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What you'll learn in this episode: ✅ Why you should never ever apologize for your sex performance!If you're ready to transform yourself and your sex life FAST...Apply to work with me here!: https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Free Guide:3 Steps To Fix Your Sex LifeSex Meditations https://meditations.supercast.com
Guys, have you lost the spark in your sex drive? If that's you, you are not alone! Libido is a complex issue. There are so many reasons that male libido can falter, from stress and physical factors, to relational issues in your marriage. But for every factor, there are also solutions. Learn the steps to uncover what's driving your lack of drive so you can revive the desire. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The physical, mental and emotional health factors that affect sex drive Tips to unpack the issue together in healthy ways Is there a place for medical advice in understanding libido? Challenging the cultural myths about aging and sex drive Steps to starting a helpful conversation about improving libido Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! Couples Conversation Guide Main takeaway: Husbands, have you lost the passion? Physical, mental and emotional factors all impact your sex drive but you can reignite the spark and enjoy God's gift of sex in marriage. Questions to Discuss: Dr. Kim said that things like depression, anxiety, financial stress, relational tension or past trauma can reduce libido. Are any of those affecting your sexual relationship today? What would you like to experience more of together in your sexual relationship? What can you do together to make that happen? QUOTES “If you've got problems from the past that affect you in the present, you need someone to help you work through that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “When the assumptions got on the table, we realized they were wrong. That made such a huge difference.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Low libido doesn't indicate cheating or porn addiction, it's usually more complex than that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling The longer you let it go, the worse it's going to get. - Dr. Kim Kimberling MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Congrats to our Awesome Marriage of the Year - Brett and Megan Hamilton! To learn more about National Marriage week, visit their website HERE. Spice things up in the bedroom with our limited-time ‘Break the Bedroom Rut' Sexy BUNDLE! Don't let negative assumptions tear you apart. Use our Free Printable 15 Better Assumptions to Make About Your Spouse to nurture a healthy mindset Get Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!
Guys, have you lost the spark in your sex drive? If that's you, you are not alone! Libido is a complex issue. There are so many reasons that male libido can falter, from stress and physical factors, to relational issues in your marriage. But for every factor, there are also solutions. Learn the steps to uncover what's driving your lack of drive so you can revive the desire. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The physical, mental and emotional health factors that affect sex drive Tips to unpack the issue together in healthy ways Is there a place for medical advice in understanding libido? Challenging the cultural myths about aging and sex drive Steps to starting a helpful conversation about improving libido Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips! *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! Couples Conversation Guide Main takeaway: Husbands, have you lost the passion? Physical, mental and emotional factors all impact your sex drive but you can reignite the spark and enjoy God's gift of sex in marriage. Questions to Discuss: Dr. Kim said that things like depression, anxiety, financial stress, relational tension or past trauma can reduce libido. Are any of those affecting your sexual relationship today? What would you like to experience more of together in your sexual relationship? What can you do together to make that happen? QUOTES “If you've got problems from the past that affect you in the present, you need someone to help you work through that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “When the assumptions got on the table, we realized they were wrong. That made such a huge difference.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling “Low libido doesn't indicate cheating or porn addiction, it's usually more complex than that.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling The longer you let it go, the worse it's going to get. - Dr. Kim Kimberling MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Congrats to our Awesome Marriage of the Year - Brett and Megan Hamilton! To learn more about National Marriage week, visit their website HERE. Spice things up in the bedroom with our limited-time ‘Break the Bedroom Rut' Sexy BUNDLE! Don't let negative assumptions tear you apart. Use our Free Printable 15 Better Assumptions to Make About Your Spouse to nurture a healthy mindset Get Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!
According to Mental Health UK, nearly one in five people in the country don't get enough sleep. We've talked about various types of sleep disorder in the past on Do You Really Know and the link between good sleep and good health is well established. Many people turn to sleeping pills, but there's a totally natural alternative which may actually yield better results. What's that? Why is sex so beneficial then? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions! To listen to the last episodes, you can click here: How long do I have to wait to swim after eating? What are the world's least safe travel destinations? Why do we get travel sick? A Bababam Originals podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance. First broadcast: 18/3/2024 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Send us a textThis week, I continue my series on unconventional choices by exploring alternative relationship structures. I am incredibly thankful to my guests, Ali Ryan and Dr. Laura Jurgens, for sharing their insight on alternative relationship structures and their experience and advice on navigating them with love and respect. Ali Ryan is the CEO of Ali Ryan Coaching. Ali is a certified feminist integrative coach dedicated to disrupting the status quo in parenting and leadership and shifting intergenerational cycles of trauma. With influence from her unique background and personal journey, Ali helps families and leaders break free from traditional molds, embrace more compassionate approaches, and foster environments where individuals can thrive and flourish, regardless of their past or present challenges. Dr. Laura Jurgens hosts the podcast Sex Help for Smart People and specializes in helping people connect better to themselves and their partners by playing their way to better intimacy. A dual-certified cognitive and somatic coach and former research scientist and biology professor, Laura uses experiential practices to enable individuals and couples to build joyful confidence. Her approach is practical, research-based, inclusive, and de-shaming. Together, they bring invaluable perspectives on relationship structures and how to engage in loving, consensual relationships that fulfill your wants and needs. If you're interested in understanding alternative relationships or exploring the structure for yourself, or you want to take a more intentional approach to the type of relationship you choose to be part of, this episode is for you. Join us and learn how to excavate your actual desires from beneath your societal, good-girl programming and engage in relationships that align with your most authentic self. I can't wait for you to listen.Find Laura here: https://laurajurgens.com https://www.instagram.com/laura.jurgens.coach/https://www.facebook.com/laurajurgenscoaching/Find Ali here: www.aliryancoaching.com https://www.instagram.com/ali_ryan__?igsh=MXE3dWdrdHN2dmx0dQ%3D%3D Find Sara here:https://sarafisk.coachhttps://pages.sarafisk.coach/difficultconversationshttps://www.instagram.com/sarafiskcoach/https://www.facebook.com/SaraFiskCoaching/https://www.tiktok.com/@sarafiskcoachhttps://www.youtube.com/@sarafiskcoaching1333 What happens inside the free Stop People Pleasing Facebook Community? Our goal is to provide help and guidance on your journey to eliminate people pleasing and perfectionism from your life. We heal best in a safe community where we can grow and learn together and celebrate and encourage each other. This group is for posting questions about or experiences with material learned in The Ex-Good Girl podcast, Sara Fisk Coaching social media posts or the free webinars and trainings provided by Sara Fisk Coaching. See you inside!Book a Free Consult
Send us a textThis week, I continue my series on unconventional choices by exploring alternative relationship structures. I am incredibly thankful to my guests, Ali Ryan and Dr. Laura Jurgens, for sharing their insight on alternative relationship structures and their experience and advice on navigating them with love and respect. Ali Ryan is the CEO of Ali Ryan Coaching. Ali is a certified feminist integrative coach dedicated to disrupting the status quo in parenting and leadership and shifting intergenerational cycles of trauma. With influence from her unique background and personal journey, Ali helps families and leaders break free from traditional molds, embrace more compassionate approaches, and foster environments where individuals can thrive and flourish, regardless of their past or present challenges. Dr. Laura Jurgens hosts the podcast Sex Help for Smart People and specializes in helping people connect better to themselves and their partners by playing their way to better intimacy. A dual-certified cognitive and somatic coach and former research scientist and biology professor, Laura uses experiential practices to enable individuals and couples to build joyful confidence. Her approach is practical, research-based, inclusive, and de-shaming. Together, they bring invaluable perspectives on relationship structures and how to engage in loving, consensual relationships that fulfill your wants and needs. If you're interested in understanding alternative relationships or exploring the structure for yourself, or you want to take a more intentional approach to the type of relationship you choose to be part of, this episode is for you. Join us and learn how to excavate your actual desires from beneath your societal, good-girl programming and engage in relationships that align with your most authentic self. I can't wait for you to listen.Find Laura here: https://laurajurgens.com https://www.instagram.com/laura.jurgens.coach/https://www.facebook.com/laurajurgenscoaching/Find Ali here: www.aliryancoaching.com https://www.instagram.com/ali_ryan__?igsh=MXE3dWdrdHN2dmx0dQ%3D%3D https://www.facebook.com/awesterwoman010811/ Find Sara here:https://sarafisk.coachhttps://www.instagram.com/sarafiskcoach/https://www.facebook.com/SaraFiskCoaching/https://www.youtube.com/@sarafiskcoaching1333https://www.tiktok.com/@sarafiskcoach What happens inside the free Stop People Pleasing Facebook Community? Our goal is to provide help and guidance on your journey to eliminate people pleasing and perfectionism from your life. We heal best in a safe community where we can grow and learn together and celebrate and encourage each other. This group is for posting questions about or experiences with material learned in The Ex-Good Girl podcast, Sara Fisk Coaching social media posts or the free webinars and trainings provided by Sara Fisk Coaching. See you inside!Book a Free Consult
According to Mental Health UK, nearly one in five people in the country don't get enough sleep. We've talked about various types of sleep disorder in the past on Do You Really Know and the link between good sleep and good health is well established. Many people turn to sleeping pills, but there's a totally natural alternative which may actually yield better results. What's that? Why is sex so beneficial then? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions! To listen to the last episodes, you can click here: How long do I have to wait to swim after eating? What are the world's least safe travel destinations? Why do we get travel sick? A Bababam Originals podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance. First broadcast: March 18th, 2024 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Send us a Text Message.On this week's episode, Natasha & Laura discuss how to use relationship skills to help us and others feel seen, supported, and kindly boundaried at work. Laura specializes in helping people connect better to themselves and their partners, and play their way to better intimacy. She uses experiential practices to enable individuals and couples to build joyful confidence, whatever their sexual history. She also hosts the Sex Help for Smart People Podcast. Her approach is trauma-informed, practical, research-based, inclusive, and de-shaming. She is dual-certified in cognitive and somatic coaching, and is a former research scientist and biology professor.Find her at www.laurajurgens.com.To get in touch with Maria:Download the "Work Smarter, Not Harder" free workbook: restovergrind.com/save-timeBook a free consult call: restovergrind.com/work-with-me Email: info@restovergrind.comInstagram and TikTok: @rest_over_grindTo get in touch with Natasha: Instagram: @natashatekeste Website: natashatekeste.com
Everyone says that their kids will always be their baby... but what happens when the babies grow up and start to become adults. Our listener's 15 year old daughter has a new boyfriend and wants to go on contraception for the first time. How do you broach the subject of sex with her? And is that a Mum's job to do so?Don't forget to send us your questions/dilemma's/chats about any topic to longstoryshortpodcast22@gmail.com (all dilemmas will be anonymous, or you can DM @ellenextdoor if that's easier) also, follow us on TikTok- longstoryshortpod for lols and good times :) Hope you enjoy the episode xxPlease note, all opinions are our own and any advice given in this podcast is meant for entertainment purposes only. Please seek professional advice if you, or anyone you know is experiencing difficulty around any of the topics raised in this podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This episode will teach you a question you can ask your partner (in bad or good times) to help you understand her on a deeper level. Understanding builds trust and with more questions like this one, you will notice yourself connecting more and more with your partner both in friendship, love and sexual connection.Subscribe to my YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiCp3BxQ_pz4-tQRZQCd6swWORK WITH ME 1:1 https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Join Sex Meditationshttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/2gA2VzBH
According to Mental Health UK, nearly one in five people in the country don't get enough sleep. We've talked about various types of sleep disorder in the past on Do You Really Know and the link between good sleep and good health is well established. Many people turn to sleeping pills, but there's a totally natural alternative which may actually yield better results. What's that? Why is sex so beneficial then? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions! To listen to the last episodes, you can click here: Why do mouth sounds drive some people crazy? Why does Ramadan start on a different date each year? How can I move house stress-free? A podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance. In partnership with upday UK. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ever feel like your career leaves little room for the joys of your sensual self? Join me, in this first episode of Sex Help for Smart People, where you'll learn why it can be hard for even the most successful women to know how to get what they want in sex and relationships. In this episode, we're taking a radical departure from the ineffective methods that leave so many high-achieving women feeling stranded, and we move towards a practice that's about embracing your body and its desires through communication and play, equipping you with the tools for change. We'll wade through the murky waters of gender socialization, busting myths and lifting the veil on authentic selfhood. Feeling safe, setting boundaries, and indulging in pleasure without obligation isn't just a fantasy—it's a birthright. What you'll learn in this podcast:Practical advice to integrate sensual self-awareness Exploring sexual empowerment and relationship skillsHow to navigate vulnerability with your partner for a more satisfying sexual lifeExercise: How to start connecting with your sexual bodyIf you're ready to break the chains of societal pressure and reconnect with the pleasure you deserve, this episode provides the first baby step with a tiny practice to begin your journey to better sex and connection with yourself and your partner. For more free resources, to get on my email list for access to events and encouragement from me, or to see if I'm taking new clients and book a consultation, go to https://laurajurgens.com.
In this episode, you will learn what sexually frustrated women are saying and what you can do to f*ck her so that you know it feels good for both of you.This book will give you really good guidance when it comes to understanding female pleasure!She comes first by Ian Kerner Ph.D.Sex and the office podcast Andrew and I started a podcastHealthy Masturbation Masterclass: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/qUbyzNoqSubscribe to my YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiCp3BxQ_pz4-tQRZQCd6swWORK WITH ME 1:1 https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Join Sex Meditationshttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/2gA2VzBHPE COURSEhttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/endyourpenowGET WEEKLY SEX TIPShttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/news-letterINSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/
Welcome back to the Best of AOU series! Today we have another insightful episode of Anatomy of Sex: "HELP! We've Only Had Sex 3 Times in the Last 4 Years!"
In this episode, you will learn 3 reasons why masturbation is a tool to help you improve your Sex Life for the better!Healthy Masturbation Masterclass (LIVE on January 11th @7pm CST, or you'll get the recording)https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/qUbyzNoqWORK WITH ME 1:1 https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Join Sex Meditationshttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/2gA2VzBHPE COURSEhttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/endyourpenowYOUTUBEFollow my YouTubeGET WEEKLY SEX TIPShttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/news-letterINSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/
In this episode, you will learn:1. Which of these 10 things are blocking you from having better, more fulfilling sex.2. How many things go into making sex great (you have options!)3. Why you need to look at sex similar to every other part of life (it takes work and that's not a bad thing)WORK WITH ME 1:1 https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Join Sex Meditations!https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/2gA2VzBHPE COURSEhttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/endyourpenowYOUTUBEFollow my YouTubeGET WEEKLY SEX TIPShttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/news-letter INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/
In this episode, you will learn:1. One of my favorite relationship quotes as a sexologist2. Why a "relationship takes work" doesn't have to be a bad thing!3. One action you can take this weekend to bring more curiosity into your relationshipJoin Sex Meditations!https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/2gA2VzBHPE COURSEhttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/endyourpenowFollow my YouTubeDE MASTERCLASS https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/9bsQSmruEffective vs. Ineffective Communication FREE TRAINING*https://www.stephanieganowski.com/joinusGET WEEKLY SEX TIPShttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/news-letter INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/
Isy and Rebecca are back with Season 5!!! And wow did they have a lot to talk about... Masturbation, sex toys, osteoporosis, the meaning of past/present/future, memories of science class, Chanukah, period cramps, Adam Sandler, and so much more. Any thoughts on this episode? We want to hear from you! Contact us on Facebook, Instagram, our website, or at contact@yestoconsent.org Support What is Sex? on Patreon to help pay hosting fees, guests, editors, and hosts!
We hope you enjoy this special edition of the Helping Couples Heal Podcast. This is a repost of an interview on Sex Help with Carol the Coach where Carol interviewed Marnie about the Helping Couples Heal Online Couples Community and why community is so important for couples recovering from betrayal trauma.To learn more about the community, click the link below.https://helpingcouplesheal.com/helping-couples-heal-online-couples-community/
Getting a biblical theology of sex will help protect and progress our holiness.Visit thestorychanger.life for more resources on changing our story with God's Story.
Did you know that one component of sex therapy training involves watching porn of every variety in a group with our sex therapist peers? Yep. Today, I chat with Dr. Patti Britton who led more than 55 of these (very memorable) trainings. Dr. Britton also sheds light on the difference between sex therapy and sex coaching. There is an option for people who want help without having to get too emotional. Dr. Patti is a world-renowned clinical sexologist and founded the profession of sex coaching in 1993. Learn more about her work and her books at drpattibritton.com.Find Dr. Emily Jamea @dremilyjamea on Instagram, Facebook and TikTok, and Subscribe to Sex and Love today!
In today's video, I'm going to respond to a retroactive jealousy sufferer, who's confused about her boyfriend's past in hookup culture. She's wondering if she should dive in and pursue a similar kind of lifestyle in the hope that this will cure retroactive jealousy. How to deal with your partner's history of casual sex and […] The post Casual Sex and Retroactive Jealousy: Will More Sex Help? [VIDEO] appeared first on Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy.
This episode is part of our clinician series, we're going to be taking you behind the proverbial therapy door, giving you a more, in-depth look at compulsive sexual behavior disorder and what patients experience. Dr. Graham Taylor is joined by Dr. Stefanie Carnes. Stefanie is the president of the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals and a senior fellow for Meadows Behavioral Healthcare. In their time together they discuss the stigma and misunderstanding of sex addiction, trends in trauma history and its impacts with healthy intimacy, and the importance of group and family therapy in the healing process. There is hope in this treatment and people come out the other end to experience healthy sexual relationships, both for themselves and with their partner. For more information about International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals, please visit: https://iitap.com For more information about Sex Help and information about sex addiction, please visit: https://sexhelp.com For more information about books on sex addiction, please visit Gentle Path at the Meadows at https://www.gentlepathmeadows.com/bookstore/books/ For residential treatment or more information about Meadows Behavioral Health, please visit: https://www.themeadows.com
We brought back our most requested, most listened to, most searched episode for a part 2!!!Lex and Kels are back at it with another sex based advice episode! Our sexy sex episode was our most popular BY FAR so we just delivered what we already knew you wanted!From talking porn with your partners, the WORST sex stories of all time, how to handle work flirting, chatting all things sex positivity and culture ,and SO MUCH MORE. You know you want to go ahead and listen to this episode ASAP!!!Having issues with sexy time? Wanting to step up your game?! Looking to expand your kinks? Try new things? Curious?! We GOT YOU!WANTING TO SEND IN A QUESTION OR SHARE A STORY FOR OUR NEXT EPISODE?!FOLLOW OUR SOCIALS TO SUBMIT FOR THE NEXT EPISODE OR SIMPLY JUST SEND US AN EMAIL WITH ALL THE DETAILS !!Podcast Email: generationunstablepod@gmail.comPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/generationunstable/Kelsey's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/k_nicolem/Lexi's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexisperplexed/FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA FOR TOPIC ANNOUNCEMENTS AND EXCLUSIVE UNSTABE CONTENTInstagram: @generationunstable
Welcome to Anatomy of Sex! This show is exclusive to members of our Patreon, with one episode a month shared publicly. Don't miss out! Sign up for Patreon today to get all future episodes: https://www.patreon.com/thestudleys Today we are talking about a VERY common marriage and relationship problem in the digital age, addictions to chat apps, hookup apps, sexting randos, and basically anything that has to do with being “virtually unfaithful.” We also share useful tools such as The Clearing Structure to help couples discuss this far too common problem. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Does Fapping Before Sex Help You Last Longer?? "Being a two-pump chump is a guy's worst nightmare." Healthline Article: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/masturbating-before-sex#masturbation-as-foreplay FOLLOW AUXORO (INSTA): https://www.instagram.com/auxoro/FOLLOW AUXORO (FB): https://www.facebook.com/auxoromag/FOLLOW AUXORO (TWITTER): https://twitter.com/AuxoromagFOLLOW AUXORO (TikTok): https://www.tiktok.com/@auxoroAUXORO NEWSLETTER: https://www.auxoro.com/thesourceAUXORO MERCH: https://www.auxoro.com/storeWEBSITE/BLOG: https://www.auxoro.com/AUXORO PODCAST (guest conversations): https://www.flow.page/auxoro
In life, there are certain things we absolutely must-have for survival. We need air, water, food, and shelter. Without these, we would die. There are many other things at the top of the list that are important, but we wouldn't die without... one of these things being sex. In today's episode, we discuss how long is too long to go without sex in a relationship. Is it okay to go days, weeks, months, even years? As a couple who has been together a decade, we've had our fair share of sex droughts and have survived them all. We discuss some of the reasons why you may be going through a dry spell, and why some women become uninterested in "giving it up". We also give some useful tips and tricks on how to spice up your sex life and make it new again! Join us today as we talk about one of our favorite topics - sex! Happy listening!
Today I talked about how sex can help to relieve stress.
We talk with Dr. Laurie Mintz, PhD about the orgasm gap, sexual education in the United States, and how to become cliterate. It's a fantastic episode and we're so thankful to Laurie for sharing her knowledge! Dr. Laurie Mintz is a feminist author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, and joyful lives through the art and science of psychology.As a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. She also teaches and mentors graduate students in both their clinical and research training, helping them to find their own niche as psychologists. Dr. Mintz has published over 50 research articles in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. She has received numerous professional and teaching awards. She is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology.She is the author of two popular press books—both written with the aim of empowering women sexually: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It (HarperOne, 2017) and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship (Adams Media, 2009). For over 25 years, Dr. Mintz has also maintained a small private practice, working with both individuals and couples on general and sexual issues. One of her greatest honors is supporting her clients during difficult times, as well as helping them make positive changes and reach life goals. Find Laurie online: drlauriemintz.comFollow Laurie on all the things: click here Deyus Life is a show about interesting people and interesting conversations. Have a question or want to be featured on the show? Email deyuspod@gmail.com or visit deyuslifepod.com. We read and respond to EVERY email - including yours.
This episode is about understanding human sexuality and how it impacts relationships, intimacy, and mental health
Hey there, So many of the problems we parents have about sensitive conversations with our kids is about embarrassment. We are embarrassed because we don't know how to start. We are embarrassed ‘cause we don't know what to talk about. We are embarrassed when we don't know when is the right time to talk to our kids. Embarrassment, fear and awkwardness are at the root of why many of us stop ourselves or feel stuck when we try to start talking to our kid about relationships, sexuality, consent and puberty. Watch or listen to Sitting In A Car this week to hear three tips for managing your embarrassment. And if you REALLY want to get going on talking to your kid about all this stuff, if you KNOW you've put it off long enough… … head on over to Eventbrite to book yourself a ticket to my newest online workshop. It called “It's Awkward” and you can find your ticket here… It's online so you don't have to travel. It's on a SATURDAY so you don't have to miss work. You'll have access to the replay for as long as you need it so you can still learn all the goodies even if you have a full day of mum-taxi duty. And send me an email or ring me if you aren't sure if this workshop is right for you. I'll answer all your questions
Hey there, So many of the problems we parents have about sensitive conversations with our kids is about embarrassment. We are embarrassed because we don't know how to start. We are embarrassed ‘cause we don't know what to talk about. We are embarrassed when we don't know when is the right time to talk to our kids. Embarrassment, fear and awkwardness are at the root of why many of us stop ourselves or feel stuck when we try to start talking to our kid about relationships, sexuality, consent and puberty. Watch or listen to Sitting In A Car this week to hear three tips for managing your embarrassment. And if you REALLY want to get going on talking to your kid about all this stuff, if you KNOW you've put it off long enough… … head on over to Eventbrite to book yourself a ticket to my newest online workshop. It called “It's Awkward” and you can find your ticket here… It's online so you don't have to travel. It's on a SATURDAY so you don't have to miss work. You'll have access to the replay for as long as you need it so you can still learn all the goodies even if you have a full day of mum-taxi duty. And send me an email or ring me if you aren't sure if this workshop is right for you. I'll answer all your questions
Intimacy in Polyamorous Relationship (Panel Discussion) and Rebuilding intimacy in your relationship (here we are covering Infidelity, dating, sexual trauma, intimacy etc.)
278 - Ask Dr. Angela - Does Peeing After Sex Help Flush Out The Vagina? The Ask Dr. Angela Podcast. Dr. Angela Jones, Board Certified OB/GYN answers all your personal health questions with quick humorous answers. Ask your own question at www.AskDrAngela.com
Carol Juergensen Sheets, aka “Carol the Coach”, has a passion for understanding trauma, disconnection and isolation, and using her gifts to help both sex addicts and betrayed partners through their darkest moments and into the light of healing. She also loves to use media and broadcasting to spread her message to millions, in a judgment and blame freeway. Today, she talks with Rob about her work in partner focused treatment, her radio show on Blog Talk Radio that receives more than half a million listeners weekly, the concept of blame, guilt and remorse in addiction and the shift she has seen in the field over the past decade. Carol has a deep enthusiasm for her work, and it is apparent in her work as a therapist, coach, media personality or caring member of the community. TAKEAWAYS: [3:32] Carol has an affinity for disseminating information to the public on a wide scale. Her podcast is one of the oldest, and now has half a million downloads per week. She helps people globally, interviews leading experts and helps colleagues and clinicians gather cutting edge education to bring back in their work. [7:26] Carol compiled a book in sex addiction, Sexual Addiction: Wisdom from the Masters, that she donated to the American Federation of Research. This body of work served to share the wisdom on a wide range of topics on addiction, compulsion and partner betrayal. 8:16] When Dr. Patrick Carnes appeared on Carol’s radio show, he brought up the notion that suffering and trauma of addiction and betrayal can actually be a precursor for growth, healing and connection. [9:46] If a partner is acting out and is in a deep and enduring relationship, there is a higher chance they will feel remorse than an individual that is unable to connect. Relationships provide a depth of learning, and isolation continues the process of sexual addiction. [10:45] It it often helpful for partners to hear that the compulsions and of their sex addict partner started earlier than their relationship. This may help take a large burden of remorse off their backs, and realize they did not cause the behavior and it was present long before their coupling. [12:18] Carol shares how she noticed a shift in the field around 2007 in how the partners were acknowledged in their deep pain, and not blamed from a model of codependence and causation. She began in to invite them in to her sessions, and realized they needed their own specialized help. She got involved with APSATS, The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists, and within a year was training her own colleagues. Partner betrayal is still seen as a deficit area, and Carol supports crisis management both separately AND together between the partner and the addict. [17:01] Conflict breeds intimacy when partners are able to work through their grief and restore and develop a foundation of safety and stabilization. Once there is full disclosure in the early couples recovery work, couples can begin to work on empathy. The addict must acknowledge the issues, validate the partner’s feelings and reassure the partner that he or she can begin to feel safe. Partners also must work through their shame, or the blame from others around them from staying with a sex addict. [21:55] Carol speaks upon an older model that looked at partners with the same need for confrontation as their sex addict partners, even adding the label of codependence. Now, we realize that this is a person in crisis reacting to the betrayal trauma, and they need support rather than blame. [29:27] Remorse is a natural part of grief, and it is common for the spouse to already blame themselves on some level for their partner’s betrayal. Carol works with her clients on building up their sense of worth and belief that they are deserving of honesty, truth and love. RESOURCES Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101 Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency APSATS American Federation of Medical Research Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal Sex Addiction: Wisdom from the Masters Esther Perel Carol the Coach carol@carolthecoach.com Sex Help with Carol the Coach Sex Help with Carol the Coach - You Tube Blog Talk Radio - Sex Help with Carol the Coach Betrayal Recovery Radio QUOTES: “With sexual addiction and partner trauma, we aren’t going to get as far as we need to go unless we have the research to substantiate what we know to be true.” “Suffering can be the precursor for post traumatic growth.” “Isolation is at the root of sexual addiction.” “The addict carries the shame, but the partner carries the pain.” - Esther Perel In any coupleship, there are issues that both people contribute towards or contaminate. Sexual addiction is not one of them.” “Connection is the antidote to suffering.”
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Sex Addiction effects the self and everyone who loves the sex addict. Listen as Carol the Coach delves into why someone would have this compulsion and how to manage it!
Dr. Black is a renowned author and trainer internationally recognized for her pioneering and contemporary work with family systems and addictive disorders. Since the 1970's, Dr. Black's work has encompassed the impact of addiction on young and adult children. She has offered models of intervention and treatment related to family violence, multi-addictions, relapse, anger, depression and women's issues. Dr. Black designs and presents training workshops and seminars to professional audiences in the field of family service, mental health, addiction and correctional services. She has authored numerous books and educational videos for use with addicted clients and the families affected by addiction. Dr. Black's latest book is Intimate Treason: Healing the Trauma for Partners Confronting Sex Addiction. During the program Dr. Black will talk about her work over the past 35 years and discuss with listeners the relationship between trauma in the family and addictive disorders. So often, people think of trauma as an incident or experience; Dr. Black will explain the distinction between what are called “big T” and “little t” traumas focusing specifically on the impact they have on children and the ramifications of the trauma in adult life. Recognizing that people often become addicted to not just substances, but also to behavioral processes, she will help listeners recognize the similarities and distinctions. Dr. Black will also offer direction to the family member still in the throes of being impacted by an active addiction. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Elana Clark-Faler, LCSW, CSAT-S, CGP is a nationa speaker and sex expert on African-American relationships and has been featured in Ebony magazine. In this show she will be sharing why the African-American women who come see her struggle with sex and love addiction. Her website www.recoveryhelpnow.com will help people understand the diffferences of sex and love addiction and what resources are available for love and sex addicts. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Debra L. Kaplan will be talking about her book For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Exploitation in Relationships. She will help us to understand how sex and money get fused in a relationship and how it can be used to manipulate and control.If you have ever felt controled by sex and money...this show is a must for you! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Have you ever wondered if as a sex addict, your relationship with your mother, has stifled having a healthy relationhip with your partner??? Or are you a partner of a sex addict who feels confused and lost as to how to proceed in your life? You aren't sure about boundaries, or your own needs and you constantly feel on the back burner? Listen as Dr. Ken Adams talks about 2 intensive workshops that hinders people's abilities to have healthy relationships. In his workshop for men that have enmeshed relationships with their mother, he will talk about how that process creates an erotic template that often times fuses with anger and guilt. This intensive will teach you how to develop strategies to help them to break free from ianappropriate loyalties and learn to live within healthy committments. He will also be talking about the Intensives that he will be leading for spouses and partners of sex addicts. He will teach partners how to establish boundaries, develop goals for sel-care and move towards developing strategies for handling intense emotional, physical, and spiritual symptoms of trauma. If you want to boost your recovery you will need to listen to show. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Let's face it ..... letting go of control can be really tough when you are working a 12 Step program.Kicking in your recovery program takes a concerted plan of action...but it also requires a mindset. Listen as Andy, a recovering sex addict, talks about how his recovery was expediated when he realized that he needed to work on surrender.Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources....Listen as Andy shares his story and how the art of letting go made all the difference in the world. . This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Debra L. Kaplan will be talking about her book For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Exploitation in Relationships. She will help us to understand how sex and money get fused in a relationship and how it can be used to manipulate and control. If you have ever felt controled by sex and money...this show is a must for you! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Tonight we will be talking about Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), formerly called multiple personality disorder, the percentage of population impacted, characteristics of it, causal factors, criteria for diagnosis, what led Charlene Benson to become interested in Dissociative disorders, and resources for learning more about the disorder. We will also talk about how this relates to sexual and other addictions. We will briefly talk about treatment, how Charleen Benson views those with the disorder, and tips, observations, life skills and techniques that may be helpful. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Have you been considering EMDR for trauma that occured as a child? Listen tonight as Carol the Coach talks to Katie Raines who will be discussing how she uses it for clients who have been through trauma and feels that it is interferring with their lives. EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. EMDR seems to have a direct effect on the way that the brain processes information. Normal information processing is resumed, so following a successful EMDR session, a person no longer relives the images, sounds, and feelings when the event is brought to mind. You still remember what happened, but it is less upsetting. Many types of therapy have similar goals. However, EMDR appears to be similar to what occurs naturally during dreaming or REM (rapid eye movement) sleep. Therefore, EMDR can be thought of as a physiologically based therapy that helps a person see disturbing material in a new and less distressing way. We must access the parts of the brain that process pictures and symbols, and connect with troubling emotions and body sensations, in order to effectively address and heal from trauma. EMDR has been extensively researched and proven as a highly effective form of treatment. Clients find new vitality in their lives after each EMDR session. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Tonight I will talking about self esteem skills that every person needs to get through the struggles of life and grow to be a more fulfilled person! Sexual addiction does not need to rob you of your potential...so listen to the show, call in, and let's see if you can incorporate these life skills into your daily functioning right now! Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Audrey Tait MS CCC CSAT CMAT, has spent her whole life assisting clients in working through the trauma and learning how to forgive themselves. She has written a series of meditation books including: I Am Wonderfully Me: Positive Affirmations for Me! Volume 1Reflective Meditations: Unraveling My TraumaReflective Meditation: Healing My TraumaReflective Meditations: Letting Go-ForgivenessReflective Meditations: Believing in MyselfReflective Meditations: Understanding My Authentic Self.She absolutely believes that healing begins with affirmations and meditative work. Listen as she describes how her journey began and how she has used these powerful tools to change her clients lives. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Stepping out into the dating world can be a frightening prospect. Dr. Linda Hatch shows recovering addicts how to create healthy relationships using practical tips and tools for doing so . Her book Relationships in Recovery is a gift and a guide for any normal person who still fears intimacy because of her /his sexual addiction background. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Conflict can be scary but clearly it is natural, necessary and normal. Learn the 4 tools of conflict and apply them to your life in your relationships. Carol the Coach is on vacation but this is one of her favorite archived shows from her radio show Your Best Life with Carol the Coach. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Carol the Coach is going to clarify what happens when people use sex to find love and how that can set up a compulsion for Love Addiction. Listen as Carol describes the critera for Love Addiction and find out if you might have the propensity for Romance, or Relationships or Sex. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Tune in and join Coach Carol & Sue Neufeld-Ellis, LMHC-CSAT-NCACII-RN in a lively interview about the potential benefits of( MBRP) in assisting people on any recovery journey, but particularly, Sex, Relationship & Romance Addiction and Partners of Infidelity. This process can also help people in recovery from any other compulsive/addictive behaviors and/or other emotional discomfort such as anxiety, anger, and codependent behaviors. It can assist in, potentially, changing their reaction to that discomfort through these skill-building practices. (MBRP) can promote exploring a more compassionate, non-judgmental approach to themselves and their life. Sue has some helpful tips on stress management as a special download on her website as a gift to listeners. Sexual Addiction can be managed if you utilize a variety of resources. This radio show teaches you the recovery tasks needed to work through the shame that accompanies this compulsion. Carol the Coach has worked with 1000's of clients who have fought this disorder and learned how to manage it and live fully optimal lives. Listen to her as she shares her wisdom and interviews the experts in her field. Carol Juergensen Sheets is a certified sexual addictions counselor and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes who has been instrumental in developing programs and clinical skill sets that promote recovery,
Here the riveting details about how a young woman realized that she could not control, cure or manage her husband"s addiction but instead she learned how to focus on herself to bring serenity and to create the life she deserved! With the help of CODA, Neeta learned how to let go of her powerlessness and manage her own life which in turn helped her husband to get real about his!