The All in a Homeschool Day podcast helps you let go of the "should's" so you can focus on the best for your homeschool and your family. It's difficult to juggle it all as a homeschool mom. Don't go it alone! Join us as we talk about Charlotte Mason homeschooling, family life, discipleship, parentin…
Wow! It's hard to believe that I started the podcast almost six years ago and have published 170 episodes. I love researching, planning, and recording podcast episodes. It has been a blast! During this episode, I'll catch you up on what is happening with the podcast and my life and business in general.
Have you thought about what your days will look like when you finish homeschooling? As my daughter was progressing through high school, I started thinking about what the empty nest years might look like. I'll be honest and say that I'm looking forward to them! It's no secret around here. I will miss my daughters' daily presence, but there is also a lot I'm looking forward to about them both graduating and moving out. It will mean more independence and freedom for all of us. We have graduated one daughter; the other is in high school. We are not fully empty nesting yet, but we have changed our family dynamics from a family of four to having an only child for most of the week, and she is a busy little bee with activities and friends. As we moved into this stage, I had thoughts about what the days would look like and how things would be. I was wrong about several of them. In this episode, I'm sharing three of the myths I believed about launching our children after homeschooling so you can have realistic expectations of what is ahead.
Do you remember when your children were young and how what they wanted to be when they grew up changed every few months? They were exploring their world and discovering new interests. Somewhere along the way, we started to believe that we had to choose one career path and stick to it. But let's be real for a minute. If you went to college, how many of you graduated from college with the major you started with? More recently, how often have you changed your homeschool curriculum because something just wasn't working? Rarely do we know exactly what we want and take a straight path to get there! Changing what we use for the sake of our children seems okay, but it's not okay for us to change our minds.I commented recently to a friend that it feels like I am a toddler exploring the world again or a college student trying to decide what her major should be. It's scary, confusing, and makes me a little dizzy! But it's okay. It's a part of the process of discerning where God is calling me to serve next. In this episode, I am sharing my journey of re-discovery of who I am and what I want to be when I grow up, umm, I mean when I finish my current calling of being a homeschool mom. Along the way, I'll share three important truths I learned.
When I took my first life coaching class in the summer of 2021, I thought it sounded interesting and like something I might want to pursue, but I wasn't sure if I wanted to do it professionally. I figured even if I didn't continue this as a profession, my family would benefit as I learned to be a better listener. As you can probably guess by now, I fell in love with coaching! I love creating a safe space for clients to process their situation, helping them rediscover their dreams and passions, watching the light bulb go off when they realize what is keeping them stuck, and partnering with clients to help them achieve their dreams! And my family has definitely benefited! As I have continued to improve my coaching skills, I've learned six questions that can have a profound impact on your thinking. I ask myself these questions when I am struggling with something. And I ask them of my daughters and husband, too. The questions we discussed today were:What is prompting me to think about this? What is prompting them to tell me this?What does that mean to you?What do you think about that?What is important about that? What might you need to address?What can I do to support you?
I was listening to a podcast episode where they were talking about controlling your emotions by talking to the elephant. I was intrigued and pondered this more over the next several days. It tied in perfectly with the Bible study my women's group was doing, so I prepared some talking points as a session opener for the group. Being a thermostat instead of a thermometer is important to me and is something I have been trying to do since my daughters were in elementary school. I learned how to manage my emotions during that season and thought it was now second nature. But I've come to realize lately that I need reminders often because I am facing different emotions (and more hormones). The reminders in this episode are as much for me as for you. I hope they help you during your season of transition, too!
When my daughters were in elementary school, I dreaded the teenage years. I had heard stories of challenging days, hormonal swings, and tension. With two girls, I dreaded what the hormonal days would look like, but then I read a book that changed my perspective. Why I Didn't Rebel by Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach helped me see how the teenage years would have their own unique set of challenges but could also be a delightful time that I could look forward to with excitement. My daughter's teenage years have been some of my favorites. In this episode, I'm sharing what I love about the teenage years and why you can look forward to them!
The teenage years are often a little rocky. It's inevitable that there will be friction as your teen learns to become an adult and you learn to let go of control. It's a little like shooting a bow and arrow. To shoot the arrow far and straight, you need to pull back on the bowstring and create tension. The tension can be uncomfortable and strained, but it is necessary to hit the target. Continuing with our theme of adjusting our parenting style as move along the Influence Factor Parenting Continuum™, in this episode we will explore 3 traits you need to embrace as your children mature and you learn to move to a mentoring and coaching approach.
We've been talking about moving along the Influence Factor Parenting Continuum™ from instructing and control to a position of influence with mentoring and coaching. If you missed those episodes, you might want to take a listen. Today, we are talking about one aspect of moving from control to influence with our teens and pre-teens. As they begin getting involved in more activities without us, they need to be able to choose how they want to respond and follow through with that action. In this episode, I'll share the activity we used to help our teens become more confident in their actions and responses. And the best part is that it only takes a few minutes!
No one likes to be told what to do, especially teenagers. My daughter's junior year of high school was rocky. As hard as I tried to allow her to assume responsibility for her decisions and actions, I kept stepping in and trying to control the situation. It was stressful and frustrating for both of us and damaged our relationship. Thankfully, I learned how to handle such situations better, and our relationship has recovered. In this episode, I am sharing 3 principles I try to follow to help my children own their actions without nagging.
Have you thought, "If only parenting came with an instruction manual?!" Me, too! It seems that when we finally figure out how to handle a situation, our children change. What was working no longer works! It can be infuriatingly frustrating at times. We scramble to talk to friends, read books, and search the Internet to figure out what to do. I've been frustrated by this at times until I realized that it is a natural part of life as we progress through the stages of the Influence Factor Parenting Continuum™. As I learned to embrace the shift from control to influence, I have deepened my relationship with my children and become more secure in allowing them to explore and spread their wings. But it hasn't been easy! My first step was to recognize and acknowledge why it was necessary to change my perspective and parenting style. Shifting my mindset gave me encouragement when the transition was difficult. In this episode, I'm sharing the three motivations I keep in mind as I move along the Influence Factor Parenting Continuum™.
Recently, I helped a client create several routines for aspects of her day that felt too chaotic. Having a plan of attack allowed her to reduce decision fatigue and know what to expect next. After our call, I realized that we had worked through a framework for creating routines. In this episode, I'm excited to share that framework with you. This episode will be a little longer than usual. It's more like a mini-training. If you are not able to pause the episode as you listen so you can work through the steps, you can still listen and ponder your answers throughout the day. You can also come back and listen when you are ready to work through the steps in more detail. We'll be working through these steps together in a group coaching workshop on January 15 and 18. (Choose the session that works best for you. The content will be the same.) Click here to learn more about the Routines to the Rescue group coaching workshop.
Multiple people have asked what coaching is. The easiest way to explain it is that as a coach, I partner with you to help you achieve your goals and dreams. The coaching relationship looks different for every client because our personalities and situations are all different. What doesn't change, though, is the process we use during a coaching conversation. In this episode, I'm sharing the three steps we use during a coaching conversation. You can use these steps to coach yourself or in any conversation.
I've taken many personality assessments over the years. I'm sure it has something to do with my top talent themes of learner, input, and maximizer. I enjoy learning about different assessments, about myself, and how I can improve based on what I learn. Too often though, I've taken an assessment and thought how accurate the results are and then put the report on the shelf. It didn't change any of my behavior or future plans. I've not found this to be true of the CliftonStrengths or Enneagram assessments. I continue to use them on a weekly and sometimes daily basis.I was talking about the CliftonStrengths report with some coach friends. One asked what she could do with these results. This episode is basically the answer that I gave her. I hope it helps you see how you can use your top talent themes (or what you naturally do well).
When I opened my CliftonStrengths report, I was not surprised. What surprised me, though, was that I felt relief. I finally had words to explain why certain things were important to me and why I did what I did. I could give myself permission to approach life the way I do because I better understood how God uniquely wired me. In this episode, I'll share with you how strengths-based thinking has helped me embrace who I am and my God-given calling.
As I was preparing a lesson for our Sunday School class this week about when Zechariah was silent during Elizabeth's pregnancy, I was reminded of my own period of semi-silence. I shared some thoughts and lessons I learned during that time with my class and wanted to share them with you, too. In this episode, I'll share four lessons I learned during my time of semi-silence.
It's frustrating when you realize you are dropping balls and can't juggle all of them. It happens to everyone now and then. In this episode, I'll share the three tips I have to remind myself of when I start dropping balls. Plus, I'm sharing about a brand new coaching opportunity that can help you show up more authentically in all of your relationships.
Do you suffer from decision fatigue? Decision fatigue is when you become physically, mentally, and emotionally depleted when you have to make too many decisions. Some sources have suggested we make an average of 35,000 decisions a day. No wonder moms suffer from this condition! Add, on top of the normal decisions we make, our children's unending requests that we have to decide how to respond!Even if you weren't familiar with the term "decision fatigue," I bet you have experienced it. Common symptoms include:Procrastinating because you don't know what to do next.Not knowing how to respond to someone when they ask what you want.Not knowing how to respond when your child asks for something or to do something.Feeling brain dead or having brain fog.You could even have physical symptoms such as headaches, eye twitches, and nausea. What can we do to overcome decision fatigue? In this episode, we'll discuss how to use an SOP to reduce your decision fatigue.Related episodes and resources mentioned:Schedule a 45-minute strategy session to create an SOP with me149: A Time Management Strategy That Actually Works For Moms148: Create More Time In Your Day By Using A Responsibilities & Privileges List135: The Four C's Of Obedience: How To Make Learning To Obey Fun98: 7 Barriers To Effective Time Management And How To Overcome Them8 Signs of Decision Fatigue and How To CopeNightly Five Parenting ToolkitSend me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallConnect with me through Voxer (profile: crystalwagner)Sign up for the workshop waiting listSupport the showReady to pursue your dreams with confidence? Here are three ways I can support you on your journey: Listen to the podcast. The Purposeful Impact Podcast helps you rediscover who you are, feel more fulfilled, and pursue your dreams as you care for your family! You'll find permission to pursue your dreams your way, practical solutions to challenges you might face, and tips for becoming a more influential leader in your home and beyond. Book (or recommend) me to speak to your group. Practical, engaging, and transformative small group training sessions equip support groups, co-ops, and small groups. Virtual options are available! Engage me as a Life, Leadership, or Homeschool Coach. For a limited number of clients, I work one-on-one as a coach or with a group as a coach and facilitator. We'll work together to identify and overcome limiting beliefs that are holding you back and help you develop the right mindset and skills to help you pursue your dreams. Don't let a lack of confidence or clarity limit your dreams. Connect with me today! © Triumphant Learning, LLC
I don't know about you, but if my physical space is cluttered, I can't think clearly. And if you have children, chances are you have clutter. Their stuff seems to multiply like rabbits! I've heard from many of you that you have difficulty staying on top of keeping your house tidy. In this episode, I want to share my strategy for dealing with the never-ending influx of papers, toys, laundry, dishes, and more.Related episodes and resources mentioned:37: Household Management Tips35: Help! I can't get it all done!How To Organize A Home Library In 5 Simple StepsSend me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSupport the showReady to pursue your dreams with confidence? Here are three ways I can support you on your journey: Listen to the podcast. The Purposeful Impact Podcast helps you rediscover who you are, feel more fulfilled, and pursue your dreams as you care for your family! You'll find permission to pursue your dreams your way, practical solutions to challenges you might face, and tips for becoming a more influential leader in your home and beyond. Book (or recommend) me to speak to your group. Practical, engaging, and transformative small group training sessions equip support groups, co-ops, and small groups. Virtual options are available! Engage me as a Life, Leadership, or Homeschool Coach. For a limited number of clients, I work one-on-one as a coach or with a group as a coach and facilitator. We'll work together to identify and overcome limiting beliefs that are holding you back and help you develop the right mindset and skills to help you pursue your dreams. Don't let a lack of confidence or clarity limit your dreams. Connect with me today! © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Sometimes, parenting feels like we're trapped in the movie Groundhog Day.
Do you have a vision of what you want the tone or atmosphere of your home to be, but you're having trouble implementing it because you are too tired and lack the energy to carry it out? I get it! As a mom, there will be days you are too tired to deal with sibling bickering, pre-teen and teen hormonal swings, and all of the other challenges that threaten to send you over the edge. Some days, it's all you can do to keep everyone fed and alive. It's normal. I have had many of these days. It's frustrating, but there is a technique you can use to help you set the tone even when you are exhausted, burned out, and ready to throw in the towel. In this episode, we'll discuss how to implement this technique without adding more stress to your day.Related episodes and resources mentioned:Download the Thermostat Approach Toolkit graphics117: How I Retrained My Thoughts To Be A Thermostat Instead Of A Thermometer116: 4 Common Mistakes Preventing You From Cultivating A Thriving Home Atmosphere114: Create An Atmosphere Where Children Thrive WorkshopSend me a message Schedule a free Discovery CallSupport the showReady to pursue your dreams with confidence? Here are three ways I can support you on your journey: Listen to the podcast. The Purposeful Impact Podcast helps you rediscover who you are, feel more fulfilled, and pursue your dreams as you care for your family! You'll find permission to pursue your dreams your way, practical solutions to challenges you might face, and tips for becoming a more influential leader in your home and beyond. Book (or recommend) me to speak to your group. Practical, engaging, and transformative small group training sessions equip support groups, co-ops, and small groups. Virtual options are available! Engage me as a Life, Leadership, or Homeschool Coach. For a limited number of clients, I work one-on-one as a coach or with a group as a coach and facilitator. We'll work together to identify and overcome limiting beliefs that are holding you back and help you develop the right mindset and skills to help you pursue your dreams. Don't let a lack of confidence or clarity limit your dreams. Connect with me today! © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Have you noticed that we tend to believe the stories we tell or tell ourselves?I'm not beautiful. I need to lose x amount of weight before I'll look good.Why can't you be more careful? You're so clumsy!You're so smart. I wish I thought like you do.You're so kind and caring. I love how you talk to your sister.It's like shining a flashlight on the path ahead. We focus our attention where the light shines. The same principle applies to the words we use. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy. We start to live up to what others tell us or "shine the light on."In this episode, we're talking about how you can change where you shine your flashlight so you can change the atmosphere of your home. Related episodes and resources mentioned:Complete the Home Atmosphere Assessment in the Thriving Life JournalNo Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality, and Discover the One Secret That Will Change Your Parenting by Dave and Ann WilsonLosing Control and Liking It: How to Set Your Teen (and Yourself) Free by Tim Sanford117: How I Retrained My Thoughts To Be A Thermostat Instead Of A Thermometer116: 4 Common Mistakes Preventing You From Cultivating A Thriving Home Atmosphere114: Create An Atmosphere Where Children Thrive WorkshopSend me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallWant to improve your listening skills and increase your influence?Join us and learn what it means to truly listen and practice three techniques that will help you improve your listening skills. You will walk away with practical strategies you can use to break down barriers and help others feel heard, understood, and loved. Click here to learn more or enroll in the listening workshop. Support the showReady to pursue your dreams with confidence? Here are three ways I can support you on your journey: Listen to the podcast. The Purposeful Impact Podcast helps you rediscover who you are, feel more fulfilled, and pursue your dreams as you care for your family! You'll find permission to pursue your dreams your way, practical solutions to challenges you might face, and tips for becoming a more influential leader in your home and beyond. Book (or recommend) me to speak to your group. Practical, engaging, and transformative small group training sessions equip support groups, co-ops, and small groups. Virtual options are available! Engage me as a Life, Leadership, or Homeschool Coach. For a limited number of clients, I work one-on-one as a coach or with a group as a coach and facilitator. We'll work together to identify and overcome limiting beliefs that are holding you back and help you develop the right mindset and skills to help you pursue your dreams. Don't let a lack of confidence or clarity limit your dreams. Connect with me today! © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Are you frustrated that you can't seem to set and achieve goals? Me too! I've had a difficult time with goals for years. There was a time that I could set a goal and achieve it. But all that changed when I had children. And as I've gotten older, setting goals has become even more challenging. In this episode, I'm sharing why I no longer set goals and the two things I do instead. Related episodes and resources mentioned:5 Steps to Write Your Mission Statement92: Similarities Between Time Management And Juggling147: How do I balance pursuing my dreams and serving my family well?149: Time Management Strategy That Actually Works For Moms With Kids UnderfootSend me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSupport the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Most time management systems are designed for working professionals who can compartmentalize their life. They can have work blocks and home blocks. But what about moms who stay home, work from home, or homeschool? Having children underfoot and needing your attention at all hours of the day (and night) makes it quite challenging to compartmentalize your life!Over the years, I've learned some tips and tricks to manage my time and not feel overwhelmed with all the things on my to-do list. In this workshop, you will learn a three-step process to plan your day, what to put on your to-do list (and what to take off), and common pitfalls to avoid when planning your dayLinks and resources mentioned in the workshopDownload the Time Management Workshop handoutsWatch Rory Vaden's Ted Talk"How to Multiply Your Time"Square Breathing Grounding Technique5-4-3-2-1 Grounding TechniquePsalm 46:10 Be Still MeditationSupport the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
A lot goes into running a household. Sometimes it can feel like there are not enough hours in the day to get everything done. With all that we have to do, how can we have time to pursue our dreams without feeling exhausted?!We started using a Responsibilities & Privileges list as a way to provide a practical learning experience for our daughters to see the correlation between responsibilities and privileges and encourage maturity and independence. It became so much more. It was a great way to help them learn new skills and reap the benefits of their hard work. But it also provided a way for them to help around the house. As they stepped up and helped in more ways, we created an atmosphere where we all were able to pursue our dreams. We shared the load and helped each other as needed. In this episode, I'll explain how we prepared and used a Responsibilities & Privileges List. Plus, you can download the free PDF that includes 90 responsibilities suggestions and 39 privileges suggestions.Related episodes and resources mentioned:Download the Responsibilities & Privileges ListSend me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSupport the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Many people have asked me how I can do so many things and seemingly do them all well. Today, I want to let you in on my secret for pursuing my dreams while also serving my family well. It is possible to juggle both, but it requires intentionality and discipline. That sounds hard, but it's not as difficult as you might think. In this episode, I'll share the three principles I follow that allow me to balance pursuing my dreams and caring for my family. Related episodes and resources mentioned:91: How To Use The Rocks In A Jar Analogy To Fit More Into Your Day92: Similarities Between Time Management And Juggling93: Follow These 3 Steps To Have Realistic Expectations About Your Day96: 5 Simple Steps To Design A Family Schedule That Helps Your Family Thrive5 Steps to Write Your Mission StatementSend me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSupport the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Now that you have your vision and mission statements, it helps to perform a SWOT analysis (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats). In this episode, we'll walk through each of these steps. Related episodes and resources mentioned:Send me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSee all of the episodes in this series and download the handouts.Support the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
A paper published by a Duke University researcher in 2006 found that more than 40% of the actions people perform each day weren't actual decisions but rituals and habits. In the fourth step of the process, we'll work through an exercise to help you visualize living out your vision and mission statements. Related episodes and resources mentioned:Send me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSee all of the episodes in this series and download the handouts.Support the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Now that you have identified your vision or what you want to accomplish, we'll take a look at writing your mission statement or how you will carry out your vision. In this episode, we'll walk through three exercises to help you write your mission statement.Core valuesUnique characteristicsMotivatorsThen, we'll talk about how to write your mission statement and some guidelines to help you through the process.Related episodes and resources mentioned:Send me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSee all of the episodes in this series and download the handouts.Support the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
In the previous episode, we talked about the difference between a mission and a vision statement. Today, we are diving into the first step, which is writing your vision statement. Let's dive in and get started!Related episodes and resources mentioned:Send me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSee all of the episodes in this series and download the handouts.Support the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Stephen Covey said that we need to begin with the end in mind. To live a have a greater influence and impact, you need to know what your mission and vision are. Over the next five episodes, we'll cover the important aspects of writing your mission statement. By the end, you'll have a draft of your mission statement and some ideas of how you might want to live that out.In this first episode of the series, we'll talk about the difference between a mission and a vision.Related episodes and resources mentioned:Send me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSee all of the episodes in this series and download the handouts.Support the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
How do you know when to move forward? It can be difficult to know when you have all of the information you need, and it's time to move forward. And when you sense it's time to move forward, it can be scary to take the first step. In this episode, we're talking about what to do when it's time to take the first step, but it's scary. Related episodes and resources mentioned:140: What to do when you feel stuck and not moving forward99: 3 Simple Steps To Manage Your EmotionsSquare Breathing Grounding TechniquePsalm 46:10 Be Still Meditation5-4-3-2-1 Grounding TechniqueDownload the Thermostat Approach ToolkitSend me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSupport the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Have you felt like you're standing still when you wanted to be moving forward? I've felt like this many times over the past two years. I would see a little bit of forward motion, then I would stall, and then there would be some more forward motion and another stall. In this episode, we're talking about what to do when you feel stuck and like you're not moving forward. Related episodes and resources mentioned:Square Breathing Grounding TechniquePsalm 46:10 Be Still Meditation5-4-3-2-1 Grounding TechniqueDownload the free Thriving Life JournalSend me a messageSchedule a free Discovery CallSupport the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Too often, we get into thinking that it has to be one or the other. Either this or that. But it doesn't have to be either end of the spectrum. It could be yes/and. In this episode, we'll explore the mindset shift that can help you live a yes/and life.Related episodes and resources mentioned:91: How To Use The Rocks In A Jar Analogy To Fit More Into Your Day92: Similarities Between Time Management And Juggling103: Identifying Your Minimum Viable DaySend me a message.Schedule a free Discovery CallSupport the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
As time goes by, we sometimes lose sight of who we are. We forget what makes us unique and what we have to offer to the world. We forget our dreams. If this is you, you are not alone! In today's episode, we'll explore how you can rediscover who you are and the dreams God placed on your heart.Related episodes and resources mentioned:110: Simple Step-By-Step Guide To Living A More Fulfilling Life112: 7 Keys To Flourish And ThriveSend me a message.Support the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
In 2018, God placed on my heart to start a podcast helping homeschool moms manage the many demands of their unique lifestyles. Through the years, I saw how my message also applied to other women. I also learned about leadership topics and life coaching. As I started working with women during my life coach training, I realized that what really lit me up was helping women pursue their dreams while still serving their families well.I started feeling God calling me to broaden my message and rebrand my business. I've gone back and forth about what to do and who God is calling me to serve. I finally realized that I can show up as all of me. I can talk about our homeschool journey, my struggle with a chronic health issue, and being a solopreneur. The valuable lessons I learn through each of these experiences have global applications. You can learn from them and apply them to your unique situation. I'm excited to embark on this new journey! The content of the podcast will be shifting a little. (You can learn about that in the trailer episode just before this one.) I'll be focusing more on finding permission to pursue your dreams your way, practical solutions to challenges you might face, and tips for becoming a more influential leader. I hope you enjoy the new focus and find ways to apply what you learn to your life.Now that you know the story of the pivot, I want to share my winding story.Related episodes and resources mentioned:Triumphant LearningMy Homeschool Story7 Pillars of Purposeful ImpactLife CoachingKeep dreaming!CrystalSupport the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Welcome to the Purposeful Impact podcast!On this podcast, you'll find permission to pursue your dreams your way, practical solutions to challenges you might face, and tips for becoming a more influential leader in your home and beyond.If you‘re ready to rediscover who you are, feel more fulfilled, and pursue your dreams as you care for your family, you‘re in the right place.Hey, I‘m Crystal Wagner. I'm an impact coach and instructor, and it's my mission to help Christian women implement the 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact so they can pursue their dreams and have a greater impact in their sphere of influence. I know what it's like to want to use your gifts and talents beyond your home. If you're like me, you recognize the impact you have on your children, but you also want to pursue a God-given dream and have an impact beyond your home too.As an impact coach, I help you rediscover who you are and clarify your vision so you can pursue your dreams while serving your family well. If this sounds like you, you can begin implementing the 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact by downloading the free PDF. When you are ready to dive deeper, you can schedule a free 30-minute Discovery Call in which we will get to know each other and talk about how coaching could help you rediscover who you are and begin living out your dreams.When you live a life of purposeful impact, you can avoid burnout and an identity crisis when your children graduate.You will know who you are, what renews your energy, and what brings you joy. As you clarify your vision and live out your God-ordained dreams, you will feel more fulfilled and have a greater impact in your home and beyond.Support the show>> Free 7 Pillars of Purposeful Impact: Lay a foundation to pursue your dreams and increase your influencehttps://crystalwagner.net/7pillars/ >> Impact Coaching: A personalized journey of learning who you are and leaning into your strengths so you can have the confidence to pursue your dreams in a way that aligns with your values and allows you to serve your family well.https://crystalwagner.net/coaching/>> Workshops and Trainings: Join an encouraging, practical, and transformative training designed to equip you to pursue your dreams and become a more influential leader.https://crystalwagner.net/speaking/ Love the show? Become a podcast supporter. Click here to learn more. © Triumphant Learning, LLC
Recounting a personal tale involving my tech-savvy daughter and my mother-in-law, we navigate the tricky business of 'passing the baton' as our children mature. Just as a relay race requires trust, timing, and knowing when to release control, so does the transition into more responsibility for our kids. We'll break down this metamorphosis into three digestible stages - recognizing the transition time, letting go for their growth, and trusting in their ability to handle the responsibility. Join us on this insightful journey of life's most important relay race - raising our children.Related episodes133: Letting Go of Supermom: Releasing Control and Embracing Imperfection114: Create An Atmosphere Where Children Thrive Workshop61: How To Teach Life Skills In Your HomeschoolSupport the show
How many times have you found yourself locked in a power struggle with your child over obedience? What if the secret to teaching obedience isn't about enforcing rules but about building relationships? In this episode, we unpack the art of instilling obedience in children, and it's not what you'd expect. I share personal experiences, tips on how to reframe situations for easier obedience, and how to get help from your support network.But it's not all about the challenges. We also delve into the joys of parenting - the process of building healthy, lifelong relationships with your kids while teaching them obedience. We talk about the importance of picking your battles wisely, responding to peer pressure, and extending grace. Plus, we discuss how to create an environment conducive to wise decision-making. And there's a bonus! You can download resources like obedience phrases, games, and book suggestions to make the task of teaching obedience easier and more enjoyable. Resources mentioned in the episode:Parenting with Love and Logic by Foster Cline and Jim FayParenting is Heart Work by Scott Turansky"The Years Are Short" by Gretchen RubinTo download the handouts for this workshop visit:https://www.triumphantlearning.com/the-four-cs-of-obedience-how-to-make-learning-to-obey-fun/Until next time,CrystalSupport the show
What if there was a shift in perception that could transform your daily disruptions into opportunities for growth and connection? I've been in your shoes, grappling with the same frustrations as you - the never-ending stream of interruptions that threaten to derail my productivity. But, I made a mindset shift that revolutionized how I deal with interruptions. Join me as I share my personal journey of turning these disruptions into relationship-building opportunities and service, along with two practical strategies that brought a significant boost to my efficiency.Resources MentionedThermostat Approach Toolkit https://www.triumphantlearning.com/thermostatapproachtoolkit/Coaching https://www.triumphantlearning.com/coaching/Related episodes114: Create An Atmosphere Where Children Thrive Workshop103: Identifying Your Minimum Viable Day92: How To Know Your Priorities And Let Go Of Fear, Guilt, And Shame61: How To Teach Life Skills In Your HomeschoolSupport the show
Are you worn out from trying to be supermom? Have you been striving for perfection, only to find it's an impossible goal? It's time for a change. This episode is your wake-up call. It's time to burst the supermom myth, let go of control, and embrace the power of imperfection. We're discussing the liberating truth that our role isn't to be the superhero who saves the day, but the Yoda who guides our children through the galaxy of life. You just might find that embracing imperfection and letting go of control are the keys to a happier, healthier you and a more peaceful, more resilient family.Related episodes129: What would I have done differently in our homeschool?114: Create An Atmosphere Where Children Thrive WorkshopSupport the show
Most people have taken a speech class, but very few were ever taught how to listen. And yet, listening is one of the most important skills for parents to use when raising children. How you listen and respond affects all aspects of your home atmosphere. Listening well allows you to develop deeper relationships, improves the effectiveness of your homeschool lessons, and reduces struggles with your children.Christine Miles is an author, speaker, and executive coach. She is the Founder and CEO of EQuipt, a training and consulting company that helps leadership teams grow sales, develop people, and create cultures of understanding. She developed The Listening Path, a transformational workshop on listening to understand, which has been taught at various Fortune 100 corporations, universities, law firms, and privately-held companies.In this episode, Christine discusses the importance of listening, practical applications, and simple steps you can take to begin your listening journey. Christine's book: What Is It Costing You Not to Listen?: The Power of Understanding to Connect, Influence, Solve & SellConnect with Christine.
Have you wondered why your homeschool plans look different from your friend's? Or, how can your friend ______ when you can barely ______? The answer lies in the beautiful way that God designed you. You have unique personality traits, abilities, and strengths, and you can take advantage of those to be a better homeschool facilitator! Listen in to hear about some aspects of your personality and strengths to consider as you plan your homeschool lessons.Links and resources mentioned in the show:https://www.triumphantlearning.com/homeschool-planning/Questions to consider:How did you work best when you were working before you started homeschooling?How do you function best when volunteering?What causes you stress vs. what seems easy?What brings you joy vs. causes feelings of dread?How would others describe your strengths?Before you plan your next homeschool, I invite you to consider what characteristics of your personality and your strengths you want to incorporate into your way of planning or implementing your homeschool lessons. If you would like someone to help you through that process, I'd love to help. Schedule a free Discovery Call to find out more. https://www.triumphantlearning.com/bookingcalendar/
Are you ready to embark on a homeschooling journey but have concerns and questions looming over your head? Fear not! In this episode, I've got you covered with the Homeschool 101: You can homeschool workshop, where we tackle common questions and provide guidance for those starting their homeschooling adventure. Discover the benefits of homeschooling, understand what a typical homeschool day looks like, and determine if it's the right choice for your family.Join us as we explore how homeschooling can benefit children of all academic abilities and tackle the truth about socialization. We'll also delve into the three situations where homeschooling may not be the perfect fit and discuss the qualifications you need to teach your children effectively. Don't miss this in-depth discussion on homeschooling, and be sure to check the show notes for links to four free resources that will help you kickstart your homeschooling journey. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to reach out to us. We're here to support you on this exciting path and remind you that you are your child's best teacher!Click here to download the free guides and learn more.
In the last episode, I shared the six lessons I learned during our 14 years of homeschooling. Today, I'm sharing a few things I would have done differently. It's interesting that most are not related to academics!
We just finished our 14th year of homeschooling. The time flies in the blink of an eye. I've learned six important lessons during our time, and in this episode, I'm sharing those lessons with you.What questions do you have? What would you like to ask a veteran homeschooler? Let me know, and I'll try to cover them on the podcast. https://www.triumphantlearning.com/contact/Also, I have openings for coaching clients this summer. I opened my availability and would love to partner with you. Whether you have questions as you plan your upcoming homeschool year or want to work on creating a homeschool you love, I'd love to partner with you. Schedule a free Discovery Call, and let's chat.https://www.triumphantlearning.com/bookingcalendar/I'm currently taking applications for podcast coaching sessions to air on the podcast. This free session is ideal if you are feeling frustrated and stuck. I'll partner with you by listening without judgment and asking thought-provoking questions to help you discern your next step.If this sounds like something you are interested in, you can apply at https://www.triumphantlearning.com/podcastcoaching.Support the show
A reader asked, "I feel like there is always something better I could/should be doing. How do I choose what resources to use among the endless choices?"It's not easy, especially since there are so many great choices now! But in this bonus episode, I'll share three areas you can assess to determine what to choose. Resources mentioned in the episode:Six Questions To Help You Write A Homeschool Mission StatementUntil next time,CrystalP.S. Do you have a question you would like answered on the podcast? Click here to send me a message.I want to make sure that I am serving you well and providing content that is helpful for you. If you have a question you want answered or a topic you want covered on the podcast, you can leave me a text or voice message by visiting triumphantlearning.com/contact. Or, if you've been particularly encouraged by an episode, you can leave a testimonial too. I look forward to hearing from you!Support the show
I think every home educator knows that your homeschool will look different from everyone else's, but we still compare. And we still feel fear, guilt, and shame because of the comparisons. Today's episode provides encouragement for you to embrace the unique way you homeschool. We'll look at three specific ways your homeschool may look different and how to embrace your choices as right for your family.Resources mentioned in the episode:Six Questions To Help You Write A Homeschool Mission StatementUntil next time,CrystalI want to make sure that I am serving you well and providing content that is helpful for you. If you have a question you want answered or a topic you want covered on the podcast, you can leave me a text or voice message by visiting triumphantlearning.com/contact. Or, if you've been particularly encouraged by an episode, you can leave a testimonial too. I look forward to hearing from you!Support the show
It's Q&A time again. A reader asked, "How do I know what I have to teach?" I'll share how to find that out and how to comply with the requirements while still meeting the needs of your homeschool. Resources mentioned in the episode:Homeschool Legal Defense Association (HSLDA)Homeschool Planning 101: Plan Your Homeschool Year With ConfidenceUntil next time,CrystalP.S. Do you have a question you would like answered on the podcast? Click here to send me a message.I want to make sure that I am serving you well and providing content that is helpful for you. If you have a question you want answered or a topic you want covered on the podcast, you can leave me a text or voice message by visiting triumphantlearning.com/contact. Or, if you've been particularly encouraged by an episode, you can leave a testimonial too. I look forward to hearing from you!Support the show
How would you rate your homeschool? In addition to doing a full evaluation at the end of the year, I like to do this quick 10-minute assessment prior to planning next year's lesson. In this episode, I'll walk you through assessing ten areas in less than 10 minutes to determine what you might want to change about your homeschool. You can do this on a piece of paper, or you can download the Thriving Life Journal and print out the assessment and additional journaling pages. If you would like help debriefing this exercise and determining your next steps, consider scheduling a free Discovery Call to discuss how coaching might help.Resources mentioned in the episode: Thriving Life JournalHow Homeschool Evaluations Help You Achieve Your Homeschool GoalsSchedule a free Discovery CallUntil next time,CrystalI want to make sure that I am serving you well and providing content that is helpful for you. If you have a question you want answered or a topic you want covered on the podcast, you can leave me a text or voice message by visiting triumphantlearning.com/contact. Or, if you've been particularly encouraged by an episode, you can leave a testimonial too. I look forward to hearing from you!Support the show
Today, I'm answering a reader question about whether you should use a boxed curriculum. The short answer is, "It depends." I'll share four reasons you might want to consider a boxed curriculum, four reasons you probably don't want to use one, and what we do.Resources mentioned in the episode:Six Questions To Help You Write A Homeschool Mission Statement5 Simple Steps to Set Homeschool Goals You Can AccomplishThe Ultimate Guide To Choosing A Homeschool PhilosophyUntil next time,Crystal P.S. Do you have a question you would like answered on the podcast? Click here to send me a messageI want to make sure that I am serving you well and providing content that is helpful for you. If you have a question you want answered or a topic you want covered on the podcast, you can leave me a text or voice message by visiting triumphantlearning.com/contact. Or, if you've been particularly encouraged by an episode, you can leave a testimonial too. I look forward to hearing from you!Support the show
Before I start planning our next homeschool year, I always take some time to lay a foundation by reviewing four areas that guide all of my decisions for the next year. This forms my decision-making framework, which makes the planning process much easier. In this episode, I'll share those four areas with you.Know your purposeKnow your valuesKnow your childrenKnow yourselfSpend some time thinking about these four areas before you start planning your lessons for next year. If you want to learn more about these areas and have reflection questions to guide your thoughts, the Homeschool Foundations Course is available for 50% off (only $7.50) through July 31.Resources mentioned in the episode:Homeschool Foundations CourseUntil next time,CrystalIt's that time of year again...homeschool planning time! The Plan Your Homeschool Year Work Session will help you plan your homeschool year with confidence. This dynamic and interactive group experience provides dedicated time to plan, an opportunity to ask questions, and a sounding board to explore your options. Sessions begin June 5. Learn more and enroll at https://www.triumphantlearning.com/planningsessions. I want to make sure that I am serving you well and providing content that is helpful for you. If you have a question you want answered or a topic you want covered on the podcast, you can leave me a text or voice message by visiting triumphantlearning.com/contact. Or, if you've been particularly encouraged by an episode, you can leave a testimonial too. I look forward to hearing from you!
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