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Send us Fan MailOne of you wants sex. One of you doesn't. And somewhere along the way, that gap stopped being a difference and turned into a fight you keep having with your clothes on. Here's what nobody tells you: the gap was never the problem. It's the two stories you each start telling — one of you hears "you don't want me anymore," the other hears "you only want me for sex and you don't see everything I'm carrying." Both of you feel powerless. Both of you decide the other one is what's broken.This week I sit down with Tarah and EJ Kerwin — a married couple, both licensed therapists, and co-founders of Relationship Renovation. They're living proof this is survivable: two people with all the clinical tools in the world who still spent the better part of a decade finding their way back to each other after four kids in eighteen months detonated the sex life they used to have. They're not here to tell you how many times a week you should be doing it. They're here to hand you the actual way back.In this episode:Why the fight is never really about frequency — and the quality shift that changes everythingThe two stories high-desire and low-desire partners tell themselves, almost word for wordWhy the low-desire partner secretly holds all the power — and why it feels terrible, not powerfulHow to have the conversation without it turning into a fight (time, place, and the rules that keep it safe)"Safety containers" — how to rebuild touch when sex feels like too muchWhere to start tonight, and how to build back one step at a timeCome as you are, bring your partner if you've got one, and know this: there's a path back to each other if you both want it.

Send us Fan MailEverybody assumes wanting this says something about who he is. It doesn't. He's got a prostate loaded with nerve endings — his own version of the spot everybody obsesses over in women — and it's been sitting there his whole life while he drove right past it.This week I'm handing you the couple's beginner guide to pegging. It's up 200% among straight couples, and the men brave enough to try it are having some of the deepest, most full-body orgasms of their lives. This one's for both of you — the partner curious about receiving it and too nervous to say so, and the partner who wants to give it and has no clue where to start.In this episode, I break down:Why the prostate is called the male G-spot — and what "hands-free" really meansHow to bring it up so he says yes instead of shutting downThe prep that dissolves the fear nobody says out loudThe warm-up staircase, choosing a harness and first strap-on, the best beginner positions, and aftercare that makes him want to do it againBy the end, you'll go from a partner he'd never dare ask to the one brave enough to give him something most men never get to feel.Grab your discount codes and every toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com — my listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers.Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932Want the full written guide? Read it here:

Send us Fan MailThere are things women want in bed they'll never say out loud — not to their husband, not to their boyfriend, not to anyone who actually knows them. But they'll say them to George. Women pay him for his time, but really they're paying for something else: a space safe enough to finally name a desire they've been holding their whole lives. And the thing he does to create that safety? Anyone can learn it.This week I sit down with George Goulburn — a professional male companion who left a 25-year corporate career to do this work, trained in consent, trauma-informed practice, tantra, and kink. He's sat with hundreds of women in the exact moment they finally drop their guard, and he's telling us who they really are, what they actually want, and how to build that same safety in your own bedroom.In this episode:Who really books a male companion (almost everyone has it wrong)The 55-year-old virgin who discovered her body for the first time — and what it taught himWhy women can ask a stranger for what they can't ask a partnerHow to open the door to kink and fantasy without shame or pressureThe "three-minute game" and how to actually speak your desire out loudThree things you can do tonight to get honest about what you both wantBring a pen — and maybe your partner. This one's a jump-off point for the conversation you've been avoiding.

Send us Fan MailEverybody assumes the person on top has all the power. And sure — she's up there, she's on the throne, she's in charge. But the partner flat on his back underneath? He's the reason she wants to climb up there again, and again, and again.This week I'm handing you the giver's masterclass. If your whole plan when someone sits on your face is to hold still and hope, you're wasting the single hottest position you've got access to — because when she's up there, you get better access, a better angle, and every bit of her movement telling you exactly what she wants. You just have to know how to read it.In this episode, I break down:What face sitting (aka queening) actually is — and why so many women finish from it when they can't from regular oralThe real reason underneath is the best seat in the houseMy 5 moves to become unforgettable: setting her up to actually let go, using your whole mouth instead of a jackhammer tongue, letting her grinding be your map, leveling up with your hands and toys, and finishing without quitting earlyThe props and toys that turn a five-minute neck-cramp into an all-night throne experienceWhy eye contact from underneath is the move nobody uses — and the one she'll never forgetBy the end, you'll go from a partner the queen tolerates to the reason she wants to climb on the throne every single night.Grab your discount codes, props, and every toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com — my listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers.Sign up for my e-newsetter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932Want the full written guides? Read them here:

Send us Fan MailAlmost every woman has wondered it in silence: Is my scent normal? Do I taste okay? Is something wrong with me down there? Almost none of us were ever given the information to answer — so we carry the worry straight into the bedroom, where it quietly steals our confidence and our pleasure. This week, we fix that. This is the owner's manual nobody handed you.I sit down with Wendy Strgar — vaginal microbiome health expert, lovologist, and founder of Good Clean Love, the company she started in her own kitchen to solve her own problems. We get into what's actually normal, what's not, and why understanding this body — yours or your partner's — is the foundation for everything good that happens in bed.In this episode:Vulva vs. vagina — what's what, and why the difference mattersWhat a healthy scent and taste actually are (and what an "off" one is telling you)The vaginal microbiome, pH, and why so many women get misdiagnosed for yearsThe clitoral organ system — the 10,000-nerve-ending powerhouse most of us were never taught aboutWhy partners share responsibility for her vaginal healthThree things you can do tonight to get comfortable, informed, and free in bedBring a pen — the takeaways are worth writing down.

Send us Fan MailSixty percent of people have fantasized about being filled two ways at once — and almost nobody says it out loud. This week, I'm changing that.This is your complete, no-shame beginner's guide to double penetration. I'm breaking down what it actually is, the real anatomy behind why it feels so intense (there's a reason it hits differently than anything else), and why it's just as good for the giving partner as the one receiving. Then I walk you through the whole staircase — how to explore it safely by yourself first, how to bring it into partnered play with one toy, and how to build up to a third person the right way.And I'm finally saying the quiet part out loud: why women are afraid to admit they want this, why men are afraid to bring it up, and why there's absolutely nothing shameful about wanting to feel that full.In this episode:What double penetration is and the anatomy that makes it so intenseWhy the giving partner often loves it as much as the receiverThe safety rules that make or break it — lube, pacing, and the non-negotiablesHow to try it solo first, then with a partner, then with a third personThe shame nobody names — and why this is one of the most common fantasies there isThis is exactly the kind of guide I can finally give you completely now that I'm off YouTube — uncensored, in plain language, no decoding required.Help Me Get My YouTube Channel Back: https://www.buzzsprout.com/admin/1692988/episodes/19715188-help-me-save-talk-sex-with-annette-youtube-took-it-downProducts mentioned in this episode (15% off with code ANNETTE15 at lovehoney.com & we-vibe.com):Lovehoney Discover Gel —https://lovehoneyus.sjv.io/n4e92RFirefly Glow Trainer Kit — https://lovehoneyus.sjv.io/enxON1We-Vibe Ditto+ — https://wevibe-north-america.sjv.io/1GMG19Womanizer Blend — https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blendWomanizer Duo Nex— https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-duo-2Womanizer Next Liberty— https://www.womanizer.com/us/next-liberty▶️ Watch the full uncensored video version: https://talksexwithannette.com/double-penetration-guide/Subscribe Here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932

Send us Fan MailThank you for listening. Here are the ways you can help:#1: Boost me on X/Twitter​I just posted a direct appeal to YouTube. One like, one comment, one repost puts pressure where it counts. If you have your own following on X, a repost in your own words about why free sex education matters carries enormous weight. Tag @TeamYouTube so they see it.Go to the tweet and boost it now: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20#2: Send YouTube your feedback directly Individual feedback from real viewers is what triggers a manual human review. This takes 2 minutes.Open YouTube while signed inClick your profile picture → Send feedback or Report a problemAsk for a manual review and reinstatement of Talk Sex with Annette. Be Sure To Include My YouTube Link included here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_0_oA_nWLLwLGZVsNJ-KSA​Tell them why this channel mattered to you — your own words carry the most weightHere is a Template if you need one. You can change it and make it your own: "I'm requesting a review of the termination of Annette Benedetti's 'Talk Sex with Annette' channel. This was expert-led, science-based sexual health education — age-restricted, clinically grounded, and consistent with educational guidelines. This channel was an important resource for me and should not have been classified as explicit material. Please review and reinstate it: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_0_oA_nWLLwLGZVsNJ-KSAMore options:You can reshare my posts on Instagram, LinkedIn, and FB.You Can Still Watch My VideosThe good news is I SAVED ALL OF MY VIDEOS. I am working as fast as I can to get all of them back up somewhere safe where they can't be taken down. You can now watch all of my episodes on my Website at https://talksexwithannette.com/​You can also subscribe and watch them on https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ where they will be published and sent directly to your inbox every week.Please subscribe to my E-newsletter so you don't miss a thing: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390cAny support you give will be greatly appreciated.Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15!Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizerSupport the showWatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials:TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.comCheers!

Send us Fan MailShe holds it all together all day — the job, the kids, the house, everyone's emotional weather. Then she gets into bed and still can't stop managing. And orgasm requires the one thing she's trained herself never to do: let go.This week I sit down with Regina Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, founder of the School of Womanly Arts, New York Times bestselling author of Pussy: A Reclamation, and author of the new book On Our Knees. We get into why control quietly costs a woman her pleasure, and why surrender — not submission, not collapse — is the doorway back to her own body.In this episode:Why your nervous system is stuck in “brace mode” — and how pleasure interrupts itThe medicine-cabinet of chemistry your body makes on its own (and how to open it)Why grief and erotic aliveness can live side by side — and heal togetherA live truth-tantrum practice you can do tonightThree ways to start a daily pleasure practice, no matter how “boss babe” your life isThis one got vulnerable. Bring a pen — you'll want to write the practices down.

Send us Fan MailThere's an entire ocean of online content teaching men about sex and women — and a huge amount of it is written by people who have no idea what they're talking about. Today I'm grading five pieces of the worst advice men are being fed, and giving you what actually works instead.Savage on the advice. Kind to the men who got fed it.What you'll learn: ✔ Why "make her chase you" builds anxiety, not attraction ✔ The size-and-pounding myth, and the anatomy fact that dismantles it ✔ The lab study that proves women aren't "slower" — and what to do with those 10 minutes ✔ The grain of truth in "alpha" advice — and the part that's dangerously wrong

Send us Fan MailEverybody knows men want to be worshipped in bed. That's not news. The real question — the one nobody asks — is what's in it for the person doing the worshipping.Because done right, cock worship isn't a favor. It isn't service with a fake smile. It's one of the hottest things you can do for your own pleasure — slow, powerful, deeply erotic, and the giver holds all the control.Elle and Vee from Girls Gone Deep join me to break it all down: what phallus worship actually is, why it feels incredible on both sides, the healing it offers men carrying shame about their bodies, and then the full step-by-step how-to — setup, touch, the words, cock warming, aftercare — everything you need to try it tonight.In this episode:Why worship is completely different from regular oral (and why that's the point)What's actually in it for the giver — pleasure, power, and connectionHow it heals shame around size, ED, and performanceThe exact step-by-step: setup, touch techniques, cock warming, and how to endHow to bring it up with your partner tonight

Send us Fan MailThe cervical orgasm is often described as the deepest, most full-body climax a woman can experience — and it's the one the fewest people know how to reach. First studied in depth by researchers mapping how different kinds of stimulation affect the brain, it turns out the cervix has its own distinct pleasure pathway, wired directly to the brain through the vagus nerve.This is a complete educational guide to understanding it — including the safety essentials most videos leave out.What you'll learn: ✔ What a cervical orgasm is and why it feels different from every other kind ✔ The vagus-nerve science behind its full-body, rolling sensation ✔ The safety essentials — who can enjoy it, who should be cautious, and how to avoid pain ✔ How to build the arousal and use the positions that reach it safelyThis is an educational sexual-wellness video intended for adult audiences. My toy picks for this episode — We-Vibe Rave 2 https://talksexwithannette.com/go/ss/we-vibe-rave-2 (for depth) & Womanizer Next Liberty (for the clitoral blend) https://womanizer-north-america.sjv.io/VmvR9J: 15% off with code ANNETTE15

Send us Fan MailEvery couple has them — the things they're curious about but have never said out loud. Today we're pulling them into the light.Deborah Kat — certified tantric educator, relationship coach, and host of the Better Sex podcast — walks us through the three categories couples are most curious about right now, and the part that matters most: exactly how to bring them up with your partner without it landing weird or killing the mood.In this episode:The three pillars of couple's play — and what each one really gives youThe difference between a kink and a fetishWhy the person in charge and the person letting go are both after the same thing: trustSimple, low-pressure ways to start tonight — using nothing but your own bodyThe exact words to introduce something new (and what to do if you get shut down)

Send us Fan MailThe A-spot, or anterior fornix, is a deep erogenous zone on the front vaginal wall that many people have never learned about. First identified in clinical research in 1997, it's associated with increased natural lubrication, heightened arousal, and deeper, more full-body pleasure. This is a complete educational guide to understanding and locating it — whether you're exploring your own body or learning with a partner.What you'll learn: ✔ What the A-spot is and where it's located, according to the research ✔ Why arousal is essential to accessing this zone comfortably ✔ How the clitoris, G-spot, and A-spot connect as a pathway ✔ Techniques, tools, and positions for exploring it safelyThis is an educational sexual-wellness video intended for adult audiences.Subscribe for evidence-based episodes on intimacy, pleasure, and connection.Here is a link to my Womanizer Duo 2 Review: https://youtu.be/a_gMOi---ZQHere is the link to the Womanizer Duo 2 use ANNETTE15 for 15% Off Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/apple/womanizer-duo-2Here is the link to my We-Vibe Rave 2 reveiw: https://youtu.be/JE_Q9F5otpIHere is the link to the Rave 2 use ANNETTE15 for 15% Off Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/apple/we-vibe-rave-2

Send us Fan MailWhat if the woman you're with isn't "low libido" or "vanilla" at all?What if she's spent her entire life being taught that wanting sex, enjoying pleasure, or expressing desire makes her a "bad woman"?In this eye-opening conversation, I'm joined by sexologist and researcher Chanelle Jolly Marshall to unpack the hidden cultural conditioning that keeps so many women disconnected from their sexuality—and how it quietly impacts relationships, desire, intimacy, and pleasure.We dive into:Why so many women struggle to access their desireThe "Good Girl" trap and the shame surrounding female sexualityHow generational messages about sex shape your relationships todayWhy some women feel guilty for wanting adventurous or passionate sexPractical tools to reconnect with your body, communicate with your partner, and reclaim pleasureWhether you're a woman trying to understand your own relationship with desire or a partner wondering why intimacy feels difficult, this episode offers compassionate, research-backed insights that can change the way you think about sex forever.

Send us Fan MailAlmost every woman has a kinky side she's never shown you — not because she doesn't trust you, but because she's waiting to find out if it's safe. This is the cheat sheet for using your words to unlock her fantasies.What you'll learn: ✔ The opener that gets her to share the fantasy she's never said out loud ✔ Why "what if" is the most powerful two-word phrase for unlocking her desires ✔ Why feeling understood — not the filthiest line — is what actually turns her on ✔ Exactly what to say once you're in bed so she feels it twiceSubscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped.Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailWhat if AI could actually help you heal your sex life — and have the best sex of your life on the other side?Women recovering from sexual trauma, bad relationships, and years of performing instead of feeling are turning to AI sexual companions — and what's happening is not what anyone expected. Today's guest didn't just use one. She built one. Morgan Hewett — two-time founder, former Meta, Harvard Business School grad, and founder and CEO of Devin — joins me to break down what these companions actually are, why women are turning to them, and what it does for their real sex lives with real partners.In this episode:What an AI sexual companion actually is — and how it's different from a toyWhy removing performance, faking, and pressure is uniquely healing for trauma survivorsWhat women discover about their own bodies with no one else in the roomWhat changes when she goes back to a human partner knowing exactly what she wantsThe takeaway you can use tonight — with or without the tech

Send us Fan MailThe harder you try to make it work, the worse it gets — and that's not in your head, it's how your body is wired. An erection runs on the calm half of your nervous system, so the second you start monitoring it, you kill it. This is the five-move reset that gets you out of your head and back into your body, tonight.What you'll learn: ✔ How to crowd out the anxious thoughts instead of fighting them ✔ Where to aim your attention so arousal actually shows up ✔ The one sentence that drops the pressure in the room instantly ✔ How to take the goal — and the fear — off the table completelyTechRing & RingMate linked below with my full review. Code ANNETTE15 for 15% off: https://myfirmtech.com/pages/annetteSubscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped.Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailShe starts avoiding sex. He takes it personally. Nobody says a word. That silence has a name — the Bedroom Gap — and the gynecologist who coined the term is here with the fix.Dr. Maria Sophocles — board-certified gynecologist with 30 years in menopause and female sexual health, author of The Bedroom Gap, and TED speaker with 1.3M+ views — breaks down exactly what's happening in her body, why his fix (the pill) made her problem worse, and how to bring pleasure back at any age.In this episode:What menopause actually does to the vagina — and why sex starts to hurtThe signs she's suffering in silence (and how to open the conversation without blame)The estrogen cancer myth that's been disproven — and the 30% stat nobody's heardVaginal estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone: what they do and who they're forThe five M's: massage, media, masturbation, mindfulness, and medicationsWhy sex is the fifth pillar of health

Send us Fan MailRound two isn't just possible — it might be the best sex she's ever had. Even if you already finished, even if you finished before she did, the night isn't over. This episode is the full playbook for the second half: the real science of the recovery window, why it's more in your control than you think, what to do the moment you soften, and the one thing to do in round one that makes going again effortless.What you'll learn: ✔ Why you naturally last longer in round two — and how to use it ✔ The 90-second mistake that sours the whole night ✔ How to keep her climbing while you come back ✔ What to do the moment you soften — so it's a switch, not a stop ✔ The one thing to do in round one that makes round two effortlessFirmtech Ring (ANNETTE15 for 15% Off): https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedettiWomanizer for the Enhance (ANNETTE15 for 15% Off): https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizerHow to Stay Hard When You Have Slow Sex: https://youtu.be/iHqgEO1BDU0Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailMistress Marley — professional dominatrix, financial domination specialist, and founder of Haus of Dominance, where she's taught over 10,000 students — breaks down what men are actually paying for, what submission really means, and how to explore giving up control in your own bedroom.In this episode:What a dominatrix actually does — and what a real session looks likeWhy the loudest "alpha males" online are her biggest clientsThe difference between submission and weaknessHow women can find their inner dominant (starting with yourself)How to bring power play into your bedroom — or find a professional the right wayFind Mistress Marley: https://www.servemistressmarley.com/More: https://www.thechocolatedomme.com/Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailAnal is one of the most searched sex topics on the internet — and one of the least talked about in actual bedrooms. Everyone's curious. Almost nobody's saying it out loud.This episode is for both of you: the woman who's curious and never said it, and the partner who wants to ask without making it weird. The conversation (including the ten seconds that decide everything), the safety rules nobody explains properly, why her body is genuinely wired to love this, and the five steps from curious to craving it — on her timeline, built around her pleasure.What you'll learn: ✔ How either of you brings it up — and how to handle a shamey response without shutting down ✔ The safety rules that make or break it: lube, bases, one-direction, and what never to use ✔ The two-muscle anatomy that makes patience the entire technique ✔ The "wearing trick" most couples skip — and why it's the step that makes everything workSubscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about.Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailYou've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent.Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actually happening and how to bring her back. And this one took a turn I didn't expect: men dissociate too. It just looks completely different.In this episode:The signs she's checked out — and the very different signs he hasThe five gears of touch: pinpoint exactly where she leavesThe "safe trust position" every couple needs before they need itHow to retrain your nervous system to stay presentFind Vanessa Cushing Here: https://www.cushingcounseling.com/Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms—a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense.Most people switch between techniques instead of combining them. But when you learn how to coordinate your mouth and hands, everything changes in how her arousal builds and how her body responds.I walk you through: Why switching between techniques can interrupt pleasure  How blended orgasms work in a practical, understandable way  The 5-step method to bring mouth and hands into sync  How to stay connected to her responses instead of guessing If you've ever felt like you were doing a lot but not getting the reaction you expected, this episode will shift how you approach foreplay entirely.Link to the Womanizer Enhance Code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizerCatch my Edging Episode: https://youtu.be/vhuayH9cBzYGet 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15!Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizerSupport the showWatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials:TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.comCheers!

Send us Fan Mail Two bi women. One podcast. A real guide to better sex built from the inside out. Bi women know something about pleasuring women that most people never figure out. Because they've been on both sides — they know what it feels like to receive, and they know what it takes to give it well. That combination is a cheat code. And today we're handing it over.Samia Mounts — queer, non-binary writer, actor, and host of Happy Slut podcast — joins me to share what bi and pan women know about the female body, desire, and pleasure that most people spend a lifetime missing.In this episode:The insider knowledge bi women carry that nobody else has access toWhat women actually need to feel pleasure — and what most people never stop doing wrongWhat she's not telling you during sex — and whyThe specific moves bi women use that most people have never even consideredHow to have better sex tonight using what we know from both sides

Send us Fan MailUp to 60% of women have fantasized about being dominated — and almost none of them have said it out loud.This one's for the men who want to deliver what she's been replaying in her head and never asked for. Five spanking fantasies, the psychology behind each, and exactly how to make them land sexy instead of awkward — including how to talk about it first, how to keep it safe, and the aftercare most men skip.What you'll learn: ✔ How to bring it up so she actually says yes — and why consent makes her let go ✔ Where it's safe, where it's never safe, and how to build intensity the right way ✔ The over-the-knee punishment-and-praise loop she craves most ✔ The anticipation move nobody talks about — and why aftercare is non-negotiableSubscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about.Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailHe's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open.Interest in pegging among straight men is up 200% according to Feeld's 2025 annual report. Not in some dark corner of the internet — on mainstream dating apps. Men are putting it on their sexual bucket lists, bringing it up on second dates, and still going silent when it matters most. Today I sat down with Luna Matatas — sex and pleasure educator with over two decades of experience and the creator of Peg the Patriarchy — to talk about what pegging actually is, what men are really asking for when they ask for it, and what women get out of strapping it on.In this episode:What pegging is — and what it isn'tWhy wanting to be pegged says nothing about his sexualityThe prostate: what it is, where it is, and why men are missing outWhat women actually get out of giving it — physically, emotionally, eroticallyHow to have the conversation with your partner without killing the moodA step-by-step guide to the first time — positions, lube, pace, and what not to doWhy men who've been pegged say it makes them better lovers

Send us Fan Mail82% of women don't reliably come from penetration alone. Here's what's actually missing — and the five moves that fix it.If she's never finished while you're inside her, it's not her body and it's not yours. It's anatomy. And once you understand it, everything changes.What you'll learn: ✔ Why the clitoris has to be fully aroused before penetration even starts ✔ How to change your angle so her clitoris gets contact on every stroke ✔ Why you keep losing her right when she's about to get there — and how to stop ✔ The one thing that's been missing from penetration her entire lifeSubscribe for new episodes every week.

Send us Fan MailShe's not hiding her book because she's embarrassed. She's hiding it because what she's reading is giving her something her sex life isn't — and nobody's asking what that means for your relationship.Romance is the fastest-growing category in print. 51 million units sold in the last year. One in four NYT hardcover fiction bestsellers was romantasy. Women aren't casually reading this stuff. They're consuming it. Today I sat down with Carolyn Hood — certified sex therapist, licensed clinical social worker, and author of Sex Begets Sex: Reclaiming Desire as an Act of Female Empowerment — to decode exactly what's going on.In this episode:What dark romance, romantasy, and smut are actually giving her that real life isn'tWho's reading it — and why the numbers point straight to moms and long-term partnersThe porn parallel nobody wants to say out loud (but we say it)How to use her book to open a conversation you've both been avoidingWhy innuendo and anticipation are the low-effort moves with the highest return3 things you can do tonight to bring the heat from the pages into your bedroom 

Send us Fan MailA listener wrote in: "I'm 47 years old and going through perimenopause. Previously I would orgasm with my husband 90-95% of the time. Now I only orgasm 5-10% of the time."She's not alone. Roughly half of all women experience orgasm changes during perimenopause — and almost none are told why or what to do about it. This episode covers the physiology behind the shift, the medical options most women don't know exist (including why the FDA just reversed 20 years of warnings about hormone therapy), and the five moves that bring pleasure back.What you'll learn: ✔ The three physical changes during perimenopause that directly affect orgasm ✔ Why the FDA removed the black box warning from HRT — and what that means for her ✔ How to find hormone therapy providers online, including estrogen and testosterone ✔ Why her foreplay timeline has shifted and how to adjust ✔ How to relearn her body together after decades of knowing what worked ✔ Why taking the orgasm off the table is paradoxically what brings it backJoin in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan Mail97% of adults have sexual fantasies. Less than a third ever act on them. The fear is almost never accurate — and in this episode, we're closing the gap between what you want and what you actually do.I'll be honest: role play has always given me the ick. So I brought in Emma Velicski — romance author and founder of Saturday Box, the company turning kink and role play into a game you can actually play with your partner — to figure out why so many of us freeze, and how to finally get started.We get into:What role play actually is (it's broader than you think)The real reason couples who want to try it never doWhy it feels like a performance — and how to turn it back into playThe "cheap knockoff" fear nobody names out loudExactly how to start tonight, no costume requiredFind Emma and Saturday Box at https://saturdaybox.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailMost men have tried to make this happen. Most have done it wrong. And almost none of them understand what's actually going on in her body when it does.This episode covers the real anatomy behind this response, why the technique most men learned from the internet actually works against them, the one thing she's going to say in the moment that most men completely misread, and why relaxation — not force — is what makes this possible.What you'll learn: ✔ The anatomy behind this response that most men have never been taught ✔ Why the most common technique is the reason it's not working ✔ The conversation you need to have before you try anything ✔ The one sentence she'll say that changes everything — and what to do when you hear it ✔ Why what you do after matters just as much as the technique itselfJoin in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailYou never signed a purity pledge. Maybe you never set foot in a church. But the rules got in anyway — through locker rooms, movies, the way women around you were talked about, the bodies that got shamed. And now they're in your bedroom, quietly wrecking everything.Today I'm talking with Erika Smith — award-winning sexuality educator, 25 years in the field, and creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program — about the specific ways purity culture shows up in men who consider themselves good allies. Men who want their partners to have orgasms. Men who are still, without knowing it, making it impossible for her to ask for what she wants.We get into:Why she can't tell you to stop — even when she wants toThe "good girl/bad girl" split that's killing your sex life right nowHow penis-centered sex became the default (and what it's costing both of you)The porn conversation that's destroying otherwise healthy relationshipsWhere to start if you want to actually change what's happening in your bedroomThis one's for the men who are trying. And the women who love them.Find Erika at: https://www.ericasmitheac.com/the-purity-culture-dropout-programJoin in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailYou can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference.In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her finish. The four signs that tell you she's at the edge. How to pull her back without losing her. Why each climb gets faster. How many edges actually work. And how to let her finish in a way that triggers a rolling orgasm she's never had with anyone.This episode also addresses something most edging content ignores: what to do with a partner who struggles to orgasm at all. I'm one of those women, and I'm walking through how to build toward edging when she can't easily get to the edge in the first place.We're covering: → The 4 science-backed signs she's about to come → The pull back — and why stopping completely ruins everything → How to bring her back up faster each time → The 3-edge rule and when to break it → The release that triggers a rolling orgasm → How to use toys like the Womanizer Enhance, Womanizer Duo, and We-Vibe Rave 2 to extend the experienceWhether you're doing this with a partner who comes easily or one who's never been able to with you — this episode changes the game.Toys mentioned in the episode can be found at the links below. Use my code ANNETTE15 for 15% OffWomanizer Premium 2: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-premium-2Womanizer Enhance: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-enhanceWomanizer Next: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-nextWomanizer Next Duo: https://womanizer-north-america.sjv.io/vDxxjAWomanizer Blend: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blendJoin in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailMost men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeling it. It's not her. It's the script.Today's guest has spent 17 years collecting real-world data on exactly what porn got wrong — and what women actually need. Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, the world's first real-world sex platform, former Advertising Woman of the Year, and one of the most talked-about TED speakers in history.In this episode:Why porn turned foreplay into a formality — and what she actually needs insteadThe 3-word cheat sheet every woman wishes her partner hadWhy lube and toys aren't optional — they're the whole gameHow to talk about sex in bed without killing the moodWhat real-world sex actually looks like versus the porn performanceWhy good foreplay starts way before anyone gets nakedFindy Cindy Here On Substack: https://dearcindy.substack.com/p/yes-you-really-can-ask-me-anythingAll of Cindy's Links: https://linktr.ee/cindygallopJoin in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailMost partners use one move with their hands. There are dozens. And most men have never heard of the deeper spot that changes everything.This episode is a complete guide — how to prep your hands so she actually wants them on her body, the five named techniques that produce completely different sensations, the two internal spots most partners don't know exist, and the combination move that gives her something she literally cannot give herself.What you'll learn: ✔ Why prepping your hands is foreplay (and most men skip it) ✔ How to build her response before you ever go where she wants you ✔ My top 5 techniques by name — circling, figure 8, broadening, cupping, the Hail Mary ✔ The two internal spots and what each one responds to ✔ The combination that gives her something no toy and no other body part can ✔ The finishing rule — and when to throw it out because she told you toJoin in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailAlpha male culture is teaching men to dominate, never ask, never show need — and it is quietly destroying their sex lives. Today I'm joined by James Harris, licensed mental health therapist, US Army veteran, and founder of Men to Heal, who has spent a decade watching this play out in real relationships. He's not here to shame men — he's here to give them what the alpha podcasters never do: the actual truth about what makes women want you.What you'll learn:What alpha culture is actually teaching men about sex — and why it backfiresWhy performing masculinity in bed kills pleasure for both peopleThe difference between sex and intimacy — and why it matters for your orgasmWhat vulnerability in a man actually does to a woman's desireHow to undo the conditioning — starting tonightWhether you're the man in this dynamic, the woman watching him disappear into it, or the partner who's been waiting for him to wake up — this one's for you.

Send us Fan MailYou went soft during sex. She felt it. And the next thing you did probably made it worse.Every man loses his erection. Most panic, apologize, or shut down — and that reaction does more damage than the erection loss ever did. This episode gives you the five exact moves that keep the moment going, keep her turned on, and get your body back without the shame spiral. Plus: why your erection is one of the earliest warning signs of heart disease, diabetes, and hormonal imbalance — and the tool that actually tracks it.What you'll learn: ✔ The move that stops both your spiral and hers at the same time ✔ How to redirect to her pleasure so she barely remembers you went soft ✔ Three sentences that save the moment (and the one she actually needs to hear) ✔ Why the erection that comes back is almost always stronger — and how to let it ✔ The cock ring that keeps you firm during sex and tracks your health between sessions ✔ Why your erection is a vital sign and when it's time to talk to your doctorThis episode features the FirmTech TechRing and RingMate — the tools I trust and would want my own partner using.

Send us Fan MailNobody told us what to do with them. Sex ed skipped them entirely. And somewhere along the way, women just... stopped thinking about them. Until now.Three women sit down and go fully, honestly, hilariously there — what we actually find attractive, what we've been getting wrong, and the moves that will genuinely change what happens in your bedroom tonight.We're getting into:Why so many women are low-key intimidated by them (and how to fix that)The grooming conversation nobody's having — including the Nair tipHow to know he's close without asking a single questionThe cupping trick that speeds everything upWhat we actually want to call them (drop it in the comments

Send us Fan MailThe Praise Kink episode was one of my biggest videos ever — and your comment section proved you're ready to go deeper.I pulled five questions I kept seeing and I'm giving you the real answers. Research, specifics, and the stuff I didn't have room for the first time around.✔ What to call her when "good girl" doesn't fit — honorifics, worship titles, and why they work ✔ Can you flip the praise kink and use it on men — and what does that look like inside the kink ✔ How to actually build a verbal vocabulary when you've been silent your whole sex life ✔ Why praise kink might be the most powerful tool for women in menopause ✔ How to introduce praise kink — whether you've been together two months or twenty yearsListen to Praise 5 Praise Kink Moves Part 1 Here: https://youtu.be/HW5PQANI09YJoin in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailShe Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!)She didn't lose interest in sex. She lost interest in sex that never worked for her. Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons — award-winning psychologist, Emory University professor, and author of Good Sex — breaks down the real data behind the orgasm gap, why it slowly kills a woman's desire, and exactly what closes it.Why 75% of women have faked it (and what that's really costing you)The script both men AND women buy into that kills her desire over timeWhy lesbians are finishing at 88% — and what straight couples can learn from itThe mental load connection nobody talks aboutHow mutual masturbation rewires the whole dynamicWhat to do tonight to start closing the gap for good

Send us Fan MailIt's Masturbation May — and I'm giving you the practice that will upgrade your sex life more than any new position, any new toy, any new technique.Mutual masturbation. Touching yourselves at the same time, in the same bed, watching each other.It removes the pressure to deliver an orgasm. It builds the connection most couples are missing. It shows you exactly what works on each other's bodies. And it lets you both discover new pleasure together.What you'll learn: ✔ Why this practice fixes the orgasm pressure problem most couples have ✔ The exact words to suggest it without making it weird ✔ The starting position that makes it feel intimate instead of exposing ✔ The face-to-face position that builds connection most couples are missing ✔ The hand-on-hand technique that teaches your partner's exact pressure and rhythm ✔ How to use this practice to discover new types of orgasms togetherMy Guide to Best Couple's Sex Toys For Mutual Masturbation: https://talksexwithannette.com/the-best-couples-sex-toys-for-mutual-masturbation/Pair this with my 365 Days of Orgasms series for full tutorials on G-spot, A-spot, blended orgasms, and every other technique I reference: Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp

Send us Fan MailPlease stop fucking us hard. Seriously. That's the message — and if you heard it in Suzanne Noble's voice during this episode, you already know why it hit so hard.Suzanne is the host of Sex Advice for Seniors — nearly 200K followers, 180+ episodes, and the most unfiltered voice on intimacy and aging out there. She and I got into everything: why your arousal pattern changes after 50 and what to do about it, what men in their sixties are getting wrong in bed (and the one thing they could change tonight), why women who spent decades having duty sex are now retiring from it entirely, the swinging scene from a queer woman's perspective, dating younger men, and why the women having the best sex of their lives right now are the ones who finally stopped performing.If you're over 50, send this to a friend. If you're under 50, send it to yourself for later. Desire doesn't retire — unless you let it.Find Suzanne on Substack at: https://www.sexadviceforseniors.com/Check out her website at: https://suzannenoble.co.uk/

Send us Fan MailDoes she grab your hair like she forgot her own name? Does she text you at 2 AM the next day because her body won't stop replaying it? If not, the gap between what you're doing and what would make her lose her mind is just 7 moves nobody ever taught you.This episode gives you 7 moves she's never felt before. Not because they're complicated — because nobody teaches past the basics.What you'll learn: ✔ You're only hitting 20% of her nerve endings — the tongue fix that changes that ✔ Why your hands are either doing nothing or making it worse ✔ The counterintuitive pull-away that doubles her body's response ✔ A 30-second temperature trick with no toys and no planning ✔ The angle change she's never experienced in her entire life ✔ Why your silence is actively working against you ✔ One look — three seconds — that she'll remember longer than the orgasm itself

Send us Fan MailThere are one night stands you forget before you've brushed your teeth — and there are one night stands you're still thinking about years later. Today we're breaking down the difference.Zachary Zane — author of Boy Slut, Men's Health sex columnist, and Grindr's official sex and relationship expert — joins me to map out exactly how to have a one night stand that actually lives up to the fantasy. From the mental prep most people skip, to where to find the right person, to what happens in the room that makes it unforgettable — we're covering every stage.We get into: → The honest conversation you need to have with yourself before you go out → Where to find casual sex based on your gender, orientation, and vibe → How to communicate what you want without killing the momentum → Why one night stands can be MORE intimate than relationship sex → The aftercare that turns a hookup into a core memory instead of a regret → Safety tips every woman needs before leaving with a strangerPlus — we both share our own one night stand stories, because we've been there. A lot.

Send us Fan MailYou watched How to F*ck Slower. You tried it. Then you lost your erection and panicked. This is the fix.Slowing down is the single best thing you can do for her pleasure — but nobody talks about what happens to you when you do it. Your brain speeds up, your body gets nervous, and you lose the one thing you need to stay in the game. This episode breaks down exactly how to stay hard, stay present, and become the man who can go slow without flinching.What you'll learn: ✔ Why slowing down triggers erection loss — and how to override it |✔ The metronome technique that keeps you steady and hard ✔ Why your erection is a vital sign and how to start treating it like one ✔ The tech I personally use and recommend for erection qualityUse code ANNETTE15 on the Tech Ring and Ring Mate : https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti

Send us Fan MailMost couples stumble into bed hoping their bodies will figure it out. They don't. Because nobody's talking about who's leading, who's surrendering — or whether you're both fighting for the same role.Today's guest is Sarah Perry — certified somatic sex educator, sexological body worker, and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She holds a master's in psychology and a background in women, gender, and sexuality studies. Sarah works with people through the body to help them understand what they actually want in bed without the shame.We're breaking down:What dominant and submissive energy actually means (hint: it's not what you think)How to figure out your default — and why it changes with different partnersWhy "feminine energy = submissive" is killing your sex lifeThe 5-minute game that'll tell you exactly who you are in bedHow to stop the awkward bedroom guessing game for goodFind Sarah Perry: Instagram: @havenspacecoaching Website: https://www.havenspacecoaching.com/

Send us Fan MailYou've been misreading her in bed. The loudest sounds she makes? Those aren't for her. Research shows the majority of women vocalize to speed up his finish — not because they're in pleasure. Meanwhile, the sounds that actually mean she's deep in it? Most men miss them completely.In this episode, I break down the five real sounds she makes during sex — what each one actually means and the exact move to make when you hear it. This isn't theory. This is a playbook.

Send us Fan MailWhat is bimboification — and why are so many people hiding it? Sex and relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom breaks down one of the most misunderstood fetishes out there, where it comes from, and how to explore it in your relationship without the shame spiral. Because the fetish isn't the problem. The shame is.What bimboification and cross-dressing fetishes actually areThe real link between bimboification and dragHow shame drives desire underground — and the damage it doesHow to tell your partner and actually have it go wellLow-stakes ways to explore it together

Send us Fan MailShe's not withholding. She's not checked out. And it has nothing to do with how long you've been together.Here's what's actually happening: every time you touch her, kiss her, pull her close — she can feel that it has a destination. And when desire always has a destination, she stops being in the moment and starts managing the arc. So she waits. Every time.What she's craving is a partner who is just as hungry for the moments between sex as he is for sex itself. That shift — when she finally feels it — changes everything.In this episode I'm giving you five specific moves that build her desire from the inside out. Before sex. During sex. After sex. All of them designed to do one thing: make her want to be the one who starts it.✔ The kiss that makes her think about you all day — before 9am ✔ How to drop charged moments into your day that build heat without asking for anything ✔ What women who have sex with women know about pleasure that most men don't ✔ How to be her pleasure dom — and why the giving is the getting ✔ The 20-minute window after sex that determines whether she initiates next timeThis is the episode she's going to send to you. And the one you're going to watch twice.

Send us Fan MailYou think you know what a fetish is — leather, feet, something you scroll past. But the cultural conversation leads with the weird and skips the why. Today we're flipping that.Jessica Renard — licensed professional counselor, sex therapist at StorieBrook Associates, and a therapist who works directly within the kink communities in Georgia — breaks down the fetishes that actually show up in relationships and the therapist's office. What's happening in the brain, the body, and the relationship when someone has one? And what do you do when you or your partner has a fetish?time stamps: 0:00 Intro 5:30 Difference between fetish, kink, & paraphilia 6:20 How does a fetish form and who has them 12:00 Foot Fetish 15:00 Age Play 18:14 Pet Play 22:44 Attraction to Clowns 28:00 Attraction to people with amputations 33:00 Adult Baby Diaper Fetish 36:00 Somnophilia & Dormaphilia 42:00 Human Furniture 48:00 Erotic HypnosisFind Jessica on Patreone: https://www.patreon.com/cw/jrsexAnd Here: https://www.storiebrook.com/Team/jessica-renard-lpc

Send us Fan MailMost men are completely silent during sex. And that silence is costing you more than you realize.Surveys suggest that roughly 3 out of 4 women say verbal affirmation during sex increases their arousal and orgasm intensity. But it's not just about saying nice things — it's about pairing specific words with specific physical moves at exactly the right moment. That combination does something to her body that neither one can do alone.In this episode, I'm giving you 5 praise kink moves — each one a phrase paired with a physical technique — that make sex better for both of you. And by move 5, you'll understand why she starts initiating.What you'll learn: ✔ Why "good girl" does more than an hour of thrusting ✔ The word + touch combinations that trigger arousal she can't fake ✔ How to use praise during edging to create the most intense experience she's ever had ✔ The 60-second move after she finishes that makes her want you again