starting over or regressing in our progress is one of the most common and damaging thoughts I hear from coaches. It's a sneaky mindset trap that not only makes you feel terrible but actively prevents you from solving the very problems you're facing. Today I'm breaking down why this belief is so harmful, what's actually happening instead, and how to shift your perspective when these thoughts arise. I'll share real examples from my clients, hypothetical scenarios you might encounter with your own clients, and even my personal experiences with this mindset trap. By the end of this episode, you'll have practical tools to recognize when you or your clients are caught in this thinking pattern and know exactly how to move forward without the weight of shame or frustration. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/231
Being authentic is vital to preserving mental health and wellness. To be authentic, you must follow three important foundational principles. In this episode, I will discuss these principles. I invite you to listen and share your thoughts. The caption for today's episode is Motivation Monday, and I will discuss how to be authentic in a fake society. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org
Learning how to break cycles is an important part of healing and transformation. Sometimes, as men we are stuck because of the belief system we have created for ourselves because of life experiences. Listen to this episode to gain some helpful tips about how you can change the trajectory of your journey today. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org
Male victimization, trauma, and grief are some of the issues that men have experienced on their journey that have influenced the way they see themselves. Practicing self-compassion and seeking support to manage psychological turmoil is a hard thing to do because, as men, we were taught to ignore it, forget it, and it will pass. But we have learned that trauma and grief that is not attended to is allowed to run its course and affects our ability to be empathetic and emotionally accessible. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org
Have you ever caught yourself feeling like you need to have all the answers as a coach? That nagging pressure to solve every client's problem with the perfect strategy can be overwhelming, even for experienced coaches. In this episode, I address one of the most common challenges coaches face - the belief that coaching alone isn't enough and that they must be experts with solutions for every situation their clients bring to the table. Hear how this mindset can impact your coaching confidence and effectiveness, and how to shift into a more powerful coaching approach that serves both you and your clients better. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/230
If you want to change the trajectory of our mental capacity, you must learn how to change the storyline. We live our lives in the vacuum of our perceived reality and it cripples us from reaching our true potential. We must learn how to change the storyline from within to create a new reality that is transformative and empowering. This episode is another one in our series on men's mental health and wellness tips. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org
The fight to preserve your mental health as a man is never-ending because every day, new challenges and unforeseen events present themselves on your path. The struggle to maintain your mental health is real and should never be left on the back burner. In this episode, we will discuss how to manage those struggles healthily and remain grounded. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org
I share my insights on why coaching yourself without taking action can actually hold you back. While self-coaching is a valuable tool, there comes a point where you need to step out of your comfort zone and put your skills into practice. Only by taking consistent action can you truly grow as a coach and build the business you desire. Discover how to identify when you're stuck in a cycle of over-coaching yourself and learn practical strategies for breaking free. Whether you're a new coach or a seasoned pro, this episode will inspire you to embrace the discomfort and take bold steps forward in your coaching journey. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/229
How do you know that you are a strong man? What determines your versatility and ability to rise above the odds? Is your strength determined by how much weight you can lift in the gym or how well you hide your feelings? Today, we are living in an era that calls for strong men, not in the traditional form but in a new form rooted in emotional literacy and mental fortitude. Welcome to a new era of strong men. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org
Men are naturally cultured not to talk about feelings because of how it looks to our peers, mentors, society, and culture. For many men, the only emotion that they are confident to express is anger. In this episode, we will discuss why it is essential for men to be in touch with their emotions if they want to become more effective in their daily lives. Welcome to season six, and today, let's talk about emotions. What are they for? Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org
I reveal five key traits shared by top coaches and successful business owners. You'll see how skills like curiosity, compassion, and innovation translate seamlessly from coaching sessions to running your business. Discover how to leverage your innate coaching strengths to create a coaching business perfectly aligned with who you are. Plus, stay tuned until the end for an exciting announcement about a brand new opportunity to get the business support you need to succeed. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/228
Personal growth and development are never-ending commitments that every man has to prioritize to succeed. In this episode, I will discuss the three things that every man needs to remember if he is going to become the best version of himself and remain in that space. I hope you enjoy the contents of this episode. Please share your comments in the chat and subscribe to my podcast :-). Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org
Thoughts are running internal dialogues that are constantly happening in our psyche every moment of every day of our lives. When thoughts bombard us, we are placed in a position to decide what turn to take as we come to the many "forks" in the road our thoughts. This places us in a position to commit to being the master of our thoughts or the thought being our master. In this episode I will discuss how to manage intrusive thoughts and be more effective when you feel overwhelmed. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www.xyspark.org https://www.youtube.com/live/EQmPYfqSMF8?si=Hjv5CxsLGUQb77_U
I dive deep into the science behind why humans are not meant to learn and grow in isolation. From the social learning theory to the power of deliberate practice with feedback, there is overwhelming evidence that working with others accelerates our progress and helps us achieve mastery faster. I explore real-world examples, fascinating research studies, and personal anecdotes that demonstrate the magic of collaboration and coaching. By the end of this episode, you'll have a newfound appreciation for the importance of seeking support and guidance on your journey to success. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/227
A man will spend hours in the gym pumping iron to get fit and look chiseled because he considers it important to be physically strong. Paying attention to how we look on the outside has become more important than how we look on the inside. Looking good physically is important, but what is even more important is how we look psychologically and emotionally on the inside. In this episode we will make the comparison between physical muscle and mental muscle. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 https://www.youtube.com/live/RTEdUxQnFxc?si=2tzXNHOwohL5Dwp8 Visit my website: www.xyspark.org
Morning mana for a mental makeover #motivation #inspiration #live #podcast #mentalhealth It's a new day and a new week, and in this episode, Rolando, your host, will take you on a journey of self-discovery and healing. Motivation Monday is about starting your week on the right note by giving up what you once did that is harmful to you and creating a new trend to uplift you. Welcome to Motivation Monday. Please comment on how the contents of this podcast were helpful to you. https://www.youtube.com/live/RTEdUxQnFxc?si=OcNrpLBPfLTOX6Z3 Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit my website: www.xyspark.org
Listen to this episode to start your week on the right note. I will share with you helpful insights about how to develop the right mindset and build resilience as a man.
Our podcast guest today is professor Dr. K Jaishankar PhD. Professor (Dr.) K. Jaishankar is currently the Founder and Principal Director and Professor of Criminology and Justice Sciences of the International Institute of Justice & Police Sciences (IIJPS), Bengaluru, Karnataka, and an Adjunct Faculty Member of the United Nations Interregional Crime and Justice Research Institute, Italy & University of Peace, Italy, and he teaches modules of the Master of Laws (LL.M.) in Cybercrime, Cybersecurity and International Law. He is also the Distinguished Adjunct Professor of Criminology at Saveetha School of Law, Saveetha University, Chennai, Tamil Nadu. Before founding the International Institute of Justice & Police Sciences in 2022, Jaishankar held several positions like Dean, Head of the Department, Syndicate Member, Professor of Criminology and Senior Assistant Professor of Criminology at two major public universities in India. He is the founder President of South Asian Society of Criminology and Victimology (SASCV) and founder Executive Director of Centre for Cyber Victim Counselling (CCVC). He was a Commonwealth Academic Fellow during 2009–2010 at the Centre for Criminal Justice Studies, School of Law, University of Leeds, United Kingdom. He is the founding father of Cyber Criminology (2007), Therapeutic Criminology (2023) and Theological Criminology (2024) (academic sub-disciplines) of Criminology and the founding father of Cyber Victimology (2015) and Political Victimology (2024). He is the proponent of the Space Transition Theory of Cyber Crimes. He is the recipient of the prestigious “National Academy of Sciences, India (NASI) - SCOPUS Young Scientist Award 2012 – Social Sciences”. He is an International Ambassador of the British Society of Criminology (BSC) and a United Nations Expert on Issues of Victims of Terrorism. He was recently Ranked 16th among the Top 25 Influential Criminologists in the World during 2010-2020 by Academic Influence (an Academic Rankings Site), Texas, USA. He is ranked Number 5 (Top 3%) among 626 Law and Legal Studies Scholars in India by the AD Scientific Index. He has co-authored/edited 11 books with prestigious publishers like Sage, CRC Press, Routledge (Taylor and Francis Group) and his research papers have be published in prestigious journals such as the British Journal of Criminology, Punishment and Society, Policing, and International Criminal Justice Review. His areas of Academic Competence are Cyber Criminology/Victimology, Theological Criminology, Victimology, Crime Mapping, GIS, Policing, and Crime Prevention. Listen as host and psychotherapist Rolando talks with Dr. K about his work in the community as an advocate and criminologist for equality of gender related issues. Visit our website : xyspark.org Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1
The mind is one of the most powerful tools that a human being possesses. With the mind we can speak ourselves into failure or defeat, hope or hopelessness, healing or stagnation. In this episode we will look at the power of the mind and how our choices are all products of our thoughts and ruminations. I hope that you will find this content useful as we explore the thoughts of the mind and how we determine the results by our actions and perceptions. Visit our website: xyspark.org
Narcissistic personality disorder according to helpguide.org is a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people. It is also shown in the person's excessive need for admiration. In this episode, I will be leading a discussion about five common traits of a narcissist. I hope that you will be able to gain some helpful insights from this podcast episode.
As coaches, we often learn specific techniques and tools that we believe will help our clients achieve their goals. However, not every client resonates with the same methods. Some may struggle with journaling, while others prefer talking through their thoughts instead of writing them down. By taking a step back and considering the underlying purpose of each tool or technique, we can find alternative ways to help our clients create the same powerful results. This adaptability not only improves the coaching experience but also empowers clients to trust themselves and develop problem-solving skills they can use long after the coaching relationship ends. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/226
Anxiety is said to impact all children adults and youth in several different forms. Our episode today will look at some of those other forms of anxiety and talk about some practical questions that should be asked when you are feeling anxious. Please take a moment to listen to this episode that gives insights about ways to begin this new journey of managing anxiety. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: www. xyspark.org
Listen to this interview with Jared Whitaker author, speaker, advocate and survivor of domestic violence. In this episode I will interview Jared and he will share his story about challenging the stigma and how it has changed his life from being a victim to now an advocate.
Personal and professional challenges are constants in life, and learning how to manage them helps build resilience. In this episode, your host and men's life coach Rolando will discuss practical coping techniques to help you become more resilient. Visit our website: xyspark.org
It is often very challenging for us to find meaning in situations that don't make sense. Psychologically, we get overwhelmed, and emotionally, we feel depleted. In this episode, I will discuss ways that you can turn difficult situations into opportunities for growth and personal development. Please let me know your thoughts when you listen and gain insight into how to find meaning in difficult situations.
In this episode, Rolando, your host, and men's life coach will discuss how you can face your insecurities with courage. Feelings of insecurity can lead to irrational thinking, such as fortune-telling and thoughts of not being good enough, which can cause trust to deteriorate in a relationship. Listen as the discussion takes you through steps to manage your insecurities. Book a discovery call: https://bit.ly/BOOKACALL1 Visit our website: xyspark.org
I dive deep into the importance of goal setting in coaching and share practical strategies you can use to help your clients achieve their desired outcomes. We'll explore why goal setting is the backbone of effective coaching, common challenges coaches face in this area, and the costs of skipping this crucial step. By the end of this episode, you'll have a solid understanding of how to approach goal setting with your clients and feel more confident in your ability to guide them towards success. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/225
An entitlement mindset negatively impacts our personal and professional relationships. But what does it mean to be entitled? In this episode, your host, Psychotherapist and life coach Rolando, explores this issue and offers practical solutions to break this unhealthy thought process. The episode will also look at the source and solutions to managing entitlement syndrome. Do you have an entitlement mindset or a winning mindset?
We are bombarded with problems from different avenues daily, and how we adjust and adapt to these problems is determined by our mindset. When life happens to us in chaotic ways, we are challenged to find solutions that will help us to come out as winners, not solutions that will leave us feeling incapable and inadequate. Listen to this episode from your host and men's life coach, Rolando, as he shows us how to turn problems into solutions.
Is it possible to turn our problems into solutions? How do we train our minds to be more resilient when we experience pain and disappointment that challenges us and shakes us at the core? Listen to this presentation from your host, psychotherapist, and men's life coach, Rolando. Please like, share, and visit the website at www.xyspark.org
When we pay attention to our mental health, it improves our quality of life and relationships. In this episode, your host, psychotherapist, and men's coach, Rolando, discusses five reasons to prioritize mental health.
In this episode, I introduce the concept of strategic procrastination. It's a powerful tool that can help you overcome resistance and get more done in your business. By intentionally choosing activities that prime your brain for the task at hand, you can make it easier to tackle even the most challenging projects. Whether you struggle with writing emails, recording your podcast, or any other aspect of your coaching practice, this strategy can help you break through the resistance and get things done. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/224
The mind is a powerful tool for success and survival or sabotage and stagnation. Our mind only produces what we feed it, and in this episode, your host, Rolando, will give you practical tips to help you create the medicine to change your mindset.
The mind is a powerful tool for success and survival or sabotage and stagnation. Our mind only produces what we feed it, and in this episode, your host, Rolando, will give you practical tips to help you create the medicine to change your mindset.
----more----
I'm sharing a powerful tool that I've been teaching my clients inside The Coach Project. It's a formula that can help you tackle any project or goal, whether it's creating a new program for your clients, developing your coaching process, or even working on your own personal development. By breaking down your project into four key components - idea, strategy, commitment, and obstacles - you can gain clarity on what you want to achieve, develop a plan to get there, and stay motivated along the way. Plus, I share some tips on how you can use this formula with your own coaching clients to help them achieve their goals. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/223
In this episode, I talk with my good friend and fellow coach Lindsey Mango about how she has prepared for her upcoming maternity leave. We explore the mindset shifts required to step away from your business without worry or guilt, and the importance of empowering your clients to get results even in your absence. If you've been putting off taking extended time off because you weren't sure how to make it work in your coaching business, this episode will give you tons of ideas and inspiration. Lindsey's approach is both practical and expansive, and will help you see the possibilities for creating a coaching business that supports the life you want to live. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/222