Dom Sub Devotion

In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on one of the most avoided and most essential parts of any real power exchange dynamic: disagreement. Most people think that if a D/s relationship is strong enough, aligned enough, or deeply polarized enough, there shouldn't be any disagreement. But that belief is exactly what causes most dynamics to slowly collapse under the weight of silence, resentment, or performance. The big point in this episode is this: Disagreement isn't failure, it's feedback. And how you handle it will define whether your dynamic works over the long run, or eventually collapses. In this episode, I share how Dawn and I have navigated this exact terrain in our 24/7 D/s marriage. This is something that my wife and submissive, Dawn, and I have navigated over the last 6+ years in a 24/7 D/s dynamic. And we've learned that disagreement, when handled with integrity, doesn't weaken the dynamic—it strengthens it. Here's what I get into: • Why real Authority doesn't fear resistance—it's built to hold it • What happens when you suppress your submissive's truth instead of integrating it • How we use our Realignment Protocol to repair conflict without collapsing polarity • The hidden cost of fake agreement and performance-based submission • What a Dominant needs to do in the moment she says “no” • And how structure either becomes a prison, or the very thing that allows her to melt I also get personal about how I used to handle these moments—reactively, with force or logic—and how everything changed when I learned to pause, listen to the signal underneath Dawn's voice, and lead from presence rather than control. Whether you're deep into a 24/7 dynamic or just beginning to play with power exchange, this episode will give you the tools to stop fearing tension and start using it to strengthen your connection, your sex, and your trust. ⸻ Reflection questions to take into your relationship: • What helps you feel safest to speak your truth, even when it's hard? • What helps you trust your partner to lead or follow, especially in moments of disagreement? ⸻ Thanks for listening and being part of this movement to bring humanity and truth into Dominance and submission. If this episode hit home, leave a review, share it with a partner, or head to infinitedevotion.com to go deeper. And remember: The strongest dynamics aren't the ones with the least tension. They're the ones with the most trust. ~~~ Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else's contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Episode 90 — Why Women Don't Find Dominant Masculine Men This is the sister episode to Episode 88 (“Why Submissives Resist”). But this time, it's not for the men—it's for you, the women who messaged me by the hundreds after that episode. Women who cried, who remembered, who finally felt seen. Women who said: “This is what I've been craving.” In this episode, I'm speaking directly to you. You say you want a Dominant man. You ache to surrender. You long to be led. But do you actually want to let go of control? Do you know the difference between craving submission and living it? This episode is not here to coddle you. It's here to hold up the mirror—to call you back to yourself, and to the sacred edge where true submission begins. We'll talk about projection, ego traps, feminine control patterns, somatic trust, and the death of performance-based submission. I'll show you what it really takes to embody a life of devotion—and why that Dominant man you long for can't lead you until you actually choose to follow. This one is raw, deep, and likely confronting. But if you let it in, it could change everything. ⸻

Episode 89 – Let Go of the Game: Healing Without Effort with Sven Loss In this illuminating and soul-stirring conversation, Andrew welcomes Sven Loss—a widely respected teacher of inner freedom and truth—to explore a radical idea: What if healing doesn't require years of work? What if transformation is instant—if you stop trying? This episode is a deep dive into the paradox of healing, identity, and transformation within the context of polarity, power exchange, and intimate relationships. Andrew and Sven both share their stories of awakening—not through slow self-improvement, but through moments of surrender that changed everything. Together, they dismantle the illusion that “working on yourself” leads to wholeness and instead reveal: • Why the effort to let go is actually a form of holding on • How your addiction to fixing yourself is the very thing keeping you stuck • Why deep healing often begins the moment you stop performing and trying • How your relationship patterns are shaped by early life conditioning—and how to break the cycle • The real reason most people don't know what they want (and why that's okay) • How masculine and feminine embodiment naturally emerge when you stop pretending • The truth about safety, leadership, and freedom inside power exchange relationships • Why dominance begins with surrendering to truth—not performing control This episode is especially powerful for couples navigating a D/s dynamic, polarity work, or deep inner work in partnership. If you've ever felt stuck in the loop of trying to heal, be more masculine or feminine, or “get it right,” this episode will give you permission to stop… and just be.

Get UNSHAKEABLE - The FREE email mini course. 7 days. 7 lessons on how to build yourself into an unshakeable Dominant force in your life and relationship. Get it here: https://infinitedevotion.com/unshakeable ~~~~~ If your woman isn't submitting to you—especially if she says she wants to—it's not because she's broken. It's because you're not actually dominating her. And if you're a submissive who struggles with being able to let go, this might be a deep comfort. In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew delivers a powerful and confronting message to Dominant men: Her resistance is not the problem. It's the feedback. You don't need more tactics, scripts, or kinky techniques—you need more depth, more integrity, and more internal strength. This is not about getting her to behave. It's about becoming the kind of man whose presence makes surrender inevitable. ⸻

In this special Q&A episode, Andrew answers real, raw, and vulnerable questions submitted by submissive women from around the world. These are not theoretical musings—they're lived experiences. Stories of longing, pain, fear, and devotion from women navigating the tension between their deepest cravings and the reality of their relationships. This episode is for everyone—especially Dominant men. Because behind every question is a woman trying to surrender… but finding nowhere safe to land. A woman who wants to obey, to offer herself, to be reshaped… but is met with comparison, neglect, shutdown, or confusion. Andrew shares both practical insights and piercing truth about what it really means to live this lifestyle—and why so many women feel heartbroken in their attempts to do so. Topics include: • How to live a D/s dynamic with kids or family at home • Navigating kink and submission inside busy or dominant careers • What to do when your man says he wants to lead… but doesn't • Dealing with shutdown, trauma, comparison, and inconsistency from a Dom • How a woman's pain and truth can shape a man—not destroy him • Whether expressing deep emotions is disrespectful • The fine line between surrender and self-abandonment • What to do when it's time to walk away And so much more. This episode is as much a mirror as it is a guide. It is a call to women to keep feeling, keep expressing, and never submit to what is not worthy. And it is a challenge to men: If you want her to submit, be a man she can safely surrender to. ⸻

This episode comes with a free gift — my 7-day email series called Unshakeable. If you want to live this kind of leadership in your body—not just understand it—sign up today. You'll get seven powerful lessons AND one-week free access to my Becoming a Dominant Man course and live men's group call. Get it here: https://infinitedevotion.com/unshakeable ~~~ In this episode, I dismantle the common misconception that Dominance is just a role you play in your relationship. It's not. True Dominance begins as an internal state—a deep, grounded strength that reshapes your relationship with yourself, your body, your mission, your leadership… and yes, your submissive. This is the episode I've been needing to record for a long time. After working with hundreds of men, I've seen a pattern: when a man begins to embody Dominance not as performance but as identity, every area of his life changes—career, parenting, social presence, spiritual depth, fitness, integrity, sex, and love. This episode is a roadmap for that kind of transformation. You'll learn: • Why your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have • How inner Dominance enhances your leadership in work, parenting, and community • The direct link between self-respect and sexual authority • Why setting emotional boundaries prevents burnout and deepens connection • How embodiment makes you magnetic—and why that matters more than charm • The hidden cost of nice guy energy in your life and career • How grooming, health, and fitness are spiritual practices for Dominant men • Why your life is what tells her it's safe to submit—not your rules • And how to step into vision-driven leadership that reshapes your entire reality You'll also hear personal stories, client breakthroughs, and actionable challenges to help you find your next edge as a man committed to power, truth, and freedom. ⸻ Resources mentioned: •

In this raw, revealing, and richly layered conversation, Andrew welcomes writer, speaker, and feminine guide Ginger Kern to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast. What unfolds is not just a dialogue—but a masterclass in embodied polarity, truth, desire, and what it really takes to create sacred union. Together, they dive into: • The difference between performative desire and embodied eros • Why truth—not integrity—is the highest value in a power exchange relationship • How men and women both must submit to something greater to be truly free • The journey of a woman learning to trust her voice, her body, and her desires • What it feels like to be in the presence of a man who is aligned with truth • The trap of the “Hungry Mind” and why embodiment—not more knowledge—is the portal to change • Conditional vs. unconditional love in the context of devotion, polarity, and human relationship • The erotic, energetic, and existential responsibility of being fully in your human experience Ginger brings nuance, reverence, and fierce clarity to what it means to be a vessel for life, love, and truth. Andrew challenges listeners—especially men—to claim their full power not through force, but through unwavering alignment. This episode is for you if: → You're tired of trying to “do” submission or Dominance and want to live it → You've felt the call to union—but haven't known how to embody it → You crave truth, depth, and integrity in love, sex, and self-leadership → You're ready to go beyond the surface and hear what devotion actually demands ⸻ Ginger Kern is a writer, mentor, and guide for women on the path of the devotional feminine. She is the root of Mythic Feminine, an ecosystem supporting women in soul nourishment & Union with men. Her work supports women in restoring sovereignty, soulfulness, and full-range embodiment of Truth in service of Life. Links: @mythic.feminine on Instagram Soul Sanctuary membership community for women Free resources & newsletter signup Cathedral of Love Masterclass ~~~ Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else's contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

After last week's conversation with my friend Christina (@solarfemininearts) about her pulling back from her work to fully drop into being a wife and mother, I realized it was time to share what's been happening behind the scenes in my own marriage—and what's evolved for us since Dawn pulled back from the podcast and Infinite Devotion a few months ago. This is the full update on our dynamic—what's shifted, how it's evolved, and why it's never been hotter, deeper, or more alive than it is right now. Dawn had a moment of truth at the beginning of the year where she knew—without a doubt—that she needed to step away from our business and this podcast. It didn't make logical sense, and part of both of us resisted it. But I chose to lead us through it. And what it's created in our lives, our marriage, and especially our D/s dynamic… is almost indescribable. In this episode, I break down exactly how her surrender has deepened, how I've had to grow as her Dominant, and why I had to stop softening around her ego and start holding the standard without apology. I also open up—publicly, for the first time—about how much our sexual dynamic has exploded. Kink, obedience, ownership, and submission are now more central to how we live. We haven't shared much about the sexual and kink side of our dynamic for good reason, but avoiding that truth going forward would mean hiding the most alive and real parts of our relationship. If you've followed us because of the emotional depth, the love, the realness—we're still here for that. But we're also done leaving out the erotic truth at the heart of it all. This is the life we're living. And it's time to let you in. ⸻ Inside This Episode, I Share: • Why Dawn stepped away from Infinite Devotion—and what that made possible • How over-analyzing our relationship started killing our polarity • The exact shifts I made in my leadership to meet her deeper submission • How I stopped backing down when her resistance showed up • Why her resistance was often a mirror of my own hesitation • What it means to raise the standard instead of lower it • How kink and obedience have taken over our sex life—in the best way • Why I'm done hiding how erotic our marriage has become • And why the results of living this way are showing up everywhere: more love, more fun, more money, more freedom ⸻ 02:08 Dawn's Decision to Step Back 03:01 Impact on Relationship and Dynamic 04:56 Living the Dynamic More Authentically 07:41 Changes in the Podcast and Business 13:29 Traveling and New Adventures 14:36 Growth in Dominance and Submission 20:49 Embracing the Sexual Side of the Dynamic 24:52 Facing Resistance and Raising Standards 34:16 Public Perception and Social Media Growth 42:57 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans ⸻ Connect with Us: • Follow Andrew and Dawn on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion • Learn more at infinitedevotion.com If You Loved This Episode: • Share it with a friend who needs to hear this message. • Leave a 5-star review and tell us what landed for you. • Tag us on Instagram and share your favorite moment! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else's contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

In this deeply vulnerable and powerful episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew sits down with longtime friend Christina McBoyle (known on Instagram as @solar.feminine.arts), to explore the humbling, life-altering journey she has been walking through marriage, motherhood, and identity death. Christina shares intimately about her evolution from being a widely recognized feminine embodiment teacher to being initiated into living her teachings on an entirely new level. After marrying her husband Ryan within six weeks of meeting, becoming pregnant shortly after, and moving through the intense transformations of wifehood and motherhood, Christina realized that the very identity as a teacher and healer that had once empowered her was now standing in the way of the deeper love and union she craved. This conversation covers: • How Christina's years of teaching feminine embodiment eventually revealed hidden blind spots in her own life • The moment she realized her work was blocking her capacity to fully surrender in marriage • The subtle ways purpose and service can become hidden ego attachments for women • The painful but essential process of descending into deeper truth and authenticity • What it really feels like to give up old identities and allow love, devotion, and motherhood to fully reshape you • A raw discussion about women, work, purpose, survival mechanisms, and letting go • Why true union requires ego death—and how that's more liberating than terrifying • Practical wisdom for women feeling the tension between their careers and their deepest relational desires This is a rare, real, unscripted conversation between two people devoted to living what they teach—not performing it. If you are a woman navigating the gap between what you know and what you live, or if you're longing for a deeper experience of love, union, and surrender, this episode will speak straight to your soul. ⸻ Guest: Christina McBoyle Instagram: @solar.feminine.arts ⸻ Connect with Us: • Follow Andrew and Dawn on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion • Learn more at infinitedevotion.com If You Loved This Episode: • Share it with a friend who needs to hear this message. • Leave a 5-star review and tell us what landed for you. • Tag us on Instagram and share your favorite moment! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else's contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman 00:33 Meet Christina Mc Boyle 01:17 Christina's Journey in Healing Arts 02:29 The Shift to Feminine and Masculine Energy 03:58 Meeting Ryan and Transformative Union 05:49 The Challenges of Teaching and Living Union 09:19 Identity Death and Authenticity 25:32 The Necessity of Patience and Ego Death 30:44 Understanding the Concept of Descent 31:32 The Misconception of Submission 33:01 The Deepest Freedom in Surrender 35:56 Motherhood and Identity Death 39:53 Balancing Work and Relationship 45:19 The Feminine Imperative and Desire 53:48 The Process of Letting Go 57:23 Final Thoughts and Reflections

This episode is for the woman who's tired of performing. Tired of feeling stuck in her head. Tired of trying to be the right kind of woman—when what she really wants is to be all of herself. If you've ever felt the war inside between being soft and being powerful… Between being seen and staying safe… Between following your impulse and following the rules… This conversation will wake you up. I sit down with the fiercely embodied Madelyn Moon—author, teacher, and artist of love—for a raw, electrifying, and liberating exploration of what it means to fully express. Not just with your voice, but with your whole body, your shadow, your heart, your pleasure, your rage. Madelyn shares how she guides women into deep energetic capacity—through sacred theater, shadow work, and radical self-expression. If you've ever struggled with perfectionism, people-pleasing, emotional repression, or disconnection from your body, this episode is your medicine. ⸻

In this profound and powerfully honest episode, Andrew is joined by Traver Boehm—author, speaker, and founder of the Uncivilized Men's Movement. This raw and revealing conversation dives deep into the emotional and spiritual reality of being a man in today's world. Traver shares the personal story behind his movement, how heartbreak and disillusionment cracked him open, and why he's devoted his life to helping men reclaim both their primal power and emotional truth. Together, Andrew and Traver explore men's sensitivity, the cultural disbelief in men's inner lives, and the loneliness and pain so many carry silently. Traver also opens up about his experiences with darkness retreats—radical, solitary immersions into absolute darkness—and how they've initiated him into deeper self-understanding, ego death, and trust in his own soul's call. He offers a powerful challenge to men: Dare to feel. Dare to be fully human. This episode is a must-listen for any man who's ever felt alone in his pain… and for anyone who's ready to meet the courage that lives inside vulnerability. ⸻ What You'll Learn in This Episode: • How Traver turned heartbreak into a mission to support men • Why emotional sensitivity is a masculine strength, not a weakness • The hidden epidemic of male emotional isolation—and how to break it • Why the phrase “I've never said this out loud before” changes everything • How to balance emotional expression with purpose, structure, and spine • The truth about numbness, avoidance, and the cost of living half-alive • What it's like to spend 28 (and soon 49) days in total darkness—and what that journey reveals • Why Traver believes something must break for a man to be reborn • How to cultivate a human experience that's raw, real, and relational • Two sentences every man needs to hear: “I believe you. I believe in you.” ⸻ Links & Resources: • https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm • The Uncivilized Nation • Preorder Traver's New Book: 28 Days in Darkness • Listen to Traver's Podcast: The Uncivilized Podcast ~~~ Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else's contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Guest Introduction: Traver Boehm 01:21 Traver's Journey: From Divorce to Men's Movement 03:49 The Impact of Traver's Work 08:12 The Sensitivity and Strength of Men 13:59 Challenges Men Face in Society 19:26 Emotional Intelligence and Relationships 23:20 The Importance of Emotional Expression 32:51 Exploring Emotional Tools 33:58 Balancing Primal and Divine Energies 34:26 The Importance of Mission and Purpose 35:00 Using Emotions as Fuel 36:10 Integrating Both Sides of Masculinity 43:21 The Power of Darkness Retreats 52:10 Facing the Unknown in Extended Darkness 01:02:31 Final Thoughts and Advice for Men

This is a conversation I had on A Date With The Divine with Isabelle Stephan—and I knew immediately I needed to share it with all of you here on Dom Sub Devotion as a bonus episode. It was one of the most potent, grounded, and heartfelt conversations I've had on love, polarity, Dominance, and the deeper spiritual truths that live underneath our dynamics. I didn't want you to miss it. In this episode, Isabelle and I explore: • What it actually means to live in polarity in a long-term relationship • How my wife Dawn and I transformed our marriage through embodying Dominance and surrender • The emotional truth underneath a woman's “too much” and a man's “not enough” • Why most men fear a woman's full emotional range—and how to become the kind of man who can hold all of her without collapse • What everyday masculine leadership looks like—from structure to sexuality to sensitivity • Why feminine surrender doesn't happen through force, but through deep trust in his strength • The truth about polarity: it's not something you try to “do,” it's what naturally arises when you let go of what's in the way • And how all of this is not just about relationship—but about meeting God, not through light and ease, but through destruction, healing, and the fire of full embodiment This isn't a theoretical conversation. It's real, raw, and personal. I speak directly from my lived experience as a man, a Dominant, and a husband walking the path of total devotion and truth. I'm honored to bring this episode to you. May it move something in you the way it moved something in us. — Andrew

In this powerful episode of the Infinite Devotion Podcast, I down with the profoundly impactful Chris Bale, a man I respect like no other. We explore the journey of men navigating their inner authority, the importance of a 'lone wolf' phase, and the nuanced understandings of dominance, sensitivity, and intimacy in relationships. From discussing men's need for inner development to the essence of true power and generosity, this episode dives deep. Towards the end of this episode, I share some personal reflections on how Chris' work has impacted me, making this a heartfelt and transformative conversation. Tune in and allow this dialogue to profoundly impact your perspective on masculinity and personal growth. About Chris: Chris is an Internationally known Energy-Worker, Spiritual/Intimacy Mentor, Qi Gong teacher & Acupuncturist - who supports and activates deep transformations in the lives of others, and has been doing so for well over a decade(more info below). Over the years he has worked with thousands of individuals from all over the planet, and from many different walks of life. Chris has an extensive educational background in many different healing modalities; including Traditional Chinese Medicine, Acupuncture, QiGong & Medical QiGong, Energy Healing, & Sexual Alchemy. Through his mission, he shares his experiential knowledge to assist and guide others into deeper consciousness, love, health and embodiment - Offering potent mentoring, energy work and trainings for both men, women & couples. You can find more about Chris and his work at https://awakenedintent.com or on Instagram at https://instagram.com/chrisbaleawakened 00:00 Understanding Dominance and Generosity 00:46 Introduction to the Infinite Devotion Podcast 01:49 Impactful Words from Chris Bale 03:04 Challenges Men Face in Modern Society 05:47 The Journey of Self-Reliance 17:14 The Importance of Devotion and Commitment 30:59 Sensitivity and Power in Men 34:05 Understanding Relaxation and Sensitivity 35:20 The Role of the Body and Mind in Relaxation 36:57 Challenges in Achieving True Relaxation 39:11 The Importance of Qigong and Systematic Practices 40:16 Lifestyle Changes for Ultimate Freedom 44:01 The Role of Women in Men's Self-Discovery 46:20 The Lone Wolf Era and Men's Emotional Journey 51:39 The Importance of Discernment in Learning 01:00:51 Embracing Mistakes and Personal Growth 01:04:28 Final Thoughts and Reflections ~~~ Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, I answer a series of listener-submitted questions about dominant-submissive (DS) relationships. Topics include: 02:22 Starting as a New Dom 05:44 Favorite Things About Dawn 08:46 Finding a Partner Like Andrew 12:48 Switching from Leadership to Submission 16:22 Dealing with Attachment Styles 21:19 Navigating the Kink Scene 25:39 Handling Backlash 28:24 Balancing Strictness and Love as a Dom 31:49 Reassurance in a DS Relationship 37:59 Desiring a Polyamorous Lifestyle 40:29 DS Relationship After Sexual Assault 45:53 Dominant vs. Master-Slave Dynamics 48:07 Showing Off Your Submissive 51:03 Leading Without Ego 54:05 Supporting a Dom with Mental Health Issues 58:12 Conclusion and Call to Action If you have questions that you'd like me to answer in a future episode, leave them as a comment, or send us a Direct Message through Instagram https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion Thanks for listening! ~~ Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else's contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, Andrew speaks with Jeremie Lotemo about the transformative journey of breaking away from conventional professional paths to find deeper meaning, purpose, and connection as a man. The discussion explores how Jeremie and Andrew help men cultivate confidence and leadership in their lives and relationships, moving beyond the pursuit of material success to seek fulfillment. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, they delve into the importance of surrender, the balance between masculine strength and vulnerability, and honoring differences in relationships. Essential tools like journaling, physical activity, and creating structured spaces are shared as ways to support men in their growth and emotional resilience. 00:33 Guest Introduction: Jeremie's Journey 01:06 Finding Purpose and Fulfillment 03:11 Creating Men's Circles 03:58 Exploring Deeper Connections 08:02 Balancing Masculine Strength and Warmth 13:22 Self-Acceptance and Shadow Work 15:27 Understanding Resistance and Symptoms 27:27 Devotion and Responsibility 34:30 The Breaking Point: Masculine and Feminine Integrity 35:11 Complementary Opposites in Relationships 36:57 The Power of Emotional Surrender 41:03 The Three Tiers of Love and Commitment 52:46 Tools for Staying Grounded and Present 57:25 The Importance of Structure and Discipline 01:02:20 Honoring Differences: A Path to True Connection ~~~ Bio: Jeremie Lotemo is a poet & men's coach. Jeremie is known for his body of work around healing the masculine shadow, and creating new paradigms of masculinity. Since 2020, Jeremie has made it his life's work to help 10,000 men through workshops, courses, and masterclasses, reclaim their edge, confidence, and lead powerful relationships and lives. Links: Private Men's Community My Podcast "Dear Men" My Youtube Channel ~~~ Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else's contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman

Podcast Notes Why I have tracked my submissive's cycle for over 1700 straight days - Dom Sub Devotion Podcast For more details and background on this episode, along with some reflections questions, visit https://infinitedevotion.com/blog/episode-75 There are few things that I teach that are more impactful than what I share in this episode. Tracking Dawn's cycle, for over 1700 straight days now, has given me an understanding of her, and of women in general, in a way that I could have never imagined. Not only has it helped me learn more about her and find a deeper acceptance for how she evolves throughout the month, the grace and patience that this understanding has helped me to have with and for her has also given her an entirely new depth of self acceptance. And this self acceptance has contributed more to the depth of her trust and submission than probably any other thing. Listen to this episode, men and women both. You will learn some powerful things about what makes a woman a woman, and just maybe, have a little more patience and compassion for her, or yourself, in the process. ~~~ Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Check out Structuring Your D/s Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else's contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:35 The Most Impactful Thing for a Dominant Man 01:13 Understanding a Woman's Hormonal Cycle 07:58 The Four Phases of the Hormonal Cycle 21:21 Tracking and Working with Her Cycle 26:38 Practical Tips for Dominants 32:27 Deepening Trust and Acceptance 56:17 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew sits down with Nadia Munla, an embodiment and intimacy coach, to discuss the intricate dynamics of Dom/sub dynamics, especially as they relate to women in their feminine energy.. Nadia shares insights from her 11+ years of coaching, emphasizing the importance of deep intimacy, self-awareness, and the transformational power of embodiment practices. The conversation explores how women can transition from people-pleasing behaviors to genuine submission, the interplay of masculine and feminine energies, and practical steps men can take to lead effectively in relationships. Nadia also touches on the societal challenges both men and women face in embracing their true desires and roles within power exchange dynamics. ~~~ About Nadia Nadia is an Embodiment & Intimacy Coach who helps leaders become better lovers and guides people into a deeper level of embodied expression. Through her work with women and couples, she is on a mission to bring more erotic aliveness, intimacy and confidence into her clients' lives. She is also the creator of Embody by Nadia™, an embodiment method that has helped thousands of women reconnect to their pleasure, power and play. Embody has been featured at the Health Coach Institute, Soul Camp (East & West), Goddess-on-the-Go, World Domination Summit, and many other events/retreats in Bali, Peru, Tulum and Hawaii. Embody has been taught at a UK Women's Prison, at an Eating Disorder Clinic and will soon teach classes to teens and WOC fighting depression. Nadia's core belief is that embracing our full range is the way we access our deepest potential and create space for an Embodied Union that heals the planet. You can find her at nadiamunla.com and on Instagram @nadiamunla Nadia is offering listeners of Dom Sub Devotion a 50% discount off of a single session with her. Email nadia@nadiamunla.com and mention this podcast! ~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 01:32 Meet Nadia: Embodiment and Intimacy Coach 03:02 Challenges Women Face in Self-Intimacy 07:08 The Journey to Erotic Aliveness 12:02 Balancing Feminine Expression and Business 20:44 The Power of Submission and Embodiment 31:00 Union and Partnership in Dominance 32:04 Generosity in Dominance and Submission 33:38 Challenges of Receiving and Worthiness 36:34 Vulnerability in Dominance and Submission 38:57 The Complexity of Leadership 43:29 Feedback and Communication in Relationships 46:00 Balancing Strength and Sensitivity 49:56 The Role of Dominance and Leadership 57:57 Integrating Heart and Erotic Energy 01:00:35 Concluding Thoughts and Contact Information

~~~~ Have you received value from our content? Click this link to tip us, and say thank you for what we share! Thank you for giving back! https://www.paypal.com/ncp/payment/ME55GZC7FFFS8 ~~~~ Episode 73: Embracing Change: Dawn's Evolution and Our Commitment to Authenticity There's nothing more important than living what we teach. We don't teach you a bunch of stuff that we learned from other people…we live this life as a 24/7 Dom/sub couple. We have for more than 6 years. And our relationship always has, and always will, come before our business. We don't just want you to listen to what we say…watch what we DO. This episode is my reflection on how we decided to have Dawn step back from the podcast. What went into that decision? How does that square with the concept of integrity? And what other lessons can you learn from how we navigated this decision? This episode dives into all of that and more. Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:30 The Evolution of Our Podcast 03:01 Dawn's Transformation and Decision 16:51 Understanding Integrity in Relationships 25:58 Living the Concepts We Teach 39:09 Lessons for Dominants and Submissives 45:36 Conclusion and Future Plans

Episode 72: Why Dawn is pulling back from Dom Sub Devotion Lots of tears in this episode. But make no mistake, this is a celebration. A few weeks ago, I had a massive realization. I had still been living so much of my life as an absolute lie. Sitting down with Sir over breakfast, I was feeling pretty agitated, and as he always does, he encouraged me to just open up and let it out. And what I said next changed my life. “I am not here to help people.” I didn't intend to say those words when I opened my mouth. But when they came out, my whole body breathed a sigh of relief. It was like I had finally spoken up for the biggest lie of all. That I had to use my experiences to help other people in order to be a good person. In that moment, I realized that I had gone through my whole life living for everyone else. Never just letting myself be good enough for myself, just as I am. Never able to just enjoy my own life for my sake. It was always about someone else. Helping someone. Giving to someone. Sharing for someone. And it became obvious pretty quickly that I couldn't continue doing this podcast in the same way. Because while I absolutely love that my experiences have been helpful for so many of you, I've been so wrapped up in talking about how I got here that I haven't really let myself just enjoy this life that I'm so fucking grateful to be living. Every time I sit down and talk about how religion affected me, about how I used to show up, about all of the fears I've let go of, all of the pain I've overcome, how controlling and tense and stressed I used to be… Those things are all getting dragged back out of the past and into the present. They're still in control of my experience, because I'm constantly reflecting on them. I am not that woman anymore. I have come so fully into my body, my life, and my truth. And all of that stuff from my past needs to be left in the past. I finally saw how deeply that was affecting all of those moments of my life outside of this podcast and business. I'm here to live my own life, and living it is what I intend to do. So this isn't goodbye forever, but it is goodbye for now. Andrew will continue with the podcast, and it'll continue to be great. He'll keep everyone updated on our life, our dynamic, and how I'm doing. He'll also be bringing on guests and diving even deeper into D/s dynamics. And when you do see me again in the future, I'll be bringing more of my true self. I've shared everything I have to share about what it's taken to be here, now it's time for me to go enjoy it. Thanks for having me as a part of your lives. Dawn Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 01:02 Realizations and Reflections 02:42 The Feminine Monthly Cycle 04:30 A Life-Changing Realization 05:38 The Lie of Helping Others 07:43 Choosing Myself 15:56 Living in the Present 17:30 Navigating Change and Letting Go 28:22 Future of the Podcast 33:12 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Closure 34:49 Embracing New Freedoms and Responsibilities 38:57 Exploring the Dynamics of Submission and Leadership 43:32 Navigating Uncertainty with Excitement 47:33 The Power of Letting Go and Moving Forward 57:35 A Heartfelt Goodbye and Future Aspirations

I recorded this episode for the men who listen, and who struggle with insecurity. I feel you. I've been on a decade long journey of trying to find some sense of honest, solid self confidence. I wasn't born as the man you see here. I've had to fight every demon I had to be where I am. I have had to let go of everything that wasn't aligned. There's not much left of my life as it was a decade ago. But in reality, most of the life I built up to that point wasn't me trying to be me…it was me trying to be liked, valued, and lovable in other people's eyes. And everything that wasn't real had to go away. How could I love myself when I was only trying to be some fake persona that people would like? I needed their validation to feel like I had any value as a man. But when I was being a false version of me, any love they did give me was for that fake self. So I kept myself separated from being loved…and in a place where I could only, ever, feel insecure. I was a social outcast in school. I was terrified of losing love. I was desperately needy, especially when it came to my girlfriends, and even with Dawn. I was 85 pounds heavier than I am now. I lived out what Thoreau called the “life of quiet desperation”. And I couldn't tolerate it. I'm sharing more of my back story and my less than flattering moments in this episode to hopefully help you realize that we really can find a better life. A stronger sense of self. An honest feeling of self worth. But it's not an overnight process, as much as I wish it was. My hope is that in listening to this episode, you can start to find some acceptance for yourself in where you're at. Then make the commitment to yourself to unwind the inauthentic ways that you're living and to slowly, progressively close the gap between your true self and the persona that you've adopted. Because that's the only way to overcome insecurity and truly feel Dominant. If you want any help with this, I share my own step by step process in my course Becoming a Dominant Man. Check it out here: https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1 Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Personal Growth Journey 01:41 Facing Insecurity 05:42 Childhood Sensitivity 11:29 High School Struggles 21:29 College and Early Relationships 34:37 Facing Insecurity and Realization 35:11 Turning Point in the Relationship 37:58 A Decade of Self-Discovery 43:36 Clearing Out the Old Self 46:39 Struggles with Identity and Health 50:30 Embracing Brutal Honesty and Compassion 53:50 The Journey to Authenticity 56:06 Advice for Men on Overcoming Insecurity 01:06:11 Gratitude and Acknowledgment

The Power of Consistency in a D/s Dynamic | Dom Sub Devotion Podcast Welcome to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast! In this episode, we delve into the importance of consistency and persistence in maintaining a loving 24/7 D/s dynamic. We discuss how a steady and predictable approach creates a safe space for the submissive partner to relax and let go of control. We also explore the emotional aspects of dominance and submission, emphasizing the need for the dominant partner to manage their own discomfort and emotional reactions to foster a deeper connection. By sharing personal experiences and insights, we aim to help listeners understand how to navigate and thrive in a power exchange dynamic. Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:33 The Importance of Persistence and Consistency 01:43 The Role of Structure in a DS Relationship 02:38 Embracing Chaos and Letting Go 05:58 The Journey of Unwinding Patterns 11:00 The Shift in Leadership Dynamics 14:54 The Path to Authenticity and Freedom 24:20 The Challenge of Letting Go of Control 27:47 Balancing Submission and Voice 28:23 Finding Worthiness and Speaking Up 31:01 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Authenticity 32:37 Dealing with Discomfort in Relationships 33:05 Living Beyond the Box 36:10 Emotional Expression and Intimacy 38:43 The Journey of Dominance and Submission 43:46 The Power of Emotional Connection 50:52 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude

Enrollments are open for Rapture, our 5 month course teaching you how to build a healthy, loving D/s dynamic. Click here to learn more about Rapture. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture We begin on January 16th, 2025, so don't wait! Episode 69: Six Years in a 24/7 Dom/sub marriage In this episode, we reflect on six years since the beginning of our Dom/sub dynamic. When we began this journey together, we were already 8 years deep into a very vanilla, and very unconscious relationship. And the process of integrating power exchange dynamics into our marriage has made every part of our relationship better. We had to learn new skills. Unlearn old ways of connecting and experiencing intimacy, and find a deeper, more honest, transparent way of relating each other in order to make D/s work. We've experienced such drastic improvements in every part of our relationship as a Dom/sub couple, compared to our relationship as it was before. Power exchange, and Dominance and submission, have led to better communication, relationships with ourselves, ability to speak up and express our true desires with each other, brought us closer together, reignited our sex life, more respect for ourselves and each other, healing from past traumas, and so much more. Tune into this episode and witness how these power exchange dynamics have improved a marriage and brought us to new levels of intimacy, passion, and connection, even after 14 years of marriage and commitment. Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Reflecting on Six Years of DS Marriage 01:28 The Evolution of Communication 05:21 Building Self-Awareness and Presence 08:57 Trust and Self-Trust in Relationships 19:56 Expressiveness in Dominance and Submission 25:20 Taking Action and Letting Go 32:13 The Role of Dominance and Submission 32:49 Communication and Avoiding Landmines 33:54 Letting Go and Taking Charge 37:27 Responsibility and Ownership 44:04 Commitment and Trust 58:45 The Skill of Patience 01:03:06 The Transformative Power of D/S Dynamics 01:04:00 Conclusion and Gratitude

Enrollments are open for Rapture, our 5 month course teaching you how to build a healthy, loving D/s dynamic. Click here to learn more about Rapture. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture We begin on January 16th, 2025, so don't wait! Episode 68: D/s without punishments, overcoming “nice guy” syndrome, and more! Welcome to the latest episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast! In this episode, we have an engaging discussion surrounding the use of punishments within a 24/7 DS (Dominant/Submissive) marriage. We address questions from our Instagram followers about our personal choice to exclude punishment from our dynamic and share insights about why it doesn't work for us. We also delve into the challenges of maintaining authentic communication, and how to navigate changes in your dynamic. Additionally, we reflect on the inaccuracies of DS depictions in movies and books, explore how to have healthy communication check-ins with your partner, and reflect on the challenges for good men stepping into Dominant roles. Tune in to gain thoughtful perspectives and practical advice for fostering a deeply loving and intimate DS relationship. Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 01:14 Discussing Punishments in DS Dynamics 02:35 Personal Boundaries and Experiences 04:50 The Impact of Punishment on Self-Worth 06:52 Fun and Play in DS Relationships 08:55 Correction vs. Punishment 19:28 Questioning the Role of Punishment 24:21 Advice for Couples on Punishment 27:26 The Power of Questioning 28:11 Respect in Communication 30:21 Emotional Expression in Relationships 32:35 The Importance of Open Communication 39:20 Navigating Changing Desires 43:11 Addressing Lower Sex Drive 46:10 Inaccuracies of D/S in Media 51:18 Overcoming Fear in Dominant/Submissive Dynamics 54:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Enrollments are open for Rapture 2025! This five month program begins on January 16th this year, and will take you through a deep instruction and integration of everything you need to know to make D/s work in a long term relationship, whether you're a couple who is already working on this, or solo and wanting these dynamics in your next relationship. Click https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture to learn more and save your seat before we fill up! We are ending 2024 with a look back at an incredible year for our lives, our marriage, our D/s dynamic, and this podcast and our business, Infinite Devotion. And for those of you who are curious, we share a peek ahead into 2025 and some of what we have planned for creating more community amongst our followers, and some other exciting surprises we have in store! And as we always do on our livestreams, we answer a BUNCH of our viewer questions live, and on the spot!

**Please forgive the audio quality issues we had in this episode...we've made upgrades to prevent this from happening on any of our future episodes! Get the free Polarity ebook we reference in this episode here: https://infinitedevotion.com/polarity-ebook Episode 66: Polarity and Masculine/Femin acine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 2 Welcome back, Devoted ones! In this second part of a two part episode, we dive DEEP into the truth of what it actually means to live a relationship in “polarity”. And what most people get wrong when they talk about these concepts in relationships. These two episodes, and the free ebook above, will teach you everything you need to know about how to build a relationship that gets more loving AND more passionate over time. Everything we are, and everything we teach, is based on this information. We can't wait for you to hear next week's episode as well, so make sure you're subscribed! Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 04:24 Handling Emotions in a Dominant Role 21:40 Expressing Needs and Wants in a DS Relationship 25:04 Dealing with a Depressed Dominant Partner 29:14 Leading an Independent Submissive 30:32 Understanding the Brat Dynamic 32:16 Exploring Masculine and Feminine Roles 34:47 Navigating Dominance and Submission in Relationships 35:23 Living in Submission While Single 41:33 Balancing Structure and Freedom in D/S Dynamics 48:38 Dealing with Fear and Vulnerability 52:30 Reconnecting and Maintaining Polarity 01:00:40 Final Thoughts on Dominance and Submission

Get the free Polarity ebook we reference in this episode here: https://infinitedevotion.com/polarity-ebook Episode 65: Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 1 Welcome back, Devoted ones! In this first of a two part episode, we dive DEEP into the truth of what it actually means to live a relationship in “polarity”. And what most people get wrong when they talk about these concepts in relationships. These two episodes, and the free ebook above, will teach you everything you need to know about how to build a relationship that gets more loving AND more passionate over time. Everything we are, and everything we teach, is based on this information. We can't wait for you to hear next week's episode as well, so make sure you're subscribed! Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 01:21 Understanding Polarity in Relationships 07:34 The Concept of Masculine and Feminine Energies 14:19 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 18:39 The Masculine Shield and Emotional Sensitivity 27:21 Understanding Receptive and Expressive Energies 27:46 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 29:25 Personal Experiences with Energy Inversion 30:54 Living Authentically in Relationships 34:09 Divine Masculine and Feminine Roles 46:44 Balancing Submissiveness and Responsibilities 52:58 Conclusion and Next Steps

We created a pop up store with some really fun coffee mugs and kneeling pillows for the holidays. This will only be available until the end of December, but you can check it out at https://infinitedevotion.printful.me! Episode 64:Embracing the Unknown: Nomadic life and our Dom/sub dynamic Welcome back, Devoted ones! We recorded this episode about three weeks after leaving home to become full time nomads, living on the road in our RV and traveling the country. This nomadic life is something we've looked forward to for many years, but the actual process of leaving the only place Dawn has ever called home has been an intense one, to say the least. Up until now, she's never lived more than 20 minutes from the place where she grew up, and there are many generations before her who have almost all stayed very close to home. So this uprooting was an even bigger deal than either of us could have anticipated. This episode discusses what some of that process has been like for her, and how our Dom/sub dynamic has given her the space to let go of what was, so that she can embrace more of herself. We lean pretty heavily into the concepts from Don Miguel Ruiz's book “The Four Agreements” in this discussion, and if you haven't read it, we highly recommend it! Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:33 Embarking on a Nomadic Journey 01:02 Emotional Challenges and Self-Discovery 02:08 Confronting Deep-Seated Beliefs 10:11 The Role of Dominance and Submission 16:40 Breaking Free from Programming 22:05 Choosing Self and Authenticity 34:50 Exploring Feminine and Masculine Roles 35:25 Tuning into Intuition and Experience 36:01 Disconnect from Source and Societal Expectations 36:56 Encouragement to Be Yourself 39:01 Journey of Self-Commitment 41:01 Facing Fears and Authenticity 43:07 The Challenge of Letting Go 45:28 Confronting Relationship Fears 53:45 Inner Child Meditation Experience 01:01:42 Physical Manifestations of Emotional States 01:06:48 Embracing Change and New Beginnings 01:09:41 Conclusion and Gratitude

We created a pop up store with some really fun coffee mugs and kneeling pillows for the holidays. This will only be available until the end of December, but you can check it out at https://infinitedevotion.printful.me! Episode 63: Finding Freedom and Presence in Submission: A Journey of Personal Growth Welcome back, Devoted ones! In this episode, we focus a lot on how Andrew has helped lead Dawn towards more freedom in her life. One of the highest callings we have, when someone submits to us, is to use that power for good. Not to use that person for our own purposes, but to guide them to the best place we can in their own life. My goal for Dawn has always been to set her free from her own constraints and limitations. And this episode is a deep and vulnerable look into that whole process. And what I have had to become as a man, in order to lead her towards this freedom has been the biggest gift of my own life. Click here to see more about how I have worked to become the Dominant that I have. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1 Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 04:11 The Concept of Presence 11:16 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Freedom 12:11 The Role of Dominance and Submission in Personal Growth 16:08 Dealing with Emotional Triggers and Fear 24:53 The Impact of Fear on Daily Life 30:28 Embracing Uncertainty 31:34 The Role of Control in Submission 33:17 The Importance of Presence 34:38 Navigating Real-Life Dynamics 37:16 The Art of Patience and Persistence 42:15 Understanding Fear and Triggers 44:49 The Dominant's Perspective on Fear 50:17 Trust and Communication 55:22 The Role of the Dominant 58:27 Concluding Thoughts

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips ~~~~~~~ Welcome back, Devoted Ones! In this episode, Dawn and I dive into codependency and how it can infect, and ultimately cause harm to our relationship. We share stories of how we've shown up in codependent patterns in the past and what it's taken to overcome them, and why we have to detach in order to experience the fullness of love and intensity in our Dom/sub relationship. We also discuss the place that individuality and personal agency play in a deep, loving, spiritually connected union. In other words, how do we manage the fact that we're separate people, but also desiring to experience the fullness of union, becoming one with each other. This episode will be invaluable to any couple wanting to explore D/s together without losing yourselves, and in a way that honors both your individuality and your oneness. Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Understanding Codependency 02:19 Personal Experiences with Codependency 03:23 Impact on Dominance and Submission 05:07 Navigating Codependency in Relationships 07:06 The Journey of Self-Discovery 08:49 Balancing Dependence and Independence 10:44 Challenges and Growth in Union 14:03 Maintaining Connection and Awareness 18:14 Overcoming Unconscious Patterns 28:01 Navigating Emotional Reactions 29:17 Facing Deep Wounds 32:11 The Importance of Authenticity 33:18 Understanding Individuality vs. Independence 36:07 Dominance and Submission Dynamics 38:53 Overcoming Codependency 41:08 Practical Examples and Reflections 48:37 Encouraging Authenticity in Relationships 53:55 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the topic of 'mindless obedience' within the context of a loving 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic. Inside this episode, we explore the intricacies and challenges Dawn has faces in letting go of control and embracing submission, and how doing so has helped to enhance intimacy and connection. And she shares her personal experiences and challenges she has faced in surrendering ego and consciousness to achieve a deeper, more authentic D/s dynamic. The episode highlights the journey of overcoming fears, the importance of trust, and the profound impact of true submission on mutual growth and fulfillment in a power exchange dynamic. Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 01:43 Exploring Mindless Obedience 01:57 The Kink of Dominance and Submission 02:37 Consciousness and Awareness in Obedience 03:06 Personal Journey into Obedience 03:51 The Role of Masculine and Feminine Energy 09:00 Challenges of Obedience Outside the Bedroom 09:31 Overcoming the Fear of Becoming a Doormat 10:46 Mindless Obedience vs. Ego 13:53 Practical Examples of Letting Go 19:16 Fitness and Control: A Personal Struggle 23:12 The Importance of Feeling Safe 27:30 Agency and Self-Ownership in Submission 33:34 Embracing Self-Love and Connection 33:53 Overcoming Self-Judgment and Hatred 34:23 The Journey to Inner Peace and Freedom 35:16 Living in the Present Moment 37:28 Trust and Surrender in Relationships 38:07 The Concept of Surrendering Consciousness 39:24 Facing Resistance and External Forces 41:06 Letting Go of Control and Embracing Freedom 43:37 Navigating Fear and Pain 55:21 The Role of Memory and Forgetfulness 01:04:01 The Joy of Mindless Obedience 01:05:42 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips Welcome to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast! In this episode, we share the intimate and transformative journey of moving from a permanent home to a full-time nomadic lifestyle. We explore the emotional challenges, particularly the deep-rooted feelings and familial ties, and the intense preparation leading up to this life-changing decision. You'll see our reflections on personal growth, dealing with codependency and grief, and learning what it truly means to love and support one another in a marriage founded on a 24/7 power exchange dynamic. Join us as we discuss the logistics, excitement, and the lessons we've learned through this process, all while looking forward to the infinite possibilities that lie ahead on the road. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Preparing for a Nomadic Lifestyle 01:13 Emotional Challenges of Moving 02:26 Personal Growth and Family Ties 04:40 Confronting Deep-Seated Emotions 06:28 Codependency and Parenting 09:27 Detachment and True Love 14:53 Excitement and Minimalism 26:10 Organizing and Downsizing 31:03 Decluttering and Emotional Freedom 33:25 The Importance of Pacing in Moving 35:40 Planning Around Life Cycles 39:01 Trust and Decision Making in Relationships 42:50 Embracing a Nomadic Lifestyle 53:46 The Journey to Financial Freedom 01:01:27 Conclusion and Gratitude

To find the courses, workshops, and resources we reference in this episode, visit https://infinitedevotion.com/submissives A few weeks back, we did two “Ask A Dom Anything” episodes, and in those episodes, we promised to record a follow up episode answering the three “Big Questions” that were asked by lots and lots of submissives when we solicited those questions. This episode is here to deliver on that promise. What are those three questions? How do I encourage my boyfriend/husband/partner to be more Dominant? How do I find a Dominant? What do I do when my Dominant is being harsh, mean, abusive, or unkind? And we look deeply into these questions and the challenges faced by any submissive woman who finds herself in the place to be asking them, and hopefully provide some insights and resources to help. And thank you as always for listening and watching! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Addressing Unanswered Questions 01:19 How to Encourage Dominance in Your Partner 04:13 Challenges in Dominance and Submission Dynamics 07:25 Expressing Desires and Letting Go of Control 19:12 Finding a Dominant Partner 28:36 The Importance of the Spark in Relationships 29:39 Identifying a True Dominant Partner 30:54 Traits to Look for in a Dominant Partner 35:46 The Role of Relationships for Men 38:45 Handling Mistreatment in Power Exchange Relationships 49:26 Setting Boundaries as a Submissive 55:03 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the intricate relationship between feminine beauty, self-care, and the dominant-submissive dynamic within our 24/7 DS marriage. Inspired by an email Dawn received from a list that she's on, we tackle modern beauty standards, the pressure of perfectionism exacerbated by social media, and the 'crunchy' community's approach to self-care. This conversation explores overcoming anxieties around beauty routines to achieving self-acceptance and celebrating personal beauty. We highlight the balance between health and beauty, the meditative and ritualistic aspects of self-care, and the significance of presence and authenticity. Practical advice for both men and women is shared, emphasizing self-acceptance, reducing social media influence, and creating space for joy in beauty practices. The episode provides a comprehensive look at how empathy, mutual respect, and intentional actions foster beauty and abundance within our D/s relationship. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Exploring Feminine Beauty 01:12 Jessica Ash's Email on Beauty Practices 06:59 Personal Reflections on Beauty 08:23 The Battle Between Health and Beauty 17:11 Rediscovering Joy in Beauty Practices 22:59 The Importance of Self-Care and Abundance 31:11 The Importance of Self-Perception 31:33 Men's Attention to Detail 33:30 Empathy in Relationships 37:11 Beauty and Self-Care in Dominant-Submissive Dynamics 45:35 The Ritual of Self-Care 50:55 Enhancing Natural Beauty vs. Fakeness 56:20 Growing Old with Grace 57:52 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the critical importance of self-care for dominant men within 24/7 DS marriages and relationships. An especially important topic in this discussion is the pitfall of self sacrifice for men, and an alternative approach to giving of ourselves while also taking care of ourselves. It's no secret to anyone who explores a deep 24/7 dynamic that the sense of responsibility for the Dominant is significant. So we discuss the essential role of routines like prioritizing sleep and personal grooming, and how self care and prioritizing yourself as a Dom is far from selfish. We also practical advice on establishing a healthy balance between self-care and supporting one's partner, emphasizing physical health, exercise, nutrition, and hydration. Through shared personal experiences and insights from the 'Becoming a Dominant Man' course, the conversation aims to inspire men to reclaim their self-worth, set boundaries, and foster mutual respect, ultimately enhancing both individual growth and relationship strength. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 The Importance of Self-Care for Dominant Men 00:59 Taking Responsibility in a DS Relationship 02:06 Empowerment Through Responsibility 04:39 The Role of Self-Care in Supporting Your Partner 08:15 Challenges of Self-Sacrifice 12:05 Transforming Through Self-Improvement 22:48 Prioritizing Self-Care: Practical Steps 31:25 The Importance of Appearance 33:03 Dressing for Yourself, Not Others 37:18 Balancing Self-Care and Partner's Needs 41:25 Fitness and Nutrition for Self-Respect 46:02 Hydration and Overall Well-being 49:02 The Paradox of Self-Care in Relationships 55:02 Embracing Dominance and Self-Respect 59:39 Conclusion and Resources

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the often repeated statement that “The submissive ACTUALLY holds all the power”. We dissect this concept, emphasizing the critical role of consent and safe words in power exchange dynamics, but also the nuances of how those things play out when we start delving into these deeply trusting dynamics. Speaking of nuance…the discussion explores the nuances of authority, leadership, and the emotional and trust-based exchanges required in such relationships. We also address how power dynamics differ in kink-focused relationships compared to loving, lifelong DS marriages. By sharing our experiences, we aim to illustrate the complexities of power exchange, highlighting the importance of empathy, vulnerability, and dealing with fear and emotional reactions in fostering a healthy and intimate D/s marriage. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Addressing Viewer Comments 00:48 The Power Dynamics Debate 03:34 Understanding Power in Relationships 06:29 The Role of Consent and Safe Words 10:30 Emotional Exchange in Power Dynamics 21:02 Balancing Love and Kink 24:39 Navigating Fear and Trust 29:35 Navigating Trust and Fear in Submission 30:33 Aligning Words and Actions 32:08 The Power of Vulnerability 35:31 Humbling Moments and Self-Realization 40:08 Overcoming Fear and Building Trust 41:09 The Importance of Individuality 43:25 The Power of Letting Go 51:42 Self-Awareness and Humility 55:13 Final Thoughts and Appreciation

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips Dom-Sub Dynamics and Healthy Communication: A Deep Dive In this Q&A episode, Andrew addresses a myriad of questions from submissives exploring the intricacies of dominance and submission (DS) dynamics. Important topics include the significance of real-time communication in a DS relationship, managing accountability as a dominant, and the boundaries of consent. The discussion touches on how to approach past traumas with prospective partners, transitioning from risky exploration to safer expressions of submission, and the role of non-sexual service tasks. Andrew emphasizes the importance of healthy boundaries, authentic desire over performance, and how to engage in constructive dialogue within the DS framework. The episode also explores the complexities of individual dynamics, finding compatible partners, and how both dominants and submissives can nurture a fulfilling relationship. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 01:15 Handling Difficult Topics in a DS Dynamic 05:31 Testing Dominance and Manipulative Behavior 08:59 Accountability in a DS Relationship 12:19 Non-Sexual Service Tasks in DS Dynamics 16:29 Unexpected Submission Desires 19:58 Communicating Past Trauma with a New Partner 24:00 Exploring Submission Safely 26:22 Maintaining Appearance for Your Partner 29:09 Finding Joy and Overcoming Suppression 34:05 Finding Joy and Authenticity in Relationships 34:46 Our Place in the Kink and BDSM Community 39:22 Balancing Boundaries and Standards in Relationships 41:49 Pushing Limits and Safe Words 45:37 Setting and Enforcing Boundaries 50:25 Communicating Needs and Desires 01:02:16 Trust and Control in Dynamics 01:04:48 Authentic Submission vs. Going Through the Motions 01:06:55 Final Reflections and Appreciation

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew answers questions submitted by our submissive followers. We get into so much in this episode that we had to make two parts! We discuss the responsibilities of being a dominant, managing resistance, and the intricacies of balancing DS dynamics with other aspects of life. Other questions I answer include advice on the importance of consent, whether it's possible to maintain a successful business while being submissive, and reconciling societal expectations with personal desires. Stay tuned next week for Part 2 where Andrew continues answering more of your great questions! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Q&A Session Begins 01:06 Popular Questions Overview 02:31 Managing Dominant Responsibilities 04:55 Boosting Dominance 06:43 Consent and Control 09:07 Open-Hearted Dominance 11:03 Connecting with Course Graduates 12:45 Commanding vs. Asking 18:11 Changing Consent 20:40 Handling a Rude or Mean Dominant 23:26 Silent and Indifferent Dominant 25:34 Rebuilding Trust After Hurt 29:46 Polyamory Concerns 31:34 Embracing Change and Evolution 32:31 Exploring Submissive Desires 34:34 Balancing Independence and Submission 39:33 Navigating Feminine Energy in Business 42:24 Challenging Patriarchy and Collective Ideologies 49:35 Discovering Dominance and Submission 56:27 Supporting Dominant Insecurities 59:59 Conclusion and Future Discussions

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips This episode coincides with the release of our newest self-study course: Structuring Your D/s Dynamic. In Structuring your D/s Dynamic, we walk you through the same step-by-step process that we use to write our contract, rules, rituals, and create the structure that has allowed our Dom/sub relationship to become such a powerful and intimate connection. In this episode we delve into strategies for setting up an effective and enduring Dominant-submissive relationship. Specifically, how to structure things like rules, rituals, contracts, and more, to support loving power exchange that works in your real life, over the long term. This episode is dedicated to sharing valuable tips and strategies for both newcomers and those looking to reset their dynamics. We discuss the importance of having the dominant lead the structure, the necessity of starting at a realistic pace, why setting up rituals and rules should come last, and the critical role of vulnerability and deep conversation. We also share stories and thoughts about handling conflicts, setting up communication plans, and maintaining a fun, exciting atmosphere within the relationship. Tune in to gain insights on creating a dynamic that not only functions well but also stands the test of time. And if you want to go deep into creating this kind of structure for your relationship, visit https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic to learn more about our course that will teach you how! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:33 Back to Basics: Starting Your DS Journey 01:14 The Dominant's Role in Structuring Dynamics 02:00 Understanding the Submissive's Desire 10:04 Integrating DS Dynamics into Daily Life 11:54 Avoiding Overwhelm: Start Slow and Steady 19:06 The Importance of Purpose and Vision 24:42 The Need for Structure in Relationships 26:17 The Role of the Dominant in Setting Structure 27:39 Benefits of Structure for the Submissive 31:51 Accountability for the Dominant 40:39 Handling Conflict and Communication 45:25 Final Tips for Setting Up Dynamics 47:41 Conclusion and Further Resources

In this live stream special, we celebrate the one-year anniversary of Dom Sub Devotion. We reflect on the journey of Infinite Devotion and share stories about how we got to where we are today in our business, starting from our original name, freeandfit.life. We share about the evolution of our lives and how they've changed through this business and how we came to start our podcast one year ago, and how the podcast has changed not only our business, but how we have grown and changed through recording 52 straight weeks of episodes. We also share some of our plans for the future of Infinite Devotion, answer some live questions, and share about upcoming changes in our personal life! 00:00 Introduction and Anniversary Celebration 01:21 The Origin Story of Infinite Devotion 05:18 Rebranding to Infinite Devotion 06:55 Creating the Infinite Devotion Logo 09:08 Growth and Evolution of the Podcast 14:07 Transition to a Nomadic Lifestyle 16:46 Challenges and Reflections on Podcasting 30:21 Going Viral and Expanding Reach 32:36 Preparing for a New Chapter 37:40 Planning a Meetup in Virginia 38:58 The Story Behind 'Y'all' 39:50 Podcast and Retreat Ideas 41:34 Engaging with Followers 45:17 Discussing Dominance and Submission 49:38 Upcoming DS Dynamic Course 52:04 Q&A Session 01:01:58 Reflections on Personal Growth 01:09:09 Closing Remarks and Gratitude

In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of 'topping from the bottom' in a 24/7 DS marriage. We explore how this concept, where the submissive tries to control the Dominant using her submission as the means of control, aligns with the submissive's use of voice and expression of feelings within a power exchange relationship. We discuss the challenges of balancing submission and the need to speak up, the importance of emotional safety, and the inner emotional journeys both the dominant and the submissive experience in pursuit of authentic submission, where she feels safe enough to let go and not feel the need to control. Join us as we unpack the transformative potential of overcoming control patterns and building deeper trust and love in a committed DS relationship. ~~~~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man 00:33 Understanding Topping from the Bottom 01:13 Balancing Submission and Voice 04:06 The Role of Safety in Submission 05:55 Dominant's Perspective on Safety 07:23 Challenges in Shifting Dynamics 09:47 Navigating Fear and Control 18:05 Advice for Submissives 32:55 Exploring Internal Muscles and Belief 33:39 Dissolving Trauma in Relationships 34:25 Understanding Fear and Control 34:46 Topping from the Bottom: Myth or Reality? 37:36 Navigating Emotional Reactions 39:35 The Role of Dominance and Submission 41:43 Building Trust and Integrity 44:11 Handling Emotional Reactions 56:28 Journaling and Self-Reflection 01:01:39 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 01:03:01 Embracing Chaos and Submission

For Episode 50 of Dom Sub Devotion, we poured a cocktail, sat down on a Friday afternoon, and had a fun happy hour discussion about collars and their significance in our D/s dynamic. Enjoy this one, we had fun with it! We get asked so often about where I got Dawn's everyday collar, and we're happy to be partners with Eternity Collars. You can shop Eternity at this link, and use our code DEVOTION for a discount of $20 off of $150 as well! https://www.eternitycollars.com?bg_ref=0iRJJDqHMs (This is an affiliate link, and we get a small commission on anything you order through it...thank you!) ~~~~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man 00:56 Discussing the Popular Collar Episode 01:49 Personal Reflections on Wearing a Collar 06:21 Daily Life with the Collar 11:57 Different Types of Collars 15:29 Public Perception and Reactions 25:26 Overcoming Shame and Embracing Sexuality 29:41 Exploring Sexuality and Self-Judgment 31:01 Pushing Boundaries and Embracing New Experiences 31:59 The Role of Consent and Leadership in Exploration 33:44 Shame and Acceptance in Sexuality 37:37 The Significance of the Collar in Submission 42:17 Trust and Devotion in the Dynamic 55:05 The Emotional Significance of the Collar 59:25 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans

In this episode, we dive into how to balance enjoying life's moments while navigating through the deep challenges that come with doing the work to overcome our past programming and conditioning. This deep emotional work is important, but it can take over our lives if we let it. It can become another version of the same thing we're trying to escape. We share personal experiences on maintaining fun, discussing how emotional chaos and personal growth have affected our relationship dynamics. Listen in, and you will learn about embracing reality without fear, the importance of physical connection, and the nuances of dominant and submissive roles in creating a harmonious life together. Join us as we discuss surrender, leadership, and the journey of mutual growth and understanding in a power exchange dynamic. ~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man 00:33 Balancing Fun and Deep Emotional Challenges 03:39 The Importance of Live Experiences 06:08 Navigating Emotional Chaos Together 07:59 Understanding and Accepting Emotional Cycles 11:37 The Role of Dominance and Containment 24:10 Projection and Emotional Reactions 27:58 Masculine vs. Feminine Integrity 29:05 Long-Term Relationship Dynamics 30:49 Letting Go of Old Ways 31:21 Seeing Through Different Glasses 31:57 Understanding Each Other's Truth 33:08 Navigating Layers of Pain 35:02 The Role of Surrender 40:43 Balancing Fun and Deep Work 54:48 Physical Connection Rituals

In Episode 48 of Dom Sub Devotion, we sit down together to have a conversation about a few different topics that have been on our minds in a bit more casual way than normal. We discuss integrating the D/s dynamic into our normal lives, explore the nature of trust, patience, and self acceptance, and look at the fine line between leadership and not having unrealistic expectations. And as always, this episode is filled with heartfelt moments as we share the experience of our love and our D/s dynamic with you in as authentic and real a way as we can, with the hope that we can continue to show you what's possible when you intentionally create a loving dynamic. Enjoy! ~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, we take a look at the significance of slowness and presence in the Dominant role. Dominant men can profoundly impact their relationships by slowing down. Slowing down their speech, their reactions, their movements..everything, both internally and externally. There is a deeply transformative power in grounded, intentional actions and presence. And through this conversation, we provide insightful tips for men to improve their everyday interactions with not only submissive women, but with the world all around them. For more on how to cultivate a truly Dominant presence, take a look at our course, Becoming a Dominant Man athttps://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1 ~~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://youtube.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content athttps://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here:https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand.https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man athttps://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:34 The Importance of Slowing Down for Men 01:34 Personal Experiences and Observations 03:22 Impact of Fast-Paced Energy 06:16 Grounded Presence in Relationships 13:19 The Power of Presence 17:41 Practical Tips for Men 28:22 The Difference Between Calm and Boring 33:10 A Conversation on Slowing Down 35:15 Creating Safety Through Calmness 36:39 The Impact of Grounded Presence 38:57 The Power of Intentional Touch 41:45 The Importance of Presence in Relationships 45:00 Practical Tips for Being Present 55:14 The Benefits of Slowing Down 01:00:14 Conclusion and Course Information

It's time for another Q&A episode! In this one, we go into some of the realities, challenges, and rewards of living in a 24/7 D/s marriage with our answers to lots of our listeners' questions. We had some of the most fascinating and thought provoking questions with this episode, like: How does committing to each other not become self abandonment? What does physical appearance have to do with Dom/sub dynamics? Does Andrew allow Dawn to drive? Is it the Dominant's fault if the submissive cheats? Does Andrew ever feel the need to let go and not be the one to make a decision? Any suggestions for what to say to a submissive with a praise kink? And lots of discussion about things like topping from the bottom, over consuming information for submissive, and how submission changes over time, and at different points in Dawn's cycle. If you're a part of a D/s couple and want to know more about the reality of living in these dynamics as a part of everyday life, or you desire this for yourself in a future relationship, you'll LOVE this episode. We hope you enjoy listening as much as we did recording it! ~~~~~~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

Episode 45: Infinite Devotion - Why we have chosen a permanent commitment to each other In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, we discuss the profound impact of the permanent, lifelong commitment we have made to each other. We explore how this “all in” approach has fostered safety, freedom, and a deeper connection…all while making it possible for each of us to be on our individual journey of self discovery. We share personal reflections from each of our first failed marriages, and what we learned from being the ones to leave those relationships that has helped us each grow. And we discuss the vulnerability and fears associated with making this kind of commitment. This episode is filled with tears and deep vulnerability from both of us, and we share it with you as an example of why we believe that commitment has even more of a place in today's world than ever before. And it ends with a very special, unplanned public declaration of this permanence of our love and commitment to each other, shared with all of you as witnesses to this promise. It's why we named our business Infinite Devotion. ~~~~~~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man 00:33 Reactions to Commitment: Social Media Responses 02:09 Exploring Past Relationships and Divorce 03:01 Personal Growth and Healing Post-Divorce 08:38 Commitment in Current Relationship 10:30 Defining Positive Commitment 15:40 Freedom and Self-Discovery 23:33 The Impact of Commitment on Personal Growth 26:37 Unconscious Control and Perfectionism 28:00 Journey of Self-Realization 29:10 Commitment and Growth Mindset 30:22 Authenticity in Relationships 36:14 Vulnerability in Commitment 50:24 Professing our Eternal Love

Episode 44: Navigating Needs and Wants in a Dom/Sub Relationship Join us in this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast as we explore the intimate and important topic of how we handle responding to each other's needs and wants within a 24/7 DS marriage. We discuss the hierarchy of needs that places the submissive's needs first, the dominant's needs second (and why it MUST be this way), the dominant's wants third, and the submissive's wants last, and why this hierarchy helped at the beginning of our dynamic, but why we've also evolved to a more nuanced and open way of addressing this topic in our dynamic. The conversation covers the psychological, emotional, and spiritual aspects of fulfilling needs and desires, the challenges faced by both partners, and the importance of mutual support and trust. We offer practical insights on how the dominant can lead effectively without ending up just pleasing his submissive, and how the submissive can open up to receive. This episode offers valuable lessons for anyone interested in deepening their understanding of power exchange dynamics. ~~~~~~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:36 Exploring Needs and Wants in a DS Dynamic 00:55 The Hierarchy of Needs in DS Relationships 05:51 Evolving Beyond the Hierarchy 09:52 Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual Needs 12:06 Needs vs. Neediness: A Dominant's Perspective 24:05 Expressing Needs and Desires in Relationships 29:27 Embracing the Journey Without Timelines 30:19 Setting Down the Ego for Honest Conversations 31:24 Accepting Uncertainty in Needs and Wants 33:20 The Role of Dominance and Submission 34:52 Navigating Desires and Limitations 37:46 The Importance of Authentic Leadership 42:05 Experiencing and Understanding True Desires 48:06 The Co-Creation of Needs Fulfillment 58:52 The Challenges and Rewards of Emotional Work

Episode 43: Deep Dive into Truth: Integrity, Authenticity, and the Journey to Self-Discovery In this episode, we explore the profound concept of truth in the context of our dynamic dominant-submissive relationship, inspired by questions we've received. We dive deep into the meaning of truth, its role in personal integrity, and its resonating impact on our power exchange dynamic. The conversation covers our personal journeys of self-discovery, grappling with external expectations, the necessity of disintegration to understand true self, and the ultimate fulfillment found in living in alignment with our inner essence. We also discuss the importance of experiencing truth physically and emotionally, the role of compassion and empathy, and the transformative power of vulnerability and acceptance both individually and in a relationship. This episode aims to provide insights that can guide others in their pursuit of authenticity and deeper connections. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man 00:00 Introduction to Truth in Relationships 01:16 Personal Journey to Embracing Truth 03:13 The Concept of Right and Wrong 04:42 Discovering Inner Essence 08:30 The Role of Desires in Finding Truth 12:24 Experiencing Truth in the Body 29:29 The Power of Music and Harmony 33:59 The Human Journey and Purpose 35:20 Finding Harmony Through Music 37:33 Living in Integrity 39:26 The Process of Disintegration 41:41 Facing the Lies and Embracing Truth 43:11 The Role of Responsibility and Forgiveness 44:32 The Power of Authentic Relationships 48:34 The Spiritual Connection in Union 01:00:58 The Importance of Individuality in Relationships 01:02:25 Final Reflections and Gratitude

In this deeply intimate and fun episode, we spend the hour talking about what Dawn's life is like as Andrew's submissive now, after 5+ years being collared, and 4+ years of deep emotional healing work. We talk quite often about this emotional work, but in this conversation we talk about why it's worth it to confront all of these inner battles and work to release attachments, surrender, and let go of the ego's grip. The reality is that there is a profound sense of freedom and aliveness that Dawn gets to live in every single day, having gone through such a transformative personal evolution. And this episode is one where Dawn shares some of what it feels like for her NOW, with the hope to inspire you to continue on your own journey...and when we get to talking about energetic 0rga$m$, you won't want to miss what spontaneously happens! Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW, beginning July 1, 2024. Submissive Foundations teaches women what it takes to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man

In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of a 24/7 D/s marriage, exploring the vital importance of both emotional and physical connections. Highlighting the necessity for dominant men to embrace discomfort and seek truth, we discuss how true freedom and intimate, passionate relationships can be attained. This episode offers insights for men aspiring to find freedom in their dominance and the women who wish to understand them better. Join us as we unpack these powerful concepts and share actionable advice for cultivating thriving D/s dynamics. Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW, beginning July 1, 2024. Submissive Foundations teaches women what it takes to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:34 Exploring Dominance and Surrender 03:26 The Dual Relationships in Dynamics 08:18 Seeking Freedom: Comfort vs. Discomfort 12:29 The Cost of Avoiding Discomfort 22:53 Confronting Discomfort for True Freedom 35:26 Emotional and Physical Health in Relationships 55:17 The Role of Love in Dominance and Submission 01:00:13 Conclusion and Resources