Channel Journeys Podcast

This is Part 2 of my conversation with Christian "Boo" Boucousis. We move beyond his origin story and into the mindset of a fighter pilot. As the CEO of Afterburner, Boo teaches teams how to implement a practical, no nonsense approach to clarity, accountability, and performance — the same principles that kept him alive in the cockpit. This fighter pilot's guide is something we can apply in business and everyday life, including: • Iteration as a daily practice — why quick, honest reflection creates momentum • Clear expectations — how alignment reduces friction in work, relationships, and leadership • Accountability without blame — a simple debrief framework for steady improvement • The D.O.S.E. model — using your brain's chemistry to stay resilient and focused Be sure to watch Part 1 to hear Boo's full journey from his childhood in the Australian outback to the Royal Australian Air Force, his entry to entrepreneurship and his faith transformation. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more episodes that explore clarity, courage, and the mindsets and faith behind meaningful growth. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Think Like Fighter Pilots 03:03 Afterburner and Mission Focus 04:08 Red Tails Lesson on Mission 05:32 Finding and Buying Afterburner 06:52 Accountability and Skill Benchmarks 09:31 Flight Suit Culture and Identity 12:46 The Cognitive Model of Iteration 15:54 Debriefing vs Blame Reviews 21:44 Applying Iteration at Home 27:06 Biases Beliefs Behaviors Framework 32:20 The Chemistry of Resilience 36:11 Final Questions and Takeaways

In this episode, Host Rob Spee sits down with survivor and holistic healer Deanna Scaldaferri, whose twenty‑year relationship with a narcissist nearly cost her her voice, her safety, and her sense of self. Deanna opens the door on what these relationships really look like — the early love bombing, the charm that fools everyone else, the private chaos, and the slow erosion of identity that keeps victims trapped. She breaks down the patterns that made her vulnerable, the fear and trauma bonding that kept her in place, and the physical toll of living in constant threat. What follows is a conversation about truth, courage, the breaking point and the long road back to the light. Deanna shares the faith that saved her and the tools that rebuilt her life — therapy, meditation, brain rewiring, and return to God after profound trauma. Today she's using her story to help others name what's happening, break the cycle, and reclaim their God‑given light. You can find Deanna at https://www.healinghandsbydeanna.com/ Key Takeaways Name the cycle so you stop doubting yourself. Love bombing, mask‑slipping, gaslighting, inconsistencies, control — once you understand the pattern, your intuition comes back online. People‑pleasing is not peacekeeping. The "keep the peace" reflex is often the doorway to losing your voice. Reclaiming boundaries is the first step toward reclaiming identity. Charm in public doesn't erase abuse in private. Narcissists curate a persona. Survivors need outside support — therapy, trusted friends, and professionals who understand the dynamic. Your body tells the truth before your mind can. Panic attacks, chest tightness, hypervigilance — these aren't overreactions. They're signals that your system is overwhelmed and unsafe. Healing requires all of you — mind, body, and spirit. Faith, breathwork, movement, somatic therapy, massage, reiki, and intentional "rewiring" help break trauma loops and rebuild confidence. Leaning into God is a turning point, not a last resort. Deanna's story shows how faith can anchor you, and even save you, when grief, loss, and trauma collide. You can leave the victim mindset behind. Healing isn't about pretending it didn't happen — it's about choosing who you become next. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Love Bombing Begins 05:01 Deanna Background and Advocacy 06:37 Mask Slips and Confusion 10:29 Charm and Smear Campaign 13:58 Starting a Support Group 17:34 Conscious Control and Gaslighting 28:04 Childhood Roots and Silent Treatment 32:21 Reclaiming Your Light 35:35 Faith Returns to the Forefront 42:24 Choosing Faith Over Anger 46:29 Leaving Victim Mindset Behind 47:31 Reiki and Energy Healing Explained 57:48 Brain Rewiring and Neuroplasticity 01:01:38 Rapid Fire Self Care Habits 01:06:29 Narcissism Red Flags to Watch 01:12:35 Resources and Final Takeaways

Christian "Boo" Boucousis flew nearly 1,600 missions as an Australian fighter pilot before life forced him into a completely different path. He talks about what happens when the mission ends—how operating at the peak of the stress curve, mastering the basics until they're automatic, and building identity through call signs shaped the man he became. He also shares how long‑term visualization and relentless reps helped him push through average grades and undiagnosed ADHD to earn the cockpit. His fighter pilot career ended after a medical discharge from an autoimmune joint disease, and he had to rebuild from the ground up. Boo walks through the transition from the cockpit to entrepreneurial success in Afghanistan. The success came with real cost: PTSD, divorce, and a complete reset of identity. Boo opens up about getting help from an unexpected source, rediscovering a faith centered on joy, purpose, and responsibility. His story shows what it looks like to find purpose again when the mission changes, and how discipline, vision, and service can rebuild a life from the inside out. Key Takeaways Purpose has to outlast the mission. When the cockpit disappeared, Boo had to rebuild who he was without the uniform, the call sign, or the structure that shaped him. Discipline and identity travel with you. The habits, awareness, and standards forged as a fighter pilot became the backbone of how he navigated entrepreneurship, pressure, and uncertainty. Awareness is a survival skill in life, not just in the air. Knowing what you know, what you don't, and what's happening around you guided him through Afghanistan, leadership, and personal upheaval. Rebuilding requires humility, service, and a clear sense of purpose. Boo's path back—through PTSD, loss, and faith—shows that the next mission is often internal, not external. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Peak Stress Curve 01:00 Fighter Pilot Call Sign Origins 06:44 Inside the Cockpit 12:24 Awareness and Senses 14:55 Queensland Roots 17:54 Obsessed With Aviation 26:36 Checklist Mastery Under Pressure 27:57 Programming the Brain Networks 30:36 Afghanistan by Choice 33:36 Fear on the Ground 35:48 PTSD and Life Unraveling 37:55 Discharge and New Direction 40:41 Why Afghanistan Made Sense 45:05 Faith Reframed and Joy

Josette Pelatan's story is a study in grit, faith, and the long road back from trauma. Born into addiction, adopted across an ocean, and later navigating life in the U.S. alone at sixteen, she carried years of anger, complex PTSD, and misdiagnosed illness while pushing herself through school, advanced degrees, and relentless adversity. In this conversation, Josette opens up about surviving a drug‑facilitated rape, years of neurological symptoms dismissed as "mental health," and the eventual diagnosis of relapsing MOGAD that reframed her entire medical history. She also shares the 2022 moment she calls divine intervention—a turning point that sparked her healing, her creative work, and her commitment to rebuilding her life while homeless. We talk about what real support looks like, why resilience is never just willpower, and how purpose‑driven routines—breathwork, meditation, visualization, gratitude—became her daily anchors. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Adoption and Absent Father 03:35 Meeting Josette and Her Duality 07:40 Childhood in France Begins 13:12 Grandfather Anchor and Boarding School 18:34 Texas at 16 Cowgirl Life 22:55 From Jobs to Higher Education 24:43 Assaults and Breaking Point 31:08 Mystery Illness and Diagnosis 35:58 Turning Point – Divine Intervention 39:04 Forgiveness and Daily Practices 44:10 Homelessness and Street Reality 52:36 Omnist Faith And Discernment 59:04 Breathwork And Daily Routines 01:04:18 Producing Films Against Odds 01:06:25 Disability Fight And Purpose 01:16:12 Unconditional Love For Healing

Hit by a COVID‑related brain stroke, the doctors told Professor M.S. Rao he wouldn't survive. Then when he does survive, but is left paralyzed on his right side, doctors told him he would never walk again. He refused to accept that ending. In this episode, Rao shares how disciplined self‑talk, a steady spiritual foundation, and a lifetime of resilience helped him rebuild his body and re‑shape his future—one determined step at a time. An Indian Air Force veteran, author of 55 books, and longtime advocate for mindfulness and mental health, Rao opens up about the forces that shaped him: a difficult childhood, the structure and cultural tolerance forged in the military, and the daily practices that anchor his optimism. He explains how concepts like dharma, karma, and service guide his choices, why he believes "life is an echo," and how gratitude, empathy, and ethical living became non‑negotiables in his recovery. In this episode, we explore: How disciplined inner dialogue helped him survive and recover The mantra he repeated when fear and doubt closed in Why fitness, structure, and service became the backbone of his resilience How karma and dharma shape his approach to leadership and healing The role of gratitude, empathy, and respect in rebuilding a meaningful life Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Subconscious Survival 05:50 Dalai Lama Foreword 07:46 Toxic Childhood 13:12 Air Force Lessons 17:00 COVID Stroke Ordeal 21:33 No Doubt Mindset 25:44 Hinduism Dharma Karma 37:29 Writing After Stroke 41:14 Reincarnation and Karma 50:26 Gratitude Daily Ritual 57:08 Final Advice and Wrap Up

In this episode of Bold Journeys, I sit down with Lisa Robinson, Golden Retriever Wrangler, Weightlifting Enthusiast, and Mountain Climber. Lisa opens up about the long road from people‑pleasing and hidden shame to sobriety, adventure, and a faith rooted in love. Lisa's story is a testament to what can happen when you stop hiding, start telling the truth, and let community and challenges reshape you. Her journey reveals that transformation happens one honest step at a time, and it can happen for you too. Core Lessons Lisa Learned Faith grounded in love is stronger than fear — Lisa no longer believes she has to choose between who she is and being loved by God. Sobriety grows through honesty and connection — meetings, therapy, truth‑telling, community, and a very loving sponsor kept her anchored. Community shifts with each season, and each one plays a role in healing and growth. Grit is built step by step, in life and on the mountain, through false summits, setbacks, and staying present in the climb. Saying yes to adventure expands your world — building confidence, belonging, and a deeper sense of self. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Secret Identity Struggle 03:44 Saying Yes to Adventure 07:29 First Trip and Training 17:39 Growing Up in Georgia 21:49 Church and Belonging 24:18 Coming Out and Fallout 27:18 Early Signs and Drinking Spiral 33:07 Faith and Identity Clash 35:42 Relapse and Rock Bottom 36:41 Recovery Program Deep Dive 39:12 Community Beyond Meetings 40:42 Love Over Legalism 43:17 Hiking as Healing 49:39 Rapid Fire Reflections 57:36 Final Advice and Support

Ten episodes in, I'm taking a moment to pause and look at what Bold Journeys has already taught me —about grit, faith, resilience, and the power of simply beginning. Reflecting on the nine conversations with people who've pushed through fear, illness, doubt, and the unknown, I'm humbled and awed by their stories - and their courage to share them. I also want to take this moment to thank you for being part of this bold journey with me. I'd love to hear what you like about the show or what new stories you'd like to hear. Thanks! Rob Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 - Celebrating 10 Episodes: The Milestone and Reflection 00:31 - The Heart of Bold Journeys: Sharing Stories of Courage, Faith, and Adventure 01:00 - Overcoming Challenges in Podcasting and Personal Growth 01:28 - The Intertwined Threads of Grit, Faith, and Adventure 02:27 - Daily Faith Practice & Its Role in My Journey 03:26 - Exploring Diverse Faiths and Cultural Stories 03:39 - Expanding Into New Adventures: Sailing, Climbing, Cycling & More 04:09 - Announcing Upcoming Live Podcast Studio & Interviews 04:37 - Your Voice Matters: Share Feedback and Stories You Want to Hear 05:21 - How You Can Support: Sharing Is Caring!

What makes one person collapse under adversity while another rises? In this conversation, business leader turned sailor and Sailing Life Warriors founder Dave Mortell opens up about a life shaped by childhood abuse, near‑death medical crises, and the loss of his first boat and two dogs in a fire — and how faith, grit, and a long‑held dream to sail the world carried him forward. Dave's journey from trauma to the South Pacific is raw, honest, and deeply human. If you're navigating your own storms, his story will show you the life that can be carved out of pain through a warrior mindset and faith. What Dave Learned the Hard Way Trauma can bury you or build you. His "warrior" mindset isn't bravado — it's the discipline of getting back up when life hits hard. Healing takes time and truth. He didn't fully face his childhood abuse until maturity and mentors gave him the tools to do it. Faith is a lifeline, not a slogan. Dave learned to talk to Jesus like a friend and trust that God wasn't finished with him — even when cancer and medical crises said otherwise. Marriage requires presence. He regrets not supporting his wife well through miscarriages and learned that faith should never replace empathy. Big dreams demand resilience. Losing a boat and two dogs could have ended the journey. Instead, it clarified what mattered: family, preparation, and a community built on shared values. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who is searching for more courage and faith. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Two Choices Mindset 02:56 Sea Life Warrior Origin 06:45 Childhood Trauma Story 08:45 Faith After Abuse 10:44 Air Force Turning Point 16:15 Miscarriages and Marriage Strain 23:32 Aneurysm Scare and Recovery 27:15 Stage Four Melanoma Fight 34:29 Sailing Dream Origins 37:48 Quitting Career for Family Time 38:55 Choosing the First Catamaran 40:18 Cardiologist Shock and Stents 43:07 Boat Fire and Losing the Dogs 56:50 Faith and the Adventure Mindset 01:00:40 Rapid Fire Sea Stories 01:05:32 God and a Personal Relationship 01:11:43 Advice for Aspiring Cruisers

Transformational leadership isn't something you inherit. It's built through mindset, resilience, and the willingness to do the inner work. This episode of Bold Journeys goes deep into that process with Raj Gupta, Global Head of Partnerships at TCS — a leader shaped not by titles, but by discipline, humility, and purpose. Raj's story begins in a middle‑class home in India, where he watched his father work without ever checking the clock. A major setback early in life forced him to retake his engineering exams, eventually ranking seventh in his state. That moment became a defining lesson in resilience and honest self‑assessment — a theme that runs through his entire career. Across his journey from electronics to software, from India to the U.S., and from contributor to global leader, Raj shares the mindset shifts that shaped his growth. He talks openly about being passed over for opportunities and the discipline of building for the next role while honoring the current one. We explore the habits that keep a leader adaptable and close with the anchors that keep him grounded: health, family, faith, and the belief that leadership is measured not by the followers you gather, but by the leaders you develop. Key Takeaways Mindset drives growth. Your attitude, work ethic, and willingness to do the inner work shape your trajectory more than any opportunity or title. Setbacks are feedback. Honest self‑assessment, clarity of purpose, and the courage to restart turn failure into fuel. Curiosity is a leadership advantage. In a world shaped by AI and rapid change, adaptability matters more than tenure. Keep unlearning and relearning. Humility sustains leadership. Pause before reacting, admit mistakes, listen deeply, and build leaders — not followers. Join the Journey Stay with us, subscribe, and share this episode with anyone who is looking for more resilience, purpose, and advancement in their career. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Quick Tips from Raj 03:10 Raj's Global Role at TCS 04:33 Growing Up in India 07:54 Early Leadership Instincts 09:20 Moving to the United States 15:20 Purpose Over Money 18:01 Fear of Failure Reframed 22:08 Unlearning Over Experience 23:40 Learning from New Grads 25:56 Curiosity in the AI Era 28:24 Culture And Skip Level Leadership 30:35 Leading Gen Z with Humility 32:12 The Parable of the Dirty Window 36:36 Rapid Fire Leadership Rules 40:58 Health Family Work Balance 43:58 Legacy And Admitting Mistakes

Some people chase adventure. Others build a life around it. Offshore captain Hank Schmitt has done both. In this conversation, Hank traces the long arc of his sailing life, from Long Island summers and high school racing, to oil rig shifts, boat work, deliveries, and eventually founding Offshore Passage Opportunities (OPO). Hank walks through the defining moments that shaped his leadership at sea — dismastings, jury rigged steering, a mid winter rescue, and the quiet discipline required to keep a crew steady when the ocean has other plans. We talk about navigation before GPS, the mindset of a solo Atlantic crossing, and why self‑reliance still matters in a world where Starlink can make the ocean feel smaller than it is. And we explore OPO's decade of work in Dominica — rebuilding after hurricanes, expanding moorings, and strengthening a local sailing community. Hank shares how OPO began in the pre‑internet days, after watching aspiring crew fly to the Canaries to "walk the docks" hoping for a ride. He built a better way to connect captains, delivery skippers, and sailors who want real sea miles — a system that's helped hundreds of sailors gain confidence, competence, and offshore experience. Here are five of my takeaways from Hank's approach to staying calm under pressure and how we can apply them in our lives: 1. Lead without leaking panic At sea, a skipper's energy sets the tone. On land, it's the same. People read your face before they hear your words. When you stay steady, you give others permission to stay steady too. Calm leadership isn't about pretending everything is fine — it's about refusing to amplify fear. 2. Deal with what's in front of you Good seamanship is solving the problem that exists, not the one you're afraid might happen next. Life works the same way. Most situations get worse when we dramatize them. They get better when we take the next clear step, then the next, without spiraling. 3. Slow down before you act On a boat, taking the wrong action can make a small issue a big one. In life, rushing decisions often does the same. The discipline is the pause — taking a breath to choose intention over impulse. 4. Repetition builds self‑reliance Confidence offshore comes from miles, mistakes, calms and storms. Confidence in life comes from the same ingredients. You don't become resilient by reading about resilience. You become resilient by living through things, learning from them, and showing up again. 5. Expect systems to fail — and stay adaptable Boats break. Plans break. Technology fails. People disappoint. Calm comes from expecting that reality and preparing for it, not from hoping everything goes smoothly. When you know your backups — your skills, your values, your ability to improvise — you stop fearing the unknown. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, follow the show for more real stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who could use a steady voice in their corner. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Staying Calm at Sea: Pressure, Leadership, and Problem-Solving 01:55 Podcast Intro: Meet Hank Schmidt & Offshore Passage Opportunities (OPO) 05:10 300,000 Miles of Experience: Dismastings, Jury Rigs, and Self-Sufficiency 10:40 Where the Calm Comes From: Early Independence and Life Choices 11:37 Building OPO Before the Internet: Boat Shows, Side Hustles, and Survival 14:19 Falling in Love with Sailing: Long Island Childhood to High School Racing 17:12 First Big Passages: Florida Dockwalking to Offshore Oil Rigs 23:59 Solo Crossing on a Shoestring: Minimal Gear, Old-School Navigation 24:52 Speed vs. Soul Offshore: Tech, Starlink, and the Changing Ocean Experience 28:43 OPO's Core Concept: Matching Crew, Building Skills, and Win-Win Deliveries 32:02 Rob's Path Through OPO: From Dominica to the SWAN Program 34:12 Why Dominica Became a Focus & Building a Mooring Field 39:01 Dominica's "Back in Time" Cruising & Why It's So Special 46:48 Modern Forecasting, Weather Windows, and Fast Swan Passages 48:25 Why Offshore Sailing Hits Different: Quiet, Connection, and Community 51:58 Rapid Fire + Real Skills: Gear, Autopilot Myths, and Steering Lessons 58:17 Scariest Moment & Dream Sailor to Meet (America's Cup Story) 01:01:50 Rallies, Self-Reliance, and Getting Younger People into Sailing 01:06:18 Legacy, Scaling Back, and How to Take Your First Step into Sailing  

In this Bold Journeys conversation, host Rob Spee sits down with Carlos Hidalgo for a raw, unfiltered story of infidelity, redemption, and God's relentless grace. Carlos opens up about growing up in church, learning to "perform" Christianity, and living a double life—successful on the outside but driven by anger, selfishness, and the need to control everything around him. He shares how casual pornography use while traveling escalated into a two‑year affair, the moment his wife uncovered the truth in 2015, and the devastation that followed: a broken marriage, fractured trust with his kids, and the collapse of the life he built. Carlos explains how restoration only began when he finally surrendered—letting God dismantle his manipulation, pride, and illusion of control. The grace, forgiveness, and rebuilding of the family prepared them for what came next - a hemorrhagic stroke that hit Carlos suddenly while he was alone in a church weight room. He recounts losing vision, the emergency life flight to Albany Medical, and the sobering risks of brain bleeds. Through it all, he describes a surprising peace, the strength of community, and how suffering reshaped his priorities toward urgency, gratitude, and deeper relationships. Carlos shares the spiritual anchors that carried him—prayer, Job 23:10, and the hymn "And Can It Be" (the hymn you hear in the background of the opening clip) —and offers this hope to anyone walking through darkness: God can redeem what feels impossible, and joy can coexist with hardship. Key Takeaways Rock bottom revealed the real fight: When his affair was exposed, Carlos faced a defining moment—keep fighting for control or finally surrender to God. "Getting life back" wasn't love: A counselor confronted him with the truth: his push to restore life on his terms was manipulation, not transformation. Redemption required surrender: Healing came only when Carlos stopped trying to be sovereign and yielded fully to God's authority. Small compromises lead to collapse: Pornography wasn't harmless—it was the first step in a long chain of choices that eroded his integrity. Suffering reframed everything: After a hemorrhagic stroke, Carlos embraced a "win‑win" outlook—life with family or life with Jesus—and committed to urgency, gratitude, and intentional relationships. Join the Journey Stay with us, subscribe, and share this episode with anyone who seeks the courage to transform pain into redemption. Together, let's foster a world where divine love and faith conquer the toughest trials. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 Rock Bottom: 'Are We Still Doing This?' 02:11 Bold Journeys Intro: A Story of Betrayal, Grace & Redemption 04:32 Carlos Returns: From BMC Days to This Conversation 05:02 The Hemorrhagic Stroke: Symptoms, Fear, and the Hospital Dash 08:09 Finding Meaning in Suffering: Valleys, Not Mountaintops 09:36 Growing Up in Church, But Not Knowing God 11:53 Rebellion in Disguise: 'Independent' and a Workplace Chameleon 15:19 The Slow Drift: Porn, Escalation, and the Affair That Blew Up Everything 19:13 Surrender and the Long Road Back: Pikes Peak Prayers & Family Restoration 21:18 Aftermath: Anger, Emptiness, and Becoming a Trophy of Grace 23:05 From Intensity to Surrender: Chasing Success vs. True Fulfillment 24:41 The Stroke Reality: Pain Meds, Chest Pains, and a Second Scare 27:35 Knowing About God vs. Knowing Him: Joy, Control, and Community 30:15 Reframing the Future: Mission, Speaking, and Living With Urgency 33:19 Rapid-Fire Faith: Win-Win Perspective, Verses, Prayer, and Worship 38:37 After the Stroke: Relationships, Gratitude, and the 'Why' Question 41:19 Advice for Dark Seasons: 'God Has You Right Where He Wants You' 43:36 Closing Reflections: Owning the Story and Giving God the Credit

What if you could rewire stress from the inside out? In this episode of Bold Journeys, host Rob Spee explores how surrender, resilience, and a science‑backed practice called Physical Intelligence can transform the way you move through adversity. After losing his wife to a sudden brain aneurysm, resilience coach and speaker Rob Swymer found himself rebuilding his life from the ground up. What helped him rise wasn't willpower alone — it was learning how to surrender to adversity and work with his body's chemistry instead of fighting against it. Rob shares how adversity shaped his mission, how surrender became a turning point, and how Physical Intelligence can help you regulate stress, shift your emotional state, and reconnect with purpose. You'll even learn a simple PI exercise you can try today. If you're navigating stress, grief, or a major life transition, this conversation offers grounded, practical tools for finding strength, clarity, and hope. What You'll Learn How surrender can create clarity in hard seasons A simple Physical Intelligence practice to help regulate stress How your body's natural chemicals can support emotional stability The role of gratitude in blocking fear and anger How Rob transformed profound loss into a mission to help others If this episode resonates, hit Like, Subscribe, and drop a comment. Your support helps Bold Journeys reach more people who need these conversations. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/ Chapters 00:00 A Tragic Night in Atlanta 00:31 Understanding Resilience 01:12 Introduction to Bold Journeys 01:14 Meet Rob Swymer 01:33 Rob's Life-Altering Event 01:46 The Concept of Physical Intelligence 02:17 Rob's Journey of Transformation 04:10 The Power of Surrender 09:09 Rob's Childhood and Early Challenges 11:42 Struggles with Alcohol and Sobriety 16:00 Finding Purpose and Spirituality 23:24 Embracing Adversity and Gratitude 29:37 Parenting and Resilience 30:28 Mental Health Pandemic 30:44 Mission to Teach Self-Activation 32:50 Physical Intelligence Explained 33:58 Four Quadrants of Physical Intelligence 37:49 Manifesting Goals and Purpose 42:59 Living with Gratitude 47:58 Rapid Fire Round

What does resilient leadership look like when the stakes are life‑and‑death? In this episode of Bold Journeys, Rob Spee sits down with MK Palmore — Marine, retired FBI executive, cybersecurity leader, and now founder of his own enterprise risk consulting firm — to explore how true leadership is forged through failure, discipline, and hard‑won experience. From childhood to the Marine Corps to a 22‑year FBI career, MK shares the defining moments that shaped his philosophy on courage, integrity, and leading under pressure. This conversation cuts through clichés and gets to the heart of what makes a leader resilient in the real world. What You'll Learn How early conversations shaped MK's leadership mindset Why failure is essential for growth — and how to recover from it Lessons from the Marine Corps and FBI that apply to everyday leadership How MK transitioned from public service to entrepreneurship The role of values, discipline, and courage in resilient leadership Why This Episode Matters If you're navigating a demanding season — in leadership, career, or personal life — MK's story offers a roadmap for staying grounded, acting with integrity, and rising stronger from every setback. About MK Palmore MK is a former Marine officer and retired FBI executive with decades of experience in crisis leadership, cybersecurity, and enterprise risk. Today he advises organizations on resilience, risk, and strategic leadership. Join the Journey If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, faith, and the kind of leadership shaped in the fire. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldjourneysco/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@boldjourneysco Through The Fire Newsletter: https://boldjourneys.co/subscribe/   Chapters 00:00 Introduction 02:24 Childhood and Early Influences 08:59 Dreams of the Naval Academy 13:00 Joining the Marines 15:38 Transition to the FBI 18:55 Challenges and Failures 23:41 Grit and Resilience 28:32 Are Leaders Born or Made? 29:31 The Impact of Parental Influence 30:23 Rapid Fire Round: Business and Leadership 32:33 Morning Routines and Core Values 38:56 Transitioning from Public to Private Sector 40:15 Writing a Leadership Book for Youngsters 45:50 Challenges and Running as an Outlet 52:30 Final Words of Advice

Mitch Lewandowski's story is a raw, unfiltered journey through illness, loss, faith, and triumph. It's the kind of adversity that reshapes a life. From a near‑fatal battle with COVID‑19 to a MRSA infection that almost cost him his leg — and then walking with his wife through stage‑four cancer — Mitch's path is a powerful testament to resilience and strength forged in the hardest seasons. In this episode of the Bold Journeys Podcast, Mitch shares how early hardship shaped his grit, how faith carried him through the unthinkable, and why "doing hard things" became the foundation for rebuilding a healthy, whole, and purposeful life. What You'll Discover ·       The medical crises that nearly took Mitch's life - twice How early adversity shaped his grit and character The turning points that sparked his transformation The role of faith, surrender, and determination in rebuilding Practical ways to find purpose and courage in your own storm If you're navigating loss, uncertainty, or a season you didn't choose, Mitch's story will remind you that hope is never out of reach — and that a meaningful life can be rebuilt from the hardest places. If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more stories of grit, adventure, and faith — and share it with someone who needs strength today. JOIN OUR COMMUNITY YouTube Instagram CHAPTERS 00:00 A Miraculous Survival Story 01:37 Mitch's Humble Beginnings 02:58 The Impact of a Bicycle 04:54 Realizing Socioeconomic Differences 06:32 Chasing Success and Its Consequences 08:30 A Life-Altering Realization 10:43 Facing Life-Changing Events 12:20 Surviving COVID Against All Odds 18:41 Battling MRSA and Personal Loss 22:37 Embracing the Journey of Life and Death 27:05 Drawing Strength from Adversity 29:28 Understanding Pain vs. Suffering 32:00 Cycling as a Metaphor for Life 36:58 The Importance of Faith and Devotion 38:01 Rapid Fire Questions 46:12 Empathy and Leadership 48:57 Advice for Personal Storms  

Join us for a powerful episode of Bold Journeys as we explore the real‑world mountaineering experiences of Louise McEvoy, a high-altitude mountaineer who has summited 6 of the Seven Summits ⛰️ including Mt. Everest.  Louise breaks down what it takes to tackle the world's tallest mountains and how the grit she developed on the slopes fuels her success in work, leadership, and life. By day, Louise is a high‑impact channel executive who helped shape Trend Micro's award‑winning partner ecosystem and now leads global channel sales at Keyfactor. By night (and often at 20,000+ feet), she's pushing her limits on some of the harshest terrain on earth. In this conversation, Louise shares: - What climbing Everest and Denali taught her about resilience - How mountaineers manage fear, fatigue, and mental overload  - The training required for high‑altitude expeditions - How to handle disappointment, setbacks, and unexpected danger  - Why pursuing passion outside of work builds stronger leaders - The story behind She Summits Fourteeners, her initiative empowering women through mountaineering This episode isn't just about climbing mountains — it's about building the mental toughness to face life's biggest challenges and emerging stronger on the other side.

What if you could develop a systematic way to build grit and resilience, a mental model that would help you handle life's hardest moments without falling apart?

Introducing The Bold Journeys Podcast, where we inspire you to find hope, resilience and strength in challenging times of adversity. Hosted by Rob Spee, this podcast will feature tales of courageous transformation and defying all the odds.   This trailer provides a preview of the types of extraordinary real-life stories you'll hear, from three guests who exemplfiy grit, adventure and faith.    From business leaders overcoming life challenges to adventurers facing the elements, Bold Journeys aims to inspire and build a community of men and women who live courageously.   JOIN OUR COMMUNITY YouTube Instagram

Hello, Channel Pros! Welcome to the final episode of Channel Journeys—a moment that's both nostalgic and exciting. After celebrating our voyage with highlights from ten fantastic guests in the last episode, it's time to chart a new course toward "Bold Journeys." This December, in the spirit of advent—a season of anticipation and joy—I reflect on the past seven years of Channel Journeys and the joy it has brought me. Through insightful conversations with astonishing people, we've explored channel stories that resonated with our ecosystem, the channel community. The podcast has evolved from an emerging platform to a sought-after space where guests frequently requested to share their partnering wisdom. But as I transitioned from my career as a channel chief, my passion for sharing channel stories shifted to adventures, grit, and faith. Join me in this final episode as we dive into grit, adventure and faith behind the pivot to Bold Journeys. You'll hear stories from Jay McBain, Louise McEvoy, and Mitch Lewandowski that personify these themes. KEY TAKEAWAYS Grit: A Formula for Success  Grit combines passion and perseverance, serving as a cornerstone for long-term achievement. Often more crucial than natural talent, grit fuels persistence in challenging times. Jay McBain, known for his analytical approach as a chief channel analyst, transforms obstacles into manageable challenges. During our interview, he emphasized the importance of compartmentalizing life's difficulties, aiming to prevent overwhelming piles of stress. His analytical mindset is a hallmark of his ability to overcome life's hurdles. Adventure: Stepping into the Unknown  Adventure starts where certainty ends. It's about embracing risks for rewarding experiences. Louise McAvoy, a partnering executive and avid mountaineer, embodies this spirit. Inspired by reading about the 1996 Everest Disaster, she set her sights on climbing Everest. What started as a simple promise turned into a 14-year journey to the summit. Her narrative illustrates that adventure is a choice to leave comfort behind and discover personal limits, whether in careers, relationships, or personal growth. Faith: Trust in the Unseen  Faith is the compass guiding our journey, even amidst unseen challenges. For Mitch Lewandowski, faith was a lifeline through three critical life challenges, including a near-death experience with COVID. Emerging from his trials stronger, Mitch highlights how faith fuels perseverance, molding us for future challenges. His conviction that trials develop character echoes deeply as we navigate our own journeys. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction and Final Episode Announcement 01:17 The Pivot to Bold Journeys 02:30 Sneak Peek: Grit, Adventure, and Faith 03:05 Exploring Grit with Jay McBain 06:21 Adventures with Louise McEvoy 09:27 Faith and Perseverance with Mitch Lewandowski 12:22 Conclusion and Invitation to Bold Journeys THANK YOU! As we embark on "Bold Journeys," I extend my heartfelt gratitude to our distinguished guests—Jay, Louise, and Mitch—for their inspiring narratives and insights. Thank you, too, to our devoted listeners who've been part of the Channel Journeys community and all of the guests who have shared their stories over the past 7 years. While bidding farewell to Channel Journeys, I invite you to join me on this new adventure. When it launches in January, subscribe, share, comment, and let's be bold and courageous together. Thank you so much for being an integral part of the Channel Journeys adventure and for embracing the upcoming Bold Journeys.

Host Rob Spee shares a tribute to 7 years of Channel Journeys with powerful clips from ten prior guests on this last episode as Rob transitions to Bold Journeys. Seven years ago, in December 2018, I launched Channel Journeys, on a mission to explore the stories behind the partnerships and partner leaders who shape our industry. My goal was to help all of us become better partnering professionals. Over the past 7 years, I've had so many incredible guests who've shared so much channel wisdom. This episode is a tribute to all of my guests who've joined me over the past 180 episodes. It's a celebration of the voices that made this journey unforgettable.  I enjoyed meeting all of my guests. And what I found getting to know them was often something deeper than their channel story. I heard stories of grit, grace, and transformation. And that's where I'm being pulled, to dig more into those stories of perseverance, endurance and coming out of failure and challenges stronger than ever.   Today, as I prepare to launch Bold Journeys, I want to pause and say thank you. Thank you to the guests who shared their wins and losses, challenges and successes. And thank you to all of you listeners who've joined me on this awesome journey.   KEY TAKEAWAYS Here are the top 10 lessons from the distinguished guests featured in this episode: 1. Visionary Ecosystems – Jay McBain : Jay highlights the shift from transactional partnerships to transformational ecosystems. His insights remind us that modern channel programs are comprehensive ecosystems accommodating a diverse array of partnerships. 2. Agile Collaboration – Rich Blakeman : Rich's metaphor of 'seagull behavior' in sales emphasizes the need to embrace a hybrid approach. Collaborating with partners is essential to overcoming classic sales challenges. 3. Relational Leadership – Theresa Caragol : Theresa's belief in the exponential growth factor through trust and internal cultural transformation reshapes our approach to partnership growth. 4. Cultural Alignment – Timm Hoyt : Tim emphasizes the importance of aligning leadership around a shared vision before executing the mission. This cultural foundation drives successful channel outcomes. 5. Strategic Reinvention – Rajnikant Gupta : Raj teaches us that reinvention in channel strategy isn't failure, but faith in motion. Building mind share and heart share within enterprises is essential. 6. Embracing Change – Louise McEvoy : Louise shows us how courageously embracing change leads to growth and innovation. Her insights inspire leaders to face risks head-on and learn from experiences. 7. Coachability – Bart Fanelli : Bart reminds us that being coachable is key to effective leadership. Collaboration and openness to learning facilitate stronger team dynamics. 8. Ecosystem Leadership – Janet Schijns : Janet stresses targeting future-oriented connections to influence tomorrow's behaviors, encouraging leaders to look beyond traditional networks. 9. AI Leadership – Noelle Russell (Microsoft MVP, AI): Noel emphasizes the modern leader's role in managing AI systems, highlighting clarity in communication and results-driven strategies in AI adoption. 10. Empowering Partners – Jessica Baker : Jessica showcases how empowering partners with knowledge in AI and prompting skills enhances loyalty and trust, enriching partnership dynamics. Thank you for being a part of this journey and for contributing to its success. As we transition to Bold Journeys, we hope to delve into deeper stories of grit, adventure, and faith, drawing on all the invaluable lessons learned here. Until next time, be bold and have a great channel journey!

Alan Chhabra, EVP of WW Partners at MongoDB, shares how to navigate the intricate dynamics of co-opetition with hyperscalers like AWS, Microsoft, and Google.

MJ Shoer, Chief Community Officer at GTIA, shares the progress GTIA is making in revitalizing the channel community through events, leadership and philanthropy.

Jennifer Roy, CEO of Nucleus Networks, shares her leadership secrets for team building, innovation, and customer success in the rapidly evolving tech industry.

Chris Day, CEO of ScalePad, shares his transition to CEO and the steps they've taken to provide cutting edge technologies that power Managed Service Providers' (MSP's) businesses.

Jessica Baker, Chief Innovation Officer at Achieve Unite, provides valuable tips on how you can unlock the power of AI to empower ecosystem partner success.

Ryan Walsh, Channel Chief and Chief Strategy Officer at Pax 8, discusses the Agentic AI-driven transformation of MSPs to Managed Information Providers (MIPs).

Newly appointed CEO of GTIA, Dan Wensley, shares his first 101 days in new role and what he plans for the future of the Global Technology Industry Association.

Noelle Russell, speaker, author, and CEO of the AI Leadership Institute, shares how you can scale AI responsibly to propel your business and profits to new heights.

Michelle Hodges, SVP Global Channels & Alliances at Barracuda, shares her journey from GitLab, her priorities during her first 90 days and how she's adapting her channel strategy with AI. Recorded live at GTIA's Channel Con 25

Heather Margolis, CEO of Channel Maven, shares how companies can leverage AI and other innovative tools to generate more awareness and leads for sales reps. Recorded live at GTIA's Channel Con 25

Jeff McCullough, Sales VP at NetAlly, shares his sales leadership in a 100% channel sales company, in the face of massive changes in technology and the political landscape.

With over 30 years of experience in Asia, Greg Eckstein, Founder of Channel Sales World, shares how to successfully navigate Asia's business landscape.

Brian Glahn, CEO of business technology provider Verinext, shares how to succeed and build trust with a customer-centric strategy and ethical leadership.

Nichole Gunn, Global Chief Marketing Officer at Extu, shares her top strategies for capturing the mid-market in the face of market shifts and a big pivot.

Michelle Chiantera, Chief Marketing and Revenue Officer, shares the strategies driving Parallels' impressive growth during a significant market transition.

Timm Hoyt, SVP WW Partner Sales & Alliances at Sumo Logic, shares the steps they took to grow partner-sourced and led revenue to over 50% of their business.

Raj Gupta, Global Head of Partner Ecosystems and Alliances at TCS, shares how software vendors can partner more effectively with global system integrators.

Jed Ayres, ControlUp CEO, shares his transition from reseller to a leading SaaS vendor, emphasizing the critical role of partners in scaling business growth.

MJ Shoer, Chief Community Officer, and Carolyn April, Head of Research at the rebranded Global Technology Industry Association, discuss the spinoff of CompTIA.

Harald Horgen, CEO of the York Group, dives deep into the intricacies of assessing and steps for improving the return on investment in business partnerships.

Bob Moore, Founder & CEO of Crossbeam and author of Ecosystem-Led Growth, shares how businesses are leveraging partnerships to propel business growth and navigate market shifts.

Margaret Adam, Director Partner Marketing at Channel Mechanics, shares her partner predictions with 5 trends shaping partner programs and strategies in 2025.

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Channel Journeys host, Rob Spee, sits down with Christa Quarles, CEO of Alludo, for an insightful discussion on the evolving landscape of business partnerships. The episode carefully dissects the role of strategic partnering in business growth and innovation.

Theresa Caragol, CEO of AchieveUnite and author of Partnering Success, shares how to make partnering a force multiplier for exponential growth and long-term success.

Alan Chhabra, EVP of WW Partners at MongoDB, shares how to navigate the intricate dynamics of co-opetition with hyperscalers like AWS, Microsoft, and Google.

Rob Spee, host of Channel Journeys, discusses podcasting and insights on the evolving dynamics of partner ecosystems with Vince Mezione, CEO of Ultimate Partner.

Kaseya CEO Fred Voccola shares his mission to fix the broken economics of the MSP business model and ensure the stability and growth of the global economy.

Randy Schirman, Channel Chief of Vectra AI, shares how you can expand your addressable market, drive incremental revenue, and increase your market valuation by adding a true usage based Monthly Recurring Revenue (MRR) business model.

Rob Spee, host of the Channel Journeys podcast, reveals his top 10 lessons on successful partnering, offering valuable insights from 150 podcast episodes.

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