Sales For The Nigerian Wedding Industry

The Amateur Trap: Protecting Your Brand Reputation When Hiring Fresh Graduates

Why They Aren't Picking Up: Solving the Value Gap in Business Calls

The Why Factor: How to Uncover Your Customer's True Motivation

Claiming Your Digital Identity: A Guide for Small Business Owners

Complex Sales vs. Simple Sales: Setting Realistic Trial Periods

"How Much Business Will I Get?" Why Success is Your Responsibility, Not Mine

The Business Transition Blueprint: From Finding an Idea to Mastering Sales Communication

The Art of the Courtesy Visit: Why Face-to-Face Still Wins

21 Years of Sales Mastery: Lessons in Systems with Mr. Femi

How to Shorten Your Sales Cycle and Close Deals Faster

Why Your WhatsApp Messages Are Being Blocked: The Truth About Business Spam

Networking for Growth: Why Your Business Intro Isn't Working

I was catching up with a former client recently, a professional in the real estate space and I noticed something that a lot of you are probably struggling with right now. He was spending all his energy trying to convince people why they should buy property. He was running from pillar to post, trying to explain the benefits of real estate as a hedge against inflation to people who hadn't even expressed an interest.Here is the cold, hard truth: If there is no need, there is no sale.When your entire strategy is based on convincing people to do something they dont already want to do, you are making your life miserable. Your sales cycles become incredibly long, people start ghosting you because you've become a nuisance, and your self-confidence takes a hit because your closing ratio stays in the gutter.I've been recording this podcast for seven years, over 1,500 episodes directly into my phone. People still try to sell me audio production services. They haven't realized that I don't have a need, so there will never be a sale.The proper way to sell is to stop looking for who to convince and start looking for the convinced.Find the people who are already using their own two lips to say, "I need a house," or "My audio quality is terrible." When you talk to people who already have a need and a sense of urgency, the conversation changes. You aren't begging for a sale anymore; you are helping them decide that you are the best person to help them. Selling is hard enough. Don't make it harder by chasing people who aren't in the market. Stop trying to "convince" and start looking for the people who are already ready to take action.

​Are you tired of feeling like you're "chasing" your clients? In Nigeria, when we talk about follow-up, it often sounds like desperation. We're calling Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, hoping something sticks because we're afraid of losing the deal. But here is the truth: if you are in the follow-up game, you are already on the back foot.​In today's episode, I'm breaking down the difference between follow-up and follow-through.​Follow-through happens when you and your prospect have a prior commitment. It's about securing an advancement before you even hang up the phone. Stop accepting "call me next week" as an answer. Which day next week? What time? What exactly are we discussing? When you have a specific date and time locked in, you aren't a pest; you're a professional project manager just keeping the deal on track.​I also dive into the "breathing room" rule:​Simple Sales: If it's an affordable, quick product, back-to-back calls are fine. Don't let them forget the Indomie or the laptop bag!​Complex Sales: If you're selling real estate, software, or infrastructure, let them breathe. Calling every day for an expensive deal looks desperate.​Stop being a "leech" and start leading the conversation with confidence. Use your calendars, set your reminders, and let's turn those "chases" into professional partnerships.

If you've been following this podcast, you know we are obsessed with one thing: revenue. We're always calling for the money to come, and were usually focused on how to find that next new customer.But today, I want to talk about something that often gets lost in the hustle - customer retention!We spend so much time, energy, and money on ads and networking to bring people through the door. But what happens once they are inside? If you provide sloppy service or miss your deadlines, you are essentially pouring sand in your own Garri. You're forcing yourself to start from scratch every single year, hunting for 80 new clients instead of starting with a loyal base of 80 who already trust you.In service-based businesses and consulting, you are the product. Unlike a restaurant where people might forgive slow service because the food is incredible, in our world, if you are sloppy with your time, you tarnish your reputation. Once that reputation is gone, its hard to get back. I've seen it happen where people talk behind your back and warn others not to work with you. Being a professional isnt just a title; its a practice. It means being crystal clear about your deliverables and your timelines. Don't just take the money and disappear. Set expectations, provide updates, and hit your marks. Especially now, when the economy is tough and fuel prices are hitting 77k a tank, you cannot afford to lose the customers you already have.Hold your clients close. Be professional. Make it easy for them to refer their friends and family to you. That is how we keep the money coming in, month after month, year after year.If you want to chat more about building your business or staying professional in a tough market, send me a WhatsApp message at 08064662140. Lets keep that revenue growing!

Hello everyone! Im coming to you today from a very full, very noisy house. Its a public holiday here, the kids are watching cartoons, and the energy is high, but the show must go on! Today, I want to talk about a trap I see so many small and medium-sized businesses falling into: Brand Advertising. We all see the big players like Coca-Cola and Mercedes-Benz running beautiful ads that dont necessarily tell you to "buy now." They've been doing this for over 50 years to stay top-of-mind. But if you are a small business looking for Naira and Kobo today, copying them is a massive mistake. When youre starting out, you need Revenue-Based Advertising. You need a clear call to action, something that makes people download a lead magnet, slide into your DMs, or click "buy." Brand advertising without a massive, sustained budget is just throwing money away. Zuckerberg will gladly take your cash, but if you stop after two months because you aren't seeing immediate sales, you've gained nothing.We also have to talk about Targeting Criteria. Your ads are only as good as the instructions you give the algorithm. I recently saw a Nigerian tech company running ads to show in Ghana and Kenya when they weren't even set up for cross-border payments! That is pure waste!If you sell human hair, dont show your ads to bald men. If youre based in Lagos and your shipping costs make you uncompetitive in distant cities, tighten your geography. Don't let your "ad guy" make all the decisions. Sit down, look at the Word doc, and check the targeting. Are you reaching the right sex, the right location, and the right interests? Using "lookalike audiences" based on people who actually watched 75% of your video is much smarter than targeting random website visitors who bounced after two seconds.Stop the "start-stop" cycle and start targeting for revenue. If you need help looking over your sales process or your ad frameworks, you know where to find me!

It is midnight, the kids and my wife are finally asleep, but I couldnt go to bed without sharing this. Ive been talking with a salesperson, lets call her "Cinderella", who is stuck in a trap that many of you are currently in. Shes selling technical equipment, and every time a customer tells her shes "too expensive," her first instinct is to drop the price. She went from 5.5 million down to 3.9 million, and guess what? The client still hasn't bought. If price was the only issue, that deal would have closed a long time ago. The truth is, we are living in an era of hyper-competition. Anyone can spend three weeks on YouTube and pretend to be an expert. Anyone can buy products direct from China or Europe. The product is no longer the distinguishing factor YOU ARE!When a customer tries to push you down on price, you must go up on your expertise. Dont just roll over. Push back. Ask to see the competitors quote. Use your experience to show them where the other guy is cutting corners. Distinguish why you are different and educate them on why you are better. Whether you are selling solar panels, keyboards, or consulting services, you aren't just selling "stuff." You are selling your education, your certifications, and your years of experience.Stop cheating yourself out of the profit and self-respect you deserve. Stop selling products and start selling your expertise.

Hey everyone, Im back! You might hear some basketball and school noise in the background of todays episode, but I couldn't wait any longer to get this message out. Ive been away for a few days migrating everything to my new device, a massive 8-inch "phablet." My wife and kids think its hilarious that Im holding a tablet to my face to make calls, but honestly, with my eyesight changing as I get older, its exactly what I needed to see clearly!Im recording this right now directly into that device to prove a point: you do not need the perfect camera, the expensive microphone, or the latest high-end phone to start your content marketing journey. Over the last seven years and more than 1,500 podcast episodes, I have used every kind of device imaginable from old-school Nokias to iPhones and Samsungs.Stop overthinking it. If you want to grow your business and attract paid speaking or consulting gigs, just start with what is currently in your pocket. Your audience doesn't care about your fancy gear; they care about your message. The most important thing is your content calendar, knowing who you are talking to and what questions they have.Time is your greatest asset, and you are wasting it by waiting for the "perfect" setup. Whether its a podcast, a LinkedIn post, or a YouTube video, just begin. If you've been waiting for a sign to take the leap, this is it. Get up and get going!

If you're a founder, a CEO, or a professional salesperson and you're feeling frustrated because your leads seem "unserious," I need you to hear this: Most of them ARE unserious. We have this wrong expectation that if we talk to 100 people, 50 or 60 should buy. But look at the data - depending on who you ask, only about 3% to 7% of people are actually "in market" and ready to take action right now. That means over 90% of the people you meet are just browsing or curious. Stop being shocked by this! Its the nature of the game.Your primary job isn't to "convince" everyone to buy; its to figure out who is actually serious. And no, giving a discount isn't the magic fix. Discounts often just devalue your product and hurt your commission. A discount only works when you're talking to a qualified buyer who already has a sense of urgency.So, how do you fix your sales process? You stop selling price and start discovering value. You cant sell value using your own yardstick; you have to find out what the customer actually cares about. This requires quality, in-depth conversations. Go back to the "toasting" stage of dating. How did you get to know someone? You asked open-ended questions. Use the "Five Ws and an H": Who, Why, What, Where, When, and How. Instead of just asking technical specs, ask why they want to take action now or when they need the solution in place.When you ask the right questions, the information will just "vomit" from their mouth, giving you the levers you need to actually close the deal.Stop complaining about "unserious" customers and start having better conversations.

Yesterday on the radio show, I had a really interesting conversation with a caller named Stanley about something every single one of us needs to master if we want to sell well: our USP.Whether you call it a Unique Selling Point, a Unique Selling Proposition, or as our American friends say, a Unique Value Proposition, it's the key to your business growth.Are you just guessing why people do business with you? For a long time, I was! Back when I was in the event space, I told everyone to hire me because I didn't use Photoshop. I thought that was my "thing." But after I actually sat down and talked to my clients, I discovered they didn't care about the Photoshop. They hired me because of my professional attitude. I had been wasting time marketing the wrong thing!You owe it to yourself to know your USP with your "full chest" so you can say it confidently without stuttering.When you know exactly why you're different, you can put those exact words on your billboards, your flyers, and your social media.How do you find it?1. Stop the guesswork.2. Talk to your customers. Don't just text them; have a real conversation. Thank them for their business, make sure they're happy with your work, and then ask: "What is it that you like about doing business with me?"3. Listen for the "gems." When a bride told me I was the only vendor she didn't have to worry about, that became my authority. I could tell future clients that I was the proactive one they wouldn't have to chase.If you're like Stanley and you're lucky enough to have too many reviews to count, don't get overwhelmed. Use AI to do the heavy lifting. You can use Google Gemini or even the Meta AI tool right there in your WhatsApp inbox.Copy and paste those reviews, give the AI some context about your business in Abuja or Lagos, and ask it to distill your USP for you.Don't be proud, be humble enough to listen to the feedback, even the bad stuff. That's where the "real koko" is.

Hey everyone, are you tired of chasing prospects who never actually buy? We've all been there spending weeks talking to 20 people only to find out 19 of them were just "curious" or doing research. If you want a "heavy" bank account instead of an "anorexic" one, you need to change how you filter your leads and talk to potential customers and clients.We talk a lot about the BANT framework "Budget, Authority, Need, and Timeline", but theres a missing piece I see most salespeople forget: the "Why."Asking someone when they want to start is a great first step. But if you don't ask why they chose that date, you're flying blind. Knowing the "why" is what gives you the confidence to follow up with your "full chest." Its the difference between being a professional who respects a client's calendar and being a pest who's just chasing a month-end quota.Think about the example of "Cynthia" I shared. Because she knew her client's family was relocating in September, she could push for that deposit with authority. She wasn't guessing; she was helping them meet a real, personal deadline.Don't just stay on the surface. Dig deeper. Ask why. It turns selling into a creative endeavor and, more importantly, it gets results eventually.

I see it all the time. A business owner is struggling, sales are down, the "vibe" is off, and the bank account is looking thin. Suddenly, they get a "brilliant" idea: This business is just too hard. I'm going to start a new one! Ill move from soap making to cashew farming, or from corporate gifting to web design.I had to be blunt with "King David" (the subject of today's podcast episode, but not his real name) when we discussed his familys situation: Its not going to work.The truth is that most business failures aren't caused by the industry; they are caused by fundamental flaws in how you operate. If you don't know how to target the right customers, if you lack a framework for business conversations, or if you don't have the courage to ask for the deposit and close the deal, those problems will follow you. You can change the product, but you're still the same salesperson. If you couldn't close a deal for a coffee mug, you won't magically be able to close a deal for a website or a piece of real estate.Beyond the skills, there is the "Learning Curve" to consider. When you've spent years mastering the beauty and soap industry, you have specialized knowledge. Jumping into cashews means starting at zero. You have to learn everything from soil types to harvesting and new regulations. That gap between starting and reaching profitability is a long, dangerous road.My advice remains the same: Build one house until it is strong enough to stand on its own. Don't try to be a "jack of all trades" when your first trade is currently underwater. Fix your unit economics, improve your cash flow by selling your way out of the hole, and master the art of the close.Once that business can run without you needing to be there 247, then you can think about the next venture.Don't carry old flaws into new enterprises. Fix the foundation first.

Hey everyone, I recently had a deep dive with a listener I'll call "King David" (not his real name). He's the firstborn son stepping into his family's beauty products business, trying to help his father, "King Solomon" (also not his real name) navigate a tough season. Like many of you, David's first instinct was to ask: How do we raise capital effectively and efficiently?I had to be frank with him: In todays climate of hyperinflation, there is no such thing as "cheap" money from banks or lenders. If you're looking for low-cost funding, you have to look toward grants and the best way to find them is by using the AI tools already on your phone. Whether its Gemini or even the Meta AI right inside your WhatsApp, you can use specific, detailed prompts to uncover grants tailored to your exact industry and location.But heres the bigger secret: You can't just throw money into a leaky bucket. If your business isn't currently viable or your pricing (unit economics) is off, more capital will just disappear. The real solution? Sell your way out. In this episode, we discuss:   The AI Research Hack: How to use long, contextual prompts to find funding opportunities.   The "Past & Current" Strategy: Why your best source of immediate revenue is the contact list already in your father's/ business phone.   Fixing the Leak: Separating personal and business accounts to stop cash management issues.   The 80% Rule: How to handle credit and payment terms so you never lose your leverage.Reviving a business is hard work, but with the right strategy and a bit of "reasoning" from AI, you can turn the tide. Listen in and lets get those businesses growing again!

In this final installment of our three-part series, we dive deep into the world of troublesome clients and the traps even experienced sales professionals like "Fresh Prince" (not his real name!) fall into. We look at the "quote-quote-quote" game where you send multiple invoices only to hear its "too expensive" and why this happens when you fail to use a proper conversation framework.I break down the BANT framework (Budget, Authority, Need, Timeline) as a simple mental map to qualify prospects before you ever hit "send" on a PDF. We discuss why money conversations must start with your mouth, not an invoice, and why "unprincipled concessions" are killing your profit margins and your status as a professional. You'll learn how to handle the "Big Boss" who offers "exposure" or "promotion" in exchange for a lower price, and why your greatest security in sales isn't closing one big deal, its prospecting. We wrap up with a secret trick: the absolute best time to pick up the phone and hunt for new business is immediately after you've collected a big commission, while your confidence is at its peak.

Welcome back to part two of our three-part series on tackling poor sales performance. If you're an employee or salesperson struggling to hit your monthly targets, you're in the right place.Today, we're continuing our case study with "Fresh Prince," (not his real name) who sells roofing sheets in Lagos. He's been worried because he hasn't closed a deal in three months, but as we explore in this episode, whether that's actually "bad" depends entirely on your sales cycle.I break down how sales cycles vary wildly from five minutes for a Bluetooth keyboard to several weeks for a car, and potentially months or years for roofing and government contracts.In the residential roofing sector, a deal usually closes in two to six weeks, so if you're three months out there, we have a problem. However, for large-scale commercial projects, three to six months is standard. We discuss how to identify the Key Performance Indicators (KPIs), like site visits and meetings, that show you're on the right track even before the money hits the account.A major focus of this episode is how the way you sell is actually your biggest differentiator. I share a personal story about a roofing professional who won my family's business not through the lowest price, but through a rigorous diagnostic process.By asking the right questions about elevation and square meters, and even catching errors just by looking at a photo of the building, he established himself as an expert. I'll show you how to use your needs analysis to instill confidence and prove you aren't just a vendor, but a subject matter expert.We also get tactical with two powerful strategies: Referral Looping and T-Selling. I explain how to maximize "development clusters" or estates where multiple buildings are at the same stage. With T-Selling, I walk you through the "left-right-opposite" framework, visiting the neighbors of your current client to introduce yourself, offer free inspections, and build a local reputation. Finally, we touch on seasonality. If you're trying to sell roofing during the peak of the rainy season when wood frames are prone to warping, your lack of sales might just be the weather, not your skill.We wrap things up by looking ahead to part three, where we'll tackle how to handle those troublesome clients who always complain that you're "too expensive." Whether you're in roofing, solar, or even accounting, the principles we talk about today are designed to help you audit your process and start moving those deals forward.

I'm back to kick off a brand-new three-part series on a topic that hits home for many: dealing with poor sales performance.I recently heard from a listener I'm calling "Fresh Prince," (not his real name) a salesperson in Lagos who has been struggling to close deals for three months. It happens to the best of us, but as a "business doctor," I know we have to diagnose the system before we can find the cure. In this first part, I'm breaking down three major areas where your sales process might be breaking down:1. Targeting: Are you chasing everyone with a pulse, or are you actually talking to your Ideal Customer Profile? If you're selling roofing sheets to someone who just broke ground on their foundation today, you're way ahead of yourself.2. Advancements: A sale isn't just one big jump; it's a series of mutually agreed-upon next steps. If you aren't securing a commitment for the next meeting or a site visit, you aren't advancing, you're just talking.3. Conversation Frameworks: From building rapport and credibility to using tools like BANT (Budget, Authority, Need, Timeline), you need a roadmap for your conversations so you aren't just "freestyling."Sales isn't magic; its about looking under the hood and fixing what's broken. If you're feeling like Fresh Prince and need a detailed consultation to look at your data and your process, reach out!

Today, were diving into a real-life case study with a listener named Idara, who is building a perfume business. We had a great chat on WhatsApp about how to stop waiting for a "savior" or an expensive consultant and start using the tools already in your pocket. If you've been ignoring that colorful floating icon in your WhatsApp, youre missing out on Meta AI (or the Business Assistant).We look at how Idara used it to brainstorm professional branding and a better WhatsApp status strategy. The biggest takeaway? If you're serious about sales, you must download WhatsApp Business. Treat your profile like a digital store front, set up that catalog, fix your bio, and stop the "lazy" broadcasts.Stop making excuses about money and start using these free tools today.

Stop waiting for the perfect moment, the fancy studio, or a 2 million naira budget to finally launch that podcast. I'm telling you right now: you can start today, for free, using nothing but the phone you're holding in your hand. I've recorded over a thousand episodes on everything from iPhones to "toy" Nokia phones. You don't need crisp, professional audio to grow your business; you need exposure to new audiences and gaining affinity with them.People dont listen because you sound like CNN; they listen because your ideas have value and your voice is authentic.The real reason most of you haven't started isn't a lack of money, it's a lack of a plan. The hard work isn't the equipment; it's the content calendar. Who are you talking to? What do you have to say that is unique? If you can answer those questions, you're ready.I practiced what I preached today by launching a brand-new show called "Nollywood Unscripted." I did the research, designed the art with AI, and recorded the first episode all on my phone. Was it perfect? No. Did it start at zero listens? Yes. But I'm willing to put in the 3 to 5 years it takes to see results.Stop overthinking. Record it in one take. Don't worry about the background noise or the occasional cough. Just start. Put something concrete into the world today and see where it takes you.Thanks for listening! If you have a great idea but don't know how to build the software, Ikenga Software Factory (IKSF) is here to help.IKSF helps Nigerian founders move from "thinking" to "launching" without the usual tech headaches. Here's why you should check out iksf.ng:Lightning Speed: Get your first feature live in less than a week.Cheaper Initial Costs: Every project includes a free ".com.ng domain"  and free hosting for your entire first year.No "Tech-Speak" Required: You don't need to learn code. Just describe your idea in plain English, and they'll build it.Limited Time Offer!IKSF is looking to help 10 more founders launch before August 2026. Grab a 20% discount on your development costs by following these steps: 1. Visit iksf.ng 2. Start your project today. 3. Use code TAV or AYEDE at checkout.I want to hear about your progress! Give me a call or text (check the intro/ outro for my number) and let's get your product live!https://iksf.ng/

Today, Im sharing a real-life case study involving a client I'm working with in the solar industry. Let's call her Cinderella (not her real name). She's been crafting a high-stakes proposal to take an entire estate off the grid, and we've been refining it to make it less salesy and much more conversational.The secret sauce we are using is the SPIN selling framework: Situation: Show you truly understand their current setup. Problem: Pinpoint the specific pains they are facing. Implication: Tease out the cost of doing nothing, like the diesel trap where they might be burning 15 million naira every month. Need Payoff: Show them the promised land of energy independence and how the investment pays for itself in 4 to 5 years.I challenged Cinderella to ditch the corporate jargon. Instead of "Current energy challenge", we're calling it "The Diesel Trap". Instead of a dry "Proposed solution", we're talking about the "Path to Low-Cost Energy". Remember, sales is a conversation, not a lecture. Don't just end your presentation with a "Thank You" slide and hope they throw a checkbook at you.Suggest the next step, engage your audience by name, and ask for feedback throughout the process.Let's stop bamboozling clients and start closing deals by being relatable and easy to understand.

Are you tired of sending out proposals only to be ghosted? Are you frustrated because youre spending hours on presentations and quotations for people who don't even have the budget to buy from you?Today in the Oracles Chamber, we are talking about a senior-level shift in how you qualify prospects.I was speaking with a top-tier sales professional, lets call her Cinderella (not her real name) who was exhausted from chasing the wrong leads. My advice to her, and to you, is simple but bold: Move the money conversation to the front!Most of us start with a "Need Analysis" asking what the customer wants and how bad their problem is. Thats fine for beginners, but if you want to protect your time, you need to use the BANT framework (Budget, Authority, Need, Timeline) and lead with money and urgency.Here is the secret to doing it without scaring everyone away: Price Anchoring: Instead of saying "4.5 to 6 million," say "6 million to about 4.5 million on the low end." When you start with the higher number, the lower one sounds like a relief, not a burden. Urgency Questions: Soften the blow by asking about their timeline in the middle of the price talk. Ask, "Is this a project you're looking to start this quarter, or are you just doing research?". Get Feedback: Dont just drop a price and stay silent. Ask, "Is that beyond your budget?" or "How does that compare to the research you've done?" Their reaction tells you everything you need to know.Remember, everyone is worthy of respect, but your time is a resource that must be invested where it brings revenue.If they (potential customers) are just "browsing," its better to find out today so you don't have to chase them next week.If your "mouth is shaking" because youre new to the game, stick to the fundamentals. But if you're ready to stop the ghosting and start closing, its time to change your order. Change your pattern!

I've been having some intense conversations lately with a client in the software space, and it reminded me of a trap so many founders and entrepreneurs fall into: the Reach Trap.As a sales coach and business development consultant, I live in a world governed by revenue and conversion. But too often, I see marketing professionals high-fiving each other because they got 5 million impressions on a campaign that didn't bring in a single kobo.Let me be clear: If your advertising campaign didn't yield revenue, it wasn't a "successful" campaign! It was a waste of money.To make sure your next campaign actually puts money in the bank, keep these three things in mind: Targeting is Everything: If you're selling human hair but your ads are reaching middle-aged bald men like me, you've failed. Use demographics and psychographics to find the right people, not just the most people. Speak Human, Not "Specialist": Get rid of the jargon. Your customers don't care about your "code base" or "back-end." Speak in words ordinary people understand. Balance Awareness with Action: Reach and awareness are fine for brand building, but if you need traction or money now, you need a performance-based campaign with a clear Call to Action.Remember: Awareness is just a number. Revenue is the goal.Thanks for listening! If you have a great idea but don't know how to build the software, Ikenga Software Factory (IKSF) is here to help.IKSF helps Nigerian founders move from "thinking" to "launching" without the usual tech headaches. Here's why you should check out iksf.ng:Lightning Speed: Get your first feature live in less than a week.Cheaper Initial Costs: Every project includes a free ".com.ng domain"  and free hosting for your entire first year.No "Tech-Speak" Required: You don't need to learn code. Just describe your idea in plain English, and they'll build it.Limited Time Offer!IKSF is looking to help 10 more founders launch before August 2026. Grab a 20% discount on your development costs by following these steps: 1. Visit iksf.ng 2. Start your project today. 3. Use code TAV or AYEDE at checkout.I want to hear about your progress! Give me a call or text (check the intro/ outro for my number) and let's get your product live!https://iksf.ng/

Stop management by WhatsApp. I see it everywhere in the Nigerian business scene - founders, CEOs, and managers blasting angry messages into group chats because a project is behind.You might feel an emotional release from "ranting," but here is the truth: your team is ignoring you. They see the first two lines, close the app, and go back to their own priorities while you think you've actually done something.WhatsApp is a messaging tool, not a management tool. If you want to move the needle and achieve results, you have to stop evading the "difficult conversation." Real leadership happens one-on-one. If there is a problem: Go direct: Walk into their office or pick up the phone. Be specific: Talk to the person responsible, not the whole group. Create accountability: Agree on next steps, set clear milestones, and make sure they write it down in a diary or calendar.Don't let your business stay stuck because youre afraid to be assertive or because of in effective communication habits.

Today, I want to talk about why your business conversations are stalling and how you can maintain a forward-looking trajectory using two critical tools: advancements and scheduling.Too many of you are ending meetings with "we'll keep in touch" or "no wahala." That is not how business moves forward. An advancement is a mutual agreement between you and your potential client or investor on exactly what is going to happen next.If you don't secure an advancement every single time you talk, the chances of being ghosted or forgotten go through the roof.But securing the agreement is only half the battle you must schedule it. If you are handling more than two or three deals a month, scheduling with your brain will not work. You need an objective reminder outside of yourself, whether that is a CRM, Google Calendar, or even a physical diary.I'll admit, even I make mistakes. I recently realized I was supposed to have been in touch with someone eight weeks ago but I missed it. I had to "fall on the sword," take responsibility, and try to get that deal back on track.The reason some of you are broke today is because of the calls you didn't make and the proposals you didn't schedule weeks or months ago. If you take your foot off the gas, the other person will slack too. You must maintain the initiative. Log your calls, write down what was agreed upon, and set reminders with clear agendas so you never look unprepared.

I recently sat down with one of my students, "Cinderella," who is navigating the high-stakes solar industry where quotes often reach into the tens of millions. She was hitting a wall: prospects kept telling her, "You're double the price of your competition."If you've heard this, your first instinct might be to drop your price or get frustrated, but that is the wrong move. Selling is a highly creative enterprise, and handling objections requires a "soft touch".Here is the blueprint we discussed for mastering these price objections: Affirm, Don't Argue: Never start by being adversarial. Instead of defending your price, agree with the prospect's observation. I told Cinderella to say, "Yes, madam, that is often the case... because most other vendors are trying to save on quality, accessories, or specs." Ask for Data: Once the tension is lowered, move into investigation mode. Ask specific questions to see if the comparison is even fair. In the solar space, this means asking about KVA ratings, for instance, or the load to be powered. Educate and Distinguish: Use the data you gather to show why your price is justified. If their cheaper quote uses "roadside" cables and installers, explain why your high-quality cabling is a guaranteed solution. "Its Not by Force": Take the pressure off entirely. Tell the prospect that your goal is to make sure they aren't being taken advantage of, whether they buy from you or not. This positions you as a professional partner rather than just another salesperson.Remember, if you find these principles hard to apply to your specific industry whether it's industrial cleaning or a startup, don't forget to use AI tools like the WhatsApp business assistant or Google Gemini to help you brainstorm.And for my Nigerian founders who are tired of software headaches, check out Ikenga Software Factory (iksf.ng). They can get your product live in 7 days, and if you use the promo code TAV or AYEDE, you'll get 20% off.Stay sharp, keep thinking, and I'll catch you at the next High Table.Thanks for listening! If you have a great idea but don't know how to build the software, Ikenga Software Factory (IKSF) is here to help.IKSF helps Nigerian founders move from "thinking" to "launching" without the usual tech headaches. Here's why you should check out iksf.ng:Lightning Speed: Get your first feature live in less than a week.Cheaper Initial Costs: Every project includes a free ".com.ng domain"  and free hosting for your entire first year.No "Tech-Speak" Required: You don't need to learn code. Just describe your idea in plain English, and they'll build it.Limited Time Offer!IKSF is looking to help 10 more founders launch before August 2026. Grab a 20% discount on your development costs by following these steps: 1. Visit iksf.ng 2. Start your project today. 3. Use code TAV or AYEDE at checkout.I want to hear about your progress! Give me a call or text (check the intro/ outro for my number) and let's get your product live!https://iksf.ng/

I've noticed a major issue that is killing your business growth: you are receiving referrals - those golden introductions where trust is already implied, and you are killing the deal before it even starts.Too many of you are acting like order takers instead of consultants. When someone calls and says a former customer gave them your number, your first instinct is to just send a price list. That is the wrong way to go about it. By just sending a price list, you lose control of the conversation and practically invite the customer to ghost you.If you want to close more deals, you must: Ask the person who referred them background questions to know if the lead is serious. Call the person instead of just texting; take charge of the conversation. Drop names to use the trust that already exists between friends. Ask questions about their problems or what they are looking for to find the best solution.If youre a Nigerian founder looking to launch your product without the hassle of expensive developers, check out my friends at Ikenga Software Factory (iksf.ng). Use the code "TAV"  or "AYEDE"  for a 20% discount.Stop being an order taker and start being a consultant. Thanks for listening! If you have a great idea but don't know how to build the software, Ikenga Software Factory (IKSF) is here to help.IKSF helps Nigerian founders move from "thinking" to "launching" without the usual tech headaches. Here's why you should check out iksf.ng:Lightning Speed: Get your first feature live in less than a week.Cheaper Initial Costs: Every project includes a free ".com.ng domain"  and free hosting for your entire first year.No "Tech-Speak" Required: You don't need to learn code. Just describe your idea in plain English, and they'll build it.Limited Time Offer!IKSF is looking to help 10 more founders launch before August 2026. Grab a 20% discount on your development costs by following these steps: 1. Visit iksf.ng 2. Start your project today. 3. Use code TAV or AYEDE at checkout.I want to hear about your progress! Give me a call or text (check the intro/ outro for my number) and let's get your product live!https://iksf.ng/

Are you tired of opening your DMs or WhatsApp only to see messages that look "unserious" or "unprofessional"?If your immediate reaction is to just throw a prepackaged price list or a PDF proposal at them with the attitude of "if they're serious, theyll call back," then you need to listen closely. You are leaving a lot of money on the table. In this episode, we dive into the process of qualification - the framework for deciding which interactions, messages, and meetings are actually worth your time. Using the fictional case study of Funmi, a top-tier brand specialist, we explore how easy it is to fall for the "Small Boy" bias.We discuss: The Power of the Phone Call: How a 2-3 minute conversation can reveal if a prospect is a "person of straw" or a golden opportunity. Price Ranges vs. Fixed Lists: Why you should use ranges (e.g., "25 million to 15 million") to test budgets and watch for body language instead of just scaring people off. The Referral Network: Why you should never be a snob. Even if someone is a "small boy" today, referring them to a trusted protege builds a loyal network that brings big deals back to you later.If you want a 15-minute sales audit or need help looking at your business processes, don't be shy WhatsApp me at 08064662140.

In today's session, I'm breaking down how to sell by using ROI (Return on Investment) because if you cant show your customer how their money will yield a return in "naira and kobo," you aren't really selling.I recently sat down with one of my students, lets call her "Cinderella," (not her real name) who is preparing a major solar pitch for an upscale estate in Lagos.We used the SPIN framework "Situation, Problem, Implication, and Need Payoff" to structure her presentation.Here is the reality: her client spent 135 million Naira on diesel in just ten months. By the time we crunched the numbers, we realized her proposal wouldn't just meet their 30% savings goal; it would hit a 40% reduction in energy costs.Success begins before you even enter the room. You need to identify your stakeholders, the people who actually sign the checks and walk in armed with facts and figures.Don't waste time on "slide one"  talking about your company's board of directors; start strong by addressing the problem and showing them the "payback period" in this case, 3.5 years before the system pays for itself.Finally, I have a special message for the ladies. Sales is a beautiful profession for women because it teaches you how to command a room and lead. Whether you stay in sales or become a minister or a CEO later, those experiences are gold.

Are you tired of that "corner-corner" dance with clients? You know the one where you're expecting a "sweet" dollar payment, but instead, you get a "next week" that never comes.I recently spoke with one of my former students, "Magic Mike," (not his real name) who found himself in this exact situation with a big-ticket client, "Chief Odomegu" (also not his real name).The truth is, if your deals are stalling, its likely your fault, not the client's. You're allowing the frustration because you aren't using a framework. Here is how we fix it:Stop Freestyling with BANT: Every conversation must cover Budget, Authority, Need, and Timeline. If you don't talk money early and often, you're just wasting months of your life."As Soon As Possible" is Not a Date: When a client says "ASAP," they might mean two weeks, while you mean Friday. Don't assume. Ask the question: "Chief, when you say as soon as possible, what exactly do you mean?"The "Doctor" Mindset: A medical doctor doesn't wait for you to decide when to come back; they tell you when they expect to see you. You are the specialist. You must take charge of the process and secure concrete advancements and mutual agreements on the very next step.Don't Manufacture Urgency, Discover It: You cant force a client to move faster than they are ready, but you can work with the urgency they already have. If the Chief wants his books ready for his 70th birthday in December, use that as the anchor to keep him on schedule.Stop being a pest and start being a professional. If you focus on their priorities and their timelines, you'll never sound desperate.

Stop being tone deaf. I've been on a bit of a rant lately because I'm seeing far too many talented people blow their chances by simply refusing to listen to what their prospects are actually saying.Today in the Oracles Chamber, were looking at a case study out of Abuja. Meet "Amara Chidima," (not a real person! I made this up!) the CEO of Sentinel Wealth Partners (also a made up company). She has a successful firm with 35 employees and a newsletter packed with high-net-worth "odogwus." Her problem isn't visibility, everyone in Abuja knows her. Its conversion. She wants those newsletter readers to book high-ticket consultations with her team of advisors.Now, here is where most marketing consultants fail: They go back to their office, get their creative team together, and return with a 15-page PDF promising "viral reels" and "10,000 new Instagram followers" at a "50% special discount." Amara never mentioned followers. She never mentioned likes. She mentioned money and consultations. When you pitch something the client didn't ask for, you get ghosted, and then you wonder why "Nigerians don't appreciate good marketing" (for those of you who are marketing consultants).Contrast that with "Tunde," who does proper discovery and qualification. He hands her a three-page document titled "A Bridge from Newsletters to Consultations". From the header alone, Amara knows Tunde was paying attention.And a final word for the wise: Discounts are a virus. They make you look desperate and train your clients to never pay full price. If you focus exclusively on solving the core problem, you won't need to slash your value to get the "Yes."Stop ignoring the words people are giving you. Cure your tone deafness, focus on the specific problem, and watch your closing rate climb.

If you are an entrepreneur, a business owner, or a salesperson and you aren't using the phone as a primary tool in your "war chest," you are doing it wrong. In todays episode, Im breaking down why audio communication is your secret weapon for closing deals and moving the agenda forward.There is a clear communications hierarchy, and they are not all created equal: 1. Face-to-Face: The gold standard. You get tone, nuance, and body language. 2. Audio (Phone Calls): The next best thing. Its conversational and allows you to resolve conflicts or secure "advancements" in 3 minutes that would take 24 hours over text. 3. Video: Often less effective because people get too distracted by how they look. 4. Text (WhatsApp/ SMS): Good for quick conversations, but easily ignored. 5. Email: The absolute bottom. Low open rates, formal, and the hardest medium to close a sale in.But here is where most of you fail: The Discipline of Scheduling.I see people sending "gentle reminders" five minutes before a call or at 1:00 a.m. That is not a reminder, its an after-thought. If you are chasing money from a high-value client, you cannot control their schedule, but you can control your follow-up.My rule? Remind early and remind often.One week before: A simple "Looking forward to our meeting."Three days before: A "gentle reminder" with the specific agenda.One day before: A confirmation message to ensure you are still on course.The day of: A final "going live in 3 hours" buzz.Dont be afraid to initiate the call at the agreed time. If they don't pick up, wait 15 minutes, then propose a specific reschedule date immediately to keep the momentum.Success in business isn't just about having a good product; it's about the discipline of how you communicate. Stop being "polite" and start being professional.

Ive been podcasting for seven years and have over 1,500 episodes under my belt, yet I still get hit with generic pitches from people promising to help me "build a consistent podcast." If you did even five minutes of research, you'd know that consistency is not my problem.The reason so many of you are struggling in business and getting ghosted is that your marketing and sales are completely tone-deaf.You sit down with your creative teams to build beautiful, general proposals, but you totally disregard what the prospect actually told you they needed. I tell people my biggest problem is leveraging my podcast for paid speaking and coaching engagements, but instead of addressing that, they send me a "flash discount" on video productioneven though I've repeatedly said I dont do video.If you want to close more deals, you need to make it a habit to only show people exactly what they asked for. In sales, we call this qualification and discovery. Stop guessing and start listening. If you don't have what they want, step out of the way or refer them to someone who does.Also, a quick word on those "April only" discounts that somehow always get extended: stop it. If you say a deal ends on Friday, let it end. Otherwise, you're just training your customers to realize your scarcity is artificial, and theyll never take your deadlines seriously again.And unless you have massive inventory like Marks & Spencer, stop discounting your services. If you bring someone in at half price, they aren't going to magically want to pay full price later; they are "half-price" customers.Listen, discover, and deliver exactly what was requested. Try it for a few months and watch your bank account change.

In today's episode, we dive into a case study featuring a fictional Lagos-based logistics founder, Tunde Balogun, whose business, "Swift Logistics," is facing a common but painful problem: stagnant revenue and a burnt-out sales team.Despite working 12-hour days and churning out endless 20-page proposals, their closing rate is stuck at a measly 5%.Weve all been there chasing a massive million Naira deal for weeks, only for the client to go completely silent after receiving the quote. If you are tired of being ghosted, you need to change your approach. Before you ever send another proposal, you must use this qualification checklist:Affordability: Don't wait three weeks to find out your price is double their budget. Test a budget range early in the conversation to get immediate feedback.Authority: Stop wasting time with "desk officers" who can only say "no." Identify who has the power to say "yes" whether its the procurement manager or the business owner.Urgency: Does the prospect have a reason to move now? Whether its stock piling up in a warehouse or a fixed wedding date, you need to identify the timeline before you commit your energy.Making these changes won't double your profits overnight, but within two to three months, you will see your conversion rates climb because you are finally having quality conversations with the right people.

Weve all been there. You're busy running your business, paying rent, and managing clients when a message slides into your DM: "Hello."In Nigeria, its common to see people cut these conversations short or be rude if they think the person is a "small boy" without money. But here is the truth: how you handle these "unqualified" leads determines the future growth of your business.In my latest episode, I break down a live case study of a lead who reached out to me about generators. Even though Im a sales coach and business consultant, not a generator salesman, I used my "Discovery and Qualification" process to help him and save myself hours of useless chatting.Here are my three golden rules for navigating these conversations:1. Pick Up the Phone: Stop the endless back-and-forth on WhatsApp. A five-minute call is worth five hours of texting. It allows you to feel the person out and understand their actual needs.2. Money Conversations Early and Often: Don't wait three weeks to find out someone can't afford you. Use the "Range Technique." Give them a price range (e.g., "This project usually falls between 3 to 4 million Naira") and ask for their feedback. Their response tells you everything you need to know about the quality of the lead. 3. Be a Helpful Resource, Not a Snob: Just because someone isn't a "qualified buyer" today doesn't mean they won't be tomorrow. Small boys of yesterday become big boys of tomorrow. If you can't help them, refer them to someone who can.Stop sending price lists with 20 options that just confuse people. Engage, qualify, and treat everyone with respect because they are made in the image and likeness of God

I recently had a session with a sales team where the members were frustrated because potential customers would go silent or sound "confused" the moment they received a price quote.If this is happening to you, it is because you dont have a process for sorting seekers from buyers before you send that proposal.It is perfectly normal to run into people who are merely curious, confused, or weighing their options. However, when you give a quote to someone who isn't ready, they disappear because they've gotten the information they need and have no reason to stay engaged.To protect your time and peace of mind, you must master Qualification and Discovery.Think about my recent visit to the GAC headquarters in Abuja. I was looking at an 80 million naira GS8, looking "sweet and fresh," but I was just inquiring because I was passing by. Meanwhile, another gentleman there who didn't look nearly as "put together" was actually ready to buy a brand new car to replace his wifes totaled Mercedes.Because the salesperson only answered our questions instead of asking her own, she had no idea who the real buyer was.Your goal is to figure out who is worthy of being pursued. Before you invest hours into a quote, you need to use open-ended questions to find out:Affordability: Can they actually budget for this?Authority: Are they the actual decision-maker?Urgency: Do they have a timeline to take action now?If they aren't "red hot," don't ignore them, but don't waste your best energy there either put them into a relationship-nurturing sequence instead.Focus your primary effort on the people ready to take action today to increase your odds of closing the deal.If you want to stop the cycle of frustration and start dealing with serious folk, I can help. WhatsApp me at 08064662140 for a 15-minute sales audit or to join my WhatsApp channel.

Is your business actually growing, or are you just "seeing movement" without seeing the cash? In this episode, we dive deep into why structure and accountability are the real engines behind sustainable growth—whether you're running a neighborhood barbing salon or a high-tech biotech startup.1. The Myth of Guaranteed GrowthFirst, let's be real: there is no such thing as guaranteed growth. Business is a matter of probability and statistics; your job is to do the things that increase the odds in your favor.2. Accountability is Non-NegotiableFor cash-heavy businesses like salons or massage parlors, leaks are common if you aren't on-ground.Daily Remittance: You must reconcile your accounts daily—down to the last kobo—before anyone leaves the shop.Old-School Tracking: Use tools like carbon copy receipts or ticket systems to ensure every customer is accounted for. If a ticket is missing, you know someone is being "sharp" with your money.Log Everything: From generator run-times to the amount of fuel or reagents used, logging every expense limits theft and helps you understand your burn rate.3. Lock in Customer RetentionMost service businesses fail because they don't value customer data. If a customer spends 400k in your salon and walks out without you getting their phone number, you've made a massive mistake. Use that data for follow-ups, touch-up reminders, and holiday promos to keep them coming back.4. Incentivize Your TeamInstead of a flat salary, consider a "Base + Commission" structure. When your barbers or engineers have a stake in every "head" they cut or every milestone they hit, they stop acting like employees and start acting like partners.Thanks for listening! If you have a great idea but don't know how to build the software, Ikenga Software Factory (IKSF) is here to help.IKSF helps Nigerian founders move from "thinking" to "launching" without the usual tech headaches. Here's why you should check out iksf.ng:Lightning Speed: Get your first feature live in less than a week.Cheaper Initial Costs: Every project includes a free ".com.ng domain"  and free hosting for your entire first year.No "Tech-Speak" Required: You don't need to learn code. Just describe your idea in plain English, and they'll build it.Limited Time Offer!IKSF is looking to help 10 more founders launch before August 2026. Grab a 20% discount on your development costs by following these steps: 1. Visit iksf.ng 2. Start your project today. 3. Use code TAV or AYEDE at checkout.I want to hear about your progress! Give me a call or text (check the intro/ outro for my number) and let's get your product live!https://iksf.ng/

Have you ever been at a networking event—or even just chatting with a new connection on LinkedIn—and someone asks the dreaded question: "What do you do?"Most of us have a prepared "elevator pitch" that we just spit out and then... silence. We give a summary, maybe throw in some fancy industry jargon like "front-end developer" and then effectively shut the door on the conversation by saying something like "Have a good day."In today's episode, I'm explaining why this approach is failing you. When you just talk about yourself and stop, you have no idea who you are actually speaking to. You might be talking to a future investor, a key collaborator, or even someone who could unlock your entire destiny! (Just kidding! There's no such thing as destiny)The real goal of networking isn't just to talk about yourself; it's "Qualification and Discovery".Here is how you should handle the "What do you do?" question moving forward:Ditch the Jargon: If your mother wouldn't understand your title, simplify it.Break it Down: Don't deliver your entire Unique Selling Proposition (USP) at once. Take one small element of what you do, share it, and then immediately throw a question back to them.Keep it Flowing: By asking questions about their business and their approach, you get to figure out if this person is a potential client, a future partner, or just someone worth keeping in your circle.Stop "spitting and cutting." Start having real, back-and-forth conversations that actually lead to progress.Thanks for listening! If you have a great idea but don't know how to build the software, Ikenga Software Factory (IKSF) is here to help.IKSF helps Nigerian founders move from "thinking" to "launching" without the usual tech headaches. Here's why you should check out iksf.ng:Lightning Speed: Get your first feature live in less than a week.Cheaper Initial Costs: Every project includes a free ".com.ng domain"  and free hosting for your entire first year.No "Tech-Speak" Required: You don't need to learn code. Just describe your idea in plain English, and they'll build it.Limited Time Offer!IKSF is looking to help 10 more founders launch before August 2026. Grab a 20% discount on your development costs by following these steps: 1. Visit iksf.ng 2. Start your project today. 3. Use code TAV or AYEDE at checkout.I want to hear about your progress! Give me a call or text (check the intro/ outro for my number) and let's get your product live!https://iksf.ng/

Are you frustrated because you've been posting content for months, but your sales are still at zero? I recently addressed this exact issue for a listener named Franklin, and the hard truth is that marketing is a long-term game, especially for coaches and consultants.Many people think that posting for five months is enough to establish themselves as an authority, but in reality, building true authority takes 3 to 5 years. If you are in a high-stakes field like health or recovery, a personal story isn't enough; you need formal credentials and consistent shouting to get noticed.Here is the breakdown of why your strategy might be failing:Marketing vs. Sales: Marketing is mass broadcasting—it's shouting, "I exist!" so people know you. Sales is the one-on-one conversation where people flow with you to close a deal. If you aren't talking to people, you really haven't started your journey yet.The AIDA Model: You must move people through four stages: Attention, Interest, Desire, and Action. Most beginners fail at the first stage because they don't post consistently enough to garner attention in a busy "attention economy."The Consistency Trap: Posting once a week is effectively invisible. You need a content calendar—ideally a year's worth of topics—to ensure you never wake up wondering what to post.Stop Using "Buy Now" Ads: For high-stakes services, direct response ads often flop. Instead, run ads to a landing page, then move them into WhatsApp or a phone call. High-ticket sales happen through human connection, not just a button click.If you're struggling to pay the bills today, remember that content marketing is for your future. You must have a plan for immediate sustenance money while you build your reputation over the next few years. Don't give up—just adjust your timeline and your strategy.

Are you a Nigerian entrepreneur, founder, or mompreneur wondering why your sales conversations aren't closing? Many of us make the same mistake: we talk to potential customers without ever figuring out their timelines or their sense of urgency.I'm sure you've been there—you give a prospect space because you don't want to be a pest, only to call back a month later and hear, "Oh, sorry, I already went with someone else two weeks ago." You didn't realize they needed it "sharp-sharp"  because you didn't ask the right questions.Timelines tell you when they want to move, while urgency is that objective sign that they are ready to take action soon. For example, if you're in the solar business like my client Snow White (not her real name), asking "How soon can we come for a technical audit?" or "Is there any reason you started researching now?" can reveal if they are a serious prospect or just curious.Selling should be a conversation, not an interrogation. If you ask a question that feels too direct, don't sweat it—just apologize, empathize, refocus on how the information helps you serve them better, and then try to move the deal forward.By the way, if you're a Nigerian founder facing software bottlenecks, my guys at Ikenga Software Factory (iksf.ng) can get your product idea live in just 7 days. They offer free .com domains and hosting for a year, and you can get a 20% discount using the code TAV or AYEDE.Don't leave your sales to guesswork. Start asking those timeline questions today and put the odds in your favor.Thanks for listening! If you have a great idea but don't know how to build the software, Ikenga Software Factory (IKSF) is here to help.IKSF helps Nigerian founders move from "thinking" to "launching" without the usual tech headaches. Here's why you should check out iksf.ng:Lightning Speed: Get your first feature live in less than a week.Cheaper Initial Costs: Every project includes a free ".com.ng domain"  and free hosting for your entire first year.No "Tech-Speak" Required: You don't need to learn code. Just describe your idea in plain English, and they'll build it.Limited Time Offer!IKSF is looking to help 10 more founders launch before August 2026. Grab a 20% discount on your development costs by following these steps: 1. Visit iksf.ng 2. Start your project today. 3. Use code TAV or AYEDE at checkout.I want to hear about your progress! Give me a call or text (check the intro/ outro for my number) and let's get your product live!https://iksf.ng/

Stop playing startup! I've been consulting for a while now, and I'm seeing a worrisome trend in the Nigerian tech ecosystem. I see teams of three, four, or five people who say they have a startup, but every single one of them is in full-time employment elsewhere. When I try to schedule a meeting, everyone is busy "answering yes sir" to their bosses or going on work trips for their 9-to-5s.If you are all part-time, who is actually running the business? A startup has two primary goals: validating the business idea (product-market fit) and securing funding. You cannot achieve these on a "nights and weekends" schedule. Customer acquisition isn't something that happens by itself; it's a full-time battle. If you're only responding to procurement emails at 9:30 PM after two hours in Lagos traffic, you're not doing well with the lead.Furthermore, investors notice when there is no "skin in the game." Why would someone drop millions of Naira into your idea when you aren't even fully committed to it?I have a client who has been "playing startup" for years without even validating their core concept because they lack a full-time driver.My advice? If you can't leave your cushy job—and I get it, the streets are harsh—then you need to hire a full-time CEO. You need at least one person who is responsible for the business 24/7, someone you can hold accountable when things stall.If you stay part-time, you are sacrificing speed. While you are doing "part time", a full-time team in Kenya or down the street will outrun you and execute your idea better.Plan well, and stop moving at zero velocity!

I shared a case study today featuring Amaka Nwosu (a name I made up) and her company, Zest Way Logistics (also made up). We looked at how she might handle the "sales resistance" from a big-time retailer like Chief Okoro in Onitsha.When the Chief is skeptical about new technology, the answer isn't a fancy Harvard accent or begging for the account. Begging is a dangerous trap that puts you in a precarious position—especially for women in business—and it's simply not a good tactic.Instead, you use questions as ammunition. By asking about specific pain points—like how often Chief deals with out-of-stock inventory—you get the information you need to make a proposal that actually makes sense. We also explored the "trial close", where you offer a small "pilot" to lower the stakes and get your foot in the door.Remember! In the wise words of Jide kosoko "Nobody is in charge of your destiny". If a deal doesn't click, you move on to the next one.If you want to apply these principles to your own business, I'm offering a 15-minute sales audit. Send me a WhatsApp message at 08064662140, and let's get to work.Stay sharp, and I'll catch you in the next episode!

Stop trying to perform miracles in your business! Many of you have been reaching out lately thinking your biggest problem is that you don't know how to convince people to buy, but I have to be blunt: you cannot convince someone to do what they do not want to do.Unless you are looking to use the psychological bamboozling techniques of a fraud or a 419 scammer, you need to erase the idea of convincing from your head.In the real world of business, your job is to find people who are already properly disposed toward what you are selling. Stop giving yourself "high jump"  by talking to everyone in your network and start looking for qualified buyers—people who have a want, a need, the ability to afford your product, and a sense of urgency.When you find these people, closing doesn't just become easier; it becomes obvious.Remember these key elements for your next sales interaction:Sales is a Conversation, Not a Monologue: Stop looking for magic words to talk at people.Questions are Your Best Tool: Selling is about the questions you ask to get the other person talking about their habits and tastes.Active Listening: Pay attention to their feedback so you can align your pitch to what they actually care about.Navigate the Dynamics: Everyone starts with Sales Resistance. Your goal is to move them toward Sales Acceptance by building trust and understanding their needs.Stop talking and start listening!Thanks for listening! If you have a great idea but don't know how to build the software, Ikenga Software Factory (IKSF) is here to help.IKSF helps Nigerian founders move from "thinking" to "launching" without the usual tech headaches. Here's why you should check out iksf.ng:Lightning Speed: Get your first feature live in less than a week.Cheaper Initial Costs: Every project includes a free ".com.ng domain"  and free hosting for your entire first year.No "Tech-Speak" Required: You don't need to learn code. Just describe your idea in plain English, and they'll build it.Limited Time Offer!IKSF is looking to help 10 more founders launch before August 2026. Grab a 20% discount on your development costs by following these steps: 1. Visit iksf.ng 2. Start your project today. 3. Use code TAV or AYEDE at checkout.I want to hear about your progress! Give me a call or text (check the intro/ outro for my number) and let's get your product live!https://iksf.ng/