Freedom Reigns

Sis, if you keep dating the same man with a different name—or finding yourself in cycles of confusion, disrespect, or situationships—it might not be a them problem. It might be a self-love problem.

Are you using discernment—or just defending yourself from disappointment?In this episode, Coach Vee breaks down the real meaning of dating with discernment and why so many women unknowingly sabotage healthy love while trying to guard their hearts. From calling fear “a check in your spirit” to confusing consistency with control, we're getting real about how trauma, fear, and unhealed wounds disguise themselves as wisdom.You'll learn:The difference between discernment and defensivenessHow to recognize when your “intuition” is actually insecurityThe 5 keys to using discernment wisely in your love lifeWhy healing is essential before you can date with clarityThis one's part heart check, part love strategy—and it's going to shift how you navigate dating from this moment forward.

Sis… what if the delay in your love life isn't God's doing—but yours?In this episode, we're dismantling the faith-based excuses that keep women stuck in cycles of passivity, frustration, and disappointment. You'll learn the difference between bold faith and inactive hope, why your strategy matters just as much as your prayers, and how to move from waiting to walking in alignment.We'll unpack the story of Esther, a woman who didn't just pray for favor—she positioned herself for it. And I'll give you the truth, tools, and tough love to help you stop hiding behind clichés and start winning at love.

Sis… how long are you going to sit around “waiting on God” while doing absolutely nothing to prepare for what you're praying for?

Loneliness has a way of turning up the volume on our fears, doubts, and desire for connection—sometimes so loud, it drowns out discernment. In this #NewMotivation episode, I'm taking you into the story of Leah in Genesis 29 to show how desperation for love can lead us to settle for the noise of attention instead of the substance of real connection. Sis, it's time to stop performing to be chosen and start posturing yourself in praise, purpose, and preparation.This quick, 7-minute heart check will help you identify the places where you're settling out of fear, shift your focus back to God, and remind you that you are not forgotten—you're being fortified.Grab your journal, your favorite tea, and let's go there.

Are you tired of lonely nights and wondering when your love story will finally begin?In this powerful episode, Coach Vee dives deep into the truth about loneliness, why it's more dangerous than we realize, and how to turn this season into one of preparation, healing, and hope.Loneliness isn't just a feeling — it can quietly sabotage your standards, your heart, and your future if left unhealed.Discover the real difference between singleness and loneliness, the hidden dangers loneliness creates, and how to work while you wait and prepare while you pray.Coach Vee shares practical steps to heal emotional wounds, build a full life now, and position yourself for Kingdom love — not counterfeit connections.You'll also hear a fresh take on Ruth's story and how purpose, not pursuit, placed her exactly where God needed her to be.If you're ready to move from lonely nights to purposeful preparation, this episode will meet you where you are and guide you to where you're called to be.Grab your copy of No More Lonely Nights and start building the life and love you deserve today!

Do you find yourself overthinking texts, getting attached too quickly, or pushing good men away?

Sis, it's time to change the game. If you're tired of confusion, inconsistency, and wasting time on men who don't align with your vision, this episode is for you! In today's conversation, we're diving into how to date smarter, not harder—how to stop ignoring red flags, protect your heart, and move with clarity and confidence.I'm breaking down:✅ The difference between passive dating vs. intentional dating✅ Why so many women ignore red flags (and how to stop!)✅ Emotional discipline and how to date without getting attached too soon✅ The key mindset shifts to avoid toxic cycles and finally win at loveIt's time to date like a woman who knows her worth. No more wishful thinking—let's get strategic.

Sis, let's talk. If your dating life feels like a never-ending cycle of first dates that gonowhere, it's time to make some changes!Attraction might get you a date, but it won't keep you in the game. If men aren't following up, if you're constantly left on read, or if you can't seem to get past date #1—this episode is for you!In thispowerful, no-nonsense episode, I'm breaking down:✅Why most first dates never lead to a second (and how to change that!)✅The biggest mistakes women make on first dates that kill connection✅How to stop treating dates like job interviews and create real chemistry✅The psychology behind why men pursue or pass (this will shock you!)✅Practical strategies to move beyond surface-level attraction and build deeper interest✨ Plus, I'm spilling details onFriday's MIT Training: Get a Date in 14 Days—so if you're ready togo from waiting to dating, don't miss this one!

In this episode, we're diving deep into Godly feminine power and how tapping into your inner strength and spiritual gifts can transform your love life. As a Christian woman, you are uniquely designed with divine power that aligns with God's purpose for your relationships. Join me as I unpack:✨ What it means to access and embrace your feminine essence.✨ How to discover and utilize your spiritual gifts in dating and love.✨ Practical ways to align your relationships with God's will. You'll walk away with tools and encouragement to step into your power, cultivate purposeful love, and reflect God's glory in your relationships. Want to go deeper? Tune in to tomorrow's live training in The SAS Tribe called Power of She, or check out New Heart Academy for the transformational Power of She: Accessing Your Assets course. Don't miss this powerful conversation—it's time to unleash the woman God created you to be!

Red Flags or Harmless Quirks? How to Discern and Navigate Warning Signs in Dating In this episode of Freedom Reigns, we're tackling one of the biggest challenges in modern dating: recognizing and addressing red flags without losing yourself in the process. Too often, we ignore the signs that something isn't right because we're holding onto hope, afraid of starting over, or simply unsure if it's really a big deal. But ignoring red flags can lead to heartbreak—and that's not God's best for you. Join me as I break down:✨ The difference between quirky habits and genuine red flags.✨ Subtle signs we often overlook and why we ignore them.✨ How to trust your intuition and listen for God's guidance.✨ Practical advice for addressing red flags with grace.✨ Knowing when to extend grace and when it's time to walk away. This episode is packed with wisdom, truth, and real-life examples to help you protect your peace, honor your standards, and align your dating life with the love you've been praying for.

Ready to meet the man God has for you in 2025? In this episode, we're diving into how to position yourself for love while staying true to your Christian values. Discover practical steps to prepare your heart, align your actions with God's will, and embrace divine timing without compromising your standards. If you're serious about finding love this year, this episode is your guide to faith-filled dating and intentional relationships. Plus, I'll be sharing gems from my new book, No More Lonely Nights, to help you along the way!

It's the first of the month, meaning it's time for a #newmotivation episode! I want to motivate you to take intentional action towards your love goal by understanding and applying principles of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 to your romantic and personal growth journeys.

Feeling stuck or lonely in your singleness this holiday season? Sis, this isn't a season of lack—it's a season of becoming! In this #NewMotivation episode, I'm breaking down how to embrace this transformative time, shift your perspective, and prepare for the love and life you deserve. Tune in for encouragement, empowerment, and a reminder that your best days are ahead! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

What can you learn from King Saul as it pertains to your dating and love life? Let's dive in for November! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

What does a grown woman even do with a boyfriend as a Christian woman?? Sis, let's talk about it! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Why do so many people struggle to love themselves and others? How does trauma impact our ability to give and receive love? Join me as we explore the connection between God's love, self-love, and healing after pain, with practical steps for finding real, lasting love. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

God is less concerned with who you end up with. He's more concerned with what you do with your decision! Tune in for some September motivation! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

In this episode of Freedom Reigns, we're diving into the complexities of relationship dependency and how to navigate the delicate balance between independence, codependence, and intimacy. We'll explore the signs of codependency, why maintaining a sense of self is essential for healthy relationships, and how to foster genuine intimacy without losing your individuality. Whether you're struggling with feeling too dependent on your partner or unsure how to build a strong emotional connection, this episode will provide practical tips and insights to help you create more balanced, fulfilling relationships. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

In this episode, we explore the essence of intimacy in Godly relationships—beyond the physical. Learn how to deepen emotional, spiritual, and intellectual connections rooted in faith. Whether single, dating, or married, discover practical tips to strengthen your bond and experience love as God intended—transformative and enduring. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Knowing you need to do better with loving yourself so you make better choices in life and love? Then tune in as I dive deep with what self-love is, why it's important, signs it's lacking, and how to increase it! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Yes, before becoming a wife, there are habits you need to adopt in this season. Tune in! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

I want to ensure you know to do this one thing as it's a major key to finding kingdom love. And you must master it BEFORE YOU BEGIN DATING! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Struggling to swim in the murky waters? I want to help you navigate modern dating! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Should you? How to? What does this mean? Is it necessary? Let's put an end to the debate behind teaching a man to love you with an important scripture to remember. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Time for some #newmotivation 2024, this is your year. But you have to progress, and stop procrastinating! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Can we have the talk about cheating within relationships and the truth behind it all? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Heartbreak. Something I know all too well. I have my own story to share, and I want to help you deal the pieces of your broken heart. Because there's hope! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

I know you've been wronged, hurt, and lied to. But you MUST love yourself beyond it all! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Rejection happens. But let's talk about why, what it is, how to prevent it, and why moving past it is so important! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

You've got to make moves if you're serious about winning. Staying put just won't do it! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

So, exactly what should you GIVE in datingships? And how to avoid being taken advantage of? Tune in for "How to Win at Love pt 2" --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Do this 1 thing if you seriously want to win at love! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Here are 7 dating sins that are KILLING your dating life! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

These are habits of a healthy heart that'll ensure you will win at love. Characteristics and traits that'll get you where you want to be. So implement them. Develop these habits to transform your love life! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Your current bed is keeping you single, so it's time to clean it out NOW! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Are you unsuccessful at dating and relationships because you're oblivious to the power of your words? Even the ones you don't say out loud? Then tune in! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Let's go deeper with this AI stuff and explore how it's hindering your dating and love life! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Sounds crazy. But there are 6 things that you should do to help transform how you date! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

If you're serious about wanting something real, something that will LAST, then stop making these mistakes. ASAP!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

I wanna help ladies build and create a new dating pool. Because my butterflies are wondering, "WTF, Coach Vee?!" *Don't worry. The WTF isn't what you think. Tune in so we can do something about the pool you're swimming in. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Bonus: You can't be deceived if you have and utilize these 3 things... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Let's discuss love and singleness... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Let me give it to you STRAIGHT on this good Monday! Because I want to help some women on today! It's time for some #newmotivation --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

I'm always talking about heart issues, right?! But I want to pose a new question to you today about the status of it. Tune in for some #newmotivation --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Have you been attracting certain men while single and you want to experience CHANGE?! I've got you! Tune in so we discuss why you've been encountering the same kind of men, and what simple steps you can take NOW to attract different ones. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

How are you possibly in your way when it comes to dating? I know, people make it seem as if women are the issue today. But I want to give you another perspective and some things to consider. Tune in! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

We can learn a thing or 2 from the woman with the issue of blood. Boldness and persistence pays off when it comes to our desires, ladies. Tune in and be motivated today! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support

Dating today stressing you out a bit? Feel as if you're not getting any real help when it comes to successfully dating and getting far in the process? Tune in for 7 tips that'll drastically change your dating life! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoriousone/support