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Books are like buses. When you open up a book, it will take you to a new place. It will take you on a new adventure. Sometimes the book will take you on a journey of the imagination to a new country or a science fiction place. Sometimes the book will take you on a path of learning you've never explored before, and that path will lead you down other paths, and then those paths will lead you down even more paths, and you will be able to meander through information that delights your mind and opens you up to new ideas and ways of looking at the world. Books shape the way we think, feel, and show up in the world. They can even influence who we hang out with, who we agree or disagree with, and how we approach those agreements or disagreements. Books are important. They have just as much influence over us as people do because they are written by people with bias, people with their own programming, people with their own lived experience or lack thereof. Charlie Jones once wrote “Remember, you are the same today as you will be in five years, except for two things: the people you meet and the books you read. Choose both carefully.”When it comes to books about deconstruction, I've found some to be life-giving and hope-saturated, and I've found others to be depressing and hopeless. In today's episode, I talk about some of the books that have changed my life and my relationship with God. For the better! Read the show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Books on books on books: Gaslighted by God: Reconstructing a Disillusioned Faith by Tiffany Yecke Brooks (and the podcast interview I did with her)Holy Ghosted: Spiritual Anxiety and Religious Trauma and the Language of Abuse by Tiffany Yecke Brooks (and the podcast interview I did with her)All the Scary Little Gods by Yours TrulyFaith Beyond Doubt: Why Your Beliefs Stopped Working and What to Do About It by Brian McLarenA Spiritual Evolution by John McMurrayLove Wins by Rob BellSearching for Sunday: Loving, Leaving, and Finding the Church - a memoir by the late Rachel Held EvansThe Sin of Certainty: Why God Desires Our Trust More Than Our "Correct" Beliefs by Peter EnnsThe Bible Tells Me So: Why Defending Scripture Has Made Us Unable to Read It by Peter EnnsHow the Bible Actually Works by Peter EnnsThe Making of Biblical Womanhood: How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth by Beth Allison BarrAttached to God by Krispin Mayfield (and the podcast interview I did with him)Christianity After Religion: The End of Church and the Birth of a New Spiritual Awakening By Diana Butler BassAre you wondering what is happening inside your own painful and confusing marriage? I wrote another book just for you called Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse. Flying Free is my online membership program designed for Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages. Whether you want to stay in your marriage or leave, we want to equip and support you through this program.Flying Higher is my online membership program for divorced Christian women. Come rebuild your life after divorce with women just like you. 

Are you questioning the church of your upbringing but want to maintain your faith? Do you want to cut ties with your denomination, but fear abandonment by God? Are you struggling with spiritual anxiety—fear of hell, obsessive religious ritual, or feelings of never measuring up?  Tiffany Yecke Brooks first explored reconstructing faith in Gaslighted by God. In […]

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In dieser Folge sprechen Franzi und Dinah über die 11. Folge von Temptation und es geht vor allem um Gaslighting. Gaslighting wird in den letzen Jahren sehr inflationär benutzt - ein Phänomen was immerwieder bemängelt wird. Wir fragen uns, woran das liegt und ob es wirklich ein Problem ist und gehen der Frage auf den Grund, ob Josh Nasrin gaslighted. Übergeordnet stehen natürlich wie immer die Fragen: Was können wir von Trash-TV über uns selber lernen? Welche Beziehungsdynamiken und Konflikte können wir bei den Teilnehmer*innen beobachten, die uns vielleicht auch im alltäglichen Leben begegnen? Was können wir durch die Formate über Romantik, Vertrauen, und Liebe lernen? Was sagt die psychologische Forschung zu den Themen die wir beobachten? Und vorallem: Sind uns die Protagonist*innen, die wir am aller schlimmsten finden, am Ende vielleicht doch ähnlicher als wir gerne glauben würden? #Dating #Psychologie #Psychologin #Reality-TV #Beziehungen #Paare #dating-Erfahrungen #Trennung #redflag #toxischeBeziehung #Expartner #ex #socialmedia #verführung #temptationisland #tammo #marie #nasrin #josh #eifersucht

Tiffany Yecke Brooks is the author of the new book Holy Ghosted: Spiritual Anxiety, Religious Trauma, and the Language of Abuse which equips readers to understand and name tactics of spiritual abuse and manipulation. Each chapter covers a different method of control found in toxic religious communities--including legalism, indoctrination, praise, and fear--and how to identify and respond to it healthily. Tiffany is the lead or contributing author on more than two dozen books, including Gaslighted by God: Reconstructing a Disillusioned Faith. A popular speaker for student groups, faith conferences, and academic lectureships, Brooks holds a Ph.D. in American and Dramatic Literature from Florida State University. In this compelling episode, Tiffany and Rachel cover a wide range of topics, from the psychological impacts of spiritual anxiety to the manipulative use of language in religious settings. Rachel and Tiffany discuss the importance of recognizing and naming abusive tactics, the role of intuition in protecting oneself, and the challenges of breaking free from high-control environments. Tiffany also emphasizes the significance of understanding the context and interpretation of religious texts, and how authoritarian leaders often use rhetorical fallacies to maintain control. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the complexities of spiritual abuse and the paths to healing and empowerment. Discover more about Tiffany's work and her latest book at tiffanyyeckebrooks.com. Connect with us on Social Media: Twitter: twitter.com/_indoctrination Facebook: facebook.com/indoctrinationpodcast Instagram: instagram.com/indoctrinationpodcast YouTube: youtube.com/rachelbernsteinlmft To help support the show and get access to exclusive content, please visit: patreon.com/indoctrination Your reviews and ratings on Spotify and Apple/iTunes are greatly appreciated and help the show reach a wider audience.

Principles and Policies Podcast For Saturday 6/1/2024- Chuck Michaelis talks about “gaslighting”; what it is, how to recognize it, and how to counter it. The post PRINCIPLES AND POLICIES PODCAST FOR SATURDAY 6/1/2024- How To Tell If You're Being Gaslighted first appeared on Principled Policy Blog.

Spiritual anxiety, often the outcome of various forms of spiritual abuse and manipulation perpetuated by certain religious institutions, has become widespread among Christians. In her new book, Holy Ghosted: Spiritual Anxiety, Religious Trauma, and the Language of Abuse, Tiffany Yecke Brooks equips readers with how to identify these tactics, and offers pathways towards healing by inviting people to listen to the God who resides within.About Tiffany (she/her)Tiffany Yecke Brooks, PhD, is the lead or contributing writer for more than two dozen books. She is the coauther of Fear is a Choice: Tackling Life's Challenges with Dignity, Faith, and Determination (with NFL running back James Conner), Limitless: The Power of Hope and Resilience to Overcome Circumstance (with Paralympic gold-medalist Mallory Weggemann), and the narrative nonfiction historical thriller Espionage and Enslavement in the Revolution: The True Story of Robert Townsend and Elizabeth (with historian Claire Bellerjeau), and Gaslighted by God: Reconstructing a Disillusioned Faith. She has also published numerous articles in Smithsonian, New York Archives, and peer-reviewed journals. Tiffany has taught literature and writing at Abilene Christian University, McMurry University, and the University of South Carolina-Beaufort. She is currently completing an MA in Spiritual Formation at Portland Seminary.Connect with us!Sign up to receive a little Gospel in your inbox every Monday Morning with our weekly devotionalCheck out our website for various resources - including devotionals, journaling prompts, and even curriculumGet some Lady Preacher Podcast swagConnect with us on Instagram and Facebook

To find the newly released Holy Ghosted, visit Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Holy-Ghosted-Spiritual-Religious-Language-ebook/dp/B0CDL39X7H/ To find Gaslighted by God and her other books, visit: https://tiffanyyeckebrooks.com/ To learn more about The Spiritual Brewpub, visit: https://www.spiritualbrewpub.com/

Has your partner, mother or friend ever denied reality? Have they ever shifted the blame on you and never taken responsibility. Do they make you feel confused like you are going crazy?@03:13.52 What is gaslighting?@07:00.48 What are the signs of Gaslighting?@15:13.76 Impact of Gaslighting@19:01.79 Strategies to Manage Gaslighting@24:15.99 ConclusionAsk Stephhttps://forms.gle/uMBhmtLW16ancWEc8 To access more of my courses use this linkhttps://stan.store/mindfoodstephWant to build a healthy relationship with food?Book a FREE 1:1 eating evaluation call HERE30 DAY MINDSET RESET CHALLENGEhttps://stan.store/mindfoodsteph/p/get-started-with-my-transformative-course FREE Resources:**Download my [FREE binge eating tracker tool](https://stan.store/mindfoodsteph/p/get-my-free-binge-eating-tracker-tool-now.)**Experiencing burnout? Free guide here‌Psychological support:ADHD Assessment enquiryDISCOUNT CODE: TIKTOK20‌Contact:Website: http://www.mindfoodpsychology.com‌Social media:TikTokInstagramFacebookHelp lines ‌DISCLAIMER: This is NOT therapy or a substitute for psychological and medical advice.Review the podcast on Apple By sharing, following, or rating the podcast, you help me reach more people so they can understand the importance of mental health. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[in this episode: Dr. Tiffany Yecke Brooks and host, Joey Svendsen]Dr. Tiffany Yecke Brooks joins to talk her newest book, Holy Ghosted: Spiritual Anxiety, Religious Trauma, and the Language of Abuse, which is a follow-up to her previous book Gaslighted by God.  Together, her and Joey discuss spiritual anxiety (including scrupulosity), the important difference between deconstructing faith and deconstructing God, and how spiritual questions are a sign of closeness rather than separation from God, the damaging characteristics of toxic religious communities, and many other themes found in Holy Ghosted. More about "Holy Ghosted": Equipping readers to understand and name tactics of spiritual abuse and manipulation, each chapter covers a different method of control found in toxic religious communities--including legalism, indoctrination, praise, and fear--and how to identify and respond to it healthily. Brooks also reframes scriptural passages commonly weaponized by those in power. Weaving together interviews with diverse Christians and her own experience, Brooks empowers readers to trust their intuition, seek truth fearlessly, and love God and neighbor without restraint or fear.Get The B-Sides Feed  Facebook Discussion Group here.E-mail the PWNA team here.Theme Song and Intro Music: the rhyme slayer himself, Stoy Prioleau (aka: Riggy Rock): Apple MusicClosing music by Derek Minor.  

In this episode, James discusses the convergence of Easter and the Transgender Day of Visibility that occured this March 31st. After clearing some ground about the Bible's teachings about our misdirected desires and actions, as well as what it means to be made in the image of God, James discusses the political messaging that can be a distraction to the Church (both on Easter and beyond).  To read James' opinion piece published by Fox News, click here.  For more of James' thinking on the Church and politics, purchase his new book Serpents and Doves: Christians, Politics, and the Art of Bearing Witness at amazon.com. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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In this episode we turn up the heat on the topic of gaslighting. If you have ever been a victim of gaslighting, then you know just how destructive and disarming this can be. Learn more about what gaslighting is, how to know if you are being gaslighted, and ultimately what to do about it. Dr. Ramani's YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Have a topic you would like us to discuss on the show? If so, send us an email and let us know at un.believer.inbetweener@gmail.com.  

PJ talks to Julianna who feels the government is gaslighting voters by saying the proposals were not explained properly. He also talks to Independent Cllr Paudie Dineen about why he voted no. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Summary Tiffany Yecke Brooks, PhD shares her personal journey of growing up in a fundamentalist faith tradition. She discusses the moment she realized something was wrong and how it led her to write a book called Holy Ghosted. She also explains the concept of spiritual anxiety and religious trauma and how churches use them to indoctrinate us. Takeaways Churches need to address the exclusion of the queer community and reconsider the interpretation of clobber passages. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:00 Growing Up in a Fundamentalist Faith Tradition 06:00 Questioning Gender Roles and Church Leadership 13:00 Writing a Book Speaking Out 20:00 Understanding Spiritual Anxiety and Religious Trauma 25:00 Setting Boundaries vs. Manipulation and Control 35:00 The Importance of Clarity and Authenticity in Churches 36:13 Exclusion of the Queer Community 37:31 Linguistical Whiplash in Churches 44:30 Building a Healthy Church Community 48:13 The Big Picture and Context Read Holy Ghosted by Tiffany Yecke Brooks Learn more about The Summit For Religious Freedom Follow Us On Instagram @thenewevangelicals  Subscribe On YouTube Support Our Work Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whether it's former All-domain Anomaly Resolution Office Director Dr. Sean Kirkpatrick or a cabal of skeptical editors controlling the narrative on Wikipedia, the truth of the matter is the world is getting gaslighted on all sides when it comes to the UFO phenomenon. Links/Sources: UFO Coverup: The Wikipedia Secret Cabal (youtube.com) Joe Murgia on X: "This pro-Kirkpatrick piece is written by @mjgault. Brief excerpts below, with comments by me in ( ). "[AARO has] issued reports over the past few years that have routinely debunked the idea that the Earth has been visited by visitors from the stars." (That's your opinion.…" / X (twitter.com) Former UFO Office Director's Opinions Draw Scrutiny on Impartiality and Investigation Handling — Liberation Times | Reimagining Old News Former Pentagon UFO Investigator Is Pissed Because Congress Believes In Conspiracy Theories (vice.com) Air Force Alters Texas UFO Explanation : NPR Barry Goldwater - Wikiquote Ricky Sorrells: UFO Witness is Working in the Real Estate Business Today (thecinemaholic.com) The Twining Memo (roswellfiles.com) Unfriendly skies: The extraordinary flight of JAL 1628, Alaska's best known UFO encounter | News | anchoragepress.com Japan Air Lines Cargo Flight 1628 incident - Wikipedia Check out my YouTube channel: Quirk Zone - YouTube Extraterrestrial Reality book recommendations: Link to ROSWELL: THE ULTIMATE COLD CASE: CLOSED: https://amzn.to/3O2loSI Link to COMMUNION by Whitley Strieber: https://amzn.to/3xuPGqi Link to THE THREAT by David M. Jacobs: https://amzn.to/3Lk52nj Link to TOP SECRET/MAJIC by Stanton Friedman: https://amzn.to/3xvidfv Link to NEED TO KNOW by Timothy Good:  https://amzn.to/3BNftfT Link to UFOS AND THE NATIONAL SECURITY STATE, VOLUME 1:  https://amzn.to/3xxJvlv Link to UFOS AND THE NATIONAL SECURITY STATE, VOLUME 2: https://amzn.to/3UhdQ1l Link to THE ALLAGASH ABDUCTIONS: https://amzn.to/3qNkLSg Link to UFO CRASH RETRIEVALS by Leonard Stringfield: https://amzn.to/3RGEZKs FLYING SAUCERS FROM OUTER SPACE by Major Donald Keyhoe: https://amzn.to/3S7Wkxv CAPTURED: THE BETTY AND BARNEY HILL UFO EXPERIENCE by Stanton Friedman and Kathleen Marden: https://amzn.to/3tKNVXn --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/james-quirk/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/james-quirk/support

Whether it's former All-domain Anomaly Resolution Office Director Dr. Sean Kirkpatrick or a cabal of skeptical editors controlling the narrative on Wikipedia, the truth of the matter is the world is getting gaslighted on all sides when it comes to the UFO phenomenon. Links/Sources: UFO Coverup: The Wikipedia Secret Cabal (youtube.com) Joe Murgia on X: "This pro-Kirkpatrick piece is written by @mjgault. Brief excerpts below, with comments by me in ( ). "[AARO has] issued reports over the past few years that have routinely debunked the idea that the Earth has been visited by visitors from the stars." (That's your opinion.…" / X (twitter.com) Former UFO Office Director's Opinions Draw Scrutiny on Impartiality and Investigation Handling — Liberation Times | Reimagining Old News Former Pentagon UFO Investigator Is Pissed Because Congress Believes In Conspiracy Theories (vice.com) Air Force Alters Texas UFO Explanation : NPR Barry Goldwater - Wikiquote Ricky Sorrells: UFO Witness is Working in the Real Estate Business Today (thecinemaholic.com) The Twining Memo (roswellfiles.com) Unfriendly skies: The extraordinary flight of JAL 1628, Alaska's best known UFO encounter | News | anchoragepress.com Japan Air Lines Cargo Flight 1628 incident - Wikipedia Check out my YouTube channel: Quirk Zone - YouTube Extraterrestrial Reality book recommendations: Link to ROSWELL: THE ULTIMATE COLD CASE: CLOSED: https://amzn.to/3O2loSI Link to COMMUNION by Whitley Strieber: https://amzn.to/3xuPGqi Link to THE THREAT by David M. Jacobs: https://amzn.to/3Lk52nj Link to TOP SECRET/MAJIC by Stanton Friedman: https://amzn.to/3xvidfv Link to NEED TO KNOW by Timothy Good:  https://amzn.to/3BNftfT Link to UFOS AND THE NATIONAL SECURITY STATE, VOLUME 1:  https://amzn.to/3xxJvlv Link to UFOS AND THE NATIONAL SECURITY STATE, VOLUME 2: https://amzn.to/3UhdQ1l Link to THE ALLAGASH ABDUCTIONS: https://amzn.to/3qNkLSg Link to UFO CRASH RETRIEVALS by Leonard Stringfield: https://amzn.to/3RGEZKs FLYING SAUCERS FROM OUTER SPACE by Major Donald Keyhoe: https://amzn.to/3S7Wkxv CAPTURED: THE BETTY AND BARNEY HILL UFO EXPERIENCE by Stanton Friedman and Kathleen Marden: https://amzn.to/3tKNVXn --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/james-quirk/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/james-quirk/support

In this solo episode, Dr. Nicole delves into the multifaceted topic of executive presence and its significance within the corporate world. She begins with a cautionary tale about Jenna, who received feedback on her executive presence but struggles to figure out how to improve it. Dr. Nicole emphasizes that executive presence is a real leadership quality for career growth in any organization. She makes the case that it goes beyond a superficial image and involves one's demeanor, communication skills, and overall ability to lead and inspire. Join us in this episode with Dr. Nicole to unlock the secrets of executive presence, authentic leadership, and actionable steps for your career advancement - it's a must-listen for anyone looking to climb the corporate ladder with confidence and impact. In today's episode, we cover the following: *A cautionary tale of what happens when you are given feedback about your executive presence but you don't necessarily know how to deal with that feedback or what actions you need to take. (02:45) *Executive presence is authentic and is necessary for one to move into the senior ranks of any organization. (05:52) *Meaning of “gaslighting”. (06:34) *Examples of being “gaslighted” at work when it comes to executive presence. (06:54) *The vague rejection feedback and what it does. (08:38) *3 components of executive presence according to Dr Sylvia in order of importance. (10:01) *3 things that you can do if you want to improve your executive presence. (12:53) Let's connect! LinkedIn: Dr. Nicole A. Byan Website: https://www.thechangedoc.com/ Give this podcast a 5-star review >>> https://ratethispodcast.com/leadingherway Register for my free newsletter: https://services.thechangedoc.com/community Join us in On Her Rise - the best career accelerator program for ambitious women leaders. Get on the waitlist to be the first to get access to seats in the next cohort: https://services.thechangedoc.com/onherrisewaitlist

Last week, Julie and Chuck discussed Gaslighting, and this week, in part two, they will discuss what to do if you are being gaslighted. It starts with ten phrases that help you identify gaslighting and the appropriate responses to avoid being gaslighted.

In today's episode, Molly delves into the nuanced process of reclaiming your personal narrative in the aftermath of betrayal, without resorting to revenge tactics. Utilizing Britany Spears' memoir as a case study, Molly emphasizes how harnessing the power of social media platforms can be a double-edged sword. Done correctly, it allows you to share your perspective and control the story surrounding you, but improper use can perpetuate misunderstandings and escalate tensions.Molly provides actionable steps and strategic advice on how to own your narrative responsibly. By understanding the implications and reach of different platforms, you can better craft your message to effectively communicate your truth. Molly's insights make it clear that it is not just about what you say, but how and where you say it, that makes all the difference in how your story is understood and received.More from Molly McPherson: Join PR Confidential on Patreon for expert analysis on PR tactics and spin ripped from the headlines. Pose your PR pop culture questions directly to Molly and gain exclusive insights, including bonus commentary from her podcasts and TikTok. Getting flamed on Social Media? I can help you. Click here for Crisis Communication Support. Linktree Instagram TikTok Twitter/X YouTube Facebook Listen and Subscribe to Apple Podcasts Indestructible: Reclaim Control and Respond with Confidence in a Media Crisis Indestructible: Reclaim Control and Respond with Confidence in a Media Crisis - Audio Book © 2023 In...

Welcome back to OAWJ, this week's episode is actually the follow on to episode 62 that you didn't know you needed and I didn't know I needed to record up until today. I dive into:  I am using my birth month as my own personal New Year  You are being gaslighted by the personal development space… People are actually denying the duality of the world that we live in I am here to show you how standard personal development, standard mindset work and standard energetics work is keeping you stuck in problem solving mode and keeping you from actually from stepping into your full potential So much of the coaching industry is contributing to this conditioning and to the gaslighting and to the beliefs and to the problem-solving mindset ⁠The Shift 1:1 session⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you loved what you heard here, let's continue the conversation over on my ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the OAWJ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Join⁠⁠⁠⁠ Expanders my FREE Facebook group where you will be encouraged to build million dollar momentum & biz results that defy logic!

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As we wrap up vacation we bring you another favorite episode from the past. Look forward to new episodes coming soon. Gaslighting is a term we often hear, but would you know when and if it was happening to you? ??For those who don't know what gaslighting is, it's when someone tries to convince you that something they said or did never occurred. The gaslighter denies the reality of what you know happened, then makes you question yourself and what you know to be true.?? My guest today whom we'll call Wende (that's not her real name) was gaslighted throughout her nine year relationship, so she never really knew for sure if her partner cheated on her. I have my own point of view as to whether or not Wende's partner cheated, but I'll let you listen and decide what you think was really going on behind all that gaslighting.?? It will amaze you to learn what Wende's job is. It reminded me that love can sometimes obscure the most obvious of truths.

In this episode I am joined by Dr Nicholas Van Dam, the inaugural Director of the Contemplative Studies Centre and an Associate Professor in the Melbourne School of Psychological Sciences at the University of Melbourne, and Chelsey Fasano, a Columbia University neuroscience graduate. Dr Van Dam discusses his 2018 paper ‘Mind the Hype: A Critical Evaluation and Prescriptive Agenda for Research on Mindfulness and Meditation' which levels serious criticisms at his own field of mindfulness research and contemplative neuroscience, taking aim at poor methodological practices, problems with definitions, and the strong incentives in the field which can conflict with the pursuit of science. Dr Van Dam reveals what he calls the unholy triad of mindfulness research, explores the theme of elitism in meditation, and raises questions about the studies conducted on Buddhist contemplative Matthieu Ricard, known as the ‘happiest man in the world'. Dr Van Dam also considers the degree to which mindfulness can be meaningfully isolated apart from its traditional religious contexts, notes the adverse effects of meditation, and shares his thoughts for the individual meditator on how to practice and who to trust in todays meditation marketplace. … Video version: https://www.guruviking.com/podcast/ep213-mind-the-hype-dr-nicholas-van-dam-chelsey-fasano 
Also available on Youtube, iTunes, & Spotify – search ‘Guru Viking Podcast'. … Topics Include: 00:00 - Intro 01:26 - Mind the Hype 03:02 - Realising something was wrong with the mindfulness field 05:30 - Has the field improved? 06:20 - Perverse incentives 08:08 - The unholy triad of mindfulness 09:53 - The definition problem 11:56 - Poor standards of evidence 14:36 - Misunderstanding of neuroplasticity 16:36 - The Matthieu Ricard problem and elitism 19:17 - Olympians of the mind 21:21 - Adverse effects of meditation 22:11 - History of elitism in Buddhist meditation 23:48 - Controversies about defining mindfulness 29:16 - The judgment trap 31:58 - Operationalising mindfulness to serve the research agenda 32:58 - Missing the traditional context 35:40 - To what extent can science be informed by traditional schema? 42:01 - Consequences of moving away from religious thinking 46:45 - Scientism as a faith position 47:41 - Profit incentives 51:17 - What motivates mindfulness researchers? 51:29 - How to we recognise authority? 52:43 - Omertà and corrupt science 59:22 - Career risks in criticising mindfulness research 01:02:33 - Mindfulness is passé 01:04:28 - Critique of psychedelic and tech interventions 01:08:56 - Why bother with meditation? 01:12:39 - Importance of practice goals 01:13:50 - Is enlightenment really worth the effort and risk? 01:16:40 - Is meditation just practicing skilful suffering? 01:18:21 - Real practice doesn't sell 01:20:46 - Advice for meditation practitioners 01:23:22 - Recommendations for mindfulness researchers 01:23:58 - Gaslighted by religious traditions 01:24:51 - Who can we trust? 01:27:26 - Contemplative Studies Centre … To find out more about Dr Van Dam, visit: - https://www.nicholastvandam.com/ - https://psychologicalsciences.unimelb.edu.au/CSC - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29016274/ To find our more about Chelsey Fasano visit: - www.chelseyfasano.com For more interviews, videos, and more visit: - https://www.guruviking.com Music ‘Deva Dasi' by Steve James

Produced by KSQD 89.5, 89.7, & 90.7FM “Be Bold America!” Sunday July 30, 2023 at 5:00pm (PDT In 2007, Dr. Robin Stern coined the phrase “gaslight effect” to explain the long-term effects of repeated gaslighting: an insidious, and sometimes covert form of emotional abuse in which a gaslighter undermines and controls another person by deflecting, twisting and denying the reality.  Gaslighting can happen in a romantic relationship between family members, or at work – but in every case it leaves, you constantly second-guessing yourself, unable to make simple decisions, and destabilize from the constant reality shift. Also, have we been politically gaslighted on a national level?   Interview Guest:  Robin, Stern, PhD, is the cofounder and associate director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and co-developer of RULER, an evidence-based approach adopted by over 4000 schools worldwide.  Dr. Stern is a license psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience and the author of Project Rebirth, The Gaslight Effect, The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide, and the host of "The Gaslight Effect Podcast,"  Dr. Stern offers invaluable insights into the dynamics of gaslighting and its impact on emotional well-being. She regularly contributes to esteemed publications and media outlets on topics related to psychology and emotional intelligence. 

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In this episode, you'll discover a wealth of insights and practical strategies to help you rebuild your self-trust after experiencing gaslighting. Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic used by certain individuals to make you question your own reality and doubt your own perceptions. It can leave you feeling isolated, confused, and lacking in self-confidence. Marriage and family therapist Todd Creager delves into the concept of gaslighting and its detrimental effects on your self-trust. He explains the tactics and motives behind gaslighting, shedding light on why some people resort to such destructive behavior. By understanding the mechanisms at play, you'll be better equipped to recognize gaslighting when it occurs and mitigate its impact on your self-esteem.Todd provides you with practical strategies to rebuild your self-trust. You'll learn how to honor your feelings and instincts, and how to reclaim your own truth. The video offers guidance on setting healthy boundaries, making decisions that prioritize your well-being, and surrounding yourself with supportive individuals who validate your worthiness.One of the most empowering aspects of this information is the validation and support that Todd offers. Todd reminds you that you're not alone in your experiences. You'll find solace in knowing that others have faced similar challenges and have successfully reclaimed their self-trust. This sense of community and understanding can be incredibly healing as you navigate the journey toward regaining your confidence.Overall, this video is a concise yet impactful resource that covers the essential aspects of rebuilding self-trust after gaslighting. It offers a fresh perspective, practical strategies, and a supportive community to empower you on your path to healing and self-discovery. Don't miss out on this valuable resource that can help you reclaim your identity and trust in yourself again. TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach, and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com HELPFUL LINKS:Thinking you're being manipulated by a gaslighter? Here's how to spot if you're being gaslighted:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/gaslighting-checklistJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:===================✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

Former US Senator Jim Talent joins Marc to discuss John Durham going before the House Judiciary Committee and if the FBI should be done away with

Ahhhhhh!!!!!!!!! Sorry!!! I'm late!!!! I'm giving you like two eppys in one though because I'm a people pleaser so hope that's ok! My pesky little spirit guides told me I was going to the Caribbean for 8 months straight, only to never get there. They had a pretty good reason but I'm still grumpy about it. You can support the podcast by: Booking a reading (woohoo!!!!) at psychic-ish.com Subscribing to Patreon Donating on Paypal   I'll see you tomorrow on the @psychicishpodcast insta story for this episode's question box. Come thru and share your theories (please!!), thoughts or questions. See you in less than two weeks! Lyd x

Today we're going to be talking about a topic that's made its way into the mainstream called Gaslighting. I'm so thrilled to be sharing space with one of the world's leading expert on the subject, and who actually coined the term Gaslight Effect, with Dr. Robin Stern. She has spent the majority of her amazing 30+ year career as a psychoanalyst treating individuals, couples, and families, while exploring the depths of what it truly means to feel.We're going to talk about what Gaslighting really is, what it isn't, who's susceptible to being Gaslighted, and the expert advice on how you can heal from emotional abuse to reclaim your authentic power. To really be your authentic self. MORE ABOUT ROBINDr. Robin Stern is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and has 30 years of experience as a licensed psychoanalyst. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life and The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse. Twitter: https://twitter.com/RobinSSternFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/drrobinsternCONNECT WITH OWL & KEYwww.owlandkey.cowww.instagram.com/owl_and_key/linktr.ee/owlandkey

We hope you enjoy this episode, and come back next week, and the week after, to hear more! On today's show, the boys had a weekend outing together to see Neil Hamburger and celebrate a birthday. Carson share's his story of getting gaslighted by a strange phone caller and Gavin talks about his school year coming to a close. They also talked about Coachella weekend 2, Travis Barker's enema, and Elon's secret burner. AND the EXCLUSIVE Sunny D Seltzer taste test!!! Want to stay up to date with the podcast? Give us a follow on our social media platforms, and check out the video version of this show on YouTube in the links below! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ittakesallkindspodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ITAKPodcast YouTube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSQ1H-tYJrxroyz82ygvJoI9splHke-Ez

What is gaslighting REALLY and what isn't?  Plus, how to know if you're in a relationship with a gaslighter, the three types of gaslighters, and how to break free from a gaslighter and reclaim yourself.  About Dr. Stern:  Robin Stern, Ph.D., is the co-founder and associate director for the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and an associate research scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale. She is a licensed psychoanalyst with 30 years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse.  TW: @RobinSStern IG: @dr.robinstern To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

TRANSCRIPT HERE WOW WELCOME TO EPISODE 50! So completely chuffed that we achieved this milestone! *FANFARE AND STREAMERS* The fabulously articulate (it's his job) Clinton McQueen joins us to unpack in great detail the legacy of Americas Next Top Model, specifically Cycle 11. We discuss how the series perpetuated beauty and body standards, and tackled issues of race, gender, sexuality, mental illness and disability. We also unpack how they portrayed the inclusion of first transgender model on the series (Isis King) and what it meant for the world. Because as you should know, trans women are women, and trans lives matter. To rewatch the ANTM season (if you so choose) click here!   Please note we recorded this episode before the abhorrent Anti-trans and Nazi attended March occurred in Melbourne and only make note of the anti-trans movements occurring overseas. I very much wish I didn't have to make this note.    CONTENT WARNING: body image and fat phobia, transphobia, homophobia, and sex work stigma, ableist language. Clinton and Steph do get a few pronouns and terms wrong despite attempts to do so (we refer to James St James as ‘he' however he identifies with all pronouns).    Follow Clinton @boyblinkquick on insta and find out if he ups his selfie game!   Follow Psychocinematic on Instagram,  Twitter and Tiktok! or join our Facebook Group! Email us at psychocinematicpodcast@gmail.com. Join our PATREON to support us and get sikkkk benefits and bonus content! And check out our NEW WEBSITE!!!   REFERENCES: Ask the Director: Marjorie Conrad talks about life after “Top Model” and her debut “Chemical Cut” | Read | The Take (the-take.com) 'America's Next Top Model' alum Lisa D'Amato accused Tyra Banks of using her 'childhood trauma' against her   Did America's Next Top Model Girls Have Eating Disorders? | OptimistMinds Did ANTM Cross The Line By Ignoring A Model's Disability? | by Whitney Foster | Medium America's Next Top Model star Isis King reveals show's 'hurtful' comments made her stronger | HELLO! (hellomagazine.com) Isis King Discusses Going from Homeless Transgender to Top Model | Teen Vogue Meet America's Next Top Model's first ever deaf contestant Nyle DiMarco (dailymail.co.uk) How ‘America's Next Top Model' Gaslighted the Models and Violated Their Boundaries | by Luna Laz | Write Like a Girl | Medium  'America's Next Top Model' House Had No Bathroom Doors (businessinsider.com)   NOTE: This podcast is not designed to be therapeutic, prescriptive or constitute a formal diagnosis for any listener, nor the characters discussed. The host is not representative of all psychologists and opinions stated are her own personal opinion, based on her own learnings and training (and minimal lived experience). Host and co-hosts do not have the final say and can only comment based on their own perspectives, so please let us know if you dispute any of these opinions – we are keen for feedback!

YOU KNOW WE ABOUTTA SEE DRAKE IN CONCERT AND WE BETTER SEE YA'LL THERE!!! Make sure to checkout @cashapp http://cash.app/drake-presale for more details. WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!! GET THAT CASH APP CARD AVAILABLE TO ANYONE 13+! #drakepresale #partner Debit card issued by Sutton Bank. EP 113: In this episode we open up the podcast by talking the "BEST" gaslighting phrases ever used against us OR that we've used against someone. We then go on to talk about if it's healthy to be in a relationship where you NEVER FIGHT with one another and everything just seems to be easy going. We also talk about if it's weird or sus for couples to post instagram photos of them with their significant other with a LONG caption attached to the bottom of it... as if they're trying to overcompensate for something... We wrap up the podcast by talking about mommas boy's and all the issues that come along with dating one. HOPE YA'LL ENJOY!!!! :D JOIN OUR DISCORD SERVER!!!!!! https://discord.gg/Gy5JhFzpTp SEND US STUFF TO OUR P.O. BOX!!!!!! 5035 Fullerton CA, 92838 LISTEN TO OUR PODCASTS "Suburb Talks" ON ALL PODCASTING PLATFORMS! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4YLbUxILwRNN9e1UUCDV1D FOR ALL BUSINESS INQUIRIES PLEASE EMAIL US AT: suburbtalksbusiness@gmail.com FULL PODCAST EDITED BY SEBASTIAN RIZKALLA Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/sebastianytp/ KEEP UP WITH US ON OUR INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT!!! https://www.instagram.com/suburbtalks/ KEEP UP WITH THE BOYZ ON MY SNAP!!! Snap: nick_grajeda SUBSCRIBE TO SAGE AND DEVIN'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL HERE!!!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCPOGm0fQnsedLcBieEugr5g SUBSCRIBE TO MARU'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL HERE!!!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCIQa1NnFM6uxBifhkSKnahA?sub_confirmation=1 FOLLOW OUR SOCIALS!!!! Nick Grajeda Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/nickgrajeda18/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/nickgrajeda18 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@nickgrajeda18?lang=en Devin Paul Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/devin_paul04/ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@devinpaul6?lang=en Sage Guillen Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/every1hatesage/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/sage_37 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@sage_37?lang=en Maru Lee Insta- https://www.instagram.com/maru_lee/?hl=en TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@maru.lee?lang=en Cynthia Choi Insta- https://www.instagram.com/cynxchoi/?hl=en Twitter-https://twitter.com/cynxchoi Christine Choi Insta- https://www.instagram.com/qwistine/ Discord- https://discord.gg/zJhsFcn9Kj Sean Williams Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/sean._.williams/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/seanw949 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@seanjw?lang=en Luke Hosozowa Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/lukejudochop/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/lukehoso13 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@lukehoso?lang=en Austin Donvito Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRRk1VFfERv23JWFh5YenYQ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/austin.donvito/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/AustinHendry35 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@austindonvito?lang=en Kyle Kirkland Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/kyle.kirkland/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/KyleKirkland25 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@bylebirkland25?lang=en Carey Martin Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCC8yq2cTqlGmOqhjrFYxx5w Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/careymrtn5/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/careymrtn5 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@careymrtn5?lang=en Owen Miller Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/iamowenmiller/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/_obmp_ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@ogkillaowenmilla?lang=en Wyatt Miller Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/father.wyatt/?hl=en TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@h.p.minecraft?lang=en Youtube- https://youtube.com/user/wyattmiller1998

EP 113: In this episode we open up the podcast by talking the "BEST" gaslighting phrases ever used against us OR that we've used against someone. We then go on to talk about if it's healthy to be in a relationship where you NEVER FIGHT with one another and everything just seems to be easy going. We also talk about if it's weird or sus for couples to post instagram photos of them with their significant other with a LONG caption attached to the bottom of it... as if they're trying to overcompensate for something... We wrap up the podcast by talking about mommas boy's and all the issues that come along with dating one. HOPE YA'LL ENJOY!!!! :D JOIN OUR DISCORD SERVER!!!!!! https://discord.gg/Gy5JhFzpTp SEND US STUFF TO OUR P.O. BOX!!!!!! 5035 Fullerton CA, 92838 LISTEN TO OUR PODCASTS "Suburb Talks" ON ALL PODCASTING PLATFORMS! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4YLbUxILwRNN9e1UUCDV1D FOR ALL BUSINESS INQUIRIES PLEASE EMAIL US AT: suburbtalksbusiness@gmail.com FULL PODCAST EDITED BY SEBASTIAN RIZKALLA Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/sebastianytp/ KEEP UP WITH US ON OUR INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT!!! https://www.instagram.com/suburbtalks/ KEEP UP WITH THE BOYZ ON MY SNAP!!! Snap: nick_grajeda SUBSCRIBE TO SAGE AND DEVIN'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL HERE!!!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCPOGm0fQnsedLcBieEugr5g SUBSCRIBE TO MARU'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL HERE!!!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCIQa1NnFM6uxBifhkSKnahA?sub_confirmation=1 FOLLOW OUR SOCIALS!!!! Nick Grajeda Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/nickgrajeda18/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/nickgrajeda18 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@nickgrajeda18?lang=en Devin Paul Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/devin_paul04/ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@devinpaul6?lang=en Sage Guillen Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/every1hatesage/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/sage_37 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@sage_37?lang=en Maru Lee Insta- https://www.instagram.com/maru_lee/?hl=en TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@maru.lee?lang=en Cynthia Choi Insta- https://www.instagram.com/cynxchoi/?hl=en Twitter-https://twitter.com/cynxchoi Christine Choi Insta- https://www.instagram.com/qwistine/ Discord- https://discord.gg/zJhsFcn9Kj Sean Williams Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/sean._.williams/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/seanw949 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@seanjw?lang=en Luke Hosozowa Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/lukejudochop/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/lukehoso13 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@lukehoso?lang=en Austin Donvito Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRRk1VFfERv23JWFh5YenYQ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/austin.donvito/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/AustinHendry35 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@austindonvito?lang=en Kyle Kirkland Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/kyle.kirkland/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/KyleKirkland25 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@bylebirkland25?lang=en Carey Martin Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCC8yq2cTqlGmOqhjrFYxx5w Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/careymrtn5/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/careymrtn5 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@careymrtn5?lang=en Owen Miller Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/iamowenmiller/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/_obmp_ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@ogkillaowenmilla?lang=en Wyatt Miller Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/father.wyatt/?hl=en TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@h.p.minecraft?lang=en Youtube- https://youtube.com/user/wyattmiller1998

YOU KNOW WE ABOUTTA SEE DRAKE IN CONCERT AND WE BETTER SEE YA'LL THERE!!! Make sure to checkout @cashapp http://cash.app/drake-presale for more details. WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!! GET THAT CASH APP CARD AVAILABLE TO ANYONE 13+! #drakepresale #partner Debit card issued by Sutton Bank. EP 113: In this episode we open up the podcast by talking the "BEST" gaslighting phrases ever used against us OR that we've used against someone. We then go on to talk about if it's healthy to be in a relationship where you NEVER FIGHT with one another and everything just seems to be easy going. We also talk about if it's weird or sus for couples to post instagram photos of them with their significant other with a LONG caption attached to the bottom of it... as if they're trying to overcompensate for something... We wrap up the podcast by talking about mommas boy's and all the issues that come along with dating one. HOPE YA'LL ENJOY!!!! :D JOIN OUR DISCORD SERVER!!!!!! https://discord.gg/Gy5JhFzpTp SEND US STUFF TO OUR P.O. BOX!!!!!! 5035 Fullerton CA, 92838 LISTEN TO OUR PODCASTS "Suburb Talks" ON ALL PODCASTING PLATFORMS! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4YLbUxILwRNN9e1UUCDV1D FOR ALL BUSINESS INQUIRIES PLEASE EMAIL US AT: suburbtalksbusiness@gmail.com FULL PODCAST EDITED BY SEBASTIAN RIZKALLA Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/sebastianytp/ KEEP UP WITH US ON OUR INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT!!! https://www.instagram.com/suburbtalks/ KEEP UP WITH THE BOYZ ON MY SNAP!!! Snap: nick_grajeda SUBSCRIBE TO SAGE AND DEVIN'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL HERE!!!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCPOGm0fQnsedLcBieEugr5g SUBSCRIBE TO MARU'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL HERE!!!! https://youtube.com/channel/UCIQa1NnFM6uxBifhkSKnahA?sub_confirmation=1 FOLLOW OUR SOCIALS!!!! Nick Grajeda Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/nickgrajeda18/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/nickgrajeda18 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@nickgrajeda18?lang=en Devin Paul Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/devin_paul04/ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@devinpaul6?lang=en Sage Guillen Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/every1hatesage/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/sage_37 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@sage_37?lang=en Maru Lee Insta- https://www.instagram.com/maru_lee/?hl=en TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@maru.lee?lang=en Cynthia Choi Insta- https://www.instagram.com/cynxchoi/?hl=en Twitter-https://twitter.com/cynxchoi Christine Choi Insta- https://www.instagram.com/qwistine/ Discord- https://discord.gg/zJhsFcn9Kj Sean Williams Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/sean._.williams/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/seanw949 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@seanjw?lang=en Luke Hosozowa Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/lukejudochop/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/lukehoso13 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@lukehoso?lang=en Austin Donvito Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRRk1VFfERv23JWFh5YenYQ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/austin.donvito/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/AustinHendry35 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@austindonvito?lang=en Kyle Kirkland Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/kyle.kirkland/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/KyleKirkland25 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@bylebirkland25?lang=en Carey Martin Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCC8yq2cTqlGmOqhjrFYxx5w Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/careymrtn5/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/careymrtn5 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@careymrtn5?lang=en Owen Miller Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/iamowenmiller/ Twitter- https://twitter.com/_obmp_ TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@ogkillaowenmilla?lang=en Wyatt Miller Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/father.wyatt/?hl=en TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@h.p.minecraft?lang=en Youtube- https://youtube.com/user/wyattmiller1998 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager discusses how to trust yourself when you're being gaslighted.  Unfortunately gaslighting happens more often that we'd like to think.You may be having a hard time trusting yourself when you're being gaslit especially if you are working on becoming healthy and setting boundaries for yourself.If you are feeling like it is time to be yourself and break free from being gaslighted by your family and/or partner then you'll want to listen and discoverWhat is gaslighting, so you can identify when and if it is happening to you.Advice on what to do if you're thinking that something feels wrong to you.Challenges that may arise when you start getting healthy and setting boundaries, Plus Todd shares tips/encouragement that will help you move forward and not stay in unhealthy relationships where you are being gaslighted. HELPFUL LINKS:Wondering If You're Being Manipulated By A Gaslighter?  Get Todd's Checklist Right Here:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/gaslighting-checklist TAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling/coaching to couples throughout the world virtually and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com Haven't left a review yet? All you have to do is go to:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-talk-about-love-sex-infidelity/id1492757242 and we appreciate your support of this show!

Go to http://factormeals.com/sip50 and use code sip50 to get 50% off your first box. On today's episode of The Sip, Ryland gets SCAMMED again… Lizze embarrasses herself at a big networking event, and Ryland FREAKS out when he learns how drag queens tuck. PLUS, the weeks hot topics & unpopular celebrity opinions 

PART 2: What do you do when the Christianity you signed up for is not the Christianity you feel like you're experiencing?  "Religion" has conditioned us to just keep your chin up, don't ask why, keep pressing on, and eventually God will come through.   That may work for some small moments in life, but eventually life's hardships will hit and you might find yourself a little broken and confused about your faith.  WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU FOLLOW THE RULES AND it seems like God doesn't ? In this episode & the previous, we dive into a very REAL topic of what to do when the "formula" of following what you've been taught a "Good Christian Does" leaves you with confusion instead of the rescue or bliss you expected, and how to process the pain and disillusionment that can attach to your faith in those unexpected moments.  The good news is, God is still good, even when it doesn't feel like it, and his word is still true. (Just ask David in Psalms!) But the journey of really UNDERSTANDING that God is good, still present, and still FOR YOU can be messy, and that's ok.  Author Tiffany Yecke Brooks shares about how “deconstructing” your faith and asking God hard questions can be the greatest journey for rooting your faith even more deeply in the authenticity of knowing God for who He really is, and not limiting him to the religious genie our human natures can try to reduce him to. BUY TIFFANY's BOOK On Amazon! --------------------------------------------- CONTACT TIFFANY: http://www.Facebook.com/TYBPhD https://TiffanyYeckeBrooks.substack.com http://www.TiffanyYeckeBrooks.com --------------------------------------------- Thank you for rating, reviewing and sharing the show on social media, this makes such an enormous difference on the reach of this show! Come follow me on Instagram at @JavawithJen so I can get to know you a bit, and hear from you! The best merch ever!: www.javawithjenmerch.com ) Follow me on: Instagram.com/javawithjen or on Facebook.com/javawithjenpodcast , and share when you're listening to a show! To support the show monthly, visit: www.Patreon.com/javawithjen . Or for a one-time donation, visit: https://square.link/u/UMcjsmRD --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/javawithjen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/javawithjen/support

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In Gaslighted by God, Tiffany Brooks eloquently gives a voice to those of us who through seeking God have found ourselves in the midst of deconstruction. With in-depth Biblical study, modern-day narratives of people of faith, and an understanding of cultural evangelical conditioning, those who deconstruct will feel seen and validated, perhaps deconstruction is not the end, but the beginning of living authentically in our relationship with God

What do you do when the Christianity you signed up for is not the Christianity you feel like you're experiencing?  "Religion" has conditioned us to just keep your chin up, don't ask why, keep pressing on, and eventually God will come through.   That may work for some small moments in life, but eventually life's hardships will hit and you might find yourself a little broken and confused about your faith.  WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU FOLLOW THE RULES AND it feels like GOD DOESn'T?   In this episode & the next, we dive into a very REAL topic of what to do when the "formula" of following what you've been taught a "Good Christian Does" leads to heartbreak instead of the rescue you expected, and how to process the pain and disillusionment that can attach to your faith.  The good news is, God is still good, even when it doesn't feel like it. (Just ask David in Psalms!) But the journey of really GETTING that God is good, still present, and still FOR YOU can be messy, and that's ok.  Author Tiffany Yecke Brooks shares about how deconstructing your faith and asking God hard questions can be the greatest journey for rooting your faith even more deeply in the authenticity of knowing God for who He really is, and not limiting him to the religious genie our human natures can try to reduce him to.   This is part 1, where we tackle some things like: -Why well intentioned Christians can end up hurting in their faith and how to navigate that -Why it's not really helpful to just take whatever your Pastor says as gospel truth, but instead, to go and test it.  (The Bible actually tells you to!) -Some commonly believed misnomers in the faith that create burdens instead of freedom -What ACTUALLY is legalism and how to identify it in our belief systems.   -And a great life hack for writers! BUY TIFFANY's BOOK On Amazon! --------------------------------------------- CONTACT TIFFANY: http://www.Facebook.com/TYBPhD https://TiffanyYeckeBrooks.substack.com http://www.TiffanyYeckeBrooks.com --------------------------------------------- Thank you for rating, reviewing and sharing the show on social media, this makes such an enormous difference on the reach of this show! Come follow me on Instagram at @JavawithJen so I can get to know you a bit, and hear from you! The best merch ever!: www.javawithjenmerch.com ) Follow me on: Instagram.com/javawithjen or on Facebook.com/javawithjenpodcast , and share when you're listening to a show! To support the show monthly, visit: www.Patreon.com/javawithjen . Or for a one-time donation, visit: https://square.link/u/UMcjsmRD --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/javawithjen/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/javawithjen/support

Fr. Richard Heilman discusses the concept of "gaslighting' and its role in trying to suppress the Truth.

Tiffany Yecke Brooks, PhD is a New York Times Best-Selling Ghostwriter, Author, Editor, and Speaker and joins GraceStory Podcast to discuss her most recent publication, Gaslighted by God: Reconstructing a Disillusioned Faith. Her book is meant as a guide for rebuilding a healthy faith and working through doubt without shame after deconstruction, disillusionment, spiritual abuse, or religious trauma. Join the conversation as we dig deep into what it means to hold on to your faith when everything seems lost. You can find Tiffany on Facebook or by going to tiffanyyeckebrooks.com Reach out through our FREE, confidential Counselor Referral form here: gracestoryministries.com Do you have a question you would like for us to help find an answer for? Have feedback? Want to hear more on a certain topic? Have a suggestion for a guest? We are listening. You can email me at nate@gracestoryministries.com. We would love for you to join the GraceStory Community Group on Facebook. There is great content in this exclusive, closed group that you won't want to miss out on. Consider becoming a supporter of GraceStory Ministries with a donation. Whether it's a one time gift or you want to join others in the GraceStory Community with a reoccurring donation, you can give by texting GRACESTORY to 44321. Follow GraceStory Podcast on Facebook Join GraceStory Community Group Follow GraceStory Podcast on Twitter @GraceStoryPod GraceStory on Instagram: @my_grace_story @gracestoryministries @gracestorypodcast

“I'm going to be ninety-two next month, and I have waited my entire life for a book like this.”  A woman said this to Tiffany after she spoke to a Sunday School class about her book, “Gaslighted by God: Reconstructing a Disillusioned Faith.” Many Christians are told their doubts are a sign they haven't prayed or fasted enough. That their spiritual frustrations are an indication they're backsliding. That they just don't have enough faith. Do you feel a sense of futility over ever measuring up as a Christian? Ever pleasing God? Ever nailing down the formula for blessing or meeting the mark for making yourself small enough? Tiffany wrote “Gaslighted by God” to give a voice to the pain of devoted Christians whose faith is cracking under the abuse of legalism, who are desperately clinging to beliefs that are hurting them, and who need to know it's not their fault.  In this episode: What spiritual anxiety is and how it manifests The significance of Tiffany screaming at a church sign Why the Christian “answer” for everything is so damaging The similarities between a space chimp and shell-shocked WWI veterans and what we experience because of legalistic theology How Jesus expanded the definitions of sin to protect the vulnerable, not add a bigger burden So much more!  Read or download the transcript hereIf you are a Christian woman who thinks you may be in an emotionally destructive marriage, learn more at https://flyingfreenow.comI'll send you (free!) the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage, which has an assessment to help you figure out if your relationship is abusive or not. All you have to do is hop on my mailing list at https://flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-downloadYou can also find out about our online education and support program for women of faith at https://joinflyingfree.comAnd finally, if you are a divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, lose weight, have amazing relationships, get things done, build a business or career, and even find a good man (if you want one) - check out Flying Higher at https://joinflyinghigher.com

Signs You're Being Gaslighted - with Angie Atkinson and Lise Colucci - What is gaslighting? Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in the victim's mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition. If you have ever felt confused about whether or not your memory is accurate, if you have ever been accused of doing things that you know you did not do, or if someone has made it hard for you to trust your own thoughts, feelings and beliefs—then you might be experiencing gaslighting. In this video, Angie and Lise share signs of gaslighting. Our team can be reached at queenbeeingteam@gmail.com, and they can be very helpful as they can more quickly respond to your requests. Discover. Understand. Overcome. It's how smart people change their lives! Subscribe to my channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/AuthorAngelaAtkinson?sub_confirmation=1 **NEW!! Get my supportive, helpful, and intuitive narcissistic ab*se recovery app! Visit https://queenbeeing.com/myapp for more information and to sign up! ***Become a member of my channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnyC5I55W__RBj1PMybF5g/join **Never miss a live session! Just text "AngieLive" (no spaces) to 33222 and I'll send you a text each time I get ready to go live! Schedule a coaching appointment with me at https://queenbeeing.com/coaching or http://narcissisticabuserecovery.online Start your healing at https://queenbeeing.com. Take your life to the next level at https://shine.buzz Get my books at http://booksangiewrote.com, pick up your free 7-day fear-busting email course (specially designed for narcissistic relationship survivors) at http://narcissismsupportcoach.com. Join SPAN (Support for People Affected by Narcissism in toxic relationships) - AKA "The SPANily" - at http://queenbeeing.com/group-support. Let's Also Connect On: Facebook at https://facebook.com/coachangieatkinson. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachangieatkinson/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachangieatkinson/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/angyatkinson/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/angieatkinsonSubscribe to Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson on Soundwise

Earlier this year saw the publication of Deep Deception, a non-fiction book about the Spycops scandal by five of the many women targeted by undercover police officers in the 1980s, 1990s, 2000s and into the 2010s. They were part of left-wing activist groups routinely spied on by the Special Demonstrations Squad, a police unit founded in 1968. All five were hoodwinked into believing they had met their perfect man, when, in fact, the person they shared their life with did not really exist. Instead, their partners were being played by specially-trained - and married - police officers who had stolen the identity of a dead child. This week, Hannah chats to two of them: Helen Steel and Alison* about the fascinating, mysterious, horrifying and important history of the Spycops scandal.* Not her real nameSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/standardissuespodcast. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Our guest is professor, ghost writer, and author, Tiffany Brooks, who's written a new book on reconstructing a disillusioned faith. We have a right to encounter God where we are. We have a sacred responsibility to experience God authentically." What happens when the God we've been taught to believe in seems powerless to help us in the struggles of life? What do we do when the God we personally encounter no longer resembles the God we've been shown in narrow interpretations of the Bible? Many of those raised in the world of fundamentalist Christianity have been manipulated into accepting a false reality that runs counter to lived experience. The result is confusion, isolation, fear, shame, and trauma, often carried throughout one's entire life. This book is for the victims of this spiritual abuse—anyone looking to reclaim their faith from legalism, nationalism, sexism, anxiety, intolerance, and other mechanisms of control utilized by God's self-appointed gatekeepers. It's for anyone who has learned that the real God is infinitely complex, that authentic faith is perfectly compatible with doubt, and that our suffering is not something we've earned. Gaslighted by God is not a book of easy answers—it's a companion for those mourning the loss of a belief system who need their pain recognized and legitimized. Tiffany Yecke Brooks shows—through stories from her own life, conversations with Christians from a variety of backgrounds, historical anecdotes, and messy episodes from Scripture—that there can be faith after disillusionment. But it will be a different faith—bruised, battered, nuanced, and real, rather than one wrapped in tissue-thin platitudes and three-point sermons. It will be a faith empowered to see beyond who God “should” be to who God is.