Podcasts about auntie vice

#072 Can you balance a power exchange with everyday life? What about raising kids in a D/s relationship?

Guest: Doc Domina (clinical psychologist, pro Domme, competative weight lifter)   Doc Domina joins Auntie Vice to talk about a huge array of topics ranging from competative weight lifting to DEI work in the kink world. She talks about the process of going to grad school, finding the lifting community, and then discovering the joy of needles! from there, her journey took her into pro Dommimg at the same time she pursued a clinical psych Ph.D. Her work spans from the carceral system to kink conferences. Her deep understanding of psychology and how our brains discriminate has led to work helping her clients and her employers work to address structural inequalities and personal behavior.    Sites & Socials Lintr.ee/DocDomina Website link: https://docdominaconsulting.weebly.com/ Fetlife link: https://fetlife.com/users/16010820 X/Twitter link: https://twitter.com/DocDomina Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/docdomina7/profilecard/?igsh=cTkzcm5mb3k1azBo ----more----

Guest: Suzanne Noble (entreprenuer, writer, podcaster) Suzanne Noble joins Auntie Vice to talk about sex as you age. She offers personal stories, insights, advice, and tips on finding great products to make your sex life spicy at any age! Sites & Socials https://suzannenoble.co.uk/  website Sex Advice for Seniors (podcast) Substack   Other Sites & Socials Good Luck to You, Leo Grande  Sutile Lube Ah Yes! Personal lubes Lelo Sona 2 Cruise vibe OhMyBod Nex3 cock ring Gaia Vibe LoveLife Rev Vibe FirmTech Cock Ring ----more----    

Guest: Donnelle Jagerman (Founder of Philly Fat Con and Plus Swap) Donnelle Jagerman (founder of both Philly Fat Con and the Philly Plus Swap) joins Auntie Vice to chat about the origins and purpose of fat con, fat community, and coming to understanding internalized fatphobia and how it impacts our lives.   Sites and Socials: Philly Fat Con Instagram Plus Swap   Other Sites Mentioned in this episode: Corrine Fay "Big Undies" substack newsletter Virginia Sole-Smith substack ----more----

Guest: Shalimar (Leatherperson, Mental Health Professional, Therapist) Shalimar (leatherperson, mental health professional, therapist) joins Auntie Vice to chat about their journey in kink and in mental health. They apply their skills from social work to building healthy, welcoming spaces for queer kink community. We discuss gender, trauma, sober spaces, learning, compassion and more!   Sites and Socials: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thekinkyhooker/ Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/kalishali Fetlife: KaliShali  

Guest: Shedao (leatherperson, kink educator) Shedao, bootblack and kink educator, joins Auntie Vice to talk about their journey into kink, polyamory, and becoming a kink educator. We chat about finding a kink identity and builing Black kink community. We chat about moving from hierarchichal relationships to solo polyamory. Sites & Socials Instagram  @Shedao_tkyo Fetlife ----more---- https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=251195734658250&set=pb.100093034767665.-2207520000&type=3

Send us a Text Message.Ep 459: Exploring Kink, Power, and Gender in Erotic Writing with Writer and Educator Auntie Vice, who is a writer, blogger, kink scene connoisseur, kink and BDSM educator, and performer.  Plus, listeners can also enjoy the narration by Ruan Willow of Auntie Vice's written piece 127 One Handed Read aka Sutter Garage.In this intriguing episode, Ruan Willow sits down with the multifaceted Rebecca Blanton, also known as Auntie Vice. They dive into the world of erotic writing, kink education, and the interesting journey of transitioning from policy writing to becoming an erotica author. Auntie Vice, a writer and kink educator with a PhD in political psychology, shares her unique insights on gender, power, and BDSM.Tune in to discover how Auntie Vice overcame severe dyslexia and living with disabilities to become a celebrated author and educator, and the fascinating interplay between realism and fantasy in erotic fiction. From discussing the ethics of ghostwriting to the joys of character development and dialogue, this episode is packed with valuable insights for aspiring writers and kink enthusiasts alike.Topics of discussion include:BdsmKink EducationErotic WritingGender and PowerBDSM ScenePolitical PsychologyStand-Up ComedyStorytellingFeminismGhostwritingErotic FictionQueer RepresentationBody PositivityDisability RightsErotic NovelsShapeshifter FictionSci-Fi EroticaLgbtq+ AuthorsSubmissive TrainingErotic PublishingFind more about the podcast guest Auntie Vice: http://www.auntievice.com/ https://www.loveletterstoaunicorn.com/homeBook: Love Letters to a Unicorn: A Book about Kink, BDSM, Non-monogamy https://amzn.to/3XcWK8AFat Chicks on Top Podcast: https://www.loveletterstoaunicorn.com/fat-chicks-on-topPodcast Host Ruan Willow:Books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/Wicked & Spicy Tales: erotic magical paranormal and erotic horror fiction short story collection https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytalesRuan's Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/audiobooksnarratedbyruanServicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures book bundle of books 1-5 https://books.ruanwillow Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah!Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the Show.Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowRuan's a Manscaped Ambassador get 20% OFF+Free Shipping with promo code RUAN at https://www.manscaped.com/

Guest: Mx. Pucks A'Plenty (burlesque performer, creator of FatCon and FatLesque conferences) Ms. Pucks A'Plenty, founder of FatCon and ranked the 17th most influential burleque performer in the world, joins Auntie Vice to talk about their gender journey, fat joy, and community. We talk about being a queer, high-femme, nonbinary, diabled, and Black burlesque performer. How they came to understand their intersecting identities and find community. We discuss the creation of FatCon and how fat community brings strength, joy, and power. We discuss the fat tax, fashion, and how body size shapes the experience in the kink world. Sites and Socials: LinkTree Instagram  Fatlesque FatCon ----more---- Pontoon Take-Over June 1, Rollins Lake, Colfax, CA ----more----

In this episode, Auntie Vice responds to listeners questions about body fluid flavors, strap on harness suggestions, the origin of her name, and more! She also discusses Pride, LGBTQ+ event access, and other issues. Transcripts Now Available at FatChicksOnTop.com ----more---- Recommended Products A Sportsheet Thigh Harness Sportsheet Double Thigh Harness XL Packer Harness Brief Strap-on Harness Candy Apple Lube Pear Flavored Lube   Events Rollins Boathouse Take Over Nevada City Pool Party LGBTQ+ Sleep Over

This episode has explicit content about larger bodies and hucow play.   Guest: Luna KM, creator of SubmissiveGuide.com, writer, and content creator   Luna KM from Submissive Guide joins Auntie Vice to chat about her submissive journey. What began as a personal blog blossomed into the SumbissiveGuide website, Kink Network on Discord, and Patreon channel. Her journey is reflective of many folks discovering BDSM From early forays online to small in-person meet-ups, to connecting with a community of folks who love and support you through your journey, ,Luna covers it all!   Sites and Socials SubmissvieGuide.com Patreon Twitter  Books, Journal Prompt Collections, and Guides   Other Things Mentioned in this Episode Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns Molly Devon and Phillip Miller Gor ----more----

Guest: Joan Price (author, educator) Joan Price has been writing about aging and sexuality for the last 20 years. Her books are some of the best informed volumed about sex after 65! She joins Auntie Vice to discuss everything from menopause to circadian rhythms and arousal. Sites and Books JoanPrice.com Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex The Ultimate Guide to Sex After 50 Better than I Ever Expected: Sex After 60 Sex After Greif Other Things Mentioned in this Episode Hook-up Horror Stories Podcast with Demi Wylde ----more----  

Guest: Tabitha Britt (Journalist, Creator of DoYouEndo.com) Endometriosis affects 10 percent of all AFAB persons (and some men). It is a painful and often debilitating disease. Tabitha Britt knew she had endometriosis for 14 years and still struggled to get doctors to believe and treat her. This is unfortunately the same experience millions of people have. So Tabitha started DoYouEndo.com to allow folks to connect, find information, and community. She joins Auntie Vice to talk about the pitfalls of the medical system when it comes to treating AFAB folks, the stigma around endometriosis, the misinformation out there, and the social media bans and blocks on any medical information helpful for all things associated with women and periods (oof!). Sites and Socials DoYouEndo? Instagram   ----more----Other things mentioned in this episode Dr. Camran Nezhat Endometriosis Awareness Month ----more----

Guest: Anton Fulmen (writer, educator) Anton Fulmen joins Auntie Vice to chat about coming into his kinky desires of consensual dominance. He is the author of Heart of Dominance and The Dominance Playbook, joins Auntie Vice to talk about dominance, consensual power exchange, and kink from the cis heterosexual male perspective. They cover how to navigate desire, privilege, learning, and tending to the dominant soul.   Sites & Socials Website: https://www.consensualdominance.com/ Heart of Dominance The Dominance Playbook ----more---- Other things mentioned in this episode: Please Scream Quietly by Julia Fenhell Hurts So Good by Leigh Cowart ----more----

Guest: Tiana Dodson Tiana Dodson is Fat. Queer. Parent. Biracial Black and Guamanian/Chamorro Person of Color. Chronically ill. Acutely aware. Book lover. Music fanatic. Compulsive dancer. Part of my work is to guide people feminine-of-center toward reconnecting with their bodies through pragmatic self-care practices so they can come to see that there is nothing wrong with living in a larger body. Other parts of my work include being unapologetically fat, living my best fat life in Germany, and uncovering systems of oppression in the most important game of hide-and-seek in my lifetime. She joins Auntie Vice to chat about her work, her life, and moving toward a more liberated world. Sites and Socials: https://tianadodson.com/about/ Live Your Best Fat Life Instagram  Other things mentioned in this episode: Da'ShaunHarrison Belly of the Beast Vanessa Rochelle Lewis Reclaiming Ugly ----more----

Guest: Dr. Tracey Weise, ARPN, Clinical Director Identity Wellness in Anchorage, Alaska Dr. Weise joins Auntie Vice to talk about what competent care for LGBTQ+ folks looks like in a medical setting. After working for six years as a forensics nurse, Tracey returned to school to get certified in mental health. She has a deep understanding of the how much trauma members of the LGBTQ+ community carry and how important it is to be competent when treating folks in this population. We chat what competence looks like (hint: it isn't just putting a rainbow flag sticker on your site), and what we should expect from healthcare providers. She talks about Adverse Childhood Events, how they change the brain and body of everyone long term, what trauma-informed medicine looks like, and about starting Alaska's only gender and queer specific healthcare center. She is just awesome! Your should definitely listen. SItes and Socials Identity Health Alaska LGBTQ Heroes Profile Identity Alaska IG ----more----Other mentions on this episode   Big Queer Book Club on Discord Sweet and Rough by Sinclair Sexsmith T!tty Fkn article  

Guest: Dalia Kinsey (registered dietician and nutritionist) Dalia Kinsey, registered dietitian and nutritionist, joins Auntie Vice to talk about decolonizing health. She speaks to the experience of being a bigger bodied, queer, woman both in school and as a health care consumer. She lives with Grave's Disease (an autoimmune condition) and worked for years to figure out what was wrong. Her experience with hostile and dismissive providers drove her to pursue work to understand nutrition science and work to decolonize it to better serve marginalized communities. Sites and Socials DaliaKinsey.com Instagram YouTube

Guest: Lee Harrington (writer, kink educator) Lee Harrington joins Auntie Vice to chat about kink, BDSM, spirituality, writing, and more. Author of eight kink-centric books, including Sacred Kink: BDSM and the Eight-Fold Path,  Harrington discusses what it is like putting the personal out there in written form. We also touch on the importance of connecting with communities, groupthink, and handling things in the kink world when a scene goes sideways. Sites and Socials PassionandSoul website Instagram Author Page on Amazon ----more---- Other things mentioned in this episode   The Big Queer Book Club on Discord. Invite link https://discord.gg/MWTCCuPr  (These expire periodically. If you need a new one, please email AuntieVice@FatChicksOnTop.com February read Open Throat by Henry Hoke   You can also get the NEW! Fat Chicks on Top ball cap to show your love for the show! Buy it here.   Queer Werewolves Destroy Capitalism book ----more----

Guest: Mama Vi/Viola Johnson (leatherwoman, founder of Carter-Johnson Library, Founding member Onyx Pearls) Viola Johnson, author, activist, leatherwoman, joins Auntie Vice to chat about leather history, the importance of our history and stories, and the founding of the Johnson-Carter library. Mama Vi came out as a lesbian in the 1970s, when it was still illegal to be openly gay. She discovered leather and kink in college and married her college sweetheart. Mama Vi holds multiple international leather titles and awards. She wrote To Love, To Obey, and to Serve, the first published novel of a consensual slave in a power exchange relationship. She began transporting magazines and event flyers from Los Angeles to Kansas in the 1980s during the first wave of AIDS. These materials would become the beginnings of the Carter-Johnson Library. After realizing she had won a queer book on eBay instead of a man who was looking to burn the book, she decided to start a formal library to save kinky, queer stories. The library recently expanded significantly after receiving the physical collection of the Center for Sex and Culture which lost its physical space in San Francisco, CA. Sites and Socials Carter Johnson Library Fetlife Facebook ----more----Other sites and mentions on the show Global Summit for Sexual Freedom Conference Feb 3-10 online Eulenspeigel Society Onyx Pearls ----more----

Guest: Moxie Minion, TikTok Influencer, Bootblack Moxie Minion, Northwest Bootblack Titleholder and TikTok influencer joins Auntie Vice to talk leather, queerness, books, history, and coming out later in life. We cover what leather is and how the title system works, how leather families work to support a healthy community, queer literature, and raising healthy kids in today's toxic world. Sites and Soicals TikTok Fetlife @MoxieMinion Linktr.ee Year of Queer Lit @YoQL Year in Queer Lit reading list ----more---- Discord The Big Queer Book Club February Book Club pic Open Throat, Henry Hoke.   Global Summit for Sexual Freedom tickets through Eventbrite

What's the future for Lost Spaces podcast? I need your help figuring that out! Please complete the Lost Spaces listener survey before the end of January and I'll be your best friend forever - ⁠http://tinyurl.com/lostspacespodcastsurvey On this week's show I'm starting to question whether I should be getting in to the world of kink or not. And, who is enticing me over to the kinky side? Why, it's podcaster and well-known kinkster Auntie Vice, who tells me all about what drew her to the world of kink, as well as what was so special about her lost space, Wicked Grounds in San Francisco, USA.  Find out more about Auntie Vice by listening to the Fat Girls on Top podcast, following her on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/auntievice) or visiting her website (www.auntievice.com) You can also reach out to me on Facebook (www.facebook.com/lostspacespod) or Instagram (www.instagram.com/lostspacespod) - I'd love to hear from you! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/k-anderson/message

Guest: Bri Burning (educator, International Person of Leather 2020-2024) Bri Burning (she/they) is a non-binary, queer, fat, femme, leather, ethical non-monogamist, genderqueer, babygrill, and slave-identified person. I'm a very thankful girl to have such a supportive, loving, and incredible Partner who challenges me and pushes me to be my best, thank you JoshInTheBox. Bri joins Auntie Vice to chat about the leather community, being bigger bodied, finding family and community in the leather world, reconciling with their body, and much more! Sites and Socials Bri_Burning on Fetlife BriBurning (Instagram) ----more---- Auntie Vice's The Big Queer Book Club  on Discord meets the second Wednesday of the month at 6 PM PST/9 PM EST. It is free to join. The February book is Open Throat by Henry Hoke.

Guest: Mx. Bliss (lawyer, rigger) Mx. Bliss, the consent compliance officer and legal counsel for Kink.com joins Auntie Vice to talk about consent, the law, bondage, and her personal journey with kink. Mx. Bliss worked in the vanilla world as a lawyer until about five years ago. She closed her legal practice to work as a pro Domme. Eventually she was drawn back to practicing law for a kinky company (Kink.com). We discuss the Explicit Prior Consent model legal policy she is working on with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom on through their Consent Counts committee. We then discuss the intersection of sex work, bias, and consent. We dive deep into how consent is evolving both in law and in community usage.   Sites and Socials: Mx_Bliss on Fetlife Linktree National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Kink.com ----more----

Guest: Danni Adams (body image coach, influencer) Danni Adams, body image coach and influencer in the body liberation space, joins Auntie Vice to chat about body liberation, the connection between fatphobia and anti-Blackness, food access, growing up poor, and so much more!   Sites and Socials Instagram Linktr.ee TikTok ----more---- Geek History of Time podcast Big Queer Book Club ----more----

Guest: Max Carey (film maker) Max Carey joins Auntie Vice to chat about his new film Touch Kink. The film seeks to demystify the world of female dominatrix by profiling a number of working pros in the US, Canada, and England. Max chats about his journey as a film maker and as a kinky queer. Sites and Socials TouchKink.com

Guest: Tristan Taormino (author, educator, film maker) Tristan Taormino, preeminent sex educator and author, joins Auntie Vice to chat about her new memoir A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten. The memoir focuses largely on her relationship with her gay father. She chat about her career as a sex educator and a feminist porn producer, depression, and her new, energizing relationship in her 50s. Sites and Socials TristanTaoramino.com Events and Tour Schedule PuckerUp Instagram Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaning Open Relationships Pucker Up  The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women   ----more---- Like and follow @AuntieVice on Instagram, Twitter, and TikTok for a chance to win $350 value class pass for Diving Deep: Understanding and Expressing Your Erotic Desires. ----more----

Guest: Janet Hardy (author, publisher, educator, awesome human) Janet Hardy, author of epic works including The Ethical Slut, The New Topping Book, and Radical Exstacy, joins Auntie Vice to chat about her new memoir Notes From an Aging Pervert. In this memoir, Janet reflects on her life as a genderqueer, BDSM and polyamous pioneer. She gives readers insight into her aging process and her new phase of life. We cover everything from being released from our meat suits (dying), to riding the sex train to the end of the line, to the joys of not having to worry constantly about money. Books by Janet Hardy Notes from an Aging Pervert The New Topping Book The New Bottoming Book The Ethical Slut Radical Estacy ----more---- Other References in this episode Patrick Califia, Macho Sluts. Jay Weissman, SM101. Midori, The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage ----more----

Guest: Isabelle Miller (Model, Influencer)   Isabelle Miller, successful OnlyFans and Instagram model and influencer, joins Auntie Vice to chat about being a larger, dark-skinned model who has acheived success on OnlyFans and IG.   Sites and Socials Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isabellemillerx/, https://www.instagram.com/bellemillerofficial/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/IsabelleMillr TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsisabellemiller Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsabelleMiller/   ----more----  

Guest: Cheyenne Davis (writer, content creator)   Cheyenne Davis joins Auntie Vice to chat about fat representation in media. They cover the good (limited), the bad (a lot), and all things animated. There is an extended chat about anime, Studio Ghilbi, Sailor Moon, and the lack of positive fat representation in the genre. They then chat about good representation (The Bear, Fat Vampire).   Cheyenne discusses dating while fat and seeking medical help. The prevasive anti-fat bias in medicine is very apparent in her own journey. Sites and Socials Twitch Instagram Twitter TikTok  ----more---- Auntie Vice Classes 9.20.23  "Setting the Scene" hosted by Wicked Grounds 9.21.23  "Aging, Illness, and Kink" at the Leather Week BEI hotel, San Francisco 9.22.23  "Dangerous Curves Ahead: From Fatphobia to Fat Fetishism in Kink" at Leather Week BEI Hotel, San Francisco   All tickets available through ForbiddenTickets.com ----more----

Guest: Alesandra Madison (blogger, teacher) Alesandra runs one of the most popular kink blogs, DomSubLiving.com. She joins Auntie Vice to chat about the origin of her work, her personal journey as a submissive, feminism and BDSM, and much more! She lives a full-time power exchange life with her husband. She discusses what that means for raising children, how she talks to her two sons about feminism and gender roles while maintiaing a power exchange relationship with their father, punishments for her, and how D/s has helped her personally with behavior modification. Sites and Socials DomSubLiving.com DomSubLiving on all social media platforms   ----more---- Auntie Vice's Upcoming Classes 9/20   Setting the Scene (hybrid) through Wicked Grounds 9/21 and 9/22 with Folsom Street Fair ----more----

In this episode of "Fat Chicks on Top," the host discusses various topics related to accountability, consent, and community safety within the kink community. The host mentions receiving a listener's question about whether an episode featuring Boss Boar, who has been accused of consent violations and possible sexual assault, should be removed. The host explains the complexities of deciding whether to remove an episode, considering the concept of responsibility in the community and varying degrees of consent violations. The host emphasizes the importance of education, understanding, and ongoing discussions surrounding consent. The host also explores the issue of holding individuals and organizations accountable for problematic behavior, highlighting the need for vetting guests and addressing past problematic behavior. Additionally, the host addresses the importance of inclusive spaces, accessibility, and recognizing the diverse needs and concerns of the community when organizing events. The host shares resources and websites related to submission and kink, as well as upcoming events and classes for listeners to participate in. The episode concludes with an invitation to a body-positive swim event and a reminder to like, subscribe, and review the podcast. The episode was produced and hosted by Rebecca Blanton, with audio production by CharRon Smith and music by David Manga and CharRon Smith. For more information about "Fat Chicks on Top," listeners can visit the website at fatchickson top.com. ----more----   Love Letters to a Unicorn Blog Submissive Guide Kink Academy National Coalition for Sexual Freedom   Auntie Vice's Newsletter Recommended Books Please consider buying from WickedGrounds.com or your local bookstore rather than the big corportate site.   The Big Workbook for Submissives, Rebecca Blanton 30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery, Rebecca Blanton Authentic Kink, The Princess Kali 365 Days of Kink, The Princess Kali 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do, Kate Sloan

Guest: Leah Vernon (author, model) Leah Vernon, memoirist and dystopian fiction writer joins Auntie Vice to chat about her memoir Unashamed: Fat, Black, and Muslim as well as her journey to self acceptance, love, and healing. Leah speaks openly of her struggles with disordered eating, intimate partner violence, growing up poor, and sexual assualt. She also shares how she is healing, connecting with the queer community, and the recent JolloFest in Washington, DC. She is the author of the dystopian fiction works: The Union (part 1 of 2)  The Dissent (part 2 of 2)  NEW!!!   Memoir Unashamed: Fat, Black, and Muslim   Sites and Socials: Instagram @LVernon2000 Linktr.ee The T with Leah V (podcast) ----more----   Interested in picking up the DomSub Living Kink Bundle this year? More than $1000 worth of kinky books, classes, and merch for just $99!!   Get it here from August 16-23 ONLY  https://auntievice--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/kink-bundle/ ----more----

Guest: Zachary Zane (writer, sexpert) Zachary Zane, sexpert for Men's Health, joins Auntie Vice to talk about being audibly bisexual, his new book Boy Slut, writing about sex for a decade, and OCD. Zane discusses his journey to finding his bisexual identity and becoming a voice for bi folks. The title of his book is a cheeky way to expose the double standard of sluttiness between men and women and the stereotype of bi folks. Zane is insightful about biphobia and gender relations for his young 32 years!   Sites and Socials ZacharyZane.com Boy Slut BoySlut Zine Bi Amor Toy Fun Factory   ----more----

Guest: Kate Sloan (writer, podcaster) Kate Sloan joins Auntie Vice to chat about life as a sex writer and podcaster. They cover kink, living with Bipolar disorder, chronic pain, sex, and how D/s dynamics can be healing. Sites and Socials Main site – https://katesloan.com Blog – https://girlyjuice.net Twitter – https://twitter.com/girly_juice Instagram – https://instagram.com/girly_juice Dildorks Podcast – http://thedildorks.com  Archive of Our Own – https://archiveofourown.org/users/girlyjuice  101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do 200 Words to Help You Discuss Sex and Gender Mac Liquid Last Black Eyeliner   ----more----

Guest: Kitty Stryker (writer, activist) Kitty Stryker, author of Ask: Building Consent Culture and Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook joins Auntie Vice to chat about the nuances of consent, anger, activism, and change. Her deep thinking on consent and how interpersonal and structural power changes one's ability to fully consent has implications for politics, governing boards, medicine, policy, and the culture in general. Sites and Socials KittyStyker.com (site) ConsentCulture.com Facebook Instagram Patreon ----more----

Guest: Midori Midori, author of the first English-language book on Japanese bondage and kink educator extrodinaire joins Auntie Vice to chat about her work. She is an artist focusing on fiber crafts rooted in her identity. She has been teaching kink and dominance for decades and made a major difference in thousands of people's kink journeys. We have an Auntie to Auntie conversation about kink, art, and identity. Sites and Socials PlanetMidori.com (website) Forte Femme (women's retreat) The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage Wild Side of Sex: The Book of Kink Master Han's Daughter Midori on Bawdy Storytelling "Infamous" Midori on Bawdy Storytelling "Strange Bedfellows" "Placemat" by Midori Instagram Twitter ----more---- https://www.patreon.com/planetmidori  

Guest: Susan Wright, Founder and Media Outreach for National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Susan Wright joins Auntie Vice to chat about the work of NCSF including "Consent Counts," working to revise the paraphillia section of the DSM to remove consensual adult kink from mental health disorders, and revising the sexual assault laws for the first time since 1962. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is the only outward-facing advocacy organization working for more freedoms for the kinky and nonmonogamous communities, Susan Wright founded NSCF as an outgrowth of her work with the National Organization for Women around the D/s clause in NOW's platform in the 1980s and 1990s. The work of NCSF has been critical in creating a culture of consent and safetly for all.   Sites and Socials National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Consent Counts Project Kink Aware Professionals Twitter Instagram TikTok Link for SW peer support group Link for EARN IT Act opposition letter   ----more----https://ncsfreedom.org/

This week we sat down with Auntie Vice, author, host of the Fat Chicks on Top Podcast, and creator of the Love Letters to a Unicorn BDSM blog. We talked about body positivity and disability activism in and out of kink/sexuality, body hair and grooming in D/s, and her journey to becoming a sex educator.  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find all of Auntie Vice's projects at https://www.loveletterstoaunicorn.com/ Listen to the Fat Chicks on Top PodcastDick and Gwen's guest appearances on Fat Chicks on Top Check out Gwen's current porn Pride sales! $5 OF Sale (Valid June 2023) 20% off our ManyVids store with code: OCP82028 (Valid indefinitely) Dick's linksGwen's linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Para-hell-ograms Nipple Clamps here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you'll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, body, positivity, fat, activism, disability, educator, politics, blog, author, burlesque, podcaster

This episode Auntie Vice responds to questions from listeners. If you have a question you want answered, please email AuntieVice@FatChicksOnTop.com and I'll answer you on an upcoming episode! Links from this episode: Thompson, Mark et al. (2004). Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice. Beckett, Cooper and Lyndzi Miller. (2023) The Pegging Book.  Auntie Vice merch!  www.Fetlife.com www.BDSMEvents.com www.ForbiddenTickets.com www.EROSBay.com www.WickedGrounds.com Auntie Vice Resource List

Guest: Luna Matatas, educator, pleasure advocate Luna Matatas, entreprenuer, pleasure educator and advocate, joins Auntie Vice to discuss her life as an HIV/AIDS educator, discovering her own pleasure, and coming into her own body and voice. She covers everything from feminine dominance, to CBT, to finding the right folks to take sexy pics of bigger, darker bodies (its a skill that most photographers lack!). SItes and Socials LunaMatatas.com RaceandKink.com @LunaMatatas on most social media   Ask Your Auntie! AYA segment is back answering a letter from a listener. The one covers how to eroticize an outie belly button! So much fun to provide new and fun ways to work with an outie. : )   https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/2708/8618/files/luna-combined.jpg?v=1602347368

Guests: Martha Madrigal & Charles Tyson, Jr., Full Circle Podcast hosts Martha and Charles review the latest and greatest headlines in the LGBTQ+ news world weekly on their podcast, Full Circle. They join Auntie Vice to talk about what is going on the the queer world and how they stay grounded while being pummeled with bad news. Matha and Auntie Vice chat about surviving two plauges (AIDS and COVID), and what living through the Reagan years taught us for the current onslaught of anti-Trans, anti-queer hate.   Sites and Socials: https://linktr.ee/fullcirclethepod Linktr.ee https://fullcirclethepodcast.godaddysites.com/ website https://twitter.com/FullCirclePod Twitter https://www.instagram.com/fullcirclethepod/ Instagram https://www.tiktok.com/@fullcirclethepodcast?lang=en TikTok https://iammarthamadrigal.wordpress.com/ Martha's website https://philadelphiadance.org/dancejournal/philadelphia-dance-talk-radio/ Charles radio show   ----more----

Guest: Chrissy King, author Chrissy King, writer and wellness influencer, joins Auntie Vice to chat about her new book, The Body LIberation Project: How Understanding Racism and Diet Culture Cultivates Joy and Build Collective Freedom, and her work in body liberation. From working in the depths of diet culture as a personal fitness trainer to divorcing diet culture and working toward body liberation for all, she talks about her journey and what she has learned. Her book and our conversation was absolutely fantastic! Chrissy shares so much insight and much of her story will resonnate with the listerners. This is a must-hear show! Sites and Socials ChrissyKing.com @IAmChrissyKing on Twitter and Instagram Buy the book  

Guest: Rachel Kramer Bussel, author, editor Rachel Kramer Bussel, erotic and nonfiction author and editor for more than 70 anthologies joins  Auntie Vice to chat about her career, writing, editing, and what she has learned through the process. After leaving law school to pursue writing, Bussel became one of the most recognized authors and editors of erotic stories. She chats about what writing erotica taught her about herself and her body, what its like to be a prolific editor, and the state of book bans in the United States.   Sites and Socials RachelKramerBussel.com Twitter: @Raquelita Instagram @RachelKramerBussel How to Write Erotica (book) ----more---- Find the podcast To All The Men I've Tolerated Before  

Guests: Dick Wound and Bidaily of Off the Cuffs Podcast The hosts of Off the Cuffs podcast, Dick Wound and Bidaily, join Auntie Vice to chat about what kink has meant to them and how it has changed their lives. One of the longest-running kinky lifestyle podcasts, Off the Cuffs has followed both Dick and Bidaily as they have grown through their kink journey. While many of their shows bring on guests to chat about their kink journeys, Auntie Vice gets down and dirty into what kink has meant for them. Both Dick and Bidaily share about how finding kink helped them overcome shame and trauma in their past. Dick talks about how kink helped him find his way out of depression after a serious heart attack at the age of 30 (!!!) and Bidaily talks about her journey out the shame and trauma of purity culture. Sites and Socials Off the Cuffs Podcast Podcast Instagram @OCPKink Podcast Twitter @OPCKink Bidaily Twitter https://twitter.com/bidaily666 Bidaily Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bidaily666/ Bidaily on Onlyfans  Bidaily666 Dick Wound on Twitter: @Dickwound Dick Wound on Instagram @DWPodhost

Guest: Clarkisha Kent, author and cultural critic Clarkisha Ken, author and cultural critic, joins Auntie Vice to talk about weight, the medial profession, health, race, movies and her new memoir. As a cultural critic and writer for Huff Post, BET, Entertainment Weekly, The Root and much more she takes on the representation of Black folks, women, and fat people. She is the creator of the Kent Test, a way to see how well Black folks are represented in media. She is also a Nigerian immigrant, bisexual, and graduate from the prestigious University of Chicago.   Recommended films in this episode: Set It Off The Conjuring The Nanny (2021) Pretty Woman True Grit Blair Witch Project Nope Black Panther   Kent, Clarkisha. (March 2023)  Fat Off, Fat On: A Big Bitch Manifesto. CUNY Feminist Press.   Sites & Socials ClarkishaKent.com @IWriteAllSDay_ (Twitter) @ClarkishaKent (Instagram) Twitch.tv/ClarkishaKent

Guest: Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach, joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about developing intimacy and connection skills, opening up his long-term monogamous relationships, and living with ADHD. He specializes in LGBTQ+ and kink-aware relationship counseling. He talks about how he and his husband went about opening up their long-term, monogamous relationship and dating in the gay community in Boston, MA. He and his partner both have ADHD. He discusses how this affects their relationship and how to be a good partner to someone who is neurodivergent. This episode, we introduce the "Say 'Hi' to the Vibe" segment where Auntie Vice helps a listener find the right sex toy for them! This episode, Del, a middle aged trans man, searches for a dual-stimulating vibrator that fits a body after testosterone treatments.   Sites and Socials WesleyToma.com   Say Hi to the Vibe segment Tracy's Dog Vibe recommendation: OG Flow Vibe    ----more----

Guest: Natasha Strange, professional Dominatrix and educator Natasha Strange, pro Domme and educator, joins Auntie Vice to talk about stumbling into a life-long career, what it has taught her, communicating with people, and the joy of kink. The interview comes in concert with the release of her 2nd edition of Kink for the Curious: A BDSM Activity Book for Beginners. Along with the release of the book, Natasha is offering an 8-week online course for people who want to explore their kinky side. Sites and Socials https://kittenwithawhip.com/ Sub Rosa PDX FemmeDom Bootcamp and Kink for the Curious classes https://subrosapdx.com/events/ @SubRosa and @MsNatashaStrange on IG @NatashaStrange on Twitter  

Guest: Ed Waters, podcaster   Ed Waters, host of Dead America Podcast, joins Auntie Vice to talk about growth, change, and masculinity. After incurring a life-altering disability, Ed Waters found himself seeking out assisted suicide. Learning to see masculinity as something more than than just brute physical strength saved his life. Through this journey, he found connection with a wide array of people including unhomed folks, previously incarcerated people, and his own wife.   Socials and Website Dead America Podcast https://deadamerica.website/ Instagram @DeadAmericaPodcast Twitter @FairCircle3 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7LlIblu9NZr6MEjqtU0k_Q

Guest: Bindiya Schaefer, author Bindiya Schaefer grew up in the UAE and India. She worked as a tech journalist before switching to tech advertising. This provided a natural transition into writing science fiction. Her debut novel, Corinth 2642 AD is a futuristic murder-mystery. She explores race relations, gender, and more through this work. Her next project, a YA novel, seeks to explore Indian joy (something she finds missing from much of literature).   She is in an interracial relationship and she and Auntie Vice chat about the experience of being in interracial relationships.   Website BindiyaSchaefer.com    

Guest: Ruan Willow, writer and podcaster Ruan Willow, host of Oh F*ck Yeah! podcast and author of over a dozen erotic novels joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat erotic writing, what it has taught her, and how it helped lessened her own shame.   Sites and Socials Oh F*ck Yeah! Podcast Erotic Novels on Amazon Twitter Sexy Pics and Audio ----more---- Coming NOVEMBER 1, Auntie Vice's List of Great Holiday Gifts! Get it first along with discount codes exclusively for newsletter members by signing up at: https://auntievice.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=fef4a512c7ea3163a8672f9b7&id=a34b6a7474

This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with @AuntieVice about forced blow jobs - how to give them, how to receive them, and how to convince your top you really actually do want it! Plus advise on how to get your vanilla partner interested in kinky fun! PLUS intercrural sex and lots more! -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things Dan & dawn at https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Links to mentioned on show: Auntie Vice Academy of Fetish Arts  Mmm hashtags: #facef*cking #bdsm #welovenewyork