Dear Matchmaker

In this insightful episode of Dear Matchmaker, host Cat Cantrill welcomes guest Cher Anderton, a mental health therapist, speaker, and educator. They discuss the complexities of dating in today's world and the importance of self-love and self-discovery in navigating relationships. Cher shares her belief that in order to find true connection with others, we must first cultivate a healthy relationship with ourselves. The conversation also delves into common narratives singles tell themselves, the power of vulnerability, and strategies for shifting negative self-talk. Tune in for valuable insights that can help you on your journey to love!Key Highlights:Introduction of Cher Anderton and her expertise in mental health and social-emotional intelligence.Discussion on the need for personal clarity and understanding in the dating world.The dual approach to love: self-love and the need for connection with others.Overcoming negative beliefs about dating and relationships.Strategies for personal growth, including self-awareness and asking for help.Importance of curiosity in navigating dating experiences.Links Mentioned:Cher's Podcast: Make Discomfort Your Bitch PodcastCher's Book: Could It Be Better?Cher's Website: cheranderton.comJoin the Free Rolodex: Scottsdalematchmaker.comFollow Cat Cantrill on Social Media: Instagram, Facebook, TikTok @catcantrill

Join me as we reflect on how to reignite hope in your search for love, and why choosing to believe in yourself is the first step towards finding a meaningful relationship. This episode is a reminder that love starts from within and how embracing your value can transform your dating journey. In this episode, we discuss: The importance of vulnerability and taking the first step towards finding love, whether it's attending singles events or simply starting a conversation. My personal journey through difficult times and how those experiences shaped my understanding of love and self-worth. The misconception that someone else completes you, and why the most impactful relationship you'll have is the one with yourself. How to pour into yourself and become your own advocate, including practical steps to finding joy and fulfillment solo. Why having high standards is about seeking a high-value relationship rather than a “high-value” person. As we move through the new year, let this episode be your guide to putting yourself first and understanding that true love begins with choosing yourself every day. For more tips and updates, be sure to subscribe to the podcast and follow me on social media @catcantrill.

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Dear Matchmaker." Join me, as I journey into the transformative world of femininity and self-love alongside Teal Elizabeth, CEO and founder of Relax Into Love Coaching. Teal is a spiritual love and relationship coach specializing in helping high-achieving women build authentic connections through the power of feminine energy. In this episode, we delve into: The role of feminine energy in cultivating authentic relationships and inviting love into your life. Teal's personal journey of transformation from dating struggles to spiritual awakening and creating her own coaching practice. Understanding how to create space for a partner in your life, both emotionally and physically. The importance of vulnerability and emotional safety in developing deep, meaningful relationships. How women can balance independence with embracing their softer side for successful partnerships. Whether you're navigating the dating world or seeking to deepen existing relationships, Teal's insights provide a refreshing perspective on how embracing femininity can enhance your personal growth and romantic connections. For more insights and updates, follow me on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook @catcantrill. Learn more about Teal & Download her FREE Relax into Love Guided Meditations here: https://www.tealelisabeth.com/meditations Follow her on IG here: https://www.instagram.com/tealelisabeth_/ Book a complimentary 30 minute free love breakthrough call with Teal here: https://calendly.com/tealeriege/freecall --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cat-cantrill5/support

In this engaging episode of "Dear Matchmaker," I invite you into my world as I share my personal journey from running a dance studio to becoming a dedicated matchmaker and dating coach. My story is one of resilience, transformation, and the passion for helping others find meaningful connections. Join me as I chat with Jose and Brittany on the "Finding Arizona" podcast, revealing how my life's challenges and triumphs guided me to the fulfilling world of matchmaking. From my early days as a dancer to navigating life as a single mother, my path is filled with pivotal moments that led me to where I am today. In this episode, I discuss: My transformation from post-divorce rediscovery to becoming a matchmaker, guiding others on their love journeys. How my dance studio reignited my passion for community, connection, and personal growth. The power of curiosity over chemistry in building lasting relationships and the importance of being truly seen and appreciated. My approach to helping clients enhance their dating lives through first impressions, effort, and authenticity. Exciting developments for my matchmaking business in Scottsdale and Phoenix, including an upcoming ribbon-cutting event. Learn where you can connect with me online and follow my journey on social media and through my podcast, "Dear Matchmaker," available on all major streaming platforms. Join me as I share insights and inspiration to transform your own approach to love and relationships. For more details and updates, visit Scottsdalematchmaker.com and follow me on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook @catcantrill --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cat-cantrill5/support

In this thought-provoking episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we address the common pitfalls people encounter in the world of online dating. Many singles approach dating apps with skepticism, assuming that finding a meaningful connection online is improbable. However, with 60% of couples meeting online today, there's a need to shift this mindset. Join me as I highlight the importance of moving beyond assumptions and embracing an open-minded approach to online dating. Discover how saying 'yes' more often to profiles that pique your curiosity can lead you to unexpected and fulfilling connections. In this episode, we discuss: The assumptions that often lead women to miss out on potential matches, emphasizing a shift from focusing on photos to understanding bios. Tips for assessing profiles genuinely and looking beyond superficial traits for compatibility. Encouraging an open-minded approach to dating, allowing yourself to explore connections with those who may not be your 'type.' Strategies for cultivating a positive mindset that welcomes the possibilities of finding love online. The transformative impact of viewing profiles with curiosity, prioritizing communication and shared values. Challenge your online dating approach by embracing curiosity and the opportunities waiting to unfold. Reflect on whether your assumptions are holding you back from meeting someone who truly complements your life. For further insights and to share your thoughts on this episode, follow me on TikTok and Instagram @catcantrill. Dive into this journey of discovering meaningful connections, starting with an open and receptive mindset. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cat-cantrill5/support

In this unique and introspective episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we explore the concept of self-love and how it can transform your approach to relationships. Drawing inspiration from Don Miguel Ruiz's book, "The Mastery of Love," we dive into the profound metaphor of the "magical kitchen" within your heart, highlighting the boundless love we possess and the power it holds in shaping our romantic lives. Join me as I share a transformative story that encourages you to embrace the abundance of love within yourself, rather than seeking validation and fulfillment solely through others. This episode offers a powerful reminder of the importance of self-acceptance and understanding your worth as integral steps in finding meaningful connections. In this episode, we discuss: The concept of the "magical kitchen": How recognizing the love within you can empower your relationship choices. The pitfalls of seeking external validation and how it leads to dependency and dissatisfaction. Why self-love is the foundation for healthier, more fulfilling relationships, allowing you to share love freely and fearlessly. How embracing self-worth can help you identify and avoid relationships that don't serve your well-being. Encouraging self-reflection on whether your heart is open to giving love without expectation and welcoming love that complements your life. Find me: www.scottsdalematchmaker.com & www.theheartagency.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/catcantrill/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@catcantrill --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cat-cantrill5/support

Join us for a special episode of "Dear Matchmaker," recorded live at the Iowa Podcast Awards. In this engaging session, we dive deep into the challenges and questions that singles face in the world of modern dating, offering practical advice and strategies for success. In this episode, we explore: Strategies for Communicating Relationship Goals: How to express your intentions confidently and clearly without fear of scaring off potential partners. Crafting Unique Conversations on Dating Apps: Tips for avoiding generic openers and creating personalized, engaging interactions that reflect genuine interest. Establishing Healthy Boundaries: How to set personal limits early in dating to pave the way for balanced and respectful relationships. Understanding Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Recognizing the difference and focusing on long-term compatibility over initial attraction. Embracing Rejection as Redirection: Viewing each “no” as a step closer to the right “yes,” and maintaining self-confidence through self-awareness and recognition of personal strengths. Creating an Authentic Online Dating Profile: Tips on showcasing your true self through photos and profiles that highlight what life with you could be like. Alternative Ways to Meet People: Exploring offline opportunities and the importance of being open to initiating conversations in real life. For more dating advice and updates, follow me on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook @catcantrill. Thank you to Upload Media Group & Iowa Podcast Awards for this opportunity! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cat-cantrill5/support

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," engage in a thought-provoking conversation with the insightful Dr. Lilli, a naturopathic doctor and relationship expert dedicated to helping individuals transform their relationship patterns and cultivate self-love. Dr. Lilli's journey from overcoming personal trauma and self-doubt to empowering others is both powerful and enlightening, offering listeners a roadmap to emotional healing and personal growth. Join us as Dr. Lilli shares her transformative story and the holistic techniques she employs to guide clients toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Discover how she combines her background in neuroscience and psychology with her experience in naturopathic medicine to address underlying beliefs and promote genuine self-love. In this episode, we delve into: Dr. Lilli's personal journey of overcoming codependency and limiting beliefs, leading her to support others in healing their relationship patterns. The significant role of holistic practices in facilitating emotional and physical well-being. Strategies for building a strong self-relationship that serve as a foundation for healthier connections with others. The power of questioning negative self-talk and societal standards to foster self-acceptance and confidence. Encouraging a mindset shift from fearing rejection to embracing personal value and authenticity. Practical advice on how to view oneself with unconditional love and cultivate self-worth as a daily practice. Dr. Lilli's insights are invaluable for anyone looking to transform their approach to relationships and self-care. To connect with Dr. Lilli and explore her teachings further, follow her on Instagram at @confidence.reclaimed. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to embrace a vibrant and empowered personal journey. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cat-cantrill5/support

In this empowering episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we dive deep into the world of health and wellness with Mindi, a dynamic and down-to-earth health coach with nearly 20 years of experience. With a focus on personalized health journeys, Mindi sheds light on her methods to help women of all ages define what "being healthy" truly means to them. Join us as we explore how self-worth, lifestyle changes, and incremental steps can transform your health journey and boost your dating confidence! Show Notes: Introduction: Meeting Mindi and her journey into health coaching. The importance of defining personal health and wellness. Mindi's philosophy: Realistic and sustainable health habits. The impact of diet and nutrition on overall well-being. Navigating menopause and understanding women's health issues in midlife. Addressing societal pressures and judgment about personal health choices. Building confidence through small changes and self-discovery. Parallels between health journeys and dating experiences. Insights on customizing your health plan to align with personal goals. How to deal with external opinions and focus on inner growth. Highlight on Mindi's book, "Be Real, Be Healthy," and more resources. Resources & Links: For more on Mindi's coaching and her book, visit BeRealBeHealthy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cat-cantrill5/support

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we sit down with the warm and insightful Janice, a dedicated breakup coach and self-care advocate. Janice's path from early marriage and heartbreaking divorce to becoming a guide for others navigating similar waters is as inspiring as it is enlightening. Her personal transformation laid the foundation for her approach to helping clients overcome relationship tumult and embrace new beginnings. Join us as Janice shares her journey and the tools she developed—which are now helping so many find happiness post-breakup. Discover how she transforms heartache into healing, emphasizing the radical self-care that can turn life around and the fresh perspectives needed to move forward. In this episode, we delve into: Janice's personal story of marriage, divorce, and personal growth, leading her to support others in overcoming breakups. The profound impact of crafting new daily routines to facilitate emotional healing. The reality of "breakup brain" and how mindfulness can redirect lingering thoughts of past relationships. How Janice encourages embracing single life, transforming it into a period of self-love, independence, and vibrant opportunities. The importance of developing confidence and understanding that being single does not equate to loneliness, but rather offers a powerful chance for self-discovery. Practical advice on prioritizing self-investment and preparing for future, healthy relationships through self-confidence and readiness. Janice's insights are a beacon for those at any stage of post-breakup recovery looking to reclaim their life with enthusiasm and joy. To connect with Janice and learn more about her coaching, visit her on Instagram @janicefromachela. This episode is perfect for anyone ready to transform their narrative and embrace a fulfilling new chapter.

In this episode of Dear Matchmaker, we're joined by the brilliant and hilarious Karen Seltz, a Rapid Resolution Therapy (RRT) Facilitator, subconscious mind rewiring expert, and badass coach. Karen's journey of overcoming addiction and depression using the same mind-rewiring techniques she now offers her clients is both powerful and inspiring. Known for her blend of nerdy humor and life-changing coaching, Karen shares how she helps people release the past, rewire their brains for success, and embody new, fun, and automatic behaviors that bring joy and ease into their lives. We explore Karen's playful approach to personal transformation, including why she believes learning happens best through play, and how she uses RRT to remove mental glitches, guiding her clients toward a future full of freedom and possibility. This episode is packed with insights, laughter, and practical tips for stepping boldly into a brighter, more authentic version of yourself. Key Discussion Points: Karen's personal journey of overcoming depression and addiction using Rapid Resolution Therapy (RRT) How RRT helps remove mental glitches and rewire the brain for desired thoughts and behaviors The importance of play in learning and creating lasting transformation How Karen uses humor, joy, and playfulness to guide clients toward deeper healing and lasting success The role of embodiment in making new habits automatic, natural, and easy Why Karen believes it's her responsibility to cause shifts in her clients, not just guide them Practical tips for releasing the past and stepping boldly into your future Download Her FREE Relaxation Meditation: https://karenseltz.us17.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=c12a1c94a9adc8c53ce37cc00&id=7a17e7c95a To book a FREE Purpose Clarity Call, click here: https://calendly.com/karenseltz/purpose Website: https://karenseltz.com Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/Karenseltzvideocoach Facebook Personal Page: https://www.facebook.com/karen.seltz/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNchyaTjHb22lguEzwFLTOg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenseltz/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karen-seltz-m-ed-64469093/ TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@karenseltz9

In this heartfelt 100th episode of Dear Matchmaker, we reflect on the incredible journey of the podcast and share our top six pieces of dating advice for 2024. Drawing on her years of experience as a matchmaker, Cat covers: Why people often don't really know what they're looking for in a partner. How dating is a skill set—and a bit of a numbers game. Expanding your age range when dating. The importance of first impressions and why how you present yourself matters. Avoiding the trap of "opinion shopping" and letting go of your type. Why it's critical to make room for new love by releasing the grip of past relationships. You can find out more information here: www.theheartagency.com Please vote for us for the Iowa Podcast Awards here: https://www.iowapodcastawards.com/vote

In this special episode of Dear Matchmaker, your host Cat Cantrill shares her top ten commandments to guide you through your first date with confidence and poise. Whether you're new to dating or a seasoned pro, Cat's advice offers a fresh perspective on how to make your first date memorable and successful. This episode is designed as your go-to guide, something you can revisit whenever you need a quick refresher before stepping out on that all-important first date. Cat's insights are practical, easy to follow, and aimed at helping you navigate the dating world with ease. Plus, Cat shares an exciting update about Dear Matchmaker being nominated for the People's Choice Award at the Iowa Podcast Awards! Don't forget to cast your vote and show your support. If you're looking for personalized advice, Cat reminds you that sometimes all it takes is a consultation to shift your mindset and get you on the right path. Visit TheHeartAgency.com for more details. And, of course, stay connected with Cat on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook @CatCantrill for more tips, inspiration, and dating wisdom. Key Takeaways: Cat's Ten Commandments for First Dates How to prepare mentally and emotionally for your date The importance of being yourself and staying present Why revisiting this episode can help boost your confidence Vote here for the People's Choice Awards. Make sure and vote! https://www.iowapodcastawards.com/vote

Show Notes: In this episode of Dear Matchmaker, we dive deep into the reasons behind hesitation in relationships and the importance of seeking clarity. If you find yourself stuck, unsure, or hesitant about pursuing a long-term relationship, this episode is for you. Key Takeaways: The significance of self-awareness in dating and relationships. Why seeking therapy might be the key to unlocking the barriers holding you back from meaningful connections. Understanding how past relationships and upbringing can influence your current hesitations. The importance of being honest with yourself and others about your intentions in relationships. Quick Reminders: Dear Matchmaker is a labor of love, brought to you by The Heart Agency and Dress for Love. We offer matchmaking, dating coaching, image consulting, and singles events to help you find and nurture true love. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and follow Cat Cantrill on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook @CatCantrill.

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat introduces her new 2-3-5 formula, a simple yet powerful approach to navigating the early stages of dating. Cat explains the significance of asking yourself two key questions after each date, giving a connection at least three dates to develop, and identifying five core values or must-haves in a partner. With her signature blend of wisdom and humor, Cat emphasizes the importance of staying curious and open-minded in your dating journey.  What to know your core values? Click here: https://personalvalu.es/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/catcantrill/ TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@catcantrill FInd out more about our services here: www.theheartagency.com  

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  It's great to be back!  You can follow me here: https://www.tiktok.com/@catcantrill https://www.instagram.com/catcantrill/ https://www.facebook.com/catcantrill/ 

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Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Join me in this special episode from the hosts of 'Othered" where we talk all things matchmaking, dating and connection!  You can find Othered here: https://uploadmediagroup.com/othered And here: https://www.instagram.com/otheredthepodcast/  

Welcome Jean Atman to Dear Matchmaker!  Jean is a Soul Evolution Specialist and Quantum Healer. She assists purpose-driven women to embark on a soul-stirring journey of self-discovery, unearthing their true purpose and bravely confronting and releasing the shackles of their past. As they let go of old wounds, they free themselves to embody a brighter future and fully step into their limitless potential, embracing the powerful vision of who they can be. You can find her here: https://www.facebook.com/JeanAtmanEnergyAlchemist/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-NrTBudMteZpdUjDmY8Smg

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat addresses three key pet peeves in online dating. First, she advises against demanding confirmation on the day of a date, arguing that it stems from insecurity and fear. Second, Cat discourages putting pressure on potential future dates immediately after the first encounter, suggesting instead to give both parties time to process and reflect. Finally, she advocates for presenting one's best self in online dating profiles, likening it to preparing for a job interview. Cat's advice centers on fostering healthy communication, setting realistic expectations, and prioritizing self-confidence in the dating journey.

In this heartwarming episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' your host, Cat, invites you on a journey to explore the transformative power of shifting your mindset when it comes to dating and relationships. With genuine warmth, Cat urges us to embrace the beauty of life's positives, encouraging us to leave behind the nagging thoughts of what we may lack. Cat shares insightful perspectives on the evolution of dating, reminding us that the quest for romance and enduring partnerships is a relatively recent development, made even more complex in the era of online connections. She delves into attachment theory, unraveling how our upbringing shapes our behavior within relationships, making the topic feel like a heartfelt conversation with an old friend. Drawing from her own life experiences, Cat opens up about her personal triumphs over adversity, instilling in us the belief that we too can conquer challenging circumstances. She lovingly encourages us to take a moment to reflect on our own achievements and guides us through a New Year's exercise – listing ten things we are truly proud of and setting heartfelt intentions for the future. As the episode draws to a close, Cat leaves us with a powerful message of hope and a gentle reminder that love has a way of finding us when we radiate joy and positivity throughout our lives. Tune in, as Cat's warm and relatable storytelling will leave you inspired to embrace a brighter, love-filled future.

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat delves into the intriguing world of first impressions and the pivotal role that one's image plays on a first date. She explores the significance of appearance, clothing choices, body language, and grooming in shaping initial perceptions. Discover how these elements can influence attraction, chemistry, and the overall success of a burgeoning romantic connection. Tune in to gain valuable tips and strategies for making an unforgettable first impression on your next date. Don't miss this episode's deep dive into the importance of image in the world of modern dating.

In this enlightening episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' we are thrilled to welcome Kristin Sokol, a seasoned Science-Based Dating Coach with nearly two decades of expertise in the field. Kristin, a graduate from the University of Texas with a specialization in coaching and holding a prestigious ICF Professional Certified Coach credential, brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table. Our conversation delves into Kristin's unique and successful formula, designed to transition individuals from singlehood to marriage within a time frame of 6 to 18 months. We explore the practical steps, psychological insights, and strategic approaches that Kristin employs in her coaching practice, which have contributed to the successful marital journeys of numerous clients. Kristin's methods are not just about finding a match but also about personal growth and readiness for a committed relationship. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a scientific and structured approach to dating, aiming for a meaningful and lasting partnership. Join us as we uncover the secrets to accelerating your journey from being single to saying 'I do.' You can find Kristin here: https://www.instagram.com/kristinsokol/ https://www.facebook.com/KristinSokolCoach https://kristinsokol.com/

In this solo episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' we take a heartfelt look into the nuanced world of dating with a significant age gap. Drawing from both personal insights and shared experiences, I delve into the complexities and challenges that couples face when there's a notable age difference between them. From navigating societal judgments to balancing different life stages and understanding the dynamics of maturity and power, this episode sheds light on the realities of age-gap relationships. Join me as I explore how these unique partnerships can thrive despite the obstacles, offering advice and support to those who find love outside the conventional age boundaries. More about my services: www.theheartagency.com Submit your question: www.dearmatchmaker.com 

In this eye-opening episode of 'Dear Matchmaker', we tackle the frequently voiced concern: "Why can't I find a good man?" Join us as we delve into the heart of this question, exploring the possibility that often, the right men might be right before our eyes. We discuss how societal changes are encouraging men to address their inner traumas and emotional health, making them more open and ready for deep, meaningful connections. This episode aims to shift perspectives, encouraging women to recognize and welcome the emotionally mature, self-aware men who are emerging in today's dating world. Tune in to discover how opening your heart and adjusting your viewpoint could reveal that the good men you seek have been there all along.

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  Join me for a unique episode as I get interviewed by Dean & Miles from The Legion Lifestyle Podcast where we discuss all things dating, sex, attachment styles and more!  Want more information about Cat?  Visit here: www.theheartagency.com 

Dear listeners, join me, Cat Cantrill, in a deeply personal exploration of what it means to step back into the dating world as a single mom in this week's episode of "Dear Matchmaker." In today's heart-to-heart episode, I'll be sharing stories and gentle advice from my own experiences, weaving through the joys and hurdles of merging the delicate worlds of new love and parenthood.  Want more information about my services?  Click here:  www.theheartagency.com Want to submit your own question?   www.dearmatchmaker.com

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  Join us as we dive deep into the mysterious world of 'ghosting' – the unsettling act of ending a relationship by suddenly going silent without any explanation. In this introspective episode, we draw from personal anecdotes, listener experiences, and my own understanding to unpack the psychology behind ghosting. Discover why some choose to disappear rather than face confrontation and the emotional aftermath it leaves in its wake.  For more information about Cat, click here: www.theheartagency.com 

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In today's digital age, where instant messaging is second nature, have we lost the beauty of anticipation? This episode delves deep into the art and psychology of communication, specifically focusing on the period leading up to the coveted first date. We explore why resisting the urge to text might not only heighten excitement and curiosity but also set the stage for a more authentic connection. Whether you're swiping right or have been set up the old-fashioned way, this episode might make you reconsider reaching for your phone. So, before you hit send on that emoji or GIF, give this a listen – it could transform your dating game! Submit your own question here: www.dearmatchmaker.com More information about my stuff here: www.theheartagency.com 

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Please help me welcome Linda Clemons!  Linda Clemons is a charismatic speaker and corporate trainer with more than three decades' experience helping clients boost their sales. As a nonverbal communications expert, she provides sales and leadership teams with an awareness of how body language can improve performance and outcomes. Based in Indianapolis, Indiana, Linda is the CEO of Sisterpreneur® Inc, an organization that educates and empowers female entrepreneurs to become successful and reach their goals through self-empowerment and entrepreneurial training. Linda is a Body Language Expert trained and certified in Analytic Interviewing and Statement Analysis,™ a process used to detect deception. She is an award-winning, record-setting sales producer, as well as one of the top sales trainers in the world. Utilizing her multifaceted skills, Linda has generated over $2 billion in sales for her clients in the hospitality, travel, and luxury lifestyle industries. You can find her free ebook here: https://lindaclemonsebooks.com/products/linda-clemons-ebook  Website: https://lindaclemons.com/  Body Language Course: https://www.mindvalley.com/attraction?otag=linda-clemons-quest-aff  Have a question?  Submit it to me at www.dearmatchmaker.com  Find more about me here: www.theheartagency.com   

Welcome to another episode to Dear Matchmaker! In this week's episode, we talk about the topic of intimidating men and whether women should be concerned or change themselves. I share my own personal experience of being told I was intimidating and how I initially considered changing myself to attract love.  Take a listen!  You can find more info about my services here: www.theheartagency.com  Want to get on the waitlist for my upcoming retreat?  Click here: https://theheartagency.com/retreats/ Want to submit a question?  Click here: www.dearmatchmaker.com 

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!    In this episode, I discuss the difference between dating for Mr. or Ms. Right Now versus dating for a long-term partner. I talk about the importance of compatibility and vulnerability in a relationship. I also touch on the challenges of dating someone significantly younger or older and the importance of shared values and goals.   Its time to stop settling for short-term relationships and to hold out for a compatible long-term partner.    You can find more info about me here: www.theheartagency.com   You can email me here: cat@theheartagency.com         

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In this week's episode, I do a bit of a catsplanation of what a TRUE red flag is.  I dive into the issue that people are very quick to label others and the lack of empathy in the dating world. Take a listen!  Website: www.theheartagency.com Submit a question: www.dearmatchmaker.com Email me: cat@theheartagency.com 

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  On this episode, Cat interviews Treva Brandon Scharf an International Coaching Federation-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness professional, midlife marriage first-timer, and author of Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love. www.trevabrandonscharf.com Podcast Done Being Single  https://donebeingsingle.com/ Here is where you can find Treva: https://www.instagram.com/trevabme/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/trevabrandonscharf/  https://twitter.com/trevabme  https://www.facebook.com/treva.brandonscharf Want to join the waitlist for my retreat Spring 2024? Click here to email me: cat@theheartagency.com  More info about Cat: www.theheartagency.com   

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  This week, I have a very special guest, Astrologer Lucy Porter! Lucy Porter is an Astrologer focused on love, sex and relationships. Her passion is the re-emergence of mysticism in a humorous, accessible and juicy way. She is an initiated High Priestess & Certified Matchmaker, she calls herself a ‘Priestess in the City'—like a spiritual Carrie Bradshaw who walks around with a bunch of sage, instead of a Marlboro Light! Come and listen as we talk about love, astrology, matchmaking and so much more!  You can find Lucy: https://www.instagram.com/lucy.porter.portal www.lucy-porter.com If you wish to submit a question to Dear Matchmaker, go to www.dearmatchmaker.com For more information about my services, go to www.theheartagency.com  Follow me on IG: https://instagram.com/catcantrill    

On this episode of Dear Matchmaker Cat gives her Cat-spin on the topic “Love Bombing”, What is it? The difference between Love Bombing and Anxious Attachment, The 4 Phases of love bombing, and the 9 Signs you should look for to avoid this toxic behavior.  Link to previous episodes: Love Addiction, Codependency & Narcissism  My Love Story  Visit Us: www.theheartagency.com Email us: matchmaker@theheartagency.com

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  Today's episode, I have a special guest - Men's Dating Coach Ege Reynolds.  In this episode, Ege shares his own personal journey as an introverted man in the dating world and how it led him to become a dating coach. Ege shares the four principles he teaches to help his clients create the greatest connection.   We discuss how introverts can date with confidence and so much more!   A little bit about Ege: Ege Reynolds is a former software engineer who is now the founder & CEO of the Charming Man, helping genuine, analytical men attract & date women authentically. He's passionate about using dating as a vehicle to help men step into their higher self & helps his clients transform holistically through the REEL Attraction System. He helps these men become more attractive to women by focusing on four principles: Relaxation, Expression, Empathy & Leading. These principles guide our clients like a compass for their dating lives & allow them to meet and date women in a sustainable way that is a win for them & the women they meet. Here is where you can find Ege:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realcharmingman/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ege.reynolds/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCharmingMan/

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In this episode I talk about my first relationship out of my divorce.  This one is a doozy!   Here is the episode I refer to in this episode: https://pod.link/1551679405/episode/973d055e40068550fb7cf5b96268c5ec  Do you have a question or a dating story for me?  Send me your questions at www.dearmatchmaker.com. You can find all my information at www.theheartagency.com.

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  In this week's episode, I answer a question submitted to me by IG: "How do you accept generosity and intention from your partner?  This is all new to me!" Do you have a question for me?  Submit it at www.dearmatchmaker.com You can find out more information about The Heart Agency here: www.theheartagency.com  

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  This week I interview my fiancé Brian!  Take a listen!  You can see the video I mention in the episode here:  https://youtu.be/hU28vBcTthA  You can sign up for our Free workshop this Monday - click here: https://alltakes.com/the-agency/beyourownvalentine  You can find out more information about my services here: www.theheartagency.com 

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  In this episode I answer the question:  "How do you heal from past relationship trauma so you don't sabotage your new relationship?" If you wish to ask a question, you can submit yours here:  www.dearmatchmaker.com To find out more info, go here: www.theheartagency.com     

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  In today's episode, I get the honor of interviewing my colleague and friend, May Bugenhagen.   May Bugenhagen is a Professional Matchmaker and dating and relationship coach. May is the owner of the boutique matchmaking company Two Asian Matchmakers. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Huffington Post, and many other publications. May lives in Colorado with her husband, two dogs, and three cats. May helps men all across the United States find an amazing Asian partner. Men, ages 35-75, are the paying clients and Asian women join the database for free. May vets the clients, makes the matches based on intuition and raw data, and has enjoyed a 71% success rate. In this episode, we talk about the common dating mistakes singles make when attracting the love they deserve.  From online dating to being "too picky", May and I have an open conversation about mistakes daters make and what you can do to create more connection in your life.  Want to connect with May?  You can find all her information here: https://www.TwoAsianMatchmakers.com https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermay/ https://twitter.com/AsianMatchmaker https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakers www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88 https://www.youtube.com/@TwoAsianMatchmakers  Want more information about my services?  Check this out: www.theheartagency.com Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catcantrill/ 

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  January is right around the corner and everyone is thinking about creating a dating profile.  I am here to help you pick the right photos to get the best results.   In this episode, I share: 1. How many photos you should upload; 2. What poses and types of photos you should use; 3. Which colors men and women should wear; 4. The importance of great online photos; And More!  Interested in working together to get you great results with your profile?  Click below to schedule your free consultation!  https://portal.theheartagency.com/public/schedulerGroup/6379250a3be8eaa17dc5f62a  Want to know more about my services?  Click below: www.theheartagency.com Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catcantrill/   

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  This week I welcome my friend, Barb Ranck to talk about all things enneagram!   Barb is a passionate educator and coach, having over 25 years' experience in the corporate workplace. It wasn't until she became a certified life coach that Barb knew she had found her calling. Barb loves helping people understand what motivates them, what drains them, and how to best manage their energy to get the outcomes they want most, at life and at work. In this episode we talk about: 1.  The importance of knowing your enneagram number; 2. How the enneagram plays an important role in all your relationships; 3. What each enneargam number is and how it reacts under stress; 4. What each enneagram's needs are... And so much more!  You can find out more about the enneagram here (mentioned in this episode): https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/the-enneagram-type-combinations  You can find Barb here: https://www.facebook.com/cilifecoach  https://www.linkedin.com/in/barb-ranck-enneagram-and-acc-coach-credentialed-8a6294/ You can find out more about The Heart Agency here: www.theheartagency.com  You can submit your question to Dear Matchmaker here: www.dearmatchmaker.com       

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker!  In this episode I answer the question: "Is there validity to the “transition person” theory?  Where You never want to be the first person someone dates after they are divorced or widowed?     I've seen the results both ways, good and bad. I know it's situational based on each person but would love to hear your viewpoint on that. Maybe others would too. "   In this episode I discuss:   1. My own personal story of dating Brian through his divorce; 2. My philosphy on the "all or nothing" thinking when dating; 3. My exception to the rule to date someone who is going through a divorce; 4. How the comparison game can lead you to lonliness    And More!    Want to take advantage of my Black Friday special?  Click here: https://theheartagency.com/products/the-dating-blueprint-find-love-faster    Want to submit a question for Dear Matchmaker? Go here: https://dearmatchmaker.com/contact-us/    Here is the episode about dating through divorce: https://pod.link/1551679405/episode/10e3886ebdb4e932901b268bcc1f4af2 

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  In this episode, we cover every singles favorite topic - Cuffing Season. How do you prevent yourself from settling this cuffing season?  Listen up! I give you my top 3 ways on how you can surivive!  You can find the previous episode mentioned here:  https://pod.link/1551679405/episode/ef36b113e30f60d5a2da825f7fdfae30  Access Cat's Align 9: Email me at cat@theheartagency.com  Book Your Pivot Call Here:  https://theheartagency.com/pages/40-minute-pivot-call-with-cat 

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Please help me welcome back Kim Coffin back to Dear Matchmaker!  Kim is a Trauma Informed Somatic Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, as well as an Empowerment & Sexuality Coach, Female Sexuality Coach, Tantric Sex Coach and founder of Get Your Sexy Back! She specializes in empowerment, confidence, creating trust and safety in our bodies and in our minds, self-love, pleasure, sensuality, intimacy with self and in relationships, as well as relationship transformation for couples, jade egg, tantra and sacred sexuality. Kim teaches singles and couples how to RECONNECT to their body, ACTIVATE their turn-on, HEAL heartbreak & shame at a body-based level, RECLAIM the places they've been disempowered, so they can come back into their body and step into their UNAPOLOGETIC POWER through sacred sexuality. In their relationships, in their businesses, in their body and in their lives. In this epsiode we cover: *How Tantra can help you reconnect with self,  *Addressing the stories we are carrying in our bodies and how its important to find true love, *How you can practice sacred sexuality alone; And so much more! You can get more from Kim here… Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ Private Facebook Group - Get Your Sexy Back - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/ Sacred Pleasure Membership - https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/ Complimentary Discovery Call - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/complimentary-discovery-call Free Grounding & Balancing Practice - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6091f3920c791ef19c21c8ef

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  I am thrilled to bring Kirstie Wilson to the show!   Kirstie is a weight loss coach who works with women 45+ to build a sustainable lifestyle for lasting weight loss. Staunchly against the diet culture, Kirstie has developed a program that helps women design their optimal eating and activity plan, as well as guides them on managing their stress and improving their sleep. Truly a wellness program, Kirstie is passionate helping women live a thriving "third act" In this epsiode, we speak to the common mindset issues behind finding love and weight loss.  Kirstie and I discuss the importance of making yourself a priority and giving yourself the permission to invest in you. If you want more infomation about Kirstie, you can find out more here: Website:  https://wellwomencoaching.com/home  Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/strong50swomen You can find out more about The Agency here: www.theheartagency.com Follow me here on IG: www.instagram.com/catcantrill Follow me here on FB: www.facebook.com/catcantrill Submit your question here: www.dearmatchmaker.com  

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Ahhhh, yes.  I am sure you have heard this a million times.  Come and join me as I unwrap the truth about this phenomenon.  Here are the links I discussed in the episode: Brian's Movie for Me: https://youtu.be/hU28vBcTthA Online Dating and How You Have it All Wrong: https://www.alltakes.com/the-agency/online-dating  Quiz: https://theheartagency.com/pages/quiz  Dear Matchmaker: www.dearmatchmaker.com 

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  This week I welcome the beautiful & talented Celeste Moore to Dear Matchmaker.   Celeste Moore is a personal image and dating consultant for men. Like the female version of Will Smith in Hitch, she gives them the confidence they need by helping them look and feel better about themselves, so they can step out of their comfort zones and into the arms of a compatible partner. In this week's episode, we cover: -Men's top concerns when it comes to image and dating; -What do you do when you don't know what your style is; -Color theory and what each color represents  And more!  You can find Celeste here: IG: @celestemooreimage LinkedIn-Celeste Moore Website: https://celestemoore.com/  Podcast: The Down and Dirty with Celeste Moore  

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  This week I answer the question, "Is it ok to ask my date for something casual?" You can find more informaiton about us at www.theheartagency.com. IG: www.instagram.com/catcantrill Facebook: www.facebook.com/catcantrill