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Send us a textWhy do so many women lose interest in sex—and why is the blame so often placed on them?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, Annette is joined by Dr. Trina Read to unpack what women are really saying when they say, “I just don't want sex anymore.”We talk about:Why low desire is often a reasonable response, not a personal failureHow pressure, routine, and male-centric sex shut down arousalWhat's happening in the body and mind during long-term relationshipsWhy orgasms alone don't guarantee satisfying sexSmall, practical shifts that help women reconnect with desireThis episode is for:Women questioning their libidoPartners who want to understand what's beneath the surfaceAnyone tired of being told to “fix hormones” instead of fixing the experienceBy the end of this conversation, you'll have a clearer, shame-free framework for understanding women's desire—and how to start changing it.

Send us a textIn this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm breaking down three specific positions that are more orgasm-friendly by design—because they support anatomy, nervous system regulation, and clitoral engagement instead of rushing straight to penetration and hoping for the best.And I want to be clear right from the start: This episode exists because my audience voted for it.Every week, I run a poll on my YouTube channel where you help decide which how-to I cover next. If you want a say in future topics, make sure you're subscribed on YouTube and signed up for my e-newsletter—that's where the voting happens.In this episode, you'll learn:How angle, pacing, and connection dramatically change orgasm likelihoodThree positions that support female orgasms without relying on speed or forceHow to use eye contact, sensual touch, and clitoral stimulation without breaking flowThis episode is for women, their partners, and anyone tired of feeling like orgasms are random, rare, or out of reach.Links to products in the podcastWe-Vibe Melt 2 (Discount EXPLORES15 15% Off): https://wevibe-north-america.sjv.io/bOezRbThe Peach Toy Review (Discount EXPLORES15 15% Off): https://youtu.be/tm6r87jv6PsThe Peach Toy: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/womanizer-peach

Send us a textWe talk about blowjobs like they're a performance — like there's a “right way,” a secret move, or something you're supposed to magically know.But most advice doesn't actually make oral sex feel better. It just makes people anxious.In this episode, I'm joined by Girls Gone Deep for a real, explicit, shame-free conversation about giving oral sex that actually feels incredible — without porn scripts, pressure, or performative nonsense.We talk about: – Where confidence actually comes from – Why enthusiasm matters more than technique – Communication during oral (yes, during) – Givers vs receivers: etiquette, consent, and boundaries – Rhythm, variety, and why switching it up matters – Circumcised vs uncircumcised anatomy – Positions that make oral easier (and hotter) – What people get wrong about “being good at it”This episode is explicit, honest, and deeply sex-positive — meant to help you enjoy giving and receiving without anxiety or shame.Find Girls Gone Deep On Their Website: https://www.girlsgonedeep.com/Find them on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/girlsgonedeeppod

Send us a textForeplay shouldn't feel inconsistent.If you've ever taken your time and still felt like her body wasn't fully responding — this episode is for you. And if you've ever wanted to be into it but felt tense or distracted instead, this one's for you too.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 foreplay moves most guys skip — not because they don't care, but because no one ever taught them how arousal actually works.We'll talk about why foreplay “sometimes works,” what's really happening in the nervous system when desire shuts down, and how to lead her body into arousal without rushing, pressure, or performance.This isn't about tricks or trying harder. It's about pacing, presence, and learning how to keep desire open instead of overwhelming it.Here is the link to my Yoni Massage tutorial: https://talksexwithannette.com/how-to-give-a-yoni-massage/Here's How to touch a clit: https://talksexwithannette.com/20-incredible-ways-to-touch-a-clit/

Send us a textIn this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we explore why solo pleasure is becoming a major cultural shift—and how it's actually improving partnered sex, not replacing it.Joined by Sarah Tomchesson, Certified Intimacy Coach and Director of Marketing at Magic Wand, we break down insights from the 2026 Sexual Wellness Trends Report based on data from 1,000 participants. The findings reveal how solo sex supports desire, confidence, nervous system regulation, and deeper intimacy with partners.We cover:Why solo sex is increasing across generationsHow pleasure-focused practices improve partnered sexWhy orgasm isn't the goal—and why that leads to better sexSimple ways to start a solo pleasure practice that supports real connectionThis conversation blends culture, science, and real-life experience to reframe pleasure as a powerful tool for better sex and stronger relationships.

Send us a textLosing an erection during intimacy is far more common than people admit — but what you do next is what actually defines great lovers.In this episode, I walk you through exactly what to do when an erection is lost, how to stay confident and connected in the moment, and how to continue sex in a way that still deeply satisfies her.Because sex isn't penetration-based — it's presence-based.This is a grounded, science-informed how-to that shows you how to:Respond calmly instead of panicking when arousal dropsStay erotically present instead of pulling awayShift the moment so intimacy doesn't collapseRedefine sex beyond penetrationSatisfy her in ways that women actually rememberWe'll also talk about why pressure shuts arousal down, how adaptability builds desire, and why confidence isn't about performance — it's about leadership in unexpected moments.

In this episode, I want to dive deep into one of the most overlooked patterns that keeps us stuck in stress, cravings, and self-sabotage: the scarcity mindset.I'll help you understand how fear, stress, and the feeling of “not enough” shows up in every area of your life — your money, time, energy, body, health, and relationships — and why awareness is the first step toward breaking cycles of emotional eating and unwanted habits.1. What Scarcity Really MeansScarcity is more than money. It's that “not enoughness” that creeps into our thoughts and decisions. I often see it in myself and my clients as:Not enough time, not enough money, not enough worthinessDoing things for everyone else but not for yourselfThe inner critic telling you you're not thin enough, smart enough, or good enoughScarcity is linked to being in protection mode, where your nervous system is constantly scanning for threats and lack.2. Fear is the Root of ScarcityI want you to know — fear isn't bad. It's your brain's signal to guide you toward filling a perceived lack. But when we ignore or numb fear (with food, distraction, or avoidance), we get stuck in a loop of stress and self-sabotage.Here's what I notice:Fear, stress, worry, shame, and doubt all come from scarcityEmotions are here to give us messages, not punish usWe have four primary emotions: fear, anger, sadness, and joy — everything else is a combination3. Hormonal Consequences: Cortisol and InsulinI want to explain why first-order thinking happens and why cravings hijack us:Cortisol: Released when we feel fear or stress. It drives impulsive decisions and hijacks our self-controlInsulin: Our storage hormone. It stores energy and suppresses fat release — especially triggered by stress eating, refined carbs, and late-night snacksUnderstanding how these two hormones interact with fear and scarcity helps explain why cravings, overeating, and stalled fat loss happen — even when we know better.4. From Awareness to ActionHere's what I want you to do:Notice scarcity thoughts and fear triggersStop numbing or avoiding uncomfortable emotionsSee fear as your guide pointing to opportunities and choicesPractice second-order thinking: consider the consequences before actingKey TakeawaysScarcity isn't just about money — it's a lens through which we see the worldFear is not your enemy; it's a signal to guide decisionsStress eating and cravings are tied to cortisol and insulinAwareness and emotional regulation are your first step toward freedomJournal PromptsWhere do I notice scarcity thoughts in my life right now?How do I typically respond to fear or stress?What habits do I use to numb uncomfortable emotions?How might I create a moment of second-order thinking next time I feel a craving or stress?What small actions can help me shift from protection mode to safety mode today?Closing Message from MeScarcity and fear are not weaknesses — they are signals. When we understand our nervous system, our hormones, and our emotional patterns, we can replace self-sabotage with conscious choices and reclaim our sense of safety, freedom, and abundance.

Send us a textEvery January, men promise to fix their bodies and stop worrying about performance in bed. But what if trying harder is actually the problem?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we dive into the 2026 Sex Reset for Men with sex and relationship coach Caitlin V, host of Good Sex on Discovery+ and HBO Max, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger.We explore why performance anxiety disrupts confidence, arousal, and connection, how the nervous system plays a bigger role than most men realize, and what actually helps men feel confident and present in bed again.This episode is for men ready to move out of performance mode—and for partners who want better, more connected intimacy in 2026.Find out more about Caitlin V Here: https://caitlinvneal.com/harder-better-longer-stronger-the-book/

Send us a textMost people think they know how the clitoris works. They don't.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down the one clit move that quietly kills orgasms—and the simple shift that changes everything.We're talking about why overstimulation backfires, how the nervous system actually responds to touch, and what creates arousal that builds instead of shuts down.If orgasms feel inconsistent, muted, or harder to reach than they used to be, this episode will change how you think about pleasure.

Send us a textIn 2022, I made a decision that changed my life.I committed to 365 Days of Orgasms — and what began as a personal experiment became a radical return to pleasure, embodiment, and self-trust.In this episode, I'm inviting you into a new version of that journey for 2026:365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure Is the Resolution.This is not a challenge.It's a daily pleasure practice and an erotic journey designed to help you reconnect with your body, your desire, and your sense of aliveness — without pressure or performance.*Throughout the year, we'll explore:*Orgasm as awareness, energy, and emotional release*G-spot, A-spot, and blended pleasure pathways*How desire returns when the body feels safe*How pleasure deepens confidence, creativity, and connection*How erotic energy expands into the rest of your lifeThis journey is designed for Everyone.Here's all you need to do:Subscribe to this podcast and follow me on social media — that's where I'll be sharing daily guidance, reflections, and weekly practices.Bookmark this page:

Send us a textWhen sex starts feeling like work, it's not because desire is broken.It's because the body has learned to brace.In this episode, I teach a five-minute pleasure practice that helps the body relax out of performance mode and back into genuine arousal — without pressure, goals, or trying to “make” anything happen.This is the exact kind of practice I'll be guiding inside 365 Days of Orgasms, my upcoming daily pleasure journey for 2026.You'll learn:Why many women stop wanting sex even when attraction is still thereHow goal-oriented touch shuts arousal downThe nervous-system reason sex starts to feel draining instead of nourishingA simple, repeatable five-minute practice you can do solo or with a partnerHow steady, non-demanding touch helps desire return naturallyWhy this approach trains partners to become better lovers without learning more “moves”This practice is especially powerful if sex has started to feel heavy, pressured, or avoidable — or if you've noticed pulling away, shutting down, or feeling disconnected when erotic touch begins.You'll also hear how this work becomes the foundation for deeper pleasure, internal arousal, emotional release, and embodied connection inside 365 Days of Orgasms — a year-long invitation to explore pleasure without pressure.No performance. No fixing. Just five minutes of touch the body can actually receive.

The Tree[Verse 1]We celebrate this Christmas time,With gifts under a tree.So of't I've wondered why it's so And what it means to me.It's said that once, so long ago,Boniface came to town;And saw the tree was idolized,And so he cut it down.[Chorus]But I see Shepherds gathered round,A string of garland shows.I see the magi's gifts displayed,Hung gently, balls and bows.I see the angels choir above,Calling us to see.And standing back, the tree itself,Shows holy Trinity.[Verse 2]For what are symbols if they failTo teach us of our Lord.And then become traditions heldWithout our God adored.We turn our eyes to things of man Our heart is gently swayed;To see this thing with sinful eyes,And miss glory displayed.[Chorus]But I see Shepherds gathered round,A string of garland shows.I see the magi's gifts displayed,Hung gently, balls and bows.I see the angels choir above,Calling us to see.And standing back, the tree itself,Shows holy Trinity.[Bridge]Christ was born on Christmas dayTo call all men to Him.And so we gather round a tree,And share a Christmas hymn.And glorify our God above,Who sent His Son to die;His light shines bright on darkest day,A gift of eternal life.[Tag]Ancient practice Means to meMy saviourOn a treeWe celebrateHis gift to usWe celebrate His love.[Chorus]But I see Shepherds gathered round,A string of garland shows.I see the magi's gifts displayed,Hung gently, balls and bows.I see the angels choir above,Calling us to see.And standing back, the tree itself,Shows holy Trinity.Text us now. Let us know if you have questions about what this show is about.Support the showSupport the show https://www.buzzsprout.com/817693/support Thanks for listening! Join the conversation on Our website, https://teleiostalkpodcast.buzzsprout.com Twitter, @TeleiosT Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/share/GF5fdop8prDoKfx5/ Or, email us at teleiostalk@gmail.com Our Podcast is on YouTube and Rumble too! Please consider supporting our ministry. Donate using PayPal https://www.paypal.com/donate/?business=N54GRDE34VUDY&no_recurring=0&item_name=Donations+help+us+expand+and+maintain+the+ministry+of+Teleios+Talk.¤cy_code=

Send us a textEvery year we promise ourselves more sex, better performance, or more confidence — and every year those goals quietly fall apart.In this episode, I'm joined by sex educator Goody Howard to talk about a different approach to sexual resolutions for 2026 — one that focuses on intention, education, and pleasure that actually lasts.This isn't about pressure or porn-inspired goals. It's about setting sexual intentions that support your body, deepen intimacy, and create better sex, not just more of it — in and out of the bedroom.In this conversation, we explore:Why “more sex” usually isn't the answerWhat actually helps sexual goals stickHow education and intention lead to better intimacyA more realistic, embodied way to think about sexual growth in 2026If you're ready for a smarter, more grounded approach to your sex life in the new year, this episode is for you.Find Goody here: https://www.instagram.com/askgoodyThe Peach toy: https://youtu.be/tm6r87jv6Ps

Send us a textIf you've ever worried that pleasure depends on size, this episode will completely change how you think about intimacy.In this video, Annette breaks down three sex positions that feel incredible—no matter your size—because they work with anatomy, angle, rhythm, and the nervous system, not performance pressure.This is not about going harder, deeper, or faster. It's about understanding what actually helps bodies respond, relax, and experience more pleasure.You'll learn:Why size is rarely the reason intimacy doesn't feel greatHow angle and positioning matter more than depthThree positions that increase comfort, connection, and sensationHow to enhance partnered pleasure safely using supportive toolsWhy reducing anxiety and pressure makes pleasure more accessible for both partnersThis episode is educational, body-positive, and focused on connection over performance—designed for anyone who wants intimacy that feels better, not more stressful.More How-Tos on Missionary: https://youtu.be/sYgwo-0DDKwWomanizer Enhance Review: https://youtu.be/PHivDXUnL3EFirmtech Tech Ring: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedettiFirm Tech Ring Review: https://youtu.be/n9nCYX3VAZ4Intimacy wedge: https://lovehoneyus.sjv.io/GKeMN2

I give my perspective on being an APP in the ED, be humble and teachable and strike an affect that allows the physicians to speak into your practiceWhen in doubt, consult the specialistJulie talks about what makes her proud about her careerShe is proud of the connections she made, that she treated her patients how she would have wanted to be treatedRemember to take that intentional time with patients to help reassure and connect with themJulie talks about a the expectation she sets for patients with abdominal pain -  that we don't find a clear answer most of the time and when we do it's usually something emergent and surgical so sometimes no answer is good newsSet the right expectation for the ER visit earlyShe talks about how she reassures patients that may be embarrassed for coming in when they end up not having anything emergent going onJulie highlights the need to eat and hydrate on shiftJulie talks about the next generation of providers and how she hopes they continue to keep their observation skills and clinical thinking skills intact considering technology advances and AI incorporation Julies advice to her younger self would be to not let people drag you downA big thing we need to learn is to not let others poor behavior or flexing of their ego affect us personally, it speaks more about them than usWe need to learn to give constructive criticism without judgingSupport the showEverything you hear today from myself and my guests is opinion only and doesn't represent any organizations or companies that any of us are affiliated with. The stories you hear have been modified to protect patient privacy and any resemblance to real individuals is coincidental. This is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice nor used to diagnose any medical or healthcare conditions. This is not medical advice. If you have personal health concerns, please seek professional care. Full show notes can be found here: Episodes - Practical EMS - Content for EMTs, PAs, ParamedicsMost efficient online EKG course here: Practical EKG Interpretation - Practical EMS earn 4 CME and learn the fundamentals through advanced EKG interpretation in under 4 hours. If you want to work on your nutrition, increase your energy, improve your physical and mental health, I highly recommend 1st Phorm. Check them out here so they know I sent you. 1st Phorm | The Foundation of High Performance Nutrition

Learn more about Michael Wenderoth, Executive Coach: www.changwenderoth.comWhat does neuroscience tells us about the brain-body connection? How we can utilize that knowledge to thrive amid times of uncertainty, change and fear? In this episode of 97% Effective, Michael speaks with Julia Bunyatov, executive leadership coach and founder or Sirmio. Julie discusses her work with Wall Street executives and how she applies neuroscience insights to her coaching practice. She shares how mindfulness, curiosity and optimism are the keys to leading amid uncertainty – and to approaching the important question of how we are changing as leaders with the emergence of AI. Discussed: her latest articles, how to best eliminate the brain's prediction errors, optimism vs toxic positivity, and what it means to thrive and “create magic.”SHOW NOTES:How Julia's years on Wall Street informs her work as an executive leadership coachThe personal family experiences that led Julia to neuroscience, the science of thriving – and into coachingThe rock formation behind her company's name, Sirmio LeadershipHow do we lead through complexity – and create outcomes that could not have been predicted beforeAddressing the soft “new age” perception of “Mindfulness, Optimism and Curiosity”Mindfulness defined: Our ability to manage our attention and focus in a desired way – and observe in a non-judgmental wayPractical ways (beyond meditation) to become more mindful so you can deepen your self-awarenessIs stress good – and if so, how much do you want?Curiosity: How it helps us engage our capacity to be creative and innovativeHow mindfulness helps us when we get triggered at workHow empathy creates more energy in the brain body system that helps usWe think our brain is reactive, but it is actually predictingThe best way to eliminate prediction error and anxiety is through experience: the example of thriving in a snowstormOne of the most important things that Coaches doOptimism vs “toxic positivity”Applying the process of mindfulness, curiosity and optimism to the emergence of AI: how do we collaborate and create something that did not exist before?AI is absolutely about creating efficiencies in the workplace, but the more important question is how are we changing as leaders?Why we need friction – and not everything should be smooth sailingHow Julia uses AI in her coaching practice and workJulia's take on emotions: don't suppress them, use them as a source of energy and conduit to our resultsBIO AND LINKS: Julia Bunyatov is the founder of Sirmio Leadership, which focuses on Executive Coaching & Advisory. She is a certified Executive Coach and former C-suite leader with 30 years of experience in executive leadership, board governance, and coaching. She held senior roles including COO of Global Equities Trading, COO of Global Equity Derivatives, and Americas Risk Officer at Bankers Trust, Lehman Brothers, and Barclays. Today she supports senior leaders in aligning insight with real-world leadership to drive meaningful change. In addition to other board commitments, Julia serves as Treasurer of the Columbia Coaching Conference and is a board member of the Columbia Coaching Learning Association. Julia on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julia-bunyatov-0b23001/Sirmio Leadership: https://www.sirmioleadership.comThe meaning of “Sirmio”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SirmioJulia's article in Choice: “Thriving in Uncertainty ~ Neuroscience and applications for coaches and leader” https://choice-online.com/thriving/Julia's article: “We Built the Machine. Now We Must Build the Mindset: How Emotion, Neuroscience, and AI Are Rewiring Leadership” https://tinyurl.com/4e7bpcm9Michael's Award-Winning book, Get Promoted: What Your Really Missing at Work That's Holding You Back https://tinyurl.com/453txk74Watch this episode on video, the 97% Effective Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@97PercentEffectiveAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Send us a textWhat if the best sex of your life starts after 50?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by the sex educator behind Taboo to Truth, Karen Bigman to talk about why women over 50 are becoming more confident, more curious, and more sexually adventurous than ever.We break down the myths about aging and desire—and explore how self-knowledge, confidence, and freedom from old expectations create a powerful midlife sexual glow-up. From bolder communication to increased curiosity around pleasure and exploration, this conversation reframes sex after 50 as expansion, not decline.If you're a woman over 50—or you love one—this episode will change how you think about desire, intimacy, and what's possible next.Because your sex life isn't behind you. It's just getting started.

Send us a textWhy does it feel like everything is working… until it suddenly isn't?You're touching her. She's aroused. She's close. And then—her body pulls away, the moment disappears, and the orgasm never lands.In this episode, intimacy coach Annette breaks down the most common mistake people make with their hands that actually stops orgasms instead of creating them—and why trying harder often makes it worse.This isn't about fancy techniques or doing more. It's about pressure, rhythm, consistency, and restraint—and understanding how the body actually responds to touch.You'll learn:Why hands are one of the most powerful (and most misused) tools for orgasmHow changing stimulation too often interrupts climaxThe difference between arousal and overloadWhat to do when it's working—and why that's the moment most people mess it upHow to create the conditions where her body can finish what it startsIf you've ever thought, “I was doing everything right… so why did it stop?” This episode will answer that.No shame. No gimmicks. Just clear, grounded guidance on how to touch with confidence—and stop unintentionally interrupting pleasure.

The Giants lost their 8th straight game,  29-21 to the Commanders, as mistakes and missed opportunities continue to pile up.Awful mistakes and dumb plays doomed usWe blew 2 field goals, gave up a 65 yard punt return TD, had 2 huge pass drops (by suck ass Slayton) , threw a bad pick , and had a turnover on downs after being 1st and goal at the Commander 3 yard line.Other than than, it was a clean game :-)Jersey Guy Sports is available on all podcasting platforms. Listen on Spotify Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on YouTube Listen on PocketCasts Listen on iHeart Radio Listen on Amazon Music Listen on TuneIn and Alexa Listen on other podcasting platforms here Socials Facebook, JGS Twitter, Threads, ...

Send us a textAre politics turning people on more than we realize?Today on Talk Sex with Annette, we're diving into a surprising and fast-growing fantasy showing up in bedrooms, dating apps, and long-term relationships: the political humiliation kink — when opposing beliefs become part of a consensual power-play dynamic.In this episode, I sit down with acclaimed psychosexual therapist and sex educator Gigi Engle to unpack why this trend is rising right now, how emotional tension becomes erotic tension, and how couples can explore fantasy safely without crossing real-life boundaries.We break down:✨ Why political tension can create unexpected attraction✨ The psychology behind power-play role dynamics✨ How to talk about fantasies with a partner (without chaos!)✨ What to avoid if you and your partner truly disagree politically✨ Signs this fantasy is playful — and signs it's NOTYou can find Gigi here: https://www.missgigiengle.com/

Send us a textWant to take your oral intimacy skills from “pretty good” to absolutely unforgettable? In this episode, I'm breaking down the advanced rhythm, pacing, and attunement techniques that cause full-body reactions, deeper connection, and those moments where she completely loses control.This isn't about flashy moves or performance pressure. This is about understanding the science of her arousal, her nervous system, her breath, and the rhythm patterns that help her body relax, build intensity, and let go.You'll learn: ✨ Why steady rhythm creates stronger pleasure responses ✨ How to read her breath, tension, and micro-movements ✨ The psychology behind anticipation and sensory focus ✨ What not to do if you want to keep her in the moment ✨ How to hold a rhythm long enough for her body to take overIf you want to feel more confident, more attuned, and more skilled in creating intimacy that stays with her long after it's over, this episode is for you.

Send us a textTalking about kink doesn't have to be awkward — in fact, when you do it right, the conversation itself becomes part of the turn-on.In today's episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're breaking down how to explore kink with a partner in a way that feels safe, connected, and genuinely exciting… long before anything physical happens.I'm joined by Lisa Opel, pleasure coach at Joy Club, author, educator, and speaker who teaches people around the world how to navigate desire, boundaries, and curiosity with confidence. Together, we're diving into why negotiation is one of the most misunderstood parts of kink, and how it can actually build trust, intimacy, and erotic tension.You'll learn: • How to talk about new desires without making things uncomfortable • What to say when you're nervous to bring something up • How to explore fantasies in a judgment-free way • Why negotiation can become its own form of foreplay • Tools for building trust, safety, and connection before you try something new • How to start small, communicate clearly, and create a deeper, more playful dynamicWhether you're a beginner exploring kink for the first time or you've been curious for years, this episode gives you the exact language, mindset, and steps to talk about your desires in a way that brings you closer — not farther apart.Find out more about Lisa at: Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off  with my code LRT15Use code LRT15  at Eyeoflove.com And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more!https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textMost people think climax is one quick moment — but her body is capable of so much more. Rolling orgasms are deeper, longer waves of pleasure, and once she learns this rhythm, intimacy changes for both of you.In this episode, I break down how to help her stay in sensation longer, understand her arousal curve, and use the Kiiroo Pearl 3 to build the rhythm that allows rolling orgasms to unfold naturally. This is a skill anyone can practice, solo or partnered, and it can reignite desire and make intimacy feel easier, hotter, and more connected again.You'll learn: • what rolling orgasms are • how to build her arousal rhythm • how breath, depth, and movement shape the experience • how she can carry this into partnered intimacyIf you want more intimacy tips, hit Like and Subscribe.

Send us a textIn this episode, we're breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it's your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.I'm joined by Laura Desiree, creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover:✨ What exhibitionism really is ✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure ✨ Signs it might be your kink ✨ How to try it safely (solo or partnered) ✨ Tips for beginners, from mirror work to first-time eventsIf you've ever been curious about being watched—or just want to understand the psychology behind it—this is your Exhibitionism 101.

Send us a textWant to be the best she's ever had… without needing a big anything? You're not alone. Most men secretly worry about size, performance, or whether they measure up to her past partners. But here's the truth:What makes sex unforgettable has nothing to do with what you were born with — and everything to do with what you do with it.In today's episode, I'm breaking down the real skills that make you her top-tier experience: ✔ rhythm ✔ pressure ✔ body reading ✔ psychological arousal ✔ confidence without ego ✔ and the technique every woman wishes more men knewIf you want deeper connection, better feedback, more confidence, and sex that she remembers… this is the episode to watch.Don't forget to subscribe for more how-to episodes every Monday.

Send us a textWhy are boyfriends suddenly embarrassing? A recent piece by Vogue titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” sparked a global reaction, pointing out that some women are now hesitant to post their partners, claim relationships publicly, or even say “boyfriend” without flinching. In this episode, I chat with sex + relationship coach Sienna Sinclair about what's really behind this trend. We explore:Why boyfriends may feel like a “brand risk” nowThe emotional labour and identity loss behind the trendWhat it says about visibility, desire & modern relationship expectationsHow to know if your hesitation is a red flag — or a signal for changeAnd how real baddies post about their menIf you've ever thought “Why do I feel weird saying ‘boyfriend' out loud?”, or you're a guy wondering why you haven't made her Gram — this episode is your answer.

Send us a textOn today's episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm answering one of the most common questions I get from men:“How do I get my partner to want intimacy again — not out of obligation, but because she actually desires me?”The truth is this: Most women don't open from direct sexual touch. They open from nervous system activation, emotional attunement, and how your hands move across their body before anything intimate happens.This episode gives you the exact four-minute blueprint for how to touch a woman so her body softens, melts, and naturally opens to deeper intimacy.You'll learn: • Why women disconnect when touched too quickly • The 3 zones that unlock feminine desire • The 4-minute sequence that warms her open • What to say to deepen trust and connection • How safety and presence create arousalThis method is for the men who are tired of feeling rejected… for the couples who miss the electricity they once had… and for anyone who wants deeper intimacy that doesn't feel forced.

Send us a textGrindr isn't just a hookup app—it's where identity, secrecy, and desire collide. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Zach Zane, author of Boyslut and the official Sex & Relationship Expert for Grindr, to talk about what's really happening on the world's most infamous app.We're diving into the truth about discreet profiles, married and “straight” men exploring in secret, and how Grindr has evolved from quick meetups to a space where love, power, and vulnerability all play out in real time.Zach also shares what bisexuality looks like inside gay spaces, how cruising culture started, and the surprising ways queer men are using Grindr to find connection, community, and even long-term partners.If you've ever wondered who's actually on the grid—and what it reveals about men, shame, and modern desire—this one's for you.Find Out More About Zach Here: https://www.zacharyzane.com/

Send us a textYou know that moment when you think she's into you… but you're not sure? Or maybe you've been with your partner for years and you're wondering—does she still want me like that?In this episode, I'm breaking down the three subtle, science-backed signs that show when attraction is real—and exactly how to respond when you see them.This isn't pick-up artist nonsense. It's real neuroscience, psychology, and connection. Because desire doesn't always use words—it shows up in breath, body language, and timing. When you know how to read those cues, you can stop guessing and start creating the kind of connection that leads to real, lasting intimacy.You'll learn: 

A family pod sees Rhys, Tim, Liam and Andy discuss winning in a circus as that clown Nathan Jones was sent back down south with his tail between his legs, crying (probably). We look in detail at a tight match that had some great performances and a brave call from the officials. We also ask where Arthur Okonkwo is in his development and where Phil Parkinson's team are overall in terms of settling into the Championship.We look James McClean's comments about moving on from Wrexham and the impact the Irishman has had on usWe also explore some pretty exciting Kop news and look at the proposed ‘purchase' of the Collier's Park training ground which Liam sheds some light on.#wrexhamafc​​ #ryanreynolds​​ #robmcelhenney​ #robmac​ #pompey #championship​​ #portsmouthfc​ #charltonathletic #cafc #addicks #wrexhamafc​ #wrexham​ #championship​ #wrexhamfc​ #wxmafc​ #wxm​ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a textYou want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most trusted voices in the pleasure product world. Together, we break down exactly how to use sex toys without making it weird, and how to turn them into foreplay that actually brings you closer.Whether your partner is hesitant, you're scared of making it awkward, or you're just tired of guessing what goes where, this episode gives you the language, the mindset, and the toy ideas to start tonight.

Send us a textIf you've ever “faked it” just to wrap things up faster — you're not alone. But what if your body could learn to create the kind of deep, full-body pleasure you've been pretending to have?In this episode, I'll show you how to train your pleasure rhythm — the real key to unlocking authentic, lasting orgasms. You'll learn how rhythm shapes connection, syncs partners physically and emotionally, and helps your body respond naturally to real sensation.I'm demonstrating it using the Kiiroo Fuse, a smart dual-stimulation vibrator with built-in touch sensors that respond to depth and pressure — helping you feel, not fake, your pleasure.✨ You'll learn: • Why rhythm is the secret to full-body pleasure • How to use breath and movement to deepen arousal • How to sync your rhythm with your partner (even long distance) • Why practicing with tech can make you better at real-life intimacyThis is about connection — not performance. When you train your rhythm, you train your body to feel again.

Send us a textIn this episode we're diving into Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe).So you finally got the invite: the group chat is buzzing, the lube is packed, and you're ready for your first play party, threesome, or poly adventure. But before you dive in, do you actually know how to keep it sexy and safe?In this episode, I'm joined by Milla Impola, condom and lube expert from ONE® Condoms, to talk about what really goes down behind the scenes — from STI safety and testing to consent, communication, and pleasure tips that make group play fun, drama-free, and unforgettable.We'll cover:How to set boundaries that keep everyone turned-on and respectedThe lube and condom combos that actually work for group playHow to stay safe without killing the moodWhat to look for in a play party (and red flags to walk away from)This isn't your high-school sex ed. It's the real-world guide to adventurous, safer, more connected pleasure.✨ Watch next: “How to Plan a Threesome (Without Making It Weird or Wrecking Your Relationship)” Here: https://youtu.be/6etkSQREj8kPlay safer with One Condoms Use Code ANNETTE15 at https://tidd.ly/3L5nrID for 15% off Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textNot all orgasms are created equally. There's a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here's the kicker: it's not about going harder or faster.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We'll cover what most people get wrong when they try to “go deep,” the science of how the body responds during arousal, and step-by-step techniques to help your partner experience more intense, unforgettable pleasure.This is part two of last week's episode on how to read her body—but this time, we're going deeper. Literally.✨ What you'll learn: • Why “harder” isn't the answer • The science behind deeper sensation and vaginal tenting • How to use rhythm and angle to your advantage • How to read her body for real-time feedback • The one mistake that kills deeper pleasure—every time

Send us a textMost people talk about threesomes like they're either a wild fantasy or a relationship wrecking ball. But here's the truth—when done right, a threesome can deepen intimacy, build trust, and light your desire on fire.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Ally Iseman—ICF-certified relationship coach, kink-aware educator, and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure. Ally's work has been featured in The New York Times, and she specializes in helping couples explore their desires without losing their connection in the process.Together, we're breaking down how to go from fantasy to follow-through—without the jealousy, awkwardness, or aftermath you've heard horror stories about.We'll cover: 

Send us a textWe map how identical distillate aged 11 years diverges across three Beam Claremont warehouses, then score Warehouse R and taste through W and G to find the standout. Along the way we revisit Harden's Creek history and sample Golden Origins corn whiskey to clarify why used barrels change the label and the flavor.• Harden's Creek origin story and past releases• 2025 concept of same distillate across three warehouses• Warehouse R profile and full tasting with scoring• Warehouse W caramel‑chocolate tilt and softer oak• Warehouse G high‑floor intensity and longest finish• How floor height, heat, and humidity shape whiskey• Golden Origins corn whiskey and used barrel rules• Final ranking and which bottle to hunt• Community Q&A and platform updatesCheck out www.scotchybourbonboys.com for all things Scotchy Bourbon BoysMake sure that you like, listen, subscribe, and leave good feedbackMaker's Mark Private Select barrel pick pre‑sale vouchers available now, contact usWe are on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, X, TikTok, plus Apple, iHeart, and SpotifyThree bottles, one mash bill, and a masterclass in how warehouses write flavor. We put Hardin's Creek's 11-year Claremont trio to the test—Warehouse R (single-story, cool and dark), Warehouse W (five floors by the creek), and Warehouse G (a nine-floor relic)—to see how heat, humidity, and airflow sculpt bourbon at 110 proof.First, we revisit Hardin's Creek's evolving story: from Jacob's Well and Colonel James B. Beam to the 17-year tri-city series and Golden Origins corn whiskey. Then we get hands-on with a structured tasting. Warehouse R shows cherry, vanilla, and honeyed ease with a gentle oak-leather fade—dangerously drinkable and beam-true. Warehouse W shifts caramel-forward with milk-dud chocolate and a softer oak footprint, a natural match for a cigar without overwhelming the palate. Warehouse G brings high-floor energy: deeper oak, layered char, and a finish that recalls Bookers' breadth while staying elegant.We compare notes on legs, body, hug, and finish, score Warehouse R using our Barrel Bottle Breakdown rubric, and stack W and G against it to choose a bottle to hunt. Along the way we break down why floor height accelerates extraction, how creekside humidity tamps down tannins, and why used toasted barrels make Golden Origins a corn whiskey, not a bourbon. If you're curious about warehouse science, microclimates, and how “same distillate” can become three distinct experiences, this tasting flight is your roadmap.Subscribe for more deep-dive tastings, share this with a bourbon friend who loves warehouse talk, and drop your ranking—R, W, or G—in the comments. Your pick might surprise you as much as ours did.If You Have Gohsts voice over Whiskey Thief Add for SOFLSupport the showhttps://www.scotchybourbonboys.com The Scotchy bourbon Boys are #3 in Feedspots Top 60 whiskey podcasts in the world https://podcast.feedspot.com/whiskey_podcasts/

Send us a textIf she's not coming and your first thought is “she's just hard to please” — it's time to rewrite the script.Arousal isn't guesswork. It's science you can feel with your hands.In this video, I'm breaking down the real physiological signs of arousal — including vaginal tenting, pelvic floor engagement, and breath/body shifts — so you can learn to read her body like a map and build the kind of orgasm she doesn't forget.You'll learn: ✨ How to recognize when her body is opening up and ready ✋ What vaginal tenting is and how to feel it 

Apply For 1:1 Coaching with Jonathan & Blakley : https://www.digitalbarbell.com/contact-usWe're all newbies at some point, but that doesn't mean you have to make newbie mistakes. Here are 10 mistakes we see new people make:Gym Mistakes: 1 - Not doing the heavy compound lifts2 - Not using full range of motion3 - Swinging weights to go heavy vs lowering the weight to use proper form4 - Not using proper form when moving equipment around the gym5 - Doing what you like to do not what you need to doKitchen Mistakes:1 - Trying to change everything all at once2 - Eating too much “healthy food”3 - Continuing to drink calories4 - Count calories/macros too soon5 - Failing to prepareTry a free workout program on us: https://www.digitalbarbell.com/armsandabs

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Send us a textSubmission isn't weakness. It's power offered—not power lost.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive.This isn't about topping from the bottom. It's about guiding the scene with your breath, movement, and energy — without ever taking control away from your Dominant.We'll explore: 

Send us a textWhat if the key to fixing your sex life wasn't more talking… but smarter tech?Whether you're dealing with a dead bedroom, long-distance disconnect, or just feeling stuck in a sexual rut, today's episode is all about the new generation of smart sex toys designed to help couples reconnect in ways that actually work.I'm joined by Toon Timmermans, CEO and founder of Kiiroo, the company behind the groundbreaking Luxus — an interactive couples toy built to close the pleasure gap, boost intimacy, and make communication in the bedroom easier (and hotter).We're diving into: ✨ How smart sex toys are changing intimacy for real couples 

Send us a textWhat if locking it up could actually unlock better sex?Welcome to Locktober 2025, the orgasm control challenge that's helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Lilith Fox — a queer, BIPOC, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous Board-Certified Sexologist and Certified Sexuality Educator who actually practices chastity play with her partner.Together, we're breaking down: 

Send us a textWhat if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come?Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette, where we're diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity. Whether you've seen the cages popping up all over your feed this “Locktober,” or you're just curious what all the denial hype is about, this episode breaks down how to try chastity play without freaking out, fumbling it, or killing the mood.You'll learn: 

Send us a textWhat happens when kink leaves the dungeon and hits the mainstream? From TikTok tutorials on rope play to luxury fashion houses sending models down the runway in harnesses, BDSM isn't hiding in the shadows anymore. But has kink lost its edge—or finally become safer and more accessible?In this Kinktober special, I'm joined by Amanda Dames, kink educator, coach, and host of The Kink Consultant Podcast. Together we explore: ✨ How TikTok & social media helped normalize kink ✨ Why chastity & Locktober are exploding in popularity ✨ The rise of femdom, cuckolding, foot fetishes, and more ✨ Why some gatekeepers resist kink going mainstream ✨ How to safely dip your toes into kink this Kinktober—without shame

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Send us a textPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual struggle men face—yet almost no one is talking about it honestly.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Jeff Bennett, CEO of Morari, to unpack what really causes PE and explore the many solutions men can try. From lifestyle shifts and breathwork to cutting-edge sexual health tech, we dig into how you can last longer, reduce performance anxiety, and actually enjoy sex without the pressure.Because let's be real: PE isn't just about control—it's about confidence, connection, and pleasure for both partners.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why premature ejaculation is so common (and nothing to be ashamed of)The science behind PE: mind, body, and nervous systemSimple strategies you can try tonight to last longerEmerging solutions that combine technology and pleasureHow lasting longer changes not just sex, but your relationshipCheck out Mor and/or Join the research www.yourmor.com Use Code Annette25 for 25% offYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWe're told some things in the bedroom are off limits — too risky, too taboo. But the truth? Those “forbidden” moves might be the key to more trust, more intimacy, and more unforgettable connection.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm sharing 7 forbidden-ish intimacy moves that surprise, excite, and actually bring you closer. From consent contracts to mirror play to controlled pauses, these science-backed techniques turn taboo into trust.This is also your Kinktober primer

Send us a textIn this episode of the Riffs and Rhythms Podcast, Paul and Kevin recover from our 100th episode show, our first livestream. If you missed it, we also streamed this episode on our Patreon channel. If you like what we do, you can support the podcast by becoming a Patreon member. https://www.patreon.com/RiffsnRhythmsPodcastThis week:Trey from the Ghost on the Aux dropped by and hangs with usWe go through the Riff or Rhythm song review with TreyWe talk about the upcoming Treasure Coast Blues Society Jam featuring Dave Scott and the Reckless Shots.

Episode Highlights With CourtneyWhy this conversation is so important right now, and why 74% of adults are obese or overweight and over 50% of kids areNon-alcoholic fatty liver disease didn't even exist decades ago, and it's now rampantHer own journey into health and wellness The biggest offenders and contributors to why we're seeing this drastic rise60% of Americans' diets are coming from ultra-processed foodsThe real problem with food dyes and the sneaky places they're hidingLinks between food dyes and behavioral issues, cancer, and why most countries have banned themWhy glyphosate is such a big problemMisleading food labeling and the illusion of choice The real deal on vegetable oils and how these are impacting our food supply Look at what has changed so much in the last 50 years in our food supply- our genes don't change that fast20% of Americans' calories come from seed oilsThe role of big agriculture and government subsidiesUnderstanding GMOs and how they impact usWe're only as healthy as our soil is Count chemicals, not calories- why we are overfed and under nourished Two great films on this: Common Ground and Kiss the Ground Resources We MentionHer InstagramRealfoodology - WebsiteRealfoodology - PodcastCommon Ground DocumentaryKiss the Ground DocumentaryMy Health Forward - Regenerative Farms

Dolce Glow, founded by celebrity tanning artist Isabel Alysa, is a clean, luxury self-tanning line that blends beauty with wellness. Isabel's journey began with her own confidence boost after her first spray tan, which inspired her to dedicate her career to helping others feel radiant in their skin. Raised in foster care and leaving home at 17 with only a backpack, she turned resilience into a driving force, eventually working with stars like Kim Kardashian, Jennifer Lopez, and Selena Gomez. In 2021, she launched Dolce Glow, which has since expanded into Nordstrom, Ulta, and QVC. Most recently, she introduced Sunnee BaeSkin in 2025—a skincare-first tanning line infused with marine-powered ingredients and designed to be more accessible to a younger audience. Beyond her brands, Isabel created the Dolce Glow & Grow Summit to mentor and empower aspiring beauty entrepreneurs. Her story is one of grit, vision, and the belief that beauty can transform both confidence and lives.In this episode, Isabel also discusses:Surviving neglect, overcoming abuse, and finding strengthThe importance of mental health in achieving successFrom instagram DM's to spray tanning Kylie JennerThe power of organic product promotionBuilding two brands and doubling her customer baseThe confidence a great spray tan can build (and no, you don't have to be orange)Spray tan education and continuing to teach across the USWe hope you enjoy this episode and gain valuable insights into Isabel's journey and the growth of Dolce Glow & Sunnee BaeSkin. Don't forget to subscribe to the Glam & Grow podcast for more in-depth conversations with the most incredible brands, founders, and more.Be sure to check out Dolce Glow & Sunnee BAEskin at www.dolceglow.com, www.sunneebaeskin.com and on Instagram at @dolceglow & @sunneebaeskinRated #1 Best Beauty Business Podcast on FeedPostThis episode is brought to you by WavebreakLeading direct-to-consumer brands hire Wavebreak to turn email marketing into a top revenue driver.Most eCommerce brands don't email right... and it costs them. At Wavebreak, our eCommerce email marketing agency helps qualified brands recapture 7+ figures of lost revenue each year.From abandoned cart emails to Black Friday campaigns, our best-in-class team manage the entire process: strategy, design, copywriting, coding, and testing. All aimed at driving growth, profit, brand recognition, and most importantly, ROI.Curious if Wavebreak is right for you? Reach out at Wavebreak.co