ACross Generations with Tiffany Cross

Join us for a special journey through the highlights of our season. In this episode, we’re revisiting some of the most inspiring interviews, heartfelt stories, and thought-provoking conversations that have made this season unforgettable. From powerful moments of resilience to connections that transcend generations, this is a celebration of the incredible voices and topics we’ve shared together. Thank you for being part of the Across Generations family—stay tuned for even more! RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Join us for a special journey through the highlights of our season. In this episode, we’re revisiting some of the most inspiring interviews, heartfelt stories, and thought-provoking conversations that have made this season unforgettable. From powerful moments of resilience to connections that transcend generations, this is a celebration of the incredible voices and topics we’ve shared together. Thank you for being part of the Across Generations family—stay tuned for even more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Johnita Mizell shares her heartfelt journey as a single mother by choice, navigating the challenges and triumphs of IVF, the strength required to face her daughter's rare cancer diagnosis, and her hopes of expanding her family. With candid insights, resilience, and humor, Across Generations is a testament to the power of storytelling and the enduring spirit of Black women. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

In this compelling episode of Across Generations, reality TV star, entrepreneur, and philanthropist Marlo Hampton takes center stage. Best known for her role on The Real Housewives of Atlanta, Marlo opens up about her journey from foster care to building a successful life in the spotlight. She shares her experiences navigating the world of reality TV, the challenges of overcoming stereotypes, and her mission to empower young girls in foster care through her nonprofit, Glam It Up. Host Tiffany Cross facilitates an honest, heartfelt conversation about resilience, sisterhood, and the impact of reality TV on Black culture. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

In this episode of Across Generations, host Tiffany Cross dives into a candid discussion on evolving beauty standards with esteemed guests Harriet Cole, a lifestyle expert and author, and Jasmine Carthon, a trailblazing plus-size model and community advocate. Together, they explore the historical and cultural shifts in how beauty is perceived, the impact of legislation like the Crown Act, and the challenges faced by Black women in industries shaped by Eurocentric ideals. From personal anecdotes about self-acceptance to an honest examination of representation in media, this episode celebrates individuality and the journey toward redefining beauty on one's terms. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

On this episode of "Across Generations", host Tiffany Cross dives into the art and science of modern matchmaking with the dynamic Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, aka "The Matchmaking Duo." With over a decade of experience, they share insights into bridging generational gaps in love and relationships, while empowering individuals to build meaningful connections. From debunking myths about dating coaches to exploring cultural dynamics, this conversation celebrates black love, healing, and the journey to self-discovery. Whether you're seeking love or redefining it, this episode offers a fresh perspective on finding and fostering healthy relationships. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

In this episode of Across Generations, host Tiffany Cross engages in a powerful, in-depth conversation with the trailblazing Judge Hatchet. As the first Black woman TV judge, Judge Hatchet reflects on her journey of using her platform for authentic, impactful community service. They discuss critical topics including the state of the judiciary, representation of Black women in power, and the importance of systemic change in the criminal justice system. This episode sheds light on activism, judicial reform, and the ongoing fight for justice while celebrating the strength and leadership of Black women. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Join host Tiffany Cross in a candid and deeply moving episode of Across Generations, as we tackle the sensitive and often silenced topic of "church hurt." From the historic significance of the Black church to its contemporary challenges, this conversation delves into stories of resilience, betrayal, and healing within religious institutions. Featuring heartfelt testimonies from guests of varying generations, the episode provides a safe space to discuss trauma, accountability, and the duality of faith and human imperfection. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

This week on A Cross Generation join us as we delve into the intricacies of the real estate market with Tricia Lee, an accomplished broker and entrepreneur. From navigating the challenges of home ownership in Black communities to redefining wealth-building strategies, Tricia shares her invaluable insights to empower first-time buyers, investors, and homeowners alike. Get ready for an eye-opening discussion about equity, community, and resilience.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

  In this episode of ACross Generations we dive into the world of hip hop with two amazing guests: the legendary Roxanne Shanté and rising star Cleotrapa. They chat about everything from the raw early days of battle raps to today's bold, boundary-pushing female MCs. It's all about celebrating sisterhood, navigating competition, and owning your greatness in the game.  RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

In this episode of Across Generations, Tiffany Cross explores the complex and evolving world of online dating through an inter-generational lens. Joined by Naomi Rose, and Sarah Yeary, the trio dives into the realities of navigating digital dating platforms. From safety concerns and societal pressures to personal growth and compatibility, the conversation unpacks the unique challenges Black women face in the online dating scene. With humor, vulnerability, and wisdom, the guests share personal stories, reflect on modern dating norms, and discuss what it truly means to find meaningful connections in the digital age.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

In this episode of Across Generations, host Tiffany Cross delves into the deeply personal and societal aspects of weight and health, exploring how these issues impact Black women across generations. Joined by guests Kathy Hampton, a wellness advocate and attorney, and Brandi Richardson, a body-positive influencer, the discussion sheds light on the unique challenges and health disparities faced by Black communities. Through candid conversations, the guests share their personal weight journeys, the importance of self-love, and the obstacles of maintaining health in a world of processed foods and limited access to quality nutrition. Whether through gastric bypass, lifestyle changes, or managing health setbacks, these women exemplify resilience, offering inspiration to listeners navigating their own wellness paths. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Join us as we spotlight the vibrant voices of Ummi Mshaka-Morris and Ziyada Ahmad to illuminate the complexities of the teenage experience in today's digital age. Our conversation takes us through the labyrinth of teenage social dynamics, with smartphones opening up new worlds of communication and connection. Yet, we also reminisce about the past and explore how the digital divide shapes the way young people experience freedom, socialize, and view school as a social hub. Ummi and Ziyada offer firsthand accounts of navigating restrictions like malls banning unaccompanied minors and balancing digital interactions with real-world connections. Our discussion takes a deeper turn as we scrutinize the stereotypes and internalized discrimination that still pervade marginalized communities, often perpetuated by casual jokes and language. We reflect on how these prejudices impact teenagers' education and social development, blending personal growth with societal expectations. Ummi and Ziyada share their dreams and pursuits, from fashion design to psychology, providing a candid look into their worlds. We even touch on how media narratives shape perceptions of mental health and LGBTQ+ relationships. In a world where social media and stereotypes loom large, the episode underscores the importance of personal well-being and self-assuredness. We explore the nuances of teenage romances and the ever-changing landscape of parent-teen relationships, flavored with humor and sincerity. The cultural significance of figures like Kamala Harris and the nuances of celebrity culture also enter our discourse, highlighting the broader societal shifts and personal challenges faced by today's youth. Through candid conversation, Ummi and Ziyada give us a window into their aspirations and challenges, painting a vivid picture of a generation poised to impact the world. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Do you remember the previous episode of motherhood? We have switched the roles.  This episode of Across Generations poses thoughtful explorations with our remarkable guests, Sandy Johnson and Mayor Jazzmin Cobble. Sandy, a seasoned realtor, shares her journey of opting for a child-free life driven by personal health and career aspirations. Meanwhile, Mayor Jazzmin Cobble juggles the joys and demands of raising a family while leading Stonecrest, Georgia. Their stories open a window into the evolving societal norms and personal choices that define parenthood across different generations. In our chapter on multi-generational households, we reflect on the intricate dynamics and invaluable lessons such living arrangements offer, especially within the Black community. The skills honed by necessity in past generations stand in stark contrast to modern parenting approaches, and these generational shifts illuminate how past experiences shape today's family decisions. We also venture into the realm of companionship later in life, examining how previous experiences and shared life stages influence our relationships and expectations as we age. Balancing motherhood, marriage, and a demanding public career is no easy feat, yet Mayor Jazzmin Cobble provides a heartfelt account of maintaining a strong marital bond amidst these pressures. This episode bridges generational divides, highlighting shared experiences and the threads that connect us all, guided by the incredible narratives of our guests. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

What happens when the resilience of foster youth meets the power of advocacy? Join us as we engage in a powerful conversation with Tyese Styles, a remarkable entrepreneur and champion for foster youth, who shares her compelling journey from a turbulent childhood to finding stability and purpose. Tyese opens up about her experience of being removed from her home due to abuse at age nine and navigating multiple foster homes, which included facing further mistreatment. Her life took a turn for the better at age 13 when she found a nurturing environment with a foster mother, shining a light on the critical need for compassionate support within the foster care system.  Our discussion extends beyond personal narratives to examine the systemic issues many foster children encounter, particularly focusing on the experiences of Black youth. We highlight the inspiring story of 21 year old Tawanna Brown, whose involvement with the New Jersey Youth Council transformed her life, turning past struggles into a platform for empowerment. Despite the challenges and lack of resources in the child welfare system, the support of dedicated CASA volunteers and her relentless spirit guided her toward becoming a youth council coach. Together, we reflect on the societal changes needed to better support vulnerable children and question the role of various advocates in these efforts. This heartfelt episode is not just about survival but also about healing and finding one's purpose amidst adversity. We explore themes of overcoming trauma, forgiveness, and the enduring strength found in sibling relationships despite separations caused by foster care and adoption. As we recount personal stories, we underscore the importance of therapy, mentorship, and self-care in building resilience and reclaiming one's narrative. From personal reconciliation to professional aspirations, listeners are invited to celebrate the triumphs of those who rise above their circumstances and advocate for systemic change in the foster care landscape.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

In this special episode of Across Generations, it's just you, me, and the mic as I dive into the questions you've sent in! I've received some great questions from our listeners, and today I'm excited to give you honest, unfiltered answers.  We'll cover everything from my book recommendations, to personal reflections on my journey, to the generational topics you all want to hear more about. I'm here to connect with you in a more personal way. So grab your headphones and join me for this one-on-one conversation—I can't wait to share my thoughts with you!   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

What if you could embrace your true identity without fear of judgment? Join us for an authentic conversation embracing authenticity in every story. Our journey moves through generations as we delve into the evolving perceptions of sexual and gender fluidity with insightful guests Nani Edwards and Revonda Cosby. Nani, a proud Spelman College alum, and Ravonda, who shares her experience of coming out within the LGBTQ+ community post-marriage, guide us through societal shifts that have redefined acceptance and expression. As we challenge conventional norms, hear firsthand how these guests navigate pronouns with respect and comfort, shedding light on the unique experiences within the Black community that continue to shape our understanding of identity. From the courage to break from traditional gender roles to the familial bonds that foster acceptance, we highlight powerful stories of personal transformation. Listen to tales of defying societal expectations, supported by families who stand by unconditionally. We touch on the hurdles faced by men in LGBTQ+ spaces and the often-overlooked role of intimacy beyond physical connections. With anecdotes that underscore the importance of love, support, and understanding, we celebrate the triumphs of living authentically and advocate for an inclusive future where everyone can be their true selves.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

What if the world of exotic dancing could be compared to the artistry of Alvin Ailey or the acrobatics of Cirque de Soleil? Join me, Tiffany Cross, as we unravel the rich history and cultural impact of the stripping industry in this revealing episode. With insights from millennial dancer and entrepreneur Shanika Robinson, also known as "the Stallion," and Sunshine, a 55-year-old former exotic dancer turned business owner, we explore the transformation of strip clubs, particularly in Atlanta, and how they've influenced entertainment and politics. From the physical demands and artistry of pole dancing to the stark realities of labor organizing and unfair working conditions, this episode promises an eye-opening conversation. Shanika and Sunshine's personal stories bring to light the myriad challenges dancers face, from financial struggles to balancing motherhood and relationships. We delve into the stringent regulations and safety concerns within the industry, comparing experiences in clubs with no-touch policies to those where physical contact is allowed. Their poignant narratives reveal the mental and physical toll of the profession, the stigmas and misconceptions dancers combat, and the ongoing fight for fair labor practices. As we navigate these discussions, we emphasize the need for empathy and respect for those who earn their living in this demanding field. Sunshine's journey of resilience, from her tumultuous teenage years to overcoming exploitation and finding empowerment, serves as a powerful testament to survival and self-love. We address the pressures of body image, the competitive environment in strip clubs, and the emotional toll on those who work within them. This episode offers a heartfelt exploration of the stripping industry, shedding light on the unseen struggles and triumphs of dancers, and emphasizing the importance of understanding and respect for their unique experiences. Join us for an honest and enlightening conversation that challenges societal perceptions and celebrates the strength of these women. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

We're back and more energized than ever! It's been a whirlwind of experiences, from electrifying stages at Essence Fest to powerful moments at the DNC. This episode of "Across Generations" is all about reflection and celebration. I open up about the importance of having spaces dedicated to Black women, where we can discuss everything from the fluidity of our sexual identities to our challenges with online dating, and even our place in the world of sports. And yes, witnessing a Black woman stepping into a position of leadership for our nation is a milestone we must acknowledge, even as we confront the harsher realities of global conflicts. Kamala Harris's recent debate performance left me in awe, and I couldn't help but reflect on my personal experiences with her. Her ability to own a room is nothing short of inspiring, and it's moments like these that remind us of the critical need for voter mobilization and awareness. I also share my thoughts on media consumption, stressing the importance of diverse news sources, like The New York Times, Al Jazeera, and The Root, while sounding a cautionary note on the often misleading world of social media. Finding the balance between staying informed and not falling into the trap of disinformation is a tightrope we all walk. Lastly, let's talk about the power of connection among Black women. We dive into how social media can be both a tool for spreading truth and a weapon for misinformation, especially against marginalized communities. It's imperative that platforms hire more native Spanish speakers to better address targeted disinformation. I also reflect on the profound sense of community I've felt at our annual retreats—a sanctuary for open dialogue and mutual support. A recent heartfelt encounter on a flight underscored just how deep our unspoken connections run. Join us behind the scenes of "Across Generations," brought to life by the incredible team at Will Packer Media and iHeart Podcast, as we continue this journey of storytelling and connection. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese caused a media frenzy after their infamous “you can't see me” exchange in the 2023 NCAA championship game. There was a fierce debate over their perceived rivalry and it only intensified once they became the hottest prospects in the WNBA's rookie class. The media's fixation on their so-called rivalry has been fueled by the same gender and racial bias that has haunted women's sports for generations. And now that Clark and Reese have brought thousands of new fans to the sport, is it safe to say that this storyline is what the WNBA needed? Or has it invited toxicity into a space that has always prided itself on its inclusivity and sisterhood? In this groundbreaking series, Cari Champion searches for answers from those who know Clark and Reese best – from the coaches who helped shape their game, to the players and journalists who have witnessed their meteoric rise first-hand. Champion traces the incredible parallel paths of not just these two historic talents but the WNBA itself, and sets the stage for the collision course that has brought us to this very moment. The Making of a Rivalry: Caitlin Clark vs. Angel Reese is not just about two of the brightest flames the sport has ever seen, but it also asks an essential question – in a time of such divisiveness, is it possible to let greatness unite us? Connect: @CARICHAMPION Listen here and subscribe to Naked Sports with Cari Champion on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back to another highlight episode of Across Generations! In this special montage, we revisit some of the most memorable moments from Season 1. Stay tuned for more inspiring stories and insightful discussions as we continue to explore the issues that matter most. Navigating a 61-Year MarriageImagine navigating the trials and triumphs of a 61-year marriage—Mrs. Tate's story will take you through a journey of enduring love, candid reflections, and the heartwarming moments that define a life lived together. From being a young bride at Howard University to becoming a mother and, eventually, celebrating decades of partnership, Mrs. Tate's experiences are both inspiring and deeply human. Her tales not only highlight the beauty of long-lasting relationships but also the challenges and resilience that come with them, encouraging us to find gentleness and humanity in our own connections. Mother-Daughter Dynamics and Healing Childhood TraumaNext, the episode shifts focus to the intricate dynamics of mother-daughter relationships and the scars of childhood trauma. We explore the tough but necessary path to healing and the importance of breaking generational cycles for our children's sake. A Dazzling Dating StoryLightening the mood, we share a fun story from our dating show featuring an 80-something Ms. Teenie, who injects humor and wisdom into the conversation about modern dating and personal boundaries. These moments serve as a reminder of the lessons we can learn from different generations and the importance of self-compassion. Gender Roles in Romantic RelationshipsFinally, the discussion turns to gender roles within romantic relationships. As I contemplate partnerships with older men, I reflect on the expectations of financial stability and support. Carla Hall joins us to share her experience of maintaining financial independence in her marriage, highlighting the value of mutual support beyond just finances. Carla's story emphasizes the significance of not compromising one's identity in a relationship and finding joy in supporting each other. This episode is a call to action for our listeners to contribute their thoughts and voices as we continue to explore the issues that matter most to Black women in today's evolving political landscape. Tune in for an episode that promises to inspire, entertain, and empower.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Welcome to a special episode of the Across Generations Podcast! I'm your host, Tiffany, and today we're taking a trip down memory lane with a highlight reel of our season so far. Join me as we revisit some of the most inspiring, thought-provoking, and heartwarming moments we've shared together.  From unforgettable interviews to powerful stories of resilience and connection, this episode is a celebration of the incredible guests and topics we've explored. Plus, I'm excited to announce our midseason break and give you a sneak peek of what's coming up next. Stay tuned, and thank you for being a part of our Across Generations family!   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

What does it mean to prioritize mental health as much as physical health? Join us as we unpack this critical conversation with Les Alfred, host of the Balanced Black Girl podcast, and LaTosha Brown, a political strategist and community activist. Together, we navigate the complexities of mental health struggles, drawing from our own experiences of show cancellations, financial turmoil, betrayals, and difficult romantic relationships. We explore the necessity of continuous mental health care, treating it with the same urgency and consistency as physical health. Listen as we share poignant stories of personal and familial mental health challenges, including the heartbreaking loss of a loved one to suicide. We discuss the importance of recognizing early signs of mental health issues and the value of therapy, while stressing the importance of personalized coping mechanisms—whether that's finding joy in small activities, leaning on friends, or nurturing spiritual beliefs. Unique challenges faced by Black women in diagnosing and addressing their mental health are brought to light, advocating for a holistic approach that blends spiritual and practical support systems. Our conversation also touches on generational attitudes towards mental health and the societal dismissal of Black women's pain. Reflecting on the impact of the Black Power Movement and the contrasting values of subsequent generations, we critique the trendiness of therapy language and emphasize the importance of resilience. We challenge the notion of a 'soft life' and address how capitalism and the media often exploit Black pain. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of trauma, resilience, and the journey towards embracing both our joys and struggles, urging us to foster a culture of open and honest dialogue about mental health. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

What does it take to reshape the media landscape? Join us as we share our journey through the world of media, focusing on the importance of relationships and the transformative power of networking. We recount our collaboration with industry veteran Will Packer, whose unwavering support and mission-driven approach made a significant impact on our projects. We also delve into the transformation of BET Jazz to BET Her, discussing the resistance faced and the eventual success in rebranding the network to better serve women. Insights into the internal politics at BET and candid stories of navigating corporate dynamics provide an eye-opening perspective on the challenges within the industry. Experience the unique journey of Black women in media as we reflect on personal interactions, the shifting landscape of political coverage, and the significant moments that have shaped our careers. From the 2007 presidential election to the evolution of workplace dynamics, we share anecdotes that highlight the progress and ongoing challenges faced by Black women. Our conversation also touches on the evolution of Black media, featuring insights from influential figures like Michele Ghee and Sidney Madden. Together, we explore the intersection of art, culture, and socio-political issues, celebrating the strides made while acknowledging the work still to be done. As we navigate the complexities of diversity, equity, and inclusion within the media industry, we discuss the validation sought by Black professionals in predominantly white-owned media outlets and the ongoing fight for authentic representation. Our reflections on work-life balance, the internalization of societal issues within hip-hop, and the significance of support networks offer a well-rounded view of the professional and personal challenges we face. We conclude with moments of gratitude and camaraderie, celebrating the shared experiences that make this journey both rewarding and hopeful.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Melba Moore, the Tony Award-winning actress and Grammy-nominated singer, graces our latest episode of "Across Generations" with her extraordinary journey from a musically inclined family to Broadway stardom and beyond. Alongside her, the formidable Amari "the Monster" Marshall, known for her electrifying dance performances with icons like Janet Jackson and Lady Gaga, shares her story of resilience and breaking barriers. Together, they create a vibrant narrative that spans decades, celebrating the enduring influence of Black women in entertainment. Listeners will be captivated by Melba Moore's reflections on her early years, her transition from teaching to the dazzling lights of Broadway, and the powerful impact of mentorship and family support. Amari Marshall's inspiring tale of perseverance, from facing numerous rejections to performing on grand stages like Coachella, underscores the importance of resilience and unwavering family backing. Their anecdotes provide a heartfelt exploration of overcoming industry adversities, managing stage fright, and staying grounded despite the pressures of fame. This episode also takes a deep dive into the realities of the entertainment industry, from financial hardships and social media's double-edged sword to the transformative power of dance and mentorship. Through their experiences, Melba and Amari emphasize the importance of discipline, faith, and body positivity. Their discussion about nurturing the next generation of talent and the evolution of beauty standards in the dance industry is both enlightening and empowering. Join us for an episode rich with wisdom, humor, and a deep appreciation for the artistry and legacy of Black women on stage.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Welcome back to Across Generations. In this episode we uncover the intricate dynamics of modern dating and relationships, reflecting on how technology and social media have transformed the landscape. From traditional dating methods to the complexities of swipe culture, we explore how women have adapted their approaches and the implications for genuine connections. This conversation touches on the emotional suppression faced by men and the importance of self-work in fostering meaningful relationships. We also address the challenges Black men encounter, the impact of societal expectations, and the necessity of safe spaces for emotional expression. Finally, we shift focus to fatherhood and community understanding, challenging pervasive narratives and highlighting the active involvement of Black fathers. Guests Keith Dent and Isaiah Gaymon bring their unique perspectives on relationship coaching and wellness, enriching our discussion on parenting, generational shifts, and the evolving roles of fathers. Through personal anecdotes, we emphasize the importance of creating safe spaces for emotional expression within families and celebrate the contributions of Black men in our community. Join us for a heartfelt toast to unity, progress, and understanding as we reflect on the insights shared throughout this episode.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Can father-daughter relationships shape the trajectory of our lives? Discover the profound impacts these bonds have on our romantic choices and conflict resolution skills in this deeply emotional episode. With the heartfelt stories of Dr. Joy Ellington and Ariel B., we explore how strained relationships and the absence of a biological father influence adult life. Our guests share their personal journeys, revealing how these foundational relationships echo through their experiences as parents and partners. Experience the raw emotions and complex dynamics of uncovering biological family secrets. We delve into the journey of an adopted individual seeking her roots, despite a loving bond with her adoptive parents. We also shed light on the importance of intergenerational transparency and wisdom, emphasizing how openness can heal emotional wounds. Join us as we navigate through themes of love, and self-worth, examining how our upbringing molds our perceptions and behaviors. Learn about the fine line between seeking validation from others and finding it within ourselves. With candid stories and personal insights, this episode promises to leave you reflecting on the importance of genuine communication, self-validation, and the emotional complexities of father-daughter relationships. Tune in for an episode rich with wisdom, heartfelt narratives, and invaluable lessons on personal growth and relationships.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Join me, Tiffany Cross, on this compelling episode of Across Generations as we explore the evolution of activism through the lens of history and modernity. Our discussion questions the reliance on digital platforms, the effectiveness of marches, and the dynamics of leaderless movements. We also delve into the mental health implications of enduring police violence and cancel culture. Our esteemed guests, Dr. Elizabeth Williams Omolami, a seasoned human rights activist and daughter of civil rights leader Reverend Hosea Williams, and Jill Cartwright, a young philanthropist and community organizer, join us to unpack these complex issues. Hear their invaluable insights on organizing, the continued relevance of local government actions, and the necessity of in-person engagement. We also explore the generational disconnect between legacy civil rights organizations and younger activists, reflecting on the impact of funding from the private sector and the need for greater mentorship and collaboration across generations. This episode offers a rich tapestry of stories and perspectives, highlighting the importance of solidarity between generations and the need to sustain a legacy of social justice. From the trauma faced by young Black students during the integration era to the role of social media in modern movements, we cover it all. Reflect with us on how riots are symptoms of deeper societal issues and the ongoing struggle to honor lives lost over material possessions. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that honors the past while empowering the future. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Welcome to "Across Generations," I'm your host, Tiffany D. Cross. In today's episode, we're diving deep into the heart of interracial friendships, asking the question: Can women from different ethnicities be best or bosom friends? I'm thrilled to have two incredible guests with me—Carla Hall, the acclaimed chef and TV personality, and Christina Brown, a renowned diversity advocate and influencer. Carla and Christina share their unique journeys of cultivating and nurturing friendships across racial lines. Carla opens up about her experience growing up in Nashville and how her early friendships shaped her worldview. Christina talks about her work in diversity and inclusion, and how her personal relationships have influenced her view on having friendships outside of race. We explore the joys and sometimes awkward moments of mixed friendships, the cultural exchanges, and the deep bonds that form despite societal challenges. Our conversation touches on the importance of open dialogue, empathy, and the willingness to understand and celebrate our differences. Join us as we unpack the complexities and beauty of interracial friendships and discover how these relationships can bridge divides or broaden them. Don't miss this enlightening and heartwarming episode of "Across Generations."   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Could the stories we share on grief and trauma become the balm to soothe a collective heartache? Join me as I, alongside TV and radio personality Brii Renee & CEO and Founder of Silence the Shame Shanti Das, unravel the threads of sorrow that bind us all, especially within the Black community. In a series of candid conversations, we traverse personal tales of unexpected loss, from the death of my father, the loss of Shanti Das' sister, to Brii's sudden bereavement and miscarriage. Our narratives weave through the complexities of carrying on traditions in the face of an empty seat at the holiday table, grappling with the loneliness that often shadows grief, and understanding the potency of specific, actionable support from our circles. Witness with us the double-edged sword of social media, where the rawness of Black pain is both amplified and trivialized. We dissect how repeated exposure to violence against our kin stirs a vicarious trauma that we carry in our scroll, even as these platforms offer a haven for dialogue on mental health. By sharing our struggles and interventions, like the transformative act of travel and immersion in new surroundings to lighten grief's load, we chart a roadmap for those seeking solace amidst loss. Together, we honor the resilience that pulses within our stories — the kind that fosters healing through the acknowledgment of our most profound wounds. In this heart-stirring symphony of sorrow and strength, we salute the courage to confront generational trauma head-on and welcome the painstaking journey toward joy after profound loss. We reflect on the tender process of healing after personal tragedies, like my father's suicide, and the evolution of grief that continues to shape us. As we close, we emphasize the value of asking, "How are you feeling?" recognizing that each shared experience of pain, each offered empathy, weaves a stronger fabric of community support. So, tune in and let's navigate this path of mourning and mending, together. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

What's that one R&B song that can transport you through time and take you back to a key moment or phase of your life? Amazing how music can have that impact. Join me, your host Tiffany Cross, for a nostalgic journey through the rhythms and grooves of R&B music and its enduring impact on our lives. As we reminisce about the classics that shaped our personal narratives, we contrast the generations to the backdrop of soulful tunes from the icon Stevie Wonder to the groundbreaking anthems of Destiny's Child to present day artists like H.E.R. Listen in as I share my intimate stories of growing up with these melodies, reflecting on how the different eras' music has accompanied me through life's milestones. Journey with us as we discuss the twists and turns of the music industry's evolution, from the inspiration of neo-soul to the enigma of streaming revenues. Our conversation will bring to light the tough choices artists face between signing with record labels or staying independent, navigating venues and award shows, and the precarious trappings of celebrity life. Special guests, Brownstone lead singer Nicci Gilbert-Daniels and up and coming singer SiMaya, join us to share their experiences and insights. They give us an honest and intimate behind-the-scenes look at the music industry's dynamics and how we, as listeners, can support the genuine artists who still craft music with soul and substance. Did you know there's a list of dangerous people to work with that's circulating among some artists in the industry? We discuss as it's not all harmonies and high notes.  Tune in as we delve into the darker chords that resonate within the industry addressing serious issues like predatory behavior examining the recent convictions and accusations that have rocked the music world. With personal anecdotes and reflections, we explore how an enabling culture has allowed such behavior to persist and the steps we're taking to change the narrative for future generations. So whether you're a die-hard R&B fan or simply interested in the interplay of music and society, this episode is a heartfelt symphony of dialogue that's not to be missed.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

In this episode of "Across Generations," we delve into the deeply personal and harrowing experiences of two women who have survived domestic violence in different eras. We hear from Millicent St. Claire, who bravely shares her story of enduring abuse at the hands of her husband over 30 years ago. Millicent's journey took a tragic turn when she was convicted of voluntary manslaughter in the aftermath of defending herself. Despite the challenges she faced, Millicent has emerged as a beacon of hope and resilience. Today, she is not only an advocate for violence prevention but also a life coach, inspiring others to overcome adversity and strive for their best selves.  We also hear from Ariel B., whose story reflects the struggles and triumphs of a more recent generation. Ariel found the courage to escape her abusive relationship and is now in the process of rebuilding her life. Through her journey, we gain insight into the complexities of breaking free from the cycle of abuse and the importance of community support in the healing process. Join us as we explore the intersections of these two remarkable women's experiences, highlighting both the progress made in addressing domestic violence and the ongoing challenges that persist across generations.  Through their courage and resilience, Millicent and Ariel shed light on the power of hope, healing, and advocacy in the fight against domestic violence.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Join me, your host Tiffany D. Cross, for one of the most interesting conversations of my career. Sinnamon Love and Brittany (Miss. B Nasty) take me on an eye-opening journey through the complexities and nuances of sex work. This week on Across Generations, we navigate the historical challenges and societal perceptions of this multifaceted industry, paying special attention to the experiences of Black women who have long faced discrimination even in this genre. We consider the impact of not only decriminalization but destigmatizing sex work as well – not only for the individuals within the sex work community but also for public health and safety at large. Listen in as Sinnamon, with her extensive background in adult entertainment, shares her experiences from the 90s and reflects on the industry's transformative journey to the digital age. We cover the shift from traditional pornography to user-driven platforms like OnlyFans, dissecting the economics of content creation and the importance of equitable treatment across racial lines. Our conversation also shines a light on the personal challenges and emotional aspects that come with transitioning from various careers, including the military, into adult entertainment. Our discussions take a deep and personal turn as we address the intersections of sex work with trauma, safety, family dynamics, and even the incorporation of celebrities into platforms like OnlyFans. We highlight the critical need for comprehensive sex education and porn literacy among young adults, as well as the importance of advocating for a safer and more ethical industry. From personal empowerment to the changing tides of content consumption and creation, this week's episode offers a raw and real look at the lives of those within the adult entertainment world. Join us for a candid exploration that challenges the stigmas and celebrates the resilience of sex workers. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

This is one of the most emotional broadcasts I've ever done: “mommy issues.” We hear this phrase a lot as it relates to men. And we hear the phrase “daddy issues” when discussing women. But rarely do we explore the challenging relationship dynamics that exist between mothers and daughters. The intricately woven connection that comes from once sharing a body to the challenges and hurdles that come with sharing our lives. Whether you're a mother or a daughter, or have either in your life, you will want to tune in. I explore the issues that grip us in childhood and can sometimes keep us frozen in that trauma and petrified in pain as we steer the precarious voyage of adulthood. ACross Generations Executive Producer, Carla Wilmaris- who is in her thirties, joins me for this conversation as she journeys through being a mother of a teen daughter while confronting wounds that still bleed both with her own mother and now her offspring. While our seasoned elder Glennis Crosby, 62 revisits a painful past and helps us all navigate the tough passage of understanding, grace, empathy, peace, and forgiveness as she is now a caretaker of her aging mom.  Regardless of the relationship you have with your mother or children, this is an episode that digs deep and unearths the intense sentiments that family relations inevitably arouse across generations. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Ever wonder how happiness and self-worth are crafted beyond the confines of romantic relationships? Let's tear down those curtains of societal expectations with my incredible guests Tamika Foster Raymond and Medina Monroe, who enrich our conversation with their profound insights. This episode is a treasure trove of truths, where we chuckle over the quirks of daily life, yet also navigate the deep currents of identity, self-love, and the bold journey to rediscover oneself after the transformative experiences of motherhood and divorce. Strap in for a candid exploration of what fulfillment really looks like, as we traverse topics from the evolution of women's roles to the magnetic allure of reality TV. Be prepared to nod vigorously as Tamika shares her poignant reflections on maintaining her independence amid public scrutiny, and Medina gives her take on the balancing act of personal ambitions and relationships. We'll also untangle the complex web of societal pressures that lead to placing a man on a pedestal as a symbol of achievement. Finally, your ears will be treated to a heart-to-heart on the significance of companionship and the vitality of nurturing a relationship with yourself first and foremost. This episode doesn't shy away from the serious side of smiles and laughter, addressing the heavy lifting that comes with defining personal joy amidst the expectations and assumptions of the world. So, come for the banter, stay for the enlightenment, and leave with a new perspective on life's rollercoaster—buckle up, we're going on an honest ride through the realms of life and love. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Have you ever questioned the very foundations of your spirituality, or pondered the journey others take in their quest for faith? Join me, Tiffany D Cross, as we unravel the dynamic and deeply personal narratives of Black spirituality, belief, and the evolving relationship with the church. Our esteemed guests, Edith Gray and B Simone, enrich our conversation with their contrasting experiences – Edith's shift towards scientific reasoning after a lifetime in the church, and B Simone's recent embrace of faith through life's hurdles. Navigating through the landmarks of life can dramatically shift our spiritual compass. We grapple with the pain inflicted by fallible humans within religious institutions, while seeking an undiluted connection with the divine that goes beyond doctrine. Reflect with us on how morality and purpose take shape both inside and outside the realm of organized religion. From the tangible impact of prayer in my own life to the ethical compass guiding non-believers, we engage in a candid exploration of how we find meaning in the seen and the unseen. Confronting the blurred lines between faith and fanaticism, this episode doesn't shy away from the tough questions. How do we distinguish mainstream religion from the manipulative grasp of cults? What role does intuition play in our spiritual choices? We dissect these intricate themes, offering a raw look at the spaces where belief, faith, and the quest for a higher truth collide. Don't miss this authentic dive into the heart of what it means to believe, across generations and beyond the pews.  RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

When the tapestry of time weaves stories of love and marriage, it's the voices across generations that add the most vibrant colors. In the heartfelt hustle of exploring these narratives, I, Tiffany D. Cross, am joined by an eclectic mix of wisdom and youth—Mrs. Tate, whose marriage spans six decades, and Miss Sade, an entrepreneur at the pulse of modern relationships. Our conversation is a dance between the dependable rhythms of long-term commitment and the dynamic beats of contemporary partnership, all set against the backdrop of shifting cultural tides. The ebb and flow of marriage, like the ocean's tides, are constant yet ever-changing. We wade through the waters of compromise and forgiveness, acknowledging that even within the sanctity of marriage, the need for personal space and evolving identities can't be ignored. It's a candid look at how our relationships can be both a mirror and a mystery, reflecting our deepest selves while challenging us to grow. We share laughter and lessons, recognizing that the humor which binds us can also be the light that guides us back to one another during life's unexpected separations. This episode isn't just a dialogue; it's a living diary of the human heart. As the chapters of our lives unfold, we encounter the timeless questions of love and the modern-day musings on self-worth and independence. From tales of rekindled romance to the bold choice to walk a path solo, this episode is an invitation to find the courage to be authentically you, in love and in life. So, unwind with us and let these stories envelop you, as we share the essence of what makes relationships tick, thrive, and sometimes, redefine themselves. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Considering where I grew up, I couldn't help but reflect on the evolution of the American Dream, its impact on my life, and its varied resonance within the black community. From the Bronx to the bench, the Honorable Justice Tanya R. Kennedy joins me to share her inspiring climb to the judiciary from a single-parent household. Adding to our generational tapestry, dynamic entrepreneur Imani Blair illuminates the highs and lows of her eclectic career pursuits, from real estate gambles to the creative hustle of podcasting and music. Together, we dissect the layers of ambition and happiness, examining the changing face of success and fulfillment.   The conversation turns to the financial tightrope many of us walk. Imani's tales of her sporadic, yet substantial, freelance income injects a dose of reality into the dreams of those chasing non-traditional career paths. Amidst this, we underscore the paramount importance of financial literacy and proactive retirement planning, drawing on Justice Kennedy's wisdom of long-term professional commitment and the less discussed significance of Associate programs.   To cap off our journey, we navigate the transformative rivers of education and career decisions. My personal hurdles – from the sting of academic expulsion due to financial barriers to carving a space for myself as a minority in media – contrast Imani's flexible leap from aspiring recording artist to podcasting success, offering an honest look at the shifting educational landscape. We question the future of higher education in a world where acquired skills are rapidly overriding degrees, and look ahead to how the evolving job market and generational perspectives on work-life balance are reshaping what we strive for and how we get there.  RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Listen in as we navigate the multifaceted world of dating across generations, discussing how our approach to finding love evolves with time. From my personal transformation of dating expectations – once a direct hunt for marriage in my twenties to a journey of self-discovery in my thirties – to my current state of contentment where I've learned that the most enduring relationship is with oneself. Our enlightening panel includes the wisdom of Miss Teenie, an 85-year-old with a traditional yet modern take on relationships, and the fresh perspective of Kelsey Russell, a 23-year-old grad student tackling today's dating scene with an appreciation for the printed word. Exploring the dynamics of modern dating, our conversation spans the significance of a partner's family interactions to the debate over the timing of exclusivity. We also touch on the impact of social media advice on young people's relationship views, and how financial expectations on dates reflect our upbringing. The evolving gender roles within dating and the myriad ways of showing affection, from monetary gestures to thoughtful acts, are also dissected. Additionally, we discuss the complex emotions surrounding casual sex and the quest for meaningful connections, delving into how personal fulfillment guides healthier relationship choices. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Motherhood is often painted in broad, idyllic strokes, but the reality is a complex mosaic of joy, sacrifice, and sometimes, the conscious choice to opt out. My heart was heavy with reflection as I sat down with Mandii B., a vibrant media personality who chooses to chart a course free from the restraints of parenthood, and Sandra Tate, whose eight decades have woven a story of love, loss, and the fierce desire to nurture a family that her own mother could not provide. Together, we peeled back the layers of societal expectations and personal desires that shape the multifaceted experience of being a mother—or deciding not to be.   Navigating the waters of motherhood or the decision to remain childless is no easy feat, and we didn't shy away from the tough questions. A guest mother, who cracked the code to balancing a high-powered tech career with the demands of raising children, shared her insights, reinforcing the undeniable importance of a tight-knit support network. Through the sharing of my own journey towards self-reliance, we painted a picture of the intricate dance between independence and the longing for connection that influences many women's views on motherhood.   As our conversation flowed, we honored the gravity of the maternal bond and celebrated the triumphs of women who stand by their decision to forgo this path. Emotions ran high as I voiced a tribute to the profound influence of my mother and to all who provide life lessons, support, and comfort. We wrapped up the episode weaving a tapestry of respect for all women and their right to choose, with a special acknowledgment to the unique experiences of black women in the context of autonomy and love.   RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

Embark on a transformative journey with "Across Generations," where Black womanhood is celebrated in all its complexity. I'm Tiffany Cross, and together with Nyla Simone and LaTosha Brown, we create a mosaic of past, present, and future, threading together the rich narratives that shape the essence of Black women. Unpack the enduring strength inherited through our lineage and the wisdom that propels us forward, as we dissect the challenges of societal labels, white supremacy, and patriarchy. Venture into an intimate sanctuary of healing and empowerment where resilience and innovation take center stage. Discover the profound importance of intergenerational wisdom in crafting our collective story, while also recognizing the need to heal beyond the 'strong Black woman' stereotype. We dive into heartfelt discussions on well-being, vulnerability, and spirituality, offering a space for grace and respect across generations and genders, free from social media's distorting lens. Join us weekly on iHeartRadio for an expedition filled with laughter, tears, and the celebration of Black Love. We foster resilience in our communities and honor the cultural practices sustaining us. Whether you're drawn to the allure of self-love, the affirmation of identity, or the power dynamics within our relationships, this is where your quest begins. With stories that resonate and conversations that empower, we uplift Black women across all generations. I'm Tiffany Cross, inviting you to continue these vital dialogues with us, as we amplify the voices and visions of Black women everywhere. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌

I spent a lot of time in the kitchen with my grandmother, the matriarch and best cook this side of the Mississippi. She'd be overcome with joy to see me with the amazing culinary artist Carla Hall in discussion on redefining gender roles within relationships. Weaving in perspectives from different generations, this episode is a heartfelt journey through the landmines and love notes of partnerships. We hear from Carla, who's stirred up success as the main breadwinner, and Kim, a young podcaster who adds a modern twist to the protector and provider narrative. As their stories unfold, we trace the contours of love, labor, and money within the intimate dance of marriage. Balancing a checkbook and a relationship is an art, and in this episode, we paint a picture of how couples navigate the financial arteries of their union. Tugging at the strings of financial independence and intertwined bank accounts, we examine how support and shared responsibilities echo louder than the clinking of coins. We delve into the personal anecdotes that reveal how providing for a household isn't just about the salary one brings home, but also the emotional labor and moral encouragement that fortify the foundations of love and partnership. Closing the loop on this episode, the conversation turns to the broader spectrum of what each partner contributes to the dynamic of a relationship. From the optimism that lights up a home to the practical management of everyday life, we celebrate the often overlooked assets that keep the wheels of partnership in motion. As we dissect these evolving roles and the communication that oils them, we embrace the beauty of growing together in a world where feminism, financial independence, and personal fulfillment are not just buzzwords but the very pillars of modern love and companionship. RATE, REVIEW, AND FOLLOW ON APPLE PODCAST ‌