Podcast appearances and mentions of Kevin A Patterson

With this appearance, my friend Kevin A. Patterson ties the record for most Detoxicity appearances. This is his fourth time on the pod, and my man drops gems every time. Kevin is the author of "Love's Not Color Blind; Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Relationships", he co-authors the "For Hire" series of graphic novels, and he runs the site Poly Role Models. This typically wide-ranging conversation covers everything from parenting challenges to relationship pointers to how we feel as two guys who grew up with '90s hip hop and lyrical content that's sometimes a little cringe. I hope you have as much fun listening as we did chatting!

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In the newest episode of Tribechat, Omari The Rebel and Big Pink Pegasus sit down together to talk: cucks, simps & dirty talk tips. Habari Gani (what's the news breakdown):*A Dr uses his own sperm during an artificial insemination and is found out years later to be the father I'm someone else's child. * Netflix has a new BDSM themed romantic comedy called "Love and Leashes" *Badman Kevo talks alleged affair with YouTuber an inspiration behind the viral meme, Kaya Nicole. Omari The Rebel and Big Pink Pegasus talk about diversity in the event promotion scene, quoting nightlife and sex positivity icon Venus Cuffs. They review fellow podcasters "Black & Kinky Podcast's" hilarious commentary on the slap & make fun of some tips to successful dirty talk in the swinger community provided by swingershelp.com Omari targets Channing Crowder over his remarks about Russell Wilson and Ciara.Credits: *Venus Cuffs Quote, Paper Magazine https://www.papermag.com/venus-cuffs-2640579826.html *"Love's Not colorblind" - Kevin A Patterson https://www.amazon.com/dp/1944934464/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_a_PQCZR9XZV710ZPCEKM2Z?ref_=d6k_applink_bb_dls *Black&Kinky Podcast http://wavve.link/blacknkinky *Swingershelp article on Dirty talk https://swingershelp.com/handling-dirty-talk-while-swinging/ *TripleXplayground productshttps://triplexplayground.com/?referral=tribechat *Xsitebunny information https://app.xsitebunny.com/signup/?referral=5264 @omaritherebel on Twitter and Instagram @BigpinkPegasus_ on Instagram Link our platforms https://linktr.ee/NzuriKabila

On this week's episode, Ms. Vicky and J.O the King talk to author of "Loves Not Colorblind" Kevin A. Patterson about his book and his poly lifestyle. You can purchase his book at www.KevinAPatterson.com Follow us on IG: Instagram.com/SexTherapyWithMsVickyFollow us on FB: Facebook.com/SexTherapyWithMsVickyEmail us your questions and stories at: SexTherapyWithMsVicky@gmail.com

In this episode I have a chance to chat with Kevin A. Patterson, author of Love's Not Colorblind, the foremost book on race and polyamory. Having been tagged in my interviews with Olivia, Kevin felt called to address my comment regarding my mindset of victims and victors. I have a chance to explain my comment further, and Kevin helps me understand how viewing people by this binary idea is a value judgment based on how much we can endure, even though the problem isn't our strength--it's the social construct of white supremacy. Kevin talks about how many people of color (including myself for most of my life) try to place themselves on equal footing with the white establishment and deny the white supremacy that exists, but how the reckoning comes for us all eventually (see Omarosa and the Trump administration). He shares how friends have turned him into "the scary Black guy" when the need arose, and how easily his image could be turned based solely on how Black folx are viewed in this country. Kevin and I have an amazing conversation chatting about creating inclusive communities, and he gives me some tips on fostering diversity on the podcast in upcoming seasons, and how you can do the same in your polyam circles! Be sure to tune in and learn how you can create inclusive communities in your polyam world, too! Learn more about Kevin at www.kevinapatterson.com and improve your polyam relationships by learning directly from him at www.unfuckyourpolyamory.com ! Follow him on IG: @polyrolemodels , too! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/practicingpolya/support

On this episode, Erin chats with Polyamory Educator Kevin A. Patterson, Sex Therapist & Sexuality Professor Dr. Hernando Chaves, and Associate Professor & Psychologist Manijeh Badiee about using positive masculinity to create safe and supportive spaces, friendships, and partnerships. This convo was conducted on Instagram Live after our workshop entitled, 'The New Masculine: Shifting from Toxic Masculinity to Positive Masculinity,' part of Erin's 2021 Dating Panel Series. More info at https://thedatingadvicegirl.com/2021-dating-panel-series/ About Kevin: Kevin is the creator of the interview series, Poly Role Models, focused on changing how poly communities are viewed. Kevin is the author of the book ‘Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities.’ Check out Kevin’s educational series with Dr. Liz Powell, ‘Unf*ck Your Polyamory’ designed to help people navigate the world of consensual non-monogamy while avoiding a lot of the common mistakes. KevinAPatterson.com About Hernando: Dr. Hernando Chaves is a licensed MFT sex therapist, Pepperdine University MFT Sexuality Professor, Western Region past president and past board of directors member for the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, written or consulted for 14 instructional media sex education projects, and a contributing author to the International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality. DrHernandoChaves.com (IG/T): @hernando_chaves About Manijeh: Manijeh Badiee, Ph.D., is an Associate Professor of Psychology at California State University, San Bernardino. She provides therapy as a licensed counseling psychologist (License# PSY 30484) at Collaborative Psychology Group in Riverside. Dr. Badiee specializes in clients who are LGBTQ+, people of color, and/or practice ethical non-monogamy. http://psychology.csusb.edu/facultyStaff/manijeh_badiee.htm About Erin: Erin Tillman, The Dating Advice Girl is an inclusive Sex Educator, Dating & Consent Empowerment Coach, Author, Speaker, and Media Personality based in LA. For over 10 years, she has helped empower singles through workshops, matchmaking, podcasting and her book, The Consent Guidebook. She has contributed to Lifetime, Buzzfeed, Elle Magazine, Men’s Health, Washington Post, and more. TheDatingAdviceGirl.com

Friso heeft (onder andere) relaties met Linda en Robin en neemt ons mee door alle ideeën, ontwikkelingen en zijn eigen twijfels die hij heeft gehad tijdens de overgang van monogamie naar polyamorie. De Poly Podcast steunen? Hier (of via www.patreon.com/depolypodcast) vind je mijn Patreon pagina . Verder vind je De Poly Podcast op: - Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/De-Poly-Podcast-2410095759001148/) - iTunes - Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/wauw_isa) en overal waar je podcasts kan luisteren Wil je met iemand praten over non-monogamie? - Facebookgroep van de Stichting Polyamorie Nederland Anti-racisme resources: Love's not Colorblind - Kevin A. Patterson, M.ED Hallo, witte mensen - Anousha Nzume Dipsaus Black Queer Trans Resistance Plekken om te doneren (Nederland Wordt Beter)

Giovanni en ik hadden het al maanden via Instagram DM's en later WhatsApp over de vreemde racistische reacties die hij als zwarte man kreeg over zijn ethische non-monogamie. We stuurden artikelen heen en weer en kletsen maar een eind heen. Eindelijk hadden we een datum gepland om op te nemen en toen waren daar de Black Lives Matter protesten. Giovanni: https://www.instagram.com/luchowieduzzith/ Andere anti-racisme resources: Love's not Colorblind - Kevin A. Patterson, M.ED Hallo, witte mensen - Anousha Nzume Dipsaus Black Queer Trans Resistance Plekken om te doneren (Nederland Wordt Beter) De Poly Podcast steunen? Hier (of via www.patreon.com/depolypodcast) vind je mijn Patreon pagina . Verder vind je De Poly Podcast op: - Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/De-Poly-Podcast-2410095759001148/) - iTunes - Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/wauw_isa) en overal waar je podcasts kan luisteren Wil je met iemand praten over non-monogamie? - De Vrije Ruimte en De Meerminners coaching en supportgroep voor non-monogamisten door Roos Reijbroek (https://www.meerminners.nl) - Facebookgroep van de Stichting Polyamorie Nederland

Kevin A. Patterson & Alana Phelan, the authors of the For Hire series, join us to talk about their new books featuring queer polyamorous heroes and magicians. It's a world like our own, but the emergence of superhumans has created shifts in culture that play out in changes both subtle and monumental. They chat about what inspired the characters, the story, and whether shadow government conspiracy theories are real. Kevin Patterson, M.Ed has been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002. In April of 2015, Kevin was inspired to start Poly Role Models, a popular interview series blog. The blog extended into speaking engagements about how race and polyamory intersect and the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind. Kevin took a month-long break from Love's Not Color Blind to write the first draft of For Hire: Operator.  Alana Phelan is a librarian, writer, editor, and community organizer. She lives in South Jersey with her family, two cats, and a surprisingly large Dorbz collection. You can find her online as The Polyamorous Librarian, where she writes a weekly advice column and offers workshops and relationship support. She wasn't supposed to be a co-writer on For Hire: Operator, only an editor, but here we are.

Dr. Elisebeth VanderWeil on Finding "Good" Fear   Dr. Elisebeth VanderWeil  is a full-cycle learning, change, and fear expert in Seattle, WA. She is committed to helping individuals and organizations navigate the messy, difficult work of learning and change. To that end, she recently launched Hand in the Dark Consulting to help organizations reeling from change and is currently working on a book that will help people use their fears, rather than be used by them. Dr. VanderWeil speaks with Robin Renée about the nature of fear, the complexity of our responses to it, and how a small amount of the right kind of fear is essential for learning, growth, and transformation. In The Geekscape, Mary McGinley geeks out on sonnets and reads a couple of her favorites by Shakespeare. Listen in to find out why she says sonnets are like the Twilight Zone of iambic pentameter. All the News We Can Handle this week includes the impeachment hearing testimonies of Gordon Sondland and Fiona Hill, audio and video tapes of Donald Trump and Rudy Giuliani turned over to the House Intelligence Committee, and a farewell to the pivotal website that kept Pagans aware and connected since 1997, The Witches' Voice. At the top of the show, Wendy Sheridan reminds us of some weird reasons to celebrate (or simply take note) including Influenza Week and Older Driver Safety Week. Also on the calendar is National Dice Day and National Sock Day (December 4th), Bathtub Party Day and International Ninja Day (December 5th), Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day and Skywarn Recognition Day (December 7th), Pretend to Be a Time Traveler Day (December 8th), Weary Willy Day to celebrate the art of clowning (December 9th), Dewey Decimal System Day, Human Rights Day, and Nobel Prize Day (December 10th). Birthday wishes go out to Jay-Z, Tyra Banks, Little Richard, Margaret Cho, T.O., Nicki Minaj, Sinead O'Connor, Donny Osmond, Dame Judi Dench, Imogen Heap, Kirk Douglas, and Bobby Flay. Things to do: Visit Dr. Elisebeth VanderWeil's blog, A Space Safe Enough for Fear and contact her on Twitter. Read Courage to Teach by Parker Palmer. Read Shakespeare's sonnets. Watch "Shakespeare's Original Pronunciation." Watch "'Hoi Toiders': The Last of the Carolinian Brogues." Go to Kevin A. Patterson and Alana Phelan's For Hire: Audition book release party, December 4th, 6-8pm at Amalgam Comics & Coffeehouse in Philadelphia. Featured Image by ElisaRiva from Pixabay

Tom Martin of Haddon Township, NJ has a passion for books. His dream of having a bookmobile grew into the creation of the Camden County Pop Up Library, through which he promotes literacy and community by giving away books four to five times a week. His regular stops include underserved areas in Camden and nearby locations such as outside a methadone clinic, transportation center, and soup kitchen. Listen in as he shares his inspired and inspiring thoughts on the project with co-host Robin Renée. In All the News We Can Handle, Robin, Mary McGinley, and Wendy Sheridan discuss people with weapons too close to home in Edison and Pleasantville, the guilty verdict for Roger Stone, and the ever-present impeachment news. On the upside, they send kudos to Lil Nas X, the first openly gay black man to win at the Country Music Awards, and announce Kevin A. Patterson and Alana Phelan's For Hire: Audition book release party on December 4th. At the end of the show, the Ikigai segment centers on inner wisdom, action, and the challenges of working as an independent musician. The week in celebrations and observances includes National Craft Jerky Day (November 27th), Thanksgiving Day and the National Day of Mourning (November 28th), Black Friday, Buy Nothing Day, National Native American Heritage Day, and Flossing Day (November 29th), National Personal Space Day, Meth Awareness Day, Small Business Saturday (November 30th), Rosa Parks Day and Day With(out) Arts (December 1st), National Mutt Day and Cyber Monday (December 2nd), and Giving Tuesday (December 3rd). December is AIDS Awareness Month, Car Donation Month, Human Rights Month, Write a Business Plan Month, and Spiritual Literacy Month. Birthday shout outs go to Bill Nye, Jimi Hendrix, Jon Stewart, Randy Newman, Sharon Needles, Billy Idol, Chrissie Teigen, Bette Midler, Janelle Monae, Robert Irwin, Sarah Silverman, Zoë Kravitz, Lucy Liu, Ozzy Osbourne, and co-host Wendy Sheridan. Things to do: Learn more about the Camden County Pop Up Library from the CCPUL website, like it on Facebook, and follow the project on Instagram. Donate to the Camden County Pop Up Library; contact Tom Martin about donating books. Read more about the CCPUL in the Philadelphia Inquirer. Contact your senators about moving on the Bipartisan Background Checks Act of 2019. Shop at wendycardz for the holidays! Book Robin Renée for shows for 2020! Watch "Old Town Road" by Lil Nas X ft. Billy Ray Cyrus https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7qovpFAGrQ Floss! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGiYrY2bUPc  

Mary McGinley, Wendy Sheridan, and Robin Renée get together this time around to chat about ways we can all vote with our dollars. Whether electronic, plastic, or old-fashioned green "paper ballots," we have the power to choose to spend or not spend our money in each potential transaction. Do you choose Costco over Walmart? Do you avoid Hobby Lobby, Chik-fil-A, or Wendy's? How much effort do you put into supporting businesses you think are a net positive in the world? Listen to this conversation as Mary, Wendy, and Robin weave through the questions and complications. Scroll down to explore links that can help you make choices about your buying power. Thanks to friend and listener Scott Brown for this political discussion topic and the link suggestions. The news is mostly an unwanted topic in this episode. An update about the Mueller, She Wrote and The Daily Beans podcasts turns out to be no news, which is good news. Celebrations and political actions this week include Congressional Startup Day (August 21st), Krishna Janmashtami (August 24th), National Power Rangers Day and National Rainbow Bridge Rememberance Day (August 28th). Birthday shout outs go to Kenny Rogers, Beenie Man, James Corden, Yvie Oddly, Rick Springfield, Kevin A. Patterson, Elvis Costello, Gene Simmons, Rob Halford, Sean Connery, Tim Burton, Cesar Millán, Paul Reubens, and Robin Renée. Word nerd alert: Wendy and Robin get inventive with their uses of "blanket forting" and "conject." The Leftscape co-hosts are taking a short vacation. Look for the next show on Wednesday, September 11th.   Things to do: Say hello on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, and send in your topic ideas for upcoming shows. March on Washington or in a solidarity event on Saturday, September 21st: We the People March Get informed and think about where you prefer to spend your money: "Hobby Lobby: Women's Rights v. Corporate Beliefs" in FindLaw "30 Fortune 500 companies that donate to Democrats and Republicans" in Business Insider "Did your favorite company donate to Democratic or Republican campaigns? This startup will tell you." in The Washington Post "Consumers Should Be Voting Every Day - with Their Wallets" in fee.org "You Have the Power in Your Wallet" in FreeFromBroke.com "Vote with Your Dollar Toolkit" by GreenAmerica.org Watch "United Breaks Guitars" by Dave Carroll: httpss://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5YGc4zOqozo Watch an adorable and "controversial" Cheerios commercial: httpss://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UYIb4QHW-X8   Featured image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

The latest novel by Alana Phelan and Kevin Patterson is on its way! In this episode, Kevin and Alana speak with Robin Renée about their For Hire book series, superhero novels where queer, polyamorous, people of color are centered. For Hire: Audition will focus on Vanessa, a barista, and a veteran superhero, B-Girl, who get together after dealing with life's disappointments to jump-start their careers. Find out about what sparked the co-authors' collaborations, their experiences with educating through workshops and creating community, and the importance of telling stories where people of color, LGBTQ, and polyamorous people exist beyond their necessity for a plot point. Get in on the crowdfunding of For Hire: Audition, pick some perks, and get ready for a super fun story. If you haven't read it yet, there's an option where you can double down and check out the first book, For Hire: Operator, at the same time. Later on in the show, Wendy Sheridan shares her impressions of Amazon's The Boys and The Expanse, then takes exception to the mansplaining and shoddy physics on Another Life from Netflix. Robert Mueller's congressional testimony and its aftermath is the News topic at hand. Mary McGinley starts things off with the week in celebrations: Varalakshmi Vratam (August 9th), Left Handers Day (August 13th), National Nonprofit Day and National Honey Bee Day (August 17th), and the 50th anniversary of Woodstock (August 15th - 17th). Birthday shout outs go to Roger Federer, Joe Jackson, Bob 1 of Devo, Halle Berry, Magic Johnson, Francis Bean Cobain, Bill Clinton, Madonna, Wendy's brother David, *Dimebag Darrell, and others.   Things to do: Hurry up and back the For Hire: Audition crowdfunding project! Read Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin Patterson. Explore relationship support, workshops, and more at Alana Phelan's website, The Polyamorous Librarian. Speak your mind with Wendy Sheridan's Protest Postcards. Read "Actually, Robert Mueller was Awesome" by Renato Mariotti in POLITICO Read "Forget the Theater Criticism -- Mueller's Conclusions are the Real News" by David A. Graham in The Atlantic *The passings of these two rock guitarists were conflated in the Birthdays and Celebrations segment: Darrell Lance Abbott, aka Dimebag Darrell was shot and killed while performing with Damageplan at the Alrosa Villa nightclub in Columbus, Ohio on December 8, 2004. Great White guitarist Ty Longley passed away in a fire started during the show by pyrotechnics at The Station nightclub in West Warwick, Rhode Island on February 20, 2003. RIP.