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Sue Beere's husband, John, was jailed for his role in a £53 million drug-smuggling plot.  He's spent time in a maximum-security prison. He's lost two appeals. But Sue has never doubted his innocence. Alongside charity Appeal, Sue continues to campaign for his conviction to be quashed - and for all the ‘Freshwater Five' implicated in the alleged cocaine conspiracy to be exonerated.  In this compelling conversation with Olly, Sue recounts how - from John's unexpected arrest to the shocking outcome of his trial - she has battled stigma, financial struggles, and the British legal system… from her family home on the Isle of Wight. Find out more about Appeal on their website, https://appeal.org.uk/ This episode is sponsored by Readly, who are offering Mann-fans an exclusive, three month trial of unlimited newspapers and magazines. Get yours at readly.com/mann —- Meanwhile, in the Zeitgeist, Ollie Peart is hunting for a cure for Seasonal Affective Disorder… might a simple vitamin tablet do the trick, or is it worth investing in a 10,000 lux therapy lamp?   Or, could the trend for Nordic bathing - plunging from a piping hot sauna into freezing cold water - be a mood-boosting salve for S.A.D? Ollie drags Olly along to the Saltwater Sauna in Sandbanks to find out… The Zeitgeist is sponsored by our friends at Beer52. Claim your FREE case of 8 new and exclusive beers from across the world at https://www.beer52.com/MANN —- Elsewhere, down The Foxhole, Alix Fox - fresh from a mind-blowing movie preview - investigates the booming market in A.I. girlfriends, and uncovers some tasty neologisms for part-time asexuals. Could an over-reliance on ‘fap GPT' be a bedroom boner-killer? Do straight men get emotional support from their interactions with sex-bots?  With the help of psychotherapist Silva Neves, specialist in sexual compulsive behaviour, and sex robot researcher Dr Chloé Locatelli from King's College London, Alix has the answers… probably.  If you have a question of sex and relationships for Alix to answer in a future Foxhole, submit if via our website, https://modernmann.co.uk —- Finally, our record of the month comes from Vince Freeman, whose new single, ‘Blame Myself' - taken from his new album ‘Scars, Ghosts & Glory', dropping in March - is out now. —- Thanks for listening! If you can afford to support the show financially, please buy us a beer - we put every penny back into producing this independent podcast just for YOU. … and we'll see you with a brand new episode on March 10th. x Presenter: Olly Mann. Contributors: Alix Fox, Ollie Peart, Sue Beere, Vince Freeman. Thanks: Jude Habib, Sound Delivery. Producer: Matt Hill. Theme Music: ‘Skies Over Cairo' by Django Django. Graphic Design: Terry Saunders. Copyright: Olly Mann / Rethink Audio 2024. This episode includes a paid advertisement by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/mann and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Cate and Diggory answer listener questions including a rather complicated friendship, internalised homophobia, thinking about sex without masturbating, overcoming the fear of peeing during orgasm, and how to deal with a breakup.Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years Resolution is? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com- DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we're @thersepodDid you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.What episode should you listen to next?'Why Straight Men have sex with men (with Dr Joe Kort)' features our conversations on some expressions of male sexuality'The Reasons Why LGBTQ+ Couples Come to Therapy (with Silva Neves)' 'How to Kiss PROPERLY' also features conversations around how to masturbate'Why do they make porn for pandas' and 'How to Heal a Heartbreak (with Florence Bark)' has more of our thoughts on breakupsThe Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick PodcastSupport and Resources: UK helplines for LGBTQ+ people: https://www.queerfutures.co.uk/help/USA helplines for LGBTQ+ people: https://www.stonybrook.edu/commcms/studentaffairs/lgbtq/resources/hotlines.php Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Most couples grapple with mismatched levels of sexual desire at some point. Some find destructive solutions - pornography, infidelity - but it IS possible to deal with this in a positive way. This week Fabian Edzard Schneider chats with Andrew about the daily self-pleasure routine he is using to fulfil his sexual needs while his wife recuperates from the birth of their second child.  Andrew and Fabian discuss the ways in which men can take responsibility for their own physical and emotional needs, and in doing so create a better life as a strong, loving man of vision and self-understanding. Fabian Edzard Schneider is based in Gottingen, Germany. He specialises in empowering men to lead happier, more self-fulfilling lives. Fabian leads men's groups that focus on the practical and the physical, rather than on theoretical understanding.  Subscriber Content This Week If you're a subscriber to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Patreon), this week you'll be hearing: ⭐️How can men get to know themselves better? ⭐️Three things Fabian Edzard Schneider knows to be true. ⭐️AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Join our Supporters Club to access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50: https://www.patreon.com/andrewgmarshall  Fabian Edzard Schneider runs an in-person and online training programme for men called MenEncounter. The training focuses on masculine identity, self-empowerment, vision, and implementation of heart-driven projects as well as sexuality and relationship. Take a look here: https://fabianedzard.com/start/  You might also enjoy Andrew's interviews with Venus O'Hara on Spiritual Sex, with Silva Neves on How to Heal Compulsive Sexual Behaviour, or with Irene Fehr on Why Desire Disappears.  Get Andrew's advice on building a stronger relationship in his book The Happy Couple's Handbook: Powerful Life Hacks for a Successful Relationship.  Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall   

Are you a busy parent trying to navigate the balance between intimacy, connection, and daily stress? Welcome to another episode of "In Bed with Lisa," the safe space that addresses the real issues and concerns many couples face on their journey to deeper intimacy and understanding. In this episode, I sit down with Silva Neves, a renowned psychosexual & relationship psychotherapist, who dives into the topic of compulsive sexual behaviours, shedding light on a subject often veiled in controversy and misconception - pornography. While the challenges of time, energy, and fear of rejection are realities many couples grapple with, Silva brings to the forefront the idea that pornography doesn't always have to be demonised. Instead, it can serve as a legitimate tool for destress and release for some. However, like any tool, it's all about how it's used. Key Discussion Points: - The difference between occasional porn use and compulsive sexual behaviour. - Redefining porn in modern relationships: When is it a problem? - Overcoming the stigma: How to communicate with your partner about pornography. - Rebuilding trust after the discovery of excessive or secretive porn use. - The importance of education, understanding, and a non-judgmental approach in addressing compulsive sexual behaviours. Whether you're looking to spice things up, understand your partner's perspective, or get a more rounded view on porn's place in relationships, this episode offers a fresh, unbiased, and informed take on a topic often discussed in hushed tones. Join us as we explore the complexities of intimacy in today's world, offering insights, advice, and tools to help every couple find their path to a fulfilling sex life and an enhanced overall relationship. https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/ https://sexpositivityuk.com/ Compulsive Sexual Behaviours : https://www.amazon.com/Compulsive-Sexual-Behaviours-Silva-Neves/dp/0367465485 Sexology (The Basics): https://www.amazon.com/Sexology-Basics-Silva-Neves/dp/1032233621 Try Silva's incredible Beducated Course on Fantasy Exploration for free: https://beducated.com/courses/fantasy-exploration/?ref=lisa&utm_source=tapfiliate&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=affiliate&utm_content=lisa

Britain's shoplifters fear David McKelvey. His companies, TM Eye and My Local Bobby, have brought over 1,200 private prosecutions - and never lost a case.  Commandeering a commercial force of savvy ex-coppers, David pursues thieves the Police usually let go with a caution - guys who steal steaks from Waitrose and flog them to restaurants, and housewives hawking fake handbags on Facebook.  In this wide-ranging and illuminating conversation with Olly, David explains how private individuals can make arrests and bring court cases; answers the criticisms of the system thrown up by the Post Office scandal; and explains why buying counterfeit designer labels from car boot sales is not simply a crime of copyright theft - but the tip of a large-scale operation that can involve child labour, toxic materials, and terrorist gangs… —------------------- Meanwhile, in the Zeitgeist, Ollie Peart enlists the help of former Top Gear presenter Rory Reid to investigate just how environmentally-friendly electric vehicles truly are.  Does the intensive production process, and consequences of battery manufacture, have an adverse effect on an EV's eco-credentials? Is the higher upfront cost of going electric justified by the lower running cost compared to petrol? And to what extent does it matter what country you're in, and what their energy mix is? Ollie finds out… The Zeitgeist is supported by DIRTEA, super blends derived from potent functional mushrooms. Get 10% off your first order with promo code MANN at dirteaworld.com/mann —------------------- Elsewhere, in the Foxhole, Alix Fox takes to the skies in a ‘very forgiving' Microlight, returning just in time to discuss a letter from an anonymous Mannfan experiencing insecurity about his small penis, and intense jealousy about his partner's past sexual experiences. What societal pressures or personal triggers lay behind this sudden self-doubt? How best to communicate his feelings with his apparently blameless wife? And just how important is penis size when it comes to sexual satisfaction in a straight relationship? With the help of psychosexual and relationship therapist Silva Neves, and Lynsey Murray, of Relationship Matters, Texas, Alix has the answers… If you have a relationship question for Alix, reach out via the Feedback page of our website, modernmann.co.uk —------------------- Finally, our Record of the Month sees the triumphant return of Modern Mann favourite Griff, with her ‘heartbreak' choon, Vertigo, out now. —------------------- If you enjoy the show, please do SUPPORT US! We need help to continue producing our independent monthly podcast, so buy us a beer via our website, modernmann.co.uk/beer. It's a secure link and you can contribute as little and often as you like. Cheers! … and we'll see you on October 10th. —------------------- Presenter: Olly Mann. Contributors: Ollie Peart, Alix Fox, David McKelvey, Griff. Producer: Matt Hill. Theme Music: ‘Skies Over Cairo' by Django Django. Graphic Design: Terry Saunders. Copyright: Olly Mann / Rethink Audio 2023. Sponsor: BetterHelp. Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month of convenient and affordable therapy when you visit https://betterhelp.com/mann Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Renowned ‘sexpert', Silva Neves, host joined Jane Bayler on the latest Smart Connector podcast episode to talk about entrepreneurs and their s*x lives! Silva, a distinguished psychotherapist renowned for his expertise in enhancing the fabric of romantic and sexual relationships. Drawing from years of experience and a profound understanding of human connection, Silva and Jane delve into the intricacies of intimacy and desire, offering invaluable insights to reignite passion, strengthen bonds, and transform love lives. From breaking down common misconceptions about intimacy to sharing practical strategies for cultivating a thriving romantic connection, this episode is a masterclass in improving your relationships.  Whether you're single and searching for lasting love or in a long-term partnership seeking to reignite the flame, Silva Neves provides wisdom and guidance that will undoubtedly reshape the way you approach matters of the heart. If you want more (or better) s*x as an entrepreneur, this episode is a must-listen. Jane Bayler is the Smart Connector, a London based passionate serial entrepreneur, brand marketer and business growth exploder, who helps overlooked and undervalued consultants and b2b service providers generate consistent, scaleable revenues through becoming the go-to authority in their sector.  Having spent 20 years in global advertising and brand marketing, where Jane managed campaigns and developed business for market leading brands such as Coca-Cola, Discovery Networks, British Airways and ITV, she then scaled and sold a London brand identity business to US communications group Interpublic, before becoming MD of their brand consultancy, Futurebrand.  Today, Jane runs a strategic positioning and business growth program called Ideal Client Success. This packages and productises her clients' services to make their offers relevant, compelling and irresistible to the people who will value them the most.  Join the program to receive a bespoke blueprint for your growth that is rapid, achievable, and eliminates the overwhelm of chasing shiny objects and diving into tactics that will leave you spinning your wheels without results.  Create a deeply rewarding, profitable business, and leave being overlooked and undervalued to the 'also rans' who wish they were you. The Smart Connector podcast features a range of exciting interviews with experts across multiple sectors, as well as some of Jane's own client case studies and stories.  Packed with insights and tactical as well as strategic tips to make your consulting or service based business succeed, this is your go to resource for sustainable success.  Attract those who ‘lift you higher' and repel the rest. Become a Smart Connector, the architect of your amazing business and life.   We are proud to announce the Smart Connector podcast is brought to you by our sponsor Virtual Non Execs, the world's #1 peer-to-peer board advisor community, which connects thousands of investors, entrepreneurs and investors across the globe. https://virtualnonexecs.com  Want to connect with Jane in person? Book a clarity call here: https://idealclientsuccess.com/zoom30 Visit Jane's website and connect on socials here: https://www.janebayler.com  Check out Jane's Chosen First DONE FOR YOU client attraction system here: https://chosenfirstsystem.com/

Al-Hilal sign Ruben Neves from wolves. Rúben Diogo da Silva Neves is a Portuguese professional footballer who plays as a midfielder for Saudi Professional League team Al Hilal and the Portugal national team. Al-Hilal Saudi Club, simply known as Al-Hilal, is a professional multi-sports club based in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. Image Credit: rubendsneves/instagram

P&C drink and review Troeg's Hop Horizon IPA, then discuss the need for strong men. One side of the culture war wants to tell boys they're toxic, potential rapists, and the best they can do is sit quietly and not get in the girls' way, because the future is female. And if you won't sit quietly, we'll give you drugs to make sure you do. On the other side of the culture war, Sen. Josh Hawley recently wrote a book to encourage boys to grow in the manly virtues. From a Roman perspective, these are the classical virtues. 1. Virtus (Manliness) encompasses bravery, courage, and strength. A Roman man was expected to display valor on the battlefield and face adversity with resilience. 2. Pietas (Piety) referred to a sense of duty, devotion, and loyalty. A Roman man was expected to fulfill his obligations to the gods, his family, and the state. 3. Fides (Good Faith) was the virtue of trustworthiness, reliability, and honesty. A Roman man was expected to keep his promises, be true to his word, and honor his commitments. 4. Gravitas (Dignity) denoted a sense of seriousness, self-control, and responsibility. A Roman man was expected to conduct himself with dignity, maintain composure in challenging situations, and exercise self-discipline. 5. Industria (Industriousness) represented diligence, hard work, and perseverance. A Roman man was expected to be productive, industrious, and committed to achieving his goals. 6. Clementia (Mercy) referred to the virtue of mercy, compassion, and forgiveness. A Roman man was encouraged to show leniency and kindness, particularly in positions of power and authority. 7. Honestas (Respectability) encompassed moral integrity, honor, and a respectable reputation. A Roman man was expected to lead a virtuous life, maintain his family's honor, and contribute positively to society. The cardinal virtues, according to Roman Catholicism are prudence, justice, fortitude and temperance. What's wrong with these things? The boys also review a horrible article by Silva Neves from Psychology Today.

Despite the plethora of information that's now available about sex, across so many mediums, it's still astonishing the misinformation that's spread on sex and the sexual organs. This is likely due to two factors: the adults in children's lives being too embarrassed or falsehoods spread around playgrounds and classrooms by children and young teens who get their 'sex ed' from porn (which doesn't show realistic sex).This is an introduction to sex with sexual and relationship psychotherapist and specialist in sexology, Silva Neves is accredited with COSRT and UKCP. Based on the sort of questions that I get asked such as "does the man have to be on top?". You may be surprised by what you learn however, even about your own body. I learnt something about the clitoris and I speak to sex therapists all the time! Marvel at the stupid questions I ask, so you don't have to.You can learn more about Silva Neves and his work here: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/A good website aimed at fourteen year olds and up is BishUK.com. If you want to find a sexual and relationship counsellor the website for accredited therapists is cosrt.org.ukRemember, sex you don't consent to, isn't sex. It's rape or sexual assault, or both. https://rapecrisis.org.uk/Make a one off donation: https://supporter.acast.com/conversations-with-annalisa-barbieriWant this podcast ad free: head over to my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/annalisabarbieri Follow us: Twitter: @AnnalisaB, Instagram: @pocketannalisaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/conversations-with-annalisa-barbieri. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to fellow sex and relationship therapist Silva Neves. They discuss: The reasons why LGBTQ+ have to be treated differently to heterosexual clientsThe importance of having a 'Pink' therapistBody Image Issues in the gay communityYou can find Silva Neves here: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/ And you can purchase Silva Neves' book on Compulsive Sexual Behaviours here: https://www.routledge.com/Compulsive-Sexual-Behaviours-A-Psycho-Sexual-Treatment-Guide-for-Clinicians/Neves/p/book/9780367465483Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening.Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7- Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com- DMing us on Instagram – we're @realsexedpodAnd we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.You can find Cate's blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today's episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to the Recon Podcast. In this episode we're going to be talking about the joys and the pitfalls of fetish, kink, why we engage in certain sexual practices and a clearer understanding of sex addiction. Today Antoin is joined by Silva Neves - one of the UK's leading COSRT accredited psychosexual and relationship psychotherapists who's going to talk more about our sexual behaviours, how it can affect so many aspects of our lives and how to begin getting help. Silva's book: Compulsive sexual behaviors, A psycho-sexual treatment guide for clinicians. (Routledge) Silva's second book is due to be released in November 2022. This is a book for professionals and the public, which includes diverse sexual behaviours, BDSM, kink, fetish, etc: Sexology, The Basics (Routledge) To find a sex-positive therapist for compulsive sexual behaviours: https://www.sexpositivityuk.com/compulsive-sexual-behaviour.html For more info, contact Silva: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk Get yourself off and get even with Regulation, the UK's premier destination for fetish gear, sex toys and restraints. Gear up with a wide range of rubber, leather and sportswear including many styles ready to ship next day. Are you into bondage, chastity, pup play, pain, pleasure or a bit of both? Whatever interests you, you'll find what you need in their 10,000 strong catalogue of kink. Warn the neighbours and shop online for whatever you're into at www.regulation.co.uk Fetish men are everywhere, discover the world of Recon. Get into the scene. Find your fetish. Show your fetish. Find fetish men. Join the fun by downloading the Recon app here - bit.ly/ReconAppy Follow us on social media: Facebook - www.facebook.com/recondotcom Twitter - twitter.com/ReconNews Instagram - www.instagram.com/reconnews

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Silva Neves. Silva is a Psychotherapist specializing in Psychosexual & Relationship Psychotherapy, Sexual abuse, and Compulsive sexual behaviours. His model of psychotherapy is integrative and humanistic, which means that he uses different approaches from different therapeutic models to suit his client's needs best. Silva integrates psychotherapeutic modalities, such as Gestalt, Psychodynamic, CBT, ACT, and Transactional Analysis with specific psycho-sexological knowledge and diverse relationships. The two of us talk about his new book, “Compulsive Sexual Behaviours: A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians.” We discuss the difference between the addiction and compulsion models of problematic sexual behaviour as well as the recommended approach for working with clients who struggle with watching porn. Key points: Silva introduces himself Acknowledging the problem with porn The difference between “addiction” and “compulsion” Language is important Subjectivity and personal values Shame and the problem with avoiding triggers “Becoming erotically aware, not erotically avoidant” Black-and-white thinking: Anti-porn vs Pro-porn Relevant links: Silva's Instagram: @silvanevespsychotherapy Silva's Website: ​​https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/

How many of us had really good sex education, or anything that goes beyond the mere biological? In this episode I talk to COSRT and UKCP registered Silva Neves about what we wish we'd learnt, how to have ‘The Conversation' with your children and why it should start probably earlier than you think and around the dinner table. We cover consent, why porn isn't sex education. We also talk about the fun aspects of sex. Silva's book: Compulsive Sexual Behaviours.Book recommendations:What's Happening to my Body for Girls or Boys.; Hair in Funny Places.; My Mummy Laid an Egg.Bishuk - for at fourteen year olds and over.If you're a child and something is happening which is worrying you, Child Line https://www.childline.org.uk tel: 0800 1111.Make a one off donation: https://supporter.acast.com/conversations-with-annalisa-barbieriWant this podcast ad free: head over to my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/annalisabarbieri Follow us: Twitter: @AnnalisaB, Instagram: @pocketannalisaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/conversations-with-annalisa-barbieri. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex Addiction? Porn Addiction? Think again.. This week we are joined by Europe's leading expert in compulsive sexual behavior Silva Neves. In this episode, Cyndi & Silva talk about the roots of this condition, how common it is, what it is and how media spin has made this the monster under the bed of male sexuality over the last 30 years. https://www.silvaneves.co.uk https://www.sexpositivityuk.com Twitter: @SilvaNeves3 Instagram: @silvanevespsychotherapy 

A controversial definition, but we do need to talk about sex addiction. Is it real? What harm does it do? Joining me to discuss this is Silva Neves who works in this area and is the author of of Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians. Find Silva at silvaneves.co.uk or sexpositivityuk.com   Support us at patreon.com/tortoiseshack

Get 10% off counselling with www.betterhelp.com/letstalkaboutsexjamie Let's talk about Porn & Masturbation Addiction w/ Silva Neves & Seeking Good Kissers on Dating AppsFollow Silva @silvanevespsychotherapy on Instagram.Silva's Book: Compulsive Sexual Behaviours A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for CliniciansFind the book & Silva here: www.silvaneves.co.uk OR www.sexpositivityuk.comFollow us at @letstalkaboutsexjamie on Instagram.Intro music sung by @tomhaskavmusic & @amellerose.

What the f*ck does 'Sex Positivity' even mean?! For this special 2022 episode of THE T SPOT, the microphone is turned on ME by Psychosexual & Relationship psychotherapist, Silva Neves. Silva interviews me on my definition of my sexuality and my idea of sex-positivity - something I am passionately vocal about.  We discuss enjoying giving blowjobs, fuck buddies, monogamy, and my relationships with men who don't publicly identify as queer, bisexual, or gay. We also talk about my fascination with intimacy, trust, and the importance of consent - alongside censorship in social media. And, as usual, I talk about how much I love men.  Please note: This interview was recorded months ago before I got into a relationship and moved into my own apartment.  Silva is the author of 'Compulsive Sexual Behaviours. A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians'. Which is available from RouteLedge.com. You can find out more about Silva here: www.silvaneves.co.uk --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thetspot/message

In this episode, Hannah is joined by Silva Neves, who is a psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist and author, to dispel all the myths around sex addiction and give us a better framework to view sexual behaviour through. Silva talks about the difference between the public idea of sex addiction and the understanding of it in a sex therapy clinic, and gives us a rundown on the definition of addiction and so how sex and porn addictions don't fit into it. Hannah and Silva then discuss compulsive sexual behaviours, which is what someone who might think they are a porn addict could be experiencing, and the causes of these behaviours and the potential distress they can cause.CW: Discussion of sexual trauma. Main discussion begins at 40:11. Please skip this episode if you need to and look after yourself!This episode is sponsored by Zencastr, the brilliant podcasting platform we use to record all our remote episodes! Follow this link and use code 'DoingIt' to get 30% off your first 3 months: http://zen.ai/doingit✨MORE ABOUT SILVA NEVES✨Silva Neves is a COSRT-accredited and UKCP-registered psychosexual and relationshippsychotherapist, and a trauma psychotherapist. He is a Pink Therapy Clinical Associate. Hesees individuals and couples presenting with a wide range of sex and relationship issues.Silva specialises in working with sexual trauma and compulsive sexual behaviours.Silva is a Course Director for CICS (Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology) and speaksinternationally. Silva is the author of Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians (2021, Routledge).Website: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/Twitter: https://twitter.com/SilvaNeves3Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/silvanevespsychotherapy/

Have you found the freedom to explore the rich landscape of your erotic self? Or did your childhood leave you feeling restricted and repressed by a sex negative mindset?  In this week's episode Andrew talks to Silva Neves, a psychosexual psychotherapist, about: Why people DON'T fully explore their sexual selves Why labelling people “sex addicts” is unhelpful, and The liberating mindset of sex positivity.  Silva Neves works with couples experiencing a wide range of sex and relationship issues, including sexual trauma, infidelity, and compulsive sexual behaviours. He regularly appears in the British media and was featured on the BBC Three's television series, Sex On The Couch.  Silva is a COSRT-accredited and UKCP-registered psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist, and a trauma psychotherapist. His private practice is based in Central London and online.  Follow Up Join our Supporters Club to access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50.  Visit Silva Neves' website Visit Silva Neves' site on sex positivity Get advice from Silva Neves via his Psychology Today blog  Read Silva Neves' book Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians Learn about the course Silva Neves teaches at CICS - an Online Diploma in in Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Follow Silva Neves on social media: Twitter @SilvaNeves3; and Instagram and Facebook @silvanevespsychotherapy Read The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel Read The Men On My Couch: True Stories of Sex, Love and Psychotherapy by David Rensin and Brandy Engler Read Andrew's book Have the Sex You Want: A Couple's Guide to Getting Back the Spark Read Andrew's blog How To Have the Sex You Want Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 

Get 10% off counselling with www.betterhelp.com/letstalkaboutsexjamie Let's talk about Is Sex Addiction Real with Silva Neves & Delivery Boy SyndromeFollow Silva @silvanevespsychotherapy on Instagram.Silva's Book: Compulsive Sexual Behaviours A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for CliniciansFind the book & Silva here: www.silvaneves.co.uk OR www.sexpositivityuk.comFollow Ruth @ruthramsay_ on Instagram.Follow us at @letstalkaboutsexjamie on Instagram.Intro music sung by @tomhaskavmusic & @amellerose.Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/letstalkaboutsexjamie. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

We need to name it by the correct term - sexual compulsivity... not sex addiction. We use the term addiction too freely – addicted to chocolate, to Netflix and so on. But if we struggle with compulsively wanting sex, we aren't addicted to it, but rather that we compulsively need to engage in a sexual behaviour in order to soothe, decrease distressing emotions or perhaps to feel something at all. In this episode, I chat to the wonderful Silva Neves, the brilliant psychosexual therapist and author of the recent textbook Compulsive Sexual Behaviours. Whether you are someone who has experienced this or a clinician who wants to work with these concerns, we can all learn from Silva's no-nonsense and empathic approach to treating sexual compulsivity. You can follow Silva on Instagram (and you should, he's fabuslous) @silvanevespsychotherapy He runs his practice in London, but also consults online.

We need to name it by the correct term - sexual compulsivity... not sex addiction. We use the term addiction too freely – addicted to chocolate, to Netflix and so on. But if we struggle with compulsively wanting sex, we aren't addicted to it, but rather that we compulsively need to engage in a sexual behaviour in order to soothe, decrease distressing emotions or perhaps to feel something at all. In this episode, I chat to the wonderful Silva Neves, the brilliant psychosexual therapist and author of the recent textbook Compulsive Sexual Behaviours. Whether you are someone who has experienced this or a clinician who wants to work with these concerns, we can all learn from Silva's no-nonsense and empathic approach to treating sexual compulsivity. You can follow Silva on Instagram (and you should, he's fabuslous) @silvanevespsychotherapy He runs his practice in London, but also consults online.

In this episode of The Sexual Wellness Sessions hosted by Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist Kate Moyle, we're discussing the topic of sexual trauma and the impact that it can have on someone's life. My guest Silva Neves is a Psychotherapist specialising in Trauma, EMDR, and Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy; and he has an enormous amount of experience working with those who have been through trauma and sexual trauma experiences.    In our discussion we talk through how trauma and sexual trauma are defined, common ways that it can manifest whilst acknowledging that everyone is different, and ways in which people can start to move through and process what has happened to them and the aftermath. With a focus on sex lives and relationships Silva discusses how couples can manage if one or both partners have experienced sexual trauma, how to communicate about triggers and ways of managing situations and boundaries; and working together to build trust, intimacy and a sex life and relationship that works for them.    Silva Neves is a COSRT-accredited and UKCP-registered psychotherapist and supervisor, author, and provider of clinical trainings internationally on the topics of sex, relationships, trauma and grief. For 11 years he has specialised in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. He is also a trauma psychotherapist experienced in working with survivors of sexual abuse, sexual trauma, sexual and romantic affairs, and compulsive sexual behaviours. Silva is the author of Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians (2021, Routledge) and he featured in the BBC programme Sex On The Couch.   @silvanevespsychotherapy   https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/   www.sexpositivityUK.com   Today's episode was brought to you by Blueheart, the easy to use, expert-designed app for couples who are experiencing difficulties with libido - this is one of the most common sexual challenges that couples come up against. Blueheart are challenging the taboo around the subject by making getting help and advice more accessible. Blueheart is removing some of the barriers to make sex therapy possible for everyone, they offer expert-led therapeutic techniques, activities education and guided conversations, all from the app so that you can prioritise your relationship and sexual wellbeing in a way that works for you at your own pace. The Blueheart app is available to download now on Android and iPhone https://www.blueheart.io/   @blueheart_app Kate Moyle is Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist and Certified Psycho-Sexologist, who is passionate about having open and normalising conversations around sex and relationships; and helping people to get to a place of sexual health, happiness and wellbeing.  Follow Kate on Instagram at @KateMoyleTherapy

In this conversation I speak with Silva Neves. Silva is a psychotherapist, and a specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy. Silva is accredited with COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists) and UKCP (UK Council for Psychotherapy) and is a course director for CICS (The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology). He also focusses on couples therapy and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. He is a trauma psychotherapist experienced in working with survivors of sexual abuse. He is also a clinical supervisor to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. He has recently in May 2021 written a book; ‘Compulsive Sexual Behaviour - A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians'. In the conversation we explore the use of terminology in CSB and why the term 'sex addiction' is not an encompassing and appropriate phase. We also explore why people use sex to deal with emotion, shame and its sequalea, the Pan American Health Organisation (PAHO) principles, individual course correction, childhood linkage, the second victim and Silva's overall reflections. Please enjoy this conversation with a fantastic and insightful guest. More can be found about Silva here: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk Silva's new book ‘Compulsive Sexual Behaviour - A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians' can be found here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Compulsive-Sexual-Behaviours-Psycho-Sexual-Clinicians/dp/0367465485

In this weeks episode Huda and Sahil speak to Psychosexual & Relationship psychotherapist, Silva Neves from the UK, and ask the questions that we all want to low-key (or high-key) know about. They discuss porn, whether it negatively effects the brain, if there is enough sex education out there, whether masterbating too much is bad for you (looking at you NoFap -per's out there!), sexuality in homosexual relationships as well as heterosexual relationships, masculinity and the problems with misogynistic men and their relationships with porn. To know more, and read more of Silva's work head over to his website: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/or connect with Silva on twitter: https://twitter.com/SilvaNeves3 or instagram: https://www.instagram.com/silvanevespsychotherapy/

In this episode I speak with Silva Neves. We discuss what compulsive sexual behaviour is, what people could do if they are experiencing these difficulties and how to handle these topics without inducing shame.   About Silva: Silva Neves is a COSRT-accredited and UKCP-registered psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist, a trauma psychotherapist and an EMDR therapist. He is a Pink Therapy Clinical Associate. Silva works in his Central London private practice and online. He sees individuals and couples presenting with a wide range of sex and relationship issues. Silva specialises in working with sexual trauma, sexual and romantic affairs, and compulsive sexual behaviours. He works extensively with the LGBTQ community as well as the heterosexual population. Silva is a COSRT-accredited clinical supervisor offering ongoing and ad-hoc supervision for mental health professionals. He is a Course Director for CICS (Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology) and a faculty member for IOSS (International Online Sexology Supervisors)  Silva delivers a range of trainings on psychosexual and relationship therapy, trauma therapy and compulsive sexual behaviour treatment. He is an accreditation assessor for COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists). Silva is a member of the editorial board for the leading international journal Sex and Relationship Therapy. Silva often contributes to articles on various sex and relationship topics and speaks internationally. Silva featured in the BBC programme Sex On The Couch.   Where to find Silva: silvaneves.co.uk Facebook: Silva Neves – Psychotherapy Twitter: @SilvaNeves3 Instagram: @silvanevespsychotherapy   Where to find me: beckycrepsleyfox.com Instagram - @becky_crepsley_fox TikTok - @becky_crepsley_fox Clubhouse - @becky_c_fox Facebook - Becky Crepsley-Fox  

The need to clearly define consent has come to the forefront of conversations around sexual activity. But how can we tackle the awkwardness around the subject and have more meaningful discussions about it?    In this episode, UKCP's CEO Sarah Niblock talks to UKCP psychotherapist Silva Neves explore sexual consent and why more education is crucial. 

Psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist Silva Neves explains how therapy can help with sexual difficulties and new research into the contentious notion of sex addiction.

Silva works with individuals that suffer from sexual trauma, psychosexual behaviors and couples therapy. We discuss using the term "sex addiction" is incorrect in his work. He explains why.