Podcast appearances and mentions of terri orbuch

With Valentine’s Day being this month, love is in the air. So let’s talk about some tips for maintaining happy and healthy loving relationships all year long! In today’s show, we’re revisiting one of Sex and Psychology's Essential Listens, which is my interview with Dr. Terri Orbuch from Episode 73. We’ll talk about what you need to know, whether you’ve been together for a short or long time. We’ll also explore how to know when it’s lust or love, and so much more. Dr. Terri Orbuch is a distinguished professor at Oakland University and a research scientist at the University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research. She is an author, speaker, and therapist known widely in the media as The Love Doctor for giving practical, science-based relationship advice. Her latest book is called “Secrets to Surviving Your Children's Love Relationships.” Some of the topics we discuss include: How do you know whether you’re really in love with someone? What’s the difference between lust and love? Is there value in the love languages concept? How can individuals make sure their partners know they love them? When is the right time to announce a new relationship? How do we dial down the pressure and make Valentine’s Day feel like fun instead of work? Make sure to check out Terri’s website to learn more. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Whether you're just a few dates in or have been together a long time, it's time to lighten the mood and have fun with your partner by using Paired. Head over to paired.com/justin to get a 7-day free trial and 25% off if you sign up for a subscription. Connect with your partner every day using Paired. A happier relationship starts here! This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Become your own soulmate whether you're looking for one or not. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/SEXANDPSYCH today to get 10% off your first month.  *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

The Resilience Podcast is brought to you by the Resilience Institute. Discover how we measure and build resilience skills within organizations at ⁠⁠⁠https://resiliencei.com⁠⁠⁠. This episode is hosted by ⁠⁠⁠Brad Hook⁠⁠⁠. Simple daily strategies that lead to happy relationships How is frustration ruining relationships 10-minute rule that partners need to practice How can couples reignite the passion in their relationship? Tips for handling conflicts well Recommendations for parents on how to support their children's relationship Dr. Terri Orbuch (aka The Love Doctor®) is a world-renowned relationship expert, author, speaker, therapist, distinguished professor at Oakland University, research scientist at University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research, and media personality whose practical science-based advice has helped thousands of people find and create the loving relationships they deserve. She is also the director of a landmark study, funded by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), where she has been following the same couples for over 3 decades. Connect with Dr Terri Website | DrTerriTheLoveDoctor.com

Today Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz sit down with Dr. Terri Orbuch who is also known as the love doctor and discuss taking your marriage from good to great. From communication to frustration to positivity and managing money, Terri breaks things down into practical principles that anyone can apply. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Terri Orbuch?2:49 – Terri's research4:32 – 46% of married couples divorce5:15 – The positive and optimistic statistic of 71% of divorced couples7:52 – Affirmations in marriage9:54 – The biggest reason relationships don't work is frustration11:05 – Conflict, disagreements and differences are inevitable12:34 – We need to make sure we have realistic expectations14:38 – What is more important to husbands than wives?16:03 – We need to feel like we are part of a team18:44 – The 10-minute rule that partners need to practice21:43 – Excitement and passion declining is inevitable in all relationships23:15 – Do something new and novel with your partner25:26 – Three strategies to increase passion and excitement in your relationship26:37 – It is ok to take a break when you are irritated28:37 – Keep each issue or specific annoyance separate30:31 – The number one source of tension or conflict among couples is money33:00 – Happy couples focus on what's going well, and focus on the positive35:21 – Resources37:22 – Takeaways About Terri Orbuch: Dr. Terri Orbuch is a world-renowned relationship expert, author, speaker, therapist,distinguished professor at Oakland University, research scientist at University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research and media personality whose practical science based advice had helped 1000's of people find and create the loving relationships they deserve. She is also the director of a landmark study funded by the National Institutes of Health, where she has been following the same couples for over three decades. Insights: Terri: It is all about the little things, waking up and giving affirmations or actions of affirmations. Spending 10 minutes every single day taking about something other than those four topics. Dave: The little affirmations and things are powerful. Liz: Take one issue at a time, your brain gets overloaded and overwhelmed if you try to do too much at once. Invites:    -    Take on one issue at a time within your relationship   -    It's all in the little things, spread daily affirmations to your partner   -    Practice the 10-minute rule with your partner each day Terri Orbuch Links: https://drterrithelovedoctor.com https://www.facebook.com/DrTerriLoveDr/ https://twitter.com/drterrilovedr?lang=en https://www.instagram.com/terriorbuch/?hl=en   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ See our website for privacy information.

Today on Let's Talk Love we are speaking with Dr. Terri Orbuch, The Love Doctor. Dr. Orbuch is an author, speaker, therapist, and distinguished professor at Oakland University and the University of Michigan. Today, we discuss her book, Five Simple Steps To Take Your Marriage From Good To Great, as well as her landmark study, where she has been following the same 373 couples for the past 35 years. She shares many valuable small, yet consistent ways we can change our behavior and attitude to affect positive change and create more happiness in our romantic relationships.We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IGTV Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionJoin our community for FREE at realloveready.com. By becoming a member you get access to exclusive workshops and upcoming events from Real Love Ready.Learn more with Terri:5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to GreatFinding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy RelationshipSecrets to Surviving Your Children's Love Relationships CONNECT WITH TERRI ON SOCIALS: https://www.facebook.com/DrTerriLoveDr/https://twitter.com/DrTerriLoveDrhttps://www.instagram.com/terriorbuch/CONNECT WITH RLR ON SOCIALS: https://www.facebook.com/RealLoveReady/https://www.instagram.com/realloveready/https://twitter.com/reallovereadyWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/reallovereadyCredits: the Let's Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai. Watch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let's Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.

Today, Laurie chats with The Love Doctor, Dr. Terri Orbuch!Dr. Orbuch is a world-renowned relationship expert, author, speaker, therapist, date and relationship coach, Distinguished Professor at Oakland University, Research Professor at University of Michigan Institute for Social Research, and media personality. She is also the director of a landmark study, funded by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), where she has been following the same couples for over 3 decades.Dr. Orbuch is widely published in scientific journals and the author of “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great.” and “Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship.” Her latest book, “Secrets to Surviving Your Children's Love Relationships” was published in March 2022. Dr. Orbuchi's Charity of Choice: Your local foodbank. Please consider donating today. Check out Dr. Orbuch's websiteFollow Dr. Orbuch on TwitterFind Dr. Orbuch on FacebookFollow Laurie on Instagram at http://instagram.com/carolinasmatchmakerTo learn more about Laurie and her team, visit http://carolinasmatchmaker.com

Dr. Terri Orbuch is a renowned love researcher.  During this episode, she and Bela have an incredible chat that spans the biggest reasons for divorce, what makes for the happiest relationships, love vs. lust (how to tell which it is), and how to know if someone is 'the one.'   You will hear about:    Dr. Terri's NIH research project that has been following the same couples for over 30 years (how many couples divorced, and how many of them found love again - and this is super inspiring)! What is the #1 factor that leads singles to find love? What are some additional ways that singles can improve their odds of finding love – based on science? How does someone know if a relationship is the right one? The 4 keys ways to distinguish lust vs. love Why 'picking your battles' is usually the wrong strategy Why conflict is so important (what happened to the 12 couples that reported NO conflict) What you should do EVERY MORNING with your partner to maintain love (and it's not sex, lol) Your new book is called “Secrets to Surviving Your Children's Love Relationships.” Briefly – what is it about? What motivated you to write it? How to get over the HURT of infidelity or relationship trauma --  What conversations are most important for parents to have with their children? This episode is one you will want to listen to again, and again and again.   We certainly are! If you'd like to get our free newsletter, sign up at www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact If you don't already, follow us on Instagram, where we have GREAT videos and reels of the podcast segments!  Follow @smartdatingacademy  If you'd like to schedule a consultation, sign up https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/11-coaching/coaching-call-with-bela BIO:  Dr. Terri Orbuch (aka The Love Doctor®) is a world-renowned relationship expert, author, speaker, therapist and relationship coach, Distinguished Professor at Oakland University, Research Professor at University of Michigan Institute for Social Research, and media personality. She is also the director of a landmark study, funded by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), where she has been following the same couples for over 3 decades. Dr. Orbuch is widely published in scientific journals and the author of “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great.” and “Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship.” Her latest book, “Secrets to Surviving Your Children's Love Relationships” was published in March 2022. Dr. Orbuch has been featured in such publications as, The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Reader's Digest, USA Today, Women's Health, Cosmopolitan, and TIME magazine and has appeared on The Today Show, MSNBC, The Katie Couric Show, ESPN, HuffPost Live, and CNN. Her TEDx talk has over 2.8 million views.  For more information, please go to: DrTerriTheLoveDoctor.com.

This week, Maria is talking with The Love Doctor, Dr. Terri Orbuch.Dr. Terri Orbuch (PhD) is a distinguished professor at Oakland University, research scientist at University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research, author, speaker, therapist, relationship & date coach, and The Love Doctor® in the media. Her practical science-based advice has helped thousands of people find and create the loving relationships they deserve. She is the director of a landmark study, funded by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), where she has been following the same couples for over 3 decades. She is widely published in scientific journals and the author of “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great" and “FindingLove Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship.” Her latest book is called “Secrets to Surviving Your Children's Love Relationships” and will be published, March 2022. Dr. Orbuch has been featured in such publications as, The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Reader's Digest, USA Today, Women's Health, Cosmopolitan, and TIME magazine and has appeared on The Today Show, MSNBC, The Katie Couric Show, ESPN, HuffPost Live, and CNN. Her relationship segments are aired on Fox-2 Detroit News and her TEDx talk has over 2.8 million views. Also, her radio program called, “The Love Doctor is IN,” is aired on Fridays at noon ET on Empower Radio. For more information, please go to: DrTerriTheLoveDoctor.com.Learn about Dr. Terri at DrTerriTheLoveDoctor.com5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy RelationshipDr. Terri's TED talk: Is It Lust or Is It LoveSecrets to Surviving Your Children's Love Relationships Check out Dr. Terri's radio show, The Love Doctor is IN To book a Dating Strategy call with a member of the Agape Match team to discuss your dating goals, click here: https://calendly.com/felix-louie/ie-info-30-minute-call Follow Agape Match on Instagram at http://instagram.com/agapematchFollow the podcast on Instagram at http://instagram.com/askamatchmaker

How can you tell if you're in lust or in love? Is "love at first sight" real? When is the right time to say "I love you" in a relationship? And how do you keep love alive long-term? Today's episode is all about the science of love, and we're going to talk about so many important and fascinating questions! My guest is none other than "The Love Doctor" herself, Dr. Terri Orbuch. Terri is a distinguished professor at Oakland University and a research scientist at the University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research. She has been studying the science of love and relationships for more than three decades and her latest book is called Secrets to Surviving Your Children's Love Relationships. We cover a lot of ground in this show, including: The four signs that distinguish love from lust. How to get the lust back in your relationship after the initial passion starts to decline. The truth about the "5 love languages" (is there any actually any science behind this idea?). Tips for maintaining happy, healthy, loving relationships for the long haul. When it's the right time to make your relationship "official" and to say "I love you" to a partner. When too much closeness becomes a problem, and how to maintain your individuality in a relationship. Tips for dialing down the pressure on Valentine's Day and enjoying a stress-free holiday. How parents can help their kids to cultivate healthy relationships. This is such an important (and fun!) episode! To learn more about Terri, visit drterrithelovedoctor.com and be sure to check out her latest book, Secrets to Surviving Your Children's Love Relationships. Level-up your intimate life with Beducated, the Netflix of better sex! They have a whole library of online courses to teach you what you need to know. Enjoy a free trial today and get 70% off their yearly pass by using my last name - LEHMILLER - as the coupon code. Sign up now at: http://beducate.me/pd2201-lehmiller-kink  This podcast was made on Zencastr. Join Zencastr today and receive 40% off of their professional plan for 3 months with my exclusive discount code: sexandpsych Thanks to Promescent (promescent.com) and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes (modernsextherapyinstitutes.com) for being sponsors of this episode! *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: LEGIT Audio (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

1.  Reassure, Legitimize and Validate your childrens feelings“No matter their ages, explain (to your children) why you're dating and that no one will ever replace the other parent,” says Dr. Terri Orbuch, professor at Oakland University, author and family therapist. “Tell them they are your first priority and you'll always be there for them, no matter who you're dating.”  If kids are resistant or negative, don't get defensive. Acknowledge feelings, and give extra hugs.2. No revolving doors of men/womenIn my 20's & 30's, I did not do such a great job of not introducing my oldest daughter to various men I was dating but I wished I had.  It is best to wait until you have established a long time relationship with someone new before introducing your kids to him/her.  Surprisingly, younger kids are “more resilient,” says Dr. Orbuch. For stability and trust, don't march a bunch of dates before your kids – and if you do, understand that tweens, teens and adolescents are likely to take break-ups harder than little ones.3. Understand that every kid is differentAll children are different when it comes to meeting someone new and considering a childs temperament and developmental age are very important when introducing them to someone new.  You should try and always us the concept of friends.4. Keep it Fun & NeutralFirst, second, even third meetings of a “significant other” and your respective kids should occur in neutral, fun locations – Water Parks, Chuck E. Cheese, parks, Putt-putt golf or movies, any place that doesn't add pressure.5. Reassess having a romantic sleepoverDepending on the age of the children you may want to really think about having a romantic sleepover.Especially with teens, while they hear what you say, they are more likely to do what you do, says Dr. Orbuch. Both agree that the significant-other-sleepover is a values call – and both hesitate to give the green light from a clinical perspective before there's a ring on your finger.“Adolescents are watching and they're going to model you. Kids do what parents do,” Dr. Orbuch says. Reserve sleepovers for nights when the kids stay with the other parent.6.  Discuss with your co-parent before introducing new "friend"7. No step-discipline, please“In our houses, parents take the main role; steps (don't) execute punishments,” says Buscemi, the Rochester Hills author of I Do, Part Two: How to Survive Divorce, Co-Parent Your Kids and Blend Your Families Without Losing Your Mind.8. Encourage the other parent relationship“Whether the divorce was good or bad, whether there's still feelings of resentment or bitterness, be kind to each other,” says Buscemi. “Don't throw a new love in your ex's face. Keep respect for your kid in mind.  Research shows that “it's the exception that parents remarry,” says Dr. Orbuch. “The most difficult thing for kids to understand is they don't have control over their parents' relationship.”9.  Remarriage is a good thingIt's another adult in the house, another person to love your children, an example of a healthy loving relationship. “If you're happy and balanced, you're going to be a better role model,” says Dr. Orbuch.Even when it comes to the wedding, let kids have a voice. Choosing desserts or clothing or the order in which they'll walk down the aisle (by age!) allows kids to take ownership of this new marriage and feel like they have a place in it.  

Insightful, engaging, refreshingly honest, and direct, the country's most trusted relationship expert Dr. Terri Orbuch shares her insights with you to shed light on better love, better relationships, and better living. *** Schedule a Client Vision Meeting here: http://ow.ly/8oZs50BX9te​ *** Follow us on Facebook.com/pnlawnj Follow us on Instagram.com/nj_divorce_solutions Follow us on Twitter.com/njfamlaw Check out our blog: www.CentralJerseyFamilyLaw.com

Do you ever feel compelled to snoop on your kids, spouse or partner? Does it make you crazy when your child spends tons of time with friends or in activities and doesn't have time for you? Are you ever worried about losing the connection you have with someone? These feelings are normal. They stem from jealousy and they can harm our relationships. Listen in as Mighty Parenting podcast host Sandy Fowler talks about jealousy in families with Dr. Terri Orbuch. They discuss the difference between jealousy and envy, the two types of jealousy, how jealousy harms relationships and what you can do about it. Our Guest: Dr. Terri Orbuch  Detailed Show Notes and Support at MightyParenting.com episode 153 Our Sponsor:  Inward Bound Mindfulness Meditation—New Year’s retreats for teens and young adults are coming up fast. Grab seats now! Sandy Fowler—Find Time for What Matters Most to You

Terri Orbuch offers three tips on how to reignite the lustful desire between partners in long-term, loving relationships. This talk was filmed at TEDxOaklandUniversity. All TEDx events are organized independently by volunteers in the spirit of TED's mission of ideas worth spreading. To learn more about TEDxSHORTS, the TEDx program, or give feedback on this episode, please visit http://go.ted.com/tedxshorts. Follow TEDx on Twitter:

Relationship Advice from The Love Doctor, Dr. Terri Orbuch

We all want a great marriage, but how do we cultivate and maintain an extraordinary connection in the midst of life’s stressors and challenges? For over 30 years, Dr. Terri Orbuch has researched the habits and practices of happy couples (and unhappy ones) in her landmark National Institutes of Health (NIH) study. She joins me to discuss her book, 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great, in which she shares simple, practical strategies from her longitudinal study including:· How to maintain realistic expectations without settling.· The no. 1 problem in marriages.· How happy couples communicate vs. unhappy couples.· The need men have which, when met, predicts they’ll be happy and content in their marriage—and no, we’re not talking about sex!· What factors make for the strongest marriages.· How to “trick your brain” to reignite the spark in your marriage.· The no. 1 topic daters should not discuss on dates!I put it this way on Instagram, “Marriage is great, but only if it’s a great marriage!” Join us to learn research-based tools and techniques to level up your marriage/relationship!

Abi works as a matchmaker, headhunter and dating coach at award-winning matchmaking company Little Black Book and has trained with Dr Terri Orbuch in science-based coaching at The Matchmaking Institute, New York. And Laura? Well she's "kissed a lot of people" and is "all over the dating apps like a hot rash". This week they discuss all things modern dating. In honour of St Valentine's Day they reveal how to embrace online dating, the importance of letting go of your ex and how to strike "lucky" and have a passionate long-term, loving relationship.For more information about Abi please visit: www.abiblears.com or follow her on Instagram @abiblearsFor matchmaking enquiries please visit: www.littleblackbooklondon.co.ukIf you want to keep up to date with Grown Up you can follow them on Instagram @grownup_official See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Never mistake love-bombing for love!Never mistake lust for love!Great advice for dating! Today's episode with Dr. Terri Orbuch is SO important, especially when you're dating. And, even more especially if you're dating after leaving a difficult, or toxic, relationship. You need to know these distinctions so that you feel more confident in the dating scene.The big question we discuss is "How can you reignite passion in a relationship that has become a little humdrum, and maybe a little too indifferent. You can do it and Dr. Terri gives three surprising, yet simple things to consider...especially her tip about arousal-producing activities and the scientific reasons behind why they work to reignite passion.Dr. Terri's advice is based on science, or her long-term research project following the same couples over time.How to reignite the passion in your long-term relationship?Passion and excitement decline in all relationships over time - it's inevitable. So, when that happens, it's important to practice strategies that can reignite that excitement of passion. We discuss science-based strategies to keep the flame alive!!In addition, all couples go through relationship ruts - where your relationship becomes habitual, routine or the same old things over time. That's okay. It's part of a long-term relationship. BUT, if couples stay in that relationship rut for too long, boredom sets in, and boredom eats away at the happiness in a relationship. So, we discuss strategies to add things to your relationship so that boredom won't set in.Dr. Terri Orbuch shares a great tip from her book, "5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great."Contrary to what you've been told, keeping a marriage successful does not take hard work! Instead, it takes consistent small changes in behaviors and attitudes over time, to create happiness and transform your relationship.The main reason marriages break up isn't conflict, lack of communication or sexual incompatibility. Rather, it's frustration (that is, the day-to-day disappointment or the gap between what you expect and how your partner acts) that's most damaging."_______________________________>>>>> AND, Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you.ARE YOU--OR, HAVE YOU BEEN--IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH A PARTNER, EX, PARENT, OR SIBLING?Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the ongoing insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships. All safely off social media, too!___________________________________HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:Answers to...How does science-based research into dating and love help?Can you learn to trust after betrayal?Is it true that the US has a very high divorce rate?At what point in a relationship is divorced more likely to happen?When excitement and passion decline, does that mean the relationship is in trouble?What can couples do to reignite the passion?What is the difference between love and lust?How is love is different from love-bombing?GUEST: DR. TERRI ORBUCHDr. Terri Orbuch (aka The Love Doctor®) is a world-renowned relationship expert, author, speaker, professor, research professor, marriage and family therapist and media personality, whose practical science-based advice has helped thousands of people find and create the loving relationships they deserve.Dr. Terri Orbuch earned her Ph.D. from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. She joined the faculty at Oakland University in 1998 and is now a Distinguished Professor of Sociology. She is also a research professor at the University of Michigan Institute for Social Research, and the director of a landmark research project, funded by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), where she has been following the same couples for almost 3 decades. It is the longest-running study of married couples ever conducted in the United States.In addition, she is a certified marriage and family therapist (MFT) who has worked with individuals and couples for thirty years. She also does dating and relationship coaching with people across the world. She is well respected as a researcher and professor in the scientific world, and is also known by TV, radio, and online fans as The Love Doctor®, a popular relationship expert and advisor.Dr. Orbuch is widely published in scientific journals and the author of five relationship books, including “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great,” and “Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship.” Her website is: DrTerriTheLoveDoctor.comAbout Dr. Terri•Featured in national outlets such as, The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Reader’s Digest, Real Simple, Bride, O, Good Housekeeping, WebMD, USA Today, Self, Women’s Health, Cosmopolitan, TIME magazine and more…•Appeared on The Today Show, MSNBC, The Katie Couric Show, ESPN, HuffPost Live, CNN, and more…•Her relationship segments are aired weekly on Fox-2 Detroit Morning News (2005 – present)•National public television special (PBS), “Secrets from The Love Doctor”•2,200,000+ views on her TEDx talk: Lust vs. Love; https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=466&v=Siru3n3zIbM•2 best-selling books: “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great” and “Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship”•5 Simple Steps #1 best seller in Amazon for: (a) Marriage and Long-Term Relationships, (b) Marriage and Adult Relationships, & (c) Self Help Relationships•Hosts an Empower Radio weekly program called “The Love Doctor is IN.” Archived on iTunes, Stitcher and iHeart Radiohttp://www.empoweradio.com/home/shows/812199-The-Love-Doctor-with-Terri-Orbuch.htmlFREE GIFT FROM DR.ORBUCHNot at this timeCONTACT INFO FOR DR. TERRI ORBUCH:Website: DrTerriTheLoveDoctor.comPodcasts:LinkedIn: @TerriOrbuchFacebook: @DrTerriLoveDrInstagram: @Twitter: @DrTerriLoveDrYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=2&v=Siru3n3zIbMCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: TransformingRelationship.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerInstagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPinterest: Pinterest.com/RhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelpWANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?Be first to get my videos. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each month.You can. Join my Optimize Circles! 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Never mistake love-bombing for love!Never mistake lust for love!Great advice for dating! Today's episode with Dr. Terri Orbuch is SO important, especially when you're dating. And, even more especially if you're dating after leaving a difficult, or toxic, relationship. You need to know these distinctions so that you feel more confident in the dating scene.The big question we discuss is "How can you reignite passion in a relationship that has become a little humdrum, and maybe a little too indifferent. You can do it and Dr. Terri gives three surprising, yet simple things to consider...especially her tip about arousal-producing activities and the scientific reasons behind why they work to reignite passion.Dr. Terri's advice is based on science, or her long-term research project following the same couples over time.How to reignite the passion in your long-term relationship?Passion and excitement decline in all relationships over time - it's inevitable. So, when that happens, it's important to practice strategies that can reignite that excitement of passion. We discuss science-based strategies to keep the flame alive!!In addition, all couples go through relationship ruts - where your relationship becomes habitual, routine or the same old things over time. That's okay. It's part of a long-term relationship. BUT, if couples stay in that relationship rut for too long, boredom sets in, and boredom eats away at the happiness in a relationship. So, we discuss strategies to add things to your relationship so that boredom won't set in.Dr. Terri Orbuch shares a great tip from her book, "5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great."Contrary to what you've been told, keeping a marriage successful does not take hard work! Instead, it takes consistent small changes in behaviors and attitudes over time, to create happiness and transform your relationship.The main reason marriages break up isn't conflict, lack of communication or sexual incompatibility. Rather, it's frustration (that is, the day-to-day disappointment or the gap between what you expect and how your partner acts) that's most damaging."_______________________________>>>>> AND, Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you.ARE YOU--OR, HAVE YOU BEEN--IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH A PARTNER, EX, PARENT, OR SIBLING?Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the ongoing insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships. All safely off social media, too!___________________________________HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:Answers to...How does science-based research into dating and love help?Can you learn to trust after betrayal?Is it true that the US has a very high divorce rate?At what point in a relationship is divorced more likely to happen?When excitement and passion decline, does that mean the relationship is in trouble?What can couples do to reignite the passion?What is the difference between love and lust?How is love is different from love-bombing?GUEST: DR. TERRI ORBUCHDr. Terri Orbuch (aka The Love Doctor®) is a world-renowned relationship expert, author, speaker, professor, research professor, marriage and family therapist and media personality, whose practical science-based advice has helped thousands of people find and create the loving relationships they deserve.Dr. Terri Orbuch earned her Ph.D. from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. She joined the faculty at Oakland University in 1998 and is now a Distinguished Professor of Sociology. She is also a research professor at the University of Michigan Institute for Social Research, and the director of a landmark research project, funded by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), where she has been following the same couples for almost 3 decades. It is the longest-running study of married couples ever conducted in the United States.In addition, she is a certified marriage and family therapist (MFT) who has worked with individuals and couples for thirty years. She also does dating and relationship coaching with people across the world. She is well respected as a researcher and professor in the scientific world, and is also known by TV, radio, and online fans as The Love Doctor®, a popular relationship expert and advisor.Dr. Orbuch is widely published in scientific journals and the author of five relationship books, including “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great,” and “Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship.” Her website is: DrTerriTheLoveDoctor.comAbout Dr. Terri•Featured in national outlets such as, The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Reader’s Digest, Real Simple, Bride, O, Good Housekeeping, WebMD, USA Today, Self, Women’s Health, Cosmopolitan, TIME magazine and more…•Appeared on The Today Show, MSNBC, The Katie Couric Show, ESPN, HuffPost Live, CNN, and more…•Her relationship segments are aired weekly on Fox-2 Detroit Morning News (2005 – present)•National public television special (PBS), “Secrets from The Love Doctor”•2,200,000+ views on her TEDx talk: Lust vs. Love; https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=466&v=Siru3n3zIbM•2 best-selling books: “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great” and “Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship”•5 Simple Steps #1 best seller in Amazon for: (a) Marriage and Long-Term Relationships, (b) Marriage and Adult Relationships, & (c) Self Help Relationships•Hosts an Empower Radio weekly program called “The Love Doctor is IN.” Archived on iTunes, Stitcher and iHeart Radiohttp://www.empoweradio.com/home/shows/812199-The-Love-Doctor-with-Terri-Orbuch.htmlFREE GIFT FROM DR.ORBUCHNot at this timeCONTACT INFO FOR DR. 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Learn 4 important types of Communication in Marriage with Relationship Speaker DukeZac. Learn about the 10 Mins Rule by Dr Terri Orbuch

Relationships take work. Parenting takes work. But how do we have a happy, healthy, romantic relationship when we have kids? And how do we teach our kids the skills for having a healthy relationship? Mighty Parenting hosts Judy Davis and Sandy Fowler interview relationship expert Dr. Terri Orbuch about love, marriage, parenting and how they all work together. Our Guest: Dr. Terri Orbuch  Detailed Show Notes and Support at MightyParenting.com BONUS:. https://www.patreon.com/mightyparenting

Marriage and parenting are both tough but marriage and kids together is the biggest challenge. It is also the biggest opportunity. Judy Davis and Sandy Fowler interview relationship expert Dr. Terri Orbuch to get the secret sauce for maximizing the joy in your marriage while raising great teens. Tune in to today's Mighty Parenting Podcast for tips on helping teens learn to have healthy relationships as well as scientifically backed information on what harms your marriage and how you can strengthen it. In Real Talk, Judy and Sandy dig into what can happen when you plan an unplanned family vacation. Our Guest: Dr. Terri Orbuch Tips & Info from our Sponsors: From DASIUM:  Raising a teenager feels like a whole different world and can create a lot of worry or anxiety for parents. While we know you have many things to do, at the core of it you want to have a good relationship—one where they know you have their back and will listen. Focus on open communication, listening rather than telling or solving—and doing it without judgement. If you are wondering whether behavior changes are normal or cause for concern, want a little help in dealing with stress or anxiety, or just need some tips for communicating with your teen, get our Parent Support Kit. It has what you need as you build an emotionally healthy life for your family. Show Notes: Visit MightyParentingPodcast.com and select episode 27.Support: Visit MightyParenting.com for tools, community, inspiration, and support.

After twenty-plus years of paying bills, raising kids and pursuing duel careers, has your marriage of love and devotion slowly but surely transformed into a marriage of convenience? “It is not destined to remain that way,” affirms America’s ‘Love Doctor’, Dr. Terri Orbuch. However long you’ve been married, you and your spouse deserve a mutually joyful, energetic, comforting and … Read more about this episode...

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Technology and work are an integral part of living in the 21st century. While both can be great, they can also create a huge strain on our relationships. It's common for a person to have feelings of betrayal when their partner is always working, talking on the phone or browsing social media. Learning to create awareness around these issues and communicate through them is critical to having a successful relationship in today's world. In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How using 'I' statements can be the difference between successfully solving a relationship problem and a full-scale blowup. Why getting out of the house can be the key to a productive conversation within your relationship. How to discuss and create boundaries between work, technology and your home relationship life. Forming a contract and schedule for when your partner will take off work to spend time on the relationship. Why it's important to remember that we cannot change our partner. The 10-minute rule and how it can help your relationship flourish. And much more! Dr. Terri Orbuch (aka The Love Doctor®) is a world renowned relationship expert, author, speaker, therapist and professor. She is also the director of a landmark study, funded by National Institutes of Health (NIH), where she has been following the same couples for almost 3 decades. Dr. Orbuch is widely published in scientific journals and the author of “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great.” and “Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship.” Dr. Orbuch has been featured in such publications as The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Reader’s Digest, USA Today, Women’s Health, Cosmopolitan and TIME magazine and has appeared on The Today Show, MSNBC, The Katie Couric Show, ESPN, HuffPost Live, and CNN. Full Show Notes and Episode Links at http://idopodcast.com/123 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? Are you struggling with your partner spending too much time at work or on their phone? If so, you're not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Talkspace: The online therapy company that believes that therapy should be affordable, confidential and convenient. Join over 500,000 people who have used Talkspace for online therapy with their licensed therapist. Get $30 off your first month when you visit Talkspace.com/IDO. HelloFresh: HelloFresh is a meal kit delivery service that shops, plans, and delivers your favorite step-by-step recipes and pre- measured ingredients so you can just cook, eat, and enjoy. For $30 off your first week of HelloFresh, visit hellofresh.com and enter the promo code: ido30 If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah

This week, Kim interviews fellow midwesterner, Dr. Terri Orbuch Ph.D., also known as “The Love Doctor” about how to keep love alive for years. She’s a professor at the University of Michigan, her work has been featured in every major publication, and she’s been the director of an NIH study following 373 couples for nearly 3 decades. Needless to say, Dr. Terri knows what she’s talking about when it comes to maintaining strong, healthy, long-term relationships.

In today's episode, The Matchmaking DUO's Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore have invited special guest, Dr. Terri Orbuch (PhD), The Love Doctor, in to discuss 4 cues to distinguish between lust and love and she also talks about the science of happy relationships.  Dr. Terri is an author, speaker, therapist, and has published over 1000 articles as well as being featured on numerous media platforms including The Wall Street Journal, NY Times, USA Today, Cosmopolitan, The Today Show, CNN, and the list goes on and on.  One of the most interesting parts of Dr. Terri's work is the fact that she has followed over 700 couples for over 30 years and through this research she has been able to track trends of success and failure.  This data can be useful to all of us as we seek to either find a new relationship or make the one we're in, great.  So tune in as we use science and research to help us not reinvent the wheel.  Are you in?  I know we are.  Here's to LOVE!   Music by: Sharla K.  

Good relationships for your children start with you; your children are always watching! Join Tamara and The Love Doctor, Dr. Terri Orbuch, to find out why being a good role model is vital to teaching kids how to develop and maintain healthy relationships throughout their lives. The post How to Help Your Kids Develop Healthy Relationships: An Interview with The Love Doctor, Dr. Terri Orbuch appeared first on MomRN.

This week, Elaine is joined by Dr. Terri Orbuch, (a.k.a. The Love Doctor), relationship expert and author of 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great and Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship. Together, Elaine and Dr. Orbuch, discover the precious jewels that help us to have better relationships and happier lives.

One of my favorite guests will join me today for a lively discussion about independence in relationships. How do you tell your spouse/lover/partner/even friend, that you want more time apart without bringing up feelings of resentment, jealousy and abandonment? We'll even touch on embracing your independence after a divorce or break-up. Dr. Terri Orbuch, The Love Doctor, is one of a kind and you won't want to miss this interview!

Join me and "The Love Doctor®," Terri Orbuch.

We all want to know the secrets when it comes to our relationships. Dr. Terri Obuch has been studying relationships and healing hearts for over 25 years. Well ok the healing hearts part is up to us, but she sure does put our make-ups, break-ups and relationships into perspective. Whether you're looking for love, working on a current relationship or starting over this is the interview for you!

Nationally known research scientist at the Institute for Social Research at the University of Michigan, psychologist, and Oakland University professor, Dr. Terri Orbuch has studied the marriage and divorce and romance and relationship patterns of thousands of individuals nationwidefor over 20 years. One of this country's most trusted relationship experts, Dr. Terri Orbuch has published over 40 articles; been quoted in such national publications as USA Today, The New York Times, The Boston Globe, Reader's Digest; and authored five books.   She’s also a  Family and Marriage Therapist, Marriage Enrichment Workshop Leader and the Immediate Past President: International Association for Relationship Research. Dr Orbuch is fondly called, " The Love Doctor".  The title of her newest book is called, Finding Love Again. The Love Doctor appears every Saturday morning on WJBK Fox 2 News-Detroit.

  READ MY LIPS' akaRadioRed goes beyond the typical blah-blah-yada-yada canned interview, engaging multiple guests in spontaneous conversations.   Terri Orbuch, Ph.D. "The Love Doctor (TM)": Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship".  Terri is director of the longest-running study of married and divorced couples, ongoing since 1986 and funded by the NIH. A practicing marriage and relationship therapist for 20+ years, she is heard on radio, TV, OurTime.com, NBC's Today, and blogs for Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and Next Avenue. Her book features the breakthrough findings of her 25-year study. Also by Terri: 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great . DrTerriTheLoveDoctor.com.   Psychotherapist Andrew Wald LCSW-C, co-author with energy healer Cyndi Dale: Togetherness: Creating & Deepening Sustainable Love.  They coined the term "TQ - Togetherness Quotient" for the mix of behaviors and attitudes that determine how easily we form healthy, intimate relationships. TQ, unlike IQ, is not something we're stuck with. Our ability to love deeply and intimately is based on what we've learned from a lifetime of relationships and experiences, starting at birth. As adults we have the opportunity to remove barriers to self-love and love of others, to boost our TQ.  andrewwald.com

Lesley's back with Joanie and Steve on Single Again! Now What? to discuss finding love again after separation or divorce. After divorce, many find themselves rushing back into a new relationship.  Some do it out of loneliness, and some because of peer pressure or because their ex has moved on to a new relationship.  The question is, what's the hurry, and how can you avoid becoming a divorce statistic the second time around? The Single Again! trio share their thoughts on the subject and reference the book by Dr. Terri Orbuch, PhD, called Finding Love Again, 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship. (Terri will be a guest on an upcoming show.) Other topics discussed include: What to do when you're out with a friend and someone tries to pick you up The demise of family dinner time in America To remarry or not, that is the question And much more

Are you sabotaging your love life? Finding that new love just became 100% possible with Finding Love Again - Six Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship" by Detroit's own "Love Doctor", Dr. Terri Orbuch. Whether you're divorced or separated, out of a long-term relationship, or newly dating after a long break, The Love Doctor will help you prepare for a healthy and fulfilling new relationship.

Why is it that we either get into or out of a relationship during the holidays? Should you buy a gift if your relationship is new? Invite them for turkey at the parents house? Propose? The Love Doctor gives us sound advice on how to deal with a relationship or lack thereof during this stressful season.http://www.empowerradio.net/podcasts/PositiveNow_112410_TheLoveDoctor2.mp3

Dr. Terri Orbuch, director of the longest running study of marriage in North America, the Early Years Marriage Project, shares what she's learned from following married couples for more than 20 years, including secrets to happy and successful relationships. For more go to www.hitchedmag.com

Remember the days when your relationship was filled with romance and passion: that giddy feeling fluttering in the bottom of your stomach? Whether you have been married 2 years, 8 years or even 20 years you can recapture the romance. Join Lisa and Philip as they talk with Dr. Orbuch author of “5 Simple Things to Make a Good Relationship … Read more about this episode...

Listen as Patricia interviews Dr. Terri Orbuch, A marriage expert and therapist, Professor at the Institute for Social Research at the University of Michigan, and host of Love Doctor Radio Show on voiceamerica.com, discusses her new book, 5 Simple Steps To Take Your Marriage From Good To Great. She will reveal for the first time marriage secrets she uncovered in this groundbreaking research and shows how- in an easy-to-follow five step plan - it just takes simple, targeted actions to create significant, positive changes in your relationship - instantly and that is actually the small changes in behavior and attitude that can create happiness over the long term.

Listen as Patricia interviews Dr. Terri Orbuch, A marriage expert and therapist, Professor at the Institute for Social Research at the University of Michigan, and host of Love Doctor Radio Show on voiceamerica.com, discusses her new book, 5 Simple Steps To Take Your Marriage From Good To Great. She will reveal for the first time marriage secrets she uncovered in this groundbreaking research and shows how- in an easy-to-follow five step plan - it just takes simple, targeted actions to create significant, positive changes in your relationship - instantly and that is actually the small changes in behavior and attitude that can create happiness over the long term.