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Episode 161 - In this final episode of our Spiritual Warfare series, Father Danda and Nathanael Rea explore the concept of spiritual warfare, emphasizing the importance of understanding our authority in Christ, the power of prayer and fasting, and the necessity of renouncing lies and practicing forgiveness. It highlights the significance of sanctifying our spaces and living with total confidence in God's victory over the enemy.Key takeaways from this episode:We do not fight alone; God and the heavenly hosts are with us.In Christ, we have the authority to combat spiritual attacks.Spiritual warfare involves both offensive and defensive strategies.Prayer, fasting, and almsgiving are essential weapons in our battle.Renouncing lies and forgiving others are crucial for spiritual freedom.Sanctifying our living spaces can protect us from spiritual harm.The name of Jesus holds immense power in spiritual warfare.Magic attempts to control the supernatural, unlike the Christian relationship with God.Building a prayer life is vital for spiritual growth and protection.Confidence in God's victory is essential for effective spiritual warfare.
Valentine's Day isn't about chocolates and Hallmark cards. It's about a man who defied an emperor, risked his life for the sanctity of marriage, and stood firm in the face of death. St. Valentine wasn't just a saint—he was a warrior for true love.In this episode, we uncover the real story behind St. Valentine. Who was he? Why was he martyred? And what can his courage teach Catholic men today? You'll learn how this third-century priest defied Emperor Claudius II by secretly marrying Christian couples, why the world has twisted his legacy, and how his ultimate sacrifice still speaks to men today.We break down three powerful lessons from his life:Love is Sacrificial – It's not about fleeting emotions. It's about commitment, self-gift, and suffering for the good of another.Courage is Essential – St. Valentine refused to renounce his faith, even in the face of death. Will you stand for truth when the world mocks it?Small Acts Have Eternal Impact – From healing the blind to blessing marriages in secret, St. Valentine reminds us that everyday acts of faith build the Kingdom of God.If you're married, this episode will challenge you to love your wife with renewed purpose. If you're single, it will reshape how you view relationships and commitment. Either way, St. Valentine is a saint every Catholic man must know.Three Powerful Quotes from the Episode:
#10MinuteswithJesus ** Put yourself in the presence of God. Try talking to Him. ** 10 minutes are 10 minutes. Even if you can get distracted, reach the end. ** Be constant. The Holy Spirit acts "on low heat" and requires perseverance. 10-Minute audio to help you pray. Daily sparks to ignite prayer: a passage from the gospel, an idea, an anecdote and a priest who speaks with you and the Lord, inviting you to share your intimacy with God. Find your moment, consider you are in His presence and click play.
Brothers, we live in an age of confusion. The world twists truth, waters down faith, and even distorts who Christ is. But this is nothing new. The Church has faced heresies before—falsehoods that threatened to shake the very foundation of Christianity. And one man, St. Cyril of Alexandria, refused to let the lies stand.In this episode, we dive deep into the life of a fearless defender of the faith. Cyril crushed one of the most dangerous heresies in history—the Nestorian heresy—which denied Mary as the Mother of God and distorted the truth about Christ's divinity. His battle for truth is just as relevant today as it was in 431 AD.You will learn:
Jon and Kevin discuss what Jesus meant when he said He was going to sanctify Himself in the book of John.
Send us a textIn this episode, we explore the inspiring life of Saint Agatha, one of the Church's most venerated virgin-martyrs. Known for her unwavering faith, heroic virtue, and miraculous intercession, Saint Agatha's story is a challenge for men today to stand firm in truth, defend purity, and embrace suffering with faith.Key Takeaways:✅ The extraordinary courage of Saint Agatha—how she stood against a corrupt ruler and refused to compromise her faith, even in the face of brutal torture. ✅ The deeper meaning of suffering and sacrifice—how Agatha's endurance teaches us to embrace trials with faith and perseverance. ✅ Why Saint Agatha's witness still matters today—and how her life calls men to rise up, defend purity, and stand unwavering in truth.Notable Quotes:
Send us a textIn this episode of The Manly Catholic, we dive into the life of St. Blaise, a bishop, healer, and courageous martyr who lived during the brutal persecution of Christians under Emperor Licinius. While many know him as the patron saint of throat ailments, his story is filled with miraculous healings, unwavering faith, and powerful lessons for Catholic men today.Discover how St. Blaise's steadfast trust in God, even in the face of torture and death, serves as a blueprint for men striving to lead, protect, and heal in their own homes and communities. You'll also learn about the powerful tradition of the Blessing of the Throats, which continues to be practiced in Catholic churches worldwide.Join us as we explore:How St. Blaise's dual vocations as a physician and bishop show us the importance of both physical and spiritual healing.The miraculous stories of wild animals seeking his help and the mother who pleaded for her choking child.His courageous witness to the faith and how we, as Catholic men, are called to stand firm in spiritual battles today.3 Actionable Takeaways for Men Today:Pray for Courage: St. Blaise refused to renounce Christ, even under torture. Today, take 5 minutes to ask God for the strength to stand firm in your faith, especially in moments of adversity.Be a Healer in Your Home: Whether it's listening to your wife, spending intentional time with your children, or helping a friend in need, seek to be a source of healing—both physically and spiritually—just as St. Blaise was.Prepare for Spiritual Warfare: Like St. Blaise, who used his time in the cave for prayer and penance, carve out time for silence today. Turn off distractions and spend at least 10 minutes in quiet reflection or reading Scripture.Support the Podcast: Enjoying The Manly Catholic? Consider supporting us at buymeacoffee.com/TMC to help continue this mission of bringing solid Catholic content to men striving for holiness.Call to Action: If this episode inspired you, share it with a fellow brother in Christ. Let's build a community of faithful, courageous men who lead their families and stand firm in truth. Go out there and be a saint!This structure ensures engagement, clear takeaways, and a strong call to action. Let me know if you'd like any adjustments!Support us Support the showSupport the show at Buy Me A CoffeeSubscribe to our YouTube pageCheck out our websiteMystic Monk Coffee → For the best coffee for a great cause, we recommend Mystic Monk Coffee. Roasted with prayer by the Carmelite Monks in Wyoming, Mystic Monk Coffee has the ultimate cup waiting for you. See more at mysticmonkcoffee.com Contact us directly at themanlycatholic@gmail.com.
God's Sanctifying Work In Us by First Pres Kingwood
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The Special Function of Witnesses in Sanctifying the New Moon
The Sanctifying Church - Philippians 4:8, Rev.Eugene Kim by CGS Media
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Welcome to the new IBR series, “The Mitzvah Project”. In this series, we are going to be looking at ways to better & more consistently observe the commandments, beginning with Shabbat. We invite you to come along on this amazing journey! https://youtu.be/2FwpfjDsuGk OAM Website https://www.outofashesministries.org/podcast/ GIVE: https://www.outofashesministries.org/give YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnWucfsRXCaeDioM-nlwgHa_fC1_wB50C Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/out-of-ashes-ministries/id1487385984 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cub3V0b2Zhc2hlc21pbmlzdHJpZXMub3JnL3Nlcm1vbnMvZmVlZC8/episode/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cub3V0b2Zhc2hlc21pbmlzdHJpZXMub3JnL3Nlcm1vbnMvaWJyLWVwLTEzMy13aGF0LWRvLXlvdS13YW50LXBhcnQtNS8?sa=X&ved=0CAUQkfYCahgKEwj414P_3KaEAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQ1AE
Welcome to the new IBR series, “The Mitzvah Project”. In this series, we are going to be looking at ways to better & more consistently observe the commandments, beginning with Shabbat. We invite you to come along on this amazing journey! OAM Website https://www.outofashesministries.org/podcast/ GIVE: https://www.outofashesministries.org/give YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnWucfsRXCaeDioM-nlwgHa_fC1_wB50C Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/out-of-ashes-ministries/id1487385984 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cub3V0b2Zhc2hlc21pbmlzdHJpZXMub3JnL3Nlcm1vbnMvZmVlZC8/episode/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cub3V0b2Zhc2hlc21pbmlzdHJpZXMub3JnL3Nlcm1vbnMvaWJyLWVwLTEzMy13aGF0LWRvLXlvdS13YW50LXBhcnQtNS8?sa=X&ved=0CAUQkfYCahgKEwj414P_3KaEAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQ1AE The post IBR Ep 167- The Mitzvah Project- Remembering/Sanctifying the Shabbat (Part 2) appeared first on Out of Ashes Ministries.
How do we get our lives unstuck? Is belief alone the thing that gets our lives moving and producing the kind of fruit we & God desire? How do we actualize the idealized version of ourselves? In this series, we are seeking to answer the question Yeshua asked His disciples in John 1:38, "What do you want?". Not only are we going to find out what we truly desire, but also some proven ways to become the image-bearing people we were created to be. https://youtu.be/esXxnk87i9A OAM Website https://www.outofashesministries.org/podcast/ GIVE: https://www.outofashesministries.org/give YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnWucfsRXCaeDioM-nlwgHa_fC1_wB50C Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/out-of-ashes-ministries/id1487385984 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cub3V0b2Zhc2hlc21pbmlzdHJpZXMub3JnL3Nlcm1vbnMvZmVlZC8/episode/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cub3V0b2Zhc2hlc21pbmlzdHJpZXMub3JnL3Nlcm1vbnMvaWJyLWVwLTEzMy13aGF0LWRvLXlvdS13YW50LXBhcnQtNS8?sa=X&ved=0CAUQkfYCahgKEwj414P_3KaEAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQ1AE
How do we get our lives unstuck? Is belief alone the thing that gets our lives moving and producing the kind of fruit we & God desire? How do we actualize the idealized version of ourselves? In this series, we are seeking to answer the question Yeshua asked His disciples in John 1:38, “What do […] The post IBR Ep 166- The Mitzvah Project- Remembering/Sanctifying the Shabbat appeared first on Out of Ashes Ministries.
Join Franciscan Friar, Fr. Dan Pattee as he reflects upon preparing our hearts for the season of hope and light at Advent. Fr. Dan challenges us to become awake to Christ and develop within our lives spiritual exercises that will nurture our faith and draw us closer to Jesus Christ and the Salvation that only comes from Him.For more about Father Dan Pattee, TOR https://standrewcc.org/staffFor more about the Third Order Regular of Saint Francis: https://franciscanstor.org/Subscribe to the Morning Blend on your favorite podcast platform.Find this show on the free Hail Mary Media App, along with a radio live-stream, prayers, news, and more.Look through past episodes or support this podcast.The Morning Blend is a production of Mater Dei Radio in Portland, Oregon.
In his Confessions, Augustine dedicates the book's final section to reflecting on time. How do Christians live within time yet still live towards eternity, the telos of all time, the appointed time? Many Christians live in the past, bound by their memories, regrets and accomplishments, while others live in a state of anticipation, living in the future. But the past is past, never to return, and the future never exists in itself. We can get lost in the memory of—or anticipation of—non-existence. Rather than getting lost in time, Augustine explains how all time can be brought to immediate awareness in three different aspects. He writes: “The present considering the past is the memory, the present considering the present is immediate awareness, the present considering the future is expectation.” The only proper place for human attention is the present moment which ever presents itself. But this awareness must be “merged into” or brought before God Himself. The means that there is a need for humans to bring our existence in time to the eternal presence of God. We worship our way towards eternity. Our lives aim not to amass a hoard of things but to encounter God through sacred moments. Therefore, how we face time matters immensely. Christians sanctify or redeem time by bringing God's eternal reality into their present moment. The Church trains her sons and daughters to do this through the Sacraments in which God's own life is offered by grace. Through the sacraments the Church enters eternity, and most specially, the Holy Eucharist brings the faithful into the eternal moment of worship through the once for all sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Christians also encounter God through sacred moments as they follow the Church's calendar by dedicating the seasons and weeks to the life of Christ and his saints. Living according to the calendar of the Church helps Christians realize that eternity is not some future reality after death but the ever present and commanding reality in which time unfolds. These events marked history as such to influence the naming of two epochs, B.C. and A.D. – Before Christ and In the year of our Lord. How shall we engage with time? Redeeming time (KJV): Ephesians 5:15-20 Sanctifying time: Genesis 2:1-3 Thus the heavens and the earth were finished, and all the host of them. 2 And on the seventh day God finished his work that he had done, and he rested on the seventh day from all his work that he had done.3 So God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it God rested from all his work that he had done in creation. OK, God didn't rest because He was tired! Shabat is mainly used as “to cease, to stop.” All done! Instead of God doing more, He ceased from doing. And that's the idea of the 7th day … a pattern for us to cease from doing and “be” still (cease from striving) and know (wonder, contemplate, imagine, exalt) … that I am God. So God sanctified time sort of like we sanctify food … we approach food sometimes like it's something to be crammed and flushed out our bodies! Sanctifying creation: I Timothy 4:4-5 4 For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, 5 for it is made holy by the word of God and prayer. We make created things holy by the word of God and prayer. Holy time, Holy water, holy oil, holy communion, holy food, and so forth! Holy? To set apart with thanksgiving to the one who created it and gifted it to us! This is a call to live in a sacramental universe. To be a royal priesthood offering spiritual sacrifices until the Lord returns.
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Sermons, November 2024, The Magnificent Word of God, Sanctification, Pastor Ray Fowler
2024.11.03 - Sanctifying Hope- Joyful Confidence in a Coming Lord by Emmanuel Baptist Church
This week, Lecturer from the University of New South Wales, Dr Ian Kwan joins me on the show to discuss the concept of Sanctifying Work. Many of us have heard of this concept when we have met members of Opus Dei or read of its founder, St Josemaria Escriva. This week Dr Ian, will explain what this principle is, and provide us with the practical tools to take action in our day to day lives. This will aid you, to bring Christ to work, as he helps you to complete your day, and to complete all things in him and through him. This is an episode not to miss! – The Show is Live on the following Platforms Television TV Maria: tvmaria.ph Radio Platforms: Voice of Charity Australia (1701AM): www.voc.org.au Radio Maria Australia: https://www.radiomaria.org.au/ Cradio: www.cradio.org.au Social Media: @thecatholictoolboxshow Facebook & Instagram - Partners: Parousia Media: www.parousiamedia.com EWTN Asia Pacific www.ewtnasiapacific.com - SUBSCRIBE to our weekly Alert and Newsletter: www.thecatholictoolboxshow.com Get your copy of "The Art of Practical Catholicism" by George Manassa: Get your copy of "The Art of Practical Catholicism Series" by George Manassa: store.parousiamedia.com/the-art-of-practical-catholicism-your-faith-guide-george-manassa-paperback/ https://store.parousiamedia.com/the-art-of-practical-catholicism-2-your-faith-guide-george-manassa-paperback/ Book George Manassa to speak at your parish or event now: www.parousiamedia.com/george-manassa/ DISCLAIMER This Episode does not count as Medical, Psychological or professional advice. All the contents within the parameters of this episode are simply the personal views of the host and guest(s) and any personal advice reflected should always be verified by your relevant professional. In no way is this a substitute for seeking any professional advice and we urge that you seek relevant professional attention at any stage. Please seek the guidance of your doctor or other qualified health or other professional with any questions you may have regarding your health or a medical condition. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional, or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this episode or read on any online media. If you are experiencing any emergencies please call 000 OR if you need assistance call 13 11 14 within Australia Or your national emergency service
In this episode, I sit down with my good friend Shepard Merritt to discuss his experience with the New Independent Fundamentalist Baptist (NIFB) Church as well as with the Church's insistence on using only the King James Version of the Bible. It's not merely that the church teaches you should use the KJV, but it also teaches that other versions are demonic and attempting to deceive people with false teachings. Shepard describes how he got pulled in by the church's teachings on Faith Alone, Scripture Alone, and Grace Alone, but how the doctrine of Scripture Alone was twisted to really mean King James Version Alone, a gross misrepresentation of one of the five solas of the Reformation. Also discussed are the red flags that started to show up in his study of NIFB teachings that led to him to start questioning the church. One of the biggest red flags he noticed was how reprobation and imprecatory prayers (as well as KJV Only radicalism) were taught with equal importance to the Gospel, signifying how out of focus some of the leaders of the NIFB church can be. We want to be clear that this is not meant to criticize anyone within the NIFB church personally, but simply to bring to light some of the errors of NIFB and KJV Only teachings so that all of us can grow stronger in the faith together as we lift each other in humble obedience to Jesus Christ. This video hopes to express a James 3:17-18 (NASB 1995, my emphasis) attitude, "17 But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. 18 And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace." We hope to push Christians to be peaceable and open to reason so we can all grow in love, gentleness, mercy, and good fruits. Grace and mercy be with you all. #KJVOnlyism #NIFBChurch #KingJamesVersion #JamesWhite #KingJamesOnlyControversy #Apologetics #Exvangelical #FaithJourney #ReformationSolas #ScriptureAlone #LeavingKJVOnlyism #ChristianTestimony #FalseTeachings #FaithAlone #ReprobationDoctrine #ImprecatoryPrayers #ChristianGrowth #SpiritualDiscernment #TrueGospel #BiblicalWisdom #James317 #ReligiousAwakening #PeaceableWisdom --------------------------------LINKS--------------------------------- Science Faith & Reasoning podcast link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/science-faith-reasoning Coffee with John Calvin Podcast link (An SFR+ Production!) https://open.spotify.com/show/5UWb8SavK17HO8ERorHPYN ----------------------SPECIAL THANKS------------------------ Featured Guest: Shepard Merritt Instagram: instagram.com/shepmusic_ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChJputX-cVDPJWp7YVeGZYQ -----------------------------CONNECT------------------------------ https://www.scifr.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sciencefaithandreasoning X: https://twitter.com/SFRdaily Our Host Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielfaucett1995 X: https://twitter.com/danielfaucett
Phil Johnson • 2 Corinthians 7:1 • GraceLife
A new MP3 sermon from The GraceLife Pulpit is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Sanctifying God's Temple Speaker: Phil Johnson Broadcaster: The GraceLife Pulpit Event: Sunday Service Date: 9/29/2024 Bible: 2 Corinthians 7:1 Length: 58 min.
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Where do you get the strength and power to live a godly life? Most Christian think the answer for living a godly life is to try harder and do better looking to our own strength and power. But the power for a holy life is not in white knuckling our own holiness. The power for a holy life is love; a love for Christ that flows out of the new affections of the new heart worked in us by the Holy Spirit.
Tonight we learn just how we have been made holy and sanctified. Listen and learn just how going and growing in the BEYOND, has taught us how to truly be set apart and sanctified, by Grace, through Faith & in Love. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/truth-over-tea/support
God's Sanctifying PromisesGod's Gospel for the WorldRomans 8:26-28Dr. Ken MitchellWestside Chapel | September 22, 2024
In 1984, most of our first few church leaders were university students. Many of them had never visited another country. Some had never been off the island of Luzon, where Metro Manila is located. Few had ever even seen a passport, much less possessed one. It was an unlikely group to launch a worldwide church-planting movement!Yet, they started learning what it meant to follow Christ by laying their hands on an old National Geographic map and interceding for the nations one by one. Pastor Steve Murrell also empowered them that a Bible and a passport were all they needed to answer God's call to make disciples of all nations.From those humble beginnings, the gospel has been planted in 82 nations-yet still, we continue to reach for more. And since then, Psalm 2:8 has always been our prayer:"Ask of me, and I will make the nations your inheritance, the ends of the earth your possession."
In 1984, most of our first few church leaders were university students. Many of them had never visited another country. Some had never been off the island of Luzon, where Metro Manila is located. Few had ever even seen a passport, much less possessed one. It was an unlikely group to launch a worldwide church-planting movement!Yet, they started learning what it meant to follow Christ by laying their hands on an old National Geographic map and interceding for the nations one by one. Pastor Steve Murrell also empowered them that a Bible and a passport were all they needed to answer God's call to make disciples of all nations.From those humble beginnings, the gospel has been planted in 82 nations-yet still, we continue to reach for more. And since then, Psalm 2:8 has always been our prayer:"Ask of me, and I will make the nations your inheritance, the ends of the earth your possession."
Only By Sanctifying in Areas of Reshus Can One Truly Connect to Mitzvos
Our Sanctifying HopeGod's Gospel for the WorldRomans 8:18-25Dr. Ken MitchellWestside Chapel | September 15, 2024
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Welcome to the official YouTube channel and podcast of Lauren Ostrowski Fenton, where we provide valuable content focused on helping you achieve better sleep and overall well-being. Lauren specializes in assisting individuals experiencing anxiety and loneliness, guiding them on a transformative journey towards restful nights and rejuvenating mornings. Through the power of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and sleep meditation techniques, Lauren shares insights on mindfulness and its ability to enhance sleep quality. Explore various sleep improvement strategies designed to address common sleep troubles and find effective solutions. Discover how CBT can be a powerful tool in managing and overcoming sleep disorders. Join Lauren in her guided sleep meditations, where she combines relaxation techniques with her soothing voice to create a tranquil atmosphere conducive to deep rest. Unlock the secrets of managing anxiety for better sleep and harness the power of positive thinking to promote peaceful nights. Self-care is also emphasised as an essential aspect of restful nights. Don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay updated on the latest videos focusing on sleep, mindfulness, and CBT. Sweet dreams await! For those seeking more in-depth support and guidance, Lauren offers meditation classes through Zoom via Patreon membership. Join the PEACE COLLECTIVE CLUB, a collaborative club focused on healing, relaxing, sleep therapy, setting goals, and developing compassion and wisdom. Club members receive invites to free seminars, courses, workshops, and live Zoom sessions, as well as access to ad-free video, audio, and vocals-only content, and other bonuses and perks. https://www.patreon.com/laurenostrowskifenton To support Lauren's content creation and join a connected, compassionate group, check out her Patreon page and consider joining the PEACE COLLECTIVE CLUB. https://www.patreon.com/laurenostrowskifenton For online counselling sessions with Lauren, a qualified, certified counselor with a Masters's in Counseling, you can book a session through her SimplyBook.me page. https://laurenostrowskifenton.simplybook.me/v2/
We as Christians should understand the important role God has graciously allowed us to currently have in preserving, protecting, and improving the concentric spheres in which we live.
Sacraments are instruments, they do what they signify.Sanctifying grace increases.Sacramental graces are made available (constantly), though they might not be able to be fruitful because of mortal sin or lack of attentiveness to receiving it fruitfully.**Through the sacrament of marriage, Jesus' love for the Church is MADE present!There are helping graces for the natural ends of marriage that have now been supernaturalized: procreation/education of children, and to be helpmates to each other.The other category of helping graces is to help re-order marriage, family life, and the world towards divine ends. Marriage, therefore, becomes a remedy for sin, it builds up the Church, and is an element of the substance of our divine worship.
Sign-up for my free 20-day devotional, The Word Before Work Foundations, at http://TWBWFoundations.com--Series: Wisdom for Work from ProverbsDevotional: 6 of 7Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. (Proverbs 27:5-6)According to the Harvard Business Review, “By roughly a three to one margin, [employees] believe [that corrective feedback] does even more to improve their performance than positive feedback.” In other words, most people accept the wisdom of today's proverb that an “open rebuke” is “better” than “hidden love.”There's just one problem. While the vast majority of us prefer constructive criticism to pats on the back, “only 5 percent believe managers provide such feedback.”So, what can you and I do to encourage others to correct us in love? Here are four ideas.#1: Offer the gift of open but loving rebuke to others. This can be tough for Christians who feel the call to be kind. But you and I aren't called just to be nice. We're called to love as Christ loved us (see John 13:34), and he often rebuked those he loved (see Matthew 16:23 and Luke 9:37-56). “You don't get crucified for being a people pleaser,” says pastor John Mark Comer. Jesus was a people lover, not a people pleaser, who knew that true love says hard things graciously. We must do the same. And when we do, we will make it easier for others to correct us in love.#2: Give at least one boss, client, co-worker, or friend explicit permission to rebuke you when necessary. Here's a sample message you can copy and send right now: I've been reflecting on Proverbs 27:5-6 and I feel convicted to invite more open and honest feedback into my life. If you ever see something in me that you'd recommend I change to better serve others or better reflect my values, PLEASE don't hesitate to tell me!#3: Choose a question you will begin asking to draw constructive feedback out of friends and colleagues. Here are three ideas:Where do you think I am least like Jesus?What's something you've wanted to tell me but haven't for fear that you'd offend me?What can I start or stop doing that would make it easier to work with me?#4: Embrace the awkwardness. As the author of Radical Candor points out, if you ask one of the questions above, “No matter how good your question is, the person you ask won't want to answer it. The only way out of this uncomfortable moment is through it.” So ask one of the questions above and then say nothing. Mentally count to five and refuse to break the awkward silence. Seeking out “open rebuke” is not easy. But remember, “wounds from a friend can be trusted” (Proverbs 27:6). Embrace the discomfort for your sanctification, God's glory, and the good of others!
There are three offices that belong to the episcopal college: the teaching office, the sanctifying office, and the governing office. Fr. Mike gives us an overview of the functions within these offices and clarifies the charism of infallibility in matters of faith and morals. As we learn about the authority of the episcopal college, Fr. Mike encourages us to approach the teachings of the Church with docility. Today's readings are Catechism paragraphs 888-896. This episode has been found to be in conformity with the Catechism by the Institute on the Catechism, under the Subcommittee on the Catechism, USCCB. For the complete reading plan, visit ascensionpress.com/ciy Please note: The Catechism of the Catholic Church contains adult themes that may not be suitable for children - parental discretion is advised.