Marriage Helper: Helping Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens to a marriage when life doesn't just get hard—it breaks you?In this deeply honest and emotional conversation, Cassia shares her and Cory's journey of staying married while raising a medically fragile child, navigating grief after miscarriages, and confronting the realities of long-term caregiving. From ambulance rides every three weeks to learning how to love when there's no guarantee of being loved back, their story is one of resilience, raw faith, and choosing to show up—day after day.If you're parenting in hard circumstances, walking through suffering, or just wondering how couples stay connected in crisis, this episode is for you.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!This is one of the wildest marriage stories we've ever seen.When Elisa walked into our couples workshop, she said, “I would rather die than stay married to this man.” She had already had four affairs. Marcos, her husband, had just retaliated with one of his own. They had already divorced once, remarried, and were still stuck in a cycle of resentment, control, and disconnection.By all accounts, their marriage was over.But what happened next turned everything around—and what they learned during that process could change your marriage too.This case study isn't just about betrayal. It's about transformation—how love, humility, and the right tools helped two people rewrite their story against all odds.If your marriage feels hopeless, their journey may be the spark of hope you need.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In today's episode, we tackle one of the most emotionally charged topics in relationships: narcissism. Whether your spouse has called you a narcissist, or you're wondering if they might be one, this conversation cuts through the confusion and cultural noise.Kimberly Beam Holmes is joined by Meredith Ball, a Marriage Helper certified coach, to unpack the real meaning of narcissism—what it is, what it isn't, and why it's become the go-to label in so many hurting relationships.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!When your marriage feels like it's falling apart, it's tempting to search for answers—especially ones that explain your spouse's behavior. Maybe you've wondered, "Could they be a narcissist?" or "Do they have bipolar disorder?"In this episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes is joined by Marriage Helper coach and counselor Meredith Ball to unpack the dangers of diagnosing your spouse. You'll learn why it's natural to want clarity, but how labeling your spouse can backfire—leading to more disconnection instead of healing.We'll discuss:Why people self-diagnose their spouseThe risks of assigning mental health labels without professional helpHow to focus on what's actually within your controlThe surprising way real healing startsIf you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!He did everything “right”—worked hard, stayed loyal, provided for his family.But when his wife left him for his own brother… he didn't fight.He tried to understand. He felt bad for them.And somehow, he believed that was love.In this real-life conversation from Marriage Helper, we unpack the painful truth behind passive behavior in marriage—and how it often pushes a spouse away more than anything else.This isn't just a story of betrayal. It's a wake-up call for anyone who's given up their identity in the name of sacrifice… and lost their marriage in the process.You'll discover:Why empathy without boundaries can become self-sabotageHow passivity kills attractionThe real difference between panic and passionAnd why ownership is the turning point between wishing and winningWhether you're in a marriage crisis or stuck in survival mode, this episode is your invitation to stop letting life happen to you—and start choosing who you want to become.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What do you say when a friend confesses they're struggling with pornography? Whether they admitted it directly or you discovered it by accident, knowing how to respond can feel overwhelming. In this honest and compassionate episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes guide you through how to handle these conversations with empathy, truth, and clarity.They discuss the spiritual, relational, and physiological effects of pornography and how to walk with someone you care about toward hope and healing. Whether you're supporting a friend or facing this struggle yourself, there is a way forward.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!You've probably heard people talk about "manifesting" their ideal relationship or saving their marriage just by thinking positive thoughts. But when your marriage is in crisis, hope alone isn't a strategy. In this episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes—CEO of Marriage Helper and trained performance psychologist—breaks down why traditional manifestation falls short and what actually works when your relationship feels like it's falling apart.You'll discover 3 research-backed mental techniques that high-performing individuals use to overcome adversity—adapted specifically to help you save your marriage:✔ Visualization (the right way)✔ Resilience-building breathing exercises✔ The power of intentional practiceIf your marriage is on the brink, but you're too scared to take the next step, this video will give you the tools to begin. It's not about perfection—it's about progress.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens when a well-meaning husband provides, protects, and leads—yet still finds himself blindsided by his wife's decision to walk away? In this powerful episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Nathan McIntyre unpack a real-life story of a man who thought he was doing everything “right” in his marriage… until it all fell apart.You'll hear:✔ Why many spouses feel emotionally abandoned even when their physical needs are met✔ How "doing the right thing" can still create emotional distance✔ What pushes and pulls are—and how they impact your relationship✔ The silent warning signs your spouse may be reaching their limitIf you've ever wondered “Why did my spouse leave when I was giving so much?” - this episode is for you. Nathan shares practical insights from hundreds of conversations with men and women in marriage crisis, and offers real hope for those ready to change, reconnect, and rebuild.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

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Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!The silent treatment isn't always intentional. When your spouse emotionally checks out, it creates a painful void that can feel impossible to bridge. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes tackle this common marriage struggle with uncommon honesty, revealing the hidden causes behind emotional disconnection.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Research shows that four specific communication behaviors during arguments can predict divorce with 80-90% accuracy, while eliminating these behaviors can dramatically improve marriage success.• The four horsemen of relationship conflict are defensiveness, criticism, contempt, and stonewalling• Defensiveness deflects blame and responsibility, creating a downward spiral in communication• Criticism attacks a partner's character rather than addressing specific behaviors• Contempt is the most dangerous pattern, involving feelings of superiority toward your partner• Stonewalling occurs when one partner mentally or physically shuts down during conflict• The antidote to stonewalling is taking a purposeful break with the intention to resume later• Taking time to cool down and process emotions leads to more productive conflict resolution• Sometimes sleeping on an issue provides needed perspective, contrary to "don't go to bed angry" advice• Breaking these harmful communication patterns requires recognizing and interrupting them earlyGet our ultimate guide to better communication by visiting marriagehelper.com/smart to access our toolkit on how to communicate effectively, even when your spouse isn't talking to you.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Ever found yourself wondering why your spouse doesn't just "get it" without you having to say anything? You're not alone. Marriage communication breaks down in predictable patterns, but understanding these patterns is your first step toward meaningful change.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens in a marriage when one spouse says those three devastating words: "I hate you"? This powerful exploration takes us deep into the psychology of hatred in intimate relationships, revealing surprising truths about how love and hate function as parallels rather than opposites.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens in a marriage when one spouse says those three devastating words: "I hate you"? This powerful exploration takes us deep into the psychology of hatred in intimate relationships, revealing surprising truths about how love and hate function as parallels rather than opposites.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!There's a lot of bad marriage advice out there. Control and manipulation tactics. Tracking, spying and hacking your spouses devices. Having an open marriage. Watching pornography together.We've heard counselors, therapists and other marriage "experts" tell people to do these things because it can lead to the reconciliation of the marriage. THIS IS HORRIBLE ADVICE.After decades of working with thousands of couples, we know what works and what does not. We also know the best empirically-based research that has been verified by the worlds leading researchers. So let's talk about all of these tips and advice that some people have said is a great idea. We want to go ahead and bust ALL of the myths out there that these things can lead to a better marriage.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens when a marriage suffers from both of the top relationship killers – affairs and controlling behavior? Marcos and Elisa take us through their raw, unfiltered journey of shattered trust and the painstaking process of rebuilding it from the ground up.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!If you've ever felt your relationship is struggling due to miscommunication, this episode is for you. Join us as we explore the compelling concept of smart contact—a vital communication strategy designed to bring couples closer, even during turbulent times. We delve into the intricate balance of pushes and pulls in conversations, revealing how understanding these dynamics can transform your communication and foster deeper connections.If you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Is your marriage at risk because of limerence? In this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes break down the science behind limerence—what it is, how it differs from romantic love, and why it can be so destructive in marriage.You'll learn:✔️ The key differences between limerence and true love✔️ How to tell if you or your spouse are experiencing limerence✔️ A powerful tool to assess if boundaries have been crossed✔️ What to do if limerence is threatening your marriageIf you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!When you don't agree with your spouse, it can be incredibly frustrating. It might be something where you absolutely HAVE TO come to some sort of resolution, but you are both hard set in your views.Handling divisive topics in marriage is extremely important. On one hand, you want to be able to learn how to have healthy compromise with one another. On the other hand, you don't want to go against your own beliefs and values or to become a doormat for your spouse to run right over you and control the situation.So in today's episode of Relationship Radio, we talk about how to handle divisive topics in marriage. Get ready to take some notes!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Can a single decision shake the very foundations of your well-being? Join me, Dr. Joe Beam, as we navigate the turbulent waters of marital distress and explore its profound impacts on our lives. This episode uncovers the intellectual, emotional, physical, and spiritual challenges that arise when relationships are in crisis. We'll confront how panic and fear can lead to neglecting self-care and clouding our judgment. Through personal stories and insights, we aim to empower you with the knowledge to find peace amidst chaos and maintain your health in trying times.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens when you discover your spouse is in love with someone else? Dr. Joe Beam tackles this heart-wrenching scenario on Relationship Radio by guiding listeners through the emotional labyrinth that ensues. From the initial shock and pain to grappling with a crushed ego and questioning one's reality, Dr. Beam offers a path forward by encouraging acceptance—not to be confused with agreement—of your partner's feelings. This acceptance fosters understanding and communication, which can ultimately pave the way for healing and potentially restore the relationship.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Feeling like your marriage is over? Discover the transformative power of self-reflection and respect! You have the power to change everything. What will your first step be?Join the new Save My Marriage Program!marriagehelper.com/membership

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What are the top reasons divorces occur in the United States? Studies show that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce, while 41% of first marriages will end the same way.So what are the underlying reasons, and what can you do to fix that? Find out on today's episode!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!The episode delves into the idea that happiness is a choice, especially after experiencing life's hardships. Dr. Joe Beam shares personal stories and practical insights about interpreting events positively, whether dealing with serious illness or relationship difficulties.• Exploring the question of happiness after trauma • The significance of personal perspective on happiness • The power of interpreting life's challenges positively • Personal anecdotes highlighting the journey to happiness • The impact of relationship narratives on emotional wellbeing • Encouraging listeners to focus on the good in their lives 

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Trust can be a fragile and complex component of any relationship, as many of us have discovered through personal experience. Imagine rebuilding your relationship after a significant breach of trust; it's not impossible, but it requires effort and understanding. Today, we unravel the hidden layers of betrayal, from infidelity to financial deceit, and the emotional upheaval that follows. By sharing examples of these betrayals and exploring the motivations behind deceptive actions, we'll equip you with strategies to address the emotional scars left behind and begin the journey of rebuilding trust.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam answers questions listeners have submitted to the show.We cover:- The Valley- Limerence-Commitment- & Much moreTune in and share this episode with a friend or family member you think might need to hear it!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!This episode was taken from our 2nd Annual Very Merry Marriage Helper Christmas.Merry Christmas from all of us at Marriage Helper. We hope you leave with a little more hope after listening to this episode ❤️

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What are the most important things to look for when searching for marriage help? Is it experience? Good reviews? A high success rate? The answer is yes… to ALL of those things.But success rate is a more nuanced metric. HOW the success rate is calculated matters just as much as the actual success rate, and that's what we talk about on today's episode.In this episode, Kimberly is joined by Dr. John Hill, Director of Research at Marriage Helper. Dr. Hill and Kimberly break down Marriage Helper's success rate over the years, the process behind the research, and the CURRENT success rate and the research being actively conducted to determine it.You don't want to miss this episode.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What if the secrets we hold closest are the ones that weigh us down the most? Join us for a powerful conversation with Ren Bester from South Africa as we unravel the intricate emotions of guilt, shame, and regret within the context of marriage and personal actions. Ren's journey of overcoming these burdens, especially given his religious upbringing and the pressure of performance-based acceptance, offers profound insights. Together, we navigate the delicate balance between acknowledging wrongdoing and the deeper self-condemnation that can accompany it. Ren's candid recounting of his struggles underscores the transformative power of confession, forgiveness, and faith, showcasing how embracing spiritual practices can renew the mind and offer emotional release.Ren's story doesn't stop at recognition—it's about redemption. By embracing the grace of salvation, Ren found a way to cleanse his past and alleviate the weight of guilt, despite skepticism from those affected by his past actions. He shares the challenges of removing negative influences and how redefining one's identity through humility can pave the path to healing and reconciliation. Even when forgiveness from others isn't promised, the journey to emotional and spiritual freedom remains impactful. Join us as Ren illustrates the potential for transformative change, offering hope and guidance to anyone grappling with their own burdens.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Is it possible to be in love with two people at once?

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens when you're deeply in love with someone who isn't your spouse? Join Dr. Joe Beam, as we explore this emotional maze with Ren, who bravely shares his journey of multiple affairs and the overpowering grip of limerence. Together, we navigate the complex emotions tied to being infatuated with another person, and how Ren, with the help of Marriage Helper and his extraordinary wife, found a path back to rebuilding their marriage. This episode sheds light on the importance of shared values in sustaining relationships, even when faced with the fallout of infidelity.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What if the key to a thriving marriage lies in understanding sexual dynamics? Join me, Dr. Joe Beam, as we unravel the mysteries of sexual compatibility in marriage. Together, we'll navigate the often turbulent waters of varying libidos, preferences, and the external pressures that can cause friction between spouses. Through real-life stories and my own insights, you'll discover how these issues left unaddressed can evolve into serious marital challenges, highlighting the necessity of open communication and resolution for a fulfilling partnership.Explore the powerful influence of sexual education on your perceptions and expectations. From formal classroom settings to the often unreliable information shared among peers, our sexual education shapes us in profound ways. I'll shed light on the media's role, especially internet pornography, in distorting sexual schemas and relationship expectations. By acknowledging the impact of misinformation and unrealistic portrayals, we emphasize the critical need for accurate education as a cornerstone of personal growth and relationship satisfaction.Uncover the roots of sexual schemas and their role in shaping relationships. We'll journey through stories of individuals grappling with the aftermath of past traumas and how these experiences echo into their intimate lives. You'll learn about the concept of sexual habituation and how it can lead to diminishing excitement over time. Although this episode focuses on identifying the origins of these issues, it sets the stage for future discussions on resolving sexual incompatibilities. Don't miss our next session, where Kimberly Beam Holmes will provide valuable insights on navigating financial disagreements.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In this powerful episode of our ongoing series on managing life's disagreements, we dive deep into one of the most challenging topics for couples: parenting disagreements. Joined by expert guest David Mathews, we explore effective strategies for disciplining children, understanding each other's perspectives, and fostering marital intimacy through these challenges.Parenting isn't easy, and disagreements on how to discipline children can strain even the strongest marriages. In this discussion, we shed light on common disciplinary conflicts and share personal anecdotes that emphasize the importance of unity and mutual respect. Whether it's dealing with the consequences of differing upbringing styles or navigating the complexities of co-parenting, this video provides valuable insights and actionable advice for all parents facing similar struggles.Key Highlights:•Understanding why parents disagree on child discipline and how to address it.•The impact of personal histories on parenting styles.•Strategies for aligning parenting goals and enhancing spousal support.•Expert advice on transforming parenting conflicts into opportunities for growth.David Mathews lends his wisdom and experience, discussing the transformative potential of acknowledging mistakes and the power of reframing challenges as opportunities for strengthening family bonds. Tune in to learn how to navigate parenting disagreements with grace and achieve a more harmonious home environment.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What if navigating religious differences could actually strengthen your marriage? Join us as we explore this idea with David Mathews, a workshop facilitator here at Marriage Helper. We promise insights into the complexities of religious disagreements and how they intertwine with respect, control, and open communication. Drawing on real-life stories, we uncover the core issues that can arise and how addressing them can transform your relationship, emphasizing the importance of mutual understanding and acceptance.This episode sheds light on creating a safe space for dialogue, even when unresolved personal traumas complicate religious conflicts. We discuss a couple's journey through a Marriage Helper workshop, where they discovered that issues beyond faith were affecting their relationship. The power of addressing and accepting these differences is highlighted as a tool for building stronger marriages. As we conclude with thoughts on parenting disagreements and the potential for reconciliation or amicable separation, our conversation offers a rich tapestry of advice and hope for couples navigating similar waters.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In this video, we talk about how to stay calm and kind when you and someone you care about don't agree on politics. It's the first video in a series where we look at big topics that often start arguments, like politics, religion, how we handle money, and how to raise kids.Nowadays, politics can make people very upset, even with their families or friends. Some folks even wish others who disagree with them weren't around, which is really sad. But in our video, Meredith Ball, a wise coach, teaches us how to talk about politics without getting angry or hurting our relationships.Meredith shows us:1.How to have peaceful talks about politics.2.How to listen and understand why someone believes different things.3.How to grow and change together, even when you disagree.Click to watch and find out how to keep your marriage strong, even when you disagree. Don't forget to subscribe for more great tips on how to handle disagreements with care.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Unlock the secrets of navigating the intricate web of limerence with insights from Coach Jared, Membership Fulfillment Manager at Marriage Helper. Imagine the subtlety of a simple compliment spiraling into something more consuming; that's where Jared takes us. In this episode, he reveals the often unnoticed progression from casual interactions to a deeper, concealed connection. Jared's compelling narrative illustrates how easily one can slip into limerence without realizing it, and the potential emotional entanglement it brings. You won't just understand the theory; you'll witness its unfolding through an engaging story that highlights the thin line between innocent admiration and emotional captivity.As the episode unfolds, Jared provides invaluable guidance on recognizing and addressing the warning signs before they escalate. With vivid examples, listeners gain a firsthand perspective on how small actions can lead to significant emotional consequences. By the time the episode reaches its turning point, you'll be equipped with strategies to maintain transparency and integrity in your relationships, ensuring those wispy chains of limerence don't bind too tightly. This episode offers a thought-provoking exploration of emotional awareness and relationship dynamics, promising to leave you with a deeper understanding of this complex feeling.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Join us as we tackle one of the toughest challenges a couple can face: rebuilding intimacy after infidelity. We explore the concept of creating "Marriage 2.0," discussing how it involves holding onto the good while addressing the issues that led to betrayal. Open communication and intentional actions are emphasized as vital steps in regaining trust and forming a stronger marital bond.Looking to transform your marriage and life? Our transformative Marriage Workshop for Couples offers insights into vital topics like communication, forgiveness, and attachment theory. With a 70% success rate over 25 years, this workshop provides new perspectives and actionable strategies in a safe and respectful environment. Whether you're navigating past pain or aiming to improve your relationship dynamics, our workshop offers tools to create lasting change. Discover why many attendees wish they had known these techniques before tying the knot.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't in finding the perfect partner, but in standing firm when the storm hits? Coach Jared from Marriage Helper shares his transformative journey from nearly walking away from his marital vows to discovering the profound rewards of unwavering commitment. You'll hear Jared's compelling personal story of how he and his wife turned potential heartbreak into a flourishing relationship. This episode dives into the real, often overlooked value of sticking to your promises when everyone else might advise you to give up. Join us as Jared challenges the notion that relationships are disposable and unearths the potential for reconciliation and personal growth amidst marital struggles. He offers heartfelt insights into how perseverance, even when it seems most difficult, can lead to significant positive changes for you and your loved ones. Whether you're dealing with trust issues, family conflicts, or societal pressures, find out how steadfast commitment and working on oneself can become the catalyst for healing and hope. Listen in to transform your perspective and embrace the possibilities of a renewed, fulfilling marriage.Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What happens when the person you vowed to spend your life with seems to hate you? Joining us on today's episode is Roald Gerber, Marriage Helper's Workshop Fulfillment Manager, who sheds light on this challenging scenario. Unravel the misconceptions tying hate to love and indifference, and gain practical advice on mental resilience and understanding your spouse's perspective. We address a listener's poignant question about coping with a spouse's expressed hatred, offering actionable steps to transform negative emotions into positive connections and reduce tension in the relationship.If you would like to submit questions to be featured on Relationship Radio, click here!Want to have the proven, practical steps to save your marriage?Click here to sign up for our Save My Marriage Membership today!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!What do you do when your spouse drops the bombshell that they want out of the marriage? Take a deep breath and join Coach Jared, Marriage Helper's membership fulfillment manager, as he shares his own journey through this painful revelation and guides you through five vital steps to handle this emotional whirlwind. Jared's advice is grounded in personal experience, emphasizing the necessity of staying calm, genuinely understanding your spouse's perspective, and focusing on personal growth. He encourages you to become an attractive force through calmness, gentleness, and acceptance, avoiding the pitfalls of guilt-tripping behaviors that can push your spouse further away.Through Jared's candid storytelling and practical tips, you'll learn how to navigate this crisis with wisdom. Discover the importance of listening to your spouse without immediately offering solutions, and the power of working on your physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual attractiveness—what we call your "PIES." Jared also shares resources like workshops, one-on-one coaching, and comprehensive toolkits to support you through these tough times. If you're in the midst of this heartache, this episode offers a beacon of hope and actionable steps to rebuild your marriage from the inside out.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Can a perfect marriage ever truly exist, or is it just a figment of our media-influenced imagination? Coach Jared from Marriage Helper is here to challenge our conventional beliefs and offers a fresh, more attainable perspective on what makes a marriage truly fulfilling. In this episode, we dissect how media shapes our unrealistic expectations and why striving for perfection might be hindering your relationship's potential. By embracing the inherent imperfections in each other, we cultivate an environment ripe for deeper love, patience, and understanding. Join Coach Jared as he draws from personal experiences and practical advice to help you navigate the complexities of marital expectations. Learn how to communicate effectively and support each other's growth without falling into the trap of idealized perfection. Discover how to transform your relationship into a meaningful journey where imperfections are celebrated as opportunities for growth, making your marriage not just good, but exceptionally real and fulfilling. Tune in to uncover the tools and insights you need to create the best version of your marriage.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!How do you find the balance between being assertive and being a loving husband without being labeled a jerk or a doormat? Join Coach Jared on this episode of Marriage Helper as he offers practical tips and heartfelt advice on becoming the husband your spouse has always dreamed of. Jared dives deep into the art of active listening, showing appreciation, and the importance of spending quantity time with your wife. Learn why those seemingly mundane moments are vital for building emotional intimacy and strengthening your relationship. But that's not all. Jared introduces the transformative concept of "pies" – focusing on Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual growth – to help you become not just a better husband, but a better you. From hitting the gym and meditating to picking up new hobbies and engaging in activities with a glad heart, discover how these small yet impactful changes can enhance your personal growth and make you more attractive. Don't miss this episode brimming with actionable advice and resources designed to help you thrive in your marriage. Tune in and take the first step toward becoming the best version of yourself!

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Could your partner's new friendship be crossing the line? Join us as Coach Jared from Marriage Helper sheds light on recognizing the subtle but powerful signs of an emotional affair. From increased privacy and unexplained defensiveness to growing emotional distance, discover the key behaviors that might indicate your partner is seeking emotional fulfillment elsewhere. Coach Jared introduces the intriguing concept of "the wall and the bricks," revealing how vulnerability can pave the way from harmless friendship to emotional intimacy.Stay calm and proactive as we explore practical steps to address these concerns without panic. Through self-improvement and open communication, learn how to navigate these challenging situations constructively. With Marriage Helper's expert guidance, uncover how recognizing the problem is just the beginning and find out the best ways to support your relationship in times of emotional uncertainty. Don't miss this comprehensive discussion packed with valuable insights and actionable advice.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!In this powerful and personal story, Coach Jared shares his journey from a place of deep unhappiness and hopelessness in his marriage to finding hope and healing with Marriage Helper. As the Membership Fulfillment Manager and a seasoned coach with over 10,000 hours of experience, Jared has helped thousands of couples navigate the complex challenges of marriage. But before all of that, he was a spouse who wanted out, convinced that the grass was greener elsewhere.Jared opens up about the struggles he and his wife faced—stemming from their unique backgrounds and personal baggage—and how these issues caused a recurring cycle of conflict and disconnection in their marriage. At his lowest point, Jared was ready to end it all. However, a chance encounter with a Marriage Helper article changed the course of his life. Through this video, Jared details his transformation: from a resentful husband sneaking out at night, to a man who discovered the power of vulnerability, emotional safety, and the practical steps needed to rebuild a loving, committed relationship.Join Jared as he recounts how the Marriage Helper workshop taught him the importance of following the “Love Path” and embracing the PIES of attraction (Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual). Discover how these tools helped him and his wife rekindle their friendship and build a stronger, more authentic connection.If you're feeling hopeless, thinking that your marriage is beyond repair, know that there is a way forward. Whether you're the spouse wanting out or the one fighting to save your marriage, Marriage Helper has the resources and support to help you turn things around. Reach out to us today—we're here to walk with you every step of the way.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!It's one of the most terrifying and confusing experiences in a marriage—suspecting that your spouse might be cheating, but not having enough evidence to be sure. In this video, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes from Marriage Helper present a practical “RD MAP” that helps you assess the likelihood of infidelity in your relationship. Each letter in “RD MAP” stands for a specific set of behaviors or changes that may indicate a problem: Respond, Different treatment, Missing elements, Altered patterns, and Protected items. However, it's crucial to remember that these signs are not definitive proof of an affair. They are merely indicators that something may be off, prompting you to dig deeper and possibly have a crucial conversation with your spouse.Whether you're facing suspicions of infidelity or dealing with shifts in your marriage that you can't quite put your finger on, this roadmap can guide you toward clarity. But before taking drastic measures like hiring a private investigator or installing tracking devices, Dr. Beam and Kimberly discuss why it's important to approach the situation with wisdom and care.If you're in a tough spot and unsure how to proceed, Marriage Helper offers resources, from coaching sessions to intensive workshops, to help you navigate these difficult waters and work toward saving your marriage.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Can a marriage survive the weight of depression? Join us in this eye-opening episode of Relationship Radio as we tackle this pressing question and guide you through the labyrinth of depression within a marriage in crisis. We break down major depressive disorder, its symptoms, and the PHQ-9 screening tool to help you understand the profound impact depression can have on both individuals and their relationships. We explore how biochemical imbalances and external stressors like infidelity can exacerbate the situation, reinforcing the importance of seeking professional help.Moreover, we offer a lifeline of hope and practical solutions to reclaim your mental health and strengthen your marriage. We discuss a range of treatment options including medication, cognitive behavioral therapy, and even innovative methods like magnetic therapy. We share promising insights on the effectiveness of these treatments, especially magnetic therapy, urging listeners to take proactive measures. This episode is packed with essential information and heartfelt advice, designed to support both individual well-being and the health of your relationship. Don't miss this opportunity to learn how to navigate and overcome depression in your marriage.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Discover how your childhood experiences shape your present relationships and uncover the secrets to healthier attachments with expert coach Jared from Marriage Helper. Are you curious about how your attachment style influences your interactions with your partner? Jared shares a compelling story about a little girl with an alcoholic father, illustrating how early life events mold our emotional frameworks. From preoccupied to secure attachment, understand these styles in-depth and learn about the potential for growth and transformation when we feel safe and supported in our relationships.Explore the transformative options Marriage Helper offers to improve and strengthen your marriage. Whether you're looking for support as an individual or as a couple, we have tailored workshops that fit your needs, available both online and in-person. Learn about our intensive three-day workshop designed to foster growth and resilience in your marital journey. Special thanks to Jared for his invaluable insights and guidance on navigating the complexities of relationship dynamics. Tune in to gain practical advice and discover the resources that can help you build a more secure and fulfilling partnership.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Feeling lost and betrayed after your spouse's affair? Wondering if it's even worth fighting for your marriage?On Relationship Radio, we dive deep into the raw emotions and difficult questions surrounding infidelity. We explore alternative paths to divorce and separation, emphasizing that you're not alone in this journey.Join us as we offer practical strategies and insights to help you:* Confront the pain: We validate your hurt and anger, guiding you towards healing and forgiveness.* Shift your focus: Learn to control what you can control – yourself – and rewire your brain for calm and solutions.* Fight for unity: Discover how to move past blame and resentment, embracing a team mentality for a thriving marriage.If you're ready to explore a path towards reconciliation and a stronger, more fulfilling marriage, don't miss this episode of Relationship Radio!Remember: You are not alone. There is hope for healing and a brighter future.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP FOR TODAY'S WEBINARStruggling to understand when to stand up for yourself in a marriage crisis? Join us on Relationship Radio as we dive into the concept of essential vs. detrimental "pushes" in a marriage. We discuss the difference between standing for your needs and pushing your spouse away, using the SMART Contact method to navigate those difficult conversations.Learn how to prioritize healthy communication, manage conflict, and ultimately heal your relationship. If you're feeling lost and overwhelmed in your marriage, this episode offers practical tools and insights to help you navigate the path toward reconciliation.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!How to Apologize to Your Spouse After an Affair or Other HurtsIn this Marriage Helper episode, we discuss the importance of sincere apologies in marriage. We share tips on how to apologize to your spouse after an affair, as well as how to apologize for everyday hurts. The importance of staying calm, avoiding defensiveness, and taking ownership for your actions is emphasized. Also discussed is how to work with your spouse to develop a plan to change negative behaviors. If you are struggling with how to apologize to your spouse, this video is for you!Key Points:• The heart behind an apology should be sincere and strive for emotional connection.• Avoid defensiveness and take ownership for your actions.• Listen to your spouse and try to understand their perspective.• Develop a plan with your spouse to change negative behaviors.• Don't apologize repeatedly for the same thing.

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Is your marriage feeling suffocating? In this video, we discuss the signs of a suffocating marriage and offer tips on how to address the issue. We explore the concept of "pushes and pulls" in relationships, and how to identify and correct behaviors that are pushing your spouse away.We also discuss the importance of self-reflection and communication in overcoming feelings of suffocation. If you are feeling suffocated in your marriage, we encourage you to reach out for help. Marriage Helper offers a variety of resources, including coaching and workshops, to help you improve your relationship. Don't wait until it's too late. Watch this video and learn how to create a marriage that you both enjoy.In this video:• What does it mean when love feels suffocating?• Signs of a suffocating relationship• How to identify and correct push behaviors• The importance of self-reflection and communication• Resources for helpWatch now and learn how to save your marriage from suffocation.Click here to learn more about membership!