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Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
What does it really mean to treat your partner like a King or Queen? As Sarah and I have grown in our marriage, the concept of treating one another as a King and Queen has grown as well. At first the idea brought up our own issues with self worth, love and relationship roles. But today, we both powerfully fill our roles of King and Queen respectively, and we make it priority to not only treat one another with the utmost love and respect, but to do the same for ourselves as well. In today's episode I'm joined by my Queen, Sarah Bivens, and we dig into the topic of "how to treat your partner like a King or Queen". This is a powerful conversation for anyone who has struggled with feeling like they deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, or anyone who feels their current relationship dynamic has room for growth. For questions, comments and feedback on this episode, email me directly at matthew@matthewbivens.com or DM me on Instagram @matthew_bivens DOWNLOAD THE FREE "TRUST ACCOUNT" APP FROM THE YOURDAY BALANCE GAME Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.balancegame.ydbg iPhone: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ydbg-watch-play-discover/id1489276659 WATCH THE #1 OBSTACLE VIDEO Learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/ GET THE "HAVING IT A.L.L. BLUEPRINT" FOR DESIGNING AND LIVING YOUR GREATEST LIFE https://hia.ck.page/products/blueprint CHECK OUT SOME OFFERS FROM OUR AWESOME PARTNERS Needed: https://bit.ly/3IKmWzL - use code HIA20 to get 20% off your order or HIA100 for $100 off a Complete Plan LEAVE THE PODCAST A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/having-it-all-conversations-about-living-an-abundant/id1093257684 CHECK OUT THE ENTIRE HAVING IT A.L.L. PODCAST CATALOG https://podcast.matthewbivens.com/ GET IN TOUCH WITH MATTHEW matthew@matthewbivens.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In today's episode we speak with Dr. Sarah Buckley on the science of natural and undisturbed birth. Dr. Sarah Buckley is the author of the best selling book Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering, the author the report Hormonal Physiology of Childbearing (January 2015), and all around natural childbirth expert. We are honored and grateful to have Dr. Sarah Buckley join us on the Doing It At Home Podcast for many reasons. To start, her book "Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering: A Doctor's Guide to Natural Childbirth and Gentle Early Parenting Choices" was a huge influence on us during our pregnancy. Sarah (our Sarah...Sarah Bivens that is) started reading Dr. Buckley's book while we were still planning for a birth with an OBGYN in a hospital. We learned about Dr. Buckley from her appearances in a DVD series called "Happy Healthy Child" (another resource we highly recommend and link to in the show notes.) Dr. Buckley's extensive research and evidence based information on pregnancy and birth, along with her own accounts of her 4 home births left quite the impression on us. It got the wheels turning and prompted us to think about the elements we wanted in our birth. Overtime we found that the best way to experience all of that would be at home. So we're very grateful to Dr. Buckley and the work that she does, because it's like she's been a part of our journey. Dr. Buckley integrates what would seem like differing philosophies at first glance: in the mindset of a medical background, training, practice and care, and natural, holistic, unassisted, physiological birth. Dr. Buckley talks about physiological birth as the type of birth that's in alignment with how the body is designed to work. And low tech models of care support this process. Home birth is an ideal situation to allow for this. We also talk about the core requirements for birth and what a woman needs to feel private, safe and unobserved. And if you didn't know or fully understand the hormonal cocktail that a woman experienced in natural birth, you will by the end of this episode. Want to know what ecstatic birth is? Listen to this episode. One of the key takeaways here is the potential to reclaim power in the experience of birth. That with a healing birth, we can heal the earth! Links From The Episode: SarahBuckley.com Sarah Buckley on Facebook HappyHealthyChild.com Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering: A Doctor's Guide to Natural Childbirth and Gentle Early Parenting Choices by Sarah Buckley Hormonal Physiology Of Childbearing (report) Pain In Labor (ebook) Ecstatic Birth (ebook) Offers From Our Awesome Partners: Needed: https://bit.ly/2DuMBxP - use code DIAH to get 20% off your order Splash Blanket: https://bit.ly/3JPe1g0 - use code DIAH for 10% off your order Esembly: https://bit.ly/3eanCSz - use code DIH20 to get 20% off your order More From Doing It At Home: Send us your birth story: https://bit.ly/3jOjCKl Doing It At Home book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3vJcPmU DIAH Website: https://www.diahpodcast.com/ DIAH Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitathome/ DIAH YouTube: https://bit.ly/3pzuzQC DIAH Merch: www.diahpodcast.com/merch Give Back to DIAH: https://bit.ly/3qgm4r9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Steph interviews Sarah Bivens about home births. Both Steph and Elana have had home births and have shared their experiences in past episodes, but wanted to offer another story and insight into the world of home births. Sarah is the co-creator of Doing It At Home, a podcast and community helping parents to feel confident, prepared and excited for home birth. In this episode, Sarah shares her best advice for parents navigating the decision about whether or not to have a homebirth. They talk about how to approach the conversation with your partner, questions to ask providers, trusting your gut when it comes to your birth location, and even ‘must have' home birth essentials. Topics Discussed: Reasons moms choose home birth How to know if home birth is the right choice Navigating the decision with anxious partners Questions to ask providers How a home birth can positively impact motherhood Show Notes: Watch Happy, Healthy Child documentary Learn more about the Splash Blanket Listen to the Doing it at Home Podcast Follow Doing it at Home on Instagram Click here to learn more about Dr. Elana Roumell's Doctor Mom Membership, a membership designed for moms who want to be their child's number one health advocate! Click here to learn more about Steph Greunke, RD's online nutrition program and community, Postpartum Reset, an intimate private community and online roadmap for any mama (or mama-to-be) who feels stuck, alone, and depleted and wants to learn how to thrive in motherhood. Listen to today's episode on our website Sarah Bivens is the co-creator of Doing It At Home, a podcast and community helping parents to feel confident, prepared and excited for home birth. DIAH started in 2016 when Sarah was pregnant with her first child and switched from a hospital birth to a home birth halfway through the pregnancy. Before becoming pregnant, both Sarah and her husband Matthew worked as life coaches. Taking their previous experiences and marrying it with their awakened passion for home birth, they created the ultimate space for home birth empowerment. DIAH includes a podcast, community, resources and lifestyle programs. Sarah currently lives in Marietta, Georgia with Matthew and their daughter Maya and is pregnant with her second child. You can learn more about DIAH at www.diahpodcast.com or www.instagram.com/doingitathome This Episode's Sponsors Enjoy the health benefits of PaleoValley's products such as their supplements, superfood bars and meat sticks. Receive 15% off your purchase by using code DOCTORMOM at checkout or head to paleovalley.com/doctormom Discover for yourself why Needed is trusted by women's health practitioners and mamas alike to support optimal pregnancy outcomes. Try their 4 Part Complete Nutrition plan which includes a Prenatal Multi, Omega-3, Collagen Protein, and Pre/Probiotic. To get started, head to thisisneeded.com, and use code DOCTORMOM100 for $100 off your first 3 months of Needed's Complete Plan! Active Skin Repair is a must-have for everyone to keep themselves and their families healthy and clean. Keep a bottle in the car to spray your face after removing your mask, a bottle in your medicine cabinet to replace your toxic first aid products, and one in your outdoor pack for whatever life throws at you. Use code DOCTORMOM to receive 20% off your order + free shipping (with $35 minimum purchase). Visit BLDGActive.com to order. INTRODUCE YOURSELF to Steph and Dr. Elana on Instagram. They can't wait to meet you! @stephgreunke @drelanaroumell Please remember that the views and ideas presented on this podcast are for informational purposes only. All information presented on this podcast is for informational purposes and not intended to serve as a substitute for the consultation, diagnosis, and/or medical treatment of a healthcare provider. Consult with your healthcare provider before starting any diet, supplement regimen, or to determine the appropriateness of the information shared on this podcast, or if you have any questions regarding your treatment plan.
Fun fact about me:I had a home birth.Well, I had two home births.And a huge catalyst for finding comfort and validation in our choice to do so was the Doing It At Home Podcast.Now it has come full circle for me and I was able to interview the one and only Sarah Bivens, one of the founders of the DIAH brand. Of course, Sarah and I talk about the story behind the podcast and how it has evolved over the years, but we also get to know her on a level we haven't seen on the DIAH show.Sarah opens up on:Spirituality, sex and intimacy energyOvercoming depression and blaming life for pain and sufferingBalancing family, the podcast, and her full time joband more!I am so in love with all the behind-the-scenes Sarah opened up about, and I know you will be too!Connect with Sarah:WebsitePodcastInstagramI look forward to getting to know you better so please subscribe, rate and review, and connect with me on Instagram! (@adrikeefe)Head over to www.AdrianaKeefe.com for more information, free Human Design body chart, tools and tips, and more!Heartfül of Kerøsene - Jeff II https://youtu.be/ZbyFsGMjfRgCreative Commons AttributionFree Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/al-heartful-of-kerseneMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/y-tbE2FIA1o
Do you feel the resentment of all the ways you are needed as the person who is keeping your baby alive with milk from your body? Does it feel like you can never get away or catch a break? Do you find yourself automatically pulling your shirt up every time your baby cries and feeling angry about it?In this episode Sarah Bivens of The Doing it at Home Podcast shares how she is constantly learning to ask herself if she needs to change the way she is approaching motherhood OR change her attitude toward it. We hear her talk about how she set her intentions around birth and how that positively impacted her breastfeeding experiences, even when she did not explicitly educate herself on this topic. She also shares how she is approaching preparation for her new baby 6 years after becoming a mom for the first time.To get individualized lactation support from me, Lo, go here.To hear my story of home birth on The Doing it at Home Podcast listen here.Head to Apple Podcasts or Spotify for more Doing It At Home episodes!Head to Apple Podcasts or Spotify for more Milk Making Minutes episodes!Learn more about the Doing it at Home Resources on their website!Join The Milk Making Minutes Facebook Group to talk about the structural barriers that make breastfeeding so difficult and work together to chip away at each one.To buy books about pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, and parenting, and to support the show while doing it, go to my bookshop!Follow me on IG @milkmakingminutespodcast to laugh about breastfeeding and to see photos of guests!
Matthew & Sarah Bivens from Doing It At Home have over 400 podcast episodes published on their show sharing stories, anecdotes, and interviews all about the homebirth expereince. But more than just an experience, "homebirth" is a mindset that puts you and your relationship at the center of the conversation as the true "home" you take with you wherever you go. Listen in this week as we cover: - Matthew & Sarah's 7-year journey in the homebirth space - How their ongoing 2nd pregnancy has been such a different journey than their 1st 7 years ago - Family focused care and the homebirth mindset - Your relationships with yourself and your partner are where the real work begins - Deepening your roots and building bridges of connection - and so much more! Reach out to them directly at: Doing It At Home book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3vJcPmU DIAH Website: https://www.diahpodcast.com/ DIAH Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitathome/ ***** Like what we have to say? Subscribe to the channel, like this show, and come see us over at the Nest and Welcome To Fatherhood! For more information on Katie DaMota and Nest Family Resource please visit: https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com For more information on David Arrell, his book Welcome To Fatherhood, and his other coaching and consulting offerings please visit: https://www.welcometofatherhood.com ***** Podcast music credit for The Road Ahead: Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/zoo/the-road-ahead License code: YQSX0VF4MX6S3N8K Photo credit: Matthew & Sarah Bivens
In this episode I interview Sarah Bivens. Sarah shares about her decision to have a home birth with her first baby and how that has led to the work that she and her husband do raising awareness about home birth through their business 'Doing it at home'. Find Sarah: IG - https://www.instagram.com/doingitathome/ Website - https://diahpodcast.com/ Podcast - https://diahpodcast.com/listen/ Find Holly: Community – https://www.facebook.com/groups/241111264443799 Website - https://rosebudwellness.com/ IG - https://www.instagram.com/rosebud_wellness/ Shop - http://rosebudwellness.com/shop/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wombwisdom/message
When it comes to giving birth, most people think about hospitals. However, has homebirth come across your mind? For Sarah and Matthew, halfway through their pregnancy, they did. And this experience turned them into advocates of powerful and transformational births. Listen as they talked about the ways that their preparations differed - Sarah prepared herself emotionally and mentally while John prepared himself physically and logistically. They also touched on the importance of preparing themselves as a couple for parenting two children at once. Finally, they shared the importance of sexuality and intimacy as partners. Sarah and Matthew Bivens are the creators of Doing It At Home, a platform for empowering home birth content and community. The Doing It At Home podcast started in 2016 when they were pregnant with their first child and switched from hospital birth to a home birth halfway through the pregnancy. Both balanced lifestyle coaches prior to becoming parents, Sarah and Matthew have taken their past coaching experience and married it with their passion for home birth to make DIAH the ultimate space for home birth empowerment. Together since 2012, Matthew and Sarah currently live in Marietta, Georgia, with their daughter Maya and are pregnant with their second child, due later this winter 2022. In this episode: Sarah and Matthew share their story of how they switched from planned hospital birth to a homebirth halfway through their first pregnancy and how this led to them becoming advocates for home birth. It is important to be open to questioning one's beliefs about birth. This helped Sarah and Matthew make the switch to doing it at home. Sometimes, the birth partner can be completely wiped at the end. It is important for your partner to be there for you fully during labor as much as possible. Sarah discusses her experience of having two pregnancies, one of which was unplanned and difficult. It may take time to reach a place of trusting the process, but it is important to honor your own timeline. The couple shares their experiences preparing for their second home birth, noting that the preparation process has been different due to the addition of a second child. Bringing in more sexuality and intimacy into the relationship is in alignment with couples. It is incredibly significant and is a component of health, just like physical and mental health. Key Takeaways: Be open to questioning your beliefs about birth Address your fears with intentionality Have trust in divine timing through the difficult process Allow yourself to trust the process in order to focus on other things Every birth requires a different type of preparation Establish rituals to support sexuality and intimacy in your relationship Tweetable Quotes: “Sarah and I are open to questioning why we do things and examining things in different ways... That allowed us and made it easier for us to say, ‘You know what, maybe the hospital isn't for us.'... Let's get intentional about what we want our birth vision to be.” - Matthew Bivens “When you make choices like your birth, that's just the beginning, that's the tip of the iceberg because then you have a human that you're making choices for… People have a lot of opinions on that, too. But it was mostly just around the safety, or the question of the safety. And it really came from uneducated places of just fear, and you know, masked in care and love.” - Sarah Bivens “We very much believe that sexual energy is incredibly significant. You know, lifeforce energy, and that it has the ability to heal has the ability to create to manifest. And so not only to create new life but to create abundance on so many different levels.” - Matthew Bivens Connect with Sarah and Matthew!Website: https://doing-it-at-home.teachable.com/ Podcast: https://diahpodcast.com/ Book: https://www.amazon.com/Doing-At-Home-Confident-Experience/dp/B098GVJ9KL Connect with Debra! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/debra.pascalibonaro Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471/ Visit https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/ for more information on how to have fulfilling and enjoyable births. Check out Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret, the film creating buzz around the world! Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood. Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
What are your core beliefs when it comes to relationships? Your beliefs influence your thoughts and actions, and shape the results that you create. Hold onto a belief that's ineffective and not-so-powerful, and the result may be something that you don't like. In today's episode I'm joined by my Queen, Sarah Bivens, and we're diving into some big relationship myths and misconceptions that we have believed that have lead to unhappiness in our relationships. My intention with this episode is for you to be aware of the impact that your core beliefs have, and to start thinking about the beliefs that are shaping your relationships. Fill out my coaching application and set up a free consultation call with me at matthewbivens.com/apply. If you want to get in touch with me to ask questions, give feedback, or inquire about my coaching offerings, shoot me an email at matthew@matthewbivens.com.
Sarah Bivens is the co-creator of Doing It At Home, a company helping parents to feel confident, prepared and excited for home birth. DIAH started in 2016 when Sarah was pregnant with her first child and switched from a hospital birth to a home birth halfway through the pregnancy. Before becoming pregnant, both Sarah and her husband Matthew worked as life coaches. Taking their previous experiences and marrying it with their awakened passion for home birth, they created the ultimate space for home birth empowerment. DIAH includes a podcast, community, resources and lifestyle programs. Sarah currently lives in Marietta, Georgia, with Matthew and their daughter Maya. [00:04:30] - What are 3 things you want the world to know about caring for women? [00:07:28] - How do babies energetics feel when they grow up [00:11:54] - Seek to understand before seeking to be understood [00:17:12] - Your relationship to someone or something determines your experience of that person or that thing References & Links: DIAH Website (and podcast) DIAH Instagram DIAH YouTube DIAH Facebook: DIAH Books & Courses Stephen Covey's Book: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Big thanks to our sponsor! Waveblock: https://www.waveblock.com/ (Use Code “BELOVED” for 10% off) SUPPORT THE SHOW! Music by: Labrinth, Chancha Via Circuito, and Joaquín Cornejo --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/theholisticobgyn/message
In today's episode we speak with Dr. Sarah Buckley on the science of natural and undisturbed birth. Dr. Buckley is the author of the best selling book Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering, the author the report Hormonal Physiology of Childbearing, and all around natural childbirth expert. We are honored and grateful to have Dr. Sarah Buckley join us on the Doing It At Home Podcast for many reasons. To start, her book "Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering: A Doctor's Guide to Natural Childbirth and Gentle Early Parenting Choices" was a huge influence on us during our pregnancy. Sarah (our Sarah...Sarah Bivens that is) started reading Dr. Buckley's book while we were still planning for a birth with an OBGYN in a hospital. We learned about Dr. Buckley from her appearances in a DVD series called "Happy Healthy Child" (another resource we highly recommend and link to in the show notes.) Dr. Buckley's extensive research and evidence based information on pregnancy and birth, along with her own accounts of her 4 home births left quite the impression on us. It got the wheels turning and prompted us to think about the elements we wanted in our birth. Overtime we found that the best way to experience all of that would be at home. So we're very grateful to Dr. Buckley and the work that she does, because it's like she's been a part of our journey. Dr. Buckley integrates what would seem like differing philosophies at first glance: in the mindset of a medical background, training, practice and care, and natural, holistic, unassisted, physiological birth. Dr. Buckley talks about physiological birth as the type of birth that's in alignment with how the body is designed to work. And low tech models of care support this process. Home birth is an ideal situation to allow for this. We also talk about the core requirements for birth and what a woman needs to feel private, safe and unobserved. And if you didn't know or fully understand the hormonal cocktail that a woman experienced in natural birth, you will by the end of this episode. Want to know what ecstatic birth is? Listen to this episode. One of the key takeaways here is the potential to reclaim power in the experience of birth. That with a healing birth, we can heal the earth! Links from this episode: SarahBuckley.com Sarah Buckley on Facebook HappyHealthyChild.com Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering: A Doctor's Guide to Natural Childbirth and Gentle Early Parenting Choices by Sarah Buckley Hormonal Physiology Of Childbearing (report) Pain In Labor (ebook) Ecstatic Birth (ebook)
How do you move through and relate to a lot of the challenges that can come up when you make the switch to have a home birth? Today we have a unique episode. Our guest is Sarah Bivens! Usually acting as co-host, the roles got shifted up a bit when Matthew and Sarah decided to sit down and have Matthew interview Sarah on her pregnancy and birth experience. In this part 1, we walk through the decision to have a home birth (and how it wasn't very plain and simple), changing care providers, addressing challenges with friends and family around the stigmas associated with home birth and some of the preparation and envisioning for the home birth experience as first time parents. Part 2 will feature the full birth story, in a different way than we have shared it before on the podcast, since in this instance Sarah is the “guest” and Matthew is the main host. Things we talk about in this episode: first time parents, switching from a hospital birth to a home birth, breaking up with an OBGYN, finding midwives, choosing birth team members, birth prep, addressing fears and judgments around home birth Links: Happy Healthy Child: https://www.sarahkamrath.com/happy-healthy-child Our website: https://www.diahpodcast.com/ Facebook Group: https://bit.ly/3jKtIYv Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/diahpodcast/ DIAH YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGoKeBfEZ143sWU7V9I5Gdg DIAH Store: https://yoursuccessfulhomebirth.com/ DIAH Merch: ttps://bit.ly/3qhwgAe Donate to DIAH: https://bit.ly/3qgm4r9
Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
What makes a relationship work? "Common interests" is a typical answer, and for good reason. It makes sense that we need to have things in common with our partners if we want relationship success. But are there certain common interests that rise above others? And are there some common interests that are essential for relationship success? In today's episode I invite my Queen, Sarah Bivens, back on the podcast to talk about how to create real synergy in relationships, and what things you want to be fully aligned on with your partner (and what is okay for you to differ on). This is a great conversation whether you're in a relationship right now or not, because it will get you thinking about the purpose of relationships and what makes a "successful" relationship in your eyes. If you want to get in touch with either Sarah or I you can find us on Instagram @sarahmbivens and @matthew_bivens, and you can always reach me at matthew@matthewbivens.com.
Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
What are your core beliefs when it comes to relationships? Your beliefs influence your thoughts and actions, and shape the results that you create. Hold onto a belief that's ineffective and not-so-powerful, and the result may be something that you don't like. In today's episode I'm joined by my Queen, Sarah Bivens, and we're diving into some big relationship myths and misconceptions that we have believed that have lead to unhappiness in our relationships. My intention with this episode is for you to be aware of the impact that your core beliefs have, and to start thinking about the beliefs that are shaping your relationships.
Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
What does it really mean to treat your partner like a King or Queen? As Sarah and I have grown in our marriage, the concept of treating one another as a King and Queen has grown as well. At first the idea brought up our own issues with self worth, love and relationship roles. But today, we both powerfully fill our roles of King and Queen respectively, and we make it priority to not only treat one another with the utmost love and respect, but the do the same for ourselves as well. In today's episode I'm joined by my Queen, Sarah Bivens, and we dig into the topic of "how to treat your partner like a King or Queen". This is a powerful conversation for anyone who has struggled with feeling like they deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, or anyone who feels their current relationship dynamic has room for growth. For questions, comments and feedback on this episode, email me directly at matthew@matthewbivens.com or DM me on Instagram @matthew_bivens
Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
How is the state of your relationship? How about your partnership? I never used to look at the two as separate. The "relationship" included everything -- the romance, the intimacy, the day-to-day life dynamics, the household management. But for me, as my primary relationship has matured and as new things like marriage and kids have entered the picture, I now see that there's a distinction between the relationship (influenced more by the heart) and the partnership (influenced more by the mind). In today's special episode I invite my amazing wife Sarah in on this conversation, and together we talk about the difference between relationship and partnership, how ours has evolved over the years, and how we navigate breakdowns in each area. If you want to reach out, share your thoughts, offer episode suggestions, or anything else, you can reach me at matthew@matthewbivens.com or on Instagram @matthew_bivens.
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Today's episode is a rebroadcast from the Balance And Motherhood podcast where Nancy is being interviewed by Sarah Bivens. --- How do you connect your sexual intimacy and energy with business? This is the big question I asked my close friend and soul sister, Nancy. I interviewed Nancy a while back for my Orgasmic Mama project, and like the episode I published recently from my conversation with my friend Chanda, this talk was too magical and juicy not to share with you all. Nancy shares some of her story and journey, particularly around creating a 20+ year marriage, 2 children and running a multimillion dollar business. So how can orgasmic energy fuel your life and help make you that cheddar?! Listen in! Links: IG: @sexmoneyrealestate Email: SexMoneyRealEstate@gmail.com Review: SexMoneyRealEstate.com Connect with Sarah: https://www.sarahbivens.com
Sarah is a Balanced Motherhood Lifestyle Coach and Podcaster. In this episode she: -Inspires us to look at our biggest struggles as opportunities to grow. -Speaks on the importance of having the right community. - Shares practical and effective ways to get clear on your values. - How women can embrace their sexuality and use it as a means to be their best self. Enjoy the show!
Sarah Bivens has spent her adult life coaching and uplifting others, first through fitness and now in finding balance in motherhood. We talk about the wisdom she gained from her own experience of self-exploration, and how by asking yourself some key questions, you can bring in the awareness you need to become the active creator of everything you desire for your life. There are some amazing pearls of wisdom on this podcast and I am truly grateful for the conversation. Check out Sarah's offerings at https://www.sarahbivens.com. More about Sarah Sarah is a mom, wife, Balanced Lifestyle Coach, Personal Trainer, creator of The Balanced Mama Audio Series and Unleash Your Humble Badass, blogger and host of the Balance and Motherhood Podcast Huge thank you to our sponsors Best Fiends App and Motherhood Unstressed CBD! Brand Partners Use code Unstressed to save 15% with Beekeeper's Naturals Use code Unstressed to save 15% with Four Sigmatic Use code Unstressed to save 15% with Ancient Nutrition Use code Unstressed to save 15% with Bark Even more more brand partnerships at https://www.motherhoodunstressed.com
Sarah Bivens is a balanced lifestyle coach and podcaster. She helps mamas balance out the experience of motherhood with being a turned on woman. She hosts 2 podcasts: Balance and Motherhood and Doing It At Home. Sarah works with women from preconception to seasoned postpartum and empty nests, providing them with the tools and accountability they need to be their best. She lives in Marietta, GA with her husband Matthew and their daughter Maya. You can learn more about Sarah and everything she's up to on her website sarahbivens.com and follow her on Instagram @sarahmbivens.
Meet this power couple, Sarah Bivens: coach, podcaster, & amazing mama — AND — Matthew Bivens: coach, podcaster, & purpose activator. They individually and collectively help people prepare for parenthood in an orgasmic way. Sarah's mission is: To be the Badass Goddess in exquisite execution of balanced lifestyle; acknowledging and honoring my divine feminine source and owning my power to co-create, while intimately connecting to others through love, service, nurturing, and healing; exploring and being what’s possible, attuned to the abundance of the Universe and answering its call with a joyful and faithful heart that generates orgasmic and sustainable health and wealth. Matthew's mission is: To help you transform fear to love and scarcity to abundance, and I’m so committed to creating and holding the space for your greatness! In this episode, you'll hear about: Doing it at Home Podcast with Sarah & Matthew Bivens Home Birth stories & resources Having it A.L.L Podcast with Matthew Bivens Balanced Lifestyle Coaching Fasting Empowered Birth Community Kids magnify everything Communication in marriage Breakdown to breakthrough Pre-children counseling Scheduling sex Kids are our teachers Resolving conflict with kids Book Recommendation: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey Documentary: E-MOTION by Gaia Healthy relationships vs codependency Thank you, Sarah & Matthew, for giving us a lot to think about for our own personal & familial fulfillment! Be open to what they've co-created: DIAHPodcast.com SarahBivens.com + Sarah's Instagram MatthewBivens.com + Matthew's Instagram
Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
What do you REALLY know about the Having It A.L.L. podcast host, Matthew Bivens? No, this isn't an expose episode, but this is a fun conversation where the tables are turned a bit. Join us in the Season 5 opener for Having It A.L.L. as we switch things up, and hopefully you walk away having laughed, connected and learned a thing or two.
Is it ever too late to change your birth plan or mindset? What about over the years, after multiple pregnancies and births? One thing we’re big on here at DIAH is supporting your process of evolving and figuring out what works for you and your family - and that it can happen over the course of however many years and children. Enter our amazing guest in today’s episode, Sarah Bode. Sarah is a podcaster herself, host of the show “Raw As A Mother,” an author, coach, wife and mama to 4. After 3 natural hospital births, Sarah felt led towards home birth for her fourth. Her birthing journey remarkable for many reasons - like after suffering PCOS as well as holistically healing from thyroid cancer, she’s been able to birth 4 healthy children. Her third birth really influenced the choice for home birth, as it was the “most traumatizing” of her births and she felt like she had no sense of control of the experience. Sarah’s fourth birth was a paradigm shift - a reprogramming. Listen in to learn more about her story and her work. Links:Our website: https://www.diahpodcast.com/DIAH Shop: https://www.bonfire.com/store/diahpodcast/Parents on Demand Network: https://parentsondemand.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/diahpodcast/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/diahpodcastFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1904721379788084/?ref=bookmarksRaw As A Mother podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/raw-as-a-mother/id1377833776Raw As A Mother episode with Sarah Bivens: https://bit.ly/2nDz1AfSarah Bode’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahbbode/?hl=enResources Sarah Bode shared:Hypnobirthing: https://us.hypnobirthing.com/Bradley Method: http://www.bradleybirth.com/First 40 Days: https://www.amazon.com/First-Forty-Days-Essential-Nourishing/dp/1617691836Mamaste: https://www.amazon.com/Mamaste-Discover-Authentic-Balanced-Motherhood/dp/145216956XBirth Light: https://www.birthlight.com/
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Balance Lifestyle Coach and Podcaster Sarah M. Bivens shares how we can seek power in sharing our birth stories, how we can empower our birth story (no matter how or when it happened), and how we can reclaim our Divine Feminine energy as women.
Join us this week for an incredible discussion on motherhood and SEX ;) Sarah Bivens brings it all as she openly shares about her motherhood journey and how it led her to creating Orgasmic Coaching! If you thought our convos have been real up until this point...well let’s just say your ear buds will be burning this episode is so good! From discussing how precious and divine birth is to how we can stay feeling sexy in our postpartum skin. This episode is one for every mom! About Sarah Bivens Sarah Bivens is a balanced lifestyle coach, podcaster and mamapreneur. She works with mothers to connect them with their sexuality and identity through a balanced approach to self-care and goddess mindset coaching. She hosts 2 podcasts: Balance and Motherhood, a show about practical self-care and balance tips along with deep, conscious conversation to support women in the crazy game of motherhood, and Doing It At Home, a show about empowering home birth stories and resources which she co-hosts with her husband Matthew. Sarah is passionate about awakening the queen within every woman and believes that when mothers are supported, energized, and turned on, we can change and heal the world. She lives in Atlanta, GA with her husband Matthew and their daughter Maya. Find SarahOnline Instagram: @sarahmbivens Facebook: @sarahbivenslifestylecoach Website: www.sarahbivens.com About Raw As A Mother Interviews with Sarah Bode and mothers from around the world on the RAW, real, and unspoken truths of what it means to wear the badge MOM. Pull up a cozy chair with cup of coffee before the kids get up in the morning or a glass of wine and some chocolate after the babies go down. Either way, this space is a TRIBE dedicated to bringing you authentic conversation so you may feel connected on your motherhood journey. Connect with Sarah Bode Raw As A Mother Instagram Personal Instagram Join the Raw As A Mother Tribe group on Facebook Click here to join the tribe. Apply to Be a Guest Click here to apply to be interviewed on the show.
Show Notes: Sarah is the co-host of the Doing it at Home Podcast She is a balance lifestyle coach who works with mothers in integrating their identities, purpose, confidence and sexuality She is wife to her husband Matthew and Mom to her daughter Mya Orgasmic Mama is the name of Sarah’s online membership program that she’s recently launched for moms to have a place to explore conversations regarding sexuality Daily life before having a homebirth: “What the hell were we doing? We didn’t know how much time we had, really!” They were both working for a small marketing agency in Atlanta and had very flexible schedules. Sarah shifted out of the agency and began working as a personal trainer. She was then working with clients remotely related to lifestyle and balance They found out they were pregnant the same week that Matthew decided he was also going to be leaving his job and starting his own consulting business. So much life change at once! Getting pregnant: “We decided we wanted to conceive, and we got pregnant two seconds later.” When she first found out she was pregnant, Sarah and Matthew went to see her OB. She’d only seen him for yearly exams since moving to Atlanta, so truly they’d only met twice. She was keen on having birth with as little intervention as possible: not being attached to anything, access to water and ice, to eat and drink etc. As they began establishing a relationship with her OB, they realized that her desires were not going to be met by this care provider and hospital Sarah was watching the DVD series: Happy, Healthy Child and it began opening and expanding her mind about birth and parenting. She was connected with a homebirth group that was about 15 minutes from her house. Matthew was a big part of the process, which was a big differentiator between the midwives and the hospital experience- it was an experience they were having together. They were both pregnant together. Sarah and Matthew both like sharing the fact that they did not immediately click into place that they would 100% have a homebirth. At first, Sarah was the one encouraging the idea while Matthew was more uncertain, and at one point, the tables turned and Matthew was for the homebirth while Sarah was unsure. Finally, around 18-19 weeks, the two synced in opinion and decided they were going to go for it! At that time, Sarah was looking for resources to connect with mothers who were deciding to have a similar birthing situation. As she and Matthew looked around, they really couldn’t find many resources. In comes the entrepreneurial spirit: They decided to launch the Doing it at Home Podcast. Several weeks after launching the show (after Mya was born), women began coming out of the woodwork wanting to share their own birth stories. Sarah acknowledges that her pregnancy was beautiful and she thoroughly enjoyed it. “Those midwife appointments were just amazing—Matthew came to every single one.” Sarah and Matthew stacked up quite a large birth team, which worked for them. There were a total of 10 people in her bedroom when Mya was born—Mya not included! Sarah wanted to make sure that Matthew had someone available for him during labor. She wanted to make sure that he was supported and cared for just as she was. Sarah’s Birth: They were a day shy of 41 weeks “Is this the last day that I’m going to be pregnant? The last shower that I’m going to take pregnant?” Sarah was doing all kinds of lunges and movements to try to get Mya to move down, as she was not yet engaged. They went to an outside concert in September in Atlanta: The Atlanta Symphony Orchestra performing John Williams music (Jurassic Park, Harry Potter, Star Wars) As they walked back to the car from the concert, Sarah noticed that she was feeling very uncomfortable. When they got home between 10-11, Sarah couldn’t get comfortable in bed, so she went to the bath tub. By 1am-2am, they called Sarah’s midwife. That period of time was incredibly beautiful and magical for Sarah and Matthew. Matthew reminded her, “Be grateful for this experience.” That affirmation really resonated with Sarah and was something that she carried with her through the labor. Matthew was so fascinated with all of the gear that the midwife brought to the birth: the oxygen tank, the medications for too much bleeding postpartum, etc.. The birth pool was blown up and Sarah got in, spending about 90% of active labor in the water. Sarah discusses how the feelings of labor have such a unique quality: the intensity and the perhaps pain are with such purpose Sarah’s total labor was about 12 hours Her midwives encouraged Sarah to use the restroom- while she was sitting on the toilet, she remembers looking up into Matthew’s eyes and saying, “This really hurts.” Which to her, was more of a feeling of “what if I can’t do this” and because she was so emotionally, physically, and spiritually exhausted. She felt like pushing was an amazing experience for her because up until that point, she felt like she had been tossed around in the waves- Once she was able to push, she felt like she was able to lock in physically. Matthew held her and supported her physically throughout the entire 45 minutes of pushing. Once Mya was born, Sarah’s midwife noticed that Sarah was losing too much blood. She helped Sarah to the bed and gave her Pitocin Matthew put himself between Sarah and the midwife- he shielded her from the rest of the room, and even from what the midwife was doing to keep her focused on the baby and calm Sarah discusses how she certainly did not expect to have a homebirth podcast, but loves how the fact that it has opened up so much possibility. Doing it at Home Podcast Parents on Demand diahpodcast.com sarahbivens.com www.Instagram.com/sarahmbivens Episode Roundup: Your partner can play such a critical role in the birthing experience. Of course this doesn’t match everyone’s situation or preference, but I love the idea of going into pregnancy as a couple and being “pregnant together.” It certainly made me consider ways that I can include my husband in the experience more and make sure that his needs are met along with mine. The second point is just a thank you- thank you to the Doing it at Home Podcast and all of the other platforms that help normalize the birthing process. So much time, effort and energy is clearly put forth from their end, and yet they continue to show up every week. What a blessing to have so many beautiful souls in the birthing community providing not only resources, but also community to birthing moms.
Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
How do you feel about your partner watching pornography? It's a topic that I wouldn't be surprised comes up in most relationships in some way. I know it certainly has in mine. On today's episode, Sarah joins me to answer a listener email about porn in relationships. This one gets real. It's also important I say that neither Sarah nor I are therapists, counselors or doctors, and that we're speaking on this subject purely from out own experiences. Listen for entertainment purposes only.
EP32 - Matthew and Sarah Bivens These two are awesome. So full of life and dedicated to making their post possible life. https://www.matthewbivens.com https://www.sarahbivens.com https://www.diahpodcast.com Want help running your business with your partner, check out our FREE facebook group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1826913397607507/ (This is where our monthly Q&A’s take place) Welcome to the Pink She Wolf pod where we help you to create a better business and personal life with your significant other If you have enjoyed the show please subscribe, rate and review! Like on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pinkshewolf/ Music: http://www.purple-planet.com
We dug up episode #13 from the files and are re-sharing it here! Sarah Bivens in coming Boston in February to speak at our 2019 TBH Retreat! She will be teaching us all about finding balance in motherhood and how to be mindful in our daily actions! Today is all about learning to be in control of your thoughts. HeHe and Sarah dive into what self-care looks like in motherhood. We talk about why it's so important to set time aside for yourself, why communication can make or break a system, and how you can start your journey of finding "balance." Parenting and being a partner can be challenging, so what happens when your cup is empty and there's nothing left to give? Join us as we talk about the not-so-pretty moments of filling so many roles and how to find a place in your life that you want to relish in every single last moment! 2019 TBH Retreat https://mailchi.mp/a65e91edc93f/tbhbalancingmotherhood TBH 5-day challenge https://mailchi.mp/3b8bd5c210ec/mastering-your-mindset-in-motherhood-2019 TBH Virtual Mom Meet-Up https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tbh-free-virtual-mommy-meet-up-tickets-53660403712 Shownotes: Check out the blog!
Can your sex heal? Today is a very unique episode. Think of it as Throwback Thursday and Sex Sundays collided. Host Saint Day Adeogba and guest Sarah Bivens get into a real, raw, honest, transparent and loving conversation about Abundant Love. They go over the meaning as well as how it has evolved and played out over the years, particularly in Sarah's understanding of herself and her personal healing. You do not want to miss this one! The Make Everyday YourDay Podcast is empowered by the YourDay Balance Game. To learn more and sign up for the YDBG app for free, go to www.theydbg.com. Links: Sarah's website - www.sarahbivens.com
Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
Are you practicing sexual healing? So many different things can come up when we think about sexual healing. From healing past traumas to healing physical conditions to Marvin Gaye (seriously, that was my entire context until a number of years ago) -- we each have our own relationship when it comes to healing things in a sexual context. In today's episode I'm joined by my incredible wife, Sarah Bivens, and together we get raw and intimate on some current sexual healing that we're both doing.
What do you like about listening to podcasts? In today's Magic Monday episode, host Saint Day Adeogba is talking about a pair of podcasters with some powerful messages. He shares the magic of fellow podcasters Matthew and Sarah Bivens and how they've grown their audiences and platforms to create some transformation in the world. Matthew hosts the hit show "Having It ALL," while Sarah hosts her solo project "Balance and Motherhood." And the two host a show together, called "Doing It At Home." Listen in to learn more. Plus we chat about influencing people wherever you go. The Make Everyday YourDay Podcast is empowered by the YourDay Balance Game. To learn more and sign up for the YDBG app for free, go to www.theydbg.com.
Today we are taking a stroll down mindfulness lane. HeHe and Sarah dive into what self-care looks like in motherhood. We talk about why it's so important to set time aside for yourself, why communication can make or break a system, and how you can start your journey of finding "balance." Parenting and being a partner can be challenging, so what happens when your cup is empty and there's nothing left to give? Join us as we talk about the not-so-pretty moments of filling so many roles and how to find a place in your life that you want to relish in every single last moment! Shownotes: Check out the blog!
Are ya ready for another taboo subject?! These days screen time typically comes with a winced, quiet voice as we try to pretend it isn’t happening. It seems to be topic that parents are wary about diving into because of the judgment that comes along with it. In this podcast, I talk with powerful mama-preneur - Sarah Bivens. I got to talk with this fierce feminist, mom to a little babe, a balanced-lifestyle coach, and a podcaster about the worries, struggles and fears that comes with screen time while working toward finding the appropriate balance. Check out www.seedandsew.org/voyvpodcast to connect with Sarah and all the resources she has to offer! Happy listening! Music: www.bensound.com/
What if you looked at birth not just as the day you meet your baby but as the day you experience birth? This is the question that floated around Sarah Bivens head when she decided at 22 weeks pregnant to transition from having a hospital birth to having a home birth. Sarah Bivens is a ... The post Home Birth & Empowerment with Sarah Bivens appeared first on Expectful.
Having It ALL: Conversations about living an Abundant Loving Life
When it comes to podcasting, I'm not just a guy behind the mic. I'm also a guy behind the people behind the mics, meaning that I also produce shows for folks! You can learn about that at www.Done4UPodcasting.com One of the shows I produce is for my badass wife, Sarah Bivens. Her new podcast is called "The Balance and Motherhood Podcast", and on today's episode I'm giving you all a sneak peak into her new show.
It's the first freaking episode of The Balance and Motherhood Podcast and I can hardly contain my excitement! First of all, thanks for being here. Thanks for being you. My name is Sarah Bivens and I am the host of the podcast. I'm a balanced lifestyle coach, mamapreneur, podcaster, wife, and now your guide on this journey of balance and motherhood - two things and experiences that don't always coincide for a lot of us. We buy into the belief that balance is this unicorn of a creature that we cannot find, tame or hold onto. This show is about finding your own unique sense and practice of balance, in the midst of the magical and crazy role of mama. I'm bringing my years of experience as a coach and trainer, paired with my own past challenges with self-worth, self-love and self-care, broken relationships, scarcity mentality, self-sabotage, depression and anxiety….yeah. But after breakdown comes breakthrough, and I'm here to share that perspective. How to balance it all, do it all, have it all, be it all...in a sustainable, healthy, loving way that works for you. So this episode is my official welcome and thank you to you. I also share some of the intentions and plans for the show. This show is for every mom out there looking for ways to manage stress more effectively, tips on creating time and energy for self-care, tools for communication and relationship-building and strengthening, habits for health and longevity, and more! Some of the things we'll cover in the show are: Challenges we face in motherhood like guilt, shame, comparison, competition, self-doubt The magical moments and the wins to acknowledge, both big and small Sex, intimacy, relationships Getting in touch with your personal mission, purpose, values and desires Healing past thoughts, programming and experiences This is my gift to you and women everywhere - a compassionate kick in the butt to love yourself first, to take care of your needs and be authentically and unapologetically YOU! Go to sarahbivens.com to learn more about me and my coaching or email me at balanceandmotherhoodpodcast@gmail.com with any questions or comments regarding the podcast.
In today’s episode we speak with Dr. Sarah Buckley on the science of natural and undisturbed birth. Dr. Buckley is the author of the best selling book Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering, the author the report Hormonal Physiology of Childbearing, and all around natural childbirth expert. We are honored and grateful to have Dr. Sarah Buckley join us on the Doing It At Home Podcast for many reasons. To start, her book "Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering: A Doctor's Guide to Natural Childbirth and Gentle Early Parenting Choices" was a huge influence on us during our pregnancy. Sarah (our Sarah...Sarah Bivens that is) started reading Dr. Buckley's book while we were still planning for a birth with an OBGYN in a hospital. We learned about Dr. Buckley from her appearances in a DVD series called "Happy Healthy Child" (another resource we highly recommend and link to in the show notes.) Dr. Buckley's extensive research and evidence based information on pregnancy and birth, along with her own accounts of her 4 home births left quite the impression on us. It got the wheels turning and prompted us to think about the elements we wanted in our birth. Overtime we found that the best way to experience all of that would be at home. So we're very grateful to Dr. Buckley and the work that she does, because it's like she's been a part of our journey. Dr. Buckley integrates what would seem like differing philosophies at first glance: in the mindset of a medical background, training, practice and care, and natural, holistic, unassisted, physiological birth. Dr. Buckley talks about physiological birth as the type of birth that's in alignment with how the body is designed to work. And low tech models of care support this process. Home birth is an ideal situation to allow for this. We also talk about the core requirements for birth and what a woman needs to feel private, safe and unobserved. And if you didn't know or fully understand the hormonal cocktail that a woman experienced in natural birth, you will by the end of this episode. Want to know what ecstatic birth is? Listen to this episode. One of the key takeaways here is the potential to reclaim power in the experience of birth. That with a healing birth, we can heal the earth! Links from this episode: SarahBuckley.com Sarah Buckley on Facebook HappyHealthyChild.com Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering: A Doctor's Guide to Natural Childbirth and Gentle Early Parenting Choices by Sarah Buckley Hormonal Physiology Of Childbearing (report) Pain In Labor (ebook) Ecstatic Birth (ebook)