The Perfect Blend Podcast

Welcome to the Pride Series! A special package of The Perfect Blend Podcast highlighting people in community who I know! I invited each guest to have a conversation with me about various topics. Carla, a dear friend and trans sister of mine agreed to stop by The Perfect Blend for this special series. We discussed men, relationships, trans bodies, sex, dating, self love, and more! More about Carla Ibarra - Carla Ibarra (she/they) is a transgender rights activist and public health professional with more than nine years of community-focused work highlighting health equity and justice in BIPOC trans and non-binary communities. She is a commissioner at the Transgender Advisory Council of the City of Los Angeles, advising the mayor on key issues affecting the trans community. At present, she is also pursuing a Master of Public Health (MPH) degree at the Keck School of Medicine of the University of Southern California, where she works to continuously works to center the lived experiences of trans and non-binary people in health research and policy. Carla is a proud trans Filipina immigrant born and raised in Metro Manila. She now resides in Los Angeles, California, with her beautiful husband Art and three awesome cats Chubs, Meatball, and Meatloaf. Follow Carla Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/miss.carlai... Twitter - https://twitter.com/GinangIbarra Follow me Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kaleefnow/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/KaleefNow

On the latest episode of the Perfect Blend podcast, I had the luxury of having two special guests - Sonia Russell and David Walker of the Mindfullness for the Culture podcast! Step in as we discuss mental health blackness, peace, music, pride, and more! Based in Oakland, CA - Sonia Russell, CEO Sonia uses her obsession with technology and her passion for mindfulness to organize and harmonize almost every aspect of her life. She has been a black woman her whole life, a small business owner for nearly 20 years, and an active leader for more than a decade. Sonia's consistent mindfulness practices and frequent productive use of technology help her to effectively manage stress, consciously parent her powerful daughter, and to skillfully and successfully design, build, cultivate and grow containers where amazing things happen. She received her minister's license from the School of Spiritual Leadership in 2021. David L Walker Jr, CSO David designs, builds and cultivates successful and productive sales and strategic partnerships to increase awareness, affinity, buy-in, and revenue - all with mindfulness at the core. With over 15 years of experience, David puts the FUNK in cross-functional training and leadership, and he uses his intense desire to serve to intentionally and effectively connect people, places and ideas. Combining his commitment to his own mindfulness evolution with his commitment to create lasting change and healing, David is on a Soul Mission to serve, collaborate, impact, add value, and have fun!" You can find them on all social media channels (Instagram, Twitter, Youtube, Etc.) @TheBlackfullness Balckfullness Articles & Write Ups - MIndfullness for the Culture Podcast Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/3BlGmPKFRXyszmG8wpV0ng?si=c07d453919054ce1 Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindfulness-for-the-culture/id1573309460 Google Podcasts - https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy81MjNiNTMxMC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw ABC7 News San Francisco - https://abc7news.com/blackfullness-ap... The Root - https://www.theroot.com/blackfullness... We Funder - https://wefunder.com/blackfullness Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theblackful... Twitter - https://twitter.com/blackfullness?lan... Youtube -    / @blackfullness   Kaleef Starks (Me) Follow me on instagram and twitter @kaleefnow Check out my podcast - The Perfect Blend Podcast Here Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4S6KI6W... Apple Podcast - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/t... Google Podcasts - https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=... Overcast - https://overcast.fm/itunes1448707215/... Pocketcast - https://pca.st/7AA2 Radio Republic - https://radiopublic.com/the-perfect-b... Stitcher - https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/anch...

A continuation of part 1. More music celeb news and a cute moment about self care and how to do it. Follow me on instagram and twitter @KaleefNow Youtube Channel here - https://youtu.be/UqbGjHCxooE

Please note - I was speaking too close to the microphone! Apologies! Part 2 is much better but part 1 had good moments that I couldn't replicate. Give it a spin and then check out part 2! On part 1 on episode 70, I am back with some good commentary on a few of the latest topics. Bare with me as I am trying a new app called Riverside, to give you audio and visual podcast content. In this episode, I chat about the death of Kokomocity documentary star Rasheeda Williams aka Koko Da Doll (a black trans woman who was an artist and actor in ATL), Ralph Yarl's shooting, and the Verified Blue check debate that has influencers, media professionals, pop stars and legacy blue check holders in an uproar on social media! I hope you enjoy and thank you for watching my YouTube channel and listening to my podcast. Subscribe to my youtube channel here https://youtu.be/zVDO_UKvc9k

Celebrity topics of the week - Lil Duval's alarming tweets about his daughter, Rihanna's Super Bowl performance and backlash for her comments about her son, Meghan Thee Stallion pops out for Aqua Season, and other celebrity news. Main Topic - Finding joy in the little things, value the present moment because struggles are temporary, keep moving. Follow me on Instagram / Twitter - @KaleefNow

It is my birthday week! I'm turning 30! Wow! This episode is very reflective and informative... I hope you kick back, spend the hour with me and enjoy. Follow me on Instagram and Twitter - @Kaleefnow 

Come and chill with me! Let's discuss these topics! I hope you enjoy!

My last podcast episode of the year! Cheers to Season 4. Thank you for joining me on this journey and sticking it through! In this episode I discussed the Tory Lanez Trial / Meg Thee Stallion receiving justice, Barbara Walters, Instagram's toxicity, self worth and more. I hope you enjoy! Happy New Year! Follow me on twitter, Instagram and Youtube @KaleefNow

Taken from my youtube channel. I hope you enjoy.

A good friend of mines, Castro, stopped by The Perfect Blend Podcast to discuss their experiences as an Only Fans content creator. Step in and learn about his views, sentiments, and experiences as a sex worker and overall person! Grab something to sip on and join us for a cute convo interview style! I hope you enjoy! Follow me on Twitter and Instagram - @KaleefNow Also if you like my content and like to donate feel free. Currently don't have a Patreon but you can find me on Cashapp - $Kalee121 Drop down below with ant comments, questions, and topics you'd like to see. Thank you for watching! Remember to Like, Share, Comment and Subscribe.

An honest and candid episode about my take on friendships, the meaning of friendships, friendship break ups, and more. Please share the podcast with a friend. Also feel free to leave a rating/review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, etc. if you enjoy the show. Also, DM if you have any topics you'd like me to chat about. Instagram - @KaleefNow Twitter - @KaleefNow Youtube: Kaedayy The Perfect Blend - https://youtu.be/dNe8jaKSlx0 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4S6KI6WuSwEWh4ELNafQzr Apple - https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-perfect-blend/id1448707215?mt=2&uo=4 Google Podcasts - https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy84NGRlYjI4L3BvZGNhc3QvcnNz Stitcher - https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/anchor-podcasts/the-perfect-blend Overcast - https://overcast.fm/itunes1448707215/the-perfect-blend #GirlsLikeUS #Friends #ThePerfectBlendPodcast #PodInColor #LosAngeles

I hope you enjoy a casual chat about me being tired, lost in my pursuit of a career but still having a fighter spirit. Also, a little celeb commentary. Thank you so much for tuning in.

I hope you enjoy!

Give this episode a spin as you are at home, on your way to work, at the gym, or wherever! I discuss a few updates, where I've been, and what I hope for. Tell a friend about the podcast, spread the word. I think there are a few gems and I hope you enjoy! 

Some of the current Celeb topics! Also a special conversation concerning homophobia, transphobia and misogyny. Thanks for listening!

The latest celebrity topics before 4th of July weekend and some words about Self Care.

Weekly celebrity Topics with a conversation about Friends with Benefits. Does it usually workout? Does one catch feelings? Check me out on Instagram! Episode Live Streamed through the Kumu mobile application. 

In this episode I discuss some of the latest celeb stories of the past week. Topics include Yung Miami's interview of Diddy for her new podcast with Revolt TV ( Caresha Please) , Britney Spears wedding drama, Lori Harvey and Michael B Jordan's Breakup, Saucy Santana's Old Tweet about Blu Ivy & Beyonce, and much more celebrity commentary. The central topic for this week is the difference between courting and dating. I also pose a few questions such as, can a woman who is in a situationship elevate to girlfriend or wifey status? I also shed light of how I've navigated various dating experiences and situationships as a trans woman. Tune in. It's a loaded conversation! Remember to tell a friend about the podcast. Follow me on Instagram & twitter @kaedayy . You can also find my youtube channel by typing in The Perfect Blend Kaedayy and subscribe. Thank ya'll!

Join in me in another episode of the Perfect Blend Podcast. I'm joined by a good friend of mine (who goes by NoName) as we tackle some of this weeks hot topics. Topics Include Kim Kardashian's recent NY Times interview, An 18 year old boy arrested for threatening a sheriff over Young Thug, Black Hair and the Anxiety it can bring for Black Women, Wigs, and much more. I hope you enjoy. Tell a friend about the show! Leave a review on Spotify and Apple Podcasts! Follow me on IG @Kaedayy. Thank you for listening.

In this episode I glaze over a few celebrity topics but have a moment of transparency about this week's central topic... The Power of Words. I touch upon negative self talk and how I struggle with it, while also offering advice on how to push through it. Life has its challenges sometimes but I'm making it through. hope you enjoy! Spread the word about the podcast, tell a friend, leave a review. Follow me on Instagram @Kaedayy and Youtube @Kaedayy. 

In This episode I discussed why Normani and Chloe Bailey have potential, Lee Daniels Apologizing to Monique, Lee Daniels speaking on Jussie Smolett's Scandal, Will Smith being Banned from the Oscars and much more. The central topic of this week is boundaries. Have a seat and chill with ya girl! Lets get it! Tell a friend about the podcast! Love and appreciate ya'll! Follow me on IG and Tik Tok @Kaedayy. Also check out my youtube channel here... https://youtu.be/LWDhwBul-OE

In this episode I shed light on the recent murders of 2 transgender women (Tianna Labelle & Elise Malary), hottest celeb stories of the week, and various musings on women in the entertainment industry. This week's central topic is the Importance of Focus for Women (Especially single women). I list a few tips on how to stay focused and implement focus into your daily life. Come in and get this good ole' girl chat / motivation. Please spread the word about the podcast. Find me on the socials: IG: @Kaeday, Tik Tok @Kaedayy, Youtube Kaedayy channel (The Perfect Blend). Thank ya'll for love! It is really appreciated. Leave a review/rating on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

Welcome back!! Another episode with this week Celeb topics such as Jayda Cheaves and Lil Baby going back and forth, Kim K's visit to the Ellen Show, Ye beefing with comedians, Jussie Smollet is free and much more Celeb news. I also share tid bits on the importance of gratitude. Share, rate and review! Tell a friend about the podcast.

A continuation of part 1 but this episode is special. I discuss sex positivity, firstly with various definitions, how I define it, the role sex has played in my life as a Black Trans women, how people within the LGBTQ community shame each other about sex and much more. My IG, Tik Tok, Youtube is @Kaedayy. I hope you enjoy! Leave a review or rating / share with a friend! Thank you!

In this episode I cover an array of topics such as Kim Kardashian telling women in business to "Get your f*cking a*s up and work", Nicki Minaj showing props to Lil' Kim, Jussie Smollett's sentencing, Joseline's Cabaret, The N-Word (Who can Use It), Celebrity drama and my intricate journey with sex positivity as a Black Trans woman. Make sure to check out part 2 of this episode as I dig deep into my views of sex positivity, people calling me a prude, and me calling out the LGBTQ community. 

A continuation of part 1...but I dig deeper into different types of break ups and how to bounce back. Spread the word or leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Thank you for listening!

In this week's episode, there was so much to get into, Had to give ya'll 2 parts. First is the good ole' celebrity gossip that includes Kim Kardashian's divorce from Kanye, Laverne Cox's Red Carpet backlash, Quincy Combs being dragged off of a flight and much more.. Second Part, I discuss break ups and how to bounce back. Hope you enjoy. Leave me a review on Apple Podcasts and spotify! Share everyhere and tell a friend! IG : Kaedayy, Twitter: Kaedayy, TikTok: Kaedayy, Youtube: Kaedayy. 

This week's episode cover an array of topics such as Russia's invasion of Ukraine, The Covid Mask Mandate lift, Monique shedding light on Tyler Perry / Oprah, Megan Thee Stallion, Burn out and much more. Hope yo enjoy. Spread the word about the show. Find me on Instagram, Youtube and Tik Tok @Kaedayy . Thank you so much for listening.

It's Valentines Day of 2022, come kick it with your girl as I have a cute convo about being single on Valentine's Day and a few steps on how to deal with it. It's juicy as I discuss recent experiences, moments, woos of love and it's complications. Season 4.

In this episode, I interview a prominent figure in the Black LGBTQ Community, entertainment, and Youtube Reality Star Jewel the Gem about her time on The Circle Atlanta, love, life, and her advocacy work as a Black cisgender queer femme. Friend of the show and director of The Circle Atlanta, Jamar84 also stops by for a beautiful conversation with Jewel. More about Jewel..... Born and raised in Brooklyn, East New York by a Haitian single Mother, Jewel The Gem is an Entertainer, Healer, Speaker, Educator & Entrepreneur. She is an unapologetic Black Queer abolitionist and freedom fighting Femme for Black lives. A Social Justice Organizer for the rights of Black women, girls, femmes, and for the transgender and gender non-conforming community. She owns an event planning business, Jewel The Gem Productions, that hosts her own talk show and produces community spaces that center Black joy, restoration and healing. She has been recognized from BET to NYU for her dynamic work as a Community Organizer. As a nationally multi-awarded speaker and educator, Jewel's life's mission is to amplify the voices of marginalized Black people who have been silenced and support them on their journey to resilience. Jewel, Jamar and I had a juicy conversation! I hope you enjoy! You can find Jewel the Gem on Instagram at Jewel_thegem , Jamar84 on all socials @Jamar84 , and myself on all socials @Kaedayy !

In this episode, Youtube personality, web series executive producer, and all-around content creator Jamar 84 returns to shake things up! We shared our review of Episode 1 of the Black LGBTQ reality web series Chasing LA, the divide within the LGBTQ+ community between sex workers and non-workers, and much more. Jamar always has an open seat on the Perfect Blend Podcast! I hope you enjoy it! Jamar can be found on Twitter, Instagram, and youtube under @Jamar84. Also, his tik-tok is hilarious, you can find that @Jamar840! My Instagram and Twitter are @kaedayy! Spread the word about the show! Thanks for listening. :)

Hello All! This is a very special episode dedicated to our late friend to the show, and my personal friend Daley B. Moore. His best friend of 13 years, Victoria joined me as we shared space about our experiences with him and how much he meant to us. Daley was an LGBTQ advocate who also lent his hand to young adults all of Los Angeles through his work with various organizations such as Loa Angeles Children's Hospital. It was light and refreshing to have this conversation, we also added our thoughts to a topic that Daley discussed on my podcast in episode 24 - 2020 Ain't Sh*t - Growth, Reality, and Expectations. I hope you enjoy it! I hope you hear and feel the healing that is taking place. :)

In this episode, I discussed the Saweetie and Quavo Debacle, Chet Hanks & Kiana, Domestic Violence, learning to be alone, and much more. Make sure to share this and spread the word about the podcast. I hope you enjoy it. :)

In this episode, I return with a life update and share very important news. I also discuss my takes on Derrick Jaxn's cheating scandal, Lil' Mama trolling the trans community, Lil' Nas X's shocking music video, and much more. Listen now! Spread the word and show love! It's good!

In the episode I discuss my small break in January 2021, Cicely Tyson, unplugging from social media, mental health, ClubHouse, Taimi experiences as a trans woman, and much more. I hope you enjoy this episode. It’s important to recognize yourself and speak up for yourself. This episode is also available via video on my Instagram @kaedayy so folllow me! I will be making a celebrity gossip focused episode very soon! This one was more personal and candid. I hope you enjoy it! Remember to share and spread the word! love y’all!--

Welcome to the first episode of season 3! In this episode, I discuss the recent events of the Capitol Hill Riots, #45, and his antics. I then discuss Nicki Minaj’s baby boy, Asian Doll breaking her silence (KingVon's death), Dr. Dre’s messy divorce & health scare, Jeffree Star’s alleged affair with Kanye and much more! I also got personal about how a guy ghosted me recently! Tune in! I hope you enjoy the show! Spread the word about it! Follow me on IG and Twitter @Kaedayy

In this episode, I discuss the back story of my journey into blogging and podcasting, female rap beef (City Girls vs Asian Doll, CupCaake Vs, Sukhiana), the chaos of 2020, Kobe Bryant, and much more. This one has a few personal moments and mishaps, so bare with me. I tried to keep it light. I hope you enjoy! Please share this podcast on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. Also, tell a friend and leave a review on Itunes! Thank you for tuning in! See you in 2021! Follow on Instagram / Twitter @kaedayy Leave a rating and review here ---->> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-perfect-blend-podcast/id1448707215

In this episode I discuss current events in Black Celeb news such as Real Housewives of Potomac Reunion 1, FKA Twigs accusations of abuse by Shia LeBouf, CupCaake’s Diss Record, Eminem apologizing to Rihanna and more. I also discuss the difficulty of adult friendships and maintaining them. Spread the word about the podcast! Show love if you enjoy! Thank you for listening!

In this episode I discuss some tips on dating during a pandemic. I also offer some juicy celebrity gossip chat about Lizzo not liking her body, Dione Warwick Clapping back at Wendy Williams and much more! I hope you enjoy this candid and intimate girl talk. Spread the word about the podcast. Subscribe on Apple podcasts and leave a rating/review. Love ya!

In this weeks episode I delve in to the Megan vs Kelsey rap beef, Lori Harvey & Michael B Jordan, Niecy Nash’s love life, Queer Love and much more. I also share some emotional thoughts on the Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR 2020). I hope you enjoy! Follow me on IG & Twitter @Kaedayy

In this episode, I cover some of the latest celeb news of the week such as #BidenHarris 2020, Megan Thee Stallion’s New Album, Rapper Tyga’s lawsuit for not paying his rent, Chris Brown’s Only Fans Account, King Von’s Death and much more. I also discussed the importance of aging and being comfortable with yourself as you get older. I hope you enjoy the show. Please share this episode everywhere! Tell your family and friends to support! Follow me on Twitter and Instagram @kaedayy

In this special episode, a friend of mines and mentor Verton R. Banks joins me to discuss his journey as a Black Queer Man in Hollywood. Verton R. Banks is best known as the diligent medical intern Vernon on the HBO comedy Getting On starring Laurie Metcalf, Niecy Nash, and Alex Borstein. Notable upcoming tv appearances include the Hulu show Dollface starring Kat Dennings produced by Margot Robbie, FX’s Snowfall, the final season of the Eastsiders on Netflix and upcoming Quentin Lee’s Comisery. Verton is a graduate of UCLA and Yale School of Drama. You can find him on IMDB, Instagram and Twitter under @VertonBanks . Also, follow me on twitter and IG @kaedayy ! This was a fun and informative conversation. Hope you enjoy!

A continuation of celeb news surrounding Naya Rivera’s mysterious disappearance, 50 cents comments about preferring exotic women and how black women are angry at that, and other topics. Also, at the end, I simply just give y’all encouragement. I hope you enjoy!

In this episode, I offer my take on the latest celeb news. I also share how I’ve been doing through this global pandemic as a Black Trans woman and shed some love to other content creators I’m working with. This is another candid yet juicy show. Come and let your hair down and let’s get some chat going. I hope you enjoy!

In this episode, Kateisha and I answer questions and share our perspectives on issues within the Black community. and began a path that is solution oriented. While it isn’t perfect, a positive message is still there! Hope you enjoy!

A dear friend of mines invited me to do an instagram love with her. We created an intracommunnal dialogue that centered upon Black sisterhood, Black love, performative unity and we sat and just unpacked. We also discussed Black men’s treatment of Black woman, white supremacy, and other various factors that inhibit our connection as a people. It was a great conversation, tune in! The goal was to open a door for healing from a Black trans woman and Black Cis woman’s lens.Please follow Kateisha on IG and twitter @Iamkateisha you can also find me on both @kaedayy. Thank y’all!! Don’t forget to leave a review on Apple Podcasts.

In this episode, I have a moment of depth, a serious conversation about Covid-19. Stay well! This is a raw episode. I check in with you guys and tell you how I’m doing throughout this pandemic . Follow me on Instagram / Twitter @Kaedayy .

In this episode, Jamar and I get more personal about life experiences within the LGBTQ community between Black Gay Men and Black Trans Women. It was a great conversation that got personal. Trigger warning for the topics discussed. The ending of the show is also hilarious! Listen now! Please follow my guest Jamar on twitter, YouTube and IG @jamar84 ! You can also find him in TikTok @Jamar840 . Follow me on IG and Twitter @Kaedayy ! Leave a review on ITunes and Spotify! Love ya!

In this episode, We discuss today’s Female Hip Hop and online dating tips! Super fun and laid back episode. Follow Jamar on Twitter/Instagram/YouTube @Jamar84 and Tik Tok @Jamar840 . Follow me on Instagram/Twitter @Kaedayy ! Hope you enjoy! Leave a rating and review on iTunes and Spotify!

In this episode, my special guest Jamar and I review the latest hot topics in Celeb gossip! A super packed episode! Follow Jamar84 on Instagram, YouTube and Twitter at @Jamar84. TikTok - @Jamar840 ! Follow me on IG and Twitter @Kaedayy !

In this episode, I detail how to navigate Valentine’s Day with or without a partner. Please remember to spread the word about the podcast! Review the show on ITunes and Spotify! Follow me on I.G.: Kaedayy & Twitter @Kaedayy! Love ya!