#getUnstuck with Heather Newman

DESCRIPTION Have you ever felt like you're waiting for motivation to finally show up before you make a change? In this episode of the Get Unstuck Podcast, Heather shares why she's focusing less on motivation and more on momentum—and how that simple shift can change everything. From movement and wellness to creating a beautiful lifestyle, growing a business, and reinventing yourself in midlife, this episode is a reminder that transformation doesn't happen all at once. It happens through the small choices we make every day. If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, uninspired, or disconnected from the woman you want to become, this conversation will encourage you to stop waiting and start moving. Because the goal isn't perfection. The goal is creating a beautiful life in motion. In this episode: ✨ Why motivation is overrated ✨ The power of momentum and consistency ✨ How small daily decisions create big life changes ✨ Reinventing yourself at any age ✨ Creating a lifestyle that feels aligned, energized, and beautiful Connect with Heather at GLITTERU.COM and join us as we create stronger bodies, healthier habits, and more beautiful lives—one step at a time. #GetUnstuckPodcast #BeautifulLifeInMotion #WomenOver50 #Reinvention #HealthyLifestyle #MomentumOverMotivation #PersonalGrowth #MidlifeWellness #BoomAndTone #GLITTERU XOXH✌

Have you ever felt exhausted trying to keep up with all the wellness advice online? Lyft heavier, Push Harder, do more. In this episode of get unstuck, HEATHER NEWMAN shares a refreshing perspective on health, fitness and creating a life that actually feels good to live. If you've been feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to optimize everything, this conversation will remind you that wellness doesn't have to feel like punishment. Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is choose movement, habits, and routines that bring you joy. This episode is for women who are ready to stop forcing and start living.

EPISODE 340: FIND YOUR SPARKLE AGAIN ✨ What if the reason you feel stuck, disconnected, or “off” has nothing to do with needing more motivation? What if you've simply drifted away from yourself? In this episode, Heather shares a personal reflection on slowing down, listening to your own inner wisdom, and finding your sparkle again—not through perfection, weight loss, productivity, or keeping up with everyone else, but by returning to what genuinely feels good to you. From giving up acrylic nails and letting go of things that no longer bring joy, to redefining self-care, confidence, and authenticity, this episode is an invitation to stop living according to society's expectations and start living according to your own peace. Inside this episode: • What “Let It Be” has been teaching me lately • Why feeling good matters more than looking good • The hidden ways we lose ourselves trying to fit in • How to reconnect with your authentic sparkle • Why your energy is your greatest asset • A fresh perspective on wellness, self-care, and confidence Ready to feel more like YOU again? Join our June 21-Day Challenge inside TONE: TONEN10.com Explore BOOM, my daily mindset and life coaching practice: GlitterU.com/boom Love you. Let's get unstuck together. ✨

You hit 50 and suddenly it feels like everything takes more effort. The weight doesn't move like it used to. Your energy isn't what it was. Recovery takes longer. And some days it feels like your body has changed overnight. But is it really that your body requires dramatically more work? Or is it that the rules have changed? In this episode, Heather Newman shares what she's learned from more then 33 years in the fitness industry working with thousands of women, navigating midlife, menopause, aging, body changes, inflammation, muscle loss, and shifting metabolism. You'll learn why movement becomes more important not less as we age how muscle impacts metabolism, why consistency beats intensity, and how mindset can either keep you stuck or move you forward. If you have been frustrated in the body lately, this conversation may help you see things through a different lens. Connect with heather@ tonen10.com or boom, the good unstuck podcast and coaching resources, more resources at GlitterU.com

You are not stuck. Your workouts are just random. Let's get real. I see so many women working out constantly. Different classes, different programs, different styles, always moving. And if that's for fun, freaking amazing. But if you're frustrated with your body… If you feel like you're putting an effort, but not seeing results… This is the reason why. Random workouts don't create change. Structure does. In this episode we break down why staying active isn't the same as progressing, why your body isn't changing despite your effort, why actually Creating visible lasting results is going to take something different, and why consistency without a system keeps you stuck. Because your body doesn't respond to chaos, access everything here at www.tonen10.com or the fitness planner even helps at www.glitteru.com/boom

A quick mindset reset from THE SHIFT inside BOOM. Today is about questioning the invisible rules you've been living by — the beliefs you've labeled as “realistic,” “normal,” or “just how it is.” Because a lot of what keeps you stuck isn't truth… it's conditioning. These audios are designed to help you regulate, recalibrate, and stop repeating the same mental patterns keeping you stuck. Tiny upgrades. Big shift. You are allowed to choose differently. Full BOOM access: glitteru.com/boom

A quick mindset reset from THE SHIFT inside BOOM. These audios are designed to help you regulate, recalibrate, and stop repeating the same mental patterns keeping you stuck. Tiny upgrades. Big shift. Full BOOM access: glitteru.com/boom

A quick mindset reset from THE SHIFT inside BOOM. These audios are designed to help you regulate, recalibrate, and stop repeating the same mental patterns keeping you stuck. Tiny upgrades. Big shift. Full BOOM access: glitteru.com/boom

In this episode, we are talking about the real reason you feel stuck and it's not what you think. It's not motivation. It's not discipline. It's not that you don't know what to do, it's that you keep repeating the same internal patterns and calling it your life. Overthinking instead of trusting yourself. Over giving instead of choosing yourself. Restarting instead of staying consistent. Focusing on everything and everyone except you. That pattern has a name. Self abandonment… And until you see it clearly nothing changes for Long. In this episode, we go deeper into why you keep falling into the same cycles, how self abandonment shows up in daily behavior, why starting over keeps you stuck, and what actually changes when you begin returning to yourself. Let's get back to you, boom is available now at GlitterU.com/boom

In this episode of Get Unstuck, we are breaking down one of the most freeing — and uncomfortable — truths in relationships, wellness, and life: You do not control other people. Not your partner. Not your family. Not your friends. Not your community. Not your outcomes. And the moment you stop trying to manage how other people think, respond, or behave… is the moment your nervous system finally starts to settle and your energy comes back to you. In this conversation, we explore why over-explaining, over-giving, and over-functioning keeps you stuck in cycles of stress and emotional exhaustion. We talk about what it actually costs you to constantly try to get people to understand your perspective, and why personalizing other people's behavior pulls you further away from yourself. You'll learn how to: stop over-functioning in relationships release the need to control outcomes stop personalizing other people's behavior regulate your emotional responses faster return to yourself instead of spiraling outward And how this pattern doesn't just show up in relationships — it shows up everywhere. In your body. In your habits. In your food choices. In your fitness consistency. In your ability to stay aligned with yourself. This is a nervous system and identity pattern — not just a mindset issue. And this is exactly where BOOM comes in. BOOM is a 300+ page identity and behavior system designed to help you interrupt these patterns at the root so you can stop abandoning yourself in real time and start moving differently in your life.

Most people think consistency is a discipline problem. They think if they just had more motivation, more structure, more willpower… They would finally stay consistent. But I've watched this pattern over and over, in fitness, and mindset, in life. And that's not actually what's happening. Listen to this episode of figure out why you keep starting over, why you are being inconsistent, and why being someone who tries is simply your default button, www.GlitterU.com/boom

In this episode of get unstuck, we are going straight into one of the most common messages I receive: I want your program… But I don't have access to the money, he controls it. And I need you to hear this clearly, this is not just a money conversation. This is an identity conversation. Because when you believe you don't have access, agency or permission, you don't just feel financially stuck… You start living emotionally and mentally stuck as well. You can find out more at www.glitteru.com/boom.

Part three of the BOOM series. Becoming older. Older me. Sharing the powerful article and explaining the real brain changes, hormonal, emotional, and physiological shifts women experience in midlife. This episode, explores, why women stop people pleasing a midlife, hormonal, recalibration, and emotional boundaries, nervous system, exhaustion, and chronic stress, why the veil lifts as we age, the neuroscience behind awakening and clarity, emotional labor, burnout, and self abandonment. Why women over 40 and 50 begin changing priorities. How boom became a daily practice for healing and reconnection. BOOM is available now for pre-order at GlitterU.com/boom.

In Episode 332 of the GET UNSTUCK Podcast, we're talking about the victim mindset, emotional survival patterns, codependency, nervous system healing, and why so many women stay stuck managing everyone else's emotions while abandoning themselves. The enemy wants you focused on the past because when you stay emotionally trapped in old pain, you subconsciously punish yourself in the present. For some people it's alcohol. For others it's food, sugar, emotional eating, shopping, toxic relationships, distractions, overworking, or constantly rescuing everyone around them. Different coping mechanisms. Same root issue: avoiding the inner healing work. In this episode we unpack: ✨ Victim mentality and emotional cycles ✨ Codependency and people pleasing ✨ Nervous system regulation ✨ Emotional exhaustion and burnout ✨ Why peace cannot exist in constant chaos ✨ Rebuilding your identity after emotional survival mode ✨ Healing through faith and personal responsibility ✨ Learning to stop absorbing everyone else's emotions You are not here to carry everyone else's emotional weight. You are here to protect your peace, regulate your nervous system, and remember who God created you to be. If you've been living as the emotional shock absorber in your relationships, this episode will deeply resonate with you.

In this episode of Get Unstuck, I went LIVE on a morning walk and broke down something most people still confuse: fat loss vs. weight loss—and why they are not the same thing. We also dive into what actually moves the needle long-term: Building lean muscle instead of chasing scale weight Why energy is the real goal, not restriction How happiness shifts when your body starts working for you Why having multiple goals (and doing it right) changes everything If you've ever felt stuck jumping from diet to diet, this episode will help you reframe your approach and understand what I actually coach my clients to focus on first—so results last.

BOOM didn't come from a plan. It came at 4am during a thunder and lightning storm on 4/9/26—what I can only describe as a download. A clear name for something I've been moving through in this season of life. Becoming older. Older me. Not in age, but in awareness. In truth. In the inability to keep performing what no longer fits. This episode is Part 2 of Aging Out of Fucks—and I'm sharing something that feels deeply aligned with what I'm currently writing inside BOOM. A Substack article I came across that puts language to what so many women are quietly experiencing: The shift in perception when your brain is fully developed. The veil lifting. The refusal to over-explain, over-function, or over-accommodate just to keep things smooth. It's that internal “middle finger” to people-pleasing that starts showing up in real time—in relationships, work, identity, and how you move through the world. In this episode, I talk about: what BOOM is becoming as I write it in real time the identity shift that happens when pretending no longer works how this stage of life changes how we see everything why this can feel like discomfort, clarity, and liberation all at once and how this applies across every area of life—not just one This isn't about becoming bitter or difficult. It's about becoming unavailable for self-abandonment. If you're in that transition space—where something in you has changed, but you don't have full language for it yet—this episode is for you. Part 2 starts here.

BOOM didn't come from a plan. It came at 4am during a thunder and lightning storm on 4/9/26—what I can only describe as a download. A clear name for something I've been moving through in this season of life. Becoming older. Older me. Not in age, but in awareness. In honesty. In the inability to keep performing what no longer fits. This episode is raw, unpolished, and real. I talk about: what BOOM is and how it came to me the shift that happens when you can't “pretend” anymore why this season has been challenging in ways I don't always have words for and Part 1 of Aging Out of Fucks: The Neuroscience of Why You Suddenly Can't Pretend Anymore by Ellen Scherr, which gives language to a shift so many of us feel but can't explain This isn't about becoming bitter or difficult. It's about becoming done with abandoning yourself to stay easy for everyone else. If you're in that in-between space—where you know something in you is changing but you can't fully name it yet—this episode is for you. Part 1 starts here.

In episode 328 of the get unstuck podcast, we break down what it really means to live in survival mode. How it shows up in your daily life through over eating, overthinking, people, pleasing, emotional, reactivity, and constant exhaustion. If you've been feeling mentally overloaded, stuck in stress cycles, or like you can't fully relax, even when nothing is wrong, this episode will help you understand why. It's not about lack of discipline… It's about a regulated nervous system. We talk about the shift the moment you learn to interrupt the spiral, regulate your body, and return to yourself instead of abandoning yourself and stress, emotion, or chaos. This is your reminder that you don't need to fix everything around you to feel better… You need to come back to you. Listen now and start breaking the survival cycle. GlitterU.com.

Are you constantly exhausted, overwhelmed, binge eating, emotionally drained, or stuck managing everyone else's emotions? In Episode 327 of the Get Unstuck Podcast, Heather Newman shares a powerful reminder for women living in survival mode: you are not here to fix everyone else while abandoning yourself. This episode dives into nervous system overload, fight-or-flight living, emotional burnout, sugar cravings, dopamine addiction, self-trust, faith, healing, and reconnecting with God. If you've been walking on eggshells, feeling resentful, stress eating, or struggling to prioritize your health, this conversation will help you detach from chaos and come back to YOU. Learn how tiny daily promises, movement, prayer, hydration, and real food can help you rebuild peace, confidence, and alignment from the inside out.

Feeling stuck? This episode is your reset. In Episode 326 of the GlitterU Podcast, Heather Newman shares the simple 5-step method to get unstuck, build momentum, and move forward in your body, health, wealth, and business. Because most women aren't unmotivated — they're overwhelmed, overthinking, and waiting for clarity. In this class, you'll learn: • How to break out of overwhelm • The 5-step GlitterU Get Unstuck Method • How to create momentum fast • Why structure creates freedom • How small movement leads to big results This season at GlitterU is all about forward movement — from routines and supplements to trading, investing, and building smarter structure. Even fun update — I'm using THE BLOCK™ to log trades, track ideas, and structure my investment thinking. Structure isn't just for your day — it's for your wealth too. This is the season of clarity, momentum, and movement. — Start your daily routine, structure, and training: Join ToneN10 Training → https://tonen10.com Explore GlitterU routines, supplements, and stacks → https://glitteru.com Shop The Block™ (Now using for trade & investment logging) → https://amzn.to/4sAGLNV — Inside GlitterU you'll find: • Daily body routines • Health stacks & supplements • Wealth structure & planning • Training programs • Clean lifestyle structure Because GlitterU is your daily body, health, and wealth refined. New classes weekly. New structure. New season. — Follow Heather Newman GlitterU.com ToneN10.com Episode 326 — Get Unstuck ᐧ

There's a huge disconnect I see all the time in fitness — women desperately want to lose weight, tone up, and feel better in their bodies… but their daily efforts don't match their expectations. In this episode, I break down the 3 levels of effort and why so many women feel frustrated, stuck, and like nothing is working — even when they're trying. This is where things shift. Your next steps: ✨ STRONGER (inside TONE — current sessions are live now) A structured, progressive plan designed to build strength, consistency, and real results in just 3 weeks. ✨ Apply for Coaching If you're ready for guidance, accountability, and a clear path forward. ✨ Join the Monthly TONE VIP Membership Stay consistent with ongoing structure, support, and programming. ✨ Supplements: glitteru.com/rx glitteru.com/stack ✨ Free Community: Join The GlitterU Facebook Group ✨ Follow for Daily Accountability & Real Talk: Instagram: @GlitterU Facebook: GlitterU Stop guessing. Stop restarting. Start following a plan. XOXH✌

If you can stay on track during Easter… you can stay on track ANYWHERE. Because it's not about the candy. It's not about the brunch. It's about whether you're in control… or your habits are. And today? We're choosing STRONGER. STRONGER is officially LIVE for VIP members inside the app—and this episode is your real-life guide to navigating Easter without sabotaging your progress. If you've ever said: “I'll just start over Monday…” This is your wake-up call. Learn how to stay on track with macros, enjoy your favorite Easter foods guilt-free, and step into discipline—not restriction. Inside this episode: How to approach Easter meals without overeating Simple macro strategies that actually work The mindset shift that keeps you consistent Why one day doesn't ruin progress—but patterns do This is your STRONGER mindset in action.

Class 323: The Truth About Gossip, Drama & Low Frequency People If you're surrounded by gossip… drama… and low-level conversations— this episode is going to hit. In Class 323, we're talking about why some people stay stuck—and how gossip, negativity, and low-frequency thinking keep them there. Because here's the truth: Not everyone wants to grow. Not everyone wants to evolve. And not everyone is going where you're going. Inside this episode: Why gossip is a distraction from growth The connection between low energy, drama, and staying stuck How your environment affects your results more than you think Why outgrowing people is part of leveling up How to protect your focus and move differently This isn't about judging people— it's about recognizing what aligns with where you're going… and what doesn't.

If you're stuck eating 1200 calories, doing more cardio, and still not losing fat… this is why. In Class 322: Back to YOU — Why Fat Loss Is About More Than You Think, we break down what's really happening inside your body when fat loss stops working. Because it's not about eating less. It's about metabolic adaptation, muscle loss, stress, and the patterns that keep you starting over. If your body has adjusted to under-eating, your metabolism has slowed to match it — and no amount of “trying harder” will fix that. Inside this class, you'll learn: Why eating less can stop fat loss How metabolic adaptation actually works The role muscle plays in burning fat Why stress and recovery impact your results How to rebuild your metabolism the right way This is where you stop guessing… and start rebuilding.

You're not lazy. You're not inconsistent. You're not broken. You're stuck in a loop that rewards hesitation and punishes follow-through. In this class, we break that cycle. This is not motivation. This is not mindset fluff. This is a system. You'll learn: Why you've stayed stuck for years (even when you want more) The identity gap keeping you in the same patterns The exact shift from “thinking about it” to executing daily How to stop relying on feelings and start building proof This is where you stop circling your life… …and start moving in it. If you're ready to get your life together → start with WALK. If you're ready to build discipline → BLOCK. If you're ready for transformation → TRAIN. No more waiting. https://www.glitteru.com/theshop XOXH✌

Most women don't have an energy problem— they have a boundary problem. You're not exhausted because life is hard. You're exhausted because you keep absorbing what was never yours: other people's moods, stress, tension, and chaos. And then you carry it like it belongs to you. In this class, we clean that up. You'll learn: Why you feel affected by other people so easily The difference between empathy and emotional absorption How to stop matching energy that lowers you What boundaries actually look like in real life How self-trust replaces reactivity This isn't about becoming cold or disconnected. It's about becoming self-led. Because not everything you feel is yours. WHERE TO START If this hit, don't just listen—apply it: Dare to Say No https://www.Glitteru.com/theshop → your foundation for setting boundaries without guilt The Walk + The Block → reset your life, habits, and direction BS10X → where standards become how you live, not something you think about

Most women don't have a discipline problem. They have a self-trust problem. And it shows up quietly… in the moments where something feels off— but you keep going anyway. This episode is a continuation of Class 318—the Taylor story. A real, public, TMZ-level situation that shows exactly what happens when you ignore what doesn't feel right for too long. Because nothing explodes overnight. It builds. And builds. And builds… until it can't anymore. Inside this episode, we're talking about: • Why you feel stuck even when you're “doing everything right” • How overriding yourself is draining your energy, your clarity, and your money • The connection between movement, capacity, and powerful decision-making • Why survival mode is keeping your life small • How to stop the cycle before it turns into something bigger This is not about doing more. This is about becoming a woman who listens earlier… decides faster… and moves cleaner. ✨ Ready to shift this in real time? Start here: glitteru.com/start Inside you'll find: • Her Feed — daily proximity, real-time shifts, and community • BS10X — movement that builds capacity, not burnout • Classes in Ink — where this work actually integrates This is where you stop circling… and start moving.

Most of the drama in your life isn't coming from what's happening… it's coming from what's being avoided. In this class, we're talking about the real cost of avoidance— in your health, your relationships, your routines, and your decisions. Because saying “it's fine” doesn't make something fine. It just delays the moment you have to deal with it. And the longer you wait, the heavier it gets. Inside this class, I walk through: how avoidance shows up in everyday life why it creates pressure and resentment and how small, direct action actually creates peace If you've been feeling off, overwhelmed, or like something's building under the surface—this is a good place to start. You can go deeper inside my Classes in Ink, including: Dare to Say No (boundaries + decision making) And for my girls working on consistency and strength: Body Sculpt 10X Everything lives here: GlitterU.com/theshop New class is up.

Why do some conversations spiral into drama while others stay calm and productive? In this episode, we explore what I call The Carolyn Bessette Method — a set of communication principles inspired by the quiet composure of Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy. Carolyn became known not only for her style but for the way she carried herself under constant public scrutiny. She rarely over-explained herself. She didn't react emotionally to public speculation. And she maintained a calm presence even in difficult situations. That kind of composure offers a powerful lesson for relationships. In this episode, we walk through 10 rules for maintaining calm authority in conversations, including how to: • Stop over-explaining yourself • Correct misrepresentation without escalating • Refuse emotional bait • Speak in observations instead of accusations • Maintain dignity during difficult discussions Because the goal in communication isn't to win an argument. It's to maintain clarity, composure, and respect. Want to Go Deeper? If you want to strengthen your boundaries and communication skills, explore the GLITTERU programs and guides here: https://glitteru.com/theshop Inside the shop you'll find: DARE TO SAY NO™ — The Boundary Rese A 7-day reset designed to help you protect your time, communicate clearly, and stop over-committing. You'll also find the new guide: CAROLYN — The Quiet Power of Personal Standards A short guide exploring the quiet standards that create calm authority in everyday life. And as always… Leave the drama at the door.

There's an old proverb that says: “Not my circus, not my monkeys.” But how often do we forget that in real life? In this episode, we explore the psychology behind why people hand off their emotional chaos to others—and why so many of us instinctively pick it up. From emotional contagion to the subtle ways drama spreads through conversations, this episode dives deeper into the awareness and boundaries needed to protect your peace. Because empathy doesn't mean ownership. And caring about people doesn't mean carrying their chaos. Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is recognize what belongs to you… and what doesn't. This conversation is part of the Leave the Drama at the Door philosophy—a series about learning how to observe patterns, trust your instincts, and stop absorbing emotional drama that was never yours to carry. If this resonates with you, you may also be ready for the next step: learning how to say no without guilt. ✨ The DARE TO SAY NO program teaches you practical boundary-setting skills so you can stop overextending yourself and start protecting your time and energy. Learn more here: glitteru.com/theshop For only $22, you'll discover how to confidently say no, set healthy boundaries, and reclaim your peace. Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is a single word: No.

In this episode, we continue the Leave the Drama at the Door philosophy by talking about something simple — but incredibly powerful: The ability to not react. After the last few episodes exploring intuition, hidden drama, and raising your standards, this conversation focuses on what happens when drama actually shows up in your real life. Because the truth is… drama rarely announces itself. It usually appears disguised as: • gossip • concern • venting • or someone pulling you into a conversation that has nothing to do with your growth. So how do you respond without escalating the situation? One powerful response is simply: “Hmmmm… interesting.” In this episode we explore how learning to observe instead of react can protect your peace, strengthen your boundaries, and change the environments you allow around you. You'll hear real-life examples about recognizing patterns of drama, noticing hypocrisy, and learning to respond with awareness rather than emotional energy. Because the women who move differently understand something important: Peace isn't accidental. Peace is protected. And sometimes the most powerful response is simply noticing the behavior and choosing not to participate. In this episode we talk about: • Trusting your intuition when something feels off • Recognizing how drama recruits an audience • Why reacting emotionally feeds chaotic environments • The power of observation instead of confrontation • Protecting your peace without escalating conflict Key Takeaway When drama shows up, you don't have to argue, explain, or participate. Sometimes the strongest response is simply: “Hmmmm… interesting.” And then moving forward with your standards intact. Explore More Visit the GlitterU shop for programs, tools, and resources designed to help women raise their standards in fitness, mindset, and life. https://glitteru.com/theshop Connect with Heather Instagram: @glitteru Website: https://glitteru.com

In the final episode of the Leave the Drama at the Door series, we bring everything together. In Part 1, we talked about trusting the icky feeling when something feels off. In Part 2, we explored the hidden ways drama circulates through conversations and environments. Now the real question becomes: What does it actually look like to leave the drama at the door? In this episode we talk about protecting your energy, choosing your environments intentionally, and learning how to care about people without carrying their chaos. You'll learn: • why boundaries are essential for protecting your peace • how to recognize environments that drain your energy • why saying no is sometimes the most powerful thing you can do • how to create spaces in your life where drama simply isn't welcome Because the truth is this: You don't have to participate in every emotional storm around you. You can choose peace. You can choose alignment. And sometimes the most powerful decision you can make is simply to leave the drama at the door.

In Part 2 of the Leave the Drama at the Door series, we're talking about something that might be uncomfortable to admit: Sometimes we participate in drama… without even realizing it. Drama isn't always loud or explosive. Sometimes it looks like venting. Sometimes it looks like trying to fix someone else's problems. Sometimes it looks like staying in conversations that leave you feeling drained. In this episode, we talk about the subtle ways drama circulates through relationships, workplaces, and everyday conversations — and why good people often get pulled into it. You'll learn: • how drama quietly spreads through environments • why empathetic people accidentally fuel it • the difference between listening and absorbing • how to recognize when you're stepping into energy that isn't yours to carry Because protecting your peace isn't about avoiding people. It's about recognizing when something is no longer healthy for your energy. Part 3 of the series will bring everything together as we talk about what it really means to leave the drama at the door.

In this episode, I'm starting a new three-part series called Leave the Drama at the Door. Part 1 begins with something simple but powerful: learning to trust the signals your energy is giving you. Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling drained… even though nothing dramatic happened? Maybe you felt a heaviness in the room. Maybe a conversation left you depleted. Maybe something just felt off. I call that the icky feeling. Over time, I've learned that those moments are not random. They're information. Our bodies often recognize misalignment long before our minds are willing to admit it. In this episode we talk about: • why some conversations drain your energy • how emotional energy moves through environments • why empathetic people often absorb too much • and how learning to trust your internal signals can change the direction of your life Because the truth is this: You can care about people without carrying their chaos. This episode is the beginning of a larger conversation about boundaries, awareness, and protecting your peace. Stay tuned for Part 2 of the series: Drama Is Sneakier Than You Think.

Most women believe they are stuck because they lack motivation. The truth is simpler: they lack standards. In this episode, Heather Newman explains why raising your personal standard changes everything — from how you move, to how you think, to the direction of your life. Inside the GlitterU philosophy, transformation starts with four pillars: movement, discipline, self-respect, and expansion. If you're ready to stop waiting for motivation and start creating momentum, this episode will shift how you approach your life. Raise the standard.

This episode is about encouragement. Inspiration. And the truth behind what people like to call “manifestation” — without the noise or overcomplication. In Episode 310, I talk honestly about how we've been shaping our lives long before we ever had language for it. Through our thoughts. Our focus. Our patterns. Our willingness (or reluctance) to trust what we feel called to do. We talk about clarity, identity, privacy, impact, and why your influence has nothing to do with visibility — and everything to do with resonance. This is for the woman who feels the nudge to do more, say more, or become more… but is still waiting for permission. You don't need louder strategies. You don't need approval. You need honesty with yourself — and the courage to trust it. ✨ Bonus encouragement, resources, and private conversations live inside GlitterU

Seven years ago, just before turning 50, I felt the pull to begin again. There was no perfect plan. No certainty. Just an idea that wouldn't leave me alone — and the decision to follow it anyway. In Episode 309, I share what it really looks like to get unstuck, trust a quiet nudge, and build something slowly, with integrity and intention. We talk about age, reinvention, entrepreneurship, and why success doesn't have to be loud to be real. Today, my work reaches listeners and clients around the world — while honoring privacy, values, and sustainable growth. If you've been feeling the nudge to begin again… or for the first time… this episode is for you. ✨ Daily inspiration is shared inside HER Feed at GlitterU

Seven years ago, I was about to turn 50—and I had an idea. It didn't come with a perfect plan or loud confidence. It came with doubt, hesitation, and a quiet pull I couldn't ignore. In this episode, I'm sharing the early days of starting again—what it really looks like to get unstuck, follow an idea before it makes sense, and build something slowly, with integrity and intention. https://www.glitteru.com We talk about age, reinvention, entrepreneurship, and why success doesn't have to be loud to be real. My work now reaches listeners and clients internationally, while honoring privacy, values, and sustainable growth. If you've been feeling the nudge to begin—again or for the first time—this episode is for you. Daily inspiration is shared on HER Feed at GlitterU.

Episode 308: BODY Sculpt 10X — Why Forcing Consistency Never Works In this episode, I'm sharing why consistency was never a discipline issue — and why leading with the body changes everything.   We talk about: • why most programs fail women • how the nervous system affects consistency • what sustainable strength actually requires BODY Sculpt 10X begins Monday and can be done live with us inside TONE or in a self-guided format.   Learn more and join here: 

This episode is a real-time walk through the season I'm in right now. Life feels full. Emotional. Heavy in places. Expansive in others. And instead of pushing through or trying to “fix” myself, I'm living differently. In this episode, I talk about the foundational pieces that hold me when things feel like a lot: – the walk – the block – nervous system regulation – building foundation before intensity – why tone still matters (and how it fits now) – and what This Is How I Live Now actually looks like in real life I share how walking daily became my anchor, why I don't skip foundation, and how Tone and THE VIBE support strength, regulation, and consistency without burnout. We also move into: – the meaning of THE VIBE inside of Tone (private school energy) – how I'm thinking and living differently in this season – my nighttime rituals and why sleep is sacred now – and the mindset shifts, sayings, and manifestations I use when life feels heavy This episode connects directly to: – the This Is How I Live Now guide + workbook – a new blog post on my night must-haves and rituals (all links are there) – and Session 2 inside THE VIBE (bonus content for Private School) If you're craving a quieter, more intentional space, you're also invited to HER Feed—our private, safe community off social media. No algorithms. No noise. Just support, grounding, and real connection. Explore everything here: ✨ GlitterU + Tone + THE VIBE: https://www.glitteru.com ✨ Join HER Feed (private + off social): https://www.glitteru.com/group ✨ Blog (all product links live there): https://www.glitteru.com/blog This is a season of less force and more trust. This is how I live now.

This episode is not meant to be rushed. It's not something to listen to while multitasking. It's something to sit with. In this episode, I walk you through a practice I use — not as an idea or a concept, but as a way of living. For a long time, I knew what to do but couldn't always sustain it. I knew the habits, the routines, the mindset work — but my body didn't always cooperate. What I've learned through years of coaching, teaching, and living is that most of us don't have an information problem. We have a capacity problem. When the nervous system is overloaded, you can't outthink it. You can't discipline your way out of it. And you can't shame yourself into consistency. So I stopped trying to force change and started building structure that calms the body first. In this episode, you'll hear: why stress doesn't live in your thoughts — it lives in your nervous system why safety, not pressure, is the starting point for real change how tapping works as rhythmic, grounding input for the body the exact structure of the practice I use for body, life, and wealth why consistency comes from steadiness, not urgency This episode is the spoken companion to my 25-page guide, This Is How I Live Now — a calm, repeatable practice designed to be returned to, not rushed through. Calm isn't passive. It's preparatory. Links • Workbook: https://glitteru.com/theshop • Start here: https://www.glitteru.com/start • THE VIBE inside TONE: https://tonen10.com

This is the first release of THE VIBE. In this episode, I'm sharing Settle — a short grounding practice designed to help your nervous system land before you do anything else. This isn't about doing meditation “right.” It's about creating enough internal safety for your body to exhale. Settle is the foundation. The place we arrive. The place everything else builds from. You can use this practice: before movement after a long day when your thoughts feel loud or anytime you need to come back into your body This practice is free, and it's yours to return to whenever you need it.

We love the idea of calm. We know grounding, breathwork, and meditation “work.” But most of us don't slow down long enough to use them — especially when life feels full, loud, or overwhelming. In this episode, we talk about why real change can't start in the mind alone. When the body is stressed, the brain, gut, emotions, and decision-making are all affected. And no amount of willpower fixes that. This is a conversation about starting from the inside — calming the nervous system first, so clarity, consistency, and movement can actually stick. Tune into episode 305 for a free clip of the vibe .

In this episode, we talk about discernment, nervous system regulation, and boundaries in a loud, reactive world. Some of the loudest voices aren't the most aligned—and learning to see clearly without needing to expose, defend, or explain is a powerful skill. This episode is for the woman who feels overwhelmed, overextended, or quietly exhausted from managing other people's emotions, opinions, and expectations. We explore: Why boundaries are about self-trust, not control How to stay regulated when others are reactive What it means to become solid instead of hardened Knowing what you tolerate, engage with, and are unavailable for I also share why I created Dare to Say No — Boundary Reset, a self-led, on-demand reset designed to help you say no without spiraling, honor your limits without guilt, and stay steady even when others don't like your decisions. This is about regulated power in real life. Not theory. Not hype. Practice.

If you keep waiting to feel ready, you'll keep starting over. You're not lazy. You're not broken. You're just trying to run your life off emotions — and emotions change every five minutes. In this quick, straight-talk episode, Heather explains why motivation isn't the answer and why structure (a simple plan you repeat) is what actually keeps women from falling off again and again. This is for the woman who feels flat, behind, or “off” right now. Nothing is wrong with you. You just need something steady to fall back on.

part 2 of the “stop starting over” series If motivation were the problem, you wouldn't keep starting. But you do. Over and over again. In part two of the stop starting over series, we talk about the biggest misconception that keeps women stuck in the restart cycle — the belief that motivation is the missing piece. It isn't. Motivation was never meant to carry real life. Structure is. In this episode, we break down: why motivation feels convincing but always fades what actually happens when emotional energy disappears why relying on willpower leads to burnout how structure replaces decision fatigue why the system failed — not you This episode is for women who are tired of blaming themselves and ready to build something steady instead. where to start Quiet tools and simple systems live at: → glitteru.com/start If walking is the easiest way for you to rebuild rhythm and consistency, THE WALK offers a simple, repeatable structure you can return to anytime. If you want a monthly, done-for-you structure that combines movement, rhythm, and accountability, TONE is where that lives. And if what you need right now is help deciding less and holding your time with intention, THE BLOCK is a quiet planning tool designed to support structure without pressure. www.glitteru.com/theshop for all digital resources and courses. DIY. No hype. No resets. No starting over. Just structure you can keep. New episodes every week.

If you've already felt behind this year, this episode is for you. Most women don't struggle because they lack motivation. They struggle because motivation was never meant to carry real life. In episode 300 — the first part of the stop starting over series — we draw a clear line in the sand. This is not a reset. This is not a push. This is not about becoming someone new. It's about building simple structure that holds you when life gets heavy. In this episode, we talk about: why “starting over” keeps repeating why relying on feelings leads to burnout what structure actually is (and what it isn't) how deciding less creates consistency how to build a calm weekly rhythm you can return to If you're done forcing motivation and ready to build something you can keep, you're in the right place. Quiet tools and simple systems live at: → glitteru.com/start And if you want the simplest walking structure I've ever created, THE WALK is available there too. No pressure. No reset. Just structure. New episodes every week.

January has a way of making people feel behind before the year has even started. In this short continuation of episode 298, we talk about why that feeling shows up, why motivation was never meant to carry real life, and why pressure often disguises itself as “starting over.” This episode is not a reset or a push. It's a reminder that consistency comes from structure — not urgency. If January feels heavy, slow, or unclear, you're not failing. You're human. Stay with what works. Decide less. Let structure do the holding. Quiet tools and simple systems are always available at → glitteru.com/start consistency structure personal growth january mindset

It's a new year — and instead of another motivation talk, this episode is a pause. In Episode 298, I share why I felt called to record this message now — not to push u, fix u, or hype u up — but to help u slow down and reset with clarity. We talk about why january feels heavy, why motivation fades, how too much noise creates pressure instead of progress, and why quiet structure is what actually supports consistency. This episode is for the woman who wants growth without burnout, structure without pressure, and a steadier way forward. No hustle. No hype. Just clarity. — new episodes every wednesday. listen anytime.

Most women don't struggle because they lack motivation. They struggle because motivation was never meant to carry real life. In this episode, we talk about why relying on feelings keeps you starting over — and why structure, not hype, is what actually creates consistency. This isn't about pushing harder. It's about deciding less. We'll break down: why motivation fades why “starting over” keeps repeating how simple structure removes decision fatigue why boring systems outperform emotional effort and why walking works when everything else feels heavy If you've been craving something calmer, steadier, and more sustainable — this episode is for you. Explore structure and tools here: → glitteru.com/start January structure is open: → glitteru.com/0126 — new episodes every wednesday. listen anytime.

most women say they want a different year, but their movement stays the same. this episode is a quiet interruption — a reminder that nothing changes until you do. if u want a different life, u have to move like a different woman. no hype. no waiting. just standards and structure. listen now. structure is self-respect™. start here → glitteru.com/start ———- women who move differently self discipline for women structure over motivation how to change your life new year mindset women over 40 health quiet confidence identity shift habit building fitness structure walking program tone workouts morning motivation becoming her stop starting over midlife wellness health and wealth boundaries for women self respect habits routine for results