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Carol Juergensen Sheets, better known as Carol the Coach, joins the podcast today in part 6 of our deep dive into Beyond the Porn Phenomenon. Carol helps us unpack some of the specific stats that impact relationships and gives insight into how the church can support betrayed partners. Nick, Ashley, and Carol discuss how this research can raise awareness, spark new conversations, and guide the Church in addressing sexual brokenness and provide real hope for healing. This eight episode exploration into Beyond the Porn Phenomenon features the voices of people prominently featured in the report.Resources:Carol's WebsiteCarol's BooksOrder ‘Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Now!'Barna Website GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)
DOUBLE YOUR GIFT!Thanks to a generous donor, we can offer a $75,000 match for gifts given between May 1 through July 31. Every dollar you give, collectively up to $75,000, will be DOUBLED!Give Today and double your impact. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Carol Juergensen Sheets, better known as Carol the Coach, a certified sex addiction therapist. We reminisce about her last appearance in March 2020, where we focused on empathy for husbands. Carol shares her journey since 2007, emphasizing the importance of empathy in all relationships. She introduces her Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM), which involves working with both partners from the start to foster post-traumatic growth. Carol explains the role of empathy in healing from infidelity, highlighting the long-term process and the need for genuine understanding. She also provides resources for couples seeking support and offers a hopeful message for those on their healing journey.To learn more about Carol and her resources, visit SexHelpWithCarolTheCoach.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Carol's background and expertise in sex addiction therapyThe importance of empathy in relationshipsDevelopment of the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM)Key elements and focus of ERCEMThe role of empathy within ERCEMChallenges and time required for healing from infidelityCommon misconceptions about empathyProgress and resources available for couples seeking supportMessage of hope and encouragement for couples dealing with infidelityMore Resources:Help Them Heal Couples WorkshopHelp Them Heal bookHelp Them Heal online courseRelated Podcasts:Helping Husbands Learn and Practice Empathy4 Skills to Transform Your MarriageThe Recovery Process for Couples----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.
In today's episode Carol Juergensen Sheets discusses the power of empathy in rebuilding trust and healing relationships after betrayal. She shares examples of how to show empathy and discusses her approach to couples healing through the Early Recovery Couple's Empathy Model (ERCEM) of which is the creator. Carol Juergensen Sheets LCSW, CCPS-S, CSAT-S, PCC is the author of several books including Help Her Heal, Help Them Heal, and Unleashing Your Power. She is the host of the podcast, Sex Help With Carol the Coach. You can find her classes and resources at https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/. Thank you for tuning in to our podcast for couples healing from infidelity and betrayal. As certified coaches, we aim to provide support and guidance for those who decide to stay in their relationship. We offer valuable insights, empathy, and hope on the journey toward healing. Join us weekly for encouragement, skills, and expertise. Your hosts are Certified Relational Recovery Coaches specializing in Infidelity and Betrayal: Hali Roderick- TICC, PCC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM Candidate Read Hali's Bio Book with Hali Stephanie Hamby- MCLC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM Candidate Read Stephanie's Bio https://stephaniehambycoaching.youcanbook.me/ Contact us: info.choosingtostay@gmail.com Choosing To Stay Webinar: Join Hali as she teaches this monthly free webinar for those Choosing To Stay after infidelity and betrayal. Help. Her. Heal. for Men - Hali Roderick helps men learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Participants will receive weekly exercises and worksheets to help them gain the skills to begin healing a broken relationship. Empowerment After Betrayal for Men - Hali Roderick leads a betrayal trauma support group for men who have been betrayed where they can gain tools and resources to recover from betrayal trauma in a healthy way while being surrounded by a supportive community. Healing Hearts Course - Stephanie Hamby leads This Couples Course that is a comprehensive program designed for early recovery and healing couples to learn and experience valuable insights together. It focuses on partner betrayal trauma and sexual integrity issues or addiction. The course provides practical education and tools to support healing for the partner and relationship repair. More from Choose Recovery Services: Choose Healing - Betrayal Trauma support for women - This weekly support group is for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help to cope with the symptoms of trauma such as depression, hyper vigilance, anxiety, and lack of trust. Ask questions from our team of coaches at Choose Recovery Services who have been there with this accessible group that is free for the first 12 weeks. Choose 90 for Men - Support group for men who are ready to take the first step towards recovery from compulsive behavior, infidelity, and/or betrayal. Participants will gain tools and an understanding to better manage emotions and assess behaviors. Choose 180 for Men - This support group helps men gain emotional intelligence so they can better manage unwanted behaviors. Participants will connect with other men, better understand their emotions, work through shame, and build a deep respect for themselves. Choose 360 for Men - Support group for men who have reached a sense of wholeness in their recovery and are looking to maintain their recovery through awareness, accountability, and comradery. Road to Recovery - Free monthly webinar with Luke and Alana Gordon for couples navigating the relational aspects that come along the road to recovery. Should I Stay or Should I Go? - Amie Woolsey teaches this free monthly coaching call for those stuck trying to decide whether to stay in their marriage. Empowered Divorce Q&A - Amie Woolsey offers a free monthly coaching call to answer questions for women navigating divorce. Connect with Choose Recovery on Instagram
In order for true restoration to take place in a marriage, both spouses must heal (especially the betrayed partner). While pursuing their recovery from addiction or unwanted sexual behavior, men often ask, "How can I help my spouse heal?" On today's episode, we are joined by the woman who literally wrote the book on this question. Carol Juergensen Sheets, AKA "Carol the Coach," is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and author who wrote Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook For Sex Addicts To Help Their Partners Heal and Help Them Heal: Teaching You Both How to Heal Your Relationship After Sexual Betrayal. We talk about how to help our betrayed spouse heal, the importance of empathy, and how to have effective communication throughout the healing journey. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Help Her Heal (Carol's book) Help Them Heal (Carol's book) Unleashing Your Power (Carol's Book) Sex Help With Carol The Coach (Carol's Website) Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (IITAP Certification) Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (IITAP Certification) APSATS (Betrayal Organization) The California Center for Healing (Bill & Ginger Bercaw's Organization) The Intimacy Pyramid (Dan Drake's Organization)
We are in the middle of a Sexual Wholeness series. At Living Wholehearted we are helping leaders live and lead with integrity - from our professional counseling team (serving clients in Oregon) to our executive coaching, organizational development teams, and wholehearted leadership cohorts (serving leaders nationwide). And regardless of where we are walking with leaders - in the home, work, or community - sexuality is a part of our clients' stories. Today, we are focusing on the assessment and treatment of sex addiction, a topic that will not be for younger ears. If you have sexual trauma in your story, I also want to warn you that this episode might cause triggers, but if you can hang with us, as we talk in a manner of grace, hope, and practical steps, those triggers might be helpful cues for you in your own journey or in the journey of someone you are walking with today in your leadership. Many don't know this, but before I transitioned into the executive coaching space, I worked as a marriage and family therapist with leaders. Most of my marriage counseling consists of helping clients recover from sexual betrayal. Now, no one ever came to my office admitting there was a sex addiction. They came because they needed to work on communication. Maybe distance was growing or they wanted to work on their sex life but were unsure where to start. And then…over time, we would discover a hole in the boat—sex addiction. Today, I want to have this conversation with someone I've worked with over the years as a co-laborer in the field. Dr. Hosley and I have spent many years helping husbands and wives either heal their marriages or transition out of their marriages, depending on the level of severity of the addiction and willingness of both partners to work toward healing. Dr. Ryan Hosley, PsyD, is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, CSAT (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist), and Addiction Specialist in the Portland, Oregon area. He has been helping men and women and their families find freedom and healing from sex addiction for seventeen years. To connect with Ryan, visit: ONLINE https://www.drryanhosley.com/ https://www.overcomersway.com/ RECOMMENDED RESOURCES Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal, by Carol Juergensen Sheets, Allan J. Katz (https://a.co/d/9fKzPcT) The Overcomer's Edge: Strategies for Victorious Living in 13 Key Areas of Life, by Paul Tsika, Dr. Ryan Hosley, Kameo Hosley (https://a.co/d/enWZ1Oo) Pure Desire Ministries, https://puredesire.org/ ======================== We LOVE that you have decided to join us this week for the Living Wholehearted Podcast. We hope you enjoyed the conversation, tips, and resources to help you transform every relationship that matters most to you. If you think this will help someone you know, make sure you send it their way or share on socials. Tag us @living_wholehearted and @terramattson! Don't forget to FOLLOW/SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss an episode and help spread the word by leaving us some stars on a review. Thanks for partnering with us to help more leaders, just like you, who want to live and lead with integrity at home, work and in the community. Go to livingwholehearted.com and sign up to receive our free leadership tips and updates delivered to you in our monthly newsletter. And, if you are a girl mom, check out mycourageousgirls.com. Until next time, be the leader you would follow! Grateful for you, Jeff & Terra To connect with Jeff & Terra Mattson and Living Wholehearted, go to: INSTAGRAM @TerraMattson @Living_Wholehearted @MyCourageousGirls FACEBOOK @WeAreLivingWholehearted @MyCourageousGirls WEBSITES LivingWholehearted.com TerraMattson.com MyCourageousGirls.com RESOURCES Shrinking the Integrity Gap https://davidccook.org/shrinking-integrity-gap-book/ https://a.co/d/dRiP4Ii Shrinking the Integrity Gap e-Course https://www.livingwholeheartedstore.com/e-courses Courageous: Being Daughters Rooted in Grace https://mycourageousgirls.com/shop/p/book-courageous-being-daughters-rooted-in-grace Dear Mattsons https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l Helping Moms Raise Confident Daughters http://cpguides.org Living Wholehearted Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org
In this extended episode, you'll hear 8 dramatized examples of mistakes men make while relating to women they have sexually betrayed and traumatized. You'll learn how to offer validation, own your impact, build your confidence, and be proactive. This session from The Porn Free Man Conference will show you exactly what (not) to do to help her heal.Dr. Eddie Capparucci is an author and therapist who specializes in the treatment of sex and porn addiction. He's also the creator of the Inner Child Recovery Process (ICRP).Resources mentioned in this episode (including paid links):Why Men Struggle To Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots, by Eddie CapparucciHelp Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook For Sex Addicts To Help Their Partners Heal, by Carol Juergensen Sheets and Alan KatzThe Porn Free Man Conference 2023 (recordings of all sessions)Husband Material Virtual Retreat on May 5-7 featuring Andrew Bauman!Sign up now at husbandmaterial.com/becoming-husband-materialTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
Carol Juergensen Sheets and has devoted the last 2 decades to helping men and women manage their sex addiction and counseling betrayed partners how to work through the trauma of sexual and relational betrayal. Her powerful approach starting with empathy is a game changer! https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/ See her at https://restoringheartsconference.org/
Carol Juergensen Sheets, widely known as Carol the Coach, is our fabulously audacious guest today.She is a legend in the community of recovery from sex addiction and working with partners of sex addicts. She's one of my personal sheroes and I'm honored and thrilled to have her on the Beauty After Betrayal Podcast.Carol is a mental health therapist who has been treating individuals and couples for over 41 years. She is a certified sexual addictions counselor and certified partners of sexual addiction trauma specialist.She trains clinicians and coaches nationally and internationally, and believes that her partner-sensitive treatment approach enhances treating sexual addiction and partner trauma in the relationship.Her style assists couples in healing the shame and pain of sexual addiction and she uses post-traumatic growth to emphasize a client's strengths.Carol hosts podcasts and YouTube channels, and has just released her third book called Help. Them. Heal. Teaching You Both How to Heal Your Relationship After Sexual Betrayal.Her latest book informs couples on the methodology behind ERCEM – Carol's revolutionary Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model – to help the couple heal together. Carol the Coach has decades of wisdom to share with us.We discuss what led each of us to APSATS (The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists), which Carol is now both Treasurer of their board and Supervisor to clinicians and coaches. Carol joined APSATS after making a profound observation of her clients:"... My sex addicts were getting better and my partners weren't, and I just said, 'you know what - we have got to change up this field and we've got to get them more resources'...And what do you do when you want to change the world? You change yourself."~ Carol the CoachWe talk about the different healing phases from partner betrayal, and how Carol works with couples to heal from sexual betrayal.You won't want to miss this fascinating conversation from one of the leaders in the betrayal trauma space. xoxo, Jenni-----------------------------Connect with Carol:Purchase Carol's new book Help. Them. Heal. Teaching You Both How to Heal Your Relationship After Sexual Betrayal here. Learn more about the work that she does here.Podcast: Sex Help with Carol the CoachYouTube: Sex Help with Carol the CoachConnect with Jenni:Do You Have Betrayal Trauma From a Romantic Relationship? Take the quiz that meets you where you are so you can get the support you need right now.Are you ready to embrace your right to big love, great sex, and a pleasure full life? Join the private community of sisterhood with Jenni's Facebook group A Pleasure Full Life.Looking for sisterhood and support to help you heal from betrayal trauma? Join the private Facebook group Beauty After Betrayal.Follow Jenni on Instagram and Facebook.
I am so honored to be with Heidi Kinsella who has created an amazing Five Day Intensive Equine Inspired Experience for Women Join a small group of women for an immersive healing experience set in a rural setting including equine assisted therapy, mindfulness, group therapy around the campfire, psychoeducation about betrayal trauma, and Soundbath healing to help work through the emotional and stress responses to trauma.We will be taking women throughthe three stages of healing including:1.safety and stabilization 2.working through anger, grief and mourning 3.restoration of self with posttraumatic growth. Heidi is using the concepts and exercises from Unleashing Your Powere the book that Carol wrote to woork through the trauma and betrayal. If you feel stuck and need a healing place to nurture yourself and refocus your sense of emposwement. this may be the experience for you! Designed and facilitated by Heidi Kinsella, LMHC, SUDP, CSAT, CPTT, CMAT, CCPS and Carol Juergensen Sheets, LCSW, CCPS-S, PCC and will bring her book Unleashing Your Power: Moving Through the Trauma of Partner Betrayal to life. *Mention Restoring Hearts for a discount of $500.00 per person Starts at noon on Thursday, 8/4/22 and ends at 1pm on Monday, 8/8/22
What helps? And can it even be saved? The answer is yes, with help for both partners. He needs to lean into her pain, acknowledge and validate it, and be fully transparent and accepting of boundaries. She needs a support network and to focus on self-care. Love is bigger than pain.References I mention in the podcast:Geoff Steurer's article His Recovery, Her Recovery, and Our Recovery SA Lifeline quality 12-step groups for both sex addiction and betrayal trauma Michelle Mays' 6 stages of betrayal trauma recovery Addo Recovery Bloom Program Betrayal Trauma Recovery Help Her Heal empathy workbook by Carol Juergensen Sheets
With 175 episodes and more than 200,000 listens, Carol Juergensen Sheets started APSATS' Betrayal Recovery Radio podcast and built it into an established and trusted source of information, comfort, hope, and help to individuals and couples suffering from the effects of sex addiction and betrayal trauma. After three years of service, Carol the Coach is stepping down as the show's host, passing the reins to Dr. Jake Porter. In this episode, Dr. Jake will host a time of celebration honoring Carol the Coach for her dedication to the field of betrayal trauma recovery. Join us for this special time of fun, laughter, and remembrance.
With 175 episodes and more than 200,000 listens, Carol Juergensen Sheets started APSATS' Betrayal Recovery Radio podcast and built it into an established and trusted source of information, comfort, hope, and help to individuals and couples suffering from the effects of sex addiction and betrayal trauma. After three years of service, Carol the Coach is stepping down as the show's host, passing the reins to Dr. Jake Porter. In this episode, Dr. Jake will host a time of celebration honoring Carol the Coach for her dedication to the field of betrayal trauma recovery. Join us for this special time of fun, laughter, and remembrance.
Empathy by the recovering addict for their betrayed partner is essential component of reconnecting and healing, but learning how to become empathetic takes work and practice. Joining me today to talk about her powerful Early Recovery Couples work is the wise and wonderful Carol Juergensen Sheets. With it's focus on developing those all important empathy skills, Carol's workbook Help Her Heal not only helps addicts understand what their betrayed partner is feeling but also lays out a roadmap for rebuilding lost trust and intimacy. Grab a cuppa, and get comfy for this hope filled conversation! www.blogtalkradio.com/ betrayalrecoveryradio www.blogtalkradio.com/sexhelpwithcarolthecoach
It is not uncommon for clients who have sexual addiction to suffer from trauma that later causes PTSD. Dr. Jerry Borikhin from the Meadows will be talking about PTSD and how this disorder can be managed if you are suffering from these symptoms. Listen in as he shares with Carol the Coach the criteria and diagnostic elements that would tell you if you have PTSD. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Do you have a sex addiction that that has caused great pain to your partner? Do you wonder how to help your partner heal from the pain you caused? Carol Jeurgensen Sheets has a new workbook for this very thing, "Helping Her Heal". Join Carol as she gives priceless tips and resources to help you help her heal.Carol is a Certified Sexual Addictions Therapist (CSAT), Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CPPS), Certified Personal Life Coach, Certified Clinical Social Worker, Certified Marriage and Family Therapist, and Certified Addictions Counselor. She has years of experience helping those heal from sex addiction and the betrayal of a sex addicted partner. To learn more go to www.carolthecoach.com or www.sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com as well as listen in to her podcast on www.blogtalkradio.com/carolthecoach.To find out more about my Toxic Free Relationship Course, go to www.lizayoungtherapy.com/courses.
We have a conversation with Carol Juergensen Sheets about how it is possible to achieve intimacy after infidelity. One key component is creating empathy, and she explains the tools she has created from her most recent workbook: Help.Her.Heal. We discuss how couples don’t have to stay stuck in pain and how their best moments are still to come even after infidelity. We hit on the AVR model that breeds intimacy, and the truth guys can tell themselves, so they are better equipped to handle their partners' pain in a healthy way that promotes growth.
The Living Truth Podcast - Freedom From Unwanted Sexual Behavior, Hope & Healing For the Betrayed
In this episode, Kristin interviews Carol Juergensen Sheets (aka Carol the Coach). Carol is the only Certified Sex Addiction Therapist in the Indianapolis area. She also has the heart and understanding to help betrayed partners through the trauma model. Carol has seen first hand which couples survive and even thrive after sexual betrayal. And empathy is a key element! In this podcast Carol shares why is it so difficult for spouses with problematic sexual behavior to demonstrate empathy and why partners are often afraid to trust that empathy. She sheds light on how long it takes to see actual trust being rebuilt for a better marriage than ever before! Carol is the author of Help Her Heal, and the host of three Podcasts; Sex Help With Carol the Coach, Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery and Betrayal Recovery Radio. For more information or to contact Carol, visit her website: Carolthecoach.com
Carol Juergensen Sheets is a Coach, Therapist, Speaker, and Author of the book, Help. Her. Heal, in which she discusses how a relationship can recover after sexual betrayal. Carol knows men desperately want to stop their sex addiction and stop hurting the people they care about, but can’t seem to control their compulsion. She wrote her book to help couples through this difficult time and to overcome sex addiction together. In this episode, she explains how to find the right coach to help without breaking the bank, working with a hurt spouse & the person who hurt them, and so much more. TAKEAWAYS: [2:45] Carol used to do radio about sex addiction before she got into podcasting. [4:45] How can therapists better help patients who can not afford therapy but desperately need it? [6:20] What are some of the best ways to find a coach? [10:10] After a betrayal, the partner or spouse no longer feels safe with the person who has hurt them. [11:15] Some men are not ready to give up their sex addiction. [13:25] Carol’s book, Help. Her. Heal, shows couples that you can overcome a sex addiciton. [14:00] When couples seek therapy, Carol knows the man wants to fix this. He hates seeing his spouse in pain, but he just doesn’t know how to stop it. [16:40] Carol asks the person who has betrayed their spouse to step into the spouse’s shoes and to understand what kind of pain they are currently experiencing. [18:00] 95% of self-help books are brought by women. Men aren’t reading books like Carols’. [19:10] Some men have good intentions, but for some reason, they simply can not sustain them. Carol has resources for these men. [20:30] What has changed over the last 15 years when it comes to helping spouses through sex addiction? RESOURCES: The Porn Panic: Is Porn a ‘Public Health Crisis’? Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101 Seeking Integrity Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com Out of the Doghouse Help. Her. Heal BlogTalkRadio — Carol the Coach Carol the Coach Carol the Coach YouTube APSATS QUOTES: “People get so overwhelmed [by betrayal] that they completely emotionally disengage, they can’t think clearly, and they can’t make sense of the world.” “Avoidance is a big issue in a sex addict. He thinks if he waits long enough the spouse’s feelings will go away.” “When a man is discovered, he may not really be ready to give up his sex addiction because it was his best friend and medication.” “Unfortunately, oftentimes the partner feels like his actions are the direct reflection of how he feels about her, but it has nothing to do with how he feels about her. It’s a compulsion.” “When he helps her heal, he gets better too. It improves his self-esteem.”
Andrew Susskind and Carol Juergensen Sheets talk about Carol's approach to couples healing around sex addiction. https://www.sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/home.html
Carol Juergensen Sheets, aka “Carol the Coach”, has a passion for understanding trauma, disconnection and isolation, and using her gifts to help both sex addicts and betrayed partners through their darkest moments and into the light of healing. She also loves to use media and broadcasting to spread her message to millions, in a judgment and blame freeway. Today, she talks with Rob about her work in partner focused treatment, her radio show on Blog Talk Radio that receives more than half a million listeners weekly, the concept of blame, guilt and remorse in addiction and the shift she has seen in the field over the past decade. Carol has a deep enthusiasm for her work, and it is apparent in her work as a therapist, coach, media personality or caring member of the community. TAKEAWAYS: [3:32] Carol has an affinity for disseminating information to the public on a wide scale. Her podcast is one of the oldest, and now has half a million downloads per week. She helps people globally, interviews leading experts and helps colleagues and clinicians gather cutting edge education to bring back in their work. [7:26] Carol compiled a book in sex addiction, Sexual Addiction: Wisdom from the Masters, that she donated to the American Federation of Research. This body of work served to share the wisdom on a wide range of topics on addiction, compulsion and partner betrayal. 8:16] When Dr. Patrick Carnes appeared on Carol’s radio show, he brought up the notion that suffering and trauma of addiction and betrayal can actually be a precursor for growth, healing and connection. [9:46] If a partner is acting out and is in a deep and enduring relationship, there is a higher chance they will feel remorse than an individual that is unable to connect. Relationships provide a depth of learning, and isolation continues the process of sexual addiction. [10:45] It it often helpful for partners to hear that the compulsions and of their sex addict partner started earlier than their relationship. This may help take a large burden of remorse off their backs, and realize they did not cause the behavior and it was present long before their coupling. [12:18] Carol shares how she noticed a shift in the field around 2007 in how the partners were acknowledged in their deep pain, and not blamed from a model of codependence and causation. She began in to invite them in to her sessions, and realized they needed their own specialized help. She got involved with APSATS, The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists, and within a year was training her own colleagues. Partner betrayal is still seen as a deficit area, and Carol supports crisis management both separately AND together between the partner and the addict. [17:01] Conflict breeds intimacy when partners are able to work through their grief and restore and develop a foundation of safety and stabilization. Once there is full disclosure in the early couples recovery work, couples can begin to work on empathy. The addict must acknowledge the issues, validate the partner’s feelings and reassure the partner that he or she can begin to feel safe. Partners also must work through their shame, or the blame from others around them from staying with a sex addict. [21:55] Carol speaks upon an older model that looked at partners with the same need for confrontation as their sex addict partners, even adding the label of codependence. Now, we realize that this is a person in crisis reacting to the betrayal trauma, and they need support rather than blame. [29:27] Remorse is a natural part of grief, and it is common for the spouse to already blame themselves on some level for their partner’s betrayal. Carol works with her clients on building up their sense of worth and belief that they are deserving of honesty, truth and love. RESOURCES Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101 Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency APSATS American Federation of Medical Research Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal Sex Addiction: Wisdom from the Masters Esther Perel Carol the Coach carol@carolthecoach.com Sex Help with Carol the Coach Sex Help with Carol the Coach - You Tube Blog Talk Radio - Sex Help with Carol the Coach Betrayal Recovery Radio QUOTES: “With sexual addiction and partner trauma, we aren’t going to get as far as we need to go unless we have the research to substantiate what we know to be true.” “Suffering can be the precursor for post traumatic growth.” “Isolation is at the root of sexual addiction.” “The addict carries the shame, but the partner carries the pain.” - Esther Perel In any coupleship, there are issues that both people contribute towards or contaminate. Sexual addiction is not one of them.” “Connection is the antidote to suffering.”
Carol the Coach will be interviewing Alex Lerza LMFT, CSAT who has created a world class App for Sex Addicts. The App is called R|TRIBE. It stands for both “The Recovery Tribe” and “Our Tribe.” It’s built for addicts, by addicts. You can check it out at : www.rtribe.org rTribe launched in the iOS App Store in October and Android launched in December 2015. R|TRIBE has the potential to become the de facto platform for and sex addiction recovery. The purpose of the app is to help and sex addicts manage their recovery in community. Anytime. Anywhere. We know that acting out has always been fingertips away and now recovery can be too. Listen as Carol the Coach finds out how this app can supplement your recovery! The RITRIBE app is a smartphone solution for a smartphone problem. Rather than just blocking clients from acting out, this app empowers addicts to take a proactive approach with their recovery. It’s not meant to replace therapy, support groups or 12 Step, but it will be the daily recovery tool addicts use in between face to face meetings. Find out more about this amazing app as Carol the Coach interviews one of the developers.
You want to know what tools are available to combat internet ography... Luke Gilkerson is going to be talking about Covenant Eyes which is one of the leaders in internet accountability software programs for your phone, tablet and computer. If you have wondered how to use Internet accountability software, you will get alot of information about this kind of service and how it can be an accountability tool for you to abstain from internet and increase your recovery from sexual addiction. I recommend Covenant Eyes because it is one of the best accountability software programs out there! Sexual Addiction is a disorder that requires strategies to assist you in maintaining recovery. This show is to help you access the books, the experts and the people who are managing recovery with The 12 Step Program and Patrick Carnes Recovery Task Model that reinforces the steps you need to take to manage your recovery and take your life through the journey so that you not only conquer the "Addict" but develop into the person you were meant to be! Carol Juergensen Sheets aka Carol the Coach is a Certified Sexual Addictions Therapist who is ready to take you on the journey of sexual addiction recovery and expose you to the experts who will guide you through the steps.
Clinicians who work with sexual addiction know that the partner of a sex addicted is deeply wounded and often times goes untreated while the addict works diligently towards recovery. Barbara Steffen PhD is the co author of the book Your Sexually Addicted Spouse, How Partners Can Cope and Heal. This book has been revolutionary in changing how we work with partners and is seen as visionary in its approach. Listen as Barbara talks about the new training that therapists will be given to assist partners in their own recovery from treatment. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Are you afraid of conflict? Do you use positive self talk to navigate you through the rigors of life? When you are an addict you typically let self loathing take the place of healthy behaviors but in this episode,Carol talks about the essential types of life skills that feed healthy outer circle behaviors. When you are in recovery or striving for that you need to take your life to the next level by learning the skills that help to make you authentic and authentic. That means you have to practice rigorous honesty even in the face of conflict. Listen as Carol talks about those all important skills that help to create the life you deserve! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery, Read more: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/sexhelpwithcarolthecoach/2014/09/02/can-you-have-sex-and-love-addiction-with-carol-the-coach#ixzz3DQz64t9k
Mark is both a sex addict and a love addict that has been in serious recovery for about a year. Mark wants to share his experience with early recovery and the unique dynamics in being both a sex addict and a love addict at the same time. Mark hopes that his stories will help pave the path for people early in recovery and share insights into what has worked and what he should have done sooner as far as both addictions are concerned. In addition, to this Mark wants to share about the unique way love addiction and sex addiction reinforces each other. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Elana Clark-Faler, LCSW, CSAT-S, CGP is a nationa speaker and sex expert on African-American relationships and has been featured in Ebony magazine. In this show she will be sharing why the African-American women who come see her struggle with sex and love addiction. Her website www.recoveryhelpnow.com will help people understand the diffferences of sex and love addiction and what resources are available for love and sex addicts. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Debra L. Kaplan will be talking about her book For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Exploitation in Relationships. She will help us to understand how sex and money get fused in a relationship and how it can be used to manipulate and control.If you have ever felt controled by sex and money...this show is a must for you! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Have you ever wondered if as a sex addict, your relationship with your mother, has stifled having a healthy relationhip with your partner??? Or are you a partner of a sex addict who feels confused and lost as to how to proceed in your life? You aren't sure about boundaries, or your own needs and you constantly feel on the back burner? Listen as Dr. Ken Adams talks about 2 intensive workshops that hinders people's abilities to have healthy relationships. In his workshop for men that have enmeshed relationships with their mother, he will talk about how that process creates an erotic template that often times fuses with anger and guilt. This intensive will teach you how to develop strategies to help them to break free from ianappropriate loyalties and learn to live within healthy committments. He will also be talking about the Intensives that he will be leading for spouses and partners of sex addicts. He will teach partners how to establish boundaries, develop goals for sel-care and move towards developing strategies for handling intense emotional, physical, and spiritual symptoms of trauma. If you want to boost your recovery you will need to listen to show. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Let's face it ..... letting go of control can be really tough when you are working a 12 Step program.Kicking in your recovery program takes a concerted plan of action...but it also requires a mindset. Listen as Andy, a recovering sex addict, talks about how his recovery was expediated when he realized that he needed to work on surrender.Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources....Listen as Andy shares his story and how the art of letting go made all the difference in the world. . This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Debra L. Kaplan will be talking about her book For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Exploitation in Relationships. She will help us to understand how sex and money get fused in a relationship and how it can be used to manipulate and control. If you have ever felt controled by sex and money...this show is a must for you! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Tonight we will be talking about Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), formerly called multiple personality disorder, the percentage of population impacted, characteristics of it, causal factors, criteria for diagnosis, what led Charlene Benson to become interested in Dissociative disorders, and resources for learning more about the disorder. We will also talk about how this relates to sexual and other addictions. We will briefly talk about treatment, how Charleen Benson views those with the disorder, and tips, observations, life skills and techniques that may be helpful. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Have you been considering EMDR for trauma that occured as a child? Listen tonight as Carol the Coach talks to Katie Raines who will be discussing how she uses it for clients who have been through trauma and feels that it is interferring with their lives. EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. EMDR seems to have a direct effect on the way that the brain processes information. Normal information processing is resumed, so following a successful EMDR session, a person no longer relives the images, sounds, and feelings when the event is brought to mind. You still remember what happened, but it is less upsetting. Many types of therapy have similar goals. However, EMDR appears to be similar to what occurs naturally during dreaming or REM (rapid eye movement) sleep. Therefore, EMDR can be thought of as a physiologically based therapy that helps a person see disturbing material in a new and less distressing way. We must access the parts of the brain that process pictures and symbols, and connect with troubling emotions and body sensations, in order to effectively address and heal from trauma. EMDR has been extensively researched and proven as a highly effective form of treatment. Clients find new vitality in their lives after each EMDR session. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Ross Rosenberg talks with Carol the Coach about his book Human Magnet Syndrome which helps people to identify traits of codependency and how to detach from unhealthy people while getting healthy too. He believes it is possible to break the cycle of dysfunctional romantic relationships with people who hurt them. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Tonight I will talking about self esteem skills that every person needs to get through the struggles of life and grow to be a more fulfilled person! Sexual addiction does not need to rob you of your potential...so listen to the show, call in, and let's see if you can incorporate these life skills into your daily functioning right now! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
The terms “sex” and “love/relationship” addiction are being over used, yet undertreated. The major reasons that these toxic relationships are not being fully addressed are lack of education and limited time of treatment. Sex and love are often referred to as the “less serious” addictions, when in actuality the consequences of these relational addictions affect every area of a person's life, just as severely as an alcohol or drug addiction. Often the signs of sex and love/relationship issues go unnoticed when addressing the targeted addiction, especially if past and present relationships are not explored throughout treatment. It is critical to look at all behaviors that might be serving the same purpose of avoiding the underlying issues the behaviors provide relief from. Sex and love/relationship addiction often occur as a co-occurring or cross addiction. This leads to a high risk for relapse in the primary addiction or as an alternative to the “quick fix” another addiction provided. Just as the criteria for sex and love addictions are similar, so is the treatment process. An accurate assessment, both group and individual therapy, DBT training and attending 12 step programs have been effective. Love and Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Tonight, Carol the Coach will be talking with Scott Watson who is a Licensed Clinical Addictions Counselor and founder of Heartland Intervention, LLC. Scott's experience and background in mental health, education, emergency medicine and ministry gives him a unique ability to work with addicts and families. Listen as he gives the audience guidelines as to when they may need an intervention when someones sexual addiction is out of control! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Patrick Carnes, PhD., is the primary architect of the Gentle Path programs for treatment of sexual and multiple addictive disorders. His 1983 book, Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction was the first designed to help addicts deal with their compulsions and to examine the tangled web of trauma, love addictive sex,hate and fear often found in family relationships. Carver Brown will be discussing The Twelve Principles Weekend Retreat Series with 3 goals in mind. Find out how to use these principles by the founder of this movement---Dr. Patrick Carnes. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Kathleen is a partner of a sex addict. She found strength in support meetings for partners and wants to share the trials and tribulations that she felt and the hope she found in COSA . Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Wendy Conquest will be talking about sex addiction and how it affects the spouse/partner. Her new book Letters To A Sex Addict comprised of letters she has created from her own experience and that of her clients. She has found the book extremely useful for all parts of having a partner who identifies as a sex addict OR who continues to have affairs or indulge in other sexual activity outside of a committed relationship. Either way there is lying and deception which at first baffles, then crushes the partner. Most partners are women however this is quickly changing as more women come forward with being sexually compulsive. She will be talking about different aspects of being in the dark, finding out, what happens emotionally, physically and psychologically, and then decisions a partner has to make to either stay in the relationship or to leave. More important what needs to happen to create healing and if staying in the coupleship, a more secure and stable foundation. She adheres to the trauma model and would like to discuss why this is a traumatic event and needs to be treated as soon as possible. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Is it tougher to get recovered when you are single? Listen as I interview a young men who talks about his trials and tribulations about being single, young and wanting recovery. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
It is not uncommon for clients who have sexual addiction to suffer from trauma that later causes PTSD. Dr. Jerry Borikhin from the Meadows will be talking about PTSD and how this disorder can be managed if you are suffering from these symptons. Listen in as he shares with Carol the Coach the criteria and diagnosic elements that would tell you if you have PTSD. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Audrey Tait MS CCC CSAT CMAT, has spent her whole life assisting clients in working through the trauma and learning how to forgive themselves. She has written a series of meditation books including: I Am Wonderfully Me: Positive Affirmations for Me! Volume 1Reflective Meditations: Unraveling My TraumaReflective Meditation: Healing My TraumaReflective Meditations: Letting Go-ForgivenessReflective Meditations: Believing in MyselfReflective Meditations: Understanding My Authentic Self.She absolutely believes that healing begins with affirmations and meditative work. Listen as she describes how her journey began and how she has used these powerful tools to change her clients lives. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Stepping out into the dating world can be a frightening prospect. Dr. Linda Hatch shows recovering addicts how to create healthy relationships using practical tips and tools for doing so . Her book Relationships in Recovery is a gift and a guide for any normal person who still fears intimacy because of her /his sexual addiction background. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Tonight I will be interviewing Michael Dinneen who writes about The Gift of Fulfillment: Living the Principles of Healthy Recovery in his book of the same title. Michael Dinneen is a recovery specialist who has an action plan for living an authentic life! Listen as he discusses the emotional tools he believes will change your life. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Conflict can be scary but clearly it is natural, necessary and normal. Learn the 4 tools of conflict and apply them to your life in your relationships. Carol the Coach is on vacation but this is one of her favorite archived shows from her radio show Your Best Life with Carol the Coach. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Dan Morris CSAT-S and LCSW is going to be talking about the stereotypical roles that men feel they must demonstrate and how counterintuitive this can be to healthy recovery. Men in recovery must learn to depend on each other and 12 Step Recovery depends on it! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Mark is both a sex addict and a love addict that has been in serious recovery for about a year. Mark wants to share his experience with early recovery and the unique dynamics in being both a sex addict and a love addict at the same time. Mark hopes that his stories will help pave the path for people early in recovery and share insights into what has worked and what he should have done sooner as far as both addictions are concerned. In addition, to this Mark wants to share about the unique way love addiction and sex addiction reinforces each other. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Carol the Coach is going to clarify what happens when people use sex to find love and how that can set up a compulsion for Love Addiction. Listen as Carol describes the critera for Love Addiction and find out if you might have the propensity for Romance, or Relationships or Sex. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Connie Lofgreen will be talking about her book The Storm of Sex Addiction. She discusses the suffering that occurs in the lives of addicts and families who experience the ravages of the illness and the hope offered by new recovery methods. She will be discussing her Five Factor Wellness Model and how the components work together to help addicts gain stable sobriety and get tier lives back on track!Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Jan Beauregard will be discussing the newer bottom- up approaches used in trauma resolution work that she has found to be particularly effective with sexual addiction. Specifically She will be talking about how she has integrated Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, ego state or Internal family Systems Therapy and Trauma Sensitive Yoga techniques into her work with this population. This model is used in conjunction with the Patrick Carnes Recovery Task Model as well as 12 Step Recovery tools. Listen as Jan helps us to understand the multitude of resources available in sexual addiction recovery! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Mari A. Lee will be presenting information to partners of addicts from a book she co-authored "Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts" As many partners know ...the shock from discovering your partner is an addict can be devestating and this book is extremely helpful in unraveling the chaos.....Listen in Monday night 9PMEST to www.blogtalkradio.com/sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Candice Christiansen CSAT practices therapy in UT and offers treatment for addicts and partners who suffer from trauma, sex and love addiction, sexual anorexia and other process addictions. Listen as she discusses the treatment modalities that she offers to assist clients in long term healing from addiction and trauma. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Clinicians who work with sexual addiction know that the partner of a sex addicted is deeply wounded and often times goes untreated while the addict works diligently towards recovery. Barbara Steffen PhD is the co author of the book Your Sexually Addicted Spouse, How Partners Can Cope and Heal. This book has been revolutionary in changing how we work with partners and is seen as visionary in its approach. Listen as Barbara talks about the new training that therapists will be given to assist partners in their own recovery from treatment. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Are you a couple who is struggling with intimacy? Do you believe that your recovery has made a significant change in your life but you and your partner are still having difficulty being close. Bill and Ginger Berclaw developed a series of structured exercises to help couples in early recovery develop intimacy and closeness. They are the authors of The Couples Guide to Intimacy which contains self help exercises to increase both emotional and sexual intimacy. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
The term “Love Addiction” sounds like some people become addicted to love. This is a misnomer. Some people also think that Love Addiction and Sex Addiction are the same.; they are not. Love Addiction, as defined by Pia Mellody at The Meadows, is a very specific disorder whereby people pick partners or other people to make themselves feel whole. Love Addicts generally feel that they are defective, so need someone that they perceive as very special to take care of them. This all stems from having been psychologically, emotionally, and/or physically neglected at a young age. Treatment is about repairing the early injury from the neglect. “Love Addiction” has nothing to do with love but it can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Listen tonight to Dr. Shelly Uram, noted psychiatrist who works specifically with addiction and trauma and specializes in Love Addiction at the Meadows shares what happens to the brain when one has experienced trauma as a child and how it can manifest as Love Addiction. She will also address the difference between love and sex addiction. This promises to be a fascinating show! Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
In this show, Elizabeth will be discussing how she healed from her husband's sexual addiction including anonomous sex and on line activity. She will carry the message of hope strength and recovery to women suffering from their husbands infedelity, Listen as Elizabeth, shares her story and how she continues to work through the trauma of betrayal. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Carol the Coach interviews Thomas Gagliano who wrote "The Problem Was Me." This book reminds addicts that it is their wounding in childhood that contributes to their faulty thinking and sense of entitlement, Listen as we talk about how to correct that thinking and become responsible for a better life. He will share tips that help the addictive mentality from continuing. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Listen as Milton S. Magness author of Stop Sex Addiction: Real Hope. True Freedom for Sex Addicts and Partners--- talks about his comprehensive recovery program that offers addicts and their partners relief from the destruction of sexual addiction. He will also talk about the video course that enhances the journey for partners. I have sent people to Milt and have found his program an amazing process for instilling safety into the disclosure process. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
I am excited to be talking with Kenneth Adams PhD who is the Clinical Director of Life Healing Center in Santa Fe, NM . It is the first residential program exclusively for partners of sex addicts. This program is called the ALMA program and it has met with much success! If you are a partner of a sex addict and you feel traumatized by the mistrust, hyper vigilance and lack of control that has overtaken your life you may benefit from this intensive residential 2 week program. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Tune in and join Coach Carol & Sue Neufeld-Ellis, LMHC-CSAT-NCACII-RN in a lively interview about the potential benefits of( MBRP) in assisting people on any recovery journey, but particularly, Sex, Relationship & Romance Addiction and Partners of Infidelity. This process can also help people in recovery from any other compulsive/addictive behaviors and/or other emotional discomfort such as anxiety, anger, and codependent behaviors. It can assist in, potentially, changing their reaction to that discomfort through these skill-building practices. (MBRP) can promote exploring a more compassionate, non-judgmental approach to themselves and their life. Sue has some helpful tips on stress management as a special download on her website as a gift to listeners. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
This show will be exploring clients who come into the office and say I had a perfect childhood but I still struggle with sexual addiction. Michelle Rappaport-Moore CSAT-S works at the Experiential Healing Center and believes that you may have experienced small traumas that contributed to your hyper sexuality. Listen as she discusses the many types of trauma and how it affects the brain, the nervous system and the sexual template. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
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