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Adulting isn't easy, but we got you. Teach Me How To Adult is a smart, unfiltered podcast on everything you never learned growing up, from crushing your career and love life to balancing budgets and wellness. We chat with experts and hustlers who serve up #realtalk and actionable tips on navigating adulthood like a boss. We’re diving deep on everything: Investing! Career advice! Taxes! Homeownership! Relationship goals! Mental health! Fitness! Folding a fitted sheet!? Trying to kill it at this whole adult thing? Follow along as we figure it out together.

Gillian Berner, Cailyn Michaan


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    Are We Approaching Mental Health Wrong? The Anti-Talk Therapy Changing How Therapists Treat Anxiety, Depression, OCD, And More, with Psychologist Sunniva Itland

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 58:07


    What if we're approaching mental health all wrong? A revolutionary new therapy is debunking popular therapy narratives and changing how we treat anxiety and overthinking.We're continuing our Mental Health Awareness Month series with this introduction to Metacognitive Therapy (MCT), a groundbreaking new approach to treating anxiety, overthinking, OCD, depression, panic attacks, and more, without the usual coping strategies and trauma processing.Unlike traditional talk therapy, Metacognitive Therapy helps people break free from the cycle of worry, rumination, and distress by targeting the way we think about our thoughts — not the thoughts themselves.This is an especially exciting topic for me, as I've been working with the team at metacognitivetherapy.com as the Head Of Content for the past year, creating mental health resources including a website, social media channels, an app and a new podcast that's still to come. MCT might just revolutionize how we treat mental health disorders.I'm joined by Clinical Psychologist Sunniva Itland, founder of one of Norway's largest private psychology clinics and co-founder of metacognitivetherapy.com, to unpack this transformative therapy that's changing lives worldwide.This is for anyone who hasn't found a therapy or modality that's really working to improve their mental health. Welcome to anti-therapy therapy.Tune in to hear about:How MCT differs from CBT, talk therapy, and other traditional approaches to anxiety disorders, OCD and depressionSunniva's personal journey overcoming social anxiety using metacognitive therapy approachesWhy trauma-focused and emotion-processing therapies may be keeping you stuckWhy people develop mental health conditions VS othersHow common mental habits like overthinking, symptom monitoring, and reassurance-seeking fuel anxietyRecognizing unhelpful metabeliefs like “worrying keeps me safe” or “I can't control my thoughtsWhy positive affirmations, reframing, mindfulness, and traditional coping strategies often backfireResearch-backed techniques for immediately reducing anxiety, like worry postponement and detached mindfulnessMetacognitive Therapy resources:metacognitivetherapy.comhttps://www.instagram.com/metacognitive_therapy/https://www.linkedin.com/company/metacognitive-therapy/ For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    Nervous System Reset: Healing Trauma, Anxiety & Physical Symptoms Using Somatic Therapy, with Therapist Simone Saunders | Rerelease

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 47:40


    The body keeps the score, and after years of cognitive therapy work and intellectualizing, I became totally disconnected from how my body was carrying stress and anxiety. So for Mental Health Awareness Month, we're throwing it back to this deep dive with trauma therapist Simone Saunders on the powerful connection between mind and body healing. We cover how unprocessed trauma physically manifests and evidence-based somatic therapy techniques to release it.Anxiety, depression, and trauma don't just affect your thoughts — they live in your body. From chronic pain and digestive issues to poor sleep and muscle tension, your physical symptoms might tell a deeper story. If you want to take control of your mental health and expand your techniques and awareness, this episode is a must-listen.Simone has a Master's in Clinical Social Work, with a specialization in trauma, emotional regulation, anxiety and depression. As a trauma therapist and educator she has over 800,000 followers across her Instagram and TikTok accounts, the cognitive corner, where she helps people understand the connection between the mind and body and patterns that your nervous system engages in.Tune in to hear more about:Identifying hidden signs of nervous system dysregulation and science-backed regulation techniquesUnderstanding freeze, flight, fight and fawn responses: which survival pattern are you stuck in?Navigating familial relationships or partnerships that trigger the dysregulation loopUnhelpful coping strategies that might make you feel worseCognitive bypassing: The difference between intellectualizing and feelingHow trauma manifests physicallyWhat if you can't remember your trauma?Somatic therapy approaches for releasing trauma stored in the bodyBuilding a life that's healthy for your nervous systemNavigating the loneliness and isolation of your mental health journeyFollow Simone on Instagram and TikTok.For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: How To Be A Better Friend When Your Loved Ones Are Struggling (What To Say And Do), with Psychotherapist Whitney Goodman

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 6:26


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. In honour of Mental Health Awareness Month, we're throwing it back to this helpful advice from Whitney Goodman on how to show up for your friends and loved ones when they are struggling with mental health, grief and loss — without the unhelpful platitudes and empty offers. Whitney is a psychotherapist, author of the book Toxic Positivity, a columnist for Psychology Today and appears regularly in publications like The New York Times and Teen Vogue.Listen to our full episode with Whitney here!Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.For show notes and more adulting tips, visit: teachmehowtoadult.caFollow Whitney:sitwithwhit.com@sitwithwhitToxic Positivity: Keeping It Real in a World Obsessed with Being Happy Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    Boost Your Mental Health & Heal Emotions With The Power Of Creativity & Self-Expression, with IN-Q - Emmy-Nominated Poet & Multi-Platinum Songwriter

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 51:07


    One of the most powerful (and underused) tools for emotional healing is creative self-expression. In honour of Mental Health Awareness Month, we're diving into the powerful intersection of creativity, art, relationships, and mindset — and how you can use your unique voice to alchemize pain and struggle.This episode is for anyone looking to improve their emotional resilience, self-awareness, and connection to others through the healing power of creativity. I'm joined by my favourite writer, IN-Q — an Emmy-nominated poet, multi-platinum songwriter, world renowned keynote speaker, best-selling author of Inquire Within and The Never Ending Now Poetry journal. IN-Q has written songs with artists like Selena Gomez, Miley Cyrus and Mike Posner, and he was named to Oprah's SuperSoul 100 list of the world's most influential thought leaders. He hosts writing workshops around the world, and works with brands like Nike, Spotify, Google and Lululemon to help their teams tell their stories and find their authentic voice.Tune in to hear more about:How creative expression can help process trauma, anxiety, and lonelinessWhat's causing our current mental health crisis?Why creativity and storytelling are the most underused tools in the mental health toolkitThe wellness modalities that IN-Q taps intoThe impact of technology and AI on our mental healthWhat is happiness, and have we commodified the pursuit of it?How to cultivate more compassion and connectionReconnecting to community in a lonely and isolated worldHow to set healthy boundaries without isolating ourselvesTaking responsibility for our emotions in relationshipsCo-regulating with your partner and establishing non-negotiablesOvercoming the fear of creating or sharing your workI hope this episode helps you reconnect with yourself and your playful creativity.Follow IN-Q on Instagram and his website in-q.com. Get IN-Q's book Inquire Within and The Never Ending Now Poetry Journal. Listen to The Never Ending Now album.For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: Overcome Avoidance & Anxiety With This Therapist-Backed Technique, with Dr. Lauren Cook

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 5:44


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. May is mental health awareness week, so we're diving into mental wellbeing and anxiety, and how to stop it from holding you back. Tune in as we throw it back to Dr. Lauren Cook's “anxiety hierarchy” framework that helps you measure your level of anxiety when faced with challenges, so we can face our fears without letting anxiety, avoidance, and control stay in the driver's seat.Dr. Lauren Cook is a therapist, consultant, speaker, author and founder of Heartship Psychological Services. Specializing in anxiety, she helps people and couples work through generalized anxiety, phobias, social anxiety, OCD, and more. She has a podcast called The Boardroom Brain, and has written three books, including the “Generation Anxiety: A Millennial and Gen Z Guide to Staying Afloat in an Uncertain World”. Listen to our full episode with Dr. Lauren  here!Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Dr. Lauren:@dr.laurencookDrlaurencook.comOrder Generation Anxiety: A Millennial and Gen Z Guide to Staying Afloat in an Uncertain World Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    The Psychology of Money: Rewire Your Money Mindset, Stop Self-Sabotaging Habits & Build Financial Freedom, with Jessica Moorhouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 63:47


    Money stress is everywhere right now — rising interest rates, the cost of living crisis, inflation, layoffs, and a looming recession — we're all feeling it. But the truth is, even in financially prosperous times, money can be a point of shame, anxiety, guilt, and avoidance for a lot of us. Your money history and money story shape your financial security throughout your life — but you can rewrite that story and heal your money mindset.In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology of money and how to heal your relationship with it, so you can stop toxic financial habits, rewire your mindset, and *actually* build long-term wealth.We called back returning guest, Jessica Moorhouse—Accredited Financial Counsellor, bestselling author of Everything but Money, host of the More Money Podcast, and a leading voice on personal finance and emotional literacy in financial wellness.This isn't just another budgeting or investing 101 episode… it's a mindset shift that can set you up for success in your personal finances and your close relationships. Whether you're  struggling with debt or making $250K, this conversation will help you stop self-sabotage, understand your unconscious toxic beliefs, and make an actionable plan toward financial security.Tune in to hear more about:The emotional roots of money anxiety, guilt, shame, envy, and fearUnderstanding the 3 toxic money patterns that keep you stuck (avoidance, money worship, and relationship codependence)The impact of shame and judgment in your financial journey — and how to break that shame cycleHow ADHD and neurodivergence can affect spending, saving, and money organizationHow your attachment style impacts your financial behaviour and the way you deal with money in relationshipsThe #1 mistake most people are making with moneyActionable advice for building wealth if you're in debt or low incomeHow to manage setting up an emergency fund VS paying off debt VS investingHow to recession-proof your financial plan right nowCheck out Jessica's book, Everything but Money.Follow Jessica on Instagram, YouTube, and her website.For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: Body Language Tips For Better Confidence And More Influence, with Fotini Iconomopoulos

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 7:12


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. The majority of our communication is non-verbal... that means our body language is doing all the talking. So we're throwing it back to some game-changing advice from negotiation expert, Fotini Iconomopoulos, breaking down how you can leverage your body language to influence and negotiate better — at work, and socially. Fotini's been helping people get what they want, both personally and professionally, for decades. Through her keynotes, workshops and virtual courses, Fotini helps teach the negotiation and communication skills required to navigate any scenario. She teaches MBA Negotiations at the Schulich School of Business at York University, and is the author of the book “Say Less, Get More: Unconventional Negotiation Techniques to Get What You Want”.We hope this episode inspires you to go after what you want and ask for what you deserve!Listen to our full episode with Fotini here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Fotini:fotiniicon.com/instagram.com/fotiniicon/linkedin.com/in/fotiniiconomopoulos/Get Fotini's Book: Say Less Get More Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    Toxic Dating Rules Debunked: Unconventional Approaches For Authentic Connection & Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 24:52


    This episode is for anyone who's tired of outdated dating “rules” that don't reflect who they are and how we actually connect in 2025. I've recently dipped my toe back into the dating world, and the amount of toxic “rules” and overly-perscriptive advice floating around online is wild.So today, I'm sharing my hot takes and unconventional dating perspectives to prioritize authenticity, connection, and your dating goals — without all the games.Whether you're dating for fun, looking for your forever person, or navigating something in between, this episode is a guide to more connected, conscious, and actually authentic dating. If you feel drained by casual dating culture, the fast food nature of apps, mixed signals and fuckboy energy, and attention-seeking games… keep. listening.We're debunking relationship myths like:Why “keep the first date short” might be killing genuine connectionWhy women shouldn't always wait to be pursuedWhy “play it cool” and “keep it casual” isn't always the vibeThe truth about when to have sexShould you talk about your exes on a date?When you should consider exclusivityHow to use intentional conversations, clarity, vulnerability, and feedback to create deeper intimacy Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: The Environmental Cost Of Overconsumption… “We Are Creating A Culture of Ease & Disconnecting From Future Ramifications” - with Conni Jespersen

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 9:30


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. In honour of earth day, we're taking a look at the cost of fast fashion, our consumption habits, and how we can become more sustainable consumers.We're throwing it back to this perspective-shifting advice on overconsumption with Conni Jespersen, as she explains the impact of overconsumption on our confidence, wallets, and the environment, and how self-accountability for the lifespan of every product we purchase can help end impulse shopping. Conni is an educational wardrobe stylist and founder of Art in the Find. She has spent over a decade helping people craft intentional wardrobes, edit their closets, and break free from excessive consumption. Through her Signature Style Method Course, she helps clients edit their closets and uncover their unique style.Conni has kindly given Teach Me How To Adult listeners a discount on her Signature Style Method Course (which has helped me SO much in understanding the elements of my personal style), so if you're ready to revamp your wardrobe, check it out here and use the discount code style10 for 10% off. Listen to the full episode here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Conni:@artinthefindartinthefind.com Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    How To Handle Toxic Workplaces, Bad Bosses, & An Unstable Job Market: Career Advice You Actually Need with Emily Durham (AKA Emily The Recruiter)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 52:59


    There's a lot going on in the job market right now, with a looming recession, mass layoffs, and AI changing the way we work. Whether you're stuck under a micromanaging boss, navigating office drama, dealing with return-to-office mandates, or questioning your entire career path… it's a lot.But we gotchu. Back by popular demand, we're joined by Emily Durham—aka Emily the Recruiter—career coach, content creator, and host of The Straight Shooter Recruiter Podcast. With millions of views across TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube, Emily is known for her no-BS advice on how to land your dream job and deal with workplace dynamics like a boss.Whether you're strategizing how to survive a toxic workplace, burnt out and job hunting, or managing conflict on the job, this episode will help you reclaim your power, boost your career confidence, and future-proof your career in a rapidly changing job market.Tune in for an informative and hilarious conversation about:How to spot a toxic workplace (and what to do if you're in one)When to quit your job vs. stick it out—especially in an uncertain job marketThe myth of work-life balance and how to set boundariesDealing with the most common types of bad bosses (looking at you, micromanagers & mood killers)How to give your boss constructive feedback (without it backfiring)Smart ways to deal with workplace drama and toxic coworkersHow “authentic” you should be at work—without hurting your careerAre work besties trust-worthy? What to do when back-to-office mandates hitHow to stand out and stay relevant as AI reshapes the job marketListen to our first episode with Emily here.Listen to The Straight Shooter Recruiter podcast Follow Emily on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube.  Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    Feeling Stuck? How To Overcome Decision Paralysis, Self-Doubt & Monkey Mind, with Career Coach Sasha Patpatia

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 51:28


    Do you ever feel paralyzed by indecision, stuck in a loop of self-doubt, decision overwhelm, and perfectionism? Welcome to the club! We know what it's like, and what it takes to get unstuck.Whether you're facing a career crossroads, struggling to start a creative project, or battling the incessant inner monologue of your monkey mind, this episode is here to help.I'm joined by my friend and brilliant coach, Sasha Patpatia, a multidisciplinary artist, writer, and board-certified career coach for creatives. Sasha has helped me navigate pivotal moments in my career, and equipped me with mindset tools I still use to move from overthinking to action.Some brain chemistry-altering quotes from Sasha in today's episode:“It is only the friction between where you are and where you want to be — which is called tension — that shuts us down and makes us feel stuck.”“Our definition of success is doing what I said I would do, with clarity, focus, ease & grace.”If you're feeling stuck, lost, or burnt out, join us for a deep look at how to overcome mental blocks and move forward in alignment with your purpose.Tune in to hear more about:✅ How to get unstuck, use stuckness as data, and take consistent action.✅ Overcoming decision paralysis with a three-part choice and decision reframe (that takes the pressure off!). ✅ Dealing with self-doubt and monkey mind: Navigating excuses and negativity bias without judgment.✅ The myth of motivation: Stop waiting for the “right time”!✅ Reframing our idea of success and failure✅ What's behind creative burnout?✅ How to find the right career coach✅ The power of emotional regulation, + a combined approach of mindset coaching and somatic bodyworkJust remember, ready is not a feeling, it's a decision. You've got this.Follow Sasha: https://www.sashapatpatia.com/For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: Doable Ways To Cut Out Plastic, Consumer Smarter, and Reduce Your Carbon Footprint, with Environmentalist Julia Grieve

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 7:42


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. In honour of earth month, we're taking a look at our consumption habits and how we can lower our carbon footprint in a way that's actually sustainable.So we're throwing it back to tactical advice on sustainable living, with "accidental environmentalist" Jules Grieve. It's easy to let perfect become the enemy of good (sustainability is a game of progress over perfection) so we cover doable ways to cut out plastic and reduce waste, the truth about recycling, and how to change our water consumption. Julia is a TV personality, entrepreneur, fashion designer, former international model, and founder of the incredible Preloved, North America's leading sustainable fashion brand that has diverted over a million sweaters from landfills. She's CityLine's eco expert and regularly appears on Global News and in Canada's biggest media outlets. Her mission is to show people how simple changes, over time, can have a huge impact, and she's showing the world how we can take an eco-friendly approach to home design, health, food, fashion and lifestyle. Listen to the full episode here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Julia:@prelovedjulesjuliagrieve.cagetpreloved.com Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    Overcome Overwhelm & Boost Your Productivity with the 80/20 Rule (AKA The Pareto Principle) | The Quickie

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 15:19


    Feeling constantly busy but not actually making progress? Struggling with overwhelm, burnout, and an endless to-do list? Honestly, same.I've been stuck in an overwhelming cycle of too much work and not enough impact, so I started experimenting with different productivity hacks—and this week I'm sharing one that's really helping.We're diving into the 80/20 Rule—also known as the Pareto Principle—a game-changing productivity method that helps you work smarter, not harder by focusing on the tasks that actually move the needle.The Pareto Principle isn't just a theory; it applies to work, relationships, finances, and general productivity so you can ditch busywork and operate in your zone of genius.Ready to break free from the grind? Tune in to hear about:✅ How to apply the 80/20 rule to your work and daily tasks✅ The difference between being “busy” vs. being productive✅ How to identify and prioritize high-impact tasks to maximize your productivity and efficiency✅ How to stop wasting time and operate in your zone of genius✅ Why urgency doesn't always mean importance✅ How this principle improves relationships, finances, style, and moreI hope this helps you take back control of your time and break free from burnout!For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: This Will Change How You Network And Build Relationships, with Communications Expert Maha Abouelenein

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 6:55


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. Your network is everything. The way you establish and nurture your own network and reputation can make all the difference in your career success, so we're throwing it back to this great advice from Maha Abouelenein on how to add value to your unique network. Maha Abouelenein is a strategic communication and personal branding expert who has handled communications for some of world's largest tech companies in the Middle East - from Google and Netflix to Udacity and Weber Shandwick, along with promotions and sports marketing programs for the Olympics, NASCAR, Women's Hockey, and the NFL.Maha consulted on strategic communications with the Obama administration and has worked with powerhouses like Gary Vaynerchuk and Deepak Chopra. She was honored as one of the most influential women in Dubai, and nominated as of one of Forbes Power Women of the Middle East. She's the CEO of Digital & Savvy, host of the Savvy Talk podcast, and Best-Selling Author of "7 Rules of Self-Reliance”.Listen to our full episode with Maha here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Maha on Instagram and on her website.Listen to Maha's Podcast, Savvy Talk.Order Maha's book, 7 Rules of Self-Reliance Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    News Anxiety Is Real: How to Stay Informed While Protecting Your Mental Health (Quit Doomscrolling & Take Control Of Your Media Diet!) | The Quickie

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 17:45


    Are you feeling overwhelmed and stressed by the constant flood of negative news? Join the club, friends. News anxiety is at an all-time high as we're bombarded with breaking headlines and social media coverage of economic instability, political tension, war, tariffs, climate disasters, and more—straight to our phones, 24/7.Washington D.C. therapist Steven Stosny coined the term "headline stress disorder" to describe the huge mental health impact of our nonstop news cycle. We're all sucked into the cycle of online fear, and it's crucial to learn how to consume news responsibly without sacrificing your mental health.So how do we stay informed and responsible humans while protecting our mental health?If you're feeling stressed, hopeless, or mentally drained from the overwhelming influx of world events, this episode is for you.Tune in to hear more about:✅ How the 24-hour news cycle fuels anxiety & fear-based algorithms✅ Ways to stay informed without feeling emotionally drained✅ How to break free from doomscrolling & social media-induced panic✅ Practical strategies to set news boundaries & curate mindful media consumption✅ Why focusing on what you CAN control is key to mental resilience✅ The importance of hope & positive news for your mental well-beingLooking for uplifting news sources? Check these out:✨ Good Good Good✨ Good News Movement✨ Tank's Good News

    ICYMI: The Energetics Of Money & Abundance: “Money Is A Magnifier Of Who You Already Are,” with Nicole Stanley

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 6:51


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. If you want to rewire your relationship with money and move into an abundant (and informed) financial chapter, we're throwing it back to this helpful reminder from financial coach Nicole Stanley. A healthy money mindset is the missing ingredient for a lot of people's financial security. Nicole reminds us that "Money is just a magnifier of who you already are" - so our habits, beliefs, and relationship to money right now will dictate how we approach our financial goals for life. Nicole Stanley is the Founder & Head Financial Coach of Arise Financial Coaching. After battling crippling financial anxiety in her early twenties, Nicole enrolled in her first personal finance course and made changes to go from 30K in debt to building over a quarter-million in net worth for her family at age  27. Arise Financial Coaching has now served over 600 clients and has been featured in TIME, Yahoo Finance, & CNET.Listen to our full episode with Nicole here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Nicole:On Instagram: @arise.financial.coachingArise Financial Coaching Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    How Your Love Language Reveals Your Toxic Traits & Self-Sabotaging Habits | The Quickie

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2025 15:41


    I saw a TikTok about how your toxic traits can be the exact opposite of your love language, and I CANNOT stop thinking about it. If you're stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage, your toxic behaviours might be the inverse of your love language — aka your loathe language.

    Overconsumption Is Killing Your Style: How To Find Your Personal Style & Build An Intentional Wardrobe, with Conni Jespersen

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2025 61:09


    I'm SO sick of "having nothing to wear"... I've been going through a wardrobe crisis lately—I dread getting dressed, and despite having way too many clothes, I never feel like my wardrobe reflects who I am. I feel disconnected from my style and the things I buy, and I'm not the only one. Hitting different life stages and engaging in a cycle of overconsumption—buying more but feeling less satisfied—has left a lot of us without a clear sense of style and identity. Today, we're tackling both issues: how to define your personal style with confidence, and how to cut down on mindless shopping and fast fashion.I'm joined by Conni Jespersen, educational wardrobe stylist and founder of Art in the Find, who has spent over a decade helping people craft intentional wardrobes, edit their closets, and break free from excessive consumption. Through her Signature Style Method Course, she helps clients edit their closets and uncover their unique style.We uncover how to build a wardrobe that truly feels like you—without the stress, overconsumption, or pressure to keep up with trends. If you're over impulse buying, feeling lost in your personal style, or staring at a closet full of clothes with “nothing to wear"... we gotchu. Conni has kindly given Teach Me How To Adult listeners a discount on her Signature Style Method Course (which has helped me SO much in understanding the elements of my personal style), so if you're ready to revamp your wardrobe, check it out here and use the discount code style10 for 10% off. Tune in as we talk about:✨ The 5 key elements of personal style: personality, lifestyle, preferences, environment, and influences✨ How to balance timeless basics with trendy statement pieces✨ How to shop smarter, avoid overconsumption, and stop impulse buying✨ The true cost of overconsumption—on our confidence, wallets, and the environment✨ Closet organization tips to maximize wearability and identify wardrobe gaps✨ How to shop your own closet and re-style pieces you already own✨ Secondhand shopping tips to embrace sustainability and cut down on fast fashion✨ When to tailor or edit down your wardrobe to make it truly work for youFollow Conni:@artinthefindartinthefind.com Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    How To Feel Your Feelings As A Sensitive Soul, Heal Heartbreak, & Find Your Authentic Voice, with author Allie Michelle | Rewind

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 49:11


    A lot of us go through life avoiding our feelings — but experiencing our full spectrum of emotions is the key to living a full, authentic life. Whether you're an empath who feels everything deeply, struggling with heartbreak, or working through past wounds, embracing your sensitivity can be your greatest strength. After all, our grief is just a representation of how deeply we love.In this all-time favourite throwback episode, we explore how to process emotions in a healthy way, break free from fear, and find your authentic voice with bestselling poet, author and incredibly wise friend, Allie Michelle.Allie captures the depths of human emotion through her beautiful writing and spoken word. Allie is one of my favourite poets, and her latest fantasy novel, Legends of Lemuria, is out now on Thought Catalog! She  runs Pen 2 Publish, a program to help writers create, publish and market their books. Allie co-founded a community for mental health and wellness called We Are Warriors, and she's also a certified meditation, breathwork and yoga teacher.Tune in as we explore:✅ How to feel deeply without drowning in emotions✅ The difference between healthy vs. unhealthy empathy✅ Inner child work and emotional healing✅ The power of embracing heartbreak as transformation✅ How to turn fear into a compass instead of a roadblock✅ Finding your voice as a writer and storyteller✅ Allie's hot take on overcoming writer's block✅ Showing up as your most raw, unmasked self✅ The art of deep breathing and mindfulnessIf you've ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions or struggled to own your sensitivity, this conversation will remind you that your softness is your strength."Break my heartbreak it so wide openthat the whole worldcan fit in between the pieces."  — Allie MichelleOrder Allie's book, Legends of LemuriaFollow Allie on InstagramFollow Allie on TikTokWatch Allie's live performance of her poem shared in this episode. For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    How A 'Fear List' Can Change Your Life: Stop Self-Rejecting & Unlock Confidence

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2025 32:29


    What would you do if failure was impossible? What's something you've always wanted to do, but never find "the right time"? To answer these questions, I started one little list in January, and it has completely changed my life. We all know about bucket lists — but what if the real game-changer isn't chasing what excites you, but confronting what scares you? Enter: The Fear List.Fear has been in the driver's seat of my life for too long, and I realized during my January meltdown, that my avoidance of discomfort and rejection were directly impacting my happiness and growth. Most of the things I was depressed about in my life could be traced to fear-based avoidance and inaction. That's why I created the fear list — it helps you rewire your brain to stop self-rejecting before you even try. Think of it like exposure therapy... this list of things will create proof that you can do scary things, and the more small uncomfortable things you do, the less scary the big things will feel. This episode is all about breaking out of fear-based paralysis and taking action on the things that hold you back. If you've been feeling stuck, playing small, or letting fear dictate your choices—this is your sign to flip the script.In this episode, I cover:✅ How my fear has kept me stuck in life, love, and career✅ The connection between fear, anxiety, and perfectionism✅ Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) and why some of us with ADHD/neurodivergence fear rejection more✅ The power of exposure therapy and why courage is a muscle✅ How to create your own Fear List to build confidence, resilience, and momentum✅ Questions that will help you brainstorm your fear list✅ Getting honest with yourself about the stories you're telling yourself✅ Easy examples of things you can include on your fear list✅ What's on my list, and the wins I've already tackled (LITERALLY LIFE-CHANGING)✅ Why staying accountable and tracking your progress gamifies fear and makes it fun Remember: "The risk you're afraid to take, could be the one that changes your entire life."For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: Set Up Your Income Funnel To Make More Money (Without Working Harder), with Nicole Victoria

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 5:05


    Welcome to this week's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. The economy feels more unstable than my high school experience, and we could all use some extra cash to battle inflation and prepare for the potential incoming tariffs. So we're throwing it back to the ultimate lesson in working smarter, not harder, from finance expert Nicole Victoria. Her top tip for making more money, without working harder? Negotiate your bills down and funnel the extra cash into passive income streams, so we can earn cash while we sleep. Nicole is a CEO, money coach and financial literacy advocate Nicole Victoria AKA No Budget Babe, who specializes in helping millennial and gen-z women effortlessly manage their money and build bank accounts that never stop growing.Listen to our full episode with Nicole Victoria of No Budget Babe here!Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Nicole:No Budget BabeInstagram: @NobudgetbabeTikTok: @nobudgetbabeFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    10 Doable Changes To Break Out Of A Depressive Rut & Boost Your Mental Health | The Quickie

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 28:15


    FAfter a tough start to the year—dealing with illness, isolation, and a full-on birthday-induced spiral—I knew I needed to make big, immediate changes to pull myself out of a depressive rut. It was time for a full reset.If you're feeling stuck, lonely, struggling with seasonal depression, or just lacking motivation and positivity, this episode is your roadmap to breaking free from the cycle and taking control of your mental wellbeing. I'm sharing the 10 game-changing shifts and habits that have worked for me and helped me feel like myself again after a month of testing.Tune in to hear about:The #1 most important step to stop isolating and ask for helpHow mindfulness, breathwork, and cold therapy can rewire your moodThe journaling practice that helps you take control of your happinessWhy exercise (without punishment) is a powerful antidepressantThe one daily habit that can instantly break a depressive cycleHow to reset your circadian rhythm to fix insomnia and energy dipsWhy we need to limit social media scrolling, Netflix binging, and cheap dopamineScience-backed supplements to combat seasonal affective disorder and support mental healthThe unexpected way creativity can help you heal and calm anxietyWhy human touch matters for mental wellbeing (and how to get it—even without a partner)Setting realistic goals for your mental health progressSunnier days are ahead so keep going, and please tell someone if you're struggling. I love you guys, you got this.For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    The BEST Relationship Advice From Leading Love & Attachment Experts (From Better Communication to Chemistry & Attachment Styles)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2025 31:01


    Happy Valentine's Day, lovers! I hope you are getting showered in love, by someone else or yourself. Whether you're single and ready to mingle, or in a long-term relationship, I've been thinking about how—no matter our relationship status—we all seem to wrestle with the same thoughts: Am I too much? Am I too needy, or should I express my needs more? How can I communicate better? How do I find balance in my relationships? How do I work toward secure attachmentsThankfully, over the years, I've had incredible relationship experts and therapists on this podcast who have tackled these very questions. So today, I'm bringing you a roundup of the best relationship advice I've learned from three amazing guests.Tune in to hear from:❤️ Dr. Morgan Cutlip, Relationship expert and PhD in Psychology: How to find balance and reciprocity in relationships, communicate your needs effectively, and understand the difference between neediness and fair expectations. (Listen to our full episode here)❤️ Liz Earnshaw, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist: Expert strategies for conflict resolution and communication, including how to handle Gottman's Four Horsemen and navigating common power struggles in relationships. (Listen to our full episode here)❤️ Jess Baum, Psychotherapist, Couples Counselor, & Author of Anxiously Attached: How our attachment styles are amplified or healed based on your relationship, breaking our anxious attachment patterns and prioritizing consistent love, recognizing red and green flags in chemistry, and moving from codependency to interdependence. (Listen to our full episode here)Wherever you are in your relationship journey… I love you guys. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: How To Date Yourself, Embrace Your Single Era & Romanticize Your Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 8:31


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. Valentine's Day can be triggering if you're dealing with heartbreak or loneliness. But we're in our era of embracing singleness and romancing our damn selves.So tune in as we throw it back to the best practical ad emotional tips from our episode on how to date yourself. Because you don't need to wait for the perfect relationship to start living a life you love. That perfect relationship should be the one you have with yourself.Join as we share the beauty of solo dating, learning to fulfill your own needs, how to give yourself your own love language, and practicing the art of self-love (in a non-capitalist way that doesn't involve buying expensive candles and facials!).I hope this reminds you to give yourself the love you deserve. I love you guys.Listen to the full episode with here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    Sex Q&A: How Do I Dirty Talk? Does Size Matter? Best Toys For Orgasm? | No Dumb Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 31:48


    We're bringing you more than just the tip this week, so I highly recommend watching today's episode on Spotify or YouTube to experience the visuals and product recommendations — if you're not subscribed on Spotify and YouTube, go there now!Happy hump day friends, and welcome back to another episode of “No Dumb Questions,” where I answer allll your burning Qs… because there are no dumb questions when it comes to adulting.To kick off love month and Valentine's Day, we're doing a spicy Q&A on all things sex. Because whether you're in a relationship, dating around, or single AF, we all deserve pleasure.You all voted YES on Instagram, so I delivered… I'm showing you the best props and toys on the market, and how to use them to spice up your sex life. Trust me, it's a vibe(rator).In this episode, I answer all your juicy questions, including:Tips for hot dirty talk (without it feeling awkward or forced)How to tell if your partner is faking an orgasmHow to have honest, trusting communication about your desiresMy top sex toys recos (from glass to silicone to metal of all shapes and sizes)What to do if the guy you're into is… hella smallForeplay hacks that will level up your pleasureAdvice for if your man has performance anxietyPositions for best stimulation and how to orgasm on topTips to incorporate sex swingsThe key to having a healthy sex life without dating appsMy (toxic) case for recycling loversGo forth and get some! Love you.Listen to more helpful sex episodes:Episode 52: How To Spice Up Your Sex Life Episode 64: How To Own My Orgasms and Pleasure, with Sex Coach Portia BrownEpisode 198: Should I use toys in the bedroom? Why is my partner never in the mood? Tips for threesomes?For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: Exploring which relationship style you actually want: Polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and more, with Hayley Folk

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 8:57


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. If you're feeling unsatisfied or incomplete in your love life, there's more than one way to engage in sex, love, and relationships. But what does that look like? And how do we navigate alternative relationship styles that honour our desire and respect our partner's boundaries? We're throwing it back to this insightful and vulnerable advice from Hayley Folk, a sex writer on a mission to create safe spaces to talk about sex and pleasure.Hayley's work has appeared in magazines like Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Elite Daily, and more. She's the founder of Naked Folk, a publication and podcast that covers the uncomfortable conversations we should be having about sex and relationships. Listen to our full episode with Hayley here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Hayley:https://www.instagram.com/hayley.folk/?hl=enhttps://www.nakedfolk.comhttps://www.instagram.com/nakedfolk/?hl=en Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    How To Be A Better Leader And Build Successful Teams (Plus: The Secret To Hiring And Firing), with Kelly Roach

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2025 33:22


    As a conflict-avoidant people-pleaser, I have a story in my head that I don't like the stress and pressure of being a manager. Delegating is hard, and giving feedback is uncomfortable. But that mindset has held me back from hiring, scaling, and taking my dreams to the next level.I know I'm not alone in this. A lot of us end up being managers over the course of our careers, but we're never taught how to be LEADERS — and there's a big difference. So I called in business mentor, entrepreneur and best-selling author Kelly Roach to help me navigate my limiting beliefs around hiring, leading better, and investing in a high performing team.Kelly is a former Fortune 500 Executive turned multi-million dollar entrepreneur/CEO, and founder of Kelly Roach Coaching, an 8-figure coaching and consulting company for entrepreneurs who are disrupting industries and scaling their dreams. For the past decade, she's disrupted the coaching space, built a top-ranked podcast, appeared as an expert for outlets like ABC and NBC, and helped hundreds of entrepreneurs create their dream lives. She's published multiple bestselling books, including Bigger Than You - The Entrepreneur's Guide to building An Unstoppable Team.Tune in as we chat about:The key pillars that differentiate a good leader from just a managerHow to retain top talent in your businessThe biggest communication issues and mistakes she sees amongst leadersWhy some managers micromanageLimiting beliefs that hold leaders back from successHow to know when to hire, and who to hire?!Spotting red flags in the hiring process Game-changing interview questions to ask when hiring How to know when to fire someone Communication tips for giving constructive feedbackHow to measure team performance and coachability Follow Kelly on Instagram and on her website.Listen to The Kelly Roach showRead Kelly's best-selling booksFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: Heal Your Relationship With Money And Rewrite Your Money Story, with Leisse Wilcox

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 8:03


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from past episodes that you might have missed. We all have a relationship with money. It's a largely unconscious belief system, and based on things we saw, learned, didn't see and didn't learn. And those financial beliefs we carry can dictate our earning potential, our self-worth, what we charge, and how we show up in the world. So we're throwing it back to this incredibly helpful insight from Leisse Wilcox on how to heal our money stories.Leisse is a keynote speaker, leadership consultant, performance coach, emotional intelligence expert and two-times best-selling author. Known as “the Marie Kondo of your Unconscious”, She helps clients and businesses turns self-sabotage into success in each of life's cornerstone areas, combining strategic consulting and therapeutic coaching tools. Follow Leisse on Instagram and check out her website. Read Leisse's bestselling books, To Call Myself Beloved and Alone: The Truth + Beauty of Belonging.Listen to our full episode here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    The Quickie: How To Show Up Better For People In Crisis Or Tragedy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 17:55


    How do we show up better for people in crisis, or anyone facing tragedy? Because I think a lot of the time, we're getting it wrong. I believe that humans innately want to help, but societally, we were never taught HOW to help effectively.Whether someone we know is dealing with the aftermath of fires or natural disaster, job loss, a death, divorce/breakup, fertility issues, or health diagnoses… life is hard enough without the bombardment of platitudes and toxically positive “silver linings”.We need to learn the power of meeting people where they are in their processing, and get comfortable sitting with them in their pain. Because the world is a better place when we show up for one another.Tune in for helpful ways to support:Things you can say to someone instead of dismissive platitudesHow to support in a way that takes the burden off the ones who are sufferingBeing specific and proactive in the ways you helpOffering support tailored to your unique strengths and giftsDon't “bright side” or silver lining someone's griefLearn to ask questions and hold space for someone's griefHow to depressurize communication during crisisStick to the facts and avoid speculationPlay the long-game in support: be the friend who shows up months later, when they feel forgottenFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: Manage Seasonal Depression With Light Therapy + A Surprising Supplement Protocol, with Chloe Deutscher

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 7:28


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from past episodes that you might have missed. If you're in a cold-weather climate, your Seasonal Depression might be in full swing right about now. I've struggled with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) throughout adulthood, and I've finally started getting proactive about managing the symptoms and optimizing my wellbeing during the tough months. So I called in the biohacking pro, Chloe Deutscher, to shed more light on the importance of light therapy for combatting SAD, and the supplements that can actually make a difference in your mood.Chloe is a chemical engineer who has dedicated her career to the intersection of science, consciousness, and mental health. She's the co-founder and the CEO of Liquid Culture, a biotech company focused on novel fungi manufacturing and developing innovative products for optimal wellbeing. She shares her actionable tips, knowledge, and experience in the fields of biohacking, mental health, and psychedelics on her popular TikTok account, where she empowers people to overcome mental health challenges like ADHD, anxiety, and depression. Listen to our full episode here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    The Quickie: Sober-Curious? How I Changed My Relationship With Alcohol

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 28:11


    A lot of us are partaking in Dry January, so I wanted to share how my relationship with alcohol has changed for the better over the last year, and why I started to drink with more healthy boundaries.Whether you're sober-curious, or love drinking but want to be a bit more intentional, or you're thinking it's time to quit alcohol altogether, I hope this episode helps you feel empowered and less alone as you figure it out.My life has changed for the better since I parted ways with hangxiety. I feel like such a better version of myself, and the space that getting drunk used to take up has been filled with so many more fulfilling and healthy things.Tune in to hear more about:Why I stopped getting drunkThe repercussions I felt from over-drinkingHow booze impacts our mental health and dopamine dysregulationUsing alcohol as a bandaid for anxietyThe steps I took to change my relationship with drinkingRemembering your why and being intentional about how you spend your timeMy “rule” I now apply if I want to have a few drinksFun ideas for booze-free nights outFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: “Be Scared And Do It Anyway” - The Best Pep Talk For Overcoming Fear On Your Growth Journey, with Judi Holler

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 5:32


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. Is fear of judgment, failure, change, or even fear of fear itself holding you back from reaching your full potential? We're throwing it back to a must-hear pep-talk from Judi for reframing our relationship with fear, caring less what other people think, and building confidence so we can show up as our fullest selves.Because our goal shouldn't be to be fearless. The goal is to be courageous. To be scared, and do it anyway. Judi Holler is a keynote speaker, podcaster, best-selling author, and entrepreneur. She's built a hugely successful keynote speaking business and a top 13% podcast on iTunes, sharing the power of the CEO mindset and her powerful talks for living a courageous life without regret. Judi has been featured in Forbes and Success Magazine, she's a Second City Conservatory alumnae, and she is the hype girl that everyone needs in their corner.Listen to our full episode here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    How To Plan Your Year, Get Unstuck, Mind Map Your Goals, And Change How You Spend Your Time, with Passion Planner founder Angel Trinidad

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 54:49


    The new year self-improvement buzz can be really overwhelming if you're struggling with which goals to focus on and how to actually implement them in sustainable ways. I'm a big dreamer, but I have a hard time with organization, time management and consistency. That's why I called in the master of goal-setting and planning, the creative force behind Passion Planner, Angel Trinidad.Angel is the CEO and founder of Passion Planner, an all-in-one paper life coach, which has helped millions of people plan their goals and their lives. They have built a devoted global community of people who swear by their planners and journals.I'm so excited to share this incredible interview with you — it's a must-listen episode for setting your year and your mindset up for success with gentle productivity, creating a passion roadmap, and collaborating with your dreams.Angel shares her inspiring journey of going from lost, depressed and broke to a self-made millionaire with a mission-driven company that helps people achieve their dreams. My biggest takeaways? Vagueness creates procrastination, and the biggest antidote to hopelessness is making progress. So if you want to get unstuck and start spending your time on the things that matter, this one's for you.Tune in to hear about:Angel's journey to starting Passion PlannerThe keys to overcoming fear and procrastinationMindset shifts to get you unstuck and back in motionThe goal-setting system that helps you structure your dreams and implement the goals that will countThe importance of collaborating with your goals from a place of kindnessCreating your own passion road mapProductivity hacks for getting shit doneWhy we need to manage our time differently to change our livesAngel's powerful journaling and reflection processHow action cures fearAngel's top book recommendations for self-help and entrepreneursResources mentioned:Get started on Passion PlannerThe Never Ending Now Poetry JournalThe 4-Hour Work Week Follow Angel on Instagram Follow Passion Planner on InstagramFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: Hack Your Motivation, A Goal-Setting Framework That Works, and The Power of Visualization, with Siff Haider

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 7:59


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. Is motivation a myth? How do you set goals that actually move the needle in your life? And does visualization really work? Siff Haider reveals the goal-setting and visualization strategies she's used to to improve her health and build a wildly successful business. Siff is the co-founder of popular natural supplement and wellness brand, Arrae, which offers high-quality supplements that solve targeted issues like bloating, constipation and anxiety. She's also the host of The Dream Bigger Podcast,  where she interviews guests like Tinx, Glucose Goddess, Lauryn Bosstick, Miranda Kerr, and more, about health and wellness, entrepreneurship, beauty and self-care.Follow Siff on Instagram Check out Arrae.Listen to our full episode with Siff here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    How To Use AI To Set Effective Goals And Manifest Your Dream Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2025 29:51


    Happy New Year and WELCOME TO SEASON 4 of Teach Me How To Adult! We're kicking off 2025 with the manifesting and goal setting guide that will actually help you achieve your dreams this year. But we're about working smarter, not harder, so this year I used AI to help shape my goals, habits, and map out my big picture dream life.It all started with the viral ChatGPT trend of writing the story of a day in your future dream life. And it was a game-changer, because by letting AI handle the planning logistics, you get to dream and ideate about your future goals without limitations and mental blocks — it's like your own virtual assistant that's here to help you plan your best year yet in ways you might not have even thought about.These goal-setting exercises have been a powerful tool for building a roadmap towards my goals, breaking them down into actions I can take now, finding the gaps I currently have for getting there, and manifesting a future that now feels possible.Tune in to learn how to do it:The AI prompt to envision your dream future life - and how to iterate to get your ideal versionMy unexpected reaction to my future life storyJournal prompts to reflect on your future manifestationBridging the gap between who you are now and who you want to beUsing AI to create the 2025 goals and habits that ladder up to your future dream lifeThe power of an AI-generated daily scheduleThe keys to setting and implementing SMART, sustainable goalsCreating a powerful visualization from your AI promptI hope this helps you plan an incredible year — let me know if you try this! I'm so excited for us to thrive in 2025… I love you, and you've got this.PS: We're officially launching video podcasts this season, so you can now watch our full episodes on YouTube and Spotify!Resources mentioned:Start with our End Of Year AuditHow to set SMART goalsHow To Design A Life Of Purpose, Using IkigaiFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

    ICYMI: Survive The Holidays With This Masterclass in Boundaries, And How To Constructively Set Them, with Melissa Urban

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 8:43


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. This is our last episode of Season 3 before we break for the holidays. It's been such an incredible year filled with so much momentum and discovery, I can't wait to share everything we have in store for January when we launch Season 4, so stay tuned. Thank you for coming along for the ride this year — learning how to adult with you all is a gift, and your support means the world to me. Today, we're throwing it back to a game-changing moment from our episode with bestselling author and boundaries expert, Melissa Urban, on why we need to set boundaries, how to set them in a kind, yet clear way, and specific scripts to help you combat holiday drama.Most of us need support with boundaries more than ever during the holiday season. No matter how triggering the holidays are for you, when we use boundaries correctly, we can create more closeness and protect both ourselves and our relationships with others. So tune in as we learn Melissa's Green, Yellow and Red framework for setting boundaries, and how to proactively establish them early on in your relationships.Melissa is a six-time New York Times bestselling author, the co-founder and CEO of the wildly popular Whole30 nutritional program, and host of the Do the Thing podcast.  Melissa has helped millions of people live their best lives through the work she does in the health and mental wellness spaces. happy holidays, and I'll see you on the other side for our best year yet. Love you guys.Listen to our full episode with Melissa here!Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Melissa on InstagramBuy Melissa's book: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0735243212 Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    How To Turn Your Passion Into A Career, Bake Like A Pro, And Level Up Your Desserts, with Sarah Fennel

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2024 47:37


    It's the most wonderful time of the year: Baking season. You're in for a sweet treat today, because I spoke with one of the internet's favourite bakers, Sarah Fennel of Broma Bakery (you might know her as the recipe developer who put the viral single-serve cookies on the map.)Most of us have a thing that we love and are good at, that's currently just a hobby or dream. If you're listening to this and you WISH that thing you're passionate about could be your career, this episode is for you. Sarah and I dive deep on overcoming impostor syndrome, how to know when it's time to take the leap and go all in, figuring out how to monetize what you're good at, and how she pivoted multiple times throughout her career.And if you're here for the sweet treats… we got you. Whether baking is your whole personality, or you're a newbie who's a little overwhelmed by a stand mixer, Sarah makes baking fun and accessible. We cover everything from the biggest mistakes people make with baking, to hot insider tips that will make your desserts that much better.If you're starting to get into the holiday spirit, make sure you listen till the end for Sarah's go-to recipe recommendations for holiday entertaining.Sarah Fennel is a recipe developer, photographer, and the creator of Broma Bakery, a wildly popular baking site with millions of followers across instagram and TikTok. Her debut cookbook, Sweet Tooth: 100 Desserts to Save Room For, came out this October and was an instant New York Times, and Amazon bestseller.Tune in to hear more about:How Sarah pivoted her education and career path, and overcoming “sunken cost fallacy” The nuts and bolts of monetizing your passion and skillsOvercoming impostor syndrome and the fear that we're not “good enough” How to know when to take the leap and go all in on your passion The need for full immersion for a project to succeed Tapping back into the passions and hobbies you had in childhoodWhy baking is an act of love (and nostalgia!)How baking can help women push back against disordered eating and food fearsGo-to dessert recipes for the holiday season Sarah's hot tips that will seriously level up your baking (from tools to use, to the ingredients you should double down on)Follow Sarah on Instagram, TikTok, and on her website.Order Sarah's book, Sweet ToothThis show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerCarolyn Schissler , Designer & Web ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    ICYMI: Talking About Money With Friends Can Help You Hit Financial Goals Faster, And How To Easily Automate More Savings, with Melissa Leong

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 6:07


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. With the holidays around the corner, setting savings goals can feel like a losing battle. So we're throwing it back to some helpful tips from Melissa Leong, on how to easily and gradually automate your savings so you can set it and forget it, and why talking about money with friends can help you hit your financial goals faster. Melissa is a sought-after speaker, award-winning writer, and best-selling author of the feel-good finance guide, Happy Go Money. She is the money expert on Canada's leading daytime talk show, The Social on CTV, and she's the host of the Money Moves podcast. Listen to the full episode with Melissa here!Follow Melissa:http://www.melissaleong.com/https://www.instagram.com/lisleong/ Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    The Quickie: How To Do A Year-End Audit, Soft Launch Your 2025 Goals, And Set Your New Year Up For Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 23:29


    We are rapidly approaching the end of the year, and I am SHOOK at how fast 2024 flew by. I have a rigorous reflection process, and I always find a ton of value in tracking the highs, lows, and lessons of the year, which help inform how I move forward into the new year.You need to understand where you've been to plan where you're going, so today I'm sharing how to do a comprehensive end of year audit, and how to use this last month of the year to set yourself up for a successful 2025. Think of this as your condensed winter arc where you “soft launch” your new year goals.I cover the journaling prompts, assessments, exercises and goal-setting guides I use to evaluate my year in review, and how I transform those takeaways into actionable goals and priorities for the new year. All of this is captured in a super helpful FREE guide to goal-setting and year-end auditing, which you can download here to accompany this episode!Trust me when I say this will make it so much easier to hit the ground running on January 1st, because you won't be starting from ground zero this year.Tune in to hear more about:Leveraging the holiday slowdown to get ahead and test-drive new goals/habitsWhy we should give our new goals a trial run before January startsThe journaling prompts I use to reflect on the year's biggest lessons and takeawaysMeasuring your satisfaction using the Life Balance WheelA game-changing exercise for auditing your time and how you spent your energy this yearHoning in on areas for improvement, and setting SMART goals for each categoryThe power of a guiding quote or mantraEverything we cover in today's episode is available to download in our free year-end audit - get your guide today and get a head start on your new year planning! You've got this.Resources mentioned:End Of Year AuditHow to set SMART goalsHow To Design A Life Of Purpose, Using IkigaiThis show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host & ProducerOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerCarolyn Schissler , Designer & Web ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    ICYMI: Advice For Managing Debt, The Power Of Financial Micro Decisions, And Setting Sustainable Money Goals, with Nicole Stanley

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 6:03


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. If you're struggling with debt or moving the needle on your financial goals, this is a must-listen reminder for overcoming financial stress and toxic money patterns.A healthy money mindset is the missing ingredient for a lot of people's financial security. So we're throwing it back to this sustainable financial advice from finance coach Nicole Stanley on dealing with debt, setting realistic money goals, and her own journey to get debt-free. Nicole Stanley is the Founder & Head Financial Coach of Arise Financial Coaching. After battling crippling financial anxiety in her early twenties, Nicole enrolled in her first personal finance course and made changes to go from 30K in debt to building over a quarter-million in net worth for her family at age  27. Arise Financial Coaching has now served over 600 clients and has been featured in TIME, Yahoo Finance, & CNET.Listen to our full episode with Nicole here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Nicole:On Instagram: @arise.financial.coachingArise Financial Coaching Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    How To Succeed In Your Career By Investing In Your Reputation, Creating A Personal Brand, And Becoming A Super Networker, with Maha Abouelenein

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 29:09


    If you're looking for the cheat code to catapult your career trajectory, today's episode is a must-listen. We're learning how to succeed using our most valuable currency: our reputation, and our networks, from global communications strategist Maha Abouelenein.Our reputations matter in every area of our lives, especially in this digital age when comments, reviews and feedback are instant and public. The reality is, everyone has a personal brand — it's not just for influencers — and today you'll learn how to harness yours as a powerful tool.Maha Abouelenein is a strategic communication and personal branding expert who has handled communications for some of world's largest tech companies in the Middle East - from Google and Netflix to Udacity and Weber Shandwick. She supported the largest IPO and acquisition in Egypt's history, along with promotions and sports marketing programs for the Olympics, NASCAR, Women's Hockey, and the NFL.Maha consulted on strategic communications with the Obama administration and has worked with powerhouses like Gary Vaynerchuk and Deepak Chopra. She was honored as one of the most influential women in Dubai, and nominated as of one of Forbes Power Women of the Middle East.She's the CEO of Digital & Savvy, host of the Savvy Talk podcast, and Best-Selling Author of "7 Rules of Self-Reliance”.Ready to listen? Learn how to make yourself indispensable at work:The formula for building self-reliance, and Maha's Seven RulesHow prioritizing my reputation has served me throughout my careerHow to cultivate an authentic personal brand that stands out at workFiguring out what your unique narrative really isHow to elevate your reputation online and in personWhy it's key to be a value creator, and easy ways to add more valueHacks for networking meaningfully online and IRLWhy every leader should be prioritizing storytellingMaha's #1 tip for staying agile in an ever-changing worldHow to stop being a waiter and create your own opportunitiesThe power of strong relationshipsFollow Maha on Instagram and on her website.Listen to Maha's Podcast, Savvy Talk.Order Maha's book, 7 Rules of Self-RelianceThis show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerCarolyn Schissler , Designer & Web ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    ICYMI: Positive Psychology Hacks To Boost Your Confidence & Courage, with Komal Minhas

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 6:01


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. We could all use a confidence boost sometimes, and we're throwing it back to Komal Minhas, who drops doable research-backed tips on how to cultivate more confidence and courage to tap into our potential. Komal is an executive coach, business strategist, interviewer, and resilience educator who coaches people to build successful businesses while improving their wellbeing and mastering their mindset.She's landed a spot on Oprah's Super Soul 100 list, screened her film, Dream, Girl, at the Obama White House, and has interviewed legends like Glennon Doyle and Michelle Obama. She's overcome great adversity to accomplish so many incredible things in her life, sharing her insights and wisdom on her podcast, Lessons Learned, and in her own column for Fortune Magazine.We hope this episode helps inspire you to relentlessly pursue your full potential and believe in your damn self. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.For show notes and more adulting tips, visit: teachmehowtoadult.caFollow Komal:Komalminhas.com@komalminhas Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    How To Cultivate More Self-Trust, Self-Love, And Self-Accountability, with Afomia Hailemeskel

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2024 23:45


    I've been struggling with self-trust and self-doubt lately, so today we're diving deep on how to build more self-worth and how self-accountability is the ultimate confidence-builder, with my dear friend and self-love queen, Afomia Hailemeskel.There's nobody better to speak to about self-worth and self-trust than Afomia — she's a Certified Life Coach with a specialization in self-love, authenticity, and consent and boundaries. She's the number one hype-woman in any room, and this conversation on building self-awareness and trusting yourself is a must-listen.Tune in to hear more about:  Making big decisions when we lack self-trustPracticing self-compassion and self-awareness to build trustEmbracing a balanced approach to self-love, without toxic positivityThe importance of accountability and keeping promises to ourselvesHow neurodiversity and ADHD factor into self-trust and self-disciplineCreating incremental wins to build evidence in our abilitiesDeepening our relationships by trusting ourselves moreThe power of sustainable micro-habitsWhy building self-worth is worth the workOur show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerCarolyn Schissler, Designer & Web ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    ICYMI: Investing For Beginners, From Picking The Right Stocks To Dollar Cost Averaging, with Jessica Moorhouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 6:15


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. Is it safe to pick stocks, and what should you know as a beginner investor? Do you invest your money in large amounts, or dollar cost average into the market? And how do you prioritize sustainable investing? We're throwing it back to some solid tips and advice, like how to practice investing with test accounts, for anyone new to investing from finance expert, Jessica Moorhouse. Jessica is a millennial money expert, speaker, Accredited Financial Counsellor Canada®, award-winning blogger, host of the More Money Podcast and founder of the Millennial Money Meetup, a series of empowering personal finance events. Her mission is to teach others how to take control of their lives by taking control of their money.We hope this helps you start building your financial knowledge so you can invest with confidence.Listen to our full episode with Jessica here.Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Jessica:jessicamoorhouse.com@jessicaimoorhouseMore Money Podcast Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    Why You Shouldn't Date For Potential (Date For Progress, Instead!) | I'm The Problem, It's Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 14:45


    Welcome back to another edition of “I'm the problem, it's me”, where I call bullshit on myself for the stuff I've been getting wrong, because we learn the most through our fuck-ups.If you're listening to this, you're probably dating or thinking about dating… but please (speaking from experience!), whatever you do, don't date someone for what you think their potential is.Do not date for what someone could be and ignore what they are right now. This is what leads us to fall for the idea of people and stay much longer in bad relationships than we should… a recipe for abandoning yourself.So here's my solution. Date for progress, instead. Because we're all a work in progress.Tune in to hear about:Why the “I can fix them” attitude isn't fair to your partnerStop telling yourself stories about who someone could be and accept them for who they are nowWhy we shouldn't pressure our partners too much to changeHow to date for progress and unlock your partner's vision of their own potentialSharing and building out a vision for the futureWhy dating for a specific metric of success or money isn't always a good ideaMy framework for gaging progress and potentialOur show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerCarolyn Schissler, Designer & Web ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    The Quickie: How To Create Closer, More Connected Friendships And Feel Less Lonely

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 22:11


    Are you feeling lonely and disconnected? There's a phenomenon right now I'm seeing in friendships, where we get stuck in the “catching up” loop.As we get older and enter our “splinter era” of different schedules, different priorities, and different life stages, it can feel like our friendships constantly take the backseat. We're relegated to a one-dinner-a-month maintenance catchup that keeps us stuck in an endless loop of recounting our memories instead of making new ones.I miss the intimacy and close bonds we got in our teenage years and early 20s when sleepovers and shared meals and weekend getaways were the norms.So how do we go deeper in our friendships to create more intimacy?Tune in as I dive deep on:Why creating memories is more important than quick catchupsHow novelty and exciting experiences create lasting memoriesWhy some cities and places prioritize close community more than othersCombatting loneliness in places that feel isolatingThe case for doing monotonous daily tasks like grocery shopping togetherWhy being generous and accepting help will bring you closerSkipping the catchup coffees for a new experience or adventureWhy we need to lean into hard conversations with a goal of resolutionThe 3 Fs: Friendships, flexibility and forgivenessOur show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerCarolyn Schissler, Designer & Web ProducerSara Valentine, Content ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    ICYMI: Want A Better Sex Life? Understand Your Desire Type And Bridge The Libido Gap

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 7:13


    Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. I'm here this week to myth-bust our ideas of desire, because most of the conflict couples have around sex comes down to having different desire responses. Tune in as we throw it  back to this deep dive on how to approach different sex drives and desire types, and questions to ask if you're not having the sex you want in your relationship. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or single and ready to mingle, this will help you build a stronger sex life.Listen to the full episode here!Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    How To Overcome Fear, Self-Sabotage, And Panic Attacks To Make Quantum Leaps Towards Our Goals, with Lori Harder

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 43:07


    I've been hitting a ceiling with my upper limits lately — in love, business, and life decisions, limiting beliefs and self-sabotage have been showing all the way up. So I revisited this episode with Lori Harder, and it was a powerful reminder of how to get out of my own way… it felt right to throw it back to this top-performing episode today for anyone who needs to hear this.The biggest thing that gets in our way of the success and fulfillment we desire isn't external factors, it's ourselves. So listen in to this masterclass on how to stop upper limiting and break up self-sabotage.There's no one better suited to speak to resilience and transformation than Lori Harder, who pushed herself out of her comfort zone to go from a broke, unhealthy, anxiety-ridden introvert, to a confident and abundant self-made millionaire, speaker, podcast host, fitness world champion, and cover model. Lori is a serial entrepreneur and CEO of multiple companies, including Glōci and Lite Pink. She's a best-selling author and the host of top podcast, Earn Your Happy.Tune in as we chat about: What are quantum leaps, and how has Lori harnessed them for her success?Dealing with anxiety and panic attacksUsing fear as a compass to find our purposePractical tips to overcome public speaking anxietyOvercoming the fear of failureUsing resistance and challenge to create inner strengthHow upper limiting is holding us back from our potentialThe different disguises of self-sabotageThe power of our relationships and social circles in our successFollow Lori on Instagram and on her website.Listen to Lori's Podcast, Earn Your Happy.Order Lori's book, A Tribe Called BlissThis show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerCarolyn Schissler , Designer & Web ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    How To Improve Mental Health, Regulate Your Nervous System, And Process Trauma With Somatic Therapy, with Therapist Simone Saunders

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 48:44


    It's World Mental Health Day this week, and we're having lots of important conversations to increase awareness around emotional wellbeing. I called in Trauma Therapist Simone Saunders to learn more about somatic therapy, how our mental health impacts our physical health, and how trauma and distress shows up in our bodies.Anxiety and mental illness can show up in so many ways physically — from getting sweaty and experiencing heart palpitations or nausea, to general posture and shoulder stiffness, gut issues, and sleep problems. More and more we're seeing physical diagnoses like chronic pain and IBS linked back to trauma and nervous system dysregulation. And it doesn't always have to be a big T trauma... we talk a lot in this interview about how repeated micro traumas can build up to have the same impact. So if you want to take control of your mental health and expand your techniques and awareness, this episode is a must-listen. Simone has a Master's in Clinical Social Work, with a specialization in trauma, emotional regulation, anxiety and depression. As a trauma therapist and educator she has over 800,000 followers across her Instagram and TikTok accounts, the cognitive corner, where she helps people understand the connection between the mind and body and patterns that your nervous system engages in.Tune in to hear more about:Signs we might struggle to regulate our emotions and nervous system, and the best tools for nervous system regulationThe typical survival responses we cycle through when triggeredNavigating familial relationships or partnerships that trigger the dysregulation loopUnhelpful coping strategies that might make you feel worseCognitive bypassing: The difference between intellectualizing and feelingHow trauma manifests physicallyWhat if you can't remember your trauma?Somatic therapy techniques and processing stored traumaBuilding a life that's healthy for your nervous systemNavigating the loneliness and isolation on our mental health journeyFollow Simone on Instagram and TikTok.Our show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerCarolyn Schissler, Designer & Web ProducerSara Valentine, Content ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    ICYMI: Is Anxiety Holding You Back? Overcome Avoidance & Control With This Technique For Facing Anxieties, with Dr. Lauren Cook

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 5:44


    If you're thinking of starting a podcast, but you aren't sure where to start or how to take off — we got you. Book a call with us, and we'll help you hone in your unique idea, figure out equipment and editing, and market your show!  Check out our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast.Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. It's mental health awareness week, so we're talking all things anxiety, and how to stop it from holding you back. Anxiety is all about control, but how do we stop that control from keeping us playing it safe and avoiding our fears? Tune in as we throw it back to Dr. Lauren Cook's helpful “anxiety hierarchy” framework that helps you measure your level of anxiety when faced with challenges, and face your fears accordingly.Dr. Lauren Cook is a therapist, consultant, speaker, author and founder of Heartship Psychological Services. Specializing in anxiety, she helps individuals and couples work through generalized anxiety, phobias, social anxiety, OCD, and more. She has a podcast called The Boardroom Brain, and has written three books, including the forthcoming “Generation Anxiety: A Millennial and Gen Z Guide to Staying Afloat in an Uncertain World”. Listen to our full episode with Dr. Lauren  here!Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes.Follow Dr. Lauren:@dr.laurencookDrlaurencook.comOrder Generation Anxiety: A Millennial and Gen Z Guide to Staying Afloat in an Uncertain World Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

    Build Your Mental Health Toolkit With These 5 Expert-Backed Tips For Emotional Wellbeing

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 19:59


    We're heading into mental health awareness week, and these conversations are crucial as we face a global mental health crisis, with 1 in 3 people struggling with a mental health issue in North America.Almost every person I'm close with has been affected by mental health struggles, and I dealt with my own uncomfortable bout of anxiety and depression this September. During this tough month, I found myself referring back to some of the amazing tools and conversations I've had with guests on this podcast who shared perspective-changing insights that have changed my mindset and mental health. These are a big part of my mental health toolkit that I draw from when I need reminders, support and tools to get me through a rough patch, and I'm glad I can share them with you today.Tune in to hear advice from:Mindset coach and bestselling author, Leisse Wilcox, on having agency over your response to life's hardships, cultivating hope and optimism, and using your feelings as feedback.Clinical psychologist, Dr. Lauren Cook, on identifying the Four Ds of Distress and when to seek help from a therapist, plus the truth about how nutritional deficiencies and gut health impact anxiety.Psychotherapist and author, Whitney Goodman, on radically accepting your feelings and why we've been programmed to engage in toxic positivity.Mindfulness expert and best-selling author, Nina Purewal, on navigating the chatty mind, dealing with stress spirals, why we're addicted to negative thoughts, and CSI-ing the shit out of your thoughts.If you're struggling with your mental health, know that you're not alone. Please find someone to talk to, and know that you are loved. I hope this mental health toolkit helps you as much as it's helped me.Our show is produced by:Gillian Berner, Host, Producer & EditorOlivia Nashmi, Audio EngineerCarolyn Schissler, Designer & Web ProducerSara Valentine, Content ProducerFor advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

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