Podcasts about certified sex addiction therapist

When it comes to betrayal, we often hear one story: the man cheats, the woman is hurt, and support rallies around her. But what happens when the script is flipped? In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Adam Nisenson, a coach and author who helps men navigate betrayal trauma—a subject that's rarely talked about and often misunderstood.Adam shares his own experience of being betrayed, the cultural narratives that silence men in pain, and why so many men suffer in isolation. We explore how betrayal crushes identity, triggers deep ego wounds, and leaves men unsure of how to move forward.This episode offers insight, language, and hope for betrayed men—and for those who love them.

Adam Nisenson, also known as The Betrayal Shrink, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. Together with Dr. Rob he highlights the need for betrayed men to have support and healing just as much as women do. He shares his own healing journey, the support that he offers men who have been betrayed, and why he believes that his own betrayal experience was actually worth it.    TAKEAWAYS: [2:25] The depth of Adam's betrayal as a man.  [6:20] Adam recalls his feelings on D-Day.  [8:52] The importance of having a safe, supportive place to grieve. [9:50] Rediscovering self-worth when reconciling or separating.  [13:53] Projecting unhealthy anger on others gives them the power. [17:55] Navigating betrayal from a child's perspective.  [20:02] Adam's decision to support other betrayed men.  [22:45] Key differences between betrayed men and women.  [26:44] Is it just sex? Or is it love?    RESOURCES: Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101  Seeking Integrity Free Sexual Addiction Screening Assessment Partner Sexuality Survey Adam Nisenson Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.    QUOTES: “Having a safe, healthy place to grieve and be seen was a game-changer for me.”  “Projecting unhealthy anger on others gives them the power.”  “I wanted to make therapy cool for men.”  “Emotional betrayal is just as painful as physical betrayal, and they both destroy trust.”  “It was through my pain that I discovered who I really was.” 

Emotional dysregulation, compulsive behavior and obsessive thoughts: if you've struggled with love addiction, all of this might sound very familiar...but these are also symptoms of ADHD. Is there a connection? In this episode, Jodi talks with Aly Dearborn, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist with specialized training in recognizing female presentations of ADHD and Austism. Aly and Jodi discuss the shared symptoms of love addiction, ADHD and Autism; the estrogen connection and why girls and women are often misdiagnosed; and Aly shares her personal experience with love addiction and being an adult diagnosed ADHD/Autistic. Show notes and resources: Music by JD Pendley Link to Jodi's website and additional resources More resources and information about Aly Dearborn can be found here Aly mentioned the work of Bo Forbes Disclaimer: This podcast is shared for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for mental health treatment with a licensed mental health professional or to be used in place of the advice of a physician. If you are struggling please don't delay in seeking the assistance of a licensed mental health practitioner or healthcare professional. If you're in crisis please visit NAMI.org or call 1-800-273-TALK for 24-hour assistance.    

In this episode, we're joined by Michael Dunn, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, who helps unpack the complexities of porn addiction—what it is, how it's diagnosed, and the impact it can have on individuals and relationships. We explore effective treatment approaches, from task-based therapy and 12-step programs to inpatient care, and discuss how loved ones can recognize the signs of addiction and offer meaningful support. Michael also provides expert insight into the recovery process, emphasizing that with the right tools, community, and commitment, healing is possible.  

Talking points: relationships, infidelity, betrayalThe damage from infidelity in a relationship can be complex, traumatic, and last far longer than you might think. What's more, there aren't a lot of men-specific resources out there. Fortunately Adam is changing that. If you or someone you know has experienced infidelity, strongly encourage you to share this one.(00:00:00) - Why Adam wrote his book, and the stigmas men experience when they're cheated on(00:05:13) - How important is it that all parties see the part they may have played, and what NOT to do(00:15:35) - What leads a woman to have an affair, what to do when you find out, and what happens to a man's identity when betrayed(00:26:10) - Navigating jealousy and grief(00:40:27) - What's possible in the reconciliation process?(00:43:53) - On creating safety and repair after betrayalAdam Nisenson, also known as the Betrayal Shrink, is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. He's dedicated to helping men navigate the complex emotions and challenges of betrayal trauma. Adam understands firsthand what it's like to be a betrayed partner, which gives him a unique perspective on how to support clients on their healing journey. He creates a safe and understanding space where clients can explore their feelings and work through their trauma with compassion and wisdom.Adam graduated from Pacifica Graduate Institute with degrees in Marriage and Family Therapy, Professional Clinical Counseling, and Depth Psychology. He's committed to addressing important issues like betrayal, infidelity, sex addiction, and the life challenges that come with them. With Adam, the journey isn't just about recovery; it's about personal growth and rediscovery.Connect with Adam-Book: A Man's Guide To Partner Betrayal: https://www.sanopress.com/books/mgtpb-Website: https://betrayalshrink.com-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betrayalshrink***Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks...

Adam Nisenson, known as the Betrayal Shrink, combines his extensive clinical skills with a deeply empathetic heart in his role as a Betrayal Trauma Coach. Licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Adam is dedicated to guiding men through the complex emotions and challenges of betrayal trauma. His methodology is deeply influenced by his intimate grasp of the trials faced by men confronting a partner's infidelity. Leveraging his extensive clinical background and personal insights of being a betrayal partner himself, Adam creates a supportive and understanding environment, where clients are led through their journey of healing with compassion and wisdom. Holding a degree from Pacifica Graduate Institute with a focus on Marriage and Family Therapy, Professional Clinical Counseling, and Depth Psychology, Adam has committed his career to addressing critical issues such as betrayal, infidelity, sex addiction, and the myriad life challenges that accompany them. With Adam, the journey is not just about recovery; it's about embarking on a path of profound personal growth and rediscovery. Links: http://apsats.org http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers Find more on Adam: https://www.sanopress.com/books/mgtpb adam@betrayalshrink.com https://betrayalshrink.com https://www.instagram.com/betrayalshrink This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

Adam Nisenson, known as the Betrayal Shrink, combines his extensive clinical skills with a deeply empathetic heart in his role as a Betrayal Trauma Coach. Licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Adam is dedicated to guiding men through the complex emotions and challenges of betrayal trauma. His methodology is deeply influenced by his intimate grasp of the trials faced by men confronting a partner's infidelity. Leveraging his extensive clinical background and personal insights of being a betrayal partner himself, Adam creates a supportive and understanding environment, where clients are led through their journey of healing with compassion and wisdom. Holding a degree from Pacifica Graduate Institute with a focus on Marriage and Family Therapy, Professional Clinical Counseling, and Depth Psychology, Adam has committed his career to addressing critical issues such as betrayal, infidelity, sex addiction, and the myriad life challenges that accompany them. With Adam, the journey is not just about recovery; it's about embarking on a path of profound personal growth and rediscovery. Links: http://apsats.org http://drjakeporter.com/breakingbarriers Find more on Adam: https://www.sanopress.com/books/mgtpb adam@betrayalshrink.com https://betrayalshrink.com https://www.instagram.com/betrayalshrink This podcast is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health counseling, therapy, or medical advice. All views and opinions expressed by the hosts, guests, or participants are their own and do not necessarily represent the official views, policies, or positions of APSATS. APSATS does not endorse any specific treatments, interventions, or advice discussed in the podcast. Listeners should seek their own professional guidance for personal health concerns.

Today, Carol the Coach interviews Kimberly Litton, who is the author of I Do It for Her: A Memoir of Recovery and Redemption from Sex, Love and Substances. This book is a vulnerable, yet insightful look into the world of a Female Sex and Love Addict. This memoir delves into painful truths and healing experiences while giving the reader steps to recover. Litton guides the reader through her trauma, various forms of unhealthy coping skills, then ultimately and gracefully provides hope, healing and forgiveness. This book is about resilience, perseverance, self-love, and freedom from addictions. She has a wealth of experience. Kimberly Litton LCSW, CSAT is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. She has a private practice, both virtual and in-person in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida. Kim is the author of “I Do it For Her”: A memoir of a Woman's Healing Journey from sex and love addiction”.  She also serves on the Women's Panel for IITAP (International Institute of Trauma and Addiction), educating professionals on Female Sex and Love Addiction. She has an extensive history of treating women with alcoholism, addiction, eating disorders and sex addiction. Along with her intuitive talent, Kim has an infectious passion for women's recovery. She's dedicated in her own journey of growing, uncovering the many layers of her personal addiction, intimacy and relational problems and codependency. She relates to women on a very human level. Her authentic approach as a clinician is vulnerable enough to be relatable to her clients while exhibiting profound knowledge and tools to integrate a powerful treatment experience.  

In this episode, we're joined by the amazing Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S, a licensed therapist and expert in complex trauma, domestic abuse, and coercive control. As the Founder and CEO of The Journey and The Process, a private practice specializing in helping individuals recover from messy, painful pasts, Tabitha has made it her mission to empower people to live whole and healed lives today. With a background as an EMDRIA Certified Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Tabitha is no stranger to navigating the deepest layers of trauma. She's also a sought-after speaker, training churches, therapists, and advocates on domestic abuse and coercive control. In this episode, Tabitha shares her wisdom on trauma recovery, the importance of healthy boundaries, and reclaiming your life after abuse. She's also the author of the forthcoming book, Body & Soul, Healed & Whole: An Invitational Guide to Healthy Sexuality After Trauma, Abuse, and Coercive Control, where she offers practical tools for healing. Join us as Tabitha delves into the powerful process of recovery, providing hope, guidance, and a path to wholeness.     Episode Highlights Tabitha Westbrook trauma recovery Healing from complex trauma Domestic abuse and coercive control expert EMDR therapy for trauma Recovering from childhood abuse Empowering lives after trauma Healing from emotional abuse Trauma-informed therapy techniques Breaking free from coercive control Healthy sexuality after trauma and abuse Faith-based domestic abuse advocacy G5 Men's Batterer Intervention Group How to heal from domestic abuse and coercive control EMDR therapy: A powerful tool for trauma recovery Breaking the cycle of abuse: A conversation with Tabitha Westbrook Empowering your life after trauma: Healing from messy, painful pasts The role of faith-based advocacy in domestic abuse recovery Healthy sexuality after trauma: Practical tips from an expert therapist Tabitha Westbrook's approach to trauma recovery and empowerment How to rebuild self-worth and boundaries after abuse Navigating emotional healing through trauma-informed therapy Training advocates: How churches can support domestic abuse survivors   Learn more about Tabitha Westbrook   Book preorder: https://www.amazon.com/Body-Soul-Healed-Whole-Invitational/dp/1496490665 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tabithathecounselor/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TabithaTheCounselor Websites: https://www.tabithawestbrook.com/ and https://thejourneyandtheprocess.com/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@devaneely4 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deva-neely/ X(formerly Twitter) - https://x.com/Imadiva4 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChL-_Xeuwnf9vPc9OEZdZNw Free Grief Journal: https://stan.store/griefrelief/p/get-my-free-grief-relief-journal-now Free Workshop - https://stan.store/griefrelief/p/join-me-at-the-webinar-u1tzi     Did you enjoy today's episode?   Please subscribe and leave a review. If you have questions, comments, or possible show topics, email  susan@tendrilsofgrief.com   Don't forget to visit Tendrils Of Grief  website and join for upcoming Webinars, Podcasts Updates and Group Coaching.   Get involve and share your thoughts and experiences in our online community   Tendrils of Grief-Survivor of Loss   To subscribe and review use one links of the links below  Amazon Apple Spotify Audacy Deezer Podcast Addict Pandora Rephonic Tune In   Connect with me Instagram: @Sue_ways Facebook:@ susan.ways Email @susan@tendrilsofgrief.com   Let me hear your thoughts!

You know that feeling when you stumble across a hidden gem during your travels? That burst of excitement because you've found something truly special? That's exactly how I felt after my chat with Lindsey Haverslu. Her journey from a traditional therapist to a globetrotting, multi-passionate entrepreneur is nothing short of inspiring. Picture this: Starting in Thailand during a global pandemic, Lindsey turned her dream into reality against all odds. So many of you email me, saying you want to start your traveling therapist journey now—not stuck in the States, but out there in the world. Lindsey did just that, and it's a game-changer. What struck me was her fearless leap, especially when her business wasn't yet enough to sustain her. She took a calculated risk, leaned into social media, and boom! She built a thriving practice with thousands of followers on Instagram and even brought on associates. Imagine the freedom that kind of success gives you. Lindsey also created Solaceekers Collective, a supportive space for Betrayed Partners. Her passion, mixed with travel narratives, makes her not just a therapist, but a beacon of hope and transformation for her clients. It's proof that pursuing your passion can serve others in profound ways. Whether you're grappling with the complexities of licensing or craving other income streams for more travel freedom, Lindsey's story is your roadmap. She's balancing private practice, a booming social media presence, and, soon enough, hosting a retreat in Guatemala. The biggest takeaway? Don't be afraid to showcase your unique lifestyle within your practice. Authenticity draws the right clients to you. Use your travels not just for personal growth but as an extension of the healing work you do with your clients.   Key Points:  Lindsay Haverslew transformed her therapy practice by embracing travel and entrepreneurship, starting her journey in Thailand during the pandemic. By leveraging social media, Lindsay grew a thriving therapy business, gaining thousands of followers and expanding her practice with associates. She founded Solaceekers Collective to support Betrayed Partners, blending her therapeutic skills with her passion for travel and community-building. About Lindsay Haverslew: I am a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (from Canada) specializing in betrayal trauma recovery. I launched my private practice as a side gig to my agency job in January 2020. When everything went virtual with the pandemic, I began to see this as an opportunity to travel and work, and in January 2021 I took a leave of absence from my agency job, moved to Thailand for 10 months and have never looked back. I've really been on the move since then and have bounced around from place to place, returning to Thailand several times, as well as to Mexico, Colombia, England, Scotland, Laos and the U.S. I have learned I tend to get itchy feet around the 3 month mark somewhere and need to pack up and move again! For 3 years I had a challenging time filling my practice through traditional marketing like Psychology Today and a website, so I decided to do some research on marketing on Instagram. Within a few short months I was no longer accepting new clients and within one year I had hired 4 associates onto my team to keep up with requests. We are all 100% virtual and I am thrilled that I can create opportunities for other travelling therapists! I really enjoy using Instagram as a marketing tool as I find it to be an incredible creative outlet, and I absolutely love sharing what I have learned with others who are looking to build their caseloads using IG as well.    Connect with Lindsay: Website: https://www.lostandfoundcounselling.com/ Instagram: @the.betrayal.trauma.therapist   Sponsored by Berries: I love using AI in my private practice, but HIPAA is a huge concern when I'm writing my progress notes!!  I've been using Berries.icu to write my notes and I can't believe how easy it is to use! Click the link here and use coupon code: 50FromKym and write notes for free!   Connect with me: Instagram: @thetravelingtherapist_kym   The Traveling Therapist Membership: https://kymtolson.kartra.com/page/travelingtherapistmembership   Revolutionize Your Private Practice with AI Course: https://kymtolson.kartra.com/page/ai   Signup to learn more about life as Traveling Therapist: https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/l2v7c3   The Traveling Therapist Facebook Group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/onlineandtraveling/   Bill Like A Boss Insurance Billing Community: https://kymtolson.kartra.com/page/blab   Subscribe to the Podcast: Apple iTunes | Spotify | Google Podcast | Stitcher | Amazon |  Castbox

In this episode, we are joined by Abbe Barclay, a seasoned Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. With over 30 years of experience, Abbe offers invaluable insights into the complex world of sexual addiction. We discuss the nuances of sex addiction, its impact on relationships, and effective paths to recovery. Whether you're personally affected or simply curious about the subject, this episode sheds light on a topic often shrouded in misunderstanding and stigma.Episode Highlights:[1:32] - Colette shares her personal connection to the topic.[3:47] - Abbe explains how she started working with sex addiction.[4:21] - Debunking common misconceptions about sex addiction.[5:52] - The psychological underpinnings of sex addiction.[7:42] - The cycle of addiction: preoccupation, ritual, acting out, and despair.[10:07] - Key signs and symptoms to look for in a sex addict.[12:57] - The importance of addressing underlying emotional and psychological issues.[18:36] - Differences in how sex addiction presents in men and women.[22:19] - The role of denial and the importance of trained therapists.[23:24] - The healing process: what it takes to recover.[25:13] - Resources and books recommended by Abbe for further education.[32:49] - Final thoughts on seeking appropriate help and setting boundaries.Resources:Abbe Barclay's private practice: Clarity Counseling CenterRecommended Reading: Sex Addiction 101 by Robert WeissMending a Shattered Heart by Stefanie CarnesCourageous Love: A Guide for Couples Conquering Betrayal by Stefanie CarnesScreening tests: Sexhelp.comFind a certified therapist: IITAPSeeking Integrity: https://seekingintegrity.com/ For more on this topic visit our website insightsfromthecouch.org If you have questions please email us at info@insightsfromthecouch.org we would love to hear from you!If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!

In this episode of the In Search of More podcast hosted by Eliyahu Nash with special guest Dr. Carol Clark, they explore the pervasive nature of addiction in America, linking it to childhood trauma and negative messages from authority figures. She highlights that addiction can manifest through various behaviors, including sex, alcohol, drugs, and pornography. Dr. Clark emphasizes the importance of recognizing sex addiction as a valid condition and underscores that recovery is about rebuilding connections. She also delves into the evolution of the 12-step program, its relevance to different addictive behaviors, and the need for supportive communities. Additionally, Dr. Clark discusses the isolating nature of pornography addiction, her personal experiences, and her new book on finding meaning and connection through life's challenges. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with Dr. Clark Website | https://bit.ly/4eEPcBZ LinkedIn | https://bit.ly/3VI9LF0 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with Eli Website | https://bit.ly/eliyahunash Instagram | https://bit.ly/eliyahu_nash Facebook | http://bit.ly/3h3rFSr YouTube | https://youtube.com/@insearchofmore ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to the In Search of More Podcast: www.youtube.com/@InSearchOfMore?sub_confirmation=1 For booking inquiries, email: booking@insearchofmorepodcast.com Join Our WhatsApp: https://wa.me/message/PBH5QDJQNQ5LJ1 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow us on social media Facebook | http://bit.ly/3jr9eYT Instagram | http://bit.ly/3JsvU5I TikTok | http://bit.ly/3XZ60Lo Twitter | http://bit.ly/3XNgxsR --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/in-search-of-more/support

Faith Niece is a Mental Health Counselor, Marriage & Family Therapist, and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. She run a practice of therapists and healers in Boca Raton focused on treating Trauma, Addictive disorders, and family of origin issues.As a clinician for over a decade she has a wide range or training such as Brainspotting, emotionally focused therapy, inner child therapy, and experiential based practices such as psychodrama and somatic processing. Using carefully structured techniques, Faith guides others to resolving their core wounding so they are free to have meaningful and fulfilling relationships with both themselves and others. She is an avid presenter and speaker as well as a facilitator of individual and group intensives and retreats. For more information go to www.lionheartedcounseling.comFor more Brainstorm go to...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2aPCiuzsIoNKYt5jjv7RFT?si=67dfa56d4e764ee0Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brainstorm-with-sony-perlman/id1596925257Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@brainstormwithsonyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brainstormwithsony

I was so excited to have Andrea on my Podcast as a guest and I know now why.  I knew that the content would be of value to my listeners.  All my guests share valuable information, but in this case, the EMDR aspect fascinated me.Andrea is very knowledgeable on so many subjects that can be connected to our recovery from bulimia and eating disorders, with one being learning how to deal with emotions.  I love how this connects to the previous episode with Brady and Ana and what we spoke about.My favourite line?  Trauma has to do with too much too soon, or too little too long.   I saw and heard that line.    Also, I loved the conversation about emotional dysregulation.For those of you who have reached out to me on Messenger, I hope that my Podcast guests help you.  Reach out to the person you engage with here.Andrea, thank you.  This was truly a great learning experience.  Andrea also speaks to her 90-day journal Plan To Recover which will be partnered with The Road Less Travelled coming soon.More about Andrea and where to find her and her journal Plan To Recover:https://directimpactmedia.com/Plan To RecoverWith 19 years of experience in the field of Mental Health, Mrs. Epting is a practicing Professional Counselor, Master Addiction Counselor, EMDR Certified Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and an Approved Clinical Supervisor. Andrea has been a private practitioner since 2007 and specializes in the treatment of trauma-initiated process addictions, diamine deficiencies, sexual dysfunctions, compulsive behaviors, and partner betrayal. Additionally, she is the Founder of Wize Mind Enterprises, Lightning In A Bottle digital courses, and the host of the Direct Impact podcast. Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEBE A GUEST/FIND A GUEST Start for Free!PODMATCH is innovative, provides easy communication and dashboard scheduling! My pick of the month!New Release Kindle or Signed Copy!How To Have Your Cake & Not Eat It All Too - A Guide To Adult Bulimia RecoveryPlan To Recover - Your Mini Journal for Plan to Recover: Your Mini Journal for Recovery and Self-Discovery is an essential tool and helpful Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

Rick Hupp is an experienced Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, specializing in helping people heal from trauma and build better relationships. If your life ever feels like a broken puzzle with a few missing pieces, we'll talk about how you can put it back together today. In our conversation, we'll explore a few big questions: why do so many guys struggle to create peaceful, loving relationships? How does our past factor into our present relationships and "Internal Family Systems"? And how can we manage conflict, triggers, and resentment in better and healthier ways for our families. Rick shares some practical tools for easing tension in relationships and choosing our partners in ways that aren't just repeating the same old patterns. We'll talk about meeting vulnerability with more vulnerability when we'd typically release our anger on our partners and create guilt and shame instead of repairing and resolving our issues. A Wide-Ranging Conversation Through… The relationship is in the repair Anger is the last stop for hope & love  Managing intergenerational trauma Diplomacy with Internal Family Systems The stories we make up and tell ourselves Presenting your needs in a vulnerable ways Conflict is change trying to happen Meet vulnerability with vulnerability Is your relationship quid pro quo? Being in a state of power vs. connection Get the Full Show Notes Want access to the full show notes, including links to all resources mentioned during today's conversation? Visit FrontRowDads.com/428 More About Front Row Dads Connect with us @ FrontRowDads.com & Instagram  Want to hang out with other FRDs in Austin? Watch this 3-min video from our last Front Row Dads Live event. Tickets avail now for December's event.  Not able to travel? We got you. Join our next online event, built just for kickass dads who know there's more to learn. FrontRowDads.com/summit  FRD is solving a huge problem for dads. Our culture has turned “Dad” into a joke. Go ahead, google Dad and you'll find Dad Bod, Dad Jokes, Dad Weed, etc. Culturally, it's a Homer Simpson mentality, and it's BS.   Our community is built for solid men. Men with range. Those who are badass, and know there's still more to learn, together.   Most guys find it hard to find “their crew.” Finding other committed men, who are successful in life, and want to put family first – these guys are rare. Is this you? In FRD, hundreds of men from all over the world show up for each other, to share resources and raise the bar of fatherhood (our core values) If you're reading this, you want to grow.  Podcasts are great, but guys… when you're ready to stop just listening to content, and want to JOIN the conversations – the FRD brotherhood is ready for you.   One more thing…  Has this podcast helped you? If so, please tell us how we're doing. Please take a minute and leave a review. Seriously, they matter. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen.  Subscribe to this show on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify

Our mental health series is sponsored by Terri and Andrew Herenstein.This episode is sponsored by Aleph Beta in light of their newly released season of the A Book Like No Other podcast. This podcast is a chance to learn alongside Aleph Beta Founder Rabbi David Fohrman, as he embarks on his most far-reaching and in-depth explorations of the Torah text. Aleph Beta takes the excitement of Torah learning to a whole new level! Become a member today and start listening— use code “18Forty” to get one month FREE! You will never see the Torah text the same way again.In this episode of the 18Forty Podcast, we talk to Yakov Danishefsky—a rabbi, author and licensed social worker—about our relationships and our mental health. We know from Tanakh that “[i]t is not good for man to be alone.” But, when it comes to understanding our relationships, this is just the beginning, as those of us surrounded by others can still be unhappy. Psychologists can explain this phenomenon in part with the study of what they call “attachment theory.” In this episode we discuss:What does Abraham Maslow get wrong in his “hierarchy of needs”?How can attachment theory apply to our relationships with God?What do we really want?Tune in to hear a conversation about how our lives are in many ways defined by the relationships around us.Interview begins at 14:36.Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. He is the founder of Mind Body Therapy, a private group practice in Chicago. Yakov has semicha and a Master's in Jewish Philosophy from Yeshiva University and is a popular speaker, teacher, and author on the intersection of spirituality, philosophy, and psychology. He is the author of a new book, Attached: Connecting to Our Creator: A Jewish Psychological Approach.References:The OfficePirkei Avot 5Genesis 2:18Attached: Connecting to Our Creator: A Jewish Psychological Approach by Rabbi Yaakov Danishefsky, LCSWWhat You Do Is Who You Are: How to Create Your Business Culture by Ben HorowitzThe Wisdom of No Escape and the Path of Loving-Kindness by Pema ChodronThe Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self by Alice Miller"Souls as Mirrors" by Shlomo Kassierer

There's no question that sexual sin is something that many struggle with at some point throughout their life. Pornography, premarital sex, extra-marital affairs - they have unfortunately and heart breakingly become too common in our culture and society today. A recent statistic recently projected over 30 million people struggle with problematic sexual behavior, if not addiction - and another stat revealed that over 10 million youth and adolescents regularly view pornography online. Now we understand this is a sensitive topic, but one that needs to be further discussed if we are going to experience freedom from it's bondage in order to expose this darkness into the light. Joining us today to help us develop a better understanding as to this death trap of a cycle related to sexual sin, shame, and addiction is a man who understands its grip and the path to recovery and sobriety. Today's guest is renowned faith-based Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), as well as a man who serves on the Executive Advisory Board here for us at the AACC, Jim Cress. In knowing that the internet has really become the “crack cocaine” for sex addiction, as it allows individuals to remain anonymous, as well as being easily accessible and affordable, we need to continually educate, equip, and encourage individuals as to how they can stay alert and fight back from the strongholds of sin. Our prayer is that this episode would help you find and anchor yourself in the hope of Christ as you begin or continue on a path of healing. Find out more about Jim Cress: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/jim-cress-matthews-nc/267312 

This week, we have a stacked compilation episode for you filled with life-changing relationship advice from some of our brilliant past guests. NYT bestselling author, Greg Behrendt, Relationship Therapist from Married At First Sight, Dr. Viviana Coles, Sexologist, Goody Howard, Comedian, Ken Garr, Communication Expert from Married At First Sight, Rachel DeAlto, Licensed Therapist, Kati Morton, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Dr. Alex Katehakis, and Licensed Psychologist and Sex Therapist, Dr. Kate Balistrieri are sharing their best tips for breaking toxic patterns, cultivating healthy relationships, and healing trauma. Plus:+ How The 4 Intimacy Styles are different from The 5 Love Languages + 4 simple (and free) tips for boosting excitement with a long-term sexual partner + Why you might be stuck in a pattern of getting "the ick" and what to do about it For exclusive rewards and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Join us in this eye-opening episode with Michelle Mays, author of The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Hurts You the Worst, as we explore the impact of disrupted personal relationships on our well-being. Michelle emphasizes the pivotal role of connection as a key factor in healing, shedding light on how a lack of it can strain relationships and negatively affect mental and emotional health.Unpacking the intricate link between disrupted relationships and heightened stress levels, she provides actionable insights into recognizing signs of strain and offers practical steps to address these issues. Discover how healthy, supportive relationships play a crucial role in promoting overall wellness, gaining valuable guidance to foster positive connections and transform your holistic well-being. Michelle Mays is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Supervisor in both Virginia and Washington DC, and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and Supervisor. She was trained by Pia Mellody in the Post Induction Therapy model for treating developmental trauma and is currently completing her PhD in Clinical Sexology and certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples.She is a member of the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health, the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals, the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy, the American Counseling Association, and the Northern Virginia Licensed Professional Counselors Association.In the Adjusted Reality podcast, well-known athletes, celebrities, actors, chiropractors, influencers in the wellness industry, and other podcasters will talk with host Dr. Sherry McAllister, president, F4CP, about their experiences with health and wellness. As a special gift for listening today visit f4cp.org/health to get a copy of our mind, body, spirit eBook which focuses on many ways to optimize your health and the ones you love without the use of drugs or surgery. Follow Adjusted Reality on Instagram. Find A Doctor of Chiropractic Near You.Donate to Support the Chiropractic Profession Through Education.

Listen in to this very needed Rise & Thrive OSJ Radio Hour … everyone (I promise, will benefit from this show or someone they know will (EVERYONE!!!) Left to right is; Vicky Robinson, founder of Refine Counseling LLC, is a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor (LADC) in Oklahoma. She is a co founder of Refined Silver, LLC, a non-profit. Vicky holds a Master of Science degree with additional course work in alcohol and drug addiction, co-dependency, trauma, and play therapy. She is specialized in trauma, sex addiction and interventions. Vicky's Husband (center) Chuck Robinson grew up in Oklahoma City, and is a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor, a Licensed Minister and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. He currently serves as Director of Spiritual Development and Outreach for Origins Behavioral Healthcare. He wrote a book, called ‘Loving the Addict in Your Pew,' in 2016. How did Refined Silver, (refinedsilver.org) name come from? This answer will inspire you! Refined Silver gives people an opportunity to get the care they choose & want and only have minimal finances to put towards their care …. This Show WILL CHANGES SOME PEOPLES LIVES!

In today's episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, we delve into the complexities of the holiday season, a time filled with joy but often marred by the challenges of betrayal trauma. Joined by Rebecca Ray, we'll navigate the delicate dynamics faced by those affected by betrayal, whether as the betrayed or the betrayer. Rebecca Ray is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, licensed in Texas, Colorado, Missouri, and Florida and owner/founder of Ray Family Therapy in Houston, Texas. Rebecca is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and certified in EMDR therapy. Rebecca is married, has three children ages 18, 14, and 9. In her free time, she loves reading, hiking with her dog, and when it isn't too hot she does HIIT workouts in her garage. In January, Ray Family Therapy will offer training to therapists and coaches to develop practical skills working with adoptees and adoptive families; Treating Adoptees and Adoptive Families Across the Lifespan. As an adoptee, Rebecca understands first-hand the trauma experienced in foster care and the adoption process. Additionally, Rebecca wrote an ebook, The Ultimate Guide for Creating a Healthy Relationship, to help couples get off autopilot and into the core awareness of their core needs and desires.  Links to find Rebecca: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayfamilytherapy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rayfamilytherapy LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/rayfamilytherapy LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/rebeccaraytherapist Ray Family Therapy: www.rayfamilytherapy.com Ray Family Therapy Adoption Training: https://www.rayfamilytherapy.com/adoptiontraining To download The Ultimate Guide for Creating a Healthy Relationship go to: https://keap.page/ivx304/creating-healthy-relationships.html

In today's episode of Betrayal Recovery Radio, we delve into the complexities of the holiday season, a time filled with joy but often marred by the challenges of betrayal trauma. Joined by Rebecca Ray, we'll navigate the delicate dynamics faced by those affected by betrayal, whether as the betrayed or the betrayer. Rebecca Ray is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, licensed in Texas, Colorado, Missouri, and Florida and owner/founder of Ray Family Therapy in Houston, Texas. Rebecca is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and certified in EMDR therapy. Rebecca is married, has three children ages 18, 14, and 9. In her free time, she loves reading, hiking with her dog, and when it isn't too hot she does HIIT workouts in her garage. In January, Ray Family Therapy will offer training to therapists and coaches to develop practical skills working with adoptees and adoptive families; Treating Adoptees and Adoptive Families Across the Lifespan. As an adoptee, Rebecca understands first-hand the trauma experienced in foster care and the adoption process. Additionally, Rebecca wrote an ebook, The Ultimate Guide for Creating a Healthy Relationship, to help couples get off autopilot and into the core awareness of their core needs and desires.  Links to find Rebecca: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayfamilytherapy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rayfamilytherapy LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/rayfamilytherapy LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/rebeccaraytherapist Ray Family Therapy: www.rayfamilytherapy.com Ray Family Therapy Adoption Training: https://www.rayfamilytherapy.com/adoptiontraining To download The Ultimate Guide for Creating a Healthy Relationship go to: https://keap.page/ivx304/creating-healthy-relationships.html

In this episode, Susan is joined by her husband, Stewart Eaton, her brother-in-law, Fletcher Eaton, and sister-in-law, Susan Eaton. Together, they discuss why belonging and connection are so important and how we can go about repairing ruptures that occur in our relationships. Using John Ortberg's book I'd Like You More if You Were More Like Me as a guide, they also bring their professional expertise from the world of therapy, education, and pastoral leadership to the table (as well as plenty of laughter) to make this an episode from which you're sure to benefit. About the Guests:Stewart Eaton, LPC, CSAT, works with active duty sailors and their families as a Clinical Counselor with the US Navy. He earned his Master's Degree in Counseling from Asbury Theological Seminary. He is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Mississippi and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. His previous experience includes working with children, teenagers, and their families in various mental health settings. For over a decade, he has been helping adults struggling with problematic sexual behaviors and intimacy difficulties. Fletcher Eaton is the Manager of EAP Services for USA Health System, where he focuses on mental health support for employees, critical incident stress debriefing, and conducting psychoeducational training.  He earned his MA in Marriage and Family and MA in Christian Education from Southwestern Seminary.  He has additional doctoral studies in Mental Health Counseling from the University of Florida. Fletcher has previous work experience with inpatient psychiatry, addiction medicine, eating disorders, suicide, and critical incidents with first responders.  He enjoys spending time with his wife and family, working on projects in the yard, volunteering at church, and reading.Susan Campbell Eaton has worked as an early childhood educator for twenty-five years.  A Florida native, Susan attended the University of Mississippi, where she met Fletcher, her husband of twenty-five years. Together, they have three children (two grown and one almost grown).  Susan currently lives in Fairhope, AL, where she teaches first grade. Susan enjoys reading and leading a small group of students at her church.Thanks for listening to the Embodied Holiness Podcast. We invite you to join the community on Facebook and Instagram @embodiedholiness. You can find all our episodes and more at www.embodiedholiness.com. Embodied Holiness is a ministry of Parkway Heights United Methodist Church in Hattiesburg, MS. If you're in the Hattiesburg area and are looking for a church home, we'd love to meet you and welcome you to the family. You can find out more about Parkway Heights at our website.

So you got clean and sober - great! …Now what? How does a person transition from the excitement and upheaval of early recovery into a more stable long-term recovery? What do you do in long term sobriety when the comfort of stability starts to feel like the tortures of boredom? How does a person find their most important values, and the community to support them? Stephen Grant is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and a Relational Therapist, at Gracefall Counseling in Vancouver, Washington. He draws on his experiences as a counselor, and many more experiences in recovery, to share stories and insights into how to survive - and thrive - through the many seasons of sobriety life. Stephen and Rhys talk about what Relational Therapy is, and how the basics of emotional attunement and active listening never get old. We talk about how sobriety is much more than just stopping an unhealthy behavior; sobriety is all about finding new things to do, new purpose, and living into a marvelous vision for our lives.  This podcast relies on the partnership of listeners - especially with dollars! Please visit www.patreon.com/outercircle to learn how to partner with the vision of this show! Rhys Pasimio can be found through www.patreon.com/outercircle and on instagram at @newpattrencounseling and is always happy to dialogue with listeners bringing honest questions! Stephen Grant can be found at https://www.gracefallcounseling.com/ and would be happy to share more stories! #counseling #therapy #recovery #recoverywork #addiction #addictionrecovery #sobriety #longtermsobriety #sex #sexaddiction #sexuality #relationaltherapy #relationship #attachment #attunement #boredom #purpose #shame #guilt #trauma #attachment #spirituality #orthodoxy #orthodoxchristianity #12steps #meetings #groups #community #men #stephengrant #gracefallcounseling #rhyspasimio #outercircleinnerstillness #newpatterncounseling

Michelle Mays, author of The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst, joins me for an in-depth conversation about healing from betrayal. Michelle is a Licensed Professional Counselor and expert in treating sexual betrayal and trauma. She is also the founder of the Center for Relational Recovery in Northern Virginia, outside of DC. “Divorce is common, and cheating is common. Because they are common,  it doesn't mean they're not tremendously significant and have enormous ramifications for our mental and physical health,” says Michelle. During our conversation, we discuss the importance of understanding what happened, explore betrayal through the lens of attachment systems, and unravel what happens to us when we experience this enormous injury.   Featured topics include: A new attachment-based model for understanding the impacts of cheating in relationships (8:58) Some of the binds in relationships that we can get stuck in including the shame bind and relational binds (12:01) What gets in the way of leaving when we want or know we need to leave (35:43) Healing and repairing relationships: what it means to stay, and what it takes to repair the fractures betrayal has caused (45:02) The difference between rebuilding emotional connection and rebuilding sexual connection (50:21) Learn more about Michelle Mays: Michelle Mays is a Licensed Professional Counselor and expert in treating sexual betrayal and trauma. She's also the author of the new book The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst. Michelle has created The Braving Hope™ Treatment Model to address the devastating dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect to, yet connection is the key to healing. Michelle is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Supervisor in Virginia and Washington DC, and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and Supervisor. She was trained by Pia Mellody in the Post Induction Therapy model for treating developmental trauma and is currently completing her PhD in Clinical Sexology and certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples. Resources & Links: Information and links may also be found at:  https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-234-healing-from-relationship-betrayal-with-michelle-mays/ Pre-order Kate's book “The D Word” Michelle's websiteMichelle's book, The Betrayal Bind Michelle on FacebookMichelle on InstagramMichelle on YouTube Facing Codependence, Pia Mellody Get Your Curated Podcast Playlist! Answer four easy questions and you'll get a curated list of podcast episodes to best support you as you navigate these tricky waters. I'll also help you identify where you currently stand on this journey, and what's ahead, with resources to help you move through this process with knowledge and grace. GET IT HERE DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

“It is time to define betrayal violence.” That is the message that our guest, Hope Ray, wants to offer today. Hope is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and a Certified Hope and Freedom Practitioner. Listen to hear how Hope uses the term “betrayal violence” and how she feels those powerful words give a more thorough definition of the experience of betrayed partners. In this episode you will learn: How Hope defines the word “violence” and applies that term to relational betrayal. What the partner adaptive bonding cycle is and the role it plays in relationships. The importance of intention when thinking about betrayal violence. The difference between betrayal violence and betrayal trauma and how both terms are useful. Why this framework and vocabulary can be so helpful during the process of rehabilitation. Referenced in this episode: Betrayal Violence Institute Complex Partner Trauma Magazine⁠  Hope's Instagram   The Relationship Dynamic Assessment⁠⁠⁠- This groundbreaking assessment created by Kimberly Day, LMHC, CCPS offers a very clear picture of the different domains where destructive behaviors exist in your relational experience. Amie is trained and qualified to give the assessment and help you process the results. For more information on how you can receive this incredible resource to help you gain more awareness to your lived experience and reality, click ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠. More from Choose Recovery Services ⁠Choose Healing⁠- Betrayal Trauma Support for Women - This weekly support group is for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help to cope with symptoms of trauma such as depression, hypervigilance, anxiety, and lack of trust. Ask questions from our team of coaches at Choose Recovery Services who have been there with this accessible group that is free for the first 6 weeks. ⁠Help Her Heal ⁠for Men - Hali Roderick helps men learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Participants will receive weekly exercises and worksheets to help them gain skills to begin healing a broken relationship. ⁠Empowerment After Betrayal for Men⁠- Hali Roderick is starting a betrayal trauma support group for men who have been betrayed where they can gain tools and resources to recover from betrayal trauma in a healthy way while being surrounded by a supportive community. ⁠Choose 90 for Men⁠- Support group for men who are ready to take the first step toward recovery from compulsive behavior, infidelity and/or betrayal. Participants will gain tools and an understanding to better manage emotions and assess behaviors.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Choose 180 for Men⁠- This support group helps men gain emotional intelligence so they can better manage unwanted behaviors. Participants will connect with other men, better understand their emotions, work through shame, and build a deep respect for themselves.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Choose 360 for Men⁠- Support group for men who have reached a sense of wholeness in their recovery and are looking to maintain their recovery through awareness, accountability, and camaraderie.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Road to Recovery⁠- Free monthly webinar with Luke and Alana Gordon for couples navigating the relational aspects that come along the road to recovery.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Choosing to Stay Webinar- Hali Roderick teaches this free monthly webinar for couples choosing to stay together after infidelity.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Should I Stay or Should I Go?⁠- Amie Woolsey hosts this free monthly coaching call for those stuck trying to decide whether to stay in their marriage.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠- Amie Woolsey offers a free monthly coaching call to answer questions for women navigating divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with us on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amie Woolsey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Life Coach CPC, ICF, ELI-MP, CLDS, APSATS Trainee ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alana Gordon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - MFTIntern, CCPS-C ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Choose Recovery Services⁠⁠⁠

Andrea M. Epting - LPC, MAC, ACS, CST, CSAT With 19 years of experience in the field of Mental Health, Mrs. Epting is a practicing Professional Counselor, Master Addiction Counselor, EMDR Certified Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and an Approved Clinical Supervisor.  Andrea has been a private practitioner since 2007, specialising in treating trauma-initiated process addictions, diamine deficiencies, sexual dysfunctions, compulsive behaviours, and partner betrayal.  Additionally, she is the Founder of Wize Mind Enterprises, Lightning In A Bottle digital courses, and the host of the Direct Impact podcast. 3 top tips: Why we "Plan" for Recovery - Benefits of a Routine and Automating healthy tasks to support your recovery process. How to establish EASY tasks to build self-trust and accountability. Why the process of recovery leads to self-discovery & integrity.  Social Media: Instagram: @directimpactwithandreaepting Instagram: @liab_lightninginabottle Website: http://directimpactmedia.com/ Website: https://lightninginabottle.biz/ #recovery #mentalhealth #easy #selfcare #habits #journaling #practice #routine

Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D., CSAT-S, is a Licensed Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and PACT III trained couples' therapist.Dr. Balestrieri earned her Doctorate of Clinical Psychology from the Illinois School of Professional Psychology, Chicago, and completed her Post-Doctoral Fellowship through the Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, with a concentration in Forensic Psychology. Dr. Balestrieri is a passionate advocate for mental health, relational and sexual health and wellness. Throughout her work, Dr. Balestrieri focuses on helping people build resilience and recovery from what ails them to move from a position of pain or discomfort to one of thriving, holistically in their lives. As a sex positive provider and human, Dr. Balestrieri is dedicated to helping people have a more expansive and integrated relationship with sex. Dr. Balestrieri is a regular contributor for Poosh, YourTango, Psychology Today, House of Wise and has been featured in many other publications. She also has two podcasts, Modern Intimacy (focused on sex, mental health and relationships), and Without Consent (a true crime podcast deconstructing sexual violence). Both can be found on Apple podcast and Spotify.Episode ResourcesRAINN | rainn.orgModern Intimacy | modernintimacy.comModern Intimacy Substack | drkatebalestrieri.substack.comPodcast | modernintimacy.com/podcast/Mating In Captivity | BookThe Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent | BookConnect with Dr. BalestrieriInstagram | @themodernintimacyInstagram | @drkatebalestrieriTikTok | @modernintimacyTikTok | @drkatebalestrieriConnect with The Courage to ChangePodcast Website | lionrock.life/couragetochangepodcastPodcast Instagram | @couragetochange_podcastYouTube | The Courage to Change PodcastTikTok | @ashleyloebblassingamePodcast Email | podcast@lionrock.lifePodcast Facebook | @thecouragetochangepodcastLionrock ResourcesLionrock Life Mobile App | lionrock.life/mobile-appSupport Group Meeting Schedule | lionrock.life/meetings

In order for true restoration to take place in a marriage, both spouses must heal (especially the betrayed partner). While pursuing their recovery from addiction or unwanted sexual behavior, men often ask, "How can I help my spouse heal?" On today's episode, we are joined by the woman who literally wrote the book on this question. Carol Juergensen Sheets, AKA "Carol the Coach," is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and author who wrote Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook For Sex Addicts To Help Their Partners Heal and Help Them Heal: Teaching You Both How to Heal Your Relationship After Sexual Betrayal. We talk about how to help our betrayed spouse heal, the importance of empathy, and how to have effective communication throughout the healing journey. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Help Her Heal (Carol's book) Help Them Heal (Carol's book) Unleashing Your Power (Carol's Book) Sex Help With Carol The Coach (Carol's Website) Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (IITAP Certification) Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (IITAP Certification) APSATS (Betrayal Organization) The California Center for Healing (Bill & Ginger Bercaw's Organization) The Intimacy Pyramid (Dan Drake's Organization)

What is emotional abuse? Dr. Jake Porter explains how to identify emotional abuse, heal from it, and stop emotionally abusing others.Dr. Jake Porter is a Board Certified Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and the Founder of Daring Ventures. He is also the creator of Couple–Centered Recovery, a model for overcoming attachment wounds in couples experiencing the trauma of betrayal. Connect with Jake at drjakeporter.comTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

This discussion is on the topic of porn and its impact on relationships. Our guest is Kent Ernsting, Professional Clinical Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, who will share from his 30+ years of counseling couples. Resources: Hope Source Counseling- https://www.HopeSourceCounseling.org Men's Healthy Sexuality -https://www.vineyardcincinnati.com/event/11126 APSATS -https://www.apsats.org SAA- https://saa-recovery.org --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/happilymarried/support

In today's episode I had the honor of speaking with Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky. Yakov and I explore the psycho-spiritual gifts of our "humanism" when we take the time to slow down to the speed of life and finally accept that wisdom isn't found outside of us or in others. We are wisdom.   Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. He is the founder of Mind Body Therapy, a private group practice in Chicago and a popular speaker and author on the intersection of spirituality, psychology, and philosophy. He is the author of a new book, Attached: Connecting to Our Creator, a Jewish Psychological Approach, (mosaicapress.com/product/attached/). Yakov also has a podcast called Attached that is available on all podcasting platforms.

Rabbi Yakov Danishefsky is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist in Chicago, IL. He specializes in treating trauma, sexual addictions, and couples therapy. Yakov is also a popular speaker, educator, and author who blends spirituality, philosophy, and psychology. He is the author of a new book, Attached: Connecting to Our Creator, A Jewish Psychological Approach. “Attached” is also Yakov's online podcast platform offering a variety of meaningful content accessible on all podcasting platforms. --- It is with great pleasure that we announce the launch of Rabbi Shlomo Buxbaum's second book, "The Four Elements of Inner Freedom: The Exodus Story as a Model for Overcoming Challenges and Achieving Personal Breakthroughs". The book will be our this March! You can pre-order a copy here: https://levx.org/event/the-four-elements-of-freedom --- This episode of the Empowered Jewish Living podcast is powered by OKclarity.com. OKclarity.com is THE place for any Jew - no matter how frum or religious you are - to find a top notch therapist, coach, or nutritionist. And its completely free! OKCLARITY.com's therapists, coaches, and nutritionists are vetted and have extensive experience working with the Jewish community. If you're in the market for a therapist, Coach, or nutritionist - or if you are a therapist, coach, or nutritionist, you must go check them out at OKclarity.com. Also, if you have WhatsApp, OKclarity has an amazing WhatsApp status or groups with thousands of obsessed followers. Their WhatsApp is a free way to improve your mental health and they post great humor so you'll laugh too. If you have WhatsApp shoot them a message at 917-426-1495. Find an OKclarity verified professional: https://okclarity.com Join OKclarity on WhatsApp status or groups: https://api.whatsapp.com/send?phone=19174261495&text=Hey!%20I'd%20like%20to%20join%20OKclarity%20on%20WhatsApp.%20(EJLP) Become an OKclarity verified professional: https://www.topjewishtherapists.com/

From my hometown of Savannah, Georgia, Andrea Epting continues to foster and emphasize the importance of community for successful mental health treatment. She founded Heads-Up Guidance Services, Inc. (HUGS) in 2009 to serve the Savannah area. HUGS makes mental health and addiction recovery services affordable and available to ALL motivated individuals, utilizing over 30 volunteer clinicians who specialize in the treatment of various populations & diagnosis. With 19 years of experience in the field of Mental Health, Andrea is a practicing Professional Counselor, Master Addiction Counselor, EMDR Certified Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and an Approved Clinical Supervisor. Join me in a dynamic and somewhat confessional conversation as Andrea shares her clincal and professional insights into the relationship of dopamine on addiction and recovery. Learn more about Andrea and how to prioritize one's mental health for a positive impact at: Direct Impact Media ---- As mentioned in this episode, Bo Bisset and the 26 Days 26 Ways Foundation Building Course:  ------ If you love the content of the Neurons To Nirvana podcast, please help out and donate with buy me a coffee to help grow the community and continue to provide you with amazing content! Thank you so much in advance for all your support!

Faith Niece is a Mental Health Counselor, Marriage & Family Therapist, and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. She holds a practice in Boca Raton focused on treating Trauma, Addictive disorders, and family of origin issues. She is trained in emotionally focused therapy, inner child therapy, and experiential based practices such as psychodrama and somatic processing. Using carefully structured techniques, Faith guides others to resolving their core wounding so they are free to have meaningful and fulfilling relationships with both themselves and others. https://lionheartedcounseling.com/

Everything about your sexual health is impacted when you are betrayed by someone you love and trust. Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, an ASSECT Certified Sex Therapist, and an APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist. She helps betrayed partners move from unhealthy to healthy sexuality in the healing process after betrayal. Dr. Hollenbeck understands the traumatic impact on you as an individual and as a sexual partner and she offers hope for partners that getting to a place of sexual health and enjoyment is possible after betrayal. Links in this episode: http://apsats.org http://drjakeporter.com https://crystalhollenbeck.com

Everything about your sexual health is impacted when you are betrayed by someone you love and trust. Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, an ASSECT Certified Sex Therapist, and an APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist. She helps betrayed partners move from unhealthy to healthy sexuality in the healing process after betrayal. Dr. Hollenbeck understands the traumatic impact on you as an individual and as a sexual partner and she offers hope for partners that getting to a place of sexual health and enjoyment is possible after betrayal. Links in this episode: http://apsats.org http://drjakeporter.com https://crystalhollenbeck.com

This week the girls are joined by Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and Clinical Director of Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles, Alex Katehakis. Alex explains the differences between sex and love addiction and hypersexuality, shares what role trauma plays in compulsive sexual behavior, and offers practical tips and steps for individuals and couples affected by sex and love addiction. Tune in for some big truth bombs about toxic behaviors related to sexual and emotional intimacy that we can all learn from. For more info on Alex Katehakis and her work: http://www.centerforhealthysex.com/ For 65 bonus episodes, exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie's comped resources for entrepreneurs: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey's Tour Dates: https://www.kelseycook.com This episode was sponsored by Calm, Dipsea, & Ritual! For listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/HELPLESS. For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30-day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/helpless. Ready to shake up your protein Ritual? My listeners get 10% off during your first 3 months at ritual.com/HELPLESS. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back! Today we are joined by Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Psychologist and Sex Therapist and founder & CEO of Modern Intimacy, a Mental Health Practice offering sex therapy and other therapy techniques for individuals and couples with specialization in relationships, trauma, PTSD, sex addiction, alternative lifestyles, mood disorders, LBTQ+ affirmative therapy, infidelity, and more. Dr. Kate is a Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and Licensed Psychologist, with a Doctorate of Clinical Psychology. She is also trained in the NeuroAffective Touch Model and is completing Levell III training as a PACT Couples' Therapist. What we talk about: the mind-body connection as it relates to sex the sex narrative we all grew up with Kate's experience in a sex-negative household where fantasies come from couples with varying sex drives exploring your sexual identity why your sexuality doesn't define you sexual trauma slut-shaming how our sex lives and our feelings about sex influence the other areas of our lives talking to a new (or long term) partner about sex sex addiction Kate's favorite ways to feel embodied & more! You can find Dr. Kate on Instagram and TikTok at @drkatebalestrieri and @modernintimacy and head to modernintimacy.com for more information on how to work with Dr. Kate and her team. She also houses a ton of great free resources on her blog. The books she recommended: Open Deeply by Kate Loree Down Girl by Kate Manne What we tried this week: Mia: Acupuncture & Cupping at Ora Carleigh: Athletic Greens As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode! + Shop our Favs: Sakara Life - use code XOBALANCED for 20% off meal programs and clean boutique items Nuzest Protein Powder - Code MOSTLYBALANCED

In today's episode, Dr. Rob talks with Michele Saffier and Allan Katz about their book, Ambushed by Betrayal: The Survival Guide for Betrayed Partners on Their Heroes' Journey to Healthy Intimacy, which was written after the two met in a psycho trauma workshop. Michele has been a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 1993. She was trained with Dr. Rob in the field of Sexual Addiction and went on to private practice and began using the trauma model after three years. Allan is a licensed Professional Counselor (LPC/MHSP) in the states of Tennessee and Mississippi and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. With over 30 years of experience as an entrepreneur and marketing consultant, he, later on, shifted to become a professional therapist to help others in the field of sex addiction. They share how their book can help betrayed partners heal from their trauma and learn healthy intimacy.   TAKEAWAYS: [1:55] A little introduction of Michelle and how Dr. Rob knows her. [3:15] Michelle didn't work in the field of addiction before and recalls the young couple she worked with that inspired her journey. [4:25] A little bit about Allan as well and how he became a therapist. [6:50] Michelle sees herself as a trauma therapist. She explains why. [8:40] How does Allan work with the spouses to empathize with their addict partners who don't see it from a trauma perspective? [11:00] Allan shares how he transitioned from helping people non-professionally and the difference with being a professional therapist. [13:00] Michelle recommends partners to watch comedy shows and shares how this helps their recovery. [14:20] Betrayed partners take on the personal responsibility of causing their addict partner to act out. Allan shares his thoughts on this. [16:50] Michelle sees from the betrayed partner an attachment trauma and explains why.  [18:30] How does Michelle help a spouse learn that empathy may not be forthcoming? [21:25] Dr. Rob asks Michelle and Allan about the book they wrote called, Ambush By Betrayal. How did they come up with the title? [23:35] Dr. Rob shares the subtitle of their book and asks how their hero's journey evolved. [24:45] Michelle realized that in the same spirit of prodependency, they want their readers to be empowered. She shares how there can be beauty in this broken life. [25:50] Michelle and Allan met in a psycho trauma workshop. Allan shares what psycho trauma is and how that relates to their book. [30:00] What they want to achieve with their book is to provide a release from all the hurt, pain, and unworthiness and physically do something with it. Michelle talks through this process further. [33:20] For the betrayed person, anger is the only way they can protect their heart from their perpetrator. Michelle shares how they can help them see the wounded person underneath.   RESOURCES: Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101  Seeking Integrity Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men  Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Ambush By Betrayal by Michele Saffier and Allan Katz Allanjkatz.com Traumahealingpa.com   QUOTES: “The behavior is the behavior but really, they're these little wounded boys and girls trying to survive.” “If you've been in a good relationship, then there's obviously another reason why somebody would do these things and go off and be with somebody else or look at pornography or whatever. I'm not condoning it or saying it's right; it was a choice but there is such a thing as addiction and that's what we have to look at.” “You've got to be empathic rather than defensive because the main thing your spouse or partner wants to know is that you really do understand what you've put her through.” “The primary attachment is the person that has my back, my beloved and the one that wherever I am in the world, is my home.”

Once upon a time, Rhys hosted a podcast called SMART Counsel ("Perspectives and resources on Spirituality, Mental health, Addictions, Relationships, and Trauma.") Today's episode is a nugget from the archives of SMART Counsel, featuring one of Rhys' favorite colleagues, Ben Poling. Ben is Licensed Professional Counselor in Oregon, as well as a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. In this episode, he presents a tool he often uses with his clients called The Four Questions. This is yet another useful tool for helping individuals pay more attention to their thought lives, and by doing so, gain further insight into how and why they do the things they do. With greater insight, comes greater opportunity to live differently. The Outer Circle, Inner Stillness is a listener supported production of New Pattern Counseling. To learn more about how to support the podcast, please visit https://www.patreon.com/outercircle Rhys Pasimio can be found through www.newpatterncounseling.com, and is always happy to dialogue with listeners bringing honest questions! Ben Poling can be found through A New Day Counseling Center in Portland, OR at this link - https://www.anewdaycounseling.org/ben-poling-ma.html Since the recording of this episode, Ben has also started a really cool youtube channel in which he discusses topics relevant to mental health and recovery, and that channel can be found here - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPadeXeZv_1A-9hIknLS2sQ/featured

About Today's GuestAaron tempel is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and National Certified Counselor in Annapolis, Maryland. He specializes in working with people struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors, unwanted pornography use, trauma resolution, and men's issues. Aaron is trained in Attachment Focused EMDR and is working to be a certified EMDR practitioner. Aaron can be reached at tempelaaron@gmail.comJoin the Antiwork Therapist Collective for $25/month: Get in the Collective (https://antiwork-therapist-collective.mn.co)Credits, links & other things: Intro & Outro Music: DriftMaster by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com Mental Status IG: @mentalstatuspod Talk to me: mentalstatuspod [at] gmail.com Apply to be a guest on this show: Interviewee Interest form Submit an anonymous burnout story: Lister-Submitted Story Form Support the show: ways to support Disclaimer, y'all: This is a podcast meant for education and entertainment purposes only. I'm not your therapist. This podcast doesn't replace therapy or clinical supervision and isn't supposed to replace those things. If you need a therapist or supervisor, please find one. My opinions are my own and don't reflect the opinion(s) of my past/present/future employers.

In this episode, Beth interviews Kirk McDermott, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, about his approach to helping individuals with sex and porn addiction using a trauma based approach. Kirk has found that many individuals don't recognize their trauma when it is chronic and sometimes subtle, rather than acute. Kirk often uses EMDR in his work with addicts to help them recover from trauma rather than merely numbing it with sex and pornography. They also discuss how technology exposes young kids and adolescents to pornography at a young age, which increases their chance of becoming addicted.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When you are betrayed by someone you trust, your whole world is turned upside down.  Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck is going to discuss the devastating impact betrayal has on every part of your person and how to survive one day at a time.  She will share how broken trust can make you question your beliefs about your spouse, friends, yourself, your life, and God, and will help you see how you can learn to trust once again.  Dr. Hollenbeck is an APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional and offers Three Day Trauma Healing Intensives in her Orlando, Florida office.  Please visit her website at www.CrystalHollenbeck.com.

Who else would we have share on this topic other than the Licensed Counselor and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Heather Seguin! Ladies, if you or someone you know has discovered your husband has been looking at porn, this episode is a MUST. Heather Seguin is passionate about helping people live free from shame and deeply connected to the people they love. She is Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and completed her Master's degree. Heather specialize in sexual addiction/compulsivity and betrayal trauma. She is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and Certified Clinical Partner Specialist-Candidate. Heather has been featured on numerous podcasts and webinars, sharing her perspective on sexual healing and wholeness. She is rooted in the belief that every person is made in the image of God. You can find her here. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/awifelikeme/message

Without a doubt, we know that individuals experience trauma through sexual abuse, sexual violence, rape, sexual assault, emotional rape, and many other types of sexual rated trauma experiences. Sex is such a vital and natural part of human existence and disruptions in the development of individuals' sexual identity can change the course of their ability to relate to sex as a natural state of human existence. Disruptions in an individual being allowed to define their sexuality for themselves can lead to many physical, emotional, and psychological pain. This episode attempts to explore and differentiate sexual trauma and sexual addiction. While looking at the connections that feed these two issues. Brynne Dearie is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and a Licensed Drug and Alcohol Counselor. Email: brynnedearie@gmail.com

In this episode of 'Beat Your Addictions' podcast we discuss sex addiction with expert guest Allan Katz. Allan J. Katz is a Licensed Professional Counselor as well as a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. He has a Master's Degree in Rehabilitation Counseling from the University of Memphis and is a Certified Rehabilitation Counselor. He has completed the Externship in EFT (Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy and sees individuals and couples struggling with sex, drug and alcohol addiction, porn addiction, internet addiction and gambling addiction. He also sees clients for depression, anxiety and trauma. Allan is the author of four books, Addictive Entrepreneurship dealing with the 13 secrets to a successful life as an entrepreneur and Experiential Group Therapy Interventions with DBT: A 30-day program for treating addictions and trauma. He has co-authored Help Her Heal, with Carol Sheets for helping betrayed partners heal. His latest book is Hey! What About Me: How to make yourself and others a priority in a world of indifference, impulsivity and distraction. Both books are available on this website's book section. To make an appointment, call 901-248-6001. All calls are held in the strictest, professional confidence. http://allanjkatz.com/ https://www.facebook.com/BeatYourAddictionsPodcast For more info please visit us at JohnJGiordano.com John's books on sale at Amazon 'How to Beat Your Addictions and Live a Quality Life' https://tinyurl.com/y38qgz2f 'The Kid From The South Bronx Who Never Gave Up' https://tinyurl.com/yxp2ngz4

If you have struggled with your in-laws, if it feels like your husband is more loyal to his parents than your marriage or family? If it has felt like your in-laws make you feel guilty, or make you feel like an outsider, this episode is for you! Today we sit down with Heather Seguin, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist at her practice, Clear Choice Counseling. Listen in and let us know what you think! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/awifelikeme/message

This episode might really surprise you! We sit down with Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist as she shares with us what real intimacy is! You can make an appointment with Heather and check out her resources, here. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/awifelikeme/message

In this episode, Kristin interviews Carol Juergensen Sheets (aka Carol the Coach). Carol is the only Certified Sex Addiction Therapist in the Indianapolis area.  She also has the heart and understanding to help betrayed partners through the trauma model. Carol has seen first hand which couples survive and even thrive after sexual betrayal. And empathy is a key element! In this podcast Carol shares why is it so difficult for spouses with problematic sexual behavior to demonstrate empathy and why partners are often afraid to trust that empathy.   She sheds light on how long it takes to see actual trust being rebuilt for a better marriage than ever before! Carol is the author of Help Her Heal, and the host of three Podcasts; Sex Help With Carol the Coach, Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery and Betrayal Recovery Radio. For more information or to contact Carol, visit her website: Carolthecoach.com