Girls Gone Deep

For all our sapiosexuals out there, get ready for this panty-dropper!  Elle and Vee chat with comedian and podcast host Kaytlin Bailey and "erotic initiatrix" Priestess Francesca about the history of International Whores Day, sex workers' rights, and our internalized prejudices. What is International Whores Day? (3:58)Decriminalizing vs Legalizing. (9:12)Spirituality and Religion intersecting with sex work. (12:13)Controlling sex workers is a feminist issue. (17:41)Internalized whorephobia in sex positive spaces. (20:23)Ethical non monogamy (ENM) and sex work. (29:39)What does the future of sex work look like and how can we be better allies? (38:47)Vee's experience hiring a dominatrix with her ex, and how couples can utilize sex workers as educators. (47:25)Kaytlin Bailey Links:-Founder & Executive Director at Old Pros, a nonprofit that uses storytelling to advocate for s * x worker rights. Follow @oldprosonline — Email Newsletter | Instagram  The Oldest Profession Podcast Wh*re's Eye View one woman showPriestess Francesca Links:WebsiteInstagramFree Masterclass!Sources:International Whores' Day: You can listen to the whole history of International Whores' Day on this episode of The Oldest Profession Podcast hosted by Kaytlin Bailey and Ceyenne Doroshow and this article in the Daily BeastSESTA/FOSTA: "SESTA/FOSTA refers to a set of laws passed under the Trump administration: The Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) and the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA). ...Rather than preventing the online exploitation of trafficked persons, these laws have hurt the people they intended to help, pushing sex workers and trafficking victims into more dangerous and exploitative situations." More information on the impacts of SESTA/FOSTA can be found at Decriminalize Sex WorkGlobal Network of Sex Work ProjectsWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

This week, Elle and Vee dive deep into all things masturbation—from silent solo play to sex toy confessions, and the rituals we don't talk about (but definitely should).What comes to mind when you think of masturbation? (04:42)Masturbating rather than playing in a couple. (06:10)Sexual empowerment through masturbation and sexting. (10:40)Cock stroking. (14:15)Does solo play take away from partner play? (14:58)Shame and a link to Kellogg's cereal. (17:32)How often do you masturbate, what do you use, and how long do you masturbate? (21:11)Making noise while touching yourself. (25:16)Does masturbation compete with intimacy in a couple? (28:33)Formative Experiences: Silent solo play, Elle's early explorations, first orgasms and toys. (32:36)Wierd vocalization and sounds: have you were whimpered or cried during solo play? (38.28) Self pleasure ritual, and toys for G-spot orgasm and self prostate play. (40:37)Do you have better orgasms solo or with your partner? (44:18) Porn and Masturbation. (46:15)Self Touch Practice. (48:39)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

This week, Vee and Elle delve into their experiences with vulnerability, impact play, and the emotional complexities that arise during kinky encounters. From flogging techniques, to primal play, to collecting cum, squirt juice, a spit chalice, and even scat play, the girls don't hold back, in their signature style. Crygasm, Vulnerability and Emotional Releases in Spanking Session (00:00)Flogging, Whipping, and Spanking Techniques (6:16Tantric Intimacy Social and Trance-like Spanking (15:41)Mindful and Intentional Scenes and Connections (22:35)Primal Play Fantasy Exploration  (25:21)Ecstatic dance and High Off My Own Supply (31:41)Fisting Experiences, Receiving and Giving   (35:59)Collecting Cum in a Jar to Collecting Squirt Juice in a Bowl (44:39)Spit Fetish and Collecting Spit Chalice (52:37)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Priestess Francesca about kink, piss, and the juicy world of dark desires. Bring your curiosity and leave your shame at the door.What is Dark Erotiscm? (3:04)Shadow Work: “fill the hole where shame used to be with love and acceptance.” (10:09)Taboo Kinks: Why are we afraid of our kinks and how can we approach them? (13:57)How can you start exploring your dark erotic desires? What to check for before you begin on your kink journey. (17:58)Where do turn-ons come from? The psychology behind why we desire what we do. The eroticsm of our traumatic experiences: recreate or obliterate. (23:40)Vee's first erotic piss play scene! (28:55)Unpacking Pee Play: How do you find where the pleasure lies? (34:52)Solo Piss Play: drinking your own golden nectar. (39:49)How to spin toilet play differently depending on the energy of the scene (worship, degradation, objectification). (40:56)Psychology behind degradation play, and the power behind Priestess Francesca's Scat Play Scene. (43:09)Discomfort is not always productive: growth vs guardianship of yourself. (48:26)Freak School. (55:09)Erotic Alchemy. (56:34)Priestess Francesca Links:WebsiteInstagramFree Masterclass!Source Information: Homosexuality in the DSM: While homosexuality was formally removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) of Mental Disorders in 1973, it wasn't until DSM-5 (which mobilized it's task force of 13 work groups in 2007 to focus on various disorder areas) that all diagnostic categories pertaining to sexual orientation were removed.  Many scholars and advocacy groups believe that only this can be considered "complete declassification" of non-heterosexual sexual orientations as mental disorders.BDSM in the DSM: Thanks to tremendous efforts by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) the American Psychiatric Association (APA) announced in 2010 that it would be changing the diagnostic codes for BDSM in the next edition of the DSM (formally published in 2013 and integrated into practice in the years that followed). Trans Porn Statistical Analysis by State (USA): In 2022, Lawsuit.org issued statistical analysis to understand the love for transgender related porn by scraping daily Google search trend data, segmenting by DMA (metro area), and comparing search volume to both 2020 election voting trends, and public opinions about LGBT rights. "The data tells a tragic tale of self-loathing closet cases, Republicans who privately get off sexually to trans folks, while publicly trying to remove trans peoples' rights and stoking hate against them." You can dig into their data analysis and conclusions here Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

This week, Elle and Vee chat with Athena, Vee's metamour and wingwoman in NYC. In this candid chat, the girls hear the details of Athena's first gang bang, chat about how to make your fantasies a reality, being a single woman in the lifestyle, and so much more!  Exploring the Abyss of Porn Together (00:00) Introducing Athena: From Fainting to Best Friends (2:19)Embracing Your Inner Slut: Athena's Story (5:23)Visual Vs. Spontaneous Fantasy & Planning a Fantasy Hangups (10:45)Planning the Unplanned: Details of the Hooded, Tied Gang bang (18:05)—How Sensory Deprivation Helped Self-Image and Pleasure —The Dynamics of Trust and Safety Why a Gang bang?  Exploring Validation and Attention (33:28)The Complexity of Fantasy Staying in the Mind vs. Making it Reality (38:56)Fuck Around and Find Out: Surrendering to Experience (44:42)Play Party Expectations And Pre Party Text (48:23)Introspection Using Fears, Desires and Boundaries (50:54)Creativity and Playfulness in the Lifestyle (55:28)Creating Security in Unconventional Relationships (58:39)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

In this episode, Elle and Vee go deep with Adam Darrow, the author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey Into Non-Monogamy. Described as a "firsthand recounting of a wide-open relationship, told with unflinching candor from the male perspective", Elle and Vee were struck by the relatability of Adam's ENM story in Seek the Risk, from the overthinking and jealousy to the adventurous sex and deep connection in his relationship. His firsthand account of how he worked through the challenging emotional moments of his relationship with "the wrong girl" is FULL of nuggets, many of which are mentioned in this deep, candid, vulnerable conversation.  Grab a pen and dig in :) What does Seek the Risk mean? "Experience hunting" rather than "trophy bagging". (2:52)Applying the Seek the Risk philosophy to CNM (consensual non monogamy). (6:49)Misalignment and shame: when one partner is the one who is pushing, and one is being pushed. Being mindful and careful about not shaming the “slower” partner. (9:23)The treasure you seek: when do you know it's growth vs. self-flagellation? (15:13)Tool #1: Creating a container to hear stories about your partner's sexual activities so you aren't blindsided by them. Asking for consent to share information. (18:30)Tool #2: Check-ins/debriefs. (23:37)Being triggered at a sex party and how to work through it. (25:36)Tool #3: “Take the cigarette break.” aka Not reacting in the moment. Notice your own growth! (31:22)Tool #4: Self-hypnosis aka “magical reframing”. (36:01)Tool #5: “Exist in the grey.” Don't act on emotions when spiraling out: sit with uncomfortable feelings. “Negative outcome fantasy.” (38:50)Imposter syndrome: how our childhood traumas show up in our adult relationships. (43:37)IFS: internal family systems and Aspecting (from ISTA). (49:52)Masculinity: Societal hypocrisies and submissive associations with pegging and anal play. (52:58)Final Nugget! (1:00:34)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Liv Love: sex writer, sex educator and swinger, and new friend from Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025! They focus on bisexuality, labels, performance anxiety, shame, strap on sex ... and a play-by-play of how to go from zero to orgasm. This is a no-holds-barred conversation about questioning your bisexuality, pussy insecurities, and so much more! Lack of confidence eating going down on women. (00:49)Liv's story. (5:35)Bisexuality: when do you know you're bi? (10:05)Performance Anxiety when you're new to going down on a woman. (12:42)Labels: Hetero-Romantic, Bi-Sexual, etc. (18:14)How our upbringing affects our comfort with being bisexual. (21:20)Kinsey scale: where do the girls feel they fall on it? Female vs. male energy. (27:10)Projections of our pussy insecurities: smell, taste, what it looks like, etc. (34:27)Taste/smell and how the pussy changes over the orgasm cycle. (41:00)How to eat pussy: encouraging full body orgasms, waiting until the vulva is ready to receive oral, and bringing the pussy from dry to orgasm. (44:26)How to have and give multiple orgasms. (52:52)Poll results: women are insecure about their woman on woman skills. (57:08)Tip to build confidence: go down on someone who's already orgasmed, who's an easy cummer, and do fears/desires/boundaries. (58:41)Above the waist bisexual: is it okay to just not go down on women? (1:03:10)Strap on sex! (1:05:56)Hang ups around our own vulvas affecting our desire to go down on others. (1:08:56)Final Nugget! (1:10:26)Liv Love is a sex writer, sex educator and swinger. She teaches workshops as a sex expert on the Temptations cruises and writes about the lifestyle, sex and porn on her blog Honeyahh.com. Links:Website: Honey AhhInstagram: @livlove_incBlog Post referenced: Help! Eating Pussy for the First TimeWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into Elle's Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025 experience, sharing spicy stories, communication hiccups, and the evolution of their desires in the lifestyle. They explore boundaries, consent, group play dynamics, and the rediscovery of feminine energy — all while navigating connection, frustration, and the value of both solo and shared intimacy.Introduction to Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025 (00:00)Fear Desires Boundaries & Intentions for the Trip (04:24)New Connection and Playroom Experience  (14:38)Audio note replay and New Nipple Experience (21:13)Oops! I Wanna Cum Soon Micommunication & Guilt  (27:01)Turning Down The Sex Suggestion From Your Parter (31:19)Oops Again! A Missed Check-In and A Confusing Mixed Signal  (33:00)The Shift in Sexual Preferences From Lots of People to Less (44:00)Elle Practicing Her Taking with Nikki -- Wheel of Consent (46:13)Orgasm Tower, Spanking, Bruises and Expectation of Cumming (63:25)The Difference Between Giving and Taking (01:00:17)Threesome in the Wrong Room (01:02:17)Top Floor: Attending Sex Parties Solo Vs With Friends/Partners (01:04:48)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

This week the girls go deep with Leola Watkins, Pleasure Priestess and the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed. Answering listeners' questions, they dig into a number of concepts under the tantric umbrella from shadow work and Golden Shadows, to sex magic and creating through orgasm, to yoni and lingum gazing.  They also cover how all of this applies to men, when often tantric conversations can feel very feminine-energy-focused, AND how we can apply living tantrically to everyday life! This is a conversation for people who are new to the concepts of tantra, as well as people who have done 15 retreats. Get ready to get turned on by life! Leola's story. Tantra and overcoming sexual shame. (3:51)How to apply tantra to the real world: how can I be librated and expansive in this work environment and my home environment? (8:27)What it means to be a Pleasure Priestess. (13:29)What is shadow, and shadow work? Analyzing an old trigger of male-male play. (18:37)What does sexual liberation mean when it comes to shadow work? (26:28)Analyzing one of Vee's triggers: Sex without condoms. (28:27)Golden Shadow, and Elle's integrated shadow. (33:28)What's in it for men? (38:07)Eye Gazing: Tantra 101. What's the point of this exercise? (42:36)Vulnerability: “the cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” (46:19)Sex magic: what is it? Manifesting through orgasm. (48:00)Making your life juicier: the tantric principle that every moment is sacred. (53:25)How to stay grounded at Hedonism Swing Breakers. (58:07)Leola's offerings and the final nugget: yoni and lingum gazing with your partner! (1:02:20)Connect with Leola:Website: talktantratome.comInstagram: @talktantratomeLadies! Tantra Retreat August 8-11 : Pleasure Portal (mention GGD)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

This week, the girls go deep on an often (in their experience) overlooked and underused play option: fingering! Pulling from listener polls, friends, research and their own experience, Elle and Vee share all the juicy details of every aspect of fingering that they could come up with. Did they miss anything? Fingering: yay or nay?Foreplay: Stimulating around the hole before insertion.How many fingers at first?Self-pleasure: Do you use fingers during masturbation? The Technique: in and out vs in and using the come hither fingers?Which fingers? Spiderman technique or pointer and middle?Fingers as the main event vs as foreplay, and formative sexual experiences with fingering. Squirting: the technique, and what makes it pleasurable. Using fingering to orgasm after penetration.Looking at potential partners' fingers and nails. Using gloves, and lube with gloves. Fingering an asshole: during doggy style, and prostate play.Fingering poll results and final nuggets!Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

What Is ISTA SSSex Level 1 Retreat? (00:00)The Intensity of Emotional Processing.  (07:25)The Importance of Slowing Down. (13:38)Elle's Reasons for Going to ISTA. (21:07)Masculine and Feminine. (27:00) No Expectation of Tantra and Sexuality as a Sacred Experience. (28:55)People Pleasing vs Listening to Your Body's Signals. (33:44)Shadow Work: Elle's Revelations Around Social Anxiety. (37:00)Triggers as Gifts: Feminine Connection. (40:08)How Elle will take her takeaways into her relationship with Her Partner Going Forward. (48:47)Embodied Practices: Dancing into Femininity. (52:03)Working through Feeling Disconnected at a Play Party. (55:00)Tantric Latihan. (1:00:54)Final nugget. (1:17:46)50 Shades of Gold:  Ladies: Join in  on this sexually transformative event on March 25, 2025  Click here for details! Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

50 Shades of Gold   Calling all women to join this sexually transformative event! Click here for details! This week, the girls chat with Marz, who is the copilot of Top Floor, a curated members-only community for those embracing alternative relationship dynamics, kink, and sex-positive exploration. They give all the top tips from the Cunnilinguistics workshop Marz facilitated in which Vee was the demo model for cunnilingus, despite her aversion to exhibitionism!  What is cunnilinguistics? (3:14)Normalizing Different Vulvas: Vee works on her pussy insecurities. (6:20)What to expect from a Friday night at Top Floor as part of their Signature Weekend. (13:25)Doing it Scared: Going Deep on Vee's “immersion therapy” to get comfortable with her pussy and exhibitionism. (18:12)What are some pointers for honing in and receiving in a play party environment? (22:03)Rimming: licking the vagina hole. Communicating what you do and don't like. (25:44)The scientific reason to embrace receiving. (29:49)Tips for getting out of your head while receiving. (35:09)Communication tips while receiving at a play party. (40:30)Pro tips: communication and safety. (43:32)Pussy licking tips: give them an "oral flight"! Tongue techniques and rhythm. (51:31)Fingering while performing oral: how many fingers, and nail hygiene (length and cleanliness). (54:59)Safety: using gloves to finger and condoms during head? (57:42)Top Floor highlights and naughty stories! (59:48)50 Shades of Gold   Calling all women to join this sexually transformative event! Click here for details! Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

Navigating the Lifestyle: Starting out as a Manicorn (00:00)Hot Wifing vs. Cuckolding (4:54)The Role of the Third: Enhancing Couples' Experiences & Feelings of Loneliness (6:44)Lessons Learned: Mistakes as a Single Guy (10:32)Transitioning to a Couple: Finding Balance in the Lifestyle (15:35)Is it easier to make connections with a hot chick on your arm now? (17:57 )Age is just a number! Cougar's and Silver Foxes Who Know What They Want (22:13)Boundaries: Sleep Overs and Romantic Dating (23:05)Gangbang Group Operation Detailed and Casual Encounters on Craigslist(29:59)Gang Bang Psychology: Why Participate(40:00) Being Selective with Cream Pies and More (42:47)Navigating Swinger Events as a Couple  (45:49 )Tips for Single Guys in Swinging (49:34)*********************50 Shades of Gold  Calling all women to join this sexually transformative event! Click here for details! *********************Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

This week, the girls don't hold back in this uncensored chat about ejaculating in the vagina and the ass! From the drip to the taboo nature to the benefits of being fluid bonded with a partner, listen in for some x-rated and deep reflections on cream pies. Elle's “perfect porn pussy” and toilet paper mishaps. (00:40)Cream Pies: Vee and Elle's first times and experience level with it. (5:18)Dripping semen: a sexy naughty reminder of a hot scene or a gross gush in the middle of the workday? (9:15)Fucking on your period, and cream pies mixing with period blood. (11:12)Mess on our own terms: do you prefer cumming inside or outside the pussy? (17:23)What we like about cream pies. (20:04)Getting the cum out after sex. (23:43)Eating cream pies out of pussies. (29:43)Friends' stories: hot wife, sloppy seconds. (32:21)Anal cream pies. (38:12)Friends' stories: cream pie before a first date. (41:58)Friends' stories: hot positions. (44:41)Considerations before having sex without a condom. (46:28)Friends' stories: taking a new partner's cum, dirty talk. (50:17)Pussy aftercare: recommendations from Dr. Sexy! Elle is a holistic health practitioner with her own practice, and gives advice for keeping your vaginal microbiome balanced and healthy pre- and post- play time. (54:55)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Cleo's story: tantric certification; somatic approach to sex love and relationship coaching. (0:40)Somatic Embodiment Practices: How do we uncover our blockages through somatic work? The felt sense. Can you do this work in couples too? (4:19)Erotic Blueprints: Sexual, Sensual, Energetic, Kinky, Shapeshifter; and how erotic blueprints can change throughout life and depending on the partner. (9:49)Light and shadow sides of the blueprints, and the challenges of a monogamous relationship. (16:46)Do tantra and non-monogamy go hand in hand? Creating a safe container with a partner. (20:07)Why work with men? (25:17)Masculine vs Feminine Energy: what comes naturally to masculine vs feminine, and how we can allow each other to be soft. (31:56)Getting vulnerable: The cock-heart connection, and allowing yourself to let go in front of witnesses. (36:28)Being in your Masculine vs Feminine: the culture of toxic masculinity creating fear to step into the masculine energy. (44:04)The intersection of tantra and BDSM. What is conscious kink? (49:46)Final nuggets! (55:36)Website: www.thetantricmuse.comInstagram: @the.tantric.museWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on their December adventures, focusing on their experiences with friends and breastmilk, parenthood, BDSM and spreading assholes. Welcome to the ride! ChaptersCancun, three Babies and A Hotel room. (00:00)What That Breast Milk Do? A Gameshow of Breast Milk Play. (4:20) Navigating Parenthood and Intimacy.  (14:55) Fear of Missing out: Vee's FOMO evolution and Connecting in Relationships. (20:30)New Experience at SNCTM Replay: Ball Gag, Sobriety and Exhibitionism.  (31:13)First Date Fister: Vee gets fisted on a first date. (44:01) D/S Scenes: feeling vulnerable when spreading your ass. (52:01) Empowerment Through Saying No vs Feeling Guilt. (55:54)See our Instagram story for polls from this episode! If it is after release day, you can still join in on the conversation. See highlight "Polls".Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with the founder and "co-pilot" of Top Floor, "an upscale play party and community free of pretense" in Manhattan. “No Takers”: What does this ethos mean? What does Top Floor look for in their guests? Premium Upscale Vibe = Premium Pricing? The community of volunteering and serving the vibe of the party. Guiding Principles of Top Floor.Friday night mixer/workshop.History of Top Floor and what you can expect.BDSM and Equipment available: what's an orgasm tower?!How do you inhabit the lifestyle? How do you experience the parties?Serenity Room: what is it? Why is it needed at a party like this?How the curation of the party is in service of creating moments of "flow". What does this space mean to you in your personal growth journey? Overcoming shame.Nuggets: compersion, first time pegging.Mandatory STI Testing for the party, and privacy policies. Website: Top Floor - apply to become a member here.Instagram: @thetopfloorclubWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their friends' holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had!  Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23)Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best practices for milking the prostate, and snowballing cum between five people. (5:22)Rope 101: Vee uses her beginner rope tying skills on Elle! Finding something to do with your hands during the party, and unlocking your inner domme. Reverse Tension; Square Knot Single Column Tie; attaching rope to rope. (11:55)Edging scene while being bound. (18:40)Fisting tips: Vee uses her takeaways from a recent fisting workshop to get wrist-deep with M, two nights in a row. (20:23)Elle: year of the pussy! Double ended dildo strap-on play. Why Elle loves reverse cowgirl. (29:38)Anonymity in a large orgy: at small orgies it feels like there's a spotlight on certain scenes. (40:14)Sexy white elephant gifts: nipple clamps, penis pumps, ejaculating dildo, sexy art, bed straps. (44:11)Woo More Play Here For Great Sex. Natural Sex Products and Tools + Resources + SupportDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode of Girls Gone Deep, Vee and Elle welcome Amber Grubenmann, a dating coach and host of the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. (Fun fact: Vee's dating coach!) Get ready for practical tools, thought-provoking questions, and memorable metaphors to help you master effective, high-quality, confident, and time-saving dating—so you can get what you want.Chapters: Introduction to Amber Grubenmann (00:00)Vee's Journey with Dating Coaching: Issues with Overthinking and Dating Anxiety (3:15)Building Confidence for Dating: The Most Common Unintentional Intentions That Leads to Dating Anxiety (8:31)Understanding Connection Dynamics: Relationships Bringing Out Different Feelings (12:47)The 10% Guy Concept: Emotional Connected Less Of The Time Yet It Feels So Amazing And The Other 90% You Feel Hurt/Anxious. Does this have a place in non-monogamy?  (17:26)Community and Friends Support in Dating: Buffer Independence (24:09)The Importance of Self-Validation in Relationships and Building a Foundation Beyond Dating (28:01)The Five Elements of Thriving Relationships: The Solution to Pickiness and When To End A Connection (31:42)Mindset Shifts For Letting Go Of A Relationship: Courage (38.18)What Does A 2-Date Relationship Or The 3 Month Or 6 Month Connection Have In Common? The Seed Planting Metaphor For Relationship Growth  (42:30)When You Are Heading In The Wrong Direction With Your ConnectionBalancing Fun with Going Deep: Is Small Talk Important? (51:48)Date Ideas Depends on You: Lower Stimulation Dates Vs Activity (57:24)Optimizing Dating Profiles: Common Mistakes And How To Start Amazing Conversations. Hear Elle'sand Vee's! (01:02:19)Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways (01:16:03)Find Amber:Podcast: Women's Dating and Confidence PodcastWebsite: AmberGrubenmann.comFree Resource: Download Copy-and-Paste Texts for When He's Pulling Away or Acting Flaky (on her homepage)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, the girls catch up after New Year's Eve: Elle's was intimate with a handful of friends checking things off their fuckit lists, and Vee's was more community-based at a big party in New York City.  Part audio smut, part deep chats, the girls give all the details from the orgies to the reflections afterwards. Elle's New Years Eve gang bang! (1:39)Being used vs being worshipped when being fucked. (5:25)Tuning out the orgy: how to zone in. (11:50)Elle's evolving desire from pre- to post-pregnancy. (14:25)Stay tuned- GGD community coming in 2025! (21:45)Volunteering at sex parties, and how to approach someone you're interested in. (22:50)Impact play to leave marks: using new implements (lollipop stick, dragon tail whip, evil stick, long-tail flogger). (26:44)Why impact play? The benefits of massage and erotic touch, vibrational spanking, and cathartic impact play that leads to “crygasms”. (32:41)Power Play Scene: 3 dommes. (37:29)Domming takeaways. (42:05)Sexy Scenes from Elle's New Years Eve. Double stacking and dirty talk. (43:46)Group sex participation: adding to the scene even if you're not having sex. (45:55)2025 intentions: “the year of the pussy” and scissoring, dating, shibari and impact play and increased pain tolerance. (47:44)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this conversation, Dr. Marie Thouin PhD and author of What Is Compersion?, discusses the concept of compersion, which is the joy one feels for others' happiness, particularly in the context of non-monogamous relationships. The discussion explores the spectrum of emotions from jealousy to compersion, the importance of self-worth and agency, and the factors that can foster or hinder the experience of compersion. ChaptersIntroduction to Compersion and The Origins of Her Book What Is Compersion? (00:00)Defining Compersion: A Dive into the 3 parts. (5:02)The Spectrum of Emotions: Jealousy to Compersion. (8:22)Navigating Compersion: The Belief that Compersion Should be the Ultimate Goal in ENM: Toxic Positivity vs. Authenticity. (9:24)Is Compersion Necessary for a Healthy Non-Monogamous Relationship? (12:21) The 6 Pillars to Cultivating Compersion: Is Compersion like a Muscle that Anyone Can Train?  (15:15)The 1st Pillar: Choosing Non-Monogamy From a Place of Values and Integrity. (15:15)If A Partner Is Doing Polyamory For Their Partner And Didn't Necessarily Choose It, Can They Achieve Compersion? (17: 28) The 2nd Pillar: Building Security Within One Self: Financial, Emotional, and Spiritual Autonomy. (20:45)Building Inner Security in Self. (22:43)Are Some People More Compersive than Others?  (27:27)The 3rd Pillar: Security in the Relationship.  (32:30)If You Are Practicing Non-Hierarchical Polyamory or Solo Polyamory, How You Can Create Security? (32:22)The 4th Pillar: Positive Metamour Relationships: your partner's partner (Very Important). (39:13)What If Your Partner Does Not Want You to Meet Their Metamors?  (46:36)What If the Metamour Does Not Want to Meet You?  (49:04)Growth Edges: Embracing Good Pain. (51:13)The 5th Pillar:Perception of Benefits from your partner's Other Relationships. (54:36)The 6th Pillar:Community Belonging: The Role of Support in Non-Monogamy. (57:46)Cuckolding and Erotic Compersion: Is the Feeling Self-Centered or Other-Centered?  (01:04:50)Final Thoughts: Don't Pressure Yourself to Feel Compersion. (01:08:50)____________________Instagram @drmariethouin Website:  https://www.mariethouin.com for free 30 minute session, webinars, Your Compersion WorksheetHer Book :  What Is Compersion? (Diverse Sexualities, Genders, and Relationships)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up, and Vee recounts her sexcapades diving back into the BDSM scene! From being tied up and flogged on a second date to power play in Mexico City on vacation, she gives all the dirty details of her recent scenes. Then the girls discuss Elle's experience with Flintts Mints to cure her dry mouth, and tapping into your inner dominant or submissive side through different modes, including primal play. Get ready for some smut with a side of depth!Vee seeks out Vacation Sex in Mexico City. (0:37)Power Play scene and being a "good girl". (4:59)Flintts Mints: Elle discusses which strengths are best for every situation. (20:13)Bondage and Impact play scene, including spanking, flogging, and sensory deprivation. (23:58)Primal Play: Vee and J go to a workshop to unlock their base instincts. (33:58)Finding your D/S Persona: trying different modes to unlock your inner Dominant or Submissive. (40:25)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Welcome to the In Bed With Alexa x GGD crossover episode! In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) hosts her first threesome on the podcast with Vee and Elle, hosts of the Girls Gone Deep podcast, besties and lovers. They dive into their ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) journeys, recounting experiences at Hedonism and the play party where Vee and Alexa first met. Vee and Elle share how they met and their adventures in double penetration and double vaginal penetration. They provide tips for those wanting to try non-monogamy, discussing how to advocate for your pleasure and ask for what you want. Vee and Elle also talk about the vibrant non-monogamous community they have built together. Tune in for an open and enlightening conversation about pleasure, connection, and community in the world of ENM.How Vee and Elle met: Temptations lifestyle resort. (3:16)How Vee and Elle started the podcast. (7:23)Fucking older partners, and why women who advocate for their pleasure are sexy. (11:04)Penis sounding at a daytime orgy. (15:10)ENM journeys: how Elle got into the consensually non monogamous lifestyle. (22:33)Shame and the importance of community. (29:11)What are you curious about that you learned about through the lifestyle? DVP. (34:27)Faking Orgasms? How to get reconnected when you're in your head. (36:58)Tips for play parties: what to do when you're not the main part of the scene, and how to achieve orgasm with lots of people around. (43:22)DP: first time stories. (45:30)Anal: training and prepping. (51:28)Elle's and Vee's advice for new people discovering ENM. (54:01)Would you rather? (1:01:02)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee debrief on the highlights, challenges and takeaways from their most recent weekend away with their ENM friends.  “A glimpse into a lifestyle party,” and one of the challenges of bringing a third to a party. (1:46)What's the point of having themes? (5:35)Sobriety: the challenges and benefits of staying sober for an entire lifestyle weekend. (9:10)Sobriety and sexuality. (18:02)Highlight: DP with strap ons? FFF threesome and goal-oriented fucking. (21:57)Face-sitting: the benefits of being distracted/focused when you're getting action both up top and down bottom. (26:46)Highlight: Fivesome and creampie. (29:41)Fuckit List item: DVP, and Elle's tips for success. (32:06)Breakthrough: Getting out of your head, and cumming in front of a group. (38:28)Sybian vs Fuck Machine. (41:37)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Elle and Vee catch up just the two of them for their 100th episode! They reflect on how much they've changed since beginning the podcast, and fill each other in on their latest sexcapades, learning moments and takeaways.Putting Talk Into Action: Vee doing the work, Elle's intentions to be a better student, gratitude for the guests. (1:10)Elle's tight pussy post-birth: how Vee and Elle have changed since the beginning of the podcast. (6:04)The importance of taking care of yourself to have good sex! Desire level post-birth: how lack of sleep for new parents affects sex drive. (11:48)Alcohol: letting go of alcohol allowed Vee to listen to her body's signals. (16:33)How to Be the Love You Seek check ins: Elle uses tools from Dr. Nicole LaPera's book. (18:27)Vee gets embodied: checking in with yourself - inside and outside of the bedroom. (20:03)First date orgasms! Getting eaten out by a guy with a beard, and learning to let go with a new partner. (21:55)Oral with a timer; giving your partner NRE (new relationship energy) no matter how long youve been together. (28:03)Elle's vacation sex: cock ring + connection + tipsiness + weed = anal sex! (34:51)Balls hitting the ass during sex: yay or nay? (37:09)Putting mens' toys and condoms on for them. (42:15)Setting intentions: cock cage, yoni massage, and tantra retreat. (44:10)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee dive deep with a psychotherapist who they refer to as Wonder Woman on this episode for the sake of anonymity.  With specializations in sex therapy and ketamine-assisted psychotherapy, the girls pick her brain on everything from desire discrepancy to the most common issues within couples, from what a ketamine-assisted psychotherapy session actually looks like to neuroplasticity. Psychotherapy vs. Psychoanalysis: what is the difference? (1:58)Top reasons couples seek sex therapy counseling: both gay and cis-het couples, and individuals. (5:15)Spontaneous desire vs responsive desire: a dive into libido differences and desire discrepancy. (6:25)Is there a way to get spontaneous desire back? Esther Perel's Mating in Captivity. (13:33)The Dual Control Model (Sexual Brakes and Accelerators): a concept from Emily Nagoski's book Come As You Are and her 2nd book Come Together. (20:57)Kink and shame: how to bring you kinky desires up to your partner and working through internalized shame. (26:12)Kink as shadows: how roleplaying can help one work through shame with reframing and control. (30:02)Kink isn't always about processing something. Heteroflexible male-male play as a “taboo kink”. (31:27)Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy: how to use it properly, and how it's being done irresponsibly. (35:17)How neuroplasticity works in the brain using the snow track analogy by Michael Pollan, author of the book How to Change Your Mind.  (47:24)Ketamine Assisted Couples Psychotherapy. (53:02)Final Nugget: Keeping the idea of play and pleasure at the forefront. (53:57)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with paid companion Adele Bardot in a conversation which went somewhere they didn't necessarily expect it to go.  And that's what this theme of going deep is all about: relinquishing control and sometimes talking about really intense stuff like the authentic self.  Elle and Vee invite you to think of this convo as an insight into how sex work and companionship can be truly great opportunities to dive deeper and seek answers to those questions of, "Who am I?" and "What is my purpose?" and "What brings me joy and lights me up?" and "How can I seek more of that?"Getting into paid companionship. (1:49)What does paid companionship entail? (4:56)Sugaring: finding a sugar daddy on Seeking.com, and discovering the pros and cons. (7:50)How our childhood informs where we end up. (11:19)Authentic self: asking yourself who you are, not just in the roles you play but your core self. (15:31)2024: a year of change. Discussing impermanence and grace through turmoil. (21:42)Seeking joy and developing your hobbies lead to being able to hold a conversation with anyone and fit in anywhere. (25:37)Greater connections with your partners once you have a greater connection to yourself. (27:55)Applying self work to paid companionship. (31:12)Memorable experiences with clients! (37:11)What types of bookings might an escort receive? (40:18)Vetting or questions for new clients? (45:22)What do you wish you knew before getting into sex work? (47:12)Ikigai: the Japanese concept of living your life's purpose. (48:57)Links:Website: theadelebardot.comInstagram: @itsadelebardotX: @theadelebardotHBO sex show Vee referenced: This Is Life With Lisa LingWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Guys Gone Deep! In this thought provoking conversation, Justin Gottlieb, a sexual freedom coach, discusses his evolution from the corporate world to the world of tantra. He emphasizes how Tantra is often misunderstood and the need to redefine Tantra beyond stereotypes.  His take on unlocking sexual freedom is refreshing and he encourages everyone to live fully by embracing and accepting all aspects of life, the good, the bad and the ugly. So, how can we achieve this? Take a listen… ________From Corporate Suit To Tantra World, Beyond The Typical Tantra Spiritual Stereotypes.  (00:00)Justin's Definition Of Tantra: Different From Sanskrit, Accepting Our Sexuality and Embracing Our Human Experience. (06:14)Personal Journey into Discovering Tantra: Tantra Massages And Spiritual Awakening. (09:24)More Than Tantra: What is a Sexual Freedom Coach?  (14:04)Story Share: A Tantra Massage Detailed, Withholding Orgasm and Male Orgasm Without Ejaculation.  (16:50)Why Justin Doesn't Subscribe To Semen Retention As A Must For Tantric Men. (20:46)The Distinction Between Self Pleasure And Masturbation.  (24:01)Justin Coaches Vee On Resisting Edging. (27:02)Story Share: Justin Details being a demo for a tantra massage in front of a 40 person training. The Power of Vulnerability and Emotional Release. (28:27)What is a Men's Group or Men's Circle? (33:28)How can you create Safe Spaces in groups and in Relationships to be vulnerable? (38:10)What is it like at a Tantra Love Retreat?  (44:13)What is The Sacred Slut Experience? Exploring Boundaries and Desires in a Supportive Environment. (49:24)The Evolution of Miami Velvet, Justin's Swinger Sex Club Rescue Detailed, Incorporating Tantric Principles, Community Education, Expansive Experiences. (55:25)Fantasy Vs. Desire. (01:06:37)The Intersection of BDSM and Tantra: is there a difference between Subspace and Surrender? (01:09:15)________For Couples and Singles: Tantra Love Retreats Next: Feb 27 - March 2nd, 2025@tantralovecoach — Virtual Coaching — Private Retreats— Tantra Massage— Sexual Concierge— Fantasy Fulfillment ExperiencesSchedule Your Free 15 Minute call with Justin here________Tantra, Sexual Freedom, Spirituality, Authenticity, Personal Growth, Sexuality, Coaching, Relationships, Self-Acceptance, Empowerment, vulnerability, emotional release, men's groups, safe spaces, tantra retreats, pleasure, intimacy, healing, boundaries, swinger clubs, community education, personal development, fantasies, healing, BDSMWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this second of two episodes, Elle and Vee dive deep into the remaining four of the eleven different types of orgasms with School of Intimacy founder, intimacy coach, and author of No More Faking It, Magda Kay. Anal Orgasm: a brief mention! (2:35)Nipple Orgasm. (3:10)Energy Centers: the kundalini energy arcs and centers that women and men have. (7:02)Throat Orgasm. (10:13)De-armoring: what is de-armoring, and when do you know whether you should push through discomfort or if it's going to be too much? (13:55)Yoni mapping: the difference between a therapeutic yoni massage and yoni mapping to de-armor the genitals. (16:01)Energy Orgasm: what is it? Is it possible to have a full body orgasm without touch? (18:44)HOW to have an energy orgasm. (25:40)Why seek pleasure? What's the significance of seeking orgasms and pleasure? (27:47)Find Magda:Website: www.magdakay.comInstagram: @magdakayofficialYoutube: @magdakayWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this first of two episodes, Elle and Vee dive deep into seven of the eleven different types of orgasms with School of Intimacy founder, intimacy coach, and author of No More Faking It, Magda Kay. Noticing and Asking for What You Need in your sex life. (1:28)What gets you in the right headspace for orgasm? Safety. Physical environment. (7:56)Circadian Rhythms, chronotypes  menstrual cycles and how it affects our sex drive. (12:32)Sleep Types/Chronotypes. (19:01)Genital Cupping and the Benefits of NOT Having Goal Oriented Sex. (21:01)How to have more Fulfilling, Satisfying Orgasms! (25:48)11 Types of Orgasms: according to whom? (29:58)Clitoral Orgasm: using breath to deepen the climax; giving disclaimers or “heads up” when you bring breathwork into the bedroom. (36:58)Inside the Vagina: G Spot, A Spot, K Spot, P Spot. (49:08)Female Ejaculation: from G and A Spots; how to let go and let yourself ejaculate. (53:36)Ejaculation vs. Orgasm. (58:52)Cervical Orgasms. (1:03:35)How do you know what type of orgasm you've had? What's the best position to acheive cervical orgasm? Woman on Top! (1:07:32)V Spot/Entry to Vagina Orgasms. (1:13:51)What is an orgasm? (1:16:15) Find Magda:Website: www.magdakay.comInstagram: @magdakayofficialYoutube: @magdakayWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat all things sober sex with Tawny Lara! She is the author of Dry Humping: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the Booze and co-author of The Sobriety Deck, co-host of the Recovery Rocks podcast, and co-founder of the NA botanical spirit, (parentheses).***You don't need to be sober or even sober-curious to get something out of this conversation! Have you ever had a situation when you couldn't drink and felt a little weird or  uncomfortable? The girls chat about how to deal with that discomfort, where it's coming from, and how to turn to intrinsic courage rather than liquid courage to have better sex and better dates.***Can we still go out without drinking? Or does not being able to drink make us too uncomfortable to socialize? Life Circumstances that force us not to drink. (00:38)Sober Curious: Does less alcohol lead to more creativity? Get curious about your relationship with alcohol. (4:49)Dating Yourself: The importance of working on the self in any relationship. (11:05)The Physiology Behind Alcohol in the Body: you can't selectively numb. If you're numbing anxiety, you're also numbing the pleasure centers! (20:00)Sober-Friendly Date Ideas: DO something! Experiential dates over sit-and-talk-over-a-drink dates. (30:28) Parentheses: all about Tawny's slow-sipping, small batch spirits with a vinegar base, and the health benefits of vinegar! (34:51)Rituals to Get Sexy: figure out what your goal is in different circumstances which you drink - is it to loosen up? To feel sexy? etc. …and what can we do instead? (42:48)Sexuality Post-Sobriety: Getting honest about what you really want when you're not numbing. Living in evolution.  (49:23)“Coming Out” as Sober: What are the best ways to disclose that you don't drink or at least aren't drinking tonight? Should you put it on your dating profile? Should you tell them at the date? Before? (52:25) The Sobriety Deck: an easy, digestible self-help tool to use when you need support in not using liquid courage. (56:31)Final Nuggets of Wisdom! (58:26)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Slutlana (031: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband) and CJ about what might stereotypically be one of the biggest fears in the non-monogamous community: falling in love with secondary partners and decoupling with your primary.  How can this happen? How do you move on? How do you evolve for your next relationship? They touch on all of these topics and more in this juicy, deep episode!Fear of Loss: Falling in love with your best friend's partner. (1:42)When do you know if it's not working anymore, and that it's time to move on? (11:06)Healthy reasons and ways to be ethically non monogamous. (14:49)Self growth and how it shows up in relationships. (19:31)Approaching a new relationship differently. Asking for what you want and using your own self knowledge to communicate better with your partner. (30:26)Human Design and Attachment Styles: how knowing yours can benefit communication in a relationship. (45:35)Evolving Agreements in Non Monogamy: adapting to needs throughout your relationships, from exclusive to soft swapping to same room to open etc. (51:38)Learning Moments: don't assume. Talk about it and move on, don't hold resentments. (52:56)Last (sexual) Nuggets: Role playing spiciness! (59:50)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this conversation, Elle, Vee, and Arik Bruckner discuss the concept of paid companionship and its implications in society when approached in a serious, professional, safe, consensual and ethical way. Arik is the co-founder and CEO of Choice, a pioneering global online booking platform for paid companionship and intimacy. This online booking platform is revolutionizing the paid companionship industry, extending beyond sex by offering a solution to loneliness and prioritizing safety.In this chat, Arik shares insights into the origins of the Choice platform, the importance of destigmatizing paid companionship, and the various services offered. The conversation highlights the legal concerns, potential for education and understanding in reshaping perceptions around sex, intimacy and companionship. Chapters00:00 Introduction to Paid Companionship and Escort Sex Work02:51  The Concept of Choice and Its Origins. Breaking the preconceived notions of paid companionship from sex work to non sexual activities. 07:28 Understanding the Market and Destigmatization and interview result Revealed from 700 sex workers across Europe, Canada, Australia and the US. 09:35 Safety and Legal Aspects12:39 The Spectrum of Companionship Across Different Demographics. 18:00 The 250+ options services offered and growing and how it depends on the jurisdiction of where the services are offered. 20:08  What is a male wing person experience? It is requested often by women or groups of women or having a date to corporate event23:31 How Choice verifies users, survey responses revealed from female customers to male customers and the feedback process to access user experience26:40  The behavioral guidelines and required questionnaire for both parties after each event25:26 A walk through of the user experience of Choice and why Choice doesn't use user ratings30:00 How Choice prioritizes safety through their verification process and using escrow account 32:34 The Legal concerns, Challenges and Misconceptions in the Industry36:00 Stigmas and stereotypes to overcome, consent, authenticity and how paid companionship can compliment lifestyles   44:26 Sex Work Union Opinions, Policy issues around Legalized Sex Work and HowPaid Companionship differ in Various countries New Zealand, Amsterdam, Switzerland, Nordic areas56:33   Sexual Surrogacy and Using Choice as a way to get real life education sexually as opposed to the current  model of learning from prom aka sexual entertainment 01:03:21 Providers profiles have levels which indicate verification steps 01:07:45  Misconceptions Arik had about this industry, privacy concerns, and how he adjusted the platform based on surveys and feedback  Choice WebsiteChoice InstagramChoice XWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with author Kathy Labriola, who has written 4 books on polyamory, including a life-changer for Vee: The Jealousy Workbook. What inspired The Jealousy Workbook? (3:18)Jealousy in ethical non-monogamy vs. monogamy. (7:05)Core beliefs and how they affect us in relationships. (8:32)"Signifiers" which instill confidence in partners. (11:37)Where does jealousy stem from? (14:07)Jealousy vs envy: defining and differentiating them. (17:17)Unpacking the emotions integral to jealousy. (21:33)Practical strategies to manage jealousy in the moment. (30:24)Figuring out the root cause of jealousy: the relationship, you, or a little bit of both? (44:39)Doing the internal work to overcome jealousy: understanding your attachment style and how it affects your level of jealousy in different relationships. (49:06)Conversations to have with your partner. (55:10)Phobia vs engineering methods to mitigate jealousy. (1:01:27)How to support a partner who is feeling jealous. (1:06:20)Final "nuggets of wisdom". (1:13:43)Find Kathy:Kathylabriola.comWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

This week, Elle and Vee bring back Lolo and B from Episode 081: Long Distance ENM and Creating Sexy Spaces, and Lola Jean from Episode 074: Fetish Wrestling, Choking and Squirting Misconceptions to play WHOREible Life, a card game all about breaking down barriers and getting naughty AND deep!Have You Ever: Been fucked with a strap on dildo? Favorite dildos, and what makes strap on sex good. (3:05)Have You Ever: Paid for sex? What is the appeal behind role playing as an escort? (15:18)Would you Rather: Use a ball gag or receive a rim job? (21:30)Pubic Hair do's and don'ts! (22:59)Would you Rather: Be the focus of a gang bang with 4 or more or be in an orgy with 8 or more people? (29:44)Different types of gang bangs? (32:14)The Wheel of Consent. (34:22)Would you rather: Give impact play with a flogger, or give or receive bite marks? (36:54)What is possessive touch?  How to feel desired without messing with labels and power sub/dom dynamics. (38:33)What is primal play? (41:02)Would you Rather: Go to a daytime orgy aka ‘dorgy' or masturbate together next to your partner? (43:32)Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcomwww.lolajean.comWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Elle and Vee have Summer back for an encore episode after she shared her experiences as a trained submissive under two doms in Episode 088: Inside the Mind of a Sub.  This time, she discusses her experiences and the lessons she's learned from being a unicorn for an array of couples with lots of different dynamics, and the girls put in their two cents from their own experiences.How do you become a unicorn in the ethically non monogamous lifestyle?  (1:46)Navigating couples' dynamics as a unicorn and establishing your boundaries. Why you should keep texting in the group chat. (9:12)Deferring to the wife/girlfriend, and holding their feelings in high regard. Feeling thankful for being invited in. (16:07)As a husband/wife or girlfriend/boyfriend: the benefits of playing separately as a unicorn. (22:20)Playing with a couple when you're more attracted to one person than the other. (27:01)BDSM vs ENM: rough sex vs vanilla sex. (32:30)Questions to ask as the couple, and as the unicorn, before playing. (34:23)Best threesome positions. (42:50)Meeting couples on apps. Overcoming past experiences and being a couples' first. (46:42)Listener question: tips to stay safe when meeting new people as a single unicorn. (49:59)What does this lifestyle (ethical non monogamy) bring to your life in the absence of having your own primary partner? (1:00:26)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with Summer (FetLife DaddysPrettyToy ) about her journey through a BDSM Dom/Sub relationship. She shares her experiences as a trained submissive, highlighting the positive aspects of her BDSM journey and the transformative power of a healthy Dom/Sub dynamic. Listen in for a detailed play-by-play of her scenes, insights into her daily tasks, and the reasons and methods behind her punishments.1:04 - How Fifty Shades of Grey and Playful Wrestling with Her Boyfriend Inspired Summer to Explore BDSM She discusses how she found her first Dom and what motivated her to get into this lifestyle.8:40 - Her First Dom/Sub Relationship: The Agreement and Lessons Beyond Sex Tips 11:43 - A Day in the Life of a D/s Relationship: Sessions and Communication Details of a typical day in her Dom/Sub relationship, including the dynamics of their sessions and the importance of clear communication.13:12 - A Day in the Life of a Trained Sub: 8-10 Hour Sessions and Rules 15:52 - A Sexy Wax Play Scene: Building Trust, Aftercare, and Debriefing Summer describes a wax play scene, the questions that were asked to build trust, why the scene was suddenly stopped, and the aftercare and debriefing discussion.19:09  - Characteristics of a Good Dom and How It Can Be a Gift to a Sub Discussing the qualities that make a good Dom and how a well-matched Dom can be a valuable guide for a Sub.20:17 - The Misuse of the Term 'Dom'Often thrown around without understanding its true meaning.22:49  - Shibari Rope Scene Play by Play Summer compares the differences between her two Doms, the sexual skills she learned, and details a scene involving being frog-tied with shibari rope with a TENS unit.31:00 - Being a Good Dom Means being a Good Sub Summer explains where her two dominants learned their skills. Exploring how BDSM practices push personal limits and how these experiences can translate into real-world scenarios.33:36 - Subs Who Struggle to Shut Off Their Brains and Making Decisions in the Bedroom 35:53 - Punishments as a Sub: What Happens When You're a Brat A look at the various types of punishments a submissive might encounter, whether they enjoy them or not, and what happened when Summer was a "brat."40:21 - People-Pleasing, Struggling to Say No, and Asking for Permission to See Other Men44:20 - Ending a Sub/Dom Relationship for a Vanilla Relationship 46:20 - How She Met Her Dom on FetLife and Finding the Right Dom for You A play-by-play of how Summer met her Dom on FetLife, along with tips and questions you can use to find the right Dom for yourself.49:15 - Dom's Assigning Tasks for Sub Wellness Insights into how her Dom helped with her personal wellness and growth.51:00 - Can Summer Have a Monogamous Relationship After Deep BDSM Connections? Reflecting on whether it's possible for Summer to pursue a monogamous relationshiWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee dive deep with School of Intimacy founder, intimacy coach, and author of No More Faking It, Magda Kay.  This episode is FULL of "nuggets", touching on everything from tantra to energy centers to how to up the intimacy in your relationship to why it might be better to practice tantra with someone other than your primary partner. You don't want to miss this one!Why tantra and intimacy coaching?Becoming orgasmic: orgasming with yourself and unlocking the ability to orgasm with others.The pussy as an energy hub: taking on sexual partners' trauma. What is a full body orgasm, and how do we know if we've had one?Orgasmic states and self mastery through tantra.Releasing through tantric sex, and who should you practice with? Crying during sex, and holding space for your partner's release.How to find the right practitioner for a yoni or lingum massage. Listener Question: “How can I get my wife's spark back in the bedroom?” Listener Question: “What's a quick guide on tantric breathing?”Intimacy Block: The ability to let go with people you don't know or care about as much. Looking at sex as something more than just the physical experience. School of Intimacy: providing the foundation for better sex, relationship and tantric education.Can you practice tantra with the same sex, when traditionally it's all about the yin and yang of the masculine and feminine energies? Find Magda: Website: www.magdakay.comInstagram: @magdakayofficialYoutube: @magdakayWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up and discuss their takeaways from two sex party events their friend group (the Joy Fam) threw, including recapping sexy stories, "a-ha" moments and reflections. Implementing Lessons Learned: change your environment and have vacation sex! (0:33)House of Love club night takeaways: Vee's birthday celebration, and Elle's first big night out since having a baby! Getting over new mom nervousness with costumes: How themes get you into the sexy mood - especially animal theme :) (3:56)How to feel confident while carrying baby weight: MILK PLAY! Break the touch barrier by using breast milk play as an ice breaker? (5:56)Sexy Story with The Greek: what makes a good single male in the lifestyle? Wolf energy. (11:11)Feeling overwhelmed at a sex party when you're the guest of honor, taking a backseat but staying involved. (18:27)Joyunion: sex friends getting together with babies - it's different but the same! (20:46)TIP: how to get sexual if you're not sure if you're horny. Getting turned on by hearing another woman orgasming. (23:27)Sexy story: Pushing past your own limits. Elle orgasms twice when she thinks she can only do it once. (27:13)CREAM PIE STORY: Trying to do TVP (triple vaginal penetration), DVP (double vaginal penetration) and cream pies. (29:33)TIP: take 5 minutes away from the overstimulation of the party to let your body relax and your dick to get hard. (31:46)TAKEAWAY: The problem with peeing in the middle of the orgy. (34:26)TAKEAWAY: The best orgy snack, and issues with dry mouth. (37:00)Being a mom in an orgy and getting distracted during play.  How to re-center yourself and focus on your body and sensations. (39:36)Listener question: Our book recommendations for jealousy! (43:34)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, the girls chat with their friend “Mommy” (Episode 018: Female Friendships in ENM) and play WHOREible Life, their favorite game to break down barriers and get naughty AND deep! They touch on everything from being called Mommy during sex, to stretching fetishes and putting food in vaginas, to bisexuality and all-female orgies!Growth: seizing the moment rather than getting in your head and not taking advantage of sexy opportunities. (1:59)-Would you rather role play as a teacher or be called mommy during sex? (7:52)-Would you rather have peanut butter licked off your genitals or be peed on? (12:35)Whats Up Down There? The weird things people put in their vaginas, and what's the weirdest thing you've had in your vagina or put into a vagina? (14:51)Pee Play: Peeing on people, first Tinder dates with pee fetishists, Baptism by pee. When you're new to the lifestyle and go on a date with someone who's super kinky. (19:15)Watersports and Vee pushing her boundaries by sitting in pee in bathtubs and in resort pools. (22:50)-Would you rather have a same sex threesome or give another bruises from impact play? (26:08)All girl play and bisexuality on a spectrum. Sometimes you crave female energy, and sometimes you crave a dick! (30:00)Comparing Elle and Mommy's favorite strap ons: Oxyd Creations and Strap-On-Me. (34:09)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up on Vee's solo trip to Thailand and Vietnam. Vee has some major sexual takeaways and "aha moments" going on vacation with no sex in sight... until the last day of her trip when she met Mr. Bangkok. Hear her play by play and so much more, including:Solo Travel: not knowing when you're going to have sex next, and where are all the sex clubs in Thailand?! (1:57)Hot Hookup: Vee has a sexy one night stand in Bangkok after 8 hours of foreplay in the back of a bus! The sexiness of meeting in a non-sexual environment. (6:54)NIPPLE PLAY: Vee almost has a nipple orgasm. Techniques of nipple play. The beauty of having an experience with someone who can't get enough of you no matter what you look or smell like. (15:35)ANAL PLAY: enthusiasm and ravenousness. (23:38)Hooking up with Monogamous, Macho Men: how to approach the “open relationship” conversation with a vanilla hookup. Unlearning ingrained societal norms. Toys in the bedroom. (26:01)Relaxation plus vacation equals maximum horniness! (30:49)Listener Questions, Answered!How to Find Your Lifestyle Community (especially when you live in less progressive areas): Kasidie, Feeld, SDC, SLS, Fetlife, hotel takeovers, Luxx Parties, etc. and the benefits of each option. (33:44)Dipping Your Toes Into Sex Parties and Kink for the First Time: go to meetups and mixers rather than the full blown sex parties. Go early to sex parties for the ice breaker games and making connections while it's less crowded! (42:12)Men's Body Hair: what's popular these days, and what's appropriate? If you take nothing else away from this:  Shave your balls and asshole. (48:58)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, the girls bring back Brandi from Episode 047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix. Together they play WHOREible Life by trying to guess whether or not each player has done the act mentioned on the card. This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!Sex Positions While Pregnant: which positions create a boy and which create a girl, and why laying on your back doesn't work while pregnant. (2:15)Card 1: Had sex before the age of 15? Losing your virginity. (9:41)What is considered “full on sex” or “fourth base” with a female? (15:29)Formative sexual oral experiences as precursors to the lifestyle. (18:07)Card 2: Used a fleshlight. What is a fleshlight? Other toy options for penis owners. (23:01)Card 3: Own 3 or more dildos. Sex toy closets and favorite sex toys. (30:41)Dildos vs. vibrators, and when and why would you use each? Frozen glass dildo to relieve pussy pain. (33:57)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

There are plenty of podcasts that talk about do's and dont's at a sex parties. This episode goes deeper.The girls share their "aha" moments, discuss common mistakes made by veterans in the lifestyle, and storytell through it all with real-life examples.Joining Elle and Vee chat in this discussion is returning guest Jess from  Episode 58: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play and  Episode 37: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and SpankingEpisode BreakdownIntro and The Need for this Discussion from the More Experienced Perspective on Sex Parties. (00:35)DON'T yuck someone else's yum. Be open minded for to other's desires and kinks. "What about that turns you on?" (04:51)Tips for Making More Connections at Parties. (09:33)DO Attend Sex Parties with other friends: How many is too many? What's the right amount of people to ensure fun while still branching away to meet new people? (11:01)DON'T Set Expectations, rather, DO Set Personal Goals.  (13:44)DO Create an Immersive Environment by Putting in Effort in Dressing Up for the Theme. (16:31)DO Be Sexually Forward with Clear Communication and Honesty  (20:08)DON'T Take Anything Personally, and how not to lead People On. (26:45)DO Ask “What Are Your Intentions For The Night?” To Uncover Compatibility. (30:43)DON'T Assume It's Free for All: Interactions Between Other People Does Not Mean It Also Applies To You. (32:24)DO Use Your Words and Tell Others When You Feel Uncomfortable, otherwise, you're a part of the problem. (37:52)DO Read the Room for Energy and Vibe, DON'T Talk During the Orgy. (43:32)DO Pack Your Slutbag, Organization Tips, Bringing Your Own Sex Toys, Toy Condoms. (46:42)DON'T get too fucked up: Substances and Moderation.  (48:54)DON'T STINK! Preparation and Hygiene. (52:45)DO Flirt Early, Arrive Early. (55:59)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with couple B and Lolo to discuss their long-distance relationship and how they practice non monogamy. They share how they navigate being apart and how they keep their relationship hot and exciting. The conversation touches on topics such as playing separately, sharing sexy content, phone and video sex, the importance of creating the right atmosphere for sexual experiences, and their successful approach to meeting new people and introducing 'vanillas' into the lifestyle._________________________ Episode Breakdown:Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship requires effort and communication and the story of how Lolo and B met 01:27How they explored the non monogamous lifestyle together, B had no experience and Lolo tried with her ex-husband 07:19How they practice non monogamy in their long distance relationship  15:17 How to keep it hot while being long distance with sexy content and phone sex 18:20Orgasms: Frustrations losing an orgasm, breathing through the orgasms or holding your breath 22:10Creating a sexy environment in temporary spaces like hotels or airbnbs: the role of low lighting and color temperature with amber-hued incandescent light bulbs, led light strips 28:40Preventing messes with waterproof fitted sheets, furniture placement and other essentials  34:49Music recommendations: Create a party-like atmosphere without being distracting is ideal for setting the mood 38:53Hedonism Jamaica Story Share: Naked, covered in squirt juice and room temperature to get naked plus how B and LoLo met Elle 41:50Enthusiastic consent and how it's importance in meeting new people, the power of open and honest communication 46:48 Successful Sport Fishing: How they pick up 'Vanillas' (non monogamous people) for threesomes or foursomes, while out at a bar. Creating a safe space for exploration  51:56 Their foundation for a successful journey their relationship, through ENM, and being long distance: No Secrets, No Lies: Everything Else is a Conversation 01:02:18Navigating jealousy and conflict requires self-reflection, non reactivity in the moment and effective communication 01:04:22Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In today's episode, Elle and Vee bring back two guests to play WHOREible Life (@wlthegame), the game of have you ever all things sex and kink!The first guest is Kate Maxx from (from Episode 73: Owning and Loving What You Do with Kate Maxx featuring Humiliatrix Work, Stripping, and OnlyFans Content Creation Our second guest is Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) from Episode 75: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss PlayBridget is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia) and host of Sexploration with Bridget Scholes Podcast.With both guests, we play the game WHOREible Life by choosing two cards and asking which Would you rather….This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!WL cards: Would you rather orgasm from spanking or other impact play or make someone squirt (1:11)WL cards: Would you rather roleplay as puppy or cat OR be bound and restricted as a rope bunny (5:11)Underwater shibari with Markus Leather (5:55) WL cards: Wear a spreader bar OR have someone ride your face (11:06)Ways to insert yourself into an orgy (14:32)All girl orgy, how female play changes when men are not watching, the skirt club a space for bi-curious and bisexual women (16:38)WL cards: Practice tantric sex OR receive foot worship, foot licking or toe sucking (21:50)Tantric sex and how to do energetic breathing alone or with your partner to increase sexual energy (23:05)WL cards: be fucked by someone else with a strap on OR slap someone in the face with an open hand (27:41)Using glass dildos from temperature to the pressure and hardness to massaging to penetration (32:20)WL cards: Have sex on a beach or post a personal porn video for public viewing (35:21)Giving handjobs (37:10)Sex on a beach (39:56)Chili, pepper spray and jalapeños sex mishaps (42:12)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle catches up with Vee on everything she's been up to over the past few months while she's been gone on maternity leave. Vee shares her takeaways from various sex parties and the personal challenges she's been working through that have made getting sexual more challenging than usual. Overthinking and using labels as a crutch: demisexuality. (1:57)Trying to get sexy when you have a lot of stress in your life. (10:39)Sex party takeaways: Squirting in public. Balancing and communicating with your partner, and using orgasms as stress relief. (13:16)Don't take anything personally: you never know what's going on for someone in their own head and life. (20:19)Likening sex parties to restaurants. If you're not in the mood to participate, how can you leave the night feeling fulfilled and successful? (23:45)Thinking for two at a sex party: how can you meet in the middle as a couple so that you're both satisfied? Being a wingwoman/wingman for your partner so that you're both fulfilled by the experience. (28:46)Turning the conversation sexual: Getting turned on by talking about fantasies. (32:06)Rooftop sex story: being attracted to androgyny. Getting out of your head and acting on instincts. (36:00)The energetic difference when someone is “thirsty” vs when there's no expectations. A subtle expectation for sex when you're at a sex party. (39:37)Oversaturation with sex parties leading to numbness. (41:41)How to work through the feelings when the dynamics change in your polycule. When solo female unicorns leave the lifestyle when they find a monogamous partner. (45:31)Setting intentions for upcoming events. (57:20)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Elle had her baby! In this episode, she shares all the intimate details about how she and her husband, M, used natural sexual tactics to induce labor, and how they got back to being sexual after six weeks of healing. How to induce labor with sex: nipple play, penetrative sex, nipple clamps, orgasms and Braxton Hicks. (3:07)What is labor pain like? Comparing contractions to DVP, speculum spreading, fisting, anal discomfort: breathing through discomfort, and thinking of words as spells. (11:04)Post-baby vagina: "the husband stitch", and does it look different? Is it loose? (17:31)Postpartum sex: how long does it take to get back to sex after having a baby? Getting over the fear of having an orgasm. How to get comfortable with penetration again. The first orgasm after six weeks of vaginal healing. (20:43)Scheduling sex when you have a newborn. (28:09)Breast milk play: Breastfeeding and nipple play. Tasting breast milk and squirting it during blow jobs. (28:41)Being in the open lifestyle and parenthood: confidence issues with postpartum body. Diving back into sex parties and ENM (ethical non-monogamy) after having a child. (35:40)Maintaining your sex life with a baby around. How having a short timeline can be hot! (38:34)Major takeaways from giving birth and getting back to sex: Prioritizing sex to reignite sexuality in your relationship postpartum. Falling in love with your partner again. (42:01)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee, who is also the co-founder of Temple in Chicago, a shibari and aerial performer, and the partner of previous repeat guest Physics (Episode 45: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Episode 46: BDSM, DDLG and Shibari). In this wide-ranging conversation, the four of them touch on everything from DDLG dynamics to overcoming vulva shame through yoni gazing.Temple: The feminine energy vs the masculine energy, creating a space for women to feel vulnerable enough to have those transformational experiences. Events at Temple from yoni gazing to massage to Littles Parties. (1:26)Overcoming vulnerabilities about our vulvas by yoni gazing. Admiring, acknowledging and affirming your vulva. Porn star pussy vs real life.  Uneven labia. (11:09)Professional cuddling: platonic touch therapy.  The importance of touch. What does a cuddling session entail? How can a professional cuddler maintain safety? (21:08)Therapeutic Kink as a mode of healing and helping others work through trauma through professional domming. Do all clients have something to work through? (31:08)DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl) Dynamics: how being a “little” allows Bee to be in her dominant energy during the day. (39:11)Switchy Domme: Power dynamics and differentiating between personal pleasure practices and experiences vs. work experiences. (43:16)Shibari: what does it do for the people practicing it? Showmanship with suspension combined with aerial skills and squirting. How to prep for squirting: regular hydration! (46:09)Upside down squirting: wow factors and showmanship in erotic shibari performance. (50:47)Links:Find Bee on Fetlife: LilHoneyBeeBuzzFind Physics on Fetlife: PhysicsWebsites: CuddlesByBee.comThe TempleWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In today's episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest Slutlana (from Episode 31: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband) and Alexa Andre (from Episode 71: Relaxing While Receiving Oral, One Penis Policy, and Biphobia) to play the game Whoreible Life.This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! There are many many ways to play, so in this episode they play it two ways: “Would You Rather” and “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank You” - 1 Done it — share the story!2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.Have you ever had sex in your parents' bed?  How “the talk” and your parents' approach to sex can affect your early relationship with sexuality. (3:13)Different approaches to talking about sex with your kids. (8:48) Have you ever role played in a rape fantasy or “Consensual Non Consent” (CNC) scene?  Describing examples of CNC scenes, role playing, safe words and what needs to be discussed and agreed beforehand. (13:30)Lowering our standards while dating during the Covid pandemic and putting ourselves in potentially unsafe situations. (22:52)Catharsis in acting out fears through sexual fantasies like rape scenes and consensual non-consent. (30:34)Would you rather use a double ended dildo or make a girl squirt?  Being surprised by a squirter. Glass vs silicone double ended dildos, and the first time orgasming with a double ended dildo - what position works best. (40:21)Double ended dildo vs. Feeldo. (44:44)Would you rather practice tantric sex or role play as submissive? Masturbating and focusing on the breath; breath orgasms without physical touch. (47:34)Workout orgasms and Elle's experience orgasming with an ab roller. (50:34)Would you rather watch VR porn or be dominated to lose the right to orgasm? Orgasm denial, being a brat, and Reddit porn communities. (52:40)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Elle and Vee chat with Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) who is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia).Being sexually attracted to others while married. (2:03)Healthy sex life in marriage and now divorced. (8:14)Using the lifestyle app Feeld to meet partners and always saying yes. (11:43)Sex club tips and lessons learned. (14:31)Going to sex clubs alone vs with a partner. (18:28)ENM nuggets: fostering communication, honesty and self reflection. (23:35)If a previously discussed boundary feels right in the moment, should you push it? (26:40)Common issues brought up in couples relationship therapy: reigniting desire in a longterm relationship, and the misconception of mismatched libidos. (28:13)How do partners with mismatched libidos navigate a conversation to get on the same page? (31:29)Pleasure languages, spontaneous vs responsive desire... or in other words, an Ellle vs a Vee. (34:07)Books that have helped on a personal sexual level and journey into non monogamy: Polysecure, Come As You Are, Mating in Captivity and other self help books. (36:46)Seducing yourself: Madame Dahlia dildo company, connected pleasure vs vibrator play. (40:45)Ebbs and flows of sex and how to get out of your head. (45:04)How to foster desire: sensual and simple pleasures. (48:58)Using social media to look at erotic art. (53:50)How male orgasms differ physiologically from female orgasms. (57:12)Kink: turned on by pee play / piss play. (59:49)Letting go of the messiness of sex, and dissociation from masturbation. (1:02:18)Website: bridgetscholessexology.com.auWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator.  She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)How did Lola Jean get to where she is as a sex educator, squirting icon and fetish wrestler? (6:58)ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy): differentiating non-monogamy, just “being single”, and situationships. Figuring out what you want by dating all types of couples and relationship dynamics. Sex and love addicts anonymous (SLAA). Attachment styles. (9:27)Squirting: how does it feel to be known as a squirter? Fetishizing and red flags.  What should we know about squirting? When trying to do it, figure out WHY you're trying to do it. Who is it for? (17:30)Broad vs specific response squirting. (22:04)Why squirting actually sucks. (25:24)Fetish Wrestling: Different types of choking (Fantasy Choke, Blood Choke, Air Choke). (29:51)What does a fetish wrestling session look like? Power dynamics? Vetting process? Types of fetish wrestling sessions: fantasy, semi-competitive, full competitive, lift and carry.  (35:53)What is the psychology behind fetish wrestling? What's in it for both the provider and the client? (41:56)Sex workers' self care after sessions. (44:30)Where to find Lola Jean:Website: lolajean.comSeven Days of DominationWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!